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I think the problem with cold approaches is that since there is no pre selection, you simply don’t know if the girl you’re approaching is “on the market” or not. And so you risk losing a ton of time to find the right girls first, and then you still have to match. It’s so much easier to approach in locations where people actually go to find thrill. Pubs, concerts, clubs, even group activities (people hate staying alone, why do you think they join exercise classes instead of training alone at home…
/r/seduction20/07/26 02:49 PM
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If you’re at least a bit attractive, and know how to convey some charm in a conversation, it’s more like it’s hard to get it from precisely those girls you want it. But in general there’s plenty of girls, even quite attractive ones, that are willing to hook up in bars and clubs. There were times when I genuinely thought how easy it was.
/r/seduction15/07/26 03:31 PM
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I second the suggestion of approaching in places where nobody ever will be surprised if you approach. Bars are obviously some of the best places
/r/seduction20/06/26 10:58 PM
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I think it’s all about what people would define “league”. Most people would say it corresponds to looks, but in my experience that’s only a very partial answer. It has a lot to do with character, lifestyle and values among other things. Tons of normal or even ugly men out there that have beautiful wives, but this is not because those women would give a chance to normal/ugly guys in general. Often times, it’s because they found a person with matching values, interests, lifestyle which they admire…
/r/seduction03/09/25 02:47 PM
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Look at her actions, not her words. These sound like shit tests to me, or the necessity for them to for build more comfort before the seduction.
/r/seduction14/10/24 01:45 PM
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Actually, you open up a fascinating topic because you implicitly touch on the connection between confidence and evolution. It's fascinating because this connection exists, but it's rarely discussed on subs like this. Whether or not someone has confidence is related to the feedback they have received from their environment. It's no coincidence that the most confident people are those who have "won" more often in various areas of their life. Fear is a defensive mechanism; it keeps you out of troub…
/r/seduction31/05/24 12:12 PM
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Absolutely this. And I can give the opposite example, the period I got more attentions was when I hit the gym constantly and was in great shape. But I don’t think it wasn’t the body that was giving me the attention, it was the confidence that my way of life (workout, study, job, personal projects) was giving me. Women have some sort of sixth sense in understanding what’s inside of you.
/r/seduction21/03/24 10:51 PM
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Sometimes the girl ends up leaving and we all lose. Governing dynamics. It's funny cause you just explained the same concept that ultimately led Jonh Nash receiving a nobel prize! This scene will sound all too familiar to you: A Beautiful Mind - Bar Scene John Nash's Equilibrium Game Theory [1080p english full scene] (youtube.com)
/r/seduction21/02/24 09:34 AM
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Came here to say precisely this, thanks for your comment. It’s the evolutionary part of our brain that tries to defend us. It’s also a signal that if someone feels insecure to approach a particular girl, deep inside he probably has put himself into a lower ranking in the social hierarchy. He doesn’t feel worthy of a such a beautiful female. A good news though. Today’s consequence for approaching are very mild in comparison to those in ancient times. One should suppress his fear, to a reasonable …
/r/seduction21/02/24 08:18 AM
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Mate I think this happens literally in every bar at every club of every city in the world ahah. If you’re in the US maybe it happens a bit less because I know that you’re having some troubles with occasional sex (consent and stuff), but in the rest of the world is quite common
/r/seduction17/02/24 08:18 PM
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Absolutely yes. A friend of mine worked a couple of years as a bartender in a local club. He told me that bartenders in that place had a sort of internal competition for who’s gonna get more girls. He was below average because in two years he only had sex with 40/50 girls.
/r/seduction17/02/24 08:49 AM
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This. The mind puts ourselves in hierarchies automatically, it happens to all the animals. It’s a self defence mechanism to avoid dangerous situations, or situations that could bring shame to us (and ultimately death). Pretending that this isn’t the case and that no man should be consider himself in the middle of our social hierarchy is simply delusional. I think people in this community also undervalue how difficult is it to change the mindset of an average man and pretend he should be on top o…
/r/seduction08/02/24 07:45 AM
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I personally know rich girls who lost their mind around some hot looking guys who were broke. I’m not talking about average guys, more like guys with an incredibly strong frame, local leaders of something, latinos who were hot and were very extroverted, things like that. So what you’re saying is generally true, but with a lot of exceptions
/r/seduction08/02/24 07:31 AM
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And I would also add that there is not much to learn from attractive guys. Those who can teach a lot about dating are normal guys who can attract girls.
/r/seduction29/10/19 08:27 PM
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Same here. Yeah, let's do it. I don't want to die knowing I never did that, even if it's just a simple weekend job.
/r/seduction15/09/19 12:05 PM
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Great post man. I do everything on that list except learning to be uncomfortable, but unfortunately seems like that is the most important part.
/r/seduction03/09/19 01:29 PM
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Like Gabriele D'Annunzio said: One has to make his own life, like when one makes a work of art. The life of a man of intellect must be his work. The real superiority is all here.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 11:20 AM
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After you grasped the main concepts of the red pill, you will be actually better off if you stay little time on reddit.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 09:11 PM
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EDIT: She texted me. Great job my dude, my highly trained Strattonite, my killer, my fucking warrior.
/r/seduction17/11/18 12:04 PM
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Great post, we are developing exactly the same kind of game/behaviour. Being calm, being present, walking slowly, entering a bar/workplace/everywhere feeling dominant and in control, watching people in the eye, not rushing when talking, saying authenthic thoughts, that's what I'm talking about. This is not even simple game anymore, this became a natural behaviour.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/18 09:39 PM
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Well there's your answer then.
/r/seduction30/10/18 07:43 PM
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bwoah, you people are so strange. Talking to a person is way way better than having a cryptic text. But hey, each to their own.
/r/seduction23/10/18 06:30 PM
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vast majority of people find phone calls annoying as shit Nah I don't think so. A lot of people I know actually prefer having a phone call instead of texting. I'm lazy as fuck and thinking about explaining something complicated by text make me so tired.
/r/seduction22/10/18 06:49 PM
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"People are naturally monogamous"? Lmao, here's some data for you. "According to the Ethnographic Atlas (1998), of 1,231 societies noted, 588 had frequent polygyny, 453 had occasional polygyny, 186 were monogamous and 4 had polyandry, although more recent research suggests polyandry may be more common than previously thought." There is ton of research about how monogamy is a desirable choice, but it's not the natural behaviour of men. And about the role of STDs in shifting from poligamy to monog…
/r/seduction14/10/18 06:58 PM
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Nah that's not weird. We are poligamous, having a relationship doesn't stop the feelings of men towards attractive women. Humanity (at least, a big part of it) decided to embrace monogamy only because having sex with multiple partners was deadly because of STDs. I think there's not a right answer to your question.
/r/seduction14/10/18 04:56 PM
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Question from a newbie: obviously I don't have a clue about how the situation developed, but wouldn't had it been better being more physical / trying to make a move on here during the night? During my little experience I noticed that talking about attraction, relationships, and so on is not a good idea if you still haven't kissed the girl. I find that it's very hard to attract a girl by talking to her about this stuff, it's much more useful to make things happen and discuss it later. Opinions? B…
/r/seduction13/10/18 06:32 PM
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Maybe an unpopular opinion here but... Once one internalizes the main concepts in the sidebar and acknowledges the red pill reality, there's not much more sense to stay on the internet discussing it. Even here on TRP. A real red pill man should use this knowledge to build his life for the best, not to waste his time on reddit discussing with some stranger about how AWALT or some proven theories. Real red pill men are out there building a career, creating a business, fucking women, climbing mount…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/18 12:48 PM
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I think the problem that a lot of guys have (including me) is that we just struggle to find that point of equilibrium between saying a joke with a smirk and sounding rude and offensive.
/r/seduction30/09/18 12:30 PM
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How much work do you put in other areas of your life? Do you have success in your job, in a sport, etc? I won't say that the success/unsuccess I have with women isn't impacting my life, but even if a girl rejects me, at least I know I'm not that bad in general because of the achievements I had in other areas.
/r/seduction15/09/18 05:57 AM
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Yeah it really is. One thing that amazed me, was discovering that it's also been proven with data that following conventional wisdom is not the best choice if you want to increase your odds of success. Here's something I read in a book some time ago: As Malcolm Gladwell has insightfully noted, the rules tend to favor the people who make the rules, who tend to be the people who are already winning and in power. Gladwell described research that shows how playing by the rules—following conventional…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 12:22 PM
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Two roads diverged in a wood, and I— I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 09:58 AM
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Seddit nowdays is about "the most common mistakes", "the right way to approach in x,y,z environment", and a link to a 25 minutes youtube video.
/r/seduction03/09/18 08:56 PM
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I don't usually cold approach at gym. I prefer to get to know early the people who work there, trainers or other staff, who in my experience are usually quite open to talk. From there, especially if you're a regular, it's not that difficult to get to know other people, both men and women. Often it will be trainers themselves who will present other people to you, and the fact that you are already friend with someone who they know will give them a better attitude towards you. Girls at gym are appr…
/r/seduction03/09/18 08:52 PM
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/r/seduction02/09/18 05:34 PM
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Was going to write my thoughts, but I saw your comment and it already sums it up everything. The article has some point that make no sense, and the final thesis mistakes the effect for the cause. People who are upvoting this post (and I guess the OP himself) haven't read the article, if they did they wouldn't upvote it. It's beyond me that this thing has 400+ upvotes.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 09:50 AM
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Precisely this. For example, I know a girl for months and I'm always a bit flirty with her, I never entered her friendzone because of my behaviour. It's your way of behaving that puts or not puts you in the friendzone, not a time period.
/r/seduction12/06/18 10:24 AM
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People are fucking now more than ever, and we are moving to a sexless society? That's not entirely true. Our parents and our grandparents were the one who were fucking more than ever. But new generations are actually having less sex than previous ones. I still think we have lot of casual sex, but the trend is starting to decline. I think it's not a coincidence that a there was a big drop in 2010, around the time social media started to spread heavily.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 04:53 PM
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I admit I have no clue. All suggestions that I read in these months don't convince me. When Peterson talks about enforced monogamy, I don't think that's the right answer. Enforced monogamy is a social construct, but it is not what men and women desire naturally. Society naturally tends to the Pareto distribution with a 80/20 equilibrium in the sexual markeplace. That's how it works in the animal world, we're no different from them. Having less female emancipation it's impossible at this point. N…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 01:22 PM
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WE have to change back society to what it was- where a man commands a woman. As long as I admit it would make things easier for men, I disagree with this. Intellectually, we all know it would be a big step back in terms of social progress and morality. It's like saying we would be better off if slavery was reintroduced. The assertion itself it's not wrong, but we reached a point in the society where we intellectually know that this is just wrong.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 11:22 AM
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they’ll just become more necessary, but women will still try to fuck alphaa and sex with a beta will still be just a transaction. This. My take on this is that the sex with betas is a byproduct of scarse economic resources. Given the fact that women in Western society are more and more emancipated, they don't need anymore the beta provider. Or at least, they need him much less. However, I think that women emancipation is a good thing in terms of social progress and shouldn't be stopped. There is…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 11:13 AM
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she thinks this challenge is a really cool idea because men have it much harder in life than people realise. You were lucky to find a girl who likes the idea, but I think that generally nobody would like to know that they are only a part of a challenge as like it's an experiment. I wouldn't mention this challenge when approaching other women.
/r/seduction04/06/18 10:12 AM
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Girls WANT guys to talk to them, you just have to ...not be weird. Very true. They dress up well, they put make up, they sit there looking at guys who pass nearby. Most of them go in clubs and in bars precisely because they want to be approached.
/r/seduction19/05/18 01:20 PM
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Crazy stuff. The more we're advancing as a society and the more we're regressing to the hypergamic model of our ancient ancestors. Worst case scenario is that in some years large parts of male population will be entirely exluded from the sexual marketplace. We are already seeing some trends of that.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 11:06 AM
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That's a very interesting study. I keep hearing that we as men tend to give more importance to look in comparison to women, but if that study is true then at least we are democratic in respect to appreciation. Women seems to be just the contrary, they take into consideration many aspects of a man, but when it comes to look they are extremely picky.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 09:35 AM
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Sounds like you got imposter syndrome to me.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 09:27 AM
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Hedonism is cool. But I have to remind you that it's not Lord Henry Wotton who dies at the end of The picture of Dorian Gray. He talks about sins, but he's not that big of a sinner himself. He does not observe his own hedonistic advice.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 09:15 AM
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Kings, millionaires, entrepreneurs and all kinds of men of value usually reach a point where they want to leave a legacy and set up a family. Some millionaires are not even happy with that, they want to build a dinasty. You are extremely wrong if you think that men of value stay single till they are old. They live in abudance, yeah, but they don't usually stay alone. They want exclusivity from a single woman. This society may be twisted, but wanting a family is natural and it's in the order of t…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 09:04 AM
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This sub is not only about fucking, it's also about a man's identity. Not everybody wants to trade his morality in exchange for a bit of pussy. If you think cheating and breaking the trust of another human being is ok, it's your choise. But I think one can be better than that. We're not here to complain about AWALT and stuff and then act exactly with their same twisted morality.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 10:11 PM
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You got to be at least cheating I know female morality sucks, but I don't think that's a good reason to have a shitty morality as a response to that. Better spinning plates then, or to be clear about an open relationship, but breaking the trust of someone who has a feeling for you is just a dick move and of low morality, doesn't matter if it's made by a woman or a man.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 08:41 PM
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This. And that's why I think it's a nonsense being mad with a guy if a girlfriend cheats. It's her who deliberately decided to give up the relationship, he couldn't do it himself. She had all the means to say no.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 08:37 PM
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Don't know man, it's hard. Maybe while you're young, but once you grow it's hard not to settle in a ltr. No marriage of course, but at some age you just feel exclusivity is ok. I know it's an unpopular opinion here, but I still think it's ok wanting a family and all that stuff.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 08:33 PM
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Play with their emotions. I think the biggest issue is here. Going to the gym, improving looks, not giving attention, these are all things guys understand. But knowing how to play with emotions... it's hard. We are men, logical creatures. If one doesn't have emotional intelligence, this is the hardest part of all of those.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 08:36 PM
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This was a top tier post, thanks for sharing that. I think the most important part of your post is the one about worthiness. If one is able to become a worthy person, I think all the rest will come naturally. What's your story? How you become that way? I think I'm headed in the right direction, even if I'm young I noticed that business people that I meet (CEOs, Bankers, Entrepreneurs) tend to treat me with seriousness and respect. However, sometimes not having a mentor and coming from a poor bac…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 06:06 PM
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This was a great post, I wish we had more of posts like this one. You seem a very down to earth person, I wish you good luck for your journey.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 10:18 AM
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Always be around - That's so true. I think this is why money have an influence on your social possibilities. I have to say No to a ton of events, just because I know I don't have the money to participate. I'm still young and still live with my parents, and their reasoning is "you can party as much as you want, but not with our money". Result, i'm home most of the time. Most of my friends instead come from wealthy families, and they have the possibility to hang out whenever they want. No surprise…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 08:20 PM
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Be proud of the choices that you've made. Ah, 2018. The year ̶p̶e̶o̶p̶l̶e̶ women are not accountable for their actions.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 07:37 PM
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The question is, what can you bring to the table for those guys, other than calling out the obvious Eh, it's always the same story. The usual advice is "don't fake to be another person, don't force things, use your honesty and just be the real you". AKA Be Yourself. But the problem is, one self can be someone that nobody wants around. Of course guys here will ask what should they do when approaching girls, because their whole life they tried to make a connection with people but were always rejec…
/r/seduction29/03/18 08:06 AM
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I agree with u/ImmersedTrp , I think that an informative post from someone like you who has a lot of knowledge about this area would super valuable, I would appreaciate it a lot (and i think a lot of other people too) ! Also, I would be really curious to know what are the risks associated from receiving unprotected oral sex from a girl. I remember reading that it's actually pretty safe and low risk, but sometimes I hear some conflicting information.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 10:58 AM
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like wtf how is that a morally correct answer. The guy is MARRIED and you want him to break up his home for you? How do you even trust such a person if he can do it to his current wife? And this is a girl with an MBA who I initially respected alot. Turns out she's the same as the rest. Man, what are you talking about? Do you think people approach only those who are single? Do you think that a person is incapapable to fall for someone who's in a relationship? There are countless stories of people…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 01:16 PM
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You said you have been in those guys position before. What do you think changed your way of behaving with women the most?
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 12:15 PM
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Thanks man, very good post, and I like your way of thinking. You seem very down to earth. Curious to know, how much you think your ethnicity matters to women? How much is harder for you to pickup in comparison to a white guy?
/r/seduction13/03/18 11:22 AM
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People are downvoting you, but I think that what you said makes sense. Younger girls usually fall for cool or popular guys, older women are usually more attracted to authentic guys who got their shit together.
/r/seduction11/03/18 04:50 PM
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Well, one can make a compliment and still be honest and real, no? It's not that every compliment is meant to flatter.
/r/seduction11/03/18 04:47 PM
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I heard that older women are more responsive to compliments, while complimenting a younger girl is something that usually is not that effective. But honestly I never got the opportunity to date an older woman, so I can't really confirm.
/r/seduction11/03/18 03:18 PM
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What's the alternative if you live in a small village of 9000 people (like me)? No decent job opportunities, no big events, no clubs, only one pub, everybody knows each other. For me, moving is unavoidable if I want to actually live and not bore myself to death.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 07:18 PM
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Here i am. During my high scool years i was shy as fuck, always anxious, absolutely not in shape and coudn't attract any girl. Then a big breakup with my school crush gave me a lot of motivation to improve myself. I ended up attracting many girls in a relatively short period of time. There were many things that worked for me (lifting, playing guitar, having ambition, and other things), but i would say the one thing that got me ahead in attracting girls was stop worring what they would think of m…
/r/seduction23/02/18 11:00 PM
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You're exactly the way I remember you in my dreams
/r/seduction07/02/18 09:40 AM
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Look at your body, your wealth, and your social connections. If you aren’t happy with them, there is no reason hotties should be either. Life is actually so simple, in the end.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 04:26 PM
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The most powerful thing I've learned here at the red pill is not to pursue women that aren't head over heels for you. Definitely this. It's been already some years i'm here on TRP, and I dated girls from much longer than that. However, i can't help but feel sad when i hear this kind of stories. Not that i don't know how women act. We all do, here we all know what they're attracted to, and how it's easy for them to forget about a guy. Fact is, i'm always surprised how many of these girls have abs…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 08:23 PM
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Same here. For me, stop fapping is like killing the overthinking.
/r/seduction03/02/18 10:14 AM
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Be sure it's something you find genuinely funny Problem of this world is that hot girls don't find funny prequelmemes quotes. Jokes aside, thanks for the tip.
/r/seduction03/02/18 09:59 AM
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Hmmm. The best club in my city is ultra expensive and young guys are a minority. The average client is 30 yo, has a good career, and arrives with a Porsche. I don't think clubbing is that stupid for older guys.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 08:01 PM
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There's a book that talks about it, i would recommend it if someone wants to learn the habits of Us millionaires (no, not like those Facebook posts which point out vague stuff like "they wake up early and they drink green tea", this is a serious research conducted by two professors). It's called "The Millionare Next Door". Spoiler: They live below their means They spend a great deal of time planning their investments They usually don't live in fancy houses or drive fancy cars (precisely your poi…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 08:00 PM
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9 - Invest Money fucking matters
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 05:59 PM
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Applying the victim mentality and refusing to accept any criticism if your son is calling you out for being unreasonable or if what you're teaching is wrong is not the best way of handling parenting, you know? This comes from a person who always had a mad respect for his parents and their rules, and who's now financially indipendent. Parents not always know the truth. Nobody does. They often make mistakes. Hell, majority of people are here on TRP probably because they had some shitty fathers who…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 12:00 AM
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I think having a dad with a weak frame or not having a dad at all is the main reason why we're all here. I sincerely consider this subreddit the father i never had.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 11:07 AM
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You can't be alpha and 5'5" Tell that to Putin. Hey man, i completely understand your position and your frustration. It's true, girl love tall guys, but that's only one part of the many factors that come into the equation. It's not that one who isn't tall can't get laid. I'm 5'7'' myself, and i slay. I have a friend of mine who is 5'5'' himself, i fucking like him because he has a mindset of "king of the universe", he goes to the gym (btw he has nearly zero muscle mass), has a mega ego, like 500…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 09:40 AM
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ahah funny story. Me also being a Russian living in Europe and who wears Boss blazers made me enjoy it even more.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 05:06 PM
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Yeah the financial excuse regarding the gym is the weakest one. This year i didn't want to subscribe again to my super expensive gym near home. I did 3 months of calisthenics in the park of my town (which doesn't even have calisthenics instruments, there's just a kid playset - which is all you need for 90% of exercises) and now it's been a month i lift heavy with just a couple of dumbbells and this site.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 12:04 PM
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Those abs from Lazar Novovic are insane. Not even abs anymore, they remind more the front grid of a BMW Thanks for the tips
/r/TheRedPill25/12/17 07:23 PM
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Why you're not my dad?
/r/seduction23/12/17 06:46 PM
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Man, saw your photos. You became a fucking Vin Diesel. Kudos
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 08:58 PM
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Most average looking guys with average faces and bodies will never get anything out of cold approach. This is not going to work at all for 95% of men. Based on my experience, on my approaches, on the observation of my friends pick ups, on the observation of the dating scene in my town, this statement is simply not true. There is too much lookism in TRP these days. Your statement is true for ugly guys (i consider Pua being falsely too optimistic on this issue), but average guys still have a ton o…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 05:51 PM
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Can confirm this, if you don't have whatsapp in Italy, it's like you don't exist
/r/seduction02/12/17 12:43 AM
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you still get in relationships? You're all idiots if you ask me Dude, you're being too extreme here. TRP never meant to discourage people from pursuing LTRs. Being aware of nature of women, knowing how to handle a LTR, knowing that she may always cheat, yes. Refusing to have any type of commitment ever, no.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 07:07 PM
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Actually it's not irrational at all. Fear comes from a sentiment of unworthiness. In the savanna, smaller male elephants have no right to approach female elephants. If they try, the big alpha elephant may even kill them. They're teached that they are unworthy and should be ashamed of even trying to approach females. They're teached fear. We humans have a somehow similar mechanism. Some actions are ok if you're alpha, they become not ok if you're beta. And a lot of people have been taught to be b…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 10:39 AM
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Mhh don't know man. More often than not impressing someone (particularly if it's the first time you meet them) is that one thing that keeps the other person interested in interacting with you. There may be no other chance to meet that person again, and by telling your achievements immediatly that person will have a memory of you. Not only that, it can also happen that if you don't put something special about you on the table immediately, the other person may consider you just like all the others…
/r/seduction24/11/17 08:24 PM
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What about your body contact? When interacting with girls, do you usually touch them or not? Focus on that aspect, i think it's kinda easy to escalate when you get used to have a good body contact with a girl.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 05:04 PM
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Wise words dude, this should have much more upvotes. Life is so much more than getting laid in big quantity. Just look at the most successfull people on this planet. Politicians, entrepreneurs, actors, musicians, artists, and so on. How many of them look like Greek gods? Trump has a weird face, Putin is 5'6" at maximum, just battling in height with Al Pacino. Sex is an important part of life, but there is a reason why some extremely successfull people aren't having sex all the time with an unlim…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 09:15 PM
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"To be a 10, it's an extraordinary thing. We look like you, but we're not like you. It's like, we're from another planet, where force of gravity is so strong, it bends the light. It bends people too." I have some friends like that, and it is depressing, yeah. It fucking sucks knowing that some people will live the dream, will get laid like warlords, will have more chances to land a great career, just because of their genetics. Not joking, they live in a different world. So how should one react? …
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 09:01 PM
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Noob question: I read that T injections (that is what you call TRT, right?) may cause infertility. If one wants to avoid it, he should try to have the maximum of natural T. Does increasing natural T leves has any side effect?
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 09:07 AM
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I had simply asked myself... would I want to know if my women of interest was secretly a whore? Yes I would. You did well op. Lot of people here don't understand that you can't always know everything during a LTR. Sure, you can be on alert for yellow and red flags, but some women are masters of deception, they've been raised this way and can be manipulative and machiavellian just like we do. I've been raised in the eastern Europe, i can think of so many examples.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 01:13 PM
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I tried but it just seems so random. Sex, fapping and gym do have some correlation with these downs, but sometimes it just happens out of the blue. I wrote this post because of this frustration actually. Sometimes I go to bed feeling a person and wake up feeling completely different, with an entirely different mindset. Anyway it's good to know that through improvement the levels will be higher. I already noticed myself, even my low of today is better than my high of some years ago.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 09:29 AM
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As a guy who had PE and beat it, i agree on all the points. I guess it differs from person to person, but in my case 80% of progress came from having a deep breathing and STOP keeping tension in the muscles in the legs/dick/ass area.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/17 08:42 PM
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I finally got out of my parents house and live in NYC for school away from them. I guess that it's important. Do you feel like it changed your mindset? I know i sound like a frustrated teen, but I feel like living with my parents it's the biggest obstacle to my sexual and social life.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 09:01 AM
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Reminded me of the Mystery's advice for all men looking to get laid
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 09:34 PM
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It's like TRP has gone back a couple of years and this is one of those quality posts of those days. Great points op. I have nothing to add, i'm glad someone talked about condoms though, STDs are on the rise because of the hook up culture, protect yourself guys.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 08:10 PM
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Why bother man, whining on the internet like a pathetic loser is much better :)
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 09:55 PM
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Game and status is not something the sky magically throws at you
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 01:07 PM
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Good post op. Those "incels" should take a look at a photo of Conor Maynard before saying that only Chads who won the genetic lottery can slay pussy. Damn, even Justin Bieber itself is a 24 yo and look at his baby face. But no, i guess making excuses is better.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 07:13 AM
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Good post. P.s. Quick tip: If you are scared by a particular situation, like a social event, you can trick your mind by tryig to feel your state as a result of challenge, not of fear. I suggest to have this approach in all the things that scare you. Don't think about the fear, think that your emotional state is a result because of the challenge you are gonna face. This will give you a boost to your confidence.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 06:37 PM
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I prefer the first one, cause i have a much harder time (as i think lot of others) of doing productive stuff between 21 and 23.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 11:32 AM
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It reminded me of this: "We're taught terror from the nursery. Terror of God, or, even worse, of scandal. We're taught to spend our entire lives cowering in self-denial. The truth, Mr Gray, is that every impulse we strangle only poisons us." Oscar Wilde, The picture of Dorian Gray. I really think that terror of scandal is what truly destroys the life of so many men. The life of every beta is somehow based on trying to avoid as much as possible any form of scandal. Be it approaching a girl, look …
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 08:20 PM
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What is this shit. You're not Lloyd Blankfein, you're just a normal guy who's been asked by a girl to pick her up for having sex at your place. You must be obsessed with this beta/alpha thing, man up.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 10:20 PM
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I agree that what looks really does is to create a positive feedback loop. However, having a really perfect face helps you tremendously. I hang out with a friend of mine who has a super strong and defined jawline combined with light blue eyes. EVERYTIME we enter in a room, in the club, at the mall, at the library, there are always some girls who just stare at him. And there is always some girl who gives him a compliment, be it a random girl, a bartender, my fucking mum when she met him. One can'…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 07:12 AM
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A friend of mine has a perfect face, hanging out with him is.. painful. He doesn't go to the gym, absolutely normal body, he is lazy as the op. However, everywhere we go girls are just magnetically attracted to him, i always notice girls checking him out. The op got a point, the face is really the key in attracting girls. I know genetics is given and there's no way to change it, but how one can maximize the look of his face? Do those exercises in order to improve muscles in the chin are useful?
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 10:25 PM
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This. If someone had to judge me looking my Facebook, he would say that i'm enjoying life. Trips in exotic places, riding boats, driving Formula cars, drinks with friends, etc. Reality is, that is something like 5% of my life. All the other time i have to study, go to the gym, improving with foreign languages, that's really nothing interesting.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 07:45 AM
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Fuck this shit, when you drive you never drink. Simple as that. I hear people dying every weekend because someone who was drunk/on drugs decided to drive a car.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 07:00 AM
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Can't understand why you're being downvoted. Even a very famous writer, Oscar Wilde, once said "everything in life is about sex. The only thing that's not about sex it's sex itself. Sex is about power".
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 09:12 PM
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Good post dude. Out of curiosity, how are Russians doing in Us nightlife?
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 07:15 AM
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Thanks man. I think Oscar Wilde said some really wise things during his life. On one hand, he exaggerated on the aspect of "follow every your impulse", that can be very detrimental for one's personal growth. Living the life like that will only lead to end up like Baudelaire, or Verlaine, a "cursed poet". This is not where a Red Pill man wants to be i guess. But in regards of how to handle one's relationship with society, he said some really deep words. Another quote i really love from him: “Nowa…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 06:22 PM
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"We're taught terror from the nursery. Terror of God, or, even worse, of scandal. We're taught to spend our entire lives cowering in self-denial. The truth, Mr Gray, is that every impulse we strangle only poisons us." Oscar Wilde, The picture of Dorian Gray.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 07:53 AM
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Agree. As Bruce Lee put it, "One will never get more than he thinks he can get". Basically if we consider pick up like an equation, what you think you can get is the upper limit you are putting in the equation. This works for a lot in things in life. You won't have top grades if you think you can't reach them, you won't succeed in your career if you think you can't aim for a top career, you won't be dating models if you think they are out of your league. Every battle is won or lost before it's e…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 07:41 AM
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What specific products should one look for?
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 10:46 PM
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Learned to keep frame, my status grew Can you explain? In practical terms
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 09:01 AM
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I get angry because they naturally have it easier with women. Yeah, they do. But chances are, if you lift enough you will have easy as them, if not even easier. So... get to work kid.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 11:47 AM
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Heh, good question. In practical terms, you have to be so absorbed by your activities, your goals and your hobbies so that you don't even bother about having a gf. Women come to you if you have a fulfilling life (at least, the sexy ones). This is called monk mode: You completely dedicate to yourself and to self improvement. However, i know that the pressure to get laid or to chase girls is strong. So.. approach girls anyway. You read TRP. You know what they find attractive and what not. You know…
/r/askTRP12/05/17 11:42 AM
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Lift. When you will be the top 5% of your league in the next 5 years, thank me.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 07:17 AM
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Also, boost your testosterone production. Lift heavy, eat broccoli, nuts, spinach, and pumpkin seeds. Do cardio, do hiits. Testosterone do wonders for motivation.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 03:33 PM
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A lot of people asked me if I go to the gym. It's a great sensation, it means the hard work is paying off. I had a meeting with the president of one very prestigious consulting company in my city. Also, next week I will meet a VP from one of the biggest banks in my country. I am very happy about my network, I hope it will lead to interesting working ops. I am fighting as much as possible my fear for social situations, hanging out as much as possible and talking to everybody. In my gym I approach…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 10:20 AM
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Welfare is for pussies. I am a self made man and want to become an entrepreneur. I don't want the government to help me, i just want to do my own business (literally). I don't want high taxes so i have to pay for some loser that can't get his shit done by himself.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 08:48 PM
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Hey dude. This is not pathetic at all, it's perfectly ok to want to be always better, and i know PE is one of those things that bothers A LOT. I had PE since i was a child. It wasn't sever as yours, but it was still pretty bad. Let's say that i could cum in 30 seconds if i wanted to. In a way, i still have PE, because potentially i could still cum very quickly. But with time i learned to control it, so i can last much more in bed. I never tried to count, but i think i usually have sex for 20/30 …
/r/askTRP25/04/17 01:32 PM
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Fascinating. Great post, op.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 10:07 AM
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How is C's father? I bet he is a great guy.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 02:04 PM
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I think a hidden camera is also another good solution. Anyway, it's crazy that a man has to do this kind of things in order to be safe. Luckily enough i don't live in the Us, and in my country (Italy) there haven't been many cases of false rape accusation.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 05:42 PM
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I read it recently cause i always focused on The red pill and never gave attention to the Pua world. Needless to say, Mystery method is a great book, and there is a ton of useful knowledge there.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 10:06 AM
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I know this is Trp and not a Pua subreddit, but there is a chapter on The mistery method that talks exactly about your error. M3 - You are starting from the end (you start with the seduction, with a low effort on attraction and completely missing the comfort). From Mistery method: "The most common error that beginners make is focusing on seducing a woman first instead of attracting her. This is like putting the cart before the horse. Often seduction first is the equivalent of saying "You don't k…
/r/askTRP03/04/17 09:26 PM
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"The world won’t care about your self-esteem." - Bill Gates
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 04:15 PM
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This is why I love this sub. This is fucking poetry. Awesome post dude.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 09:19 AM
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Very well said. Looks gives you access, everyting is easier if you have a very good looking face. Looking forward for part 2!
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 07:39 AM
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Many people (not to say, the vast majority) still don't understand that if you have a problem, you need to find a solution. Simple as it is. People generally ackowledge they have a problem, but they don't try to solve it.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 09:08 AM
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Good job man. Love the last pic.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 08:05 AM
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Can relate to this. Currently dieting and lifting like mad, progresses are incredible and i'm getting in shape really quickly.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 08:03 AM
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Guys, just try to search for "sex" in nofap. You will see plenty of guys who are HAPPY not to have sex with girls. Virgins who have the chance, but willingly refuse to have sex. Demonising those who ask for help in getting a gf/having sex. Crazy.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 08:00 PM
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The fact itself that some food helps you rise your natural level of testosterone should be a great incentive to eat properly, and not randomly.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 08:10 PM
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With a girl, talk less, speak more with touch and body language. " A little less conversation and a little more touch my body" - Ariana Grande. I mean, girls sometimes are literally telling us what to do.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 12:12 PM
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Wait, nobody questions that it isn't hard work (eg: going to gym is all about discipline and dedication), but picking the activity itself is very easy (eg: skinnyfat? Go to gym, plain and simple). You don't need to reinvent the wheel.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 09:19 PM
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I think the op means that it isn't complicated, it's not rocket science. And I agree with that.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 06:52 PM
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Feeling relaxed. If there's a thing that i remember from my super beta days was that feeling of insecurity of doing anything. Anxiety came from every action that involved being outside my room. Going for a walk, going to a party, talking to people, buying fucking groceries. I don't even mention approaching girls. Now it's all so much better. The more i lift and work for my goals, the more i notice that i am becoming calm and relaxed. I look people in the eyes. Conversations are more genuine, all…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 12:21 PM
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Thank you for doing this. Unfortunately, i fear that with the new documentary about The Red Pill we will have more and more new people here, who will post here instead of Asktrp.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 10:13 PM
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damn you beer wine, why are you so good? ;) Short term goals: -Getting my Master's Degree (within 1.5 years). I'm so tired of studying all this theoretical useless stuff. -Gain muscle mass and drop in fat, just like Op. -Having a deep knowledge of markets. I read financial newspapers every day, but i still feel that my understing of the market is too basic, and incomplete. Long-term: Achieving Financial Independence. Having better game.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 08:20 PM
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So all I can say is that if you have musical talent, then get it out there because chicks love it. When i was your age, the main problem was finding good enough people to do something decent. But i admit, playing in a band was fuckin cool. Now i have very very little time, but that's definitely a great input. I still have my guitar, will keep in mind that.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 05:07 PM
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I'm surprised nobody still mentioned Glengarry Glen Ross. "You want to learn the first rule? You'd know if you spent a day in your life. Don't ever open your mouth 'till you know what the shot is. You're a fucking child."
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 01:37 PM
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yes, this may happen, but it is most frequent the countrary. Remember about the Halo Effect.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 06:31 PM
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I agree to some extent. But, remember: You never open your mouth until you know what the shot is.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 06:03 PM
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Yeah, i got the same problem. Actually, i think this is one of the most common pitfalls for guys who struggle with applying red pill principles. It's hard to change your beta social habits if you are surrounded with socially awkward people.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 09:31 AM
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This is the kind of post that we need. Good fucking job man. Happy new year champ.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 11:03 AM
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It's not my business, but there's nothing to be proud or happy for not being independent.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 11:19 AM
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If that wasn't enough, they're written by losers. So true. Women who hit the wall, Men who became fat and can't get laid, people who have a shitty job and don't make a lot of money (especially them). All these people will tell you that life after college is awful. Guess what? I never heard a CEO telling that life post-college is boring. Nor i heard it from people who worked hard during college and now have awesome jobs and are travelling the world. Also the guys that continue to work out, stayin…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 09:47 AM
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Yeah, she probably found it out quickly. But many girls are not so confident, i'm sure that at least for some instants she was really desperate watching her Facebook photos not receiving likes or anything. That must have been epic.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 09:20 AM
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everyone is going to try to push your buttons in some way in every interaction and unless you're a masculine rock solid vigilant fuck, you will get run all over in life This sums it up perfectly. Awesome post, man.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 07:58 PM
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Good post man. Last line sums it up well. Bonus: I remember a friend of mine once did an evil joke to a hot girl he was friend with. Basically, he found her Facebook open, and changed her sharing options from "public" to "me only". This meant that every photo she shared from there wasn't seen by anybody, and nobody could like it. Just think of the impact of not receiving "likes" to a hot photo, for a girl with a mega ego.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 07:04 PM
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How to spot a loser: When he sees his girl talking to a guy, he blames the guy, like the girl has magically no fault in this. When he sees his girl talking to a guy, he loses his frame and beats the guy. How to spot a psycho: He says he has a gun. So, op, you met a psycho loser. I am glad you punched him, but be careful with him.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 12:44 PM
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Me too dude. When I see some boys playing soccer I think how lucky they are. I was never in a competitive environment until something like 17 yo
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 07:46 PM
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''Don't give me that shit when you don't accept who you can become'' Man, your mom is a H E R O. I remember that my parents never wanted me to play sport ("cause you may hurt yourself"), and my granpa used to tell that it was a nonsense that a boy wouldn't do sport. Grandpa, you were so right.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 11:45 AM
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I wouldn't be so optimistic about red pill men. I don't think we will rise in number, both because feminism will try to discredit us, and because many men themselves will find this ideology too extreme. This is already happening. A lot of guys find red pill but deliberately decide not to swallow it. Some of them even lose their time trying to "fight" our way of living. In general, I think the average man of tomorrow will be more beta than the average man of today.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 08:14 PM
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roasting him to the ground Can you explain me what does this mean? I'm non english speaker, and Google translate doesn't help.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 10:23 PM
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Very good post, Op. You summed it up perfectly. Also, i think i found the best definition of what a shit test is: as one girl told me “I’m checking to see if you a bitch ass motherfucker.”
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 09:17 AM
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Like others said, no porn. Lift hard and eat well. Meditation. Focus on your breath and on your leg muscles: Usually, we come faster if we don't breath properly and regularly, or if we have the leg/butt muscles in tension. During sex, try to relax all the muscles in your body while breathing regularly. In this way, you should last longer. You can exercise it with masturbation.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 07:31 PM
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Don't know about your second point. I mean, I am very happy if more men may find this sub and are ready to swallow the pill, but I wonder that with more people in here, there could be a damage to the quality of the material. I hope I'm wrong.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 01:10 PM
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When i entered in Red Pill, sidebar told me western males had a problem, they were losing their sense of being men. This article is a further confirmation of that.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 07:04 AM
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Wow, fantastic stuff man. I think that most people (like myself) struggle exactly on this point: You need to learn to vibe and talk to people naturally to get to this point. It happens to me when i'm in really good mood, but it's still really unnatural at the moment. Anyway, you gave amazing tips, will gonna try them for sure. Gonna save this post. P.s. : Some suggestions about youtube videos for the dancing part?
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 04:07 PM
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That's a good post. Love yourselves guys. And don't lie to you. Lying to yourself is when the problems start.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 09:37 PM
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That is all thanks to my improv comedy skills. Go out and take a class immediately you will not regret it. Would you recommend something in particular? Youtube? A book? Does just watching stand up comedy help? I am very interested in this, i find comedy a great tool, not only with women, but with all the people. I remember a guy i knew was always invited everywhere, parties, dinners, because he knew a lot of jokes and funny stories, all the guys and girls enjoyed having him around.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 01:30 PM
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How women treat him is relevant. Wow. You are basically saying fucking a woman is the only thing that matters, we should be judged alpha or beta only if we fuck some retarded woman or not. You don't even consider your own independence as a man. You call king a guy who has not the freedom to buy a house, to choose his own car, maybe even dressing like he wants. A guy who has to take a loan if tomorrow he brokes his leg. He can't even fucking break with his gf, because most probably he will have t…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 07:45 AM
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he isn't high-value in the economic world and couldn't land a job right away "Hey honey, gonna take a beer with my buddies! I.. emh.. need 10 dollars." And you guys consider him an alpha, a leader, and a high value man... oh ffs...
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 09:37 AM
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What worries me is that you (like others here) put so much value on girls. You immediately associate “making money” to “supporting a family”, you associate “fucking girls” with “alpha”. It’s like you don’t think about yourself and about your independence. You are not a high value man if you are broken, even if you fuck some girls.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 09:10 AM
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I've tried to reason with her I am honestly surprised one can have this reaction when discovering that his wife is ready to have a child, but not with him. ""She would rather adopt or go to a sperm bank."" ? This is offensive in so many different levels.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 09:28 PM
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I remember some months ago here on TRP someone posted about this married couple with childrens. Basically the woman had to work in two jobs cause the man was long time unemployed, and it reached a point where the woman was considering going living alone with the childrens, or maybe she gave him an ultimatum, i don't remember. Anyway, I was really surprised that here on TRP a lot of guys start insulting the woman, saying that she should be supportive in difficult moments like that. No guys, you h…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 06:49 PM
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Italian here. I agree with your answer, but let me clear, there is a big difference between southern Italians and northern Italians. Guys from northern italy approach girls in a more friendly way. The ones that are very aggressive (for instance, the ones that shout loudly in public, or that call the girls from the car, or won't leave the girl alone even if she dumps him, etc) are usually from the south of Italy.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 11:53 PM
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Exactly. I am half Russian/ half Italian, and when i went to Russia i found much more easy to approach girls faking to be completely Italian with nearly no knowledge of Russian
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 03:12 PM
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Italian here, and i confirm all of it. This is one of the reasons why a lot of Italian guys who can't get laid here in Italy find it easier when they go abroad, especially in northern countries. There, the girls are less used to be approached.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 02:58 PM
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This. Breathing helped me 100%
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 06:26 PM
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Relax all the muscles + take some deep breaths during sex. You can try it also when you masturbate, I discovered that what made cum quicker was the tension in my muscles all around the dick, ass and higher part of legs. Relax and take some big breaths. Also. Avoid porn and (obviously) stay healthy and workout
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 06:23 PM
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Thanks man. I gave a look online but there is really some over information. Will try by myself first, they way you do.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 02:17 PM
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Would suggest some good way/website that helps to get in mediation?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 01:57 PM
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Kudos op, this is really a quality post.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 04:17 PM
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This is excellent, are you planning to go to college? You do any sport? I suggest both, sport increases smv, and it is useful because you stay in a competitive environment, while getting a degree will help you with your career. There will be a point where money will have a huge impact on your smv and your life in general. But i think you can already see this among your friends, even if you're just 17 yo.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 10:19 AM
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1) Lift 2) Lift 3) Focus on your goals non related to girls. (for example your studies, your career, a sport, etc). You have to like yourself dude. Focus on yourself, don't focus on women.
/r/askTRP16/04/16 12:52 PM
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Equality means that she must work in 2 jobs and the husband can stay home for a year? This is not very alpha. This equality thing is blinding you people, are you really defending the behaviour of this guy, who cannot even buy bread to his kids? I'm with the wife.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 01:34 PM
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So glad someone told this. She's generating 100% of income, she has kids, the guy stands at home and is not in position to lead the family. How can people, especially here on TRP, pretend she stays with him unconditionally? After 1 year of unemployment? Fully understand the position of this woman. And i'm quite disappointed by many comments in this discussion. You guys understand the nature of an alpha male, of the leader, of the provider, yet you blame a woman with 2 jobs if she is thinking to …
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 10:03 AM
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This makes perfectly sense. I think this is one of the reasons people say "Fake until you make it". Faking to be someone creates a better environment for you to actually become the person you wanna be.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 08:55 PM
2

I missed the part when Trp obliges you to fuck whoever.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 09:48 AM
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I worked in sales, this post is so true. Law is slow, law between countries (if you are exporting/importing) is even slower, so you can't rely on law most of the times. Don't be trapped by your customers. When in doubt, ask for advanced payment. I have to thank you op, i always had the rule of askind advanced payment for new customers, but maybe i wouldn't do it with some big and reputable customer. No doubt i will undervalue a company from now on, be it "The grocery of Sam" of the fucking Amazo…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 07:58 PM
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Mmm maybe in Us, here in Europe not exactly..
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 05:16 PM
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Mmm maybe in Us, here in Europe not exactly..
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 05:16 PM
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I remember one guy once told me that in order to be successful you need to know successful people. And the best thing you could do in order to build some connections was to go in some golf club. Not many poor guys there.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 10:34 PM
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Emh.. no, it is true. Also looking at Forbes list. Most billioners are self made, and have not inherited their fortune. Also, people that inherit their fortune are much more likely to waste all their money. I suggest you to read The Millionaire next door.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 07:18 PM
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Actually 80% of nowdays billioners all came from poor/very poor families.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 10:25 AM
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Search for the subreddit "personal finance", lot of useful stuff there (especially if you live in us). When buying something, think for a moment about the value of what you're buying. So many times we waste our money in things that have so little value. Save as much as possible, if you want to create money you will need money. Generally, spend in things that will have a high value for you today and in your future (investments) (ie: A degree, a book about the sector you're working in, a subscript…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 10:19 AM
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"lets people know you're not a homo; married guy seems more stable; people see the ring, they think at least somebody can stand the son of a bitch; ladies see the ring, they know immediately you must have some cash or your cock must work." -Alec Baldwin, The Departed
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 11:47 AM
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Agree. I witnessed a lot of social and non social issues in my workplace because of the shitty way women were doing their job. A lot of times, I saw women creating unnecessary discomfort to others, criticizing the way of work of others (also when the job was perfectly done). Also, it is not true that their are less ambitious than men, not in these days. I saw how they were envious when a woman was once promoted in our office, and how they tried to harm her in all the possible ways. I'm not sayin…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 04:24 PM
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Great post man, respect. What kind of business do you have?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 12:35 PM
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I agree pretty much with everything you wrote. Just one question, why you wrote not to bring a suitcase? I find it very professional, on the contrary. Surely better than one empty handed.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 10:28 PM
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So true. Even better, don't even ask if she is ok with the plan. Worse phrase: "What you want to do tonight?" Ok phrase: "There is this good show tonight, what if we go there?" Best phrase: "There is this good show tonight, let's go there!"
/r/TheRedPill21/11/15 05:53 PM
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This is one of the best posts I read on Trp.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 07:16 AM
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This is so true. I have to save and remember this.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 08:33 PM
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So basically he doesnt react to all the bullshit his wife was saying but he does react to a complete stranger in a situation where it was HIS fault . That was stupid.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 11:16 AM
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3) Say yes to things that make you uncomfortable. If the only reason you don't want to do something is because you're scared, that is all the more reason to do it. Absolutely agree. This is a very good post, thanks for the hints man. The point where i'm weaker it's the point No. 8 (Party a lot and date a lot), i'm in a ltr and i feel somehow guilty to party a lot and approaching to other womens. But i know that i shouldn't , the problem is in my own brain.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 08:22 PM
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So true. Girls like guys who have a life full of interests, passions, hobbies, guys who have personality. If a guy doesn't have his personal goals, the he becomes less attractive. I noticed that many guys with personality (who have their hobbies, their goals, go to gym, and so on) often quit many hobbies and reduce their work on themselves (as going to gym) once they are in a ltr. Consequence is obvious, they are no more interesting for the girl and the couple breaks.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 04:54 PM
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