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The final stage of any genocide is the oppressor standing back and saying "My god, look what they're doing to themselves"
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 03:32 PM
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"Enough to be sensitive to that question..."
/r/askTRP02/06/16 03:35 PM
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I appreciate what your saying, and I think definitions matter. No one can become "addicted" to porn. People become dependent on porn. Addiction directly affects physiology - e.g.: heavy daily alcohol or opiate abuse changes physiological processes in brain metabolism. Sudden withdrawal can result in death. Dependence is reliance on something to the exclusion of all other strategies, to the point that use becomes harmful.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 05:33 PM
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Check out the laws in the U.S., state-by-state: Paternity Laws You'll discover that nearly all of them contain at best a single four-line paragraph about how to contest/establish non-paternity, and pages upon pages about how to track down and extract resources from men. Here's a lovely example from the State of California: The laws on parentage are very complicated. If there already is a court order that says, for example, that someone is the father of the child, and he wants to ask for genetic …
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 02:13 PM
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50mg of Benadryl taken 30 min prior to wanting to be asleep can help and is non habit forming.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 04:19 PM
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My #1 issue is a second wife (I know, slooooow learner) who battles me for complete "equality" in leading the relationship. Of course she wants to be equally in charge while falling back on the ol' hampster whenever it's convenient or when she fucks up. I struggle with balancing comfort with AM/IDGAF. Most specifically, any criticism of her is met with a complete re-editing of reality/what actually happened. (Ex: She says/does X, I point out that she said/did X, her hampster replies "I didn't sa…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 04:09 PM
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Observe, decide, and act. Never reveal your sources or methods. "Confronting her with the evidence" is a total waste of your time, unless you're into hampster wrestling.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 04:46 PM
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Criminal background check. Post-marriage, during the divorce process I did one on my ex and found arrests for possession with intent to distribute and multiple DUI's. Through digging, I found out that she only avoided going to jail by testifying against her drug-dealer boyfriend at the time.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 02:21 PM
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It ain't over until the ink is dry on the paper. Could be a giant shit test on her part. Some pro tips: 1) watch out for her trying to start loud arguments to sucker you in to a DV charge to get you removed from the home. Have a video recording device on you at all times. 2) do not move out. If you have anything that's really important to you (baseball card collection, guns, etc.) Have a friend hold them or get a small storage unit and store them there.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 03:09 PM
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Beautiful thing is, if you choose to, you can start in your 50's with a woman 20 years younger.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 09:12 PM
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Do Not Get Married needs it's own subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 01:55 PM
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/u/yaysmr - perhaps you can speak to this better than I. While remaining silent is great, it won't stop the police from badgering you. They will ask and ask and ask in an attempt to drive you to speak. You must be explicit and unambiguous when invoking you rights. "I'm not answering any questions" won't cut it. "Officer, I understand you that this is serious and I want to cooperate with your investigation BUT I want my attorney present before answering any further questions about this situation.…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 06:03 PM
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We could stop being cops & soldiers and let an all female force handle the problem with their super wyman powerz.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 06:42 PM
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Been there, done that, have the t-shirt.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/16 08:07 PM
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Here's a gravest extreme example of what women will can/will do to get the upper hand in divorce/custody situations: A man's worst nightmare TL;dr: Ex-Wife stages her own bind, torture, rape, & attempted murder in an attempt to obtain sole custody. Ex-husband charged & held on all of the above until a receipt for a bagel saves his life.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/16 07:59 PM
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It's also within the realm of possibility that he's guilty. Having lived through a similar situation myself, I feel for him if he's not. Always have the recording device at the ready so it's not just her story in evidence.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/16 07:35 PM
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It may be a rough patch, or a lifetime problem. I suggest you perform a criminal background check on her. Look for prior DUI's, public intoxication, and assaults. It can't hurt to know if there's a history or not.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/16 11:39 PM
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When he finds her hidden stash in the linen closet, what then? When she comes home drunk from a bar? Many alcoholics are Passive-Aggressive personality disorder. It makes them oppositional-defiant to outside controls. Your suggestion will do nothing except create a non-stop game of cat-and-mouse that frustrates everyone involved. Ask me how I know!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/16 11:29 PM
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Peer reviewed literature puts the 12 Step/Rehab success rates at a dismal 5-10%, regardless of the cost or method. The Sober Truth
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/16 11:25 PM
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It's a good sign that you're aware that you contributed to the situation. You didn't create it, she did. If you think she's salvageable, it going to be a rough road. I tried salvaging what I thought was a wife who started drinking too much. Turned out that she was also an opiate/polysubstance addict who was smoking heroin. When I discovered this, I divorced her. She's still using.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/16 11:18 PM
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Um, yeah, and if she dies or disappears, you're suspect #1 unless facts compell a different explanation. Even then, the damage will be done to your rep.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/16 05:48 PM
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In the process of sorting this out, a big question you need to address is "What attracted me to someone like this in the first place?" Read NMMNG, it'll help you settle that question. P.S.: She's not going to stop drinking. It'll get worse during the divorce process. You've had one brush with the DV charge/law, you won't get that lucky a second time.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/16 05:46 PM
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That would explain rather eloquently the viral-esque spread of divorce among groups of married women.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 03:35 AM
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Congrats on the winning position bro. Note to all you guys divorcing/near divorce: Never rise to the bait of an emotionally heated argument! She's not angry or upset, she's just pulling the crazy card to slap you with the DV charge. Your phone is your best defense in this situation. As soon as she starts saying the next-level shit like "You'll never see your kids again!" "I'ma fuck all your friends!" Start recording and leave. Same goes for any physical contact. Frame is everything in this dange…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 09:56 PM
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Women still have an easy out that's unavailable to a man. If they get drafted or ordered to deploy it'll be "oops, I'm preggers! See ya boys."
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 06:16 PM
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Wait - you know your sister is an unstable teenage girl who "needs therapy", and you buy her a large fixed blade knife for a present. Why the fuck would you do that?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 08:22 PM
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Agreed. If I bought my daughter anything and her Mother kept and refused to return it, I would file a theft complaint. As a parent, you can enforce the no-phone rule in your house, but not the other parent's. He should have returned it to the mother. The cops showing up at his door at 2am over something minor like this is completely ridiculous, and total white knighting for the poor damsel wife.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 10:56 PM
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40 y.o., 300 lbs, Married, 2 kids...No problem getting laid. Wow there's some thirsty, desperate dudes out there.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/16 07:33 PM
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Here's the fucked up part: that's already happened. Her and her friends have hand picked the 5th grade mini-Chads to invite. All sportos: Baseball, football, wrestling.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 02:10 PM
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Your comment is all to close to the mark. I hope this isn't how the story ends.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 07:21 AM
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Right, but in the long run, I don't want her using orbiters either. How do you discuss/lay the groundwork for that discussion with an 11year-old?
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 07:16 AM
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I will be handling it. What I won't be doing is flying off the handle in the moment so that I make it so she's completely incapable of hearing what I'm saying. This is a larger problem than "don't do that particular thing again".
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 05:37 AM
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I hear you. There's no way I'll let this slide. I am doing my best. This is not an excuse, but a fact: Her mother is a dark triad drug addict who isn't completely out of the parenting picture (thanks Family Court!).
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 05:30 AM
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That's extreme, but not a bad idea. The scorn from the siblings would be withering. But, No, it's not "probably why I'm in the situation I'm in." I have ridden her often, with consequences, for offenses like name calling, excluding, ganging up with other girls, etc. Some of this shit is just raising a girl in 2016. It doesn't help that her mother is a dark triad drug addict who isn't completely out of the parenting picture (thanks Family Court!).
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 05:12 AM
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In the past I would have freaked out on her instantly. Seeing it transpire through a Red lens I was taken aback.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 04:27 AM
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That was my first inclination as a response, but sometimes these 'object' lessons don't get the point across as intended.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 04:21 AM
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Agreed. This whole event makes me fear for her future. I think she's a natural Machiavellian, and the presence of friends definitely fueled her boldness.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 04:18 AM
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It's not 'her' party, it's collectively several siblings. It not as simple as canceling the event.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 04:16 AM
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I've noticed STRONG Machiavellian traits before this. This is just the most extreme manifestation.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 04:15 AM
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"Out of the blue" - my irony meter asploded.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 10:00 PM
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You're being played.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 07:40 PM
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Yes. Here's the best part: All actions taken against you will be based SOLELY ON HER WORD. You are guilty until you can prove your innocence. I found out my ex was pissed at me when half my paycheck was garnished. I pay in full, first of the month, every month. I called to get the situation 'corrected', nope. Make an appointment for 2 weeks from now, show up with lawyer & copies of cancelled checks (no, you can't email anything), only to be told "oh, ok, well it's too late to stop the next garni…
/r/askTRP11/01/16 06:48 PM
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Trade School. Learn to weld, electrician apprentice, construction. Work hard, get money, get out, go to school for something else if you're into that. Don't waste your money on booze.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 11:15 PM
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Consequences for UVA Jackie? We don't even know if that's her real name. The names of every accused man is public record. We even know the name of her uninvolved 'boyfriend'. She should be named and shamed so that every guy on the planet knows to steer clear of this psycho bitch.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 10:35 PM
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Yup.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 07:33 PM
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Love is a chemical reaction that occurs in the brain that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing relationship.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 06:02 PM
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"If you want to tell people the truth, make them laugh. Otherwise, they'll kill you." - Oscar Wilde
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 07:16 PM
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"There's no relationship with him" = wishful thinking. Fact is, you don't know. "I squashed that..." How'd that work the first two times? "In no position or want to be a father..." He doesn't want that, he wants to bang/keep banging your wife. Time for a tactical nuke dread strike, IMO.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/16 03:40 PM
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Fun Facts: Women receiving child support get to spend it anyway they like, with ZERO accountability, while buying the kids the cheapest shit possible from Goodwill. Women can call the State, simply state: "He's not paying/hasn't paid his child support" and in 7 days your paycheck is garnished. EVEN IF YOU PAY ON TIME AND ARE CURRENT, with ZERO substantiation or consequences. It's up to you to prove you're current, and there are no consequences to her for filing a false claim. Want the money you'…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 04:39 AM
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Happened to me and that's exactly what to do. Be calm and polite, and quietly execute your plan to destroy her in court. Pro tips: Courts don't give a damn about her Chads/affairs. They care a lot about children being endangered and treated poorly. In my particular case, dear wife was taking my 5 year old to Chad's house so they could smash. He was supposed to be playing computer games, but saw mommy & Chad smashing and told Daddy. Daddy didn't blow up and yell & scream. Daddy found out Chad was…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 03:20 PM
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Congrats on avoiding marriage! As others have said, why are you paying to keep a girlfriend? She's an adult, not your child. Treat her as such. STOP PAYING.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 04:22 PM
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She has an obligation that weekend, or else I would.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 04:18 PM
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Thanks. I'm clearly not established in my frame around this issue. I hear you preaching boundaries & outcome independence. That's where I'm lacking.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 08:57 PM
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Yeah, except I'm married, and regardless, your woman is the oldest teenager in the house.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 08:54 PM
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Right. The sex & relationship is solid. I'm not interested in a ONS/affair, I'm happy at home.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 08:50 PM
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As a divorced father, child support laws need changing. 1) Accounting for child support money spent. Right now, the mother has no accountability. I pay "child support", and get the privilege of paying 100% for all recreation, hair cuts, clothes, etc. She spends the money on herself, with no accountability, while getting the kids clothes from a thrift shop for the poor. 2) Reform how child support is calculated. In my state, it's based on "disparity in income". My ex has the same degree/same fiel…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 05:48 PM
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It's women's prerogative to get away with anything they can. It's your job not to let them, especially in a marriage. Well done.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 05:24 PM
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Halliburton, KRB, GE, Raytheon, Boeing et. al. all made tidy profits from supporting your activities over there...
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 09:25 PM
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Become more man than little Johnny ever was. Oh, and keep your mouth shut. Cry in a pillow alone if you must. Then shoot the pillow so it can never tell anyone.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/15 09:50 PM
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Unverifiable illness (excuse?) Check. Built in attention/sympathy/victim status? Check. Can be used to avoid responsibility? Check. Access to recreational drugs? Check. Sounds like a woman's wet dream.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 06:11 PM
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Don't.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 09:19 AM
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I heartily agree with your statement about the need for a strong male peer group. I'm going to suggest something unpleasant. Consider it, and reject it if you don't agree, but at least consider it. Fibromyalgia is a diagnosis with zero independent variables. It's essentially a somatic manifestation of depression. The painkillers, adderall, and benzo's prescribed to "treat" it just get the patient high. Diagnoses such as migraines, fibromyalgia, and lower back pain are an easy ticket to avoiding …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 08:37 AM
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I'd define it as using the courts, the police, CPS, IRS, etc to keep the father paying as much as possible and out of the kids life. Basically using the system to hold parent time hostage. You could expand it to blaming/attacking anyone (a teacher, coach, or the school) who has the audacity to suggest her perfect little treasure(s) might be having some/all of the problems mentioned in the thread. It's attacking the messenger and inculcating the victim mentality.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 07:43 AM
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True, and they do it with emotional & administrative violence.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 10:39 PM
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Sick people need your skills and your caring, but don't burden them with your feels. There's a difference between sympathy & empathy; know how to make that distinction.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 06:29 PM
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This comment doesn't address your question, but take heed. I've worked in hospitals for 25+ years. Many women go in to Nursing with the intent of marrying doctors and quitting to become professional shoppers. I have overheard conversations where they state this plainly and have even heard discussion openly plotting how to poach a wealthy physician away from their wife. I've watched them do it, successfully. Don't get suckered into putting a ring on a nurse or tech from work!
/r/askTRP01/09/15 06:26 PM
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Come to think of it, neither have I. I work with a couple now. Fat, unhappy and always spoiling for a fight.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 03:29 PM
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The "black market" often consists of criminals who come into possession of firearms through burglarizing residences, then selling them to other criminals for drug money. Lock your shit up tight when you're not around.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 12:29 AM
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I saw this happen first hand. An MD friend of mine, left to live ExPat because house, child support and usury-level alimony were awarded to the ex-wife. There are some countries where they won't take action on US court orders. When she filed for divorce, she got an exclusive-use order for he house, barring him from entry and sold every motorcycle, gun, ski gear and anything else of value belonging to him that she could lay her hands on.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 02:47 PM
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If I understand it correctly, PTSD is a sort of absolute psychological limit of human beings. Some are more resilient/susceptible than others, but exposed to enough, for long enough,EVERYONE breaks. I recall a SF instructor in the show "Making the Cut" state that he could break any man within 10 minutes using water, but that wasn't the point of the training. I believe what he said, I don't think he was boasting.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 12:14 AM
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It's an excellent example of using micro-goals to accomplish huge tasks. How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time. Use this in workouts all the time. "No sets less than 10".
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 12:07 AM
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Dark, but accurate. Tender years doctrine will get her exclusive use until the divorce is final.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/15 11:11 PM
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Briffult's Law...
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/15 04:26 AM
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True.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/15 05:28 PM
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Amen to that. I grew up in a house with a BPD mother and 2 sisters. My dad's advice? "Just lay low".
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 06:51 PM
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Read 'em and weep...analysis was by blood sample. http://www.scielo.br/scielo.php?script=sci_arttext&pid=S1516-31802007000200011 Smith JC, Cranston D, O'Brien T, Guillebaud J, Hindmarsh J, Turner AG. Fatherhood without apparent spermatozoa after vasectomy. Lancet 1994;344: 30. [PubMed] http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/7912302/
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 07:14 PM
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Been there, done that, have the T-shirt. Some info & advice: The doc is going to try to talk you out of it, the younger you are, the more reluctant he will be to proceed. Reversal isn't necessary and you don't have to bank sperm - there is a third option called MESA (microscopic epidydimal sperm aspiration). Basically, they suck sperm directly from the testicular area. Vasectomy is NOT 100% foolproof birth control. Vasectomies can & do fail. The rates are not well researched in the U.S. (Urologi…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 04:11 PM
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"I just couldn't help myself!" / "It just happened!" : No, you deliberately chose to do as you did. While I agree it's a waste of time speaking logic to a woman, I see this as useful as a thought exercise. These are the translations one should be making in their head.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 05:19 PM
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Nah, Happend to me recently. Wife comes to Breakfast table "You're subscribed to TRP?!?" Me: "Yup" Her "Well I can't believe you would....meow, meow, meow, hampster" Me: "Believe it"
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 08:54 PM
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I Bench 245, Squat 325, Deadlift 435, C&J 225, Snatch 175 @ 5'9, 170. I'm 46 years old, and started lifting in 2012. Best thing I ever did for myself!
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 03:41 PM
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I think director George Miller is a genius. He casted Victoria's Secret models in scantily clad "roles" (and by roles, I mean eye candy). He knew this would garner him negative attention from feminists, so he consulted a top feminist to help " inform their performances" about what it would be like to be a female sex slave. Feminist box checked, criticism dodged, near naked VS models in MadMax. I think Roosh rushed to judgement with only having seen the trailer.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 05:46 PM
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Ex-Wife gets "child support", even though we both earn similar amounts, working in the same field. I pay on time, first of the month, every month, since the date of divorce. She gets pissed off one day after 2 years, and calls the "Office of Recovery Services". I discover this when I get my paycheck, and it's half of what it's supposed to be. With the line-item deduction "ORS". Having no clue what this is, I call HR and ask what is going on, who explains to me that ORS initiated garnishment for …
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 01:19 PM
1

My advice to DBR people is to look for hidden substance abuse as a rule-out potential cause. My advice to everyone is to get a full credit & criminal background check before entering any LTR.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/15 04:25 PM
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Some states require mediation before litigation in divorce. The state doesn't want to tie up the court with hearings if things can be settled before hand. My case never went to litigation, but the mediation session was an all day meat grinder. We were down to a couple of final contentious issues and threatening to walk out when the mediator said: Your paying me $150 an hour to get you to an agreement. Litigation via your attorneys is $250/hour,a piece and will last much longer. Are you sure you …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 03:55 AM
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I agree that it is, but my greatest regret isn't being dishonest with her, it was not keeping my dignity by ending it sooner. I throw up in my mouth a little bit every time I think about how I tried to cajole her to have sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 03:48 AM
1

Is it "cheating" if she's deliberately broken the contract? Would it be cheating if she got a job after you unilateral decided work wasn't for you anymore?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 03:43 AM
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During my DBR/Beta phase, I didn't know it, but I went through many of these levels. Level 11 is where she finally paid attention. Ironically, in the middle of the affair, she suddenly wanted sex from me again. When she found out, she was 'devastated', but I had no fucks left to give. I was hanging on "for the kids". Complete & utter waste of time. Turns out, she was a closet prescription pill/opiate addict. Found that out just prior to the divorce when she got sloppy. She said it was because "I…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 03:34 AM
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I've cut ties with my mother and kid sister. They tried to shame me into staying with a drug-addicted whore who I had the pre-TRP bad luck of getting pregnant, because "she's the mother of your children!" Mom is a (now) well-medicated bipolar lunatic who physically & mentally abused me as a child. Kid sister got pregnant at 16 and married her alcoholic boyfriend. Dad - alpha in most areas of his life, but a total beta pussy at home, counseled me to "just lay low" when Mom was on one of her dange…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 03:48 PM
1

THAT is some solid advice. You can't get sucked in if you're not there.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/15 04:19 PM
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Thanks. This is what I was thinking as well: "Stay strong with the message that if she is mean, well, you are unmoved. If she wants something from you, she has to ask nicely." She was in a bad mood and spoiling for a conflict. I'll check out your post on apologies. I am of the mind that if I fuck up badly, I'll own my shit, no problem with an apology there. The only time I excated an apology from my wife was the time she went on a batshit screamfest and alarmed the children. I exacted the apolog…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/15 03:40 PM
1

And no one's saying you're a sad pathetic excuse for a man if you don't ride!
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 02:54 PM
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45 year old married guy here (2nd Marriage - yup, slooow learner) DO NOT GET MARRIED Love my wife, love my kids. Truth is that women don't love you back. First wife expertly hid her party girl/CC past until she squeezed out a couple kids, then decided booze, drugs 'n alphas were better than being a mom. Divorce and family court are stacked against you & there to punish men. You can "win" small victories, but for what it costs financially, they are only pyrrhic. Wife 2.0 is better, but I discover…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 02:50 PM
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I'm reluctant to call bullshit, but one thing does not make sense: She's 7 months pregnant and she tells him she cheated. Why? If women are naturally Machiavellian, that's are stupid move.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 08:19 PM
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That's how I first discovered /r/trp. Unfortunately, it was after my decent into beta-hood (from swallowing the happy wife, happy life kool-aid) and subsequently being divorced raped. Reading the material here made me want to puke. It explained EVERYTHING. Once I educated myself and internalized the mindset, I lived in a different world. The awakening was on-par with realizing religion was made-up bullshit and developing a scientific world view. TRP is like have the cheat codes to life. You stil…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 05:01 PM
1

There's the initially hiding/not disclosing it, and now it's just defiance. I wouldn't care if they maintained amicable relationship, but now that she has been non-forthcoming it's a dealbreaker for me. For me, it is a respect issue. The observable things that I am reacting to our that my wife has a strong capacity for logic, it's one of the things that appealed to me about her. However when this issue came up, she said "I just couldn't help myself!" When I confronted her with the fact that this…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/15 08:09 PM
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They could, but the hiding it from me has become a respect issue. Although the ex-husband is now a felon and registered sex offender, he is from a very wealthy family. He is impoverished now, but stands to inherit very large sums of money. I think the relationship with the ex stepdaughter may serve as a convenient back door to the husband. He did not want the divorce and begged her to stay. Being a registered sex offender will most definitely hurt his dating prospects. I am concerned that my wif…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/15 07:59 PM
1

And now that I read your question fully...no. I didn't pull-up the phone number from the contact. I need to match them up to be certain. Thank you for stimulating my thinking.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 08:49 PM
2

Yeah, Stop! or I'll say stop again.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 08:42 PM
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Yes. No Doubt it's the adult step daughter.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 08:29 PM
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I'm anticipating a response of "oh, I always delete old messages", except she doesn't. It's only this ex-step daughter's messages being censored. That's what first raised my suspicions.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 07:43 PM
2

Agreed. Question is what. I won't tolerate it and issuing ultimatums is weak.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 07:40 PM
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Yeah, that's a sensible first step.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 07:37 PM
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Yeah, if I get a "story", I'll know something's amiss.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 07:36 PM
1

It's a step daughter. I think the S-D is bringing up things from the previous marriage that she doesn't want me to know.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 06:55 PM
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I agree. I'm looking for a strong, non-nuclear strategy. I have no smoking gun, but the absence of messages that were there.
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