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Nice deflection
/r/askMRP24/05/18 02:52 PM
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You're still projecting judgement - why is the moral high ground so important to you? Call it cheating, stepping out, getting a side piece, or whatever you want the language is irrelevant. You inferred that he's sneaking around scared of mommy finding out - he didn't say anything to imply that. Maybe she knows, maybe she doesn't, either way it doesn't matter. He asked a simple question and you started preaching. And pretend all you want, or don't. Like I stated above that bit has nothing to do w…
/r/askMRP24/05/18 01:53 PM
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If you have to ask, you aren't ready to talk about it. Most of the comments here will be along the lines of STFU, and rightfully so. However, if you eventually get to the point where you are the undisputed captain you can start talking about it. My wife is appalled at modern feminism, hates the way Hollywood portrays men, and us scared for the generation of feminized boys our son is growing up with. But this comes after YEARS of her willing total submission to my leadership. You need to have yea…
/r/askMRP24/05/18 01:10 AM
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Park your morals man. "MRP is amoral but you're weak if you do X" is you projecting your morality onto a stranger in a supposedly amoral sub. Guy wants some strange, and advice on how to get it. Nothing to judge here. OP talk less, physically escalate more. Announcing you're married is a hard no to some, but there are many more women who will just use this as a minor shit test. I got noticeably more attention with less effort back when I wore a wedding ring. Inadverant social proof. If some othe…
/r/askMRP24/05/18 12:50 AM
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He's much akin to the teacher who has never held a position outside of academia. Perhaps he knows the syllabus, but he's never actually done anything with it. Add in the multiple accounts, and the attempt to monetize one account in part by using his multiple endorsed accounts to shill for the monetized one. The entire thing rings very hollow to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 01:35 PM
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Meh. You can LARP like a pro but there's not a guy here who's seen a photo of you and said "I want to be that guy.". You are all talk Coach/BPP/Whothefuckever.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/18 10:57 PM
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Just another delusional TradCon romanticising a time period that didn't actually exist. He's not going to get it, don't waste your time.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/18 12:56 PM
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I would say the stigma is gone from it. Credit cards are available within a year, mortgage within 3 years IF you file before your credit score tanks. If you see the writing on the wall relatively early you can avoid almost all of the previously typical repercussions of bankruptcy. And the social stigma is nil since the only public announcement is in the printed newspaper classifieds and who the hell reads those anymore? Call it a Defensive Bankruptcy or whatever you like, it is a viable option.
/r/askMRP16/05/18 11:14 AM
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How far does 135k take you toward the lifestyle you want? Does the missing 65k significantly impact your daily life? Unless your finances are straight and the missing money still hurts due to cost of living in your city, you're way to new to be making demands of anyone.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 07:25 PM
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You could have just said "no."
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/18 12:21 AM
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Those that downvote have never run that kind of relationship. +1 because I run the same type of ship.
/r/askMRP06/05/18 02:20 PM
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She wasn't my "sweetheart", I wasn't even looking for anything with long term implications. But she didn't do anything to throw up red flags. But she threw herself at me and it worked out well for the long term. She's fine with another girl, she prefers to be involved but isn't too upset if she isn't. Frame conquers all.
/r/askMRP06/05/18 03:50 AM
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Pook was a paper alpha. I've been that guy, I promise you he was regurgitating groupthink as his own.
/r/askMRP25/04/18 02:19 AM
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No, j10 was way more empathetic than that. Perhaps he'd spout the positives, but the negatives in that paragraph are u/triadis3 or u/redspplus territory.
/r/askMRP25/04/18 02:15 AM
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How can you forget motorboating? It's classic cinema
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/18 02:07 AM
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Thanks for the assist
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/18 02:06 AM
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Weddings and funerals. Feelz fests generate tingles. Why is this not common knowledge for every man? Someone should make a movie about this phenomenon. Oh, wait......
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/18 09:37 PM
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I didn't say "blue pill beta", I said "beta". The former is (perhaps) derogatory, the second is Rollo's descriptor for non-aggressive/comforting/ provider traits and not a derogatory term- it's as objective as it gets in this pseudoscience realm. The bullshit was added for emphasis, I'm a direct sort. If you truly believe that women view sex as a means to an end rather than an end itself, that sucks man. I don't know what else to say other than drop the one that treats you like that and go fishi…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/18 02:46 AM
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No I read the post. I paused at (for females) sex is the price they pay. That's beta bullshit. And then I kept reading, and it didn't get any better. Here's a a statement: "Women are intimately connected to their bodies and love sex. They will do most anything to get sex from a guy they value, regardless of the situation. There is nothing transactional about that sexual interaction unless she views you as less than a premium sexual partner. " That's my personal experience.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/18 04:19 AM
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Women are horny. I promise you this is true. Women want sex. They want it a lot. They just don't want to trade their power card for a weak ROI. If you are an exciting guy who can generate emotional responses in women then they are dtf nonstop. It's a feedback loop: 1) he's exciting/animated/slightly-dangerous/unusual. 2) my pussy is wet. 3) I feel awesome that this dominant alpha guy picked me to fuck. 4) This guy who picked me a special snowflake still wants to fuck me, so I'm dtf nonstop to ge…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/18 04:01 AM
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I'm 6'2", 220lb and a borderline fat fuck. That's your main problem. It doesn't take a lot of excess fat to trigger the apnea symptoms. A lot of the power lifter types will exhibit those same problems. I know for a fact my snoring issues go away at sub 205. But keep telling yourself you're fit bro.
/r/askMRP19/04/18 03:51 AM
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That's my method. Periodically check in on text messages etc. But no significant snooping unless there is some smoke showing up somewhere. If it's a fear born from a flavor of desperation, that's a problem. If it's periodically checking a bitch because, you know, AWALT, that's a different story.
/r/askMRP19/04/18 03:44 AM
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3rd generation Eagle here. I have my grandfather's leather bound program/guide from National Jamboree #1. It's a big deal in my family. My son doesn't participate in scouts, my choice. It's nowhere near the same program that I went through. I'm ashamed of scouting in its current state.
/r/askMRP17/04/18 12:32 AM
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Fucking amateurs. Besides, the good cheat codes for a game worth playing are iddqd and idkfa.
/r/askMRP12/04/18 04:36 PM
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My wife doesn't understand why I don't let her do my laundry, hahaha. Same reason I don't let her cook my steaks. I want it done a certain way! Do you see a problem here? Let's skip the fact you're barely two months in and you're posting shit advice every chance you get on both mrp and trp which makes this particular post hilarious. And lets also skip the observation of you being oblivious to your covert contract. Let's just check your reply I quoted against your problem here. It seems obvious t…
/r/askMRP11/04/18 04:38 AM
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K
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/18 04:14 AM
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The movie, while good, pales in comparison to the book. As usual.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/18 04:08 AM
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If she's threatening divorce twice a month she thinks you're a bitch. She doesn't believe you have the stones to call her bluff. Imagine she's an employee of your successful entrepreneurial effort- and I always doubt these supposed successes because if you really are successful you shouldn't be letting anyone walk on you like this- but imagine she's a recalcitrant employee who threatens to quit and take the company secrets with them every two weeks. What do you do? Same answer business or pleasu…
/r/askMRP10/04/18 03:25 AM
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This "lion" has always been a house cat, pretending to be something greater than himself. He considered himself lucky when the neighborhood alleycat got tired of putting in the work to attract the real lions and decided to settle for the overstuffed house cat that provides 3 squares and a cot. Tiger Striped house lion raises some black and white kittens and thinks "hmm, that's odd. I should next this pussy. But fuck it lioning is hard. I'll just make the best of my fucked up situation and still …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/18 03:18 AM
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I ate his liver with some fava beans and a nice chianti.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/18 03:09 AM
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You're right I haven't. He was leaving around the time I started, there was no master list of posts, and I had better things to do than track through the entire post history of a single user. But I find it interesting that the majority of his posts are mayor/sage game, with almost no peeks behind the curtain. Perhaps I've just missed all of the revealing details.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/18 03:39 AM
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I do everything on my own. There's not a regular poster on here who's walking a similar path as mine. I recognize I'm the societal outlier, I'm good with it. There's some gold in here as a collection of information, but something about Jack 10 gives me the feeling that he was talking the talk more than walking the walk. This bothered me at first. Then I asked myself does it really matter, if the message is valid does it matter if the speaker is the real deal? Because it's hard to argue against h…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/18 03:32 AM
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I've read Jack tens posts for quite a while now, he faded out about the time I found reddit (I'm a luddite, I know). What I find interesting is that for all his insights, there are no field reports or personal anecdotes. All kinds of theory, no practical real world examples. It makes me wonder- was this guy just talking the talk, was he a paper alpha? And also I wonder if he was in fact a paper alpha, and yet he was correct in most of his posts, does that dilute the value or does it even matter?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/18 04:13 AM
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Depends on the age of the toolbox. Old school made in Murica Craftsman is ok. Either way, if you aren't turning 3/8ths bolts, then who gives a fuck about the 9/16th?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/18 03:07 AM
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Don't deal in generalities. The loudest voices are not the mean.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/18 02:54 AM
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Only if you apply artificial rules to the game. Man plus woman equals the same game it always has, unless you choose to play with a handicap.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/18 02:52 AM
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Good post. We mentioned it briefly the other day but I'm way too apathetic to type all that shit out. Thanks for doing the hard work.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/18 12:26 AM
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You might have read a bit, but you've absorbed Jack shit. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks. Hypergamy 101. Seriously man, this is day one stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/18 12:28 AM
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The difference is they play with one hand tied behind their back. I play no holds barred. On the outside perhaps it's similar. The overall approach begins the same. When it comes to the possible outcome they are vastly different. They stop short and say "good enough."
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/18 11:05 PM
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You need to start reading and stop posting until you have the bare basics down. That is a remedial mrp question. Sidebar is your friend. Bare minimum help here- Google Rollo and Hypergamy.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/18 10:58 PM
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Agreed, but one voice amongst the many. We need more dark red voices.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/18 10:00 PM
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The stereotypes Dragon Lady and Tiger Mom exist for a reason. And a gaijin isn't likely to see that side until he's locked into commitment. There are plenty of women on both ends of the spectrum in every culture. Get your SMV out of the BB territory and into the AF domain and that will become readily apparent.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/18 09:48 PM
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I don't disagree, but what is the solution? Their version of mrp has very few similarities to mine.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/18 09:30 PM
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It doesn't need to be a goal. It does need to be an option if you want to achieve the greatest outcome for yourself. If you remove it as an option, and she knows it, you're voluntarily handicapping yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/18 05:11 PM
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You should reread his comment that I replied to. He assumed that all the men in this sub are here for the same reason. That's an incorrect assumption.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/18 05:08 PM
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Are you fixing yourself because you want to save the marriage and keep her, or are you changing yourself so you live the most rewarding life you can- her involvement is perhaps a bonus but isn't a requirement? The former is masturbation. The latter is a worthwhile goal. Your post and comments make me think you are aligned with the former, content to achieve mediocrity and claim victory. I hope I'm wrong. You will never reach the summit if you aren't willing to burn everything to the ground in th…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/18 02:31 AM
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Since you aren't in a good financial situation yet, discretionary spending drops to zero until new income stream is acquired. The long game is find a new career, the short game is generate income by whatever means necessary. This is not a scary thing to a good captain who doesn't fear the unknown and has a plan to move forward. Internalize that mindset and the crew will roll with it if they trust your leadership. Your mantra for the near future should be Fucking Hustle.
/r/askMRP16/03/18 08:52 PM
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I like leopards. They're fluffy. I hope the current trend is just natural ebb and flow. However I'm not convinced that's the case. I'd like to see some new voices in the hard core red end of the spectrum.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/18 05:59 PM
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Non sequitur. This isn't the kiddie pool. You need to up your game.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/18 04:59 PM
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You're projecting again, interpreting words in ways that fit your preconceived narrative.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/18 01:18 PM
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We already know the answer
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/18 01:06 PM
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What you mentioned was grouping an assortment of unknown individuals under a blanket statement to fit your preconceived mental model. That's not pragmatic, it's a bad habit.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/18 12:58 PM
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You know what they say about assuming...
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/18 12:42 PM
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Some do. Most settled for the guy, aren't attracted to him anymore, and don't fuck anyone on the reg. They are in a situation where cheating is a significant possibility if the right tingles inducing guy comes along, but it's not the guaranteed outcome like some on this sub would make it out to be. You're coming across as an angry mgtow type. Don't blame women for acting in their own best interests - we all do the same.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/18 12:41 PM
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There is no point to marrying the woman you describe. But you're painting US women with a very broad brush. It's not as pervasive as it first appears. I know a lot of US women who are very happy in a submissive role. I know a whole lot more that would be happy in that role, but the weak man they settled for won't step up so they have to instead. These women just arent as vocal as the "you go girl" feminists because they'll get shouted down by their own kind if they speak out. Crabs/bucket analog…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/18 12:02 PM
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Easy now, this is a kinder gentler MRP. If you checked out the Rule Zero post by u/rian_stone the masses shouted that the pursuit of the better man leads to pussy, not the pursuit of pussy leads to the better man. TRP doesn't count here, we are above that. Our former Alpha status helped us select a snowflake that disproves the premise of AWALT. Mediocre sex at best, but we're still better at Manning than those TRP Incels. We only slipped momentarily, and the purple enema will set us on the path …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/18 03:00 AM
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Or mentions the 2/3 law that predates even this sub. But on the other hand, if you smack every hand that reaches out, soon no hands reach out.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/18 02:30 AM
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Yep, 7. She had an older sister so just grabbed pads from her and dealt with it quietly (very religious family where all talk of sexuality was taboo) . 2 years later her mom goes to have "the talk" and was shocked that she was 2 years late when she thought she was acting plenty early Yeah I agree with you regarding mom should deal with it. But in OP's case mom clearly isn't ready to handle it so a good effort from dad is way better than nothing. .
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/18 10:42 PM
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Kids are smarter than you think. They see the difference between the way dad interacts with mom vs dad interacting with other women. Better to give them a positive relationship model at home than to rely on TV and the public to show them what a happy relationship looks like. Happy relationships are not rigidly formal and visually platonic. My wife started her period at age 7. Get ready, start talking to both of them now. Dad being open and honest first is much better than putting it off and lett…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/18 03:39 PM
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I use Bollinger Bands (20 day SMA, deviations 1-3) on a 15 minute candle chart to find buy-in points along with RSI set 70/30 High/low and volume chart. All rounded numbers, but at the time I opened the 1465 calls for 37 ask the bid was around 35. If you look at the 15 minute AMZN candle chart for the afternoon of 3/1 I bought at the red candle that went down into the 1460s. It climbed back quickly and the market closed with the mark up around 40. The next morning (3/2) it opened lower and I thi…
/r/askMRP07/03/18 05:26 PM
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If you have specific questions message me, but here's the rough overview.: I only trade derivatives in a speculation account where I'm willing to lose every dime. If you are concerned about losses you won't be aggressive enough to make big gains. I don't chase and I don't try to force opportunities . I keep an all cash position most of the time. If I see an opportunity I go in big, if not I'm content to wait. Some weeks I'm making multiple trades, some weeks I make none. You will lose, sometimes…
/r/askMRP07/03/18 12:40 PM
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I've met a lot of dudes over the years, many shorter than me, quite a few taller. To a man, everyone who would list their height to the half inch had insecurities over their height, even those above average. If you aren't doing a quick round from your usual metric height in your country, something to think about.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/18 12:40 AM
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Don't compare your daily to everyone else's self reported A game. The only ones who care about summiting are the ones who want validation from those that don't climb. Anyone you meet along the mountain will understand that you are both improved over those still in the valley.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/18 12:34 AM
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I have a couple of businesses, one similar, plus I'm heavily involved in trading derivatives (stock options) in a speculation account- high reward but high risk. My wife knows about all of this, and my options trading has me up 400%+ since Jan 1, but it's a bumpy road. Imagine sitting down chatting with the wife and chatting about an open position where you're in the middle of a downswing but the forecast looks good and you are still up almost 300% in 2 months. Her response is "I don't want to l…
/r/askMRP07/03/18 12:25 AM
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Your reply has bothered me for several days. I skimmed this post and the replies and moved on, but several times I've thought back to your response. "why is this guy sorry?" I ask myself. I am mentoring a coworker currently who apologizes for everything even when he doesn't mean it so perhaps that's why this stuck with me. Why are you sorry? There are a couple options. 1 you are so empathetic that a random anonymous stranger's self reported tale causes you to feel true sorrow. If that's actually…
/r/askMRP05/03/18 03:59 AM
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Check out the "How it's Made" series from Discovery Channel. You can torrent the past seasons if it's not available in your country. Watch those and read between the lines just a little bit and you'll realize that the same machine that makes the pvc pipe you shit down also makes food you eat, toys your kids play with, and parts of the car you drive. Learning how things are made will give you the background knowledge to help you troubleshoot your specific "handy" issues as they arise. "I'm not su…
/r/askMRP05/03/18 02:57 AM
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I'm continually amazed at how guys are so willing and ready to stand on their own dick. u/wildnight98 knew the answer to this question before he asked it. I'm certain his inner self told him "bad idea, overt contract" but his outer nice guy was conflicted, so his self doubt has him asking anonymous strangers for help. I'm guilty of it too. My daily mantra is "don't fuck yourself over, everyone else is already trying to." I literally repeat that to myself several times a day because self sabotage…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/18 02:34 AM
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Save the cash and just punch yourself in the balls. It's cheaper and more efficient than going the watch route, with the same end result. Nothing covert about that one.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/18 02:56 PM
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I watched my mother and sister go down the "horse girl" route, specifically with therapy horses like you mention . I also grew up in a small Midwestern town in the States and knew a bunch of horse girls. Run. The Fuck. Away. Best case is you only end up with batshit crazy. Most likely case is this costs you a shit ton of money and you still end up with batshit crazy and lose some of your sanity in the process. I have never in my life seen anything that brings out the emotional roller coaster in …
/r/askMRP27/02/18 01:46 AM
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Same here. My son is several years younger than op situation but even though I'm doing my best to give him a shining example I don't think he'll be ready for the hard truth till 21 or so. I know I wasn't ready to hear the harsh reality in high school. Just head over to TRP or asktrp and look at the average post- too young to really get it. And I also diverge on the "Do what is Right" concept. Been there, done that, have the scars to prove it. Do What Is Right For You is the current mantra, with …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/18 04:15 AM
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I did the white picket fence route for a while, chasing the dream or so I thought. Some significant medical events helped me wake the fuck up and realize it's all bullshit- marketing telling us more stuff will make us happy. Now I can fit my entire household (family of 4) into a 12' moving van. And I've never in my life been happier. Meanwhile my father and brother are still in the BP American Dream mindset and both admit to being miserable.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/17 12:53 PM
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Natural to make more money no question. The true BB nice guys that show up here have the hardest road to travel. Making more money is easy compared to reprogramming your entire life
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/17 02:40 AM
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You're misinterpreting awalt. Awalt doesn't mean all women will cheat if given an opportunity, it's not that black and white. Awalt means that under the right conditions she will feel an urge to cheat- whether she actually does or not depends on the individual woman and the situation. If you're a low value man that she's settling for you're at higher risk. If you were once an awesome guy and you've gotten steadily more lazy/complacent/boring you're at a higher risk. If you're a fun, strong, self…
/r/askMRP24/10/17 05:26 PM
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Proof that singularity is on the horizon
/r/askMRP22/10/17 10:54 PM
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IDK wat u r saying. LOL WTF yo? Stfu R u 0ld Enuf 2 b h3r3? Ha! #yolo
/r/askMRP22/10/17 10:32 PM
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Yes but reading books isn't quick and easy. And to be fair that book is tedious, and askmrp newbs aren't used to hard mode.. But if reading it was a hard prerequisite to posting here this sub would have 10% of the traffic it does currently. /u/wildnight98 you need to read this book (and the rest of the sidebar) ASAP. It deals with you directly.
/r/askMRP22/10/17 10:27 PM
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My wife is a SAHM. When I'm working on a project, I work a LOT of hours. But I cook supper almost every night. Not because I'm supposed to, it easily falls under SAHM column. I do it because I really like to cook. Do you see the difference? If you want to put your kids to bed then do it. If you are busy and she isn't, tell her no and make her do it. It's not tit for tat, it's chain of command. There has to be a captain leading the crew- it works best if that's you.
/r/askMRP22/10/17 10:23 PM
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Was about to type this verbatim until I scrolled down and saw your post. This is exactly what I say- it comes up once or twice a year.
/r/askMRP22/10/17 10:13 PM
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Apparently there's a lot of those types in here recently. I prefer to skip the plausible deniability long game bullshit and just slap her on the ass and tell her to go to our room and get undressed (kids at home). But if the OP's method is the only way the dude gets to fuck then I guess it's better than nothing.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/17 10:55 PM
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Develop perhaps, not earn. It's not an achievement, it's a mindset. One that often handicaps those who have it when dealing with those that don't.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/17 11:50 PM
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There is never going to be "the right time" to have a kid. Just go for it. One kid is not a significant loss of freedom. 2+ kids is. Keep that in mind before you have a second one. Childbirth is for the young, even with the wonders of modern medicine. The stats don't lie.
/r/askMRP18/10/17 09:24 PM
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Fuck You u/88will88, I am the prize. How's that for a return to center
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/17 02:15 AM
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Nothing wrong with porn. I send my wife porn I like weekly at minimum (Tumblr is great for this btw) and she usually reciprocates with what she likes except shark week- doesn't feel sexy. . It keeps both of our libidos ramped up which I think is a good thing. I think the big issue is "my wife isn't open to regular sex with me so porn is the easy option.". At that point you are self sabotaging which is where most of the "porn is bad" posts on this sub originate. Use it to supplement/enhance, not …
/r/askMRP18/10/17 02:11 AM
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The approach is the easy part. The frame to pull it off is the hard part. I will say with authority it can be done.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/17 01:53 AM
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One side open can work, but it's a tough road to walk. If she's open to mff/bi-curious that helps. I predict that if you choose that path her biggest hangup will not be you fucking someone else. It will be you dividing your time and her receiving less attention. And it should go without saying (stating the obvious for the short bus readers): For this to work the sun has to rise and set around your frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/17 05:08 PM
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Everyone has a bad day/week/whatever from time to time. Own it and move on, it's minor in the big picture. On the take no shit stance, make sure it comes from a place of " I'm better than this it can't affect me" rather than "I'm protecting my ego.". They feel the same on the surface but the underlying mental state is vastly different. And on an unrelated note, learn to tie a rolling hitch. This is your go-to knot for attaching an anchor chain snubber, adjusting fenders, etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/17 12:27 PM
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Glad it worked for you, but this is some minor league play at best. If you think this is success, keep working until women are actively hitting on you in front of your wife. Then you'll look back and understand how cringy this post reads. When you've truly made progress you won't need little white lies to get you to the finish line. Maybe file this under fake it till you make it but it's still a bit sad to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/17 11:40 PM
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80/20. The vast majority of men you encounter will be weak. RP is a solo strategy/endeavor, not a team sport. In theory, every other man you know is competition. Look around, smile, and think "thanks for making it so easy to rise to the top boys."
/r/askMRP13/10/17 11:32 AM
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I'm not sure I follow. Can you make a spreadsheet for this?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/17 09:21 PM
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Good post. Let me add one that is an old school favorite, is very easy to make, and most people don't recognize - the Gimlet. GIMLET 2 parts Gin -decent quality but doesn't need to be top shelf. New Amsterdam or Beefeater are a good starting point and go up from there as your budget allows. 1 part lime juice 1 part simple syrup If you are using prepackaged sweetened lime juice, reduce simple syrup to .75 parts. Shake with ice, strain into glass. Even people who are not usually gin drinkers like …
/r/askMRP06/10/17 09:05 PM
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Less than 24 hours of half assed application and you're posting a success story? You will learn to shut the fuck up and take this weak shit to askmrp or you won't last long here. Ego bruised deletion or mod removal eminent...
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/17 12:37 PM
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Keep in mind that her timer to notice your changes, aka her 1000 rope, doesn't start when you decide to make changes. It starts when you actually change. If you're still afraid of her feelings and hesitant to assertively lead then it's unfair to hold her lack of change against her. Reading and making half hearted attempts doesn't mean shit -the ship is still idling in neutral. Successful actions are the only ones that count towards taking up the slack.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/17 04:24 PM
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OYS (Bimonthly Edition) Frame Still solid here, I'm the undisputed leader of the family. Occasional weak point is letting a minor irritation at work color my interactions with others (family) for the next few hours. This isn't new and I'd mostly killed this bad habit until recently. I think it ties to the fact that we're in a city we hate for work, I'm working an irritating (but lucrative) job, and we've been in one place for too long. We're nomadic compared to most and we all get a little depre…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/17 03:05 PM
1

Incel fan fiction at its finest.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 02:29 AM
1

Dinghy sailors have little need to learn the rig differences of ocean going sailboats. A ketch makes no sense below 35' of boat length. On the flip side, I don't have a clue how to trim a sunfish or laser for max speed. Different worlds
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/17 07:48 PM
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Quick lesson for sailing- The two most popular rig types for modern sailboats are sloop and ketch. What are the differences and what are the pros and cons of each? 10 minutes of Google searching will give you the answers and you'll know more about sailing than 95% of the population. A half step forward is better than standing still.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/17 02:23 PM
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You've lurked on here for a few days and skimmed a few posts, you haven't learned anything. Just keep doing what she says, she has all the power in the relationship. And you might have one child, but she has two.
/r/askMRP24/09/17 11:04 PM
1

WTF? It's a 10 minute read, literally the shortest and easiest material of anything mentioned here, and a good Cliff's notes type art of rp concepts. Get it done already.
/r/askMRP24/09/17 02:25 AM
1

Long journeys begin with a single step.
/r/askMRP19/09/17 02:45 AM
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If you feel the need to ask random strangers on the internet, no don't cheat. You don't have the frame, the opsec, or the OI to pull it off or benefit from it. This reeks of validation. Kill your ego.
/r/askMRP19/09/17 02:26 AM
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She does this because she knows that if she can just trip your trigger you'll cave on your stoic oak act and give her the drama/validation she wants. Your frame is glass. Strong up to a point, then it shatters and you enter her frame. At that point she regains control. That's not actually what she wants. She wants you to be in control. But in her subconscious mind, she'd rather control the relationship than submit to a man weaker than her.
/r/askMRP19/09/17 02:05 AM
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Yes, my hobbies are largely her hobbies as long as she can have an accessory role. I ride motorcycles. She loves to ride passenger, has no interest in her own bike. I like to hike, swim, and fish. She likes all of those if she gets to do them with me. I like to travel and see new places. She likes the same, but not by herself. She enjoys almost all of my hobbies, but the difference is I will do them on my own for my own enjoyment while she will not. She wants to enjoy them with me, not on her ow…
/r/askMRP17/09/17 04:12 AM
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You can't "try" righteous anger- it's not a trick or technique. If you just try it out and half ass it you'll come across as a little bitch and just escalate the drama. He means you take control of the room and put her on notice that she has crossed the line in the sand and it's in her best interest to walk small. If you can't take control of the room she's going to walk all over you. It's not a novice move, it requires very strong frame.
/r/askMRP16/09/17 09:29 PM
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A lot of OP butthurt over one cherry picked comment. And redbeaux makes a fair point. If you're still getting regular hard no's, have you come as far as you think?
/r/askMRP13/09/17 06:49 PM
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Where is the sailing progress and goal? Is this no longer important to you, or has fuckarounditis taken hold in that department? I seems there's a surplus of thinking and reading compared to the amount of actions taking place.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/17 04:21 PM
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Have an upvote, because the prophet du jour gets tedious with his lengthy diatribes. I don't necessarily disagree with him, but dead bedroom to writing essays in less than 6 months seems like a paper tiger.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/17 02:16 AM
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Will you ever reach a point where the chick in the sheer bikini on the beach doesn't catch your eye? No- not if you are a functioning male. Her staring at hot guys but not actively initiating is the same as you staring at attractive young tits but not initiating. Biology takes the lead but is tempered by the front brain. The more time you spend becoming the guy she wants to fuck, the less time she'll spend dreaming about the guy she'd like to fuck
/r/askMRP09/09/17 02:08 AM
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Scale back the initiating, keep the flirting/kino strong. You're seeing some minor signs of interest, game her hard and don't try to f-close. Once a week of total involvement sex would be way better than twice a week starfish. Get her primed then let it simmer. Game your wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/17 09:56 PM
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Sex God Method. But you need frame. A rock solid frame that she feels comfortable submitting to. Once you have that SGM will take it to the next level.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/17 09:52 PM
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You can't make her want to fuck you with no restraint. You can however become the type of guy she would want to fuck with no restraint. It's not her fault you don't get her best, direct your anger inward and grow.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/17 09:41 PM
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Sidebar. NMMNG, WISNIFG. Do the work, don't ask to be spoon fed.
/r/askMRP02/09/17 10:13 PM
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Anger phase coupled with the realization that he squandered many years of his life. This manifests a strong desire to "help" others with tough love so they don't follow the same path he did. It's a fairly common occurrence here, and usually just a phase of unplugging.
/r/askMRP30/08/17 10:58 AM
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x2 on Amazon. Anything you can think of, shipped to your door in the ubiquitous brown smile box.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/17 05:41 PM
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Good post. I had a longer reply but lost it. Short version - people can go as deep or shallow into this territory as they like, BDSM encompasses a huge variety of options. Just because (the collective) you aren't into the formal aspects (ropework, Master/Sir wordplay, collars, etc) doesn't mean you can't enjoy an awesome dom/sub relationship. And your wife is probably more receptive to the idea than you think, IF you have the frame to pull it off.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/17 05:36 PM
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If you think Athol has some good sex tips you need to read Sex God Method by Daniel Rose. Athol is a primer, Daniel is the definative work on the topic.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/17 04:31 PM
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You're overstating the possibe downsides. Scars- only obvious if procedure is through the nipple over the muscle (not common). Armpit or under breast under muscle scars are not obvious. Have to be redone often- only if they were poorly done to begin with. My wife has had the same implants for 15 years with zero issues (and they still look/feel great). Reduce sensitivity- again only with through nipple procedure. The other procedures don't come close to the nipple nerves.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/17 01:25 PM
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You didn't read any of the sidebar books, and you're bitching about the lack of info in the sidebar? Fuck off.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 11:53 AM
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The generality would be "she needs to contribute equally, monetarily or otherwise" not "she needs a job/career." I've not seen any poll posted, so you have no idea if I'm an outlier or dead center of the bell curve. You're making assumptions based on your specific circumstances and applying your individual conclusion to a group of random strangers.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/17 07:11 PM
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Glad that works for you. My wife having a job would be detrimental to my lifestyle and my business. You do you, and don't make sweeping assumptions about the rest of our circumstances. If you hang around a bit you'll notice we are a very diverse group.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/17 06:43 PM
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MAP for structure and goal setting first, then RM for theory and insight, then take your pick of the other 2.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/17 04:40 PM
1

It's been a couple months since last OYS, so checking for an update. Health- Down 15lbs since mid May, still (slowly) increasing lifts with SL5x5. Most telling is I'm 3 notches tighter on my belt. I'm still drinking more often than I should, but have steadily dialed back the consumption level. A work in progress, but progress is being made. I am eating a 500-1000 deficit depending on the day, limiting carbs and concentrating on protein and fats. I'm working 84 hrs/week right now so it's mentally…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/17 02:30 PM
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Gonna second the Charleston rec. In the running for best city in the south. If you've only seen northern and west coast US you are missing out. Super cool city with a laid back vibe, awesome food culture, not too big, and it's the nearby "Beach town" for Clemson, UofSC, Georgia, and a ton of prestigious smaller private schools. If you're cut and have game, Folly Beach is your friend. Year round (Canadian summer) weather plus oceanfront means the local average fitness level is well above national…
/r/askMRP21/07/17 04:55 AM
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Only if you pick the wrong one.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 04:59 AM
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I work 12-18 months on (60-80 hrs/week) and then take off 6-12 months straight. For me, it's WAY better than the corporate grind.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 04:55 AM
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Exactly. If you u/beta-no-mo had nothing when you got married and later you got shit going financially she's entitled to half- you did all that together like it or not. What exactly would you have listed in your prenup 15 years ago, a POS Crown Vic?
/r/askMRP19/07/17 07:34 PM
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I typed a lot more but maybe you aren't ready. . If you don't want us to give you purpose the wtf do you want? . You can be clued in to the reality of male/female relationships or you can reject this truth and go back to dead bedroom or starfish sex or whatever you want- you decide.
/r/askMRP19/07/17 07:50 AM
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I like this, and didn't touch on it earlier. Do guy shit with your kids. A woman will think to take them to the movies. A woman will think to take them out for ice cream. . A man will find a short (sub 3/4 mile) trip to a swimming hole. Or a fun wave park. Or a natural Creek where they can bring a float tube too. The point is it doesn't matter, a fun dad/dude will think of this and a woman absolutely will not. . My wife grew up going to the "swimming hole" with her family that was a sub 1/2 mile…
/r/askMRP19/07/17 07:15 AM
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I hear you on summer in the South. I work a technical yet environmentally demanding job. There are some days I shower 3 times a day. 1 when I wake up first thing (personal long ingrained habit), 2 when mid afternoon done working out lifting with my wife (fun times) before I go to work, 3 in very early am and I've spent 10 hours sweating in the heat and it's (my) bedtime. . Oh, and "I love it when you come to bed naked and freshly showered so we can play" is awesome motivation for a guy. We are t…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/17 06:50 AM
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U/Sl0wRideTakeItEasy - like the Foghat song. But thanks just the same. Fuck I'm terrible at this Reddit formatting and linking. . And yes it seems like a toothache has turned into bone marrow cancer.
/r/askMRP19/07/17 06:32 AM
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No she wasn't. . She was attracted to the comfort of a provider who was nice to her, when she had a lack of immediately available better options. . If you are still truly the same man she married then GTFO, no room for beta providers here. If you are an improved, fitter, unplugging RP believer then congratulations, your life is on the upswing with or without her. . But still, direct that anger inward for self improvement. She settled for you when you offered very little. Once you offer a lot mor…
/r/askMRP19/07/17 06:29 AM
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Not a divorce attorney, but wtf are you asking? Prenup is for couples with significant assets aquired individually before marriage. You are broke and don't care about splitting married assets and she has no debt but limited asssets- are you planning to quadruple her income in the near future? If not why are you asking? . More importantly ( coming from a married guy), why the fuck are you wanting to get married?
/r/askMRP19/07/17 06:19 AM
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There's an answer with some semblance of clarity. . Anger is a powerful tool, but where is it directed? Quick scan of post history is heavy loseit and dead bedroom with a comment of no sex on wedding night. Beta provider who got fat and lost all her attraction? . So you've given away your power (commitment/time/attention) in the relationship for what? Were you ignorant of the rules of this game? Probably so, many men are. But that doesn't mean this isn't your fault. Ignorance is no excuse. Odds …
/r/askMRP19/07/17 06:01 AM
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I'm not giving you an answer. I gave you an example from another dude to think about. . Time to put on your big girl panties and decide. If you can't pick yes or no, w&s (as he is known to do) has given you the locker room answer.
/r/askMRP19/07/17 05:37 AM
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I'm partway through my second reading of wothsm, but so far I'm still not 100% in agreement with Dieda. . I've not experienced sequential "layers" towards an ultimate purpose. More of a changing goal as I age and experience new events and interactions. . I would agree that "becoming a man I actually like to be around" is a life-changing step and a lofty (and necessary) goal. . But I've worked through a lot of "layers" thus far and many of them ended up being equal on different paths rather than …
/r/askMRP19/07/17 05:30 AM
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So we hang out with our neighbors (couples mostly, a few single guys) fairly often. Some of them are obviously into my wife. "Joking" innuendo every chance they get, checking her out, longer than normal hug goodbye, etc. I don't worry about them hanging out all day (in a group setting), I know without a doubt I'm a higher value man than these dudes and she would agree with my assessment. And she laughs along with them knowing the minute she gets uncomfortable and wants my help, there will be an …
/r/askMRP19/07/17 05:01 AM
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You didn't answer Will's question. Why are you here? What is the problem? Are you feeling guilty about your wife doing most of the housework? She's a SAHM, that's her JOB. That's what signing up for SAHM entails. If you are home, have free time, and want to help, go for it. If you are doing it because you feel guilty, well there's a book for that.
/r/askMRP19/07/17 04:02 AM
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No, it's the attitude. If she has the "I'm staying at all costs" attitude (and you've thoroughly vetted her beforehand), then the count is irrelevant. TRP idolizes plates and preaches LTRs should be low count, but that's a double standard. The count doesn't matter, it's the mental state. And she was single count when we met, but she is bi. So that works well for me. The count now is irrelevant, I know where her loyalty lies.
/r/askMRP11/07/17 04:16 AM
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Yes. "This is what I like and here is a reason why I like it.". That's great. He may agree or disagree, but he knows exactly what you like. That is excellent.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 04:07 AM
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Good for you. Most women are extremely sexual, but it is not in their best interest to show that side. If you lead, she will follow you a lot farther than you initially assume.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/17 03:59 AM
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I'll take "the lesson" as a broke little bitch who wants something for nothing. I am not special. You are not special. You deserve absolutely nothing for free, the same as the rest of us. So take your snowflake status elsewhere. The sidebar is worth the price of admission.
/r/askMRP10/07/17 01:36 AM
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So here's a quick synopsis of male thinking. We are rational/logical- to a fault. Ladies the eye contact, body language, and vocal tone you use to communicate- we mostly miss out on all of this. If you want him to take control, you need to overtly tell him. Some of us (me only in recent years) will pick up on your covert communication, but for the most part we won't it's not how we're wired. Two guys can have the same conversation via text message as in person- it's all overt communication. If y…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/17 01:31 AM
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Why be a leech on society when you have the means to pay your way?
/r/askMRP10/07/17 01:08 AM
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Same answer here. It doesn't matter. The personality matters. The attitude toward a dominant male matters. Her (as best we can perceive it) self worth matters. The dichotomy of classic TRP is plates are awesome but LTR should have a super low count. It just doesn't matter in actuality. If she has the right attitude and she checks the right boxes for you then she qualifies. And this is coming from a guy married to a single digit count girl- I wouldn't care if she was at the 50 mark. If she's hell…
/r/askMRP10/07/17 01:04 AM
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I think it happens more because the guy views the woman as "the mother of my children". And because he's "providing for his kids" she's no longer the dirty sex toy she once was. Read through the OYS posts. For the most part guys put themselves in this situation because they act like society tells them they should. It's a viscous circle.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/17 12:52 AM
2

You can read the entire sidebar for less than $75 US on e-books. Is that not a small investment towards getting your shit together for the first time in your life?
/r/askMRP10/07/17 12:46 AM
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I started with MFP, but recently switched to SparkPeople and like it better. Barcode reader works well, better than MFP at scanning uneven barcodes. Database is not quite as big as MFP but completely adequate- I think I've had only one or two items not show up in over a month of daily logging. Most importantly, you can set/track macro goals for free. MFP wants you to pay for the premium subscription to unlock custom macros
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/17 11:26 AM
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Getting defensive with a stranger on the internet is ego protection, a good indicator that you're at the very beginning of getting your head right (the hard part of TRP). If you're coming here for advice, kill your ego and listen. Maybe I'm projecting, maybe I'm not. I have posted my details in OYS, take a look and decide for yourself. She's a woman who is perfectly capable of living an adult life without you- you are the one who feels the "need" to mold her. Work your MAP, focus on self improve…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/17 10:32 AM
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No one here is your fan. If we can help a random internet dude get a clue then great. If not, who cares. You are not special, just like we are not special. Your whole post has Oneitis and Pussy-On-A-Pedestal all over it. Get to reading the sidebar. If you really apply yourself you might come out the other side a better man, the "one that she deserves.". If you do, you realize how cringe worthy your post was and how "what she deserves" is completely irrelevant.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/17 01:49 AM
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"Mommy mommy look what I learned!" NO. Just don't. It will actually make things worse instead of better. You don't even know what you don't know. MAP, STFU and do the work, Rational Male (at least the blog posts, easier to digest than the book), and you get a glimpse of how much there is to learn. After that, Pook, Poon, SGM, MMSLP, etc and you'll start to understand why what you've posted here is such a bad idea.
/r/askMRP20/06/17 09:29 PM
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Live-in LTR is getting fat and lazy? No dread. . The Special Snowflake you couldn't (or didn't) keep around makes low effort contact and you want to ditch your LTR? Serious Oneitis. . If you spent any time internalizing the core concepts this would be obvious to you.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 03:02 PM
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You're either a troll, or a hilarious example of how not to act. Hush boy, men are talking.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 11:54 PM
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It would be really awesome to have a younger (say under 21) sub for these half grown young men so these sorts of posts don't dilute the quality of the main sub. MRP is the more mature/LTR oriented sub, it would be nice to have a YRP for this stuff so TRP stays casual spinning yet adult oriented.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 11:29 PM
1

Buy a shirt that fits. That shirt is one if not two sizes too big for you. You look like a little boy borrowing clothes from his older brother.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 11:14 PM
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Don't take your foot off the gas. She's not going out of her way to be nice, she's reacting to the better man you are becoming. It sounds like you want to reward her for no longer generally treating you like shit, not for some specific event that would actually merit a reward. All of what you listed isn't special, it's normal- if you are a valuable man.
/r/askMRP12/06/17 03:31 PM
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Same reason as why she's always angry. You're going to get the same responses as last week. Your relationship needs a leader. You failed to be that leader, so she stepped into the void and by doing so lost all respect for you. ------------------> Start Reading.
/r/askMRP11/06/17 03:10 PM
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She, she, she. Skimming your post that's all I see. You're in MRP, not fix my marriage. Read the sidebar, do the work, and she will come around. Or she won't. Either way it won't matter because you've done the work and are now a valuable man with options.
/r/askMRP05/06/17 01:30 AM
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If you feel like you discovered a secret truth, like you belong here, like these guys "get you" and what you want to become- that's the time to STFU. At least regarding posting advice. If you can take or leave this place and are just checking in to maybe help some dudes out, dead bedroom is either a distant memory or a non issue, ok make a post. Essentially, if you have to ask then no, you aren't ready-.
/r/askMRP05/06/17 01:21 AM
1

What-The-Fuck is a "lifeline"? If reality reflects your typing then you received some handout from some (probably family) random benefactor. If that's the case, Fuck You. You eat what YOU pay for. That might be beans and rice if you're flat broke, but that's ok. It isn't awesome nutrition but you feed yourself for the week. If you are unable to feed yourself without outside help you are a worthless child unworthy of being here. I fucking hope I misinterpreted your post. On the off chance that I …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/17 01:40 AM
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I take this post not so much as "what is alpha music", but more of "what isn't supplicating feminist music?" Since I heard it while flipping stations on the way home from work, Bruno Mars's "what I like" is a great example of rich dude singing about beta traits. __ I like most of the songs and artists listed so far, but I find when working out it's the same as when I'm in the zone at work (tech field) - lyrics are distracting. __ I go with electronic music at these times- driving beat to get you…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 12:54 AM
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They are great if you pick and choose- they vary from awesome to just plain odd.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 12:35 AM
2

In the 70s, the furry bearded Burt Reynolds type was a stud. Then we spent all of the 80s, 90s, and 2000s in the clean-shaven-waxed-chest-is-sexy mode. Now we're back to beards. All driven by marketing. Who the fuck cares, it's irrelevant. You are an insecure little bitch. If you think lack of facial hair has anything to do with keeping you from getting laid, go fuck yourself faggot. You don't deserve to be here.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 12:28 AM
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That was my thought as well (I have a true submissive wife). She's unsure of where this is heading, which leads her hamster (who wants to be led and is uncomfortable with a lack of leadership) into hyperdrive. The good news is if OP can get his shit rock solid soonish he's got less of an uphill battle than most. If he can succeed he's in for an awesome relationship. The bad news is OP is going to have to become Captain Nemo, Captain (Henry) Morgan, and Captain America all at once. OP if you dedu…
/r/askMRP24/05/17 01:27 AM
1

I understand what you're saying, and overall I don't disagree except I see it as an optional as-needed step. __ For instance I've always been the sarcastic borderline asshole personality, but have made sure to temper that with a bit of positive reinforcement now and again to keep things light. There's a fine line between a ball breaker who's still fun to be around and a guy who's just perceived as a prick. Push pull works just fine in a social or corporate group of guys- I'm going to push and gi…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/17 12:52 AM
1

I look at DL 1-5 as fixing the man. If (again collective random example) you can look back and honestly say you've embraced and mastered 1-5, 6 is a no brainer. 6 is Mystery Method and others where they rely on game to overcome their other flaws. If you are a truly valuable man, and have a shred of experience in conversing with a mixed group, then 6 is superfluous. A hot woman is not special, she's just a random stranger you haven't yet met. M Manson Models and Carnegie's How To Win Friends and …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/17 03:38 PM
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If you can't believe it, why should anyone else? It's not a game, or a technique, or some checklist to complete. It's a mentality. Fix you, then the confidence will come naturally and you'll look back on this question and chuckle.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 12:33 PM
1

Thanks for the link Maybe this works Haha yes it does. Thanks that helps. I'm still convinced 6 is optional based in social skills, but I think we are overall on the same page.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/17 02:18 AM
3

Comfort tests are inversely proportional to your frame. If your frame is rock solid (with a history of being rock solid) it'll mostly be comfort tests. If you are new to MRP/TRP it's mostly shit tests until you put in the work and show her a verifiable timeline of maintaining your newfound frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/17 02:01 AM
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You're already out of your head. 6 or 9, doesn't matter. If you are an awesome man worth being around, the prep is the same- very minimal. She is not the prize, you are.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 01:52 AM
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Go to college for lawyer, doctor, civil engineer (PE) etc. Most if the rest, skip it and learn a trade. I can earn $85k US per year after 4 years of accumulating debt that I'll take 20 years to pay off, or I can earn the same $85k US with a tech school diploma in 8 months. And if I'm a self starter I can take my trade, start a small business, and double my money in a couple years. But yeah, college is the only way.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 01:49 AM
1

It's almost like this is a common problem and multiple authors have addressed this exact issue. If only there was a sidebar.....
/r/askTRP20/05/17 01:43 AM
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You've been practicing the tricks without comprehending the overall concept. You are the prize. You are the primary decision maker in this interaction, not her. You don't need to look away, because you are comfortable with yourself and not nervous around women. Fuck your day game. Fix your head.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 01:41 AM
1

I don't like 12 based on my experience. 2 coworkers who were absolutely raped not in asset distribution but in custody and child support by admitting infidelity. Also, if family is important (it isn't to me) prepare to be ostrasised for losing the moral high ground- Sun Tzu would not approve. I saw the original post you linked but not the later replies- there's some good stuff in there. It's a prime example (there are many more) of going too fast without understanding the concepts. I think your …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/17 01:20 AM
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We travel a lot and are routinely hanging around new friends (almost always couples) for a week or so at a time before going our separate ways. Look at this not as a test, but as a chance to have a fun time with people you know, and in doing so give your wife plenty of first hand examples as to why you're an awesome man. Because most men (sadly) aren't. The bar is set low, and you'll have examples of how not to be right in front of you (and her). The hens clucking is just noise. You are above al…
/r/askMRP19/05/17 09:23 PM
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This is hilarious coming from a guy asking about the US. With that level of internet rage I'm sure you've got what it takes to be slaying hot blondes in no time.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 07:20 PM
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I'm a firm proponent of dread, it features heavily in my relationship. I'm not a fan of the 12 sequential steps layout. Level 12 reads "sign up for financial sodomy delivered by her lawyer" in many states. If you hit level 11 and aren't content at that level, file and move on. So the 11 steps of dread- depending on the individual, 1-5 can be interchanged and/or overlap. A bb guy who's 100lbs overweight and dresses like a slob needs months of level 2 and level 5 (appearance part) before he has th…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/17 07:03 PM
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Wow 2 hours before deleting​- I'm sure that's not the record but it's still impressive
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/17 04:08 AM
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No. Not one, ever. Because they were all so butthurt and arrogantly hateful towards women that they never had a chance. For fucks sake you act like you're l lepers. Let me clue you in here, we don't have a caste system in the USA If you are a confident fit guy who has worked on being attractive and not being unattractive you'll do just fine here. That is, as long as "banging hot blondes" isn't your sole benchmark for success. We have hot brunettes, redheads, Hispanics, Africans, and Asians. "Hot…
/r/askTRP19/05/17 04:03 AM
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I am a small business owner as well, my wife is a company officer but doesn't have a day to day stake in the company outside of bookkeeping. She does however contribute a lot in the creative thinking aspect that leads to our side investments and businesses. Do you have any plans or ambitions for a new venture? Because it sounds like you would both benefit from her leaving the current business, but she wants to save face since she was an integral part of that business. If you have an idea for som…
/r/askMRP19/05/17 03:31 AM
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After reading explanation in comments, definitely leave it in the past. I don't know that you handled it particularly well, but you didn't bungle it so let it lie. " I'm not giving up on us, I'm working on fixing the things I don't like about me.". Kiss and a slap on the ass afterwards should smooth things over. It seems like there's an even split between the guys that go Rambo and the guys that check out in stoic/fog/STFU mode. Try not to be either of those guys. This isn't the guillotine of ol…
/r/askMRP19/05/17 03:21 AM
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First post in OYS, I'm not a typical case but figured it's unfair of me to post advice in other threads if I don't recognize my demons so here it goes (typed on mobile so apologies for formatting): I just accidentally stumbled onto TRP/MRP. I truly thought I was the oddball asshole 1950s family leader type until I spent a day at work bored surfing reddit. I thought​ I was an oddity, as it turns out there's a whole community of similar souls. I am not the usual dead bedroom / blue pill convert, b…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/17 03:37 AM
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It's simple - do you want to go for a run? If so, go. If not, don't go. This decision has nothing to do with her concerns if you are a strong male who knows what he wants. You obviously are not, since you are on the verge of bitching out because wifey isn't thrilled with your choice. Sidebar- ASAP. It isn't about her. It never was. It's about you and doing what you want. If you are an awesome guy she'll want to go for a run with you just to share in the fun. But you aren't there yet. So you're w…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/17 03:01 AM
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I am the very earliest of the millenials by most scales. Bounced around a lot for work as a full time employee looking for satisfaction and good pay for job requirements, never found it. STEM field, and with a wife and 2 kids and 3 months living expenses saved struck out on my own by starting a small business and contracting. Went wildly better than expected, and now I work 12-18 months and then stop and take 6-12 months off to do whatever I feel like (travel with the family mostly). Rinse and r…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/17 02:51 AM
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Most replies are way over thinking this. If you are an occasional smoker and not a fatass (thc is stored in fat cells fat people test positive longer than skinny people), here's the breakdown. 7 days, likely to pop unless you are super thin pro soccer cut body type. 10 days is iffy, cut gym rat maybe clear, beer drinking bro frat boy probably not. 14 days, unless you are a regular smoker or way over weight this is the safe zone. You will likely pass the 50mg/ml quick strip drug test. If you fail…
/r/askTRP18/05/17 02:31 AM
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This. She acted the way she did because you weren't the man you needed to be. You put in the work and now you have exactly what you were looking for when you found trp. Make sure you do a lot of introspection before moving on.
/r/askMRP17/05/17 02:47 PM
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TRP is mainly sexual strategy. If you want overall growth as a man, check out the MRP subreddit, specifically the OYS threads (own your shit). Be warned, it's not for the faint hearted.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 01:15 AM
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1) you're in high school, life's a bitch do your best. Reality doesn't apply. 2) I don't give a fuck about your height. I'm 6'2" and I couldn't care less that you are shorter than me. If you have something good to say I'll listen. The fact that you mentioned your height highlights your insecurity- fix your head. A good buddy of mine is 5'2"- I value his opinion above most of my other friends because he is one level headed guy. Height is only important in your head.. 3) You are still in high scho…
/r/askTRP17/05/17 01:08 AM
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DGAF and Reputation Is Everything are not mutually exclusive. But neither one can be applied universally. DGAF about whether women think you're a player- some will bail but to many the preselection works in your favor. DGAF if someone gets butthurt at you because you acted in a way you thought best. If you approach an issue logically, make a principled decision, and someone gets pissed about the result, DGAF. You did what you thought was right, who cares what they think. The Reputation Is Everyt…
/r/askTRP15/05/17 11:49 PM
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You were doing good until you opened your mouth. You said, in essence "Thank you for allowing me to pleasure you.". How does that sound to you? Might as well add a "Milady" to the end of that. "Thank you for initiating a random bj and swallowing with a smile" - maybe that'll fly. A pat on the head and a "that's my girl" would be better, but perhaps thank you works for random bj praise in your relationship.
/r/askMRP15/05/17 11:30 PM
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2 options, best will depend on you as individual and your personal relationship. A) DGAF. Let her snoop if she wants, you are fixing you and she may or may not be around for the end result. If she is she's fully accepted her new captain, if she blows up you would have ended up leaving her anyway. This is the honest path, but it's a tough one to walk and you better be one stoic motherfucker. B) Dive deep and hide.....for now. If you feel your frame is weak and you're coming from a 100% blue pill …
/r/askMRP15/05/17 11:15 PM
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You just used "had logical discussions with her" and "I stayed alpha" in a bitch puke about why your LTR doesn't want crazy sex with you anymore. The whole post reads like you are trying to troubleshoot why your car won't work. You "stayed alpha" yet she has no dread after gaining commitment from you? No you didn't. You "applied sex god method" and she didnt respond? No you didn't. You've got a long way to go, because you've been going through the motions without internalizing the concepts. Intr…
/r/askTRP15/05/17 04:22 PM
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37, been shaving my head daily (electric razor, super quick) for a decade. If you have weak frame and are self conscious about it, women and men will pick up on it and shit test you constantly. If you are a bad motherfucker with no fucks to give no one will say a word. If people (wife included) are giving you shit, keep working on you. The noise will fade with time and enough work. If you are solid and the noise doesn't fade, consider removing the shit talkers from your life (wife included) beca…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/17 02:28 AM
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Writing reply based on being a small business owner who is constantly gaining/losing business based in the whims of industry. The golden rule is this: Good Things Come To Those That Fucking Hustle. Every day you need to be pursuing leads. Doesn't matter that all my guys are busy, I'm chatting up everyone that will listen. Currently my (very small) company is working at 100% capacity- I don't have an hour to spare for anyone. But I'm still talking to anyone that will listen. I live or die based o…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/17 02:19 AM
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Most of the USA claims to be Christian? That's a broad statement. Most of the USA shows up at church for Easter and Christmas- maybe that statement is true, but that still seems too strong for me to believe. Either way, MRP is amoral. This is social biology, not theology. Religion can come or go, it has no bearing here. Also, if you want a relative opinion, try /rpwives it /rpwomen. You won't get a lot of traction here.
/r/askMRP15/05/17 02:02 AM
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If she is truly nothing but green flags, and you are truly the living incarnation of Chad Thundercock, then she's just fine for LTR. If you are truly awesome, she will open the door for strange pussy to be included in the somewhat near future just for variety. But this is the 100-1 shot. So keep that in mind. Is it worth cheating on her just for new pussy- no not by itself. Pussy is similar the world over. If there are things she won't do, yes go find strange that will. If she is DTF with nothin…
/r/askTRP13/05/17 01:48 AM
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No, absolutely not. Don't dance around it. Answer it head on and escalate. Them:. "How much are you making"? Me:. "If you are insecure enough to ask, more than you." Them: "What us your actual job title"? Me: "Since you are so concerned, King if Awesomeness." These questions, coming from friends, family, or co-workers, are an attempt at validation on their part. They want to know how they compare. I'm older than most here, and I run a successful small business in an industry where I'm consistent…
/r/askTRP13/05/17 01:31 AM
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She hasn't delivered the "I love you but I'm not in love with you" talk so you aren't on the brink of no return. But you aren't in awesome​ territory either. Stop worrying about what she thinks. Jesus Christ you're the captain of the ship, you make the decisions. You are not in MRP to make your wife happy. You are here to fix yourself and find your own happiness- it's great if that includes your wife but if it doesn't that's ok too. As another mentioned, "the subtle art of not giving a fuck" is …
/r/askMRP13/05/17 01:15 AM
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This. The overall message is the same in TRP and MRP, but TRP is heavily weighted toward success laying women as the age bracket trends much younger and they often don't have the maturity/experience/resources to work on (or even see the need to work on) the whole man. MRP trends towards mature, successful (at least moderately) guys with careers who realize the feminist ideal they've taken for granted all these years and the often lauded supportive-provider-to-his-special-snowflake mentality are …
/r/askMRP12/05/17 09:51 PM
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She's fine with the acts, just not with you. "I got blackout drunk and did this one thing one time only and have regretted it ever since" ok maybe chalk that up to young and dumb. But multiple similarly submissive acts on multiple occasions and now she's "just not that type of woman" indicates you're just not the right type of man. She thinks that a hard no is acceptable- your dread isn't working as well as you think. You're also butthurt. If she won't, the next one will. Your kids will be just …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/17 01:18 AM
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Don't worry about the reasons why, don't read into every conversation looking for clues. It doesn't matter what she did or didn't do, did or didn't think, it's over. Salt the ground, kick the dust off, and walk on. Fix you. You're right, you caused it. Either character weakness or simple ignorance, doesn't matter. You've realized the problem now fix it. Commit to never having this situation again in your life. Teach your sons. My anecdotal observations lead me to believe that your sons are far l…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/17 01:03 AM
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Females follow fashion trends- they often don't have a clue what looks good on themselves, much less what makes a guy look good. Bandau bikinis and peasant tops for top of my head examples. Second the gay guy suggestion if you aren't willing to do the research yourself. 2 guns link is a good start unless you live in an extremely casual area ( I do). Edit: autocorrect fail
/r/askMRP11/05/17 11:59 PM
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Congrats I guess, but that's just the intro. The red pill is often good advice, but it's also a bunch of young dudes pretending they know what's going on. Married Red Pill is older demographic, takes absolutely no shit, and will change your life for the better if you are willing to brave the fire. And let me reiterate, your female problems are your problems, not hers. See you there
/r/askTRP11/05/17 01:44 AM
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"my wife is not a sex driven person" LOL, she is, just not with you. Get yourself over to MRP. Be prepared for no back-peddling, hardcore you're a fucking faggot call outs. Because you need them. Open your eyes, figure out what's wrong with you that caused this situation (newsflash it's you not her) and be prepared for some tough love. If you survive to the other side you will be a better man than you ever thought possible.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 01:28 AM
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Hell no. SJW is the new normal. Feminism on turbo mode. Everyone is butthurt about an comment ever made publicly. Which part if this sounds positive to TRP?
/r/askTRP10/05/17 01:13 AM
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Nothing dries a vag like a clinical diagnosis. How about this- work on becoming the super confident always a good time sex god that you could be- believe me that bar isn't nearly as high as you think. Who the fuck cares "what kind if lover" you used to be. You've been exposed to the red pill. What kind if lover are you now? Btw, SGM is solid gold. Read that, quit rationalizing, have awesome sex, and enjoy the rest of your life.
/r/askMRP10/05/17 01:08 AM
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A couple of concerns, though overall it's a huge improvement over the usual victim puke/ validate through her bullshit that comes here. Overall good, congrats you're making progress. On mobile here so specific quotes aren't easy: "Request a blowjob"- no dude that ever deserved a blowjob had to request one. If she isn't volunteering, grab her by the back of the neck or by the base of the hair and initiate said blowjob. If she isn't receptive you have self improvement to do. "I tell her everything…
/r/askMRP10/05/17 12:24 AM
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You're wife got what she deserved, you got butthurt. There were several ways to spin it, shoulder devil suggested a good one. "I can't be bothered to police the preschool" attitude would be another. Also, you are subconsciously intimidated by the bro in law and/or the family hierarchy places him above you. If you are the biggest swinging dick in the room that situation doesn't happen.
/r/askMRP08/05/17 11:56 PM
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Somehow never watched Gattaca. Adding it to the To Do list thanks.
/r/askMRP08/05/17 11:44 PM
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It's a B movie. I'll say that up front. But it has a lot of good points and has an excellent example of why your ego will fuck you over if you placate it.
/r/askMRP08/05/17 02:12 AM
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You're missing the point. The difference between a virgin and a dude that had crappy meaningless sex for 30 seconds with a random female is absolutely zero. You still don't have a clue how to please a woman. But you've made this benchmark of life based on having sex. Yes it's a big deal if you haven't. But once you have you'll realize it's not. Fix you. I know it's a big deal at a certain age. I was there, I remember the frustration. I also remember the time immediately afterwards where it doesn…
/r/askTRP08/05/17 02:05 AM
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Like your breakdown, but it's just too verbose for me. Like Rollo, why use two sentences to express a point when you can use 2 pages. Not throwing shade, good post. But for those of us Cliff's notes types, consider this: She doesn't give a fuck about your value overall. She's concerned about her value compared her idea of yours. If you've been a bitch for years then her value doesn't need to be high to still outrank you. Fix the man. That is the goal, which the OP touched on. If you fix you, you…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/17 01:52 AM
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Something others aren't wearing. I'm dating myself, but I remember when Cool Water, CK One, and Chrome came out. They were hot for a minute, and they quickly dropped down to "that scent everybody wears". Nowadays they are truck stop bathroom smells. Fuck I'm old. Anyway, the moral if this story is pick something different. I wear John Varvatos in cool weather. I get a lot of complements and no one ever knows what it is. In warm weather I wear Hugo Boss because it's a great light scent and it nev…
/r/askTRP08/05/17 01:33 AM
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I couldn't read past the "telling girls your a virgin" crap. Here's a bit of advice from an older guy- It doesn't matter. It's a big deal to you and no one else. Shut the fuck up and go get your dick wet. You aren't chasing a special unicorn who will adore you forever, you're trying to get laid. Seriously, if your first time you're a bad lay, who gives a fuck. Get laid, check it off the list, and then move on- it's not a big deal. If you are a young guy discovering TRP, here's the big message- i…
/r/askTRP08/05/17 01:23 AM
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Adding my $.02 instead of just replies: My wife (sahm) goes to the grocery store(s) once for the week. We eat a modified Paleo diet so it takes a couple stops. After that, I pick what I'm making for supper (I really like to cook and schedule usually works out) or I send a text with instructions for supper if schedule conflicts. This is an easy chance for leadership. Pick something- if she has strong feelings towards something else she'll voice them and you can decide at that point if you really …
/r/askMRP07/05/17 03:35 AM
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Like her being teleported to the Sahara
/r/askMRP07/05/17 03:25 AM
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Please tell me you've watched Slums of Beverly Hills. Sizzler is a keystone to the movie, and an interesting Hollywood "case study" on ego. Plus, Alan Arkin and Marissa Tomei.
/r/askMRP07/05/17 03:24 AM
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Dude do you have ANY guy in your life that is tuned in and you could call? Because it sounds like you are yo-yoing quite a bit. That's not a bad thing, you're owning your shit and making strides. But if you know a guy you'd trust to call up so he'd clear your head when you're feeling butthurt, it might level out your swings a bit. Anyways, keep fighting the good fight.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/17 01:09 AM
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Not free, but cheap and nationally recognized: Apply for Mensa and take their (usually) monthly admissions test. Iirc it costs about $50. If you pass you are admitted, and you've scored in the top 2% of people in your country. You can also order their practice test and submit it for scoring- they will return a somewhat vague answer of "you would-likely/would-be/would-not-likely pass the official timed/proctored admissions test. Around $25, or was a few years ago. Also many psychologists are qual…
/r/askTRP06/05/17 12:59 AM
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If you are wearing modern, fashionable glasses and you feel like they are holding you back- you've got a lot to work on. She doesn't care about your glasses. She doesn't care about your clothes or haircut (as long as they are half decent). She cares about your attitude and how you project yourself. With the right frame you can show up in a clown suit and it won't fucking matter.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 12:20 AM
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Fix you, to the point you can honestly reflect and feel awesome about yourself in all respects. Once you are there, wait 6 months or so (maybe more, depends on personal situation). There's a time lag between you starting the new you and her noticing the new you, and then her coming around to the new better you.. Give her an honest chance to catch up. After that, decide what you want and go do it. You wake up tomorrow with one less day on this planet. Don't waste time being unhappy.
/r/askMRP05/05/17 12:14 AM
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You fingered your wife until she got off, congrats. But that's just for the warm-up. Fingers are rough, especially if you don't keep your nails super short and your hands moisturized. Either way, one O with the hand max, then it's time for a Vitamin D supplement. Btw, sounds like you could really benefit from reading Sex God Method. And her bitching is a good chance for A and A. "That's right it was rough, you were a fucking waterfall, and I let you off easy. Next time you'll be bouncing off my …
/r/askMRP03/05/17 11:48 PM
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This can still work today, it's not just a daydream back to 1950s America. It's been working well for me for a decade. But my situation is a bit different than the average MRP poster. That being said, if you're on here asking for advice on the topic, your goals are in the right place but you don't yet have the frame to make it work. She asks, that's a small positive- at least she isn't demanding. You making overt contract "look at me, look at me, I'm the captain now"- that's super weak. If you h…
/r/askMRP02/05/17 11:45 PM
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So sex doesn't count, taking care of your daily habitation needs doesn't count, cooking you meals to ease your burden and provide variety doesn't count, providing an alternate (and not necessarily contradictory) viewpoint doesn't count. Dude just go be a monk already. Women are not the enemy. Their gender is complimentary to the male gender. There are some messed up self entitled women, no doubt. There's also some angry raging at the world men (op?) If you think you are a well rounded man and ca…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 01:24 AM
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Dude you don't need professional help, you need a couple pointers and a mirror. Post a pic or two of "normal, comfortable you posture.". Ask for help. Posture and outward behavioral signs are the easy part. The inner mental mindfucks that cause the outward appearance issues is where the hard work happens.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 01:12 AM
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You do you. Be the very best you possible. That's the message here. You spent a couple hours of your life for $12.75,- you lost money there. You'd have been better off monetarily delivering pizzas. But that doesn't matter, because you had fun and presented yourself in a socially vulnerable way while rising above the nerves and having fun. That's the key- showing some vulnerability and not giving a fuck. There's plenty of dudes here that talk a lot of shit about their numbers and their "alpha fra…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 02:55 AM
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WTF. It's like TRP is the fucking kiddy pool and MRP is the deep end. Young Gentlemen, this is good stuff. Not because you are a weak young man who doesn't understand life and bristles at the idea of showing any possible weakness to anyone, but because a truly complete man understands there's a time and a place for everything. If you have any success in life at all, there will be a time when you have to professionally criticize someone. If you learn how to do so without offending them your occup…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 02:35 AM
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Just so we're clear, you "grabbed the frame", waffled, and then are worried about what she's thinking? You went through the motions without having a clue what's going on. If you are interested, escalate. Fortune favors the bold. If you aren't interested, stay civil and friendly as long as she does the same and don't worry about it. If you are concerned about what she did/said/intended you didn't have the frame, you entered the frame. You do you. If she's interested and you are as well, great. If…
/r/askTRP29/04/17 02:15 AM
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