I've been a lurker for a while, and now I would like to get some feedback from people who is not going to be all judgmental about the morality of my actions.

First, some background. I had known TRP for several years, but I only swallowed the pill less than a year ago. I've never been alpha but I had my share of fun when I was younger (now 42). I got married 4 years ago with my then GF of 2 years (she's now 31). We have a 20 months old toddler, and since the boy is here, she started being more and more irritable, to nag me, to be less sexually available and in general to be a less pleasant person to be around. Bluepilled me assigned those flaws to her being "stressed" and "overwhelmed" by maternity. I tried to be "patient" and "understanding," but of course it didn't help. She disrespected almost every day, and I didn't know what to do. Around my son's first birthday, I decided to take TRP seriously and use it to improve my marriage. I started to save some time for me, going to the gym and reading, I stopped failing her shittests, I took my place as the head of the house, instead of letting her decide about everything. It has worked wonders, the disrespect ended, and sex became fun again. I know I have a long way to go, but things are going well and looking good.

Now the current situation. This female acquittance, who is way hotter than my wife, has suddenly grown an interest. She's married, but started wanting to meet me in private. She's not overly flirtatious, but her attitude is not just friendly. The other day she hinted to come to visit me a day I was alone at home, but later stepped back. It is clear she is not indifferent about me, and might be expecting me to make a move. But I can't convince myself to actually make a move. It's not that I've been 100% faithful, but the only other woman I've sex with since we are together is a former friend with benefits who wanted to have "one more night before you get married."

My questions are: General opinions about cheating? If you have cheated, was it worth?