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| 3 | Take a Penny, Leave a Penny - Field ReportFreakin awesome post. It's clear you've internalized all the best bits of MRP. Grats. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/05/21 03:36 AM |
| 2 | Would you do it all again?OP, listen to this. There is no upside to getting married right now. Your SMV is still climbing, and in ten years, you will be able to find a much better girl. | /r/askMRP | 06/12/20 03:25 PM |
| – | What it’s like to talk to 5 different girls (or guys) on the street during every lunch break. Also known as “Cold Approach”.Yeah, the first time I did a cold approach on the street of NYC, it took me 20 minutes of working up the courage to do it. Now I can do it any time, any where. | /r/seduction | 14/04/20 04:01 AM |
| 4 | What it’s like to talk to 5 different girls (or guys) on the street during every lunch break. Also known as “Cold Approach”.No, it means he's not attractive enough so he has to calibrate things down a bit and be less aggressive. But I would argue if this isn't happening to you once in a while, you're being too much of a pussy. | /r/seduction | 14/04/20 04:00 AM |
| 3 | Is she trying to dance?Hell yeah. Girls don't touch a guy "by accident." She was hoping you were going to open her. One piece of advice: when this happens, act immediately. Open her right away. Otherwise you lose momentum and you look weak. | /r/seduction | 14/04/20 03:58 AM |
| 2 | What are some sexual things you can say to a woman during a cold approach that are not directly explicit but are suggestive and could have a sexual meaning?Look, girls like subtlety. You can be sexual in a clever, understated way, but if you act like a caveman (that part comes after the clothes come off), then it ruins the mood. Important: this is the case even if the girl brings it up. Once I was chatting up some Brazilian girls and one of them said "what do you think about one night stands?" I said "I'm in favor of it." That conversation came to a screeching halt. I should have said, "what's that" or "I think you need two, one for each side of th… | /r/seduction | 19/03/20 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Are girls just attracted to certain people at certain times? Randomly finding people attractive they didnt find attractive the day before?yes of course. women's ovulation has a huge effect on their receptivity and the kind of men she's attracted to | /r/seduction | 19/03/20 09:06 PM |
| 1 | 2 FRs. One brunetter, one blondeThey do to me | /r/seduction | 19/03/20 09:04 PM |
| 8 | [FR] My Affair, Her Husband, and Getting CaughtLol. Sex with a married woman is unbelievable. There are no 30+ women who are 9 or 10s but there are some who are 8s, who used to be 9 or 10. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/03/20 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 22, 2019How the fuck do I know how much I’m worth? Another basic rule of negotiation: it's not what you think you're worth that matters. What matter is what you're worth to THEM. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/19 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 22, 2019I've been on the other side a lot. And basic rule of negotiation is that you have to make them feel like they got a win. They won't think that if you don't counter and ask for something more. Another 10K, or options, etc. If you don't ask for more, they're going to think they offered too much. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/19 06:26 AM |
| 9 | I almost lost my marriage of 32 years and turned it around in 3 months.Share! I want to hear about "Amy" ... Congrats to you bro. This is inspiring, and I am so glad for you. At some point, you will turn your attention to yourself and becoming the best you that you can be. That is even better. Really. You think that getting as much sex as you want from your wife is the bomb, and it is, but looking to yourself for validation and pushing yourself because you want to see how great you can become, that is going to feel even better. You'll get to a point where you don't… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/10/19 05:33 PM |
| 4 | I almost lost my marriage of 32 years and turned it around in 3 months.Yes, this is true, but I think there are factors that can shorten the timeline. Of course, if you push too fast too hard, it can blow up in your face. I think the relative value of the man and the optionality for the woman can play a significant role. In this case, the fact that losing OP would have been financially devastating for his wife probably accelerated the timeline, as well as the fact that it would be very difficult for her to branch swing as a 57 yo woman with a disabled child. A guy … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/10/19 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Help with girlfriendThe only thing I would add is: OP, your GF does not find you attractive. By "healthy" relationship, she means boring, passionless. She probably had all kinds of kinky sex with her previous BFs that you will never ever see. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/10/19 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Four Year UpdateMid 40s, but most people think I look about 35. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/07/19 09:10 PM |
| 5 | Four Year UpdateI think it's 50% looks (including being ripped) and 50% game (including confidence). I avoid talking about my work or net worth because that tends to make girls want something more serious and that's the last thing I want. Most girls are in the dark about what I do. In terms of looks, I always thought of myself as a 7 when I was younger, based on my success rate with girls. I mostly got 7s in my youth. In retrospect, I was probably more of an 8 in terms of looks, but my beta tendencies were some… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/07/19 08:56 PM |
| 8 | Four Year UpdateI know, right? I've been pondering why so many MRPers have this experience of becoming very attractive to women. It's a high proportion, especially if you consider the fact that for every woman who approaches, there are probably 7 or 8 who want to but can't work up the nerve to so. I have a hypothesis that fit men 30 - 45 years old are like fit women 19 - 22 years old. Most women who are 20 and fit are pretty attractive because they're at their optimal age. Same with men, and fortunately we have… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/07/19 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 09, 2019OP, your wife is not just a lost cause, I think she might be crazy. I'm talking literally crazy. She may need drugs. I'm not joking. That shit she says is not normal. No normal woman would say those things to her own kids. Or even someone else's kids. Get her to a shrink. Stat. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/07/19 11:52 PM |
| 3 | Wife's permissionJack10, I miss him... The important part of that comment by him is A few years ago, I was watching the Sopranos with my wife on DVD. After one of those episodes that highlighted the anguish Carmela feels because she has to look the other way when it comes to Tony's comares, my wife said to me: "I don't worry about you cheating on me. I do sometimes wonder if you'll ever tell me you're just going to start seeing other women, because I think I'd basically just have to accept it." It sort of caught… | /r/askMRP | 26/06/19 02:53 AM |
| 4 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 11, 2019It's been a long time since my last OYS. Every time I post, it sounds like humblebrag, so I try not to, but I thought I'd give a quick update. I've pretty much plateaued on the lifting. I'm where I'd like to be, and I've cut back to lifting every third day or so. I've had to cut back on the caloric intake as well, so keep my body fat where it is. Sex with wife is on demand, but as I've mentioned before, with the wife goggles off, I'm not so interested as much now. I'm still studying PUA with a v… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/19 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 21, 2019WTF? Keep reading grasshopper. You never have to answer to women. Nor they to you. MRP is not about women, it's about you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/05/19 01:21 AM |
| 1 | [FR] My Main EventFirst off, unless she’s a retard she's very sure that your fucking other women. I agree. And you know what? She would rather share you than to lose you. Spin away. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/05/19 12:53 AM |
| 3 | [FR] My Main EventI agree with SBIII. Even you're the hottest thing walking, and it sounds like you're close, I doubt the sex can be consistently that good. I mean, yes, once in a while, especially when she is mate guarding, or she knows you're about to leave her. But, you're trying to negotiate desire. You can't make her lust after you by telling her to. You could engender it by making her worried you're going to leave her, but man, that's a lot of work... Also, remember that extramarital sex is alway hotter tha… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/05/19 12:49 AM |
| 7 | Marriage after Dread Level 12 (see also “Spin Plates with Caution” or “How to be Happy with What You’ve Got”)OP, I will tell you a Red Pill truth: most women don't mind if their alpha husband sleeps around so long as he treats her well, puts her first, and doesn't embarrass her. Swallow that. Not all men can handle that bit of truth: that monogamy is not important to most women if their man is high value enough. However, I agree with RStonePT and most other posters: you need to work on yourself. You are not happy because you are not working on you. Sex is secondary. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/03/19 01:32 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Careful how (and if ever) let your wife take lead in bed.. Major shit test can ensue- OP may never recover"Stop calling me gay or I will hit you over the head with my Gucci handbag" There is only one reason women call you gay: shit test. 100% of the time. I actually get this a lot, because I'm a bit metrosexual. I''l be chatting up some woman, her buying temperature is going up. Then she launches this shit test. But 80% of the time, if I pass the shit test, she's ready to jump into bed. OP, your wife just did something she should only do to a dominant man. She's trying to reassure herself she … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/02/19 04:43 AM |
| 2 | [FR] - Wedding RingI need to get me to a crawfish party | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/11/18 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 30, 2018It's been a while since my last OYS. Things are continuing to improve, if it can be believed. Sex with the wife is still on demand, though as I said before, my attraction to her has diminished. When I swallowed the pill, I thought she was HB8.5, but I now realize she's more of 6.5, while I am now getting IOI left and right all the time from HB7 and 8s. (I know we toss around 7s and 8s like cheap bottle of beer so let me quantify. If I go into a club at Vegas with 5,000 people, of whom let's say … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/11/18 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 30, 2018Not a trick. It happens all the time... if you have high enough SMV. But if your SMV is low, things can backfire, badly. It helps these were ONS rather than real relationships. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/11/18 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 30, 2018Athol retracted the 10 sec kiss rec. Too often it backfires. It can work, but your SMV has to be high enough, you have to have push-pull, not just pull (if you don't know it, look it up) and your wife has to have the same or higher thermostat setting than you: The thermostat | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/11/18 01:20 AM |
| 4 | The cruise. A field report.Yeah, they're almost never 9, and I'd be the first one to say there are no HB9 who are over 30, ... but... his wife is black. They can look 20 years younger than they are, just like Asians. And black women who are married to white guys... are almost always really hot. Like, they're usually in the 0.01% of the black population. So I believe him. The part I find hard to believe? A cop who doesn't want to cheat on his wife... I've like never heard of that. It's like a realtor or a pilot or a firema… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/11/18 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Prenup...for meWell, if it falls apart over this, you've dodged a bullet. Really. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/10/18 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Prenup...for meShe can help you sure, but why get married? What's wrong with shacking up? I think it's great you're giving up the 25 yo girls for a 48 yo, but really, getting married? What for? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/10/18 12:17 AM |
| 0 | High SMV Shit TestsThis is a fail. Make out? You don't leave a set until she walks away. Burn it to the ground. F-close or nothing. Don't wuss out. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/18 08:18 AM |
| 2 | Do you want to be right? Or do you want to be effective?Is there a point to this post? Devoid of any content. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/07/18 08:13 AM |
| 1 | My naiveté got me into a hypergamy scheme and my company sided with the girl.Hey, they might not be "talking positive" but all the chicks, inside they're dying to bone you. You can probably have sex with just about any chick you'd like over there. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/18 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Xpost From TRP: What my mother blessed me with.Not just that. This is a perfect example of showing vulnerability from a position of strength. This is what "Models" talks about--show your vulnerability without an iota of shame or weakness. "This is who I am, and I am comfortable with it." No wonder he slays pussy. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/07/18 01:42 AM |
| 4 | 3 Year MRP progressYeah, I don't what is with the other guys jumping all over you. You like your wife. You want to be kind to her. That's cool. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/06/18 01:30 AM |
| 2 | 3 Year MRP progressI think this is a bit harsh. Gearsmurf is not saying it's wrong to game. He's saying he's not into it. That's fine. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/06/18 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Playing with dynamite… again?PUA has come a long way in the last 10 years. Go check it out. No more "where's the pet store at?" No more canned routines. There's a lot more focus on inner game, and the theoretical frameworks are much better fleshed out. Both PUA today and MRP are much more focused on becoming a better you than "cheat codes" to get to an endpoint. | /r/askMRP | 28/06/18 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 12, 2018Full access to all accounts and documents (she wants access to my journal again). Access to my location (always-on GPS tracking via my phone). Complete transparency (no private thoughts). Stop. Rewind. It sounds like she has had an affair in the past. She thinks you're cheating because she has cheated in the past. The rape accusation may be because she's pycho (quite likely) or because when women have sex when they don't want to have sex, it feels like rape even when it isn't. Seriously, I would… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/06/18 11:41 PM |
| 0 | Got a girls number by telling her I have a tiny dick.It is if she volunteers it. [EDIT] Now that I've read down to the bottom, it's clear you were wrong. Context is everything. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/18 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Plate found "The Art of Seduction" in my bookshelfI don't read them, I only look at the pictures. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 22, 2018No, a good PUA can build attraction with almost any woman. Not that they WILL with every woman, but they can take a woman who feels no attraction at first and get them to be hot and heavy. Men get turned on like a light switch, women (usually) get turned on like a thermostat. You have to have the skills though. It goes like this: 1) Open (approach) 2) Hook (they start asking you questions) 3) Build attraction (push-pull, negs, get them to invest/chase, DHV, tease, social proof, etc.) 4) Build co… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/05/18 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 22, 2018Damn, more than 2.5 years since I swallowed the pill. Fitness Cut back on lifting to every 3rd day, patly because the weights are so high now that I need 2 days to recover, and partly because I'm bulked enough to make me satisfied, and partly because at my age, I'm starting to strain my tendons as I go up more. Career and Finances Kicking ass. No complaints there. My team at work is first rate. It's my second greatest pleasure, to see my team in action just kicking our competition's butt all ove… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/05/18 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Establishing an “Emotional Connection” With a WomanYou don't have enough OI then. It has to be stated in a way that comes from being 100% OK with the vulnerability, It's very very hard to be 100% comfortable with your weakness. Being comfortable with your weakness is a huge display of strength. Read "Models" - the greatest turn-on for a woman is a guy who doesn't give shit about his shortcomings. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/05/18 06:38 AM |
| 0 | How To Approach Women With ConfidenceThis is crap post. It's obvious it's made up and the OP has no real life experience approaching chicks. You never, ever ask stupid and boring questions like "where are you from?" That is a death sentence. She's heard that question before and it will instantly dry up her pussy. NEVER DO THAT. And "I gotta go": WRONG, You never self eject. Stay and fucking grind it out.. Never eject. That is PUA 101. Make her leave, You can't tell how well it's going based on her responses, It may look like you're… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 06:46 AM |
| 15 | How to Win at Day Game – 3 Keys for Attracting Women During the DayYup. Don't make excuses not to approach. For example, you're sitting next to a cute girl on a subway train. She's got her headphones on, a resting bitch face, and she's tapping away on her phone. Should you open? Hell yeah. I open those girls all the time. I love it when they have headphones on because if they remove and leave the headphones out of their ears after you've opened them, you know you've hooked them. Plus, opening chicks who have their headphones on is a great display of confidence.… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/18 11:12 PM |
| 15 | My most recent success after two years of TRP“We won’t see each other again, right? That’s not your thing, is it?” This is always the biggest surprise to me. She sleeps with you even though her logical mind knows she’s not important to you. There are girls who will fuck you for fun, even if they have no intention of a LTR with you. Remember, women love sex as much as men do. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/18 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Tactics for practice to keep your gaming skills sharp?Opening line doesn't matter, except you don't want to compliment the chick unless it's a direct open. Even then, you want to follow with a neg. | /r/askMRP | 22/05/18 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Tactics for practice to keep your gaming skills sharp?Plus, they're hot. | /r/askMRP | 22/05/18 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Need help [x-post from /r/marriedredpill]"My wife claims I was flirting with her" Right response: "I always flirt with by side pieces." "Maybe because you don't know what flirting is is the reason you never got any action in high school." Right response: "Exactly. And that's why I'm not getting any action now either." You have no frame. Read. Lift. | /r/askMRP | 22/05/18 12:53 AM |
| -5 | Establishing an “Emotional Connection” With a WomanNo. When they say they want emotional connection, what they mean is that they want to see vulnerability. It's like Top Gun or Guardians of the Universe, where they have a macho guy who is perfect in every way, but makes them more human because they lost their parent when they were young. Most, or many guys, are afraid to show weaknesses. We try to the tough guy. Women know that we are not showing the weakness because we're afraid, not because we are so perfect. It takes real strength to show our… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/05/18 12:43 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 24, 2018I’m spoken with my wife about opening up my side of the relationship. I don’t want to cheat and cover things up. I’d rather get my needs met in an open agreement where I don’t have to remember a bunch of op-sec. We spoke for a while and I listened to the nature of her concerns. She’s agreed that I can go have flings out of town as long as I have no more contact with the women afterwards. She was quite hostile when she agreed to this, and later said she’s not sure if she’d still want to be with m… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/05/18 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 24, 2018Yeah, I've been struggling with drinking for a while. I now manage to keep it to only Fri/Sat for the most part but when I drink, I drink. It's very hard, and I've been fluctuating between keeping it under control and not. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/05/18 04:57 AM |
| 2 | One year progress reportDude, my wife was almost as bad as yours, but the difference is that when we got together initially, the sex was great, before declining. You've never had great sex with your wife. I don't know if it's ever going to get great. You might want to cut your losses especially since you have no kids. And keep lifting. You can still raise your SMV substantially. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/05/18 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 27, 2018Yeah, my wife doesn't want to take trips either. Low priority for her. I just take them on my own or with friends now. That's fine. It's just more opportunity to game. My wife isn't living up to my standards either. And unfortunately for her, my standards just keep on going up as I continue to improve myself. I vacillate between pulling the ripcord and just spinning plates on the side. It appears that my wife is OK about plates so long as I don't rub it in her face, and I am not sure that out of… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/04/18 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 27, 2018She then tells me that she likes sex, is interested in sex, but just doesn’t want to have sex with me. Yup. She's being honest with you. At least she has some degree of self awareness. That evening I go out with a male friend for the first time in a long time. We watch basketball and drink for free because the bar owner is a client of mine. Exactly the right thing to do. Good job, you're taking control of your life for the first time in a long time. Keep it up. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/04/18 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 27, 2018How are you measuring it? If you're using a scale that measures conductance, it doesn't work. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/04/18 12:15 AM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 20, 2018So, I'm about 2.5 years into MRP now. Hard to believe it's been that long. Fitness is on point. Finances, on point. Sex, on demand. Alcoholism, doing better. I've been working on inner game really hard, and continuing to learn about PUA. I'm reached a point where I'm very centered and comfortable with myself. I'm becoming comfortable with my weaknesses and things I don't like about myself and accepting it. As strange as it sounds, most of the recent growth has come from learning PUA. See, you ca… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/03/18 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 20, 2018If you're going to do this shit, you need to first accept that you'll be OK if your marriage blows up. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/03/18 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Long term field report which even boggled my mind...oh wait, not really.I used to think like this when I was blue pill. What I've realized is that most women expect that men are like them--that is to say, hypergamous. Many women know that they have a choice of 1) high quality man who has plenty of opportunities to cheat and will probably cheat or 2) lower quality man who won't have an option to cheat. Their preferences are, in order of preference 1) A man who is high enough quality to have options but chooses not to cheat. 2) A man who is high enough quality to have… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/18 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 13, 2018Well, it's been an interesting few weeks. My drinking was really becoming a problem. I was starting to have almost blackout drunk sessions in public. It was affecting my health, my game was going to shit, and one night, squandered a chance to bang an HB8.5 model who was all over me at bar. I even posted a shit drunk post on this sub that I deleted when I became sober. So I cut way back, to max of one drink a night and that was going well until this week. Well, I need to get back on the wagon. Al… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/03/18 04:14 AM |
| 0 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 13, 2018Cholesterol means jack. They've already removed LDL from the AHA guidelines. I guarantee doctors will stop treating cholesterol within the next 10 years. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/03/18 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 13, 2018Great post, Congrats on your progress. Keep it up. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/03/18 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Divorced RP after 50they don't yet understand the sexuality of the 50-plus woman. For example: A lot of these older gals have their hands full with shagging men in their 40s and younger (the guys who swipe “like” for every woman on Tinder). SMV calculations therefore look rather different than you might have expected. I don't think so. Their SMV is pretty low. They're desperately trying to hold onto their past with indiscriminate sex. I wouldn't even pay any attention to 50+. Look at the 30 yo women instead. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/03/18 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 27, 201812 wk is short. It's probably not going to work. But if SBIII wants to eject, then he can pull the cord. He's giving her a little bit of a chance to turn around but if she doesn't, he'll move on. That's OK. Sorry about your loss, OP. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/03/18 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 27, 2018Good first post. Validation seeking is a bitch. I don't give a fuck what other people think about things that are objective and impersonal--for example, if I do a kick ass job on something at work, or fix something at home that works properly--but whether I'm attractive or not, that is almost by definition dependent on external validation. I've weaned myself off my wife--I no longer care if she finds me attractive, but I'm afraid I've become addicted to validation from other women. Now I get my … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/03/18 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 27, 2018this thing rambles way more than even my normal stuff You gave me PTSD right there. The next day, I was upstairs and saw a picture of a beautiful girl on instagram...and I just KNEW I was good enough for her. That someone like that would be lucky to have me. Yeah, you are realizing you have options. You're starting to get OI. And suddenly a wave of euphoria...I felt so good, so free, so ready to move through my life. Everything opened up. I saw my life as it was, and got excited for my life movi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/03/18 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 13, 2018hit gym, and lost 40lb that's great, excellent start She works part time in a very prestigious profession and has taken on some extra hours lately to help a coworker. Hm, an orange flag. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/02/18 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 13, 2018Painful read. I didn't read all of it. how much of the libido problem was her hormones and how much was my being a “drunk captain”. You know the answer to that already. You are not going to have another kid, are you? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/02/18 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 13, 2018Short OYS this week. Testosterone is kicking in. I can feel the increased energy, it's easier to keep body fat down, bigger erections, and (this is the best part) shorter refractory period. I can have repeat sex after only an hour. That is an unexpected benefit. I hate injecting myself but it's worth it. I'm on the road a lot this month. I'll be doing a lot of gaming. Might try dance club gaming, that's a new one for me. Day gaming I'm comfortable with, mixed sets I'm getting more comfortable wi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/02/18 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 13, 2018One of my goals for this year was to not fuck any strange; thereby proving to myself that I did not need this validation/feelz and giving wife an honest chance to move into my frame post DL12. That's great, but the funny thing is that my wife is a lot more attentive and solicitous when I've banged someone else or am about to. It's like either she senses it or I give off some vibe. My wife almost expects me to have a side piece, and if I don't, it's like "there must be something wrong with him if… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/02/18 01:28 AM |
| 3 | If Your Mission is a Business Mission and It Fails, What Next?OK, this is one thing I can comment with authority on. I've rocketed through the ranks of corporate America. Listen carefully. You're making a cardinal mistake that many hard-working people make. You keep on talking about working "for a company." No. One. Works. For. A. Company. You work for people. If you're working at a company your main goal should be to make your boss successful. Success in a career is personal. You contribute to the company, that's nice but irrelevant to your career traject… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/02/18 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Tinder dilemma - Is it okay to show off profession and my success?Yup. And not only that, nothing turns women off faster than a guy trying to qualify himself. | /r/askMRP | 12/02/18 10:35 PM |
| 1 | The End of the BeginningHappy hunting. You're a stronger man than I. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/02/18 07:02 AM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 06, 2018Lifting/Exercise Doing pretty well. Added shrugs to the routine, and dropped barbell rows because the rows were killing my elbows. Added a lot of ab exercises during my cut and the abs are looking good. I'm trying to see if I can bulk very slowly and make gains without increasing body fat. Body fat first goes to my cheeks and abs and just couple of % change has a dramatic impact on my PUA success. (Which tells me my technique is not great, because the success shouldn't fall off that quickly when… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/02/18 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Always be willing to approachWell, you have to calibrate, and it depends the circumstances and how you look. In general, direct is better because 1) It shows that you're not afraid of being rejected. 2) It saves you from wasting time when there is no interest. 3) It prevents you from getting put in the friendzone. If you're a friendly and harmless looking, then you want to go as direct as possible. If you're big guy, going too direct can spook them. You can open indirect, like "you're looking at routers? I can help with tha… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/02/18 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 30, 2018Almost 2.5 years into MRP I think I've reached another level of MRP/PUA. Over the last couple of weeks, I've had a lot of success picking up women who make a living off their looks. For example, I picked up a blonde Russian who's a hostess at a very high end restaurant in my town. She is stunning, easily an HB9. And I was at a conference and I picked up with 3 of the booth babes--the girls who make a living by looking good. One of them I wasn't even trying to pick up, she accosted me. I thought … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/02/18 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 16, 2018Damn, basically no progress on my (probable) alcoholism. Was on a flight today, downed 6 whiskeys. I had intended to be dry for a few weeks, but I got too in the flow (a bad sign, not being able to not drink when the intent was not to drink), chatting up a HB8 blonde sitting next to me. She was probably almost HB9 when younger, now she's 30 and age is showing. It was effortless. Interesting, I bat almost 100% at airports and on planes. Maybe because I'm in my work persona when traveling on busin… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/01/18 08:22 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 09, 2018I haven't posted OYS in a while. I've been pretty good about keeping the drinking to the weekends (I used to get drunk every night) but I think I'm going to have to cut it out altogether. I'm finding myself unable to stop once I start. I wake up the following morning with a massive hangover and numbers from women i barely remember in my phone. The other night, I was so drunk staggering down the street that two women stopped me and talked me into calling an Uber. They were cute, based on what I r… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/01/18 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 09, 2018Or it could be you're unblanced. 5x5 doesn't include curls. My elbow pain resolved and my bench went up 30 lbs when I added curls to my workout. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/01/18 07:35 AM |
| 0 | Rejected 9/10 and she raged and spilled her drink at meNot really. I see this happening on a regular basis. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/18 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Rejected 9/10 and she raged and spilled her drink at me"Stop calling me that or I am going to hit you with my handbag" | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/18 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Rejected 9/10 and she raged and spilled her drink at meLOL. That's when you know she's REALLY attracted to you. The right response would have been: "thanks, but stop buttering me up" | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/18 02:41 AM |
| 2 | Rejected 9/10 and she raged and spilled her drink at meShe's hot. Not quite my type so I'd give her 8.5 but most guys would give her a 9. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/18 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Boob Job Test w 3 Year Field ReportShe's never been higher than a 4, even at her best, with that gigantic schnozz of hers. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/11/17 06:12 AM |
| 3 | How to respond to a marriage ultimatum?This is a joke, right? She's riden the cock carousel and now turned madonna? This is likely a troll. No real man could be as beta as this. | /r/askMRP | 25/11/17 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 21, 2017This is pretty good advice. But how do you increase your income? I'll give you my advice: make your boss successful. That's it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/11/17 07:55 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 21, 2017Dude, good progress. Don't be too down about the drugs. It took me a long time to get from being a near alcoholic to bringing it under control. It's not a big deal to slip up, just get back on the wagon. You'll do great. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/11/17 07:54 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 21, 2017It's mom's work. Look up "she can be your mother or your lover, pick one" Do you rely on her to take care of shit or do you do it yourself? You can't become high value if she's acting as your mother, and taking care of the shit your mother would be doing for you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/11/17 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 21, 2017It's basically leadership. Is your wife in charge of planning your life and tells you what to do? Is she the one who makes decisions, like scheduling, etc.? If you are a lazy fuck and abdicate emotional labor to her, she's basically functioning like your mom. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/11/17 07:39 AM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 21, 2017Women don't dread. They branch swing. But being the best man you can be is the only right response to this. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/11/17 10:25 PM |
| 7 | FR: 21 months on MRPCongrats on hitting 1000, and on your progress. It takes a lot of discipline to do what you've done. It's always great to hear success stories like yours. Keep it up, friend. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/11/17 08:14 AM |
| 1 | No time for lifting?up at 5 | /r/askMRP | 11/11/17 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Discovered cheating AFTER taking RPfuck that. the time is now if you're going to do anything. when your daughter graduates, you wife will be leaving you buddy. | /r/askMRP | 11/11/17 08:07 AM |
| 1 | Discovered cheating AFTER taking RPOK, I am actually on the side of perhaps staying with her (see jacktenofheart's calssic post: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3tromi/recent_and_distant_past_possible_infidelity_just/cx8xf24/) but dude, if you think a 15 year old needs you, you're just making fucking excuses. She has no need for you, you are just a dead weight at that point. If she can't handle herself, it's too late anyway. There is nothing you can do at this point if she isn't ready to handle sex drugs and R&R. | /r/askMRP | 11/11/17 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Wife addicted to weaponized sex; impending divorceyup. There is no other answer. File. | /r/askMRP | 11/11/17 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 17, 2017Pure, unadulterated shit-covered hamster. LOL | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/17 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 17, 2017Resolution316, hang in there. You've made so much progress. Redpill is a mixed bag. There is a lot of youngsters there who are are bitter because they're not getting any ass, and their hormones are raging. I don't go to that sub much any more because there is so much crap to wade through. Redpill seems to attract racists and bigots because of that undercurrent of bitterness and misogyny. TRP is a perversion/corruption of PUA, which it grew out of. Try reading PUA and watching videos from RSD. PU… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/17 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 17, 2017At the beginning, I was lifting every day, sometimes twice a day. Now I need at least a day in between, sometimes 2 days, to recover. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/17 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 17, 2017Feels like I have to be a squirrel gathering nuts for the winter. LOL. Yeah. Don't worry about it too much. Congrats on your progress man, you're doing fantastic 169 days in. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/17 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 17, 2017Try probiotics. Fermented food. YMMV, but seriously, it works for some people. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/17 02:54 AM |
| 1 | First time posterShe waits 1-2 hours after I go to bed before she comes. If I stay up, she goes to bed early. LOL. I don't mean to laugh, but my wife was exactly the same 2 years ago. The good thing is, you can turn it around. She now races to the bedroom if she sees me heading to bed. Need your height, weight, age, body fat. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/17 02:49 AM |
| 1 | I've got everything...yet flounderingMy wife is fucking gorgeous. By far the hottest mum in the school playground, she's mid 30s but looks 25 despite having my 3 kids & being an amazing mum. She's also from a rich family and will eventually inherit a few million. We've done well up to this point financially & are very comfortable. She's extremely clever academically & is generally a very high value woman. No, nope, and no way. Given how obvious it is that you're a beta pussy, no high value woman would be with you. At best, she's a … | /r/askMRP | 22/10/17 01:00 AM |
| 1 | update: how I do approach thisDude, just dump her and move on. You're not compatible. But the good thing is that you're being honest with yourself. At this point, a LTR is not what's right for you. So move on. | /r/askMRP | 22/10/17 12:54 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys keep an abudance/abundance mentality without actually cheating?It may not be fixable. Some people get sense of self worth from within, others on external validation. Be honest with yourself. Do you need the validation? Then you are going to have to have side pieces. And that's OK. | /r/askMRP | 22/10/17 12:51 AM |
| 3 | [FR] women don't make senseYou shouldn't split the finances. You're responsible for making sure she doesn't bankrupt you. She's asking for help here, buddy, and you're failing. | /r/askMRP | 22/10/17 12:47 AM |
| 2 | fast results, little ones--but wowYeah, need more info, Rambo. | /r/askMRP | 22/10/17 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Holding Frame in Dread Level 12Persaeus, I hope this works out well for you. This isn't your typical post. I've got to say hystericalbonding hit it on the nose. In your other posts, you appear to have it all together, but this post seems to indicate your actions have been driven by resentment. And you're giving her another chance, despite what you say is unsatisfactory behavior. You're still treating her with respect and she doesn't seem to be responding. I guess some questions I have are: 1) Does your wife have low self-este… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/10/17 09:37 PM |
| 10 | Massive shit test by wife last weekendWell, first of all, you know they were amateurs because they were buying drinks for women... But yeah, these are red flags all over. You handled it like a champ though. You unfortunately can't control how she acts when you're not around. I agree, if she's not afraid to act like this in front of you, she has probably cheated already. | /r/askMRP | 03/10/17 09:43 PM |
| 11 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 26, 2017OYS Two Years In So, it's been a bit over 2 years since I found MRP. I thought about putting up a standalone post, but there is nothing particularly special about my story. What I'm going to be saying has been the experience of many people here. With this post, I'm just adding another vote for "this shit works." To save you the hassle of reading through my long post history, here is where I started: formerly a very good college athlete and semi-alpha, then turned into classic betabux. Married wi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/09/17 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 26, 2017Good to see you post again. Missed your OYS. Inspired me to post one of my own. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/09/17 05:45 AM |
| 2 | Redhead wifeSMV and dread not high enough | /r/askMRP | 29/09/17 05:28 AM |
| 3 | help with situation tomorrow with wifes boundriesFile for divorce. That's how you enforce the boundary. You married a low quality woman. | /r/askMRP | 29/09/17 05:23 AM |
| 2 | She's shit testing me right out the door.Mine hardly shit tests any more. When I first found MRP, the shit tests were flying at supersonic speed, left and right. Several times an hour. I'd say it's almost disappeared. Maybe once every couple of weeks. There is a lot of dread now, without my even trying. Other moms coming up to her and telling her she's lucky she's married to a such a good looking guy. Young women flirting with me. Frankly, it would be very hard for my wife t branch swing to someone even close to my SMV now. She was pro… | /r/askMRP | 29/09/17 05:09 AM |
| 2 | To cheat or not to cheatClap ... clap | /r/askMRP | 20/09/17 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Wife got a phone number at a company dinner tonightdon't be a pussy, stop mate guarding | /r/askMRP | 20/09/17 06:13 AM |
| 14 | Let my story be your lessonIt didn't tear me up, but it pissed me the fuck off. Societal BP programming and its aftermath. OP, you need more than MRP. Go to survivinginfidelity.com. Yours is a classic story. CC riding chick gets pregnant, looks for betabux to support her. Gets him to raise someone else's child, while blocking him from having his own kids. Once the kid is grown, ditches him. ...but you know what else is classic? Guy finds MRP. Gets his shit together. Gets fit. Finds out he could do a lot better than his ex… | /r/askMRP | 20/09/17 06:11 AM |
| 1 | FR - Rambo at DL3? Oops... can I recover?You can say that again. OP, just work at it. Your SMV is way too low. Keep on lifting. And stop drinking. | /r/askMRP | 10/08/17 09:43 PM |
| 7 | Wife says we need spaceYou go Matrix! There is no way OP has been MRP for 2 years. Look, I've been MRP for 2 years, and I've gone from a fat beta fucker in a near-dead bedroom to ripped, rock-solid frame, getting sex on demand, and random women approaching me in public. MRP works. Full Stop. It's hellalot of work. i spend good 4-5 hours working out and another 3-4 hours on cardio every week, and that is down from my peak. I've read everything on the sidebar and far more. | /r/askMRP | 10/08/17 09:42 PM |
| 5 | SO Having Lunch w "Ex" and Friend - best way to handleYeah, that's a good response. Except one thing. He has frame and you do not. It's clear from your post that you're insecure and she knows you're insecure. I mean, for crying out loud, she's not even meeting the guy 1:1. There are a bunch of people around them. I would not mate guard. I would not marry her. I wouldn't marry at all. See, it's like this. Mate guarding is only appropriate when guy is harassing your SO, and she needs protection. But if the sheep is trying to jump the fence and trying… | /r/askMRP | 10/08/17 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Ownership and recovery from wife's emotional affair.That's not insight. Here is the insight from the true expert, jacktenof hearts (https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3tromi/recent_and_distant_past_possible_infidelity_just/cx8xf24/) Jack is hellalong poster, but basically, you were such a drunk captain that any woman would have cucked you. The problem isn't just her, it's you. You have a choice to either pull yourself together or blame her. I suggest you pull yourself together. Dude. AWALT, yeah, sure, but your story isn't the case … | /r/askMRP | 10/08/17 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Age fall of chart for women should be re-designed by race and ethnicityOK, now you're really reaching here. Phat is good but obese isn't. Asian women often eat like crap. They just stay looking about 20 Until they're 40 then they look like grandma. Asian men look like they're 12 until they're 40 then they look like they are 30. Asian guys I know who are still single or divorced and in their 40s are banging like crazy, some are banging 25 year old hot blondes. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/17 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Age fall of chart for women should be re-designed by race and ethnicityOK, now you're really reaching here. Phat is good but obese isn't. Asian women often eat like crap. They just stay looking about 20 Until they're 40 then they look like grandma. Asian men look like they're 12 until they're 40 then they look like they are 30. Asian guys I know who are still single or divorced and in their 40s are banging like crazy, some are banging 25 year old hot blondes. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/17 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Had first fight in yearsYou're a moron. And that wasn't a real fight. That was, at best, a couple of bitch slaps. And... You were the bitch.A real fight doesn't end until someone ends up in a hospital. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/17 09:15 PM |
| 0 | The Ninjas of The Red PillThis is crap. Even in those societies there is real fighting. What you're describing is fake fighting; as practiced by beta pussies. Believe me, you go to that fang country you describe and talk to real alphas and they will laugh at what you said. Fighting is not a game you moron. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/17 09:09 PM |
| 0 | Update to the update how do I catch her cheating. I think I just blew up my fucking marriage maybe that's ok ...No. OP, au contraire. You probably just saved your marriage. "Checking in" my ass. This isn't Rambo. You're drawing a boundary. As long as you didn't fly off the handle and handled it calmly, she will respect you for it. The biggest thing you've got to keep in mind is: don't be afraid of her. When you get home, act completely normal. You didn't do anything wrong. She's the unreasonable one. Show no fear. If you do that, and not act butt hurt or scared, here is what will happen: comfort test, the… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/07/17 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Post OneHm, I would try biceps work actually, if you're doing 5x5. I was at a plateau on bench for several months until I started doing curls. 5x5 neglects the biceps. Also, make sure you get plenty of sleep. Can't gain mass without sleep. On weight loss, are you doing any cardio? Also, CICO is kind of obsolete. What KIND of calorie is more important (read Gary Taube). Food actually acts as a hormone as well a source of energy. You need to cut out all sugar, as well as diet soda (anything that tastes sw… | /r/askMRP | 29/07/17 05:17 AM |
| 8 | Wife is spending time with her coworker during our "trial separation" want to stop handling this so poorly.How can I just handle this with my dignity? Only one option. Next her. It's going to be rough, but thank your lucky stars you dodged a bullet, since you have no kids. And, do not take her back when she comes crawling back after the dude is finished using her as his plaything. At age 30, she will downgrade and you will upgrade after this. Hit the gym, bro. | /r/askMRP | 20/07/17 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Wife going on a day trip, should I care about this?Well, the worst thing you can do is to mate guard. That will look completely beta. There's little you can do if she wants to cheat. If she's even moderately good looking, she will be hit on all the time. The best thing you can do is to be attractive. That won't prevent her from cheating but make it less likely, and it opens up more options for you if you have to next her. | /r/askMRP | 20/07/17 10:00 PM |
| 1 | My wife used a stun gun on me and I took itI sent you a PM with information on a potential treatment. | /r/askMRP | 20/07/17 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 11, 2017Dude, first let me say you've come a long way since the first cringy post. You have a long way to go but you should be proud. You will get there, despite your crazy ass psycho wife. Now onto the post. This, essentially, changed the "you and your wife get a day free together" into "your wife gets a day free, but you'll be at work." And I will admit: I was hurt. and Reached out to another friend to hopefully get drinks this week. Need to get more socializing going, this has fallen off a bit and I … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/07/17 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 11, 2017I know the program calls for rest every other day but I often want to head back to the gym on my off days. Any recommendations on what I could add on my rest days that wouldn't ultimately slow me down on 5x5? At the beginning, with early gains, you can do every day. I was such a maniac when I started, I did 5x5 every day, and sometimes twice day. After about 9 mo, I had to dial it back to every other day. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/07/17 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 11, 2017Strange how I feel insecure about becoming this. I'm attracted to confident people who DGAF. Always have been. I think somewhere deep down I'm afraid nobody will like the real me. The height of self-confidence is not being afraid to show vulnerability. Everyone is "afraid nobody will like the real me." The weak show it and are apologetic about it. The average guy hides it. The strong show it and DGAF. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/07/17 01:04 AM |
| 5 | FR update on Latina wife and throw away lurker.Your frame isn't strong enough. You're subconsciously giving away little signs that show her you're still beta. How can I tell? Because your post reeks of neediness. Read Models. Neediness = unattractiveness. | /r/askMRP | 18/07/17 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Marriage shifting from "'til death do us part" to "what have u done for me lately" ?Most women don't take marriage seriously nowadays. If it doesn't work out, I'll just get divorced" is a very common belief. If that bothers you, tough. It's the way it is. You may want it not to be that way but nothing you can do. | /r/askMRP | 18/07/17 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 11, 201711.1% body fat There you go. When you get to that, things just fall into place, don't it? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/07/17 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Critique my wife's ultimate shit testNo gift. STFU. Just give her a hug. | /r/askMRP | 09/07/17 03:52 AM |
| 5 | Critique my wife's ultimate shit testshe's very good looking and youthful. I earn very good money, not as good looking but have a good body. Lot of red flags here. "She's very good looking" -> you have wife goggles on. After you've really swallowed the red pill and those goggles fall off, you'd say "she's decent looking for an older chick but not as hot as women who are hitting on me." How old are you? If you are both in your 30s or older, and you're really in shape/ripped, your SMV should be considerably higher. Women's SMV falls … | /r/askMRP | 09/07/17 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Wife's sexual past may be more than reported. A test?You have no OI. Lift. Raise your SMV. Stop perseverating. | /r/askMRP | 08/07/17 06:30 AM |
| 5 | Trading downThere are no >40 year old who are 9.5. She's 7, max. Probably a 6.5 at best. Or she will have dumped your ass already. I thought my wife was a 9, until I came to my sense and wife goggles fell off. You can't control her so stop feeling sorry for yourself. Be the best you that you can be. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/07/17 06:24 AM |
| 2 | Anyone delt with unfounded paranoia along the journey?This. Lots of people go through this. I did. You think "I was such as blue ass pill, she must have cheated." Lift. Raise your SMV. Take those wife goggles off. It will pass once you achieve abundance. Because, if you get to a point that if she cheats you dump her and upgrade, then you will no longer be paranoid. | /r/askMRP | 02/07/17 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Wife came home late for third time in a month so I cancelled our weekend beach house trip. Am I over reacting?All your wife hears when you tell her not to do that shit is, "I'm an insecure loser who's petrified that you're better than I am and you've realized it and are going to cheat on me and/or leave me, so I'm trying to lock you down to prevent that." And she will respond accordingly. This part is correct. If you mate guard, it usually backfires. The only exception is if a guy makes a move on her right in front of you that's so disrespectful that it's a direct insult to you, in which case you have t… | /r/askMRP | 02/07/17 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 06, 2017The Bad Pulled my back couple of weeks ago. Damn. I was trying a different stance on the squat to get past the plateau and injured myself. Usually, I'm so careful. I had to take 2 weeks off and deload. Plus, I pulled my chest doing OHP. I think I'm reaching weights that are at the edge of what my old body can handle. I need to go super slow now. The OK Sex is pretty much on demand, but wife is looking less and less attractive, as I've mentioned before, especially in comparison to the alternative… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/06/17 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 06, 2017Dude, this is not like your normal OYS. You're sounding down and butthurt. Keep it in perspective, you're way better off than you were 12 mo ago, right? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/06/17 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 06, 2017I don't know, for me, I notice a huge difference even with 1-2%, especially when you're getting down to low levels. At 15%, I was invisible to women. At 13-14%, I would find women staring at me. At 11-12%, women would indirectly approach me, hanging around me, smiling at me. At 10%, women will come up to me and start talking to me, or "accidentally" bump into me. Now, I do have a chubby face normally, and at 15% I have no definition on my chin. At 13%, you can see my square chin, and at 10%, you… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/06/17 10:53 PM |
| 1 | How to: My thoughts on approachingLove it. Also love the comments. Given that TRP grew out of PUA, you would think they would know more about it on the main TRP sub, but the guys on MRP are a lot more knowledgeable. PUA has been around so long that the philosophical and theoretical framework has been built out extensively. It's gone from a trial-and-error and pattern recognition to almost a rational, scientific endeavor. One tip: use cold reads instead of questions. Lot less like an interview, and more fun. "You work in PR, don'… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/06/17 10:31 PM |
| 1 | How can you catch her cheatinghttp://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/209754-standard-evidence-post.html | /r/askMRP | 29/05/17 07:06 AM |
| 1 | She doesn't like it when I'm touchyLOL - she'll sing "I want to be your meat" and prance around. | /r/askMRP | 29/05/17 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Pushback on prenupNo | /r/askMRP | 29/05/17 07:00 AM |
| 2 | It's that time of the year again: we need to have The Talk about 'alpha' and 'beta'Again, I agree with HS-Thompson. Women ARE attracted to men that other women want at a very primal level. People here are confusing female psychology from male psychology. Looks are just ONE of the factors for women that get them stimulated. Just because men can't get stimulated by power doesn't mean women can't. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/17 04:50 PM |
| 2 | It's that time of the year again: we need to have The Talk about 'alpha' and 'beta'I have to agree with HS-Thompson here. The rich guys I know WILL get laid by the secretaries at work because they're alpha at work. Just not by their wives. I don't think wealth itself is attractive but power is. But it's got to be the right kind of women. The women in LA probably would fuck Jonah Hill, but women in DC wouldn't give a fuck. They would bang a senator though. Besides, if HS-Thompson used to be an agent, he's bringing data to the table while everyone else is guessing. He's got the … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/17 04:47 PM |
| 1 | It's that time of the year again: we need to have The Talk about 'alpha' and 'beta'Anniston looks like a tapir. I wouldn't fuck her with your dick. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/17 04:44 PM |
| 2 | It's that time of the year again: we need to have The Talk about 'alpha' and 'beta'No. I know many guys with private jets, and the majority of them don't have an alpha bone in them when it comes to women. They're alpha at work, sure, but they're complete pussies when they come to women. They are not getting laid, trust me. Multiple millions don't mean jack where I live. They're dime a dozen. A lot of people project and speculate about wealth when they don't know. My job is to interact with ultra rich every day, so let me tell you: Wealth can provide the tools to become alpha, … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/17 04:37 PM |
| 1 | The other side of the 'red pill'; why don't we talk about male evo-psych?That's too bad. She's one of the best contributors recently. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/17 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 23, 2017You're still just beginning. Give it time. You will get there my friend. What is "there"? It's when you will have all the sex you want (probably from your wife), but you won't even care because you're at peace with yourself and you know you can get sex whenever you want. I went from begging for crappy sex from a woman I thought was a 9, and thinking I would never be able to get sex from another woman unless she was a 6.5 to sex on demand from a woman I now know to be 6.5, and getting proposition… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/05/17 08:44 AM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 23, 2017current weight 184lbs. Starting weight 245lbs. Congrats man. You should be proud of that. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/05/17 08:37 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 23, 2017Good progress, man. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/05/17 08:33 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 23, 2017On the game, just keep at it. I have yet to get a harsh rejection anyone. The worst that could happen is the conversation dies out and gets boring. Ask open ended questions, or even better, do cold reads. The content of the conversation doesn't matter, it's how you carry yourself. I find it more fun now to do cold approaches, now that I've worked on my inner game. It goes a lot faster. That is to say, when I talk with parents at the school or a similar event where it's expected that you have sma… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/05/17 08:24 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 23, 2017Keep at it. Don't think too much. It will come. You've just started on this journey. To be frank, though your woman sounds more psycho than most. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/05/17 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 23, 2017You have to do it for you, not you. It made me resentful - "I'm working my ass off to get drip-fed duty sex That is the wonrg attitude to have. It took me about 6 months to get out of that mindset. It's hard. You been after sex with her for so long that you get obsessed with it. I'm not sure I could actually pull that off. You can. Based on what you've written, you have the intellect and the willpower to get there. I think you basically lack confidence. Just go and start making casual conversati… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/05/17 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Sexual strategy tips for men from low SMV ethnic groups.You're a fucking moron. Some Arab guys do great. They need to have a Caucasian facial bone structure but can do great. Money does jack shit. It's all about whether you're tall, have social proof, and have inner game. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/17 06:55 AM |
| 10 | [32m] Would you date a female urologist?you're to beta to date any woman stick to dating men | /r/askTRP | 21/05/17 04:57 AM |
| 3 | What am I doing wrong with my inner game?fuck that, I've see Indian guys do great with women, and I noticed that the Brahmins do the best - I think because they have the best inner game | /r/askTRP | 21/05/17 04:56 AM |
| 2 | Should I get back with my LTR?She told me she has not slept with any of them Lies | /r/askMRP | 21/05/17 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Hanging out with beta husbands and their wivesNah, if you're ripped, just flirt the fuck out of the other wives. | /r/askMRP | 21/05/17 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 16, 2017My second favorite redpiller is back! Several months and two plates later, I see... How you have time for two, I don't see... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/05/17 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Wife cheated, I kicked her out of the house. Could use some advice on my plan on how to manage things from now on.He's about as beta as they come, but at least he did kick her out instead of telling her they can work it out. Spin a few plates, then decide. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/05/17 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 16, 2017Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Decide whether to Next my wife, keeping plating her, or keep my marriage Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah, Blah. WTF? There is no decision here. You know you should next her. It's just a question of if you have the backbone to do it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/05/17 10:19 PM |
| 1 | About money - Part 1But, but, he quoted himself: ""Do the math... blah blah... I am an idiot... blah blah..." - 88Will88 So he must be right. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/05/17 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Everything You Know About Emotions Is Wrongyou should treat women like worthless fuckmeat and have not a care in the world for how they feel Well, we shouldn't care how they feel, but treating them like worthless fuckmeat is a reflection of yourself. If you're confident in yourself, you don't need to treat women like that. In fact, that kind of attitude is useful only if you need to push them down in order to feel OK about yourself. Natural alphas don't do that. If you read Models, you will see that being in touch with your emotion is th… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/17 12:19 AM |
| 1 | She wants to see my phone unlocked"I don't think my side piece is going to like it if I show you her messages." | /r/askMRP | 16/05/17 11:25 PM |
| 2 | BMR Questionscalorie in and calorie out is obsolete go low carb, and don't worry about fat and protein intake no soft drinks (no diet soft drinks either), no juice, no fruit eat mostly after you lift | /r/askMRP | 16/05/17 11:23 PM |
| 1 | When to say thank you?Thank you for trying that and being open to new things. Almost two years together and I've never gotten you off that way, but it was delicious watching you, we'll definitely have to do that more often". | /r/askMRP | 16/05/17 11:22 PM |
| 1 | After your thoughts - 3 dates, had her at my place twice, intense make out sessions but denys sexYeah. It's a iron-clad rule: it is impossible to get a quick lay if you're wearing a nice suit or an expensive watch. It triggers massive beta provider proximity warning in the chick. There are guys who will never bring a girl back to their place because it's too nice. Bigger the apartment, longer it will take before a lay. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/17 11:14 PM |
| 4 | She doesn't know that other girl is only a 7, she just knows it's another girl.If she's a fitness model, then by definition she's 7.5 max. Girls end up as fitness models only if they're not hot enough to be a real model. But still a goof FR. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/17 11:09 PM |
| 18 | She doesn't know that other girl is only a 7, she just knows it's another girl.it raises your SMV. Social proof | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/17 11:08 PM |
| 15 | [FR] Holy Shit. Women really will do anything to fuck a man they want to fuck - including set it up in front of their kid."Good job matching" is a good compliment also because it implies she's meeting your approval. It implies that she's qualified herself to you, that you're judging her and she passed. It's better, for example, than "nice matching outfit." That doesn't imply that you're judging her. Compliments work well on girls whose SMV is clearly below yours. For girls above you SMV, you've got to neg. "Nice matching outfit. My grandma has the same one." | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/05/17 11:01 PM |
| 1 | After your thoughts - 3 dates, had her at my place twice, intense make out sessions but denys sexNeed more info, but my guess is that you're a higher quality guy than she's used to and wants a LTR. Do you have a good job? A nice place? Reliable kind of guy? Something you did might have triggered the "let's make this guy a BF instead of a quick lay" switch. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/17 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Ignore Game? Gf has been ignoring me and arguing.next | /r/askTRP | 15/05/17 09:22 PM |
| 1 | LooksLooks only get you past the first step. If you have nothing but looks, then you won't get far. So yes, game is more important than looks. However, you're wrong that fat guys slay. It is almost impossible to get over being really fat. There are no fat successful PUA guys. Zero. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/17 09:21 PM |
| 1 | I hear two seemingly contradictory things in RP theory. Am I mistaken?Yeah, this. Post wall women are looking for a beta to settle down with, who has the same SMV as the guys she used to bang. The thing is, she can't attract that caliber of men. Let's say she was a HB8 at age 22. She was banging HB9 and 10 guys. Even then, she wouldn't have been able to get a HB9 guy to settle down with her, especially once her n-count got high. She could have snagged a HB7 or 8 guy at that point but she was having too much fun. But in her mind, she was thinking she deserves HB9 o… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/17 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Still learning. Did I do this right?no, you did fine. next time she'll put out | /r/askTRP | 15/05/17 09:04 PM |
| 2 | What does it mean when a girl asks questions about your sex life?bingo | /r/askTRP | 15/05/17 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Dating a popular girl again, with lots of male friends - mistakes to avoid? How to behave?Ouch - this is cringe worthy. You're a moron. Just asking to be cucked. The only thin you can do is collect a lot of female friends. If she's worried about mate guarding you, she won't have time to fool around. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/17 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Dating a popular girl again, with lots of male friends - mistakes to avoid? How to behave?WTF. You can't LTR someone like her. Tell her she's a plate, and that you can see other girls but she can't see other guys | /r/askTRP | 15/05/17 08:59 PM |
| 1 | How to play the game when "FRIENDZONED"?too late. once friendzoned, it's veryhard to get out if you don't make a move on a girl within couple of weeks of meeting her, she will friendzone you - she has to - that's hardwired | /r/askTRP | 15/05/17 08:58 PM |
| 1 | The Three Words That May or May Not Be Ruining Your Social LifeYeah, you're on the right track. What it means is that when you're around a girl, don't be watching what you're saying. If you think she said something stupid, call it out. If you want to tell a dirty joke, tell it. No filters. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/17 11:27 PM |
| 2 | [Field Report] My First Birthday Post-TRP / Why I Don't Believe in Having Female Friendsbecause... then he will get no sex from her | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/17 11:25 PM |
| 1 | How to get out of the friendzoneGoing from non fuckable to fuckable is hella lot of work. Just go find someone new. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/17 11:21 PM |
| -1 | How to get out of the friendzoneNo, if you're not her boyfriend, you're her bitch. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/17 11:20 PM |
| 1 | The ultimate covert contractYou're a moron. Seeing your wife flirting with another guy must have made your testicles clench. That's called being insecure beta. If you're confident and have inner game, you would be confident that your woman would not stray. If you have to worry about it, then... you're the problem.There is no way to prevent AWALT except being a high value man. If you're a high value man, the problem takes care of itself. If not, then your testicles will be clenching until it strangulates. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/05/17 07:55 AM |
| 1 | The balance between not being a beta cuck and a good boyfriend?Look, go to the PUA sites and youtube videos. Women aren't evil. They're just weak. They can't love you like your mother did. You have to be the backbone, they can be the soft parts. Don't expect more from them than they can provide. Women have been at the mercy of men for millions of years. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/17 07:35 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 02, 2017Haven't posted for a little while. I feel like I'm one of the old guys here now. It seems that the half life of the posters on this sub is about 6 to 9 months. I don't see too many posts by BPP, jacktenofhearts is gone, etc. Perseus, where art thou? Your OYS posts were the bomb. This might be one of my last OYS posts. Things are going great - newbies, take heart, MRP fucking works. 18 months ago, my wife was doing everything she could to avoid sex - going to bed at 8 pm or 3 am, just to avoid me… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/05/17 07:26 AM |
| 3 | Leadership and the "What should we have for dinner?" ConversationWTF? Just decide where to go and tell her. Plan out the week my ass. | /r/askMRP | 07/05/17 07:01 AM |
| -12 | "Why Are So Many Women Searching for Ultra-Violent Porn?" asks increasingly worried media for the thirteenth time this yearOP is a moron. Women don't watch porn. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/17 06:55 AM |
| – | Why its not worth being friends with women (As many of you already know)You moron. You're a "nice guy" trying to make friends with girls. There is no such thing. You are an orbiter -- someone who doesn't have balls to be upfront with girls you're interested in. You being a sneaky wimp. You need to fucking drop pretenses and grow some balls. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/17 06:54 AM |
| 1 | The balance between not being a beta cuck and a good boyfriend?I realised that I was used, when I needed help but she refused to give me attention. You're a moron. Women do not provide emotional support to men. Men should never seek emotional support from their GF. Your GF is not your mother. The way it goes is that you're her emotional rock. You can't ever show emotional weakness to your woman. They are programmed to flee weak men and seek protection of strong men. I am learning to assert myself more, but the line between being 'alpha' and being just an as… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/17 09:59 PM |
| 2 | [Red Pill Theory] A perspective on the nice guys and jerks. (I'm a bro)Well, only to a degree. Women categorize men into two categories: men to fuck (alpha) and men who will provide (beta). It's subconscious, but they're genetically programmed to 1) have sex with the highest SMV man possible (improve her kids' genetics) 2) find a provider While it's possible that 1 + 2 could be the same person, but that would, in PUA parlance, be a "glitch in the system." A guy who's willing to stick around is almost never going to be the highest SMV guy who is willing to have sex … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/17 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Wife is submissive in all areas....besides the bedroom. Who moved my slut?Well, I will throw this out - have you ever said anything that she might interpret as judgmental about slutty women? If you want her to be slutty, then you have to let her know that you are not going to judge her no matter what she does. It only take a tiny little judgmental comment to make women freeze up. | /r/askMRP | 05/05/17 09:40 PM |
| 3 | Playing the long game, would appreciate advice..You've got to take TRP main sub with a grain of salt. Remember that most of poster there are kids who ended up in that sub because they were complete betas. I would actually recommend the progenitor to TRP, PUA, if you want a better perspective. PUA love women. They recognize how women are, but don't put a value judgment on it. Women are women. They're not evil. Yes, they won't meet your fantasy of being your wife, and mother, and emotional tampon. But the problem is not with them but the emotio… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/05/17 09:39 PM |
| 0 | Shit tests happen within seconds of an approachNo. With HB9, you need to break rapport right at the beginning. 2-3 negs are what he needs. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/17 10:32 PM |
| 0 | Dread Level 11: Advice for when this actually works?Yup. OP, are you getting anal from her? Things that were off the table are now back on? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/04/17 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Dread Level 11: Advice for when this actually works?I spent a year doing this for me, because what I wanted is for the LTR to work By definition, then you weren't doing it for you. You have a long ways to go. You still have severe case of oneitis. You should really ditch her and move onto better pastures. But to answer your question, yes, many people have saved their relationship by going to DEFCON 11. But... it's really not worth it if you aren't married and have no kids. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/04/17 06:39 PM |
| 11 | This is How You Should Escalate (most do it wrong!)If you can make guys genuinely laugh and want to hang out with you in casual conversation, you'll be able to do the same thing with women. LOL. You know women are not actually just men without a penis, right? They're wired differently. I think you need to do some basic TRP reading. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/17 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Outcome Independence & Validation from OthersThis is a bit off topic, but I can't resist adding to this. There are people who work hard and add no value <- useless. There are people who work hard and add value to things that they like to do but not to the company. For example, I had an employee once who spent an inordinate amount of time on a project I told him was low priority and then wanted to be rewarded for it at performance eval. Uh, no. Doing a good job on something that's fun for you but not important to the company <- useless. The… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/04/17 05:51 PM |
| 5 | FR: My first day out daygaming after a year and a half of lethargyOP is clearly socially challenged. OP, my hats off to you for persistence. That's the key to this whole things.... but.... 1) Don't be sticking your hand out like a retard. 2) Don't be complimenting women. That instantly lowers your SMV. Light-hearted insults work much better, like "hey, that dress is a bit out of season, isn't it?" or "you're dressed kind of like a man." You have to deliver it with a smile. Insults instantly bifurcates your chances. If SMV was in striking range, it instantly ra… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/17 11:58 PM |
| 0 | FR: My first day out daygaming after a year and a half of lethargyCompliments are the absolute worst way to open. Lowers you SMV instantly. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/17 11:53 PM |
| 6 | How to respond?I don't really think you need evidence. What you've said already is pretty much 100% proof she's cheating. Hiding phone? - 100% cheating Dressing up to go to the library? - 100% cheating But you must, then look at this http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/209754-standard-evidence-post.html | /r/askMRP | 07/04/17 06:00 AM |
| 3 | How to respond?She's not hot. You've got wife goggles on. Once you're over oneitis, you will see that she's 5 or 6 at best. Otherwise she would have left your beta ass long time ago. The fact that she hasn't filed for divorce is sure proof that she's not hot. You will do much better than her once you hit the gym and learn TRP/MRP/PUA. You're 6'3". You can do better than this low quality woman. | /r/askMRP | 07/04/17 05:51 AM |
| 1 | How to respond?It's over, buddy. Sorry. | /r/askMRP | 07/04/17 05:49 AM |
| 2 | How to respond?Go to survivinginfidelity.com and talkaboutmarriage.com. It's not "probably" unfortunately. It's "for sure" she's cheating. | /r/askMRP | 07/04/17 05:49 AM |
| 2 | How to respond?Oh Christ. "kissing" = "fucking" in cheaterspeak. | /r/askMRP | 07/04/17 05:48 AM |
| 5 | How to respond?WTF? This is 100% proof she's cheating. | /r/askMRP | 07/04/17 05:47 AM |
| 1 | AM I RAMBO??? REALLY???They'd call it DEERing, but I'd take her out to dinner -- or empty the house of kids -- and sit her down and say, explicitly, "I've fallen short as head of this household, and you've taken advantage of that and/or been left leaderless. Well that's over. I realize you're going to have to adjust. I understand it may be tough for you not to simply get your way all the time. But this is better for you and for us and for our children and I know that -- sooner than you think -- you are going to be hap… | /r/askMRP | 07/04/17 05:44 AM |
| 1 | AM I RAMBO??? REALLY???You have wife goggles on. You will know that you've swallowed the pill when you realize that she is a 5 or 6, instead of 9 or 10 you thought she was. | /r/askMRP | 07/04/17 05:43 AM |
| 2 | FR Spinning plates as a married manYup. Last time, I was sitting next to couple of Irish gals and I opened with an insult. I told one of them, "that's a man's watch you're wearing" (it was a big ass watch). It doesn't really matter what you say, almost, so long as it's not a blue pill compliment, like "that's really nice shirt" or "I like your hair." | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/04/17 01:10 AM |
| 4 | FR Spinning plates as a married manwomen are willing to share high value men so long as there is no social fallout/embarrassment This. Been shown over and over. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/04/17 01:07 AM |
| 2 | BP example - Guy got left by his princessLOL. Yup. OP is wrong, his friend is wrong. Things don't work like that. Almost certainly, she left him because he was doing too much for her. She probably found an alpha cock. Her pussy of a dad wouldn't tell the husband that his daughter is a slut and she found someone with a bigger dick. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/17 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Only just found out my LTR is an Alpha WidowYup. The fact that you even care is giving off beta vibes. You shouldn't even mention him if he comes up. He is like lint on your shoulder - brush it off and don't give it a second thought. | /r/askMRP | 29/03/17 08:20 PM |
| 0 | Weight loss AdviseCalorie in / calorie out is wrong. What matters is not how just how many calories you take in but what your body does with it. To control that, you need to control your metabolism, not just how many calories you eat. You need to control your insulin, which means you need to lower your carb intake, especially sugar. You should do: 1) Watch what kind of calories you eat. 1 calorie of carb is very different from 1 calorie of fat (hint: fat is much better, protein even better than that) 2) Regulate … | /r/askMRP | 29/03/17 04:45 PM |
| 59 | As soon as he sells his companies, his wife leaves and takes half the money.This happens ALL the time. In Silicon valley,where billionaires are minted left and right, women are alway "taking the money and run" chorus over an over. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/17 06:11 AM |
| 8 | Working out increases my apatite and I eat more!STOP EATING CARBS. And stop soft drinks and juices. Even the diet soft drinks will make you gain weight. It releases insulin. | /r/askMRP | 25/03/17 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Hold Onto Your ButtsYou're the new u/jacktenofhearts, eh? You should see how long his posts are. Your entire post could fit inside one of his paragraphs. Good post. Lots of detail, gives us a lot of work with. You're similar to me in some ways, but you found MRP earlier in your downward spiral than I did. It sounds like while she has lost attraction for you, your wife still respects you. She is responding to your lead very quickly. Eventually, that respect would have been lost. Dead bedroom is bad, but not nearly a… | /r/askMRP | 25/03/17 12:48 AM |
| 14 | Am I just rooting through the trash?I must quote u/jacktenofhearts (whom we miss dearly) who posted in https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3tromi/recent_and_distant_past_possible_infidelity_just/cx8xf24/ in response to a guy like you: your story isn't the case of the long-suffering beta bucks who served his wife hand and foot while she fucked a bunch of Chads and not him. You willingly admit you spent roughly 60% of your marriage as some combination of being an obese fatass, a drug-addicted loser, or both. Of the bala… | /r/askMRP | 23/03/17 12:51 AM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 21, 2017Physical Elbows are bothering me again so I'm giving them a rest and cutting a bit .It's been hard to break out of the plateau, but I'm almost where I want to so it's OK. Financial Going well. Social Network Still haven't made a lot of friends I can hang out with. Most people I know are married and blue pill. I may join some local clubs, etc. Gaming Still making myself approach as much as possible. Mix of success and failure. I'm at a wedding, wearing my nicest, well-fitting suit, and chatting u… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/03/17 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 21, 2017Yeah just leave. Or A&A. I was also stupid enough to suggest that I knew what the problem was and that she didn't love me anymore I almost barfed when I read that. That's some nuclear grade butt hurt. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/03/17 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 21, 2017Congrats man. I know you put in a lot of work to get to where you are. Not you're reaping the rewards. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/03/17 07:04 PM |
| – | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 07, 2017Just a quick check-in. Fitness: Have plateaued. Total combined DL+BP+SQ is at 750 lb, but made only 5 lb gain in the last couple of weeks. I think I'm going to just keep it there, my tendons seem to get stronger more slowly than the muscles, and I'm starting to strain things when I push harder. Sex: Wife's getting fatter. It's not going by the book. Frequency dipping to 1-2 times a week, mainly because I'm not thinking about sex much. Work: Was going great, but things slowing down a bit. I've go… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/03/17 06:42 AM |
| 2 | FR: 60 days laterYou still don't have OI, but you're getting there. It would be helpful if you gave us your height, weight, body fat, amount you're lifting. We can give you better advice then. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/03/17 11:55 PM |
| 0 | "It's Like Having a Wife"It's a cruel world. You my friend are confusing with "should be" with "what is." Do I condone this? No. Do I condemn this? No. If you think it's wrong, don't do it. It doesn't mean someone who thinks it's OK shouldn't do it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/03/17 12:42 AM |
| 2 | To Game or Not To GameOK my friend, in an earlier post, you said: I own my own business, my wife is a SAHM. I work four days a week and handle the kids on Monday. Every morning I get up with the kids, make breakfast, clean them up, change diapers, do as many dishes as possible, etc, before getting out the door for gym/work at 8AM. So, have you stopped doing that? Is she doing all the kid work, cooking, and cleaning? Have you stopped being the wife in the relationship? I ask because so long as you're being the wife, l… | /r/askMRP | 28/02/17 01:44 AM |
| 2 | To Game or Not To GameAh, Jackten... I miss him too. | /r/askMRP | 28/02/17 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Catch and Release vs. NoFapYeah, there was a period when my wife started to look really not as attractive and my interest in her waned. Everyone goes through it. You're clearly not there yet, you still think your wife is "very attractive." I will tell you, at least half the men on this sub thought their wife was a 9 or a 10 when they started here. In a few months, if you keep at MRP and your wife goggles fall off, you will realize that she's moderately attractive at best, or worse. Hold tight, that stage too will pass (I … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/02/17 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Catch and Release vs. NoFapAs I say above, this is not catch and release, which generally involves cold approached. Flirting with SAHM like these, whom you already know, isn't catch and release. That's more like aquaculture. Stop doing that, you may end up where you don't want to go. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/02/17 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Catch and Release vs. NoFapYeah, though in this case, OP's reason is less that and more that he's new at getting attention. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/02/17 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Catch and Release vs. NoFapNo it won't. After a while you won't be getting as much of a rush from it because you'll get used to it. When I first started gaming women, and they started responding, it was a huge ego boost and validation. The more you do it, the less of a boost it is. Now I make myself do it, to keep in practice. However, you know what doesn't change? Approaching women is still hard, at least for me. The fear of rejection in your gut, that never goes away. It gets less intense every time you do it, but it st… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/02/17 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Catch and Release vs. NoFapSorry to hear that. That was not catch and release. That was catch and cook. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/02/17 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Need some lifting inputYou're not eating nearly enough. You would be shocked how much you need to eat to gain. You're not eating nearly enough. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/02/17 06:02 AM |
| 1 | My 31 yr old Uncle (surgeon) got shamed because he refused to marry a post-wall 30 year oldYou're a moron. That's just in the U.S. Go to Africa, and IQ is probably higher than Americans. All those things are because they're still recovering from being slaves. It's not genetic, you fool. Half the people in Africa will run circles around you (I mean you specifically) intellectually. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/17 08:44 AM |
| 1 | [FR] – FSM Is Very Important To Her – How I capitalizedIf you're 6'4", and you get yourself to 10% BF, women will come to you. The difference between 10% and 15% is huge. When I'm above 15%, I'm invisible to women. When I'm below 10%, they respond well when I approach them. Below 10%, they approach me. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/02/17 07:56 AM |
| -2 | A different opinion on marriage and the red pillIf you're the CEO of a company, you're responsible for failure of your employees. If you're the leader, you are responsible for the failure of your wife. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/02/17 05:13 AM |
| 2 | I can't believe I stumbled across this submain sub is crap | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/02/17 05:07 AM |
| 0 | A different opinion on marriage and the red pillYou're being too kind to OP. I've seen some crap posts here recently, including the one by a not-rich guy posting about how to get rich. LOL. But I can hold my tongue no longer. From OP's posts, it's clear 1 - He is clueless about MRP or TRP. 2 - He has a very fragile ego and no self confidence (watch, he will post a defensive reply to this post) 3 - He is lying. (Hot 20 yo models my ass) He know so little of redpill that he doesn't even realize that what he's saying is biologically impossible. … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/02/17 04:52 AM |
| -1 | A different opinion on marriage and the red pillI banged dozens of unbelievably hot women. Fap doesn't count. LOL. Neither do prostitutes. From your posts, it's clear you have no self confidence. Hot women don't fuck guys like that. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/02/17 04:45 AM |
| 1 | A different opinion on marriage and the red pillIf, as is in your case, the man she married is crap, then it's his fault. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/02/17 04:43 AM |
| -1 | A different opinion on marriage and the red pillIt was your fault. It may not always be the man's fault but from your post, it's clear that you have psychological dysfunction, your posts don't sound like they're truthful. The force is strong with your hamster padwan. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/02/17 04:43 AM |
| 1 | So pissed off. desperate for advice, Cant take the fights anymore.beta bullshit buying flowers and writing her a nice card about how great she is as a mother and wife and person and that i will work on managing my life better to give her ‘the husband she deserves’ You're pathetic. STFU, leave the house, and lift. After 6 months of doing that, when you're at 10% body fat, come back here. | /r/askMRP | 04/02/17 11:07 PM |
| 1 | On a downward spiral of self-made misery; please helpDivorce her, declare bankruptcy, and start over. She gets half of your debt if you divorce. | /r/askMRP | 04/02/17 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Too much attention on the wife has me frustratedLift. There is no other option. | /r/askMRP | 04/02/17 11:02 PM |
| 2 | First postDidn't make it through the wall of victim vomit. Lift. | /r/askMRP | 04/02/17 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Finances questionNo, it's beta to go back on your promise. You are in charge of the finance. You made the promise. Your kid didn't get in. That your problem, not hers. Lead, for christsakes. | /r/askMRP | 01/02/17 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Struggling... N-CountYeah this. OP, get your ass out of your head and head out of your ass. You're being freaking ridiculous. Man up and just forget her past. You're being a piece of crap. | /r/askMRP | 01/02/17 12:19 AM |
| 3 | FR - Main event & on my way outNo, I think he's real. He never showed her real dread. In her eyes, his SMV is still low. | /r/askMRP | 01/02/17 12:17 AM |
| 2 | FR - Main event & on my way outNo, I disagree. He's blaming her refusal to show herself on shame issues. Separate issue from sex. She's using sex as a weapon. She doesn't realize he's ready and capable of leaving. The problem here is that OP has never dialed in the dread. He's not even at level 6/7. His wife doesn't know how precarious her position is. OP, if you're ready to pull the trigger, go for it. Lord knows you will upgrade big time. But let me tell you what's going to happen. As soon as she realizes you're serious abo… | /r/askMRP | 01/02/17 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Requesting Advice: Wife texting other man, right on the line of okI would go to survivinginfidelity.com and take their advice. They have more experience with this. This is a bit on the borderline. She's not hiding her phone or locking it yet. She's heading into an EA though. You have two choices - lay down the law, at the risk of looking insecure, or making exit plans. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/01/17 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 24, 2017Goo start. At this point, the one and only thing you should focus on is lifting. Lift hard. Raising your SMV is the first step, the necessary step. If you raise your SMV, then all the other things will fall into place - dread, OI, etc. Soon your wife will start giving you crap about how you're working out too much. You will know you're on the right track then. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/01/17 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 24, 2017Athol has retracted the 10 sec kiss rec. If you try it while your SMV isn't high enough it can backfire. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/01/17 08:40 PM |
| 1 | To all high schoolers on TRP, heed my advice. Go to a university that has a greek life and get a stem degree. You will be missing out majorly in life if you don’t.Being in a top tier frat can help, if you can get in. OP is a moron who posts his random experience as gospel when he has no idea of life after 25. STEM my ass. If you want to get stuck as a semi-blue collar guy forever, do a STEM degree. Sure, you'll make over 100K a year but you'll never make more than 200K a year. You'll be stuck in lower middle class forever. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/17 06:51 PM |
| 5 | To all high schoolers on TRP, heed my advice. Go to a university that has a greek life and get a stem degree. You will be missing out majorly in life if you don’t.Yeah, lot of unemployed lawyers. There are something like 6 million lawyers in the U.S. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/17 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Ending scheduled sexKeep it. You're in no shape to switch over. Your wife is not attracted to you yet. That's it. That's the problem. Nothing else needs to be discussed. Well, I lie. The problem is actually: You're not attractive to women yet. That is to say, you will know that it's safe to stop scheduled sex when it's clear other women find you attractive. Your wife isn't going to be attracted to you until you're attractive, period. So when you get to a point you can N-close, you won't need to schedule sex any mor… | /r/askMRP | 19/01/17 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Best way to introduce RP/MRP to a friendJust remember, you don't want to make him feel like it was his fault. It's more that AWALT. He's already devastated, don't pile on. If he's kicked her out already, it sounds like his SMV is way above her. If he's a nice guy, he was probably pedastalizing her. So help him realize he need to get validation from himself, not his wife. | /r/askMRP | 19/01/17 07:31 PM |
| 4 | Red Pill Married 20 years to button pushing low self esteem wifeLesson number one: your wife is a reflection of you. Lesson number two: if your wife isn't respecting you, it's because you are not worthy (yet) of respect. Read. Lift. Practice. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/01/17 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 17, 2017Fitness Slacked off for the first time in over a year, over the holidays. Back on track again, but I am kind of stuck in a plateau. Going up 5 lb every week or two now. I've added in curls, because of elbow pain, and read that it may be because my triceps are getting way bigger than my biceps. Oneitis I think I'm way beyond getting over oneitis now, perhaps too far. It used to be that I would plead and beg my wife for a date night. I would whine, and sulk, etc. and she never wanted to go out. It… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/01/17 06:37 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Catch and ReleaseGreat field report. Love reading these. Don't care if they're humblebrags or not, keep them coming! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/01/17 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Well, I Blew it...Good grief. What does it matter what she thinks? All you had to do was to smile and say, "that's for my girlfriend." | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/01/17 01:54 AM |
| 11 | What one year of MRP has shown meThank you for your post. Excellent analysis, and very helpful. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/17 08:53 AM |
| 2 | A RP Journey Part 2: Life got a lot betterI don't think so. OP, I enjoyed your post, and I want to thank you for it. Look, guys. The take-away is that 1) if you're high value, you will be in high demand 2) Don't worry about dumping your oneititis if you're high value 3) TRP works | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/17 08:52 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 10, 2017I saw your update - you should post it as a separate update post. I think a lot of people will miss your "happy ending/new beginning" update. Congrats. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/01/17 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Tough conversation with my wife coming up. How should I handle it?Great update. You should post it as a separate update so other people see it. Otherwise it's going to be buried. | /r/askMRP | 12/01/17 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Chad is coming to town...You're getting that response because you are so pussy whipped. You need to get to a point that you don't care if your wife goes with you or not. You are still getting validation from your wife. If she values you and your time, fine. But if not, fine. The question you should ask yourself is: what do you want to do? If you want to go to U2 (though Bono is gay and a loser) then go. DGAF if you lose face in front of your wife. You care so much about what your wife thinks about you. That make you bet… | /r/askMRP | 12/01/17 07:57 PM |
| 1 | How to AMOG in a group setting??? Are you insane? | /r/askMRP | 12/01/17 07:53 PM |
| 1 | How to AMOG in a group setting?Women don't dread. They branch swing. | /r/askMRP | 12/01/17 07:52 PM |
| 1 | How to AMOG in a group setting?Yeah, no oneitis, because... you're on DEFCON5 just because your wife got checked out. LOL | /r/askMRP | 12/01/17 07:51 PM |
| 1 | How to AMOG in a group setting?Almost no woman in her mid-30s is a 9. Period. No woman who's had 3 kids is a 9, no matter what age. If she were a 9, she wouldn't be with someone like you. Don't drink on the night out. You're already on the verge of making an ass out of yourself, alcohol will not help. Don't mate guard. Go befriend him, that's the best way forward. | /r/askMRP | 12/01/17 07:48 PM |
| 9 | Tough conversation with my wife coming up. How should I handle it?Your wife is a SAHM. Why are YOU doing the breakfast? My wife, even when things were at their worst, did all the cooking and most of the cleaning. You are doing too much. Let me give you some straight talk: You are doing way too much of her work. Therefore, she sees you as a low value man because a high value man would not be bending over backwards for a low value woman like her. You will never get high quality sex if you keep on being the wife in the relationship. That's right. Some men don't g… | /r/askMRP | 07/01/17 12:34 AM |
| 13 | How to have an EASY LTRLOL She does not go anywhere without your permission. She has no outside interests which are not approved by you. She only associates with people you approve of. Yeah, that's not harsh at all. If you have to spell these out as rules then 1) Your SMV isn't high enough. If it were, you wouldn't have to worry about who she's associating with. You need to lift, my friend. 2) You don't have high quality women. A high quality woman wouldn't have to be told these "rules." They would tell you where they… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/01/17 09:39 PM |
| 2 | How to have an EASY LTRLOL She does not go anywhere without your permission. She has no outside interests which are not approved by you. She only associates with people you approve of. Yeah, that's not harsh at all. If you have to spell these out as rules then 1) Your SMV isn't high enough. If it were, you wouldn't have to worry about who she's associating with. You need to lift, my friend. 2) You don't have high quality women. A high quality woman wouldn't have to be told these "rules." They would tell you where they… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/17 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Here's Your ExampleYou need to let them dry out completely from the sweat. You can use a shoe dryer. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/12/16 06:27 PM |
| 5 | Break down this conflict pleaseYeah. This. OP, why are you hiding behind your little kid? | /r/askMRP | 16/12/16 08:14 PM |
| 5 | What to do about my wife's BFFYup. No problem here. So long as you keep your dick out of BFF, you are in the zone. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/12/16 12:53 AM |
| 13 | Suspect wife is starting emotional affairshe took her phone out of my hand when I grabbed it once (we shared them often) nervously noticed she logged out of work mail (never did that) . Being paranoid I tried to login and found out she changed password Dead giveaway. No kids? Take the money and run like hell. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/12/16 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 06, 2016I have been socially weak always, but I am getting there now. And it ain't stopping. The social section of my OYS is going to be THE most important piece in the puzzle that my life is. If I get divorced, my social network is going to be my support system in some form. And every week I am going to get better at this. I am learning that the most uncomfortable thing I could do to myself everyday is put myself into social situations and I am learning that social situations are THE test of my frame. … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/12/16 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 06, 2016In one occasion she just laughed at me and it made me butt hurt. Dude, don't get discouraged. My wife used to laugh at me too, and worse. She would literally mock me. But now... well, just read my posts. You will get there too. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/12/16 11:02 PM |
| 6 | Feel like I am choking on the red pill. What am I doing wrong?In your other post, you wrote in a final act of desperation, I begged her to not leave if there was any chance of us working on and fixing our marriage. It was at that point she confessed to the affairs her reason being it would be impossible to consider staying married without her telling me and ending the affair. That is pathetic. She is still banging that guy, and she wants to leave. She's resentful that she has to stay. And she's lost all respect for you because a man who allows himself to b… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/12/16 11:46 PM |
| 6 | Women Perceive SMV as a Weighted AverageWTF is this? I see women married to multimillionaires screw the brains out of the stucco contractor all the time. Money mean jack if you're a fat slob with no game. Yeah, if you're a complete loser barely making rent it's a turn off but Ferrari ain't going to get you pussy. I know a shitload of guys who own Ferraris who haven't had sex in months or years. One of my best friends has so many expensive cars he keeps his Ferrari parked on the street to make room for his "good" cars in his garage and… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/16 04:20 AM |
| 48 | Are women mean to you? Its because you have low SMVCan confirm. Women treat fat fucks like shit. I used to be one, and it was bad. Didn't know how bad until I got into shape. Damn, a world of difference. Btw, men treat you a shitload better as well if you're buff and ripped. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/16 04:14 AM |
| 2 | When you notice that girls actually like youYeah, once your body fat gets below 10% and you've been working out, you'll find that happens a lot. I get looks from women all the time now. Funny thing is, it starts off with looks from HB5s an 6s, and then goes slowly up from that until HB7s and 8s are looking at you. I was giving a talk a few weeks ago, and the hilarious thing is that I would make eye contact with chicks in the audience and they would quickly look away, as if they had been staring. Except it's OK to stare at the speaker... J… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/16 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 29, 2016On my flight down to the studio town, HB8 chick on the side seat. Chick went crazy because I was carrying a bass and looked like a musician. All kinds of IOIs. Flirted with her on the flight. Ends up giving me her number. First catch and release after marriage. Congrats. Doesn't that feel great? Keep on doing that, and you wil be stunned by how that gives you OI and how OI gives you peace of mind. Bravo. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/12/16 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 29, 2016Quick update. Lifting: had setback. Somehow screwed up my knee doing squats. Have been doing just upper body for the last week or so. Sorely tempted to try squats again before knee is fully healed but trying to resist. On a bulk and I don't like it! Losing definition in abs and in the face. After having a six pack and sharp jawlines, I don't like the softness. The bulk isn't really helping me increase the weights, I think I am hitting plateau. I'm close to where I want to be in terms of muscles,… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/12/16 03:31 AM |
| 3 | Wife works evenings - Input on how to be alphaStop. Rewind. A year ago she told me she loves me but isn't in love with me, I should find a girl friend etc. Whoa, you're treading on thin ice buddy. My wife told me to get myself a girlfriend too, which is what led me to MRP. I went bat crazy (don't do this) and did a full investigation. What I concluded was that she probably wasn't cheating but had major hots for a divorced dad at the kids school. Your wife is in Stage 1 or Stage 2 of what's described in Women's Infidelity. You need to take a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/16 01:56 AM |
| 7 | Wife works evenings - Input on how to be alphaYou sound like a guy who's going to do great with MRP. Financially successful, fairly fit, and more importantly, disciplined, like Perseus. Something is off here. Your wife is gone most evenings and most weekends? Don't go all mate-guarding crazy, like I did, but are you sure you know what she's doing? It sounds like she doesn't want to be around you. Why? You've got to start scheduling family activities. Don't be like I was and do the divide and conquer thing - one parent takes the kids to the … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/12/16 03:21 AM |
| 2 | Girl won't go out with me because I have a GirlfriendNo. Having a GF makes you more attractive. But don't game her with texting. You need to see her in person, and then she'll bang you. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/16 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Banging HB9 with boyfriend, wanted to break up with him & date me, now no more it seems.She has never cheated before, I was her first and it took some serious work but I prevailed. You won't be the last | /r/askTRP | 02/12/16 02:47 AM |
| 5 | My thoughts on lifting as the go to answerIf you're a fat skinny fucker you've got to lift. If you already have six pack, it will still help but is it necessary? No, but if you're screwing 7s now, you'll be screwing 8s if you pack on 15 pounds of muscle. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/16 02:42 AM |
| -26 | Yet another young man's life ruined because of a false rape charge.Rule 1, 2, 3, and 4 = don't have sex with a drunk girl. It's called rape. Don't have sex with a drunk girl. The dude got off light, to tell you the truth. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/16 02:37 AM |
| 1 | HOW TO GET LAID LIKE A WARLORD: 37 Rules of Approaching Model-Tier GirlsThat's not a HB9. Or even an 8. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/16 07:39 PM |
| 1 | HOW TO GET LAID LIKE A WARLORD: 37 Rules of Approaching Model-Tier GirlsFirst of all, that study asked what physical traits were desirable, not whether physical was more important than confidence. Most studies show confidence is most attractive aspect of men, not physical attributes. Besides, studies that ask what women want vs. what they do are crap. Studies that look at what they do confirms that confidence is the most important attribute. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/16 07:37 PM |
| 2 | HOW TO GET LAID LIKE A WARLORD: 37 Rules of Approaching Model-Tier GirlsYeah, awesome post. Finally something other than teenagers whining about Muslims or posting advice on things they have no experience with. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/16 07:06 PM |
| 2 | HOW TO GET LAID LIKE A WARLORD: 37 Rules of Approaching Model-Tier GirlsYeah, well did you see Paulina and Rick? http://imgur.com/a/qln8z http://imgur.com/a/h3VqY | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/16 07:03 PM |
| 3 | HOW TO GET LAID LIKE A WARLORD: 37 Rules of Approaching Model-Tier GirlsI think he's saying that you don't have to be buff to pull HB8 and HB9. He's not saying being buff doesn't help. I've seen short and not-so-good looking guys pull women successfully, but their frame was just incredible. It's like saying you don't have to be tall and good looking to lead men. This is true, but it is easier if you are. If your frame is strong enough to pull hot women, it will be so good you will be a leader among men. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/16 06:55 PM |
| 13 | HOW TO GET LAID LIKE A WARLORD: 37 Rules of Approaching Model-Tier GirlsShe smiles, and tells you warmly, "I'm sorry, you look like a nice guy but I'm afraid I have a boyfriend." That's a true rejection, my friend, when she lets you down gently. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/16 06:47 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 22, 2016My guess is that the psychiatrist is fucking up your daughter's memory. There are many documented cases where false memories are produced by suggestions by the psychiatrist. I would get a new psychiatrist for your daughter. Oh, and be super careful of leaving traces of your posts. If you get in a lawsuit, you could be asked to produce anything related to your daughter. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/16 02:59 AM |
| 6 | "If you're not losing most of your approaches you are not pushing hard enough": Go For NoThis perfectly illustrates abundance mentality, DGAF, and game. GDAF yes, but game, no. You don't have to set yourself up for a slap dude. If you're jacked, and have game, you're never going to get slapped. After working out for 18 months hard, and getting my body fat down to 10%, I now never get a nasty rejection. It's always a smile even if it's a no. Go lift. Go approach. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/16 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Men just don't get to cash in on their peak SMV years due to the circumstances like women do.Yup. Just don't get married. If I weren't married, I would be hitting 22 year old pussy left and right. How do I know? because my divorced friends are drowning in 22 year old pussy. Even the guy who's 45 is banging HB7,8 and 8s all day long. If you're a single guy at age 37-40, and are in shape (work out, have six pack), and are not a loser (have a real job) then you will be getting 29 year old HB7s and 8s all day and all night long. Yeah, there are no HB10s and very few HB9s are age 29 but you … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/16 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Money doesn't increase your SMV, only your RMV.Ha. These women are not flying to fuck these guys. They're post wall women looking for husbands. As soon as they're married and have the desired number of kids, bam! dead bedroom. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/16 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Money doesn't increase your SMV, only your RMV.Would more girls want to fuck you if you were rich? No. More girls would want to marry you. But not fuck. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/16 02:18 AM |
| 2 | Money doesn't increase your SMV, only your RMV.not a negative but not in and of itself a positive on SMV | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/16 02:16 AM |
| 3 | Money doesn't increase your SMV, only your RMV.My friend, that happens all the time. In fact, it's not an aberration, it is expected behavior. Didn't you read about the guy who learned never to wear his Rolex because he never got laid when he wore it? Or the guy who made his apartment look smaller to get more pussy? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/16 02:15 AM |
| 3 | Money doesn't increase your SMV, only your RMV.Not bullshit and can't be shown, because OP is right. This keeps coming up over and over again in this sub. I was just talking to a HB8 girl last week when the topic of sports cars came up. She said a sports car is a turn-on for a good looking guy and a turn-off for a loser guy. A guy in a Ferrari who's fat, middle-aged and balding just makes him look worse. Look, in my line of work, I see a lot of millionaires and quite a few men with private jets. Many of them, including the guys with jets, ar… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/16 02:12 AM |
| 0 | How to deal with competition from other guys?Yeah, it's hard to go so OI that you don't give a fuck about shit like this. Lift -> game women -> OI The way I got over this is that I got to a point where women hotter than my wife are hitting on me. The realization that the worst that could happen would be for my wife to have an affair and then I would have my choice of better women did the trick. You really have to not mate guard. That will fuck everything up and put you at square one if your wife even smell a whiff of insecurity. By the way… | /r/askMRP | 19/11/16 02:40 AM |
| 2 | A question about catch and releaseword could get back to my wife that I'm trying to get chicks digits That would be great. You should hope for that. It's coming with the fears I'm sure most people experience. Failure, awkwardness, ridicule and embarrassment. I used to worry about that too. I used to think, "what if she laughs at me? What if she acts like a bitch?" But you know what? I am finding that if you are attractive (you've been lifting, your body fat is 10% or below), well dressed, and confident (and as long as you start … | /r/askMRP | 19/11/16 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Dread backfiring.. progressing too fast?Flak is heaviest over the target. Increasing meltdowns means you're getting to where you need to be. Push through | /r/askMRP | 19/11/16 02:28 AM |
| 1 | If AWALT when can one reasonably expect to see a different sexual attitude from her.This is going to take combination of several things. 1 - Your physical SMV. Lifting + body fat. When you have a six pack, when you are at least squatting your own weight, you're probably at the minimum of where you need to be. 2 - Your mental SMV. Passing shit tests and comfort tests. 3 - Dread. Your wife has to see other women hitting on you in front of her. This will happen when your SMV is high enough. 4 - Your wife's SMV. If it's really high (hint, it isn't as high as you think it is) or she… | /r/askMRP | 19/11/16 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Swallowing the pill while dealing with a crisisI had a drinking problem until I found MRP. Just put one foot in front of another. Start lifting, and every day when you make progress, write it down. Read the sidebar and implement. You'll look up one day and realize, shit, I've come a long way. | /r/askMRP | 10/11/16 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Question on dread with low self esteem LTRWife is a solid 8 She's not an 8. No matter if she is spending hours at the gym. You have wife goggles on. There are no 40 yo 8s. At best, she's a 7, but probably a 6 would be my guess. Even if she were a 10 at age 20, she would be at best 9 at 30 and 7 at 40. You, on the other hand, at 6'5", is already way above her SMV. There are no 6'5" guys who are less than a 7. The problem is, she thinks you're a 5. Start working on dread. Game some chicks. | /r/askMRP | 10/11/16 02:09 AM |
| 0 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 08, 2016Mission Statement (Draft) To leave a positive mark on the world. To be the best leader and father I can be. Lifting and Diet Back on bulk. I made very little progress on the cut but weights are going up quickly on the bulk. Elbows are OK. Shoulders still a bit troublesome. Stats: 6'1", 195 lb, DL 300/ BP 190 / SQ 275, BF 10% Pretty on point with the diet, except for one excursion with sweets this week. Trying to up the fiber in the diet. Still on low carb, high protein diet which is working well… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/11/16 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 08, 2016She likes to play a game where she'll try to stay up as late as possible and wait me out until I fall asleep so I don't try to initiate sex. Yeah, mine did that too. Does she have the granny panties and the long flannel PJs too? my Russian mail order bride, making sure I got the right size. You wouldn't believe the return policy on them LOL Why are you with this chick, again? No kids, no marriage--is she hot? Even with your wife goggles off? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/11/16 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 08, 2016How are you measuring your BF? That photo is probably closer to 10% than 15%. And 5'11" and 160 lb doesn't sound like 15% unless you're a puddle with no muscle. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/11/16 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 08, 2016Hair transplanted to front of my scalp has really started to grow in the last month. You're officially my favorite poster now. You were killing it, even before the transplant? Dude, you must have rock solid game. she can be your friend or your lover Hm, it's usually: she can be your mother or your lover. But this might be right too... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/11/16 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 08, 2016Like many I came here primarily to fix my sex life, discovered it was ME that needed fixing This. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/11/16 10:36 PM |
| 0 | FR: 8 months swallowing still trudging still grinding still learningStarting point matters a lot. I made rapid progress but I was not as far gone as some of the other guys here. Sex had been steadily declining in quality and quantity over several years but became unacceptable about a year before I found MRP. But never reached complete DB. Still not getting anal but sex on demand almost any other way, and that happened about 6 months in. If you're slacking on lifting, you're going to make slower progress. For the first 6 months after finding MRP, I lifted hard ev… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/11/16 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Birthday weeksAh, if only. Don't forget where you started off my friend. I remember being completely pissed because my wife wouldn't wear a piece of jewelry I bought her. | /r/askMRP | 05/11/16 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Birthday weeksIt's the same guy probably but that doesn't mean he's troll. In fact, it's evidence he's real. | /r/askMRP | 05/11/16 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Birthday weeksI made her 3 special videos. Funny fucking videos. With hired actors. (not very expensive) but still I went through a shitload of trouble doing it. I showed her one a day for three days. I posted them on her FB page so all of her idiot friends could be reminded it was her birthday week and make her feel more special. She thought they were "cute". No, you fucking idiot. She's miserable because when you do things like this for to her, she is reminded that she could have done better than you. As a … | /r/askMRP | 05/11/16 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Getting hit hard by hb5s and below, wonder about the reason.Because you're not very attractive. Lift. When I was starting out, I first started attracting 4s and 5s, and 40 year old women. As I kept on lifting, SMV and age of women hitting on me steadily got better and better. | /r/askMRP | 05/11/16 12:26 AM |
| 1 | I have a good marriage but I have 2 unrelated issues with my wife. Looking for advice. Please see details.That position does work the best, but only if your cock curves in the right direction. Whether a woman can have PIV orgasm does depend on the sex position and the curvature of the penis, not just the woman. | /r/askMRP | 05/11/16 12:23 AM |
| 1 | I have a good marriage but I have 2 unrelated issues with my wife. Looking for advice. Please see details.Catholics believe sex is for procreation only. That's 25% of the U.S. population right there. | /r/askMRP | 05/11/16 12:22 AM |
| 1 | I have a good marriage but I have 2 unrelated issues with my wife. Looking for advice. Please see details.Magic Wand. Even better. Don't get the ripoffs on Amazon. Get the real deal from a sex store,. | /r/askMRP | 05/11/16 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Were Most of Us Really Ever Alphas?Most guys here were, at least partly. I was fairly alpha. Girls were hitting on me constantly, IDGAF, and I was an elite level athlete. I was never a real asshole, so I wouldn't say I was a strong alpha, but I had enough pussy flying at me that I didn't have to, and never did, take any shit from women. Lots of ONS. Then I developed oneititis. | /r/askMRP | 05/11/16 12:13 AM |
| 1 | One Month In - Do I avoid/deny sex?You didn't go to survivinginfidelity dot com, did you? What you need to be prepared for is that when you file for the divorce, she may beg for another chance. Be ready. What will probably happen is that you will file, and by then you will be fit and attractive. The OM probably has no interest in anything other than free sex from your wife. He may be banging multiples chicks. She may go to him, and he will kick her back to the curb. She will then beg you to take her back. What will you do then? I… | /r/askMRP | 02/11/16 09:20 PM |
| 1 | I guess this was a comfort testYeah. That is exactly the question. I'm trying to make sure I'm being fair to her. Women who are much hotter than my wife are regularly hitting on me now, and maybe I'm dissatisfied with my wife now that there are better options out there. The truth is, she was never a terrible partner but also never a fantastic one. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/11/16 07:06 PM |
| 1 | I guess this was a comfort testYeah, that's a good question. Part of the problem may be that what I'm providing, she's not interested in. Fancy lifestyle - she's not interested in that. Meeting interesting people - not interested. Travel - not interested. Presents/jewelry - not interested. She's very "low maintenance" in some ways. Leadership, she's interested in. I take care of business - fix things around the house, handle the finances, fix cars, keep everything running smoothly so she doesn't need to worry. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/11/16 07:03 PM |
| 1 | I guess this was a comfort testmen love unconditionally I did, until I took the pill. Look at my initial posts. I had on a pedestal, treated her like a queen. She never had to worry about a single thing, financial or otherwise. Unfortunately, all of that turned out to be counterproductive. When you have a daughter, do you want her to date a man like you? Hell yeah. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/11/16 06:53 PM |
| 1 | I guess this was a comfort testShe's a good mom because her children matter to her. But she's a bad wife because you don't matter to her. Yeah, that is right on the point. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/11/16 06:51 PM |
| 1 | How To Balance Leading vs Withdrawing Time and Attentionis being too affectionate (cuddling and such) perceived as a big time beta? Typically, yes. See https://archive.is/xhvYd Don't use affection. Use kino. They're very different. | /r/askMRP | 30/10/16 04:44 PM |
| 1 | FR: follow up to 'I have nowhere else to post this'Good luck collecting on that covert contract... not. | /r/askMRP | 30/10/16 07:01 AM |
| 2 | She already gave me an STD. I'm on antibiotics as I write this.survivinginfidelity.com | /r/askMRP | 30/10/16 06:52 AM |
| 0 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 18, 2016Just a quick update. Elbow is better now. Shoulder still fucked up. Working around those issues. Almost done with cutting--it was really hard to increase the weights on the cut. Totally whiffed a chance to raise some dread today. Was exhausted from a race when wife and I ran into a good looking neighbor. Didn't engage, when in retrospect it would have been a perfect chance to increase dread--I know this HB7 chick really digs me. Been off reddit since last weekend, so doing well on that. Drinking… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/16 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 18, 2016Disagree. There was a survey on talkaboutmarriage forum a while back. Many of the couples there said they had never rejected sex and had never had been rejected in their entire marriage. And it wasn't like 20%, it was like 60%-70%. We just don't see those kinds of couples on this sub, do we? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/16 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 18, 2016Scale says 19%. The scales don't measure body fat. All of the "conductance" scales estimate your body fat based on weight, height, and age. They are completely useless. An engineer posted a really long review on Amazon on the algorithm used in those scales. Basically, what it tells you is the average body fat of all people with your weight/age/height. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/16 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Sprinkling Alpha and Cutting off Beta doesn't workopenness and emotional vulnerability Everything you said is correct, except this part. Vulnerability is the kiss of death. Don't go there. OP, when people say kill the beta, there is a bit of mixing of terms. What they mean is that you need to do less of the anti-alpha stuff like oneitis, compliance, and generally being a pushover. Beta is not the opposite of alpha. True beta is being the emotional rock, providing security, etc. Lowering beta never does any good. You need both alpha and beta in … | /r/askMRP | 15/10/16 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Need input, hard to stay the course with pregnant wifeMake sure you paternity test that kid when it comes. My wife was not like that at all. She should be able to do most of what she was doing until last couple of months. Is she working? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/16 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 11, 2016RP idea that every women will be a slut for the right man is fantasy Well, some women are lesbian, yes. So not 100%. But damn close. For example, my wife still refuses anal. So for me, she's not willing to go there. At least yet. But... if you go to infidelity forums, almost every woman who has an affair (and 100% will cheat if given a chance), has anal sex. So, the right man might be an affair partner (affair sex is always hotter), but I think TRP guys are right on this. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/16 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 11, 2016Context clues don't lead me to believe that she will fuck me like Brad Pitt even if I became him. You may be right. But you may be wrong. When things flip, they can go from 0 to 60 in a night. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/16 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 11, 2016Dude, congrats. You've come an incredibly long way in 3 months. With that kind of discipline, I agree you should go back to school. Not to vocational school. Maybe programming - lot of fish people are programmers, and very good ones. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/16 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 11, 2016Yup, once you realize you can upgrade, jealousy will be gone. In a flash. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/16 03:16 AM |
| 4 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 11, 2016Thinking about adding deadlifts There is no think. Just do it. DL and squats are the two pillars of lifting. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/16 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 11, 2016You must be skinny fat, 162 at 5'10", you shouldn't have so much gut. I cut first, about 25 pounds until I got down to <10% body fat before I started bulking up. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/16 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 11, 2016just avoid low fat yogurt (or anything low fat) - they're packed with sugar, which is a lot worse. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/16 03:08 AM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 11, 2016No, you're not doing anything wrong. She is ignoring your new behavior now. She will next start making fun of it (Mine told me, "you're looking so weak and skinny," "are you sick? you should go see a doctor," etc.) She will then start fucking you, saying she hates the new body... while swolesting it. Keep going. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/16 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 11, 2016The craziest bitch I ever dated (stripper) kicked me in the balls once while in bed. I tit punched her hard enough to knock her out of the bed. First night we had anal sex. LOL | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/16 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 11, 2016No kids, no sex. You're basically already divorced. What makes me think she's having an affair? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/16 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 11, 2016you're such a jerk That's sure sign you've passed the shit test. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/16 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 11, 2016Now I know you are going to say she's fucking the trainer They always fuck the trainer if he'll let them. But if there's no evidence, he's not letting her. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/16 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 11, 2016he's obviously horny but she wants it HER way and is giving me a steady stream of don't do this, don't do that. Read the sex god method. Ignore her. Manhandle her. If she doesn't let you manhandle her, your SMV needs to be higher, so keep lifting. Need a lot of work on my own mate guarding and insecurities caused by her past emotional affair. Yeah, I had a hard time letting go of mate guarding myself, and if you read my posts, some of the things I said were off base. The best way to get away fro… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/16 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 11, 2016Did the sex taper off when she started hanging out with him? Cheaters cheat. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/16 12:50 AM |
| 1 | It's all my fault. What happens next will also be my fault.Women don't lose libido. Work on yourself my man. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/16 12:47 AM |
| -1 | [FR][Advanced] Demonstrating frame like Keyser Soze, then holding it.This is not nuking. It's called being butthurt. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/16 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 04, 2016The Bad I'm down to drinking twice a week, but I don't know if getting drunk twice a week counts as progress... Pulled something in my shoulder. Damn. That, plus the elbow tendonitis that hasn't gotten better is not good. Still struggling with decreasing attraction to my wife. See below for more info. The Good I've been making myself approach more. The other night, wife and I went to a school function. I refrained from drinking (yay), and turned on the charm. Couple of women were hanging around … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/16 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 04, 2016Hambley, keep it up. You're making progress, though it may not feel like it. If you're up to 315 on DL and you're at 185 at 6', you're almost there. your body fat's probably almost at 10%, right? Keep on trying to game women, but if you're shy like me, keep on lifting hard. Once women start approaching you, you'll get the confidence to approach other women. Oh, and it sounds like your wife needs to see other women flirting with you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/16 07:50 AM |
| 3 | (FR) Rock bottom. The truth will set you free… and completely destroy youI almost instantly forgave her in my mind. Dude, remember this: women can't be attracted to men they don't respect. If you don't make her earn forgiveness, she will cheat on you again. In fact, if you told her you forgive her already, then I recommend you next her. She has to show true remorse. I'm not saying you don't forgive her. If you were a drunk captain, then it's not her fault - read jtoh: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3tromi/recent_and_distant_past_possible_infidelity_… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/16 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Into the family therapy domeSorry you're going through this Persaeus. Yup, they will try to max out her health coverage, for sure. It doesn't need to be said that you need to be a rock for your wife and daughter. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/10/16 08:52 PM |
| 1 | How to pass this comfort/shit testWhat's the deal? You're unattractive. My wife did the same thing before MRP. This is not a shit test or a comfort test. It's pure disgust with your body. Come back after you've got yourself a sixpack and then we'll talk. Until then, lift. | /r/askMRP | 03/10/16 05:30 PM |
| 3 | What are some realistic options? Am I spinning my wheels and hopeless?Based on what you've said, she probably is having an emotional affair with him, and has been at least giving him blowjobs. "Seal the deal" in the best case means they haven't had sex yet, but it could also mean they haven't had anal sex yet. As Persaeus says, there are a lot of red flags, including full stop on sex 6 weeks ago. However, two green flags that suggest there is hope, and inconsistent with cheating are: 1) Asking for open marriage. Usually means she wants to cheat but is not as impul… | /r/askMRP | 03/10/16 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Stay the Course or Sayonara?1) If sex is this bad now, you will have a dead bedroom after marriage. 2) No woman has low libido. If she has low libido for you, she's fucking someone else (given how much you're on the road, this is highly likely) or she's lesbian (given her suggestion of other women in the bedroom, a possibility). Next her. | /r/askMRP | 03/10/16 04:48 PM |
| 1 | She's not cheating but.... Looking for a bit of advice.she called me uptight Dude, based on your post, you are uptight. She's just saying the truth. I know she is not physically cheating on me Of course not... except when she is. You can't know if she is or not unless you're following her around all day long. So, how to i confront this? Uh, you'll just drive her away if you mate guard. Solution is simple. Lift. (Well, that not all, but it's 90% of the solution. Trust me.) | /r/askMRP | 28/09/16 03:49 AM |
| 1 | 2 years report and ask for help on my IDGAF attitudeCould be a comfort test if you're 2 years in. | /r/askMRP | 28/09/16 03:45 AM |
| 1 | thoughts on open marriageWife gave me the I love you but not in love with you talk and repeatedly told me to go get a gf. Yeah, my wife told me the same thing. Once my SMV got high enough, she started fucking me like a rabbit on speed. Do you want to fuck your wife or not? If not, go to u/therougepill. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3l87kz/fr_two_year_married_red_pill_journey_lessons_and/ | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/09/16 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 20, 2016OYS 9/23/16 The Good On a cut. Abs clearly visible again, though I'm losing some muscle mass. Work going well, though I need to put some more hours in, things slipping a bit. Last week on OYS I posted how I've let myself slack off on gaming random women. So I've been upping my game. Few nights ago, on a business trip, I was eating by myself at a fancy place, courtesy of expense account. At the next table over was a HB8.5 blonde MILF. Sort of L.A. looking - plastic surgery/Chanel look (she was ac… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/09/16 11:40 PM |
| 2 | FR: Evidence the helped me detect a comfort testcombo shit/comfort test you did fine, though too many words and a bit of DEER, I agree | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/09/16 09:30 PM |
| 0 | Mr. Slippery’s Dummy Guide to Married Alpha Status?What? This post contains no information of use to anyone who's read the sidebar. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/09/16 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Are these comfort tests?No. You are very far from comfort tests. Comfort tests are when she is afraid you will leave her. Next time, you should say, you want out, there is the door. | /r/askMRP | 21/09/16 08:50 PM |
| 1 | FR: Shit tested about how I've been handling her shit tests :)Not bad. Your wife's reaction means things are going in the right direction. Keep it up, and continue to lift. I don't think it matters at this point whether you do a perfect job on the shit tests. It is just practice at this point. It is practice sparring. In a few months, when your smv is higher, her demeanor will completely change. | /r/askMRP | 21/09/16 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Total newb intro and field reportSolid report. I think you are on the right track. That was a comfort test. Your starting situation must not have been too bad if you are there already, or you must be pretty attractive vs your wife. An easy way to pass a comfort test is to stfu and give a hug. But you did good. How are your finances? Are you leading in the house, handling scheduling, making decisions, etc? Outside interests? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/09/16 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 20, 2016While it's true you do need to provide comfort, it seems unusual to me that you have run into depleted beta bank at this stage. Are you sure? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/09/16 01:50 AM |
| 0 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 20, 2016Going nuclear, eh. It sounds like you are ready. I'm betting she will turn around. But you know what? If not, then you have done what you can, and the onus is on her. MRP said you will have a happy life and marriage and great sex if you improve yourself, but it never said it will necessarily be with your current wife. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/09/16 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 20, 2016It's amazing how MRP helps guys cut out drinking, smoking, gambling. I was basically an alcoholic preMRP. Dude, relapses are inevitable, but get right back on wagon, eh? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/09/16 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 20, 2016Drop the weight and you'll be having sex regardless of the pregnancy | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/09/16 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 20, 2016No sugar is key. I'm still working on getting rid of all alcohol... Have a cocktail in my hand right now. One trick. Carbs and sugar eaten within 30 min of a workout goes straight to muscle. But it has to be within 30 to 45 min. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/09/16 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 20, 2016One fewer nice guy BP man in this world. I learned on Friday that my ex-brother in law (from a stepsister) shot himself that afternoon. We were not really close, but this makes the third man I have known that killed himself ostensibly over the loss of a woman or his family. My step sister is a cunt among cunts. No point in going over the details as the entire thing is just pathetic. The sickening part was watching my family circle the wagons around my cunt step sister to where “he always had men… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/09/16 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Getting in the leadHow could that be contentious? Video games = waste of time = DLV. Full stop. Yeah, you can waste a little bit of time playing it, but don't fool yourself. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/09/16 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Everything is great in my marriage besides sexnot a beta not an alpha..caught in between. You're a liar. You're about as blue pill as they come. Fucked me and sucked me for 4 days straight without me asking . You've got a ways to go. Once I turned red pill, my wife fucked and sucked me without asking for over 3 months straight, every night, except shark weeks, and sometime even then. | /r/askMRP | 18/09/16 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Everything is great in my marriage besides sexYup. Listen to this OP. | /r/askMRP | 18/09/16 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Question about sex with the wife?We chatted last month and talked about our sex lives and since we can be busy during the week, we are trying to have sex at least fri and sat no matter what . Cringeworthy. STFU. Don't schedule sex. Don't talk about sex. Acta, non verba. More you talk about scheduling sex, less it will happen. You clearly haven't done your homework. Read the sidebar. | /r/askMRP | 18/09/16 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Money DOES NOT make you betaWealthy men also occupy a position where female Hypergamy starts running out of "better deals" to chase Only to a certain point. It's aU shaped curve. Once you get to eight figures net worth, the women pack up and leave because with half the money they get in a divorce, they no longer need the provider. I work with a lot of own-your-own-private-jet guys, and I've seen it over and over. When a dude makes $50M or more windfall, the wife shortly files for divorce. I'd say probably over 50% of the t… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/16 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Main Event Follow UP: Return HomeIt wasn't overnight. It was the end result of a long road, and hard work. My experience is similar. Was making progress, making progress, until the main event. I told her something similar, and boom, 180 degrees. It was an overnight success six months in the making. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/09/16 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 13, 2016Right, I should have said lower libido for me. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/09/16 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 13, 2016Damn, your posts are getting as long as Jacktenofhearts. You sure you have a fulltime job? You're 5'6" and you're pulling in that many women? Gotta hand it to you buddy... the wife fucked me three times the day before I left Yeah, interestingly, my wife always blows me before I leave on business trips now. Always. Good post, and it sounds like your wife's turned around 180 degrees. Kudos. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/09/16 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 13, 2016The Good Continuing to lift. Down to every other day, from every day. Benching more than my weight, finally. (Always had weak chest.) Now benching/squatting/DLing are all above my weight. In cutting phase, down an inch on the waist, was starting to lose some definition on the abs but getting them back. Cardio every day. Running races. Career going well. On point there, except I'm wasting too much time on this damn reddit. Cut down on drinking further. Now only couple of times a month, down from … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/09/16 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 13, 2016My Wife's Admiration - My wife does not admire me or look up to me and I'm not sure this is ever going to change. It will. Keep on raising your SMV | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/09/16 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Anyone Else Losing Attraction To Their WifeHa, I had my T checked as well. Isn't your wife Korean? They usually age very well... | /r/askMRP | 12/09/16 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Anyone Else Losing Attraction To Their WifeOh my friend... because she's still attractive For now. She's going to look less and less attractive the more redpill you get. When I was getting almost no sex from my wife and no one was hitting on me, I thought she was a 9. When I started lifting, started getting decent sex from my wife, and 5s and 6s started touching my arm, I thought she was an 7 or 8. Now that I'm getting pornstar sex from my wife, and 7s and 8s are touching me on my arm, my wife looks like a 6 or 7. It was really hard to s… | /r/askMRP | 12/09/16 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Mini-FR & ObservationHer response (I’m paraphrasing here) was that this chick is the smartest, most successful kind of gold digger, because she didn’t go for a high-value man who would take lots of effort to get her claws into, but for a low value man who would give her everything he has in return for very little effort on her part. I realized, of course, that she was describing our relationship by proxy without realizing it; I was that schmuck who was giving her everything I could in return for very little in retur… | /r/askMRP | 12/09/16 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Main event - happening now?Of course sex is good. She's batshit. DO NOT STICK YOUR DICK IN CRAZY. File for divorce, it's not worth it. | /r/askMRP | 09/09/16 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Tests I have passed and failedshe was running out of time if she was EVER GOING TO FIND ANYTHING BETTER LOL She miscalculated the timing of the wall. She left her husband in her early 40s... She only gets offers of commitment from men she's not interested in (Beta chumps) LOL LOL but her husband has moved on. He's been dating another woman for about 6 months now LOL LOL LOL If a couple in their early 40s separate, the guy, if in shape, will upgrade and the woman will downgrade. Yeah, I'd say she's past her "best by" date. bt… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/09/16 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Living with alphas, how do I approach this year?Hanging out with HV men will raise your value. Lift. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/16 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Captains Log - 1+ MonthNeed to work on delivering what I say I will without reminders and without procrastination. Try delivering before the deadline, and more than what you said you will. It will work wonders. | /r/askMRP | 06/09/16 10:04 PM |
| 13 | [FR] "You have 10 minutes to get ready, wear something fun."Clap. Clap. Clap. Way to go bro. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/09/16 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Nothing she wouldn't do.Add value, yes. A woman being an emotional support tampon for man, no. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/09/16 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Nothing she wouldn't do.Dude, you're way blue pill. Women don't fight for their men. Men fight for the women. Women don't provide emotional support to men, only to boys and blue pills. Women are neither liability nor assets. They're your responsibility, just like children. You're not their responsibility. A man who looks to his wife (or children) for emotional support is blue pill. Full stop. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/09/16 01:48 AM |
| -8 | Nothing she wouldn't do.So, you think your wife is going to be loyal to your memory after you're dead and are not around to protect her... OK... Good luck with that. A woman who supports and encourages you. Snap out of it man. You're her rock, she's not your mommy. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/09/16 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Giving gifts (birthday, anniversary, Xmas)nicest resteraunt in town no no no You don't reward bad behavior | /r/askMRP | 01/09/16 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Giving gifts (birthday, anniversary, Xmas)I had the same question as you when I first started out. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3o61id/presents/ The best response to your question are https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/05/19/be-a-skittles-man/ and https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/44ihif/explaining_the_skittles_man/ There are two things to consider. First, nice things you do for her that she doesn't earn is a DLV (display of low value). It's equivalent to wooing. Don't do that. It will just reduce your v… | /r/askMRP | 01/09/16 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Anger is spiraling out of control.Being angry at a woman for being a shit testing emotional rollercoaster is like being angry at a puppy for pissing on the floor. Yeah they made a mess but it's their nature, what are you going to do, scream at the dog until it stops? No, you're going to apply calm and rational training strategies that have been proven to work. Bravo | /r/askMRP | 01/09/16 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Anger is spiraling out of control.No. Don't talk to her about that. That's whining. STFU. The messasge you want to send is not "I'm going to work to keep you." It's "I'm going over here, if you want to come, great. If not, great." You're still stuck in the mindset of "if I do this, our relationship will improve and we'll be happy." No. You need to improve yourself for you, no one else. That's true enlightenment, grasshopper. | /r/askMRP | 01/09/16 06:10 PM |
| 1 | LTR disobeying dominance in sex and blocking affectionYour edit is still missing: LIFT | /r/askMRP | 01/09/16 06:01 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to this shit test?Your SMV is too low. The 10 second kiss advice was retracted by the author in a subsequent book, because it completely backfires if your SMV is not high enough. Try again after you've lost 50 lb and your body fat is at 10%. | /r/askMRP | 01/09/16 05:58 PM |
| 1 | LTR disobeying dominance in sex and blocking affectionI guarantee any guy in here who isn't a poser was pretty much on his way to ditching her when all of a sudden, she found the gym, laid off the cheetos, and learned that she loved to suck dick out of nowhere. Yup. | /r/askMRP | 01/09/16 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Is every MRPer rich as fuck?This is a common belief, but we have to parse it carefully. Women want to marry (and subsequently not have sex with) rich men. Women want to fuck a hot guy (regardless of his wealth). In my line of work, I work with many millionaires who are completely beta. I know for a fact most of them are getting no pussy, at least from their wives. My bet is that Zuckerberg is getting little to no pussy right now, the scrawny looking billionaire married a hard ass Chinese pediatrician. Money = blue pill On … | /r/askMRP | 26/08/16 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Is every MRPer rich as fuck?If you're making 150k a year your wife has some incentive to stay with you, even without any sort of attraction beyond your money. This is correct. Interestingly, if you're making >$1M a year, then there is incentive for the wife to leave you because then she can live comfortably on alimony after the divorce. I've seen over and over wives leaving their husbands after a big windfall because they can live happily on the alimony and half of the assets. | /r/askMRP | 26/08/16 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Woman still don't seem attracted to me although I've been following TRPHow much are you lifting? If you're not benching 250 and your body fat isn't 10%, then come back when you are. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/16 11:29 PM |
| 1 | In a LTR and girlfriend brings up how cute my friend is every time he comes up - how did I let this happen?Ignore it. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/16 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Girl says "lets just be friends"Text back: "sex" | /r/askTRP | 23/08/16 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Girl i knew in high school just called me her ,,best friend''. We talk on messenger only and i havent seen her for like 8 months now? WTF im supposed to tell her?Dude, you're wasting your time on her. Message her back: "You're my best friend with benefits" | /r/askTRP | 23/08/16 11:26 PM |
| 0 | Turning my wife into a sex kittenGet yourself down to 10% BF, and you will probably see what she's capable of. | /r/askMRP | 23/08/16 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Texting "guy friends" she hooked up withBe like Pete: **Did I screw up? So, I (f/25) have been seeing my boyfriend, Pete (m/30) for 6 months and its been wonderful. I really thought I'd found "the one" with him, but after last night I feel my world has collapsed and am not sure I've made the right decisions or if I was right. My heart feels like its been pulled out of my chest and I can't sleep. I'd never felt like this about anyone before. My good friend, who we'll call Dave, was my boyfriend from the age of 18 to 21, after which we … | /r/askMRP | 23/08/16 10:57 PM |
| 1 | More than a year into this. Some progress, but I'm about to explode.She has a pillow barricade that surrounds her in bed. My favorite line, LOL. Couple of links that may or may not help. Are you putting her on a pedestel too much? https://www.reddit.com/user/Fing_farted_on_me/submitted/ Are you too clingy? https://archive.is/xhvYd | /r/askMRP | 23/08/16 10:01 PM |
| 1 | More than a year into this. Some progress, but I'm about to explode.She doesn't realize your SMV is above hers. You need her to see other girls flirting with you. If she's on FB a lot, perhaps you should add the girls from daycare to your FB. Also, are you fully in charge of the household chores? Perhaps you should take over managing the daycare logistics. | /r/askMRP | 23/08/16 10:01 PM |
| 4 | Wife Returns to a Main EventI think he is The thing is, I am 100% serious. I am done with bitching and am kicking ass in all other areas of my life. She must add value or I am out and will fight. He's ready. He's been lifting, he's been learning how to handle shit tests. He's done everything, and now it's a question of whether she want to get off the ship or not. He's sailing on. Good job OP. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/08/16 12:11 AM |
| – | Girl I hard nexted unexpectedly tried to call me...No, you should text her, "Come over next Thurs if you want to talk and chill. Bring dinner and I will make breakfast." Then it will be clear what he's talking about. To be frank, I doubt he's got any chance. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/16 09:43 PM |
| 3 | Ex-GF apologized 2 1/2 months Post-Breakup...First of all, she's not sorry. She's just horny. Second, she's not an HB9. If she were HB9, she would not waste time texting her ex. If she were HB9, OP would be at least HB8. If OP were HB8, her coworker would have been at least HB9. Fat chance. If OP were HB8, he wouldn't be wasting time posting here, because he would be too busy screwing new chicks. Why does this matter? Because OP clearly still has oneitis. "He's still not over her." OP, go screw at least 10 plates. Screw until you realize y… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/16 09:40 PM |
| 0 | 1+ year of LTR, went from alpha to beta before I even knew what these things meantShe's plate material, not LTR material. She's probably shagging guys on the side. Start spinning plates | /r/askMRP | 03/08/16 09:29 PM |
| 4 | Entering LDR: MRP on tough mode or it is over?Prider, Prider, Prider... You know what needs to be done. No kids. 35 yo and therefore at your peak SMV. Wife disrespects you, flirts with guys, gets drunk on GNO and stays out until 4 am, goes on trips with single women... You know she's likely cheated on you already... Hopefully this LDR will snap you to your senses. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/08/16 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Surgery Shit TestYeah, spot on. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/08/16 08:52 PM |
| 5 | [FR] My First Field ReportCheck if your wife is having an affair. Try keto/low carb diet. Best way to lose fat. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/08/16 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Frustrated Chump Looking for a Slap From Reality1) STFU. You're talking way too much. 2) Stop making dinner. Go work out so you get home later than her. 3) And dump this girl and get a younger one. There is no way she's worth 5 year gap. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/08/16 08:36 PM |
| 1 | First Main EventHa. Yeah, "December me never got what he wanted" is a bit butthurt. But not bad, overall, for 2 months in. Based on your other posts, your SMV is rising. How's your wife's SMV? We need more info. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/08/16 08:32 PM |
| 1 | What kind of "risks" do you guys take?Yeah. Redpiller isn't someone who takes risks. He's not timid, but there is no need to show bravado. Confidence is all it takes. | /r/askMRP | 03/08/16 04:46 AM |
| 2 | My wife is sleeping with her friends husbandIf you're not a troll, you really need to head over to survivinginfidelity.com instead of here. Your wife is still banging him, btw. | /r/askMRP | 03/08/16 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Don't want to f*ck this up. How to proceed.Go back in the bedroom to put on pants and leave to go to a bar or something. It's 1am at this point. LOL. I used to do this too. 1 am, and go down to do a few sets. "I'm not butthurt honey, I always like to work out after midnight." But hey, it's better than continuing to whine for sex all night long. | /r/askMRP | 02/08/16 12:00 AM |
| 3 | FR: Looking Good MattersDid you mean swole pigs? And the ladies sure like their bacon... OK, getting off topic here... Yeah, it's crazy. IOIs everywhere I go and I catch women staring at me all the time, even 20 year olds. The other day, a young blonde girl behind me in a line started chatting me up. I saw her face drop when I left without asking for her number (I know, I should have, but I was really tired after a race and didn't even have my phone with me). But I look around and I must say, 90% of the guys my age I s… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/08/16 11:46 PM |
| 1 | FR: Looking Good MattersYeah, the hard no's don't go away completely. I thought they had gone away from my wife, but after about 3 months, they came back. But very rare, maybe once every 40 to 50 initiations. Some days, she actually is tired. Granted, I did back off on the dread though - getting a bit lazy. You can't let up. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/08/16 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Constant Hard NosAt first she doesn't notice, then almost relief that you're not bugging her. Then curiosity. Did I upset him? Wait, is he having an affair? "Hey, are you having an affair?" Did I get fat? Maybe he's thinking of having an affair. "Hey, are you...?" Maybe she starts to realize she actually does enjoy and miss sex. Maybe she gets anxious, and from there you could see more shit tests, comfort tests, sex, etc. This | /r/askMRP | 01/08/16 11:21 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Hypergamy at its finest.No. Mate guarding is only if the guy is being disrespectful to your face. If he's trying to charm the girl out from under you, if you react with jealousy it makes you look weak. This is not my opinion. It is a core RP fact. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/16 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Necessary Changes to become Alpha (what I discovered through 8 months of intense research, reading & journaling).Join a gym (should I put this one first?) For crying out loud. Another one who talks instead of acting. Lift. That's 80% of what you need to do in the first several months. None of this shit will work unless you lift. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/16 07:51 AM |
| 4 | Brother in law about to become divorce raped.show him these posts - there is no better turnaround story than this one https://www.reddit.com/user/Fing_farted_on_me/submitted/ | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/07/16 05:01 PM |
| 3 | I compiled a collection of 'must read' books. Which ones helped you the most?I second Sex God Method and Pimp Also, Sperms Wars Sex at Dawn | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/16 03:07 AM |
| 1 | The MRP, what to do?she plans everything, takes care of all the kid stuff, groceries, etc. etc. She is of the mind that I bring home the bacon and she will take care of everything else. Yeah, she's your mother, I get it. Time to take over that stuff except grocery shopping. I guarantee she resents doing all that. Wife SMV is 8.5 mine is about 6.5 . Let's see. -2 pt for wife goggles. -1 pt for age. She's actually 5.5 at best. We all thought our 5.5 wives were 8.5. Ever though my wife's SMV is higher than mine, she d… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/07/16 09:15 PM |
| 3 | Gentlemen, nothing has been more life changing then this.Yup. Although wrt tattoos - I recommend it. I also find that I get noticeably better service now when I go into a store, restaurant, etc. You've probably noticed the same. OP, great post. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/07/16 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Sex shit test frustrationShe cheated on me 8 months ago You need to elaborate. Your marriage may be over if you didn't handle this right... which it sounds like it didn't. There will be no respect for you if you let yourself be walked over. | /r/askMRP | 16/07/16 05:49 PM |
| 7 | The 3-ladder system of social class in the U.SWell, that's a long post. And completely off topic for this sub... but I can't resist replying, especially since I work with so-called wealthy elites all the time in my line of work. But first, I applaud your efforts, but the below impeaches your whole post National Elite (E2, 0.19%) are what most Americans think of as “upper class” or “old money”. They have Roman Numerals in their names, live in the Hamptons (although they’ve probably stopped using “summer” as a verb now that “the poors” know a… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/16 05:04 PM |
| 1 | UPDATE: A Nuke, An Argument And A DNGAF,If you have to use so many words, your SMV is way too low. Your wife doesn't respect you. STFU and lift. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/07/16 07:00 PM |
| -2 | Consensual, Yet Unintentional Sex. The Latest, from our favourite subWait, are you saying the posts about Muslims in Germany, globalism, and racist rants are diluting TRP? Wow. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/16 04:00 PM |
| 2 | [FR] One Year InYup, boxer briefs. They look great. When I'm running, triathlon shorts. Suits don't fit me any more either, that's a bigger problem. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/07/16 02:34 PM |
| 2 | [FR] One Year InCut all sugar from your diet except within 30 min after a workout (read Nutrient Timing), and cut 80% of your carb intake. Avoid even fruit. You will get down to 10% body fat. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/07/16 07:00 AM |
| 1 | [FR] One Year InMy body fat is 9%. Just measured in a water tank. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/07/16 06:57 AM |
| 1 | [FR] One Year InYup. My wife almost had a seizure when she caught one of her best friends sneaking looks at me. And btw, I'm not that big - it's the low body fat that really makes me look ripped. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/07/16 06:56 AM |
| 0 | [FR] One Year InFor a lot of men, nothing is more motivating than not getting any sex There you go, my friend. And I'm a very disciplined guy to begin with. Pretty high level executive in the corporate world. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/07/16 06:50 AM |
| 1 | [FR] One Year InI am continuing to push. No beta mode. I've outgrown needing validation from my wife. Focused on career, on building better friendships with other guys. The bodybuilding is for me. Wife turned around a while back, I've continued to lift hard. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/07/16 06:43 AM |
| 3 | [FR] One Year InI thought people were exaggerating when I first got on this sub. But I kid you not. Really. Btw, I am not hitting massive numbers on lifts. I switched from 5x5 to high reps, which I find gives me more mass. Do a lot of squats, it is the key for activating all muscles - as they say, the best biceps exercise are squats. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/07/16 06:40 AM |
| 1 | [FR] One Year InYup. :) Lifted every single day for the first 9 months. Sometimes twice a day. I was a bit fat, but never in terrible shape. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/07/16 06:37 AM |
| 2 | Wife kicked me out: Should I "unconditionally surrender" to keep the relationship until I make the RedPill transition?I haven't read the book, but it seems to be based on interviews with children of divorced parents. It can't really tell you much about whether to get divorced or not unless it also includes interviews with children whose parents should have gotten divorced but didn't. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/07/16 06:24 AM |
| 3 | How I dodged the marriage bullet when I was 20 and 25 years old, but still face one dilemma that hasn't received much discourse... how about wanting kids?Then get married. Kids - that's the one good reason to get married. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/16 09:47 PM |
| 5 | On GlobalismYou do realize that Western civilization came from Greeks, who got it from Persians and the Egyptians? That in fact, the Persians and Egyptians invented "Western Civilization"? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/16 09:31 PM |
| 1 | On GlobalismAre you American? The worst genocide in America was on Indians. There should be museums all over the country for exterminated tribes. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/16 09:20 PM |
| 4 | Mentors: An EssentialLike a LTR - you have to bring value to the mentor. He's not gonna help you unless you help them. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/16 09:11 PM |
| -12 | Prostitution Lowers the Value of Pussy: Why You Should Visit Tijuana's Red Light DistrictThere's nothing wrong with hookers, but if you're lifting and are really red pill, you don't need them. A 25 yo male with a six pack benching 300 lb should be hitting free pussy left and right... if you're not a pussy yourself. Have you really shed your bluepill? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/16 09:07 PM |
| -1 | On GlobalismOP is still stuck on blue pill lens. Clearly, these elites are the alpha guys. They have the power, they get the women and the sex. Bemoaning globalism is completely blue pill, since global elites = alphas. Redpill is about becoming alpha, not whining about it. It's not women who are creating globalism, it's alpha men. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/16 07:56 PM |
| 58 | If you are doing well financially and want to spin plates, hide your wealthYou don't have to worry. In SF, you're lower middle class. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/16 06:23 AM |
| 1 | What 6 Months Of Lifting Will DoHow are you dressing? What's your body fat? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/16 11:42 PM |
| 3 | What 6 Months Of Lifting Will DoMe too. In six months, 25% -> 12%. Stopped eating sugar. Very low carb diet. Lifting every day. Cardio every day. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/16 11:41 PM |
| 1 | What 6 Months Of Lifting Will DoDifferent for different people. Your final height should be 2x your height when you're 2 yo. Unless you have TB, gluten allergy, other factors holding you back. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/16 11:36 PM |
| 2 | LTR GF Lying about Vacation (X-Post from askTRP) - Update + Need AdviceHigh partner count - mid-teens by the time she was 19. OP, I'll save you the reading. You already have your answer. She's not wife material. Not. Even. Close. | /r/askMRP | 27/06/16 11:18 PM |
| 3 | LTR GF Lying about Vacation (X-Post from askTRP) - Update + Need AdviceA tenet of TRP is that women cannot resist her feelz as well as a man can. A GNO or trip to Cabo for a woman is much more dangerous because she has much less control over her actions than a man and is much more likely to cheat. Women are biologically programmed to cheat when at a distant land, away from her SO, and she's ovulating. She's programmed to gather foreign sperm. A man might cheat, sure, but the likelihood is much less, unless he intends to cheat. A woman can cheat even if she had abso… | /r/askMRP | 27/06/16 11:15 PM |
| 2 | LTR GF Lying about Vacation (X-Post from askTRP) - Update + Need AdviceHigh partner count - mid-teens by the time she was 19. Some other, we'll call it promiscuous, acts I know about. Not a lot of girlfriends. Seems to have trouble keeping them. Connects well with slutty girls. Her "best friends" are pretty much whores. Extremely insecure about other "girl" friends I might have Dude, she's already cheating on you. | /r/askMRP | 27/06/16 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Doesn't traditional marriage pretty much disprove 90% of redpill?He's probably not understanding what TRP is. OP, does your grandmother order your grandpa around? As in "go get me that mop"? Does she criticize him? As in "you never do that right, when will you ever learn"? Who makes the decisions, as in where to vacation? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/16 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Doesn't traditional marriage pretty much disprove 90% of redpill?But would you say there are still women out there (even if they are very rare) that still follow traditional values, aka "good girls"? Yes would these girls feel the need to ride the "cock carousell"? No If so, would the redpill be necessary Only if you want sex. If you don't want to have sex with them after you get married, you don't need redpill. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/16 10:05 PM |
| 18 | Doesn't traditional marriage pretty much disprove 90% of redpill?Traditional marriage is virtually extinct, as Joshreece said. Society has changed. It makes it more difficult, for sure. However, bluepill marriages have always been around (Check out Gentlemen Prefer Blondes, Taming of the Shrew), because bluepill is an excellent reproductive strategy, far better than redpill, expecially for low SMV males. That's why there are far more bluepillers than redpillers out there. It's just a crappy sexual strategy. High SMV males can still have a LTR or marriage with… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/16 10:01 PM |
| 4 | Family Man 5 month progressThis. OP, you have a to of work to do. Here are some more pathetic things you wrote I took my pillows and slept on the couch. WTF. Why? My wife is a very pretty woman and it doesn't look like it's slowing down anytime soon You're seeing her through beta goggles. Trust me, if she's 34, then she's SMV 6 at most. If she's responding to your beta brother, she's probably a 4. We all thought our wife was Doutzen when we had our beta goggles on. You will know you're achieved OI when you realize your wi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/06/16 11:34 PM |
| 6 | Confidence and Wet Panties- My Tale so FarThe only reason my life is better now, the only reason I'm happy now, is because I put in the work. I logged the hours, and put in every effort. Bravo | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/06/16 11:18 PM |
| 4 | Is Dread Working?^ This. WTF? What dread are you talking about? It's clear that you are still a beta pussy. Why are you arguing with her? No DEER. Why are you talking to her about C/FO? You don't talk your wife into being a FO. You get your SMV up high enough, and then you assign her that job. When your SMV is high enough, she will WANT to be a FO. You can't negotiate desire, and you can't negotiate a FO role. You need to post how much you're lifting, your body fat, and OI, and your PUA success. It seems to me t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/06/16 11:05 PM |
| 2 | [Update] "Main Event coming up tonight"Yeah, it's better if you hadn't apologized, but it's not such a biggie. Calling her a jerk is borderline inappropriate so an apology is OK. Your biggest problem is talking too much. STFU. Don't talk to her about red pill. Don't talk to her about Mr. Nice Guy. Stop. Talking. Also, don't sweat about the setback. One thing you will learn is that there is no running score. What happened yesterday doesn't matter. This is both good and bad - if you were red pill yesterday but beta today, you'll be tre… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/06/16 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Instant Success Implementing RP Strategy In My LTRThis is correct, with regard to being inconsistent. It's always a good strategy. However, over the short term, OP's approach was on point. Over the long term, applying dread will be necessary, I agree. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/16 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Instant Success Implementing RP Strategy In My LTRScrew keylogger. Plate her - he's not married to her, it's not worth the trouble. OP, you handled this like a champ. The only way to keep her in line, should you so wish, is to apply dread. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/16 12:51 AM |
| 5 | Why is it that MSM will defend Islam no matter what?This is not nationalism. It is anti-Muslim rhetoric, which is un-American. Real Americans don't discriminate on basis of religion. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/16 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that MSM will defend Islam no matter what?Are you the guy who had that sign, "Keep your government hands off my medicare"? :) | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/16 12:38 AM |
| 3 | Main Event coming up tonightYour post is similar to mine a few months back. I was also just getting started on MRP, was skittish, and thought the main event was coming. See how it played out for me: I think the Main Event has started. And I am not ready [Update] (https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3mzdu7/update_i_think_the_main_event_has_started_and_i/) | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/06/16 12:05 AM |
| 3 | [Advice] Caught my GF speaking with her ex who is still in love with her - also lied about itSure - get involved by having sex with her. Plate her, don't make her a LTR. The key here, my friend, is OI and multiple options. You need to keep a plan B, C, and D. Then you won't develop oneitis. Frankly, that's what she was doing. Don't bother mate guarding. If you have to do that, then you've already lost. However, this is different from mate defending - which is when a guy is being openly disrespectful of you or your girl and you need to step in to protect her. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/16 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Report In: Weight Loss1 - Get rid of Dad Bod 2 - N/A. Low carb is what I tried, and low carb is what worked. 3 - Low carb. No sugar. No soda. No diet soda (this is worse than regular soda). High fat. Dropped 30 lbs. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/06/16 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Where I find out my LTR of 2 years just MARRIED another guy. Here’s what I did wrong, and what I did right.Women don't know what they want, but I don't think she did the wrong thing for herself. Biologically, she did the right thing - she wants a beta to provide for her kids. Yes, she will probably come back and screw Matharon in a few years and cheat on her husband, but what makes you think that will make her unhappy? It seems that most women are very happy when they have a beta husband + alpha Chad on the side. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/16 07:06 PM |
| 9 | Where I find out my LTR of 2 years just MARRIED another guy. Here’s what I did wrong, and what I did right.TRP is a sexual strategy. When you're alpha, you get a lot of sex. TRP is not a LTR strategy. Women want beta for LTR. We're always talking about how a girl will go for Chads when young then settle down with a provider. This is what happened. You are a Chad, not a beta. Women marry betas, they have sex with aphas. If you want LTR, you need a dash of beta with the alpha. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/16 07:04 PM |
| 1 | **NEW** Be a Beta as a means for reproductive success! *Guaranteed!Sperm Wars is a must-read. Explains both hypergamy and cheating. OP is correct. While being alpha maximizes sex in the modern world, most of the gene pool is beta. (And being beta is not a modern phenomena - read Shakespeare, watch some B&W movies, like Gentlemen Prefer Blondes.) This means that by definition, beta is a successful strategy. Certainly if you have low SMV. Remember - alphas don't usually lose women to other alphas. They lose them to betas when the girl hits the wall and wants to s… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/16 10:05 PM |
| 23 | Learn To Enjoy Being A ManOP is off base. Alpha man will laugh if his wife tries to put him down, because he has OI. He would never beat her - that is a pure beta. He doesn't need to beat or humiliate her because he's got plenty of other options. He would walk. And... because his wife knows he can and will do that, she would never treat him with disrespect. Sorry, you can't beat respect into a woman. You can only improve yourself. If she's not respecting you, you need to own that your SMV is not high enough. Don't blame … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/16 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Call girls are the only way to keep sex in a marriage healthy & aliveOP is wrong. Most of us got ourselves into a DB, but most marriages still have very good sex. There was a survey on talkaboutmarriage.com, and vast majority of men there still had sex on demand, and good sex. And there is option C. Alpha up, lift, and get back to great sex. Hm, what a thought... I went from a near-DB to sex on demand by following advice on this sub faithfully. My sex life is now better (not a typo) than before marriage. But don't listen to me. Why lift weights when you can lift … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/06/16 12:56 AM |
| 0 | I know this may seem totally off topic but I don't know ANYBODY else's opinion on the internet that I can actually trust like I can with you guys. Here it is: Are 401ks the biggest scam of this generation?Off topic! But to answer your question, 401K are not scams because you can defer your taxes - that money work for you until retirement. However..... most of the mutual funds that are available in a typical 401K are scams. Any time you pay more than 0.5% fee, you're getting screwed. Let's say you're paying 1%. That doesn't sound like a lot but since average return per year is 5-6%, 1% is a huge amount. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/16 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Most women find me attractive, just not my wife. Am I still the problem/the one who needs to change?This. I'd say it's 50:50 chance. | /r/askMRP | 28/05/16 03:56 AM |
| 1 | [FR] There's a reason we keep saying itThis is... CrapCrapCrapCrap Women SAY they don't like men who are too muscular? They also SAY they want sensitive, soft men. They also SAY they like Dad bods. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/16 11:25 PM |
| 1 | New Finance FlairWell, getting rich is fine but we should remember that money does not equal red pill nor does it equal pussy. I'm surrounded by rich people every day and they're more blue pill than the average population. And they're certainly not getting much pussy. If you want to get rich for yourself, fine, but there is a correlation between being rich and being beta. Most rich guys are beta. If you're poor and you thinking being rich will make you alpha, you're dreaming. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/16 10:55 PM |
| 2 | New Finance FlairWell, hard to say without knowing what position. Investment bankers need no finance knowledge. They're salespeople. They're looking for smooth talkers. Traders? They need to be risk tolerant and make lightning quick decisions. Back office? There you do need some accounting background. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/16 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 24, 2016Depends on what his SMV is. If it's too low, it's not time to demand things. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/05/16 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 24, 2016This isn't the way to lose weight. Eat as much fat as you want, but cut out the carbs and fructose. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/05/16 01:49 AM |
| 5 | Field Report, a shrew in the bedWelcome to the sub. It's a hard long road, but don't get discouraged. Your wife initiated, that a good thing. I think you handled it fine, given where you are in the journey. Turning down poor sex is OK. We need more information here. How much are you lifting? How fat are you? What are the relative SMV's? Both objective and subjective (e.g., what does she THINK you SMV is?) Your estimate of her SMV is going to be inflated at this point, and hers of you is going to be deflated. How much have you … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/05/16 07:26 PM |
| 5 | Am I ready for fuck me or fuck you?Perseus is becoming a real expert and contributor now. This is spot on. tim_rp, you're not ready. Your wife is not responding at all. You're still flabby. You don't have any real plates on the side. I went thermonuclear too early, even faster than you, and survived, but I was the lucky exception not the rule. If I had to do it again, I would have waited. The big difference is that I was working out every day from the day 1 after I took the pill, sometimes twice a day. I was down to almost 10% bo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/05/16 11:41 PM |
| 3 | can MRP change me to help with a dying marriage?This shit works. Go look at FR by Perseus, rougepill, and the endorsed redditors. (btw, post more details about yourself if you want better help from people) However, it takes a lot of work and discipline. Lifting, changing your diet, your attitude, all of these things are hard and many people can't do it. But if you've lost 52 lbs, it sounds like you have the discipline. In my case, I went from a near dead bedroom to sex on demand within about 6 months. It's a bit faster than typical but not un… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/05/16 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Starting again.Ding ding ding. This. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/16 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Starting again.I have to agree with this. However, OI is the hardest part of the pill. It was for me. Stargazer, the key here is not that you stop caring about your wife. You stop caring what she thinks about you. That's the key. You can love your wife, most of us here do. But you have to respect yourself whether or not your wife respects you. It took me a while to understand. You have to let go that your value as a person and a husband depends on your wife's actions. It does not. If you go through all the MAP… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/16 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Beta Ex - Fiancee wants to see for coffee?1) Dude, you pull the brakes now. This girl is not marriage material. If she was, she wouldn't be wanting to hang out with an ex. Seeing old ex when you're married is just asking for trouble - read Not Just Friends. Just not done. 2) Normally, I am more pro mate guarding than most of the people on this sub, but in this instance, if he is as beta as you say, then mate guarding is DLV (display of low value). Don't do it. Maybe tell her "I don't care if you see this guy. Just act the way you would … | /r/askMRP | 22/04/16 09:00 PM |
| 1 | How to talk to husband about red pillHow about this: point out some alpha guy who you want himt o emulate and talk about how attractive his behavior is? | /r/askMRP | 22/04/16 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Being romantic againGame is opposite of romance. Romance - dinners, buying things, etc. does nothing. It's a display of low value. High SMV guys don't need to romance. If your SMV is low, romance will drop it further. | /r/askMRP | 31/03/16 11:52 PM |
| 3 | Epiphany (Long)How long since you swallowed the pill? It's your first post, so probably not a long time. Yes, you definitely need to raise your SMV. But... in addition to raising your SMV, you should "turn down your thermostat." Link: https://archive.is/xhvYd I was the same as you. I like affection, and I would always be trying to hold my wife's hand, touching her, etc. The thing is, more you do that, more she will pull back. It just comes off as needy. Every time you try to get affection from her, your SMV dr… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/03/16 07:13 PM |
| 1 | How To Make Sure She Won't CheatThis is complete BS. Go to any infidelity forum and you'll see women who cheated even though they risked losing (and lost) SMV 10 men earning 6-figure salaries, their 10,000 sqft house, all their friends, respect from their church friends. And their kids no longer talk to them, and the kids are in therapy. Meanwhile their 6'3" husband who can bench 350lb is now banging HB10 blondes 10 years younger. Those wives still cheated. Despite having chiseled former NFL star wrapped around their pinky. No… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/16 11:28 PM |
| 2 | FR: Lone Wolf Adventure (wall ☆f text)^ Best line of the day indeed. Clap Clap Clap Way to go bro. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/03/16 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Survivinginfidelity.com case study - essential reading for all membersNo, remember AWALT. In general, a girl won't cheat, unless she meets someone who's more alpha than you. And then almost every woman will cheat. You can't prevent a woman from cheating if she has an opportunity to do so with someone who's got much higher SMV than you. And there is always someone with higher SMV. You can kick her out, but believing that you're so special, and that your snowflake is so special, that cheating can never happen... well that's blue pill. OI is what you need, options is… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/16 10:46 PM |
| 1 | I've plated a married woman and it's amazing!Hey, I don't want to judge, but it's all fun an games until the husband stabs you through the heart. Then, not so much fun. Be careful man. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/16 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 09, 2016I don't think you are understanding the answers. Of course she'll cheat at Cabo. But you can't tell your wife not to go without looking beta. She shouldn't want to go in the first place - if she wants to go, you've already lost the battle. It's time to file for the D. And if you've swallowed the pill, then you've already prepared yourself for the D. Telling your wife she can't go, well, that's just beta. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/02/16 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 09, 2016Look buddy, everyone knows women will cheat at Cabo. Basically, what's happening is this. Stonepimple's wife just told him, "I'm going to cheat, honey." The only question is whether Stoneimple's response is [A] "OK, I'll send you the divorce papers next week" or [B] "Oh my God, please don't do that! I'll do anything if you don't cheat." This is a very different situation than what Ironwood is talking about, where a specific dude is making a play for your wife. To repeat, these following three si… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/02/16 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Don't Mate Guard but refuse to be disrespectedI agree there are instances where it's appropriate to step in. For example, if your GF said she told him to stop and he hasn't. Or he's been texting inappropriate messages to her. Or if you're best buddies with Frank. But you're acquaintances with Frank, and it was light flirting it sounds like. So, yes, there are instances where mate guarding is necessary - I disagree mateguarding should never be done, but they're instances of real disrespect, instances where if someone did that to your sister … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/16 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Mateguarding- Don't do it.In general, that's true. However, there are some exceptions and these exceptions are really important. First instance is if your GF is basically being harassed. The dude won't leave her alone and keeps talking to her and she's told him off. Then you've got to step in or you look like you're not protecting her. No protection = not alpha. Second instance is when the guy is being so vulgar that it's insulting. Maybe insinuating that your GF is a slut, etc. That's an insult to her and to you. Once a… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/16 05:29 PM |
| 1 | To nuke or not to nuke, that is the question.I went through something similar. I think a lot of guys, when they swallow the pill, realize "Shit, I left the back gate open! Some dude might have been sneaking in while I wasn't paying attention! What got me over this, with help of good folks on marriedrepill, were: 1) Realization that AWALT. Even if I leave my wife and find another one, there is no guarantee she won't cheat. There is no such thing as a woman who is guaranteed to be faithful. Read the Sperm Wars. We're not a monogamous species… | /r/askMRP | 11/02/16 01:03 AM |
| 3 | [911] I mate guarded and the guy told my wifeA slightly different take from the other guys here, though I also think you screwed up. Athol Kay says you should not mate guard until things get clearly inappropriate. Asking your wife to work out is not clearly inappropriate. If he texted her if he could "stretch her" or something similar, you need to take action. The action doesn't have to be so blunt. Why not just start going to the gym with your wife? Second, you should always confront the wife first, not go behind her back. Third, you shou… | /r/askMRP | 11/02/16 12:44 AM |
| 2 | The Golden Rule: How To Not Get Fucked In BusinessYup. This happens a lot more in other countries. Research in Motion did something similar to Nokia - they wanted to slow Nokia down from coming into the smartphone market, so they pretended that they would license their software to them. They kept on sending them buggy software, and Nokia ended up with tens of millions of dollars of equipment they never got to sell. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/16 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Denying the importance of money is male rationalizingFour axes: Axis 1: Earn vs. spend. Spend less than you earn. This is a long slow way to make money. Axis 2: Sell your time vs. selling intagibles. Don't sell your time. Sell something else. If you're selling your time (whether you're hourly or salaried), you can make a good living, but it's hard to become really rich. Examples: plumbers, doctors*, etc. They're all selling their time. (See footnote below on docs) If you're selling intangibles, your earning potential is unlimited. Business owner (… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/16 08:05 PM |
| 4 | Denying the importance of money is male rationalizingWell, in some respects yes, but it's more like large hips on a woman. It's a signal that you can provide, just as large hips means woman will give birth easier. I work in a field where I am surrounded every day by millionaires and some billionaires. Most of them are barely getting laid. I know several guys with private jets. Even they are not getting laid very much, certainly not by their wives. To make money work for a redpiller, you've got to deploy it--i.e., convert it into muscle and clothes… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/16 06:03 AM |
| 3 | Denying the importance of money is male rationalizingYup. I've seen this over and over. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/16 07:06 PM |
| 1 | A 2nd Round of AngerI know Athol Kay isn't super popular on MRP because a lot of people think he's not red pill enough, but he says many people when they swallow the pill, stop beta completely and eventually run into what you've run into when the reserve of beta they's stored up over the years eventually run out. Is that possible? Are you getting a lot of comfort tests? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/02/16 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Gut instinct tells me cheating may explain everythingI am sorry to hear this OP. I had a similar situation, in that I suspected my wife might have cheated in the past. However, I could find no direct evidence, despite looking very hard. What made me come to peace with what might have happened was this post by jacktenofhearts https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3tromi/recent_and_distant_past_possible_infidelity_just/cx8xf24 If she cheated, it was at least partially my own fault for being a drunken captain. If your daughter turns out no… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/02/16 11:00 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone else lost interest in sex with there wife?Wasn't your wife pregnant? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/01/16 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 19, 2016The Good: Still lifting every day. Elbow's giving me trouble, probably tendonitis, so focusing on legs/squats and upped cardio. At 200 lb squat 5x5 which is 2/3 of my way to goal of 300. Running 25 miles a week now. Body fat at 11%, almost at target of 10%. Sex is good. Still learning about redpill, but passing most shit tests/comfort test. The Bad: Completely cut out drinking on weekdays, but sometimes still hitting the bottle hard on weekends. Probably will need to stop completely. Spending wa… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/01/16 02:31 AM |
| 1 | FR Update #6 (I'm done with r/relationships)Hi OP - I've followed your posts and it is so great to see you doing so well. Thanks for the update. I sympathize with the following. I think that is the hardest part of MRP--the part where it gets stuck in your throat and you have to force it down: The only issue/non-issue I have now is that for the duration of our marriage I had an idealized view of our relationship. I used to think of our marriage as something that was meant to be, and that anything else would have been unthinkable. Now I thi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/01/16 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Affair sex for women is rarely good ! Why is this?This is right. I would add though, that orgasm thing might be right. Read Sperm Wars. Orgasms, depending on the timing, can influence the likelihood of conception. Sex with AP is finely tuned biologically to maximize the likelihood of conception. | /r/askMRP | 21/01/16 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Her dinner with guy friend?Yeah, but what if his shit ain't tight? If he DGAF? I have become a lot more wary of "male friends." I used to not give a shit, and trusted my wife completely, but no more now that I know AWALT. This guy is probably trying to get in her pants, that's a given. | /r/askMRP | 21/01/16 12:54 AM |
| 1 | What to do with overt contracts?Do it only if you want to do it, not because she asks. Foreplay? Foreplay is not the part where you give her the backrub. It's the part where she throws out a shit test and you bat it down. She throws out a shit test and you bat it down. That will turn her on, not compliance. | /r/askMRP | 21/01/16 12:33 AM |
| 1 | I Broke Down (victim puke?)Yes, you did fuck up when you did that. How does she know what butt hurt is? | /r/askMRP | 21/01/16 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Broke frame, then caught wife in a lie. Play dumb, should I ever let her off the hook?First, your wife may be cheating. Ex-BFs are not orbiters. Orbiters are guys who don't stand a chance. Ex-BF are very often affair partners. Second, why are you arguing with her? Don't engage. Arguing = entering her frame. It's a lose-lose. | /r/askMRP | 21/01/16 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Specific situation I'm not sure how to handle.Back her into logical corner? No. Do not engage in DEER. You don't need her permission to go. Just tell her you're going. | /r/askMRP | 21/01/16 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Lots of things going on...not sure if it's the right path.I agree. I've seen it happen quickly, especially if you're already in good physical shape, which it sounds like you are. One thing I've learned is that you don't have to worry about making mistakes, because it's "what have you done recently." Failed a shit test, don't worry, there's another one coming and you can pass that one. | /r/askMRP | 21/01/16 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Contradictions in TRP philosophy or not?THIS ♂ | /r/askTRP | 20/01/16 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Greetings & Salutations - Introduction PostBugz, thanks for sharing. You say the following Three years ago my income became so significant that I was able to facilitate one of my wife's dreams of being a SAHM. For me, this was also a moment of great significance because my wife had been historically vocal, and I would say envious, of her friends who were able to stay at home with their children. I began to develop insecurities over the fact that my wife seemed to idolize her friends' husbands who were able to bring in enough income to su… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/01/16 05:54 PM |
| 3 | [FR] [Advice?]THIS. NO sharing of insecurities. My wife used whine and plead for me to share my feelings and insecurities. Never, ever, ever do that. She does not actually want to hear any of that. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/01/16 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Thought only my wife could break my heart.She's 16 - she's probably venting. But then again, King Lear had much worse happen to him... Just one piece of advice: don't be saying shit like this: "I thought you were the only one who could break my heart. " That's the definition of emotional weakness my friend. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/01/16 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Two reminders for newbies: 1) money won't get you the sex you want. 2) Identify your buffers and slay them.Uh, the big difference? One is married and the other is not. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/16 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Shit Testing and Masculinity (TLDR: Masculinity as Unapologetic Ownership)Shit testing is hard wired. It's been around for hundreds of thousands of years, probably millions. You see it even in other species - minks, for example, will fight off a male before intercourse to determine his strength, and can't ovulate until she's been overpowered by a stronger male. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/16 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Need some married redpill adviceYes. I don't know if this is true or not. I think this is key. If the damage is already done, then, move on. If not, and you can repair the damage to the kids, then why not try? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/01/16 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Need some married redpill adviceNo, you're right. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/01/16 07:09 PM |
| 4 | Need some married redpill adviceAlmost same age as you, similar income probably here. When I first came on MRP, I was of the mindset that infidelity was intolerable. As I came to understand, though, it is really common, and it is sometimes beyond the control of the woman. A 35 yo woman with 4 kids to care for, looking for a branch swing when her husband is going to die--that is a shitty thing to do to you, but in one sense she was looking out to protect her kids. In other words, is she evil or just a woman? Almost 50% of women… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/01/16 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Two reminders for newbies: 1) money won't get you the sex you want. 2) Identify your buffers and slay them.As a millionaire, I can tell you that it doesn't help that much. Yes, there is a difference between a dude making $20K a year and $100K a year. But beyond that, no. Money will help you attract women who want to get married, but good luck trying to get sex after the marriage... | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/16 08:01 AM |
| 1 | "Well some other guy just took my [18 M] g/f (now ex I guess) [17 f] virginity." Bonus: Other guy has already moved on to banging a new chick in less than a week.y123 posted an update (deleted by relationshit mods) few days ago: Hello all, I am sorry to those of you who have been sending me p.m.'s asking me what is going on and if anything has changed. Honestly after my last post once I got to school I literally unplugged and have not been on the internet since other than for some research for a class. I shut off all of my social media and put my nose in my books and ass in the gym until I got home for the Christmas break. I was even planning on dropping… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/16 07:44 AM |
| 4 | FR, progress from noob and a beard shit test.Hm, let me give you my experience. pre-TRP: Her: "You should get snipped" Me: Got a vasectomy Sex: Dropped off a cliff Her: "You should share your feelings" Me: Whine, pour my heart out Sex: What sex? post-TRP Her: "I like you when you're fat" Me: dropped weight Sex: kicked into gear Her: "I like your glasses" Me: got LASIK Sex: kicked into higher gear Her: "I hate tattoos" Me: got a tattoo Sex: kicked into top gear that very night. And hasn't stopped since Don't listen to her words, look at her… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/16 10:27 PM |
| 12 | Update "if you made more money, we would have more sex""I am going to talk to her" <<-- WTF? Are you the woman or her? You need to stop talking. Go lift. "The thing is my Fiance is very attractive, high SMV" <<-- No. I guarantee she is not. She would not be marrying someone like you if she were. High SMV women don't have to marry beta. The question you should ask yourself is, are you going to be OK if she cheats, if you end up raising someone else's child as your own? This is what will happen. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 05:07 AM |
| 300 | "If you made more money, we would have more sex"No, she told him in plainspeak what HE is. Beta. We already know what she is. A woman, no different from others. AWALT. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 06:36 PM |
| 103 | "If you made more money, we would have more sex"You're confusing the issue. Money = beta. She sees you as a beta...because you are. WTF are you doing telling her your feelings? Feelz = beta. More money does not lead to more sex. Period. I will tell you what will happen. Sex will stop after you have the number of children she wants. This is because she's marrying you to get herself a provider. She's not attracted to you. Hard truth. If she were, she wouldn't even know how much you make much less care. She will then have an affair. Then she wil… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 06:34 PM |
| 1 | [FR] She got me goodI've read here (I think by BP Professor) that women don't dread. They branch swing. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/01/16 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Wife "loves" another man?Doubtful. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/01/16 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Wife "loves" another man?That means you don't really have a spine <<<< THIS | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/01/16 01:45 AM |
| 2 | Lessons from my weight lossSee my other post. Calories may be the same, but type of food is not. A calorie of carb decreases metabolic rate while a calorie of protein does not. Sugar is the worst offender, because fructose is a signal to the body to switch to energy conserving mode. More impotantly, sugar leads to insulin, which leads to hunger, which leads to increased caloric intake. Gary Taube explains it well in his book. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/12/15 09:04 PM |
| 0 | TRP nutrition guide, calories are not the sameThe thing is that when you eat sugar, you decrease your metabolic rate because it switches on the energy conserving mode. So your "calories out" go down when you eat sugar. Calorie in vs out is important but what is a lot more important is your metabolic rate. Sugar and carbs lower your metabolic rate. Gary Taube's book is really informative on this. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/12/15 08:47 PM |
| 5 | Shit test help neededTwelve months from now, when your SMV is much higher, you can pull out the divorce papers. Since you're one month in, I think you should just ignore what she said. Pretend nothing has happened. Ignore her texts. Also, I think you talked too much. Next time, I would just wave my hand and go somewhere else. Do not engage or get pulled into her frame. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/15 11:48 PM |
| 9 | Red Pill life making faithfulness a challengeI think one of the most important things about TRP is to make yourself a better man. If you believe that cheating is wrong, then don't. I personally would not, since you have a daughter in elementary school. It could wreck her life if you got caught. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/15 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Wife Found Me on TinderOr just to mess around and have fun. I wouldn't apologize. I would tell her you like to flirt with women, full stop. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/15 01:31 AM |
| 20 | On AttractionWhat women SAY they want and what they actually want are not always the same. The survey may be accurate but probably not. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/15 12:15 AM |
| 1 | TRP with training wheels, what really gives women the tingles. Most of TRP can not see this, as a result they will be blue pill to some degree.Power yes, money no. I know people with a lot of money who can't get laid. Money will get you married to a hot chick but she won't have sex with you afterwards if you're a blue pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/15 09:00 PM |
| 5 | TRP with training wheels, what really gives women the tingles. Most of TRP can not see this, as a result they will be blue pill to some degree.All. The. Time. Go to any infidelity forums. Gardners. Stucco contractors. Personal Trainers <--- especially this one. PTs don't work for the money, trust me. If you were a woman, who would you rather fuck, a 55 yo, 250 lb balding CEO, or a 25 yo buff and tan gardner with a six pack who can't put three words together? I thought so. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/15 08:57 PM |
| 1 | The real MRP and youHow long have you been married? What you write, it's exactly what I would have written 10 years into my marriage - sex several times a week, wife respects me, etc. It's only later that sex and respect plummeted. Betadom is like a cabernet - gets more profound with time. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/12/15 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Cowboy Up, this stuff worksAbout six months. I've been implementing it hard. Dropped 25 lb, and regained 10 lb in pure muscle (body fat continues to drop). I'm still about 10 lb of muscle from where I want to be, but I'm in the best shape of my life since college. It's a lot of work and discipline - I don't think most people can take the red pill because it's hard work. As to results, about 2-3 months in, it was like a light switch flipped with my wife. It's like being back to before being married. Unbelievable. Sex 1-2 p… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/15 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Cowboy Up, this stuff worksThanks man. This is really helpful. You did a LOT. I'm amazed how disciplined successful redpillers are are. Dropping weight, lifting hard, making the life decisions - these are hard. I've wondered why some people are resistant to TRP, especially the ones in deadbedroom subreddit and perhaps it's because TRP takes so much work. But boy does it work. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/12/15 09:14 PM |
| 9 | Cowboy Up, this stuff worksThanks for the post man. Any more details? For example: How long did it take? What was she like at the beginning? What was she like when you got married? What were the milestones that turned it around? What didn't work? What was your weight at the beginning and now? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/12/15 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Be a social dynamo so she doesn't have to beMostly correct, except women will approach men with high SMV. Not just flirt - they will come right up and proposition them. It's a myth that men have to do all the work. Men who are in the top 5% have women hitting on them ALL the time. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Direction Needed"But we both thinks our own is greater than the others." <- This. She will not let you dominate her until she thinks your SMV is higher. Then things will flip 180. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/12/15 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Can't figure out a way out of the negative spiral. Any suggestions are welcome."I'm providing for my family" - no, you're paying for education of a woman who's using you. How long has it been like this? How do you know the toddler is yours? You might be providing for someone else's child... not saying it's true, just saying it might be. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/11/15 06:03 PM |
| 1 | SMV : stop talking about moneyI think people are confusing alpha vs. beta provider seeking behavior. If you have 30 million, you can MARRY a HB10 but you can't make her want to SLEEP with you. Once you're married, she won't fuck you, only BEFORE. I think there is a difference between a guy making $20K a year and $100K a year, but not between $100K and $1M a year. So is money important? Yes, you can't make so little that you're struggling to buy food. Once you're beyond that, I don't think so. From my personal experience, whe… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/15 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Recent and distant past POSSIBLE infidelity just surfaced. It's in the open b/w us. What to do now?THIS. jacktenofhearts, thank you for your post. Totally on the mark and helped me a lot as well. OP, my story is similar to yours. Never did drugs, but was very beta, my wife was almost a virgin when we met, etc. etc. I also found evidence that my wife was probably attracted to someone else but it doesn't seem that she actually cheated. I think jacktenofhearts totally nails it. Glad things have turned around for you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/11/15 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Getting older has its perks in the game but lets not give young guys in here false hope either.Another dissent. I'm married so I'm not actually pulling the trigger, but as an older guy, IF you have the discipline to implement TRP and IF you get into fantastic shape (and getting a six pack is ten times harder at my age than at 20), you'll be getting IOI's from women in their twenties all the time. Don't get me wrong, it won't be all women, but plenty. If I weren't married, I would definitely be dating a HB9 chick - probably around 10-15 years younger than me. Btw, I do have a lot of money,… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 04:41 PM |
| 3 | Getting fixed. The ol' Snippity-doo-dah.Worst decision of my life. In my case, my wife basically ordered me to get one after the last kid. I dutifully complied, not realizing it was a massive shit test. Sex life dropped by at least 50% IMMEDIATELY after I got snipped. Didn't come back to the pre-snip levels until I discovered TRP years later. If you get it, wait a while so it doesn't look like you're doing it because she told you to. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/11/15 10:47 PM |
| 1 | There is a Beta in the boardroomWell, why not fuck the boss? You're getting penalized for it. Might as well. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/11/15 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Help with a confusing situation that seems to be backfiring on meThanks for your post. I think posts about when TRP doesn't work is as valuable as when it does. I'm going to go against the grain with my advice. I'm a newbie so take it with a grain of salt. According to Athol Kay, around the 6 month mark of swallowing the pill, many men run off the rails and things start going South. He says that it's because you've used up all the beta goodwill you've accumulated and your wife needs more beta. Athol says alpha is not the opposite of beta, and that your wife n… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/11/15 09:52 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Shutting down a girls weekend and being totally OI about it.Mate guarding is recommended by Athol for married men. Mate guarding as DLV is typically for single guys. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/11/15 08:11 PM |
| 0 | Shit Test or a Confession?Possible. Whether I IDGAF or go confront the guy and warn him off, that's the question. I think I need to confront him, if for no other reason than that he's disrespecting me by sending my wife inappropriate messages. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/10/15 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Shit Test or a Confession?I don't think she's cheating now. Sex is on demand. I lift 7X a week. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/10/15 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Shit Test or a Confession?ghost her? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/15 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Shit Test or a Confession?I suspect this is it. But maybe I have blinders on. But, what do I do about that? Tell her she has to stop feeling attraction to this other guy? That she has to cut off all contact with him? Isn't that too defensive/beta if she hasn't acted on her feelings? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/15 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Shit Test or a Confession?Yes, thanks. Your comment previously is what started me on this path in the first place. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/15 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Shit Test or a Confession?Not concealing - I have access to her phone and she knows it. I think she would say it's just harmless texts - but I think a divorced guy sending winks to a married woman is not kosher. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/15 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Shit Test or a Confession?Yup. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/15 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Shit Test or a Confession?100% | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/15 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Shit Test or a Confession?I don't think it's still going on. I'm tracking her on phone and nada. I've looked through all the texts, emails, and call logs and no smoking gun. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/15 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Shit Test or a Confession?How do I get to the bottom of this without interrogating her? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/15 09:21 PM |
| 1 | This "new you," she saysI think this is a big signal - she didn't like the sweet you. She like the new you. Good job. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/10/15 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Main Event(s), long overdue. Victim puke warning.Thanks for sharing. We read so many success stories, but obviously there are instances where TRP doesn't work. I think it's as helpful to read about when it doesn't work as when it does. Can you give a little more background, especially why you think it may not be working? Are you lifting? Where is your SMV? What's the background of how the two of you ended up together? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/15 11:49 PM |
| 8 | Wealthy man hides past to find a good girl = Liar. Slut hides past to find beta provider= OK.Totally right. Money = beta. It literally turns off the part of the brain that stimulates libido. I have been lucky to make fair amount of money in my career, and when I had my major payout, sex life with my wife declined from bad to virtually brain dead. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/15 09:56 PM |
| 3 | Dealing with Total loss of attraction?Hm, I must say I'm starting to run into this as well. My wife is actually very attractive, but about 15 - 20 pounds overweight. I couldn't get enough of sex with her until I swallowed the pill. I'm still attracted to her, but when she acts up, I find my libido for her disappearing. First time that has ever, ever happened. It is probably is related to the fact that I'm starting to get IOIs from women hotter than her now... Damn, an unexpected turn of events. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/10/15 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Doing something wrong but not sure what.Why not engage? My wife corrected me on a trivial point in front of the kids recently and I responded sarcastically, "that's so right - kids, Mommy is so right, and I am totally wrong." Sounds like that was the wrong response? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/10/15 04:56 AM |
| 3 | Wife has a "new friend", wondering how to best handle the situationOK Dude, I've done some research for you. Here is a link to Athol that you should read. There are 3 stages of mate guarding, and you're acting like you're in the green zone. Red zone is where you're at my friend. | /r/askMRP | 15/10/15 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Wife has a "new friend", wondering how to best handle the situationJust a suggestion. I'm new to TRP so this may or may not be the right thing to do but here is what I would do if I were in your situation. The unmarried guys have a different perspective - they generally say, "if your wife wants to have an affair, what do you care? Just go spin a plate." Well, if you're married and have kids, you and I know it's a different story. The facts are that 1) a married woman flirting with other men in front of you is a sign of disrespect, 2) a man flirting with your wi… | /r/askMRP | 15/10/15 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 13, 2015The Good: Lifting every day. Running every day. Results are good. Still not as bulked as I would like and my posture has always been crap but otherwise I'm in best shape I've ever been in - even better than in college when I was a pretty serious athlete. Went in for cholesterol check and HDL is now 100. Wife is starting to run and work out now. Just as TRP theory would predict. The Bad: When I was in the worst part of beta phase and sex was down to a trickle, I started to drink a lot more than I… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/15 01:30 PM |
| 1 | 29 year old woman wants her fiancee to understand she has too much self respect to perform certain sex acts AFTER he finds pictures of her doing these sex acts with her college boyfriend.Whoa, I am bookmarking that. Clear evidence that guys never get over things like this. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 06:27 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Two year married Red Pill journey - lessons and observationstherougepill, your story is very similar to mine, except I found TRP somewhat sooner in the arc of the story. I have had a successful career, and an attractive wife who is a great mother. I was fairly alpha early in life. Perhaps the difference is that before I found oneitis outside marriage, I found TRP and my wife's libido turned around and our sex life is back to where it was before marriage. I admit, it was very very difficult to turn down the opportunities I realized was out there to bang h… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 05:49 AM |
| 2 | Another study confirms the usual RedPill Truths: In the opposite sex; Men want beauty, women want money.Yes. I can tell you my sex life completely collapsed when I hit it big and made a lot of money. When I made enough money that my wife could divorce me without affecting her lifestyle, all pretense of being a lovable wife disappeared. Your mileage may vary, but I've seen this happen many times to many people | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Sexual Market Value ExplainedWhy is #4 the second worst? Maybe second worst? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/15 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Vasectomy vs Tubal Ligation. That talk is coming for me.This might be a late reply, but my vasectomy was a giant shit test. After I got it, my wife's respect and attraction plummeted, and sex frequency dropped substantially. If she knows that you don't want it but you're doing it for her, there is nothing more beta. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/15 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Man wonders why his 'experienced', 32 year old wife, won't perform sexually like she did with previous boyfriends.Hm, this is a very good point. I was alpha before I married. Now that I understand TRP and have unplugged, I could certainly become Chad. I don't necessarily have all the typical attributes but I have enough, and I certainly have the discipline. I think Chan's point is a very important one. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/15 05:16 PM |
| 11 | Another study confirms the usual RedPill Truths: In the opposite sex; Men want beauty, women want money.OK, problem here. First, what women say they want and what they actually want are not always the same. Second, what they want in a provider is NOT what they want in a fling. Take a look at this It's from a girl instagram site - it says "You'll look for the fairytale but you'll always choose the madness." Women say they want Prince Charming but they will bang the tatooed biker. Guys with money are the beta providers. Alphas don't need money. This article is actually espousing blue pill theory. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/15 07:09 PM |
| 1 | [Update] I think the Main Event has started. And I am not ready.This reenforces my first point. Before, you would act angry and she'd feel safe. Now you act in a controlled manner and she feels scared. Wow. This is great insight. Yes, I think you're 100% right. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/15 03:00 PM |
| 1 | [Update] I think the Main Event has started. And I am not ready.Hm, could be. She didn't cry when she apologized. If I had been cold for another day or two I think she would have. Not sure which would have been better. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/15 02:59 PM |
| 5 | [Update] I think the Main Event has started. And I am not ready.On the A&A - clap clap. Thanks. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/09/15 05:08 PM |
| 1 | I think the Main Event has started. And I am not ready.Yup, my fault. I let myself go pretty badly. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/09/15 12:12 AM |
| 1 | I think the Main Event has started. And I am not ready.Thanks man. That's helpful. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/09/15 12:02 AM |
| 8 | I think the Main Event has started. And I am not ready.Hm, haven't thought of this. I had a funny feeling about her and a newly divorced parent at the school just around the time our relationship hit rock bottom. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/09/15 12:00 AM |
| 1 | I think the Main Event has started. And I am not ready.Possible I may be re: my wife. She certainly isn't getting hit on as much as she used to be. Yup, still butthurt about the GF comment. It's hard to get over. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/09/15 11:57 PM |
| 1 | I think the Main Event has started. And I am not ready.Thanks guys. I'm going to go home at the normal time, and act normally. If she brings up last night, I'm going to tell her that her behavior was unacceptable, then shut up. I'll post what happens. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/09/15 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Withdrawing affection vs. acting butthurtWow, yes, excellent point. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/09/15 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Withdrawing affection vs. acting butthurtI should clarify. I'm a relative newbie - started 4 months ago but I tend to go all out on things so I've dropped 25 pounds so far, down to 16% body fat. Working out 7 days a week. My wife is good looking but I'm almost positive I'm 1-2 points ahead of her now. I was couple of points ahead of her when we married, and then clearly fell behind (no one told me I needed to keep SMV high obviously). Level 8-9 dread. Getting hit on in public by women I don't know - for the first time in many many year… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/09/15 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Damn, I think my vasectomy was a shit test.I think she realized she no longer needed to remain married to me in order to live comfortably. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/09/15 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Is it a shit test if she asks nicely?^ This. She asked for it right before we had sex, and yes I did get her the water and yes we had sex. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/09/15 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Is it a shit test if she asks nicely?Well, then if she's wheedling, it would not be a shit test, since that's not compromising my dominance. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/09/15 07:25 PM |
| 1 | [FR]Resistance is Futile - Year long reader, first time postThanks for sharing. Btw, you may be underestimating your SMV. Some girls may not like it, but a substantial number of girls I know go crazy for dark and tall (Arab/Indian). I remember one Iranian guy I knew when I was younger - just flocks of women after him. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/09/15 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Damn, I think my vasectomy was a shit test.The third one was when I had a success in my business and made quite a bit of money. My interpretation is that we got to a point financially so that a divorce would no longer materially affect our lifestyle, and she realized it. The effect of financial success was dramatic. Her respect for me dropped suddenly and noticeably, warmth and affection disappeared, and sex declined to an unacceptable level. It was confusing to me until I realized that many people I know who had financial windfalls divo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/09/15 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Damn, I think my vasectomy was a shit test.I've taken the red pill and I'm turning things around. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/09/15 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Damn, I think my vasectomy was a shit test.I didn't want more kids but I would have preferred it if she had gone on the pill. So yes, classic beta move. Yes, you're right about the money. But you know that betas think more money will make their wives want them more. I was surprised and confused until I found TRP. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/09/15 12:01 AM |
| 1 | [FR] MRP and MMSLP work even when you are 52I'm a few years behind you, but my situation is similar. Way to go. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/09/15 11:10 PM |
| 1 | "Well some other guy just took my [18 M] g/f (now ex I guess) [17 f] virginity." Bonus: Other guy has already moved on to banging a new chick in less than a week.There is an update from him in the thank trp reddit, it looks like he's taken the red pill | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/15 11:13 PM |
| 3 | Honest to God I don't think I would have ever made it through my situation without you guysI remember that post well. I am so glad you're doing better, and that you've found TRP. Keep being strong. | /r/ThankTRP | 09/09/15 07:15 AM |
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