FR: Looking Good Matters

Archwinger · 2016-08-01T14:27:05+00:00

Nothing new, true, but it never ceases to be amazing how night and day this is. Just a little more muscle and a little less fat, and women go from "OMG that creep just looked at me" to finding excuses to touch you even though you're wearing a wedding ring.

But men are the shallow pigs.

Scurvemuch · 2016-08-01T15:08:17+00:00

cool.

is your wife fucking you yet?

handfulofnuts · 2016-08-02T05:06:50+00:00

Note: I haven't been around MRP much in the last few months. I don't know your story—this is just for any guys who may read this and think they should start going around collecting numbers and maybe getting some strange.

Yeah. This is a thing. Decent-and-better-looking men and women know this as a fact of life—you're just now getting a glimpse into it. Don't lose your head over it. If you're going to cheat or even just play around, be smart about it.

I'm dealing with this right now too. I've always been good-looking and gotten some attention from women, but over the past year or so since finding MRP I've changed dramatically. Got contact lenses, updated my haircut, experimented with my facial hair until I found what women react best to, completely changed my body composition. I get compared to Tom Hardy and Chris Hemsworth all the time now. That's not to mention improved social skills, confidence, body language, and ability to read people. And on top of all that, as of a few months ago my business card says CEO on it. That thing makes an audible thud when it lands in a woman's hands. It's ridiculous the kind of attention I'm getting now.

I went to a networking event recently and was introduced to this gorgeous Persian girl, ball-busting executive type. First thing out of her mouth: "Wow, you're big. How much do you lift?" The rest of the evening went the way you'd think it would. We hit it off in a big way. The guy who introduced us noticed how she was acting around me, of course, and said he had never seen her like that with anyone—she's usually a hard-driving, ball-busting corporate woman. Anyway, she's getting married soon and knows I'm married, and she still wants to meet up and fuck.

Now, I have a few plates, but there's no way in hell she's going to be one of them. Our professional circles overlap way too much.

That's just one example. I've had women practically throwing themselves at me for a few months now. My wife's friends included. You have to be smart and not let your dick take over your thinking. Getting pussy is easy. Just last week I met up with this Tinder girl with fantastic tits, had two beers with her and we went straight to a hotel. Fucked the living shit out of her. Four times. Then went home while she spent the night at the hotel. Next day she texts me:

"Thank you so much for last night. BTW, you're married, aren't you? You wouldn't have left otherwise." "Yeah." "That's OK, you were fun. Can we meet again sometime?"

Now, this girl I can plate. She's fantastic in bed. We work in completely unrelated industries. She's a local, I'm an expat. We live and work an hour apart. Our professional and social circles have practically zero chance of overlapping. She knows I'm married and there's no way I'll let her know anything about me that could fuck things up. She knows my first name and has a very vague idea about what industry I work in (along with 3 million other people in this city), and that's it. Things will stay very casual, or I'll ghost her. It'll be easy, and I've made sure of that.

Week before I went on a date (no sex) with a girl who turns out to know half the people I do. She doesn't know I'm married yet and she's probably wondering why I haven't called back, because we had a great time. Still trying to figure out how to deal with that one. Not smart on my end.

Point is, be smart. Be strategic. Don't lose your head. It's just pussy. Pussy is easy. Know what's not easy? Showing up in the underwear department with wifey and be greeted with "You're married? Then what was asking for my number about?" Flirting is fine. You have plausible deniability. Asking for a number is iffy. Anything beyond that and you've got to be really smart.

Says the guy who fucked his wife's coworker. I've learned.

bogeyd6 · 2016-08-01T18:05:16+00:00

Just so you know I read this whole thing in a British accent. As archy said, there is nothing new, but at least you now know exactly what some of the older mrp people are talking about. There comes a tip in your SMV where bitches go out of their way to help/touch you. The usual reminder applies. Always be closing. Get every phone number you can even if only to throw it out on your way to the car.

JDRoedell · 2016-08-01T16:24:09+00:00

Good on you. Wife and kids were out of town this weekend so I went to a few local bars by myself to talk people up. I wanted to practice cold approaches/just being friendly but never got the chance. Both nights someone approached me first and started the conversation.

One was a decent looking woman and her friend about 15 years my senior. (Wrong direction on the age spectrum I know but they weren't bad). The whole night this woman was not just touching but grabbing my arm. Pressing tits against me talking right into my ear, etc. Dropping hints she is divorced and stuff. I've been dressing better and making gains with the iron for about six months now. It matters

sh0ckley · 2016-08-01T15:09:37+00:00

Hell yeah brother. I'm about 4 months in and also now easing in to dread level 5. I'm down 40 lbs and counting. Picked up a pair of designer jeans with great shoes and some shirts in my new lower neck size. My old clothes don't really fit anymore. Almost dropped 2 inches around the waist and need a new belt soon.

And... similar to your report, I am getting a huge increase in IOI's, especially when I'm out with my lady due to pre selection.

I must be a shallow pig.

Aechzen · 2016-08-04T11:21:25+00:00

These girls might have been doing this to get me to buy stuff or might not.

AWALT. The second chick probably noticed chick one drooling over you. Preselection.

Hot people get treated very differently than people who are not. Congratulations on getting to see both sides.

This is where people suggest reading Bang and Day Bang. I finished reading Models, and it was pretty good. No idea how it compares to the other two.

JaneeCathartica · 2016-09-01T23:02:19+00:00

Just get a divorce

kyledontcare · 2016-08-02T09:52:02+00:00

women are all such nasty, worthless, b1tches.

Title	FR: Looking Good Matters
Author	bigcorpthrowaway
Upvotes	25
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Date	August 1, 2016 2:17 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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