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She will be absolutely disgusted with herself for fucking those guys. Doubtful. She will be waiting for the other shoe to drop, wondering why this guy put up with her shit. She will also realize she can get away with it again as soon as he is off his game even a little bit. Never reward bad behavior.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/23 06:40 PM
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It may be a bad choice time will tell. I understand this post is your parting shot, but... don't delete your account, you might be needing it one day.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/23 06:39 PM
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No, just a firm believer in giving people enough rope to hang themselves.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/23 02:04 PM
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Imma leave this one up...
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/23 08:51 PM
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Elaborate.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/23 08:47 PM
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My name is SorcererKing and I endorse this abuse.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/23 08:40 PM
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I love a happy ending.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/22 05:02 PM
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rampant inflation is doing to there current plans and what they are going to do to adapt It's a serious problem and not some fanciful could happen someday sort of situation. Yes, this is part of what I mean. The other part is this: what would happen to your savings and investments if the US pulled a Zimbabwe? Contingency planning in finance is clearly the most challenging.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/22 09:20 PM
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You should go to the RP forums for women. They can guide you on Girl Game to help bring him to an awakening.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/22 05:09 PM
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Perfect. Do what you can with what you have now, add slowly over time. You're over the target.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/22 05:02 AM
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Perfect. Do what you can with what you have now, add slowly over time. You're over the target.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/22 05:01 AM
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60 DOD Nice, clean, obtainable goals. Nose hair is an increasingly annoying phenomenon as we age. Good to see it on your list. Start watching for fly-away eyebrows and ear hair too. [edit for shit typing]
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/22 04:21 PM
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The only question is "what do you want?" Yes.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/22 03:12 AM
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the phrase "self evident" This is a good observation. This is metaphysical identity. What Jefferson is saying is that rights are what they are and cannot be taken away because of what we are. In the case of the Declaration of Independence he is basically outlining that freedom has to be yours or else your life does not belong to you; a simple corollary to a central tenet of human identity. The challenge to us all is to derive or discover the others and then put them into practice.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/22 03:11 AM
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The point of your life is to live and be happy. This is not arbitrary at all; it derives from the facts of your existence as a person, in your location, now. Consider what you are, what that enables, and what it prevents. In other words, your purpose as a person derives from your metaphysical identity; the "arbitrary" part, as you call it, is how you are willing to express that across your life.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/22 03:06 AM
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I like it. Good habits aren't just for days on which you have someone external to hold you accountable.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/22 03:02 AM
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Remember: wherever you go, there you are.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/22 03:01 AM
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The format has evolved a bit, as Blarg points out. I used to encourage guys to post their progress in the weekly thread, but then OYS became such a staple that I started encouraging people to put their progress on DoD goals in the OYS. Discussion on the weekly topic itself (as opposed to your progress on that goal) is always welcome in the current week's DoD thread.
/r/askMRP08/04/22 05:19 PM
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Seems like this comes up about once a year. Good post, but as you point out, the philosophical part has to come first before the psychological.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/22 04:00 PM
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He's likely rounding kg measures.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/22 02:15 PM
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In any case, though, investing in ETFs is stupid. There is one of the "blue-pill normie investment ideas" of which I spoke.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/22 06:58 AM
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Physical gold, physical silver, and maybe cryptos. I say maybe simply because cryptos are so new we don't know how they'll behave in a crisis. People like to play them as a speculative asset right now, which would mean they would convert them back into cash at some point. Gold is money, so we know what it does during times of crisis. If you doubt that, look into the Central Bank gold holdings around the world in 2021.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/21 04:05 PM
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This may be of help to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/21 03:29 PM
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If you're new to 60 DoD then work through the sidebar posts as we go.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/21 08:00 AM
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All maggots willing to work are welcome.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/21 07:58 AM
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For my part, I'm going to imitate Ronnie whenever I do a set. When I'm done with the last rep I'll put the weight down with authority and scream, "WOO! LIGHT WEIGHT BABY!" so everyone can hear. Yeah, totally that, or maybe some upright rows or somethin'...
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/21 03:47 AM
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Atomic Habits book advises the use of ‘systems’ over goals Sounds vaguely familiar...
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 02:48 PM
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BTW - you obviously did a ton of good work in a short time frame. Focus now on cementing those new behaviors and attitudes. Good job!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/21 10:58 PM
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I also set up an account for an emergency fund with $1500 in for car break downs etc. I opened an (Rainy day) account with 3 months worth mortgage, bills incl weekly food etc, so if work goes to shit I’ve got shit cover for a quarter. I also add to this account monthly. I’ve also got our main savings which we don’t touch and also the family days account as mentioned above. You should be careful holding cash these days. The true rate of cost inflation is somewhere like 8-13% depending on where yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/21 10:48 PM
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the rest of my flair is probably due for an update as well You'll have to figure out who gave it to you. Wasn't me.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/21 10:47 PM
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You're welcome.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/21 05:32 PM
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It was all in how you tagged it. I did search for "60 DoD". You tagged with "DOD". Got you fixed up. Love the attitude. Keep up the good work.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/21 03:56 PM
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Thank you for calling attention to this. I will get off my ass and hand out flair soon.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/21 03:47 AM
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Out of lifting - OK. There are 7 other weeks you could be working.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/21 01:09 AM
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So so deep in her frame you even think the thoughts she wants you to think. Sadness all around.
/r/askMRP27/05/21 06:55 AM
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Thanks for a great extension to the corpus on this topic. The maggots are not worthy.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/21 06:39 AM
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Since you have probably the strongest internal locus here, how about we do a little Socratic dialogue for the benefit of the masses? What do you do when people do unexpected things and situations don't turn out in your favor or as you thought they would? How do you square an internal locus of control with other people having agency?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/21 02:35 PM
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You are a new account and maybe new to this sub? You can start to take control today by reading sidebar resources and posting in our weekly Own Your Shit thread. Before posting there I encourage you to read it for a couple weeks, and get familiar with the posting rules for the sub. If you need to confess your sins (i.e., do a victim puke) then go to /r/askMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/21 02:33 PM
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Addiction can be of several origins. Very often it is a defense mechanism, a reaction to something terrible from the past. It is a form of evasion of reality, so in that sense it is an attempt to rewrite reality so that locus of control isn't even a thing. Most addicts I've seen default to external as anything else would make them claim responsibility and face whatever terrible thing happened in the first place. Take that shit seriously and get some professional help; we knuckleheads here are no…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/21 02:22 PM
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I denied that because of the Navy BF method (but I have a thick neck) and because I had decent lifts. I denied that because of my ego +1, good insight I need to invest in my own blow dryer That's one I've never heard before, but good insight. Week 4- Style: I have failed to do anything here, I need to do a full inventory of my closet and get this flab off to invest in some new clothes. You can start now by getting rid of things that don't fit. Week 5- Game: I can't find it now but someone made a…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/21 04:21 AM
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Good work but stay focused. Your new habits and sense of self aren't cemented in place yet until you feel like all the positives you just expressed are the normal course of business.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/21 04:15 AM
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All good either way.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/21 02:46 PM
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Good to be an alchemist.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 05:57 PM
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Perhaps. Though I'm not talking about a typical cyclical market crash, more of a "end of the fiat dollar" total currency collapse a la John Law, Weimar Germany, Zimbabwe, Venezuela, etc. For anyone else reading this: this is the point of this week, at least in part. Get your shit in order so you understand what we're talking about and you are as ready as you think you can/should be for whatever may be coming.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 02:15 PM
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(1) and (2) are always good ideas, as you can have more money by spending less, earning more, or both. (3)... that's good advice for up until 2019. Dollar going the way of the dodo, and the stock market with it when it crashes and burns. The real trick is knowing when. Not yet, but sooner than you think and sooner than we'd all like.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 05:29 AM
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No recommendations here, other than to learn as much as possible.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 05:26 AM
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If you're new to this area, please do a search on "60 DoD Week 6" within MRP to see some of the excellent prior years' posts.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/21 01:45 PM
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If before, then I commend you, as you dialed into the heart of it all on your own.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/21 10:04 PM
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When I wrote the bulk of this on Sunday, the new 60 DOD post wasn't up yet, so I re-read the 60 DOD sidebar post on game. The old posts are good. This year's is Basic Bitch, and reminds you that the biggest thing in your way is you and your fear.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/21 09:51 PM
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I have to admit I think I have developed a fear of success with chicks, which is fucking hilarious. Did you write this before the 60 DoD on Game, or after?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/21 09:50 PM
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Hoping Vivitrol can help with alcohol moderation. This is moving into a fairly hardcore realm. Have you spoken to your doctor about this?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/21 09:47 PM
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I need to keep a more organized record of what I’m doing each session. Phones apps galore for that.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/21 02:51 PM
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I’m going to post about it in askMRP soon. That's like saying, "I'm going to give myself brain damage soon."
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/21 02:46 PM
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This week’s goal was to do a teeth whitening, which I did. Now build it in so you do it regularly.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/21 02:45 PM
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failed to do so this week Was there a plan, or just a yearning? All self defense mechanisms because I was scared to talk to people. Eureka!
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/21 02:42 PM
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It’s a lonely feeling when that is finally understood. You just got one step closer to realizing your potential. Remember: we all die alone. What will you do until then?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/21 02:28 PM
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No plan around this right now Danger! This is exactly the point of 60 DoD!
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/21 02:25 PM
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If any of this were easy, everyone would be doing it.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/21 02:23 PM
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Still sharpening that axe? I haven't seen you report in.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/21 05:30 AM
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Where the fuck are you then? I don't see any OYS reporting.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/21 05:27 AM
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Not seeing any reporting from you.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/21 05:26 AM
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Where the fuck are you then? I don't see any OYS reporting.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/21 05:24 AM
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You can weigh it once and then calculate the nutritional values and then use those values going forward. It would be a bit obsessive to weigh each and every meal, but if you do it once with a variety of things (and especially with the things you regularly eat) you'll get a sense of what's what and then you can say you're eating in a healthy fashion.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/21 08:44 PM
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Sounds like you got the message, and you see why it is a recommended read (at least from me). If you'd like to understand how the world is and where it's headed, pick up Atlas Shrugged next.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/21 06:59 PM
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Any other new habits you're building for 60 DoD?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/21 03:24 PM
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The first goals are to pick my game up to where it was before I got lazy with WFH and to book in to get my teeth fixed. Then what? How do either of those things change your process? How do they contribute to you being a consistently better version of yourself?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/21 03:22 PM
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So, as I write this I'm finishing the last beer in the fridge and that's the end of beers at home for me. Know that it's not the drinking per se. It's the fact that it becomes a habit. Having some potato chips once in a while is fine. It's when you eat them everyday, at the same time, just because you do... that's bad. Alcohol is a drug; you need to be very mindful and intentional with drugs.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/21 03:21 PM
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My biggest problem here is my smile. It's yellowish and not straight. I've set up a dental consult to see what it'll take to correct both. That solves the immediate. Ask dentist what can be done to keep them looking good after the treatment (e.g., at-home whitening once in a while or different toothpaste, etc.) Also, you a bit light on details here for your new processes. Are you in on this or are you out?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/21 03:19 PM
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Much thanks to the folks who came up with 60 dod. You're welcome. Year 6 (or 7? I forget) and going strong. Remember that 60 DoD is about process goals. That means a new way of doing things that become a new, good habit.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/21 03:17 PM
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We only have 1 car, so I worked around it and cycle to the gym. No excuses. I like it. Is there sustainability built into this though? relationship with food and generally being a greedy cunt Long-term view? Transition plan? Hygiene goals a little vague as reported here. Make sure you have a "care routine" as the ladies like to call it.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/21 03:14 PM
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Have you read the TRP sidebar materials? Have you read ours?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/21 03:11 PM
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You're on the right track with 60 DoD, but be sure your goals are well-defined. "Keep lifting/running/stretching & eating well" lacks the when/where/how. Edit: be sure your process goals are well defined, that is.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/21 03:03 PM
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Right now I’m somehow obsessing about this process. I’m reading every day, taking on the books, realising all the progress I need to make. The fact that some simple changes in my behaviour do some simple changes in my relationship dynamics is boosting my confidence already. Beware the siren song of n00b gainz. You'll see some progress and then regress. Focus on sustainable process that gets you the consistent results you want. To wit: I’m keeping track of what I eat, again, with loose accuracy. …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/21 03:00 PM
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Good work so far, stay focused on process as the ultimate means to results. The broken scale is frustrating I must have missed something about what this means, but whether it is a bathroom scale or a kitchen scale, isn't this extraordinarily easy to solve?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/21 02:55 PM
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I am using a palate expander to expand my jaw and headgear to pull my upper jaw forward to correct my breathing problems. This has also fixed my sunken chin and TMJ. I am about to get my lower jaw expander which should allow my bite to properly align and make it easier to speak where my teeth interfere with my tongue. Congratulations on making the commitment to yourself to do all this. I've never seen anything quite like on 60 DoD. Any other whiny bitch who might be reading this take note: this …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/21 02:53 PM
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Make sure you have a transition plan to maintenance eating mode for when you reach BF goal. Not sure which deodorants you've tried, but look for ones without aluminum compounds. What, if anything, did you get out of The Fountainhead?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/21 02:50 PM
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So... foot washing is the new habit then? floss them every couple of days For maximal oral health (including breath) this should be daily.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/21 02:44 PM
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Did you list out the process goals for lifting somewhere? What your good habits will be? Why will that be the goal, and how will you transition it into your iron-clad habit? Do you have a maintenance eating plan for whenever you're finished with your bulking? Failing to plan is planning to fail.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/21 02:42 PM
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A lot of good introspection here and some important realizations. Now let's turn that mental horsepower to actionable change and a plan for long-term sustainability. Don't just think about being a new version of yourself, or just act like a new version of yourself, BE a new version. When you do you might just find that the person you were up until now was the real act of pretend.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/21 02:39 PM
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Hygiene goals sound like you really thought about it and noticed yourself. Good work. I maintained control of my weekend meals and stayed within my goals for my cut. This sounds like a temporary adjustment to eating, which is fine for particular goals. Make sure you have a transition plan for when goal is met.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/21 02:34 PM
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I think putting in an extra gym day will help accelerate gains and getting lean. That sounds short-term. Is 4 days a week something you'll do past May? Since I went out drinking Friday night, I really focussed on staying on point Saturday and Sunday. This week I am working in IM and keto. My weight loss has stalled FTFY. My grill is jacked. I went to the ortho a few weeks ago and decided on invisalign. I am picking it up this week. It's an 18 month process. Congratulations. This is a tough admis…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/21 02:31 PM
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Last week’s goal was to lift every other day while maintain a calorie deficit with progressive overload. I succeeded in this goal. Same goal for this week. Good work. Now make the shift of thinking of it not as a goal, but a certainty, an indisputable fact of your existence.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/21 02:28 PM
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For 60DoD I’ve done 5x 5am sandbag/kettle bell work outs. Was that a process goal? That sounds like an inventory of exercise you did in the past.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/21 02:28 PM
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I'm not doing 60DoD but I'm following along Yep, following along works miracles.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/21 02:25 PM
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Participating in 60DoD Where's the progress toward forming new, better habits?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/21 02:24 PM
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Precisely the point. We all do this, and it's not bad, it's good.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/21 04:43 AM
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This post is also not about nachos.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/21 03:51 PM
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Thank you for decoding that. I had been wondering about that one.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/21 03:49 PM
1

It ads no value to the overall goals of the sub. Are you sure? Or do you mean to say "I don't see how this adds any value to the sub?"
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/21 03:44 PM
2

You've very obviously read the Career Beta post, and that's good. This one may either help you or send you further down the rabbit hole. Introspection is good, and clearly you're willing to think. However, some of this is like moving your arm: you may have a reason why you move your arm, but you don't think about how you move your arm, you just do it. Thinking is good, overthinking is bad, doing is best.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/21 02:12 PM
2

Bingo.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/21 11:45 PM
3

Sounds like you need some time in the safe space.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/21 10:48 PM
3

whatever is in the fridge when I realise I need to feed them. This begs the question of who is in charge of the shopping?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/21 07:32 PM
4

Excellent. This helps raise awareness of eating. I've heard of crazy shit where people eat naked or in front of a mirror. Anything to get them to be really really conscious of how much and what they are eating.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/21 07:32 PM
2

I speak from experience, yes. This is why the focus on habits is key. Anyone can lose weight. Without sustainable concrete habits to maintain, everyone will just gain it back. I still struggle with this, and though I have some good habits, I have some bad ones too.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/21 07:30 PM
3

Spoon boy: Do not try and bend the spoon. That's impossible. Instead... only try to realize the truth. Neo: What truth? Spoon boy: There is no spoon. Neo: There is no spoon? Spoon boy: Then you'll see, that it is not the spoon that bends, it is only yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/21 09:53 PM
1

Yes, well said.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/21 09:46 PM
1

Why would you care what my opinion on dirty bulk is? Try it and find out. Try what /u/Redpdaddy suggested and see how that works. As I said in the OP: (Just don’t get sanctimonious about how you eat. Remember that consistency is key and there is no right way to eat for everyone.)
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/21 01:49 PM
3

Follow 60 DoD Follow 60 DoD on Instagram and Twitter! No. This isn't something you "follow" it's a process for improving your process. You embrace it and participate.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/21 06:32 AM
1

I’m pushing it hard at least three days every week and I love it and I’m not going to stop. This is a life-long change for me. How might you tune it up? How can you build even better habits around this?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/21 06:30 AM
1

You failed the spirit of 60 DoD. You roll in and declare you have no improvement to make in that area. Surely there's something you can better or more consistently?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/21 06:28 AM
2

What I am implementing now: Dynamic warmup on lower body training days, and finish the workout targeting at least one lagging muscle group (ab's, hams, or glutes) Wednesdays and Saturdays I will spend at least 15min going through stretches I got from a friend who owns 2 physical therapy locations Move more throughout the day, I have had more of a desk job for the first time for almost a year. Have access to a standing desk and may use that. I like it. For your booze issue, see 60 DoD week 2. You…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/21 06:26 AM
1

Was your mention of 60 DoD just gratuitous? Other than moving your bench, you say nothing about what you'll be doing differently now and for always.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/21 06:23 AM
3

For 60 DoD, my goal is to continue to lift consistently, with as much linear progression as possible, while doing my first cut. Somewhat vague. How will you ingrain this new habit?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/21 06:22 AM
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Also, since I'm doing a smaller amount of work each time, I can do this every day, which has been helpful in ingraining the habit. Good observation. Finding different ways to do it that are self-reinforcing is working smarter, not harder.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/21 06:19 AM
1

Shit... wrong spot for this... moving it up.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/21 06:18 AM
4

The theme of 60 DoD is making positive habitual changes. You dropped your plan here, which seems like a good one, but you could have highlighted the process you go through. You wrote it, but you didn't call attention to it. What you actually eat means fuck all to me; that you have a system and a good habitual routine around what you eat means the world. That's what you should be showing n00bz.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/21 06:13 AM
1

You made a good post, don't go ruining it. The "and" should be a tie-back to the original. Try again.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/21 04:12 AM
1

Drop and give me 25.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/21 02:22 AM
1

Are these components part of a new plan? Remember, we're trying to build new habits.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/21 09:18 PM
2

I think as long as you keep the weight light and focus on the movement to retrain your form, Smith machine is a good answer too.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/21 12:09 AM
1

Time to get creative. Find and befriend someone who has what you need.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/21 02:40 AM
4

Lower the weight by a lot and work on form. You need to develop strength doing the exercise in the correct way; that requires new neural pathways, or different so-called "muscle memory".
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/21 08:09 PM
2

Love it!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/21 05:20 PM
1

Yes.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/21 02:16 PM
2

Get some!
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/21 11:30 PM
2

Find a way. I want to hear about it next week in OYS.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/21 11:29 PM
3

My point here is that I'm interested in how you will change your habits around lifting for the better, not how much weight you'll be able to do at the end. Will you go longer in each session? Negative reps? Add days to the regime? Change up your bro splits? What will you do differently that will build power for you in the next 60 days and beyond? How will you get to the next level?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/21 11:27 PM
5

Before these 60 days are over, you will need to change that user name.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/21 11:22 PM
7

Your autism is showing. DuckDuckGo that shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/21 05:29 PM
3

Not likely. Google that shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/21 12:48 PM
7

You should conceptualize that lifting and stretching are part of the productive activities you need to be a success at your relationships and your business. Every bit as important as doing your accounting.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/21 12:46 PM
1

Does this imply you have already achieved a good set of habits with lifting?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/21 01:51 AM
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That is a pretty specialized case. I would recommend trying to get a physical therapist or rehab specialist involved. Maybe a one-time consult to get some ideas? Failing that, perhaps try focusing on highly isolated exercises that don't aggravate your spine. This might mean you omit some exercises and modify others. Start with very light weight/bar only to see what works. Listen to your body. Spines are nothing to fuck around with; you don't want to end up paralyzed. Your situation does bring up…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/21 07:47 PM
3

You will burn.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/21 04:22 AM
1

I knew you'd like it.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/21 05:09 PM
5

Nothing ever changes. Oh, and it's "champing".
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/21 04:02 AM
0

Repost this on askMRP. Be warned though, you'll be using up your one victim puke.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/21 05:52 PM
1

What the fuck is going on here? Which account are you posting from? This is the same response the ragnar account made to my "I feel like" link. Retard much?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/21 05:43 PM
1

I was totally unprepared to answer and reacted basically like I got caught watching some weird porn. All your DEERing and all that... why do it? Because you are projecting your own negative judgments about this process outward. Somewhere in your head is a voice saying, "You shouldn't be looking at all this or indulging these ideas. It's weird. You're going to hurt people. This isn't you." So you are embarrassed, and you're worried what your wife would say if she found out. That is what you need …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/21 07:11 AM
2

So I YOLO'd just over a grand on 4 shares of $GME Friday. I did the same Monday. Except I did it to support the retarded apes. I will hold until it goes to zero because (a) it's fucking hilarious; (b) it's being a part of history; and (c) who gives a fuck? I've made some recently, so for me, this is pure entertainment with no illusion that I would do anything but lose it all. Worth every penny.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/21 06:50 AM
5

I tried something new with my wife last week. Something I never thought I’d be able to bring up and something I never thought I wanted to try. Anal, huh? /u/red-sfpplus
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/21 06:37 AM
2

I don’t have a resolved mission yet. ask myself "what do I want?" https://old.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4duudk/why_youre_lost/
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/21 06:29 AM
1

I feel like https://old.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3rqu8u/a_psa_on_language/ EDIT: I rescind this lesson for you. Your "feel like" was a legit description of your feelings, not a hedge.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/21 06:11 AM
1

I feel like https://old.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3rqu8u/a_psa_on_language/
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/21 06:11 AM
1

I feel like https://old.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3rqu8u/a_psa_on_language/
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/21 06:10 AM
2

I feel like https://old.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3rqu8u/a_psa_on_language/
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/21 06:09 AM
1

I feel like https://old.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3rqu8u/a_psa_on_language/
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/21 06:09 AM
1

I feel like https://old.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3rqu8u/a_psa_on_language/
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/21 06:09 AM
2

I feel like https://old.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3rqu8u/a_psa_on_language/
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/21 06:08 AM
1

I feel like https://old.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3rqu8u/a_psa_on_language/
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/21 06:08 AM
3

I feel like https://old.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3rqu8u/a_psa_on_language/
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/21 06:08 AM
2

I feel like https://old.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3rqu8u/a_psa_on_language/
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/21 06:07 AM
2

I feel like https://old.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3rqu8u/a_psa_on_language/
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/21 06:07 AM
3

What did you expect?
/r/askMRP10/11/20 04:04 PM
2

Midterms FTW?
/r/askMRP10/11/20 04:01 PM
3

Did we all miss the part where he let strangers put 220V straight through the center of his brain pan? I have mental disabilities which is why I was retired from the military, so yes I legit am a bit of a retard now. I had ECT and the seizures they gave me destroyed my short term memory. It also effected my ability to process information. Jesus, cut him some slack.
/r/askMRP23/10/20 05:01 AM
5

Good report. We had a retardation criticality event is what you are saying? A spontaneous explosion of retarded energy completely out of proportion to the retarded mass that was present? AskMRP is the retard playpen. It is specifically designed to keep the retards here at AskMRP who want to ask retard questions and tell retard stories about retarded things so that everyone who reads them becomes more retarded and then gives retarded responses. Yes. The joke is on all of us. Edit: PS - you're wel…
/r/askMRP20/10/20 02:28 PM
1

Facebook knows.
/r/askMRP20/10/20 02:25 PM
1

If you're in TX is COVID really a problem? Meaning, are things all locked down there?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 01:29 PM
1

Quick-draw McGill strikes again. You make it look so easy.
/r/askMRP08/10/20 08:16 PM
1

Don't forget "texting is for logistics only."
/r/askMRP08/10/20 08:11 PM
1

So bringing in the equipment could blow up the relationship and I'm not sure on where the line is between being an asshole, and taking care of what's important to me. Who said there's a line? Sometimes you have to be an asshole to take care of what's important to you. No apologies.
/r/askMRP08/10/20 08:07 PM
1

How dare you! She's a Princess! She would only ever give head in the car; anything more would be undignified!
/r/askMRP05/10/20 03:25 PM
2

Have these, they are great.
/r/askMRP05/10/20 03:16 PM
1

If you haven't read enough sidebar to know the answers to all this yourself, why are you in such a hurry to decide that you felt the need to poll this sub? Also, thus far I have not made fun of you; instead I tried to reframe your perception to show you the root of your issues. You defended your ego instead. Maybe you're more of poetical type? Here's a haiku to summarize how this thread went down: Beta brings question "Will you choose my life for me?" Beta gets butt-hurt
/r/askMRP01/10/20 02:32 PM
2

Locked up for Humanity. Enough time has been wasted on a throwaway.
/r/askMRP30/09/20 02:01 PM
1

He's not wrong, and you're mad that what -- we won't tell you whether you should divorce your wife? Do you even hear yourself and how absurd that sounds? Shape up, you're close to a two-sub ban.
/r/askMRP30/09/20 01:59 PM
4

Questions are not the same as "hey, will someone tell me exactly what I need to do, start to finish?" We did that already, it's called the MRP sidebar. None of your backstory or issues are unique. Sure the details are yours, but we've seen many with your basic story. We've curated resources to help you. Will you use them?
/r/askMRP30/09/20 01:58 PM
2

Someone reported you for "Low Quality" on your response. How does that make you feel?
/r/askMRP30/09/20 01:57 PM
7

A lot of "science" around here lately. I'll be looking for the findings in a nice report.
/r/askMRP29/09/20 05:46 PM
3

So much incongruence in this whole thing. Which of our Good Samaritans will write you 2000 words to explain?
/r/askMRP29/09/20 05:46 PM
8

Seconded.
/r/askMRP28/09/20 07:16 PM
4

Is it red pilled to This is why you fail.
/r/askMRP28/09/20 07:14 PM
1

Shit, what do you need us for?
/r/askMRP28/09/20 07:14 PM
15

Stop drinking. Quit texting. Go get a girl with a big ass.
/r/askMRP28/09/20 07:11 PM
1

This got auto-modded, but don't do this. You need to offer some analysis, agree or disagree, tell us how this is relevant. Pointing to some post about AWALT doesn't help anyone. Hope that WNS doesn't see this or you'll catch a ban.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/20 07:10 PM
1

No.
/r/askMRP09/09/20 03:04 PM
2

"Fuck Me Fuck You" was written into the MRP sidebar by a Purple Pill advocate and was then rehashed by his Blue Pill understudy, who is an MRP Mod. Those of us who were here back then can confirm.
/r/askMRP02/09/20 10:19 PM
1

This sort of thing should go on askMRP. You'll probably catch a ban from someone else if other mods notice this; I'm a little more lenient.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/20 03:45 PM
1

Go over to RPW and ask them.
/r/askMRP21/08/20 02:12 PM
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Approving this just to watch the carnage.
/r/askMRP20/08/20 02:51 PM
1

Your mistake here is that you have assigned her high value based on typically male characteristics. "Self-made" and "owns a factory?" Who gives a shit? There's hot Third-world ass all around you. Are you sure you're not gay?
/r/askMRP11/08/20 09:09 PM
3

The ultimate in passive-aggressive revenge.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/20 03:41 PM
2

But maybe I’m wrong, maybe it’s a terrible tragedy... Don't worry, Mr. Durden. Airport parking, long-term.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/20 03:39 PM
1

What is all this saying? That you need your T levels checked. To remember not to pedestalize what we're being told just because we're being told it. The philosophy here has always been take what works, leave the rest. Thanks for the reinforcement.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/20 03:36 PM
1

Take this to askMRP, and be glad I found you first. You'll get banned if you post bullshit like this on MRP again.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/20 03:28 PM
5

Haha if there were anything left to buy, yeah.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/20 03:18 PM
3

This is an honest question: Is the 'anger' you're talking about the same thing as what he's talking about? The anger discussed in this post isn't 'anger' in general, but Kubler-Ross type-anger. What you're describing is the sort of anger that makes one competitive and creates drive. When you lost it you fell into complacency, by definition. Perhaps the difference is the focus of the anger? The source?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/20 03:17 PM
1

English is not the first language for this guy I'm guessing. Forget the words, look at the meanings.
/r/askMRP17/07/20 06:31 PM
2

But that still isn’t the relationship sub Reddit. You really really need to hit the sidebar and learn the fine art of STFU. Semantic games are not appreciated here, son.
/r/askMRP17/07/20 06:30 PM
1

second and third chance Don't get weak on us here. Every wet blanket you waste time on is less time you have to spend on guys who actually want to un-fuck themselves.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/20 03:08 PM
3

Read more of 12 Rules for Life and one section that resonated with me was "rescuing the damned". My marriage had turned into something along the lines of me being the rescuer and my STBXW being a victim. Paging Captain Save-A-Ho. feelings of resentment, anger, suffering, loneliness, and regrets Have you read this?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/20 06:34 PM
2

Doesn’t matter what I think though, does it. Actually it does, more than you seem to realize. Just not in the way you imagine.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/20 06:26 PM
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This is your victim puke, so enjoy. Get to OYS. Oh, and practice your STFU otherwise.
/r/askMRP02/07/20 01:25 AM
8

Yep, still earning that flair.
/r/askMRP01/07/20 03:29 PM
3

I don't remember everyone's story per se, but I think you were a shitshow when you washed up here. How about now?
/r/askMRP01/07/20 03:28 PM
6

TRP would have been gone yesterday if the rumors were true. As the creator of this particular sub I've never even gotten a warning from Reddit. We're too small.
/r/askMRP29/06/20 04:01 PM
13

Start here: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/acvzgx/steels_guide_to_married_red_pill/
/r/askMRP26/06/20 03:07 PM
16

You'll find that the community response is proportional to the ego of the newb.
/r/askMRP26/06/20 03:07 PM
2

If the "antioch" in your name is Antioch, CA then you can probably get her in trouble for being out and about. If you're interested in some kind of custody battle, then you might even leverage that against her in court. I'm no lawyer though. Beyond that all you can do is not take your kids for the sake of your parents. Or move into your own place. Or roll the dice and STFU.
/r/askMRP25/06/20 04:30 PM
5

Please DM me her number and directions to the other house. [Edit: Since everyone is so retarded these days, let me edit here to add: this is sarcasm to highlight why she has the other house. Don't DM her number or the address to me. Send that to /u/SBIII; he earned it.]
/r/askMRP25/06/20 04:22 PM
1

Yes, I understand your assessment. What I'm asking is: what did you think you would get out of posting your assessment?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/20 02:23 PM
1

Neil! Long time no see, though to be fair it has been me who has been away. Any updates? Looks like you're spending your time figuring out how to bankrupt yourself in the stock market. How are you doing otherwise?
/r/askMRP24/06/20 06:23 PM
1

Who are you? What are you about? Why would anyone care? I can't answer any of those questions based on your "post" here. Either you're extremely lazy or you assume celebrity that you don't have.
/r/askMRP24/06/20 03:30 PM
2

What were you hoping to get out of making this post? Are you just emoting? On your period?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/20 03:28 PM
1

I'm not one for the "ACES" model of the world, but if I were, I'd point out that you have at least 3 of them. Your goal has to be a philosophical and psychological reset so that the hole doesn't need filling. Do you relish the thought of going to meetings constantly the rest of your life? Didn't think so. Trying to make a relationship your focus will end in disaster (again) -- see sidebar. Over the long haul you're going to need to work on reprogramming your mind completely. Your firmware has be…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/20 03:09 PM
1

I will feel unlovable – suggesting that too much of my self-worth is tied up in this relationship alcoholism, laziness, addicted to everything (comfort, and short-term pleasure i.e. drugs, porn, smoking, computer games etc) What happened to you as a kid that makes you think you're not worth anything? What addiction did you put in the hole where there used to be drugs, alcohol, cigs, porn, etc.?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/20 02:55 AM
2

First, it's really supposed to be 60. 75 is a bit of joke because we went long this year. Next, I run it annually, but there are tons of prior year posts on the sidebar, so you can jump on and do your own whenever you like. You might even advertise it on askMRP and maybe some other guys will want to do it with you. Otherwise, I'll run it again next spring... it serves to prep you for summer, as we always try to end at Memorial Day, the official, unofficial start of summer.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/20 04:48 AM
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Most of you guys are offering advice on, what exactly? The very brief, one-sided account of an ego-hurt faggot? Does this guy own his shit? You don't know. Does he have a mission? You don't know. Christ guys, I've been gone too long. This is another version of "she's BPD!"
/r/askMRP09/06/20 06:27 PM
2

You moron. People pay good money to get that kind of honesty.
/r/askMRP09/06/20 02:31 PM
3

Commence beating.
/r/askMRP09/06/20 02:27 PM
1

Fuck me. Sorry man, fixed it.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/20 02:22 PM
5

What is the point of your life? Why are you on this Earth?
/r/askMRP29/05/20 02:57 AM
9

You're fucked. So long as you carry on like this you're in her frame, she owns you, game over. She isn't yours, it was just your turn.
/r/askMRP29/05/20 02:56 AM
1

Not sure what you posted, but if it is a question, askMRP is the place. Of course, the answer will be "lead, faggot!" but maybe that's what you need to hear.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/20 11:43 PM
4

Fun fact, not sure who screwed us over, but Reddit doesn't allow you to place ads on marriedredpill or askmrp That's good. That means we undermine their worldview AND cost them money. Hooray!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/20 02:13 AM
1

Lose 10 pounds Remember that the purpose of 60 DoD is to make a permanent change in how you do things. So while "lose 10 pounds" may happen, the real goal should be something like "Change my diet and exercise habits such that I will lose 10 lbs. and never get it back."
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/20 01:32 AM
2

is it too late? It was already too late last week. .556 going for $0.99 a round for the bad stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/20 01:47 AM
2

Flatten the curve.
/r/askMRP17/03/20 07:47 PM
2

That quote is from the article you posted.
/r/askMRP17/03/20 05:41 PM
2

That would have been true... if you stopped responding. Every response you made gave oxygen to that fire.
/r/askMRP17/03/20 12:39 AM
1

No, I don't care because the flu is a known entity with an annual vaccine and a case-fatality ratio of 0.1%, not 3%. People in their 30s rarely die of typical influenza; people in their 30s with Corona can.
/r/askMRP17/03/20 12:21 AM
2

Public health officials say it will take a year to 18 months to fully validate any potential vaccine.
/r/askMRP16/03/20 09:30 PM
1

Damage to the economy from a pandemic doesn't hurt a politician. Yes, the media will claim he didn't act fast enough, and they'll probably be right. They would have been saying he was acting too quickly if he had done things sooner. The fact of the matter is that while you may come out of this ok, we need to curb transmission so we don't overwhelm the healthcare system and we don't create any more panic. See beyond the immediate moment and understand that you don't win by ignoring this and havin…
/r/askMRP16/03/20 09:27 PM
2

The caught this one early in the US. Like hell. People have this shit for 7 days before they know it, and are contagious for probably 4 of those days at least. You ain't seen nothing yet. We're not even to the halfway point. Whatever case count you see now is confirmed cases, in an environment where we have a testing kit shortage.
/r/askMRP16/03/20 09:23 PM
2

Please do check in when your fever hits the peak. I'm interested in the subjective experience of what it is like to have Corona. Oh, and please stay home, I can almost guarantee you have it now.
/r/askMRP16/03/20 09:19 PM
1

Yes. Important to say what you mean and leave nothing implied.
/r/askMRP16/03/20 09:03 PM
4

Pretty much no one in this sub is likely to die from the virus. That would be true if all else were equal, but you're forgetting one thing: an overwhelmed health care system. 100k infections over a year would probably be ok. 100k infections in the next 2 months means people will be dying in the hallways and waiting rooms of hospitals for lack of beds and ventilators. Don't be a twat; we need to curb the transmission of this bullshit ASAFP.
/r/askMRP16/03/20 08:23 PM
1

Wow, I can see the dust coming off that joke. Had that one in the drawer a while, huh?
/r/askMRP16/03/20 08:18 PM
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Sidebar, bottom.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/20 04:49 AM
1

Made me laugh buck-o, have a +1.
/r/askMRP28/02/20 04:12 PM
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if she believes she can get away with playing a game and remaining in a relationship, she will do that. How do you make it clear that's not the case? You use the only leverage you have: the right of voluntary association, augmented by the Princple of Least Interest. In other words, tell her to cut that shit out. If she doesn't, you fucking divorce her. That simple enough for you? Do you really think so little of yourself? Or do you think too much of her?
/r/askMRP28/02/20 04:01 PM
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Hi "joe." Glad you found us. Now don't post like that again; read the posting guidelines. Better still, just shut and listen (i.e. read the sidebar material and the weekly OYS to see what guys are dealing with). Your goal should be to understand how to not end up like us.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/20 02:25 AM
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OP clearly does not have that attitude. Our job is to call people out when they are clearly lying to us and themselves.
/r/askMRP21/01/20 02:05 PM
1

Which continent is this about? Europe or Asia?
/r/askMRP19/01/20 07:34 PM
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You must have some reason to suspect she's not a good girl or you wouldn't be hung up on this. Or you're an insecure loser. Which is it?
/r/askMRP19/01/20 07:30 PM
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I think there is another important detail -- she's afraid OP is going to find out she fucked the other guy because OP works with him, so she is trying to do some preemptive damage control. Lumberg fucked her.
/r/askMRP19/01/20 07:28 PM
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No argument.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/20 01:35 AM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iEyS47V7khU
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/20 06:57 PM
3

What's so funny is that even calculating the timeline by that guideline is ITSELF an act of eating paint.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/20 06:53 PM
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If you're referencing the ancient post I think you are, it's up to your girlfriend to put your picture in the frame and place it above all others.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/20 06:52 PM
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What the fuck, man? You need to give it up. It's this simple: are you getting what you want from her for what you're willing to pay for it? If so, STFU. If not, move on.
/r/askMRP14/01/20 04:50 AM
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Fuck that noise. Tell her that she can go without you, and that her friend can buy you out.
/r/askMRP12/01/20 11:01 PM
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Have you actually taught him anything about how money works? How interest is calculated? How credit cards work? How checking accounts work? Have you showed him the size of your bills? Rent, car, phone, whatever? If you want him to be good with money help him understand its value and how personal finance works.
/r/askMRP12/01/20 10:58 PM
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I simply cannot make myself not give a fuck about what others think of me. What does that tell you about the relationship between your self image/self-esteem and what others think? I have to fully accept that I’ve dramatically over valued myself. Really? How so?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/20 07:36 AM
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Ok, concisely: The guys are right, you have no frame and you're too worried about your unicorn. That you went through the messages shows that, period. Your true risks here aren't that she isn't attracted to you per se; you should be worried that you are betabux and that she is an alpha widow. Even if (right now she feels like) she loves you, those memories of getting her holes (yes, plural) destroyed by guys who have 150 lbs. of pure muscle on them will come back at some point. Especially with h…
/r/askMRP12/01/20 07:17 AM
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So"not my type" does not indicate not attractive, or not worth it, or any other negative connotation. Right. It means "not what I want, but what I'll settle for because I know that what I really want is unattainable." Yes, yes, we know... you don't mean it that way. Doesn't change that it's true.
/r/askMRP12/01/20 07:14 AM
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This place was always shit. That's its purpose.
/r/askMRP12/01/20 07:08 AM
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I ask you not to say that for your sake. "Sexy time" is such a bitch thing to say, like you're ashamed of fucking your girlfriend. Or you are yourself a woman. If you want to be a man, act and talk like one.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/20 06:21 AM
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sexy time Please don't ever say that here again.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/20 06:13 AM
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Despite everything my gf was there for me, still can’t quite work out why. Really? GF is 49 peri menopause (she starter HRT last week) Got a lot of options, that one? You are a thick one. Quit the weed completely, own your shit, pull your head out of your ass and make a plan for yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/20 06:05 AM
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I think that anxiety is a projection of how I feel about myself. If I had to guess sitting here behind the keyboard, I would suspect that you don't have any objective feelings about yourself. Did your mom use a lot of shame on you when you were a kid? Did she shame you unexpectedly when you thought you were being good? The point of the thought exercise was to spur you into trying to determine a simple thing: when people talk shit about you or try to shame you or hate you... are they justified in…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/20 05:58 AM
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Ok, now I understand what you're asking: would I actually say that. Absolutely. But the key is not what would I say, but how would I say it. I would not say the parenthetical part; that's implied in the how it's said part of the equation. As for your infantilism, you need to start thinking different thoughts. You like Star Wars? Cool, I really loved that shit... when I was a teenager. You probably typed that out with some vivid image and emotion in mind, right? You in brown robes, eyes closed, "…
/r/askMRP05/01/20 07:47 PM
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Ok, first, never say "I am trying to understand the effective range of a Jedi’s use of the Force" again. That's infantile. Next, WTF is "option 2"?
/r/askMRP05/01/20 03:01 PM
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"Hell, I'd love to have a retired chef around, maybe I'll hire one." Better still: "Hell, I'd love to have a chef around, maybe I'll send you to culinary school (you worthless whore)."
/r/askMRP04/01/20 04:59 AM
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Yes, and then she openly flirts with guys at dinner... Starts teasing one of the guys and they banter backwards and forwards. She blocks my interactions by turning away from me and using her hat to block eye contact for the rest of the meal.
/r/askMRP04/01/20 04:57 AM
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Oh, no wonder you're such a fuckhead! Cheers!
/r/askMRP04/01/20 01:01 AM
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Not sure what you mean. I hit "approve" and it looks to me like his post is visible now. I think it was more of a spam filter thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/20 12:53 AM
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I still feel quite a bit of anxiety when I think people are upset with me, especially my wife. I still want the external validation to soothe my anxiety, and I get anxious when I may not get it. It’s a bad circle. I don’t have the full self-belief I can handle it if I upset someone and they think negatively about me. Here's your exercise for this week and forever. Imagine that everyone you know hates your fucking guts. They totally despise you, spit on you, yell at you, attempt to ruin your life…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/20 12:45 AM
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This is remarkably similar in character to most of the askMRP questions, oddly.
/r/askMRP03/01/20 04:57 PM
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Go get 'em sparky.
/r/askMRP02/01/20 06:12 AM
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betas almost by design I've alluded to how religion IS the Blue Pill. I would say New Testament books in particular. Altruism is the Blue Pill, and Altruism is the message of Christ. QED.
/r/askMRP02/01/20 03:42 AM
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His sexting had opened the door in her mind, given her the belief that fidelity was optional Just for the record, that quoted phrase above paints it like it is the chain of causation. You need to say "she rationalized as..." or "she made the excuse that..." This is why you confused people.
/r/askMRP01/01/20 06:56 AM
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I just know that the fact that she did not communicate with me about such an important thing feels to me like deception. That's because it is. You might take this over to RP Christians. Around here we're going to see this as major disrespect because you were a bitch and didn't warrant any respect. This is all on you. You need to take the L on this one and get her to agree to a plan to pay it off. If you don't establish frame now you're doomed to a life of misery. Start posting in OYS, read the r…
/r/askMRP01/01/20 06:51 AM
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Yup, my stance while reading the post the entire time. Catholic or not, if he's willing to divorce over $10-15k It's not the money, man. She's either lied to him directly or by omission. Either is a sign of lack of respect. It's easy to see why.
/r/askMRP01/01/20 06:47 AM
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You should have used this as an opportunity to encourage her to be open (honey this is a lie of omission) and to reinforce the good part which was her plan to herself pay off her very reasonable debt. Fucknut should have had this conversation up front, full disclosure. And not gotten married. That could have solved it all.
/r/askMRP01/01/20 06:45 AM
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Although it is likely going to be longer when you find out the real amount. Trickle truth isn't just for affairs, it's for all things when they know they've fucked up. I'm betting she's got 20k if it's a dollar. Edit: you've come a long way, man. Glad to count you as a success. You've lost a lot of that teenage girl angst you had when you got here.
/r/askMRP01/01/20 06:43 AM
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Fucking morons. If I could find the old post by the Count about "we don't do that" I would link here. But I'm lazy. OP: Are you really going to divorce her because these clowns said so? Would you keep her if we all said that? Lurker indeed, you've learned absolutely nothing. Go back to the beginning. P.S. - faggot.
/r/askMRP01/01/20 06:41 AM
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Someone used the "report" button to say this: "1: demote to anal only plate, go to concert then to gym. Get on roids." Only one guess who.
/r/askMRP01/01/20 06:37 AM
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You win. Whole shitshow was a giant covert contract.
/r/askMRP01/01/20 06:36 AM
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"I'm a bad mother-fucker." No, that's just what your wallet says.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/20 06:32 AM
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Yeah, you have such devoted fans.
/r/askMRP01/01/20 06:26 AM
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You forgot an important detail: the wife tells him she broke it off with the office guy because she wants to "try again."
/r/askMRP31/12/19 04:34 AM
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Fuck you. Go read the metric shit-ton of material on MRP and TRP. This is a waste of everyone's time.
/r/askMRP31/12/19 04:27 AM
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Merry Christmas! I left you that one because I know you like nuking these morons.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/19 04:23 AM
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Don't be a bitch. What stake do you have in the GAY man's retardation? Weak frame, I predict you'll get banned by ME before 2020.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/19 12:35 AM
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Don't be a bitch. What stake do you have in Rocco's retardation? Weak frame, I predict you'll get banned by WNS before 2020.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/19 12:35 AM
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Post things like this here again and you'll probably get banned. Hell, if one of our mods in particular sees this, you'll probably get banned just for this one. Check out the posting guidelines.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/19 03:20 AM
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Your buddy has seen 1 divorce. Your lawyer has seen hundreds. Do what the lawyer says. (Faggot.)
/r/askMRP30/12/19 03:18 AM
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We all feel for you. I for one offer you a big bro hug. AWALT right? I mean, shit, you thought all the right things, you know what to do, what the fuck is her problem, amiright?
/r/askMRP29/12/19 12:55 AM
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It hurts me to have to say this: if any of you cucks took this post seriously, you need to get with the fucking program or get the fuck out. And shame on you all for not recognizing the OP on this one.
/r/askMRP29/12/19 12:54 AM
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I was tempted to nuke this whole thread, but now I'll leave it just for this.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/19 05:48 PM
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Check out the 60 DoD sidebar material. Focus on making one change at a time, since you are trying to form habits and reprogram your mind. Try some imagination and visualization: what would your ideal life look like, how would you get there, and what is holding you back?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/19 03:39 AM
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I was just reading this train wreck thinking, "Didn't we ban this fuck?"
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/19 03:35 AM
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Yes and... If you watch the last few OYS's from this guy, he was full of shit. Saying all the things he knows would get him a pat on the head here. It's good that he's drilling into the real shit going on; I think he's right in that he has been evading. He wants a quick fix, a magic bullet on, well, pretty much everything. The work he puts in needs to be focused and honest or else he's bullshitting himself and us. Edit: The impression I've gotten from watching him is that he does everything as t…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/19 03:27 AM
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Wow, you might get special flair for that one. That's really fucked up and overplaying your hand, most likely. But you do you.
/r/askMRP14/12/19 05:52 AM
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After posting these 2 posts I see at least some of my motivation for writing them is seeking approval and validation from you. I'm still doing it. Yep. P.S. -- it isn't working. Like all covert contracts, it comes off as simultaneously weak and manipulative. I think these goals are good and worth pursuing. Because you understand them as values, or because they sound good? Because you saw them on the lot, and without even a test drive, though they'd look good in your garage? I'm asking for help f…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/19 11:19 PM
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Well, at least we're getting somewhere now. THIS is the sort of shit to be writing in your OYS, not some sterile to-do list that reads like the minutes from a weekly staff meeting. You need to review the Red Pill Antiobiotic Nuke on the main TRP page. You are now presenting like someone who has not internalized the basics. Your understanding of shit tests and their purpose is misguided. You are keeping covert contracts still. Your ego is running wild. You don't question any of your assumptions. …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/19 11:13 PM
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You're fucking around, wasting all our time. Start telling us what the fuck is up. If you're fucking up with STFU, tell us how and why. If you're not making decisions, give some examples, analyze, show some introspection. Concretize how you might do your failures better. Tell us what you're feeling when you think you're failing. Again, you're thinking too much.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/19 06:36 AM
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I’m going to completely stop the nice guy/beta/externally validated/fear-based behavior in the next month. I’m going to completely stop basing my actions on what others, especially my wife, may or may not think about those actions in the next month. Pass all compliance, comfort and shit tests starting today. Solidify my purpose, values and goals in the next 2 months. That all sounds very good. Textbook. Exactly what you can say here to go unnoticed. And yet... how? What concrete strategy will yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 11:28 PM
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Homo Not a synonym with faggot here. Adjust yourself.
/r/askMRP10/12/19 06:53 AM
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MRP has no goals, it is an inanimate collection of information. If you're asking what goal is consistent with MRP then the answer is consistency in lifting. We can't pick your lifting goals for you any more than we can choose your life goals.
/r/askMRP07/12/19 01:14 AM
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OMFG I wish I could ban him again.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/19 01:12 AM
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What it looks like up close is: I'm going to do X this week. (The implication being that X is different than what you usually do.)
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/19 03:59 PM
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Good Christ, read the posting guidelines. Take this to r/askMRP and enjoy a nice little ban over here for your trouble.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/19 03:58 PM
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You're doing it again. 30,000 foot description of your process without any commitment to changing it.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/19 03:29 PM
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Milo, is that you?
/r/askMRP04/12/19 06:00 AM
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Indeed no rush, but you seem prone to paralysis by analysis so Imma keep pushing.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/19 05:56 AM
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Did you copy/paste from last week? What's the insight here? Looks like you got a little further in the book -- good. Do you ever say anything? Do you ever have "value to add?" A man passionate for life should be able to articulate preferences for everything. He should be able to understand his own goals and be on a course to achieve them. If you are finding it hard to see what you want to be doing, start with what you are doing and decide what goes and what stays -- and WHY.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/19 01:39 AM
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This is way super-duper starfish. Check the sidebar under 60 Days of Dread. Search this sub and askMRP. Banhammer!
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/19 01:31 AM
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No one appreciates the truth anymore it would seem.
/r/askMRP03/12/19 01:46 AM
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This is not appropriate for here. Take it to askMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/19 04:33 AM
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You're lucky I found this and not another mod. They would ban you for not reading the posting rules. Either take this to r/askMRP or r/NMMNG.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/19 04:32 AM
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Look, man, here's how it is. You are wobbling between "I'm a weak bitch and this is on me," and "She's fucking crazy and it's totally not me." Which is it? The way you painted it here it could be either, but the way you painted it is trying to lead us to conclude she's crazy and you're the victim. If she really is crazy, then see a lawyer and plot your exit, because you can't fix crazy. You describe episodes of gas lighting here and manipulation. If that is the norm, get out. If maybe you're bei…
/r/askMRP01/12/19 09:53 PM
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Focus on your goals and make your plans for the future. Your father won't listen to you or get red pilled by you because that's not your job; it's a reversal of the relationship. All you can do is get yourself set up for success as an adult and eject when you can.
/r/askMRP30/11/19 01:53 AM
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Yes, I think I can do better Yes, no doubt you CAN. I asked if you SHOULD, and if so, who decided that?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/19 06:24 AM
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I did well with STFU and only speaking when I added value. Good progress overall. Let's talk about frame for a minute. Since you're building one you're learning not to step on your own dick by DEERing in response to everyone and everything. That's good, but once you have mastered that urge, what goes in its place? Can you just walk around never saying anything? What should STFU evolve into? The intro to our weekly post talks about being your own judge, and that is a theme in NMMNG and other side…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/19 01:41 PM
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you get your answer and you need to hang up the phone +1 for Watts reference.
/r/askMRP26/11/19 02:44 AM
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Time for you to meet Lucy.
/r/askMRP26/11/19 02:43 AM
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it occurs to me that my parents need me Yeah, your life isn't yours after all, right?. It belongs to your wife, your kid, your parents, and any other asshole who puts a claim on it, yes? Have you ever considered this may be the root of your problem?
/r/askMRP26/11/19 02:41 AM
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What are you on about? Most reading this post are likely married or at least in a LTR. You're just rambling about... what exactly? Equalism?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/19 03:36 AM
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You need to take this to askMRP and hope that WNS doesn't see this.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/19 04:53 AM
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feel free to unban as you see fit. Nah, just wondered what set you off on him.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/19 05:26 AM
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/u/arm_candy beat me to this. You claim to have a boundary, but you did fuck-all to remind her of it, and then you did less than fuck-all to enforce it. In fact, you actively undermined it when you turned around and tried to get back at your wife by threatening to fuck over your family trip to the ballet. It probably worked as she seems to have conceded to the bag, but it's a Pyrrhic victory at best.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/19 04:06 AM
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What nerve did this guy touch with you on this? It's fine to think of shit as joint property -- at least while he's actually married -- if he has the balls and the frame to enforce it. You might point out he doesn't. Well, shit, isn't that why he's here?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/19 04:02 AM
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as a nice guy career beta, I have always valued being a good boy and have tried to accomplish the goal of being 'a good boy' with sacrifice and altruism. Good insight. Just don't kick your own ass over it. Recognize the error, understand the chain of logic that allows you to identify it as such (from the bedrock of objective reality through epistemology to the facts of your existence), resolve to do better, and move on to actually doing better.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/19 03:37 AM
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Good progress given where you are. I'm glad to see you integrating the lessons from OPAR and drawing the lines to what MRP is telling you. They are one and the same. Here's what should be an easy challenge for you: can you tie the OPAR learnings to NMMNG?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/19 11:24 PM
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You should get it made into a nose ring, like a donkey. That way she can lead you around without talking.
/r/askMRP15/11/19 06:22 AM
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Saw that coming.
/r/askMRP14/11/19 01:45 AM
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OYS isn't closed for the week. Feel free to jump in there.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/19 12:28 AM
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What are the goals going forward for this week into next? What are you going to do to keep yourself accountable to yourself on those goals?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/19 03:51 AM
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What part of "see you in OYS" did you misinterpret? You need to post in OYS and nowhere else -- you're still too autistic for any other conversations.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 11:03 PM
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You're fine, but this is your one time, hope it helped.
/r/askMRP11/11/19 04:24 PM
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Watch where you step, there's vomit all over the place.
/r/askMRP11/11/19 04:23 PM
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Alright man, you know what you need to do. Here's a little tidbit for you: You do indeed need to get rid of the ego. You do need to face your failures. But watch out for the guilt. You put your wife through some shit for 20 years. You probably should feel bad about that... but not forever. Make your peace with it and her, and understand the sunk cost fallacy. Nothing you can do will erase how you were before, and you don't owe anyone any penance. Watch out for those feelings of inadequacy to com…
/r/askMRP11/11/19 04:22 PM
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Alright cowboy, I read your saga. First off, get off the goddamn phone. You know why you get all worked about your wife's shit? Because you allow yourself to be an emotional tampon. Christ, get a grip. Second, GET OFF THE GODDAMN PHONE. Especially when driving, but just in general. Third, with anger like that you either have a medical problem (like fucked up hormones like someone else said), you have deep deep psychological problems (probably related to your size?), or you literally just have br…
/r/askMRP09/11/19 02:00 AM
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Up the Tren faggot and fuck a tranny. Wow. How's that working out for you?
/r/askMRP09/11/19 01:56 AM
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One day you may realize that there is no difference in what you do and what happens to you. Outstanding. And no surprise he doesn't understand it.
/r/askMRP09/11/19 01:54 AM
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The fact that you're being so hard on your mom tells me you probably have pedestalized women. You thought your mom was better than that. You thought she cared about you so much that AWALT wouldn't apply. Welcome to adulthood. Your parents don't know everything and they, like the rest of us are bumbling through life trying to figure shit out. The question is: what can you learn from this so you avoid their mistakes? That is not an easy question; don't draw the wrong conclusions.
/r/askMRP09/11/19 01:50 AM
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Remember who's in control.
/r/askMRP08/11/19 09:22 PM
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For my conscience Oh come now. What about this little gem: I foolishly thought I could survive my shitty marriage by seeking validation from other women. I'm betting she doesn't know that or she'd be gone. You're already living a lie, so let's not get moralistic now, shall we? If your conscience were truly bothering you, you'd already be divorced. Again I'll opine that parents who are divorced and don't fight are better for kids than parents who are married and fight. Divorce isn't the end of th…
/r/askMRP08/11/19 09:20 PM
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Yes.
/r/askMRP06/11/19 03:44 PM
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Toxic shame my man, toxic shame. Here's an exercise for you. Repeat this 100 times each morning: no one gives a shit if I have a limp dick.
/r/askMRP06/11/19 03:43 PM
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Thank you for a good introduction. We have had our fair share of self-deluding retards lately. You seem to have some clarity about yourself. Work the program, you'll be good.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/19 03:30 PM
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So funny... I was reading his thread here and I thought, "Fuck him, I'm banning him for a bit." Then I see you already did it... great minds.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/19 01:45 AM
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He's doing a bitch move of trying to get her to kill the puppy, but she's so co-dependent she eats that shit up instead. The only one who sees all of this clearly is apparently her mother.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/19 01:41 AM
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I like that... one sec.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/19 01:39 AM
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Take this to askMRP, and please observe the posting guidelines for MRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/19 12:43 AM
1

I wish there were an easy answer to the mission question, but there isn't.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/19 01:44 PM
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/u/weakandsenstive will most likely be along shortly to ban you, but Jesus dude: read the sidebar. If your next words are going to be "what's the sidebar?" then view this site on a desktop/laptop computer or learn how to open up additional information for subreddits on your mobile app.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/19 12:47 PM
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There's an art to peeing on a woman at the opera... not all guys can make it that high up the pyramid.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/19 02:50 PM
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I think you're looking for askTRP. We won't be of much use to you here. You also completely disregarded the culture and rules of our sub and put up low-value bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/19 04:12 AM
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Circle jerk potential on this one way too high. You guys get too excited when women show up. That's 10 demerits to all of you. To OP, your answer is simple: don't try to be a man and your man won't be a woman. PS - DM me your tits or GTFO.
/r/askMRP24/10/19 02:36 PM
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Or you can post it and if it sucks we'll take it down. Grow a pair.
/r/askMRP24/10/19 02:34 PM
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If it's a good success story and you know how to integrate the lessons learned, consider writing it up and sharing.
/r/askMRP24/10/19 02:24 PM
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RedPilled 3 weeks, redpill aware 3 months. Are you going to try to tell us you never saw this post? If you are trying to change your approach to dating, don't you think maybe you should pump the brakes until you actually change your approach? You can keep this girl in orbit for a bit. Do social things with her, flirt, just don't move the ball down the field. Dare I say it: seduce her.
/r/askRPC24/10/19 05:31 AM
2

I'm just going to point out that what you're relying on is what is known as "moral luck." You've already done deal-breaking deeds, which, by your own standards, makes you bad. You just haven't been caught doing them. So don't think you get to feel good about not "breaking" your children's homes -- you're one rabbit-boiling plate away from the wheels coming off.
/r/askMRP24/10/19 05:21 AM
1

Is your story a secret?
/r/askMRP24/10/19 05:18 AM
2

If she doesn't follow after 18 months I'm gone. If you really do the work (not just LARP or Rambo it) you'll know long before 18 months.
/r/askMRP24/10/19 05:18 AM
1

Probably not the "wrong kind" but maybe you're not "done"? I can't help but see this affecting your attachment style and what you consider to be "normal". You had no model of what a good dad should be, and instead gravitated to him because he let you act out. So you latched on for his faults, not his virtues. I'm glad you got Six Pillars. Look for the other titles by Branden. I'm no psychotherapist so I can't recommend any particular style of therapy. What I can say is that until you have reprog…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/19 08:42 PM
3

See, you're that spergy asshole I talk about in my other reply.
/r/askMRP20/10/19 03:43 PM
2

Ok, you like new ideas. Nothing wrong with that. Where you'll run into trouble is, when you hang around people who think that just "having ideas" is their hobby (or god help you, their profession), they tend to be spergy assholes who will indeed judge you as inferior if you haven't made the same choices/come to the same conclusions about everything that they have. So let Mr. Rogan & Co. be your solo pastime. Typically people organize around activities. For dirt bikes, you either find a group on …
/r/askMRP20/10/19 03:42 PM
4

Do you really expect anyone to be able to give you any constructive advice with this info vacuum? How old are you/she, how long have you been together, what's going on lately that might have her irish up? See, I could go all day.
/r/askMRP20/10/19 03:35 PM
1

Whomever lifted your ban.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/19 03:32 PM
2

Now it all comes into focus. Is this all stuff you said before and I just missed it? Your issues are much bigger than what MRP can help you with. MRP can show you how to get your head straight supposing you had a pretty much OK childhood but took the blue pill. What happened to you is VERY atypical. I'm sure you know that too, intellectually, but have you made your peace with it? By that I mean: have you actually internalized that it was not your fault? Your parents' lives were not ruined becaus…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/19 03:30 PM
1

You've LARP'd a great deal. You've postured a great deal. You've worked hard to convince us all that you picked up the material right away and were living it. And then there was the concert. I have to know: your mom taking you to daycare at 4 -- ok. (That's probably better than the rest of the fuckwads your age who got dropped into daycare for some stranger to raise at 8 weeks.) Yet, you took it really hard, you say? Where was your dad? Why is it that you don't seem to know how to be an adult ma…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/19 04:43 AM
2

I get banned all the time because I say whatever the fuck I want, and (try) not to give two fucks what anybody on here thinks. Don't flatter yourself. You get banned because you get defensive like a little bitch and argue with retards. I think /u/weakandsensitive is the one with your number, or was it /u/SteelSharpensSteel?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/19 04:43 AM
1

Somehow, after a year of talking to each other, /u/RedRanger207 (longroad_518) and I figured out we live down the fucking street from each other. I can't decide if this surprises me or not. In some ways, we must all have great demographic similarity. Yet there are many millions of dudes out there, and it seems wildly improbable. Huh.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/19 02:05 PM
3

"Es mejor morir de pie que vivir de rodillas" -Emiliano Zapata
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/19 01:49 PM
3

It's the dragged-by-car, stabbing, and getting shot part that intrigues folks.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/19 02:46 AM
2

My mantra in this club is "Iron sharpens iron" u/SteelSharpensSteel?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/19 01:52 PM
2

My wife used to make a crack Man, this was really easy to misread.
/r/askMRP11/10/19 06:33 AM
9

So how can I tell her that the only way she is getting me during business hours is if it’s to have sex? Making the covert contract overt is not going to work out for you. You can't negotiate desire. If you're really this new, then try this: Go out with her on a Friday afternoon if YOU want to. If you don't because it wouldn't be fun or you'd rather do something else, then do that. The first step to getting out of her frame is to start thinking about what you want, not whether or not it plays int…
/r/askMRP11/10/19 04:35 AM
1

Maybe knowing about cheating fucks people up. Never said it didn't. What "point 1" said was that damage definitely comes from fighting parents, but does not necessarily come from non-fighting divorce.
/r/askMRP10/10/19 10:43 PM
2

Rabbit-boiler. Eject.
/r/askMRP10/10/19 01:21 AM
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As the flair I applied to this post implies: never go full retard.
/r/askMRP10/10/19 01:19 AM
1

Observationally... I personally (currently) disagree with point 1. My wife came from a childhood where she knew that her Dad was cheating on her Mother. Me...seemingly no infidelity within 1000 miles. Therefore...not in my "playbook"...but it WAS in HER "playbook". I don't understand what you're trying to say.
/r/askMRP10/10/19 01:13 AM
5

Two things about this answer: The psych literature seems to indicate that parents fighting is what fucks kids up, rather than parents divorcing per se. If he can eject without it becoming dramatic, and still be around as a dad, his kids will have to come to understand in time that it was their mother that set a bomb in the marriage, not dad. Yes, he has some blame for being the sort of guy a woman wants to cheat on. But the idea that he should suck it up and just pretend it didn't happen is not …
/r/askMRP09/10/19 04:49 AM
2

Read it while you can...
/r/askMRP09/10/19 04:41 AM
1

The real issue is to remember to stick to Rule 0. If you're going to post a video or article then it should have discussion and illustrate a point, not just be outrage porn.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/19 04:05 PM
1

I removed this post because it is super low-effort. If any other mod had beat me to it, you'd be banned. Please read the posting guidelines and observe the sub for a bit to understand the culture here.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/19 09:10 PM
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Didn't we just do this?
/r/askMRP04/10/19 07:08 PM
1

Today's another day to try again.
/r/askMRP04/10/19 02:08 PM
2

You weren't around back then, but this guy posts things that always makes me think of vintage Blue Pill Professor. If I didn't know better I'd think this is BPP from 5 years ago in disguise.
/r/askMRP04/10/19 01:51 PM
1

Why were you such a hellion as a kid?
/r/askMRP04/10/19 01:43 PM
1

Asking this sub about this is really really dumb. Talk to your lawyer. Also, if you go getting the kids outside your custody agreement she can (and probably will) have you jailed for kidnapping.
/r/askMRP04/10/19 01:42 PM
3

You need to decide what you value more: your needs or raising your children in a certain way. What needs are not being met? Why are you spiraling into crisis here? You took a beating in this thread, and I think we can all agree you deserved it. However, this isn't the end of the world, you just need to slow your roll and work the program. Your big sin is that you are measuring your worth by your wife's actions towards you. That is the thing to focus on. Until your sense of identity and self-wort…
/r/askMRP04/10/19 01:37 PM
1

Exactly what I was thinking. u/UEMcGill is from the future!
/r/askMRP04/10/19 01:30 PM
3

I didn't read his OYS but this was obvious in this post. "She totally won't cheat. Not that I'd care. But really sure she most likely won't probably want to cheat because she likes to have a lot of sex. But only with me."
/r/askMRP04/10/19 01:27 PM
2

That's not the expression. It's "For every beautiful woman somewhere is a man tired of her shit." Not at all the same thing.
/r/askMRP02/10/19 07:04 PM
5

Dating a black chick. Got high. Forgot to ask a question.
/r/askMRP01/10/19 01:39 AM
6

Here's an alternative narrative for you: people needing to be spoon fed every detail is why TRP sucks now.
/r/askMRP30/09/19 01:45 PM
2

Very nice. +1
/r/askMRP30/09/19 01:43 PM
9

Since you missed the point, let me rephrase: Let me get this straight: you have two 3-year olds and a 1-year old, but you're only good at dealing with one of the 3-year olds?
/r/askMRP28/09/19 05:36 PM
2

Fuck, hit reply to the wrong post. You totally got the point.
/r/askMRP28/09/19 05:33 PM
2

made me give up riding You just broke my heart. I hope you now know how wrong those words are, on how many levels.
/r/askMRP28/09/19 01:42 AM
1

No! Everyone back away... slowly... slowly. BPP can only see movement, so no one panic. If you don't provoke him we won't get a 12000 word treatise on internet censorship. BTW: you know this post has to come down, right?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/19 01:40 AM
1

I haven't even finished the sidebar Finish the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/19 01:36 AM
24

Let me get this straight: you have two 3-year old girls in the house, but you're only good at dealing with one of them?
/r/askMRP28/09/19 01:30 AM
2

Imma need those tights back. Seriously.
/r/askMRP28/09/19 01:28 AM
1

Building a bike? You can't fail. Carry on.
/r/askMRP28/09/19 01:27 AM
1

Oh no! They downvoted you! Whatever will you do? Looks like some sensitive betas don't like the truth.
/r/askMRP28/09/19 01:24 AM
2

Oddly, this comment is also applicable to /u/johneyapocalypse.
/r/askMRP28/09/19 01:16 AM
2

I'm afraid I concur with 2ndal. Posts like this reek of validation seeking and "Hey guyz aren't we awesome?!?" I'm glad you like what you see here, but if you're around as much as you imply you should have known this wouldn't go over well.
/r/askMRP28/09/19 01:05 AM
3

I second all of that.
/r/askMRP27/09/19 01:13 PM
1

Now you're on it. But seriously... lock it up.
/r/askMRP25/09/19 01:55 AM
1

Lock it up... and go watch Wedding Crashers.
/r/askMRP25/09/19 01:43 AM
1

Huh, twice I've had to dispense this pill in as many days. This place really is cyclical, I swear.
/r/askMRP25/09/19 01:42 AM
1

Lock it up!
/r/askMRP25/09/19 01:39 AM
5

This question is pretty low value and probably belongs in ASKTRP but what the fuck do I know, I'm no mod. What the fuck do you know? Do you feel like you're "no mod?" That's two threads where I've got you hedging like a bitch. What the fuck is wrong with you, you on your period?
/r/askMRP25/09/19 01:35 AM
1

I agree with most of what you've said here, but you're missing something important. /u/GoingOnAJourney has no damn mission, no leadership, no direction, no philosophy on what he wants out of life. OP needs to tuck into this little gem to see that even if he follows what you've suggested (focus on the self-improvement) someone such as he will still end up on the rocks.
/r/askMRP24/09/19 02:10 PM
3

Bullshit, bullshit, excuses, excuses. There are two ways to have more money: make more money, spend less money. Cut your expenses, lower your extravagant lifestyle some. Hell, move to a smaller house if you need to. This is your and your families long-term integrity and happiness we're talking about. There have been many guides to finance here, and there are reasonable finance subreddits you can draw on. How bad do you want to hold your marriage and family together? If my wife was as down in the…
/r/askMRP24/09/19 02:04 PM
4

proofread her reports for work, guide her through difficult situations at work (she's one of very few women in a man's industry) Your wife spends her days out-manning men (including you, Mr. I-don't-make-as-money-as-my-wife-and-I'm-her-copyeditor-bitch) and you wonder why she's a mega-bitch? Only you know the full context here, but from here it sounds like she hates her fucking life and resents your low-earning ass for making her feel trapped in it Even if you're not the one trapping her in it, …
/r/askMRP23/09/19 05:05 PM
1

I feel like This post predates your presence here, so you probably never saw it.
/r/askMRP23/09/19 04:46 PM
3

Ouch.
/r/askMRP21/09/19 02:52 PM
1

Thank you for answering the call. I don't think it's for nothing when we answer things like this. Remember that other guys will search this sub and read this thread in the future. They will dust themselves off, get the message, and take charge of themselves. You're writing for them, not for this guy.
/r/askMRP21/09/19 02:48 PM
2

Paging /u/over60_FireTempered3...
/r/askMRP20/09/19 05:35 PM
2

Easy Jocko, just having a little fun at Turkey's expense. She's a big-girl country, she can take a little negging.
/r/askMRP20/09/19 05:05 PM
3

Thank you for that. I was wondering where he could possibly live that all of these things were true at once: His father-in-law threatened to kill him; OP thought this was normal or no big deal; He gets his wife drunk for sex on the regular. Turkey! The land were dreams come true!
/r/askMRP19/09/19 07:41 PM
1

Just got caught up on some of his last few OYS. There's still plenty of soap opera there.
/r/askMRP19/09/19 07:30 PM
1

You'll see.
/r/askMRP19/09/19 07:16 PM
3

Once one has true abundance and true frame then the 90 can move to 95 or 97... but by then it doesn't matter whatsoever. Do I 'sperg out and act retarded about stupid shit sometimes? You bet. Do I give any fucks about that? Not one. I have my agenda, I do my thing, my mission continues.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/19 03:27 AM
2

But I’m new as well so what the fuck do I know? Own what you're saying or STFU. If you don't believe what you're saying, you're wasting pixels.
/r/askMRP19/09/19 03:22 AM
3

I have a great two-part plan for you to do. You need to do this often, and you need to do this HARD: Give many many fewer fucks. STFU.
/r/askMRP19/09/19 03:19 AM
3

McGill with the kill shot, as usual.
/r/askMRP19/09/19 03:16 AM
4

Right? That was like a cliffhanger with no next season...
/r/askMRP19/09/19 03:16 AM
1

DM me on that before you post it.
/r/askMRP19/09/19 03:08 AM
4

There is no spoon.
/r/askMRP19/09/19 03:06 AM
3

Thin ice, kid. You're the newb here, respect the membership. (And you're DEERing.)
/r/askMRP18/09/19 08:33 PM
2

harder to be with and more likely to cheat. This is greatly over-simplified. Ideas like "high-n" as a proxy to bad behavior or disloyalty may have some strong correlation, but the relationship there is complex. I think this rule was concocted by butthurt guys envious at how easily women can get laid. Would you say a woman who is 60 years old and has an n of 3 was promiscuous? How about a 16-year old who has only been sexually active for a month? Now you're beginning to see an important idea: rat…
/r/askMRP18/09/19 08:27 PM
5

You still haven't figured out that you're a prop in a game of "I'm sexier than you," being played by two long-time female frenemies?
/r/askMRP16/09/19 08:42 PM
1

Where'd you go? I see you shitposting politics, but no reporting in here or MRP. You're a pro now?
/r/askMRP16/09/19 02:02 PM
4

If you did a study and found evidence that appeared to support the idea that the Earth is flat, you'd find a way to shoehorn those data into the fact that the Earth is an oblong spheroid, right? You'd probably talk about your data being "the illusion of a flat Earth." That's what this is to them: gynecocentricism is the order of the day, so in order to be a credible study and not be dismissed as amateurs (or worse, right wing) the authors will always interpret their findings through the dominant…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/19 01:46 PM
3

Why do you care?
/r/askMRP14/09/19 06:10 PM
11

I think the crowd has covered this one well, but one thing I might add: get set up in a new place (in same school district) and make it kid-friendly. Your two oldest are probably old enough that the judge will consider their opinions on where they want to live. If they really want to be with you, show you're a good dad who puts his kids first, and get your kids ready to tell the judge they want to live with you (and why).
/r/askMRP14/09/19 06:06 PM
1

Fuck the plant.
/r/askMRP14/09/19 12:02 AM
10

I think you're a bitch. So does your wife. You Eastern Europe or the Middle East? This is some Eastern Europe shit if I've ever heard any. Those women have the strangest shit tests.
/r/askMRP14/09/19 12:02 AM
1

Post to askMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/19 08:23 PM
3

Married a year and half [...] Wife and I have been constantly fighting for over a year now. WTF. You clearly don't like this fucking woman, why are you married to her? Your wife is probably over on some relationshits sub talking about how her husband is always distant and hates her now and she can't get through to him no matter what. Set her free so you can go be autistic on your own time.
/r/askMRP09/09/19 11:57 PM
3

Autism level: 11 Fucks given: Far, far too many. You take her way too seriously. Why do you give any fucks what she says or thinks? Why is she in charge of you? Why is she in charge of your son? The answer: because you let her be, because you want her to be. You should see to that.
/r/askMRP09/09/19 01:39 AM
3

Reply #2: But I think if he could fuck some bitch raw, he can also upbring a child in a HEALTHY way - by giving him a normal, family life. This sounds like you want to punish him. Was he a dumbass? Yes, he was. All the tradcon finger wagging you can summon won't undo that, and I don't think making him stick it out with the girl will help anyone. Too many generations played that game, and it never ended well. trp teaches men to embrace their masculinity. Masculine is LOGICAL. Fuck his feeling. Fu…
/r/askMRP09/09/19 01:34 AM
1

In this instance Peterson would agree with you 100%.
/r/askMRP09/09/19 01:14 AM
3

Integrity is worth something, as is living honestly. There is not a necessary link between staying with the mother and being there for his son.
/r/askMRP08/09/19 07:43 PM
1

What does he have, exactly? The first girl he ever slept with and a kid he wasn't intending to have? He could hang with this girl, but long term I can almost guarantee it wouldn't work out. Or he can move on, take the lesson, and continue to develop himself in preparation to be a good father to his son. When you get lemons you make lemonade, not eat the peels like a 'sperg.
/r/askMRP08/09/19 07:42 PM
3

See, you're starting to sound like you've listened to Dr. Peterson, but misunderstood the message. Taking responsibility here doesn't mean he has to stay with the girl. It means provide financially, interact positively, help his son avoid his mistakes as best as he understands them. In fact, he and the child would be much better off if he left the mother but did those things than stay with the mother and fail to do those things.
/r/askMRP08/09/19 07:40 PM
7

Strong reaction there, bucko. Why does he need to stay romantically involved with a girl he accidentally knocked up in order to be in his son's life or have a positive influence on him as a dad? You act as though no one ever got a girl pregnant by mistake when young. People who try to "make it work" or "stick it out" when their hearts aren't in it only bring misery on themselves and their children. He's better to decide what he wants (this girl or not), and go for it. As his kid continues to gro…
/r/askMRP08/09/19 07:38 PM
1

Just out of curiosity, how did you end up finding this thread?
/r/askMRP08/09/19 05:49 AM
3

Don't damn me, he came from Canadia. Maybe you can furnish him with a spreadsheet when you deliver that PDF.
/r/askMRP07/09/19 10:33 PM
8

You dumbass. Everyone is saying she cheated because, gee, I don't know, SHE GOT DRESSED UP, PUT ON MAKEUP, MET A MAN AT A HOTEL AT NIGHT, AND TOLD YOU SHE IS DIVORCING YOU WHEN SHE NO LONGER NEEDS YOUR MONEY. But yeah, it's totally us.
/r/askMRP07/09/19 06:16 PM
5

This guy is approaching perma-ban on both subs. He doesn't listen, he willfully miscomprehends what he reads, and he offers up glib remarks instead of taking his beatings. Boring.
/r/askMRP07/09/19 06:15 PM
3

No, sadly this guy is not a troll, just a Canadian living in Asia. This guy is a time sink though, since he wants to just magic his relationship back together so he can go back to being Billy Beta. Lesson for everyone else: being a white guy in Asia gives you instant points, but if you are a big enough beta, nothing will save you.
/r/askMRP07/09/19 06:13 PM
3

You don't seem to understand that expression.
/r/askMRP07/09/19 06:10 PM
4

OP is threatening your "Chief Autist in Charge" tag you earned over on askMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/19 05:32 PM
2

That was some damn bot...a now-banned bot.
/r/askMRP06/09/19 05:28 PM
-1

Wow, this is an oldie but a goodie. We haven't had this question in quite some time. You should search this sub to find many many many answers. Then, bookmark this thread, and after you've DONE THE FUCKING WORK you can come back here and kick your own ass. It'll be fun.
/r/askMRP06/09/19 02:12 AM
6

Here you go, guy, computate on this.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/19 01:38 AM
2

At least I didn't link it for the lazy bastard.
/r/askMRP05/09/19 04:00 AM
3

You are probably looking for the "Women are Wonderful effect."
/r/askMRP04/09/19 10:36 PM
7

What’s a tinderella? Here you are.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/19 10:32 PM
13

Autism. Autism is what is stopping you.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/19 10:31 PM
6

Children with dynamite, I swear. It's not homeostasis, it's a continuous choice to do nothing. You might call it inertia. The homeostasis comes after a period of years, perhaps even a lifetime when the effect of all those decisions come raining down. Only then has balance been achieved.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/19 10:29 PM
2

her own children have both been removed from her home and only see her EOWE. listening to her complain about her childrens' fathers Plural? Your husband is a patient man. I would be quite unhappy if you brought such trash into my home and around my children. Get rid of her.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/19 10:19 PM
3

To be fair to Cuckminster Fuller here (OP), the mods removed his post from MRP.
/r/askMRP03/09/19 02:00 PM
7

The favor was showing him AWALT and how much loyalty his wife had. OI, go look it up.
/r/askMRP03/09/19 01:59 PM
3

She sounds awesome Especially when she's moaning as Lumberg fucks her.
/r/askMRP03/09/19 01:19 AM
1

True shitposts, indeed.
/r/askMRP29/08/19 10:14 PM
6

That's another opinion. Probably a bit early to make that call. From the reading here you do seem to be a little too aloof. She's worried. Make it fun, make it personal. If you throw some comfort from your frame and it still isn't working, then revisit whether she's checked out.
/r/askMRP28/08/19 10:40 PM
2

You've got your answers from others on here. Cut your losses, kick her to the curb and hit the sidebar on TRP and MRP so that you'll come back ready to WIN.
/r/askMRP28/08/19 10:31 PM
1

Awful, evil man.
/r/askMRP28/08/19 10:29 PM
1

He's not in the US or we'd already be running a train on her.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/19 08:52 PM
2

I don't understand what you mean by 'plate her'. If you don't even recognize the term "plate" then you know nothing about RP. Quit being a smug faggot and go read.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/19 08:52 PM
4

So much wrong here. Where to begin? My wife has suggested we divorce in 2 years & continue living together for the child & so she could complete school. This is pretty amazing. She has already declared you are betabux and wants to keep the spigot on until it's convenient for her to turn it off. Honestly I wanted to just divorce her & stop supporting her right away Gee, that seems like a good idea. but that's basically just a self-inflicted wound. How so? Michelle Langley is masturbation. Stop no…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/19 01:10 PM
6

My gut is telling me something is different this time and no matter how many times I try to let it go, so far it’s not working. A lot of guys on here are going to tell you it's an evolved mechanism. It may just be that you know her well and this is different. Either way, don't ignore it. Stay plan is the same as the go plan. You do have one of those, right?
/r/askMRP28/08/19 02:04 AM
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Also: this should be on askMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/19 02:01 AM
1

If you have evidence that you're fucking your shit up by texting her too much, then cut back. If not, no worries. If you need to cut back, get busier. If you're doing awesome things there won't be time to text about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/19 02:00 AM
1

This is appropriate for askMRP. Be glad it was me who caught this and not other mods or you'd be banned. Start posting in OYS or you will get banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/19 11:35 PM
17

shred life we have built. You'll claim mobile typo, but I call Freudian slip.
/r/askMRP27/08/19 10:00 PM
2

Do you really want someone like this in your life? My read on this is that these are shitty comfort tests since this guy is a frameless bitch trying to run a business. She is screaming for him to stand up and lead, stand up and WIN!
/r/askMRP27/08/19 01:42 AM
1

“Would you tell me, please, which way I ought to go from here?” “That depends a good deal on where you want to get to,” said the Cat. “I don’t much care where–” said Alice. “Then it doesn’t matter which way you go,” said the Cat. “–so long as I get SOMEWHERE,” Alice added as an explanation. “Oh, you’re sure to do that,” said the Cat, “if you only walk long enough.”
/r/askMRP23/08/19 01:38 PM
1

And not on Wednesday in particular, right?
/r/askMRP23/08/19 05:39 AM
1

You know the answer: don't get married, dumbass. Also, post this to askMRP instead.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/19 06:17 AM
-1

Had to adapt that line for obvious reasons.
/r/askMRP20/08/19 05:43 PM
6

Easy there Scrooge McCuck. You came here and posted, now take your licks.
/r/askMRP20/08/19 03:36 PM
3

Didn't want to say that, but yes, that's the CTJ part. At some point it gets to where you have to literally say, "You're not well. You need help. You need to see someone; I can't keep doing this." Tough road man, sorry you have to go through this.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/19 02:29 PM
3

My mistake: it's time for you to get some help in getting her some help. I'm afraid I don't have any resources for you, but I'm sure some are out there. Maybe a CTJ is in order? Not something we often advocate on here, but sometimes direct is best. Pretending nothing is wrong isn't working.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/19 02:16 PM
2

I made the mistake of delegating certain responsibilities to her when I should've just managed everything. Now the items that she was on deck to handle are going poorly (inspection, etc) and i'm getting the brunt of it. The learning experience here is to handle everything and hold better boundaries on things she does volunteer to handle. You've known this woman for 20 years. You should know what she's capable of and what she isn't. I suspect you were vague in what you wanted and she did what she…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/19 02:04 PM
7

Put these three lines next to each other: hoping she dies soon (this has been a common statement after my son died) Over the weekend, she was depressed (not in the clinical sense, but in a “I don’t want to do anything except sit here and watch TV” sense) There’re more red flags every week with her. Is this AWALT or is this she actually has a mental problem? I don't know the story of your son, and you don't need to recount it here, but I'm going to guess that she is NOT over this and it is eating…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/19 01:58 PM
4

How would you know when you obviously have not even read the resources we've spent 5+ years cultivating for you?
/r/askMRP19/08/19 03:35 PM
9

Don't forget the big chest of treasure they had collected. She's definitely not leaving that behind.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/19 05:08 AM
0

The cutoff will be utter; she holds his visa status in her hands too.
/r/askMRP12/08/19 05:43 PM
0

https://people.com/celebrity/all-the-sexiest-man-alive-covers/?slide=6677336#6677336 [Edit to put you at the top of the page in the link]
/r/askMRP12/08/19 05:39 PM
5

It probably feels like I'm badgering you, because I am. You do roll over well though, so let's move on. What you're saying is that you have self-esteem issues. That shit is root and will spill onto everything else. If you want to feel worthy, act worthy. Do worthy. Think Forrest Gump here: worthy is as worthy does. Set a standard for yourself and meet it. Not the standard that everyone else has that you think you want to live up to, but one that you actually believe in. Then, start doing it. Sta…
/r/askMRP12/08/19 05:31 PM
3

Being a couple years down the road I can see that now, too.
/r/askMRP12/08/19 02:52 PM
3

Now we're getting somewhere. Keep asking yourself "but why?" for every additional answer until you get to the ugly truth. You want to keep drinking and avoid the consequences? But why?
/r/askMRP12/08/19 02:49 PM
5

Really want to stop, and or want to keep doing it but not reap the consequences? Answer that for yourself, honestly. You feel "weak"? Physically or mentally?
/r/askMRP12/08/19 02:23 PM
7

Oh, and the time you get back from not just fucking around being drunk, don't forget that.
/r/askMRP12/08/19 02:21 PM
0

Hilarious that you think most guys are balding with "dick issues" at 35. Plus, guys are generally more attractive to women at 35-38 range because of confidence (game) as well as maturing looks. Obviously one can't be fat and expect this to be the case, fitness always helps at any age. It's ok though; you'll be 35 soon enough, and when you're bald with dick issues and you've wasted all that 22-year-old power on your current unicorn, you can become a mod here.
/r/askMRP12/08/19 02:19 PM
6

Do you really want to stop though? I mean, really really? Because if you don't change your relationship to alcohol you'll just relapse. You should start with why you drink in the first place. Not, "oh because it's fun." Why is it fun? Imagine you are about to start drinking right now: how do you feel? What do you envision the next few hours would look like if you started right now and really tied one on? These are questions for you to ponder. Hint: if drinking is a crutch for other issues, then …
/r/askMRP12/08/19 02:06 PM
8

Quit drinking a couple years ago. Don't miss it. Don't miss shitty sleep, hangovers, anxiety, the weight I lost by cutting the pointless calories. Do love the money I've saved, the focus I've gained.
/r/askMRP12/08/19 02:03 PM
5

How about the good old, "You ain't seen nothing yet!" Then caveman her. End scene. You fucking guys are making this too difficult.
/r/askMRP10/08/19 12:49 AM
2

This needs to become a thing. The Great MRP "60s or Less" Race! Built for speed!
/r/askMRP10/08/19 12:48 AM
6

If you don't find that helpful then you're missing the point.
/r/askMRP10/08/19 12:44 AM
1

Get a better lawyer. One that can win you custody, then bring the divorce yourself. Duh.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/19 12:41 AM
1

You should be very clear here: for guys who have their shit together. A guy who is fairly new and struggling shouldn't resort to medicating away his discomfort or anger as he will not grow. Booze, weed, pills, etc. are all methods of avoidance for such characters.
/r/askMRP09/08/19 01:52 PM
1

askMRP = /r/askMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/19 01:31 AM
1

Supposing this isn't total bullshit... post it to askMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/19 12:12 AM
1

You have been (and probably remain) a big altruistic pussy. You will find in time this was all your fault for having no spine. Be sure you work through the MRP sidebar. All that being said, the kids thing is a big deal. If you really don't want kids and she really does, you guys are done. Otherwise one of you will compromise on that issue, and will be miserable ever after. If you have kids when you don't want to you'll be a shell of a man, bitter and resentful towards people you made that didn't…
/r/askMRP05/08/19 01:53 PM
1

Take this to askMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/19 01:11 AM
3

/u/niceguycoach is a certified Glover NMMNG coach, and has remarked on more than one occasion that Dr. Glover has backed off of the "talk about Fight Club" stance, as in, the author of NMMNG too now says "don't talk about Fight Club."
/r/askMRP03/08/19 10:55 PM
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Allowed the woman to post her story under her new username, but shutting this shit show down. When it goes to planned cheating, self-harm, history of rape and other things: we're off the rails. This isn't a therapy session.
/r/askMRP02/08/19 03:14 PM
2

Is this a test? Seriously, this one is so easy, someone has to be testing us. How about this champ: stop giving a fuck if mommy shows up to your gigs. Have a gin 'n juice and see what washes up in the booth. Make her fears real.
/r/askMRP30/07/19 12:20 AM
14

Her: "At least someone finally fixed the dishwasher!" Call on the old joke about the first thing men would do if all women disappeared... You: "Yeah, now if I can get it to suck my dick you're outta here!"
/r/askMRP28/07/19 02:16 AM
5

Yes, fatherly condescension is a good default if you have nothing better.
/r/askMRP28/07/19 02:14 AM
2

Sounds like you have problems with banter. This is a particular type of humor, and is a practiced skill, for which you need good examples. Have you thought of getting joke books, watching YouTube videos of one-liners and zingers, things like that? Do you have friend you talk shit with? Verbal fluency exercises might help you as well.
/r/askMRP28/07/19 02:13 AM
11

Get used to how he is or break up with him. Sounds like things have been rocky already, why waste your time? Find a better one while you're young.
/r/RedPillWives27/07/19 01:48 AM
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Yes, that is true. I use the term simply because it is the dominant form of Collectivism in our world today (but by no means the only form). Edit: ...and Collectivism is the dominant form of Subjectivism. So most Subjectivisits are Collectivists, and most Collectivists are Marxists, I'm just playing the numbers. Plug in whichever philosophical label suits your purposes.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/19 01:38 AM
1

Yes, please do!
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/19 01:37 AM
9

Sadly tabula rasa -- the idea of the "blank mental slate" at birth -- has been hijacked by Marxists to mean what Rollo describes: that men and women are not inherently different mentally. In reality tabula rasa is supposed to refer to the idea that we are not born with innate knowledge. The law of identity leads to Rollo's "mental firmware" -- the idea that we act in accordance with what we are, people, and people of a particular sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/19 04:38 PM
1

Post this in askMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/19 04:30 PM
2

Again I'll add that the only "vetting" one should do is to toss out the ones that are already very obviously a bad bet (i.e. only plate material). Anything else is delusional.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/19 12:41 AM
1

You're either /u/RedPill-BlackLotus' bird, or you're the poster child for highly engineered social systems. We'll leave it to the cosmos to decide.
/r/askMRP25/07/19 12:29 PM
1

Luckily, we had discussed most of it before and were quite clear on where each of us stood Well, where do you stand? Does knowing how the sausage is made ruin it for you? Do you ever catch your hypergamy kicking in? Ever catch yourself shit-testing? Ever think that if you get tired of the deal you could walk with cash and prizes?
/r/askMRP24/07/19 10:38 PM
1

He did not. Got pissed at me and told my wife I was going to manipulate her and all kinds of things. I hope this guy is now an ex-good friend. What a fucking dick. Edit: Correction, what a white-knight bitch.
/r/askMRP24/07/19 10:34 PM
1

Yes, I have no argument with any of that.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/19 10:29 PM
1

Can't argue with that. However, if one sees rule-out criteria early on then one should not even get to the point that those activities are in play.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/19 01:33 PM
1

You must be wrong too then Not spending time on twatter, is this the position you took or the one Hunter took?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/19 12:00 AM
1

You must be new here.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/19 11:59 PM
1

Your use of absolute power absolutely would work -- if this guy were actually powerful and honest with himself. Sadly, no threesomes for him.
/r/askMRP23/07/19 01:06 AM
3

Bobby is right that you're not over the affair, but he missed a point: you're punishing her for it. Pure and simple. Oh, and she fucked him. Sorry.
/r/askMRP23/07/19 01:04 AM
8

Dear Diary, I really want to be different, but I'm too scared. My self-esteem is totally pinned on if my wife wants me to sex her, and I can't stand the rejection. But I'm still so horny! It makes me so mad that she doesn't want me, so I yell at my kids and get salty about how she is violating the marriage contract. Boo hoo! Won't someone please tell me it's not me, it's her!!
/r/askMRP23/07/19 12:55 AM
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Vetting is a rule-out process. It can only tell you who you should NOT marry, it can never tell you who you should. P.S. - Don't get married.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/19 12:50 AM
3

At the risk of being one myself, were you looking for the word pedant rather than pervert? I've seen pervert used as a verb to mean to distort or change something, but never as a noun for someone who does that. (From what I can see it is reserved almost exclusively for sexual deviants.) A pedant is someone who is pedantic, or a person who is obsessed with correctness or accuracy in everything (like I'm doing now). Moving on. If I may: just because not all concepts are specific does not mean they…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/19 12:17 AM
2

She’s even said she prefers to be on layovers. Don’t know if she’s cheated. She has/is. She's done, dude. Your marriage is already over, you just don't seem to know it yet. She is probably arranging the divorce and strategizing with one of the 5 guys she's fucking at her layovers on how to let you down easy. You're near to rock-bottom here. When she serves the papers, you'll be there. The good news: no where to go but up. Get over to MRP and participate in OYS, starting tomorrow.
/r/askMRP16/07/19 02:58 AM
2

That and once the recon is done he kicks in the fucking door and takes no prisoners.
/r/askMRP12/07/19 02:15 PM
1

Real simple answer here. Would your wife's issue go away if you divorced her right now? If you walked out the door and never saw her again, would she magically be "fixed"? No? Then she needs to STFU and go to a real shrink. Or you need to STFU and actually walk out the door.
/r/askMRP12/07/19 02:13 PM
1

and NOT so I can lift super heavy, because I don’t One day I keep thinking we'll reach you... Terrible grammar. Let me try that again. I keep thinking one day we'll reach you...
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/19 02:00 PM
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asking me how much I get hit on That's the solipsism at work. She knows that if she got into female-equivalent shape there would be guys making passes, so she figures you must be getting the same. Asking about it is the Dread; she's worried you'll want to start sampling the buffet (just like she would want to do). There's method to our madness.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/19 01:30 PM
6

Yeah, your autism is showing. You don't owe her answers to everything she asks. Flipping the script is STILL the best way to handle this: "Why you planning on getting fat on me?"
/r/askMRP10/07/19 09:07 PM
2

That is an important scene from The Matrix. You should probably watch that film if you haven't.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/19 01:17 PM
2

Spoon boy: Do not try and bend the spoon. That's impossible. Instead... only try to realize the truth. Neo: What truth? Spoon boy: There is no spoon. Neo: There is no spoon? Spoon boy: Then you'll see, that it is not the spoon that bends, it is only yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/19 05:02 AM
1

An SK original.
/r/askMRP08/07/19 12:46 PM
1

He's too busy running the projector to self-reflect.
/r/askMRP07/07/19 11:03 PM
2

K.
/r/askMRP06/07/19 11:57 PM
2

I don't abandon honor I'm trying to show you the causes here, but you keep identifying them as virtues. Get the pat on the back you were looking for? Good luck, hamsterboy.
/r/askMRP06/07/19 05:36 PM
4

You dumbfuck. She literally brings no value to you. You bring in all the cash. You do 1/3 of the chores. You give her duty sex. She begs you to kill the puppy and instead you go the internet to ask us to tell you what to read to magically fix it. Amazing. Here is why you are making this hard: I was a significantly lower value male early in our relationship and dealt with depression and confidence issues of my own and she stuck by me back then. You are still that low value guy in your head. That …
/r/askMRP06/07/19 01:08 AM
10

If you like your Greek-letter paradigms, this is actually a lesson in the value of being Sigma.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/19 04:24 PM
7

Yes, this too. Destructive to mindset, fucks up macros, increases risk of chronic disease later, multiplies social problems. Someone remind me of the upside?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/19 04:23 PM
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Great way to say it, thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/19 02:49 PM
3

Oh! I thought they were talking about Bill Clinton all these years...
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/19 02:46 PM
4

In the US we call that a "soft-on".
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/19 05:07 AM
2

WTF! You're back?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/19 05:05 AM
2

People don't like your message, but you're not wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/19 05:03 AM
2

Revised title: "Confirmed my EX-LTR has been cheating, and I'm already fucking her best friend, her sister, and her roommate."
/r/askMRP04/07/19 04:40 AM
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Take this to askMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/19 07:42 PM
1

So many fucks you're giving. Look at all the fucks all around on the floor. I'm going to pick some up and take them home so I can give out someone else's fucks instead of my own. 6 months no sex what? Translation: you only want me for sex! Better commun-uh-kation? Translation: I want you to run your mouth and prove you're still my beta. Jesus man, head out of ass. Your frame is non-negotiable. If you get divorced would you really be worse off? Think carefully on that one.
/r/askMRP01/07/19 07:35 PM
1

askMRP for this kind of thing, though you've already deleted it.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/19 01:53 PM
1

You should consider yourself lucky that /u/weakandsensitive didn't ban you for this. Posting something like this "40 minutes" into starting to read the sub is ridiculous. Finish the sidebar and check out the stickied, weekly Own Your Shit post.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/19 02:44 PM
1

Actually, aren't almost all drug addicts Christians? Christianity is built on "fuck up all you want, we'll forgive you more," which is what drug addicts thrive on. That and drugs.
/r/askMRP22/06/19 11:34 PM
1

It did serve that purpose too, yes, as I'm sure you saw. Got to ban some fucksticks over it, so all's well that ends well.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/19 05:41 PM
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Ok, this is an askMRP thing, at best. We've been over this many times before. OP: search for a thread I created a couple years ago with the viewpoint of mods on this topic. Look at askMRP and there are like 4 or 5 of these threads. Shutting it down.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/19 01:15 AM
1

You should search the word "mormon" on this sub. You will see that they are just women like the rest. Read posts from /u/red_sfpplus if you dare. He was laying pipe in married Mormon women at house parties while their families and guests were downstairs.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/19 01:13 AM
1

Cucktastic! Keep dreaming, bro. I challenge you to search this sub and see how many dudes wash up on these shores from religious backgrounds, who did everything you describe, and still got zeroed out. Hell, there's a whole RP Christian sub dedicated to guys who got chewed up by religion and their women. Fucking tourist.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/19 01:11 AM
3

Yes, you got it.
/r/askMRP17/06/19 01:07 AM
2

I didn't say fire her did I? I said to do what you would do if you were dealing with a nurse who broke your rules. If you didn't communicate the rules, well, it's on you. But you have, and she did fuckall to show respect for that. Now what?
/r/askMRP17/06/19 01:06 AM
3

Tallies: 362 total words. She - 17 (5%) Her - 11 (3%) Herself - 1 (0%) Autism level: 100%
/r/askMRP16/06/19 01:40 AM
4

What would you do if a nurse broke so many of your rules at work? Yeah, do that.
/r/askMRP16/06/19 01:20 AM
11

How about the classic pressure flip? "Why do you think that?" Let her dig her own grave, since whatever she comes up with will then provide ammunition for A&A or impetus for her to get her shit together and fix it. In the end though, that's a comfort test, so if you do play with it a little, it needs to end with some comfort.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/19 12:25 AM
6

I am the ultimate slow learner. No. You just bucked off a lifetime of social conditioning. That is not a small thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/19 10:01 PM
11

Do what you want. If she really didn't want your cum dripping out of her all day she wouldn't fuck you in the morning. Or she'd swallow it.
/r/askMRP27/05/19 05:40 PM
6

I'm thinking more of a cheeky Austin Powers type "Ooops!" is all he needs.
/r/askMRP27/05/19 05:39 PM
7

Good post from an up-and-coming member. Take note of the full consideration of the topic here guys: what to do, how to get going by getting over anxiety, what to do to stick with it, and what to expect from your wife. (Shit tests, how original!) Nicely done.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/19 12:53 AM
1

This post should help get you started, but ultimately you have to answer these questions for yourself.
/r/askMRP23/05/19 09:41 PM
3

Yeah, don't do those things. You missed the sarcasm. And the sidebar, apparently.
/r/askMRP23/05/19 09:25 PM
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Modding this sub is getting tougher. For example, it was real dilemma to decide if this was a "Simple Jack" flair or more of a "Rain Man" post. In the end I went with "Rain Man," but I could be persuaded. Pull your head out of your ass OP -- it's you. Next this one and get your shit figured out.
/r/askMRP21/05/19 12:32 AM
2

It never goes out of style.
/r/askMRP21/05/19 12:15 AM
2

This goes to askMRP, though it may not even be worth that. "Dear diary, today I realized that what all the guys on MRP are always saying really IS true. Who knew?"
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/19 02:54 PM
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No, the point is that it's completely silly and meaningless. It doesn't imply anything except that you're not even listening. You're just being a completely aloof, totally ridiculous joker; something only a man of high value can pull off.
/r/askMRP20/05/19 12:51 PM
2

"Tyler's words coming out my mouth. And I used to be such a nice guy..."
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/19 05:01 AM
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Being a teenager is total shit. You're emotionally volatile, you have no experience, no have no power. That is the road to being a man, is obtaining power in all its forms. You got dealt a shit hand. Overcoming tough shit is part of it. There is a lot more. Try to take responsibility for yourself. The more you own what you do and what happens to you, the better off you'll be. Understand that some things aren't your fault, but you can still think about them and think to yourself, "What could I ha…
/r/askMRP20/05/19 04:48 AM
10

Let's just get this out of the way, shall we? Don't think she just sucked dicks, either. AWALT. But don't be mad; you have no reason to be. In time you'll see this was all you being willfully blinded. You have a lot of work to do. Get to it.
/r/askMRP20/05/19 04:34 AM
6

Let me get my crystal ball here, and divine everything I need to know to answer your question. Oh, shit, wait, crystal balls aren't real. You're probably boring. You're probably not stirring up the excitement and drama she wants. Your problems may be superficial or they may run deep. Are you an AFC who gives off too much beta? Do you have any alpha moves?
/r/askMRP20/05/19 04:29 AM
30

Reset every day. That shit was yesterday. You have a new chance to do it better. If she tries to bring any of it up, just brush it off. "Yeah, that was pretty fucked up of me, right? LOL." If she continues to badger you on it, use my favorite: "Meow." Stick to your reading, and start doing OYS if you haven't already.
/r/askMRP20/05/19 04:26 AM
1

You don't know who you don't know.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/19 01:34 AM
23

Coffee's for closers. Edit: I've added this to the Wiki section on OI and Frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/19 04:02 AM
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You guys, you never learn. Ol' Cormie here is trying to get you worked up. Anyone who responded to him should be thanking him for demonstrating for you what an artful frame grab looks like. He's literally no one; he strolls in, says all the stereotypical things, and then, like a bunch of ants reacting to the sunlight of your freshly kicked hill, you swarm in to DEER the existence of the entire sub and your participation in it? So much to learn, all of you. u/MrChad_Thundercock, you too? Thank yo…
/r/askMRP14/05/19 03:56 AM
2

I would be COMPLETELY NOT OK WITH MY WIFE DOING THIS! Why am I supposed to be OK with living to a different standard? Because men are not women and women are not men. We know that when women sneak off and lie about shit it spells trouble. When guys do it they end up going to a men's conference like a tool. You should be ok with it because that is the fucking deal, and she can take it or leave it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/19 10:15 PM
1

That guy deleted out ages out.
/r/askMRP10/05/19 07:43 PM
2

My key learnings so far is that there is a huge difference between reading about frame, OI, stoicism and actually internalising them into who you are. That's a very good observation.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/19 01:19 AM
1

I can hear the winds of the Sahara in your wife's pussy even now. DM me her number.
/r/askMRP08/05/19 01:00 AM
3

So much more adds up now. BTW, your 60 DoD post on clockwork elves is due this week.
/r/askMRP08/05/19 12:54 AM
2

You should remember that the entrepreneurial fetishism is almost invariably about the winners, not just all business owners. No one celebrates the guy who took a risk and Lost Big. They only celebrate him when he then makes a comeback. So by definition they are not celebrating the risk, but ignoring it (or at least selecting it out of the narratives).
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/19 06:43 PM
1

Yeah, turn this into your first OYS.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/19 06:39 PM
2

Thanks for this. This is a much more mechanistic and, well, business view on the topic than we're used to. Be prepared to do a lot of explaining in the comments.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/19 12:35 AM
28

We are all alone, born alone, die alone, and—in spite of True Romance magazines—we shall all someday look back on our lives and see that, in spite of our company, we were alone the whole way. I do not say lonely—at least, not all the time—but essentially, and finally, alone. This is what makes your self-respect so important, and I don't see how you can respect yourself if you must look in the hearts and minds of others for your happiness. ― Hunter S. Thompson, The Proud Highway: Saga of a Desper…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/19 12:25 AM
3

Whoa, there's a handle I haven't seen in a while. Where you been, stranger?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/19 12:22 AM
1

Hence why the Left can't meme.
/r/askMRP03/05/19 03:19 PM
1

Calm down... troll post. Username "HonkHonkBaby" is a Clown World reference. Post removed.
/r/askMRP03/05/19 12:52 PM
1

Silica gel for her pussy.
/r/askMRP03/05/19 12:12 AM
1

You have a lot of catching up to do. Use the TOC at the top of this post to do your reading and start changing your habits.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/19 12:10 AM
1

People have the ability to send mail direct to each other via Reddit. If you were on a desktop version it would be the little envelope at the top right of your screen. Not sure on mobile (which I assume you're mostly on). I had agreed to have you do an anal training post for 60 DoD (last week), but it's cool.
/r/askMRP03/05/19 12:10 AM
1

Ok, dude, you're way overdue to get serious. You need to go over to MRP and start posting in OYS each week. Time for the training wheels to come off. -Banhammer!-
/r/askMRP02/05/19 01:26 PM
7

Oops, missed this. Yes, this is the answer.
/r/askMRP02/05/19 01:23 PM
18

Pressure flip time: "You planning on getting fat on me?" Then A&A it for at least a couple days, calling her your "soon-to-be-fat wife," and pointing out all the things she won't be able to do when she's fat in the future. This has to be done in a "teasing her on the playground" kind of way, though, not as some defensive, sniveling, butt-hurt asshat. That will shut that shit down real quick.
/r/askMRP02/05/19 01:21 PM
2

This is like the PUAs 15 years ago. They were great at Game, could seduce and fuck women, but in the end they only did so because they wanted a BP relationship. They used Game (Red Pill means) to get women for traditional-style relationships (Blue Pill ends).
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/19 12:56 AM
2

No for real; if you've read all that you should around here you'd know that this journey isn't about your wife. She'll come around or she won't. The question is: what are you going to do with the rest of YOUR life, starting now?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/19 12:54 AM
3

That says more about you than it does about them.
/r/askMRP02/05/19 12:50 AM
2

{Thanks to everyone who gave me helpful advice after my first posts almost a month ago. The break gave me a chance to think through some things and focus on me, instead of instinctively reacting to every comment here.} Take note you over-sensitive fuckheads out there. There is a method to the Mods' madness.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/19 02:02 PM
1

Get my wife to want me Be desirable enough that all women want me, but have enough abundance that I don't care Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/19 01:59 PM
1

You were supposed to write a post on anal training. Do you ever read your reddit mail?
/r/askMRP01/05/19 01:24 PM
2

Talking, so much autistic talking.
/r/askMRP01/05/19 01:23 PM
2

Talking, so much autistic talking.
/r/askMRP01/05/19 01:21 PM
2

Q.E.D.
/r/askMRP01/05/19 01:19 PM
3

The antelope talks too much, but I like his style.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/19 12:39 AM
3

Ah, the famous Chinese orgasm trap!
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/19 11:41 PM
10

Chad T.'s mindset: I like fucking. Think I'll fuck this girl right here. I like tacos, too. I wonder if Del Taco will be open after?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/19 02:01 PM
2

Right on the money, as always.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/19 02:00 PM
5

Giving a woman an orgasm is hardly beta. As usual, context and motivation has to be in the conversation. If the OP means "always give your wife an orgasm as it is your mission in life, no matter how she acts before, during, and after sex," then hell no, BP bullshit. If the context is one of increasing enjoyment when she is playing the part you've laid out, then sure, why not? But not at the expense of your own enjoyment or as some kind of duty. Always amazes me when dudes make fucking into somet…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/19 01:01 PM
1

Use the search feature on /r/MarriedRedPill. And stop asking people to do your work for you.
/r/askMRP26/04/19 10:48 PM
1

Don't worry, I already flaired this post for you.
/r/askMRP26/04/19 02:52 PM
1

Perfect time to try out one of the new flairs /u/Countpudyoola created for us...
/r/askMRP26/04/19 04:16 AM
2

Yeah, don't try that with McDonald's coffee especially...
/r/askMRP26/04/19 04:15 AM
4

Ok, I don't know your particular story, but since no one else is asking, guess I will. Do you have your shit unfucked before you either bring another kid into the world or adopt one that needs a good, stable home? Why are you trying to have another kid if you're hanging around here?
/r/askMRP24/04/19 04:22 AM
2

Do not try and bend the spoon, that's impossible. Instead, only try to realize the truth... there is no spoon. Then you will see it is not the spoon that bends, it is only yourself.
/r/askMRP24/04/19 04:18 AM
8

No, I think he's giving you your promotion to Captain Obvious.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 02:25 PM
1

Ok, good work owning your shit. Now post this to the actual OYS thread instead of the 60 DoD thread and you'll be in business.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 02:15 PM
2

You know you shouldn't laugh, but it's just too damn funny.
/r/askMRP23/04/19 12:49 PM
3

Ever watch one of those videos where someone puts tape on a cats paws? Yeah, it's like that.
/r/askMRP23/04/19 03:40 AM
3

Might be imposter syndrome. Fake it until you make it and it will go away.
/r/askMRP23/04/19 03:39 AM
2

When the Levee Breaks, all day, every day.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 03:35 AM
2

Please put this over at /r/askMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 03:27 AM
6

That's quite the combination. Is that the "retard chic" style I've heard so much about?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/19 12:18 AM
5

What country are you in? I imagine hearing this in Borat's voice. Brother shout, I no beat shit of heem. Wife winding me up say I no big man...
/r/askMRP19/04/19 05:37 AM
9

Speaking of spergy overapplication... There are times to explain and debate, which implies and requires defense of one's position; doing that to your wife or to us is rarely one of them. Rationalization is rarely a good idea, since that is inventing reasons for what you believe. We tells guys not to DEER mainly in OYS, because they are there to own their shit not tell us why they're already perfect. If they don't like what we tell them they should apply some STFU accordingly. We're not here to d…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/19 11:56 PM
13

raging bro Alpha You keep saying that. I think you've set that up as "anything I don't agree with in RP" so you can claim purple pill superiority. Then you defend your ego fortress with great fervor. I think what you're really looking for is someone to agree with you. So here it is: Yeah man, I think you've got it dialed in. As totally good looking as you are, she absolutely won't fuck drug dealers anymore and most definitely won't cheat or branch swing. And I wouldn't worry, women don't lie abo…
/r/askMRP14/04/19 02:15 PM
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Later that day I needed to go drop off the rental and get my car back from the dealer. The fact that I know what this is referring to tells me you're posting too frequently, or maybe just in too much detail. Fuck you.
/r/askMRP13/04/19 02:50 PM
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You need to take this to one of the RP sites for women. If you message us first we might allow this on MRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/19 02:36 PM
7

You fail shit tests like a boss and then are surprised at the results. Hilarious. Back to square one for you. Oh, and that's shit's done, so don't look back. Fix yourself and find another; in fact, find a few others.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 04:40 PM
1

Ok, be sure to read prior years' submissions so you can bring something new to the table. /u/liftingisredlife can make his the "Part 2" since it's more advanced; make your budgeting post "Part 1". This means Part 1 should be between 4/28 and 4/30, and we'll do Part 2 between 5/02 and 05/04. Both of you please reply to this so I know you're on board.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/19 04:37 PM
2

If you happen to have a CB7 or higher in your life, do you ever purposely make her bitchy? I mainly did it for fun (practice) and to see how crazy sex would get at night. How dangerous is this and what are the repercussions? Synthetic drama manufacture is a known tactic. Doing it with an emotionally volatile woman should mean it's easier to get her wound up, and will be harder to get her to chill out, but, as you have discovered, the intense feels can be leveraged for some super-hot hate-fucking…
/r/askMRP12/04/19 01:36 PM
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Oh no! You've been reported! 1: It's rude, vulgar or offensive Whatever snowflake tourist reported that: fuck you. The Wednesday Retard is retarded, but he's well within the bounds.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 01:30 PM
1

I am the Sorcerer King and I endorse this message.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 01:25 PM
1

From the original Red Pill Antibiotic Nuke post: Women are hypergamous they feel entitled to a superior mate. You have to be richer than her or at least equally rich, more educated than her or at least equally educated. You need to be better looking than her or at least equal looking, you need to be more popular than she is or at least equally popular. You can offset one area (LMS - looks, money, status) with another, but if you're lower in at least 2 areas just forget it. Now, tell me about you…
/r/askMRP12/04/19 01:23 PM
3

Wish you would have had this little brain child when I was making calls for 60 DoD...
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/19 11:33 PM
1

requires a value judgement Yes, but the trick is, who is making the judgement and on what basis? Evaluating the standard for achievement should be easy. Deciding on what is an achievement-worth-pursuing can be hard. If you decide to pursue something because it will get you laid or make people like you, that would be tap-dancing your ass off. Be your own mental point of origin, as Rollo says.
/r/askMRP10/04/19 03:13 PM
1

Well, I guess that was inevitable.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/19 02:28 PM
1

After attempts to move this to askMRP while simultaneously removing from MRP failed, we will leave this up for a little bit to collect some comments, then it's coming down.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/19 01:37 PM
2

I know that the problem is me. I need a lot more time to improve myself, get a frame, and increase my DSV. You're a tear-down, man. A tear-down is a house you buy because it has a nice lot, but the house itself is so trashed it has to go and you have to rebuild totally anew, from the foundation upward. LDS has fucked you up. All religion is altruistic by nature, otherwise it could not compel you to want do do things so blatantly against your self-interest. I say this not because I'm some satanic…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/19 01:19 PM
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BTW: this shit-tier soap opera should be on askMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/19 04:24 PM
2

. She lied. You are a cuck. Develop some abundance and self-respect.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/19 03:38 PM
1

Fucking moron. Ok, I'm not a rap fan so I didn't get that right away. Now at least I don't have to ban you for doxxing your cheating whore.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/19 03:36 PM
3

I’m a guy (36) married to a (38) woman ... We don’t have kids, and talked about having them in the future What future would that be? The one where you take a time machine back 10 years and start over? You're still a kid yourself. You avoid difficult emotional territory and try to passively-aggressively manipulate others into making the tough calls for you (hence this post). Your Asian unicorn deserves better.
/r/askMRP08/04/19 04:16 AM
3

1: The party that said you should tell your wife that you're working on improving and even have her read the book. /u/niceguycoach from the /r/NMMNG says he's heard Glover walk that back in the last few years. I think even Glover realized that's a bad idea.
/r/askMRP07/04/19 01:41 AM
6

No, no. The husbands of the cougars wanted sex with him. He's not fucking his wife so you can't blame them for thinking he's actually a bitch, or gay.
/r/askMRP07/04/19 01:40 AM
1

This (recurring) issue inspired me to write a half-baked post about it a couple years ago, and my half-baked post inspired a fully baked masterpiece from /u/UEMcGill after that. It's one of my favorites, so much so that I'm lame enough to try to attach myself to it in a positive light whenever I bring it up. Hopefully it's not too allegorical for you, Commander Autisto. Have at it.
/r/askMRP07/04/19 01:36 AM
3

Don't make me change your flair to the "Wednesday to Tuesday Retard."
/r/askMRP07/04/19 01:31 AM
2

You know about removing posts, right? Or are you leaving this for entertainment value?
/r/askMRP07/04/19 01:29 AM
2

None! Next her right away! Next Gilbert too. That's easier though, just let him climb the water tower!
/r/askMRP07/04/19 01:28 AM
1

Start posting in OYS on the main sub, man. You're a fucking train wreck of autism.
/r/askMRP06/04/19 02:56 AM
2

Been cycling through feeling euphoric over progress I’m making back into anger phase. Reading Rollo’s stuff makes me really angry. He’s so fucking spot on and while I’m reading it, I can feel a physical reaction brewing and then I am fucked up for the next day or so thinking about the concepts. The thoughts of being taken advantage of and by someone I love and like so much can really stoke the feelings of anger in me. Did you hit the wiki? This one will resonate with you, and this one may help y…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/19 04:50 PM
12

she says things like "I know you want to break up with me" or "I know you don't love me". She wants you to kill the puppy.
/r/askMRP03/04/19 01:18 AM
3

No, the question I would like to see him answer is why he's still in the same LTR that he was in when he was 17...
/r/askMRP03/04/19 01:07 AM
2

You fuckwit. Read the sidebar, like that part called "Divorce Advice." P.S. - if that sidebar doesn't help you, go to r/askMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 03:08 AM
1

You're a week behind. Get your goals to together and start making changes!
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/19 11:34 PM
2

but since I know that hypergamy acts in all women I have decided to put in a great deal of effort into my appearance as well as working out a long term plan for financial success. Red pill means for blue pill ends.
/r/askMRP01/04/19 06:09 AM
5

LARP is just a trendy way to say you're bullshitting yourself and living in fantasy.
/r/askMRP01/04/19 06:06 AM
4

It's natural to want to salvage an investment instead Sunk cost fallacy.
/r/askMRP01/04/19 06:05 AM
3

1: Please ban this blue pill retard You have people begging us to ban you via report.
/r/askMRP01/04/19 06:03 AM
5

Just reading this is so boring, I'm getting depressed.
/r/askMRP01/04/19 05:59 AM
2

No big deal, just having a little fun with you.
/r/askMRP30/03/19 02:35 PM
4

Ok, some snowflake reported this post, saying "1: It's rude, vulgar or offensive". Really? Of all the posts in this sub and MRP, someone thought this reply was reportable? The sad part is that someone probably searches reddit for the word "retard".
/r/askMRP30/03/19 07:01 AM
2

Edit: I honestly thought I was going to be the only one to bring this up, but apparently MRP is filled with Cure fans Used to be one could get laid with The Cure on in the background...
/r/askMRP30/03/19 06:55 AM
1

we made our first baby at 25 Make it out of spare parts in the garage? I'm hoping you're ESL.
/r/askMRP30/03/19 06:48 AM
1

You come in here asking us the best method for shooting yourself in the foot dick Get real.
/r/askMRP30/03/19 06:46 AM
1

Can only sticky two things at a time. Make sure they have internal links to the other parts.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/19 06:16 PM
1

Just making sure you're fully prepared if it goes pear-shaped. We would all want no blowback, but that's the nature of blowback: it is always unwanted but not always completely preventable.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/19 06:14 PM
1

I want zero blow back. Yeah, if the tree falls in the woods, right? What if it gets heard anyway? If you do the crime are you ready to do the time, as we advise so many guys? Edit: Please don't say your wife would go along with it or whatever. Play hypothetical for me for a minute. She finds out, she calls a divorce attorney. You ready for that? OI on point?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/19 01:51 PM
2

I spent most of my work life driving process improvement in various organizations. You're a natural for 60 DoD then, as this is the whole point. Not just a short-term goal of gainz, but a long-term system for continuous improvement.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/19 01:45 PM
1

I know I told you 31 March and 2 April, but I'm not sure why I said that. If your post is ready to go, put it up whenever you're comfortable doing so.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/19 01:39 PM
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I think this guy is probably Indian, and that makes things that much worse (for him). We've seen this before; the gayness is baked into his culture. Plus, it's Ward Cleaver. Beaver is the kid, which is what he actually has been so far.
/r/askMRP28/03/19 05:32 PM
5

She's asking you to kill the puppy. Break up, go radio silent and embrace your new career in a new town: pipe layer.
/r/askMRP28/03/19 01:34 AM
2

Does it really matter? See here If you decide you want out, see the Divorce Guide on the MRP sidebar.
/r/askMRP28/03/19 01:14 AM
3

How about Starbucks. At least that's semi-cool, and they have some decent fringe benefits, plus there is a never-ending stream of women going into those places. Oh, and when (not if) you decide to get off your ass and get some paying work, any paying work... don't talk about it. Just go do it, and tell your woman after the paperwork is signed. Remember that you don't have to justify it, either. You might get some version of "why did you get a shit job? That doesn't pay enough!" Your only answer …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/19 04:19 AM
1

Don't just clear the pedestal - smash it.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/19 01:39 AM
1

Probably 7/8 guys who get banned write that message to us on ModMail.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/19 01:38 AM
1

Pretty sure this is a major factor: the nuts, bolts and nihilism involved from my point of view are no doubt quite unattractive. To stick with the Mad Men theme here, "You took the sizzle of your career and turned it into a wet fart." Like /u/Persaeus implied, craft an exciting narrative, not a core dump of your fee fees.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/19 01:34 AM
2

cheating on me and accusing me of cheating Sheeeiit. You let that shit slide? Why would she respect you at all?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/19 01:31 AM
5

Well, that does loads for my ego. Fuck your ego. That's one of your problems. I think my reply mislead you a bit. When I said "minimally effective" that was not a dig. Rather I meant "it is starting to work." You jumped in though and starting running your beta mouth again though and ruined it. You want to understand STFU? Flip the script. Imagine you're fucking with the head of someone weak. No matter what that person does (dishwasher loading, for example), you criticize, antagonize, pick at the…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/19 01:29 AM
2

Only want to pop in to say that, obviously, your wife finds your capability and competence in your career sexy. Don't be afraid to use stories from your conquest to rev her engine a bit. Many women want to be married to Don Draper. (Or be his mistress, depending on who you ask, right /u/weakandsensitive?) It would be retarded to deny her that. Would you put a blindfold on her so she can't see your physique if you had a body like The Rock? You woulnd't avoid gaming her because you're charming, ri…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 02:12 PM
3

No news on job front. Have about 5 options out there but no interviews yet. Did one online assessment for a data position. What sort of work do you do? Why aren't you doing a part-time gig doing retard work until you get a real job?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 01:37 PM
6

Do you really want to do what's best for your family? I dunno, I don't see it. I see a vague wish for it but I see zero plan and zero action as to how your are doing that or how you plan to achieve it. I agree with you here. It's like he wants to run around and do a bunch of shit so that he can say he "did his best" or he "tried so hard." Like the results don't matter, only that he can't be blamed. Where's the vision? Why does he put up with this shit? What does he actually want? He just bounces…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 01:34 PM
2

On Friday evening she did finally break the silence to say something like “I don’t get you.” I asked her what she meant and she said, “I don’t know what you’re thinking anymore. In December and January you were obsessed about going into couple’s therapy (I was), and now you seem indifferent.” That is your STFU being minimally effective. That was actually a shit test of sorts, her saying, "Why aren't you taking the bait? I need some drama here, bitch-boy!" I asked her if she was now interested in…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 01:31 PM
1

This needs to go to askMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 01:12 PM
1

You horn-dog, you. Focus!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 01:12 PM
3

I want to wait for goal weight before spending more money. I know where this impulse comes from, but there can be a positive feedback loop by getting some nicer clothes that fit well at any size. Compromise with yourself and get a few new articles now, and more when you've reached goal.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 03:19 AM
2

Doing my part for the cause, man.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/19 11:19 PM
1

Ok, there's your 1,000,000 push-ups. Then what?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/19 11:15 PM
1

You can put goals here and list success on the close-out post. Use OYS to track in between.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/19 11:14 PM
1

I haven't been following you lately... have you been OYS? Just because you get injured and have to restrict what you do for a bit does not mean you stop grinding in all the other areas. Looks like 60 DoD came just in time for you. I think you forgot to declare in the kickoff thread though, so you better go do that. Right?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/19 01:26 PM
7

Leave the excuses at the door and get ready to work.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/19 12:53 PM
4

Even better if you find the spin studio that has all the young hotties and go there a couple times a week...
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/19 03:13 AM
9

Don't be obtuse; you know the work he's referring to ------->
/r/askMRP24/03/19 07:18 PM
7

Home gym can be a good answer, but try to find some fitness-related activities that take you out of the house too. There is a subtle component of Dread when you are out of her sight making yourself a better man. More importantly it gets you out of the house for your own sake.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/19 07:11 PM
2

Though not attributable to Aristotle, I've always been fond of this phrase (which I'm sure Aristotle too would have liked): Happiness is the exercise of vital powers, along lines of excellence, in a life affording them scope.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/19 06:04 AM
6

I will not take up cologne as I do not want to smell like a Persian cab driver. Yeah, cause smelling like a Frenchman is waaaay better.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/19 09:34 PM
2

See Puddy's post in MRP.
/r/askMRP22/03/19 09:21 PM
1

What the hell is happening? Really? Pretend someone else wrote this, what would you tell him?
/r/askMRP22/03/19 09:07 PM
1

The problem with that is risk. The Leftists don't like us, and the Left has a tendency to wage total war when they think they are Righteous. For most of us, the reward of an in-person meet isn't worth the risk. Plus: learn to be more self-generating and self-sustaining. That's half of what this is all about.
/r/askMRP22/03/19 02:07 PM
5

Feeling guilt because your near-death scared your woman. Let some BP fag tell me how we hate women again...
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/19 01:56 PM
2

For fuck sake if she hasn't already started. RZD has a good point there, except I think the origins may be different than the standard well-man shit test. The ones you face will be more of "please relieve my anxiety and prove to me that you're really all better and that I can depend on you so I don't have to worry about you (me) all the time."
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/19 01:25 PM
3

Men of high value will face new challenges - They seem to seek them out See, you can do it too!
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/19 04:19 AM
1

https://youtu.be/nWwqelSWMH8?t=60
/r/askMRP22/03/19 04:12 AM
4

You get accustomed to it. That's not the same thing as it not affecting you.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/19 04:06 AM
15

This is what real PTSD is, not some millenial douche who's "literally shaking rn." It's all about the other shoe. You know it's out there, you can't see it or touch it, but you know. And one day it will drop. It will be too soon, it will be painful, it will be final. And every day from now on you'll be looking for it to drop, secretly paranoid about it dropping every time you need to see a doctor for even the most trivial reason. Except here's the thing: it's always been that way, for all of us.…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/19 03:20 AM
1

If it's your only data point, yes.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/19 03:05 AM
7

Beta faggot talks Many men seek his woman Beta cuckold now
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/19 12:41 AM
3

I don't want to be stay an uneducated ass.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/19 12:39 AM
6

Christ, I'm surprised half the retards can manage to choose the color of their socks on any given day. That's easy. They have only white socks.
/r/askMRP21/03/19 09:02 PM
1

The reason I say it's a bad idea is that it's evasive. If you want him to learn by fucking up everything completely, then it's a fine strategy.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 08:56 PM
2

I just can see this guy about to go Rambo and I think he would benefit from some other perspectives.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 08:54 PM
1

Ha, didn't even see the typo until you pointed it out. Not intentional, but I was probably that big a faggot at one point, sure. Most of us were. The best way to kill the babysitter fling is go beta on her. You're good at that, right?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 08:53 PM
2

Thank you, sir. Quick on the draw. Got anything more for him?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 05:00 PM
1

I think you're starting to come around. You should seek some more opinions. You need to strike the balance between setting boundaries and enforcing them vs. just going Rambo.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 05:00 PM
3

Or I can just ban him. Presto!
/r/askMRP21/03/19 03:23 PM
1

Babe, if you have trouble picking up you stuff when you are done using it, then cut out some time at night to do it. If you can't keep my our house clean for the family, then Im going to you need you to not go on these adventures like girl scouts, farming, or play dates with other women and their kids. I know you may see this as punishing the children, but at this stage I don't care. We need our home to be a home for the children, for your sanity and because I want it to be. Ok, that would be se…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 03:17 PM
1

Congratulations. Care to say why?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 02:47 PM
1

Ok, go for it. You obviously have seen that there will be one for older guys, and bogey is offering changed perspectives since his original 4 years ago. You can make it a "Part 3" and put it up on that weekend of 3/30 or 3/31. Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 02:38 PM
1

Most of the time it's victim puking about well-deserved shit tests, I agree. If there is even a tinge of truth to this one, then he stuck his dick in crazy.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 01:54 PM
2

Look, the point is this: if she were an employee, she'd be on performance review at the least. You're giving her a pass now to not live up to expectations. All those benefits you list above? That's called being a mediocre mom. If you're paying a nanny too, why not get a full-time nanny and a no-time wife? You see what I'm saying here? She's not living up to her end of the bargain. If you're not willing to "fire" her, she never will. Now this does NOT mean go Rambo now and fuck shit up. It means …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 04:45 AM
1

The sexual desire part would be solved but possibly at the expense of everything else? What is "everything else" in this context? I think we all have those fears in the beginning. We're so afraid to break frame and redefine the relationship. Know this: if your woman isn't excited to fuck you, she's not happy either. Change can be good.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 11:40 PM
1

She’ll get upset obviously See, there you go caring again. If she acts shitty enough you don't even want to be around here, is her upset your fault? Is it your problem?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 11:35 PM
1

It helps you frame what you're getting out of your relationship vs. what you want/expect.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 11:35 PM
1

Well, I guess we're about due since it has been another year.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 10:17 PM
1

I don't give advice. I show people possibilities and say what I'd do if faced with the same situations. I'm not ready to end it but she knows (clearly) Make sure that shouldn't actually read: she knows (clearly) I'm not ready to end it
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 10:14 PM
2

Oh no! You got downvoted! Someone got his fee-fees hurt somewhere. Whatever will you do, WNS?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 10:10 PM
2

Last night I spent 1.5 hours cleaning dishes, books, and clothes. After driving 3+ hours from the work conference that I was at for 2 days. I went to sleep at midnight. This is where you ask yourself: what value is she providing to me?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 10:09 PM
2

All good advice, but this dude has fundamental problems. He is definitely a Nice Guy. He is angry. We're going to need more than lipstick on this pig.
/r/askMRP20/03/19 09:53 PM
2

Amen.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 09:51 PM
2

Being curt like you describe would be being butthurt or at least would come off like it. Something like, "Ok, cool. I'm going to head back then. I have some work to get done this afternoon. Later, babe!" Why should that be a big deal? Does that shit matter to you? No? Then why act like it does? Oh, it does matter to you? Then care less about stupid shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 09:50 PM
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I'll leave you with this: there are many many people out there who do not live with this sort of reality. So you can gaslight yourself all you want, but know that you don't have to put up with this sort of shit. "Destroy" you? That's some bunny-boiling shit right there, and I'd eject.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 09:33 PM
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I hope you don't delete this post. If you decide to walk the path, one day you will cherish this post as an example of what a shell of a man you once were. You will feel the satisfaction of how far you've come from this low moment. You need to start here. You have to be prepared to take the red pill, just like in the movie. Everything you think you know is about to blow up.
/r/askMRP20/03/19 09:30 PM
3

True indifference/OI would be better than the butthurt version you likely did. Make no text response. Text is for logistics only.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 09:22 PM
4

There is also a component of excitement when you find all this. It's an intoxication, and just like drinking, the mouth tends to run. Just STFU and do your shit. All these changes you're making is you getting back to par. Don't expect anyone else to be excited.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 09:16 PM
2

The problem with that: human wants are unlimited. You can't buy her one last thing that will fulfill her. She'll always want more, and the more you buy for her (or let her buy, as it were) the faster and faster she'll move to the next thing. Counter-intuitively, if you limit her, she'll appreciate things more and won't want to buy as much.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 09:10 PM
1

Time to move on. So long as your split from your baby momma doesn't generate fighting, and so long as you can still be in their lives and be a positive male figure, your kids will do just fine. I suppose the only thing to worry about would be what thirsty beta or predator she brings around in her desperation after you're gone...
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 09:06 PM
2

Unless you went out masquerading as a single, high-value man: no you don't.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 09:03 PM
1

(she's on crazy meds, had a kid with some random dude, loves drama, etc). Ok, well you didn't marry her, but honorable mention for our trend of crazy bitches here in OYS this week.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 09:01 PM
1

discussed being a narcissist with her therapy group If this is true, that's three this week with mental illness. You sure you're for real? One thing about narcissists: they don't like to admit they are narcissists (it's unbecoming).
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 08:58 PM
1

WTF is going on here? Our newest crop of dudes seem to have all gone to the Winter Bipolar Ball to find wives. All aboard the crazy train! Only gaslights on the crazy train!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 08:35 PM
2

The broader point is you won't get good feedback if no one reads your post.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 08:31 PM
1

If you're following MRP like a robot, you probably end up plating. Where did that come from? Even BPP's Dread Levels end there when you've tried everything else, and, IIRC also basically tells you "show's over" if you end up there. A lot of you guys have this anxiety that RP is telling you to cheat all the time. Not so; we just encourage you to understand that's an option (Rule 0). You have to determine for yourself if it fits your mission. Your detailed hamstering did that for you I guess, but …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 08:29 PM
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She’s in a vulnerable spot right now ... I really like her and get pulled into her fame easily You are an enormous pussy. Gigantic. Huge. Biggest I've been in ages. You married a woman who is straight up bipolar (you need to get her diagnosed and on meds before she does something truly batshit), yet you pedestalize her. Then when that isn't working, you pedestalize an 18-year old babysitter? Wow, you're fucked. You need to break that shit off right now before it blows up your powder-keg life. Fi…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 08:17 PM
2

Sadly, the same dynamics apply with your mom. He (or she) who cares least has the power. If your mom did something shitty, do you have the balls to never speak to her again? Would you be able to write her off and not even show up to her funeral? If not, looks like you'll be accepting her control until one of you is gone. This doesn't mean you have to hate her. It just means you have to be your own person, worthy of self-respect, who doesn't let people treat him badly. You might need to pop over …
/r/askMRP19/03/19 03:04 AM
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I have my issues with the OP, most notably the lack of a "Method" as the title implies. But this response here is actually exactly what the OP is talking about. Some wingnut comes in out of nowhere, attempts a frame grab, throws some shame around, and attempts to get people to submit to him. He's been banned of course, but take note guys, this is how the plugged-in think and act.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/19 06:59 PM
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Thank you for posting this. A very powerful, obviously very personal narrative. Take note, you faggots. You can't change what happened yesterday, but you can change how you feel about it today, and what you choose to do tomorrow. Victimhood is for people who've already given up.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/19 06:07 PM
1

Always be ready to jump to a different job/department/company. If you're not being valued to the level you think you're worth, there's only one way to find out: see if someone will pay more. Hmmm, seems like there might be a parallel there with other things we talk about here...
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/19 03:43 PM
1

True. Just make sure FFDGTDS doesn't rhyme with faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/19 03:41 PM
2

This sounds to me like you want us to do value selection for you. Whether you spin plates forever or pick one and stick with her, YOU have to decide if that's what YOU want. Figure out what you value and what you really want from women, and get that.
/r/askMRP16/03/19 03:38 PM
1

You're the most sensitive whiney-bitch detector we have. What did you see here?
/r/askMRP16/03/19 03:36 PM
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But why not just ask me? Because she knows it's the hamster, she knows it's crazy, and she doesn't want you to know she's jealous/worried. To admit these things would be to give you more power in the relationship. Don't get complacent. Instead, keep on the program and monitor her so you don't over-dread (i.e. add comfort in metered doses). EDIT: Oh, and in this particular instance, you had argued earlier in the day, so you were elsewhere. She probably realized her role in being shitty, and the d…
/r/askMRP16/03/19 03:31 PM
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I'm thinking this is kinda the other way. He's seeing some dread and he's all giddy.
/r/askMRP16/03/19 03:28 PM
3

Duration checks out. Sure felt like masturbation. Yeah, let's go with that.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/19 07:26 PM
1

As per your discussion in another thread, work with u/Taipanshimshon to "split" this. Either write a co-post or a two-parter or each do your own take on it, or whatever. Put them up as "Week 0 - [Your title]", March 23-24. I'll do the kickoff post the 22nd, then you guys can put that up as a philosophical frame for the whole challenge. Sound good?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/19 07:04 PM
1

Briefly, yes. Not a high point in my MAP or anything, but a good 35 seconds or so.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/19 06:59 PM
1

If you two want to do that, go for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/19 05:39 AM
4

The most useless thing in the world is that which is behind me. Frank TJ Mackey
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/19 05:36 AM
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Good man. This is a point I've tried to get guys to realize in the past. But I'm too Socratic Zen in my approach. Let me be uncharacteristically direct: THE POINT OF YOUR FUCKING LIFE IS TO BE HAPPY, ASSHOLES. That felt good.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/19 05:32 AM
2

I've never heard Bulgarians whine about not getting laid, no.
/r/askMRP14/03/19 04:39 PM
1

No, no, no. Bulgarians are the ones who look like thugs for the Soviets. Albanians are the terrorists.
/r/askMRP12/03/19 11:03 PM
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How do I explain to such a person that the right thing to do is a divorce? You don't. You live your life and let him live his. Let's imagine for a moment that you succeed and he divorces your mother. Then what? He either feels shame that his own son saw what he couldn't, or he feels regret and that gets pinned on you. You can find countless threads on askMRP that deal with this topic of "how do I get my _______ to see RP?" The answer is always: you don't. Morpheus offered Neo the choice to see h…
/r/askMRP12/03/19 11:01 PM
11

that's out of the question as they have been married for 20+ years. Da fuk dat got to do with the price of tea in China?? Ok, you're 17 and Bulgarian, so I'll translate: why does that matter? Because you're 17 I suppose 20 years sounds like an eternity; it's not. Learn about the sunk cost fallacy and don't worry about your dad. Keep your head on straight and don't make his mistakes.
/r/askMRP12/03/19 10:48 PM
5

If you believe there is no god, then life is completely meaningless. False dichotomy. Objective ethics are possible. I like Peterson (even went to see him live), but he is not a philosopher, he's a Jungian Psychologist.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:27 PM
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Tyler's words coming out of my mouth. And I used to be such a nice guy... Tyler Durdin, Fight Club
/r/askMRP12/03/19 01:06 AM
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A U T I S M I S R E A L
/r/askMRP11/03/19 08:15 PM
5

You've got a deal, sir.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/19 06:54 PM
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This really should be on askMRP, but it has elicited some good responses on the importance of dread and what it accomplishes, so we'll leave it up here.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/19 02:47 PM
13

Don't worry, most guys here are on the spectrum for sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/19 02:45 PM
1

Truth in advertising.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/19 02:42 PM
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I notice you haven't posted in OYS since October, and you're in askMRP quite a bit. Time to go back to OYS and quit dicking around in here. Giving you a 90 day break from here. Hope to see you in OYS.
/r/askMRP10/03/19 12:06 AM
3

But in my experience where I’m at right now I have to spend these coins otherwise the probability of something getting fucked up increases and then the coins really get spent. Or, you could get rid of her and find 3 or 4 that require no coins at all. You've put the shackles on your own wrists and are now complaining that they are too tight.
/r/askMRP09/03/19 07:41 PM
1

Many times on AskMRP you'll hear about "well she doesn't trust you because you fucked up the last decisions or steering the ship" I would argue that many guys actually still end up making a better decision than their wife would have. These are not mutually exclusive.
/r/askMRP09/03/19 07:38 PM
1

The conversation is a turnoff because you aren't taking responsibility for it. Yep, and she's probably started nagging him about it.
/r/askMRP09/03/19 07:31 PM
2

You'll be sharing the week with red-sfpplus, so yes, please include the "Part 1". EDIT: I see now why you're confused. When I posted the first reply I had said "Week 4". Then, like a retard, I replied to myself to fix it. THen like a bigger retard I edited the original post and tried to remove the reply. Now I have you spun all around. My bad. Let's be clear once and for all: Week 5, Part 1, post 4/21 to 4/23.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/19 07:19 PM
1

Ok, we'll figure out someone else.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/19 02:16 AM
2

You're on for a post during Diet week. Please put it up with the usual title identifying it as 60 DoD Week 2. (Please look at prior 60 DoD posts on the sidebar to see proper titling format.) Aim to post it between 31 March and 2 April. Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/19 12:53 AM
1

You're on for a post during Social Life week to talk about home improvement as a hobby. Please put it up with the usual title identifying it as 60 DoD Week 8. (Please look at prior 60 DoD posts on the sidebar to see proper titling format.) Aim to post it between 5/12 and 5/14. Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/19 12:52 AM
1

You're on for a post on negotiation during Career week. Please put it up with the usual title identifying it as 60 DoD Week 7 - Part 2. (Please look at prior 60 DoD posts on the sidebar to see proper titling format.) Aim to post it between 5/8 and 5/10, as there will be another post in the first half of that week (thus the "Part 2"). Thanks and looking forward to another stellar post!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/19 12:49 AM
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Ok, Dr. Teeth, you're on for a post during Career week. Please put it up with the usual title identifying it as 60 DoD Week 7 - Part 1. (Please look at prior 60 DoD posts on the sidebar to see proper titling format.) Aim to post it between 5/5 and 5/7, as there will be a second post in the second half of that week (thus the "Part 1"). Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/19 12:47 AM
1

You're on for a post during Finance week. Please put it up with the usual title identifying it as 60 DoD Week 6. (Please look at prior 60 DoD posts on the sidebar to see proper titling format.) Aim to post it between 4/28 and 4/30. Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/19 12:43 AM
1

You're on for a post during Game week (in this case, sex Game). Please put it up with the usual title identifying it as 60 DoD Week 5 - Part 2. (Please look at prior 60 DoD posts on the sidebar to see proper titling format.) Aim to post it between 4/24 and 4/26, as there will be another post in the first half of that week (thus the "Part 2"). Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/19 12:42 AM
1

My mistake. Your post should be Week 5, posted between 4/21 and 4/23.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/19 12:19 AM
1

You're on for a post during Game week (in this case, internal Game/attitude). Please put it up with the usual title identifying it as 60 DoD Week 5 - Part 1. (Please look at prior 60 DoD posts on the sidebar to see proper titling format.) Aim to post it between 4/21 and 4/23, as there will be a second post in the second half of that week (thus the "Part 1"). Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/19 12:18 AM
1

You're on for a hygiene post. Please put it up with the usual title identifying it as 60 DoD Week 3. (Please look at prior 60 DoD posts on the sidebar to see proper titling format.) Aim to post it between 4/07 and 4/09. Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/19 12:15 AM
1

You're on for a lifting post. Please put it up with the usual title identifying it as 60 DoD Week 1 - Part 2. (Please look at prior 60 DoD posts on the sidebar to see proper titling format.) Aim to post it between 3/28 and 3/30 as there will be a prior lifting post going up in the first half of the week (hence the "Part 2"). Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/19 12:14 AM
1

You're on for a lifting post. Please put it up with the usual title identifying it as 60 DoD Week 1 - Part 1. Aim to post it between 3/25 and 3/27 as there will be a second lifting post for the second half of the week (hence the "Part 1"). Thanks, looking forward to your evolved perspective!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/19 12:12 AM
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Ok, I think she got what she came for. Locking this one up.
/r/askMRP09/03/19 12:02 AM
2

Which is why she's aiming for 3 years from now. Keep context.
/r/askMRP09/03/19 12:01 AM
7

Anti-vaxxer horseshit. Check out the measles outbreaks on the west coast and then tell me about "poorly understood consequences." Shovel that shit somewhere else.
/r/askMRP08/03/19 11:41 PM
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Overall you're thinking like a woman. Wife goggles are a thing, and if you're loyal, sweet, dutiful, and sexy before, during, and after the pregnancy, you have nothing to worry about. Plus, you're 24: even in 3 years, you likely will "bounce back" (with some careful planning and habits of course), which is why women should have children relatively young. Chill your shit. EDIT: how bad do you wish you had your pre-kids wife back? The extent to which that is true usually has more to do with wantin…
/r/askMRP08/03/19 05:36 PM
6

I've been charging your wife for sex this whole time. You mean you haven't been?
/r/askMRP07/03/19 08:04 PM
3

Permission denied. Here, eat this blue pill.
/r/askMRP07/03/19 08:02 PM
7

I'm not accepting charity sex. Moron. Charity sex is when you initiate and she reluctantly agrees so you'll go away and stop whining. She tried to initiate, you turned her down. /u/Persaeus, let's run a train. Right about now she's feeling rejected and would probably be up to make a porno with us.
/r/askMRP07/03/19 01:15 AM
6

The antidote to FOMO is to realize that EVERYTHING has an opportunity cost. Every time you go to a party, you're still missing out... on all the other things you might have done instead. What have you NOT been doing every time you "can't say no" to a party? Eventually those things will mean more to you and you won't be bothered to go to parties anymore.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 12:33 AM
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You're 26. The next 15 years are going to fly by. I promise you that by the time you're 40, you won't even remember the names of all the people you think are so awesome right now. Delete your social media, join an intramural sports league of some type, and get the fuck off the internet. Life is out there; go find it.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 12:30 AM
2

I think you should also consider that you have a girl. My son is about 6 months older than your daughter, and though he's a good boy, he's still pretty rancorous when he gets wound up. Boys need a different approach than girls. Isn't that what we're all about on here?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/19 05:41 PM
2

I dont know if I have never read a post of yours before or what. This is the guy who wrote the "Leadership is Gay" post of last week or so. You are a self absorbed fuck off, dress well because you do not give a fuck about your family or kid, confident until you peal back one layer of the onion, then your depression, baggage and overall shit outlook on life shows There's the unvarnished version of what I told him. I think I like your way better.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/19 06:04 PM
1

Ok, if not UK, then somewhere that speaks British English. Canada maybe? Either way, not important in the end. My comment on cultural disadvantage wasn't talking about slight cultural differences in social interaction and Game, but rather cultural disadvantage of societal outlook. Make sure you are not falling victim to the entitled, European outlook of work as evil and/or beneath your dignity. Yes, corporateland can be dumb, but it has its own symmetry and for what it is intended to do, it work…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/19 05:37 PM
1

Ok, I'm the one who gave you your flair. Glad you're embracing it. The reason I gave that flair is that you were projecting a cynical attitude that was simultaneously arrogant yet disingenuous (lack of congruency). It's like you were putting forth this jaded world view, yet were desperate for someone to prove you wrong talk you out of it. Your use of the word "pram" suggests UK. So you're at a cultural disadvantage to begin with, I suppose. Just something else to overcome. The bigger thing I see…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/19 04:26 PM
2

I genuinely find escapism genuinely rewarding Yes, you would not pick escapist activities that did not provide... escape. Pull your head out of your ass. Or don't... the end comes either way.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/19 04:25 PM
3

/u/SBIII has your number on this one, but I'll give you a little food for thought: what are you afraid of? Your post comes off as avoidant. The warhammer bullshit is escapist fantasy. Spending so much time on reddit is escapism. If you knew you were going to die today at 4pm, what would you be disappointed you didn't do? What would you spend the rest of your day doing? Try reading this. Guess what, it may not be today at 4pm, but it will be one day here, really soon. Sooner than you realize. Soo…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/19 03:13 PM
4

We've had a few Affleck moments. The names escape me, but we've mentored a lot of dudes through here who became Warlords and moved on. What keeps me coming back.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/19 05:05 AM
3

You're just getting used to the flow, Journeyman Moderator.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/19 02:08 AM
5

Subreddits would make a great study on organizational memory. How many of us have been more than 4 years? There are precious few left.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/19 08:59 PM
5

Seems like we've been here before...
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/19 08:41 PM
2

From the article you linked: Villechaize took pride in his success with women, and once said: 'I used to exploit my height and let them mother me until I realised I was robbing myself of my masculinity.' Game. Set. Match.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/19 06:43 PM
1

This is a great solution. Too bad he didn't think of it at the initial conversation stage or shortly thereafter. At this point the damage is done.
/r/askMRP01/03/19 05:16 PM
2

He's either bluffing and playing a game knowing things he does with Ben will get back to you and is using your own hamster to turn the thmbscrews, (which is pretty brilliant, actually) or, He is actually grooming Ben for your job. Thank you. I'm a little late to the party here but glad to see someone is seeing this for what it is. Figures it's you. /u/FoxShitNasty83: time to go. This guy does not have your best interest at heart. See McGill's post on firing the customer.
/r/askMRP01/03/19 05:14 PM
2

Looking forward to it!
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/19 04:32 PM
2

Yes, it is a disadvantage. The wise man focuses attention on his advantages, not his disadvantages.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/19 06:28 AM
5

There is a surprising amount of "whelp, you're fucked" in this essay, which must be the reason for the black pill lead-in. Usually the message is "the deck is stacked against you, Asian guys, but with some red pill learning you can help level the playing field." Before guys jump out the window because "women don't want to date Asians," we should recognize a couple things: US Asian women perhaps don't want Asian men, but US Asian women are basically US white women. They have the same socioeconomi…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/19 07:22 PM
3

Sometimes I think it's because of the relatively peacefulness of the past almost century. The destruction of our culture has been far more deliberate than "we've gone soft in complacency." But this is veering away from Rule 0, so let's stay on topic.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/19 05:16 PM
1

Read your update. Looks like a really big shitty comfort test. I suspect you are somewhat autistic in your "joking" so that she is taking you way too seriously about girlfriends or whatever. Make sure you've read the MRP Divorce Guide on the MRP sidebar. Just sayin'.
/r/askMRP27/02/19 06:44 PM
1

When I was abusing speed and molly I would take this to bump my depleted levels back up. That's what brought that stuff to fame! Terrible Tuesdays FTW!
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/19 02:14 AM
2

Basically, you don’t have free will. None of us do. Never really been a fan of yours, but I never felt compelled to shit on you either. But atomistic determinism twice in two days? What are the odds? If there is no free will, and we're all just slaves to genes, you'll forgive me if my genes make me ban you? My genes made me do it.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/19 01:58 AM
1

Like anything else, your behavior has to be congruent. I agree with the other posters that you should, in general, be fucking your wife. But if you wanted to take a week off to recalibrate I don't see that as a bad thing. It's all about how you come back to it that will matter. To wit: If you take a week off of initiating and then come back with the same whiny bullshit you've always done, then nothing is achieved. Her perception of your will be the same. Hell, your self-perception will be the sa…
/r/askMRP26/02/19 03:46 PM
6

Relying on porn is for betas. I can see you're rushing in to defend porn all over this thread. You like porn; cool. You're dropping context every time. Some may say not to watch porn ever, and that may be over the top I agree. But the main message here is for /u/SalesmanTurnedRed: porn is a way of evading reality, porn can become pathological really quickly, and for someone who is attempting to unplug, it should be avoided. So chill the fuck out.
/r/askMRP26/02/19 03:40 PM
2

I'm thinking /u/6TimesDown7TimesUp is simply advocating not masturbating to porn. I don't think he means visit the no fap subreddit. Or do you?
/r/askMRP26/02/19 03:31 PM
1

Yes, Mayor Game is the shit!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/19 07:00 AM
4

We've read all about you taking it, let's get a guide on giving.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/19 04:15 AM
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It doesn’t appear in the typical OYS thread because I’m in the middle of a six-month ban from MRP. Not that I can see. Either someone unbanned you or you have paranoid delusions...
/r/askMRP25/02/19 02:56 PM
1

You forgot an important one: cross fit does dumb shit and it's only a matter of time before you get injured doing it.
/r/askMRP25/02/19 02:29 PM
3

This is a fair criticism. /u/Slim-Pickins- : you should at least tie this back into RP. The implication is there, but let's see what you were thinking when you put this up.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/19 01:33 PM
7

Though technically, the whole universe is part of the same chain reaction and you and I could no more do other than we do than the earth could change its own orbit. Ah, atomistic determinism: physics raised to the level of religion. Been a while since I've seen anyone espouse this. The problem is it's self-limiting. If it's true, then SirYe has no free will himself, and can only wallow in his portion of the "chain reaction". Whatever he thinks is his mind does not exist, it's just an illusion cr…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/19 01:27 PM
3

A decidedly un-red nerd.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/19 08:06 PM
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I would actually ban this Eurofag, but given this is a throw-away troll account, I probably don't need to.
/r/askMRP22/02/19 10:22 PM
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185 cm = 6 ft. 6,06955 ft. = 185km 85 kg = 187 lbs. 187,393 lbs. = 85,003 kg It's your use of a comma instead of a decimal. And if we're such morons, why are you asking us what to do? Have fun losing all your shit in the divorce!
/r/askMRP22/02/19 10:18 PM
2

If he hasn't seen it already, the username mention I just did will bring him. No need to do anything further.
/r/askMRP22/02/19 08:37 PM
1

I think /u/broneilbro needed to see this whole chain of responses. He's maybe having a tough time. Hang in there Neil; as you can see, you're not the first to deal with these things.
/r/askMRP22/02/19 07:53 PM
1

Don't drop context on this guy. He's all the way at the bottom. I think it's ok for him to clean the car if he is setting an example and a standard. What he should not do is decide that he will just do it because his wife won't. Ass, gas, or grass, nobody rides for free.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/19 07:29 PM
1

Remember that the thread goes live every Tuesday. You have 4.5 days to make shit happen. Go!
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/19 06:35 PM
2

Under 12 parsecs will do it every time.
/r/askMRP22/02/19 05:38 PM
7

Thank you. I was laughing at his inability to trust people who keep secrets. Like secret real estate deals, for instance.
/r/askMRP22/02/19 04:38 PM
4

What fucking units are those? Nanoparsecs and atomic mass? WTF?
/r/askMRP22/02/19 04:34 PM
1

This week my plans are to buy gym clothes. Get a gym membership. Create a plan to lose weight and lift. You forgot an item: "Start lifting 5 mins. after gym membership acquired." For food, I will be attempting to cut off all junk lunches and start making healthy meals for work. Throw out all junk food in the house immediately. Make all your lunches for the week at one time on Sunday night. On the home front my goal is take ownership of my responsibility. To go shovel / deice the two inches of fr…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/19 08:20 PM
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I agree with the name change. You shouldn't punish yourself endlessly. Instead you need to forge a new identity and take control of yourself, FFS. Get a new name and post in OYS.
/r/askMRP21/02/19 04:58 PM
1

I saw your TRP post. The good news: we see your story all the time. The bad news: it's probably worse than you think. Head to /r/marriedredpill.
/r/askMRP20/02/19 09:52 PM
1

That helps a bit, I guess. Out of the house, like 18+?
/r/askMRP20/02/19 08:25 PM
2

Ok, there, was that so hard? You're both being too hard on yourself and not taking these issues seriously enough. That is a total circus you got yourself into. Pairing what you just wrote with your original post gives me a mental image of the Rainman self-flagellating: "Definitely frame-loss, definitely." smack! I have no experience with your situation. What I can tell you is that you need boundaries for all this. The kids need boundaries, your wife needs boundaries, you need boundaries. If she …
/r/askMRP20/02/19 08:20 PM
1

Context, it's everything. Context is the difference between you being a beta bitch and you being gaslit. Are you really fucking up or are you being too hard on yourself. I have no idea. You paint a picture of 98% unicorn, then offhandedly mention "difficult and emotional things." Maybe those things are dark and maybe you can't be blamed for losing some frame on them. Maybe they're like a late credit card bill and you're just a paper tiger. You don't want to get into it, that's cool. Like I said,…
/r/askMRP20/02/19 07:54 PM
1

These fights are few and far between are always about difficult and emotional things. So vague. Get into OYS and stop fucking around.
/r/askMRP20/02/19 07:46 PM
2

But, there is no substitute for a strong frame, which you don’t have yet. This is key. Either option would work if it's congruent.
/r/askMRP20/02/19 07:23 PM
1

You still didn't answer. What is so impressive? Her ability to fight dirty? Something else?
/r/askMRP20/02/19 07:18 PM
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How do you reconcile giving her support and abundance while killing the beta mentality and cultivating ones own mental point of origin? Your question has its own answer built in there, you just don't understand it yet. Motives matter, man. Are you needy and supplicating, or do you do what you want because it makes you happy? If you offer support and help it has to be because you derive value from the person you're helping (or reasonably expect to). There must be limits of course, because all lov…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/19 07:12 PM
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Again, you're not 100% wrong, but you might be missing the bigger picture, here. If she cheats, so what? Are you a man with options? More to the point, are you awesome enough she would not have any motivation to cheat? Even more to the point, are you awesome enough that she wouldn't dare RISK cheating for fear of losing you? File under OI.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/19 07:01 PM
3

Ok, guess you're fucked then.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/19 03:51 PM
4

Ok dude, here it is: she's already gone, because she wasn't yours, it was just your turn. Now that you know that, what will you do with her in the time you have left? Will you get weird and mate-guard and worry, or will you have a great time, keep your mission in the center of your frame, and enjoy her on your mutual terms? P.S. - next time you're balls deep and she tries to tell you you'll be late, try saying, "LOL".
/r/askMRP20/02/19 02:29 PM
4

7 months ago? No, like last week. Starky 2.0 here. Edit: notice all the same markers. Addiction. Gear. Anxiety. Obsessive over-compensation. A new archetype is emerging, that of the next-level Rambo. We should keep watching.
/r/askMRP20/02/19 02:25 PM
3

You've been downvoted for small-dicked paranoia, but you're not 100% wrong. It is implicit here that you either have the frame to leave her alone for short periods, or you'll have bigger problems then her trolling for strange while you're gone.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/19 02:17 PM
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Start riding motorcycles and you'll find plenty who want to wrench with you. Moto culture is all about wrenching to make things better (or more often wrenching just to keep jalopies running). Either way there is always someone who doesn't know what he's doing and would appreciate the help.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/19 02:14 PM
1

gold-pressed latinum Tool.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/19 02:10 PM
2

"If I get jacked/strong enough, <insert> will notice." That's actually kinda true. But without game 'n frame all she'll notice is a strong loser.
/r/askMRP19/02/19 05:25 PM
2

/u/Big_Daddy_PDX is right, but he could save some keystrokes by telling you to see the Divorce Guide on the MRP sidebar.
/r/askMRP19/02/19 05:22 PM
1

Welcome back. I think you missed the sarcastic aMRP post on V-Day.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/19 01:43 AM
1

Does Shock Trauma ICU nurse make it sound more dick-waveable? Not really. Give fewer fucks about your job title and more about your earnings. Own your male nurse identity, Focker.
/r/askMRP16/02/19 07:29 PM
2

Personally I would have nuked her. Not in an angry way, but in a way that makes clear that you don't negotiate with terrorists. If she wants to threaten your marriage over that, make sure she knows that she should be careful what she wishes for. Principle of Least Interest. Be less interested than she is.
/r/askMRP16/02/19 07:13 PM
1

Ready to STFU and learn And yet here you are, doing anything but STFU. I see now why people make fun of dentists.
/r/askMRP16/02/19 07:00 PM
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Go find all the MRP posts from /u/ex_addict_bro. Then hope I haven't summoned him here by saying his name out loud...
/r/askMRP15/02/19 05:51 AM
2

No, do it more, do it harder, do it with whipped cream.
/r/askMRP14/02/19 04:55 AM
2

$143? That could buy a lot of skittles, that's for sure.
/r/askMRP13/02/19 07:21 PM
2

Oh Jesus. Tell me it's not rusty...
/r/askMRP13/02/19 07:20 PM
2

"your" girl What's that old saw about turns, or some-such?
/r/askMRP13/02/19 02:19 AM
2

Bunch of BP fantasy land little bitches downvoting you. Have a +1 from me. However, this is advice starky isn't ready for. He's too busy getting his feelz off this whole episode.
/r/askMRP13/02/19 02:02 AM
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Oh, starky, where do we begin? This was a train wreck about to happen, but that's what you wanted, isn't it? Your other thread on askMRP from a few days ago shows that you are still an addict at heart. Here's the deal: by your own admission, you're an evasive fuck-up. Rather than dealing with reality, you indulge in fantasy and avoidance. Previously it was affairs, drugs, lying, etc. But like all good addicts, you found Jesus (or the red pill, or whatever else you latch onto) and got obsessed wi…
/r/askMRP13/02/19 01:57 AM
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Shutting this down now. Martin has got all the advice he needs. Everything else is just circle jerking.
/r/askMRP12/02/19 04:03 PM
1

To clarify, women are NOT allowed on r/MRP. We are more lenient here on r/askMRP, but barely.
/r/askMRP12/02/19 04:02 PM
1

Ok, Martin, slow your roll. I don't know if /u/ManguZa is a woman or not. At this point it doesn't really matter for two reasons: Women can post here so long as they don't give shitty blue pill advice. /u/ManguZa is actually giving you decent advice: decide what you want, tell your girl that, and let the chips fall where they may. You'd do well to listen.
/r/askMRP12/02/19 04:01 PM
2

Nicely stated. I wish more people would put forth some solid evidence for their opinions, especially when WNS prods them. Well done.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/19 03:53 PM
2

The karma people have seriously tell what stuff they write. I don't know what that means. I hope 1 of your 5 is some sort of cruiser then that allows you to carry passengers. If so, you're set. Then you just let this current one go and find a chick who has never been on a bike before. You'll be able to give her tingles she never knew she could get. P.S. - go get an S1000RR.
/r/askMRP11/02/19 03:52 PM
3

Now you're a mod for real.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/19 03:48 PM
2

I'm just going to put this out here. One of the reason you like this woman is because she rides a motorcycle, yeah? Bad call. Women who ride are always fucked up in the head for some reason. Makes sense on some level - riding motorcycles is a very masculine thing to do. What you want is a woman who will ride bitch with you all across Europe and back. Then you can have your holiday on your moto, you get to take a good looking accessory along, and she gets to get her thrills and feelz from being y…
/r/askMRP11/02/19 03:45 PM
1

OYS on the main MRP sub. Get in there and get to work.
/r/askMRP11/02/19 03:11 PM
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Where the shit doesn't fly and she just quietly respects me for the rest of my life. Dumbass. Shit-tests are either your notice that you suck, or they are flirting. The only way you won't get them is if she has no feelings about you at all -- good or bad.
/r/askMRP08/02/19 06:13 PM
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Nagging; Criticizing and shaming; Ever unhappy and not good enough Those are reactions to you being a shitty version of yourself. Drama and Theatrics; Don't tolerate that sort of behavior. If you allow it, you should not be surprised she does it. Especially if you indulge in it and it's how she gets her feelz off you. All sorts of shit and compliance tests Not a bug, a feature. The courtroom - where you are on trial and you must be guilty, or her ego might die. Here's the victim part WNS is talk…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/19 04:25 PM
5

STFU and listen Good plan, but here's a better one: STFU for now and get deep on our sidebar, particularly our wiki. We have material TRP does not.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/19 03:58 PM
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Yep, dump her ass.
/r/askMRP08/02/19 04:38 AM
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Your sex allotment will be "duty" at best under that scheme.
/r/askMRP07/02/19 10:35 PM
1

Oh, never co-sleep with the baby in bed. This is wise. This next bit needs some fixing though: It quickly becomes the norm and no woman wants to excuse for a woman to not have sex like a porn star. OP will find out soon enough if he got turned into the plowhorse.
/r/askMRP07/02/19 10:32 PM
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Just. Fuck. Your. Woman. If she's dry, buy some water-based lube. Stop giving so many fucks. What, are you like 20 or something?
/r/askMRP07/02/19 10:28 PM
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Yeah, talk moar. That always works.
/r/askMRP07/02/19 10:27 PM
4

Oh no, it's worse. Breast feeding releases oxytocin so she bonds with baby. She'll only have eyes for the little one as long as he's on the tit.
/r/askMRP07/02/19 10:26 PM
1

Moar co-moon-a-cate!
/r/askMRP07/02/19 12:38 AM
0

Those details you cite... yeah, that's context.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/19 12:25 AM
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You have to decide for yourself how long you're willing to wait. You might adjust that as you see her make progress or fail to. Do more of that "living my life as I want" you speak so highly of.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 07:04 PM
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You should go over to askMRP to understand the motivation for this post. If you think this guy is wrong, explain why.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 05:18 PM
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Context dropping is soooo much fun isn't it? You can make anything look contradictory if you just drop enough context! I think you need a little break. How does 90 sound? Note: User unbanned after adding some actual substance below.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 05:09 PM
4

"Nobody fucks with the Jesus!"
/r/askMRP06/02/19 04:02 PM
3

Agreed. He didn't handle it well.
/r/askMRP06/02/19 04:00 PM
13

Shit, you make me laugh, man. Carry on. A pharmaceutical cure for faggotry! Who knew? Time to shut down the sub and get some packages ready for delivery.
/r/askMRP06/02/19 03:34 PM
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I think the inconsistent "turns me off" in the middle of that was a fuck up and it should have read "doesn't turn me on". Also, I get the impression that his distaste for slutty public dressing isn't competition anxiety as much as it reveals something about the woman's character (attention-seeking thot).
/r/askMRP06/02/19 03:33 PM
5

The conflict is only guys who get it and those who don't. Pay attention to the advice about your process, not about your outcomes.
/r/askMRP06/02/19 03:28 PM
1

Thank you for owning that.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 12:56 AM
3

That’s something that individual practitioners of red pill philosophy forgets
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/19 03:45 PM
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I suggest you meditate and introspect for a few months and ask if this is the life you want, or is it that you are too afraid to try and achieve more? Reasonable suggestion. My diagnosis on this is that we have someone here who finally learned how to know what he wants and to go after it. If he is happy with what he has, who are we to tell him he's doing it wrong?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/19 03:44 PM
7

To be honest this place is exhausting with incels, spergs and dumb obtuse fucks who don’t want to put in the work. We should make you a mod so you can see how many there really are... When you finally do depart, please do not delete your posts or account, so your story lives on.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/19 03:41 PM
2

The sub thrives on people willing to trade notes. u/drty_pr has taken all the notes he needs and given all he can. No shame in that, no reason to get salty with him.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/19 03:40 PM
5

I was going to break this down, but there's too much. I'll cut to the end: Am I getting used here or what? You're failing shit tests left, right, and center. You're not owning your shit, you're not interesting and you're not creating an interesting life. Your wife is BEGGING for you to find your balls and be decisive. What is your mission in life? What are you working towards? Right now it sounds like her happiness is your goal. If that's true, you're fucked. You'll can't make anyone else happy …
/r/askMRP04/02/19 02:30 PM
1

This needs to go on r/AskMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/19 02:20 PM
4

But that's just like... my opinion... man. You did a Lebowski, I did a Lebowski.
/r/askMRP03/02/19 05:17 PM
4

Obviously you're not a golfer.
/r/askMRP03/02/19 03:58 PM
1

"sure, come right over and ill stop eating so I can do whatever stupid bullshit you decided was important 3 seconds ago because you didnt get attention from daddy?" Would be better than what you actually did.
/r/askMRP30/01/19 01:09 AM
1

she always morning showers or night Unless she showers in the afternoon, that is. You crack me up, guy. If you're real, she has you trained.
/r/askMRP30/01/19 01:07 AM
1

"your already too dominate" One of you is into S&M, clearly. That mis-use of "dominant" is only seen in S&M communities. So who is it? Are you quoting her or have you been spanking her? Beyond that, your problem, to the extent that you're real (and probably a Red Pill Coach client) is congruence. If being a dick were who you are you wouldn't be asking us. Instead, you're LARPing being in charge, and she is trying to get you to fold. You need to decide right now how you want it to be, and then do…
/r/askMRP30/01/19 01:05 AM
5

You get an internet point, I think you now slightly less retarded.
/r/askMRP30/01/19 12:40 AM
2

"Shit, I wasn't paying attention! Were they hot? Let's go back... I need a look!"
/r/askMRP22/01/19 01:34 AM
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This post is so floppy it's almost a starfish. Low value, retarded. Removing.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/19 01:32 AM
2

I hope that doesn’t completely disqualify me from posting on here. Yeah, sorry it does. Let me just end by saying: I’m incredibly impressed by the level of reflection, hard work, straight talk, camaraderie, discipline and self honesty that you all demonstrate. There goes that hypergamy again, huh? I hope you trust me when you say that we've seen this question and your situation before. We used to let it go and let people comment. I hope you'll also trust me when I tell you that the answers proba…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/19 06:59 AM
2

You nailed it. This whole post amounts to an attempted negation of objective reality and our ability to know it -- things that are axiomatic. If that is true, the post is self-refuting.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/19 02:46 PM
1

Based on your study of it would you agree that when the common person talks about 'logic' they do not fully understand it? Yes, especially you. Also, is it reasonable for men to conclude that men make greater use of logic than women? Yes. Is that what all this was about?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/19 02:44 PM
15

What the fuck is this? Superior culture? Adoption as cucking yourself? Here's what you do: Get an expensive vibrator, the kind that makes a woman's eyes roll back in her head. Get it on. Shoot your wad in her. Use vibrator on her until she cums. The contractions will make her uterus suck up your batter. Have second natural kid. You think in collectivist terms like a jackass. Or maybe your're LARPing. Also is the issue that willingly cucking myself will result in problems with the marriage just a…
/r/askMRP15/01/19 07:21 AM
2

Yeah, I remember seeing that name and thinking "WTF?" Faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/19 07:11 AM
6

Your mistake is the implicit assumption that the male and female reptiles respond to the same conditioning. Also that using behavioral psychology on the female is worth the effort. Also that you eat dicks.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/19 12:33 AM
11

Going to let this retardation stand so you can collect some negative internet points.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/19 12:22 AM
2

Oh? What was your original account name?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/19 12:20 AM
14

Thanks for the post, it should breed some good discussion. Well-written, as always. Riddle me this: how is this not Soft Dread repackaged with a side of "quit being such a subservient beta-bitch?" Not fawning over your woman with bullshit praise is NMMNG basics and the first step in realizing OI. Your positive reinforcement is too overt for my tastes and women are likely to see right through it. The positive reinforcement is your time and attention, just as when she rejects you the "punishment" …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/19 10:15 PM
8

What else can we do? You don't talk about Fight Club, but you do advocate. You ask questions and plant seeds that will lead other men to start doing some googling, and eventually they will land here.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/19 05:07 PM
2

This is pretty good. Throw in some tickling maybe, if she's into that (or better if she's not). If he gets "how dare you" from that then he's not letting on how bad his situation is.
/r/askMRP10/01/19 05:28 PM
8

This is the answer. What would OP do if his 3-year old daughter told him it was ok to have a cookie? He'd (hopefully) smile and pat her on the head and say, "Thank you, sweetie. That's very nice of you to offer." Wife says, "Don't forget to take out the trash," you wink and say, "Oh I got ALL the trash right here," or something similarly retarded, but in a flirty way. Taking that shit seriously gives it power.
/r/askMRP10/01/19 05:27 PM
2

This would be better suited to /r/askMRP, though you would get hammered there too. Start with this guide and then figure out how to view the sidebar. Everything you need to get started is there. You'll also want to post in the weekly "Own Your Shit" post here. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/19 08:07 AM
8

Here I thought this was going to be a post about how you're smashing married broads because you're Mr. Awesomesauce. Man, this went a different direction, huh?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/19 08:05 AM
1

More about the blood pressure meds, please. Did you reduce your body fat and then your BP went down? Did you snore before? How do you explain this?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/19 05:48 AM
1

Take it to askMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/19 03:00 PM
1

Yes. And? You can still visit the sub, you can still read the materials (linked from) there. Do you care what the snowflake Millenials who run Reddit have to say about the content there or do you care about the truth?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/19 05:25 PM
1

You need to go to /r/TheRedPill. Start with the sidebar there, then read our sidebar. (Hint: there is a lot of overlap, but TRP's sidebar is the foundation.)
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 11:56 PM
4

Yeah, the drink is getting largely ignored here. This guy needs to quit drinking and decide what he really wants instead of hiding behind it to abstain from choosing.
/r/askMRP02/01/19 11:53 PM
10

Just going to nail yourself to that cross, huh? Look, as has been said: If you can't do the time, don't do the crime. Plus: you didn't do anything except act the drunken fool. Why you drinking so much? Unhappy? Insecure? Work on those things and walk away from the drink for a bit. P.S. - Get a real username and get into OYS.
/r/askMRP02/01/19 04:52 PM
1

Get your ass into OYS.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 04:50 PM
4

This ought to be good.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/18 02:34 AM
2

Hit the sidebar. I'm betting WNS temp bans you for annoying him.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/18 02:00 AM
1

Jesus dude. Use old.reddit.com to be sure you can see the sidebar. There is a "Beginner's Guide to MRP" on there that will get you started.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/18 05:13 PM
3

We can't make you do anything. But if you want to make progress and not eventually run afoul of the mod team with your autism, OYS is a great idea.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/18 05:12 PM
3

My only comment to you would be to watch your OpSec. Make a dedicated TRP/MRP account so you don't give away too much about yourself. Can't be too careful, especially for guys your age living in this feminist shithole we call the West.
/r/askMRP29/11/18 06:08 PM
3

It's not an exclusive club. I'd never join a club that would have me as a member.
/r/askMRP29/11/18 06:05 PM
2

Interior Scene: FoxShitNasty83's wife enters a small, dark flat, suburban London. Fox is sitting at the kitchen table, absently eating cold cereal. Wife: I want a divorce. Fox: No! We're so good together, we can make it work, I'll change, please, anything! Wife: No, it's over. I haven't loved you for years, and I've found someone else. Now, FOX: fill in the rest of the script. Does it end with you being born from the ashes, courageous, ready to start a new life without doubt? Achieving what you …
/r/askMRP29/11/18 12:15 AM
3

This is why I let it go up in the first place: a warning to others that thar be monsters here.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/18 04:41 PM
26

Letting this go up so you can take your lumps. EDIT: Faggot didn't respond to a single comment before deleting his account. This is what a giant pussy looks like.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/18 05:13 PM
4

I'm good with it, but I tend to let things stand on their own merit unless they are total shit. This post is perhaps a bit light, but it is clear, to the point, and respects Rule 0. Good to go.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/18 09:38 AM
1

Take this to askMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 10:58 PM
2

But I also bought myself a new expensive pistol, FIRST. What type?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 10:07 PM
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I take u/Sepean's point; this isn't about Underwood and his motivations, it's about how guys on their ass watching Underwood aspire to that archetype, mistakenly taking it to be a model of how they should act to be a "real man." You can argue with his thesis, but it can stay either way.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 06:12 PM
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Hey everyone, look at Zormut! He ignored the message here and focused on the form, while simultaneously ignoring context! Three cheers for his edgy criticism! The Hero of Reddit has arrived at MRP!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 08:26 AM
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Congrats on the good news. We care about the guys who do the work and see the results. When they can cheat death it's so much sweeter. Carpe diem!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 08:22 AM
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You always have to read my bullshit with the right set of eyes. I very specifically said: We take pride in good field reports where guys have put the pieces together and rebuilt themselves. This is one of those and so much more.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 08:17 AM
2

This time around was the first time I truly felt prepared to leave the LTR... She's come around again for now... Fast forward a month, she's pregnant. Pregnancy trap, anyone? Not really enough detail here to be helpful. Do you cohabitate? I'm guessing yes from the feeding kittens thing. How are your finances handled? Who sets the agenda for your social life? I ask things like this because if you have a woman who thinks she's co-captain then you're fucked without some serious role redefinition. I…
/r/askMRP19/11/18 05:48 PM
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I think the ultimate issue is narcissistic injury, as Rian is fond of pointing out. These guys make some shitty comment that violates Rule 0, they get banned, then they just rage at us on DM because we don't see how special they are or how insightful and earth-shattering their pet theory is. Ironically, this very thread brought out a few more, which is wonderful. Guys talking about trying to gay rape me and whatnot. Things get ugly behind the scenes.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/18 05:30 PM
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The issue at play is not insults. It's the fact that some guys are too busy commenting lame shit to do the work. Or they want to come in and debate (read: argue with) RP in general. They get banned, cool. The trouble comes when they take to DM'ing the mods to demand an explanation and then throw a hissy fit when they don't like what they hear. Consider this a preemptive DGAF.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/18 02:25 AM
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Damn, caught again. EDIT: I've restored the comment above to use this as an example. This guy caught a ban and immediately threw a tantrum. It was hilarious to watch him validate this entire post in real time.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/18 04:04 AM
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Oh yeah? I don't care that you don't care that I don't care. So, yeah.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/18 04:04 AM
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Must have missed that when it was fresh, but yeah, same old tune.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/18 11:41 PM
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That one you linked put me over the edge, but it seems like three assholes a week like for the last month solid. Of course you would know, you ban them all.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/18 11:40 PM
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I know, right?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/18 11:39 PM
2

Excellent. A perfect moment of quiet reflection is one in which the set and setting conspire to provide the perspective needed to see the road ahead.
/r/askMRP16/11/18 08:02 PM
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It's not over until it's over. You're either moving forward or getting left behind...
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/18 06:51 PM
1

Starfish AF.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/18 04:08 AM
1

The fear is getting laid now. I am not prepared to "cheat" in my shitty relationship. You talk like a victim. Like getting laid is a thing that just happens to you and you can't do anything about it. If you are about to tell me something like "I can't trust myself," that's bullshit. If you feel like you can't trust yourself, that's because you are going into situations with premeditated intent and you're evading that fact. This is how women operate: in that grey, slushy "it just happened" zone o…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/18 06:22 PM
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r/leangains
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/18 06:11 PM
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I'm impressed. You have something I wish more would learn/cultivate: never let lack of money be an excuse for anything.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/18 01:34 AM
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Tyler's words coming out of my mouth. And I used to be such a nice guy...
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/18 01:31 AM
2

Glad someone gets it.
/r/askMRP13/11/18 07:27 AM
2

"Retarded" is a bit strong, don't you think? And to suggest I'm "telling him to drink" is disingenuous. One might argue that Neil here isn't the quiet reflective type. I could buy that. But if you don't see an avenue of masculine "self care" (you're still a bitch for saying that) in having a quiet drink on your own, you should probably reevaluate what you think you know about stoicism, masculinity, and virtue.
/r/askMRP13/11/18 07:02 AM
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so the second round of teething on our youngest has her reacting pretty angrily toward how much feeding and comfort he's needing from her. You sure about that? That's pretty fucked up if she is mad at a child for... developing. You sure she's not just tired, emotionally drained, or whatever feelz-related term she uses? You bringing the positive attitude and setting her moods? If you are indifferent or distant she'll go sour on you real quick.
/r/askMRP12/11/18 06:29 PM
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Self care Feminized psycho-babble. I'm not going to say he shouldn't look after himself and make sure he's solid, but terms matter. Bitches do "self care"; men drink bourbon in a quiet bar and reflect on what's next.
/r/askMRP12/11/18 06:20 PM
1

as incongruous as a French Bistro with a salsa bar I love that place though! No matter what I try to order they keep bringing me the same thing...
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/18 09:28 PM
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Take control. Tell her you're done fucking around, she had a chance, and she blew it. You decide what goes and what stays. Put shit where you want it. Per your description it's not like she can move the furniture back. If she protests you have to hold the line: this is how it is or you call the whole thing off and she can find a new place to live.
/r/askMRP08/11/18 09:24 PM
1

Begginer's Guide.
/r/askMRP08/11/18 09:08 PM
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We got a report on this post: "fake and gay". Seems like someone has some readin' to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/18 09:03 PM
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Ok, I'm out. This has gotten too weird.
/r/askMRP06/11/18 06:26 PM
1

Sorry, we only sell wieners in pairs, as you can see...
/r/askMRP06/11/18 08:35 AM
4

I think McAutist just admitted to having two dicks.
/r/askMRP01/11/18 07:49 AM
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Lazy shitbag This might in fact be my first OYS now that I think of it. I've been here since before we started it. I believe Stratagos set it up in 2014, or was that 2015? Anyway... Been a lazy piece of shit since about August. Kicking ass on career, but that's led to more traveling than I'm used to, which in turn broke my fitness rhythm. Then I just got to be lazy. I've worked out just enough to keep me from losing muscle/strength or getting fatter, but this shit has got to stop. Just parking a…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/18 05:17 AM
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But I nonetheless have both the authority, and the moral responsibility, to allocate my time and immediate priorities between my work, career, family, friends, and my own needs to best balance and accomplish my missions and purposes in life. You hear that all you fucktards? You all do; you all do.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/18 05:06 AM
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gone to see Infinity War when it came out. I did feel guilty about spending time by myself though. You need to read the famous book, "When I See Infinity War, I Feel Guilty." Oh, wait, never mind. That's not a thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/18 05:01 AM
2

The fatal flaw in hereditary power.
/r/askMRP01/11/18 04:48 AM
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You forgot Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore. Look, some guys have older woman fetishes. Some guys are super bluepill in spite of appearances. What we talk about here isn't a set of unbreakable rules. Exceptions don't break central tendency, they're just outliers. EDIT: Plus, celebrities live on another planet. They can't go out anywhere or meet "normal" people because people either want to be near them for their fame or want to use them for their money. This is why famous people tend to date each o…
/r/askMRP31/10/18 04:31 PM
1

Take questions like this to askMRP, please.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/18 06:47 AM
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Low effort, low value. Go to askMRP for shitty questions.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/18 06:46 AM
1

That's a lame internet thing: Fixed That For You.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/18 04:59 PM
2

Do yourself a favor: paint before you do flooring. Ask me how I know.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/18 06:56 PM
2

Yes, and just plain older than I am. From an outsider's perspective the 60's and 70's just look...weird.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/18 06:14 PM
1

As I've said before, living in a world where more guys are unplugged benefits me.
/r/askMRP25/10/18 06:10 PM
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Just for follow-up reading, here's how to operationalize all this to your advantage.
/r/askMRP25/10/18 04:55 PM
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She worry’s that I’m cheating or checking out of our relationship. I’m not. I’m not really sure how to respond to this honestly. Classic comfort test. You want to be sensitive to those, providing enough comfort to keep her invested, but not so much that you destroy any Dread you've built. Her: You're going to leave me for a younger woman. sniffle You [With your best Han Solo smirk]: I would only do that if my needs weren't being met at home. Now this requires frame, as the subtext is I'm the pri…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/18 04:49 PM
2

The things that are preached here was just a way of life for me growing up. I miss the '80s.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/18 04:36 PM
1

Well, you should listen to your lawyer. If she is brining thugs, murderers, crackheads and hard drugs into your house, there is more going on than "weed addiction." You do you.
/r/askMRP24/10/18 11:16 PM
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Might... fall Might... come Might... be Edit: Oh! I thought you were finding my omitted word. You're talking about your favorite movie, the one that always makes you cry? Got it!
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/18 09:35 PM
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Translation: "Only the things I think I know are true! If you don't do as I do, you are a fool! My pet version of MGTOW is the real one, and it's the real truth. Bow down and worship me cucks! There is no Dana, only Zuule! (And the banning of my MGTOW friend from your sub earlier today hurt my fee-fees so I'm here to raise hell.)"
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/18 09:34 PM
3

This is just sour grapes. User is MGTOW, now banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/18 09:22 PM
3

I know you understand the context. What you and that other guy were failing to do is say this: "Context is what matters."
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/18 09:20 PM
2

Consult with your lawyer on how to frame the bitch as endangering your children, then get sole custody. Is this that hard?
/r/askMRP24/10/18 09:04 PM
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That will be a great excuse to tell your kids when they're drug addicted and in jail, later. "Sorry guys, I would have put a stop to all that shit, but it didn't seem fair."
/r/askMRP24/10/18 06:20 PM
2

The word you're both looking for is CONTEXT. Get your ass trampled in a rough play in the NFL which busts you up? A tear might involuntary. Cry watching Titanic in the comfort of your home? You might be a bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/18 06:18 PM
1

No, you got it right; it's at the very end. Just thought it would be fun to force it into acronym.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/18 06:04 PM
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symps Hmmm... Sucker Yodeling at Mediocre Pussy?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/18 07:02 AM
1

See "Firing the Customer" in the MRP wiki. If you still don't get it put it in next week's OYS.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/18 03:55 AM
1

I feel your pain. Things like that (and general leftist shitbaggery) is why I stay far far away from the Academy.
/r/askMRP24/10/18 03:53 AM
1

Two weeks ago I told her I'm considering having another conversation How about just do, instead? Set the tone, set the expectation and let her hamster do the hard work for you. Less talking, more leading.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/18 10:12 PM
1

I have migrated into the area of problems I cannot fix. And it sucks. This is something I came to realize as I aged. Once you get good at solving/avoiding small problems and conflicts then the problems don't stop, they just get bigger, albeit less frequent.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/18 10:06 PM
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This is the place for discussion so I’ll get into a bit about talking about fight club. Do what you want, but ask yourself this first: why do you want to tell her about it? Virtue signaling? Guilt? So she has context? Women give zero fucks about any of that. They want you to do you and "just get it." You know why you like magic shows? Because you know it's all bullshit, but it looks real, and the fun is that you can't figure out how/why it works. You start telling her how the sausage is made and…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/18 09:50 PM
2

You remind me of Ken Giles back in May.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/18 09:47 PM
5

Also, here's a remedy for hemorrhoids you may not have heard of: don't laugh That's funny, but only because I read that and thought, "Really? Does laughing put that much strain on one's asshole?"
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/18 09:40 PM
1

Channeling my best Heath Ledger here: Why so serious? No really, why so serious? Why are you so wound up about cleanliness? Come on, tell us about your mom, you know you want to. Maybe it was dad? Did he whoop your ass if you left things messy? Does the order make you feel safe, in control? Why you do these things in the first place is way more important than coping mechanisms. You're wound up so tight I can hear the springs creaking through the internet.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/18 09:38 PM
1

She's totally an HB8 though, 9 with makeup!
/r/askMRP23/10/18 06:24 PM
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From her back to her belly, of course.
/r/askMRP23/10/18 06:15 PM
2

Goddamn it. I've talked to you about whole words. That's twice just today. Those short words are the starfish of individual replies. It also shows what a clusterfuck the inside of your mind is. Start typing whole words to show me (and yourself) that you can actually think in whole words.
/r/askMRP23/10/18 04:57 PM
2

Right? Should he go or should he stay? Flip you for it!
/r/askMRP23/10/18 04:55 PM
2

The issue here is the importance you place on being able to "spoil" your family. You say: I can't risk a failure So, if you don't spend a bunch of money on your family, you're a "failure"? At what exactly? Being a beta bucks? I get wanting to feel like you can provide for your family, and I get that having a Big Christmas seems like the way to show it, but 20 years from now your son won't remember his 15th Christmas and think, "Ah, yes. The year Dad finally splurged like a baller. I miss those d…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/18 04:32 PM
1

Shitty time to look. Not necessarily. Some companies are looking ahead to the new year and staffing needs for when their fiscal year changes. Keep looking and things will start to pop up.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/18 04:18 PM
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Congrats, OP, you special snowflake you! You put the least effort we've seen in quite a while! Fuck you. Read the sidebar, then decide if your weak ass can "fully embrace" anything at all. Until then, fuck off.
/r/askMRP22/10/18 02:22 PM
3

Had to remove this. Just too... feminine.
/r/askMRP19/10/18 04:17 AM
1

Good answer.
/r/askMRP18/10/18 12:18 AM
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