What am i doing wrong?

cholomite · 2019-03-20T21:18:08+00:00

Even a weekend away or spoiling her with cash or gifts gets minimal in return....

You can't negotiate desire. Your wife is not sexually attracted to you, and is actually physically repulsed at the thought of having to even touch such an inferior beta male.

What are you doing to make yourself less of a whiny pathetic bitch and into a confident attractive man?

SorcererKing · 2019-03-20T21:30:53+00:00

I hope you don't delete this post. If you decide to walk the path, one day you will cherish this post as an example of what a shell of a man you once were. You will feel the satisfaction of how far you've come from this low moment.

You need to start here. You have to be prepared to take the red pill, just like in the movie. Everything you think you know is about to blow up.

heronmarkedblade1984 · 2019-03-20T21:21:14+00:00

You need to hit that sidebar reading material like the hammer of Thor. Shes not interested in pleasing you because she has absolutely zero dread. I suggest you start with "The Mindful Attraction plan " it's less than 5 bucks for the digital version read that this week then come back here and we will help how we can.

FereallyRed · 2019-03-20T21:30:04+00:00

You're unattractive to her.

Is she right?

Would you fuck you?

Fix yourself. Good thing you're here. Sounds like you're a "nice guy" with covert contracts.

So "No More Mr Nice Guy" is the book you should start with. "Married man sex life primer" should also be near the top.

Start reading the sidebar on how to become an attractive man, especially SorcererKing's beginner guide and Steel's detailed guide on the main sub. Go read the "own your shit" weekly recurring post on the main sub too, it'll show you you're not alone and our expectations of any further posts from you in terms of content.

What you wrote above is called a victim puke. You get one of those because you're a newbie. Try another and the guys here will stick your head up your own ass.

Stay away from dead bedrooms....they fix feelings, not problems.

Good luck.

DownVoteForDickPic · 2019-03-20T21:31:43+00:00

Er hem... let’s ask better questions what did you stop doing right? Let’s count the differences.

You were novel and mysterious at one point. STFU and have your own life.

You wouldn’t have settled for one position of scheduled sex when you met. She was attracted to a man with standards and the courage to dump her for not meeting them.

Now onto the things we don’t know about you.

How’s your physical appearance? Are you as in shape as you were? Might she expect that you would become more fit as time went on? Women hit a wall, men are expected to progress deep into their 50s.

How’s your style? Are you as cool as you were when you met? Do you have more or less hobbies now? Again men are expected to progress, women get involved with men who work on themselves.

How’s your disposition? You sound whiney and affected. I would say you sound like a man who is butt hurt over a girl, and that’s probably not what she got involved with initially.

Raise your standards on yourself and others will follow... or they walk. Read the sidebar, lift, the usual starting points. It’ll take time to unfuck yourself.

helaughsinhidden · 2019-03-20T21:44:37+00:00

u/anonibah Welcome to the party. We all start out betas here and you're clearly no exception. You are NOT special, your problems are NOT unique, your wife is NOT a unicorn, you are NOT called to have such a shitty life. There ARE answers to your problems, but you have to do the work, read the materials, own up to your shit, LIFT, and of most important, be honest and humble.

Find the link provided by u/SorcererKing below. This is DAY 0 when you came out of the closet at a blue-pill munching beta male who is fed up taking what everyone else says you should do and getting nothing in return.

TRP8myfeels · 2019-03-20T21:59:52+00:00

It's cool that she can get off so fast and still does with you.

You say you ask for more sometimes and she jerks you off... Why don't you just jerk yourself off?

hystericalbonding · 2019-03-20T23:38:18+00:00

Tits or GTFO

johneyapocalypse · 2019-03-20T22:05:43+00:00

I'm waving a red flag at your bull.

Fraud.

Title	What am i doing wrong?
Author	anonibah
Upvotes	3
Comments	14
Date	March 20, 2019 8:14 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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