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I agree with all these points except the second, in Western culture flakiness is common and may not entirely be your fault. If it happens around half the time, then I think that’s something to investigate, but I do think it happens a moderate amount, especially when online dating comes into the mix
/r/seduction02/01/25 07:56 PM
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I suggest not going in having that goal in mind. Just have fun and enjoy your New Year’s Eve and everything will come naturally! And even if you are “alone” New Year’s Eve, you’ll be less disappointed because you didn’t set that goal for yourself
/r/seduction31/12/24 05:14 PM
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No, it’s not that. Whenever a user matches with you, they get a pop-up message on the screen. And then they’re given the option to confirm the match or not
/r/seduction30/12/24 09:36 PM
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Yep, I think it’s fairly new
/r/seduction30/12/24 04:30 PM
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I just use this as a filter to judge whether the person who matches with me is capable and willing to having a conversation with me. I feel like some people just match to match. It sounds illogical, but I just use this so I prioritize those who actually seem interested
/r/seduction30/12/24 04:07 PM
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I’m not sure early 20s women really think like that, well at least from the area I’m from. I’ve had women way more willing to meet up that soon in much larger cities I’ve visited. If anything, the times I’ve suggested a date that soon it’s intimidated them. If I’m suggesting a date that soon, they have to give off the impression they really like me. Most of these women are just now being exposed to mass male attention and can be easily scared. I kinda just monitor their interests based on their …
/r/seduction30/12/24 03:05 AM
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Something that takes in mind her interests and getting to know her more while showing off your personality. Honestly though, if someone postpones a date from me regardless of the reason, I immediately put them on a lower priority compared to other people im talking to. My best advice is to just say whatever’s in your mind and see what sticks, just make sure it’s not creepy or disrespectful
/r/seduction29/12/24 11:12 PM
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I hate to text, so generally maybe after 1-2 days of texting them consistently, I’ll probably just naturally slow down and text them 1-2 times a day; they never seem too bothered by it. However, I do make sure my responses are actually worthwhile and open the gateway up to further conversation, can’t be dry if you’re texting less. This isn’t really a forced strategy for me, I’m already like this with close ones and friends lmao
/r/seduction29/12/24 10:59 PM
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Simple dawg, just be comfortable with who you are and understand not everyone is going to be attracted to you. Work on yourself as much as you choose, and be realistic with expectations and your current looks. What is the reasoning behind putting so much power in what other thinks? That’s self-deprecating; choose how YOU want to live bro
/r/seduction21/12/24 08:24 AM
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“tell me ab you” is not a good conversation starter and does not separate you from all the other guys she matches with. Many women will see this as lazy. Say on something based off her actual profile. it can be a clever flirt or an actual question or comment.
/r/seduction21/12/24 05:10 AM
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No offense, but like, can we just get a self-conscious and honest woman to make this post instead of some guy? Not saying you’re wrong or right, but there’s more value to it
/r/seduction18/12/24 02:06 AM
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have more self-confidence is all i gotta say bro😂
/r/seduction14/12/24 05:31 PM
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I don’t even know what you expected from these comments dawg😭wrong sub to post in but this does give honest insight into how some women think, so it does serve some purpose
/r/seduction12/12/24 04:51 AM
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May need to change your settings so you can send me a chat request
/r/seduction06/12/24 06:23 AM
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If you need assistance dm me. I can show you successful chats I had, you’ll just have to give me a sec to exclude any personal info
/r/seduction06/12/24 06:14 AM
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If she told you she had to make up an excuse for it, doesn’t that basically mean lie? I think during your high school years, it’s common to sneak out the house to do things lol. That’s why college is such a relief. If she isn’t okay with lying, I recommend doing something at a football game or basketball game. Just walk around the school with her during the game and then make your move. Other than that, I don’t see anything happening if she’s not okay with lying.
/r/seduction06/12/24 01:09 AM
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Have her lie to her mom and say she needs to stay after school for a club for ~2hrs(doesn’t really work if she’s not involved). Then drive her to somewhere close, maybe like a restaurant or something. 4 years ago when I was in high school, taking someone to Wingstop or Chick Fil A would be completely fine. Y’all can eat for like 45 mins and do what y’all do for the rest of the time, good luck!
/r/seduction06/12/24 12:47 AM
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To me, if they have subpar hygiene, they’re probably below average looking already. Either that or they suffer from some injury/disability that doesn’t make them conventionally attractive
/r/seduction06/12/24 12:42 AM
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LOL for me anyone who has decent hygiene is at least a 5, so I’mma go with 5 as my lowest. No regrets though, still had a fun time
/r/seduction06/12/24 12:37 AM
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I’d ask about his hobbies, men and women’s humor are usually different, and 9/10, he may not read your humor as a sign on interest. All men have some sense of pride, so asking him about his hobbies will probably appeal to his pride and reveal your interest to him. I’d only start with the light playful flirting if you know that’s something you’re truly good at and it’s been well reciprocated in the past.
/r/seduction05/12/24 07:16 AM
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This is just basic communication, just answer him truthfully as to why you asked to meet with him, doesn’t have timo be deep. If he’s interested in getting back with you (which he probably is), it’s up to him to be a man and communicate that. If he doesn’t, don’t try to drag it out from him—just leave
/r/seduction04/12/24 04:50 PM
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For me, the limit is 3. There has to be some intimacy involved in these relationships to maintain them, and it is emotionally draining to further accommodate those needs. I’m also introverted, so it’s just socially draining meeting up with any more people without being given the time to recharge.
/r/seduction04/12/24 07:27 AM
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I honestly don’t feel much when someone rides me. But I know both me and my partners typically feel more when I pull her down as she’s on top of me and start thrusting upwards.
/r/seduction03/12/24 11:29 PM
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If you’ve been in a relationship with a woman (at least 1 year) I think you just naturally learn how to keep a woman interested. For example, it can’t just be fucking and dinner dates. Try to add some fun, interesting activities for you guys to do, all women somewhat enjoy an adventure. Hiking, going to a garden, etc. And this doesn’t just have to be with someone you want as a gf, can just be with fwbs as well
/r/seduction03/12/24 03:12 AM
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Just depends on the vibe. Some, only a handful of times every day. Others, once every 20 mins. Just gotta go off the energy. It’s probably easier to just live your own life and text when you feel is convenient
/r/seduction03/12/24 03:02 AM
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It sounds like you’re expecting sex on the first-date from high value women? That doesn’t make sense—women who are often sought after (more than usual) are usually aware how they’re generally perceived, and will act a bit more conservative and confident than your average woman. And in other cases, these women have relied on their looks most of their lives without having to develop a unique personality
/r/seduction03/12/24 01:02 AM
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Eh, I’d still recommend trying it out. I’m probably an 8 and get a good bit of women to hookup with from dating apps. I think Tinder is absolute dogshit, but the Hinge algorithm has benefited me greatly.
/r/seduction02/12/24 06:17 AM
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I heard Seattle isn’t the most ideal spot for picking up women, but my rule of thumb is if you’re good at picking up women in your hometown, you’ll do fine anywhere you go. My only advice is not to be too intimate with American women or you’ll come off a creep. Don’t compliment them right off the bat, say something pertaining to their interests. You can do cold approaches if you want, but I’d recommend using dating apps such as Tinder and Hinge to understand dating culture in Seattle and how you…
/r/seduction02/12/24 04:49 AM
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Both? Why?
/r/seduction01/12/24 10:14 PM
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I mean, if your interests are a relationship, honesty is the best policy. You don’t have to leas with your inexperience from the start, but disclose it naturally as it comes up in a conversation.
/r/seduction01/12/24 06:00 AM
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Speaking as a man, it’s usually the men who become complacent first
/r/seduction30/11/24 05:35 PM
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A quick solution that helped with me is staying in touch with the news, from world events to entertainment media, so there’s at least one topic of conversation you can pull out of your ass and talk about. A long term solution that helped me is being open to new experiences. Always be open to undergoing a new experience as it will shape you as a person and give you way more to talk about and show.
/r/seduction29/11/24 06:51 AM
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Make sure to post results when you’re done, good luck solider
/r/seduction29/11/24 01:42 AM
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Please don’t dawg😭
/r/seduction29/11/24 01:42 AM
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I’ve discovered that just by focusing on yourself and living your own life, you tend to attract plenty of women. Don’t focus on impressing her or making her jealous, live the way you want and the women will follow
/r/seduction28/11/24 08:49 PM
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OP, if two women did offer to go on a date with you, I’d be extremely careful. Very possible this may be a setup
/r/seduction26/11/24 04:08 PM
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No offense, but being in a fraternity is an automatic gateway toward the bedroom in college. I'm not in one myself, but I've observed even how the most unbearable and unattractive of guys can get action because they're in a fraternity. The combination of constant social events and alcohol usage heavily encourage hookup culture within Greek life. I would go to one of your guy friends that you trust and ask for cutthroat honest advice. Because none of us have observed your approaches, we can't giv…
/r/seduction25/11/24 06:39 PM
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Depends on the context, but in most cases, no. I’ve had plenty of make-outs at bars and clubs that didn’t amount to anything, didn’t even bother asking for their social media after lmao. In this case, I think this is something pursuing since she seemed attracted to you outside the club.
/r/seduction25/11/24 04:02 AM
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I agree. In today's world, for a woman to use a dating app in an attempt to find love, something has to be 'missing' from her current life. There has to be a major reason that they have not been able to find what they're looking for in real life, and that reason will be deflected onto you in some shape or form.
/r/seduction24/11/24 10:11 PM
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Eh, sometimes I ask for zodiac signs and tarot cards just to spark up conversation, I don’t act like I’m into it though. It’s way less pressure to just be your authentic self
/r/seduction24/11/24 03:20 AM
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I agree with this. Would also like to add it’s pretty common to get a fake ID at US colleges, especially the party schools. Should cost around 40-60$. Either that or use an upper classmen’s ID, most bars close to colleges won’t care too much
/r/seduction24/11/24 02:42 AM
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No offense, but judging from your post history, I don’t think looks are the issues—confidence is. And by confidence, I don’t mean the courage to cold-approach a random stranger. I mean becoming comfortable in your own looks and your own body. We can only alter our bodies so much, it’s important to love who we are as a person. The more you become self-secure, the easier it will be connecting with women, and heck, the more likely it is for women to flock to you.
/r/seduction23/11/24 09:46 PM
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may want to find a san francisco sub to ask this in(i would exclude the part about approaching women though)
/r/seduction22/11/24 07:08 AM
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With women like this, I find that usually convincing them to spend the night(sleep over) and showing them you’re harmless, secure, and respectful usually opens that door to the bedroom. I can go into how to “convince” them to sleep over, but it is pretty calculated lol
/r/seduction21/11/24 11:25 PM
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Isn’t it a bit different if they had added me on Instagram after and we had plans for a date? I doubt they’re doing that with hundreds of dudes
/r/seduction21/11/24 06:37 AM
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There’s not much to it to be honest, just be yourself, be respectful, and be communicative. There’s a good bit of young women willing to be just fwvs.
/r/seduction20/11/24 05:43 PM
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I’d say malls or commercial shopping centers are good ways to go, especially as we’re entering the holiday season and these places get more busy
/r/seduction20/11/24 07:51 AM
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Eh, don’t let the internet fool you, there’s plenty of opportunities to seek relationships. I believe most of the world is full of decent people just looking to spend the rest of their life with someone. Continue being your authentic self and eventually you’ll find someone who matches your interests. Don’t let rejection tear you down and force you into a shell, just be yourself and it’ll all work out. Sidenote: I wouldn’t recommend looking for these types of intimate relationships at a bar or cl…
/r/seduction20/11/24 05:40 AM
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One correction to your statement—they’re the easiest and most effective ways to meet women for attractive males. I’d test the dating apps out though, some men score big, the rest don’t. Just don’t let your online dating app experience define you regardless of the results.
/r/seduction19/11/24 04:27 AM
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I’d recommend making other plans for today. Something I’ve learned is to always keep options open, that’s the way it doesn’t sting as bad when someone flakes on you because you have something else set up the next day. If she does respond to you after the proposed time for your date, don’t stress. Keep things cordial with her and try to reschedule, just in case there is a chance to reschedule. I feel like this method only works with multiple women, as all your feelings and commitments are divided…
/r/seduction18/11/24 10:15 PM
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Depends on where you live, but I'd say your chances are slightly low. The only case I'd say your chances are higher is if you are either in college currently (because college, especially 'party schools' makes things like height and overall attractiveness go out the window) or a highly populated city (there's going to be at least a couple of people who are going to be attracted to you). Your photos may be trash, but right now I'd focus on getting back in the gym and experimenting with your fashio…
/r/seduction18/11/24 02:28 PM
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I disagree, I believe there’s still room for escalation at the end. I only recommended the car because that may be in a more private space than an arcade, and the woman may be self conscious about making out in public! I’m not saying you can escalate towards sex, but perhaps a makeout session.
/r/seduction16/11/24 02:14 PM
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Eh, maybe when you’re walking her back to the car and about to leave. Either that or photo booth
/r/seduction16/11/24 05:24 AM
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Just comment on something about their appearance or profile that’s unique. You want it either to be a compliment or a genuine question, or both. Something that actually sparks a decent conversation…then you can get into flirting
/r/seduction15/11/24 12:16 AM
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I’ve heard there’s just more competition due to the male-female ratio and the large wage disparity there
/r/seduction13/11/24 06:16 AM
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A sign that a woman is no longer interested is when she doesn’t set a specific time and date to meet in the future. She usually says something vague like “we’ll see” or “let me think about it” or makes up a bunch of excuses. Sorry bro, always make sure to keep options open and move on to the next!
/r/seduction12/11/24 05:42 AM
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I may stay clear of the reddit sub. It seems too sketch for me and I feel like the women in the sub are just men in disguise. my take is completely unfounded and lacks any evidence though lmao
/r/seduction12/11/24 02:03 AM
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How easy is it to rake in a few hookups during my time there?
/r/seduction12/11/24 01:12 AM
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Anyone got advice for san diego? Should be there in around a month
/r/seduction11/11/24 08:08 PM
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I mostly just used Tinder. Watched a few tutorial videos and scrolled through Reddit on how to properly manage your profile and everything just went off from there. I’m 6’0, black, and ripped. My luck could’ve mostly been attributed to my location. I live in a college town with women of low self-confidence and less attractive men with shitty personalities.
/r/seduction11/11/24 07:26 PM
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It’ll be difficult. She obviously doesn’t respect you since she cheated on you, so gaining her attention again will not be an easy task. You can try sliding back into her dms, but I’d honestly just try to find someone else
/r/seduction09/11/24 04:14 AM
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I’ll make sure to update you on my trip then
/r/seduction09/11/24 04:00 AM
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I never talk over the phone before, that’s too personal in my opinion. I do text though, and our texts is just a continuation of our conversation before. You can also talk about their interests, hobbies, etc. nothing too crazy. Id just be yourself too, it takes too much energy to put on a facade for this stuff lol
/r/seduction08/11/24 05:16 PM
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Give me reasoning please
/r/seduction08/11/24 08:02 AM
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I don’t know who this David Tian is, but if these services aren’t free, I would strongly recommend against paying for them, no matter how hopeless you believe you are. It just seems like a huge waste of money man
/r/seduction06/11/24 05:29 PM
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It could be either or. There are times where I’ve jumped into things and feel quickly overwhelmed, making me realize I’m not yet in the right state for a relationship. And admittedly, there’s been times I make up things to cut ties with others. Just depends, I wouldn’t look back on it though. Just find the next partner and keep it pushing
/r/seduction05/11/24 07:58 AM
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I agree with this. Some of the comments have understandable points,and some others just seem like they’re fully advocating for cold approach method lol
/r/seduction05/11/24 07:54 AM
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I think you’re missing the point. The earlier commenter was responding to one of the alternatives to cold-approaching, which was meeting through mutual friends. If you do have a large social circle, why not capitalize on that to find a partner?
/r/seduction05/11/24 07:53 AM
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And by social media approach, I meant connecting with someone through an app like facebook or Instagram. An approach I’ve only tried once, but I know many other men who do it
/r/seduction05/11/24 02:51 AM
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I go on dating apps or meet people through mutual friends. I always try to expand my social circle so there’s options available; however, I understand one’s ability to do this may depend on where they live
/r/seduction05/11/24 02:50 AM
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Then why can’t we push for forming basic social skills (such as making friends) before going into cold approaches
/r/seduction05/11/24 02:04 AM
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We're not working with much information here. Edit your post and elaborate on your current situation
/r/seduction05/11/24 01:22 AM
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This sounds cliche, but truly, be yourself. Just treat it as a conversation with your homies, except a bit more reserved. The more thought and worry you put into it, the harder it’s going to be to hold a conversation.
/r/seduction03/11/24 06:36 PM
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I guarantee you, most women like to be left alone while working out and will view this as a corny way to approach.
/r/seduction03/11/24 02:17 PM
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For you, I honestly recommend therapy over any dating coach. By venting out and being able to understand your emotions, you’ll be more enabled to interact with people in general, which sounds like you have trouble doing. As you pointed out, it’s not just your appearance thar deters people—it’s your personality. By opening up to a therapy, I think you’ll be able to get to the root of some of your negative traits and determine how you’d want to change them
/r/seduction03/11/24 01:58 PM
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Just text her something clever about the costume she was wearing, or some sort of conversation starter, anything but “hey, what’s up.” I’ll be honest OP, there’s a low chance she will respond. Many women will not text back someone they’ve danced on at a club, they’d prefer to just leave those as just drunken memories in the past
/r/seduction03/11/24 07:29 AM
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I’m never paying for dinner for a first date. Too much of a risky investment, it’s either coffee or movie night, just gotta read the vibe
/r/seduction22/10/24 05:41 PM
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How are messing with unattractive women an attack on integrity? genuinely asking
/r/seduction22/10/24 05:09 PM
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True to an extent, can’t fuck 20 straight 10s. I’ve messed with women who would be found generally unattractive and women who would be on the more attractive side. As long as the women I’m with don’t have any hygiene issues and somewhat take care of their bodies, I would pursue this just for the thrill of the hunt. I don’t think I’ve stooped down to 2s, but probably 5s occasionally
/r/seduction22/10/24 04:54 PM
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if you need input, im just a dm away
/r/seduction22/10/24 04:17 PM
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I don’t know why no one responded to this comment, but it was beautifully written and perfectly describes my situation
/r/seduction22/10/24 03:10 PM
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I understand. I did clarify that this post wasn’t meant to brag and is intended for a certain type of people
/r/seduction22/10/24 01:01 PM
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Doesn’t it help to hear the experience of those who have ruined their appetite before indulging in gluttony? At least you’ll understand how the food may taste and how to moderate it. This serves as only a warning from my experience; the comments have people who lived a similar lifestyle to me but ended up loving it
/r/seduction22/10/24 07:07 AM
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It’s a bit extensive but… -Match with woman off a dating app -Opener is usually something pertaining to her profile, not a pick up line -Within 2-3 days of texting, set up a date for the upcoming weekend. Depending on the individual it will either be a movie night at my place or at a boba tea cafe. Most of the time they’re fine just meeting at my place, so the following steps will follow when the woman is at my place -Date arrives, always start with a smile and a hug -Get them talking about them…
/r/seduction22/10/24 07:02 AM
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I honestly think I’m slowly rehabilitating from a sex addiction. For the past months sex has kind of been just like a daily task I would arrange a fit into my schedule. But I’m trying to separate myself from sex to give myself time to reflect and reconvene with my own identity
/r/seduction22/10/24 05:34 AM
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I agree with most of this! However, my warning is against excessive dating around. Once the men who are currently not receiving much attention from women do reach that higher level, I’d advise not to get too caught up in that ‘player’ lifestyle, or at least be able to identify and recognize their own limits.
/r/seduction22/10/24 05:31 AM
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I completely agree that some women are attracted to this approach—it shows you’re assertive and organized. From my experience, I’ve found that financially and career successful women who have many responsibilities and duties in their lives are fans of this direct approach. My question is, how do you leave it to them to make a replacement?
/r/seduction22/10/24 03:57 AM
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if i said “what time should I pick you up tomorrow” just to be ghosted, id be sickkk asf. also, i hardly am ever sexual to these women. i may give them a compliment but im not saying anything too ambitious
/r/seduction07/10/24 02:33 PM
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I’m not sure. I’ve had plenty of success with women of other cultures using the same approaches. I don’t understand what’s not clicking with Indian women
/r/seduction07/10/24 02:28 PM
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I just follow regular accounts—celebrities, friends, meme accounts, nothing too crazy. I do have a lot of recent followers from dating apps, but I don’t think it’s something these women would pick up on. My school is majority women so this isn’t out of the ordinary. Additionally, I have much more followers than these women and I’m not following an excessive amount of people. Also, I usually choose to add them on Instagram because if they’re gonna ghost me, I at least want a new follower out of i…
/r/seduction07/10/24 02:27 PM
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These are Indian American women. They’re still somewhat connected to their culture or family, but they themselves don’t seem conservative. They don’t seem to engage heavily in Indian traditions nor do their families. Each of them did seem to show a more than moderate amount of skin in their social media photos and listed “Short Term, Open to Long” in their bios. I can totally see and agree with the validation part though, but why go as far to add someone you know you’re gonna ghost to your perso…
/r/seduction07/10/24 02:21 PM
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Eh, it’s the specific manner in which I’m being ghosted specifically by Indian women though, it’s too consistent. If I am ghosted by a woman, it’s far before I’ve arranged a date with them. With Indian women, it’s after we’ve already talked for nearly a week and have already arranged plans to meet up. And there’s no indicators I’m about to get ghosted either, they seem very engaged in the conversation
/r/seduction07/10/24 02:16 PM
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I find it extremely ironic that their accounts all said “Short-term open to long.” I feel like it’s kind of misleading for them to put that in their profile lol
/r/seduction07/10/24 12:37 PM
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Lmaoo well if I’m being treated like this every time, it might encourage me to step off a bit
/r/seduction07/10/24 06:19 AM
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That’s the confusing part, it’s the exact same approach I take with other women, which I’ve been fairly successful at. I usually meet these women off of Hinge, talk for around a day on there, and then I chat with them on Instagram. We talk about our interests, hobbies, etc. then I ask them their favorite types of food. I use this as an opener to invite them out for coffee or boba (I live in a college town, everyone loves it) which they agree to. We set up a date and everything and continue to ta…
/r/seduction07/10/24 06:17 AM
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Also Tinder is huge is colleges. I don’t suggest using it your first year, but it can come in clutch in your later years of college, as upper classmen women are a bit harder to find in their later years when they go out a bit less.
/r/seduction06/10/24 06:11 PM
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Make as many friends as you possibly can. You’ll need a friend group to go to bars and parties with and having a friend group makes you appear more attractive to women, as or shows you are sociable. In those first few weeks of school, every freshman is open to making friends. Make sure you get your name out there simply by introducing yourself to the nearest stranger and striking a conversation. Clubs won’t start until a few weeks into school, and by then, cliques will have already formed. Many …
/r/seduction06/10/24 06:09 PM
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As a current college student, university is definitely different than high school, especially that first year of college. Many women coming in are under 3 different circumstances: 1. Lived a conservative life up until now, but open and actively willing to explore their sexual interests 2. Also lived an even harsher conservative life controlled completely by their caregivers, and now that they’ve been given a tiny taste of freedom they’re riding off that high for the first few semesters 3. Insecu…
/r/seduction06/10/24 05:10 PM
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Some people mentioned body language could be that, but it simply could be that you put more effort into your appearance compared to the average man. Many women I hookup with think I’m bisexual due to this very case. If this isn’t impeding your opportunity to get women, just ignore the comments and continue to ball out
/r/seduction05/10/24 12:42 PM
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My first point is you owe nothing to any of these women. As long as you aren’t in a relationship with one of them or agreed to stop talking to others, then you’re not ‘cheating’. Also consider the fact that you’ve only been on a single date with these women, and although they may seem heads over heels for you, they can just as easily be talking to someone else. Onto your main question, just tell the women something like “I fear I’ve came tk the realization that I’m too busy to talk to someone ri…
/r/seduction04/10/24 12:03 AM
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Great advice, what are your thoughts on using pickup lines as openers? I usually stray away from them and begin a conversation with something that relates to their dating app profile or a crafty joke
/r/seduction03/10/24 10:56 PM
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For the first friends you described, I’d keep them around. They’re the bros at the end of the day and they’ll probably be for you at your lowest points. For the second friends you described, I’d cut them off. From personal experience, these are very envious and dangerous people who will try to manipulate late you when you hit rock bottom and try to knock you down when your life is at its best.
/r/seduction22/09/24 12:33 AM
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If you go to a bar or a party, there’s probably a 50-60% chance they’ll just approach you if you’re as good looking as you say. That’s been my experience at least. I’m personally not a fan of the cold approach, I usually just meet people through mutual friends
/r/seduction17/09/24 03:54 PM
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No advice, just shared sentiment. That’s why I hate clubs, you can’t even have a clear convo without losing your voice. Most of the convo is carried by physical gestures, body language, and dancing
/r/seduction17/09/24 01:38 PM
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Idk if you were trying to develop an actual relationship or just hookup, but for something short term, I’d probably just try arranging to hookup on the first date. There’s so many factors (many of which are pretty stupid) that go into someone flaking, I’d just try to hookup as soon as possible
/r/seduction17/09/24 01:25 PM
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Even those with severe mental and disabilities have partners, I feel like there’s at least one human being that will find you attractive in this world. Now the case of becoming somewhat attractive to the public eye is a bit different. Some can do it, some can’t.
/r/seduction17/09/24 03:07 AM
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No idea how you look appearance wise, but it could be just that. You can’t change your height, but going to the gym and developing a fashion sense could help tremendously
/r/seduction16/09/24 11:12 PM
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If she allowed you to and gave you her number, I’m pretty sure she was fine with it. Kinda just have to use context clues
/r/seduction16/09/24 05:41 AM
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College hookups are generally pretty easy, I’d say just go for it and have fun
/r/seduction10/09/24 04:15 AM
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Bro you already got her into the bed💀it’s predictable enough that you guys are going to have sex. Also any physical contact works as a prelude (cuddling, hugging, etc.)
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:02 PM
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I’m a university student who lives in a college town, so it’s probably a bit easier for me than in other demographics. When I used to go to bars, it was in person and fairly easy—in fact sometimes I would be approached by women. But I don’t really go out anymore so it’s just through Tinder now
/r/seduction07/09/24 04:25 AM
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Don’t hold expectations too high and always have options, this way it’s harder to get too attached to a single person. Literally got ghosted on for a hookup that was supposed to happen 30 mins ago, but I’m just going to continue my day as usual and enjoy the other meet-ups I have tomorrow and Sunday
/r/seduction07/09/24 12:59 AM
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Same thing has happened to me, even had someone of them added on Instagram. I kind of find it weird people forget that easily. I don’t think women really look at our profiles that in depth lol
/r/seduction06/09/24 09:50 PM
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for reference most of my hookups are like an hour of talking before engaging in sex
/r/seduction06/09/24 03:53 AM
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Yes, that’s usually my strategy with other hookups that have less straightforward intentions of sex. Usually just hug when she walks in, watch a movie on the couch while talking, and gradually move closer to her until i put my arm around her. Soon after, I go for the kiss and it’s all said and done. I’m wondering how soon should I make a move on someone who seems very straightforward with their intentions
/r/seduction06/09/24 03:52 AM
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I’d say keep grinding in the gym. Also, I don’t know if college is in your post-high school plans, but a lot of college women are super horny so the confidence you’ve built up will go a long way. In addition to your physique, you can always make improvements to your fashion sense and skincare as well
/r/seduction05/09/24 11:45 PM
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