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5

One can never know for sure on this sub haha
/r/seduction31/03/26 12:29 PM
2

Bro you're so delusional it's unreal 🤣🤣
/r/seduction31/03/26 11:34 AM
4

If you're thinking of going all the way to another city abroad just because you can't get laid in YOUR OWN city I think you won't have much success anywhere.
/r/seduction10/07/25 12:54 PM
7

You can go to any gym right now and I bet that the most jacked and or healthy looking people aren't there with a personal trainer and most of them haven't even considered it, ever.
/r/seduction23/05/25 02:12 PM
38

Bro I think you're wasting money in a search for an easy way out. You can spend millions on coaches and boot camps but you won't learn to play the piano without playing it. Spend the money on improving your lifestyle as a whole - gym, proper nutrition, hygiene etc. - and I swear you will have better returns.
/r/seduction23/05/25 01:33 PM
1

Glory is fleeting but obscurity is forever.
/r/seduction03/04/25 09:23 PM
2

I would describe it as unnecessary in order keep pursuing something with her.
/r/seduction03/01/25 04:59 PM
20

Why do you want to get with a girl that your friend has been with in the first place?
/r/seduction13/11/24 08:59 PM
2

It seems like you aren't very experienced and exactly for this reason I'd recommend you to literally ask her "Hey I'd like to go out with you sometime, are you free this weekend?" She'll either agree which is positive or try to excuse herself out of it which is your no. That's how you learn what you can and can't do/ask. Trial and error.
/r/seduction03/11/24 02:41 AM
8

Forget the birthday stories and just ask her out. You're over complicating it
/r/seduction03/11/24 01:39 AM
12

You were doing the right thing but some people just need to come up to it by themselves. We've all been there, hesitant to even approach because we think everything is on the line and we can't afford to fuck it up, so we end up thinking about all the possibilities that can occur - if they say this I say that etc., but there's an infinite amount of ways an interaction could go so we get stuck in a loop. So whilst he was overthinking, which is his main mistake in the first place, you suddenly ask …
/r/seduction20/10/24 08:49 PM
-3

She ghosted you two times to do the exact same thing with some other dude and you brag how you made the most passionate sex ever and spat in each other's mouths 🤣🤣🤡
/r/seduction09/10/24 05:59 PM
6

What most people call fwb isn't fwb but rather a series of hookups. A fwb relationship develops after you have already established a decent friendship with said person and you come to the agreement that a bit of sex never hurt nobody, but there will be no strings attached. What you described is a situation where you probably met someone on a dating app, both agreed that you're looking for sex only and went at it. She doesn't feel like she owes you an explanation for not hooking up with you anymo…
/r/seduction07/10/24 11:50 AM
1

Well it's the easiest way to share a thought with somebody. It's simple but I'm not saying that it's easy, you still have to put in the work and become the guy that can pull this off.
/r/seduction04/10/24 03:06 PM
10

Very well put. Literally if you integrate into some group into a party, be perceived as an interesting and fun to be around guy, you'll have at least 1-2 girls want to talk to you or stick with you right after.
/r/seduction03/10/24 08:41 PM
6

Just have fun banter with whoever comes up for a drink. But don't get into closing while your working, eg. whilst making some girl a drink you start asking for her insta or number. Do that after the party ends or at least your shift is finished. Otherwise you'd get a couple of nos and those girls will start avoiding the bar because you're there.
/r/seduction03/10/24 03:45 PM
0

Hit up the other girl again. I have a feeling she might be digging you. It's a bit toxic though because if true, you might get them on bad terms and ruin their friendship.
/r/seduction02/10/24 08:11 PM
4

Delete tinder bro, it's a waste of time unless you're a gigachad and get like 20 matches a day
/r/seduction02/10/24 02:31 PM
106

Be funny but do not mistake that for being a jester and a fool. Your top priority isn't to make her laugh her ass off, you're not a comedian, but rather crack a joke or two or share a funny situation that happened to you recently. The key is to make her as well as yourself comfortable in the conversation and only afterwards you can move forwards with escalating.
/r/seduction01/10/24 03:11 PM
22

I have a feeling that in your attempt to avoid the hard stuff you're just searching for a clue that will allow you to just go up to the girl, say "Sex?", and make her go home with you and ride you. This doesn't exist! The only way you can tell is by flirting with her and seeing how she responds to you and even then it's not guaranteed. If you're looking for an ONS just make sure to be direct and not playing around and if she doesn't give in the tell her it was nice meeting her and go do some mor…
/r/seduction01/10/24 10:03 AM
8

Trust me you'll know, she'll literally give you THE LOOK. What you're describing as a great date isn't the same as her envisioning of a great date. You'll have many dates that you'll think have went great only to be hit with the "I didn't feel the spark" line.
/r/seduction27/09/24 03:23 PM
11

Sigma
/r/seduction27/09/24 03:20 PM
17

This. If she gets it you can tease her for watching a lot of porn. If she doesn't you can just move on with the convo. It's a shit test after all, she's not after the real answer but rather how you keep yourself together.
/r/seduction25/09/24 08:08 PM
34

Bro that's cringe
/r/seduction25/09/24 08:06 PM
2

Each person will REALLY like some fragrances so with some women you can get very lucky if you wear a specific cologne. But in general there is a huge difference between smelling like sweat and having good hygiene and smelling of something good.
/r/seduction08/09/24 07:48 PM
160

This is actually a very good way to put it. You don't have to be cursing off any guy that tries to talk to her but if she shuts him down and he keeps persisting that's when you step up.
/r/seduction02/09/24 03:00 PM
0

Become a gazillionaire
/r/seduction26/08/24 08:41 PM
0

Clubs bars etc. As I said, don't go there to approach women, go there to meet people in general, it will reap greater benefits in the future.
/r/seduction26/08/24 06:36 AM
-1

You go there to approach, normal people go there to have fun. Approaching/meeting girls is just a byproduct of that.
/r/seduction26/08/24 06:27 AM
-6

Ask her what happened first. If it was something important then it's okay, she asked to reschedule. If it's some dumb shit then go next.
/r/seduction25/08/24 07:42 PM
1

No the actual problem is that you're waiting for somebody to tell you some trick like jerking off only at 6:38 pm to boost your eye contact and not actually have to force yourself into uncomfortable situations. You have to actually do the thing to get better.
/r/seduction20/08/24 03:06 PM
1

By having eye contact, like wth is this question bro
/r/seduction20/08/24 02:58 PM
1

Shoot her a message a day before you can hang out or you can straight up call her. Maybe she's caught up in some own things etc. You don't wanna text buddy either way so I say so far so good.
/r/seduction19/08/24 07:48 PM
18

Deserved top comment
/r/seduction19/08/24 01:00 PM
23

Money in general allows you to do things and participate in different activities. It all boils down to having fun, but it gets really repetitive and boring when all you can afford is coffee dates or to take a walk somewhere.
/r/seduction19/08/24 09:44 AM
12

By focusing on your own stuff and building yourself. Wdym keeping her interested? She doesn't feel interested you find another one. You're not her entertainment.
/r/seduction06/08/24 02:39 PM
2

Good job, but I mean... where is the success in that?
/r/seduction05/08/24 05:45 AM
-4

Bro I pray to not have to daygame at 40 💀💀 Good luck to OP though!
/r/seduction31/07/24 02:15 PM
8

This. I was just looking for the words to describe it haha. I had the exact same trouble in the beginning. I thought I'd push them off if I tried anything "too early" so I did nothing. Then I realised they were going on a date not on a coffee with a friend so I used to go all in charming mode. It's really easy to look desperate this way, so I had to take it down a notch. By doing this, and constantly calibrating is how you get better.
/r/seduction29/07/24 07:50 PM
1

Don't know about the hiding part but it's push pull in general. Let's say you're flirting over text and she says something totally unhinged, you just reply with 😬😬 and see what happens.
/r/seduction22/07/24 02:35 PM
3

I think that both are you giving you a decent advice that they might have acquired with personal experience, but it's a bit misleading in a way that you need to actually understand what they mean by it. "You should text her after a day or two" - generally a very common advice but what it means is you should text her only when you've got some time for her - it's not your number one priority. You've been to a bar, you've probably come home late, slept till noon, then had something important to do …
/r/seduction22/07/24 02:17 PM
9

You're not escalating as well as you think you are. Physical stuff is good, like getting touchy with the girl, but you also need to get her in the mood for it. Push pull, make her work for it. Don't make it too obvious that you're in the bag 100 %, make her unsure. When you think about it that's exactly what she is saying. "I know you're into me and I've got you, but it's not mutual."
/r/seduction22/07/24 01:21 PM
1

Just go approach some group that's doing something, let's say playing volleyball or whatever. Like can i join you or whatever. Or just ask them are they local, that you're not from here and see what they would recommend. Just go talk to people!
/r/seduction22/07/24 01:16 PM
1

The same question would be how to know whether to stay on the date with a girl or excuse yourself/cut it shortly. Does she have the same interest into you as you do? Can you actually feel it from her, that she wants to stay? Then you can continue. But some girls do not deserve all this treatment. Some will stay just for the coffee. Some might join you even to go to another place. Some will go out with you just for the sake of having something to do on this day at that time. You can only find out…
/r/seduction19/07/24 09:45 PM
31

Sympathy pussy made me laugh lol. But it is true, I can even recall doing similar shit back in the days when I started and stuff wasn't going on with the girl. The best move now is to distance yourself a bit and try on with other girls to learn how to do this thing properly. I bet OP is going to have a chuckle followed by a facepalm in a couple of years when thinking about this situation haha.
/r/seduction19/07/24 08:19 PM
1

I got second hand embarrassment from reading that lol. As a man don't get to feel and look sad in front of women cause they reject you. You don't get to wait for an answer to a simple question from her, if she wanted or it has ever crossed her mind she would have said yes immediately. With women everything other than a yes is a no and even if you get a maybe that turns into a yes it's not something worth settling for. What I'd do tomorrow if I was you is I would excuse myself for my behaviour, t…
/r/seduction19/07/24 08:14 PM
13

No puss' for you bro. Better luck next time.
/r/seduction16/07/24 06:59 PM
3

I don't do a lot of the shit that I'm about to tell you because I don't like being told no between 50 other people but I know for sure that this is the right way. The most important step is to actually do the approach. You see a girl that you like or you think might like you because of IOIs - go and try to talk to her. For me personally the worst part about approaching is that the chicks most of the time are with a friend of theirs. If she was just by herself I wouldn't have a problem with it, b…
/r/seduction14/07/24 09:56 PM
15

The advantage of being on the bottom is that you can only go up. It's not late but you need to act now!
/r/seduction14/07/24 07:21 PM
4

I'm having a similar experience when I go out clubbing. Some friends have even told me that I'm charismatic, like when I walk in somewhere everybody looks, but I've never noticed or so I'm confused. And yeah girls do come dance next to you or perfectly in front of you if they like you, cause I've had success with some this way, but some immediately shut you off and I don't understand this part. Like she's following me around the dance floor and always appears to be precisely in front of me with …
/r/seduction14/07/24 02:01 PM
1

Your approach is definitely better. There are many steps to the game. If you're able to have a brief conversation with her and flirt a a bit then you definitely should! She'll get used to you and maybe a bit excited and then you can ask her for some contact details.
/r/seduction14/07/24 03:26 AM
3

You can, it depends on how she's responding and whether she has a lot of work, so that she can give you the time. As I said, you should try, see what happens and learn for next time. Only way to get better. Good luck bro!
/r/seduction13/07/24 04:30 PM
9

So you have a lot to learn, but this could be a good learning experience no matter the outcome. The most basic advice would be to just go up to her and tell her that you like her and would like to grab her ig. You won't be the first not the last person to have done it during her work so she might give it to you. Then you shoot your shot in the DMs and hope for the best. The most important thing is to not be a dick about it. Don't demand anything from her like you deserve it; be understandable if…
/r/seduction13/07/24 01:03 PM
17

Are you somewhat good with girls? Like do you have any previous experiences or are you starting from zero and want us to tell you how to seduce and sleep with a waitress?
/r/seduction13/07/24 12:50 PM
8

Have you ever met a person that you liked immediately? Not necessarily because of the way they look, but rather the way they carry themselves and interact with the world. That's a charismatic person.
/r/seduction12/07/24 11:54 AM
0

Well you've got a lot of work to do my man. Good luck!
/r/seduction10/07/24 08:29 PM
4

Excuses bro, I bet you're lacking in other more important aspects.
/r/seduction08/07/24 06:20 AM
12

Don't get too much into your head cause you can eventually self sabotage yourself. Don't take it too slowly though, I'd probably try to sleep with her already on the next date (also depends on what type of girl she is). If you really want to find out who it is you can just joke about it next time. Say: "I couldn't help but notice last time you showed me something; is it normal in your family to have photos of your relatives as your wallpaper on your phone" or something along the lines, this just…
/r/seduction08/07/24 06:18 AM
7

It's usually pretty easy to give advice based on the situation of someone else, but in that case idk what that means. 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction03/07/24 07:15 PM
27

I second this answer! You can't approach a man to woman situation logically, you have to get to her emotionally. You might be able to pick up the pieces from time to time and make some logic out of it, but most of the times such situations occur because she felt like it. That's it! You can only FULLY understand this when it happens to you. You can meet some new girl or make some new friend, hang out with them a bit, and suddenly you find yourself not wanting to go out with them and searching for…
/r/seduction02/07/24 01:08 PM
0

Just tell her bro, be it 3 or 30. Keep it real and don't lie about this stuff.
/r/seduction26/06/24 02:13 PM
18

Probably this, but as someone else mentioned it could be that she's seen you on the train station waiting and constantly checking her out, then the same on the train etc., and that's creepy.
/r/seduction19/05/24 08:21 PM
5

So you decided to go out solo and spent an hour in the mall looking confused af?? I see the initiative but you're putting effort in the wrong direction. Are you generally good with girls? Do you know how to talk to people and carry a conversation carelessly? Being able to approach a girl and talk to her are two very separate things that you'll need to get good at. You can't do one without the other and if you approach her and you can't small talk it's going to be awkward as hell and you may even…
/r/seduction15/05/24 09:59 PM
-2

Ask her if she wants to be in a music video with you, improvise for a message or two with some bs and then start getting to know her/move to ig/set up a date
/r/seduction15/05/24 07:12 PM
18

Wdym try too hard? He did everything right in my books. He did the approach for both of them, something that 90 % won't do or find some excuse to do so, analysed the situation and handled it accordingly. There's nothing wrong with a woman not jumping on your dick straight away, in fact those are the girls that you do want to go for!
/r/seduction12/05/24 05:06 PM
15

Sometimes you get the short end of the stick lol
/r/seduction12/05/24 04:58 PM
2

Anti depressants are generally making you more sedated and literally suck the life out of you, so good thing you're off that shit and back on track. As to the main point of your post, it all has to be learned by personal experience. We can give you all the tips under the Sun, but you have to actually try it and do the thing to learn it. So shoot them a message, ask them out for a coffee, have fun with them. You're gonna fuck up from time to time, but you will soon enough learn from your mistakes…
/r/seduction06/05/24 09:15 AM
2

Normally, receiving a text like this will make any guy think something's fishy
/r/seduction06/05/24 08:53 AM
2

There is someone else in the picture and she's giving him priority. Entertain other girls and if she comes back at some point you can give it another shot/have something casual with her, but personally I wouldn't take her seriously ever again.
/r/seduction03/05/24 02:12 PM
2

She's just using a phrase lol, you're overthinking it. Also, to answer your question, are you a guy worth impressing? To really help you grasp what I mean by that let's say you are supposed to meet Margot Robbie and your local Walmart cashier for a coffee. You see how for one you'd be on your absolute best game to have the best chance at winning her over, as for the other one it doesn't have to be this way.
/r/seduction02/05/24 09:54 AM
2

The whole point of the comment went completely above your head... Some women do not want to date guys that are even 5 years older than them, let alone 14, and on the other hand there are people that don't see it as a problem. That's why I wouldn't label it purely as a shit test that needs to be passed but rather as a logical question about something that might be a dealbreaker.
/r/seduction02/05/24 09:46 AM
38

It's not a shit test, it's a genuine concern and an important factor knowing if the other person is older/younger and by how much. You're almost twice the age of these girls. And given the fact that most people really start living and experiencing life after 17-18 years of age you have ten times more life experience than them. Just see which girls vibe with it and which do not and don't give it a second thought.
/r/seduction01/05/24 07:36 PM
3

That's the beauty of life, you ether learn or you die trying 🙂
/r/seduction30/04/24 08:23 PM
1

Well yeah, if you've suggested it 4 hours in and it's already 1 am. Doesn't matter. Shoot her a message as I said, NOW! 😄
/r/seduction30/04/24 06:13 PM
23

Y'all both sound inexperienced af but for her it's negligible, whilst you will have to learn from your mistake and accept he role of being the one that has to make the right moves most of the time. That night you sat all night and just talked you could have just went like let's watch something, prepare some snacks and when it's all ready just sit next to her and hug her straight away. It's that simple! You just learn what you can and can't do with experience. Definitely meet her again, shoot her…
/r/seduction30/04/24 06:00 PM
2

Yes there are, but it's rare. Most of them go with a friend or a couple of friends because it's safer, but that doesn't mean you can't get a lay with them. You just need to play your cards right and show their friend that you're not some weirdo and she's safe going home with you.
/r/seduction27/04/24 02:35 PM
1

Just one of the many local dive bars. The one advantage it has above all the other is that many foreigners that are here on Erasmus go there, so there are always new people with amazing stories to meet. My first day I went solo I was just sitting at the bar, sipping on my beer for 3 hours straight until I got enough liquid confidence in me to go to the dance floor. I saw that it's nothing to be afraid of, it was exactly the opposite - extremely fun, so I kept doing it. There you meet some people…
/r/seduction26/04/24 10:45 AM
3

You should really change your attitude to Yes and HELL YES! At least that's what did it for me. I started going out to clubs solo 2 years ago and it completely changed my life. Met so many people, made a ton of friends and wrote so many stories.
/r/seduction25/04/24 07:04 PM
7

Your height was not that important in that case. Now don't get me wrong, a tall guy can have the same attraction effect as a well endowed woman, but you understand that that's not everything that you look for. You also need to be dressed nicely, well spoken and seemingly outgoing to be approached out of the blue like that, and you being introverted most definitely lack that. GOOD NEWS for you, apart from the height, which we already concluded isn't everything, it can all be learned. Be it by tri…
/r/seduction22/04/24 03:31 PM
1

What do you mean by that?
/r/seduction22/04/24 07:18 AM
1

There may not be a specific advice, a step by step guide to how to achieve success, but I see this post as more of an invite to give some thought on the topic. Is there something that's holding me back? Some belief that's no longer true. I'm saying this because I've recently come to the same realisation and it's been very eye opening for me.
/r/seduction21/04/24 12:36 PM
2

Depends on the distance. From far away, catching a girl constantly looking at you and making eye contact repeatedly may indicate interest, or it may not. In any way it's worth to try and approach. But for the love of God, from close distance you can tell when a girl is giving you THE eyes. Like, I don't know how to describe it, it's just a gut feeling. There is something so feminine about it, primal. This combined with that little mischievous smirk that they do and you know you've won the lotter…
/r/seduction16/04/24 10:08 PM
25

Everybody goes there for the same reason under the pretext of "having fun", so you're good
/r/seduction15/04/24 03:47 PM
0

I didn't even really read all of what you wrote to give you the answer. It's because you don't behave congruently as a straight guy would even in obvious situations. You're probably looking decent enough as well so the only probable conclusion that they can come to is that you're gay. Be more ballsy!
/r/seduction14/04/24 06:53 PM
2

It's really not that big of a deal, but there is no possible way you can FULLY comprehend it unless you've experienced it before. As in first lay, does that mean that you're a virgin?
/r/seduction13/04/24 09:16 AM
4

Having nothing to lose is true, so you should definitely take advantage of it. As I've been there before, we all have, I can tell you you're going to struggle with getting into the conversation in the first place, especially if you don't have good conversational skills. On the beach try joining some group that's participating in some activity, for example you see 5 girls playing beach volleyball. THE BEST opening line for any foreigner abroad is "Do you speak English?" That's it! No matter the a…
/r/seduction13/04/24 09:00 AM
13

Have you done it before? Do you have GREAT conversational skills? If yes, then go for it! But if your depiction of approaching is going up to a girl and straight up asking for a number or socials then you're in for a bad time.
/r/seduction13/04/24 08:09 AM
2

Bro ain't starting Xd
/r/seduction12/04/24 09:02 AM
1

For me a sexual relationship with a girl starts... well, sexually; or it gets sexual soon enough. How do yours go? Do you try to escalate at some point or are you just talking about Taylor Swift?
/r/seduction08/04/24 06:04 PM
1

Bruv you are overcomplicating and why do you even play such games in the first place? Message her if she wants to grab a coffee, if she agrees to it the give her a place and time to be and go from there. Making yourself seem more valuable and busy artificially by ghosting people is a scummy thing to do and once they catch up on it, which they will sooner or later, it's game over for you.
/r/seduction07/04/24 06:59 PM
1

You make it sound like an obvious situation. If she would have just stopped interacting with us that would be blatantly obvious, but the fact that she still kept coming to us, teasingly bumping into us and dancing with us one on one and so on. I would have closed her right there and then but I was with a friend I haven't seen in a while and decided to make something out of it for all. She they would have been both gone either way after one pulled the other away so I had to improvise.
/r/seduction06/04/24 09:31 PM
1

The beginning was fine, escalation isn't a problem for me as I was holding both by the ass by the 5th minute while having them close to me. I even asked the second one if she's feeling it there haha. I got the ig of her friend at least so that's fine. As for the white knights I don't want to be fighting 5 people over a girl I don't even know just because she's playing some games.
/r/seduction06/04/24 05:43 PM
1

Not saying it's normal but it must have some reasoning. Luckily not all are like that lol
/r/seduction06/04/24 05:22 PM
2

No that's not the case. She was pretty sober. Normally I wouldn't care but it's the second time something like that has happened to me.
/r/seduction06/04/24 05:14 PM
2

This. You're over complicating it.
/r/seduction05/04/24 07:46 AM
1

Well you already know what you should be doing!! Pop You know that you should be working out every day. You know that you should be trying to make more money - be it by increasing your value on the the market or starting some hustle on the side. But no, "today I'm tired, I'll surely start tomorrow".
/r/seduction25/03/24 02:43 PM
25

Don't seem needy and actually BECOME the prize! Like WTF is this question even about? Y'all are literally looking for every material, tip and trick under the Sun just so you don't have to do the god damn thing.
/r/seduction25/03/24 01:29 PM
2

"It's an evil world we live in"
/r/seduction18/03/24 07:52 PM
2

You tell me haha. Although I do have a theory... When at the bar I noticed that her wallpaper on her phone was her with some guy hugging each other. I specifically called her out on it and she said that it's a friend of her and he's gay. I suspect that it might have actually been her boyfriend, to which she also said she has none, and the guilt might have suddenly gotten to her.
/r/seduction18/03/24 07:06 PM
1

For me it was similar this weekend. I met this girl and her friend, danced with both of them and then I snatched her to dance with her solo. Her friend made sure that we stay together before she leaves and even asked her if we were also going together to which she replied that we'll stay a bit longer. She proceeded to buy me some drinks and she covered my whole face and neck with dark red lipstick (I looked like a vampire lol) and I thought it's going all well until she suddenly disappeared with…
/r/seduction18/03/24 03:50 PM
5

What are bedroom eyes? Lol Apart from that, good job man. I think you should have finished what you started though, now you've left her empty handed and she's gonna go crazy over you haha.
/r/seduction18/03/24 02:22 PM
3

This. Don't settle for mediocrity. Find other stuff to do and women to entertain while she makes up her mind. And if she doesn't then good, at least you didn't waste any time. Don't go into any relationship being exclusive straight from the get go!
/r/seduction18/03/24 12:55 AM
2

No, we were in our early twenties. As for the realization part, maybe they do subconsciously, but I don't think it crosses any of their minds when they do it. Girls just wanna have fun.
/r/seduction15/03/24 02:56 PM
2

I'd say move on. Maybe she DOES want to take things slowly. Maybe she's not playing games. Or maybe not. You can't know for sure. What you do know for sure is that you can never be truly satisfied while having to accommodate to someone else's needs by forcing yourself to slow down to go their speed. YOU should be your priority and the whole point of dating is finding someone who is on the same boat as you and matches your needs. I've been in the exact same situation before. Met this girl on OLD,…
/r/seduction15/03/24 02:05 PM
2

There is no problem of having a conversation with a girl and finding out something about her, your problem is that you most certainly keep it 100 % logical, like you would talk to one of the boys for example. There is nothing wrong about asking her where she's from but maybe put a little spin on it. Instead of asking: "Where are you from" then reacting just with "Oh, cool" and moving on to the next topic, respond with: "Oh, I've been there once, but I didn't really like it. But if you were there…
/r/seduction15/03/24 01:37 PM
1

You probably over text them and your text game is trash. Texting a lot before a date is not a bad thing per say, but you probably find yourself in the trap of having a plain logical conversation with her and it can get boring real quick. I always try to get them on the date ASAP and if she gives me shit like you described I just go to the next girl. No one is THAT busy, so unless she is going on a vacation in Egypt with her parents I don't take it. My interactions with girls that I land a date w…
/r/seduction13/03/24 03:19 PM
1

Just put them on the side and focus on other girls and soon you will have both Jane AND Jill on your dick. And if not then whatever, there wasn't any action anyways. Don't be a dickhead about it though!
/r/seduction11/03/24 11:12 AM
3

Congrats on having the confidence to do an approach in the first place but that's a terrible way to do it. Just have a chat with the girl next time, get to know her a bit first and then go for it like: "let's grab a coffee sometimes" or something. She'll get the hint and she'll either say yes or will softly reject you.
/r/seduction08/03/24 02:03 PM
7

There is no best way or this one SECRET trick that will help you, you just need experience in order to learn to be more detached. In my opinion she just used you for attention and had no intention of really meeting you, or maybe she did initially but once she knew she has you in the bag you became less interesting. You can only guess, and there is nothing bad about that. If you really approached the situation with your purest intention then she is missing out. Now move on!
/r/seduction04/03/24 10:54 AM
11

Idk if you're doing something wrong but IMO the whole point of doing a short term relationship is that you don't wait 5 dates to get frisky. In this case she wants something serious out of it and is keeping her value, which is obviously a good sign, but in your scenario you might be just wasting each others time. Don't pressure her into anything but don't be afraid to move on. It's better to call it quits now than spent another 2 platonic months with her and then have her leave leaving you empty…
/r/seduction04/03/24 06:28 AM
2

Define successful. You're worried about losing momentum while you're gone, but I honestly think that texting her the whole time you're away will do you more bad than good. The best thing to do to send the fwb vibe to her is to do the exact opposite! Enjoy your trip, post some awesome stories from it on ig and if she reacts to one of them maybe have a brief chat. Or all of a sudden send her some photo of you doing something on the trip so she feels special, then go off the grid for a while. Make …
/r/seduction02/03/24 08:49 AM
3

Are you meeting to study or do you BOTH actually call it a study date? Also always go for the hug, I've not had one girl so far say no to it and it establishes physical contact early on.
/r/seduction01/03/24 03:24 PM
1

Never thought of it like this but it makes sense. Thanks!
/r/seduction22/02/24 07:32 AM
10

Good stuff bro. Keep it up! How do YOU specifically start a conversation out of the blue like that? Just wondering.
/r/seduction15/02/24 05:18 PM
19

Depends on what you're aiming for. If you're looking for something long term then go with your flow, given that you actually know how to escalate when presented with an opportunity. I think everybody starts where you're at currently. I've personally been on both ends. I was told I was too friendly so I completely flipped and then began hearing that I'm moving too fast. Yes I was getting results but I wasn't seen as a long term material. So in conclusion it really depends on the woman you're deal…
/r/seduction15/02/24 06:58 AM
2

There's some truth to that. There are some models which are able to pursue a modelling career because they look good with a slight adjustment to their photos. But there are also women who look just as good IRL. I'll never forget this girl I saw in a club in Malaga in Spain. She walked in the club with some friends who were all visibly very successful. I'm talking wearing Rolexes, all designer clothes, very fit etc. To this day this is the most perfect woman I've ever seen. She had everything! Ed…
/r/seduction14/02/24 09:47 PM
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You probably come off as boring or text her in a way most guys aren't. It's not usually a problem if you're very attractive but otherwise you have to be a bit more original. Don't over text her. Don't send her long paragraphs where you ramble on some topic. Every single one of your message should be leading into the next one or into meeting up. Eg. "OMG, that's crazy!" "What?" "We're so hot and we haven't met yet. We need to fix that!" Just have fun with it.
/r/seduction12/02/24 09:55 PM
1

I'm in a similar situation but I know that I'm not ugly (cliché, I know). I rarely see girls showing me any signs whatsoever or looking at me at all but friends have repeatedly told me that I get a lot of attention and I have some sort of special charisma when in a public setting or out clubbing. Idk what to do with it 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction12/02/24 10:51 AM
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If they want it, they will let you know. A girl I met at a bar kept mentioning that all her roommates left town and left her all alone. You know how that ends. Sometimes you just need to be in the right place at the right time.
/r/seduction29/10/22 10:41 PM
2

In simple words: you are probably too afraid that you will fuck something up and for that reason you are scared to take risks like flirting with her, teasing her, initiating physical contact etc. All in all, it's something you just learn with time and practice. I'd recommend that you check out Todd V on YouTube and some of his videos on the topic. Good luck!
/r/seduction23/10/22 11:14 PM
5

You can hear all the advice in the world and you still won't change unless you decide to take action. Many guys here think and hope subconsciously that if they do all the things you mentioned women would start approaching them and do all the work for them. That's simply not the case! You did want advice though, so here is my take: You want something to happen between you and that girl but are afraid to go talk to her? Get your shit together and take control of your life!
/r/seduction22/09/22 08:06 PM
6

This is it. I've spent a lot of time on here, but all of the progress was made out in the real world by taking action.
/r/seduction22/09/22 07:57 PM
1

Well, I'd used the phrase “I’d love to see you again” two times and both times received good feedback from them with the girls saying they too would like to go out again some other time but never message me unless I reach out to them first and afterward it's 0 % success rate so far haha. Although, in my situation, I think I'm making the mistake of leaving the ball in their court by telling them to text me when they are free and then chasing them again by messaging them after a while.
/r/seduction19/09/22 09:41 PM
1

Yeah, I learned a while ago not to say “I’d love to see you again” Is that something you should never say to a girl after a date? I'm confused.
/r/seduction19/09/22 09:32 PM
3

Bro, your whole analysis with the message lengths and the fact that you are fishing for a "Happy birthday" tells me that you are focusing on the wrong things. Why do you even text her that much? Just ask her out and secure a date, you don't have to be her text buddy. Also, the fact that you text that much says that you try to escalate over text and not in person, which I wouldn't recommend. Take all of what I said with a grain of salt though, I am also in the process of figuring things out, but …
/r/seduction17/09/22 02:42 PM
1

As many as you need to get your game on point
/r/seduction27/08/22 06:35 PM
1

Don't get her flowers lol. You MUST greet her with a hug though, it never fails and that's how you will start slowly escalating physically, which in your situation is one of the main objectives for you on the date, another one is to get to know her better, which at this point I assume you do to some extent.
/r/seduction26/08/22 04:07 PM
1

I'm re-reading old posts of mine and read your comment again. Is not kissing on the first date that big of a deal? Why is that?
/r/seduction24/08/22 07:40 PM
2

You just have terrible pictures, that's all
/r/seduction24/08/22 01:19 PM
3

You are somewhat right about the trust part, but in my opinion there many things that are more important than being misterious in order to attract a girl and the way you phrased it made it sound like you can rely on it which just isn't true.
/r/seduction24/08/22 01:19 PM
183

Bro don't give a fuck imo, it's your profile so post stuff that is relevant to you. It's YOUR STORY after all.
/r/seduction24/08/22 12:40 AM
4

Giving off answers like you don't give a fuck to someone is one of the farthest things from politeness I can think of. You do you.
/r/seduction14/08/22 07:07 PM
2

If there is the slightest possibility of her not knowing who is messaging her then be sure to tell her. Something like: "Hey, it's Mike from ..., what's up?"
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:56 PM
13

Not really the best way. Just be direct and sincere
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:54 PM
2

Unless one of you has to go then I don't see the point of cutting it off like that. If the conversation is going well then see the whole interaction as an instant date. Get to know her, see if you vibe together and the rest is up to you.
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:10 PM
1

Bro don't overthink it, just say "Hi what's up" and go from there. Of course, you need to have a cool vibe to keep her interest, but if you need to think of openers and search advice from others just to get her attention then that's not the girl for you. Good luck
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:01 PM
1

There are opportunities everywhere, the more experience you have the better you are at spotting them. Give someone a compliment on the bar, ask them what they're drinking for example but dont ask too many questions(rather make statements and assumptions). Kill it on the dance floor, join some group there. If you've got good energy everybody will want to associate with you.
/r/seduction12/08/22 03:32 PM
21

For me, nothing beats going to the club on a Friday night and I don't see why you need a friend to go tbh. It's fun as hell going solo and you meet new people unless you decide to stay in one corner and drink all night.
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:55 AM
7

Man you've bored the fuck out of her. Hit her up one more time and ask her out, if it works out, great, if it doesn't then go next.
/r/seduction31/07/22 03:32 PM
1

There's literally no difference sometimes between the two
/r/seduction31/07/22 05:16 AM
2

He was just a dude I befriended earlier that night. I need to learn to act faster and with intent, that's also what my friends tell me all the time.
/r/seduction31/07/22 05:12 AM
6

These are the dumbest phrases you can use as an opener in a club or a bar or anywhere really IMO
/r/seduction30/07/22 10:45 AM
1

What does a more subtle IOI look like?
/r/seduction24/07/22 02:24 AM
1

In the context that she is in her early twenties, you can jokingly ask her whether she is married or single.
/r/seduction22/07/22 07:02 PM
6

This might not resonate with all the wanna be PUAs here but the most genuine thing you can do is simply reply to texts when you have the time. The "don't text her for 2 hours blah blah" thing has only one purpose and that's to make the other person wonder what you're doing instead of replying to them. If you have to simulate and pretend being busy I think you have a far greater problem on your hands.
/r/seduction18/07/22 07:21 AM
3

I think that when it comes to dancing, especially in night clubs, the skill that you need to learn is not giving a fuck about what other people think.
/r/seduction16/07/22 12:44 AM
2

Not to offend you but I think people say stuff like this when they try to cope with the fact that they are too afraid to get out of their comfort zone. Just do it. How do you think I started? Grabbed myself by the balls and went out alone one night. Now it might not be smooth in the beginning but you gotta keep pushing yourself into uncomfortable situations. That's when you make real progress and looking at it realistically, only good things come out of it. Good luck bro!
/r/seduction16/07/22 12:42 AM
4

This! Photos are everything when it comes to OLD. If you are good-looking and athletic but don't have any luck on the apps then the club is your best friend.
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:44 PM
3

Although I've never done it, I'd also suggest some kind of "hard restart" after an interaction like this. Don't ignore her but don't give her any attention or validation for the next one or two weeks and then go at it again.
/r/seduction07/07/22 07:02 PM
1

You probably aren't playful enough and take it too seriously. Try to have more fun with it and see where it goes(this applies for almost every conversation).
/r/seduction06/07/22 10:19 PM
2

There's this movie called "She's out of my league" that depicts just what you said. I recommend watching it.
/r/seduction28/06/22 10:14 AM
2

I'll need to get used to it. Thanks for the responses!
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:56 PM
1

As I'm fairly new to all of this, I think that I'll feel like a dick if I started talking to other women while also talking to and wanting to date her. Although I definitely can, I think it will get very complicated very quickly. How do I deal with that?
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:49 PM
1

That's not really the case but I see where you're coming from. Only Thursday works for me this week and she is abroad until next week.
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:39 PM
1

I'mma have to try that then. I'm also from central Europe
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:13 PM
1

Well, I'mma have to come up with something then! I guess sending something random from my meme folder isn't going to do the job haha. Thanks for the response!
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:10 PM
1

To be honest, I don't think any of them would work during daygame since I've noticed that people are more open to such stuff during the night, but I'm not speaking from much experience. I'm still learning myself.
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:04 PM
4

I love the opening, but the whole call me daddy and you are too old thingy, idk man.
/r/seduction21/06/22 08:52 PM
2

Some of the things that you mention aren't really doable in the situations I find myself in but I get what you're trying to say. I guess what I need to do is act earlier, maybe I'm waiting for too long and I end up missing my chance. Only one way to find out! Thanks for the response
/r/seduction19/06/22 09:00 PM
2

I'm actively working on the first two things and so far I've figured out that physical attractiveness isn't a problem for me. What I need to get better at is my social skills, and the only way is through grinding and not shying away from social interactions. Also, what do you mean by inviting her to do something?
/r/seduction19/06/22 05:16 PM
1

That's a very good question! We are just dancing so what am even expecting, for her to propose to me on the dance floor haha? I guess I'll need to figure out how to get some one-on-one time with the girl or something like that and see if we click, but that's gonna need a little bit of experimenting from my side. Thanks for the response!
/r/seduction19/06/22 01:58 PM
1

I've never asked a girl to leave with me and only go in for the kiss when I'm sure she is into the whole thing as well. As much as I want to I try not to rush it because I don't wanna be seen as needy.
/r/seduction19/06/22 01:54 PM
2

I think it's reasonable to assume that someone who has danced with me for 2 hours, completely rejected 3 guys' advances in front of me, and made out with me half of the time is interested. But I agree with you to some extent, it's the first time that a girl doesn't look me in the eyes when she's with me.
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:37 PM
4

Well, chances are that I'm not seeing her again since I didn't ask her for any contact, but that's a mistake on my part. I'll do better next time!
/r/seduction12/06/22 10:12 PM
2

Yeah probably misunderstood you, English is not my native language. If that's the case, this is a massive confidence boost for me.
/r/seduction12/06/22 10:02 PM
1

I don't like to think that I was intimidating to her in any way. This has been going on for two hours probably and I can definitely say that we had a great time dancing since she always came back for more.
/r/seduction12/06/22 09:54 PM
2

Well, there's your answer. Expand that circle and you will see improvement.
/r/seduction02/06/22 08:21 PM
1

I meant to say how big it is? Do you know many people, and by know, I mean how often you hang out with them, etc. The most socially successful people I know tend to know everybody everywhere, and I guess they just snowball from there. I've recently come to the realization of how important networking actually is.
/r/seduction02/06/22 07:28 PM
1

What does your social circle look like? Status is very important
/r/seduction02/06/22 07:22 PM
3

I don't think it's that much about knowing what to talk about, but knowing how to talk and go through a conversation. You shouldn't be bombarding them with questions but rather make some statements here and there on what they have said, share personal experiences, etc. Richard LaRuina has a great video about it and many more on the topic of seduction.
/r/seduction31/05/22 10:10 PM
1

This
/r/seduction29/05/22 03:48 PM
1

I haven't messaged her in 2 weeks, that's why I'm confused.
/r/seduction28/05/22 09:37 PM
1

I agree with you to some extent. I probably need to focus on having more options rather than focusing on one girl that wants me to chase her.
/r/seduction28/05/22 08:24 PM
3

I am someone that doesn't have a huge social circle, at least where I'm living currently. Going out alone is something I started doing recently, and I agree with what you're saying. I've only seen benefits from doing that. Also, nobody gives a flying fuck about you being out alone or not. As long as you are having fun whilst meeting new people you are good to go.
/r/seduction26/05/22 10:02 PM
1

When it comes to signs, the ones that are most easy to see for me are that girls literally come and start hanging around me or dance in my proximity, and they make it very obvious. I sometimes check to make sure before I do anything by going to the other side of the dance floor and soon enough I see the same faces all around me again. Now, most of the time if ever I'm not trying to constantly search for signals and stuff and just try to enjoy myself to the music, so maybe that's what attracts th…
/r/seduction14/05/22 11:17 PM
1

Not doing the grinding from the back approach already increases your chances significantly.
/r/seduction14/05/22 11:31 AM
2

I replied to a similar post a couple of hours ago so I'm gonna dump my reply here. I started going out alone like two months ago and similarly to you, it took me a while to convince myself to do it. The first night I actually went out alone ended up being one of my best nights out right off the bat. The best part out of all of this for me is the fact that you are "forced" to go talk to someone and make a connection (shit, you don't even have to speak to them, you see someone on the dance floor w…
/r/seduction14/05/22 11:09 AM
2

Oh man, you can't imagine how long I've been waiting to share my experience with clubbing solo with someone and hopefully teach them something I've learned along the way. I started going out alone like two months ago and similarly to you, it took me a while to convince myself to do it. The first night I actually went out alone ended up being one of my best nights out right off the bat. The best part out of all of this for me is the fact that you are "forced" to go talk to someone and make a conn…
/r/seduction14/05/22 09:57 AM
1

Personally I wouldn't even mention it, just go at it normally.
/r/seduction13/05/22 12:11 AM
6

Don't fake confidence, or atleast when it comes to body language. What I mean by that is, don't walk around like Connor McGregor as if you owned the place when you don't have the inner confidence to even say hi to a girl or anyone at all. It's only gonna hurt your game, at least that's what I'm noticing with me.
/r/seduction21/03/22 08:46 AM
2

The more confidence you radiate, the more women will expect you to do the first move. Good point! Never thought of it that way.
/r/seduction18/03/22 03:57 PM
1

I think this is what I needed to hear. Thanks mate!
/r/seduction10/03/22 05:46 PM
4

Haha, got it ;)
/r/seduction09/03/22 10:24 PM
3

What about approaching a group of girls outside, and does it matter if there is a boy or two with them?
/r/seduction09/03/22 10:08 PM
3

Well, it's not as if they are walking with rankings above their heads but I get what you mean. But why wouldn't I want to game the one that I think is the prettiest, why would I go for the second option?
/r/seduction09/03/22 10:06 PM
1

Thanks, man, yeah I've read a couple of them. Hopefully, I'll manage to pull some of the stuff you do someday.
/r/seduction07/03/22 08:36 PM
2

You do sound very passive though, like girls are supposed to approach you or something. Not how it works bro. And anyway girls are probs showing you attention, you just wouldn’t know because it can be subtle and you’re too inexperienced to notice. I believe I'm having the same problem. What are some signs that girls give that say "Approach me!"?
/r/seduction06/03/22 06:13 PM
1

This. Yesterday I went out clubbing alone for the first time, and I must say that I had more fun than any of the times I've been there before with my friends. Definitely going to do it again in the near future!
/r/seduction06/03/22 05:45 PM
1

The kissing part sounds kinda unnatural but it might be because I don't have enough experience haha. Thanks for the response!
/r/seduction05/03/22 03:41 PM
27

Semi-bad advice imo. You don't want to start escalating things in the middle of the ride with the possibility of her rejecting you. Maybe ask her out for a coffee or some shit after you drop her off and see where it goes.
/r/seduction01/03/22 10:49 AM
2

Wow, really?
/r/seduction01/01/22 07:43 PM
1

Enjoying the event is top priority. The problem is that we are celebrating with different people and that's why I'm thinking about choosing this way to approach.
/r/seduction31/12/21 03:07 AM
2

You've got my attention. Can you help me find anything about it?
/r/seduction01/12/21 11:08 PM
10

Then perhaps you need to change something.
/r/seduction19/11/21 08:36 PM
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