Spam approaching?

norwegiandoggo · 2024-10-03T20:00:53+00:00

Ruin your reputation? Brother, you will be expelled from the school for harassing women. You'll be known as the desperate college campus creeper. Women will not touch you with a ten foot pole.

This is not the way. The way to game at school is social circle game. Which is based off social status and reputation. Approaching this many women ruins your reputation. Slow it down and approach maybe 2-3 women per social event / party. And keep it friendly until you spot some signs of interest. Once they seem interested in chatting with you - get their contact info or escalate somewhere private

burningpetroleum · 2024-10-03T20:49:46+00:00

Go ahead and get suspended, people here have been kicked out of stores for doing the same thing. It's harmless to approach but women make a big deal out of anything

Fearless_Isopod_3562 · 2024-10-04T00:32:25+00:00

If you wanna spam approach, go do it at a different university or downtown if you’re in a big city so it doesn’t affect your reputation.

thehidingplaces · 2024-10-04T09:09:35+00:00

47,000 is HUGE dude... that's a small city. Don't worry too much about reputation. Just worry about doing it tastefully

CharmingRejector · 2024-10-03T21:12:10+00:00

You do decidedly not want to get known as the guy doing cold approaches at campus.

With that said, I still did a lot of approaching in Uni, but I kept it to venues where it was socially acceptable and kind of expected that you'd be a bit forward. So student pubs, clubs and parties, and stuff like that. Other than that I would just socialize as normal in my own groups or classes. I mean getting to know people is usually not considered the same as approaching, tho otoh you will often find out if someone is into you by simply being normal and sociable. Like that one girl will want to talk to you more, perhaps she'll touch you a bit more, or just stay closer to you in general. That's the kind of girl you ask, "Hey, so wanna go mini golfing later this week?" Or something else dumb but enjoyable like that.

With that said, once you do get into those venues where it's socially acceptable to be more forward, then ofc use the game that is field tested and you know that works. Tho most beginners don't know that, so... Better to do the actual testing somewhere where it's socially safer and more incognito.

Confident_R817 · 2024-10-04T14:55:11+00:00

No, I think it comes down to being more sociable. Be as social as possible. Talk to everyone men & women. Move the conversation quickly from what they’re studying to something personal/fun. Are there women whose paths you come across often? Approach them in social environments (NOT the library).

As others have said, approaching at parties and using social networks is awesome.

What helped me was having people over at my dorm after an internship. Hooked up with one girl whose friend rejected me (lol), and im fairly sure I hooked up with another girl who was hovering around.

MrAnonPoster · 2024-10-03T20:19:38+00:00

A) you dont have a reputation so dont worry about it

B) you will probably become sloppy so one of 8-9s you approach tells her jock boyfriend about your indiscretion and you will end needing a very expensive dental surgery

ratfooshi · 2024-10-03T19:45:44+00:00

"Will this ruin my reputation?"

If you want your reputation to be a passive introvert who never takes risks, wants to be alone forever, and cares about what other people think, then yes.

You approaching those people will ruin your chances of becoming a lint-licking lopsided repulsive loser thunder fuck.

How should you do it?

Don't think about it too hard. Once you catch eyes, go.

What you say doesn't matter nearly as much as how you say it and how it makes them feel.

Now go out there and talk to all 47,000 of those people.

Cause 1% will be obsessed with you.

That's 470 admirers.

SnooMachines1406 · 2024-10-04T12:50:04+00:00

I dont think it will ruin your reputation but to be fair i was commuter so i had no reputation. I say go ahead as long as its socially calbriated women meet so many men it doesnt matter. All that matters is being respectful and getting your approach numbers up.

Affectionate-Ant4888 · 2024-10-06T21:31:29+00:00

do you go to UNiversity of Arizona lol, pretty huge campus, mine also has aprox 50k but south america, thinking on doing the same lmao, but this post has some interesting insights

Title	Spam approaching?
Author	SnowNormal
Upvotes	9
Comments	31
Date	October 3, 2024 7:36 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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