Need Tinder advice

MO_drps_knwldg · 2024-03-13T14:47:13+00:00

An important thing to remember is women, even average ones, are absolutely flooded with options on Tinder and other apps. Flaking just doesn’t happen to you.

That being said, you first need to maximize your profile. Make sure your pictures are all high quality, you’re demonstrating an attractive persona. If you’re not happy with your photos, spending a few hundred on a photographer is a good investment if you’re serious about having an active dating life.

Secondly, be playful and flirtatious in your messaging without being lustful or creepy. Don’t have just straightforward conversation ie “How are you?” Open with complimenting her vibe or energy. Get some light banter going to know each other at very surface level, then mention you have to get going for the night and then mention a place and day and you’d like to take her there see where it goes from there.

Love_JWZ · 2024-03-13T16:38:18+00:00

I never ask for numbers. I always give mine. Preferably after establishing you’ll be meeting irl.

TRTGymBro · 2024-03-13T15:47:46+00:00

Talking stage?

topsy_here · 2024-03-13T18:48:53+00:00

Correct. don't over text. Say some funny shi, ask some good intriguing questions. Don't take it too seriously. Then ask them to meet up for a date

unswunghero · 2024-03-13T15:11:04+00:00

Go for the number and date after 4 messages sent.

Fuzzy-Bottle-4138 · 2024-03-13T14:42:16+00:00

You stop talking to them and actually ask them on a date…there’s no talking stage in online dating. If they aren’t down it just means they aren’t interested in you or just using the apps to fuck around and get validation. And you can move on to the next

Viktor2500 · 2024-03-13T15:19:54+00:00

You probably over text them and your text game is trash. Texting a lot before a date is not a bad thing per say, but you probably find yourself in the trap of having a plain logical conversation with her and it can get boring real quick. I always try to get them on the date ASAP and if she gives me shit like you described I just go to the next girl. No one is THAT busy, so unless she is going on a vacation in Egypt with her parents I don't take it.

My interactions with girls that I land a date with always go like this: 1) grab her attention by sending her a message that gives her a reason to reply; make her intrigued 2) chat with her for a bit, figure out where she's living etc.; you can also use some flirty lines as long as you make it look genuine. 3) ask her whether she likes good coffee (I then say: "I know an extremely secret café downtown, I can take you there") and when she agrees you say: "Add me on insta/give me your number and we'll plan something there". It's all about making her curious so she decides to go with you! She has HUNDREDS of guys messaging her wanting to take her out, you NEED to stand out.

Title	Need Tinder advice
Author	Ok-Company-4081
Upvotes	7
Comments	23
Date	March 13, 2024 2:32 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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