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| 6 | Recommendations / seduction tips for a female that make her seem more seductive and alluring to males?Do you really think there is a list of things you should and shouldn’t do to attract and keep a man? I think I saw a book like that in the 50’s about sucking his dick and make good food. All joking aside, if you are happy with yourself and content with who you are that is going go over way better than anything else. People who are happy attract people who want to be around that. Add value to people and see what you can do to help them. I am not saying that you are not happy, I am just trying to … | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 12:03 PM |
| 14 | Recommendations / seduction tips for a female that make her seem more seductive and alluring to males?Don’t be fat. Seriously this. It’s not fair and I hate writing that but it’s true. | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Guys with girlfriends cause emotional damageNot truly. Have you ever been in love ? You can love in many ways but it’s not pure. It’s co dependent. | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Guys with girlfriends cause emotional damageYeah bro seriously this!! I was very similar to you in the past. I still am working on it but until you fix your own problems and self esteem you’re going to be a wreck in a relationship. This is probably the best advice I can give you…. How can you love someone else if you don’t love yourself? | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Should I tell girls I'm seeing about dates that I am going on with other girls?Yeah for sure. I get that but I have a personal value to never lie. I would just tell her straight or something | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 04:35 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Yeah keep up your limiting belief s. They seem to be serving you well. | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Should I tell girls I'm seeing about dates that I am going on with other girls?It’s never necessary | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Should I tell girls I'm seeing about dates that I am going on with other girls?Ha ha. I always say I have plans with a friend or meeting with a friend. | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 03:38 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]And how would you know ? Unlike you I have fucked hot girls and they have confirmed this. I am not the best looking man. Don’t have a ton of money. In my 40 s. Bald. Divorced. I had sex with 2 girls that I know you would consider a 10 last month. So pls provide more evidence or proof if you’re going to make blanket statements like this. I will give you a hint into my success. I am funny. Which is a big part of my personality. | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 03:28 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]You re delusional. You haven’t even fucked a hot girl so how would you know? By your own admission you said you haven’t fucked a 10. Sure looks matter but it is 80% your personality. Looks are exactly the same value as everything else to a hot girl. 20% is made up from money, status, looks, job. At least with decent mentally minded hot girls. If looks mattered like you say then how are ugly guys dating hot women? How are old guys dating hot girls? How are bald guys? It’s your personality and jus… | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 03:23 PM |
| -2 | Am I only men who gets turn off when you haven’t mention anything about hooking up or sex and she says she’s not looking for sex or hookups?Yeah I think this is the right take here. When a girl has said that to me I always take it as a test. My go to response is to tell her I don’t know what hookups are ? Like drugs ? I then tell her I am a virgin. And please don’t take advantage of me, the last girl I tried to date was very naughty. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 03:24 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Society and Disney brainwashed us. We were focused on Prince Charming while motorcycle tattoos ass hole was fucking the princess. Btw I am thinking about getting a motorcycle and a tattoo soon | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 01:35 PM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]No don’t delete. Just because you are in a relationship doesn’t mean you stop seducing your girl. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 01:37 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Hsv1 is insanely common. Like 2 out 3 people have it. Hsv2 not so much but still common. I know you can take valtrex and there is a bunch of misinformation out there so be careful. I would join a Facebook support group and get real actual solid advice. I am guessing it’s not going to be as bad as you think. Understand exactly what has to be present in order to transmit | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 03:17 AM |
| 0 | I left after hooking up with a guy but idk if it was wrong/rudeProve me wrong | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 10:36 PM |
| 5 | Is it bad to tell girls that I’m a software engineer?Yes. And yes and yes it’s horrible to tell girls what you do directly. It’s one of the best questions to play off. Being a software engineer is not bad or any job in itself isn’t horrible but keep in mind you’re talking seduction and seduction techniques are sales techniques. Ever asked a salesman if his product has a feature and he just says yes. Hell no, it’s always blown up into way more than just a yes. So take whatever the mission is of your startup and add I help to the front. It’s not a l… | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 09:22 PM |
| -4 | I left after hooking up with a guy but idk if it was wrong/rudeYeah and lots and lots of sti s do have symptoms. In my opinion this is out dated and stupid advice. Sure sti can spread without symptoms. In an outbreak. This is true. Much like a covid outbreak. The information that you left off and the information that always gets left off is the outbreak factor. Pretty much the only way you’re getting an sti without symptoms is either a college campus or dorm and maybe a swingers party. Pretty much exclusively. Have you ever met or heard about anyone getting… | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 08:29 PM |
| 1 | a drug that is easily accessible or easily prescribed that can help me socialize?Adderall helps me. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 02:31 PM |
| 7 | FELLAS I NEED HELP!I will add on to this a bit. Think about it like this. What is a fun time in your world? Pretend it’s like the last day before you leave for a year or something. What would you do? Where would go? Think about it, plan it out. Then do it and invite her along. Tell her why you picked that place or did that thing. You lead. You enjoy yourself and trust me. If you’re having a good time she will as well. And if she is a stuck up bitch, hey you don’t give a shit because you’re doing the best day you e… | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 04:55 PM |
| 0 | anyone tried "ageless" program by Bill Grant? attracting young womenHahaha I wonder what that means ? Like do you think I have my bank statement strapped to my chest? I never spent money on them. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 03:09 PM |
| 1 | anyone tried "ageless" program by Bill Grant? attracting young womenKeep telling yourself whatever you want buddy to fit your reality. You believe something and then you’re going to make sure your reality fits that belief. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 12:40 PM |
| 1 | anyone tried "ageless" program by Bill Grant? attracting young womenPhotos are real. I have at least 5 pics to prove it. All hot. I have money but not like millions. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 12:38 PM |
| 1 | If you’re still seeing a girl as a friend for a hobby, should I try weaving something that tells her I know she’s not interested into the conversation?If you read how to win friends and influence people then you should know how the interaction goes. It’s a bit different if you’re trying to seduce her because breaking rapport is needed. You need to present a challenge. You need her to look at you as someone that doesn’t care if she fucks you or not. Got it? I have deep conversations with my friends but I don’t fuck them. So it’s a bit of a frame difference and controlling your frame is key. So break rapport, that is probably the most important … | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 12:26 PM |
| 1 | If you’re still seeing a girl as a friend for a hobby, should I try weaving something that tells her I know she’s not interested into the conversation?Those are both great. The one that will change your life the most would be the way of the superior man. It’s not long but read it over a few weeks. You can only do a few chapters a day because it will slowly reprogram your brain and you will need time to think and digest the information. After that there are others not 100 percent related to women but once your brain realizes women are not a prize or a major part of your life or purpose they will shape your frame and viewpoint. After that, women… | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 12:06 PM |
| 3 | I like everything about my chick but her faceBreak up and save face | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 01:25 AM |
| 1 | I want to cheat on my girlOh yes here come the downvotes because we are talking about traditional gender roles and how attraction works. I forget these areas are off limits. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 08:29 PM |
| -5 | I want to cheat on my girlI don’t know why you are feeling bad. It’s in your DNA. We are men, we are programmed to spread our seed. This one person bullshit was a society and religious construct that is rapidly failing if you look around. Don’t go against your nature. If she is in love with you, talk to her and see where it goes. Just be honest and true to your feelings. Life is too short to shutdown your true self | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 12:11 PM |
| 2 | If you’re still seeing a girl as a friend for a hobby, should I try weaving something that tells her I know she’s not interested into the conversation?You’re way way into fantasy world. Don’t worry we all were. Disney sold us a lie. Hollywood has no idea how women work. Bad boys, confident guys, dominate powerful men, leaders, passionate driven men, strong men, these are the people that get women. Not Greg who walks her home and carry her books and buy her flowers. If you really want to understand this stuff there is an entire rabbit hole of books you need to read. I have studied for years to get where I am and it’s a lot of work but totally w… | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 11:35 AM |
| 2 | If you’re still seeing a girl as a friend for a hobby, should I try weaving something that tells her I know she’s not interested into the conversation?How old are you man? I never said to make her jealous. I said to be detached. Touching and dancing and getting her to talk about her emotions is great. Anything deep like that is awesome. For sure talk to her about other girls you like. Women want a man with options. Think about James Bond. How would he act around her? Treat her like you don’t care if you never see her again. It’s always coming from a state of indifference. She knows you want to fuck her right ? Honestly ask yourself that questi… | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Contradiction in Models? Mark Manson claims that you can’t be needy, but advocates being nervous and doing it anyway. Don’t these ideas run against each other?Okay so you haven’t read the material and are just making blanket statements and assumptions. That’s helpful. Ya know you should read mansons books. Maybe not models since you seem to want to suck off this mailman guy. But yeah try his other stuff it’s really good. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 09:21 AM |
| 2 | If you’re still seeing a girl as a friend for a hobby, should I try weaving something that tells her I know she’s not interested into the conversation?No man. Don’t do that shit. Trust me girls know where you stand way more than you do and a comment like that is going to come off beta and needy. She will see exactly what you’re doing. Just because she was doing those things doesn’t mean she was into it in her room that night. You have to know the basics. Not sure how far along you are but you have to look for ioi and then escalate and calibrate. touch is huge here. I would honestly push her away, remove your attention. The fastest way to get s… | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Contradiction in Models? Mark Manson claims that you can’t be needy, but advocates being nervous and doing it anyway. Don’t these ideas run against each other?Yeah I don’t see the contradiction at all. Remember this is all in your head and how you are interacting with girls. Just doing it anyway is building the confidence and belief in yourself to truly not be needy. You can’t just wake up one day and no longer be needy. It takes practice. Don’t approach a girl and buy her a drink and shower her with compliments and beg for her number. If you’re too scared to even introduce yourself then you have already lost and you should do it anyway | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 09:01 AM |
| 2 | Contradiction in Models? Mark Manson claims that you can’t be needy, but advocates being nervous and doing it anyway. Don’t these ideas run against each other?Mark Manson is not even close to the other two. If you have read all the material I would love to know what makes you say this. Let’s just look at the results. Mystery and strauss are both insignificant, one itis, losers that never did anything. Mark Manson is an insanely successful writer and is married to a smoke show. I have read mystery the game and all of m Manson s books and there is no way you can lump these together. So how say you sir ? | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 08:56 AM |
| 3 | If you’re still seeing a girl as a friend for a hobby, should I try weaving something that tells her I know she’s not interested into the conversation?Wow okay, I have a lot to say here. Mainly because this exact same thing happened to me. It was years ago when I was very inexperienced. I was infatuated with this girl. She was smoking hot and had an amazing personality, awesome music and just a good perspective on life. She was for sure interested, I was clueless at the time but she for sure made moves and put herself in situations (she slept in my bed) I was too scared and wanted to be respectful. She for sure lost attraction for me and it tu… | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 08:37 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You have received a lot of advice here. None of it is horrible but some of it will not set you up for success. I think the biggest thing here is your mindset and frame and how you’re coming across to her. Double texting is bad within the wrong timeframe. She pulled back and that is exactly what all women do. Seriously all women do it. It’s a test, they are testing your confidence. The correct response is to not double text. Wait a few days. At least 2 best 3/4. Send a meme or funny uninvested te… | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 03:14 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yeah I think if I was younger I could do it or if I was with a really hot girl. They are just not designed for me. And I don’t think girls really like them much either. | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 05:44 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]No problem. Yeah I was really freaked out because I only slept with 2 girls before I met my wife and I was with her for fifteen years. Got really used to not using condoms. I hate them. Most of the women I have slept with since then. Been about 4 years, have not pushed back. A few have and we tried condoms but it was not good. I was really freaking out that I must have something because how could I have unprotected sex with that many women and not get something because the sex ed I had told me i… | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 01:16 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]So not saying this lady has all the answers or is medically credited. But she does have hiv and makes a lot of great points. Start at about 3 mins in. https://youtu.be/4zoZERF8SK4 | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 02:14 PM |
| 1 | I often get dates from Tinder but these dates never lead anywhere. Desperate to know what I'm doing wrong.Okay I will take a shot at this. First thing you need to understand, women fuck one of two ways. They fuck the lover, player, sexy, dominate guy, assholes, bad boys all fall into this. They do this in a hedonistic mindset. They want to get laid, they want the dick but they need at least a small connection or to feel safe and comfortable most times. Not all the time. But mostly. This is where hookups happen. Just last night my friend said she was on a tinder date with a guy and she thought well t… | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 02:23 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I hate when people ask for a routine to follow. Even if I gave you the best routine ever you would fail because it’s not you. Dating and sex is sells. You’re trying to sell you. So if I gave you a routine that works for me how do you think that will go for you? They are humans not a video game. | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 01:28 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]No no no be clear about your intentions, be crystal clear. You are not just looking for a girl to approach, you’re looking to get laid. Which is fine, but say it like that. Now never ever go into a situation with that intention being obvious, at least for now when you get more advanced you can do that. But girls know you want to fuck them, they know it before you open your mouth. This is why it matters almost 0 what you say on the approach. But a guy who is obviously trying to fuck and stone col… | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 01:19 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Yeah man go off on how shitty this girl is but it looks like you’re not seeing the irony in the same judgement you’re making on her. Girls say stupid shit like this all the time but how many times have you heard a girl say , yeah he isn’t even my type but I just fell for him. Girls are emotional and they follow their emotions. These 6 foot big dick guys have nothing on a guy that understands a woman s emotional iq | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 11:22 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]6 ft tall guy here. I thought it was 6 inches not 6 pac abs. This is great news I can get 6 pac abbs I can’t add 5 inches to my micro penis | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 11:18 AM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]Don’t chase women. Pursue, shoot your shot and move on. Chasing women is a waste of a life. | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Always get stress on first time with a girl. Tips?Well you go king. I am jealous of your condom minding. | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Always get stress on first time with a girl. Tips?Condoms fucking suck. Shit happens to me as well. Get good ones. Like skinless or a high end brand. It’s very common for guys to lose an erection with a condom. Finding a girl that can do it with her mouth is nice. | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 05:55 PM |
| 5 | Is it a bad idea to give women an "easy out" if they have an excuse for not going on a date?First of all anything that mark Manson says should never be considered stupid or bad advice. Of course context is everything and in some situations this is perfect and maybe something else is better in another. This is why most advice is garbage because you need all the context to make the right call. If you’re getting a flaky vibe or she isn’t investing in the interaction sometimes it can play well to tell her, “no worries about today, if you want to get together let me know” this tells her you… | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 04:05 PM |
| 3 | How do older dudes, in their 40s, even those who aren't rich, attract pretty young girls, like in their 20s? Serious question, no BS.I date girls in their 20 s. I also don’t care. That is probably the most important thing to understand. I don’t care. Hot girls are used to guys falling over them. When a girl in her 20 s knows her value and her time is limited she is trying to find a high value man. A man that has other things going on in life. A major sign of that is a guy who doesn’t care. I don’t give a fuck if she wants to hangout or not and she can feel that. | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 10:49 AM |
| 1 | She says I'm too old for herNot sure why it matters how old he is when she was born. She is 20 and a full grown adult that can make her own decisions, not a minor. I think once a human becomes 22 they are a full adult. It’s not the same as a 25 year old dating a 15 year old. I fail to see the predatory aspect of it. What if he is a celebrity? Lots of guys don’t give the girl any money. They might bring her on trips and she can enjoy his lifestyle but she doesn’t get money directly. I think you’re just making a huge assumpt… | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 04:44 AM |
| 0 | She says I'm too old for herSo I thought about this and you are right. It’s not typical. But I still don’t understand why you say it’s disgusting? Like what makes you say that ? | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 11:43 PM |
| 0 | She says I'm too old for herIt’s not disgusting, it’s actually really nice. And there is a lot of assumptions still in your logic to say that anyone would do anything exclusively is narrow minded. Believe it or not but 20 year olds actually enjoy the experience and confidence of an older man. There are all kinds of people that date all kinds of people. My point was only | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 10:18 PM |
| 0 | She says I'm too old for herWould be great if you had any actual facts or something besides your opinions on what you think it’s like. I can tell you from my own experience that the relationship does work and every time I was the one to cut it off. I am currently dating a 29 year old and she was 25 when we met. Besides her I dated 3 others for 6 to 12 months and several more for shorter periods. So yeah keep up with your assumptions but as an older man I can tell you dating younger women has always been easier the older I … | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 07:07 PM |
| 1 | She says I'm too old for herHa ha ha. Maybe in some ancient world. Look around you. It’s all over the place. Younger women are in their prime for breeding and the most attractive to older men. Women from 19 to 25 are maxed on looks and are the most desirable by all men. Women want resources and confidence. As well as life experience and knowledge. Men are not able to provide that until they are older. It’s as natural as human biology. | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 04:23 PM |
| 0 | She says I'm too old for herHa ha ha. Maybe in some ancient world. Look around you. It’s all over the place. Younger women are in their prime for breading and the most attractive to older men. Women from 19 to 25 are maxed on looks and are the most desirable by all men. Women want resources and confidence. As well as life experience and knowledge. Men are not able to provide that until they are older. It’s as natural as human biology. | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 04:23 PM |
| 1 | She says I'm too old for herNot true. Older guys and younger women have always been a thing. It’s because we want to feel free and younger women are hotter and more open to new adventures. It’s not always the daddy thing but if she has daddy issues then it helps get her attracted. I am in my 40s and have dated women in their 20 s exclusively for the last 4 years and couldn’t be happier. Also keep in mind men s frontal cortex is not fully developed until they are 25. | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 02:11 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Not at all. I am not sure where the disconnect is but you need to understand your facial features doesn’t mean anything when dating women. I have dated my share of women and my only point is the really physically hot ones have guys simping on the all the time. Like it’s insanely interesting how these women live their lives. So if you make a good impression and you have plans for the weekend and it’s a Monday and you haven’t reached out she is going to be approached by tons and tons of guys in th… | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 07:16 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]In my experience some communication the day of or the day before is needed. She needs to feel that connection, remember women are emotional and their feelings change often. And the more options and hotter they are the more they flake. My experience has been to send a message same day to change the time. “My friend needs my help can we do 730 instead?” This works well or the day before I will send kinda a gamey text like, “hey wear something cute tomorrow so we match” | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 06:08 PM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]Exactly, if you go for the direct to your place a few things could go wrong. She is not as hot as you remember and now she is there. She gets offended at your invite and ghost. Drinks shows that your have social skills and understand the risk she is taking to fuck you straight away. | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 05:03 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Ha ha I am over 40 my child. Been playing Russian roulette for decades and never got anything. Keep wrapping it up and maybe ask your mom if she is clean because she obviously has passed some shit down to the rest of humanity. | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 03:51 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]How does it put you at risk ? The logic here is totally stupid. It’s not covid. Look at all the misinformation about masks and covid. Look how many different opinions and facts you have. This is the same bs about condoms. Yeah condoms help against pregnancy but they don’t protect against all std s. You can still get herpes simplex with condoms. Plus the odds of you getting an std are so small it’s insane. Even if you go raw every time. It’s mainly low income, sub 25 year old, women who carry the… | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 03:48 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Do you want to compare dick sizes next ? Also if you’re keeping track of how many “kills” (very mature) proves to me further how clueless you are. The same argument exists. And I am not confused on anything. You’re saying that in the heat of the moment where you’re about to have sex raw and you’re like “hey are you clean?” You think she is going to be like oh yeah I am clean. Ha ha. You have no idea how std s even work, if she has an std you’re going to fucking know. And guess what else? She is … | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 03:36 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Don’t take this the wrong way. But you don’t know shit about women. And okay play that out. You slipped up and now you’re asking her if she is clean. She just got through fucking you, what difference does it make? She is probably already feeling slutty, of course she is going to say she is clean. | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 01:22 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Bro it’s damn near impossible to get hiv from non anal sex. Think about the anatomy here. Okay let’s say she has hiv untreated and full blown infection. He vaginal fluid is going to be all over your dick. However we already know it’s not transmitted through skin to skin. It has to be her bodily fluid inside your body. This would mean that you would get her vaginal fluid down your urethra and into your body. However that could happen for sure. But let’s not forget about the hot load of fucking st… | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 07:42 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Yeah because they like it better as well and they don’t want to admit to fucking you. They want the hot passionate story as well. Keep going, pregnancy is the biggest concern | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 07:33 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Ha ha ha ha ha and you think she is going to say… nope I am not clean. But good job on asking. Is she isn’t clean you’re going to know. | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 07:32 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Exactly correct. Seriously mr norwegiandoggo you need to check your facts and do your research. I have a vasectomy and I fucking hate condoms. I avoid them at all costs. The amount of misinformation out there about std s is insane. I will just finish with oral if a girl is going to insist on a condom. And the fact that she okay with oral sex without a condom but not piv shows how fucked up sex Ed is today. I have fucked a lot of women, probably over 100. I am in my 40s so I lose track. Never had… | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 07:27 AM |
| 9 | PSA: always have your house or apartment cleaned because you might get laid when you least expect it.This is kinda a stupid thread I just wanted to point out that I think people are confusing cleaning your house for girls is a lot different than cleaning your house when anyone comes over. I am having some guy friends over I will still clean up and make my house clean. I don’t think it has anything to do with going against yourself or anything | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 10:08 PM |
| 2 | What are good places to pick up girls without having to go to a bar or club?Mormon ward house | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 11:48 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]So I am sure lots of people will have different opinions. But let me tell you an experience I had with my barber. Who is very hot. We became really good friends and talked a lot during my haircuts. I could feel the sexual tension building and building. I made up a casual excuse for her to chill with me and she did. When we were out I told her I really like how she cuts my hair and it’s very hard for me to find someone to do it the way I like it. So I said I am willing to chill with her and just … | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Three Quotes about Shit Test from GirlsOh wow we are calling names now? Okay. I think there is a difference between flirting and shit tests. I also don’t neg girls or do cringe lines or shit like that. However I will tell you I have leaned a few things by studying game that has helped insanely. One was not putting her on a pedestal. Don’t simp, watch for ioi and a few other big things. Not sure why your so triggered by shit tests. I will agree it’s the same as flirting but you can say that about game in general. It’s just flirting. B… | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 02:53 PM |
| 0 | Three Quotes about Shit Test from GirlsYeah you’re right. I am sure all of this shit testing talk is just made up and never happens. Oh wait I think I got it, you’re just so awesome and unique and special that you don’t have these issues. Lmfao. I love how you’re just so above this and if a girl starts giving you shit you walk away. I think that really shows the level of girls you’re getting. A fat girl isn’t going to shit test anyone and more likely than not, that is why you haven’t seen it happen to you. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 11:30 AM |
| 0 | Three Quotes about Shit Test from GirlsNo Is a rejection not a shit test. Go hit on hotter girls and you will see that shit tests are very very real. Context is everything so do it at a club or a bar. After she has been hit on 100 times she starts testing guys. Shit tests are evaluation and they happen ltr all the fucking time. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Do you use condoms when eating out a stranger?Bro listen to what you’re saying. Those are all bacteria infections besides herpes simplex virus. Ever been with a girl who has a yeast infection? Have you ever smelt that? Yeah it’s fucking disgusting. You think I am going down on a girl and I won’t notice anything? Also she is going to know and trust me. She is NOT going to be okay with you going down on her. Plus dude girls love it after you go down on them. Some of the hottest girls I was with reached out later pretty much just because of my… | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 09:02 AM |
| 0 | Do you use condoms when eating out a stranger?Yeah I know that. But go look up the odds of that happening. It’s like almost 0. And if condoms don’t protect against it anyway didn’t you just prove my point even more ? Thanks genius. I will continue enjoying raw sex and you make sure to wrap it up. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Do you use condoms when eating out a stranger?Clueless | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Do you use condoms when eating out a stranger?Herpes? Really ? You think they isn’t easily identifiable? You think if a girl has an active herpes outbreak she isn’t going to know it? And she is going to let you go down on her ? Trust me. You need to do some research. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 03:41 AM |
| 2 | Do you use condoms when eating out a stranger?It is for sure. Dude you have no idea how sti s work. What sti am I going to get going down on girls ? | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 03:38 AM |
| 4 | Do you use condoms when eating out a stranger?Never ever. I have never even heard of anyone doing that. Oh hold on baby I need to get my dental dam. | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Do you use condoms when eating out a stranger?No it’s not. It’s bs misinformation. There is not one std you can get from going down on a girl that is not easy curable or easily identifiable. Of course I make sure she doesn’t have open sores or a stinky smelly vag but that is how you know she is clean. I have been with over a hundred women. Went down on all of them. Never even saw a girl with sti. I have never had an sti and I don’t use condom s as much as possible. There is so much misinformation out there. | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 06:23 PM |
| 1 | For people who sleep around a lot, how careful are you about std's?Bro you can slice and dice words however you want. I am not upset or anything. I am simply trying to point out the misinformation here. You, like most, have been fear mongered into believing sti s are super common and super contagious. But if you really dig into this they are not as common and not as scary as everyone thinks. But that message doesn’t sell. I am not a trumper or anything but the fake info on this is insane. I was the same way until my friend set me straight and explained the rese… | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 05:22 PM |
| 1 | For people who sleep around a lot, how careful are you about std's?Maybe my English is off but I think you said something like: The most concerning STD from oral is cancer due to HPV. Which as I have proven above is damn near impossible. So yeah thanks. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 07:47 PM |
| 1 | For people who sleep around a lot, how careful are you about std's?Wow wow wow. Don’t even know where to begin on all the misinformation here. From the cdc: How common are cancers from HPV in men? Cancers from HPV are not common in men. Certain men are more likely to develop cancers from HPV: Men with weak immune systems (including those who are living with HIV). Men who receive anal sex are more likely to get anal HPV. They may develop anal cancer. https://www.cdc.gov/std/hpv/stdfact-hpv-and-men.htm Bro. Please do your research. The cancer you’re talking about… | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 03:59 PM |
| 2 | For people who sleep around a lot, how careful are you about std's?Sorry for going off. I took Adderall | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 09:19 PM |
| 0 | For people who sleep around a lot, how careful are you about std's?Also this is why gay men are highest risk for hiv because they are taking semen on their anus. Also nobody talks about the real risk and the real way these things happen because we are talking about life and living virus and living bacteria. So like Jurassic park says. Life always finds a way. So this is why nobody will say 100% of the time because they don’t want to get sued and also because nothing is 100% when you’re talking biology. | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 09:19 PM |
| 1 | For people who sleep around a lot, how careful are you about std's?Fuck no. Bro I have received more bj s than sex, girls will always do oral because no period or birth control issue so I am always down for oral. But do you understand what it would take for you to get an sti from oral? Think about it, the bacteria or virus would need to get down your urethra. And this is while there is a mass amount of sterile semen shooting out of it. It’s almost impossible. The only std you could get is herpes simplex v1. If she has a cold sore. And bro 2 out of 3 people have… | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 09:15 PM |
| 0 | For people who sleep around a lot, how careful are you about std's?This post just shows how uneducated people are about sti s. Yeah if she smells bad then she probably has something. And she probably knows it and doesn’t want you going down on her. Heterosexual male s can’t get hiv from piv sex. Herpes is very very low transmission without open sores. All other std are curable. My policy is I always go down on a girl first. I never use a condom unless she insist. I have a vasectomy so don’t care about birth control. Been with a lot of women. Never had an sti. J… | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 05:36 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Facts. Look it up. Never had an sti. Have been fucking for 20 years. | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 03:03 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]You’re a man. You typically spread sti. If you’re a heterosexual male you can’t get hiv from fucking females. Even if she has hiv and you don’t use a condom. So hiv is no worry. Hsv2 is the other lifetime sti. Look up the transmission percentage of hsv2 without an outbreak. Very low. Everything else is curable with pills. The media and sex Ed wants to scare you and for good cause. You should wear a condom and practice safe sex but just be educated about what sti are and how you contract them. Wo… | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Grabbing drinks - stick to principles?Just order soda water with a lime. It feels like you’re drinking and not stand out too much | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 05:48 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Well sir you will see this more and more with hotter girls. 7 and 8 do not shit test because they are happy to be approached. A shit test is not a rejection. In this case a rejection would have been , no thanks. Girls shit test to push on your confidence to see if you are going to pass it. If you do, and you do it well then they will be interested and that is when they start making it easy for you. Start hitting on 10 s and it will be very clear the amount of shit tests you get. | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Can bill gates get girls easy even if he is old in age?Ahhh most women are into older guys. Trust me | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 12:20 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]No way. Not true. A shit test means they are interested. Women don’t shit test guys they are not interested in. | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 12:12 AM |
| -1 | [deleted by user]That is not a rejection. That was a shit test. Also if you asked her in front of the group without rapport you are asking a lot of her. You’re basically asking her to accept your frame and then for her to accept you in front of all her friends and coworkers. It would be better to leave the group and then find her later on and then go for the number. She had to shit test you in front of her friends because you asked for a big compliance on her part | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 05:00 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I mean go get tested sure. It’s easy and free. Urine sample and blood. If you’re doing everything it’s a lot of blood. Don’t be surprised when your dr discourage the herpes test. I had to pressure him to give it to me. I asked why not? He said it’s a pointless test. If you have herpes you already know it so a positive test doesn’t change the outcome. I said well this hot girl won’t fuck me until I have it so just do it. He laughed and said okay. But again to my previous posts. Sti have symptoms … | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 01:26 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]What are you deathly scared of? Women cannot transmit hiv to men. Men get hiv from unprotected gay sex with another person and they typically develop symptoms within 10 days. Women typically get hiv from needles or their sexual partner having unprotected gay sex on the side and then having sex with her. Herpes simplex has 3 strains. One strain is super common. 3/4 of the population has it but it’s generally only present orally (cold sores) that strain can be on your genitalia but it’s uncommon a… | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 01:14 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Okay I am sure this is going to get downvoted a million times. But there is so so much misinformation about sti s these days it’s insane. Let’s talk about the scary sti first, the ones with no cure. HIV and herpes. (There is no test for hpv for men) the odds of a heterosexual male having hiv is something like.000004%. Look it up on cdc. Herpes simplex being transmitted without an open sore is very small, almost nil. So if you already gave him head and he didn’t have any sores or signs of an sti … | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 01:03 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Damn bro. I am at a loss for words. Are you a virgin? | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 11:24 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I would disagree here. I see your point but there is a huge huge difference between banter and shit tests. I banter all the time, I am witty and very very quick on my feet. Flirting is also different and more sexual but similar. However, when you approach that super hot girl and she shit tests you, you’re in an entirely different place. Not sure if you have approached many 10 s. But these women get approached so so much and the hotter they are the more they shit test. They are not trying to bant… | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 02:42 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Bro I think you are overthinking this one. It’s not that heavy or hard. I also feel that women are way way too big in your life. Everything you’re saying is like coming hard from a simp perspective. Bro add value. It’s that easy I don’t think I can say it any better. Add value to your relationships to people you meet to your boss and to those humans at the club you seem to hate so much. Work on yourself until you’re a man with high status or value and the women will take care of itself. Ya know … | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 02:28 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Hello you should change your name to riverofredpill no actually riverofblackpill. Keep in mind some people are not as jaded as you. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 06:59 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Okay first understand it doesn’t matter at all what you say? The words make little difference. She is pushing on you to see how you respond. The most important thing is that you don’t react to her test. The correct response is anything outside of her frame. Her frame is the hot girl you want to fuck, so saying no I am not a player is falling into her frame. You can say literally anything beside no. My friend just ignores the question like he didn’t hear it or asks her a follow up question. But i… | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 06:55 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yes this is the correct response. You should get to the point where you are excited to get a shit test. Also if you don’t like shit test then approach ugly or fat girls because they are just happy to have someone approach them. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Absolutely blew my chance of getting laid in a nightclubAhhh I think you need to review what the word “hookup” means. | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 09:58 PM |
| 1 | I have the confidence, but I have no gameOkay that helps. But you have to realize it’s a balance. Being funny is great and very helpful but it’s not the thing that will get you laid. You have to balance it or you just come off as a clown. I have had this happen so many times. Everyone laughing at a party, everyone talking to me and enjoy themselves but at the end of the night … nothing. My friends helped me, they said bro no girl wants to fuck a clown. It’s very true and I had to study a shit ton of pickup before I figured it out. Bein… | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 02:19 PM |
| 1 | I have the confidence, but I have no gameYes exactly. It’s good to let them know about something you’re passionate about, women want a man who is driven, who knows himself and where he is going. So it’s good to convey that but very very very subtle. Here is an example of bad vs good. “Yeah I am into technology and software, it’s fun, what do you do?” Vs “well I better not get started, let’s just say I love solving problems using tech, I will do it forever, do you have something you will do forever?” See the difference? You’re remaining… | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 02:10 PM |
| 2 | First successful cold approachExactly. You got it | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 01:58 PM |
| 12 | Should I keep cold approaching or give it up?Totally agree with you. If you stop approaching you will lose the muscle. Exactly like when you stop working out. However I would maybe be more intentional with the approaches and study to get better. If OP approached 80 women with zero luck then probably some deeper issues besides just weight. | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 08:40 PM |
| 3 | I have the confidence, but I have no gameBro verbal is only a very very small amount of communication. Also you shouldn’t be talking that much at all during pick up. You ask questions and follow up with better questions until she gets comfortable enough to let you in and qualify herself to you. | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 08:25 PM |
| 1 | I have the confidence, but I have no gameAaahhh wow. Yeah that sounds a little fucked up. I don’t really have a lot of good advice here. Maybe watch stand up comedy on Netflix or live. One of the biggest things in game is being funny. It sounds like you might need to develop some of that. After you watch enough standup you start to notice funny things and observations. Those go a long way in game. Either try that or something else before you shoot up a school or something. | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Told a guy I only want something casual but now I have feelings for himI would kindly disagree and I think that other s have said is a better approach. I have been in a similar situation and bringing up the “what are you looking for?” After what OP have explained comes off as insecure and I fucking hate insecure and clingy women but that is just me. Some guys like that shit. I would just go with the flow and bring up exclusively. That is really the only thing to talk about at this point. OP is technically already in a relationship of some sort. | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 08:14 PM |
| 7 | First successful cold approachBro seriously awesome job here. You got the number, that is total success and you should be proud of yourself. I too read the game in like a day I was hooked. It’s been many years and countless hours studying and improving myself. To answer your question, she knows your intentions man. Women know that shit 100% of the time and are 3 steps ahead of you on every approach. Why do you think they respond with “I have a boyfriend” ? Because they know you want to fuck them. So don’t worry about express… | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 07:55 PM |
| 8 | What’s wrong with me?You know what’s holding you back more than anything? Expectations!! You have some fucked up expectation that if you had someone that was committed to fucking you then you would be happy. This is exactly backwards, trust me as someone who has been in several relationships, married, fwb, all the different dynamics. You have to embrace being alone, build yourself up and truly create value. Once you have done this, then lots of women will have no issues committing to fucking you. I hope that makes s… | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 06:51 PM |
| 1 | What is the meanig of stud?It’s only really with horses. Since most male horses are neutered. You don’t refer to a male lion as a stud. Most male animals keep their balls it’s just horses since there isn’t any horses left in the wild a male horse with bus balls is totally fucking useless to humans. Once you cut their balls off they are submissive and you can hook a wagon up to them. | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 06:31 PM |
| 1 | What is the meanig of stud?I think you’re missing a little context here. A stud horse is typically a successful race horse that is too old too keep racing. However since he has a proven pedigree he becomes a stud horse and the owner can make money providing a stud service. Most horses you have ever seen or rode are neutered. My uncle used to have a stud service and those horses were fucking crazy always galloping and super aggressive. They are good for nothing, just fucking and racing. | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 06:27 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to "how old are you?"Yep exactly right. So might as well treat it like a shit test and build attraction. Also why do you think women don’t like to date younger? I would say it’s because younger guys don’t have enough experience and don’t know how to lead and flirt. So if you show her you can do that by passing her shit tests than you will have a better chance. Also I didn’t say to not answer. I said to flirt and have fun with it. If she asks again then tell her in a direct and confident manner. Women love love to fl… | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 01:57 PM |
| 1 | "Let's just be friends" can mean fwbHuh well that sounds good. Most girls I know, well hot girls I know, will say, “ I don’t fuck my friends “ hot girls have so many options why would she fuck her simp friends and jack up the relationship? | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 03:06 PM |
| 6 | How to respond to "how old are you?"This is for sure a shit test. Anyone that tells you otherwise is not experienced with picking up women in bars. The correct way to pass a shit test is from outside her frame. Her frame is the hot girl everyone wants to fuck. You’re the high value guy just trying to have fun and entertain and detached from outcome. Expand and exaggerate is my fav. Or anything comedy works well. My friend used to say he is coming up on 1073 all casual. Like some just really high number, then casually ask how she f… | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Another date ruined because I keep going to boring conversation on the first date.Wow I could say a few things here. I used to have this issue when I first started out. I can honestly tell you that it was 100 in my head. I cared way too much about what she is thinking. Once I detached and honestly was there to have a good time and entertain it was much easier. More practical advice is to just have fun, take a few mins before she shows up and think of a funny story or something that makes you laugh. Also the first date questions are so so lame. When they ask me those I will ty… | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 07:17 AM |
| 1 | How many here are tall, attractive, successful, but still struggle to land the girls you want/target?Tall dark and handsome. Is this your mom talking? | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | How many here are tall, attractive, successful, but still struggle to land the girls you want/target?Bro inflation is like 10 to 15 %. Six figures isn’t all that. My car payment is like >$1000. The world is no longer what it once was. It’s like waiting your entire life to reach Mount Everest and then you notice 200 fucking people waiting to summit with you. This is how dating is, everyone is waiting for their chance to fuck the hot girl and she is tired of the 200 guys trying to summit her. | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Girl said she wanted to bang on first date but we only ended up kissing - did she lose interest?Yeah not sure why you did that. She reached out, setup plans and she what she says. This is why I said we have no idea. You had the social cues. We are just going off a few facts. I would for sure respond. Just my opinion | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Girl said she wanted to bang on first date but we only ended up kissing - did she lose interest?I would say it’s working pretty well for me. I take advice for what it’s worth. I think we are saying the same thing here. Also everyone has common sense, that’s kinda why it’s called common sense. Sex is insanely complicated and it’s simple. Guys are rational and logical thinkers and women are emotional. Every situation is different from the other. Non verbal communication is more powerful than anything else. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Girl said she wanted to bang on first date but we only ended up kissing - did she lose interest?Oh cool. I kinda thought that after I posted. That makes sense. Good luck man. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 08:44 AM |
| 2 | Feeling high value but not seeing the resultsYeah man don’t mean to be rude but you will get farther in life and in seduction if you love yourself and you understand your value. And you genuinely are wanting to share that with people. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 08:31 AM |
| 2 | Girl said she wanted to bang on first date but we only ended up kissing - did she lose interest?Why did you do that? I don’t understand why people unmatch and delete the history? I never do this, I for sure 100 percent move on okay but I still leave the door open. I have had at least 5 maybe more, I honestly can’t remember, women reach back out to me after months of not talking asking if I want to hookup that night or something similar. It’s just not necessary to unmatch I’m my opinion. Girls get lonely too, girls get horny. Just don’t understand the logic so enlighten me on why you unmatc… | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 08:28 AM |
| 2 | Feeling high value but not seeing the resultsWow wow bro that is kinda fucked up. You’re projecting a lot here. “Your goal is to be pined over?” That is probably one of the most fucked up things I have read on this sub. You want someone to pine over you because then you’re lovable and you have external proof and validation of that. That’s called being a shallow asshat and it will destroy your life and anyone else’s who comes in your circle. You’re obviously reading mystery or Todd v or something like this for the qualify lines to be mentio… | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 08:18 AM |
| 3 | Girl said she wanted to bang on first date but we only ended up kissing - did she lose interest?No need to be a dick. I know you have never done this and have just fucked every girl who ever came into your zip code but not everyone is as cool as you. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Girl said she wanted to bang on first date but we only ended up kissing - did she lose interest?I have already commented too much on this post so this will be my last. She said she didn’t want to get sexual before anything happened. But she made out with you? Isn’t that sexual? Think of it like buying a car, how many people walk in the door and say, we are NOT buying a car today!!! However they are at a car dealership. And then how many of them start test driving cars ? Your house is the dealership, she walked in the door. She test drove some cars. If you think seduction/ game/ sex is anyt… | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Girl said she wanted to bang on first date but we only ended up kissing - did she lose interest?Nobody really knows man. We were not there we couldn’t read her social cues. But if you bottom line her actions, she was talking dirty to you at some point, she agreed to come to your house. She was making out with you. Calibration and escalation are key here and it’s what we are saying. If you’re making out with her and you’re escalating correctly and calibrating her response it should to the logical conclusion. But you got in your head, it’s normal, everyone does it. And you focused on the rea… | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 07:35 AM |
| 4 | Girl said she wanted to bang on first date but we only ended up kissing - did she lose interest?Yeah he wasn’t saying that at all. I think you’re getting your wires crossed up a bit here. Nobody is saying it’s cool to keep pushing on someone if they have already said no and they are shutting down your advance. Only a creep or a fucking rapist would do shit like that. What we are saying is often times a women will want to push back a little to test your confidence to not look slutty to drive the sexual tension more. 100 different reasons. A man that isn’t bothered by her trying to tease a l… | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 07:27 AM |
| 2 | Girl said she wanted to bang on first date but we only ended up kissing - did she lose interest?Exactly correct. If you want to catch a fish ask a fisherman not a fish. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 07:17 AM |
| 5 | Girl said she wanted to bang on first date but we only ended up kissing - did she lose interest?Exactly, I was hanging out with this girl a few weeks back. She wanted to come over so we could watch a documentary about some band or something like that. She shows up and says I know what it looks like but I really just want to watch this movie. I said I take documentaries very seriously. Fast forward and we are making out and she says hey I really don’t want to have sex it just ruins everything…I agree. An hour later she is like so you have a condom? After I was like you can use my shower and… | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 07:08 AM |
| 25 | Girl said she wanted to bang on first date but we only ended up kissing - did she lose interest?It’s probably 0. Don’t ever reach out or message her again for any reason. If she responds setup a date. But I don’t think she will. But who fucking cares man? You have options and you’re fucking bad ass and have a bad ass life. Best approach is to friend her on social media post pics of you doing bad ass shit and hope she reaches out. That’s about it. There has to be some value some reward for her to chase you again. But again, detach bro. It’s the best way to be. Once you truly don’t give a fu… | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 06:53 AM |
| 0 | Girl said she wanted to bang on first date but we only ended up kissing - did she lose interest?Bro this is her telling you she wants you to lead the interaction. If you’re not comfortable escalating and taking control of the situation it’s a big turn off to most girls and for sure shy girls. She is probably horrible in bed so you probably didn’t miss anything but you’re sitting here confused as why she didn’t fuck you and she is confused as to why you didn’t fuck her. See what i am saying? Someone has to take control and lead the interaction. She went to your place bro, girls don’t go to … | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 03:46 AM |
| 28 | Girl said she wanted to bang on first date but we only ended up kissing - did she lose interest?Yeah If you escalated correctly, she doesn’t want to feel like a slut, how many times have you heard a girl say “well I wasn’t going to fuck him but then one thing lead to another “ | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 03:40 AM |
| 78 | Girl said she wanted to bang on first date but we only ended up kissing - did she lose interest?You gotta understand most women fuck in two ways. Detached unemotional hedonistic fucking (hookup) or emotional connection type sex. She was probably down with the former but you started to connect with her and didn’t keep the sexual tension. So she was confused. This has happened to me several times. It’s usually a flip in the way they look at you (oh shit this guy has his life together he might be a catch, I better not fuck him in case he is the one) I have learned to control the frame better,… | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 03:38 AM |
| 2 | What Protects Someone Like Dan Bilzerian From the Culture We Live In?Exactly right. You must have read Richard coopers book | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 04:31 AM |
| -19 | Men in their 30s, how often have you hooked up with women older than you?Wow you prefer women from 24 to 27. What a unique and deep preference. I am sure you are a great person. | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 03:35 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I don’t know how to respond without OP getting offended but I think it’s kinda selfish, this is just my opinion and my style so totally understand if it’s not yours. Most guys prefer doggie or cowgirl like you have explained because the angle is ideal. So I totally understand finishing too soon in that position and sex can be painful if you keep going. But did she get off first? I have been in that exact situation and she was starting to climax but we had to stop. However, she has already came a… | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Is tipping a way to flirt?Hired gun | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 02:45 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Yeah I agree, it’s not an apples to apples comparison. A guy ditching because she isn’t putting out is typically a guy making moves and getting one rejection after the next. That is very different from a guy not making any moves and she moves on. In my experience the women expects you to make a move in the first few interactions or it gets weird for them. I have waited on purpose to test this. And she was giving me all the signs but I didn’t do anything. The next date I escalated and kissed her … | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 02:38 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Facts for sure. No normal man would go 10 dates and no normal women would either. There has to be some kind of religious or personal Hang up. | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 02:32 AM |
| 1 | How much time before the date is too much after you initially ask?Honestly I would bring it up in a flirty way. But that is my style might not match your personality. I would bring it up as a dhv and then let her know you're taking applications for people to go with you. | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 12:31 PM |
| 3 | I still can't do itBro I think you're getting trolled. This guy is just a troll. Nobody says i am too lazy to get vaxed and then bitches about women. | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Getting back to game just to sleep with more girls?Dude you're 25. Youre a child. How are you supposed to know what you want without experience? I have been in a very similar situation and the desire won't go away. So either open up your relationship or break up. But if you are a catch and this girl is in love with you she will allow you to find happiness and you should be making sure she finds what she is looking for. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 02:18 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I wasn’t trying to push it on anyone, not sure where the confusion is. When I say do this or do that it’s a suggestion or an idea of a date. An opinion. Saying day dates are dumb is an opinion unless you go by the name “day date” you shouldn’t be offended. I don’t see the need to sugarcoat it. And the worst part is it’s not even my advice, I was told to avoid day dates by other guys. I didn’t understand why until I got some experience and then it made sense. So sorry if I offended you or anyone … | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 05:59 AM |
| 1 | If giving a woman head was openly on the table, no ambiguity, what would your success rate be?Yeah I don’t know man. I haven’t tried that approach yet, seems like it could blow up in your face. I never try to convince them of anything. That is a waste of time. If you have some rapport you can usually flirt and pass her shit tests and not just take her home. It’s usually her concern for looking slutty or too easy. Women are always told they need to make a guy work for it or they need to make him wait if they want a commitment or relationship. So it’s hard for her to balance that in her mi… | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 05:46 AM |
| 1 | If giving a woman head was openly on the table, no ambiguity, what would your success rate be?Exactly. This has been my experience. It’s a total shit test, and if she says it that means she’s thinking about it. It’s like a secret passcode, whenever I hear her say that I love to fuck with her. I always flip it back on her, and flirt with her like, “oh you’re not invited to my place tonight, I am a virgin” | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 03:09 AM |
| 1 | If giving a woman head was openly on the table, no ambiguity, what would your success rate be?Very well said | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 03:03 AM |
| 1 | If giving a woman head was openly on the table, no ambiguity, what would your success rate be?It’s because women need a story or an excuse typically. They think about what they are going to tell their friends or what people will think. It’s much more acceptable to say I was just going to his house for 10 mins but then one thing just led to another. They don’t want to be slut shamed. It’s why Netflix and chill is a thing. Of course other girls are just down to fuck so this isn’t every girl but most think a lot about being slut shamed or coming off too easy if they are actually interested. | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 03:02 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Hahah that’s not even the same thing. | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 11:47 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Funny you find my answers heated. Maybe check your sensitivity. | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 11:46 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]No. Just the way I do it. I was saying if you have nothing to start with then try befriending people in a social setting. It will play well for you later on. | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 11:45 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Show me any dating coach or dating advice or pick up or literally any expert or research that recommends day dates? Sure for some, you can say that about any opinion or any fact. It doesn’t add value to the conversation. The general advice is night dates of course there is always exceptions but do we need to state that when it’s already implied. | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 02:23 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Right she will make it easy for you and will be dropping hints if you’re too stupid to pick up the signs. But I can’t tell you how many times my female friends will say they were super into the guy at first and then he fucked it up. And not having options or leading the interaction is a for sure way to fuck it up. | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 07:03 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]100% agree. This is what I am saying. Having your shit together includes leading and having the date planned. For sure not centered around sex but having options is what I am trying to say. Have a few places in mind and a few ideas of what to do. Then you can adjust as the night progresses. For example. I typically have one place that I like to start with and see how the vibe is. If it’s going well I will stay longer but changing the scene and location can really help. I have an arcade bar which… | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 06:49 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Well I don’t mind downvotes, fortunately for me my self worth and validation don’t come from Reddit votes. I actually feel the opposite. However let me just reiterate that this is not only my opinion. Lots and lots of dating advice will tell you hiking is a bad idea for a first date. Of course everyone has different opinions and experiences and expectations. I, along with others, think it’s lame. And I will continue to have that opinion but like you said it’s just my opinion. Does it really matt… | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 06:36 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Best dates of your entire life have been coffee dates ? Wow okay. Well we should just all follow your advice and coffee dates only. | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 06:24 AM |
| -2 | [deleted by user]Not everyone drinks lemonade but most people like it and find it refreshing. Your wisdom is unmatched here sir. So much value in your comment on a Reddit called seduction. It’s not always about sex, I am not saying that, but attractiveness is huge and it’s going to come off way more attractive to a woman that you have your shit together and a life she can see and be a part of. Vs going to a coffee shop and trying to tell her about how awesome you are. | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 06:20 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yeah duh. Thanks for stating the obvious. We are talking about in general here on a subreddit called seduction. So if you’re trying to seduce a woman it’s way easier at night, first date or whatever it’s supposed to be your job to handle the seduction. so do yourself a favor and don’t make it any harder on yourself by going to a coffee shop. | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 06:13 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I like hiking and I do it all the time. I am still of the opinion it’s a bad idea. And where I am from hiking is quite popular. I am just saying for a first date with a hot girl there are better options than single file walking and sweating. But I like really feminine women who like to express that energy and most are fine with hiking after they are more comfortable and after a first date. | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 06:09 AM |
| -2 | [deleted by user]That’s not what I am saying. I think you missed the point, as always there are exceptions, I love how people argue against your general opinion based on their limited experience. Sure doing something you’re both into is fine on a second or third date. But from the OP it’s first date ideas and hiking is fucking stupid. First impressions are key and girls want to look their best and get dressed up for you. Hiking is horribly awkward, you’re either talking way too loud so she can hear you or she is… | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 08:41 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]Depends but in my experience, they need an excuse. They don’t want to look slutty. It’s fine for sex to be implied as in let’s go back to my place to try this wine. Or the famous Netflix and chill. But to just be done with a hike or coffee and then you’re like, “let’s go to my place and fuck” it’s not going to go over well. This is why I am saying night dates are best and making sure your logistics are set before the date are very important. | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 08:31 PM |
| -95 | [deleted by user]No, this is bad advice. Those are all horrible ideas. Dates should only happen at night and they should always, and I mean always have an element where sex can happen if it’s going that way. Could you imagine being super into a girl, she is into you and then make some light kissing and you’re at some hiking trail at 2:00 pm? Wtf are you going to do? Ask her to come over to your place? No, that is awkward. I personally have a few spots I am more than comfortable in, get some of these spots, get t… | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 04:30 PM |
| 13 | My friend said I should treat women harsher…?This is great advice. Dude you are clueless man. Take the advice you’re given. These people have all had sex. You have not. If your goal is to get laid then get advice from someone who gets laid. Also be careful about advice from women, I used to get advice from women who told me to buy flowers and tell her about my feelings. Then my buddy gave me great advice, he said if you want to catch a fish you talk to a fisherman, not a fish. This changed my game 100% and my results have been much better. | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 03:32 PM |
| 23 | My friend said I should treat women harsher…?I will make it very simple for you. Girls are like cats, men are dogs. Run up to a cat and pick it up and hug it and tell it how much you love it and need it, watch what happens, it will run away as fast as possible. Now the exact same behavior would be much different with a dog. Women want to hunt. They want the chase. You’re the prize, they want to earn it. When you just hand it to them it spoils it. So don’t be rude, don’t kick a cat. But putting your focus and attention on something else (oh… | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Asking for numbers without a conversationEven if they gave you the number and it was actually the real one the odds of her showing up on a date or coffee are next to zero. Women need a connection for compliance. | /r/seduction | 30/11/21 06:21 PM |
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