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Even with a ring on my finger and a toddler I still get approached. Want to trade? Without the ring it was undoubtedly worse. I remember getting approached while pumping gas one day. I was super nice to the guy but I still hurried the job and got back in my truck
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:40 AM
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Ok calm down, you’re probably one of those traumatized people yourself judging by your response…not normal Men suffer the same thing so this isn’t about simping for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:27 PM
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Unresolved childhood trauma. Typically they have a sh!tty mon and or dad who normalized abuse in the home. So they go on to be comfortable with toxic “bad guys” because what else do they know?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:15 PM
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Never. My preferences have always come from internal desires in a husband. And the man I married reflects that. He’s rugged, blue collar, drives an old truck, hunts, masculine…the avg modern woman could not stand him because they want a man to call their “partner” and switch gender roles with. They want a man from a romcom or something dumb like that. Pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:23 AM
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Women (not me) have lost a sense of “duty” and they have learned they can swap dudes out like dish towels. It doesn’t get them anything in the longrun though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:02 AM
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So my brother in law fits this bill. In his forties, will probably never marry. He watched THE worst phase of my in law’s relationship and they aren’t the best examples of what to aim for in a marriage. Meanwhile, my husband came after they had “un-separated” but he could tell they were “off” from a young age. So he looked at them as an example to be the opposite of. He had no issue with dating and got married to me. That said, we have a healthier relationship than both of our sets of parents. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:35 AM
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I think it’s because the women who aren’t preferred get triggered instead of wanting to improve themselves. I know some fat women who shame men for wanting fit women. Why? They know they won’t do the work to get in shape. So they whine about men having standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:27 AM
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We’ve already proven that you’re illiterate. I hope you find a source of joy in your life and some comprehension skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:02 PM
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Women who work in an office and commute 40-50 hours a week have no life. Sorry you don’t know any real men. Doesn’t seem like you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:00 PM
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Right. So even though I’m smart enough to earn money at home and not pay a stranger to watch my children, I’m “not an adult” and 100% of kids should be in daycare to you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:58 PM
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Unless it’s my husband I don’t want to see any of this so that should answer the question
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:02 PM
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I guess a c u c k wouldn’t. Only “man” I can think of
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:31 AM
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My father and my husband
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:15 AM
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Some of us have been anti feminist since birth and we are just walking through the fire to get what we want. My father is from a patriarchal country so I was raised to value traditionalism without even flinching. I got my traditional man and he makes it so I can be home with the children. You would not believe how many feminists I know personally try to accuse me of being a slave with no opinions, talk shit to me, ask how I do it, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:07 AM
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Women who have their own host of issues like assholes. Women who come from stable homes or have at least prioritized emotional stability stray from assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:50 AM
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I married a man six years older. My cap is twelve years. Why? I don’t want him to die specifically of old age versus an accident or other disaster WAY before I do. That is a weird fear of mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:34 AM
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I never ever ever want to see this in public. No thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:30 AM
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You just do, if you’re serious about marriage. My husband took me to sushi and asked within fifteen minutes if I wanted kids. I said, absolutely. Two. He breathed a sigh of relief because he was meeting women who hated/did not want kids. Our second is due this summer lol. Mission successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:21 AM
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Thank you 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:18 AM
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Red pill is big on not giving women a pass just because they’re women. And not subjugating men’s rights for the sake of women. The rest of society blames fathers for single motherhood. I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:22 PM
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That’s nice but we’re not going to have an ugly kid and you’re more worried about that than I have ever been Do you have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:15 PM
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How did you get custom flair
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:11 PM
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Tv shows are created for sponsorships and shock value
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:10 PM
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Those are the minority and kinda gross
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:10 PM
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I’ve found younger men unattractive since I was 16. There’s somewhat of an age gap in readiness and maturity to settle down. It came to a head in my early twenties. I was ready to be a wife, my same age exes went between wanting to party and then all of a sudden wanting to settle Down when they saw I was ready to leave. Versus my husband, he’s six years older and we talked about marriage and children on our first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:09 PM
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Ugly women have ugly parents and/or were never taught beauty optimization and fitness. We already have a child. He is objectively gorgeous. Husband and I are conventionally good looking. No kid of ours will be ugly and I mean that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 12:04 AM
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Meh well devil’s advocate people can have trauma and you not know about it. They might not even know. Doesn’t prove much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:57 PM
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That’s a bad faith question and I don’t worry about those things
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:37 PM
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Quickest way to end up in the clinic and with toxic soul ties too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:27 PM
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Power imbalances are a myth and they’re null in regards to the misandrists since women impose “power balances” on younger men all the time I refused to date men my age or younger. I love my six year age gap with my husband. It could be ten or more and I’d still love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:58 PM
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Good Oh and you’re wrong about the stats but I’m glad you found some that soothe your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:52 PM
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It always happens. I’m a conventionally attractive woman and life is on easy mode for me as a result. This triggers people who haven’t had a date in a long time or don’t have the luxury of leaving their house and coming home with phone numbers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:51 PM
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Redpill: Being a single mom is a choice Bluepill: I don’t think I have any bluepill views
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:50 PM
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I wouldn’t have been offended if my husband made me sign one. He didn’t, but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:26 AM
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Whoah. I didn’t know that!/s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:15 AM
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Too bad. They should learn to introspect and validate themselves. I don’t need men to understand my “struggles”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:15 AM
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Homeschooling and protecting her from the toxicity that is feminism. Giving her a leg up by investing in her health and fitness and giving her relationship advice instead of pretending she will never date. Like my own mom did. My husband shows the best example possible of how a husband treats a wife so she will have that to see as well. I have an incredible father so I didn’t fall for or tolerate bullshit in men for a second growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:13 AM
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Being bothered initially is fine as long as you go away promptly when we reject you. I had some fantastic dates and relationships from men who were brave enough to approach and shoot their shot. Of course, more were unlucky than successful but that’s just life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:36 PM
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Why do they have to be? They can’t relate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:24 PM
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It’ll get cheaper and more accessible. Even if it’s restricted to billionaires (which it won’t be), the buyers of the “product” as In quickly farmed children with no parents, will be accessible to even the poor. Idk what battle you’re trying to win here but it’s definitely a weird one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:22 PM
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YES
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:32 PM
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Since there is so much out there, I’m not doing the work to find it for you and you can do that yourself. I hate these “provide sources” comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:31 PM
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Women definitely have more unrealistic expectations for what they “deserve”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:30 PM
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People who “settle” are actually just getting exactly what they qualify for. I have never settled in my life nor been settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:29 PM
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Oh, honey. Idc enough to do that. You lot always want sources so you can keep arguing. It’s not going to actually be productive. ✌🏾 Also you cited a wikipedia article that was full of shit 😂 not even JSTOR or something credible omg. I’m not going down a wormhole of feminist hell. I’m gonna go make my husband breakfast.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:25 PM
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I think that’s full of shit. It’s supposed to be heightened at the initial meeting and then you do what you can to preserve and pour into it for the rest of your lives
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:22 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:17 PM
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1000% in terms of raising children
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:14 PM
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And even then, some of us have a good enough upbringing not to want the donut because there’s no point
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:13 PM
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That’s not true at all, sorry you were made to think that way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:40 AM
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Um I don’t find Guy 1 attractive at all I was just refuting the other comment that assumed women want a Guy 1 when a lot of us don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:39 AM
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Further proving my point ✌🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:00 AM
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You’re also subtly putting down other women who don’t want to be like you, soooo I’m not telling men anything that I don’t genuinely believe myself 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:40 AM
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No. It seems like you’re not really educated on the subject. Do you have kids??? Look at how many wealthy couples are being exposed for abuse these days and in the past. Money be damned. Abusive families get “checked in on” and cps doesn’t catch anything until it’s too late. Children need an emotionality healthy mother and father who conceived them naturally. Everything else is subpar at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:31 AM
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It’s a valid question. If you don’t like it, maybe sit down and ask yourself why it bothers you SO much Women are grown and if they fall for harmful rhetoric then OH WELL. Even then I don’t see anything harmful about this 🤷🏾‍♀️ some of us like traditional men and they offer FAR more than the emasculated men who will never ask this question
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:29 AM
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No, we don’t want guy 1. He’s the way he is for a reason. 🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:27 AM
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Guy 2
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:27 AM
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It depends on who you are asking. The wrong type of person will happily do the latter. Look how popular IVF and surrogacy are because people have wrecked their own health and fertility. Look at how many gender confused couples there are. Same sex. More and more people are coming up by the minute who cannot have their own kids and frankly shouldn’t have their own kids
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:04 AM
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Thank you for planning to breastfeed. I wish you the best with it. Did it for 23 months and look forward to doing it again. Babies deserve the best. And too many moms rush to formula and don’t even try nursing 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:02 AM
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If it’s worth anything, I hate 99% of the female responses. The aspect of duty and traditionalism is truly dead and I hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:00 AM
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Omg y’all need to stop getting triggered by this subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:59 AM
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Tereiroty
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:58 AM
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Amen. Idk why modern women try to fight gender roles 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:58 AM
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Stay fit Don’t nag Raise our babies and homeschool them Keep our house clean and keep my family fed with good meals. Especially lunches and fresh hot dinners for my husband Physical affection for husband Respect and loyalty Not complex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:57 AM
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Okay and? I’m talking about external things not internal ones. You can be the nicest lady ever, if you don’t invest in your beauty and fitness as you age…don’t complain
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:55 AM
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My statement isn’t insane. YOU think about this pls for maybe a few seconds and stop bringing up MRIs. The epsteins of the world can afford this service. Case closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:54 AM
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I’m a mother and I’m pregnant with a second I am vehemently against this artificial stuff after seeing how much a baby relies on its parents. Especially mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:53 AM
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They can do studies all they want, don’t eff with nature And more wackos will be abusing this service than the ones who conceive children naturally so you didn’t make a valid point there
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:52 AM
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Good looking and staying in shape are two different things. Of course everyone ages. But some women get fatter and fatter each year and don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:49 AM
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WOW. I DIDN’T KNOW THAT!/s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:49 AM
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As if that’s the point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:15 PM
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Sounds like hell
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:14 PM
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how in two fucks is having an MRI similar to conceiving, growing, and birthing a human child? I would love to know, sir. Since you will definitely never do the latter. Either way, Jurassic park is fiction but proves that anyone will pay a price for embryos
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:13 PM
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We are fucking doomed as a species if this takes off. Children are supposed to develop balance from being jostled in a womb. They are supposed to hear moms heart beat and the white noise of her body until they can hear her and dad’s voice. They are supposed to come out, nurse, bond, have plenty of skin to skin, and be nurtured Allowing any old sicko to grow a baby in their room will doom society to a bunch of people coming out of the womb with psychological issues, they will probably have weaker…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 05:08 PM
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Probably childhood trauma Don’t shoot the messenger I have heard from a couple dozen women and men that this is how it happens. And it makes me kinda sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:53 PM
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Plus the women who say this don’t bother to invest in their man and continue to stay attractive to him. They deserve what they get
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:44 PM
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We understand the game. If we don’t, someone else will. Dating is competitive. It has been this way since the DAWN of time. Marriage isn’t time to give up on yourself. I lost every lb of my baby weight from pregnancy. I’m pregnant again. Guess who will lose every pound again. Meanwhile some moms I know get fatter and stay fatter with each kid 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:24 PM
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Well of course you would say that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 02:24 AM
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It depends but yes. It can be annoying even if the man looks like Henry Cavill or The Rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:15 AM
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Men don’t hit the wall like women do. My grandfather is 75 and still getting hit on like crazy even though he is married
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:16 PM
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Yeah I don’t think you know what red pill is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:03 PM
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Having a lot of money doesn’t disqualify you from being traditional. Every woman is single before she gets married. And as a result, she’s gotta work unless she is going straight from her father’s home to a marriage. Wanting to dote on a man and spoil him is not masculine. Proposing to a man is though. So is giving him ultimatums. As of now I’m a stay at home wife and my husband doesn’t do house chores. He has hot lunch for work and when he comes home for dinner. That’s more trad than the majori…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:54 PM
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Marry traditional women who don’t make you do circus tricks for intimacy. Make sure she is genuinely very physically attracted to you and keep yourself up. Like, if you catch her smelling your clothes (I am enamored with how my husband smells, very attracted to him) that’s a good sign lol. Marry a woman who is heavily invested in her own fitness as well. Usually their libido is higher and they value looking and feeling good for their spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:54 PM
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I think so. Pregnancy is the woman’s “fault” if occurring after a consensual encounter (like we have too many hormonal and non hormonal contraceptive methods to be getting pregnant unplanned) and if she doesn’t want a baby…she’s got plan b, birth control, or could actually learn how ovulation works if she doesn’t want to take either. I’m saying this as a mother of two. Both babies planned with my husband. I knew better than to be a single mom because child custody seems like fucking hell
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:55 PM
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My husband did this with me but now I’m the tradwife lmao. I agree that had I been unemployed and broke when he met me I would not be where I am today. He was impressed by the fact that I did not “need” him in laymen’s terms but as of now he’s very grateful that I’m willing to do the childcare and chores so he can progress his career
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:52 PM
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They didn’t want to divorce. Sorry you’ve only seen the negative. That must be exhausting and miserable. I actually watched both my GREAT grandparents marriages end in death so I know more about this than you probably do. Unless you also watched the same thing? No, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:36 PM
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I’m traditional and even then think women should pay for some dates. Men should pay for the first date. And it doesn’t have to be expensive. Go kayaking or for a hike and get some coffee. If she thinks she’s too good for that, you dodged a bullet. My husband and I got sushi and went to an arcade for ours lol. I worked in corporate for a film company and I spoiled him on several free movie dates with food and alcohol provided. Since I earned a lot of $$ I also took him to Colorado for his birthda…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:58 PM
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Not typically. Definitely are simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:43 PM
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I think so! A lot of people are going to deflect from the question but it’s true. I come from a long line of married family and the wives generations back loved babies. Loved their husbands. Could sew. Cook from scratch. Hosted events to entertain the family and neighborhood. They were full of zest and stayed in shape and stayed married until death parted them. Modern women? Christ. I say a prayer for my single male friends regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:42 PM
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Lots of wounded women here who were raised with toxic moms and it shows. They hate men and are openly misandrist and no one in their interpersonal circle is brave enough to tell them they need a better outlook on men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:12 PM
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How did you get a custom flair?!?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:10 PM
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That’s sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:09 PM
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Clearly a woman but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:07 PM
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No. You can find that in the same amount of time I would. Not doing your work for you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:55 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:01 AM
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Whatever Podcast
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:52 AM
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He literally wasn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:51 AM
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I disagree. As women, a good stock of our social currency is how we look and how fit we are. The lower we are on that rung, the lower we qualify for when it comes to men Sounds savage but it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:51 AM
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Oh yeah. He was basically calling monogamous couples immature for not being able to live his lifestyle lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:20 PM
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The only thing it proves is that polygamous marriage is a joke lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:19 PM
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I don’t associate with men who disrespect people off the bat. Women included. Even if they don’t like someone, because of something bad she did, they still say hi and keep things kosher but they’re not the type to call someone out of their name
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:57 PM
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What does it mean to you I’m not doing anything childish. You lot have gotten brainwashed into seeing a mother who stays home with her children as a child. That is insane af to me. By your logic, I would be more of an adult if I tossed my business that I own, got a job for someone else, and farmed my babies off to a daycare and wasted money on that Are the people who work at daycares teenagers?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:50 PM
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Ok but you still can’t disprove my other point 🙃 how am I more of an adult if I pay someone else to raise the babies I chose to bring into the world. And if you chose not to read the post I have my own company. So I get to earn money but even if I didn’t… How. I am dying to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:45 PM
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It’s actually not…my husband is a human being whom I adore and cherish He’s not the same as insurance, my god. That’s a gross comparison. Makes me feel like you don’t really have a high opinion of human relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:43 PM
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We aren’t supposed to do both 🤷🏾‍♀️ If you are working outside the home AND doing domestic duties, of course you’re going to be overwhelmed. That’s why I work for myself. When I was unmarried, I had a job. That changed for the better when I got pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:11 PM
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I heard this quote when I was 21 and I actually live by it “What you won’t do, someone else will.” Now, it sounds extreme but if you never express interest in sex with your spouse…someone else will. And humans can only go sooo long (I’m talking in extremes of 6 months plus) without affection from a spouse before they snap It is what it is. I also used to work in a male centric business (Budweiser model) so I’ve been a fly on the wall for some painfully honest male confessions
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:03 PM
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Ok then why bring that up 😂 you don’t even know and here you are presenting an anecdotal example as fact It’s normal in my culture too but I still got a job and moved to another city in spite of that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:57 PM
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Your situation sounds like a nightmare lmao. Renting is a nightmare on top of that. I never had a roommate after college by choice and I regret nothing. Nothing sounds appealing about living with a bunch of people I’m not married to or parenting ✌🏾oh and I’m not my husband’s maid. I cook and I wear clothes too, so if I don’t do any dishes or laundry it hurts me and my children. Not everything about maintaining a home is inherently toxic and y’all need to realize this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:54 PM
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Stay at home dads are not natural and I own my own business so I work from home. Why would dad be home when I’m the one breastfeeding for two years. I’m setting a better example while not having to outsource my child rearing. My son watches me process orders and package goods. When we go to the post office he knows why and he’s seeing that he can do whatever he wants some day I don’t have to clock in and choose to work for someone else to be a good role model 😘💁🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:44 PM
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Wow. You’re reinventing the wheel 👏🏾 I’ve never considered that in my entire life I should just switch to a fear and scarcity mindset right away/s If I were to become a widow I would be depressed over the loss of my fucking husband, not my lifestyle…take that attitude somewhere else
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:38 PM
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You’re assuming that I don’t have a backup plan Can you not read? I’m literally a business owner lmao. I had that before I got married
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:36 PM
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Would I be more of a grown up if I put my kids in a day care and argued with my husband for no reason Oh and it’s *you’re. The irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:28 PM
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Same to you lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:06 AM
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Oh ok. You go ahead and justify why a woman should have a baby and pay someone else to raise said baby then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:05 AM
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You’re spending 99% more time on a computer than I do, I have time freedom because I own an apparel company (I make clothes for martial artists) and all I do is print shipping labels in the morning and go about my day. And I don’t want or need his help when I’m cleaning and cooking for guests. It’s an honor for me to do this. What point are you even trying to make btw
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:35 PM
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It’s western women bc “we” (I’m western by birth but not ancestry and I am off the market) are probably the most “free” women on the planet and I don’t mean that as a compliment. We have been taught that interdependence on men is toxic (it isn’t), we can do whatever we want with whomever we want (false), and that birth control is a godsend (it is poison).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:31 PM
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I don’t think they actually believe in them. They don’t know how to leverage their social net-worth and femininity to attract a man who wants more than that. Some would call this “settling” and I bluntly call it them getting what they attract/deserve. I’ve heard countless other women say whether to me or a friend that they were going to “make a man wait” and they caved and ended up just becoming fwbs. Only to want a relationship and now the man has ZERO incentivize to agree to one. It’s self sab…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:29 PM
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I just described the benefits of being submissive. And I know most women wouldn’t want my lifestyle but some actually do. They just don’t qualify for it and can’t attract a man who will provide it. So they can continue to wear the pants, overwork themselves, and look down on women like me. 🐸 ☕️ Plus women shouldn’t be working full time when they become mothers. That’s an L on her part.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:17 PM
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Fragile Ego that hinges on them being misandrist even when they’re dead wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:03 PM
5

I’m a spoiled stay at home wife. I don’t have to lift a finger on the cars, I don’t take the trash out, or do any pest control or lawn maintenance. My husband takes pride in all of that and feels insulted if I even offer to grab groceries out of the truck. He is VERY traditional and so am I. My role, I’m the main one taking care of the kids, I cook his lunches for work and have hot dinner ready for him when he comes home. I’m a great host. If his friends come over, they get a hot meal and drinks…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:27 PM
0

They’re not actually happier being single. They just can’t get what they want. Big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:35 AM
1

Um I’m talking about women who are shooting for men out of their leagues too. It goes both ways. I’m NOT a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:33 AM
-1

That’s all well and good but a lot of people think they qualify for people who are vastly out of their league. I think people need more realistic standards. Not necessarily higher ones. The two are getting conflated like crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 11:59 PM
5

Nah but women are way more on any given second, minute, hour, and day of the week. There isn’t even a competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:35 PM
1

He is wealthy but not status or flashy wealth. So I never grew to value ego attached to wealth. He dresses like a regular ass soccer dad. You wouldn’t know his net worth by looking at him My husband is essentially the same. Dude comes from old money and has land wealth. He drives an 06 truck that’s beat up as hell and managed to impress me with it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:04 PM
3

A lot of them are male butterfaces
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:04 PM
3

I’m group 1. My father was wealthy but I am also attracted to and married a blue collar man. Nothing is better than job security and govt benefits lol. Plus he’s home a lot. We don’t live a glamorous life but I’m a stay at home mom and I could not ask for anything else Status guys are a huuuuge turn off. Huge. Couldn’t be more repulsive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:04 PM
2

Why would it not be. Fat women don’t even want to date fat men. I’ve stayed fit my entire life because I know it is directly tied to success or failure with relationships, social standing, and even jobs. If someone doesn’t understand that, then too bad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:08 AM
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Have you not seen my other comments. lmao. That’s a rhetorical question but I do it all the time and I have hundreds of downvotes on my roster as a result 👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:41 AM
2

Paying means you ultimately get nowhere, and you’re in struggleville Sugar daddies are in struggleville too. They lack the social capital to attract a woman based on anything other than their wealth. They’re just rich simps. Like wow, you have to hemorrhage your money on a woman who doesn’t actually love you and won’t take care of you if you get hurt or sick. Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:51 PM
2

Everyone in my friend circle 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 09:23 PM
6

No one with half a brain sees that as parentification. Parentification is leaving your 9 year old at home with your three younger kids so you can go on a date. Sh!t deal for the 9 year old and other kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 09:23 PM
2

Marriage and childbearing are becoming demonized and some people think they can’t afford or even have kids, both of which are usually incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 09:21 PM
2

I’m sorry for whatever happened in your life to make you think that. Clearly it was tragic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 09:16 PM
3

There was a three year period of my life where I did the bar thing. I’m a woman so I got approached left and right and got to be extremely picky. It was like being at a buffet and ending up with the best option available. But things have changed post covid. Also I’m no longer single but I never had bad luck at bars. I just wouldn’t recommend them for finding a spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:50 PM
1

She called herself black before the election, you’re going to have to accept that, because there’s video evidence of her doing it. And mainstream media ran with it too. Also not all blacks are African. Just keep digging the hole. It’s kind of hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:42 PM
2

Women: 18 to 29 Men: 18 to 80
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:25 PM
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Men are becoming more outspoken and selective these days which I appreciate. Because in tandem, women are getting less traditional, more aggressive/unfeminine, more fat, and less reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:05 PM
1

Even IF that’s her father’s make up, which I doubt She would be multiracial at best. Fighting this issue makes no sense. She only said she was a “black woman” to get more woke votes. It was disingenuous from the beginning. She erased her Indian side to get more perks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:03 PM
1

For all actual fuck’s sake. I am 10% Chinese. My great grandmother has some Chinese ancestry. Do I go about calling myself Chinese. NO Stop supporting the one drop rule! It is a toxic practice! If Kamala has any black ancestry buried in there it does not make her a “black woman” as she calls herself
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:02 PM
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You can either find that on your own or keep believing her lies. I’m shocked that they worked on some people lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:19 AM
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He’s not black. You sending that makes this even worse 😂 He’s what we call a “Coolie” in the Caribbean. I’m West Indian. The West Indies has a heavy Indian population but they will never be black just because of that. You can be a Jamaican and not be black.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:18 AM
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Ok but we are not talking about them 👏🏾 Why do you guys always do this. It has to get tired. You would get an F if you wrote papers like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:56 AM
2

The irony: she chose him 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:55 AM
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But we get picked. So if it works, then you can’t rag on it. Simps don’t actually get anywhere. That is why they are simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:54 AM
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I’m not stooping anywhere. Don’t tell me what to do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:51 AM
1

Her dad is not black and no, actually that is false even if he were. That’s called the one drop rule and it is egregiously ignorant. If he were black she could only be mixed. Calling herself black would be reductive. I’m the mother of a biracial baby. We never call him black and don’t let others do it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:50 AM
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Not a bad faith post.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:06 AM
3

I mean exactly what I said. She lied about being black
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:06 AM
1

Um tell that to the other person! Assuming my husband is stepping out on me is more grotesque than my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:05 AM
1

This is more disingenuous. The post made an absolute statement. I responded with an absolute answer. 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:03 AM
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Pick me isn’t an insult. Anyone who says it is a pass me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:03 AM
1

Who wouldn’t have a problem with kamala. She lied about being black to get where she is, she’s a callous person, and her own stepchildren admitted to not liking her
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 12:10 AM
2

Well, most do. But all don’t. So, yeah. It is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 12:04 AM
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Me: having flashbacks of all the mothers who trafficked, abused, and even m*rdered their own children
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 12:02 AM
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Whataboutism really needs to stop If you’re uncomfortable with the topic, then don’t try to spin it thinking you’re one upping anyone by deflecting the issue to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 12:02 AM
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We don’t! I am vehemently against unconditional female solidarity because a lot of women are satan reincarnated. I have male friends who have been victims of abuse from their exes. Physical abuse. With blood drawn. I know women who keep their children from their (excellent) fathers. Women who get a pass in society even though they’re terrible people. When I was 18, my “best friend” slept with my at the time boyfriend. Why would I assume that ALL people of any group are good when nothing works in…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 12:01 AM
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The women who complain about RP will never be happy anyway, they want men who act like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:35 PM
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🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:26 PM
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First of all, women who are even ON apps are not as hot on the market as they think they are. If I were a man, I would see that as a red flag. I’m 31 and I met my husband without any apps through jiu jitsu Anyway, the average woman has her ass kissed by her friends and society and she is told she deserves way more than she actually does. If she could attract the handsome, rich man she feels entitled to…she would not be on a damn app.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:35 PM
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That’s not even what I’m talking about though. I’m talking about extremes. A bunch of feminized men would die in a tribe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:42 PM
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Unresolved childhood trauma is the top answer I can think of. Before I got therapy, I attracted one ex who was the most toxic human I have ever met other than my mom. And I’m 31. I was damaged enough to tolerate his bs but I don’t consider myself a victim. I attracted him. Like a wounded animal does a predator. I stayed with him for a year. I eventually dumped him and made better choices, but I needed serious help to snap out of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:01 PM
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31F. I’m married, so I’m gonna answer how I thought while on the market. 4 3 1 7 6 6 2 10 5 On 3, idgaf if you went to college. Associates, trade school, etc are JUST as fine. In fact I saw college boys as less attractive than their rugged blue collar counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:39 PM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:34 PM
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never. He can do his own thing but I am personally not attracted to a man who is not fully straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:42 PM
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Exactly. She’s probably average, which there’s nothing wrong with being…and aiming for men who she doesn’t qualify for
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:38 PM
1

I made that comment from the kitchen, go protest about something irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:36 PM
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To you, for reasons you may be unaware of. Sorry for whatever happened to you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:36 PM
1

Okay so WHAT is she supposed to do then. Start fights and be defiant when he’s doing nothing wrong? Y’all love to create your own hell I swear If you’re with a man who makes poor decisions, that is your fault. Read to comprehend. Not to argue. You people go on all day about women being oppressed and not having choices. Then she chooses to live a peaceful life with a good man and she is a doormat all of a sudden Women keep women single
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:33 PM
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Is the other person trolling too? I agree with them. Go defy the natural order if you want
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:32 PM
1

Since when. Men shouldn’t be nannies and (usually) women make terrible politicians
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:32 PM
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Judging by the fact that those same women are posting one video bragging about being childless and then in the same week posting another sobbing that they’re lonely It’s a coping mechanism lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:26 PM
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Connotation is only negative if you don’t understand it or were never exposed to it in real life. I have never ever seen it as negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:56 PM
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Considering the fact that EVERY employed human submits on a regular basis, this word has gotten blown out of proportion. A submissive wife trusts her husband to lead the home and make decisions that will only benefit the wellbeing of the family. She does not compete with or challenge him. She exercises duty and does not put her own needs above anyone in a way that would sabotage the family. Submission is not being a doormat. Since, like I said, those of you who WORK…submit to your bosses and eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:55 PM
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Masculine women and feminine men are a liability and disrupt the natural order of things
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:37 PM
4

I definitely think men now outnumber women in wanting children. Especially their OWN children.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:18 PM
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Women give bad dating advice in general. Especially to other women. Stay fat, he HAS to accept you for who you are, you can do better (even if she can’t), shave your head sis, I’ve heard and seen the worst advice ever being given by women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:08 PM
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Marriage and traditional values have been demonized by feminists and the left
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:59 PM
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Most weren’t pressured into it. But good luck getting married if you don’t want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:37 PM
1

Whatever helps you sleep at night
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:34 PM
2

Projecting is a disease, sweetheart. Sorry your husband doesn’t like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:32 PM
0

Um, I’m a stay at home wife. Do you not know how real life works? I don’t work a 9-5. I get to shop and spend my days doing exactly what I want as long as the home is kept and my husband has his lunches and dinners prepped. My husband is not a (sexually) shared man. I love his hobbies and friends. So I still have HIGHER standards than some bum woman who shares her man. Any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:32 AM
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Birth control is a toxin. It is not a medical miracle. And it’s not a reason to be sexually frivolous. That is why society is so effed up today. Those women who “don’t mind sharing” have woefully low self esteem and low standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:14 AM
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There is. Cats are gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:09 AM
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The women who ask that are leftover women who cannot attract a quality man. They’re femcels. But they don’t even know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:08 AM
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Sharing is fundamentally disgusting physically and emotionally and socially. Why invite the risk of stds and bast4rd children all over the place between a bunch of unmarried women and one man? It is unhygienic even if you do wear condoms. Biomes are not supposed to be shared and spread intimately like this. That sounds like hell. Quality men do not want to be shared and they value giving and receiving loyalty. If a man wants to be shared like this, he has some massive issues that cannot be overl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:07 AM
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I really do not care enough to hunt for it for you. Your mind seems made up one way.✌🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:59 AM
2

Not sure what those statistics are but they’re contradictory to the ones I’ve seen lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:58 AM
2

I’m not pinning this on young people when everyone makes bad decisions. That’s ageist
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:08 PM
2

They made dumb choices and have bad judgment or communication skills This goes for divorce of any age though And most divorce is filed by women for the stupidest reasons I have ever heard
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:01 PM
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Marry and have kids young is smart. If you actually want kids and a spouse. Waiting is a horrible idea. I’ve never seen it work out well for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:59 PM
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I married one. His friends are all like him and they are married as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:26 PM
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He’s doing exactly what women do when they all of a sudden become virtuous and stop having one night stands. Good for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:12 PM
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Thank you. Also how did you customize your flair
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:52 PM
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No. My ex used to do this because his best friend was a serial cheater! I went to my friends birthday party without him and we took a group picture. Why did I go without him? He didn’t want to go. About eight of us are in the photo. Three men, five women. I had never met the three men before that evening and I wasn’t even standing next to them Ex’s cheater friend showed him the photo on Facebook and ex accused me of cheating so aggressively that I left him that month.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:00 AM
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Noooooooooo. Never. That’s like the number one way to be a piece of complete sh!t. I commented the other day that men used to take care of my drinks and food without even saying a word to me or expecting my number but that is vastly different. I have never in my life used a man to get material items, even one I was dating. The only nice things I have ever received were surprised gifts from a man I HIGHLY respected.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:55 AM
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It’s funny that you think your comment proves anything other than you having the issues I’m describing Also idk if you can read but this post was about women in your family which we are allowed to speak on individually
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:43 AM
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They still get laid for free. They’re doing something right. Idk what that has to do with anything though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:40 AM
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Still gonna be a no from me, studies be damned
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:18 PM
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Meh I actually support a service just for them but no one else
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:58 PM
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It’s sad that you’ve come to that conclusion when it’s aggressively false
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:52 PM
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I’m a very trad woman who happens to be born in the west. I’m a first generation American, so I was raised under hyper-patriarchal customs that make feminists scream with rage. Those customs have done nothing but benefit me my entire life though. I care about what men like, value, and think. My father told me verbatim to stay in shape, don’t burp and not apologize, have good domestic skills, and be kind/don’t nag. How did my husband attract me and get me to marry him? 1. He’s super handsome. Doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:50 PM
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Lazy? I could understand a neurotypical man being dubbed lazy but if a man doesn’t have the social capacity to know different how is he lazy…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:37 PM
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I didn’t go that far to say “only” people who are those things. You can be unattractive and still get laid consensually
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:09 PM
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100% should be illegal. When men and women do not have to use social skills and charm to attain sex, it creates a bunch of fucking weirdos in society
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 02:52 PM
1

Can I ask you something. How the fck are y’all getting the custom flairs?! I feel so dumb lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 02:46 PM
1

Why would you admit that you’re a communist omg 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 02:45 PM
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Same here, granted I have female friends but they are painfully likeminded. And it’s only about four-five of them. Whittled down immensely, no more leftist ones because they’re the most toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:13 AM
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They literally are. It’s pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:04 AM
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Confirm for me. Every matriarch in my family is bonafide insane. I got therapy to break the curse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 02:54 AM
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Most of us aren’t that great! I’m just going to say it. We’re handheld our whole lives and get away with way too much. It takes a high quality father to ground us and make us actually use logic and be considerate of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:48 AM
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Hiding your wealth is smart 🤷🏾‍♀️ keeps away the floozies
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:34 AM
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Yeah so that’s not what happened in the slightest but you can make assumptions if it makes you happy I’ve gotten nice things from longterm boyfriends and while minding my business at a restaurant some strange guy would pay my Bill and never even introduce himself. Has nothing to do with what you’re on about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:02 PM
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I do have an idea, as I’m married to one and have respect for his male friends both married and single. I don’t lump all men in together. You’re capable of receiving nice deeds too 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:00 PM
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Red pill women tend to carry ourselves a certain way, it just is what it is. We can be in a turtleneck and still get showered with compliments 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:55 PM
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Where did it say I despised it. I’m giving context to the topic at hand. Sorry no one has done something nice for you lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:50 PM
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If the woman is traditional, attractive and in shape, yes. At one point I had to choose, do I want to move to California and be a sergeant major’s wife…do I want to be a petroleum engineer’s wife, or do I want to be a jeweler’s wife. Chose the jeweler because we’re the most morally and politically compatible. I literally had three lifestyle paths in front of me (not at the exact same time. These were exes I had over the span of 10 years and the final is the one I married)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:12 PM
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I’m not doing anything. Cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:05 PM
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Frankly, people assume you’re a street walker or a gold digger if you happen to receive any sort of special treatment as a woman. None of the free things are things I ever asked for but even bringing it up arises lots of hatred from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:02 PM
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Quite the opposite, you do realize attractive women get free things in general from men and women they hardly even know Or maybe you don’t realize this because it has never happened to you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:00 PM
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I don’t need you to ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:59 PM
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It would be different if I were asking for or demanding these things. Feel better soon! As a man you’re not going to be able to stop it, just don’t buy anything for a woman you find attractive and then boom, you’re not participating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:58 PM
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It’s not but there’s definitely levels to it. An ex being meh and still getting free pizza isn’t much of what OP is talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:08 PM
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I 100% disagree with it. I’m not entitled under any circumstance I was (and still am as a wife) incredibly spoiled on the dating market and now. Free ubers, food, drinks, never had to pay on dates but ALWAYS offered, free trips, I could go on
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 02:52 PM
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Meh a pizza is ROOKIE af. Try havin a stranger pay for your meal and drinks at a restaurant and not even want your number, he just thought you were pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 02:50 PM
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Idk. All I’ve had to do is exist and not go to jail and I’ve never had to lift a finger my entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 02:49 PM
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Lmao I don’t know if I can leave a main comment since I’m a woman but I’m embarrassed at the amount of things I’ve gotten for free while remaining completely clothed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 02:48 PM
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No. You’re doing that. I’m saying that true masculinity does not impose violence on innocent people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 02:44 PM
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No it wouldn’t. That’s not masculinity That’s feminine energy bastardizing masculinity. Only weak, emasculated men do shit like that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:06 AM
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I’ve been physically and verbally assaulted more by women than men. I’ve had a girl mount and front choke me on the playground. My mom was VERY abusive. In fact I’ve never been accosted by a man physically. Verbally, sure. But the first person to call me a c***, all the other slurs used against women was my mom. I find that women have the exact same propensity to be violent and psychotic but society gives them a pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:34 PM
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Women definitely value unfiltered masculinity. The alternative is a man who makes me check what noise that was outside and I will never in my life find that appealing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:35 PM
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Fresh and fit are not red pill 😂 those guys are grifter simps at BEST
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:57 PM
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I can guarantee you are lower on the list than me, sweetheart. Go do some fucking research and stop being a pig-headed imbecile.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:36 PM
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❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:36 PM
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That’s not a RP thing that’s more of a polyamorous leftist thing. Most RPers are about mutual loyalty
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:50 AM
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I just kept walking and acted like I was deaf. It has never worked. Ever. This is USUALLY met with anger and they follow me, call me a stuck up b!tch, say I’m ugly, etc. One man chased me into a bathroom at a WalMart because I didn’t want to shake his hand (you might think this is rude but this is how women get drugged and trafficked! They hide patches or needles in their hand to prick you and follow you until you are intoxicated or pass out) the staff accosted him and called the police. I had t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:20 AM
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You’re describing my mother and mother in law 🙃 therapy was expensive. My husband is starting his soon. We have pieces of work for moms
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:14 AM
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Well this is highly uneducated. You do realize child abuse is a highly pervasive issue and it leaves very sweet, otherwise intelligent people with the inability to spot red flags. That has shit all to do with maturity and stupidity
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:12 AM
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Probably former victims of childhood abuse and are clueless about their worth, how to receive respect, etc. Don’t know how to spot red flags because mom and or dad made red flags the norm for them growing up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:09 AM
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They don’t stop even after kids. This is why so many kids grow up messed up and there are so many frivolous divorces. “irreconcilable differences” shouldn’t even be allowed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:44 PM
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They were lied to by their moms and other boomers. “get your degree and then find a husband”. So they invest everything into that paper, even if it means going into debt. They come out of college brainwashed, in their eary twenties, with no dating skills bc they netflixed, chilled, and beer ponged too many weekends
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:34 PM
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Bingo. College tried and failed at turning me into a marxist and a feminist. So I can see why so many women are disgruntled and lost. Even though they admit to wanting to be married! Okay, then stop acting like men and flexing things they don’t care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:21 PM
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They don’t actually bring what men want so they get defensive. Some women think men ONLY want sex and hot food and that’s very reductive of men in general. If a man is looking for a wife, he is going to ask tough questions. I don’t see this question as offensive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:16 PM
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A woman should never propose to a man unless he is literally paralyzed and cannot fucking talk Men are supposed to pop the question. Always. I’ll take my downvotes now, please!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:25 PM
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I love age gap relationships and the women who get tossed aside usually don’t work to maintain their relationships. They get fat, they become super misandrist, they get lazy and stop trying Men don’t trade in a valuable stock that treats them well for a volatile brand new one. They will trade a stock that suddenly plummets with no chance of return though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:05 AM
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Prove it wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:20 PM
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Or they don’t qualify for good men. Standards be damned.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:05 PM
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Love the age gap. Older man/younger woman is the only one that makes sense. Every man I know who dates older women has some issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:21 PM
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My husband was 32 when I met him and I was 25. Age gaps were a primary thing I looked for when choosing a date. Men my age were an automatic NO. And don’t be younger than me or else I’m just going to laugh internally.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:20 PM
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Depends on the type of woman. If she is mentally sound, in good shape, and actually LIKES men then she shouldn’t struggle as much as her hyper radical feminist friends who are the same age. Men just don’t like jaded women. If she’s single at 25 and trying to make something work then she’ll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:19 PM
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Lol NO. As soon as I realized emotions and intent were not a match I made it abundantly clear and did not continue contact as not to give off the wrong idea. Some women keep men along for the free food and validation. Which should be illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:00 PM
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Men have it better as they get older. Obviously don’t get a woman pregnant when you’re an old geezer. But if you’re relatively attractive and charismatic, the wall comes much later for men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:17 PM
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Proof that money doesn’t bring intelligence. I will spoil my blue collar king any day of the week. Trips to Bali be damned
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:25 PM
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Rich. Knows Joe Rogan. That’s all I can say. Has been engaged five times, in open marriage now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:04 PM
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It is, but then again your question lives in hypothetical bc no one can 100% prevent sti or bastard kids lol n
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:37 PM
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No. I’m already a SAHM and wife without all of that drama lol. I’ve been with an excessively wealthy man and he actually let me know on like the second date that he likes to keep options open. But I would get trips and items to keep me happy. I walked. I was appreciative of his honesty though. I used to go to the same gym as a very well known trust fund kid. He had relationships like this. One of the saddest mofos I have ever seen alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:35 PM
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OMG thank you for mentioning bpd. Women get away with it way too much. People around them cower to them. My own mom is a bonafide Grand Karen. It pleases me to no end when strangers either hang up on her or kick her out of their business because she’s being difficult. I had the best example of how not to act because of her. If she isn’t a narcissist she definitely has BPD
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:23 PM
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Point is they will never do that bc the avg woman is uneducated about fitness. So that’s why only cardio and ass machines are in that section. It would cost too much to make the gyms equal
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:13 PM
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Yes sometimes men are clueeeless on how to take or choose a pic that flatters them. I matched with my now husband but we never chatted or met up via the app. This was in 2012 before the apps got smutty AF. But anyway he had the GOOFIEST pictures that did not show how hot he is. We met in real life five years later. Crazy. Idk. Maybe that’s the way to go? Women usually rely on as much sexappeal as possible and then it can be a letdown when meeting them (from what guys have told me)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:02 AM
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Yeah for real. Like what are we doing here then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:57 PM
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I let my husband take the reigns on most of that. We’re on the same page that traditional masculinity is a positive. It’s my duty to show him what a nurturing mother looks like and not to act like he can never love anyone but me. My mother in law already does that with my husband and it makes me nauseous. I also have a responsibility NOT to display any erratic emotional behaviors in his presence so he doesn’t find “crazy girls” to be comfortable or normal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:56 PM
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NO. As a woman myself, I always snort aloud when I join a new gym and they’re like, “Do you want to see the women’s area?!” Fuck no I don’t lol. I like the weight room. That’s actually how you get in good shape. Not a row of treadmills with nothing but ab and glute machines.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:19 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:55 PM
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One time a guy and I matched but I didn’t message him back. He actually approaches me in person at the pool and I’m like damn, he is FINE, I fcked up We hit it off really well. So the looks better in person is super common for men hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:55 PM
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If marriage and kids are the reason you stop having sex with your spouse Both of you are not trying hard enough and you must not really like each other. Idc. I’ve been married for five years and it’s only gotten better over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:01 PM
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Can confirm. Long story short, a week doesn’t go by. And we have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:49 PM
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Screw that. Take the risk and write women. You’re not going to get punished in this sub for doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:18 AM
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Modern women get offended by this because they were not shown how to embrace traditional roles. It’s not a harmful question. With my husband, obviously he gets my loyalty but I take care of the things he shouldn’t have to and Vice versa. I’m happy to be the one with the baby all day so we don’t waste money on daycare. He was thrilled to find someone who shared his views on this. Any woman who gets triggered by that question needs some serious help.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:17 AM
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Are you serious? It’s pretty obvious. Who is the main demo for a i d s. Like, come on. Plus, I’m heterosexual. I prefer to and only dated men who are infallibly heterosexual. Nothing is appealing about being with someone who isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:35 PM
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Not everything has to be a motive that involves race baiting. Seriously. Or else statisticians would not have jobs. They would be relegated to hate mongers. It is okay to see a stat and not get in your feelings over it. I’m a black woman. 1/4 of us are married. 4/5 of us are overweight. I’m married, and definitely not fat. But I don’t get in a tizzy if someone brings those numbers up. WHY would I.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:33 PM
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Stating basic stats
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:11 PM
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Who? This has never happened to me. Hypothetically though, it would make me pretty sick
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:10 PM
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I’m black and I don’t think it’s prejudiced to call that out for what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:38 PM
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I’ve never been in this situation but yes, it would anger me as a single woman to be with a bi man who was not upfront about it 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:37 PM
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Are you seriously unaware or do you just not like the answer…hint, rhymes with SHADES
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:36 PM
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My mom was fat and picked on me for being fit. But I had a short fat phase in college. Honestly, becoming a mother does not have to ruin your body. It didn’t ruin mine. The average woman just kinda gives up or doesn’t have the education on body recomp. So that’s why that assumption is so pervasive. You’re not seeing that many women actually put the work in to get to their best shape after kids. Even though it’s not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:04 PM
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Idk how to answer that in percentages because we all naturally fluctuate (I’ve had to yell at a strange woman not to touch my baby, my husband has cried at a funeral) but it’s not ideal to fight your gender role and make fighting it your whole identity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 09:26 PM
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That author was right And we probably both know women who actually had a GOOD man interested in them or want to marry them when they were younger. But she thought she could do better. And now he’s the one who got away, spoiling his wife and kids and wearing matching pjs on Christmas
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 09:20 PM
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Men get better as they age. They have the room to be older than women and not have it harm them as much. Our social currency is drastically different.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:24 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:23 PM
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Men’s social currency is not tied to their age and beauty like women’s is. So no
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:23 PM
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He’s a man, that’s how he knows. Be triggered all you want, but I agree with him. I thought that before I even met him having observed my mom’s single friends and coworkers when I was younger. He is six years older than me and I personally love that gap. My 30+ single friends are a nightmare 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:22 PM
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Gender roles aren’t oppressive. My husband works, I take care of the house and our child. I don’t expect him to do laundry and dishes since he does plumbing, electrical work, landscaping, pest control, and works on our cars. Our tasks aren’t exactly 50/50 equal imo. People aren’t doomed to be ineffective when they’re single. When you get married, there’s naturally more to keep up with so when everyone plays their role it doesn’t have to be complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:20 PM
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Disadvantages: the kids grow up with a warped sense of reality, they crave normalcy when they see their friends parents interact, they might grow up with piss poor relationship skills themselves and not have healthy expectations for a spouse There are no advantages to flipping the script. Idc what any blue or purple pill people think about that. Those women don’t really like being masculine. They’re just stuck. And their ego won’t allow them to unlearn their ways. Or they just NEVER had a health…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:14 PM
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Agree. My husband and I got married when I was 25. We were done with pregnancy and had all the kids we want before my early 30s. Purposefully heading into geriatric pregnancy is irresponsible
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:06 PM
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Nothing about power. If you think that, then that is really sad and idk where you got that idea from.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:05 PM
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Meh, no not really. The town I used to live in had one of the most successful lawyers in the US. He got divorced and got with a 21 year old. Nothing seemed low class about it. She’s trilingual and very pretty. Sure she spends money on STUPID stuff but he definitely gets props on her from his colleagues. That’s just how some men operate. The 28 has more years to colossally screw up in relationships. I’m grateful I got married at 25. I did not want to be an old bird on the market. No thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:03 PM
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I couldn’t care less lol. Being aggressively trad has gotten me everything I want in life, anyone who wants to fight reality is just going to be stuck mad at the universe and at men for their nature
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:02 PM
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Does anyone need to deal with it? No. Kick em to the curb and find someone who isn’t already full of disdain
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:01 PM
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Incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:00 PM
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You were the only one making generalizations here. It’s an unspoken rule that widows are automatically granted with a level of grace over others.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 01:59 PM
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Yeah literally no one applies this to widows. A widow is eligible for re marriage WAY moreso than even a regular divorcé
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 01:58 PM
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Not sure when but it’s gotten bastardized by manhating misandrists. Patriarchal societies are not bad and function quite well when people don’t try to buck the natural order of things. My father comes from one and the women absolutely never raise hell about being the primary caregivers, because the men don’t hesitate to work hard for their families.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:57 PM
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Or, they just don’t want a woman who’s super jaded and ruined her chances with good men when she was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:45 PM
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Are the older women jaded and difficult to please? Seems like it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:44 PM
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My husband said that a 30+ single woman is a red flag. In 9/10 cases, he’s right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:44 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with them wanting that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:43 PM
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Age matters. My husband asked me my age on the first date. I had zero issue divulging it. Age is good for fertility, compatibility, etc. Some men don’t want a woman older than them. Some women don’t want a man younger than them. The women who gatekeep or lie about that information are being deceptive and childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:43 PM
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Getting into a relationship is free and requires no certification. That’s how these same lesser intelligent people go on to have seven kids
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:38 PM
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Definitely due to basic strength. The feminists can argue this all they want but you don’t see them doing these jobs in droves. When I was single I did LOADS more strategizing It isn’t difficult. My job used to require loads if it. I was a tournaments director and worked single handedly onsite for days. When you have a spouse then you have someone who helps with that. As long as you chose well, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:36 PM
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Yes, men are better at that And if a woman has no husband to raise a child with, she is forced into an unnatural and typically masculine role. Which is not good for children. She either needs to make things work with the father or settle for a man who will take on kids that aren’t his. Both of my grandmothers were single mothers. They have horrible attitudes. In terms of learning it faster, I think that’s the one area we can be somewhat equal since our most ancient ancestors had to survive the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:26 PM
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Imo: Both I have a baby to take care of and dinner to get on the table. My husband can work that stuff out. A society full of women would collapse and die very quickly. No one to do any underwater welding, heavy lifting, dangerous jobs, and protection. That sounds like a literal hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:29 PM
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Funny bc OP didn’t make any of the assumptions you’re accusing them of making. Their questions were reasonable. We are different sexes and do things differently. We SHOULD be different. If you’re a woman and want to act more like a man, go for it. No one is stopping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:27 PM
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breathe
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:26 PM
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Answering for myself. God no. I’m a SAHM with a graphic design business, not competing with anyone really. I would scrap it tomorrow if I needed to. No No. Mentally unwell ones do, hence cases of infanticide and extreme child abuse 😞 but I would easily k*ll an intruder or threat to save my children. Somewhat. In different ways than men. Like, I tend to go to a party with extra plates, napkins, and silverware, while my husband and his friends make sure there’s enough dip (food dip not the nasty s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:24 PM
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They’re faking it. I used to have those kind of friends. Go look at their instagram and they’re traveling. Taking painting classes. Looking cute at the dogpark and on the hiking trail. Meanwhile they are SOBBING to me over a pint of ice cream about wanting a good man and asking me about my relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:05 PM
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Jesus christ, stop bastardizing my point. Either get some damn fertility education and learn how to actually prevent pregnancy, or have sex within the confines of a stable relationship, preferably a marriage. We have too many women doped up on hormonal birth control, which fails, and sleeping around with whoever they feel like it that week and then not taking responsibility when they get pregnant. Those same women are clueless as HELL about fertility timing and that’s why they’re having unwanted…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:02 PM
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“This guy tried to get her woman” What? Anyway I’m not bothering with all of that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:50 PM
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I never said anything about abstinence either. You need help lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:48 PM
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OMG you’re unhinged
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:21 PM
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Quit adding extraneous shit that I never said Don’t have sex if you’re not ready to raise a child. It’s that simple. (Not talking about the less than 1% of abortions due to r4pe and 1ncest, talking about these sexual revolution crazies who want to hook up with no consequences)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:21 PM
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You don’t seem like the best judge of that but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:16 PM
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I don’t care enough about your opinion of me to do any of that. Have a good weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:13 PM
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Oh man. Earlier this woman posted in a weight loss group that she’s going on a date. She catfished the guy by using a pic of her face when she’s morbidly fat. Avoided using pics of her body. I kid you not, these women in the group said HE would be the asshole if he were to reject her. Even though she is willingly lying about her size JUST to get a foot in the door. Have fun eating a pint of ice cream after you get rejected, maam.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:20 AM
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Op thinks that bc they have never met quality red pill people, so they focus on fear mongering and extremist examples and think that those are what represent real, every day men who go to work When that is false
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:07 AM
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The men you’re talking about don’t advocate for any of that. They’re normal husbands and fathers who provide for their families so their wife can raise+homeschool the kids and not some damn daycare or school.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:04 AM
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You straw manned HARD and you need to admit it. Question was asked in bad faith and you know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:03 AM
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Oh my god thank you. I was like did she really just use the most shit examples possible in the second paragraph. This is not a good faith question nor was it ever at any point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:03 AM
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But when did I, as in me, say that? Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 08:25 PM
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I never said that. You guys love to contort reality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 04:31 PM
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Pro-life, conservative woman here 🖐🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 04:07 PM
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I don’t blame married men for supporting a good cause 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 04:07 PM
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I think shame is better and more effective than peer pressure. Society needs more shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:31 PM
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Dumb women, sure. I can’t stand that show.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:03 PM
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I think that seems right for typical results. I’m 31, married, black woman and red pill so I would be shocked if there are more than two of us in here ☠️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:23 PM
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Both, unfortunately. Not natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:43 PM
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Where are you meeting women. Get off the apps. Join a coed sport. That’s where the fit women who have somewhat of an outlet for their mental stress are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:04 AM
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Thank you. I just wanted to make it clear I’m not doing those basic mommy shirts with the quotes on them 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:46 PM
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Absolutely not under any circumstance. I make rashguards and leggings for martial artists. I use adobe and .tiff files to make designs and mockups. I surcharge if they want a custom design with their sponsors and instagram handle on it I trained for six years but took time off for children. So I know what my customers want since I used to be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:34 PM
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Not just Etsy. I have my own domain and a lot of my sales come through Instagram traffic and word of mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:04 PM
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Sucks to be her, she’s unprofessional. I just stated that I work for no one, she clearly “worked” for you I have a store with apparel I designed and all I do is wake up to paid orders and head to USPS. No room for unprofessional conduct. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:01 PM
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You insinuated that. He’s a stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:56 PM
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I’m on my husband’s payroll I hate working. So I work for my family and I have my own graphic design company that makes me tons of $ but I answer to no one Women will look for any reason to not respect men I swear 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:23 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:19 PM
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Zero. Vested. Interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:19 PM
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No one ever said that. He’s added to a list of very stereotypical serial killers because of his dynamic with his mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:17 PM
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It’s one of the biggest dangers to society today Chris Watts (family murderer) - helicopter mother
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:00 PM
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They’re not misogynistic. They’re tired of what the market has to offer. Which is mostly scraps and jaded females.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:48 AM
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My dad is from a VERY patriarchal country. I’m first generation American on his side and he never held back on giving me conservative tips and advice on marriage from a young age. I’m grateful to him for this. Men get laid and get married where he’s from far more than they do in the states. And it’s a tiny island. Feminism JUST made its way over there in the past 5-10 years, sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:46 AM
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Most of our grandmothers did not settle
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:45 AM
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Incel problem is due to missing or low testosterone fathers and domineering mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:44 AM
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Underreported and I have zero vested interest in you believing me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:11 AM
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Even though that one was fake, for every one of her there are fifty real people who think like her and that skit proved it. Bc they all flooded out of the depths to flex that they were too good for chains
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:38 PM
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🌎
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:34 PM
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Nothing is wrong with chains. Nobu is a chain. Kyoto is a chain. Ruth Chris is a chain. It doesn’t matter. People are being picky over the most stupid things and wondering why they’re alone at 30+
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:34 PM
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A lot of those women are becoming misandrist spinsters and a good portion of them are engaging in OF content How do I know? I’m acquaintances with (not close to) any of these women and a lot are putting up a facade. This is anecdotal but I know two dozen plus modern women who have a secret OF (or so they think) and they brag about it in our private insta groups
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:33 PM
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I get called a pick me. A c*m dumpster. Nothing but a hole to f&ck. A mammy. A slave. This is by angry feminists who can’t even get a second date so I usually have a good laugh over it while I’m making my husband dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 11:27 PM
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Modern women outnumber traditional women. There are countless women who fit the “fictional” bill you described. They are out here in these streets. None of this is fear mongering. These are real people who live off of superficial validation and simp currency to pay their bills. They also think they’re too good to be taken to chain restaurants, according to recent dating sphere news 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 11:14 PM
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Mad respect for any man brave enough to wear this. I would laugh so hard and probably give him props on his fearless sense of humor I’m a trad woman and I get raked on the coals by other women for it so even though it seems like we could get away with things like that, we can’t lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 11:10 PM
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Likewise
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 11:08 PM
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I’m married to one, and still wager that you are the one who hasn’t met one. I do feel sorry for the outlook you’ve developed on gender and marital dynamics though. Comes from a fear-based place for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:27 PM
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I want that quote on a shirt
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:26 PM
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That is piss poor advice. I think 25% is fair. The rest needs to be completely self generated. It is OKAY to be interdependent on a husband or wife. That’s what marriage is. But you need to be able to laugh. Smile. Enjoy nature, find zest in life, draw happiness from parenting on your own. Your spouse is just a bonus. They should never be responsible for 90% of your happiness. That is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:25 PM
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🖐️ my mil is that toxic mother. She tells jokes like this all the time. She doesn’t get invited to things when we can help it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:23 PM
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I’m not a misandrist so I would never fucking tell my son this. My MIL is a misandrist and she said this quote to me last month. I told her that jokes like that are pathetic and the irony is when she needs help with her phone, computer, car, pest control, lifting something, landscaping, house building and maintenance, she has to call a man to do it. She takes pride in emasculating my father in law and as a result he looks for excuses not to be around her. So if you want everyone in your life to …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:22 PM
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I don’t think you’ve met a real red pill man because they are not like that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:13 PM
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Relationships dissolving over children means that both adults involved are emotionally incapable of adaptation and sacrifice. This has rung true for every couple I know who divorced after kids. Then they realize the grass is dead on the other side and there isn’t a tree full of people who want to date them. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:12 PM
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Some women have unprocessed trauma that makes them overly susceptible to people pleasing. These women do not have boundaries. They also may not know their worth. They could be survivors of familial abuse. You can have all of this and not be handicapped other than psychologically. But on paper you are not handicapped in the way you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:55 PM
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There’s no confirmation bias. I’m not seeking that content. Frankly, I could do without it. I’ve also endured those rants from formerly single friends of mine as well. I couldn’t escape it unless I just chose not to use the internet or speak to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:35 PM
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Not that at all. A lot of single women admit to being miserable and it just gets called out from time to time. For christ’s sake, you could go to any social media site (I’m only on insta…I do not have tik tok) and find a woman absolutely sobbing that she is alone for the holidays. She is tired of being a guest at weddings. She wants a husband. She wants babies. She regrets putting her career and traveling and dating fboys first. She wants to know where the “good men” are
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:21 PM
2

Amending it would serve…what. I’ll pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:16 PM
0

If you’re truly happy with your open arrangement, then you wouldn’t need to justify it to us lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:13 PM
2

It’s not the same thing. I think you know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:09 PM
0

Ultimately, proving someone’s point inadvertently isn’t a bad thing. It happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:06 PM
0

“Garbage messaging from society/media.” Plus you call your significant other your “partner” which is a huge indicator of how your relationship is structured.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:54 PM
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You just proved the other commenter’s point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:50 PM
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You’re not shrinking yourself down by practicing a life of duty to others than yourself. You might understand if you get married. I think the fact that you define my definition as a problem is the problem. Women come in all types.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:45 PM
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Yikes. I feel sorry for whatever happened to make you think motherhood is a bad deal in any capacity. It didn’t ruin my looks or my body. My identity is improved thanks to my child and soon to be second child. I have wanted babies from a young age, and married a man who supports us so I can be the one raising them. Not a daycare. Absolutely not financially ruined. I was even able to start a graphic design company that makes me passive income (I avg $20-$40 per hour without doing jack squat) You …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:18 PM
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Dysfunctional, crappy, women are simply allowed to fester and exist without consequences. Men are not given this much grace. We have allowed women to become man-hating slobs who detest their nature and this has grown like wildfire. Finding a demure, modest, family driven woman who stays in shape and actually respects men seems to be like finding a unicorn in the 21st century. I actually feel sorry for *some men. *I know that not all men struggle to find good women. Because I like to give men ben…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:14 PM
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I don’t believe in divorce so I haven’t thought of that. Idk. It’s a bridge I don’t hypothetically cross. That leads to poor outcomes in a current relationship. Humans are adaptable. If GOD FORBID that happened, I would have other things to worry about. Like child custody and moving, it sounds like hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:06 PM
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Most people approach that question to be condescending. As if I haven’t thought of that. And they’re coming from a disingenuous place of hurt. It’s not a benign question. I can see that you were truly clueless about it but believe me, the average person is being a tool when they ask that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:05 PM
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I answered you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:12 AM
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Y’all as in the very predictable people who bring up “wHaT iF yOU gET dIvORCEd” as if that’s relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:12 AM
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Fear and scarcity mindset. He’s my husband. He’s more than just a provider. Thanks for your concern but please seek help
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:03 AM
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No one said I was. Do what you want. I’m not surprised that you disagree anyway lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:37 PM
1

WHAT. Another red pill woman? I need to get my eyes checked. We’re so rare in the wild
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:51 PM
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I’ve seen some women not only be jealous but try to sabotage those men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:41 PM
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Op described them pretty accurately imo
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:59 AM
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Quality over quantity. My husband has five very devoted lifelong friends and then a large circle of acquaintances through work and jiu jitsu
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:37 AM
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I don’t care about my career. I had a child. Before he was born I started a graphic design company and that makes me passive income. Working for other people is trash when you have a child to nurture. So it all comes back to women being selfish 🤷🏾‍♀️ Fathers are not supposed to be with the children over a mother. They cannot breastfeed. They are not hormonally wired the way we are. Family leave is a trap so that you eventually have to waste money on childcare. It’s fucking insane that a lot of y…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:24 AM
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Men bring completely different things than women. If you’re not used to a man bringing a lot then that is on you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:16 AM
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Why are y’all so obsessed with that question. First I would be devastated at the end of my relationship. Resources be damned. I would not suffer financially from this. So my only focus would be heartbreak over losing my husband and having to split custody of our children.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:11 AM
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It’s easy to find a provider man when you qualify for one. Majority of women don’t want to do the work. It’s not hard if you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:58 PM
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I’m a sahm. My “payment” is the $$ I get to use for bills and food. I don’t expect more than that. Plus we save by not subjecting our child to daycare.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:58 PM
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I’m a stay at home mom. We have a single income home by traditional standards but I get my own miscellaneous cash from my graphic design company. I have never once “expected” 6 figures for what I do…my “work” is a blessing and it keeps us from paying for daycare or a nanny so we save money. I hardly spend anything other than $$ to feed us well and provide fun outings for our son. When I spoil myself it’s on some makeup and hair products. I do my nails and hair at home because wasting $$ is again…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:57 PM
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Young women need to bring Fitness, kindness, nurturing spirit, domesticity, duty, loyalty, and respect. And being childless before marriage. But the average western woman can’t be bothered to do 1/4 of that 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:40 PM
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“Cishet white man who came from money”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:04 AM
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Lovebombing is a turn off to anyone male or female who has been through it and knows what it looks like. Why? We can see that the ultimatums are disingenuous. That person doesn’t actually like us. They’re just doing it as a power play. OR they do actually like us but they’re painfully oblivious to their own trauma and haven’t worked on it yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:11 PM
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Liberal brain rot is easily worse on any given day
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:03 PM
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The only women who like woke men are the ones who have realized they cannot attract masculine men. I have an ex friend who started an OF, she has a boyfriend who “supports” her and pays her bills. He is a serial pushover and I have no respect for him or her
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:35 PM
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OF women can “get” very low-level men. These are men who lack masculinity and don’t mind their woman being accessible by everyone. Hell, 300 pound women get boyfriends (I call them lampreys), so getting a man is an extremely low bar. In general. Some men are woefully desperate. But actually being considered for marriage by a high quality man is a completely different story. No self respecting man wants his children raised by a woman who is two google searches away from sexual content of herself.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:34 PM
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They file for the majority of divorces, and your comment is equally nonsense. I have a college degree. I’m also a SAHM. Majority of left leaning, educated women think that actually raising their own children is beneath them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:25 PM
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That’s in no way exclusive to being a man, white, or rich…I know countless minority veterans who are like this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:20 PM
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This is true of very dumb and short-sighted women, I will give you that. I know two who fit this bill to a T. But they’re definitely not the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:03 AM
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If his wife needs that much validation and emotional support then she needs to get a DOG.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:02 AM
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Finally another real red piller. Most of these comments are from blue pilled people
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:00 PM
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Workaholic men are a godsend. Sure, we miss them, but they make our lives more enriched so we can be the ones raising our children. Not some stupid daycare.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:59 PM
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Being college educated makes you less prone to want to be dutiful to a husband and children. So when they say those women bring nothing to the table…that is extreme…but when she hates the idea of being nurturing and sacrificing for a family, then yeah. She brings nothing to the table that that man cares about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:58 PM
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Modern day woman: hellish, misandrist, entitled, hates children and has them anyway to trap a man and farm them off to daycare Since I’m a heterosexual married woman: when I look for female friendships, it’s with other conservative wives. Conservative women come in all colors, (I’m black) I have black, Asian, and Hispanic female friends who are staunch conservatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:56 PM
2

1000% accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:25 PM
1

The HR and marketing people are the first to go in company lay offs. I recruited for five years. Their salaries are not worth it to companies in hard times.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:21 PM
1

Uh, if you like colossally giving up then be my guest. Gluttony and contention are sins, mr christ pill lol (haven’t seen that before)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:51 PM
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Billie is a dumb leftist so she doesn’t live in reality. Men get criticized all the time. I remember Toby Macguire being bullied after spiderman for gaining weight. Everyone would gain weight if they had to be that ripped for a decade
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:48 PM
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Can we stop saying partner? They’re (ideally) looking for a husband if they want children.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:16 PM
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Subjective since debt and nowadays, the skills and trades are WAY more valuable than these little HR and Marketing dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:22 PM
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I get hate for it. I don’t give two shits. My dad is a naturalized citizen so I was raised with aggressively trad views
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:21 PM
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Hahaha. Not me thinking you meant age maximum of 21. I was like dang this is savage and kind of based
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:23 AM
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BASED lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:22 AM
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It’s true that we don’t necessarily like you for money especially if the relationship is new. My husband made 45k while I made 55k when we MET. He now makes $80k, I’m a stay at home wife. He’s the hottest man I’ve ever dated, rugged, and traditional so I was not in any way put off by his initial salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:52 AM
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I used to go to a very expensive gym and it was LOADED with bimbo gold digger types. Money has to be vanguarded even more when men deal with those women. You almost have to cosplay as an average earner to ward the trust fund seekers off and get a genuine woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:50 AM
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Wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:33 AM
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I think men have EVERY right to worry about this. Especially if they’re going to legally tie themselves to a woman and share resources with her. You want her to be fit and agreeable at the VERY least. I lost the baby weight and no one forced me to. I respect my husband and myself enough to not want to look like a slob. The avg American woman just gives up and I think that’s grotesque.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:33 AM
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Women Gatekeep fertility. For Christ’s sake we have to have more discernment. My tombstone is on the hill.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:28 AM
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Ew lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:25 AM
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Nothing works in absolutes. But the overwhelming majority of y’all do, and you get praised for it. A lot of you like emasculated men because it allows you to rule the roost and flip the gender roles. 🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:22 PM
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I’m not shocked that you disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:15 PM
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Women gatekeep fertility, barring tragedies like SA. If a woman is having sex out of wedlock, she needs to understand and open up to the potential consequences. Stds, and pregnancy. Do not ever expect sympathy for falling pregnant while being frivolous with your womb. No one forced you to do that. I waited until marriage to get pregnant. It is not difficult to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:18 PM
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Vague. What’s your actual question.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:15 PM
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It’s just kind of weak to concede in the way you’re describing. Goes back to my point of you don’t qualify for what you want, so you’re rage quitting for easier targets. And the irony is there’s more incentive for them to take advantage of you than a woman who doesn’t have to fight for a green card.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:00 PM
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Yeah so I can tell by your flair and attitude that this is just going to be a man-hating circle jerk on your end. You’re still not addressing the post. Have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:40 PM
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I don’t know exactly. So I’ll guess. It’s close to half or a little more. But that’s anecdotal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:37 PM
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That’s straw-manning the entire post and ultimately gets us all nowhere
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:01 PM
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“Modern women” are not typically married. I think OP is talking about the radical fem types who are perpetually single and outwardly hate men. Wives who adore their husbands aren’t really modern women. We’re closer to traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:55 PM
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I think (and this is from knowing but not being friends with) those women are oblivious and frankly quite dumb about how they present themselves. They may not have been taught that being demure, having domestic skills, and being nurturing will get them further than flashing t1ts and ass. Being overtly sexual gets them a quick dose of validation and dopamine. They confuse that with the same longtime dose that a healthy relationship would give. So they chase the quick, get dumped, eventually get j…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:54 PM
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The title and WHOLE post OP made are in regards to women. So no. We’re not gonna placate the question about men since women gatekeep fertility and birth. A man can’t have a child out of wedlock without a woman anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:51 PM
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This isn’t about them. It’s about women. Whataboutism is truly childish
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:43 PM
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If anyone tries to change this view they are criminally insane
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:42 PM
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Feminist only want men to suffer… They don’t actually like men. And most feminist can’t actually attract a man that they would want anyway, so don’t expect them to have solutions to this sort of problem. They don’t like you guys by the way I’m using speech to text, so there are a few errors.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:47 PM
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progressive women don’t want any of the things that you listed… I don’t think they know what progressive means I am way more traditional than the average bear, and I think that a religious or big ceremony sounds wonderful to me… But it would be a colossal nightmare to the progressive women I’m acquainted with
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:44 PM
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31/stay at home mom/west indian I couldn’t care less what they think about him… Since he’s the best husband I could ever ask for, but luckily, they like him. His parents on the other hand… They don’t like me because I don’t let them walk all over us. So there’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:16 PM
1

My un-degreed husband outearns 4 out of 5 of his college educated friends and has no student loan debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:09 PM
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Considered fundamentally different from a bachelors and higher degrees and doesn’t change much since he’s not saddled with the debt from a typical bachelor’s and he doesn’t have the subdued nature most college educated men have since they have to submit to a corporate entity in most (of course NOT ALL) cases
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:03 AM
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I’m a stay at home wife now. When I met him I made 10k more than him. So that’s where we’re at 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:53 PM
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Yeah education only matters to masculine women who like to compete, and flex their achievements over his. Or they feel shame if he isn’t degreed like them. Which is pathetic and why most women will be alone forever
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:48 PM
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It’s not settling!!! I married a man who has an associates and he used to be a jeweler. He is WAY smarter than the majority of men I went to college with and he has no student loan debt. He also out-earns the average college graduate by $30k+. Not only this but he is traditionally masculine, can operate a tractor, hunt and process meat, and most college men are really feminized and woke. Ew 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:47 PM
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This is really disrespectful to men. And not true at all. If you hate men, just say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:20 PM
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No, we are not jealous. At least those of us who respect the differences between men and women. I understand how biology works and men are drawn to youth and vitality. Being offended by that is freaking STUPID. I’m six years younger than my husband. Being “concerned” is a waste of energy and only misandrists do it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:12 PM
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When the fuck did I ever say that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:06 PM
3

I’ve never thought this about the majority of men, but some of them definitely make this obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:05 PM
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Nothing works in absolutes. You understand that, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:31 PM
2

FALSE I advocate for men harder than I do for women. Why? Everyone kisses our asses JUST bc we’re women. I get called a pick me (I got picked 💍 soooo not an insult) by women who hate men regularly. It has become the norm to hate and bash men. I despise this so much. I think men get misrepresented by misandrist women all the time, they get their children ripped from them, they are at higher risk for violence and self deletion, they have more dangerous jobs, and rarely get thanked for it. Women in…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:30 PM
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Women have way more advantages and get away with much more on any given day. Hands down. No contest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:25 PM
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I fucking hate when y’all do this. We are not talking about them. Let me make my point about women even if it triggers you for whatever stupid reason. OP even mentioned women versus men. And actually no they don’t. They live until 75+ and take good care of themselves. The only vice is smoking cigarettes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:31 PM
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As a wife I think it is fundamentally unacceptable to let yourself go. And I’ve had children. I gained 50 lbs with my first and lost all of them. I actually felt BAD for my husband while I was at my heaviest because I respect him and how my image is interlinked to his (I’m first generation so this may seem radical to westerners but we do not tolerate letting yourself go in my culture especially when you are married) Saying something to your wife isn’t rude or mean. If you just keep letting her t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:28 PM
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Obviously or I wouldn’t have put a heart
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:22 PM
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Women with higher degrees initiate divorce like it’s nothing. My mom’s doctor and lawyer friends are insufferable women and all their husbands remarried more traditional women who don’t flex their career and compete with them. And men’s income is irrelevant to some of us, my husband made half of what he does now when I met him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:41 PM
1

I got one 💍 I never had to ask myself this question but the women who do were not raised to date with intention
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:13 PM
2

I agree with all six of those
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:28 AM
1

Everyone with two brain cells knows a boyfriend is a step before fiancé
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:42 PM
1

YES
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:27 PM
1

❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:26 PM
1

Extremely sad
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:23 PM
0

Liberals get butthurt about the same if not more Moooooot argument
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:22 PM
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Projection. Sorry you feel that way. Means the examples in your life are poor quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:22 PM
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Amen
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:21 PM
1

I’m honored
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:21 PM
1

Ugh. “Professional reasons”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:19 PM
1

I moved in with my husband after we tied the knot. We’re five years in and have outlasted countless “live in couples”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:19 PM
1

Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:16 PM
1

Irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:16 PM
1

Not relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:16 PM
1

You’re not married or close. You’re engaged. “Technically”. Whatever that means
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:15 PM
1

My husband HATES when people say partner as much as I do
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:15 PM
1

It has never made it sound like y’all are in seventh grade and I have no clue where that even comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:14 PM
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Lol. To think that husband and wife are infantile terms is rich. Also this was about straight couples, as said. I already had to filter out a lot of y’all getting mad when I’m wondering why STRAIGHT people use partner
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:13 PM
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It’s a discussion thread where I can bring up whatever topic I want…and people cheapening relationships is getting annoying. Or correcting terminology I choose to use. Do not bring me into your complacency by referring to my husband as my partner. That is irritating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:08 PM
1

HIGH FIVE ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:05 PM
2

Love this for you! ❤️ thank you 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:05 PM
1

It means you really don’t like that person
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:04 PM
0

You’re not living like married people unless you’re married so stop kidding yourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:03 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:02 PM
1

Thank youuuuuu
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:02 PM
1

YUP
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:02 PM
1

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:02 PM
1

Ok but this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:02 PM
1

That part 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:02 PM
1

THANK. YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:00 PM
2

I accept the differences in opinion. I’m just wondering how this got so prevalent and why everyone has just numbed themselves to it. To me it seems like an insult. And it’s fair that other people are like “you’re crazy for getting annoyed over it”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:59 AM
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It is kind of horrible. I was born in the 90s but I do not mind being called a dinosaur for my views on that. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:57 AM
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That makes no sense. You’re not equal unless you are actually married. That’s like saying a pilot who only took windows flight simulator lessons is equal to a pilot who has spent 2000 hours in the air
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:56 AM
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It’s really easy to read the room and usually I already know the relationship dynamic so I can say wife, husband, fiancé, boyfriend, girlfriend without it being an issue If I am in a brand new setting then I let other people talk. Usually they have introduced themselves to me by that point. And oddly enough, they rarely say this is my partner when the person is RIGHT there. But if they’re out of earshot, it might get said. The type of person to say partner versus the type of person who spurns th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:54 AM
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I don’t like to interject on other countries affairs since I have no clue what dynamics are like over there But thanks for the insight. I see Germany as more progressive kind of like a liberal society
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:52 AM
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When someone says they live with their partner I assume that’s someone they are not married to and will probably not get married to. Or someone they even like that much. There’s no zest to it. It’s bland. And if they are married and say partner, they don’t respect their spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:51 AM
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Absolutely not in 100% of situations. I will correct you and say, “No, my husband” I’m not really talking about nonbinary or whatever that means since this post mentioned a woman talking about her husband and then other people saying “partner”. Straight people are now the largest offenders of using this term. Straight married people. So explain that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:48 AM
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Inconvenience be damned. Partner is an egregious devaluation of a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:47 AM
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Even husbands and wives start out as boyfriend and girlfriend though. If I hear you say “partner” then I have the right to assume you just don’t like that person very much. Women who say it rarely take a man’s last name.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:45 AM
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❤️ ugh I love the fact that people out there actually see where I’m coming from with this. Thank you. Erosion of love and respect is literally a social crisis right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:43 AM
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Ugh I think cohabitation should be illegal. It only leads to people delaying marriage and then when they finally get married they give up. On top of that they view themselves as equal to couples who actually tied the knot and that is just simply untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:42 AM
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Because it actually describes the state of your relationship. Husbands and wives typically start out as boyfriends and girlfriends first. A partner is just someone you work with or do business with. That isn’t someone you love and take care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:41 AM
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Even though you’ve never seen it, it happens. And by your logic, misgendering isn’t a thing. Since the person saying the “wrong gender” is just saying what is comfortable for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:39 AM
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Holy shit SOMEONE ACTUALLY GETS IT
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:27 AM
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You know who.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:27 AM
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People who use partner get divorced like crazy. They have commitment issues. Some old fashioned behaviors need to return
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:26 AM
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That’s not a good enough reason nor does it explain why more straight people are using partner now more than ever. Gay people can just say boyfriend or girlfriend too. Give your significant other some respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:26 AM
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I see it everywhere. I’m a mom and in mom forums so that’s probably why. But even in real life this is unfortunately a daily thing I come across living next to a liberal city. I think partner is more childish than boyfriends and girlfriend. Even if it is gender neutral, gay people should just use those terms. They can. No one is stopping them. Cohabitation is problematic in and of itself but that depends on how you were raised. I was taught that you don’t live with the opposite sex unless you’re…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:24 AM
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I don’t like to be right for the sake of it but having grown up with these women coming over to vent and confide to my mom I’m unfortunately very versed on their type. BUT, it did teach me to go the more trad route and I am fundamentally more fulfilled that way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:00 AM
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My point still stands. Not every woman in America is a land whale. So if you’re unable to attract fit women with domestic qualities even where you live, you’re only capitalizing on and frankly taking advantage of your status as an American when you GIVE UP and go hunt somewhere else. And it means you don’t qualify for what you want unless you’re flexing nationality to women who want an out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:28 AM
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nothing works in absolutes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:25 AM
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They’re always miserable Not feminine Chip on shoulder 9/10 times get divorced and then realize their husband was the best they were ever going to get. They struggle to remarry while he moves on easily (and I don’t blame him) My parents are both veterans. My mom has a lot of female doctor, lawyer, engineer female friends and they are all domineering spinsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:58 AM
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Dr. Jolene Brighten is the expert on hormone fixes without birth control Pregnancy prevention without birth control requires having a bulk kit of ovulation tests, condoms, and if you need plan b then so be it but we never have. Both of our children were planned and conceived on the first try when you reverse the cycle tracking methods. Otherwise. zero pregnancy scares in almost a decade when we were not trying. Learning what it takes to actually fertilize an egg and the timing involved makes it …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:53 PM
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If you get her in her 20s she won’t be as jaded or full of man hate as a single woman in her 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:46 PM
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Just get a woman in her twenties like my husband did (I’m talking about myself btw not another woman hahaha)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:46 PM
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Yours makes less sense, so that’s okay Passporting is not always the answer. We went to a few passport weddings within the past five years and all those couples are divorced with two of the wives being deported for battery against the husbands. Going to other countries is fine but expecting it to solve all your problems instead of just finding conservative hotbeds where you live is kind of goofy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:42 PM
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It’s clear you’re not educated on that because in no way does it require abstinence. Not even close. I know so many babies who are the result of failed birth control since you brought it up. Birth control is like a bandaid on a bullet wound. That wound being hormonal dysfunction that you should be reversing with other methods. It’s sad that OBs and pharma have women brainwashed to see bc as helpful or necessary when it just allows malfunctions in the system to remain and fester over time without…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:42 PM
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The man was really nice and charming beforehand but then during the date assumed we would just immediately hook up right after. I took that as a chance to play dumb during the date and then just block him as soon as I got to my car to go home. Best part about that date was getting a dm from my now husband. And going on a first date with him a week later. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:07 PM
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Low intellect = boredom in their case. These are usually women who can’t be bothered to find a hobby or skill to entertain themselves. So they get angry that their husband is working all the time. Then they file for divorce and find out second husbands don’t grow on trees 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:44 PM
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It’s not that dire. They just know PB content gets views. Honestly, if you have to leave your country to find a traditional or agreeable woman, it means you lack the social skills to find one in general. Even though the west is kind of f*cked, first generation and conservative women are everywhere. I say first gen because we are raised to reject anything remotely feminist and we value everything men bring to the table that we do not. Granted, most of us get wifed up quickly, but we’re still out …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:23 PM
1

Based and accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:41 PM
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They think they can do better They get bored They didn’t talk about number of kids or moral values before tying the knot Backwards gender roles I don’t agree with any of the above. Just pointing out what I see every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:41 PM
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Um, no thanks. Preventing pregnancy without birth control of any kind is actually very simple
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:32 PM
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Increased risk of cancer. Strokes. Blood clots. Infertility (not a killer but still). Pulmonary issues. Heart disease/attacks. You should watch The Business of Birth Control if you want to see the families of dead bc users talk about the hardships they go through. And the dangers outlined in full.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:19 AM
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YES. Plus That stuff is slowly killing women and they will defend it to no end.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:04 PM
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It’s like a beautiful woman only to women who have nothing to offer. I agree. But I think the majority of women actually want more from their husband than just money. We know millionaires exist. A lot of us have access to them. I certainly did thanks to school and having a very niche hobby in a big city. But the money itself becomes a turn off because there are stipulations and constant competition that come with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:11 PM
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I f*cking hate this and I blame women for their broke-ass selves and putting men through this. It will never be okay. This is DUSTY behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:56 PM
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I know a LOT of top 1% earners who are unattractive in every aspect and they only get the women who want to finesse them until death so that part is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:54 PM
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Sounds like my childhood and I still needed therapy because my mom is a narcissist and didn’t want children. You do not know what goes on behind the scenes and family trauma usually goes by unnoticed when money and provision are involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:53 PM
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Can confirm: my now husband was that 45k friend. With our combined salaries we made six figures but even if he made less I was still determined to marry him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:52 PM
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Absolutely not haha. I made more than my husband when I met him. He was making close to 50k, five years of marriage later his salary has doubled. But I love him as much as I did when I out-earned him. We could even afford for me to be a stay at home mom to our kids before his pay increase.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:51 PM
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Uh, I’m not.. I’m blaming whoever had an impact on that man’s life to make him socially inept
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:27 PM
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This is extremely true. I feel kind of sorry for these women because some actually do want to get married or at least off the market but they are absolutely clueless how to do it. And they just keep doling out sex thinking it’ll lead to a monogamous relationship. Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:25 PM
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There’s a reason this post is about women, women and men pair bond and attribute different weight to sex naturally. There are outliers but OP was correct
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:24 PM
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I agree. Lonely men were failed by people in their interpersonal circle. We’re pretty much useless at reversing that unless we are raising men (of course alongside a man…single parenthood is NOT OKAY) or dating them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:46 PM
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Okay so you are only going off of observation of people who lack discipline…thus proving my point. Your JOB requires it so of course you’re getting that. Good for you? Either way ozempic is an L and way less sustainable than learning how to stop stuffing your face and either hit a gym or go for a run regularly. You literally proved both of my points
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:44 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:36 PM
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You proved my point ☠️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:36 PM
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If someone falls off on a program that means they lack discipline. If someone falls off on drugs then that is more prone to happen. 5k is not even that low. I said GOAL. I get 7k or more when I make time for it. If you’re childless and/or work an active job then that will seem low to you. But for me it is more than enough to maintain and lose weight 🤷🏾‍♀️ go see what the avg person does and tell them that You’re telling me 5k is low when you are the one who gave up on losing weight 😂 I cannot ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:34 PM
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Being a liberal is the top thing for me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:57 PM
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Are they on parole or do they need help with their bills? I usually call those men lampreys. They need help, that’s why they’re with those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:29 PM
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DO NOT TAKE OZEMPIC. Once you stop, you will not only gain the weight back…you’ll gain more. What habits are you going to learn on Ozempic that will help you keep the weight off for life? Are you going to learn the discipline of going to the gym and nutrition? No, you’re going to take a shortcut…and then you’re gonna gain weight back eventually because you’re not gonna stay on that prescription for the rest of your entire life. Let’s be real. CICO is overrated and sometimes dangerous. I lost 50 …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:27 PM
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Women. They want a mile long list from men but can’t be bothered to learn some domestic skills, actually like men and not view them with a negative lens because of experiences with one or two bad apples, and get in shape. Basically, they want more than they are willing to offer in a lot of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:21 AM
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Men are more logical though. It’s easier for them to get hurt and learn how to pick or attract better. Women typically don’t try and just complain
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:28 AM
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The last two paragraphs are the most accurate and as a result I would argue that misandry is worse since it is celebrated and defended so heavily. I know (not friends with but KNOW, unfortunately…) more misandrists, proud ones, than I think I will ever know outward misogynists. I have only seen misogynists in action a handful of times. Whereas misandrists, they are fucking everywhere and they back each other up like a hateful little mafia.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:27 AM
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Never in a million years. Especially not now that I’m pregnant. I couldn’t imagine being reborn and NOT getting to experience creating and delivering a little life (of course you need a man for that but they don’t have wombs obvious lol) I love being a woman, I love the ways we’re vastly different from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:15 AM
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Every time I go to Costco I see hella other IR couples and my husband and I kind of give them a subtle nod lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:44 PM
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This has never happened to me. I was always the token in private school so noooo one. Ever looked like me. In dating this was true and in marriage it has been as well. I’m black, Asian, and Irish. My husband is Russian, Mexican, and French.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:43 PM
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Attractiveness is social currency. Moreso for women than men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:43 PM
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I think they’re lying 304s if they refuse. I would not refuse but my husband would never ask me for one (his words). But if they became mandatory of course I would oblige. I have nothing to hide. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:30 PM
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I go through the drive through about twice a month. I was in line today and the guy in front of me had an arm so fat that his watch was about to pop off. And I bet he gets fast food every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:49 AM
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I don’t lol. They’re usually more liberal and have college debt. My husband had a trade when I met him and now he is in law enforcement. He’s rugged and insanely intelligent in the ways college punishes you for
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:28 PM
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I think everyone could become more attractive if they wanted. They just don’t want to do the work. Female dating coaches are not taking women clients anymore because they refuse to lose weight and drop some extremely feminist ideals. And some men refuse to stop vaping and playing video games all day and hit the gym. So I think some people just keep themselves stuck and then complain. Even a 2 or 3 in the face could boost their dating outcomes by having a nice body, hobbies, style, and charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:51 PM
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I think op thinks any woman committed to any man is a sucker. Especially if she cooks and cleans for him Couldn’t be me lol. I LOVE men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:42 PM
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They’re probably not even hot though let’s be real lol. You only reach this level of disgruntled by attracting bum-level men who aren’t even halfway decent looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:40 PM
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We’re out here. I’m first generation. So NOT cooking and cleaning for a man seems like a joke. I wasn’t aware women even hated being domestic until I graduated college. I was meeting feminists who hated men and bragged about doing nothing for them. Couldn’t be me, my husband has his lunches and dinner made for him 6/7 days of the week
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:39 PM
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This post gives off female incel vibes and made me sad. Like damn, what happened to make you hate men SO much
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:35 PM
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The men you come across, sure. Bluepill men like when women can help them. Financially. But in my experience, it’s been easier to find a provider man who is ready to lead, care for, and protect a family than it has been a beta who will let me work full time while someone else raises our children. Childcare and housework are supposed to be mostly done by women while men work and take care of cars, the mechanical things around the house, etc. Maybe you need to expand the circle of men you know bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:34 PM
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I think men are just wanting basic respect, not being the size of an ogre, and loyalty from women but women think they’re too good for every man who approaches them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:11 PM
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Low quality women Wrecked hormonal levels Terrible relationship examples in their interpersonal lives P0rn and video games + low drive for external achievement Obesity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:48 PM
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I’m a traditional woman and my views are perceived as toxic by most lol. I have never and could never date a broke man because I’ve never been broke myself. It shows a pure lack of a desire to lead and protect. Which is gross. If you’re wanking it to prn, unemployed, living with your parents, etc…You were failed in your life in monumental ways that can’t be overlooked
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:29 PM
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It shouldn’t be. If you feel like this then 1. You’re not trying hard enough or 2. Don’t offer much to the women you want
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:31 AM
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My husband wanted me to become a stay at home wife/mom. I was furloughed during covid, and then got pregnant and tried working remotely. He hated seeing me try to balance a job and watching our son. He makes almost double what he did when we met and has more energy since I take care of 90% of the meals, 80% of the chores, and essentially all of the daily childcare and nightly wake ups. I used to make 18k more than him. I have my own $$, my own business (passive income from graphic design), if GO…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:29 AM
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Women do the same if not worse. They do things to sabotage their looks (shave their head, get fat) and dating outcomes and then complain that “all men are trash”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:47 AM
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Absolutely wrong. My husband has single friends and I legit say prayers that they find a GOOD woman for them. I don’t want any suitable men to be lonely for the sake of it. I’ve seen what that does to men. One of our friends just chose to…let’s just say he’s no longer with us and loneliness played a huge part. I’d be sick to genuinely want that for men. Also it’s hard for us to tell you without knowing you. And all women are different. Advice that made my husband successful with me won’t work wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:39 AM
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Any man that thinks most if not all 10 of those immediately becomes more attractive in my book A lot of conservative and red pill viewpoints naturally intersect
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:05 PM
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Women who say that are lazy and want a gaggle of unaccountable women to back them up so they never have to develop any discipline
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:01 PM
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Based. I put the pressure on myself to lose the weight before his second birthday and I did that sh!t
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:42 PM
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What’s your height? And that calorie intake is TOO LOW I was insulin resistant after a baby and lost 50 lbs with weight lifting and a calorie range between 1600-2100
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:40 PM
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No, it’s a choice. I gained weight to have a baby and due to choices, lost all of it. Hormones are just an excuse. Every woman I see who has “pcos” and “thyroid” problems is inactive and shovels down anti-blood sugar-friendly foods on a daily basis
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:38 PM
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She would probably have a better relationship with them post weight loss, so why not? Now whether she can KEEP the weight off longterm or not is a different story. If I were a man I would be suspicious about that. If she is obese or higher then what’s going on upstairs to even let her get to that point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:37 PM
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I’m gonna be controversial and state this: it doesn’t matter what you gained during pregnancy, it is your duty to lose it in between babies and preferably under two years. I lost all 50 of my baby pounds gained while breastfeeding. My husband deserves that from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:36 PM
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Society kissing her ass Unresolved trauma She’s just a terrible person All three sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:26 PM
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They’re the ones who chose those men. Sooo 💁🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:25 PM
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It depends on the woman but I dated mostly 30+ from the time I was 21 up until I met my husband. And he is six years older. He could even be 10 years older and I would still dig him
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:21 PM
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This promotes having fewer standards with who you spend your time around. I see why RPers are more reserved in comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:51 PM
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Women who say that are certifiably “unhinged” They spin their wheel putting out for men they don’t really want to date and then think withholding sex from men they ACTUALLY want will get them the results they want It’s an internal problem that women need to work on but can’t be bothered to deal with 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:41 PM
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Men and women pair bond differently
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:27 PM
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They’re attracting men that they’re not attracted to. And they are disgruntled over it. It is kind of like having a car for sale and listing a price on it. Only to have people come up and ask if you will take half that price. So these women need to do better to get what they want, idc lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:56 PM
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Absolutely not. Attractive men are without a doubt VERY capable of being creepy, weird, stalkers. I had a gorgeous ex who used to threaten to track my phone and hunt me down. Granted, he only had to do this twice before I blocked him and never spoke to him again. He’s objectively attractive. Not just subjectively (I know the difference very well) Crazy comes in all forms. Just like hot women can be off putting and weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:45 PM
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Agree. My husband is a cop. The woman is the aggressor like 75% of the time and she’s still trying to assault the man when officers arrive. While screaming that she is the one in danger Women are MESSED up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:38 PM
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In what way is there NOT? Our commercials, magazines, movies, real relationships have taken a tone of man hatred and condescension towards men. I see it everywhere and I hate it. Even my own mother in law is a misandrist and we get into battles with her over it constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:37 PM
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That’s not racist, I’m black and I know I’m less safe driving through a black neighborhood than my white ass suburb I used to live in (now I’m in the country)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:36 PM
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I think more women have been brainwashed that it is “funny” and “okay”. Every age group from gen z to boomer. Especially boomer women. I watch them emasculate and proverbially sh!t on their husbands DAILY and they all essentially point and laugh at them and claim men are useless. And it’s okay. But the second a man says something just about how trifling women are, the hyenas come out. I will die on the hill that misandry is worse, more annoying, and even more dangerous than misogyny is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:35 PM
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You don’t think women are difficult to deal with? Most of us are. It is what it is. Calling it out is not resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:00 PM
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I don’t think ppd men resent women. They just call out the problems they’re dealing with and they have that right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:46 PM
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The less attractive women can sometimes (not always) come with FAR less headache than the women who think they walk on water.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:45 PM
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If you have the iq of a goldfish, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:38 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:37 PM
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Did I ever say that? You found one heavily female centric job that’s dangerous. But men take the cake on everything else. Who do you see mining, working on bridges, majority of police officers and corrections officers, construction, bomb and swat squads, the jobs OP listed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:37 PM
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If they fall for it, they’re idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:13 AM
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This is not toxic femininity. This is just a wearable sign of insecurity and high level dysfunction. Femininity at its core doesn’t need enhancements. You lose femininity once you alter yourself with toxins and plastics. You then become a slave to them and put off living your real life and investing in your family in favor of looking like a bimbo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:12 AM
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Dirty, dangerous, blame OP for also listing dangerous jobs in the post…you stay on topic first.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:10 AM
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This is the most correct comment. Everyone else can go. Also fck whoever downvoted you, she probably fits the example you mentioned lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:06 AM
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I mean, we try but then get shamed to hell. And those of us who try are actually in relationships so the effort to help other women REALLY just isn’t worth it since they’re stubborn and like to create their own hell 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:05 AM
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It depends on the man. A man with either disheveled or nonexistent masculinity, absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:01 AM
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Caribbean
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:24 AM
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Doesn’t compare to anything dangerous that men do. And I’m a mother myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:15 AM
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Hell no. That’s why I take extra special care of my husband who does.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:13 AM
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I would say that’s a red flag if a woman is THAT turned off by that. Means she puts too much stock in very frivolous things and may be dare I say, ran through. I took my male friend’s virginity when we were 24. It was a lot of emotional responsibility for me but I wasn’t turned off by him not having experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:04 PM
3

She married for duty. Something that is becoming increasingly more rare these days. Props to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:59 AM
2

Truth came from my father: men value women who stay fit, have domestic skills, and are agreeable Lie (which I never fell for) came from college and my mom: men care about your degree and will like you no matter what you do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:15 PM
1

There are disgruntled feminists and feminist sympathizers lurking in here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:14 PM
1

It’s psychopathic if they do it to reel you in and then suddenly stop
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:13 PM
2

I’d like to know where your disdain comes from If we’re going to answer questions with a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:12 PM
1

I’ve never seen that show
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:12 PM
1

Blessings to you and your wife. I’m so happy she knew her role and played it well. Thank you for sharing. I wish her the best in healing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:11 PM
1

That’s sad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:09 PM
1

His wife will live in misery
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:09 PM
1

He gives me the universe. I just didn’t feel the need to lay that out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:29 AM
-2

Lol we do a tad more than that BUT I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:28 AM
1

Western women stay losing omg
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:24 AM
1

NO lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:23 AM
0

NOT K!lled
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:23 AM
1

Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:36 PM
-1

Would it be weird though? Anyway, I’m happy you found someone who values acts of service and appreciates their man. More of this please
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:35 PM
3

Oh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:34 PM
6

The condescending started with you. Have a good rest of your week though, men aren’t the enemy ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:34 PM
8

I hope you do as well, love.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:33 PM
2

Lmao my father is Caribbean ❤️ he can cook VERY well but he also makes bookoo money so he’s not as home as much to do so. My mother is domestic (American) but she complains about it European and American men are conditioned to their woman doing the domestic duties. Now that women do less overall there is a divide
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:32 PM
4

For the better, absolutely. He knew what he was doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:30 PM
4

I’m a wife but okay lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:30 PM
1

That is definitely a level of tone deafness, I know that when my husband comes home he needs time to decompress especially if it’s by himself, playing instruments, on the computer, or working out. I get my time with him on the weekends and that’s more than sufficient
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:30 PM
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I’m sorry that the men you have come across have made you feel this way, that’s absolutely not how majority of men I’ve come across are Most men are taking care of their entire family and can’t even get a hot meal or their wife to stop gaining 50 pounds every few years. That is abhorrent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:27 PM
4

Ah there it is. I was waiting for this one. This is what is wrong with many marriages today. So you’re okay with just never cooking a meal for someone who takes care of you out of love? Making food is not equivalent to indentured servitude. I eat the food as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:22 PM
-1

“Enslaved”: I think that rhetoric has to be confronted cold stop. Being interdependent on a man is not a death sentence in most cases. I may be a stay at home wife BUT I have my own business. If god forbid my husband and I were to separate (we both think divorce is failure) then I would be heartbroken over the loss of HIM not his provision. Him. As a human. I’ve had a job while married and it made it more difficult to be a present wife. I did my part though. You admitted to not having children t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:20 PM
3

I would recommend you just take a Chad approach and do less or even nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:11 PM
-10

Most women tend to want Godlike recognition for doing the simplest of things. The other day I cleaned the house, spotless, and my husband did notice… But even if he didn’t, I cleaned it so that I could enjoy how clean it was and my son can get used to living in a clean home. He goes out of his way to thank me but he doesn’t have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:11 PM
1

Care to share what you prefer she would do? I don’t think men get enough credit for what they genuinely want out of their relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:10 PM
-2

That’s mostly inaccurate and I’m sorry you think that way I’ve been taking care of the home and my family for years and it’s truly the most purposeful I’ve ever felt in life. The more you take care of your children, then your husband gets treated the same Our baby doesn’t eat differently than we do so if anything I’m cooking more and healthier now that he is here
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:09 PM
0

Would we have to? I wouldn’t change being a straight woman for anything. My life is almost TOO easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:55 PM
-5

I don’t find that confusing, men are less domestic on average. My husband admitted to just drinking raw egg mixed with protein as a bachelor, eating some baloney and cheese with coffee for lunch, and grabbing a burger on the way home. Now he’s very spoiled.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:54 PM
1

Well, there are a lot of factors to unpack here. Yes, some women do lose their discipline in relationships. I constantly wonder how these women can be snuffed out. Like, are there red flags they give off? I’m shocked that you’ve had to do not only half but almost all the domestic work. Wtf were these women doing? Eating postmates and watching Netflix? Good grief.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:51 PM
0

That’s fair
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:50 PM
2

I am very interested in men and their perspectives. I am also pro-men because society is overwhelmingly anti-men while pedestalizing women who don’t deserve it. So I’m here to lurk and I also enjoy asking men questions from time to time. It’s also a great subreddit because you don’t get banned here for having conservative leaning opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:46 PM
-13

WOW. A true trad woman. Stories like this warm my heart
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:27 PM
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Omg And that’s so simple too. But yes little acts of service are becoming extinct smh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:26 PM
0

I guess it counts on what you individually want. So if that’s the kind of treatment you prefer from a woman then that’s doting in a sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:26 PM
1

I’ve never encountered older men who have as much baggage as older women but again. I said there are always exceptions 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:25 PM
-3

I think so too. Both exist at the same time. My husband’s best friend’s wife is like me, she’s German through ancestry but American by birth. Whenever we go to her house there is always cooked food and a calendar with the week’s meals on it. I look up to her for inspiration haha But then I have acquaintances who never cook and they brag about it. Um….ok
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:24 PM
1

I own my own graphic design business but it is not full time or even part tjme. BUT Even when I worked full time, my husband got the same treatment. So I made him a priority no matter what. We both have to eat but I handle the bulk of the household nutrition since that’s my educational background and it’s habit for me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:21 PM
-3

Goodness gracious, I am really convinced that western women are just doomed. My mother is western to her core. She is a stay at home wife but she actually hates it, so I learned how to be traditional from my father giving me based ass speeches from childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:19 PM
3

You are so right and I would wager that an angry feminist downvoted you I am first generation on my father’s side. So I watched his mother, and the other women in my family balance chores and cooking without a single complaint because when you make a man’s life easier…YOURS becomes easier. My western female friends were trying to sabotage me in my youth by shaming me for being domestic. I had an ex who was in the Navy, I cleaned his house and left him some cookies before he left for work and my …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:18 PM
-1

Yeah some women are incompetent in that regard. Like, they don’t want to hear men out. I explicitly ask my husband every few months or weeks what he really needs and wants and I adjust. What is it that you wish they would do instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:15 PM
-6

Aww. We need more women like her
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:12 PM
0

Thank you for sharing. I got more doting after our first child but maybe with two it’ll become more difficult. The effort will still be made though. But I understand your situation. I’ve seen it happen because of life changes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:11 PM
1

She could have baggage and kids from another relationship The man in question could have a “mommy complex” where he just wants someone who will fund his life and let him do whatever he wants (like play video games all day) She could be jaded and have just settled because she realized she is getting old There are exceptions to everything though. Naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:09 PM
1

I’m just old school and women being older is typically more risky and drama. If it’s working for you then that’s great.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:00 PM
3

Based on your mindset, you are not a good candidate for a traditional marriage…but if you want a modern one where you both work, hardly see each other, and split everything…nothing is stopping you. There are levels to marriage and you seem highly against the old school variant but that doesn’t mean you can’t find a “partner” (I hate that term but it seems like what you want versus a husband)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:51 PM
1

I married a man six years older than me. Our relationship works amazingly because of our gap and he can genuinely educate me on things. I find that very attractive. I think men should mostly aim for women younger. And I do not think women should ever date men younger than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:53 AM
1

Most women are attracted to red pill men. Actual red pill, not mgtow/incels. A small majority of women don’t want to admit it because of how much virtue signaling they do. They don’t actually want to be with beta men after they give it a go.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:10 PM
1

Absolutely true. I have several friends and former female friends who prove this. They were really hot and picky in their twenties, had one or two good men willing to marry them. Thought that would be settling. Now they are literally single with cats and plants and having a hard time finding a man who wants to settle down with them. I was smart, I got married at 25 and would have done it sooner (specifically sooner with my husband, versus marrying another ex of mine) if possible
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:17 PM
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Not at all. My husband taking me to our local Mexican joint, or dine in movie while the folks watch our baby is the equivalent of a richer man taking some girl to Nobu (I don’t see the appeal) and spending $500 on her. In fact I think what we do is better and more meaningful. Comparison of that nature is the thief of joy. The fact that I have a husband who provides for our family and STILL finds time for romance is better than winning the lottery or being with someone who makes 7 figures and pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:31 PM
1

Following traditional gender roles
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:27 PM
4

Unresolved trauma or his mom is a real piece of work and as a result, she picked poorly (his dad) So he is an emotional mess with no confidence even though he should have it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:26 PM
1

I would find it to be just as much horseshit as this “all women are beautiful” lie that is being spread. I have personally benefited from pretty privilege my entire life. Downvote me for honesty or cockiness, it is what it is. We all know our social currency. I have acquaintances who have not benefited from such. Their stories HORRIFIED ME. In one case, a woman had never had a man ask her out. In another, she always got ghosted or stood up. Lastly, one always had to pay 50/50. So the truth is, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:00 PM
1

A lot of the red pill goal (unlike mgtow. Bc they are really not the same) is to make yourself desirable not just for the sake of it but to secure a spouse and ultimately have kids. That’s why red pill women are (incorrectly) called pick mes. Yeah, we want to get picked and we do get picked over women and men who just stay fat because “someone will accept them”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:45 PM
2

Based lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:44 PM
1

Charisma Sexual attractiveness Lack of whatever that “ick” is that makes some men ineligible for sex from a woman they don’t have to pay. Men who have no access to sex or claim it’s been 5+ years since they have had sex were failed by every man in their life. There’s clearly something wrong with them to the point where even desperate women don’t try to get with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:44 PM
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Women who are OFF the market do not need to have any male friends. I would say being cordial with your husbands friends is ideal but not close with them. My husband’s best friend is our sons godfather and even then, I don’t have his phone number. I would call him if life depended on it otherwise, however. This said, I’m polite to men when I’m running errands…I always have my ring on, but I still get doors held, help with my luggage (if I’m flying without husband), and kind treatment from said me…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:12 PM
1

I don’t think you actually understand red pill men, you have relegated them to barbarians essentially I had my husband and his friends explain what they want and 95% of them said the same Traditional gender roles Be on the same page morally, ethically, and at least 50% politically (they did admit they won’t date extremely liberal women) Women should be in shape- beauty and fitness are our social currency so yeah this is reasonable They want respect and loyalty They want women who actually WANT c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:11 PM
1

I joined and left that sub so fast. Absolutely no posts of substance and most of those are grifters. They’re not even red pill. They’re just less leftist than their friends it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:31 PM
1

Women can be 600 lbs and still get laid so UNFORTUNATELY, enough men with no standards are out there And this means even the least desirable women will always have someone who will settle for them. Women don’t have to feel the pain that undesirable men do. The second reason is radical feminism. Women who actually want to be with a man but can’t get one are placated and told that their single-ness is glamorous and they can wait until they’re 50 to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:29 PM
1

I’m in America too. That’s why I can tell these people are just projecting. They’re always going to try and strawman because they feel hit Something drastic needs to be done
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:11 PM
1

I just hate how everyone here is like, “tHerE aRE ugLy skInNy pEOPle” 🙄 yeah no shit. But we’re talking about overweight people here. I’m going to wager that most of the commenters are projecting bec they’re overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:50 PM
1

The women who are being that selective and picky end up left behind and at the bottom of the barrel. This is something that doesn’t get brought up enough. Mgtow men have given up but usually red pill men can find ways to naturally and quickly attract women of value and get off the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:13 PM
2

I hear you. You can by definition still be a housewife even if you make your own $$. My business is automated because 75% of my apparel and merch were designed before I became a mom and it’s passive income.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:20 AM
1

I think that’s where the passport bros got started. But it doesn’t address the real issue of why you couldn’t attract a woman without having to flex resources in another country…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:18 AM
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I’m not financially dependent on my husband. I actually have my own graphic design company. It’s 2023, I don’t have to leave my home or outsource childcare to make $ Your life sounds like misery to me so different strokes different folks. A decade with no marital commitment, and no kids? hard pass lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:03 AM
2

I think it’s helped me realize that I’m definitely very alone as a woman in my thoughts but that’s not a bad thing. It’s disheartened me a little because I see how easy it is for women to completely sh*t on men and how society celebrates and tolerates that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:14 AM
-1

I can’t think of anything less true. Women typically give horrible advice about men, because no one ever confronts them directly. If I had listened to my mother, I would be single with several dogs and a phD. I would also be fat. But since I listened to my father, I got the stay at home wife life I always dreamt of and I couldn’t have it better if I tried. My father was red pilling me from day 1 that men value certain things and fitness and beauty are at the top along with the ability to be dome…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:36 PM
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I don’t meddle in the affairs of the rich or celebs because they’re not normal people. They have a gaggle of bad influences around them 9/10 times and lead lives that almost always end in divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:33 PM
2

That’s usually the case lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:19 PM
2

I was down for the age gap from age 19. I’ve only dated a man my age once in my life. It was good practice because my husband is six years older and I know exactly how to communicate with and appease him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:16 PM
1

Attractiveness is aggressively subjective. I don’t find Ryan attractive at all. I could find someone working at my local gym who is hotter. Oscar Isaac is a 10 imo. But I do agree that women over-inflate themselves. The other day I saw a woman on a show who was 374 lbs. She was like “men love all of this” gesturing to her blob like body and I thought, no…they love your desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:41 PM
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We don’t hate the attention but it does get old. When you know for a bonafide fact that a simple trip to the grocery store and gas station will come with men asking you out, even when you are in sweatpants and no makeup, with a ring on your finger, it gets fucking exhausting. So it’s nice and flattering but god…leave me alone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 08:42 PM
3

Because of the things I mentioned. And those have nothing to do with racism. Like I said. Very clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 08:35 PM
-9

It’s her fault for accepting him and having his children. That’s basic natural selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:11 PM
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Women gatekeep reproduction. She failed by having children with a bad mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:11 PM
-10

She chose him and/or failed to secure marriage from a quality man. So yes. It’s her fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:56 PM
2

If I did not have children I would 100% feel like this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:31 PM
2

The women of color spiel is scare rhetoric and we need to stop spreading it. I’m black. I never went into pregnancy with ANY fear. It’s disingenuous to avoid pointing out that poor outcomes are more self driven than “race” driven. Most black women avoid prenatal care, are obese, have diabetes, hypertension, and are unmarried. Those choices influence outcome more than “healthcare racism” which isn’t even accepted in the 21st century Stop
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:24 PM
1

You proved my point. And I hope you find better influences or something that can get you away from full time sx workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:20 PM
3

Based
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:11 PM
1

Just let them ask the question. It’s kinda weird that you have tabs on what gets posted here weekly and you expect OP to know the same thing. Even if something was posted, they might want a different take on it. Breathe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:11 PM
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Age gaps are crucial. I knew from like age 19 I didn’t want to date boys my age. I have a six year gap with my husband. I think it works ONLY when women date older men but it’s creepy in reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:10 PM
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A 16 year old wouldn’t be aware of how a man has been given piss poor influence and confidence if he cannot attract women without paying for their time. Paying prostitutes to get attention and sex does not help you learn to interact with real women who don’t devalue themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 02:23 AM
2

Grosssssssss. No. If a man needs these to boost his confidence, that means he was failed by several people in his life and he needs intervention of another kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 02:02 AM
1

It means don’t be a contentious hag.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:52 AM
0

Thanks radical feminists and birth control 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:45 PM
1

Jobs I wouldn’t do personally, anything that isn’t working for myself. I’m a stay at home mom/business owner. But I’m married to a police officer and his job is ideal for us 🙃 IF I were single (god forbid) I wouldn’t date military, server, bartender, pilot, truck driver, personal trainer, “influencer”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:16 AM
-1

I think shaming is the only thing that will work. Shame the simps and shame the women whose lives are funded by them. Only systematic way to dismantle simpdom is to eradicate the supply. But that’ll unfortunately never happen. If you got rid of p0rn, made it illegal to be a dungeon dwelling incel, and financially incentivized men who are not simps…then maybe we could get somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:07 PM
1

Lol is that Emily Skye? I only know this because I use her postpartum fitness pics as inspiration for losing weight after a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:18 PM
1

Feminists don’t like for men to have standards. They are too lazy to be in shape, shave their body hair, put effort into their appearance for the sake of a man before their own selves. Sure, when we go somewhere I would love to look like a bum if I’m tired. But my husband has a reputation and my appearance is literally like a form of social currency. That is how it is for all women. But feminists reject this, balk at it, and view men who want traditional women who work hard on their looks as “to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:45 PM
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It’s definitely not. I would add though, that you can observe their outcomes and learn from that. My mother is a grand Karen. She’s also obese. Seeing how my father reacts to that taught me how to be the opposite. And I’m pretty spoiled in my marriage as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:38 PM
1

This
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:33 PM
1

❤️❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:32 PM
2

Most women like traditional masculinity. Feminists perceive this as toxic. Even though what they’re doing is also toxic (misandry in MOST cases). My husband is a man’s man, he doesn’t have to cook or do chores 90% of the time, he changes fewer diapers than I do, but he also does the pest control, plumbing, electric work, ac fixing, oil changes, tire inflation, literally EVERYTHING for our family and I adore him for it. I don’t really think toxic masculinity exists. You’re either a reasonable per…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:23 PM
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Most women are lying out of their ass when they say this. They are actually not happier single. Being “happy single” is a lot of work, you watch your friends get married and have someone on their arm for holidays and have babies and baby showers and grit your teeth through it. Speaking from former friend’s words. Not mine. I’m a wife/mom. They keep attracting men who use them for sex and they won’t be open about this. They really want a devoted husband and children but they can’t make it happen …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:13 PM
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Double standards are kind of necessary. I’ll take it further and say sexism is probably a threat level 0 out of 100 in 2023
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:10 PM
1

I only know how one turned out and it’s because his ex friend’s girlfriend and I are now really close lol. He ended up getting kicked out of his apartment, becoming an alcoholic, stealing from his grandmother after moving in with her. He was a trash human. And so was I at that point in my life. Which is how I attracted him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:35 PM
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Women in the west are not oppressed at all, idk who on earth would try to change your view on this or why
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:45 AM
4

They can’t handle the reality check. I knew that mymy youth was a finite resource and I used it to get the ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:37 PM
1

Ew no. lol. I’m not attracted to men my own age. I married a man six years older than me and we’re happy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:36 PM
0

Never in my life. Ever. Have I found this to be difficult. It was easier than boiling water.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:34 PM
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Because not all men do this and it’s kinda unfair to assume they’re all the same. I got married at 25. That’s old in my culture. I’m already 6 years younger than my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:39 AM
0

Usually women like this have an insufferable mother who couldn’t keep a good man in her life Typical unpacked childhood trauma
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:53 PM
1

We’d be unfazed. We got married one year before the first insane lockdown. We had to cancel our international honeymoon. We lost both of our jobs. Lost a new house we closed on. And we’re even stronger than when we tied the knot as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:27 PM
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No, regardless…partner is a weak term for someone you’re dating. That’s someone you work with. Re read the last sentence. I couldn’t imagine looking for or caring about any of those because after being married half a decade, they don’t matter for an ideal spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:48 AM
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That’s his fault for not vetting her properly or for not finding a woman that doesn’t believe in divorce. It’s not foolish to bank on if you have good judgment. But admittedly most people don’t. My husband and I are in our 30s and several of our peers are divorced 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:47 AM
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First off I would never use the word “partner”, my perfect husband is the man I married Disciplined Masculine Traditional Athletic Handsome Loves children High sense of duty. Everything else is excess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:45 PM
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Lying about anything like this means you need some serious fucking help and need to take time off from dating until you figure out what’s wrong with you. Men are dumb for even dating women who yammer about height that much. And women are dumber if they think catfishing with older photos is going to make them successful. That is SICK.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:20 PM
-1

Irl this tradcon dynamic works very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:13 PM
1

If she has children, her job needs to be her children. Not outsourcing their care to someone else and wasting $$ by doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:13 PM
1

Agree. Should be happening at LEAST weekly. Even if you have kids. If she’s pregnant, 2X a month minimum. Pregnancy can get pretty brutal and cumbersome but it’s no reason to shut down everything imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:28 AM
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Female empowerment is a ruse. A lot of (not all, duh but a LOT) of childless unmarried women are unhappy and they have to work 2,3X as hard to have anything in retirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:04 AM
1

Narcissists don’t like accountability, and astrology usually gives them a great shield to dodge it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:15 PM
1

That’s sexist and I’m not here for the man slander
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:13 PM
1

Based
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:11 PM
1

I’m not insulted by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:35 PM
1

You were the one who said “amazingly easy” and I was the one who never said it was all women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:32 PM
2

It’s funny because under no circumstance did I ever say that 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:31 PM
1

I would expect you not to in general
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:29 PM
1

No, but it does mean you really need to evaluate why you cannot get it for free with women who are not a headache
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:27 PM
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Look up Noah Tepperberg and his wife. I think money is the equalizer. BUT, if you have the most insane game, humor, and a nice body but your face is avg and you’re balding, you can still pull attractive women. I’ve seen it so many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:54 AM
1

India isn’t the only place in the world and once again I didn’t bring up that kind of astrology.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:46 AM
2

I believe it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:45 AM
1

Ok but we’re not talking about that. I see it as a green flag if they don’t like it Plus 9/10 men have stated here that they think it’s stupid. If I were single, I’d be taking notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:44 AM
1

Unaddressed trauma
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:41 AM
1

🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:40 AM
1

Only losers think astrology requires skill so there’s that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:40 AM
2

I fucking hate Taylor swift
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:39 AM
1

Lmao you have a point 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:44 PM
2

Yeah good luck in the US. I’m first generation American. I was raised to uphold tradition and reject anything else. So feminism and being fat and expecting men to just eat shit and love us even when we have nothing to offer will never make sense to me. This is why American women are losing in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:41 PM
1

I’m a wife. I’m fun for one person and that’s all that matters lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:39 PM
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While this is true that’s not a good thing bc it means everyone else is also having an easy time with her
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:38 PM
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I guess it saves you time from having to deal with batshit insane women. I don’t even know what being an Aries is supposed to mean nor do I care.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:37 PM
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They’ll bang her sure but that gets old and not really a flex versus being considered for a serious relationship. Which over 95% of comments here have stated clearly that she gets relegated just to F territory if she believes in dumb shit like astrology
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:36 PM
2

That is way way different. We all know here that this is in regards to millennial and gen z women who think they’re above accountability and their whole personality is their sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:34 PM
2

Disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:33 PM
1

Achievement unlocked: truth teller
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:33 PM
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Those men who married her must have had little to no standards. My god Also she is not intelligent…I know you’re trying to be diplomatic but you don’t have to do that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:32 PM
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As if they’re so perfect. Women like this have single or double digit IQ
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:31 PM
1

That is wild to say the least. What sign is your fourth husband going to be then
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:30 PM
1

Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:24 PM
1

I respect red pill men and a lot of these comments have only proved the fact that astrology is stupid AF
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:24 PM
1

Ughhhh at least she’s your ex now though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:24 PM
1

Yeah FACTS
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:23 PM
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Very much so. Every astrology female I know is a devoutly impressionable leftist and grips onto any social cause with a hashtag. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:23 PM
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LMAO, I should’ve specified. I know that y’all will tolerate it for the latter… But when it comes to the former, you’d prefer not to deal w it for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:22 PM
1

It’s sad but true. That gets old at the end of the day though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:21 PM
1

Thank you lol. Someone has to preserve common sense among women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:20 PM
1

Lol I love this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:19 PM
2

Most people with phds are just dummies in debt with a god complex anyway “Call me doctor” 🥴 no. I’m not calling you doctor just because you wrote a 250 page paper on rewriting gender norms
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:19 PM
1

Wrestling is fucking awesome though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:18 PM
1

Disciplined. Respect ✊🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:18 PM
1

That’s fair. I’m Christian but not bible thumper. I just pray every now and then but don’t hold it against anyone who can’t be bothered with it or hates the notion
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:17 PM
3

Like crystals and sage 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:16 PM
0

We understand. I compartmentalize it and have a huge awareness that f-ability and marriage are completely separate for y’all
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:15 PM
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At least you admit it isn’t 100% lol. Proud to be in the 25 who thinks it’s stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:15 PM
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OMG no. How is there any weight to this when people are so different lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:14 PM
1

That’s fair
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:13 PM
1

I like this comment. Essentially you view it as a marker to just stay away
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:13 PM
1

❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:13 PM
1

Curious, what’s at the top for you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:12 PM
1

Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:12 PM
2

I like the fact that men are hunters by nature. It wasn’t until my mid twenties that I finally accepted that none of my male friends JUST wanted to be friends. Not a single one except the gay ones and even then one of them made out with me at a bar. Soooo, idk. I never took it personally since it is up to me not to lead them on. It’s up to me to establish boundaries. And it’s even more up to me to just cut the friendship off for their sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:15 AM
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I think men get better at 30+. I was an age gap dater (men had to be 3+ years my senior or else I wouldn’t even talk to them) and met my husband when he was 31. He’s 37 now and I’m monumentally more attracted to him each year. It’s women who it works the opposite way for. If she’s single at 30, but wants to be married, there are usually always red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:45 AM
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Men traditionally provided assets and protection. My husband worded it beautifully. He said he wrote a pros and cons list about me. Once he realized the cons were trivial (I like my toilet paper roll facing any which way and I don’t squeeze the toothpaste neatly all the time) He realized he was making the right choice in marrying me. Apparently other exes had red flags that made a marriage impossible to consider. Which is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:33 AM
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Uhhhh, they’re 100% sex workers. They’re just branding themselves differently. A feral cat can play nice to get food.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:17 AM
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I don’t think any of that is a good reason lol. Still seems very silly and kinda proves that they can’t vet women well
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:16 AM
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That’s fucking gross. Means he doesn’t have the looks or social skills to bag these women on a random Tuesday.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:15 AM
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100%. I’m dying on this hill. When it comes to porn Masturbation is normal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:50 AM
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Women have gotten worse in America, but the same thing exists that men might not be working hard enough to find the women they want… Or actually qualify for them. I think flying off to a whole different continent, if you’re not willing to spend years there and become assimilated to the culture just to find a wife who is “compliant,” is pretty silly when you could do that in your own country. But a lot of these men can’t, and they won’t admit it. They know that their status as an American will be…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:02 PM
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None of those things mean anything good though. Like wow, you bang a lot of people. Cool? You’re risking being in the clinic or becoming a baby daddy. So inspiring/s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:43 PM
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When you’re an attractive woman, you get male attention every time you leave the house. Even if you are dressed like shit to deter it. And most of the time, it’s just gross men and even when it’s hot ones it gets exhausting. We have to really be receptive or looking for it to find it enjoyable regardless of the status and appearance of the man giving it. But it’s just extra off-putting when it happens to come from a man wearing pjs and sandals in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:44 PM
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I’m pro life and I think it starts with accountability BEFORE you get pregnant If you just have to indulge in casual sex, be more careful. Learn about your fertility. The work it takes to actually GET pregnant is very specific and when you’re codependent on birth control, you can fail and have an oops child. To second this, out of wedlock sex is completely out of control. Women abandon accountability at every chance they get. Abortion is not healthcare. It’s fucking sad when it even comes to tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:02 PM
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I HATE to do this but I have to answer your question with a question. Define sexually successful…? To me successful is the opposite of getting around. The red pillers I know are mostly married, and when single they tend to attract higher quality women. Albeit fewer than the lefties. But the liberal left wingers tend to be a lot more free and less discerning, so they’re “successful” by number standards but not definitely not quality standards!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:45 PM
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I’m admittedly a conservative extremist and I find entertainment in evaluating relationship dynamics. Especially when they are non trad. The red flags in those relationships are always at the surface and the couple is none the wiser about it. We have a friend couple where the husband is weak. The ozone burns around this guy he’s so sensitive. His wife dogs him out constantly and I hold my tongue around them. So this is a glaring example of “emotionality” in a man being a turn off and causing a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:38 PM
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Literally never lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:32 PM
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Society tells me that being a stay at home wife is akin to being a homeless beggar But the reality is my husband and I are happier than our friends who have “boss babe” wives
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:58 PM
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Loyalty, respect, duty, appreciation, and traditional gender roles
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:12 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:09 PM
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I would never ever recommend feminist circles for anything. That’s how you end up as a disgruntled single mom with an only fans. I dated without ever consulting my female friends after a while. I learned that they never had good advice. Your judgment will always be better than theirs. No man was ever good enough for them. And they all made terrible dating choices. Conservative circles for the win.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:07 PM
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I think because if a woman is willing to get tied down at that age, lesser chance she’s a man hating misandrist. It’s hard to explain this well but it’s the first thing that comes to mind. My peers who are 30+ and unmarried want to siphon their youth and finesse men. They think it is beneath them to become a wife and mother when they could just “delay” it. Bad choice
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:17 AM
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I’m an age gap wife. I was 25 when my husband met me and he’s almost seven years older. The reason I’ve heard him give (and I agree) is that it’s nice to be able to share wisdom, guide a woman, and frankly I wasn’t hardened, jaded, and withered like women his age. I’m grateful for who I’ve become after being with him for almost six years. Both of us see it as a red flag if a woman is unmarried by 30. Plus there’s the aspect of childbearing, in my culture you don’t bother delaying it or getting c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:15 AM
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There isn’t a single positive thing about mgtow lol. It is the epitome of giving up. Combined with an inability to see why someone canters attract what they want. The female version of this is radical feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:45 PM
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It’s definitely a misandrist hellhole. And trying to become more gender neutral but that’s failing. Women led cities are in turmoil, people are failing at relationships, and men are being allowed to enter women’s sports. No thanks! I’ll be on my homestead making bread. This shit is getting INSANE.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:38 PM
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We can’t be attracted to every attractive person. That is just exhausting. And inappropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:47 PM
2

I wish I had gold to give you. This is so accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:21 PM
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The problem is that [SOME OF] the men who are passport Bros typically have nothing that the women they actually want want. If your game sucks so much that you have just given up on dating in the country where you live, then something is definitely suspect about you. Like, these men usually don’t qualify for the quality, traditional women that they say they want. They usually have money, but no sense of style, not really that fit, and not really that masculine from what I’ve seen. So they just go…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:20 PM
2

I don’t think you’re as red pill as you think…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:03 PM
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There’s no real point. They’re desperate to rebrand and it usually fails
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:01 PM
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I think femcels are hitting the same numbers as male incels. You have more and more women being brainwashed into depriving men and gender norms. With that comes a generation of women who don’t care about men, don’t care what they want in a Wife, don’t want to be wives, and don’t want to be mothers, yet they still want the perks of being provided for I blame feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:03 AM
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Usually! Unresolved trauma being a big component. And/or religious oppression
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:01 AM
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Oh, I can tell you exactly why this happens. A lot of women are disgruntled that they’re not getting the results they wanted or feel entitled to on the dating market. They have either given away sex too early… Used sex as leverage, essentially, they have a distorted relationship with sex and men, and they can’t figure out a way to get it right in order to get a man to take them seriously. So what do they do? They get desperate and act as though they’re holier than thou all of a sudden. They thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:39 PM
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There are atheist feminists who do this to. Not a religious thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:37 PM
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Our passport bro friend just finished his divorce from a beautiful, yet insane Chinese woman She drew blood. Shit was CRAZY. I’m all for men going where they need to go but your second statement is dead on. You have to be educated and willing to adopt or sus out red flags in other cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:34 PM
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You have a distorted view of relationships. Is this because of your bad experiences or other people’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:28 PM
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I think about this a lot. I benefited (and still do) from pretty privilege. I don’t necessarily think I’m the most stunning person. In fact I don’t like attention and don’t go out of my way to get it. However, when I started to research this phenomenon, I could relate to all the women who got above average treatment just for their looks. I have only had three bad experiences with men in my entire life, the rest I was highly selective, picky, almost like I had a free matchmaker and then my husban…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 10:23 PM
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Nothing in life has guarantees other than death
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 10:15 PM
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Men want lineage. Minority only want sex which will get old and sex alone does not pair bond people until death
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 10:12 PM
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The wife chose a man who couldn’t provide for everyone so that’s on her. He showed who he was from jump.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 10:12 PM
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Those things get olddddd. At the end of the day and towards the end of your life, kinks will not be the glue to your relationship That’s what duty, service, loyalty, and respect are for. Not sexual gluttony 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 10:17 AM
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Exactly. Like, what does the man even get
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 10:16 AM
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Gonna be hard pressed to find a husband who does not ever want children. They’re out there but yikes. Why even get married. I know some couples who have divorced over this because the woman didn’t want kids and then all she was left with was regret when her ex remarried and had kids right away
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 10:16 AM
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Some men don’t want to be out here engaging in frivolous sex with women who are doing the same… It’s gross. You’re asking for a higher risk STIs and bastard kids with that lifestyle. Also some men value loyalty from ONE woman and they turn their nose up at OF girls and thots. You’re also projecting HARD in this post and I can tell you have some painfully unresolved commitment issues. People with hard kinks tend to be exactly like this. It is a textbook level of romantic dysfunction. You: I’m not…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 10:14 AM
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Some of the people on that show have better love lives than neurotypical people lol 🤷🏾‍♀️ I’m not claiming that it refutes statistics. Just proves that it doesn’t have to be a handicap.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 10:09 AM
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I know some. And there is no helping most of them. Post high school I adopted one and gave him a makeover. I was genuinely bored lol. He is married now and VERY successful. Now that I’m married, some of the friends in my husband’s circle are woefully single. They like to drink beer and game, they’re expediting their aging and poor health. (Some if not most) Women don’t want to be with men who can’t be bothered to exercise, stop drinking, and stop gaming. My husband is one of the most successful …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 10:04 AM
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Manning up but with what goal… To become a wife, better yet a provided for wife with no job: be doting, fit, not a nag, emotionally healed and loyal But to become idk a spinster? Do better at your job and abandon your family essentially
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:43 PM
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Love on the Spectrum can prove otherwise. Awesome show
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:41 PM
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I can see why you’re no pill lol. This is very generic. Hopefully I’m not offending you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:32 PM
1

I would tell him to talk to his father. I married my husband because he’s the best example I can think of other than my own father.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:31 PM
1

This is fair but you have to remember, a fat woman pre 20th century and today’s fat woman are about 50 pounds difference
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:17 PM
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How happy is her husband though, let’s be real. Is he traditionally masculine and do other women want him? Why is she fat? Is she planning on losing weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:17 PM
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Huh? Anyway, you cannot be fat and trad simultaneously
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:13 PM
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I’m a SAHM. I admittedly have a huge rock on my finger too. Fitness is a big deal to me and I’m very superficial about my looks. I’m also very trad and like patriarchal norms. So there are rewards that come with that. I don’t typically see fat or feminist SAHMs but I love being proven wrong!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:46 PM
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Raaaarely. But when I see this, she’s usually fit and extremely kind, loyal, respects him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:44 PM
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Women led cities are in ruin. I would also never vote for a female president. If you have a job, you SUBMIT to your employer every day. I happen to be self employed so I get to enjoy a life free of this. Submitting to a husband does not mean he is domineering. It means you chose and attracted a quality man who can lead your family and make decisions with you but ultimately you need to trust him if there’s some nuance. Ex: my husband wanted to move out of a large city, I was hesitant. I told him …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:56 AM
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Glad someone else has noticed this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:43 AM
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Kiss their ass 😬 these women live in an alternate reality
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:41 AM
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No, my husband drives an 04 truck, we’re middle class, he’s got big ears and a long nose and I treat him like he’s a fucking king. Because he is to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:40 AM
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Being raised by a super conservative dad and seeing that he was right in everything he told me growing up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:45 PM
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No, it’s because partner is literally void of romance. That is someone you work with. It’s a new term to placate our emotionally immature society where people don’t pair bond or trust one another anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:24 AM
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BINGO
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:08 AM
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Straight people should not be saying the word partner
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:23 PM
1

I agree with you. Modern women LOSE their mind over this. Like god forbid your boyfriend or husband wants you to represent both of you well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:42 PM
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When they say they have a partner it’s kind of a dead giveaway that they may not be straight Also why have a certain lifestyle and not be confident about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:34 PM
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I kinda laugh at those women. I’m a SAHM and my husband works full time. I make his lunches and dinners. Sunday is my day off from extreme cleaning and it’s my break from cooking usually too. Taking care of him and our home is like job security to me. I would never expect him to do the dishes, laundry, and cooking as much as me. That would be MENTAL. He takes the trash out. Does the pest control. Changes my oil. His oil. Takes out the cat litter. Fixes everything that breaks. Why should he have …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:23 AM
0

Idc about “neutrality” Those people could still say boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:30 AM
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Frankly this is the majority of couples because of societal decline. However, I’ve seen a dozen plus marriages where this is not nor ever will be the case. I wouldn’t ever tell someone NOT to get married because it has a plethora of benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:04 PM
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Literally this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:03 PM
1

Hit the gym, prioritize nutrition, develop a skincare routine and stay hydrated
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:54 PM
2

Amen
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:53 PM
0

Still no excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:51 PM
1

No excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:51 PM
1

I feel this in my spirit. Due to pregnancy, naturally I gained weight. But I’ve also lost all of that weight put on. Meanwhile, I see women around me just staying fat after each child or even when their youngest child is potty trained. In my opinion there is no excuse for that. I have an obese mother. She and my father are in their late fifties. My father is indifferent towards her, not as affectionate, and wishes she could lose the weight. When he met her, she was like…135 at 5’7”. Solid muscle…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:49 PM
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I hate the word partner. We’re not partners. Partner is for informal relationships with no depth to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:33 PM
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Not true for most women in the feminist era. They can’t handle actual masculinity. I’m married to a traditional, (I hate the term alpha but that’s what he is) masculine man. But my (now former) feminist friends didn’t like him and thought I could “do better”. And by do better, they meant a liberal simp who would let me walk all over him. No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:31 PM
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God forbid men have standards and want loyalty. This is another reason why bachelorette parties and girls trips are red flags
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:21 PM
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I’m 5’3 and my husband is 5’11. I laugh my ass off thinking of the fact that some women require a man to be 6’ for no good damn reason. When I was single though I loved myself a short king. I don’t understand the height obsession. When these same women would flip s h i t if a man wanted them to be under 140 pounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:14 PM
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I could never like a man enough to accept the baggage of children that I didn’t birth. Even if he’s an attractive, emotionally stable billionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:08 PM
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So much projection I feel like I’m at a drive through movie theater. Every man I know who is divorced is really bad at reading women. Asshat women exist, of course. But I blame men for choosing to barrel through the red flags those women CONSTANTLY give off and then they want sympathy when they’re getting divorced. No. We told you she was trash and you wifed her anyway. Take the L.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:59 PM
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Not all, I don’t like to generalize. I love men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:56 PM
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We aren’t talking about the same thing at all, lol. I was explaining raw passion. You’re explaining what seems to be shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:56 PM
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Not at all. Those men just cannot get the women they really want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:55 PM
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We call those men “lampreys” in our house
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:54 PM
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This is so inaccurate I don’t even know where to start. There are men who will sleep with 300 pound women they don’t even respect just so they can get their bills paid or have someone to pay their bail.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:40 PM
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There’s a level of “fiending” I like to call it. Like, they can hardly get through a full date in public. I had one ex who would pick me up as soon as we got home/parked the car and sprint into the house carrying me. Sh*t was crazy 😂 (Please note, you don’t have to be that extra especially in a marriage. My husband is way more chill about these things and I prefer it)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:38 PM
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Accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:54 PM
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Did I ever say he should? Once?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:47 PM
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At least you recognize the risk of STIs. Being frivolous with your seed is criminally irresponsible and doesn’t lead to good outcomes for the children.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:25 PM
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Hard pass. I like my 5’11” middle class husband. I adore him. I’ve immediately rejected men who courted attention from other women like you mentioned. I’ve dated absurdly wealthy men before and it isn’t worth the headache, mindgames, and competition. My goal was to be a wife and mother, not hop around the Maldives and get flewed out and placated with cash when he wants to see his other girlfriend. That seems like such a vapid, sad life. (Of course, not ALL rich men are like this but the lifestyl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 11:59 AM
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Too much effort. Sadly seems true here. Being what is the equivalent of a rich beta only entails turmoil and loss of assets over time
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 11:55 AM
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My husband and I are millennials. We own our home and got married within a year of dating. We also each have married parents, so we saw what it takes to sustain a relationship but there’s a LOT we do differently than them. I think the problem is divorce is so common/normalized now (it shouldn’t be!) and people go to college for useless degrees only to end up working minimum wage jobs. So they feel like they can’t get married and have kids. And then all this progressive bs is encouraging the sexe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:53 AM
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No. Also your culture affects this dramatically. My husband’s parents have insane resources and he moved out at 18 but then came back for a couple of years. I’ve dated men who were not American and they lived with family through their mid twenties. There was no standard milestone really imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:30 AM
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Why did this get dvd
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:21 AM
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Perfect example: melissa wood and noah whatever his last name is. Every time I see that couple I just see dollar signs in her eyes. He looks like a human thumb
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:21 AM
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So do you want STIs and bastard children? Or to actually develop attractive masculine traits that will make women want you for you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:20 AM
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1, 2, and 3 have the same thing in common. Each woman had some sort of visible/tangible aversion to physical contact from you, and/or lack of reciprocation in their own different way. They’re giving you a second date because you’re probably nice and didn’t get pushy (as far as we know) or aggressive so they want to see if they can form more of a connection and get some sexual chemistry. They might see potential but they want both things to be there. Some women are willing to give something a sec…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:56 PM
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Saying that those women could get married “tomorrow”, or in any short timeframe when their mindset is warped AF discredits men. Makes it seem like men will just take anything. They won’t. They will look at your social rap-sheet like a hiring manager. As they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:32 PM
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Hmmm….but this discredits men. Good men can tell how long a woman has been in her purpose. They won’t wife a chameleon.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:14 PM
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If anyone wants to change this view, they’re a toxic feminist for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:10 PM
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I don’t think so. There are loads of women who want to be married but they lack the qualifications to attract a man who will actually commit to them. These women outnumber women who have excellent dating skills and high social value.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 05:44 PM
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Before therapy: cockiness After therapy: I can’t think of a single one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:06 PM
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Genuine conservative women are not. Chameleons are though. They’re usually the bible verse girls with carefully cultivated instagrams but they’re 304s in practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:30 PM
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I’m not upset. I’m first generation so I wasn’t raised with Western values. That is why I don’t care for Western women. But I still know that traditional quality ones are out there. I genuinely don’t have an issue with passport bro culture but it does seem drastic in some cases. And you, my friend, were/are in the liberal/SJW rectum of the dating market. So yeah, your options in general are going to mostly suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:24 PM
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Ghost them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:03 PM
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Tinder. Yikes. Suit yourself but leaving an entire country instead of evaluating why you can’t attract the women you want just seems extreme. You selected hotspots for feminism and body positivity. The conservative, traditional women are heavily laden in the south and midwest. Plus, you’re not going to be received well by the men in whatever culture you’re visiting and you’ll have to do extra sifting for a woman who is willing to marry out. That’s why you got the results you did in the last part…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:46 AM
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No. I would never even be with a man who was interested in that life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:19 AM
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Plus feminism, body positivity, and divorce being SO normalized
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:06 AM
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Idk about the triad part. Mentally unfit/unstable women are drawn to dark triad dudes. The healthy ones either get out early or don’t even engage. The rest makes sense though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:04 AM
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Why are the actual trad comments getting downvoted 🤦🏾‍♀️🙄. We live exactly like how you mentioned and only my husband works full time. My job (I have my own business but by all intense am a SAHM) is my family and our home.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:01 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:01 PM
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Most conservatives, at least me personally, don’t view the collective as anything to worry about. Sounds harsh, but what am I supposed to do about others? That’s why we don’t believe in equity or affirmative action. And I’m also saying this as a black woman. If other families cannot afford a certain situation, that’s on them. Not us to worry about. We fight for our own success and believe in merit. If women want to be housewives, they need to qualify for the men who can provide for them. I’m a S…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:59 PM
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Team Jonah. All these dog faced feminists need to take their L and sit down. Sarah Basic Brady is not going to become any more famous or successful from this stunt and she’s now driven Jonah completely off social media from what I saw. Very weak and toxic of her especially since he’s a new father now and moved on from the situation. I have had ONE mentally abusive ex and it was my fault for choosing him. Jonah was not 1/50th as bad as that guy was. I was in actual danger. This chick has NO idea …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:53 PM
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There’s levels to it, admittedly. It’s like how Tusli Gabbard calls herself a dem even though she’s technically a conservative and might as well be a Republican
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:40 PM
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Mgtow tells men that and mgtow is not red pill. It’s glorified incel culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 04:40 AM
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I know (but am not friends with) women who are exactly like these various types of guests. These women are single and have impossible standards for men without actually offering them anything that they want. They just feel entitled to rich men (and they want marriage but not for genuine reasons) even though some of them drastically need therapy, don’t want children, and want to exploit themselves for profit. We’re doomed. These women have parents who failed them and social media has created a co…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 04:34 AM
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I feel like she was the problem in addition to him being kind of a whiner. They were both the problem. L for him having a child out of wedlock though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:29 PM
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It’s just saying that yes women can be stunning and fit as hell and that’s great but (anecdotally) I’m in the same social circle as these women and some of them are liabilities
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:29 PM
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Being immoral immediately removes you from being a HVM. Immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:25 PM
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Bagging a rich man is not the goal for most of us. Rich men come with certain liabilities that average or modest income men do not I would never aspire to have the outcomes of a garish, old, divorced woman. Rich people can have their own faults, in fact they get away with having MORE faults because of the freedom and protection absurd amounts of money allow them. A lot of rich men and women are predators. Ie maxwell and epsteinand weinstein and I could go on. Of course this does not apply to ALL…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:23 PM
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Only weak men can be baited. And only low value women try to bait men. It’s a form of natural selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:08 PM
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I agree with the discipline but do you think highly of the ones who are for the streets or sell their services lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:06 PM
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B i n g o
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:17 PM
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If they’re getting into bad relationships that is 100% on them. Especially for attracting a boyfriend or husband who cannot cater to their “wants and needs.” Most of which are probably absurd and backwards anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:51 PM
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My husband. Emotionally regulated, responsible, fit/athletic, traditional/masculine, logical, reserves empathy, (he doesn’t interfere with random social justice causes) conservative, god fearing or at the very least not a radical atheist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:47 PM
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Not enough to write home about. And then men who wife those women aren’t desirable by quality women anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:12 PM
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I joined a co ed sport specifically to create a social life and a husband came out of it. True.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:00 PM
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Feminism happened
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:20 PM
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Yes! Women will get butt lifts and wear other women’s hair just because they see it being popularized Without questioning how blind following will negatively affect them in the long run
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:34 PM
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Women are horrible at being rejected and they’re worse than men at accepting it with grace
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:21 PM
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HELL. NO. I think women have been gaming the divorce system for tooo long and they need to be taught a lesson. Divorce should not be as easy as it is as well. Just a thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 01:18 PM
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This. Also toxic masculinity isn’t a thing. Or at least it isn’t a big deal. Toxic femininity is definitely worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:51 AM
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Some women are that desperate that they do swipe on those guys lmao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:49 AM
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Team Jonah. Sounds like his gf was being untrustworthy af and I’m glad she got booted. Her behavior is so typical of modern birds
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:02 AM
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Modern women who will get left behind do not. Traditional women know good and damn well that our virtue is our social currency and we don’t try to buck that system. Pair bonding is real and when you belong to the streets, no matter how stunning you are, men won’t wife you. And that’s their fundamental right.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:15 AM
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Yea yours are as important as his. That ‘s why you marry an emotionally sound man. You ultimately trust in his abilities to lead. My husband did research on where we should move and I did my own before agreeing. It’s little things like that. He wanted me to start conceal carrying more often and I respected that decision. Lastly, he wanted to know if I was okay with homeschooling the kids and I agreed. These are decisions that all needed my input but if I were to challenge them then I need to off…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:57 PM
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Thank you. That’s so refreshing to see in a sea of down votes just because I’m preaching traditional opinion :-) I hate Reddit sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:52 PM
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Idk I’ve seen some 70 year old men who are fine as hell but it does NOT work the same for women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:49 PM
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They like women. They’re just tired of what women have turned into. Which is not good. 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:47 PM
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It’s mostly the women’s fault. Men control marriage but ultimately women choose their husbands and have a lot more choices than men do. In most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:18 PM
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I’m 31. The entire post was about it being pointless for two parents to work while the kids are raised by someone else. As someone who agrees, I’m sharing how I make it possible NOT to outsource my childcare. That’s it. It isn’t really my problem that everyone can’t do it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:13 PM
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Partner is generic. It’s as generic as it gets. Everyone I see use it is in a transactional relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:10 PM
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Partner is generic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:09 PM
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They’re supposed to figure their lives out 🤷🏾‍♀️ don’t have kids out of wedlock, marry a man you respect and have a discussion of finances and who will work before you tie the knot, it’s pretty simple
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:08 PM
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That’s just life though. I’ve seen women in those circumstances STILL make it happen. We aren’t all going to have husbands (even though we should) or resources but that doesn’t mean you just give up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:05 PM
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Don’t think that matters because there are younger moms than me who are in worse shape. It comes down to personal discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:44 PM
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I’m black and I think you’re grossly wrong on this. My black great grandparents did exceptionally well and set my generation and my mothers up for immense success in spite of their race. Don’t pull that woke card here lol. It won’t work. Gender roles are awesome and society is regressing backwards trying so hard to fight them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:28 PM
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Women playing dumb games and feeling dumb for playing them is on them and it is not toxic for me to bring light to it, as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:27 PM
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A chameleon is what I like to call that woman. 🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:26 PM
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Good luck with that 👍🏾 you also don’t know what submission means but that’s okay. Most people choose not to understand it. If you’re employed, you submit to something. So you’re already submissive in one if not numerous aspects of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:25 PM
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There is no gender pay gap. I’m not really concerned with what other people can’t do, I did what I dreamt of and they have the right to do the same. There are millionaires and billionaires who were born from poverty 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:24 PM
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Yeah even gay people should just say the actual term. Partner is really stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:22 PM
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Salads are overrated and not a good weight loss food
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:13 PM
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They just have to work hard. I lost all my pregnancy weight and belly in spite of a c section. No excuses. And NO tummy tuck. Idk why people think that’s the only way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:12 PM
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The 50s had something right over the debauchery that goes on today. It’s a hill I’m going to die on. Partner is gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:03 AM
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Also sidenote, we gotta stop using partner. Husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend. Partner is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:56 AM
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Why would those things be at your expense. It’s our job as women to choose men who we respect enough to want to do all those things for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:52 AM
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You NEVER consult women about what men want. Ask men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:52 AM
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Modern women, yes. They struggle with it and fight the system. Also, we gotta stop saying “partner” it’s either spouse or boyfriend/girlfriend. Partner is so cold and void of romance. I focus on what I can do to make my husband’s life easier. I make his lunches and dinners 5 days out of the week. I do majority of the chores and prioritize a clean home and being his peace. I also stay in shape and take care of adult duties regularly. Lastly, I make sure we get to see our friends either together o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:50 AM
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I don’t see the point of paying for childcare and missing out on time with my child. And I said interdependent for a reason. It’s not the same as full dependence. Nice partners who “change” come with red flags that their spouse chooses to ignore over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:14 AM
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He can see her being the mother of his children perhaps She might fit into his social circle better What are her views, is he looking for a traditional or modern woman Is she agreeable or combative Idk. These are all things I’ve noticed when watching male friends dump a woman and then get married to the next woman they date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:05 AM
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You don’t have to be home “all day” I take my our son to the zoo, the store, park, anywhere we wanna go because I’m not under obligation to some random company. The spouse who is home, preferably the wife, doesn’t mind being interdependent on her husband and she can be an entrepreneur (NOT IN AN MLM!!!) if money concerns her that much. I have a graphic design business that I poured years of my life into and it makes me passive income while I devote the majority of my time to my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:52 AM
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I agree completely. My husband and I discussed me being a SAHM before I got pregnant. Our lives are fundamentally better now that I take care of the home, meals, and the baby. We save more money this way too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:46 AM
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lol hell no
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:15 AM
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Nope. We just don’t want you to look like Adam Levine or Travis Barker or Machine Gun Kelly. Malnourished and lanky. Anything with more meat than that is perfect. Six pack abs are not impressive to me. I’ve dated a bodybuilder before and that lifestyle is so strict that unless you’re doing it too, you’re not going to enjoy each other’s company.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:42 AM
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No, it’s not toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:25 AM
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I mean, it does…heard it from the horses mouth… but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:54 PM
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Even land hippos manage to get laid. Which baffles me to no end.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:33 PM
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Yes. It’s safe to assume this. They typically have unresolved trauma and while that is unfortunate, it’s not your problem. It’s theirs to work out. You do not want to be in a longterm relationship or marriage with a woman who can’t be bothered with introspection or self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:35 PM
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I like weird looking men. Look at Adam Driver. Dude’s got the longest nose and these big old ears but for some reason that’s my type. I even married a man who looks like he could be his brother 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:30 PM
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I invited my (at the time boyfriend but now) husband to train jiu jitsu with me and it was a GREAT time (we were both training before we met each other)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:11 PM
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Excuse my French, but %$&@ no
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:46 PM
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It’s this: the men they want to find them attractive don’t give them the attention they feel entitled to. But men they are not attracted to do. So then they feel less attractive. It’s a hilarious contradiction in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:37 PM
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It comes from clueless women who don’t really attract the men they want. Because they can’t. And they have no clue why lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:21 AM
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No changing to be had. Sexuality really shouldn’t be something people wear on their sleeve. There needs to be some discernment, discipline, and restraint.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:59 AM
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When I was single, it was not in any way difficult whatsoever. Not at all. One time I made a game of it, my best friend invited her boyfriend and his friends to town and I met one and within a minute I was like “Yeah, I can make this happen.” And I did. I’m not proud of that since that’s not the type of person I am anymore. But my husband and I are very open about what our single lives were like. ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:52 AM
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I think they’re silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:02 PM
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Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:38 PM
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Some women don’t qualify for the men they’re actually attracted to. So they settle. They’re also not good wives, so they essentially brag about letting their husbands go without intimacy. A friend of mine is a teacher and her colleagues BRAG about only giving their husband a certain sxual act on his birthday. As if they’re doing him a favor. None of these women are attractive or desirable and if they were to divorce they would have no options. So they’ve “settled” in their minds but the men they…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:38 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:00 AM
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That’s actually what got me married
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:52 AM
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They 100% do. I’ve seen women who are overweight, masculine, and lazy but have high paying jobs asking why they can’t find a good man. Traditional men (the men they want) aren’t concerned with your money like that. And your devotion to your job can be seen as a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:51 AM
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Men compartmentalize sex differently than we do. It’s socially acceptable for a man to have “been around” but it isn’t for women. I don’t think that’s a ”great” thing but I also really don’t care about changing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:18 AM
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We have one and we are stopping at two. We’re very middle class. 50k. I have passive income from being a freelance designer so we’re comfortable. I say single income bc if that went away it wouldn’t matter. Our home and cars are paid off so that also helps. We don’t and never Will utilize daycare so that is an additional 15-20k in our pockets annually.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:12 PM
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I would be more concerned with the dissolution of our marriage. That would be more jarring than finances. I fear that more than anything resource wise. I have my own trade skills and a degree to “fall back on” but we’re well taken care of in terms of life insurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:56 PM
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I’ve had NOTHING but toxic female bosses
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 11:21 AM
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She’s not even half black btw. At all. She comes from Indian bloodline who happens to live in Jamaica and in no way is she black.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 11:21 AM
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Definitely not going to change this view. I’m black and femininity is literally shamed in our “culture” if you can even call it that. If you want to be agreeable with a man, dote on him, be girly, and smile, bake pies…you’re called a pick me and receive insults left and right
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 11:20 AM
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I’m happier married than I ever was while single (31F)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 09:41 AM
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I think older men belong with younger women. My husband is six years older. Most of the posts on that two xx chromosomes page give me cancer. They’re not pro traditional anything over there and seem to wanna watch the world burn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 09:40 AM
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They lack longterm discipline and they don’t choose well. Divorce is done WAY too much these days and for no valid reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:09 AM
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We’re a single income family and I’m a sahm. We exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:07 AM
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Some women actually do so there’s no vote changing to be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:07 AM
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“I think a woman would make a great president.”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:44 PM
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Why did the mom choose to have children with a deadbeat? Why didn’t she wait to get pregnant until she was married to a quality man? Women control reproduction. Therefore it is our responsibility not to fail our future children by having them with men who are not serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:38 PM
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31F. Married 5 years. Together for 6. We talked about our relationship and life goals on the first date. We knew we wanted marriage and kids. At the time, we didn’t know that would be with each other. You need to have similar morals and work ethics. Like, my husband and I are BOTH very conservative and we both stay in shape. Deal with any childhood trauma so it doesn’t repeat in your relationships. We both have overbearing, radical feminist moms and soft-spoken dads who take their shit too much.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:26 PM
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There’s no need to change this view. It makes the most sense. I saw this one YouTuber talking about this. She has nothing but poor luck with men. Instead of getting therapy, getting in shape, learning how to be a wife and attracting a man for marriage, she’s getting a sperm donor or whatever and subjecting a poor child to a life of setbacks. Selfish and atrocious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:14 PM
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We know and we can smell it coming minutes before it happens. It’s so obvious. I have a baby and a ring on my finger and men still try it. (I’m a SAHM so I’m out doing errands without my husband quite often)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:44 PM
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Go back to traditional gender roles
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:40 PM
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That doesn’t mean they’re traditional though. I see a lot of women get married and then keep their last name or delay kids because of “career”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:11 PM
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I’m gonna borrow christpilled sometime
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:08 PM
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What expectations are those, grand projector. I’m curious. You don’t even know me. Don’t lump me in with these modern broads who file divorce for “irreconcilable differences.”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:06 PM
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Onlyfans chicks smh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:28 PM
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That’s super kind. Thank you. I don’t want men to give up. Traditional women are out there still.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:28 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:25 PM
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Those people made poor choices and they have bad discipline/decision making/no guidance. I know plenty of divorced folks who are my age or younger and they made mistakes that people in serious relationships would never. They viewed marriage as a joke. Sorry but a lot of women are depressed bc they’re trying to Buck the system, be corporate juggernauts, be promiscuous, and they actually want the soft life but they don’t have it. More women are depressed now than ever before. Widows who have lost …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:25 PM
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What’s the point. Older guys than my husband are boomers. Big deal. If you think he and I are both going to die without seeing other people as physically attractive then you need to grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:53 AM
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Thank you, that’s kind. This sub is full of some sad folks lol. But I love a lot of the really based posts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:52 AM
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Is there a reason for the projecting or what. We can talk about this. But to answer your question, I couldn’t care less since even in a marriage…we’re human and we notice when other people are attractive. I’m a woman. I find older men attractive. In fact I find some men older than my husband to be particularly handsome but there isn’t a single possibility I could ever act on that. My husband is within his rights to notice and value beauty in younger women at the same time. I don’t think your com…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:17 AM
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I was raised trad AF and I’ve gotten banned for my views before so thank you 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:58 AM
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It’s kinda simple. Gay men and straight women typically want the gaze of a male so what do they do…watch their weight. Fat lesbians have clearly given up on being attractive to men and straight men can still pull women while being out of shape. I have two fat exes and they were some charming/wealthy motherfckers, let me tell you. So straight men can have caveats or extra added that makes them being fat not a big deal. And lesbians usually go for women who might *also be dealing with weight issue…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:29 AM
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They always like to project their fear and scarcity mindset onto married folk. I’m a SAHM and I get told stuff like this alllll the time. “what if he leeeeaves youuuuu” that would be a tragedy and I would have bigger problems to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:14 AM
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What?! I married my husband in my early twenties and that was the best if not one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. I want to be with him for life. I don’t care about the frivolity of “getting tired” and wanting to explore other people. Life is so much bigger than that. Sleeping around and prioritizing career are leading to more lonely women who are depressed and on ssris with a house full of roommates, plants, and cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:11 AM
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1000% true. My mother is one. Can confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:46 AM
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We know the time involved. I dated a pro bodybuilder. I met him before he got into the industry. I liked him for him. I disliked him for the work involved in bodybuilding because he became a cranky chore to be around. Flash forward to my husband, I don’t want to share a pic of him but he’s built like Adam Driver. I think that’s the sexiest body type a man can have. You can tell he exercises on occasion but it isn’t his entire effing life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 01:40 AM
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Fucking BASED
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:48 AM
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LMAO I am so intrigued by this and I want more of it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:47 AM
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It MUST.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:09 PM
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I cannot nor will not try to CYV because this is 100% accurate. Source: I have a mother who bragged that she knew how to beat me without leaving bruises. But because of how she presented herself in society, I was in the wrong/crazy for even trying to get help But all I see is people saying men are unsafe. Riiiight. Try being stuck in a house with a dark triad mother for your adolescence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:21 AM
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-Get optimally fit for your body type -have an excellent hair cut/style that flatters your face -address any lacking social skills you have (there’s coaching for this) -good hygiene -get rid of clothing that sabotages you (good/fashionable clothing does NOT have to be expensive so there’s few excuses for this)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:14 AM
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I don’t pity them. They have a chance to become desirable and instead they lean into being socially inept and victimize themselves. I think female incels are even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:33 AM
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I’m married, but before this I would listen to my single female friends brag about their ONS. They definitely “love” it as much as men do but it wears away at them more over time and jades them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:37 PM
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All of this is kind of what led me to date and marry older. The men my age (at the time 24) were NOT particularly in a hurry to get married and they were kind of scared of it. Because of what you mentioned. My husband was ready for a wife and kids when I met him and I was like thank god, me too. He’s six years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:20 PM
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Women always get more grace in society, unfortunately. You can be a complete bum of a woman, abandon your kids, be 300 pounds and somehow anyone will STILL cape for you or you’ll get government assistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:47 PM
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I’m a tradwife and I have literally the most emotionally healthy man I know other than my father. So while this may be true for SOME, it’s easily disputable. One could argue that a true tradwife attracts the opposite type of men as narcissists. Women who attract narcissists tend to have unpacked emotional and psychological trauma and I wouldn’t consider them trad on paper as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:29 PM
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This is so true. Women can also be 600 lbs and still somehow find a man Although, those are men who unquestionably lack standards
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:51 AM
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Good god I can see the ozone burning around her
/r/AntiFeminists25/05/23 01:39 AM
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No. Most women have unaddressed childhood trauma that conditions them to normalize shitty behavior in others. And this happens to men too. I don’t believe in painting women as the victims when men go through the same things. We have a huge problem where parents are heralded as heroes beyond reproach in society. But most of us have issues BECAUSE of our parents. Example: my mother was a dark triad (narcissistic, Machiavellian, psychopathic) and I could tolerate absolute abuse from men because I g…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:37 AM
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I’m an only child but I became more sympathetic just by considering what my father must go through as a husband, employee with a dangerous profession, and man in general. Men know that if they don’t perform, they’ll be on the streets. Women don’t for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:54 PM
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I think it was caused by third wave feminism actually. Things have been wrecked since before the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 11:52 AM
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No. I would much rather have a real conversation with someone than do that. It isn’t bad for girls unless they make it bad for themselves tbh. Apps are pretty much asking for a bad experience, you’re not soliciting yourself for marriage on 9/10 of these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 11:39 AM
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I agree with it. Women are not only more violent and abusive than men are, they get away with it because society expects them not to have violent traits. Society always wants to make men evil. That’s why cops can pull up to a dispute where a man has a literal knife wound to his face, and his hands are up, but he will still get tackled while is insane wife cries that he tried to harm her (that story is a coworker’s, his father was being physically abused by his mother). Women also abuse their chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 08:47 PM
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Their father
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:09 AM
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Women want fit men even when they’re fat (sorry for answering as a woman lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:24 AM
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Amen to that. I’m shocked to see someone else aware of this around here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:07 PM
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I tend to see more unsatisfied single women than happy ones. Half the time, they’re not really attractive to men and have zero intent on doing anything about it (like they’ve been fat for ten years and couldn’t be bothered to get in shape) or they have unaddressed trauma and want to bond with a man but have no clue on earth how to do so. So their relationships are always short. At the end of the day, women online have really misguided solidarity and will hype each other up even when they’re sabo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:24 PM
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Nothing good can come from this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:30 AM
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I’m talking about armpit hair having, sjw radical feminists who believe it’s their right to be as unpleasant as humanly possible, and they hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:29 PM
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I have a wonderful friend who has. He’s my husband’s best friend and he is also the godfather of our child. He simply wants a woman who wants family, isn’t a leftist, not abusive and doesn’t have kids from another man. He’s pretty much given up on finding a wife. I don’t blame him. Women are getting worse and worse each year.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:56 AM
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Never. My husband and I had an unspoken pact that we’d make each other wait. It was the best decision ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:14 AM
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No lol. I work from home on commission so I make my own schedule and care for our kiddo, but if I were a full time employee, working away from home and our son, I would not be as much of an asset to my husband and our home.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:06 AM
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Be well dressed, fit, emotionally and financially stable. If you want a relationship. Make that CLEAR. If you don’t, same. I’m talking first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:00 AM
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Well, I was 25 when my husband snatched me up. I don’t have a problem with men wanting younger women especially if they’re childless. They can build a family and this is kinda harsh but avoid someone who might be jaded 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:49 AM
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Women who have a height standard need to understand when men have a weight standard
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:56 AM
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Woman here. I’ve without a doubt never once considered sex work. Morally bereft at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:51 AM
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No, part of being high value means you are loyal
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:43 AM
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It’s just common sense. It’s weird af to get on your knees as a woman and ask a man to marry you. I’m shocked that I even have to explain this. It’s just been the norm for men to do it and I like it that way. Men lead the household and protect the family, they should choose their wife. Wives are found/raised, not made…that’s another aspect to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:16 AM
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If I have to explain, then we’ve failed as a society.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:09 AM
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I’ve seen the complete opposite happen. But I live in Texas, that might be why. The men I’m able to observe usually attract more traditional women who aren’t trying to financially leech a guy dry. They actually want to be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:04 PM
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This is pretty false. Men get hotter as they age and can pretty commonly date someone half their age who is childless and unjaded compared to a spinster or previously divorced woman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:51 PM
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