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1

Cope. Sounds like you have a terrible personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 12:02 AM
46

And Seattle 😩 I swear every other guy when I was on OLD was poly or a unicorn hunter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:28 AM
12

What? That's the literally the question?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 02:39 PM
6

40% of relationships these days start on OLD (https://news.stanford.edu/2019/08/21/online-dating-popular-way-u-s-couples-meet/) and that number is only going up. Telling women to avoid online dating is just putting your head in the sand imo. It makes more sense to come up with an FDS strategy that works with OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:30 AM
38

I think a really easy way to parse out an NVM is to see how he feels about adoption. It's perfectly fine if he prefers having biological children (I feel the same way). But a man who is truly high value would be ok with adopting, because ultimately his goal (wrt to children) should be creating a family not "passing on his genes" or some other bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 08:50 PM
32

Yeah I mean the commenter is pointing out how easy it is to have basic human decency. I get that men shouldn't be praised for doing the bare minimum but singling out this comment is a bad example.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:30 PM
26

That's more of a personal preference than a true H/LVM thing. I don't have an issue with hunting as long as it's not a vulnerable species.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:04 AM
31

Except change it to [F20] and [M34] because for some reason the relationship subs are full of abusive age gaps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 10:51 PM
3

Eh I married a white man and haven't had any issues and he's been very supportive in everything. I also appreciate that he has firm boundaries with his family which I find a lot of SA people in general struggle with. I think HVMs exist in every culture, you just have to fine tune your selection criteria depending on who you're going for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:15 PM
10

Personally I prefer rugged looking men and (east) Asian guys seem to have a more clean cut aesthetic. I think they're objectively attractive and I can see why other women go for them, just not my type. Also speaking as a South Asian woman a lot of SA men tend to be momma's boys. I think every culture comes with its pros and cons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:28 PM
43

Agree. 3 months is just out of the honeymoon period. I'd give it closer to 6 - 12.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 11:50 PM
4

I'm sorry that happened to you but glad you got away!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:47 PM
17

In my situ he ended up putting my hair in pigtails, buying me childish pyjamas, shaving me Bruh what the fuck. Just reading that makes my skin crawl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:43 PM
11

Tbh I agree this is location dependent. I live in a major coastal cities and most people I know in their 30s (men and women) still look good. I can only think of one person that's starting to look "old" but I think she was a sun worshipper in her 20s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:17 PM
10

He sounds like the type of guy who doesn't wash his butt because he thinks touching your own butthole is gay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:13 PM
53

That's a cute gesture but that ring would shatter if she ever brushed her hand against something too hard. There's a reason engagement rings tend to be made out of something high on the Mohs scale like diamonds, sapphires, etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 05:23 PM
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There's nothing wrong with men who like the "baddie" look as long as they acknowledge how much maintenance goes into it and are willing to pay for it (lol). Likewise there's nothing wrong with men who like the natural look and then actually date women who are mostly or all natural. The issue is with hypocritical dudes who say they like "natural" but then drool over women with surgeries and makeup and artificial hair color etc etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 05:03 PM
17

Imagine wasting money on a cake this trashy. This couldn't have been cheap either since it looks pretty well made.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 09:57 PM
8

I liked Lolita too but the issue is men who "like" controversial books like that do so less because of their literary value and more because they're either trying to be edgy or are actually closet pedos/racists/etc. Especially because I think it's considered a social faux pas to publicly announce you like those books.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 09:01 PM
29

Nah I only shower once a day in the evening, after my workout. Idk why anyone would need to shower twice unless they sweat a lot or live in a really grimey environment. I also only shampoo once a week (curly, bleached hair) and just rinse with water otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 07:30 PM
36

Even when I got dumped I got over it in a few weeks. What's the point of being hung up on someone who doesn't want you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 06:33 PM
46

Bare minimum = doing most of the chores, making dinner, listening to her day Above and beyond = making her favorite foods, carrying her to bed (imo the bf did go above the bare minimum here), planning something fun for the weekends to help her destress The way I think about is, if the genders were reversed would anyone praise the woman? A girlfriend/wife would be expected to do chores and have dinner ready if their male partner works long hours hence why a man doing the same thing isn't really p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 01:58 AM
53

I'm not that old (27) but when I reminisce about my teens & early 20s I mostly think about how I should tried harder in school. The attention from guys is literally the last thing on my mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 08:36 PM
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I slightly disagree on the year timeline and think it depends on age + culture + personal preference. For example my husband and I were 23 & 24 when we met and a year would have been way too fast for me back then (I didn't want to legally tie myself to someone until we were both financially established and well into our careers). I know some European FDSers have mentioned a year is very fast regardless of age in their countries. Conversely I've also seen some FDSers say a year is the absolute ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 06:01 PM
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This isn't always foolproof unfortunately. I had an ex who rapidly wanted to move the relationship forward (was talking about marriage like 3 mos into dating) but in hindsight it's clear he was still hung up on his ex and just wanted a replacement ASAP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:16 PM
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What does this even mean? I'm pretty sure "my husband buys nudes from other women" doesn't look great on paper either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:10 PM
29

I'm pretty sure both my husband's and I's camera rolls are hundreds of pics of our two cats and dog lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:06 PM
10

Fair enough! Honestly masturbating is better than LVMs anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 06:24 AM
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Can you have an FWB while you continue to date other men on the side? I'm not sure this is FDS approved, but in the past I've had a casual relationship to satisfy my high sex drive while still going on dates. Granted these were always with men I'd NEVER be in a serious relationship with (they had good dick game but 1000 other red flags) and I kept the thing pretty short (2 - 3 mos) so I wouldn't get emotionally involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 06:07 AM
22

Reminds me of this famous tweet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:02 PM
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Yeah unfortunately a lot of young women are still socialized to think age gaps are ok. I guess I was lucky that I was surrounded by friends and family who thought these types of relationships were weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:48 PM
91

What's hilarious is when scrotes think older women who call this shit out are "bitter". No dude, we're calling out because we experienced this kind of predatory behavior when we were young and know just how gross it is. I found large age gaps disgusting when I was in my teens/early 20s and still feel the same way about them at almost 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 06:48 PM
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Even Connery and Clooney look pretty old these days. Amal Clooney was in her late 30s and already a successful lawyer when they met, so even though the age gap is big they were effectively the same maturity and success level. I can't imagine a woman as young as her 20s finding either of these guys attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 06:40 PM
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I think public proposals can be fine if the couple is already informally engaged and the proposal is more the "official" announcement for their friends and family. But don't just spring something on her without discussing it first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 05:24 PM
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What the fuck? Doesn't this violate international child porn laws?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 03:47 PM
3

I've only ever heard men on Reddit say body mods = promiscuity. Every guy I know irl either doesn't care or likes them. Fun fact: all of my tattoos and my nose ring I got after my now husband I started dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 05:50 AM
51

I had something similar happen...dude I went on ONE DATE with kept trying to friend me on Instagram & Facebook a YEAR later. Like bruh...move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 05:31 AM
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I don't even "platonically snuggle" my female friends. Being that intimate with someone other than am SO or family member sounds weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:52 PM
20

Lol they're just hugboxing him. The people supporting him are either equally unambitious men or virtue signaling women who would never date him irl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:44 PM
22

What gets me are the comments from PickMes saying they don't care about a man's career as long as he has "a GoOD PeRSonALiTY". Do these people think career/education and a nice personality seen mutually exclusive?? If anything it's men like the OP who have no ambition and a chip in their shoulders about their job that have the worst personalities. Sis, you can have high standards for material things and compatibility at the same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:27 PM
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Why would you have a baby with someone like this?? I can't even feel bad for her--34 is way too old to make decisions that stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:00 AM
24

It's also much harder to move out during quarantine. I wouldn't be surprised if there's an uptick in divorces after restrictions are lifted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:20 AM
53

lol wtf. the absolutely audacity of asking you not to buy property because there's a small chance you may move in together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:17 AM
41

I'm so happy my husband made a point to pay off his student debt before we got married. It wasn't much (I think like $5k) but the fact that he wanted to make sure I wouldn't be saddled with any of his debt speaks volumes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:13 AM
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Yes I suppose I do agree there are systematic issues. I do think things are changing though because at least in my generation (young millenials) I feel like there is far less pressure for the marriage-kids-white picket fence life. And at least among my cohorts the women who got married (and/or had kids) did because they actually truly wanted to. I also haven't experienced any married women being bitter towards single women (or vice versa). Granted I also live in a super liberal area where being …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:32 PM
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Yeah I 100% agree with the sentiment in this post but let's not forget Cardi took back her SO after he cheated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:51 PM
6

Idk I don't find this to be true at all. I'm married and still have close relationships with my single friends. In fact our friend group consists of a mix of single people, LTR'd people, and married/engaged people. One of our couple friends even had a kid two years ago and we still see them on a regular basis. I have had friends in the past abandon me when they got into relationships but I chalked that up to them being shitty friends and not on the relationship itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:31 PM
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I didn't even realize promise rings were I thing beyond grade school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 03:32 PM
46

I'm so glad that this sub is on top of calling out all these NVMs trying to parade as HVMs on social media. This is the third post I've seen today where the top comment pointed out extravagance does not equal quality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 03:30 PM
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Yeah this seems like a bit much for a first Valentine's day. That means they've been dating a year at most? This sort of thing would be awesome for like...a proposal, but grand gestures early in a relationship are red flags to me. Also the fact that she's filming this entire thing for social media makes it feel less genuine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 03:00 PM
1

What's Minder? Muslim Tinder?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 05:46 AM
27

Well that's where the "actions speak louder than words" and "3 month wait" rules comes in. Even if the LVM lies on the first few dates he won't be able to keep up the charade in the long term.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:36 PM
14

What the hell. That's even creepier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 09:44 PM
42

What is it with guys a hollering at you from their cars? Haven't they heard "No Scrubs"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 07:25 PM
19

Yeah many of the tattooists I've gotten mine from refuse to do face, neck or hand tattoos unless the person is already heavily tattooed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 07:16 PM
44

I find it very strange that she has a massive neck tattoo and face tats but the rest of her body is pretty clear. Usually face & neck are the LAST places to get tattooed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:07 PM
5

I'm from a major city in NW USA and the "cultural norm" is drink/coffee dates where you split the bill. However this is 100% due to most guys here being lazy and low value lol. So standard FDS rules still apply if you want to find an HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:40 AM
5

Yep! Even if you are trying the "let's move in together and see how it goes" thing, you really need to be in a spot where you can immediately move out if it's not working.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 12:09 AM
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Yeah my husband and I moved in together way before we got engaged but I never felt like I was giving him "wife benefits". He did (and still does) far more chores than I do while splitting expenses 50/50. He also knew I had no problem leaving (financially or emotionally) if I didn't enjoy living with him. It's definitely easier to maintain FDS principles living apart but I think you can still do it while living together as long as you have good boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 11:51 PM
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My husband and I didn't even have bachelor(ette) parties. I don't get the whole "last night of freedom" thing. You gave up your freedom when you agreed to be in a committed relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 02:32 AM
4

I'm talking more about this Twitter post. It's not really clear whether they're already in a formal relationship or if this is first time he's asking her to be her gf. If it's the latter this seems like a weird love-bomby orange flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 08:10 PM
12

I never played the whole situationship/unspoken commitment thing. Every dude I've dated (including husband) officially asked me to be his gf within the first 1 - 2 months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:54 PM
31

Thank you! I've been burned before by guys who put in a ton of effort at first but turn out to have a bunch of LVM traits once you get to know them. I agree women should be wary of overly grand gestures at the beginning of a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:29 PM
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Am I the only one who'd be uncomfortable with this? What if I don't want to be his gf yet? Am I just stuck on an island with him for another week? Or what if he "expects" something? I think this kind of thing is awesome in an established relationship, but it just reeks of lovebombing when you're not even at the "being official" stage. Someone tell me if my concerns are valid or if I'm just being a pickmeisha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 04:56 PM
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That's probably what they're doing. By the sounds of the first post the parents don't approve of the husband. And if they're really the smart old money type they won't leave a cent for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 04:43 PM
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Depends on who's at the party. If it's mostly his friends who don't know very well I would expect him to be with me 99% of the time. If it's people we both know and are friends with I'm fine with us doing our own thing, although I'd still expect him to hang with me for a decent amount of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 05:10 AM
4

Was it in public or private? I don't think hanging out one on one in public is a big deal but I would definitely be sketched out if he was inviting women to his place (or going to theirs). My HVM husband has female friends and it's never been an issue in our relationship. However he introduced me to them within the first few months of dating and it was very obvious there's nothing between them. He also always invites me any time he's hanging out with his friends (male or female) (although at thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:36 PM
106

Schrodinger's woman: the concept where a woman is both extremely hot and an ugly fatso until she responds to a guys advances
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:04 PM
4

Maybe take her out on girls nights and show her what she's missing lol? It sucks but unfortunately with situations like this you just have to wait for the person to realize they can do better. I have a friend right now who's engaged to an asshole (everyone in our friend--both men and women--dislike him) and we're really hoping they break up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:40 AM
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I did this when I was younger 😬 He was my first bf and I unfortunately believed in his "potential". We were actually pretty close to moving in together but ended up breaking up because he couldn't find a job close to where I live (I moved out of state after graduation). I'm soooo thankful I at least had the sense not to let a totally jobless bum live with me. Sounds like your friend is suffering from sunk cost fallacy. Although it's weird that she thinks 24 is "too old" to start over. Do you liv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:28 AM
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Depends on the ages. 8 years isn't a big deal if both people are 30+ but it is if one is in their teens or twenties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:11 AM
20

Lolwut. Even before I was on FDS dating multiple people before commitment was the norm. I know men and women do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 03:54 AM
32

Lmao yeah I didn't need to read any further. Number one rule of FDS should be never date a guy who breaks the half your age + 7 rule. And really anything more than 5 year difference should be approached with caution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 11:31 PM
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To be quite frank I think become a mother without an education or career to fall back on is stupid as fuck. Don't get me wrong I don't think there's anything wrong with being a SAHM (and there's a good chance I will take a few years off to raise my kids when I have them too). But a woman should at the very least finish her college education before doing this (and in reality should also have a few years of job experience). That way on the off chance something happens--her SO dies, or divorces, or…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:10 PM
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I was wearing short shorts and a crop top while walking my dog the other day because it was hot as hell. Some random dude stopped me to hit on me and I (politely) told him I'm married. He then went on a rant that there's no way I could be married because married women don't dress like that. Little did he know that my husband gives no fucks what I wear because he isn't a misogynistic douchebag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 08:08 PM
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Ehh that's the norm in most places. My husband and I got married at the 3.5 yr mark, most of my friends were also 3 - 5 yrs. 6mos to a year would have been way too fast for me (especially in my early 20s). THAT BEING SAID I think it's fine for OP to have a fast timeline if it works for her, and she's right not to waste her time on men who don't match her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:41 AM
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Baby mama drama is exactly the reason why I never dated men with kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 03:38 PM
15

If anything letting her know early on is a green flag. He's not trying to hide his past from her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 05:05 AM
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