Listen to this LVM logic ladies..

I was messaging a guy on OLD (I know I know, don't start with me there) and he commented on the fact that my profile says "You should not go on a date with me if assertive woman make you insecure" and he replied back with "I love a strong independent woman, and am okay with taking a backseat."

A BACKSEAT? Really?! So a strong and independent woman is so YOU can take a "backseat" in the relationship and be lazy, not put in the effort, not pay for dinner, work, do the chores and expect the assertive woman to do everything? He also used the word confrontational in lieu of assertiveness. Those are not the same! What a way to try to undermine and throw in a word with negative connotation.

The scrote entirely missed the point. All he saw out of an assertive woman is how HE can benefit from it in the relationship. I wish I took a screenshot of the convo but had to immediately unmatch because his LVM logic almost made me throw my phone across the room LOLOL. *eyeroll*

Remember ladies, LVM will use your strong, assertive, independent personalities as an excuse to be LAZY and not put in the work in the relationship. Do not allow your assertiveness to become a reason for them to take a backseat in the relationship.