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MOOD FOR LIFEdntbfllikeidid/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 08:26 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tdntbfllikeidid/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 09:17 PM
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NAH, SISdntbfllikeidid/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 11:24 PM
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LEVEL UPdntbfllikeidid/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:39 PM
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LIES MEN TELLdntbfllikeidid/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 05:31 AM
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DISCUSSIONdntbfllikeidid/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 08:25 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEdntbfllikeidid/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 07:51 PM
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Are you serious? She can’t be alone, desperate for the attention of either Fitz or Jake to validate herself. Sleeps with a MARRIED MAN, who happened to be the president, and climbed up the ladder by doing so. Keep watching, but from a different angle and you’ll see it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 06:51 PM
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“Sweetie”...? K! Not even worth a proper reply honestly 👍🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 06:17 AM
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When was being a woman everrr not depressing in the history of the world? Anyone please enlighten me, because prior generations had it much worse. At least we kinda have a voice and more rights now. It beats being someone’s property, getting beaten for no reason and treated like a child, not being able to vote, own land, get educated, have jobs, etc. it’s bad now, but the generations before us had even worse than we do now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 01:41 PM
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Uncut sausage, looks like a girl and dresses up like a grandma? Men think having a big dick is all that is required of them, everything else is pretty much optional? FFS 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:32 AM
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5 years up or down for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 11:01 PM
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Older than us doesn’t equal to more maturity though, so given the chance I’d prefer going younger than me, never much older!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 03:46 AM
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Same! I’m 32 and I won’t even LOOK at anyone in their 40’s. Most I’d go is like 37/38 and even then I already think it’s a bit too large of a gap TBH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 03:31 AM
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Didn’t even finish reading, cause all I needed to know are summarized in 2 words: age gap. Run while you still can!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 03:24 AM
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So, if the scrote doesn’t change his underwear everyday, he probably only showers like once or twice a WEEK. Ewww 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 01:17 AM
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I think you already know the answer to this. First impressions matter and he’s already showing you he doesn’t give AF about you. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/askFDS19/11/20 12:35 AM
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We have the best intentions, but unfortunately we create our own monsters sometimes :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 12:30 AM
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That’s how my marriage failed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:45 PM
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The guy was clearly never that into you and you breaking things off with him just took that responsibility out of his hands. Most guys are cowards and incapable of breaking up themselves, so they start slacking in the hopes that the women would make that move for them. Good riddance and a bullet dodged. Also, you backtracking showed desperation and you should never ever do that FYI.
/r/askFDS15/11/20 07:42 PM
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That was part of that movie where he helped guys get women. I think the name is Hitch, if not mistaken. It’s right in the beginning of that movie. Not sure how he is in real life, but just wanted to say that that was him acting and not necessarily his personal opinion on the matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 09:36 PM
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THIS 100%! 👆🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 07:59 AM
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She also advocates for having children with ugly old dudes because, according to her, with the gold you are gonna dig from the old farts you are gonna have enough $$ for all the plastic surgery you ever want, for yourself and your future hideous looking children. So all about taking advantage of someone you don’t even like, just for the $. Not encouraging anyone to have a genuine connection with someone they actually are attracted to and compatible with. Sugar babies be mad though! I’d rather ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:59 AM
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I came here to say this. I don’t believe in any of that at all! That’s like wishful thinking. Pay attention to the REAL signs and actions the other person gives you, don’t wait for bad weather to make important decisions about your life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 05:26 AM
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Sure! I’m Brazilian BTW. Yes, I live in the US but as far as I’m aware things weren’t much different in any of the Western countries. I’m no expert in women’s studies though, so please anyone correct me if I’m wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 10:17 PM
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Your culture sounds like the exception to the rule, not what happened in the majority of cultures. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 10:07 PM
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That’s still better than what I was getting, which was the zero effort “hiii” messages. Fuck that shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:30 PM
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Back then women also didn’t have any rights, couldn’t work, own property, vote, have an opinion/their voice heard and were expected to stay home and take on the role of baby incubator for as long as her husband wanted her to. Domestic violence wasn’t frowned upon, so if your husband beat the shit out of you, you’d be expected to deal with it and STAY. If your husband wanted sex you were expected to give it to him regardless of your own personal feelings about it. Also pleasure was supposed to be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:25 PM
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Mental illness, brainwashing or just opportunistic pickmeisha doing whatever she can for $ and attention? Hmm... 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 07:42 PM
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I think she probably meant she left the comfort of her cozy home with the things she love to be dealing with the bare minimum at her bae’s cave. Like, I’m cool with Folgers but of course I prefer premium coffee at my home if I have the choice. I don’t drink coffee everyday though, so in my case it’s a once or twice a week “treat”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 07:40 PM
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I think because that’s like the most basic coffee out there lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:22 PM
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Thanks for the advice sis, I appreciate it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 08:34 AM
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I’m about 20 pounds overweight, but I’m easily matching with guys that are like 8/9’s. I don’t really think I’m more than a 7 cause I have a “potato nose”, so my face isn’t the most feminine out there. I’m certainly happy with how attractive the guys I’m matching with are though, and feel even better knowing that younger guys still find me attractive. Somehow I’ve always dated younger, so I might also look a bit younger than my age or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 08:33 AM
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Taboo sexual history = “I’ve raped vulnerable poor minors in foreign countries in exchange for money before.” I could bet money on it he did!! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 07:55 PM
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Who does his fucking laundry then? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:49 PM
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I find stuff like this on IG. You can always screenshot what you see and crop it to fit your phone screen better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:26 PM
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It could probably be applied to the dick face as well tho! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 12:35 AM
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Both of us got downvoted for some reason. Yeah, I’m not touching any random loser during a pandemic, I sure know better. But looking and vetting potential good candidates seems like a good idea anyway. It’s not like I’m quitting my day job to find myself a new man LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:39 AM
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I don’t know why I’m getting downvoted, I’m not going on actual dates and my city has been pretty much re-open already. Even movie theaters are already open, so if I want to I can go out for dinner like I do with my friends every weekend already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 02:53 AM
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I mean, it’s not like we even have a choice, I don’t think! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:22 AM
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Yes! I was without those damn apps for months, now I have like 5 of them in my phone again! Not happy about it, obvi 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:12 AM
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No, there are actually brainwashed red pilled women infiltrated in this community who truly believe their “job” is to serve men and give them children. I’ve seen a few around here already!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:25 PM
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I have an obligation to WHAT? Please! My obligation in life is to myself and myself only. What a load of crap! Fuck them both 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:22 PM
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I’ve been following this sub for over a year and I never read ONE single post OR comment about transgender people. Can someone please enlighten me on this nonsense? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 06:33 AM
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I got married to someone I met on POF 9 years ago. Things moved quickly and the ending wasn’t a happy one. This story doesn’t convince me that OLD is the best tool we have in our dating “toolbox” at all, honestly! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 07:21 PM
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Very cruel indeed! It’s hard to believe that mailing bees is even a thing when the planet is in danger of losing them. Like, not even proper animal transportation, just sending them with the rest of objects in packages. Humanity is fucked up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:41 PM
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How don’t they die without oxygen inside a sealed package? Yikes! ☹️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 08:11 AM
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Since we’re trolling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:27 AM
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WOW, I have no fucking words... 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:59 PM
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I’m saving your comment because I need to change my mindset eventually. For now I’m still bitter and thinking that I did waste the best years of my life on a lazy inconsiderate asshole. 😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:47 PM
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Queen, you clearly never ever needed him. You’d be better off on your own, I’m sure of it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:45 PM
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I beg to differ. If it wasn’t for natures way of doing things I’d doubt most humans would purposely choose to be a female. I sure as hell wouldn’t! I’d choose the easy life of being a human male any day over dealing with the shit we have to deal with as women. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:44 PM
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How is it possible that 80% of women are dating 20% of the top tier men? Unless you are cool with dating a great guy and sharing him with other 5 ladies, that isn’t practical or beneficial to females AT ALL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:39 PM
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Eventually nature will manage to exclude his useless DNA from the gene pool, so I’m not worried about it! 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 08:52 PM
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Ok, I had no idea about any of that and don’t care about either one aside from listening to their music when it plays on the radio. I just don’t like when people show their shitty behaviors. Disappointed to learn all of that, but not surprised. Thankfully none of them add any value to my life, but at least now I understand where the shade comes from. Thank you for enlightening me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 10:28 PM
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I had no idea. I think both of them are very talented, but don’t know much about any of them personally aside from their work as artists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 09:48 PM
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It’s not “let’s call them more mature”, they ARE more mature developmentally because our brains develop faster than men’s, but life experience, not just age, contributes to “maturity”. That shouldn’t be used as an excuse for 40 year old scrotes to prey on 18 year old women though. For example, I’m 32 years old and find myself to be less mature than other women around my age, despite having been married for nearly 8 years and all my other experience with life in general. My 31 year old ex-bf acte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 09:38 PM
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Can you please share the name of that matchmaking company with us? I’m sure there are several, but not sure every single one of them will be catered to marriage minded people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:55 PM
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I’m 32 and too poor for this right now, but after I level up to my liking I’ll be willing to spend $ to be matched with a decent man, as opposed to wasting my precious time with all the trash available on OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:49 PM
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Well, you are in luck! Work ethic isn’t a trait that difficult to find, at least from my experience. And after that low life scrote the only way for you is up, sister! You can and WILL do so much better than that, I’m sure of it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:35 PM
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The AUDACITY! How did you end up with such a loser? You said he isn’t even handsome?? Like, is there anything positive about that low life loser? He’s acting like HE is the prize and it would be such a privilege for YOU to spend time with him. Who is raising those entitled scrotes? Unbelievable!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:18 PM
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I don’t think that is an excuse for big age gaps at all! I personally find them disgusting. But LVM will always use that as an excuse to get their way. Their brains don’t develop at the same pace as ours though, that statement doesn’t need Science to back it up, because it’s quite obvious for anyone who is observant lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:02 PM
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But that is actually a biological fact though, no? Of course some will use it as an excuse to continue their shitty behavior, but it’s not a lie. Men are slow as fuck, partly due to biology and partly due to conditioning from society. They are forever babies! Scientists Identify Why Girls Often Mature Faster Than Boys Edit: extra words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 05:28 PM
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Your aunt is a wise woman!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:10 PM
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This is inspiring and the news have made my day! 🌸🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:06 PM
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Our people aren’t even capable of making a woman president. I’m afraid this is not gonna happen in our lifetime! ☹️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:05 PM
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As usual the emotional labor falling 100% over our shoulders... Nothing new under the Sun! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:02 PM
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And the ones that are gorgeous are either gay or have micropeens 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:52 AM
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Porn didn’t create scrotes, porn was created to SATISFY the most disgusting and disturbing desires of scrotes. Scrotes have always existed, ever since the beginning of times. Before TV and any technology was invented men were already using force and/or money to get sex. And it will be like this until humanity ceases to exist, with or without porn. Because that kind of sickness is already born with them, it’s part of their male nature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:45 AM
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Men that pay for sex are probably seeking something that they wouldn’t be able to get “for free”/in the wild, hence their self entitlement towards all those kinds of depravity/disgusting behavior. They pay “professionals” to re-enact what they see in porn. No way in hell a scrote would be content to pay for vanilla sex only. I’m surprised those women are actually surprised with that kind of behavior. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Edit: correction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:39 AM
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I wish being a fuckboi was his issue, the heartbreak would’ve been less traumatic. He turned out to be a narcissist. And as a result od that god knows when I’m gonna be healed from that heartbreak and mentally/emotionally healthy enough to be willing to be vulnerable and risk dating again. I wish I took off at the first sight of a red flag. There were many, but pickmeisha me ignored them ALL! 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 09:23 AM
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My ex-bf was 31 when I met him and had only had 1 actual gf and the relationship only lasted 6 months. I wish I knew then what I know now. A guy around that age with barely any long term relationships under their belt is usually because something is seriously wrong with them. Don’t do what I did and waste a whole year of your life (or more) before you realize that guy isn’t relationship material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 09:05 AM
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I’m sorry, but a 21 year old is basically a child. Our human brain isn’t fully developed until we are about 25 years old. So you are basically dealing with an older teenage boy with no impulse control. Block that little boy everywhere and move on. A woman deserves a real quality man, not a little boy! Also, whenever your new “friends” mention him just tell them you are not interested and that you would like them to not mention him to you any longer. Just like that! Edit: extra words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 05:06 AM
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She’s right! When does arguing/cOmMuNiCaTiNg with men ever solve anything? Posts like this just make me glad I chose to remain childfree. Men already have made me waste plenty of my life as it is, but at least they don’t get to control my life like that. I’m sure OP is right that the kids are better off in her company as well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:25 PM
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If he’s actually sick he’ll make your kids sick and consequently you as well. And the heavy work would fall onto your shoulders in the end regardless, no? He should make arrangements and not just assume you are ok with keeping them for longer this week, regardless. I’m not a mother, so no idea how parenthood works though. Edit: grammar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:57 PM
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Your post is discouraging and it makes me hopeless for the future :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:54 PM
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Yes, I am because I’ve been harassed before and I’d rather not anymore if I can avoid it. I’m sorry you were banned, sis! :( Not everyone is ready or even deserve being a part of FDS. You did your part trying to help, but as they say “no good deed goes unpunished”. We are here for you! 🌸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:39 PM
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You should always reach out in private and do your best to not expose yourself. I have a separate account just for FDS and another one for everything else exactly for that reason. People misjudge FDS and automatically crucify us for being a part of this sub. Not having anything in your history about FDS and being able to reach out to users privately protects YOU.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:35 PM
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Unlike women who wear tons of makeup, I can change a tire (this is actually true tho). 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 07:12 AM
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SAME sis, amen! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 06:45 AM
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Wash their sheets? Girl, many of them can’t even bother washing their own asses every day, what are sheets...? 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 06:43 AM
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That’s Red Pill mentality. If you have anyone in your social circle posting shit like that, remove them from your life immediately. Those men are dangerous!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 05:28 AM
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Yes, and thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 04:32 AM
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I’m currently not seeing anyone at the moment and plant to not see anyone until 2021, for as long as I can so I can focus on my own self improvement. I’ve only said that because from my previous experiences that seemed to be a rather common occurrence, unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 04:03 AM
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Your post: ... to make them jealous... THIS 👆🏻 is pickmeisha behavior. Denial won’t change your intentions and your own words in this post!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 02:24 AM
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Are you new here? If you are you should 1st read the Handbook. This isn’t the Relationship Advice sub. We don’t encourage petty pickmeisha behavior around here, sis! Wrong sub 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 02:21 AM
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🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 02:17 AM
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I have no idea! I would probably just lie and say that I’m not on the pill, because men don’t understand that “no” and “because I don’t want to” are complete sentences. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 11:52 PM
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A test is obviously great, but I feel like that would also be used as an excuse by men to be pressuring us into unprotected sex, and I don’t like that idea AT ALL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 10:49 PM
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You are doing it all wrong. You are clearly still stuck on your ex but already decided to date again? That’s the recipe for a disaster and bad news! You should read AND follow the Handbook. You don’t go bouncing from relationship to another relationship just because you can’t handle being alone, that’s what makes someone a pickmeisha, and makes you vulnerable to the worst scum who prey on vulnerable women out there. Do better sis! 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:24 PM
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Yeah, I’ve heard of that before as well. They see single moms as desperate and the fact that they are childless make them the “prize” in their eyes, so they purposely prey on women with children because they know they get the upper hand (in most cases they do, unfortunately) and won’t have to put effort and act decently to have a woman around. In the end there is nothing more than men love than having power and being in control of every situation they can. They make it really hard to trust them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:16 PM
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Nah, you are a hell of a Queen. And I aspire to become like you someday. I’m saving your post to never allow myself to forget how a true Queen is supposed to act again. Thank you for the inspiration sis! 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:21 AM
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When I grow up I wanna be just like you! 🌸❤️🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 08:10 AM
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I’m sorry, but if I have suspicions of someone enough to want to take a peek at their phone and invade their privacy, I’d rather just trust my gut and break up before feeding off my paranoia and wasting all my precious energy on someone who isn’t trustworthy to begin with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 04:00 AM
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I don’t understand why parents keep trying to make ir work with non-parents. They cannot relate to the same struggles, so shit like that is always bound to happen. I always suspect of single childless guys who purposely seek out single mothers to date. I cannot put my finger on it, but I just don’t trust their intentions. And that post is even more proof that my suspicions aren’t in vain. I’m childfree and would rather be single than date a single father. Our life and priorities would just never…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:35 AM
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You can already do that at the FDS Weekly Chat post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 06:09 PM
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The idea of if it is cool if you want to get one done as well. More than one is just useless, sorry. We have nearly 100k users, and we already know LVM is what brought us all here. No need for visual confirmation of the obvious as well IMO lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 06:07 PM
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THANK YOU!!! I haven’t been checking FDS in the past couple of days because that’s ALL that was showing up on my timeline. Enough is enough ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 06:07 AM
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I agree! Some people have been making that racist idiot too relevant around here lately! Enough of Tomi already, cause SHE is just as much trash as the LVM she’s complaining about. They belong to the same landfill, but for different reasons!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:06 PM
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Can’t wait for that dumb B to get that sweet karma back... 💅🏻 PS: I side with the guys on this one, and YES she is acting like a pickmeisha. No need to teach boys how to behave, they do when they want to and they WOULD if they actually gave a shit about you. Edit: extra words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:54 AM
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Aaah, I don’t remember anyone’s names and barely remember their roles, so I don’t feel confident enough to judge them and vote lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:01 AM
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FACTS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 09:52 PM
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Apparently the owner of the page Charlie’s Toolbox didn’t know about FDS, but now I told her about it and hope she’ll join us here as well! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 07:54 PM
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Same! I prefer being on the pill and not having unprotected sex, or just avoiding sex altogether if necessary. If I ever got pregnant by accident I’d just get an abortion easily, but don’t want to go through any surgical procedures unless it’s an emergency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:39 PM
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Caring, generous and responsible. Those are the top 3 absolute non negotiables.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 07:03 AM
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This is what I’m talking about Queen! Yaass🔥👏🏻😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:45 AM
6

If you don’t like this post, that is here to entertain us, skip it and go find one that you like better. Save us the lecture and please get off that high horse sis! No one cares if it’s real or not, we are having FUN!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:42 AM
1

Virgos don’t really tend to be oversensitive. Maybe the one you met had a moon placement in like Cancer, or Pisces? My family is full of Virgo men and women and they are all actually the opposite of that. Every single one of them without exceptions!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:41 AM
2

I’m a Capri and I take that as a compliment. Thank you Miss! 🦹🏼‍♀️💃🏼😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:39 AM
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Take a walk at a park, etc. Like, we aren’t dogs to be taken on walks. I walk with people I already know and that are already a part of my life, not with a complete stranger that I’m just getting to know. That’s the cheap scrotes’ method of meeting as many women as they can without spending a dime FYI.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:29 AM
17

Too soon? He clearly put you in the back burner already sis, you did the right thing by cutting him off!
/r/askFDS17/09/20 05:22 AM
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No, you did everything wrong. You put your safety in jeopardy by giving a complete stranger your real number so soon, and you shouldn’t be begging/manipulating anyone to give you their real number. The guy clearly has trust issues and/or is a shady MF afraid of what you’ll find out if he gives you his real number. Enough red flags already sis!
/r/askFDS17/09/20 05:20 AM
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Repeated post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:12 AM
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Hell yesss! I’m sure she’ll be happy to get new Queens as followers on IG! 👯‍♀️🌸💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:06 AM
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I’m just like you, don’t want any kids. But not sure I’d go as far as getting my tubes tied, since it’s an invasive procedure and I’d rather not. Depending on your age doctors will give you a hard time about that also. If that’s what you want you should go for it, though. You can ask the childfree sub for doctor recommendations in your area, from women who already got theirs done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 11:47 PM
11

So, your man is only attracted to you if “you’ve been working out” or are in top shape? What happens if you get sick or when you get old and can’t meet his beauty and physical standards anymore? I’m sorry if I’m jumping to conclusions too quickly, but your husband is trash!
/r/askFDS16/09/20 06:51 PM
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Saving this comment, because it’s 🔥👏🏻
/r/askFDS16/09/20 06:49 PM
5

You should do it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:27 AM
66

The men that are “bad at texting” that I’ve met so far where the ones that are emotionally unavailable and/or not that into you. When they are really interested in something they walk to hell and back if necessary to get it, trust me!
/r/askFDS16/09/20 05:54 AM
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YES YOU DO! Add my ex-husband to that list as well! 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:51 AM
4

At least you got to have a LVM that was AT LEAST thoughtful and considerate. I haven’t known what that is like my entire adult life! 😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:16 AM
4

My thoughts as well. Worst chocolate out there! 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:13 AM
2

This literally made me cry. Happy for her, and sad for myself because I feel like I’m never gonna have a relationship like that! 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:11 AM
2

Aaah, now I see why I wasn’t able to comment there. I’d like to be able to participate, if possible! 😺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:06 AM
8

Yup! And being a pickme sucks even more because that means we allow that shit to keep happening. I’m really hoping I can stay away and not go back there for the 26872684th time after being treated like shit and humiliated so many times. It’s embarrassing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 04:36 AM
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In our case the issue was more of a”porn sick limp dick” kinda issue, plus always and practically ONLY missionary position and nothing else. Not to mention this guy was disgusted by bodily fluids, so it was like he couldn’t run fast enough once he was done to hop in the shower. He barely even touched me in over a year because of how OCD he is! My new rule for the future is that if a guy can’t even touch me, his dick isn’t getting anywhere near my private parts. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 04:33 AM
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My ex boyfriend is a Virgo. Many many great traits, but sex was not even close to the best thing about our relationship. 😒 Apparently those 3 signs are supposed to be good romantic partners though, Capricorn/Taurus/Virgo. I’ve never dated a Taurus before. Taking a break from dating for, hopefully, a while. But I’d hands down go for another Virgo again, given the chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 04:20 AM
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Pisces men are great friends, but not compatible with my sign as a romantic partner (I’m a Capri). I was married to a Gemini and I swear I’d never do it again. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 04:10 AM
1

What did you write in Korean tho? Spill the tea, sis! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:10 AM
2

Culture and how humans behave are based on values, norms and opinions, not in science. You are fighting a losing battle here, sis. Good luck though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 07:18 PM
2

I’m not changing who I am, how I dress, how I speak, etc, so grown ass men can behave properly, period! Men already control too much of society as it is. We can agree to disagree though, everyone is entitled to their own opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:24 PM
3

It’s not my job to fix men’s expectations and self-entitlement of my body though! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:55 PM
4

I apologize for jumping to conclusions, it wasn’t clear from your post that he was actually your husband. I think what you are doing with the countdown is the right thing to do, because you’ve committed to this man and people deserve a chance to try and rectify themselves. I know many people who are actually depressed because of everything that has been going on this year, so that is a matter worth investigating IMO. I hope he turns things around for you OP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 08:24 AM
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I’d bet $$ he’s hitting on 18 year old “girls” on OLD as well... 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 08:02 AM
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They have unrealistic expectations of what a relationship/love should be like, so either no one was ever good enough for them/they are emotionally unavailable/they are shit so no one was able to stick with their asses for too long. Honestly, even in their early 30’s already, that is an automatic orange flag, almost red, to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:12 AM
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THIS!! 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:05 AM
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I think in more educated countries people care more about how they are perceived and their reputation, for that reason they at least try to behave more. I’ve met plenty of pigs with several diplomas though, so I don’t really know what to think. There is a study that was done with males that showed proof with brain imaging that men actually see women the same way they see objects. The ones from richer and more educated countries probably just learned how to have better self control compared to th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:04 AM
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I doubt it! Look of all the most conservative countries in the world. The ones where women show less of their bodies/skin is where you’ll find the worst type of men. Women are raped like there is no tomorrow in countries where they dress literally covering their entire bodies and only their eyes are showing. Pigs will always be pigs, regardless. And I don’t think it’s my job to fix a whole lifetime of pigs creating more and more pigs. It’s almost like blaming women for being raped because the wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 11:34 PM
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I think men will always see women as sexual objects regardless of how we behave. It’s always been this way, and it will always be this way. They are probably wired like that, it doesn’t matter how women dress of behave. So no, I don’t believe that if women stopped behaving like that things would change. Pigs will be pigs, regardless of how you dress them and where you put them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 11:21 PM
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“He wasn’t a simp for anyone”: he’s clearly a member of the Red Pill cult. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 07:15 PM
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Your post is the tremendous slap in my face I didn’t even know I needed. Going through a painful breakup at the moment and I really needed to read this as a reminder. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 03:44 PM
1

Yeah, that doesn’t always work and please don’t trust the infatuation of your first date just yet. I had something similar happening to me, before I knew better, and ended up dating a narcissist asshole. After my previous relationship I will be wary of ANYONE who asks to be exclusive this early. That shit is called love bombing, and it WORKS. It works on vulnerable, naive women who have been desperate for attention and validation for a while. Take a step back and evaluate the situation ONLY with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:36 AM
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You can’t fake attraction. If it isn’t there, it isn’t there. And good luck trying to make a relationship work in the long run without physical attraction, it just doesn’t work. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 11:41 PM
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OMG, ew! 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 08:30 PM
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Nah sis, let’s not blame women for the shitty behavior of their partners. We aren’t able to control other people and many change and/or let their true colors be known after it’s too late already. Shitty men are responsible for their own behavior, it’s not a matter of bOuNdArIeS! 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 03:20 AM
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EXCUSE ME, I’m a Capricorn! 😺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:46 PM
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THIS! 👆🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:22 AM
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I did it early during my separation as well and honestly I wish I didn’t. I 100% don’t recommend moving on that quickly. Dead bedroom or not, in love or not, every time a relationship ends we need time to properly grieve and process things before we can actually move on properly. Don’t do it, sis! It’s a trap and you may end up with something even worse than what you had before due to being vulnerable and starving for love and affection (been there, done that).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:20 AM
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Life will only get better now that we now better, sis. Believe in it! 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 03:33 AM
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Glad you realized you deserve better sis. Best of luck, and hopefully you will be getting rid of that dead weight sooner rather than later. And getting every single $ that you deserve in the process!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 02:43 AM
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Nah sis, we don’t all get participation trophies just for being women around here. FDS principles aren’t up for a debate or interpretation. RP philosophy/lifestyle doesn’t fit here, period!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 02:23 AM
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It’s true sis, they get the best of ALL worlds!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 02:13 AM
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The Red Pill. One of the most toxic and misogynistic subs on Reddit. They are basically a cult of men who hate women and do everything to use and abuse every female they come across in life. A bunch of self-proclaimed aLpHaS. Worst type of men you can run into. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 01:45 AM
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YES, you are correct sis! love your comment! 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 01:16 AM
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I mean, infidelity IS one of the main parts of the RP “lifestyle” to begin with. What kind of brain washing is being done to those women?? And then you complain when you get EXACTLY what you’ve signed up for...? Let go of the mentality that you are “less than” a man, you are NOT. And if you want anything better in your life, it’s up to you to change your mindset and go get it, whatever IT means to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 01:07 AM
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Please please where can I get one of those?? LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 12:44 AM
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Sis, I just HAD TO! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 12:41 AM
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Congrats on the divorce papers, sis. Your life is only gonna get better from now on, believe it! 🙌🏻🌸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 12:32 AM
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OLD is like dumpster diving, lots of time waste and very little (if any) rewards. It works well for some people though, so it’s a matter of preference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 12:25 AM
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Sis, I think you gave that garbage man WAAAY too much of your precious time. Men like that are just not on your level. He’s beneath you, so act accordingly and walk away like the Queen you are! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 12:03 AM
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OMG please DO IT!! 🙌🏻 (so us women don’t have to do all the dirty work and deal with their low effort BS any longer...) Edit: extra words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:58 PM
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You seem to be a part of the RP community for women. The description you just gave us is literally what RP men do with their partners. FDS is against TRP for this and many other reasons. If you don’t mind me asking, how can you be both RP and FDS when they are literally opposites? That kind of mentality is LITERALLY killing women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:56 PM
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When are you getting rid of that dead weight, sis? You deserve better! Hopefully he won’t get you pregnant once again just to keep you around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:49 PM
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When aren’t men whining though? The only situation in which they don’t whine is when they are happily coupled up with a doormat! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:42 PM
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I agree! Most women would be able to related to this than with a powerful women dressed up from a high paying job and her fancy briefcase.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:41 PM
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It’s true, and the article was written to show how women are STILL not respected properly and taken seriously even though a higher number of women do both work outside and inside their homes. I think our biology puts women in disadvantage if one chooses to have children because only women can carry children. I wish someone would do an actual study instead of only a poll about this topic though. And yes, women deserve but don’t get enough respect despite carrying most of the burden of having a fa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 10:56 PM
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From the article it seems like “more” means only a higher number, not necessarily more women THAN men are breadwinners. It just shows a high increase in percentage from what it used to be, but women aren’t the major breadwinners (yet).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 10:30 PM
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I wish that was true though, where did you see this? I’ve never heard about that before. Will be happy if that’s is the truth, obviously!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 10:20 PM
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EXACTLY! I went through the same shit and hopefully will never EVER have to do that again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 08:59 PM
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Slowly and possibly permanently. I’m with you on this one, sis. I’m afraid of ever getting married again or living with a partner again because of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 08:58 PM
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I’m probably not ever gonna get married again or cohabitate with a romantic partner for that reason. I shouldn’t have to have sex or want to have sex because the other person “has needs” or whatever other BS men try to shove down our throats. So I’m cool with having my own space and keeping my body autonomy. Having sex when you don’t want to is not only degrading but will also traumatize you. Been there, done that. I’m friends with my ex-husband, but even though I think he looks attractive, I fi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 08:12 PM
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I’m with on this one, sis! It’s not a matter of doing it wrong or right, it’s a matter of luck and willingness to waste our precious time basically dumpster diving for ages in the hopes of finding anything worthy of our time. OLD is just trash! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:47 PM
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Like another sister have said, are not a pickmeisha. You are being held hostage and made a slave in your own home. That is no way to live! Do you have any family or friends nearby? You need to do whatever it takes to get out, before he gets you pregnant again and makes the whole thing impossible. Just reading your story made my stomach turn in anger. I’m sending positive thoughts and vibes from here that you are gonna be able to get out and improve your life, for yourself and your daughter. Hugs…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:08 AM
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Well, it seems like no matter what we say you are just not ready to let him go. However, this is FDS and not Relationship Advice, so you are probably not gonna hear what you are hoping to hear from us. However, you do deserve the dignity of your own timing and your own decision, so do what you think you should right now and come back here and read the Handbook if you are ever ready. It’s your life, no one better than you knows what works best for you right now. Best of luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 06:40 AM
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That means he’s horny and looking for the easiest warm hole he can find, so obviously texting his ex would make sense. Don’t fall for that crap though, be strong and move on, Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:51 AM
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You and me both, sis! As soon as I read that page I just HAD to share with you Queens, cause I was sure more of you could relate to that as well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:57 AM
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A lot of their dicks are unimpressive and many of them won’t even catch bugs indoors. So all we have left is the audacity! Lol 😺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 01:25 AM
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Yeah, I’m not into that sort of thing though. I want either a meaningful relationship with someone, or to stay single and work on myself, and for my own $.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 01:04 AM
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This! ^ 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 10:50 PM
8

Can’t tech bros be HV though? There is no way those intelligent men are all ugly and low effort! :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 09:49 PM
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Yes! In Brazilian culture we go from our parents homes to our “married” home, so men go from being raised by their mamas to being raised by their wives. A bunch of self entitled sexist BIG BABIES. They are very charming and overall good lovers, but don’t expect anything other than good kissing/making out/sex from those men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 09:21 PM
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I’d watch out for Brazilian men if I were you, just saying... A bunch of right wing narcissist NUTS, no matter how attractive. It seems to be a “cool” trend lately, and I’d rather be single than deal with that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 09:13 PM
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Back when I lived near Saint Paul MN I thought that guys in that area were very attractive. I’m from South America though, so I don’t know if our beauty standards for men are the same. I prefer blonde/red head and light eyes on guys. Edit: typo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 09:01 PM
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I don’t want to know, so I’m not gonna ask. I’m about to retch just thinking about it! 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:58 PM
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Yuck! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:53 PM
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I mean, I think they are kinda disgusting myself, but it’s none of my business what kind of nail people want to have. Also males should keep their opinions to themselves if some women like those kinds of nails, cause their opinion is truly irrelevant. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:52 PM
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Your friend already has all the info she needed to know about her bf. Now what she does with it is up to her, not anyone else! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:50 PM
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The flair isn’t really appropriate for this post though, why Red Flag? This is great, it deserves a different flair!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:48 PM
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I’m so sorry you had to deal with that, sis! ☹️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 07:49 PM
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50lb in less than 3 months? What is your secret?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 05:44 PM
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How is that a surprise though? I never expected anything less from them. Nothing new under the sun! Also, I think that falls under the “Things scrote say” tag more, IDK. Edit: extra words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:34 PM
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Is this for real? So someone basically just indirectly admitted they are attracted to children starting at 13+. Reading shit like that makes my stomach turn! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 07:23 AM
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They want to meet immediately so they can get their dicks wet ASAP. That’s all they ever want anyway! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 06:36 AM
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He has an opinion without even knowing what we are about. Also, males don’t like FDS because they are lazy and don’t like putting effort into anything that doesn’t involve their precious penises and videogame. You keep it to yourself that you are a part of FDS and learn to observe more and speak less. Let him show you who he truly is and what he truly thinks without trying to manipulate the situation or intervene. That’s the only way you truly get to know a person, so don’t waste this opportunit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 06:23 AM
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That’s precisely my point! Why should she make HER and HER future children a priority to the detriment of his own first child? ALL the children should be a priority, no matter who the mother is. And if a guy allows himself to be manipulated like that then sure as HELL he is a LVM. Men shouldn’t divorce their children when they “divorce” their exes, not ever! And I have absolutely ZERO respect for men who do that! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:55 AM
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I literally saw someone here posting a comment a while ago saying that she would make sure her SO would make HER child with him the priority and keep his previous child from another relationship as far as she could, cause in her pretty little mind she and her future children now should take priority over his own flesh and blood. Some women are so crazy desperate for attention they are willing to ruin a child’s relationship with their own father to be put fIRsT. If you can’t accept that a someone…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:26 AM
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1st thing you should do is read the Handbook. 2nd is take care of yourself, take your time to grieve and GET BUSY. The guy was never that into you if he already has a new gf, and we shouldn’t waste our precious time wanting someone who doesn’t want us back. Now it is your time to grieve, forgive yourself and learn how to properly love and take care of yourself so that situation doesn’t repeat itself again in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:13 AM
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DAMN... 😱🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:16 AM
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I absolutely LOVE men! I’m lucky to have wonderful men in my family and was surrounded with (mostly) good examples growing up. What I don’t like is men who exploit, lie, abuse and take more than they give from others. I believe humans are capable of changing and improving, and as such I want a man that can see that and apply those principles to his life as well. If not, then I’m perfectly fine on my own instead of being used for sex while begging for the bare minimum in return. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Edit: extra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:50 PM
1

With a STD the risk is only yours, with Covid you are putting others around you at risk. So you literally put others health in danger for randos from OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:36 PM
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Covid testing doesn’t guarantee the person won’t catch the virus between the time the test was done and you met. 100% not the same thing! You are comparing something transmissible through the air to something transmissible through sex. Thing is, sex is optional, breathing is not! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:09 PM
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Ha, I haven’t considered that possibility. But now that you’ve mentioned, that’s probably the reason why they banned you! Many other subs do the same. For that reason I keep a separate account for FDS only and another for everything else, much better this way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:58 PM
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I went to that post to check and there are several other posters saying the exact same thing you said, but they are still over there posting comments. That makes no sense! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:18 PM
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The world is shit and unfair, and there is NO god FY. If there was a god though, it would 100% be an incel scrote for making sure women have to put up with SO much shit throughout our entire fucking lives while men do whatever the fuck they want with very few, if any, consequences. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:17 AM
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That sounds like settling to me and I don’t like the looks of it. You can’t force attraction, period! Also, your friend deserves someone who actually loves him instead of someone who can’t let him go because of all the benefits he brings into your life. It’s not fair to either of you. Let this stupid idea go and that poor guy finally move on, FFS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:49 AM
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Yup! I’ve never tasted anything more disgusting in my entire life. Just the thought of it makes me retch in disgust already 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:29 AM
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I feel sorry for his bride, so beautiful to be carrying that amount of trash on her back... 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:40 AM
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OMG, I’m sorry you had to grow up around such swine behavior 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:19 AM
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I wish they all just sucked their own dicks instead of expecting us to do it, honestly! 🤷🏼‍♀️😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:18 AM
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Video anything isn’t a proper date at all. High value people are also kind, considerate and choosing not to expose themselves and others unnecessarily during a pandemic, so probably not the best time to date altogether. Yes, people are lazy, but also people have their own reasons to now expose themselves and their loved ones, and that is the considerate and right thing to do at the moment IMO! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:09 AM
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You and me both, sis! 👯‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 08:16 PM
5

I know plenty of confident women who have STILL been raped, abused and make less than their male counterparts, that’s pretty much blaming victims for not being “confident enough” to avoid mistreatment and abuse (!!). Women who go through all of that shit aren’t “weak” and MANY were prepared enough by their parents. What I mentioned can happen to ANYONE, when you least expect it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 08:15 PM
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You should be scared of having a daughter because being an evil piece of shit still beats getting raped, assaulted, disrespected, being treated like an object for men’s pleasure, treated like you aren’t good or smart enough because you were born with a vagina and having to work twice as hard to get paid less than your male counterparts. Anyone who purposely wants to bring a daughter into this world is either blissfully ignorant or just plain selfish. WHY bring another female to have to go throug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 07:41 PM
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Fight for love = beg for self respect??? GTFOH with this nonsense! 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 07:30 PM
73

At least the dumb fucks will quit starting fires that take over a week to be put out. This subject pisses me off so much! 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 07:14 PM
6

Like, I don’t understand the reference. I wasn’t born or raised in the US, so a picnic blanket is LITERALLY a picnic blanket for me and nothing else. What the fuck is he talking about? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 04:45 AM
9

HE broke up with you 3 months ago and you are still wasting your time with that piece of shit...? WHY??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 04:30 AM
24

This whole chat is very confusing to me, I’m lost 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 04:13 AM
47

Before this men would just cheat or visit brothels on a regular basis though, this isn’t anything new. So illegal abortions or babies from prostitutes abandoned, I presume. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 04:08 AM
5

Thank you so much for clarifying that! I don’t understand why I’m getting downvoted for trying to get educated on something actually important, but whatever. I prefer asking questions than remaining ignorant 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:55 AM
4

I wasn’t raised in the US, so I didn’t really catch the reference. How is that racist? (genuine question, cause it doesn’t make sense to me)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 11:59 PM
3

She gladly enjoys all the benefits the feminists fought for us to have today though. She just won’t ever raise the feminist flag because she built this public persona and has a personal agenda, and her target audience wouldn’t be quick to cancel her. She’s Fox News material and will do and say whatever is expected of her to keep herself relevant, famous and rich.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 11:20 PM
5

All pussy grabbers/Trump supporters would gladly take her. Also, most guys don’t really have standards, so even non Trump supporters would love to show her off and use her as their own personal sex doll if they could. She has standards and knows her worth though, so that would probably never happen. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 11:02 PM
10

You can be beautiful on the outside and rotten on the inside. That’s her case! No matter how gorgeous she looks, she’s STILL a horrible person! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 10:48 PM
15

I’m white but I’m white you sister! It doesn’t matter if she says ONE thing right, when the rest of the time she’s just a horrible self-serving deplorable person. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 10:09 PM
56

Don’t fool yourselves, that woman isn’t on our side, will never be on our side and will never say OR do ANYTHING that doesn’t benefit her pocket. In other words, fuck Tomi Lahren! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:09 PM
27

You already know he’s a LVM. That’s honestly ALL you need to know. What you do with that information is what matters, cause LVM men don’t change! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:04 PM
41

He’s not sorry after doing the same fucking shit not only once, but TWICE in about a month. He’s only sorry you aren’t dumb and have a good memory. The audacity of scrotes!! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:49 AM
24

If this was supposed to be a meme, it isn’t showing up. All it shows up for me is a picture with the word “imgur” and nothing else 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:31 AM
1

Can’t message you, you need to follow me back for that sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:22 AM
4

I’m sorry, but you don’t have a flair or a post history so I cannot confirm you are actually a woman. There is a reason why I didn’t post it here publicly and it’s because I value my privacy and don’t want to risk male lurkers invading our personal space or getting any personal info from us. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 01:33 AM
1

That’s how I met some wonderful ladies last week as well! We truly needed an app for women only, it was about time we got it! 💅🏻👯‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 11:04 PM
45

Yaaas Queen! 🔥👏🏻👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:18 PM
3

I’m the same way sis, but working towards changing that now! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:15 PM
1

I can’t DM me, I think you need to follow me back here for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:22 PM
5

Apparently need to follow me back for me to be able to send you a DM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:22 PM
1

I zoomed in his little profile pic and he isn’t good looking AT ALL. Most definitely not a word I would use to describe someone that looked like that. He’s a 3/10 but a 11/10 when it comes to the audacity he brings to the table 🤢.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:58 PM
1

WTF. So they think that inviting a girl on a date and her accepting it equals to automatic kissing for the “effort”? The bar is SO LOW, FFS!! 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:53 PM
6

YUCK! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:45 PM
8

You never met the guy in person, so as far as we all know he could be lying about absolutely EVERYTHING, and what is worse is you are falling for all of his BS. Online only communication is the perfect way to show the other person only what you want them to see. He is creating this whole fake persona to get your attention and admiration, and it’s clearly working well for him. In other words, you are being played, sis! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:18 PM
1

That’s weird! Let me see if one of the 2 ladies I shared the link with can send you the link for you instead lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:31 PM
3

u/lalalalaika I tried following you to be able to start a chat/PM you the link but Reddit doesn’t give me the option to send you anything for some reason. I saw you followed me back here, but even then Reddit won’t give me that option. PM me if you want the link.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:26 PM
8

Ok, but you said it yourself you don’t like commitment. What’s the point? I mean, it’s your life and you can live it as you please, but someone who likes to sleep around with other women is the opposite of what we consider a HVM. Unless you are like making your own definition of what a HVM is, those 2 things seem incompatible IMO. Also that lifestyle seems incompatible with FDS principles. Edit: extra words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:04 PM
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I used an app for women only, and have been to 2 different meetups and met 9 other ladies last weekend. I can PM you an invite, don’t want to leave the link here in case the invite shows my personal info, for my own safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:02 PM
10

Sorry to be the one to say this, but that kind of “lifestyle” usually attracts LVM. Not sure what you want is actually possible, sis. Also, why do you want marriage if you don’t like commitment? It makes no sense 🤷🏼‍♀️ Edit: extra words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 05:57 PM
60

Thankfully, my broom and I are safe. LMAO! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 05:21 PM
1

OMG, dying! Hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 05:18 PM
10

Your husband isn’t gonna change, period. You need do ditch him and find a better one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:52 AM
13

Exactly! It’s not like we are in the middle of a global pandemic or anything. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:50 AM
19

1st: Are you new here? 2nd: Read the Handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:48 AM
37

My ex boyfriend is a CPA, has a degree in Economics and it’s an avid investor. Day trading isn’t worth it, more trouble than it’s worth it (I learned that by watching him and asking questions about it). Either invest in some good index funds, like Nasdaq, SP500 or if you are more adventurous try your hand in more volatile investments, like Bitcoin and the like. Edit: extra words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 03:45 AM
8

Average size and thick for me. Don’t need more than that to be happy😺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 02:20 AM
140

Entitled sexist pigs, see women as below them, consider themselves aLpHaS known for mistreating and emotionally abusing women by constantly playing mind games. Only believe in traditional gender roles when it benefits them, cheaters who use evolutionary biology to excuse their primitive disgusting behaviors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 02:14 AM
174

Another Red Piller scrote. Nothing new under the sun yawn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 02:08 AM
35

The (male) users turned Tinder into a hookup app. Don’t know anything about Bumble to have an opinion on it though. Tinder has barely any room for the user to write anything about themselves, so it’s clear that no one using it is looking for anything of substance in an app that shows pictures of the users and nothing else. Complaining doesn’t do shit though, so if the hookup app isn’t working, try something else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 10:46 PM
2

You don’t have to be mean to be assertive though. You could just say something like you’ve had time to think during this quarantine and you came to realize that, despite the good things, your goals don’t align and you truly don’t see how that can work well in the future. Say that none of you should have to compromise your goals and values for the other (some things can be changed, some others are just your core values and are more than just “preferences”). Thank him for “giving it a go” and the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 08:20 PM
6

Fine to be like Gaston if you AT LEAST HAVE THE LOOKS lol. Jokes aside, your guy sounds like complete garbage and the pandemic and the fact that you are unable to spend time together right now makes it the PERFECT time to break up. It doesn’t need to be anything complicated, It can even be done over text if you prefer. He can’t even do the BARE MINIMUM, so if your fear is of being alone don’t even sweat it. Plenty of guys out there willing to do AT LEAST the bare minimum (you should always expec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 07:04 PM
9

u/Fall_Extension
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:10 PM
1

Since we’re trolling, I just HAD to: Short Dick Man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:01 PM
41

You should definitely not have to be polite to someone who sees you as nothing but a warm hole for them to use. Thanks for sharing a bit of what you put on your profile with us, Queen! 🌹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:18 AM
20

If you don’t mind me asking, what do you put on your profile to keep them away?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:00 AM
41

Online dating is like dumpster diving, you’ll spend a lot of time, get dirty, sweaty, frustrated and rarely ever find anything worth saving. More trouble than it’s worth it, sis! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:57 AM
10

No such thing as free lunch, he would expect sexual favors for ANYTHING he did for you. Better to pay for your own gym or workout at home for free but no strings attached with any pigs though 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:55 AM
11

Why the hell are you entertaining this clown with private info about your life so he can mentally abuse and manipulate you? No, just NO sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:53 AM
36

I PMed her and told her about FDS. Hopefully she’ll join us and tell that LV abusive trash to eat dirt!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 11:05 PM
52

Reason #16849273 to never date a single parent! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 09:06 PM
17

I’m childfree by choice as well and that is my #1 deal breaker. Those of us who don’t want children should vet the guys and throw that question in before even meeting them in person so we don’t waste our precious time or catch feelings for someone who will expect us to be their personal baby incubator. Thanks, but no thanks! 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 08:08 PM
1

We are all here because of the hard lessons we had to learn while in relationships, all in similar boats after all. And yes, an addict can change, but only if THEY want to change for THEMSELVES. It’s like if a partner expected me to lose weight because of my love for them. It would never ever stick and I’d end up resenting them in the end. If that is a deal breaker to you, you find our men’s opinions about porn as early as you can and as soon as you find out that is a part of their lives you lea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:42 PM
1

And that’s why we shouldn’t settle for a “project” or potential. It’s like dating a smoker expecting they will quit smoking for you, or a drug addict expecting they will stop being who they are. If you think porn is cheating you should go for a guy who doesn’t watch porn, because the alternative will ALWAYS be deception. A porn sick limp dick will always be a porn sick limp dick, they just learn to hide things better but the bad habits never go away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:11 PM
10

Some guys that have never done it for SURE would do it if they were famous/hot/rich and could get away with it. Not masturbating in public is the BARE MINIMUM, not something deserving of a fucking medal! 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:27 PM
21

OMG girl, SAME! And posts like this one just make the owners of the long pencils all proud of themselves, ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:24 PM
1

It’s like he is interviewing an escort/prostitute with such a question, but obviously use random women instead of actually paying for their sick fetishes. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 04:09 PM
25

No dating fucking parents for me ever! Thankfully I’ve never met childfree men that fits your description though. I’ve met plenty of men-children, just not childfree who act like children just because they are childfree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 03:58 PM
102

They actually DO hurt, so I guess I’m the exception to that rule. Had this issue with my ex-husband and my preference is thick ones of average length over thin long ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 03:53 PM
42

Why are you entertaining that pig? Just block and delete, no explanation needed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:16 AM
14

Exactly! I honestly don’t care what they are doing until we are exclusive because it’s none of my business. Start worrying about that and it becomes pickme territory. Don’t ever forget YOU are the prize. Act like it, live it, fake it till you make it if you have to! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:39 AM
39

I’d be VERY weary of white guys specifically targeting Asian foreigners in the first place!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:28 AM
35

I guess people are exclusive when they ask you to become exclusive? I mean, it’s only fair. And that’s one more reason to not have sex before you are exclusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:24 AM
11

The guy who hasn’t even bothered asking for your real phone number isn’t that into you. Also, Snapchat, really? That’s acceptable only if you’re a teenager. I’d wait one more day, if nothing happens block and delete him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 04:46 AM
13

Who is raising those pigs, FFS???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 03:42 AM
28

He’s NEVER going to stop, periodt! Guys who are obsessed with porn just find better ways to lie about it. You have 2 alternatives: a) accept that your bf is porn sick scrote like most men; b) leave him. Edit: extra words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 03:36 AM
21

OMG, yuck!! 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 03:30 AM
2

I’d say a 5 year age gap is ok, more than that it’s likely predatory behavior, no matter the gender. Like Jada Smith and her son’s friend “entanglement”? Hands down predatory behavior! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:25 PM
1

Most likely, yeah! You are right sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:36 PM
3

I’d bet money on it 💯!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:49 AM
31

OMG, this is the post I didn’t know I needed today. THANK YOU, Queen! 🙌🏻🌹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 04:28 AM
0

That was your interpretation, I had a different one. She’s clarified she isn’t interested in marriage already, so are moving on from that point to the next. And yes, I agree with you, if she wants to be a forever gf because that makes sense to her situation, more power to her. Edit: extra words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 10:11 PM
19

That makes sense, and I’ve been married once as well and don’t know if I ever want to do it again either. But that is one more reason for the other party to not meddle in your finances. Legally you are single and where and how you spend your hard earned $ is none of his business unless it makes sense and benefits YOU first, of course!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:07 PM
5

Excuse me, I’m not forcing marriage on anyone! Nowhere in her post it says she has no plans on ever getting married, and even if she has been married before. Only thing she says is that her kids are too young and because of that she doesn’t want the responsibility of his kids as well. And even if she doesn’t want marriage, there is nothing anyone can offer her to justify him acting like he has a say in how she spends HER money. If he was her husband him sharing his input would be justified, but …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 08:40 PM
25

I agree! “Together for 3 years” and not even engaged sounds like a forever girlfriend to me! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:21 PM
31

The audacity!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:57 PM
62

“A friend” = his way of trying to get inside your pants and nothing else, clearly. He doesn’t respect you or sees you as an equal, period. How do you call that a friend...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:33 PM
57

It sounds like a Red Piller talking about someone they see as below them, like a child. He sure as hell ain’t treating her like he sees her as an equal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:31 PM
19

Excuse me, he was shit testing YOU? What a piece of shit...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:30 PM
122

So, he isn’t committed enough to put a ring on your finger, but clearly committed enough to tell you what to do with and to benefit from YOUR money...? Mmkay!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:10 PM
2

The PDF version works, the button of the FDS sub menu is what is broken. Also whenever they try to access the PDF version themselves they are unable to, for some reason. Somehow I’m able to access the PDF, so I just copy the link and send it to them whenever I see someone asking about it on the chat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 04:54 PM
47

Also, hate to break it to you, but he keeps doing it because you not only allow it, but keep crawling back to that loser. You are in desperate need of FDS! Read the Handbook, block and delete his number. He’s using you for a warm hole only, and have absolutely ZERO respect for you. You also seem to have no self-respect, and that might be the source of your current problem! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 08:10 AM
9

Yuck! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 08:08 AM
8

Thank you sooo much for keeping this sub safe for us and for helping us all grow more and more each day. Sending love to all of our amazing Queen mods! 🌹🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:09 AM
13

Hello Queens! Just wanted to give a heads up to the mods that several sisters have complained about the Handbook link being broken/unavailable whenever they click on it. Whenever I’m online in the chat room and see someone asking for it, I just send them the link to the PDF version of the Handbook, but I’m not always there to see who needs it and when.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:05 AM
10

Only pickmeishas with no self-respect and daddy issues would consider that orange piece of shit a good candidate to take care of this country and care about women’s issues!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:20 AM
11

Too busy to learn how to drive but not to busy to find a warm hole that he can fuck online...? Priorities, right? I also doubt that story is true, he probably got a DUI and lost his license or something of the sort. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:35 PM
8

Read the Handbook. You are letting him play you, giving him what he wants and already acting needy and desperate. Basically you are doing everything wrong and that guy has already proved he’s a LV trash!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 04:57 PM
3

I know I’m just a stranger off the internet, but I wanted to say that I’m soo proud that you made the difficult decision of being true to YOURSELF, regardless of everyone else’s opinions and behaviors. What you did is truly Queen shit! 🌹👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:40 AM
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You are a top quality Queen with a diploma from one of the best universities ever. What in the world are you doing online dating? Sis, you can do sooo much better than the dumpster diving that is online dating. The guy was right, someone like you doesn’t belong in that scene at ALL! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 02:18 AM
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Lots of pretty words. I’ll believe it when I see it happening. Also, what does he think you are to accept a “romantic trip” as a first date, a sugar baby?? 🙄 Where is P-town anyway? That sounded like a bad joke to me, but I hope it’s an actual real town and now what I was thinking about... 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 01:09 AM
5

He got you to play house with him, readily available sex and a child, all for the price of NO RING. He’s had over 6 years to do it, but no motivation to do it, as the situation is extremely comfortable and favorable for him. Just make peace with the fact that your dude has no intention on ever marrying you and, if that’s really important to you, break up and just move on with your life already!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 03:55 PM
3

Saving this comment, because I love your questions! 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 06:30 AM
7

But if dating someone with a political view opposed to yours is important, then wouldn’t it be best to get that deal breaker out of the way sooner rather than later though? Same goes for religion. I’m agnostic and it would be a deal breaker to date someone who is very religious or a Muslim, for example. So I’d prefer to not even waste my time. If the guy is a Trump voter/a Muslim/insert other deal breaker I don’t care what he looks like or anything else that would be considered a “pro” on my pro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 06:29 AM
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That should not even be a question. Why is it considered domestic abuse when a man hits a woman and assault when a person hits another random person, but ok for an adult to beat a child...? Only right answer: it is NOT ok for anyone to hit anyone else, aside from in self defense! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 09:13 PM
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It’s not a matter of believing in it or not, male’s nature doesn’t change because we believe in something or don’t believe in something. That’s just how they are! You read it in a book that was written based on research with men, you are reading it on FDS based on women who have done it and got the results needed. You have sex, you get emotionally attached, risk pregnancy and STD’s and don’t get the commitment you were looking for. They have sex, they don’t see a need to stick around when all th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 08:58 PM
17

Well, that explains the lack of them wanting to commit. They already got what they wanted from you, so they don’t have to! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 08:36 PM
6

Are you having sex with either one of these men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 07:09 PM
41

Online dating is the one place GUARANTEED to never find a HVM, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 07:08 PM
9

You call someone unwilling to cover a $25 bill a “partner”? That LV scrote is anything BUT a partner, sis! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:58 PM
8

How does sharing your husband with others benefit ANYONE but the guy fucking a different hole every day of the week? And it’s always the men who are being shared, never the women. And why is that, hmm...? Why can’t a woman have multiple husbands, why is it always Dave and his harem??? Edit: extra words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:53 PM
11

And with a fucking cross tattooed on his chest? 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:49 PM
38

All I see here is the TRUTH... 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:38 PM
49

Yeeesss Queen, you tell them!!! 🔥👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 08:15 PM
67

Domestic violence cases have gone up as well, as expected. Not surprising AT ALL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 05:17 PM
26

Teenagers OR adults. Just never EVER move in with a boyfriend, unless you have no plans on ever getting married (cause it’s never gonna happen if you move in anyway!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 05:07 AM
0

Only time will heal, but you are strong and can do this. We believe in you, sis! You deserve better and that means taking good care of yourself and walking away from scrotes who refuse fo respect you and meet your needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 04:12 AM
2

🔥👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 04:08 AM
52

How did you end up with a LVM having a mom-coach like that? Any plans to drop the 200lb of dead weight...? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:58 PM
73

Where do I sign up???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:57 PM
8

Too bad there isn’t enough “top 10%” men for all of us lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:54 PM
6

okay is that wrong? That’s not true AT ALL, unless you live in a different planet than Earth. Look around you, do the women you know REALLY date “only the top 10%”...? PLEASE. I’m sure you know more women having relationships with LVM than the opposite, which is enough proof this affirmation is shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:49 PM
9

OMG, yeees! I wish that was the case. But what I see more often than not is women suffering over the bottom 10% instead laughs nervously 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 07:31 PM
6

My reaction when I read that as well! LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 07:30 PM
-1

Was her ex-husband a LVM? Why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 04:15 PM
4

Again, the woman coming to FDS would equal to regret, which she currently does not have about the tattoo, as she PROUDLY posted on social media for everyone to see it. I’m making fun of her proudly showing that off to the world like a badge of honor, that’s correct!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 04:12 PM
5

She’s probably his girlfriend that he never told you about, because if he ever did he wouldn’t be able to use and manipulate you the way he did. He’s trash and you know it sis, just block that cheating loser already! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:44 PM
6

I’m so sorry someone made you believe you were too much for asking for the bare minimum to have your emotional needs met in a relationship. You deserve better, Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:41 PM
4

Uh, why would I have sympathy? This girl not only got that nasty tattoo but is also PROUD to post it on social media. You can’t possibly be serious! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:33 PM
0

It would only be shaming if she was ashamed, but as you can see by the picture she posted, she’s PROUD! LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:31 PM
2

OMG, I loveee this!!! ❤️👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:11 AM
22

I only see the TRUTH here... 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:09 AM
15

🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 05:53 AM
14

You know OLD is a dumpster fire, yet you went back to it. If you can’t change it, then change yourself, by LEAVING. Unless you think that shit is worth the hassle though 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 05:52 AM
23

So, basically the cow volunteering for slaughter...? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 05:27 AM
6

Not necessarily, if I’m meeting people online it’s a matter of chance and luck. It would be different it I was meeting people face to face though. But yeah, I already understand this is an issue that I have to fix about myself. Thanks! I also don’t understand how I my attachment style is anxious because I come from a stable family and had a wonderful support system growing up. Like the book says, part of it is our nature and part of it is nurturing. I came from a very loving family and my younge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 05:14 AM
4

I have a long road ahead of me, but I already took the first step, awareness of that being an issue. Nothing I want more than to be able to have healthy relationships with people in my life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:22 AM
18

He’s an insecure narcissistic loser scrote that is out of your life already. What does it matter? He’s shown you his true colors, believe in what he’s showing you! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:09 AM
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According to the book 50% of people are on the healthy attachment style, but it doesn’t specify their gender because it has to do with both nurturing AND nature. I’m unfortunately an anxious attachment style and have the terrible luck to keep attracting avoidant attachment types. It’s a combination made in hell! 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:02 AM
42

I’m currently reading the book “Attached” about that and finding it fascinating!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 02:57 AM
7

THIS ^ 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 02:48 AM
18

So, you want to marry someone who has anger issues and is abusive towards you...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 02:44 AM
19

She tattooed the invitation on her ASS. It was her choice. I don’t feel bad at all... 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 02:32 AM
8

I mean, how do you think she paid for that tattoo...? 🍆🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 02:31 AM
37

Her parents must be proud... 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 02:30 AM
8

No. Giving a chance = dating potential. Which means you are gambling with the most precious resource you have (time) while the odds are NOT in your favor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 10:09 PM
43

My perfect size and shape dildo cost less than that LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 10:08 PM
15

Typical RP scrote behavior 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 10:04 PM
12

OMG I thought the same thing. Are most people like that? Yikes 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 03:55 PM
1

You’d be surprised! I’ve seen pickmeishas here that participate in subs for that sort of thing looking for “daddies” before. It makes no sense, but some people seem to be so desperate for attention and validation that they willingly put their own safety in danger while looking for random strangers to have sex on the internet. Very disturbing behavior! 😰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 03:01 PM
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Correction: “the only people dating during Covid...” I read a bunch of women here posting about online dating and going on dates during Covid and I just shake my head in disbelief. Being a selfish and inconsiderate human being isn’t HV! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 06:17 AM
34

Traaashy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 06:14 PM
6

“Summary: After conducting the largest online intelligence study on record, scientists concluded that the notion of measuring one's intelligence quotient or IQ by a singular, standardized test is highly misleading”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 03:55 PM
7

THIS ^ 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 04:35 AM
14

You need to take a step back and regroup. You are falling for his BS tactics and straight into pickmeisha territory. He isn’t that into you if he takes over a week to reply and leaves you on read repeatedly. He’s an avoidant style fuck boy who is playing you. You know what to do next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 04:31 AM
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LOLOLOLOL IQ isn’t a reliable measure of intelligence though, because of neuroplasticity and how much it can vary throughout a lifetime. Edit: extra words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 03:44 AM
48

Saving this so I never EVER forget about it! Way too good! ❤️👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 12:32 AM
3

I just recently broke up with a narc as well, and mine seemed and acted very confident, until I started paying attention to the little details. I’m glad both of us got rid of those narc scrotes. We deserve MUCH better, sis! 🌹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:21 PM
6

Some people have sexual abuse trauma and get sexually turned on by re-enacting their trauma. So probably many women who are interested in BDSM would willingly participate in that sort of depravity 🤢.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 04:48 PM
3

5 Ways Narcissists Compensate for Their Inferiority
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 04:43 PM
4

What they show you on the outside is not who they are on the inside though. We just gotta learn how to pay attention to the little signs. I’ve been listening to some audiobooks about it and learned that the whole thing that makes a person a narcissist is insecurity. They seek external validation, praise and adoration because deep inside they are insecure (all of them) and create a life to show the world exactly he contrary, because even they don’t believe they are as awesome as they pretend to b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 04:34 PM
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Oh, bless his heart! It clearly never crossed his mind that younger women aren’t actually attracted to old predators, and that’s what is preventing them from those rElAtIoNsHiPs in reality... 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 08:11 AM
12

Insecure or not, the standard should be to just avoid narcissists at ALL COSTS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:34 AM
24

Oh, so he wants a sugar baby, but FREE...? Mkay 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:32 AM
8

It embarrasses me to say, but that was me 18 years ago, with a 18 year old POS. I wish I could take that back, but unfortunately I cannot! 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:11 AM
3

You draw the line wherever it works best for YOU and your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:00 AM
1

🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 04:59 AM
3

Username checks out... 💩🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 04:54 AM
37

As usual 100% of the emotional labor being the woman’s responsibility. Nothing new to see here, just another man-baby... 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 03:08 AM
26

🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 03:05 AM
4

I don’t have enough info to judge, nor do I know the context or circumstances to be able to judge whoever lives in that room 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 02:57 AM
3

I don’t know enough to have an objective argument, but my opinion is that porn is brainwashing men into nasty shit like that. I don’t think men are “wired to be rapey”, but I truly don’t know. I’m afraid of finding out that I’m wrong about that though, ugh. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:20 PM
9

OMG sis, yuck! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:50 PM
5

Hmm, I wish my case was like that. My Nex only purpose was his own pleasure, rarely ever mine unless I complained about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:48 PM
15

But that’s the whole point sis. It is MADE to be rapey, because that is what is a turn on to the predators. It’s not just in your head!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:42 PM
15

Even if you were married and had kids, you should still be pulling your own weight and contributing to the relationship and finances however you can. Men don’t respect women who expect everything handed to them on a silver platter and you are an adult and capable of more than that. And why on Earth would you want to be 100% dependent on a male anyway? That’s the recipe for a disaster. I also doubt that this guy or any guy who is truly HV would want to marry you while acting like that. Time to fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:07 PM
20

If he isn’t meeting your needs the way you expect, leave. But also keep in mind that you may be asking for too much for someone who is only your boyfriend, so you don’t repeat the same situation in the future again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 06:56 PM
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I’m sorry to be the one to say this, but your car is your own responsibility. Your living expenses should also be your own responsibility. If you want another car, work hard, save up and purchase it yourself. Your boyfriend isn’t your husband, or your father. A car is a huge expense, so it’s unreasonable to expect that from anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 06:51 PM
7

Love this! I need to become more objective and less emotional myself, so this way of dealing with your issue is inspiring to me. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 06:46 PM
32

How was his reaction when you called him out on his BS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:32 PM
27

Wow, someone who is able to pull that off with a straight face and do absolutely NOTHING else? Like, I’d be forever embarrassed if I got such an awesome gift and gave something so shitty and low effort. Even if he didn’t get her anything right away I’d expect him to go purchase something the next day, or order something online to be delivered in 2 days. What a shameless scrote! 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:31 PM
5

Having a face being down there bothers me A LOT too. Like I cannot ever relax, so there is no way I can enjoy the moment and just want it to be over before it even starts. Ugh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:24 PM
3

I don’t like it either, never did. I also don’t like giving bjs though, but will usually do it if I know it is important to the guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:20 PM
5

Wait, you went on ONE date with a guy and you are already talking about oral sex...? That’s sure a terrible way to start anything meaningful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:14 PM
12

Where’s the lie tho? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:38 AM
24

Narcissists are insecure deep inside as well, they just don’t show it FYI.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:37 AM
43

Happy man, usually miserable wife! 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 02:18 AM
94

Ugh, this whole pickmeisha interaction made me cringe SO HARD! 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 06:43 PM
33

OMG you’ve GOT to be kidding me. Having sex with someone who CANNOT CONSENT IS CALLED RAPE. Maybe that’s why that little detail is important. Didn’t think I needed to point out the obvious...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 06:25 PM
22

I honestly don’t know what your problem with me is, but victim blaming??? How was she supposed to know the guy was banging someone else behind her back, huh?? What I’m saying is that he IS a player and didn’t just act like a player that one day. He’s been playing her one way or another the entire time. She just finally realized what a piece of shit he was for coercing her into doing something she didn’t want to do in her first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 06:23 PM
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When did I say it was her fault, are you insane??? She was drunk and could not CONSENT to any of that to begin with. FFS!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 06:17 PM
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She was ALSO drunk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 05:55 PM
28

If you think all of that was a spur of the moment decision and “coickidink”, it wasn’t. And he was probably fucking that girl behind your back before that day as well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 05:54 PM
26

“Self worth”? That woman doesn’t even know the meaning of those words. Unbelievable!! 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 05:35 PM
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This was like reading a story of the tale as old as time. He had sex, which is what he wanted, he “lost interest” before he actually learned to like you as a person. Now cut you losses and move on, because he has no incentive to put any more effort into this, which is why he isn’t to begin with 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 05:26 PM
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This is ridiculous! The audacity you have to compare cats with scrotes... Cats are MUCH BETTER!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:32 AM
5

I remember enjoying the story as well, it was an entertaining movie, but it’s always good to hear other’s perspective and think about the reasons why men would admire a movie like that so much. We can learn a lot by just observing, and I never even thought to consider thinking about the movies and music they like as a red flag. The more I spend time reading posts on this sub, the more I love it. FDS is a gold mine! 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 08:08 PM
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Someone PLEASE bring that powerful queen here because I’m sure we could all learn even more from her. Man, her rage and passion speaking about this gave me the chills. Undoubtedly QUEEN SHIT! ❤️👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 08:03 PM
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Shit, my ex’s favorite series is that one. So many fucking red flags and I ignored them ALL. FML! 🤦🏼‍♀️🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:55 PM
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I consider wearing what we choose to wear or be, as people, taking our power back, not giving anyone else power. His opinion doesn’t matter and she should be true to herself and herself only. Edit: extra words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:52 PM
5

Came here to post this as well! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:15 PM
13

Why Wolf of Wall Street? I remember that movie is with DiCaprio but I don’t really remember the story. I think it’s one of my ex-bf’s favorite movies, ugh. Why would you consider that one in particular a red flag?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:14 PM
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I’d start wearing the lip ring again just out of spite after that... What a loser!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:07 PM
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Riri knows it best! ❤️👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 06:26 PM
9

Disgusting PIGS! 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 06:24 PM
7

This is a whole fucking mess and all you can do at this point is cut your losses and move on with your life without him. Sorry he did this to you, sis! :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 09:19 AM
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There is no seeing anything but his dick if you go visit him at his own place. Please don’t be naive and don’t fall for that BS. If you want to meet his dog stop by whenever he’s taking the pup to the dog park or walking at a park. His house is for you to “visit” when you are his gf only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 09:17 AM
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He didn’t call you a bitch though. But he’s a LV scrote and already took up too much of your time anyway, so BLOCK & DELETE! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 09:14 AM
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Narcissists don’t feel real feelings, don’t forget that. You are only supply for sex, attention and validation. He’ll leave you alone once he finds the next unsuspecting victim that will put up with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 06:40 AM
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Saving this post to revisit as needed, because it’s just SO DAMN GOOD! ❤️👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 06:29 AM
5

You are very lucky! I’ve always preferred being friends with guys mainly for this reason. I cannot stand the stupid competition and mean girl behavior of so many women. I hope it was different so I could have more women as friends though. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:48 AM
15

THIS! 👆🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:44 AM
12

YUCK! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:38 AM
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I doubt that she only found out what a piece of shit he is now that she is about to pop out that baby though. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:37 AM
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I understand sis, cause I’m the same way. I’ve improved a lot though, and this video was an eye opener to me, as well as a book I read about codependency. We mean well, but we can’t allow other people’s problems to become our own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 01:13 AM
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This! 👆🏻👏🏻🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 08:26 PM
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If you have to ask, deep inside you already have your answer. You’ll be the wife, maid, secretary, cook and bangmaid without even a ring. Hard pass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 08:21 PM
9

The AUDACITY!!! 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 07:18 PM
17

Glad the trash is learning to take itself out more and more nowadays...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 07:15 PM
3

You are probably right, sis. Just an attention man-wh*re karma farming using a fake story that he KNOWS would get plenty of attention on Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 07:12 PM
7

If you haven’t learned the nature of men by now there is nothing else I can say that will help you here. This is FDS, not Relationship Advice. We also don’t coddle or encourage women to continue with LV pickme behavior. But keep acting the same way and expecting different results, if that is what you enjoy... 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:12 PM
4

So, you fell for the “I’ll keep my hands to myself” and then got surprised when he took advantage of that? That’s how you continue getting used for sex and manipulated by men. Not to mention making yourself vulnerable to possibly be sexually assaulted by someone who “doesn’t have time for that” and doesn’t take no for an answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:04 PM
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They don’t care that YOU are monogamous as long as they don’t have to be. Also they don’t care about anything aside from what they want, which is to score as many bang maids as they can for the price of one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:00 PM
5

A person can easily fake for a couple of months and hit every note right until they get what they want and you are already too invested thinking that you finally found a HVM. Sharing strategy is the best way to self sabotage and allow people to use and manipulate you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:54 PM
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LOL 😂👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:51 PM
7

EXACTLY!! 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:32 AM
10

The men who thinks he is a prize will NEVER see you as a prize. Never EVER forget that. Also, the name for that is NARCISSISM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:49 AM
6

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:41 AM
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His comment sound like a copy and paste he sends to just about everyone on OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:40 AM
43

I still think it’s stupid to share FDS with men anyway. Why let someone know of all the strategies you are using to benefit yourself the most from a relationship? It’s literally showing your cards to your opponent. I don’t trust men and the ones that are good at manipulation would use all the knowledge they get from FDS to actually play women like puppets. Don’t like this at all!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 03:54 AM
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Her mistake was telling him about FDS in the first place. She basically gave all her cards away and he’s got the advantage in the game now. I see that guy leaving her soon over this and the shitty advice he’s getting from that post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 03:47 AM
2

Also: https://www.instagram.com/tv/CDykhZHJvzd/?igshid=quvkweojdonr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 03:09 AM
2

Saving this comment because it’s 🔥! Thanks for sharing, Queen! 🌹👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:52 AM
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Red pill isn’t anti-FDS. Red pill is anti-WOMEN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 10:09 PM
18

I’m on the same boat, and what’s been helping me is a bunch of self-help books. My ex was possibly a narc as well, so I feel you. The trauma bond is hard to break and the recovery process seems slow and painful. So far I’ve read “Codependent No More”, “The Breakup Bible”, currently listening to audiobooks “The Mindful Path to Self-Compassion”, “The Betrayal Bond” and also reading “Why Men Love Bitches”. Good luck sis! 🌹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 10:07 PM
2

Even worse, he thinks that what he’s saying is actually a compliment! 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 09:50 PM
19

Also do not tag said sub anywhere so we don’t get their attention in the first place!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 09:15 PM
15

If you have children or want more children I don’t see why not. If you are childfree, there is no good reason to do it. In a perfect world single parents would stick with dating other single parents IMO. I’m childfree, so I’d rather be single than dating a parent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 07:16 PM
1

Where is the lie? Even when they are harmed, they STILL benefit from patriarchy. So in the end they still win while we suffer. Fuck them all!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 05:43 PM
16

They had to choose a bro who represented them in every way, sexual predatory behavior included!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 05:39 PM
3

Disgusting scrote! I bet he doesn’t look like his profile pictures either! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 04:56 PM
19

Never EVER mention FDS anywhere. What you do is privately message the person you want to help. Mentioning FDS anywhere will only get you banned and harassed. That’s why I keep a private account for FDS only and another one for everything else. It’s just not worth the hassle, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 12:45 PM
27

The guy who makes time to see a bangmaid once a week 100% has the time for a relationship!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 12:38 PM
1

OMG, this comment is 🔥 😂👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 11:49 AM
1

OMG, your comment sounds just like my experience sis. Same thing here! Best sex of my 32 years of life hands down. And he wasn’t even my boyfriend. But the confidence and consideration made it mind blowing every single time 🔥.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 11:42 AM
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He is not your child, his life is not your responsibility. Give him a 30 day notice like it’s required by law and he can find a way to solve his own damn problem like an ADULT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 05:22 AM
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You are ALREADY a burned out housewife without even being a wife, with absolutely ZERO benefits for yourself, not even a ring. He has everything to lose, you have NOTHING. Pack your shit and go, because ain’t nobody got time to be wasting on Peter Pan syndrome scrotes... Edit: extra word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 04:40 AM
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We all have different journeys in life and she is allowed to go through that kind of pain and lesson if that is what she wants, as it’s her life. Not everyone learns from other people’s mistakes, and that’s ok. I also don’t know anyone who follows unsolicited advice, so as much as it’s hard to see someone struggling without being able to do anything, what you can do is be there for her if she needs you, but always remembering to keep a safe distance from the issue itself so it doesn’t start affe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 02:57 AM
1

Holy SHIT!! 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 02:50 AM
8

I’ve lived with 3 guy roommates in over a year and never had ANY issues. I think you should most definitely stay vigilant, but please don’t become paranoid and change plans about your own life and freedom due to fear of shitty men. You deserve to have a happy and fulfilling life, so don’t let anyone or fear get in the way of you getting that for yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 02:30 AM
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“Gather your audacity” LOL 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 02:20 AM
3

As usual, laws that are meant to benefit women, benefitting mostly men and re-victimizing women. Proof that heterosexual men HATE us! Edit: extra words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 08:28 PM
4

Yes, I already did and I’m in favor of that if you actually saw my comments on that thread. Men who pay for sex are the criminals, not the vulnerable women who resort to that to make money. I will not be beating that dead horse once again though. Johns should go to jail and have a criminal history, prostitutes deserve opportunities and a chance at a better life instead of jail and a criminal history. It’s very simple! Edit: extra words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 08:23 PM
8

Yeah, just wasted my precious time having to defend myself 2 days ago because I stated I disagree with prostitutes being charged as criminals, which does NOT mean I’m in favor of prostitution at all. I’m already rolling my eyes and bracing myself for the downvoting and the attacks, but I will not engage in another toxic and pointless argument because I have the right to my own opinion and, as far as I know this isn’t a women’s cult...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 08:12 PM
13

Mygod this is disgusting! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 08:03 PM
7

Read the Handbook!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 06:36 PM
3

Ah, I didn’t watch the whole show so I had no idea she was BPD. I didn’t even know that those were common behaviors for BPD. Now I wonder if I have that myself as well, ugh. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 03:34 AM
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All the girls from Pretty Little Liars. Lorelai from Gilmore Girls. Carrie Bradshaw from Sex and the City. The Crazy Ex-Girlfriend main character. Olivia Pope from Scandal. Basically most female characters from most of the series that I’ve ever seen lol. Being a pickmeisha is portrayed as the norm, unfortunately. Very few good role models on TV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 01:48 AM
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I’m in the process of recovering from a relationship with a N as well, not nearly as bad as yours was though. I think the process of healing after them is very slow and painful and anything you try to use as a shortcut to become better will just end up backfiring and putting you back to square one again. You need to stop fighting your own feelings, surrender to them, allow yourself to feel them and process them at your own natural pace. It sucks, it hurts, but the only way out of this is THROUGH…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 07:55 PM
11

She’s probably gonna keep the pregnancy, yes. Hence my comment. Making sure his shitty DNA gets passed on while her life turns to shit thanks to him. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 07:01 PM
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She’s a dumbass for having that loser’s child that will eventually turn her into a struggling single mom who doesn’t get any kind of help from the loser LV scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 06:57 PM
3

RegardEless Lol 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 06:51 PM
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Uh, why are you looking to date people who live 4+ hours away and in a different state? How is a long distance relationship with someone you don’t even know is beneficial to women at all? What a waste of your precious time, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 06:48 PM
9

You take time to work on yourself and enjoy life without having to be in a relationship for that to happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 03:57 PM
33

This post describes my ex-bf to a T! 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 03:57 PM
24

WHY are you still entertaining that cheap LV scrote??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 06:24 AM
3

Did you read the other comment saying that in some countries that’s how the law works? I didn’t make this up FYI.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 02:54 AM
4

We are allowed to have different opinions. I’m just entitled to my point of view as you are to yours. I’m in favor of giving vulnerable people opportunities, not turning them into criminals. You are entitled to your point of view as well. We can agree to disagree and move on from this pointless argument.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 02:53 AM
5

I think vulnerable women deserve a chance to seek better opportunities in life without a criminal record, yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 02:44 AM
5

Wait, WHAT? Who said I have ANY faith in men doing the right thing whenever given the chance? Please don’t put words into my mouth. If you read every single one of my comments in this thread I NEVER defend men in ANY of them. Men SHOULD go to jail for paying for sex because that is predatory and wrong, PERIOD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 02:43 AM
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I think they should decriminalize sex workers, but keep paying for sex illegal. If that is possible, it should be done, because the predators who are paying for sex and abusing vulnerable women are the only criminals!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 02:37 AM
4

Yes, but ONLY them. The REAL criminals!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 02:30 AM
8

I don’t think, nor did I EVER say that sex work is “right” or “empowering”, because it’s actually the opposite. I’m thinking about the women who ARE the victims and instead of being protected like VICTIMS, get treated like criminals. Sex workers need HELP to find a better life and get a healthier future, not jail!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 02:30 AM
4

When did I defend men? The women are the VICTIMS, the men who pay for sex are PREDATORS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 02:26 AM
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My logic is that victimizing people who are ALREADY vulnerable victims is wrong, and I stand by what I’m saying. Make the ones who pay for sex criminals, not the vulnerable women who are already desperate enough to resort to that kind of life. Making things illegal doesn’t prevent them from happening. Sex work will exist until the end of times, and vulnerable women need protection and not to be treated like criminals!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 02:23 AM
3

Yes, this would be perfect! 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 02:18 AM
8

So arresting women who are already victims and compromising their whole lives with a criminal record is better?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 02:09 AM
31

OMG I hope that is gonna be my life 15 years from now! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 02:09 AM
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Isn’t that so sex workers stop getting arrested and victimized time and time again, as opposed to the johns that hire prostitutes? Why should a woman who probably already has a difficult life be considered a criminal as well? That leaves the women with a permanent record that will impact their lives forever. How many times is society going to victimize women? I don’t think sex work is empowering, but I think sending those women to jail for that is wrong in so many levels!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 02:06 AM
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There is a reason why his gf was mistaken by the woman on the right, who is nearly 30 years older than she is...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:48 PM
4

Exactly! They are happily coupled and what we think about their hair or general appearance changes absolutely NOTHING in their lives. My grandma from my father’s side has absolutely beautiful gray/white hair and I hope I’ll get to look as great as she does when I’m her age. ❤️🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:04 PM
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Uh, I have NO idea who the fuck those women are, much less what they do for a living. That’s irrelevant! My opinion stands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:54 PM
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OR I might just have a different opinion than you. For fuck’s sake, I’m here saying that gray hair is beautiful and that I’m gonna leave my own hair gray whenever is my time to go gray. Accept that people have different opinions and not only yours is valid. The woman on the right, who is nearly 30 years OLDER than her looks much prettier, regardless of gray hair, wrinkles OR her actual age. My opinion stands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:45 PM
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My goodness, am I allowed to have a different opinion than you or only your point of view is valid? Or should I lie instead? Some people look younger than their age, some people look older than their age, there is nothing you or I can do about that. Her gray hair has nothing to do with it. Gray hair is beautiful and I’m gonna let my own hair go gray whenever my time comes, regardless of what anyone else thinks. We’re all gonna get old and die someday, being/looking old isn’t an insult, it’s NATU…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:32 PM
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No, her gray hair is beautiful. I don’t know if it’s perhaps the dress, or just this picture in particular. I love woman who just leave their gray hair as opposed to dyeing their hair to try to fight aging. I’ve never dyed my hair and intend to do the same when it’s my time to go gray.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:50 PM
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He still look younger than his partner though, and I never realized the guy was old enough to be my father. He most def aged well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 06:17 PM
7

Same! My 1st bf was 18 when I was 14. I wish I had waited until I was at least 18 to have any boyfriends. Ugh! 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 01:16 AM
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I’m talking about legal age/adults. A 15 year old with a 20 year old is not only predatory and wrong, it’s also illegal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 08:48 PM
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Anything more than 5 years age gap is predatory, period!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 06:51 PM
15

🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 06:50 PM
6

His character (or lack thereof) isn’t your problem, his relationship with his current girlfriend, or anyone else, isn’t your problem and you cannot change OR control anyone BUT YOURSELF. Get this into your head. And then block him and move on. Take care of your life and leave other people to do the same with theirs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 06:23 PM
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How much it sucks to be a man? Oh, give me a fucking BREAK! I don’t know one single man who would choose to be a woman if they had the choice. Not ONE! On the hand, I know plenty of women, me included, who given the option would choose to be a man in this shitty world if they could. They have it too easy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 06:13 PM
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Sorry, but Carrie and Mr. Big were both trash and deserved each other. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 12:28 AM
11

PLEASE be mindful of tagging other communities here, or else we can get reported/banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 12:27 AM
21

Reason 274378484 why I made a separate Reddit account for FDS exclusively.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 12:24 AM
14

Sis, you are 🔥!!! 💪🏻❤️👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:50 PM
55

A nearly 10 year age gap. 100% expected from sexual predators... 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:05 PM
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Just change your settings to not receive DMs or chat requests anymore so you quit getting harassed by scrotes. That’s what I did after it happened to me as well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:02 PM
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People treat us how we allow ourselves to be treated. The power to nip that bullshit in the bud is in your hands, sis. He’s a player and if you have to ask, is because deep inside you already know the answer!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 08:30 AM
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Lazy scrotes! 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:24 AM
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I would love to know what his definition of “cheap” is. He sounds like he thinks HE is the prize and that women should not only chase HIM (🤢) but also invest in him financially or something...? Who the hell is raising those entitled scrotes? No one ever told him women don’t have to chase cause dick is free and plentiful? WE get to pick, sweetheart, not you... 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:44 PM
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Trust and control issues is absolutely terrible for every type of relationship you have, not only romantic ones. I suggest you try getting a therapist to work on that. I used to be very paranoid and insecure myself, but at some point my mindset just had a shift. I cannot control anyone’s thoughts, feelings or actions. What I can control is myself. So if I don’t like the way I’m being treated I set my boundaries, if things don’t change I’d just walk away. Walking away and standing up for ourselve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:00 AM
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The answer you gave him is 🔥. Love it!! 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:55 AM
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The important part is that you are now free and seem to have learned your lesson. Unfortunately you cannot take what you did back, but you can choose to do differently in the future. You are still very young and there are plenty of places you can move to and re-start life from scratch. Best of luck to you and hang in there! 🌹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 03:33 AM
8

And that’s why FDS advises AGAINST living with boyfriends. Women become live-in mother/maid/chef/fuckdolls. That guy is a LV loser!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:37 AM
12

What in the actual FUCK? Humanity going as low as it can possibly go in 2020. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:23 AM
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You were having HIS baby and he just left you alone waiting like that? FFS!! 😠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:09 AM
11

He sounds like he is looking for easy NSA sex with someone who lives literally just a few steps away. Lowest effort than that, impossible!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:04 AM
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They do that on purpose so you don’t forget them long enough to realize you don’t need them. Don’t fall for that trick, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:01 AM
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It’s clear he doesn’t want to be with you, but also is too selfish to just let you go. Also, calling him once a day isn’t really “giving him space”. When someone needs space you keep it to yourself and let them be on their own until/when/if THEY come back on their own. Edit: extra words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 01:45 AM
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So, in other words, we are supposed to change who we are at our core, if we identify with any of her descriptions of “masculine women” just to attract men...? GTFOH. I actually identify a lot with her description and don’t consider myself very feminine. But that’s just who I am and I’m not about to change my whole essence and lower myself just to appease any males. Please! 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 07:58 AM
13

THIS! 👆🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 05:40 AM
13

🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 05:39 AM
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We didn’t choose the game, we are basically forced to play due to lack of options. In the perfect world everyone would be upfront and honest about their intentions. In the real world, people lie and manipulate to get what they want, often times at ALL costs. In other words, “don’t hate the player, hate the game”. I was also a dumbass who thought that by being open and honest I would either attract people the same way or “inspire” people to do the same. NAH, that never ever happens! Only thing th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 05:38 AM
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Truth is, people only see what they WANT to see. They prefer to believe that women are lying to hurt their gender as opposed to admitting that has been a problem since the beginning of times. They would rather find excuses than taking responsibility for their role in the problem, because they don’t want anything to change and they don’t want to have to do anything different than they are used to. In other words, they don’t care if we get harassed or abused, as long as they get to continue being …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 06:15 PM
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Exactly! Someone only spotted the obvious and gave it a name. I’m aware that I’m a hell of a partner, and allowed men who didn’t deserve me, to have me during my entire adult life. Trying to break that cycle now that I found FDS. But I believe this is more common than not!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 03:49 PM
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Ok. Sorry, I didn’t mean you posted the same thing twice, it means that someone else already posted the exact same post as you in this sub already. I didn’t mean to insult, I’m just letting you know what is one of the rules for posting on FDS. We’ve been getting quite a few reposted posts here lately. Edit: a few words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 03:32 PM
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I like that you gave him a very vague answer so he can’t just put on a mask and be exactly what you are looking for just to get inside your pants. Good example for me to follow in the future as well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 05:19 AM
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English is my second language and even I have never mixed up those words. The bar is SO low it already reached hell! 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 05:16 AM
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Repeated post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 04:29 AM
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PLEASE PUT A TRIGGER WARNING FLAIR ON THIS POST! I nearly threw up my dinner while reading this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 03:55 AM
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They have a no guests over rule and you don’t like having people over at your place. You are clearly incompatible!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 09:53 PM
18

Typical MAGA-hat-wearing TRASH! 🙄🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 09:44 PM
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Watch our for Brazilian men FYI. They are known to be good lovers, but cannot be trusted! (I’m Brazilian also)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 07:46 PM
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Oh, I guess you are right. Grab-them-by-the-pussy-MAGA-boys are the ones to be trusted when it comes to treating women properly. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 07:44 PM
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The study wasn’t made to bash conservative men. If you actually open the article and read it, it just shows the difference in preferences between the demographics. There is no “agenda” when all demographics are talked about and included in the research.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 07:40 PM
2

Our bodies are programmed to sabotage us every month during that period, unfortunately. You gotta find ways to keep yourself busy, because biology can’t be changed. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 07:07 PM
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Exactly! So IDGAF about what men say. I care about their actions instead. Not showing your true colors while hiding behind a bible doesn’t make any of them better than others. I prefer to know who I’m dealing with (aka keep your enemies close). At least liberal men show their true colors to your face, instead of tricking you to believe they have values when the truth is, they are all pigs from the same barn...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 06:30 PM
4

Damn, I absolutely LOVE this!!! ❤️👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 06:24 PM
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Also: “Jane* was a member of Australia’s evangelical Christian community, and throughout her marriage she heard many sermons on honouring a husband’s authority. These sermons focused on a wife submitting to her husband’s authority in everything, from finances to where and when she worked. He was to be respected as head of the family, because this was “God’s plan”. For three decades, Jane’s husband abused her under the guise of this notion of authority. He isolated her, denied her money and the u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 05:17 PM
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Also: “While self-identified Republicans and self-identified Democrats reported fantasizing with the same average frequency—several times per week—I found that Republicans were more likely than Democrats to fantasize about a range of activities that involve sex outside of marriage. Think things like infidelity, orgies and partner swapping, from 1970s-style “key parties” to modern-day forms of swinging. Republicans also reported more fantasies with voyeuristic themes, including visiting strip clu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 05:05 PM
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LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 05:00 PM
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See it for yourself: Out of the top 10 states with the highest porn consumption, nearly all of them are red states (the article is Safe For Work FYI): https://www.pornhub.com/insights/2017-year-in-review
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 04:59 PM
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You’d be surprised! Have you heard of sugar babies? Most part of the guys who “consume” this type of “service” are married and conservative men. The difference is, they aren’t vocal about all the disgusting things they expect from women behind closed doors. You’re naive to think that closeted pigs are ANY better than the ones that already left the closet! 🤷🏼‍♀️ How I know? I was just born and raised in one of the countries with the highest number of Catholics in the world, which also happens to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 04:31 PM
1

THIS! 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 07:26 AM
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Uh, she was considering concealing a VERY important info (a deal breaker IMO) from that guy, so red flag or not, those 2 belong together. I don’t know his motives, but she thought about deceiving him. So I think both are LV trash and that match was made in the landfill! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 07:22 AM
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His “regret” is just the heavy conscience of someone who knows they don’t have much time left here. They are probably afraid of “going to hell”, so the conscience finally starts getting heavy near the end of their road. Losers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 07:08 AM
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I like her advice a lot and have to admit I agree with her. Time is finite, money can be made again later on. It would suck balls to be stuck for 2 hours with someone who doesn’t look like their pics, for example. Yuck! 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 05:58 AM
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Excuse me, but how are conservative men, who think they are superior beings and that we were born to serve, carry their child and please them, are ANY different than “liberal men”...? Please!! Edit: extra words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 03:56 AM
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I hope that disgusting scrote will die with that regret! 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 03:54 AM
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I used to love cooking during the first few years that I was married as well. But the lack of help and appreciation led to burn out. So, eventually I just quit cooking completely and started living off of frozen meals instead. Men certainly have a talent for ruining good things in life for us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 03:52 AM
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I wish we could rescue the girlfriend from a life of servitude to that scrote! 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 03:18 AM
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Throw the whole man away!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 03:14 AM
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If you have to ask, that’s because deep inside you already know your answer, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 10:02 PM
25

That age difference is greater than the one I have with my own father. FFS!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 05:58 PM
11

🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 05:57 PM
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OMG, that’s beyond disgusting! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 05:55 PM
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Because I know plenty of people in IT, and I’ve had some of them trying to encourage me to give that a try for a while, that’s what I’m gonna do. Wish me luck! I will most definitely feel like a fish out of the water once I start. Edit: a word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 05:48 PM
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Books have been my step number 2 on becoming high value, right after step 1, which was dumping my LV ex-bf. I have to go to college because I don’t have a degree, that is gonna take some precious years to happen, that’s why I’m so discouraged. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 11:22 AM
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Guys, how the fuck do we report makes that are invading our chat? I thought only FDS members would be able to use the chat; but caught 2 scrotes invading our space today!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 11:05 AM
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Yes, but they still put up with that shit regardless. LVM get away with this kind level of entitlement because they can find desperate enough people to put up with their shit. If they didn’t, they’d behave with a basic level of decency, at least
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 10:59 AM
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I’m from South America, and I beg to differ. Also, have you watched 90 Day Fiance? Pretty good example of desperate foreigners willing to go as low as they can reach for a green card. Desperate times will do that to a person, unfortunately!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 10:49 AM
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Ugh, I’m trying my best to let the pickmeisha version of me behind, but these past couple of days I’ve relapsed. Messaging both, my ex-husband AND my ex-bf after him cause I’m needy for attention/validation. Didn’t hookup with neither, but FFS I shouldn’t even be messaging those 2 idiots that weren’t good enough to keep me. I swear I wish I had a clone of myself that would slap the SHIT out of me for doing this 😐. I feel lonely, I have no family in this country and literally have 2 “friends” nea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 08:42 AM
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The trash usually takes itself out, yes. Those guys can’t keep their mask on for too long. They get inpatient and that’s when they show their true colors by revealing what they are REALLY after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 08:38 AM
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You showed your cards too early (told him he needed to be exclusive first), he saw that as a challenge to overcome (exclusivity) to get what he wanted (sex). Unfortunately this is a very simple equation and the outcome is predictable. Next time try keeping your cards to yourself and vet them for even longer before giving in. The trash would probably take itself out eventually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 08:29 AM
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Some religions treat women like we are inferior beings, so even fathers would probably still be a part of the “boys will be boys” club. Nothing really surprises me anymore in this world TBH!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 08:22 AM
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He’s treating you like a hooker on demand. Practice some self respect and let that selfish dick go. He can get his dick wet elsewhere...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:46 AM
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Tell him to get a sugar baby instead. 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:44 AM
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Only way that scrote is gonna get what he wants is if he imports a woman from a third world country desperate enough for a green card to put up with that shit. Other than that, only someone EXTREMELY religious that still obeys her father and thinks that men are superior beings. It’s possible, unfortunately, but unlikely. Hope his dick falls out before that tho! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:46 AM
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I agree 100% sis!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 05:21 AM
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We were very young when we married, he’s even younger than me. He came from a broken family, so I just overlooked all red flags and made excuses for him throughout the marriage, as if it was MY responsibility to “fix him” or overlook things because “he’s damaged and full of traumas”. I put “love” (aka codependency) above my own wellbeing and basically “raised” him to become the adult his parents/family would never teach him to be. I’m still bitter that I wasted nearly a decade making someone els…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:49 AM
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Moana ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:28 AM
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AND the dirty dishes! (OBVI)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:22 AM
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LOL 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:22 AM
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This was undoubtedly the single best decision of my life so far. I feel it even more strongly after my nearly 8 year marriage failed. One less BS to have to deal with during divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:21 AM
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You and me both, sis! I’m 32 and childfree by choice as well! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:05 AM
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Best decision of my life was to never have a kid in the first place lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:04 AM
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They deserve each other, sis. Be glad that the trash took itself out and found another one on the same level to match them. You deserve SO much better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 06:31 PM
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Cheaters and people who knowingly date cheaters are all the same kind of scum, IMO. One is no better than the other. Both selfish, inconsiderate pieces of shit who don’t care who they are hurting in the process, as long as they get what they want. Disgusting! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:36 PM
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Both my exes steer clear from “white North American women” and that just makes me learn even more from my white North American sisters (I’m white too, but South American from a culture full of pickmeishas). The truth is, I believe they take NO shits from those LV losers and their low efforts don’t go unnoticed for long, because they learn growing up that they have OPTIONS and don’t have to settle for shit. So the scrotes go after women from cultures that teach them to be “submissive” (aka to be …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:12 PM
1

Talking about marriage means nothing until you have a pretty ring on your finger, sis! Pay more attention to actions, less attention to words. Rule of thumb here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:12 AM
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I have NO idea. You gave us nothing. I can’t judge your guy based on one single comment about one specific situation! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:11 AM
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EXACTLY!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:10 AM
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Oh my fucking god. Ok, this was enough internet for today! 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 01:53 AM
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Him “liking” condoms or not is not your fucking problem... NEXT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 01:44 AM
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Why are you playing coy? Let the man spend/“waste” his money on you. Accept the gesture, thank him, smile and nod!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 01:42 AM
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Yikes! 💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 01:41 AM
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I agree! A guy like this would possibly create another IG JUST to keep following all that trash behind your back anyway. He’s already shown who he is, you should believe him. I bet he watches plenty of porn as well, those 2 go hand in hand. Give him the most vague explanation ever, because he would just lie and manipulate his way out of this instead of changing. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 05:38 PM
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https://instagram.com/risingwoman?igshid=871ecx3ax6tc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 10:03 AM
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Happy to help and even more that you are excited to be here, Queen. Cheers! 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 09:12 AM
10

Who comes up with those stupid rules FFS?? 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 09:11 AM
18

OMFG 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 09:03 AM
11

I think by showing them your cards and being direct you are giving them the advantage over you. They will lie to your face and do whatever they have to, to get inside your pants ASAP. If you tell him what you want, he will just act accordingly until he gets what he wants. Don’t think that is a smart strategy at all! I would be the most vague possible, or just answer things that would apply to most people “honest, hard working, good values, etc” (for things you are looking for, not pet peeves) lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 08:59 AM
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It’s called MENipulation... lol (sorry, I had to!) 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 06:59 AM
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This!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 06:49 AM
11

Didn’t want to make this political, but I’m willing to bet this dude is white. If he was black NO WAY IN HELL the police would “let him go with a warning”. Fucking pigs! 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 06:48 AM
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Adorable!! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 06:43 AM
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My very first 3 roommates were men, one in his early 20’s, one in his late 30’s and one in his early 50’s and not ONE of them tried anything funny with me, not even in jokes for over a year. And I consider myself average attractive, I’d say a 7 out of 10. OP just happens to have the worst luck to be living in a house full of scrotes and a pickmeisha as roommates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 06:04 AM
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I follow that page as well and love nearly everything they post! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 05:46 AM
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It’s not a “quirky” reason. This story mentioned above is LITERALLY my worst nightmare! The little boy is a victim and will be traumatized by what is happening for the rest of his life, I’m sure of it. His parents are to blame, especially his father. And I’m responsible enough to make the decision to remain childfree to avoid creating a dysfunctional traumatized child, who would eventually become an adult and most likely cause all kinds of chaos around him. Thank you, but NO THANK YOU! I’m not a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 05:43 AM
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Facetiming is their way of vetting women who try to catfish them IMO. According to the guys I know that is more common than it seems, which is unfortunate. But if you are bothered by him pushing your boundaries or trying to go out with you so soon after chatting you should def block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:48 AM
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“I had her” WTF is that supposed to mean? Once you get someone else pregnant you HAVE a child, wether she lives with you or not. I fucking hate liars. Even worse if they are breeders too! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:41 AM
4

I’m 5’3 and have dated guys my height and maybe an inch shorter as well. I never ever EVERRR cared about anyone’s height. Honestly, if the guy isn’t literally a midget IDGAF if he is the same height as me or an inch shorter. If you are good boyfriend, a kind hearted and just GOOD human being, I honestly don’t give a faaack about your height. I didn’t even know that was actually a thing until both my exes complained that some women put their preferences in their OLD profile. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:24 AM
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Because they can’t stand up to other men Pun intended? LOL 😂 Edit: formatting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:19 AM
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That’s what I keep telling my ex bf, who is 5’4. I find him hot as hell, smart, he is ambitious, works out. I’m gonna have a crush on that stupid idiot for the rest of my life TBH. But as a boyfriend he’s 💩. Rude, CHEAP bastard, inconsiderate, selfish piece of shit. I’d happily marry the fool if he was worth my time. But no, effort is just TOO MUCH, and it’s easier to blame his misfortunes on something he is 100% unable to change instead of taking responsibility for being a SHITTY HUMAN. 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:17 AM
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What a #complete piece of SHIT!! 🤬 Sorry you had to deal with that scrote, Queen, you deserve better! 🌹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:11 AM
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Queen goals! 🔥👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:08 AM
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“Sometimes you meet someone”. There is a difference between accidentally meeting someone while grocery shopping or out at a park, etc, and purposely looking to find men on OLD. Being responsible during a pandemic is a MUST, regardless... No one is gonna die without kissing random dudes for a couple of months, that’s just a fact!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:02 AM
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YUP! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:00 AM
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Reason number 57748867 to remain childfree ✅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 03:46 AM
20

Found the fugly incel/“nice guy”...? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 02:19 AM
1

Of course! But what I meant is that the logic the guy was trying to use just makes no sense at all. In either case that’s just how the procedure is to figure out what meds work for a specific person. Until someone decides to invent a crystal ball that can precisely predict the future outcomes, that’s what we have to deal with if we want to improve our mental health. That guy is just fucking lazy and prefers using unsuspecting victims for free emotional labor though, AS EXPECTED... 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 02:18 AM
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I wish I could say that was me only during my early 30’s. I’m 32 and just starting to see the mistakes I’ve always made in romantic relationships right now. I guess late is better than never though, right? There is still time to do better and that’s what we are gonna do moving forward, Queen! Also, what other people think of you doesn’t matter. What matters is how you carry yourself around from here on now. You can’t control other people’s thoughts and/or feelings, you can only control YOU. Don’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 09:53 PM
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I’m with you on that one, sis! 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 09:39 PM
16

What about just being responsible and putting dating on hold for the time being? The pandemic won’t last forever!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 09:29 PM
1

You and me both, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 09:27 PM
11

OMG, I’m dying here! 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 06:21 PM
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Being worth it doesn’t mean the right men will find us and just do right by us though. It’s wishful thinking and there are plenty of freaking amazing woman that go a lifetime without receiving the treatment they deserve. Life isn’t fair and not everyone gets what they deserve! :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 06:11 PM
2

The flair already says trigger warning in red.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 06:05 PM
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Whyyy are women having children with those pieces of shit. WHYYY? That’s the ultimate sacrifice for a walking human garbage! 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 05:35 PM
1

One can’t just up and leave and decide for themselves to keep a child away from their father. There are laws though. The child has rights and it’s not up to one parent alone to decide. Of course that in a perfect world that’s how it would be, but we don’t live in a perfect world. Also, do you REALLY think this guy wants anything to do with his child...? I honestly doubt it! Most men want nothing to do with raising their children, they just want someone else to do the shitty work for them while t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 05:10 PM
0

How does she use a Reddit post as proof though? Not sure that is even possible :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 05:35 AM
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I just invited a young woman from a terrible post on Relationship Advice about BDMS/sexual abuse and she replied back to me. She sounded hopeful and seems eager to get out of her abusive relationship. I’m happy, and will be even happier if she finally breaks free from that abusive prick she calls boyfriend (around 10 age gap BTW)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:19 AM
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Ok, I just changed the flair of the post. Sorry, I didn’t mean to be insensitive to anyone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 02:00 AM
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I mean, do you know ANY man who paused his career, hobbies and personal life to start raising a child? Pretty much 99% of the men I know continue their lives and see their children as “entertainment” that happens once in a while. They don’t take on the emotional and physical labor, and when they do it’s not an equal share of responsibilities. Meanwhile the woman literally puts her career and whole life in the back burner to raise a man’s child. If it’s something the woman really wants to do, it’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:57 AM
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Suggest that while you appreciate the flowers, that you have no way to hide them and let him know you prefer chocolate instead (or whatever else is easier to hide lol). Edit: typo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:41 AM
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One of the reasons why I chose to be childfree was that I can see very well how men use children to keep woman below them and enslaved for most of their lives. No thank you, I’d rather not ruin my life like that...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:39 AM
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You do have to do this with either public or private healthcare. How the fuck is mental health care procedure any different from one to the other...? This is bullcrap!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:37 AM
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Oh, are we PUA now? Didn’t know the main goal of FDS was to use and dispose of man. I must’ve missed something here🤔 /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 11:53 PM
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I don’t have one in specific, but I’ve done things like fix a broken toilet, install curtains, replace the screen of my laptop, even changed my car’s side mirror all by myself. In the age of technology men are an optional accessory, Queen! 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 11:46 PM
14

HAHAHA 👏🏻🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 06:39 PM
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🤦🏼‍♀️🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 06:38 PM
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I was married at 23 and I wish someone had stopped me then and that I could take that back. Please DON’T DO IT!! PS: The human brain doesn’t fully develop until at least 25 years of age. Edit: extra words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 06:12 PM
8

I was hoping there would be poison in that slice of cake! 👏🏻😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:23 PM
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Thank you for your kind words, sis! My mom even jokes that I’ve been very independent ever since I was a tiny one, that she always wanted to try doing things for me and I wouldn’t let her because “I can do it myself”. For those who believe in astrology, I’m a Capricorn, so I can’t help it! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:20 PM
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In other words: “looking for a sugar baby but no $ to afford one, so just be nice will ya?” Edit: typo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 08:28 AM
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Correction: “Don’t move ANYWHERE for men. You’ll be disappointed!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 08:26 AM
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When the bar is so low it touched the gates of hell...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 08:23 AM
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I was reading an article recently that mentioned South Korea as one of the worst countries to live as a woman. I was surprised and had no idea about it! I wonder if those 2 things are connected somehow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 08:14 AM
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Ugh, I’m so used to doing everything myself ever since I’ve known me as a person that I have to do a 180 degree mindset change to get to that point. I’m too proud, that’s the issue. I’ll never everrr ask for help unless every other alternative has been exhausted. Yes, I know, not very feminine. I’m just not very feminine in general, and that may be a problem :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:13 AM
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Just Google everything so you don’t ever have to ask for their help LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 03:05 AM
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OMG, now you GOTTA share their reactions with us. Please!! Lol Edit: typo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 02:55 AM
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HAHAHA that has GOT to be the best joke I’ve read in a while! 🤣👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 02:39 AM
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She clearly didn’t read the Handbook. Sex on date 3, drink dates, walk date, messaged the guy, allowed him to not text for days. Not one or 2 mistakes or missed reg flags. Bad moves from beginning to end basically! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 02:38 AM
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You invited him back to your place on date 3? Did you even read the Handbook at all? That’s exactly what you are NOT supposed to be doing. Also the guy not messaging for days is a NO NO. The truth is, he used you because you allowed him to. Sorry! Read the Handbook! Edit: extra words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 02:35 AM
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For the ladies that haven’t done it yet: MARRIAGE IS OVERRATED! ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 11:00 PM
40

The worst part? Someone allowed them to use their daughter like that FOR MONEY!!! FOR FUCK’S SAKE!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 09:50 PM
5

WTF!! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 09:49 PM
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I’m still VERY resentful and bitter about it, but I believe only time will be able to heal that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 08:00 PM
2

Double post from yesterday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 07:59 PM
5

100% accurate. I feel permanently broken inside and not sure any amount of therapy can fix this shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 07:58 PM
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It’s been over a year and even when my ex isn’t seeing anyone he’d still keep his place clean and tidy, no dirty dishes in the sink, the bathroom clear of facial hairs, the bills paid on time and $ being saved. Pretty much everything I expected of him when we were still together but that he pretended he was incapable of doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 05:09 PM
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My ex husband DID change after we split and has been different for over a year, even when no other woman was involved. It just shows they DO change when they want to, but usually not before they lose someone who used to be that “ride or die” for them. It pisses me off to no end!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 05:04 PM
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THE AUDACITY!! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 08:37 AM
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Uh, EVERYTHING. From paying bills on time, to saving money, having a clean and tidy apartment, running errands, just being a fucking adult basically. Now that the man-child has been raised other women are benefiting from it, of course. Cause I’m a 🤡🤬.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 08:35 AM
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That was me, in pretty much all romantic relationships I’ve had in my life. Call me a 🤡.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 08:26 AM
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Oh, some DO change. But they take so long that by then you lost ALL respect and attraction you had for him. My ex-husband is a good example. And I get pissed every time I think about it, because I raised that man-child for other women, not me, to benefit from, and wasted nearly all my 20’s in the process (I’m 32 now). Pissed is an understatement actually... 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 08:11 AM
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He changed completely, became very hostile aggressive (not physically) and unpredictable. And he’s a very laidback type of guy, so I could tell that something was off. His frustration of not getting sex or attention from me anymore lead him down that rabbit hole. It’s scary what that RP community does to men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:28 PM
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I downloaded the pdf for that stupid book but haven’t read it yet. I was curious after finding it in my ex-husband’s computer a couple of years ago. Not to mention, the more we know the enemy, the better equipped we are to deal with them, amirite? Just don’t know if I actually have the stomach for that kind of shit, but will do it anyway. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 08:35 AM
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Brazilian here, can confirm! 🙋🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 06:18 AM
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I’m Brazilian and lived in Brazil for the first 22 years of my life. Brazilians tend to move fast, unless it’s someone more on the traditional/conservative side who is trying to be respectful. He was either raised right and has respect for you, or he isn’t that into you. I’d gladly take that “problem” out of your hands though, cause I’m tired of men who move too fast!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 06:15 AM
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My ex husband is a Gemini. My narcissist bf after him who did a number on me in a MUCH shorter period of time is a Virgo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:46 PM
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When it comes to a sexual predator, I wouldn’t bet on it. And you shouldn’t either!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:04 PM
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YES! This is sooo important and not to be messed with after dating a scum like that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 04:48 PM
3

WTF 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 04:43 PM
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I’ve recently ended a toxic codependent/narcissist relationship dynamic, and for the time being just not going back for the 3746838th time, remaining no contact and deleting my ex from social media has been my “leveling up”. Reading, listening to audiobooks frequently to occupy my free time, learning to enjoy time by myself, learning about things that I like, doing lots of self-reflection, figuring out my plans for the future and planning to try college once again next year are also a work in pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:53 AM
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YOU should be talking to others as well, as opposed to placing ALL of your expectations into a guy you haven’t even met yet. Girl, have you not met men in your life? Please, don’t be naive, and don’t have unrealistic expectations when it comes to men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:34 AM
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“Is it possible to find a diamond while dumpster diving?” Perhaps, but highly unlikely...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 04:58 AM
9

I’m proud of you for finally realizing your worth, Queen!! ❤️👏🏻👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 04:00 AM
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I second this book, it’s helped me tremendously after breaking up from a toxic and traumatic relationship!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 03:54 AM
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I was in a similar unhealthy relationship and then read a book about codependency that made me realize we were in a codependent/narcissist dysfunction. Breaking off is difficult, but going cold turkey and no contact is the only way to get away from that mess. You’ll most likely need a support system, kinda like a “sponsor” (or more than one) that helps an alcoholic or an addict stay on track. The first step is the most difficult, but decisive. You can do this, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 03:50 AM
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If you read the Handbook this wouldn’t even be a question. A rhetorical question at best, honestly...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 03:14 AM
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It’s their loss if they judge you based on tattoos before even getting to know you. You shouldn’t have to change who you are and how you dress to attract men. You should be your own true self and do what makes YOU happy. I have tattoos on both my arms as well, and if men don’t approach me because of that, it’s their fucking loss! I’m much more than just the drawings around my skin, and so are YOU!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 01:22 AM
9

Do you regret getting your tattoos because some people think tattoos are ugly?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 01:10 AM
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And who says tou you need to have anyone? You sound desperate. Are you desperate? Don’t know if anyone ever told you, but being single and learning to enjoy your own company IS an option!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 01:05 AM
1

This! 👆🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 10:07 AM
2

I’m truly not bothered, this was just a few minutes of entertainment before I head to bed. Have a great weekend!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 10:03 AM
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Oh, my ex wouldn’t “fuck a teen”. But also what my ex husband does is kinda none of my business. Maybe that girl is Scott’s sugar baby though, who knows? ;) I’m not losing my precious sleep on any of those people though, none of them are paying my bills! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 09:58 AM
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Sis, you ok? Why are you so offended with something that isn’t personal and doesn’t impact your life in ANY way...? Unless you are one of the women involved. Are you? I don’t care that much about Hollywood people to be searching for their court documents, I have more interesting things to do with my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 09:42 AM
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They were never married!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 09:37 AM
3

Uh, those 2 were never married to begin with. When he proposed Kourtney said no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 09:36 AM
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Sis, please TEACH ME HOW!!! 🙏🏻😭😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 05:33 AM
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Saving this post, cause this is a great reminder to have! 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 05:31 AM
2

Writing things down works a bit like therapy. So, all of us venting here is a reminder that not only we aren’t alone in this, but that the people we were before will NEVER be again. We are on the other side, healing and becoming better versions of ourselves. Many of us unfortunately had to reach the bottom to find the will to get out of that dark and lonely pit. But here we are! And cheers for better days ahead of us, Queen! 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 05:30 AM
2

OMG girl. Are you doing alright now? I hope so! Please take good care of yourself, YOU deserve it! 🌹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 11:20 PM
1

And I corrected my comment before your reply. Hope you aren’t “consuming the works of LVM”, ya know, practicing what you preach, right sis? ;) Have a wonderful weekend!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 08:14 PM
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Your words “consuming the works of a LVM/cheater”. No further comments... Edit: extra word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 08:10 PM
5

Are you also boycotting the works of Brad Pitt, Will Smith, Arnold Schwarzenegger and the like? Do you Google search every actor of every movie and serie you watch to make sure that you are not consuming the works of a cheater? Cause if not, then you have no right to point a finger at me, sis. But do it anyway if it makes you feel better about yourself. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 08:07 PM
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I went through a similar situation, but in my case things moved even more quickly. It IS 100% lovebombing and you should cut your losses and GTFO before you waste any more time on that LV manipulative scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 07:39 PM
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I don’t accept it, but I don’t cease to be a fan of their work just because they cheated on their partners though. Kevin Hart is also a cheater and still one of my favorites. They are garbage as men and have no morals, but talented as comedians.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 07:21 PM
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I mean, aren’t most famous men though? Him being a cheater doesn’t affect anyone else but whoever is his partner at the time. I still admire his work as a comedian regardless. Hollywood people live in another dimension, it seems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 07:09 PM
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Uh, it makes me so mad just thinking about it. I was such a big fan of his comedy. It was a slap in the face back then, and it still is, whenever a new guy that I used to admire is accused of being abusive. Why can’t men just BEHAVE? 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:30 PM
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It’s not your job to teach grown ass men ANYTHING. Hopefully you ghosted him and moved on right after his question! The guy who wants a walk will 100% expect you to go “halfsies” if you go out for dinner and waste a bit more of your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:26 PM
41

Louis CK?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:23 PM
6

Nah, you couldn’t PAY ME to do that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:15 PM
9

🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:06 PM
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Whyyy on Earth this dumb idiot got into gynecology of ALL fucking areas of medicine? Likely purposefully to shove her fucking “beliefs” down every other woman’s throat. This pisses me off SO MUCH!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:56 PM
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Yet, if a woman wants to perform esthetic surgery on her vagina at 21 years old NO ONE will bat an eye, cause in that case it benefits 100% males and their never ending desire for porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:54 PM
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Throw the WHOLE MAN AWAY!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:48 PM
38

I mean, no offense (JK I really DGAF) but what can you expect from someone who watches Maury? Negative value stay at home pickmeishas and the like 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 10:12 AM
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OMFG he LITERALLY confessed he was planning on raping you while you were drunk. Get you drunk enough so he could fuck you without your consent. What a piece of shit. I can’t even say all the feelings I’m feeling by reading this shit because I would sound like a heartless sociopath. FUCK MEN!!! 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 10:08 AM
8

You and I pretty much think the same way, due to being burned our from our failed marriages. However, I think the grieving and healing process after damaging relationships like that take a VERY long time, and because of that our vision and our thinking isn’t as clear as it gets. Right now I’m still bitter, resentful and feeling “stuck”, even a year after separating and dating other people (and failing again), but hopeful that I might be wrong and that some day a decent man is gonna bump into me …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 09:58 AM
6

You don’t want a FWB, you don’t want to be celibate, you don’t want a traditional relationship and don’t think you can find someone ideal for you. Not many options left here, aside from lowering your standards and going back to your old ways. Only person who can say what is a priority in your life is you, but really think about what is truly important to you before taking any next steps, aside from your upcoming divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 09:15 AM
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Uh, I’m sorry for all Cardi B fans around here, but if anyone compared me to her I’d feel offended TBH. She’s very talented at what she does, but has absolutely no class. And the way she dresses up shows that well (and this is coming from someone who doesn’t give AF about fashion, but even I have my limits). I wish I had her body though, but that’s pretty much it for me. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 09:08 AM
8

OMG, I absolutely LOOOVE that movie and cry like a baby every single time! ❤️😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:48 AM
7

Oh noo, ugly AND bad kisser? YUCK 🤢😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:46 AM
1

I agree! Once you spot the red flags there is nothing else to talk about. When they show us who they truly are, we should believe them. Words mean nothing if his actions don’t match them! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 01:45 AM
8

Oh yeah!!! 👏🏻😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:24 AM
4

I’m very happy for you! Some of us take longer than others to learn (that would be me) and change our toxic relationship patterns, but what matters in the end is that we eventually learn and change our ways and life for the better! I wish you all the joy and good life you deserve, Queen! ❤️👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:16 PM
3

OMG girl, I have no words! You are better now and won’t be doing any of that again, right? Especially not messing with any men with a criminal history, no matter how “great” they seem now. A tiger doesn’t change its stripes, it’s a fact. Here is to better days ahead for all of us! 🥂🌹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 06:58 PM
5

Now you know better and can do better in the future though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:59 PM
13

The age gap is the one that worries me the most though. Older men prey on young women for a reason! It’s not cause “love at first sight”. They obviously enjoy what they call “fresh meat”, but what truly benefits them is the lack of experience, being naive and more easily gullible than someone their own age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:34 PM
10

You are not alone sis, I feel like just my approach to relationships so far and EVERYTHING I’ve been doing in them is wrong. And I’m 32! 😐 But at least NOW we know better, so we can do better moving forward!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:26 PM
16

Don’t be so hard on yourself! You stayed with that scrote for a very long time. He abused you for nearly a decade. You can’t expect a quick recovery from such a traumatic experience. Take your time and be gentle and kind with yourself. Sending love and hugs your way, Queen! 🌹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 08:52 AM
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10 YEAR age gap Forced intimacy by suggesting he goes to your place to “meet your dogs” Offered to “play frisbee at a park” for the first date 31 years old working at a supermarket Wants to know your address (ABSOLUTELY NOT!) before you get to know each other properly Doesn’t drive We are STILL in the middle of a global pandemic! Edit: extra word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 08:42 AM
26

OMG sis, I’m SO sorry you went through all of that! I have no words ☹️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 08:36 AM
43

Any responsible adult with common sense should know this. It blows my mind that a reminder like this is necessary amongst adults, but unfortunately it IS. Been seeing some comments and posts about “dating attempts” in the middle of a pandemic that always leave me shaking my head in disappointment. 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:55 AM
13

Hey, at least you gained a new hobby out of it! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:01 AM
31

At 21 years old? OMG! :( I’m so sorry!!! ☹️ Edit: extra words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 06:18 AM
5

Thank you Queen, I wish the same to you! 🌹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 05:59 AM
20

It is embarrassing to me because if he had a car he wouldn’t have done the same for me. Also, because he had the AUDACITY to yell at me while I drove him to my place to “hang out” on Valentine’s day. I live in the city though, so the train station is literally 2 miles away from me. I’m not playing chauffeur for any man ever again, unless they prove they are amazing to me FIRST. Tired of going above and beyond and to be treated like shit in the process.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 05:55 AM
13

Sometimes food helps though. I become very forgetful of things and an idiot whenever people try to impress me with food! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 05:51 AM
19

Oh goodness, considered becoming a vegan for a guy? That IS a huge commitment, holy shit! Unless you were like a vegetarian already and that kind of leap wouldn’t be that big for you. We are on the other side now though, so all that shit is behind us and we are committing to treating ourselves, and make sure that others also treat ourselves better, because we DESERVE better, Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 05:50 AM
50

Because when I was 15 minutes late because I decided to take a shower before meeting him on Valentine’s day he YELLED at me while I was driving him to my place, like an idiot. The guy had money and was the cheapest MF I’ve ever met in my life. Should’ve let him walk or pay for an Uber. I’m will not go out of my way to be nice only to be treated like my kindness is now expected and never appreciated ever again. I offered to be kind, and then it became my RESPONSIBILITY. Grown ass men can walk, I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 05:39 AM
34

Same here sis. But now we got a reality check and KNOW BETTER. Cheers to never being a doormat pickmeisha ever again! 🍻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 05:23 AM
2

WAT? I’m surprised you haven’t gotten the pickmeisha flair here yet! LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:03 AM
3

The guy is a physician and takes you on multiple park dates? If you’ve read the Handbook you probably know everyone’s opinion about him around here by now! 🤷🏼‍♀️ Also, you fucked it up by sleeping with him so soon, on the same day you guys kissed. There is no way to turn around and take that back though, so you might as well cut your losses and take that as a lesson (hopefully) learned. Edit: extra words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:36 AM
20

This 👆🏻! He’s already shown he’s low effort. Basically he’s shown all you needed to know already! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:27 AM
6

THIS! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:26 AM
18

Oh, a CAR DATE. One of my favorites! /s The AUDACITY!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:25 AM
3

🤦🏼‍♀️😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:23 AM
6

They are adults with their own lives. You gotta let it go! That’s taking energy that could be used to improve your own life. Give advice when solicited, but don’t try to control any life that isn’t your own. They have to realize their own worth on their own, when they are ready to change their own stories. Being there for them when they need a friend is all you can do. I was just like you, perhaps even worse. Found out control issues is a trait of codependency (which turned out to be my case) re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:22 AM
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Ugh, I hate to be the one to say this, but it DOES work. Back when I was an insufferable pickmeisha I would take on that suggestion after meeting the guy for the first time for the cheapest and lowest level effort “date” ever. Ashamed to say this, but many idiots, like I was, who are desperate for attention fall for that crap! Edit: correction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:53 AM
7

Yeah, long distance with no end is sight is a HARD NO to me. Been there, done that, never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:47 AM
8

Are you desperate for sex? Can’t you be content with mastubating and using sex toys instead? Maybe you just have too much free time in your hands, try to find new hobbies and keep your mind out of the gutter. Hookups never benefit the woman!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:40 AM
6

He wants to show off and taking random “hot” females on a cool jet ski ride is a good way to do it. No way in hell I would allow that to happen if the guy was my bf though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:38 AM
19

I think you should be proud of yourself alone for not going to the date. It’s pretty intimidating when someone uses their hand or their bodies to keep pushing our boundaries, you have nothing to be ashamed of. Just make sure you either avoid that grocery store for a while or don’t go alone, go at different times perhaps?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:28 AM
3

Not necessarily though. My bet is that more people will just quit getting married altogether, so the stats won’t change much. Perhaps a rise in cohabitation without the commitment part?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:25 AM
15

Focus on YOU and improve your life. People rarely ever, IF ever, follow unsolicited advice. If your friends don’t see a problem with the way they are living, leave them be. We each have our own journey to follow. If they want your help or your advice, they will ask.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:22 AM
1

I started following if before they changed its name. This is the link: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5oWFUR8LQQptAryzTZO2Ca?si=vffkaGTrTMaXlvs-7XB7Pg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:20 AM
2

It got renamed to Pilates something. Hang on a sec!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:19 AM
9

Who needs enemies when you have friends like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:18 AM
3

Is this situation temporary? Are there talks of engagement and/or marriage? Cause if not, there is absolutely NO benefit to you, so not worth your time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:16 AM
1

Ha, I use both, but I don’t check on The Pattern everyday!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:13 AM
5

I’m 100% sure they are. No way in hell any of those 2 have what takes to raise a child, together OR alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:11 AM
23

Just look at their language. NV people attract each other. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I wish I had her body though (but no baby), that’s for sure! Edit: typo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 11:04 PM
1

Maybe post this on the weekly chat post instead? This would probably be considered a “topic that doesn’t deserve its own post”, as it doesn’t contribute anything to FDS or women as a whole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:16 PM
2

You are adorable! Thank you! 🌹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 08:01 PM
22

How do you have a personal life, a full time job, a child and also manage to date 3 men all at once? Do you even sleep? Please tell me how in the world that is even possible! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 08:01 PM
32

You and me both, sis! Dating 3 men at once is like a (unpaid) full time job. I’m pass... 🤚🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:57 PM
20

Exactly! This is one of the theories that sound great on paper but are, more often than not, nearly impossible to make happen in real life. Please share the location where HVM are falling out of the sky so that I can move there as well! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:56 PM
113

Says the incel who’s unable to catch anything but a cold. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:40 PM
6

🔥👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:35 PM
16

I came here to say just this. At least he isn’t lying to trick anyone to sleep with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:25 PM
5

Uh, of course they don’t!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:23 PM
50

I’m 32 and choosing to be childfree was the single best decision of my life! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:21 PM
42

Why the fuck with any woman agree to that shit though? I mean, c’mon, this isn’t a a time to be playing jokes. Pickmeishas clearly have no limits. Both are clowns and I feel bad for the kids that are gonna grown up watching those 2 thinking that it is normal behavior. What a fucking prick!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:20 PM
1

Thank you so much sis! And yes, we already went through the hardest part, now we just gotta keep moving forward. Cheers for better days ahead 🥂🌹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 05:17 PM
3

BDSM culture as a whole is trash!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 05:15 PM
2

Posting pics on Reddit to ask for free compliments = pickmeisha behavior 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 09:32 AM
1

And good luck to you being a less depressed pickmeisha tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 09:17 AM
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What a tremendous POS her husband is. What an ungrateful FUCK. The AUDACITY!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 09:15 AM
2

This sub here is for women looking to improve their lives, that’s the whole definition of “leveling up”. Lamenting, finding excuses on why other’s suggestions can’t work and doing nothing to improve your own situation is better suited for the Relationship Advice sub. Giving support doesn’t = to agreeing with everyone about everything all the time and encouraging LV behavior. If it doesn’t challenge and push you to change and grow, it’s not real support. The name for that is coddling. Also, do yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 09:05 AM
2

Aaah shit, there is no way this would’ve worked then. Too awkward! I think you kinda dodged a bullet, cause it’s very hard to get over your ex when you are forced to stare at him and interact with him 5 days a week for several hours. Even if you got the job before you guys broke up, can you imagine how tense the environment would have been, not only for the 2 of you, but for the whole team as well? I think not having peace is too high of a price to pay, sis. Think of it as a blessing in disguise…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 08:43 AM
1

Well, I guess just keep complaining and waiting for a solution to fall out of the sky then. It seems like you aren’t really looking for a solution, just want to lament your predicament. Is suffering better than putting effort into ending the suffering? That’s lazy LV behavior, sorry sis. You can do better than that (if you REALLY want something to change in your life).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 08:21 AM
2

Sis, if someone who went to school for YEARS to specialize specifically in something to help people are unable to help you, then no one else can. And honestly? You are setting yourself up for failure by giving up before you even try it. You are judging a whole group of professionals because ONE didn’t help you a long time ago. Not helpful! As an adult it is your responsibility to take charge of your life and mental health and do whatever it is in your power to get better, including (but not limi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:36 AM
2

Have you considered therapy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:25 AM
1

Next step, DO get a restraining order. Do NOT mess with violent and mentally unstable people without a plan. Change the locks in your house, get security cameras installed and make sure that asshole actually gets charged. He will 100% want revenge on you as soon as he is free again. Be prepared for it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:20 AM
1

What in the actual FUCK? Speechless 😧
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:08 AM
6

My suggestion would be to not date during a pandemic 🤷🏼‍♀️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:01 AM
9

My account was made just for FDS cause the harassment and DM’s and judgments whenever I posted something else completely unrelated into an unrelated sub were not worth the stress. Best decision ever!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:00 AM
4

Why can’t you just apply for the job without him having to recommend you? What’s stopping you? You are a grown woman, you should go after what you want and make your own decisions WITHOUT depending on anyone, let alone a MAN. No one took anything from you, clearly, so just go after the job that you want instead of lamenting what “could’ve been”. The choice is yours!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:57 AM
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You said it all sis! Personally what I’m looking for is someone AT LEAST on my level, and who has the mindset of keep working on self development side by side with me. A hard working, honest man, who doesn’t want to live the same exact day for the rest of his life. I don’t even care about height or anything like that. For all I care the guy can be just as short as me, and I’m 5’3, I truly DGAF. Just hoping for someone who will love and respect me, someone who will see me as an equal and not just…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:51 AM
7

I’m not sure that guy meant it as an insult, but I do 100% think that you just dodged a bullet on a very socially awkward LVM, so blocking him was the best thing you could do without a doubt!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:43 AM
5

I haven’t watched all seasons of 90 day fiance yet, but 9 out of 10 times the people in there are either LV or pickmes/pichmeishas. I love all the drama though! PS: also agree that LVM don’t deserve to have any kitties! 😺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:34 AM
1

If you guys are into Astrology type of stuff I found a super cool app that I’m absolutely LOVING called The Pattern. Anyone else here already uses it? If so, how do you like it? PS: You need to know your exact time of birth to get accurate predictions though. This is a thread for off topic comments, why the hell does my comment about astrology deserve downvotes? Some people need to get a life, seriously! Edit: extra words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:31 AM
6

Roughly 50% of marriages end in divorce, so place your bets! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:29 AM
14

It’s not your job to mother your brother or to force him into therapy or a psychiatrist to deal with his depression. You have your own journey, he has his as well. Trying to control people is also a trait of codependent people, so watch out so you don’t fall into that as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:24 AM
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Ugh, “something like using someone for sex without benefiting them in ANY way whatsoever, while demanding free emotional and physical labor from them whenever I feel like it”. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 05:32 AM
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So, a person doesn’t have the right to know what is going on under the own roof? It would be one thing if he 100% knew he was about to record his wife having sex with the ex, but it was a suspicion so he would easily use that excuse and probably not get charged. Also, we don’t know if that is specifically against the law in every single state. Or, do we 100% know that to be a fact?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:51 AM
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Sorry, if I was that guy I would’ve done the exact same thing. His wife fucked up! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:30 AM
20

Exactly! I wish I could take the whole past year of my life back, unfortunately I cannot. But I CAN pick up my crown from the floor, dust it off and put it back where it belongs. And here is to leaving our pickmeisha days behind, sis! 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 03:33 AM
15

He just got done “fucking” someone...? SUUUURE! /s 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 02:57 AM
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I came here just to upvote this post because I was a horn dog before FDS for a whole year, sleeping with a bunch of NV randos, then getting into a “relationship” with a LV narcissist. Now that my eyes are opened to the real intentions of 98% of men I feel no need to have (mostly bad) sex anymore. I realized I was “horny” for attention and validation, not for actual dicks. I guess better realizing that sooner rather than later, oh well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 02:54 AM
10

Why lie to Tinder dates when there is ACTUALLY a couch surfing website and app LITERALLY with that name and LITERALLY for that exact purpose? Is that scrote dense or just an idiot...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 02:47 AM
15

Deep down you already know the answer sis! ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 02:43 AM
45

Uh, GOOD FOR US! Let the LV people have each other, so they will leave US here alone lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 12:32 AM
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SUUURE, being second best is every other girls’ dream, buddy! /s The audacity!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 12:03 AM
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They 100% are! And unsuspecting female victims are making that possible for them. So men don’t really have to fear getting in trouble for their crimes, as long as they find a fool to “consent” to them. I just came to this whole realization today and my mind is blown! 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 12:01 AM
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🙋🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 10:24 PM
5

Sex isn’t one of my priorities in a relationship TBH, but in my experience it all comes down to how much effort one is willing to put forward to make their partners happy. Good sex: effort, bad sex: no/bare minimum effort, at least from my own experience. Problem is, most men aren’t willing to do anything but the bare minimum, as we all know. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 10:08 PM
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Exactly!! Those women need help with their mental health, intensive counseling. Society is trying to normalize that kind of shit more and more though, so the ones that are against “consensual crimes” are being labeled ignorant and uptight. What is gonna happen to society once sociopathic behavior becomes the new norm? I don’t want to be alive to see that with my own eyes. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 08:29 PM
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Uh, that’s the WHOLE POINT of BDSM. I’ll never understand women who enjoy that shit. It enables sociopaths to get off on torturing, humiliating and causing pain to someone else WITH THEIR CONSENT. In other words, it enables them to commit crimes without getting in trouble for it. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 07:36 PM
4

Warning to the ex-bf? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:43 PM
3

Are you serious?? Are you new here? Have you read the Handbook...? This has to be a joke...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 08:55 AM
7

Nah sis. That was 2019 and 1st semester of 2020 me. That person is now dead! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 08:50 AM
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He wanted a freak in the bed, he pressured her to do it, he got what he wanted and now he has the AUDACITY to resent her for it...? That poor girl needs an intervention ASAP!! PS: Anyone noticed the (predictable) age gap between the 2 of them...? 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 07:08 AM
2

You wait until date 2? I tell them before I even meet them in person about my deal breakers so I don’t waste my precious time with a breeder/breeder wannabe lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:47 AM
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You said it ALL, sis! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:34 AM
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Love this!! ❤️😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:34 AM
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I’ve replied to a similar post just a few days ago. If you put “childfree” in the search box you’ll find multiple posts about this topic here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 03:34 AM
2

I agree! After learning about FDS I realized I was doing 100% EVERYTHING wrong. So I have to basically do a 180 degrees in my approach to dating, and that certainly will take a lot or effort and energy to accomplish. It’s practically learning to date from 0 again, at 32 years old. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 02:47 AM
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There are plenty of posts about this around, just put “sex” on the search box. According to what the more experienced Queens here say, you avoid sex by not having that person over, going over to their place or staying alone with them anywhere that could potentially lead to sex. You keep your dates strictly in public, until you are officially asked to be their gf. You also don’t talk about it or let men know about your rule, so they don’t request commitment early just to trick you into having sex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 11:33 PM
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I’ve never thought about it from that perspective. Very helpful! I appreciate your input! 🌹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 10:07 PM
1

Love your response, thank you! 👏🏻❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 10:06 PM
5

This isn’t an “I told you so”. She is way too young, my comment was a warning for other women who are reading this, and not for OP. OP is young and was 100% manipulated by someone 10 years OLDER than her. The human brain isn’t even fully developed until we reach 25, and she clearly has been with the guy for at least 3 years, considering the age of their daughter, putting her at 19 and him at 29 (my rough estimate) when they started dating. She is a victim, he is an abuser. There is nothing else …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 08:45 PM
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Do you have family? Friends? You do what you have to do to keep you and your daughter SAFE. And this is the #1 reason why it is advised that women don’t engage in relationships with big age gaps. Much older guys are usually looking for vulnerable, inexperienced and easy prey. I wish I could be more helpful, but you need to find a way to move quickly before he realizes your plan to leave him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 07:57 PM
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Thank you so much for sharing this! I’m gonna look her up and subscribe to her videos immediately! I truly appreciate it! 🙏🏻🌹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 05:54 PM
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Your first 3 sentences described me to a T! Thanks for sharing your perspective. I’m learning so much from FDS that I’m seriously looking forward to a future without all the BS I’ve been used to my whole life. You Queens are incredible and inspiring! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 05:48 PM
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Ew, what a MESS! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 09:02 AM
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Aww, they were about to interview you to become their next fuck doll? What a PRIVILEGE /s. The audacity... 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 08:39 AM
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Uh, this is like the complete opposite of what I’m used to. I’m 32 and have been used to leading my relationships this whole time. Right now I’m taking time for myself and intend to continue doing that and take a break from dating at least until next year, hopefully for more than that. But just the thought of having to go against my own nature to make things work in my favor makes my stomach turn. My question from the Queens who have been used to being on the driver’s seat, and then suddenly sta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 08:36 AM
7

A year in grown up world is nothing. You barely even know a person well in only a year. Even less if you are in your early 20’s, when your brain isn’t even developed yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 08:28 AM
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Read the handbook. Also, love doesn’t put food on the table, doesn’t pay for amazing vacations or pays the bills in the long run. 🤷🏼‍♀️ After getting married I realized that love was not even on the top 3 most important things to make a marriage work. There are so many more important things that love alone is basically only the roof in a house, where the other aspects are the building blocks and the foundation to make the marriage work. A house without a roof is still a house, albeit an incomple…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 08:27 AM
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Hope they are putting YOUR pleasure first, at least. I’ve had mostly low effort sex in my 32 years of life, so I have yet to see the benefit to “using a man”. My dildo and fingers do the job just fine and don’t expect my legs to be shaven smooth on a daily basis. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 03:13 AM
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You and me both, sis! And would’ve avoided a divorce as well! 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 03:05 AM
5

Always good to have a scrote remind us to never ever let our guard down because we are CLEARLY never safe anywhere, thanks to THEM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 02:29 AM
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WTF, the guy REALLY had the balls to basically ghost for a WHOLE FUCKING YEAR only to reach out now in the middle of a pandemic for the most low effort “date” possible? Oh, for fuck’s sake!!! THE AUDACITY 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 12:50 AM
3

Same rules apply, regardless. Whenever a relationship ends there is a grieving process we all go through. Starting anything else before you are done with your grieving and self reflection process is a terrible idea. The intention of seeking or not a relationship doesn’t matter, the outcome of a “rebound” is the whole point of not bouncing from one relationship to another before you are mentally AND emotionally ready for it. In other words, our judgement is CLOUDED when we are still hurting/griev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 12:30 AM
15

Making yourself available immediately...? I suggest you read the Handbook, or re-read it if you have to do it again. Bouncing from one relationship to another is a NO for a multitude of reasons!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 09:47 PM
18

I agree with that comment! I believe if 2 people really have the same intentions and know how to separate things like mature adults, those kinds of friendships are possible. I hope I’m not wrong though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 09:41 PM
19

OMG, your comment brought literal tears to my eyes. Thank you for the kind and encouraging words, sis. I really needed that today! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:47 PM
51

I agree to mostly everything, aside from the “asking my dad’s permission to speak to me”. I’m not anyone’s property to require permission to be spoken to. Aside from that, spot on in most of the observations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:41 PM
49

I tried finding that website on Google and get a “not found” error. Does anyone know if maybe this website was taken down?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:36 PM
6

I believe in equality of rights and treatment within a society. Now what each person do with their personal life when we are all on the same level is up to each and every single individual. We can’t just pretend we are on the same level and start acting like it, I believe we have to know our limitations within society instead of acting like they don’t exist and live a life based off of the potential society has for improvement towards equal rights, as opposed to what reality is like. I’m not sur…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:30 PM
61

Speaking from self-experience, this is 100% accurate. Put my own self on the back burner for a marriage that ended, and now 32 years old left without a career, a degree or any kind of improvement in my life, when my ex has benefitted from our marriage immensely and turned his life 180 degrees (thanks to me). I allowed that to happen and hate myself for it. Now it will take me YEARS to fix this shit and thanks to FDS I’m not letting ANYONE get in the way of me bettering myself from now on. Puttin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:26 PM
28

It almost feels like those unpopular kids from school have grown up and are desperately trying to be cool, now that they are finally adults. So they use the word “kink” to show how much of a “cool kid” they are right now! 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:22 PM
88

I’ll never understand kink stuff and people. In my mind, anyone who feels pleasure inflicting pain into another living being, human or not, is a fucking psychopath! And somehow society is trying to normalize that shit nowadays? FUCK THAT! 🤢 Edit: a word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:11 PM
18

Uh, apparently she was in his life before you, and clearly your guy is a serial dater who can’t ever be alone. You are making this about you when NONE of it is. Him being a LVM who lies to your face or her, being a pickmeisha who takes your left over back without batting an eye. Just think about it! And why do you have to keep this girl into your life anyway? Let those 2 LV losers enjoy each other and focus on YOU and bettering your life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:01 PM
2

You said it all. THANK YOU sis! 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:07 AM
9

Me neither! That woman was just way too sweet and patient coddling him. I wouldn’t have wasted my precious time trying to reason with that useless incel scrote AT ALL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:04 AM
3

Maybe my life traumas are turning me into a heartless sociopath, but would it REALLY be a loss if such an useless trash decided to take itself out like he casually mentions he “should” do...? I doubt it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:02 AM
39

Look at that scrote’s face. OF COURSE he knocked up a bunch of different women. If I were to guess I’d say AT LEAST 3 different baby mamas. YUCK! 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:53 AM
65

Even if he was still my last option on this planet, I’d still say HELL NO! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:09 AM
1

Clearly NOT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:01 AM
3

Read the Handbook You don’t know anyone’s value until you meet them in person In-person dating in the middle of a pandemic, REALLY?? READ THE HANDBOOK!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 04:58 AM
12

I agree!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:16 AM
17

I also thought the tree was supposed to be the mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:14 AM
5

That book is the perfect description of a codependent one-sided relationship. I read it while I was already an adult and I didn’t really think they were trying to portrait giving your everything until you have nothing left a something good, but it’s been a while so not sure I remember the story well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:12 AM
11

Opals are indeed beautiful, and that was such a sweet and kind gesture of him. I’m happy that you are happy and being treated properly, queen! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 12:39 AM
1

Did I say that? You seem to have not read my previous comment or clearly didn’t understand what I said. Read it again until you understand: As an adult, it is absolutely their fucking responsibility to make sure they aren’t sleeping with a minor, not the other way around! This isn’t a men’s rights sub, you either haven’t read the Handbook or don’t understand what FDS is about. I advise you to go back to reading the Handbook in case you are still confused though. Edit: extra word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 10:50 PM
2

That’s not a good excuse to defend pedos though. As an adult, it is absolutely their fucking responsibility to make sure they aren’t sleeping with a minor, not the other way around!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 10:42 PM
0

Are you as dumb and immature as you were when you were 15 though? Cause I sure as hell look much younger than my age, but most certainly not as dumb and as immature as I was when I was 15. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Edit: typo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 10:21 PM
4

This is a double post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 10:14 PM
25

Beautiful!! 🌹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 10:14 PM
4

You need to make peace with yourself, whether finding a childfree partner happens or not. Your happiness and peace of mind should always come 1st, 2nd and 3rd. Everything else comes after that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 10:12 PM
6

Why would you date someone who you know you aren’t compatible with? (unless you aren’t looking for anything serious, of course!) It’s not fair to you OR to him. One of you would be resentful of the other person forever. Either you becoming a mom to please and keep the guy, or him compromising on that for you and resenting you for it later down the road. If there is a perfect recipe for a disaster, that is it! Date someone who want the same things you want, be true to yourself and considerate of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:59 PM
9

This! 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:56 PM
10

I was married to someone who is also childfree, unfortunately that didn’t work out for more reasons than I can count. Back when I was still a pickmeisha I worried that if it didn’t work between the 2 of us I’d be fucked because no one else would want to be with a childfree woman. Now I’m single by choice and ok if I never marry again. I will NOT settle for a guy who wants and/or have children, I will not back away from something that is a deal breaker to me just to not be alone. As we get older …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:54 PM
26

To the male lurker who came here to reply to my comment here just now... Fuck you! 🖕🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:47 PM
15

I wish I’d known that when I was 23. Unfortunately learning this 9 years too late. Hope other queens don’t make the same mistake I did!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:45 PM
3

Most definitely! There is no way anyone would like Big Ed for his looks OR personality, I think we can all agree on that lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 08:26 PM
3

After my ex-husband and then the NV bf I got after that I deleted my dating apps for good. Fuck that shit! My sanity and peace of mind are not for sale anymore. I guess I either meet someone worth my time in the wild or I’ll just have to be single forever. No more dating apps for me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 06:34 PM
1

Holy SHIT! 🤦🏼‍♀️🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 06:24 PM
3

Oh, I know that! Sis, I’m 32 and if I could go back to my first kiss and how my life went downhill after that, I would and would slap the shit out of my face and tell myself to NOT do 90% of it. Boys first, and then men, and most of my precious life has been wasted with scrotes. I’m so bitter, angry and regretful of all of it I don’t know if I’m ever gonna be able to have a healthy romantic relationship with a man ever again! 😩 Edit: extra words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 06:22 PM
2

Scrotes are gonna scrote! 🤷🏼‍♀️ Can’t believe they would only transfer that pig instead of getting rid of him altogether. Unbelievable!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 06:11 PM
-6

Well, if you didn’t have a job to lose it’s a different story then, you are an adult and are allowed to have fun. He was the only one with something to hide and lose and took advantage of the situation, as it often happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 05:56 PM
3

Amazing! 🔥👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 05:50 PM
61

They are less than 2 years in and he’s already pulling that crap? My advice would be RUN as fast and as far away from that pile of human trash!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 05:42 PM
42

It doesn’t take a college degree to learn how to clean and tidy up one’s own place. Also, that scrote is over 30 and hasn’t learned that shit YET??? 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 05:39 PM
29

Even worse if he knows where you live. That’s so scary!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 05:35 PM
-6

Why would you date your much older boss and risked your job in the process? It kinda takes 2 to tango.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 05:31 PM
38

Like another queen here once said “when they have nothing else, they will have the audacity”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 04:40 AM
6

You are feeling stupid because you are unnecessarily counting on your self control instead of doing the fool proof block and delete method. If you had blocked and deleted you wouldn’t be feeling stupid right now! 🤷🏼‍♀️ Would you leave chocolate, ice cream and other treats laying around the house if you decided to go on a diet? Same principles apply in your situation. Edit: extra words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 04:34 AM
91

“Move over to snap”: cheat on my wife without leaving a trace behind and/or immediately expect nudes from you without even meeting you in person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 04:31 AM
11

Aaah, can’t wait to get my hands on that book! 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 02:54 AM
2

Scrotes are unable to understand the simple concept of personal space, as expected...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 02:30 AM
29

Yes, her situation is shitty and very unfortunate. I hope she was able to make enough money, or at least gotten enough fans from 90 Day Fiance to be able to make some income as an influencer of some sort, so that she can better her life and help her family. That would’ve been the one single positive thing that Big Ed has made possible for her, that she wouldn’t have if she hadn’t gotten with him. She’s beautiful and deserves infinity times better than that scrote in her life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:56 AM
10

Who are we talking about? 🧐 /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 12:47 AM
6

Sis, u a QUEEN! 🌹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 12:43 AM
33

Absolutely LOVE this! 🔥❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 12:24 AM
-29

I’m not saying she doesn’t have potential, what I’m saying is that according to FDS’ definition of HV, Rose is not HV based on what was shown to us on TV. Of course she may fit someone else’s definition, but if any of us here associated with someone as trashy as Big Ed is we would immediately put ourselves into the NV category. There is much more to HV than just knowing what your preferences are, and Rose doesn’t fit FDS’ description of that, sorry! 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 12:12 AM
94

I beg to differ. Only reason why Rose isn’t married to Big Ed is because he said he didn’t want any more children. She’d be his wife right now if it wasn’t for that. How can anyone who submits themselves to someone like Big Ed can be considered high value? Sorry, I just can’t wrap my mind around that. My definition of high value is much different than yours, it seems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 11:16 PM
180

I mean, she walked away but she first went for someone with absolutely NOTHING to offer her other than a green card. Just seeing “big Ed”’s pictures make me want to throw up. He’s not only disgusting looking, but rotten on the inside as well! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 10:52 PM
62

Uh, isn’t that just how men are though? Very few have empathy because they truly put themselves into women’s shoes. Most just feel “empathy” because they think about their sister, mom, daughter, etc. Their feelings of “empathy” always have to be connected to someone who is a part of their lives, which now they make it about THEM. Ultimately it’s all connected to their egos, as opposed to just freely feeling empathy for another human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 10:50 PM
11

Holy shit! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:16 PM
4

Haha thank you! And I do believe you are right, in their minds “long term” relationship means fucking the same FWB for a very long time with no strings attached, like everrr. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:15 PM
2

I thought it was a mix of blue pill and red pill users trying to fight each other on the daily, cause that’s is what it looks like. User even get red pill flairs all the time, so it’s just one group fighting off the other and trying to get validation from their own “team”. No point in having debates with people with their minds fixed (and unwilling to challenge that) into a specific belief though, so I don’t even follow that shit anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 07:50 PM
14

I thought it was mostly red pill scrotes posting to get validation from each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 07:46 PM
22

WHAT, most are looking for a long term relationship??? Where are the statistics from? My personal experience has been the complete opposite of that, reason why I delete all dating apps and don’t want shit to do with them anymore. Or maybe I’m just the unluckiest girl ever, who knows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 07:44 PM
17

It’s probably cultural? I can’t speak what I don’t know, but sometimes it has to do with the way those females are being raised at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 07:39 PM
17

I wish they all enjoyed their “fleshlights” and left us the fuck alone then. Why don’t they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:40 PM
10

I saw that post pop up on my timeline yesterday and I rolled my eyes SO HARD when I read the whole thing. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:34 PM
8

Aww, I’m so sorry you had to go through that. I hope you are taking time to work on yourself and give yourself the love you deserve. Sending some love and hugs your way, sis! 🌹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 07:25 AM
19

EXACTLY! They don’t even see us as humans to begin with 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:38 AM
46

Incel: INVOLUNTARY celibate. Honestly, how in the world can ANY women be an incel when dick practically falls from the sky for females? The audacity!!! Edit: typo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:35 AM
64

I’m 32 and childfree by choice as well, sis! high five 🤚🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:32 AM
59

For me years of working as an au pair/nanny/babysitter and just seeing children anywhere live is birth control enough! Childfree and traumatized for life, for sure! 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:30 AM
70

He’s “perfect” as long as she is the obedient little monkey he expects her to be. Pickmeishas gotta pickme though, so there isn’t anything we can do about it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:08 AM
137

She’s an object, a trophy for him to show off whenever they are out. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:04 AM
15

Yes, that was very rude of him and you have the right to be pissed because he could’ve just sent you a text to let you know he wasn’t gonna make it on time, but he chose not to, and also lied about being vague about the time to meet, when you had proof in the previous texts he sent you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:15 AM
4

OMG, whoever made this is a genius! 👏🏻😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:11 AM
33

As if the fact that he’s nearly 30yo dating a college aged girl wasn’t enough proof he was a predator. Good riddance to that girl, regardless!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:07 AM
127

She’s 🔥❤️👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 02:56 AM
24

There are only 2 groups of women who “like old men”: Sugar babies Women with daddy issues Somehow delusional scrotes think (my ex included) think they are just like wine, the older the better. They WISH though! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 12:56 AM
9

1: Fuck Goya beans! 2: WTF... now we’re being compared with canned beans? FFS!!! 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 12:07 AM
24

Are we supposed to be taking stray men from the streets now? If I’m gonna be taking strays anything home it would be a cat and/or a dog. At least they would be forever grateful and fill my days with happiness and love! Men, on the other hand... 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 07:40 PM
13

Yuck 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:37 PM
17

There are plenty of women desperate to marry an American to come here and live the American dream. None of them is my problem at all! Just watching 90 day Fiancé proves that men ALSO do that, will lie, scam and cheat, do whatever is necessary to trick dumb women twice their age to believe they are marrying them for “love”. There are dishonest and desperate people all over the world. It’s how humans are. Again, none of them are my problem though 🤷🏼‍♀️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:30 PM
7

OMG, that’s even worse because he 100% knows it then! Damn 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:21 PM
8

THIS! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:47 PM
5

Thankfully I learned from a comment here this week to disable chat and direct messages on Reddit, so I won’t be getting any more of those in the future. You should do the same, since those fuckers can’t just leave us alone on their own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:46 PM
3

I’m 100% not looking for perfection. I am, for the first time in my life, looking for someone who will meet me halfway, at the least. Tired of the 90/10 and 80/20 relationship dynamics I’ve had before. It’s either a 50/50 from now on or I’d rather be on my own. I’ve wasted enough of my life accepting bread crumbs while I’m not a freaking bird to be happy with only that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:42 PM
3

THIS! 👆🏻 I’ve been struggling with anxiety and depression for most of my adult life and realized I’ve been distracting myself with others to avoid dealing with the pain and facing my own self. The first step towards recovery is awareness of the problem though, so I believe we are now finally in the right path sis! 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:37 PM
3

You just described my life. In this “journey” I’ve come to realize I’m codependent, and looking back I still get bitter (it’s a slow process) thinking about how much of my life was wasted on pleasing others. I’m 32 and don’t have a career, never finished college, don’t even know who the F I freaking AM, because I’ve been too busy giving all my precious time to partners and other people in my life. I’m so thankful for some of the self help books I read this year and for finding FDS. For the first…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:32 PM
15

Aaah, I was thinking about Benadryl Cucumberpatch earlier HAHAHA 🤣👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 08:23 AM
42

If I could go back in time to my 20’s I’d be focusing on finding and building a career, working on school and self improvement in general, as opposed to wasting my time with losers. Aaah, how I wish I could go back 10 years and re-do my life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 08:15 AM
11

OMG, love it! 😂👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 08:11 AM
11

If you don’t feel comfortable going out for dinner or going on a hike with a random guy maybe, just maaaybe that’s a sign you shouldn’t be going on dates right now? (for obvious reasons) What’s the rush?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:59 AM
26

I’ve never seen people calling him those funny different names until today. Having a blast here, ofc! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:57 AM
40

He wants to make sure only he has access to your body (preferably raw sex, of course 🤢), while he fucks around with other women on the side, cause little boys don’t like to share.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:45 AM
2

Wants “a ting”. That’s what human females are now huh, “tings”? FFS 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:43 AM
65

We don’t know if that’s 100% the case with him though. Regardless, if he can be a good example for other men to follow, that’s better than most men are doing. Maybe he’s acting out of guilt for being shitty in the past, who knows? We’ll never really know...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:37 AM
8

HAHA 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:35 AM
23

Uh, how are they better than you by getting wasted and naked at parties and sleeping with a bunch of randos? Read this out loud to yourself to understand how silly that whole thing sounds! You are still attaching your self-worth to the attention scrotes give to the LV Stacies. Is that really in alignment with what you want for yourself and your life?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 03:37 AM
12

Well, the trash took itself out on its own then. Good riddance to your friend! 🤣👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 03:33 AM
1

Audio books, ebooks and podcasts about self improvement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 03:24 AM
21

After my last boyfriend and my failed marriage (met both via OLD) I threw in the towel as well, sis. Dumpster diving ain’t for us Queens after all! 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 03:15 AM
6

I about died laughing here! LOL 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 03:13 AM
7

If I’m someone’s gf I’m only dating that person though. What would you do that you do as a single person when you are exclusively dating someone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 03:12 AM
66

LEARN TO FEED YOURSELF BRO, I AIN’T YO MAMA!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 03:08 AM
14

Maybe it was just a joke between brothers? I don’t know! For a second I thought the little kid was wearing a MAGA hat and I was ready to come here saying it was the reddest (bad pun intended) of flags though 🤣 Edit: extra words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 03:07 AM
7

YES!!! 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 03:04 AM
12

What a sack of shit. You need to block his email and any other access he still has to you. Otherwise he’s gonna keep thinking he still has an effect on you, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 03:04 AM
54

Pickmeishas will think he’s jUsT jOkInG though...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 03:02 AM
43

OMG, I yelled while laughing here. Your comment just made my day! 😂🤣👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 01:34 AM
6

🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 01:29 AM
12

Yuck! Did she take that trash out once and for all?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 01:28 AM
21

Oh yeaah sis. More women than you’ll ever know!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 01:27 AM
27

Oh man, me too! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:30 AM
17

Thank you sis! And why would you not be “chaseable”? You are a QUEEN, adjust your crown and don’t you ever forget who you are! 🌹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:28 AM
6

Yaaas, love to see I’m not alone and we’re all on our way to a MUCH better life, now without those losers! ❤️👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:26 AM
3

100% sis! 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 11:25 PM
63

WTF, you were together for 5 months and he STILL didn’t have any feelings for you? What a player and a loserrr! 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 11:10 PM
110

Hey, my situation was worse than yours. I was a mess after separating from my ex-husband, a master pickmeisha, and at 31 years old fell for love bombing and a guy who asked me to be his gf on the FIRST DATE (Yes, let’s all collectively face palm in shame right now) 🤦🏼‍♀️. But now I found the light (FDS) and now I know better. Now single, deleted all dating apps and not interested in dating AT ALL for a good while. My life is a mess, I have a lot of things to take care of and have no time to wast…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 11:03 PM
81

1 - You should start by reading the Handbook before anything else. You are in no condition to be dating, to begin with. You need to stay single and work on taking care of yourself FIRST. We attract what we reflect, so if you are a mess you are going to attract people on the same level, or narcissists who prey on vulnerable people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 10:48 PM
22

Aaah yes, most definitely agree with you! 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 10:13 PM
27

In what way? I I wouldn’t be still dating around if I had a boyfriend though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 10:05 PM
80

They just HAVE to make everything about sex, don’t they? 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 10:02 PM
2

My love language is “acts of service”. Good fucking luck to anyone who manages to speak that language with their fat smelly ass sitting behind a computer. 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 09:52 PM
15

You dodged a bullet, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:56 PM
87

I think she has a beautiful face, regardless of makeup or not. She ruined her body getting some fake ass job done, but her face is just beautiful. I don’t care about what she wears though, not my style. What I mean is, she is beautiful on the outside, but her inside unfortunately not so much. Edit: typo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 05:38 PM
2

Found it on IG from a page called powerofpositivity. Do I have to delete this post now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 04:56 PM
9

OMG, my heart sank and I nearly threw up myself while reading that! 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 04:47 PM
98

Such a beautiful and talented woman but so effing DUMB.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 04:45 PM
6

Yeah, read the Handbook!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 04:43 PM
0

Ok lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 04:42 PM
8

The girl from the “conservative woman” post from yesterday would love this! And I believe other blind pickmeishas around Reddit as well. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 04:41 PM
7

🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 06:50 AM
1

Rule #1: READ.THE.HANDBOOK!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 06:47 AM
2

Sorry, but if anyone had hinted they had Covid-19 last minute I would sure as hell NOT “meet them tomorrow”. This time I side with the guy and he has every right to be pissed. Canceling last minute and expecting him to drop everything to meet you tomorrow AGAIN just sounds very flakey to me. Hope you get better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 05:35 AM
15

Same for me, aside from the great guy who wanted kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 05:25 AM
17

I’d rather not find out myself, so childfree by choice here. If I ever feel the need to raise another human I’d just adopt, since the world has plenty of people as it is already. 🤷🏼‍♀️ PS: There is a page on Facebook about that called “I regret having children” or something. Plenty of people regret it, it seems like mostly are women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 05:19 AM
10

You and me both, sis! 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 05:14 AM
2

Very true! Unfortunately it’s not only the Catholic church though. My people elected a bunch of fundamentalist “Christians” and they are all but the same trash. From what I’ve seen just religion in general likes to keep women down and depending on men permanently. There are countries in even worse situations throughout the world. But yeah, politicians want to do everything in their power to keep women powerless, serving them, using them and breeding for them like rabbits. 🤢 And you are very righ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 04:37 AM
31

Yuck! The loser just won’t stop embarrassing that poor woman. Hope she never forgives his ass for that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 03:21 AM
1

Sad, but true! Hard to life a woman up who clearly would rather stay in the dumpster she’s currently at.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 03:19 AM
18

I looked him up on Facebook and OF COURSE now he’s saying he was oNlY jOkInG. And the sad part? That beautiful woman is ganging up on people that went to his page to bash him and defend HER, with that nasty ass POS. She’s so gorgeous, but clearly not so bright. I guess they are perfect for each other, both trashy AF. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 02:27 AM
8

That’s what I thought as well. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 02:06 AM
23

I thought part of FDS’s principles was to learn to be self-sufficient so you don’t depend on men for ANYTHING. In other words, work hard and get your own benefits. That’s a terrible reason to consider someone as a potential partner, especially if you are then gonna become mainly dependent on that man for everything, since you gotta move at the drop of a hat whenever the military requires it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 01:46 AM
23

Just being military or in other careers that attract sociopaths and controlling people are already red flag enough for me, plus no control while drinking? Sorry, but hard pass! Also, being a military wife will mean your career stays in the backseat because his will take priority. You move when he needs to move and drop everything cause the military “needs” come first. Nope!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 01:41 AM
92

She’s way too pretty for his ugly ass, THAT’S the truth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 01:24 AM
6

Very very true!! 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 01:23 AM
3

When I still lived that I had to go to my own doctor and pay out of pocket for birth control. The most they actually do is give out free condoms at the public health care centers. But how many men do you personally know who take responsibility for their actions and don’t make shitty excuses to not have to wear condoms? That’s why countries like Brazil will never everrr be developed. Mainly the poor, uneducated and ignorant are the ones repopulating the country (add the fact that voting is mandat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 12:32 AM
7

I’ve been in the US for the past 10 years, but as far as I know there isn’t any. Or at least that wasn’t a common thing while I still lived there. I left when I was 22 and had never heard of such thing back then. And abortion is illegal unless the woman was raped, and even then only in the first 3 months of pregnancy and I believe it needs to be approved by a judge. And the judicial system is so slow I doubt that many women actually have access to that in the first place!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 11:41 PM
29

I believe so! I’m childfree by choice and one of the main reasons for it is that I see having children as another way society and men use to control women. If that is a woman’s choice, great. If not, now you are unable to work on your career, progress financially and work on yourself because someone else is your priority, now your needs stay in the background; and someone else has made that life decision for you when reproductive rights are not a thing. I was born and raised in Brazil and I see …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 11:16 PM
1

The video that is showing up for us is the video presenting “big Ed”, showing him as a photographer, etc. There is no Rose in this video. Did you mean a different video of them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 10:01 PM
8

If his height was the worst of his issues... 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 09:58 PM
29

And I’m so glad I have a brother who is a great human being and the person I trust the most in my life. I don’t know what I would do if my family was the scum of the Earth like OP’s family. Unbelievable! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 09:56 PM
7

Oh god, dying to post that on my stories for my ex to see it! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 09:33 PM
101

Uh, dick IS a worthless commodity though! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 09:25 PM
36

insert smallest violin meme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 09:22 PM
7

Yuck 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 09:02 PM
6

Dating 3 months after a traumatic breakup? Terrible idea! You are in no psychological or emotional condition to be dating anyone right now. Grieving takes time and you shouldn’t start anything with anyone while you are still grieving from the previous relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 06:32 PM
14

You went out with someone you felt no initial attraction more than once? Just nooo. Let him go!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 06:28 PM
6

Eeeew 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:08 PM
1

Thank you, and same to you sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:01 PM
1

Thank you for your reply! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:00 PM
6

Most pop songs are pickmeisha songs if you start to pay attention. Avril songs remind me of a good part of my life, regardless of what some of the lyrics say. And the good memories are all I care about. Life is already hard enough as it is, don’t want to complicate it even more. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:53 PM
6

The Handbook has an absolutely HUGE list of books recommended by FDS. Go check it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 07:01 AM
1

THIS 👆🏻❤️👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 06:57 AM
1

Girl, you don’t need plastic surgery to impress anyone, seriously!! There are things you can do to improve your appearance that don’t involve such drastic changes. Like get braces, if you think your teeth needs improvement, find someone who will shape your eyebrows to match the shape of your face, take care of your skin, wear makeup, get a flattering haircut that matches your facial structure, teeth whitening, get your nails done, wear perfume, etc. But whatever you do, do to make YOU feel good …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 06:54 AM
5

Love Avril songs! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 06:48 AM
12

Your post is so amazing and inspiring. Thank you for sharing that with us! 🌹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:54 AM
4

Genuine question, isn’t that sexist/chauvinist behavior common amongst muslim men? I’m asking because I’ve only met like 3 muslim men personally in my entire life so I mainly know what I hear/read from others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:36 AM
6

7 months will go by in the blink of an eye. Focus on improving your life a little bit everyday and getting back on your feet for when it’s time to move on your own. You can do this, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:46 AM
29

Check mate lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:08 AM
52

Yes, here’s to never doing that again sis lol 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:07 AM
245

Divorced is infinity times better than married and miserable though. Been there, done that. Here is to hoping I’ll never ever do it again! 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:02 AM
7

Happy and relieved for you. Sending you hugs and positive thoughts from here. 🌹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:33 AM
10

He is clearly only interested in one thing, and one thing ONLY. And you aren’t. That’s all you need to know! Having things in common and being compatible as friends doesn’t make the 2 of you compatible as a couple. He wants to get into your pants, you want a serious relationship. Do not waste your time. When someone tells you who they are and what they want, BELIEVE THEM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 12:13 AM
1

I’m not on OLD anymore, but doing that for shits and giggles is cool if you have so much free time on your hands. Also, it’s good content to post here for all of us to laugh at collectively 😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 12:04 AM
5

It’s your life, only you know what you are seeking and what would actually be worth your precious time. If some casual sex is what you want, it’s your life and your decision to make.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 12:01 AM
8

The fact that you are a member from FDS alone makes you a good candidate to be banned from many many subs, regardless of what you post or comment outside of FDS. We are one of the “black sheeps” from Reddit lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 11:58 PM
9

He asked in the wrong sub, should’ve asked the losers on Red Pill, where his worthless ass belongs. Edit: extra words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 08:33 PM
2

Of course they won’t! I wouldn’t respect or even want a relationship with any man in the porn industry, for obvious reasons as well. If you don’t respect yourself and part of your job description is pretending you enjoy being disrespected and degraded, what do you expect? This is like Actions and Consequences 101.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 08:31 PM
8

Aaaah, so the DOGS are the ones who are famous. He’s just managing their social media accounts LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 08:18 PM
2

🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 08:16 PM
3

No idea who that is whatsoever. Why is he (supposedly) relevant?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:45 PM
3

Who is that guy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:15 PM
1

I don’t like the pics with dogs, cause dogs have nothing to do with how douchey someone is, c’mon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:14 PM
11

She’s low value FIRST for even entertaining the idea when she is currently in a relationship, no matter how much of a loser her bf is in the first place. Yuck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 05:46 PM
13

Girl, WTF? Begging for attention, staying when you aren’t receiving what you want back, sexting a “friend”, bouncing from one loser who doesn’t respect you to another and not even respecting YOURSELF? What are you doing here again? This isn’t the sub Relationship Advice. READ THE HANDBOOK!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 05:45 PM
11

OMG, dying here! 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 05:39 PM
7

At least your dad took your side. If that was me, my dad would be laughing with the rest of the “lads”, wouldn’t even bother checking up on me and, if I complained, would side with the jerks and tell me to “lighten up”. Proud of you for standing up for yourself though! 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:35 AM
5

So.much.YES.to.this!!! I wish I knew 11 months ago what I know now though, so I wouldn’t have wasted such precious time of my life on my good for nothing ex-bf. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 06:38 AM
2

I agree completely! 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 05:51 AM
11

He had a casual easy sex relationship with you in the past and will be expecting the same thing again. You can’t just “reset the clock” and there is no point since he already sees you as an easy source of casual sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 04:32 AM
95

OMG, his MOM is calling her??? THE AUDACITY OF THAT WHOLE FAMILY!!! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 04:27 AM
18

Wanting to “fix” people is a characteristic of people with codependency issues. Let it go! I was just like you, but ultimately that takes away from focusing on fixing ourselves and it doesn’t help anyone. It attracts toxic relationships and it leaves us feeling helpless and bitter. You have zero control and/or responsibilities towards anyone but yourself (unless you are a mother, but even then no one has control over anyone else). Focus on YOU and your improvement. You can’t help anyone who does…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 01:36 AM
39

Each person is on a different journey, and as they say “you can only lead a horse to water, but you can’t make it drink” or something like that. They look amazing from the outside but have insecurity, possibly low self-esteem and other shit they have to work on, but with a therapist, not you. If they want help they’ll ask, but no point in giving unsolicited advice and resenting them later for not following it. Each person has their own timing for things, that’s how it is. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 12:50 AM
5

Someone I personally know was able to open her own business with the $ she saved from sugaring. Some people do it out of necessity and some others do it cause they like it. She is attracted to older men and instead of using the $ for stupid shit, she actually is using it to better her life, so I respect her for it. I feel repulsed by older men preying on younger women though, but what those people do during their free time doesn’t affect me in any way whatsoever. PS: Also there are some girls he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 10:45 PM
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