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Pulling from a class I teach is probably on the list of "almost impossible" pickups Wrong wrong wrong. Women wet their panties over male authority figures. I’d be surprised if one or more of your students hasn’t fantasized about her and you. Pay attention to any clues they give off with their lingering, their gazes, other body language. There are few greater signals that a woman wants you to fucking take her than fawning admiration.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 12:15 PM
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Jenny absoultely used poor Forrest for everything he’s worth. I don’t bother getting angry at women for being women, but she’s something else. She’s the exact fucking reason you avoid damaged women like the plague
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/19 05:35 PM
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Enjoy being fat miserable and validated by nobody’s. That’s all you’re good for
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 04:48 AM
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You’re going to invent a reason to ban me, aren’t you. We know. Thot police demand it don’t they...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 04:25 AM
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Here’s the permalink to your vendetta against me. Or perhaps your own failures. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/9hjpoe/why_do_the_men_here_conflate_male_desperation/e6chd7q/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 04:22 AM
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For what? Your hypothetical about a hypothetical? Did my example not prove the stupidity of your experiment? That a false allegation is not an indicator of future falsely alleged behavior no more than a child’s indiscretions are an indicator of future behavior? I am Not new here. I remember you from years ago. You’ve sunk. Sad. but given the circumstances Not surpised you’re calling me out here. My stray comment in an unrelated thread about how being disappointed when only fat ugly women inbox m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 04:16 AM
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answer: no. It doesn’t. Example - I stole candy from the grocery store when I was six. I haven’t stolen since.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 02:58 AM
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Did you rage this hard against Keith Ellison? Or are you going to pretend you know nothing about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 02:55 AM
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Why don’t you let the FBI investigate you. Interview everyone you’ve ever known. Seize and search every electronic device you have, every IP you’ve ever downloaded things over; do a full blood test... Because you’re innocent and have nothing to hide, right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 02:54 AM
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She brought it up to her therapist six years ago. So you call for an investigation now? Do you realize how stupid this sounds?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 02:50 AM
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If I make up an incident from your childhood, should that be used to ruin your career?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 02:48 AM
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36 years later, after preparing to come out of Romney beat Obama, and just now. Let me ask you - why do alleged victims of high profile men only come out with their accusations at the most dramatically opportune time?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 02:44 AM
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What the fuck kind of post is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 02:42 AM
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except in the singular case of women i'm fucking. BP conditioning. The “women are weak damsels in distress” trope. So you pull back; women sense this, and that’s when they try and seize the advantage you opened.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/18 09:51 PM
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The problem with things like your studies is not facial symmetry, it’s that it can’t account for intangibles. You can have all the 6s and still be a fucking goober who can’t get laid. Or not so extreme, you have the 6s but are introverted, a bit of a wallflower, and wouldn’t recognize a woman inviting you to approach her unless she texted it to you in plain English. Goes the other way too. Having tight game, good musculature, style, other “cool” intangibles can make up for minor shortcomings in …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 08:53 PM
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I’m like you, but with some ab definition (no six pack). I’m pretty successful - but I get rejected/ghosted/no replied a lot too. Just par for the course - unless you’re a celebrity no one has random woman running up to them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 08:41 PM
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Have a good body, presence, personality and balls and youre better than the top 20%. “Can you go from...”. Yes. Lift, quit being fat, quit being a whiny bitch, have some balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 08:37 PM
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Not single but, well.... It’s the age of the woman. Women mid-thirties and up are zero bullshit. If they indicate they want to have sex, they will. It’s the 20 something set that flakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 06:58 PM
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I guess because women who won’t settle for the thirsty losers are getting serviced by top 20% men, who are playing with several plates like her, until she either finds Mr. Right or realizes she’s passing her prime and settles for a betabux. You still have pool of losers getting none, top 20% getting most of the pussy, and women not having to lower any standards
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 06:56 PM
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Lol. And bloops pushing cognitive dissonance!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 05:35 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/9hickm/q4all_whats_your_biggest_agreement_with_the/e6dfhxz/ My mistake. Sockpuppet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 02:42 PM
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You can run the playbook and not be paid - organized protestors do this all the time. “The lady doth protest too much, methinks” is a line from Hamlet, which has come to mean (incorrectly, some would argue), that if someone denies something too vehemently, it lends credulity to the accusation - in this case, not that you or anyone in particular is a paid shill (I couldn’t credibly say that anyway as I have zero proof either way), but that TBP is an agenda driving force and not the joke it portra…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 02:36 PM
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I have never said you personally or anyone else in particular was being paid. shrugs shoulders
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 02:20 PM
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i clearly stated yesterday that I didn’t believe everyone who disagrees is being paid. And i’m not Picking fights. These are all responses to my comment; i’ve gone nowhere else with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 02:02 PM
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Why Are you still defending something you claim is “nothing to see here” so vigorously? Good lord. Must be a whole lotta nothing to see I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 01:49 PM
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I said nothing derogatory about you or to you. Why the catastrophic frame loss? Did swingers murder your parents or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 01:28 PM
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You were most voiciferous about me removing "offensive porn" language, so I have to imagine you were the most likely to have reported it. your search for validation disgusted me You don't know me. I could sit here and say your love of condescension and derision toward things that don't comport with your value system are you lashing out and projecting your own misery onto others, but I'll assume you're actually debating this PPD stuff in good faith
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 01:25 PM
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Good for you, to each their own. The difference is I didn't complain to mommy to make things go away I didn't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 01:21 PM
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LOL. Who cares. Bunch of jealous babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 01:19 PM
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The language you referenced was removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 01:15 PM
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Precisely where was I graphic? I said just enough to explain how I know what men in the SMP look like and how they act.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 01:08 PM
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Why is it you never find 10/10 Instagram baddies/Chads at your local munch? Because they can get what they want without having to be "in the lifestyle" I feel like men AND women who are into kink and swinging are unattractive This is like saying "I think feminists have a disgusting ideology. Thus, they are all unattractive beasts". That doesn't add anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 01:06 PM
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There's a difference between attraction and arousal. My point is that money does not arouse a woman on a base, primal level. Of course, for permanent husband consideration, money is an attractive factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 01:02 PM
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Fuckable being the lowest tier, as in "If you like the guy, I'd fuck her and be happy to do her so it's not taking one for the team". THeir men may have been hotter back in some day - most of these couples were married and have been for a long time, us included.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 01:01 PM
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I agree. We have a couples profile on one site and individual profiles on another, as well as individual KIKs. We (can) see everything the other says as we want total transparency, but we each have free reign to work our magic on the other gendered person as we see fit. Its more organic that way and makes the whole thing more electric.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 12:59 PM
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I don't think they hold all the cards - its a marketplace after all, so there's give and take. I'd say this - the top echelon of males have the most choice, because they are the rarest (general) quantity in the normal SMP - if a particular woman wont date/fuck him, no worries, he's got other quality women genuinely interested. Followed by women, because supply and demand. Not meant to assail women, really, just to point out that men's perceived failure in the SMP is largely their own fault and c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 12:56 PM
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Yeah that makes sense for a lot of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 12:50 PM
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We've found that too; the hottest experiences are with people you've built a longer rapport with and have made "lifestyle friends" with. I guess the complaint is that most guys (including the male half of a couple) just aren't interesting to her on any level. That might be a nuance of that community though; there are a lot of couples with a disproportionately attractive female compared to the male. I have to wonder who's idea swinging really was in those situations...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 12:47 PM
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he few mem who do go to this are almost all disgusting Have you been and this is what you've personally observed, or are you making a value judgment?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 12:33 PM
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The SMP is a legitimate discussion point, and the 80/20 has been a hot debate topic here for years. We are adults here, so I provided some background so as to offer a fresh perspective on a common discussion topic. If the realities of sex and sexuality are offensive to you, this might not be the place for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 12:30 PM
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Well, lack of game would be tough to confirm, but yeah. I think a big problem with a lot of people today is that they like to ignore reality and pretend their bubble is how the world works.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 12:28 PM
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People have got to stop trying to absolutely quantify this stuff, its a fool's errand. That said - Looks and Attitude (what I call together a man's Presence) is what attracts women sexually. Their bodies tell them they want to fuck the guy or not based on this alone. Other things like his status may enhance his Presence and push her further from "I want to fuck him" into "I will actually fuck him" territory. But that's his status. Repeat after me - Money has never, and will never, make a vagina …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 12:23 PM
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Are you just going down the checklist in Alinsky's playbook? It might not be so transparent and predictable if they'd let you guys go off-script now and then. Sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 12:19 PM
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You're boring. Ahhhhh, the classic TBP shutdown line. Hasn't changed in years. And you call me boring!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 12:12 PM
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I have never heard of srdbroke in my life. I cant figure out what the acronym even means and I’m not going to waste my time researching it. The fact that you’re getting angry now and trying to impugn my character further reinforces that I hit a nerve. If I was wrong or out in left field you wouldn’t be putting this much effort into this. Calling me names and directing me to your “official ex post facto explanation, which is totally not disinformation/limited hangout guys, really, lulz” speaks vo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 11:40 AM
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I’m sure My reward will be death threats, doxx threats, and bans for made up bullshit. Can’t wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 11:23 AM
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You are again proving my points. Power Mod “Nate” (i’m not tagging him) is a racist who got called out and then made up some bs excuse that his hatred was all a big social experiment after the fact. He is a liar, a racist, and one of those most responsible for silencing opposing viewpoints on this ever-worsening dumpster fire of a website. His after the fact bs explanations are worthless. I must have really hit a nerve to get this much devotion from you and your sock puppet. Tell me, am I the fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 11:10 AM
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So you can get my IP and doxx me, sure. Let’s see, TBP (which is totally a joke satire sub that does nothing and advances no agenda silly, lol) teams up with TMOR and others to take out all these other subs (which was just a prank, lol). Nothing to do with the so-called power mods who run all the default subs and who are responsible for every one of them being a far left PC hell. You and your friend really are doing a lot tontry and convince one guy that this was all a joke, didn’t happen, and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 10:02 AM
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I’m not clicking those. And wow, yeah, i’m Sure that was it. 20 entire subs, all of which were right or un-PC, all doxxing at the same time. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 02:01 AM
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Over 20 sub’s were banned. How is that a prank? It was real - it actually happened. You people are truly insane if you believe your own nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 01:51 AM
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The average man does not make pussies wet. He does ok with women because he’s a betabux which is good for something.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 12:12 AM
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Men Thirsty Guys would love to have an inbox full of desperate women. FTFY. Desperate women are desperate for a reason. You keep them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 12:10 AM
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You're doing a lot of work to defend...well, what you allege to be nothing...kinda leads to the logical conclusion that there is something. If there's smoke, there's fire, as they say...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 11:26 PM
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The Lady doth protest too much, methinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 11:11 PM
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Nothing to see here, please, disburse!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 11:05 PM
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It’s true for desirable men too. Nothing worse than seeing your notifications light up only to find dumpy whales in your inbox. Makes you feel worse than if you got no attention at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 10:54 PM
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It (the Banout sub) was not banned because it allegedly violated a TOS. It is unmoderated so it was closed for that reason. So you also attack the source r/conspiracy. Instead, can you assail the assertions in the post? Was a single sub they claimed was banned actually not banned? Of course not. But the Blue Pill isn’t about the truth, and never was, was it? Edit: link and further explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 10:44 PM
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Lol, I’m still not convinced it’s not just a big prank to scare the anti-PC crowd. 21 Subs banned, another 20 or so on the list, and you really expect people to believe this is a prank? So transparent its laughable...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 10:27 PM
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Here's your sub, which "totally exists just to mock TRP", voting on which opposing viewpoints they wish to ban most. https://old.reddit.com/r/TheBluePill/comments/9fhb77/thebanout2018_needs_you_vote_to_ban_theredpill/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 10:11 PM
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Advances the agenda - specifically modern feminism, radical leftism, general outrage culture, and identity politics. All part of their divide & conquer strategy. As has been alleged many times, TBP literally offers nothing. No solutions. No unified mindset. It just shits all every ideological crab that tries to crawl out of the bucket.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 10:05 PM
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That's a broad generalization. Just because desperate losers flood "her" inbox does not mean she has attractive options, and I doubt most men really think that. Even the most average of Joes has been hit on by a gal or two he found repulsive. Certainly that's no self-esteem boost, so why would he think women derive the same in the opposite context? The reality is that a reasonably attractive woman can obtain valid sexual options in relatively short order and abundance compared to most men. That'…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 09:59 PM
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No. Not even close. These days its globalists; but the playbook is the same as the old Soviet one. Get the left riled up, and use them to ban and censor anything that doesn't conform to their narrative (TBP literally upholding the modern PC/feminist narrative in the sexual marketplace). TBP the sub is one of many like it that push the narrative under the guise of "tolerance and anti-hate". Its an obvious sham. It's leaders are the same people who run accounts that run similar subs. Only they get…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 09:46 PM
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It's the karma and account age that matter. What you commented or posted in is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 09:39 PM
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No. It is when it's this organized, and top down: https://old.reddit.com/r/conspiracy/comments/9f6j93/so_everyone_is_going_to_turn_a_blind_eye_to_all/ Is it really that hard for you to believe that people honestly lean left all on their own, no shilling required Not at all. Which is why radical leftists are the "useful idiots" of choice. The left can't get enough control and censorship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 09:35 PM
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Not hyperbole. Of course not everyone is being paid there. But the ones that matter are. And are likely linked to or are alts/sock puppets of everyone responsible for banout2018. If you don’t think astroturfing, organized brigading, forum sliding, and subs designed to do exactly all this don’t exist here, you aren’t paying attention. Look up ShareBlue, Correct the Record, and Media Matters. All US companies whose specific purpose is to control opinion in social media such as this site. Look at t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 08:45 PM
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Biggest disagreement - that TBP is not a thing. It is. That sub and the people running and participating in it are agent provocateurs and are pushing an agenda. You can see it here in how they refuse to confront and issue or legitimately debate; they try shaming, lying, and ridicule. Its so transparent by now it's silly, but people gotta earn a living somehow. Biggest Agreement - that TRP as a subreddit is a toxic cesspool. There used to be good posts and insight now and then, but it's become ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 08:22 PM
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You have added nothing to the discussion and are so late as to be completely irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 08:13 PM
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I didn't write the Wikipedia article. Can you focus on content or are silly distractions too much for you? Honestly?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 07:53 PM
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Well thought out response. For the record, I agree that a fair number of people (both genders) in the BDSM community are role-players or fakes. I'll address a few things though: if a man is interested in retaining some real amount of power in the relationship, this visceral power can not last, evolution does not allow it to in all but the rarest cases If it was there and real, it can in some cases. The "Alpha Widow" phenomenon is real for a reason, and if the Alpha never widows her, she can be e…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 05:56 PM
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I agree fully. It takes the right man/Dom for the right woman/women. She needs to equally lust and trust in him, to give herself completely to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 05:39 PM
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That’s because people conflate dominance and submission with the nonsense they see or hear about in porn or mainstream crap (as I said, though 50 shades made the topic acceptable to discuss, its portrayal of D/s is so wrong it’s laughable). I think you were entirely right, for the record
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 05:36 PM
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the Way I look at it is that women don’t submit to me because I forced them to or told them to. If I activate them on a visceral level Their nature commands them to offer themselves to me and they understand that, and eagerly comply. If not for legal reasons, It almost need not be said. The BDSM community should be used to find like minded play partners/relationship partners. The forums themselves are so overrun by SJW’s it’s silly to get too involved in “the community” as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 05:05 PM
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Vetting is fine and encouraged. Again, its not that every woman should fuck you on the first meet. Its that there should be a period of time where she's either fucking you or she's not into you like that (3 dates or 2 weeks is a decent timeline). Remember, bad history or not, if a woman really wants to fuck you, she will fuck you. Period. N-Count be damned (and will be lied about anyways, so who cares).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 02:37 PM
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Both those zones are the fault of the person in them. They both stem from an unspoken expectation one person had and unfairly projected upon the other. TRP/MRP addresses this by blaming men for creating “covert contracts” like this with women. Also, the concept of “watch what they do, not what they say” applies - if a woman is not getting physical with you despite your obvious overtures, she’s not into you like that. Period. Let her go.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 01:34 PM
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Your entire series of retorts is forum sliding. You don’t address whether women are generally sexually submissive and how TRP’s “rape fantasy” claim is inaccurate. You bring up Male submission, which is simply irrelevant for this thread. I did not tie submission to gender, I’m only discussing it as it pertains to women because that’s all that is relevant to my OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 11:37 AM
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Either deference is earned or it is resented. This is your Tl;dr right here. Spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 11:33 AM
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Spend some time in the community and see what kind of men (largely) want to submit to women. Methinks their submission is not really what you want, but YMMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 11:30 AM
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It feels like, “this makes sense.” Exactly. The ones who find me irresistible just naturally offer for me to do whatever I want with them. So pure and beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 11:29 AM
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Oh my God. My post literally states that many submissive women are dominant type-As in their vanilla/work life. Since you can’t debate me without lying, i’m done with you. Edit: My exact words from the OP. Fun anecdotal "fact", women who are high-powered dominant types in their work/home lives are often the ones craving sexual domination the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 11:06 AM
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Natural submission is something that must be freely granted/given by the sub, in my view. It has nothing to do with control; in fact, it’s quite the opposite. In my case, it’s because i’ve Captivated them to the point where they truly desire to please me and will offer themselves to this end, and doing so affirmatively pleases them. It’s revocable at any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 10:35 AM
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The fact that you equate sexual submissiveness as problematic belies your ignorance of what it means and how it is viewed in the kink community.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 10:29 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 10:26 AM
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what does this have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 10:26 AM
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I didn’t make this statement, I was quoting it and calling it out. Here’s a generalization - the reading comprehension needs to improve on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 10:25 AM
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The men on this sub have no self worth or self esteem and, given the chance, would sell themselves for a sandwich I nope women hotter and wilder than most men will ever fuck. But please, tell all men what our life experiences are for us. I hear women love it when men tell women who they are and what they all like. We’re listening....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 04:27 AM
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Sounds riveting and intensely passionate. I’d totally call you the next day. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 04:23 AM
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Once again, male submissiveness is whataboutism. It has absolutely nothing to do with any part of my statement or discussion. Nothing. Yet it’s all you want to talk about, almost as though you’re trying to derail discussion on the actual point raised.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 04:20 AM
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So lying there and letting a man have his way with you is boring. Ok. But, You being dominant and doing what you want to a man, you have no desire to do. Ok. What the fuck is having sex with you like? Please, enlighten us.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 04:01 AM
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When the thread is over 24 hrs old and no one cares. Because copying and pasting a link is tough and takes a long time. Do you honestly think no one sees through this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 03:58 AM
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So humans aren’t allowed to grow and change over decades? Once you make a commitment it’s literally death till you part? Please, show us all examples where you gave your fellow women such advice after they became dissatisfied with their husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 03:50 AM
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You: “Lol, saying I want to violently murder you was just a joke, LOL”. You again: “Me blatantly lying is just a joke, stop with your male fragility LOL”. if you can’t see how transparently fraudulent this nonsense is, by all means, please continue. You make TRP’s case better than I ever could
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 03:45 AM
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What are you the mainstream media? Make outrageous claim, promise proof later, then deliver a retraction even later when no one is paying attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 03:41 AM
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I had to get into the subtleties or it would have gotten nowhere, but this is succinct and accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 03:39 AM
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It’s not patently false. That a few high earners pay money to have their balls kicked does not mean they are not weak omegas. In fact, it proves the opposite. If they were truly dominant then women would do so, freely, voluntarily, and eagerly at their command. That they have to pay is weak, beta/omega and lame as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 03:36 AM
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It's pointless whataboutism. Whether a lot of men have submissive fantasies has nothing whatsoever about my discussion claim that most women are sexually submissive in the bedroom. Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 12:29 AM
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the minority of women into bdsm are submissive This is so wrong its ridiculous. Look at the Wiki citation again, which noted "89% of heterosexual females who are active in BDSM expressed a preference for a submissive-recipient role." I'm not going to waste another moment arguing with someone who will lie about a cited fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 12:26 AM
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I also cited a few surveys and articles, but I guess they don't count because why?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 12:08 AM
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Besides saying that if you were my wife you'd literally murder me, on what do you base your conclusion that I'm wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 12:00 AM
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The Cosmo article was not about women in the community. And please enlighten us as to why women in the BDSM community are so damaged or mentally ill such that their preference for submission to men cannot be extrapolated onto the population at large as a discussion point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 11:59 PM
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I think most of the women here must have come and then stayed because they share some basic desires These women are regulars who have been posting here for years. Your account is 2 weeks old. You're one guy. With a limited perspective. Telling me, a woman, what women like. No, I provided survey results performed by others that back up one guy's observations and hypothesis, but you only attack the speaker here. I don't agree. With what? You don't even know what forum I'm speaking of, but you disa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 11:54 PM
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You claim to be speaking for all women when you say Women don't talk like this elsewhere online. My point is that women certainly do speak like this. Women are doing it here (which you dismiss somehow as an outlier without proof), and they do it in plenty of other forums as well. And I'm not speaking for those women. I'm watching them say it. I'm watching them literally advertise that this is what they actually want. Not all want the same thing, but the vast majority share the same basic theme.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 11:24 PM
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conventionally attractive traits, not just virtuous ones, that fall behind in dating This is an oxymoron. If you have attractive traits (in the TRP sense - ones that make her wet before she has to think about it), and you aren't being unattractive to counteract your attractive traits, there should be no problem. We all have droughts, etc, but if you're consistently failing, Mr. Goodguy either isn't soaking the panties or is turning her off as fast as he turned her on. Something's not right. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 11:03 PM
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Nowhere did I say most submissives were women. Look in the comments where I (and women) bemoan the vast hordes of submissive men. Please don't strawman my argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 10:47 PM
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I agree. I didn't mean that whips etc. were needed to express dominance. If that's the latest from TRP its again close but misses the mark. Most women I think want men to have the balls to express the urgency of their desire - this often manifests in things like shoving her into the wall, kissing her hard, and fingering her. Bending her over, pulling her panties aside, and fucking her goddamn brains out. This is tricky when dating especially in the vanilla world (my wife and I understand all bou…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 10:43 PM
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They don't want this because I'm Mr. Goodguy. They want it from me because I bring it out of them. They actually go through with it because I'm they find out I'm a good man and can be trusted not to really harm them. Women don't want to fuck nice guys. They want to fuck "hot" guys with balls. They hope and try their best to determine whether he's a decent man before they actually do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 10:35 PM
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Ok - you are right that toning down the rhetoric to TRP-lite is not TRP. Like it or not, TRP has to be the way it is to some extent to break the bullshit paradigm and social conditioning men have been given, to fire them up so that they actually get off their asses and effect real life positive change, and to harden the tub of cookie dough their body and mentality are. Reading further into the TRP stuff it becomes clear that you aren't supposed to be a fuming woman hater your whole life, that wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 10:23 PM
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Don't listen to what they say. Watch what they do. They want you to be Mr. GoodGuy - then they go on Fetlife begging men like me to fuck and choke them so hard they cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 10:12 PM
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So you're 19. And have no life experience. Please, though, millenialsplain to us how women who seek to "submit" in the bedroom only do so because men "pressure" them into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 10:06 PM
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To the contrary, they are much more honest when they can drop the pretention and speak freely.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 10:00 PM
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my pussy was loose and like a “putting your dick in hot water” Did he also say your tits were like "big bags of sand"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 09:58 PM
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It's a combo of kinky facebook and dating site. There are groups you can join to chat, learn about things, etc. Or you can just search who's in your area and message who you think would be compatible after you build a solid profile. Really can be used however you want. It's virtually free too, in that most of the stuff you'd ever want to do, you don't need to pay money for
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 09:21 PM
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The point of the post is that women are generally sexually submissive to truly Dominant men. So TRP is right. Where TRP sounds retarded is when it says women have rape fantasies, because most women really don't. This is not tone policing by me, its me saying "stop being wrong and sounding stupid". At no point do I suggest that cliché sanitized BDSM stuff is the type of dominance TRP teaches - far from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 09:02 PM
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Your replies are the vapid inflammatory nonsense I'd expect from an SJW. Disappointing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 08:31 PM
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that you equate submission with weakness or inequality speaks to your ignorance
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 08:25 PM
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It's a discussion thread. And look at the responses; think most are agreeing with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 08:11 PM
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Give me time to get a few more unicorns under my belt and this is me ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 08:10 PM
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I meant that TRP needs to keep it simple for men, or they'd never see the forest for each individual pine needle. Figuring out the nuance is something men need to learn in real life on their own if they don't get it already.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 08:01 PM
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Your oversimplification paints her as a martyr'd saint and me as pathetic (still haven't gotten over high school, really?), but OK. Tone is hard to sense on an internet message board. You did describe her in glowing terms. I had no reason not to. She was a good woman and a good wife. This literally had nothing to do with her, and it took her a while to understand that. Now she's the best wife on the fucking planet (and without going into too much detail I think she'd say she's never been happier…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 07:58 PM
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LOTS of men are at least curious about submission. And most of them are the Omegas of the kink community, in looks and attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 07:48 PM
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At no point was this woman perfect; I just refused to demonize her for being human. she had to let you get with other girls She didn't have to do a thing. I don't control her. But I was going to do what I wanted, she was free to come with me or leave. She came with me, and we're having a fucking blast. But haters gonna hate I suppose...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 07:43 PM
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framing the dominance discussed at TRP with gay disgusting topping from the bottom bullshit BDSM dominance is your first mistake Where'd I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 07:34 PM
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Former MRP. Been away from the pills for a couple years. Lost the password to my old account or I'd use it. I remember you though. I always enjoyed talking to you, and you kept hope (perhaps naïve) alive that not all BP's on Reddit were man-hating SJWs. I was known then as A_Rex….
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 07:20 PM
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Do you have anything to contribute? Surveys proclaiming the opposite of my conclusion? Anecdotal evidence from your relevant experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 06:58 PM
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Most sexual relationships, and you don't really need the label in a lot of cases. The idea is that most women want their man to take and fuck them like they fucking mean it, most of the time. But TRP is inaccurate because it holds that most women have a rape fantasy. I'm saying TRP describes the phenomenon wrong but the idea (women wanting to be "taken" by their powerful man, consensually) is completely right in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 06:55 PM
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For sure. I'm 100% Dominant all the time (primal subtype if you know your kink), but my wife will want to pounce on me or cuff me and ride the fuck out of me on occasion. Hell, I've had more than one sub tell me they want to dildo my ass just once (won't happen but I invite them to try it, haha).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 06:53 PM
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As with anything, a sub's submission must be worth having. Most sub men are not desirable to women in any context, and what they want is decidedly unmasculine. A hot, muscular "boy toy", that's as rare as the true female Domme.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 06:50 PM
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Is this really anything new? To most men today, I'm saying yes. Sometimes women want to be fucked, sometimes they want to make love. The variety/spontaneity is the attractive part. 100% agree. My theory is that it's the intensity of the expressed desire every time. But for TRP, they need to "keep it simple, stupid"; they should also be accurate without sacrificing brevity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 06:47 PM
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Being a submissive male and being bi are not the same thing. You're right that most women want nothing to do with bi men, probably for the reason you expressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 06:41 PM
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I supplied actual surveys to support my anecdotal evidence. WHat you're trying to do adds nothing to the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 06:40 PM
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Yes. And it makes women sick (at least the ones I talk to). A lot of them won't even identify as "switches" even though they are, because to do so would trigger a deluge of e-mails from sub men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 06:38 PM
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Your OP is going to be derailed by women who want to talk about how some men are also submissive. Oh not at all. A corollary is that there are many man who are submissive or who are switches (can be both Dom or sub), and that these men turn the vast majority of women off because of this. Which proves part of TRP right in that women generally have no interest in weak men who will grovel before them. TRP doesn't want to police their language to be acceptable for women. Oh I know, and they shouldn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 06:36 PM
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False and False. You can't help your facial bone structure. You can do a myriad of other things, because your face isn't the only criteria. Lift and be muscular. Be attractive in word and deed. Have good posture. Get a haircut that makes your face attractive; grow facial hair if a babyface is your problem. TRP wouldn't tell you to give up. It would say to quit crying over what you can't change, and work your balls off improving the things you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 05:35 PM
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Perhaps if your father had talked to you this way, your count would be much lower. So on point. !RedditSilver
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 01:29 PM
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We were having this discussion on another thread. I think (and the others agree) that the majority of women have such fantasies and are into that stuff to some degree and in certain contexts but cannot discuss and may never act in real life for fear of judgment and reprisal. That said, you are correct that a pretty boy can be dominant in the bedroom only. I'm a type A in real life so its easy to see me like this in the bedroom context, but the fun thing about kink is seeing normal, unassuming pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 01:13 PM
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Just to add, these girls did not have a healthy masculine role model in their formative years, so they do not know what a man "should" be. They don't have the emotional rock, the deliverer of sharp consequences, the mighty protector, the deep down romantic. They seek these traits in other men as they mature, leading to their affinity for older men in whom they hope to find these qualities. They also tend to be some of the wilder ones in the kink world. The masochists, the "slave girl" type, the …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 01:07 PM
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Our faces becoming more feminine in general is because men are fat. Our faces put on fat and get rounder. Gone are the chisled features.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 12:58 PM
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Young women tend to be much more honest about this and their refusal to settle down with betas (unlike their sister ancestors). They still want to fuck Chad, but wont settle for less than him it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 12:57 PM
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Go somewhere where women can be honest about their sexuality, instead of fearing judgment and reprisal IRL. Go to Fetlife. See how pretty boys fare. They do OK. See how a built masculine Dominant fares (an actual Dom, not a wannabe keyboard warrior). They literally cannot fucking get enough of us. The throw themselves at us and beg for us to do the unspeakable to them. This is what most of them desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 12:55 PM
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The gal that replied to my comments is probably right - most women have some kind of "kink", commonly a submissive type one, but are afraid to talk IRL for fear of being judged. That's why we only find out in the moment when we're fucking them from behind and they ask to be spanked, or whatever. I might make a post similar to yours. I think you de-railed yourself by focusing on the rape fantasy (actual rape fantasy being real but extremely rare), instead of some variation of a Dom/sub relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 12:51 PM
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and if she needs to be choked to cum, I’m gonna choke that filthy little whorish Attaboy ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 07:06 PM
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I think you're right in a sense - this stuff IS outside the mainstream of what most people actually do. But I think it's in the forefront of everyone's lizard brain. If you haven't checked out Fet, you should. It's pretty much free, and one thing I've found is that people there (especially women) are more free to be who they really are sexually. Political stuff is thankfully rare, but you will see the occasional feminist proudly proclaim such in her profile.... Then invariably see her begging to…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 06:52 PM
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I have no data. According to Fet, that site has over 6 Million members worldwide. Anecdotally, I'd say more than 80% of women (straight and bi) on there identify as submissive to males. Whether people identify as part of that community, I think women's sexual submissiveness is prevalent (I'd say more than 75%), even if not fully defined or understood as such in the vanilla wilds. As far as the CNC stuff? I think its the sort of thing where a specific CNC scene is a common thing that women want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 06:33 PM
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Everyone here is so sheltered it's hilarious. So I have a profile on Fetlife. I'm a Dominant Male (Primal subtype). I have quite a following. The number of women into Consensual Non-Consent (CNC) is staggering. There are entire communities, very heavily populated I might add, all about CNC or rape play. Of course, no one really wants to be raped. What these women want is also known as Total Power Exchange. All control given to the Dom; total carte blanche. As someone who has attractive (and unat…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 06:21 PM
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