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Sounds to me like you're expecting a sharp delineation between LTR and Plate material. I think that the truth is that all behaviors occur on a spectrum, and that it may not be as much a matter of the kind that of girl you're attracting as it is the kinds of behaviour you're expecting. One of the most important things I've learned from TRP is not to look at external entities such as girls or TRP as the causes of my dissatisfaction. It's been much more effective to look at myself and try to confro…
/r/askTRP09/10/19 07:30 PM
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Ahahahahaha
/r/askTRP07/10/19 02:40 PM
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I appreciate that you want to share this
/r/TheRedPill01/09/19 08:52 AM
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who does shit like that? wtf is wrong with people
/r/askTRP30/08/19 12:12 PM
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I'm involuntarily snipped( side effect of surgery) and have found that for short term hookup scenarios it's the best- girls are almost immediately down with no holds barred unprotected sex. Pretty much the only barrier is my imagination. As for long term prospects, they're initially down with the fun of it, but when push comes to shove, they want kids. I'm 31 and yet to find a girl where kids being a non option has not been a breaking point. Of course were I of a more Machievellian mindset, I wo…
/r/askTRP29/03/19 06:17 AM
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Surviving cancer 9 years ago gave me a new perspective. Make the most out of the time that you have and surround yourself with people you love. Just when you think you've got it all figured out everything can collapse in a few seconds. Since then I've spent years travelling the world, trying out new experiences, meeting a ton of people, and advancing my career. I make more money than I ever have in a career I find truly fulfilling and my ample free time is filled with invigorating experiences. I…
/r/askTRP25/01/19 05:07 PM
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the narcissism of drug users is deeply obnoxious
/r/TheRedPill23/09/18 06:56 PM
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You need friends you can trust. typing on the internet is not a viable replacement for human interaction.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:49 PM
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You're setting yourself up for a much harder time than necessary by committing to living in a ridiculously overpriced city, especially if you're already struggling to get by on whatever crappy job you can get with your BA. Have you considered not living in the most expensive city in the country? How do you plan to get ahead there? I move around for work constantly and in turn enjoy my time off where ever I please. Take an actual thorough look at what it is about being in Toronto that's so import…
/r/askTRP16/08/18 03:40 PM
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you should not revisit this topic with her
/r/askTRP23/04/18 01:38 PM
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Why does anyone want to live long enough to burden their family with needing 24/7 care? Seriously what kind of life is that? It's a huge emotional and financial weight to tether your loved ones with, not to mention that you lose all of your dignity. I think that living that long is more a testament to the egos of one's family than to you own health and vigor. My grandmother is 101 years old, and her children want her to live in a plastic bubble so that she can.live as long as possible. Why? It's…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 12:28 AM
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Back in my day I banged twice as many barstars as OP, they were hotter and sluttier back then too (in geezer voice)
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 12:59 PM
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Lol I got rufied by a drink some code bought for a girl, I wandered off on her; by the time she came and found me I was blocks away and had lost my shirt.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 06:17 AM
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Banksy has a quote about this along the lines of "stand up and go outside before you get distracted." I use this one, even if the task I need to do isn't outdoors, it forces me to confront whatever it is I need to deal with first thing in the morning. Also going outside as soon as you wake up is pleasant.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 06:09 AM
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lol @ the dread game part near the bottom about making up IOIs from other women. I actually had a previous LTR become angry with me when I said that a girl she thought wanted me wasn't into me. At the time it made no sense, she was clearly pissed and I couldn't see why. In retrospect through an rp lens I think that she was disgusted by the thought that other women didn't want me.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 05:32 PM
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I get the same thing w dudes hitting on me, but the interaction is so different when I rebuff them. I have no qualms about giving a hard no right off the bat, and they inevitably understand exactly what I mean by it. With women getting unwanted advances they often just give these vague indirect subtexty clues and then wonder why betafag doesn't get the hint.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 09:14 PM
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It's just the stigma of the name of the sub that ppl take issue with. You can talk about the topics etc herr without actually using the word redpill and ppl will generally agree with you. Or maybe I'm surrounded by synchophants who agree with anything I say regardless lol
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 06:09 PM
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Stay in one place for a few weeks and build a group of friends, plan a 5 to 10 day trip during this time and get the group in on it. I travel solo and I'm the same age. I do 3 week cycles in each region I visit, and always come away with new friends and experiences, sometimes I get laid too! Don't hang around in your room drinking/smoking banging hookers. Go find some fun shit to do, and go meet some good ppl. Get up and go outside before you get distracted.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 11:34 PM
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Whenever I hear someone say "it is what it is" as a resignation. It's not what it should be goddammit and I'm not gonna take it!
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 11:24 PM
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If you incorporate your business and make your assets property of the company then they can't be taken as easily.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 11:20 PM
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Lol no one will wait that shit out for a 30 year old. They probably won't even try to hit it because the stench of desperation will trail those post wall vampires like a virus.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 05:44 PM
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You pretended to be gay and had 4 hrs of foreplay? Gaaaaaaay
/r/askTRP09/02/17 06:06 AM
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buddy of mine had this happen a couple of years ago, he was a well trained mma fighter. He cold cocked the cop on the spot, busted the guys nose, out cold. Probably felt awsome for 15 seconds or so. The cop proceeded to follow him around harrassing him pulling him out of his car, got him fired from his job, showing up outside his house, etc for months afterwards. He had to get a job in the next town over- it was fucked. Completely not worth it.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 01:38 PM
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I see personal problems as having seperate phyical and abstract components. For example, OP mentions having problems w/ not exercising enough and jerkin it too much. These are physical things, not feelings. How OP feels about these actions is a separate thing. I think that you've conflated two things that I see as separate. I also don't think we're disagreeing all that much.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 02:16 AM
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you can run from your problems, but you'll never escape from how you feel about them.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 01:18 AM
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One of my profs told us "Imagine a kid in your life now- you'd give as much of your time/money as was necessary to help the kid as you could right? No good parent would hold their child back in any way would they? You'd give any money/time you had to raise that child right? And then after a couple of decades once you teach the kid how it's done, and they can take care of themselves, you get your life back. Now imagine that child with downs syndrome. You will never get your life back. As much as …
/r/TheRedPill13/11/16 07:27 AM
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You will discover how resilient you really are. Also, you will find out who your real friends are. People you thought you could count on will fall away and aquaintances you never expected to could be there for you when no one else is. I survived testicular and lymphatic cancer 6 years ago(I was 22 at the time). They cut off one of my balls, I had 4 months of chemo, and a total bilateral vivisection (cut open from navel to sternum). In total the whole process took about 8 months to play out. At t…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 12:51 PM
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Overcome the hamster- it is possible to see your own motives with introspection.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 03:29 PM
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Anyone else think that the way he repeating every point he makes several times is a deliberate appeal to angry at the world aging baby boomers? They look at this and see themselves but instead of carefully picking apart the rhetoric they pat themselves on the back for being informed. This reminds me of watching drunk 50 somethings argue politics; talking over one another, using personal attacks to address major issues, repeating themselves constantly until whatever the fuck they said every time …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 02:55 PM
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I had a similar thought reading this. "Progressive Modalities?" This is like saying "utilize" instead of "use". Vocabulary has its place, but most of the time simple language is the most effective way to actually communicate your point. Pedantic pontificating ends up with a lot being said but very little being internalized by the audience.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 03:40 PM
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He scared the shit out of me
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 01:46 AM
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Blood Meridian by Cormac McCarthy and The Hemingway Anthology come to mind
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 01:53 PM
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you're right I should have already known
/r/askTRP04/02/16 03:41 PM
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I'm not convinced; this looks to me like rationalization under the guise of amorality. The implication is that it's OK to lie as long as it benefits the liar.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 04:20 PM
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She has a need that he can't understand. The need for sweet, sweet opium. Seriously though painkillers for chronic pain is just asking to become a washed up drunk pill junkie loser.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 03:10 PM
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I think it's also an opportunity to take the lead in a group situation. If you're with a group and there's an obstacle of some sort and you're the one to step up and solve the problem, maybe delegate a few things to other group members, then you've demonstrated smv.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 11:44 PM
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Lol thanks for pointing that out it's an important distinction I forgot to make; I'm talking about stuff going wrong around women I'm already fucking, not going out of my way to do shit for women I haven't fucked.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 11:39 PM
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I would argue that we can all relate to trading up partners; who doesn't like some strange? Uncertainty about paternity? That's a whole different ball game.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 11:04 PM
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It's actually called histcompatibility (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Histocompatibility) it means that women can't smell a good match and end up breeding with a sub par guy because everything adaptive and tingly gets replaced with rational choice, so they end up with beta husbands and kids with weak immune systems.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 03:48 PM
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Improv class man, everyone spitballs ideas off one another and you can't shoot anyone's ideas down unless you have one that is much much better.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 03:43 PM
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Improvisation is a great skill to have. It works wonders not only for shits tests and amogs, but hands on problem solving as well. In my work I often have to fix equipment or solve problems using whatever materials are at hand, not necessarily what the book would say to do, improvisational thinking has helped me every step of the way. Improv isn't solely the domain of comedy, although that's a good way to learn more while working on your sense of humour,
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 03:42 PM
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She looked at herself in the mirror and realized what she'd become and had feelz
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 02:52 PM
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ya done fucked up bud. you had a lengthy text exchange during which you placed the onus on her to decide if you two were gonna get together. Should have said "I'm gonna be doing x tonight you should come." and actually have something going on to do whether or not she shows up, now if you go it looks like you had nothing else happening on a friday night.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 03:50 PM
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Just been thinking about this. I was called weak last night for caving and giving up info about plans that I initially didn't want to reveal. I had attempted to feed the hamster by teasing about what I'm going to do with my holiday vacation time without giving up any details or timeline. I caved after about 5 mins of pestering- I didn't realize until after that I should have given a firm "no" and allowed the hamster to do it's worst.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 12:45 AM
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Nice taxonomy- it kinda comes off as robotic. Do people really need these instructions? "Ok guys this is how humans behave now go blend in." I think that people have trouble functioning outside of a highly structured environment and that meeting people goes along with jumping into new situations; being able to improvise socially is more important than anything. Do you guys turn down invites to do stuff if it interferes with your workout routine? The other day I was getting a sandwich and some du…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 10:43 PM
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way to go bro i had the same thing in 2010/11. Don't let any health problems become your identity, you're more than that. Was the one that fucked your lungs bleomycin? I had that and cisplatin. In the last couple of years I've taken up long distance running, I can run til my knees give out now, the lungs are a non issue long as I'm not inhaling anything pressurized
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 01:33 AM
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My buddy and I had this thing one night out (Canadian) where we each had a roll of American 1's in our breast pockets- girls were hanging off of us thinking we were some kind of high rollers, only to be blown off with 2$ stuffed between their tits lol good times
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 02:54 PM
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Actually if you read up on EP violent crime rates are predicted by economic disparity between proximal communities and teen pregnancy rates are predicted by life expectancy and general quality of health. Sure there are a lot of black kids being raised without fathers, but you can't assume causation from correlation.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 02:49 PM
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I work on a production-based wage, from contract to contract. Some contracts have a smaller per unit payout but lower quality standards, and vice versa. The median wage stays the same, and going from high payout high quality to low payout low quality (with higher production) is always a breeze. Going the other way though, I've always found that people changing from a lower quality expectation greatly overestimate their own value.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 05:51 PM
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I think that this example applies moreso to urban centres than rural areas (I realize that most people live in some kind of urban sprawl). There are still pockets of masculinity alive and well in less densely populated areas. I'm gonna tell my kids how I planted over a million trees by hand over the course of a decade.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 05:21 PM
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Monday- Saturday: 6 am- 7:30 pm work 7:30 9:00 food, shower, misc. Sleep. Sunday: Carb load 5000 calories swim/ relax sleep
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 11:58 AM
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I like it but the breeding to value part is incorrect. Women have one womb and men have unlimited spooge, and for every woman there're 50 other guys trying to undercut one another's value. As far as breeding transactions go, very few men have higher value than women, that's why alpha fux.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 07:49 AM
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As someone who lives outdoors 6 months of the year for the last decade, I think recommending that someone with little to no outdoor experience go gt lost in the mountains (especially at this time of year) is a bad idea. Tell people where you're going and don't try to take shortcuts in areas you're not familiar with.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 02:52 PM
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I think the act should have equal consequences regardless of who deos it. That said; would the amount fo harm actually done by the punch be taken into consideration were charges to be pressed against her? I mean, I've been punched my angry women, and most of them are laughably weak, whereas if this heavyset ex-cop dude punched her in her sleep I'm pretty sure he would have decimated her entire face. Just wondering, not advocating.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 02:49 PM
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A buddy I was travelling with in Indo got that but the doctor(s) told him they had given him antibiotics that turned out to be morphine. He spent a week in a drugged out haze wondering why he wasn't getting better.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 03:35 PM
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I live in a rural area, and in my circumstances, anyone who places the kind of value a 67 malibu costs on a vehicle of any kind is a fucking retard. Besides that, you're not getting a lot of manly things done in any kind of car, just driving around patting yourself on the back for all the validation your stupid vehicle gets you. I used to have a 68 Dart, and the only people who cared were old greasemonkey dudes. Like I said; cars are nice, not masculine.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 08:49 PM
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Cars are nice, but a man should need a truck
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 03:37 PM
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i've heard that kratom can be good for people getting off of opiates.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 07:56 PM
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Thanks so much guys this gives me some fresh insight into what was up with my gf a little while ago. She mentioned in an offhand way that she wouldn't mind if I fucked other women, I told her I don't want her to sleep with anyone else, but that I would still like to fuck other women. I fully expected her to pull out some gender equality double standard shit along the lines of "I don't care if you d, so I should be able to as well." As such I've been treading carefully around how I could pull it …
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 07:55 PM
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well there ya go
/r/askTRP03/02/15 03:37 PM
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i think that your "them" is a pronoun without a clear reference. I assume you mean the women in question? it's not that I don't take them seriously, it's just another area where I've found that it's best to pick and choose when I take them seriously. If you were referring to alternative health and wellness products then yes I always take sources into account, but only take the time to read up on stuff if it genuinely holds my interest. Most of the time I stop caring in the time it would take for…
/r/askTRP03/02/15 12:28 AM
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Its an evolutionary arms control agreement.men developed jealousy and protectiveness and never trust women and women developed deceptivness to get around that lack of trust. Kind words ,deflection, and flattery. Its all just to maximize the genetic quality of offspring while reaping the benefits of monogamy. We're on to you scheming sluts, its slave labour in the insemination business.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 02:13 AM
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take responsibility for your choices. if you want a better job, go look for one, line it up, quit your current job and start anew. if you want to b e in shape, then get up and go outside before you get distracted by bullshit. Want to stop eating shit food? learn to cook, take charge of your nutrition. want to improve your education? get the ball rolling, start telling people you're going to go, that way you'll have less of an excuse to back out. do general studies/upgrading while you figure out …
/r/askTRP26/01/15 12:41 PM
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I have a similar deal, I had cancer 3 years ago now have a massive zipper scar from 48 staples in my abdomen and am missing one testicle (also cancer). I'm just blunt with it and let it come out organically; don't make it seem like a big deal out of it or shoehorn it into a conversation where it doesn't belong. If you can be comfortable with it and you've got you shit together they'll usually be impressed at your composure and accomplishments considering the obstacles you've faced. I just tell t…
/r/askTRP26/01/15 12:29 PM
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Lol this - I worked 40-50 hrs a week while in uni full time so I could graduate debt free. I didn't complain about how hard I was working to any women. I had one gf who constantly complained that I didn't make enough time for her. She was attracted to the results I created, not the effort it took to create them. Then when she started uni, she figured she could do what I had done, after a week of working part time in retail ( I had been doing 12 hr days in the bush, commuting 4 hrs a day, and doi…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 08:40 PM
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"I expected you to have a normal pussy"
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 08:47 PM
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I think that this may still may be a very theory based excercise for you but you're overthinking things and that you may need some monk time to learn self-love before caring so Mich about girls you haven't even had sex with yet. PS dont take the word of anyone on here including yours truly's as gospel learn to skeptical and form your own opinions.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 09:17 AM
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I'm no expert so I can't really offer some sort of overarching solution to your long-term/lifestyle problems, but I think that for #1) you had it in the bag with the take you home thing and should have taken the opportunity in that moment, your sense of timing must be off because that was your chance and now her hummingbird-esque attention span has found something new and shiny. #2)You should have left when she said no. I suspect you didn't help her to rationalize how she's wouldn't be a slut fo…
/r/askTRP10/01/15 02:46 PM
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check out The Corner. It's about the coming of age/personal lives of a bunch of drug dealers/users in some american ghetto, I can't remember which one. It was the inspiration for a 6 part hbo series and the wire. I cant remember the name of the author he's the guy who wrote the screenplay for homocide; life on the streets.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 09:56 AM
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I agree; it also helps to be legitimately too busy rather than being dishonest about it, it adds consistency to your frame. I had one girl when I was like 18 where I did what you describe constantly, I was always always wishy washy about punctuality and as a result I grew resentful of always having to wait. One day I got all pissy waiting in the living room while she put her tits on in the bathroom, I walked over and told her if you're not ready in 1 minute I'm leaving. She did a complete 180° a…
/r/askTRP24/12/14 03:08 AM
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There's also the bit about jealousy being a turnoff rick ftw
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 10:29 PM
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The parts of his novel that I did address weren't Toronto specific problems. Plus you get drunken flailing skanks and their wacky shenanigans in small towns too, I think addressing OP's attitude first is what's needed here.
/r/askTRP23/12/14 08:46 PM
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Sleep on it and reread your post you'll realize that viewing your experiences objectively is the furthest thing from what you are doing. I read somewhere that trying to analyze yourself is like calling your own phone, you'll always just get a busy signal. Bar skanks are not quality women; try finding an athletic girl who doesn't drink at every opportunity. Partying can be a great way for ppl to bond etc. In the particular cases you're mentioning I would have directly called the girls out for obs…
/r/askTRP23/12/14 05:10 AM
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I have a very similar work situation, except the staff are 50% female and fraternization is encouraged. Every time I get promoted or solve a problem or complete a difficult task in front of the group my SMV gets reevaluated. I call it "contextual alpha" and have been working on a post about it for quite some time. I'll be travelling for a few months but I plan to do a series of field reports come the spring thaw when I start again.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 09:22 PM
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Screen calls from random numbers and name known #'s if hers "don't answer."
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 04:32 AM
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Oh no I can barely function outside of a highly structured environment even when the solution to my problem is right in front of me I'm just afraid to think for myself like a fucking adult guess I'll wallow in mediocrity while life passes me by
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 02:52 PM
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Word; I fucked my knee last week on a 47 km run (had to drop out after 27km got nooo sense of empathy she figured I was weak or something for only making it that far. Like I would have stopped without it being serious pain...
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 04:51 AM
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Look up Sook Yin Lee. Another CBC persona who actually had real sex/masturbated on film and kept her job.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 02:58 PM
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"I'm a homicidal maniac! The really scary part is I look just like everybody else."
/r/askTRP19/10/14 04:35 AM
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My best formula has been to tell the girl(s) at whatever party I'm going that I wanna bang to pick a costume for me. Its a huge confidence display in their eyes plus they'll dress you how they want you as long as you rock and don't give a single fuck you'll always get laid. Last costume party I wore gold tights and a leopard print mini vest. One before that was women's capris and a lacy negligee with a plunging neckline. The content of the costume means nothing. Rocking it with confidence is wha…
/r/askTRP19/10/14 04:30 AM
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Holy fuck this can't be real can it? Poor little guy never even stood a chance.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 01:40 AM
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I guess its a case by case thing. In this instance the girl in question is a longtime coworker and friend so calling her out would probably be better for long term behavior modification rather than a stonewall, which I think is better suited to short term encounters
/r/askTRP15/09/14 01:45 AM
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I had one the other day with a female friend where she caught me off guard with her bullshit- it just reminded me how important it is to be "on" to maintain frame in order to get any respect. She introduced me to my gf's ex's little bro. "Hey bob! This is X's ex's brother. She broke his heart right little bro?" Both of us guys were kinda dumbfounded by how inappropriate of an introduction it was and we both kinda mumbled "hi" at one another. I didn't even realize that I should have called the gi…
/r/askTRP14/09/14 08:12 PM
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I've had this problem. At first it seemed like it would be an issue to have to hold frame all the time but then it was actually better for me all around to have to hold my frame 24/7. Spending my free time smoking weed and playing bids now seems like an adolescent past time anyways, there are more constructive, dynamic, and masculine ways to occupy my time. Or you can have a secret double life, that's fun too.
/r/askTRP14/09/14 04:11 PM
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this girl im hookin up with has an orbiter who constantly disagrees with whatever i say but whispers his disagreements to her rather than confront me, seems like a bitch sabotage move to me, but i dont wanna bring it up with her cause itll make me look insecure. im defs gonna openly call him out next time it happens.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 05:29 PM
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Relax. I had the same problem and it seemed counterintuitive because I was so focused on trying too hard but fittingly enough the effort was misdirected so the cognitive dissonance/ agitation of failure just caused more anxiety. So I worked on relaxing, breathing techniques etc. worked for me
/r/askTRP29/04/14 12:41 PM
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stuff you write in school isn't about what you believe. it's about a given position; how much evidence you can marshal and how you deliver the parcel. you can argue correctly or incorrectly, it doesn't have to reflect what you actually think.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 05:00 AM
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some oilfield jobs in alberta are actually preferentially hiring women because overall they do less damage ($) to the large equipment. For example, if a guy gets stuck in a mudpit or sees that there's some large obstacle blocking the road, they're way more likely to just try and power on through it. i know it's counterintuitive but there ya go
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 06:20 PM
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and don't trust them. they may not actually want to betray you, but they have needs that you can't understand.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 05:57 AM
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i usually discuss my potential exit plan w/ whoever has theor name attarched to the house when i move in.
/r/askTRP23/02/14 07:07 PM
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i think its a pretty big assumption to say that guys dont extract resources from women they aren't attracted to through vague implications of something more. its manipulative and shitty, but its entirely possible, albeit less common.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 08:21 AM
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and they'll project whatever they're attracted to onto you. i had one get mad at me because it turned out im younger than she imagined even though i never withheld or volunteered the info. im gonna try omitting my job too
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 01:28 AM
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having one other hot girl isnt an accurate representation of op's success w/ women. i dont think he's lying about it but one other girl doesnt say much to me
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 08:56 PM
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ha the rationale of this thread is laughable. op is freezing up because she's hot and his fragile ego wont allow him to admit to himself that the problem is his approach anxiety. if you're telling the truth you have all angles working for you and are shitting the bed. ask her about stuff that interests you- lead the convo.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 08:30 PM
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i tell them to repeat back to me what i just said if they try twisting my words. " so what what you're saying is gobble gobble hamster" "no, can you repeat back to me the actual words that just came out of my mouth?" its also a shit test to see if they're actually listening.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 07:42 PM
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i seen one a little while ago by a hippy chick i know (i looked cause her blog is filled w/ porn of herself). she had this bit about her dad telling her that giving away porn of herself on tumblr is demeaning and doesn't reconcile w/ all the femenist rhetoric she posts. she goes on a rant (making no sense) about how her spread eagle butthole pics are fighting patriarchy i couldn't finish reading as my amusment gave way to incomprehension of her rationale.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 09:58 PM
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Native ppl from the Pacific Northwest have ceremonies colloquially known as potlatches to white ppl in which the chief makes a show of giving away as many signifiers of wealth as possible; not only is wealth appropriately distributed, but the chief is able to assert an "alpha" standing in the community. the acceptance of gifts in this context is also considered a reinforcement of the social status of both parties involved in the exchange.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 01:42 AM
1

sounds like you know exactly what you want; a lack of pua reading shouldn't stop you
/r/seduction01/02/14 06:15 PM
2

HA
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 09:04 AM
1

Mac Lethal knows what's up! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dYuOG6RbtK4
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 06:48 AM
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she was also a prostitute before she started acting
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 12:02 PM
1

meh
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 10:27 AM
1

lol i must have skipped the part where it said she was 22. i was totally imagining some crusty 30 something single mom
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 08:52 AM
3

don't plumbers make big$ out there?
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 01:15 AM
3

word. i seen some chick at the beach with a massive trampstamp of a chevy logo.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 10:01 PM
5

wow to cherry pick one offhand comment and assume I'm trolling around casting aspersions on the whole sub. Also notice how I said "discuss primarily western..." not "exclusively" as well as the pseudo-disclaimer mentioning that there'd be rationale for it outside of what I'd already suggested. Thanks for the links but try being more intellectually honest before you hamster an open question into an accusation of wrongdoing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/14 09:56 PM
2

i probably have a different experience as a foreigner. im staying with backpackers where there are groups of hot euro chicks, there seems to be plenty to go around
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 03:37 AM
1

fair enough
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 03:14 AM
3

60k isn't difficult to get in aus, i came here as a foreigner and found most easy to get jobs start around 50k. for a resident w/ an actual career its not nearly as high a threshold ad it would be in north america.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 12:11 AM
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cairns and brisbane are ridiculous meatmarkets. not only are there a ton of hot aussie chicks there are their exponentially sluttier counterparts, the european backpacker chicks. the guys in these areas can next effortlessly, the options are so plentiful. also this article says these women are complaining about a lack of boyfriend material- it doesn't say they're not getting laid. note what they're saying about the shortage of masculinity in urban centres. it does not take much to be seen as mas…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 11:52 PM
1

"don't chase women dude that's a faux pas/ got it backwards chase cash know why?/women will chase riches, yeah I don't lie/ wish I practiced what I preach my whole life" OnCue "Make It All Work"
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 06:04 AM
2

people always blame that place for their bad behaviour rather than take responsibility for their actions.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/14 08:54 PM
1

I'm a logistics manager for a silviculture company (I plant trees)
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 09:22 PM
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i get this all the time-but joke's on them! i have the illusion of making lots of money on my side. i make a high daily rate, but i only work as much as i feel like, which maxes out at 100 days per year. so they think they can get a free ride from me, but guess what im broke again muwahahahahah
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 12:01 PM
2

i'll fuck you up at dominoes
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 12:36 AM
1

i always got an easier time from attractive female teachers. it was the post wall bitchy ones i neglected to put any effort in for. for humanities classes i'd change my thesis based on the teacher's haircut; male with long hair it's anti-capitalist counter culture shit, female with short hair gets tired old mid-70's feminist tropes. if i had a teach who fit into the image of traditional gender stereotype then i'd take the work seriously and try to come up with something original.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/13 12:55 AM
1

no one here knows what they're talking about
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 12:12 PM
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i work for a contract basis company. silviculture doesn't require much training. try looking up silviculture companies. if you wanna work for the govt or do much of anything above the grunt labour i mentioned you need some certs or a forestry degree, or a ton of experience. try getting a first aid level and another forestry cert like danger tree assessment they're short courses(a week at most) or there's firefighting, shakeblocking, i dunno what else to tell you pm me if you want more info.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 12:09 AM
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i work in forestry, alot of grunt labour to be done, good money at the cost of living in a remote camp setting for the duration of your work season. ive got highschool dropouts on my crew making 4-600$ a day. the problem with being uneducated and still making money is that they have less of a reason to develop as people.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 09:03 AM
1

i was gonna put something along those lines only known a few pilots but 2 had parents who were millionaires and could do whatever they wanted and the other ones worked their asses off for like 10 yrs in extremely remote locations just to get the experience. not to mention the cost of recerts while chasing that pilot gig
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 08:57 AM
2

the judge in blood meridian by cormac mccarthy. that guy is straight up terrifying pure evil. many alpha attributes, but also morally reprehensible to say the least. a renaissance monster.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/13 02:21 AM
2

i think they value improvizational intelligence. ie; problem solving, good sense of humour, ability to express oneself etc. note on being part of a joke/being teased, it makes for bad improv to reject someone's suggestion; always accept it and go with it, same goes for daily interactions.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 05:02 AM
1

thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/13 02:04 PM
2

i was just wondering about this, happened to me the other night, i just did it right back. wierd thing was she gave me this wtf? look. so i called her on it, "you just did it to me." she gave a little nod and poutfrown like "fair enough"
/r/seduction27/11/13 04:52 AM
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word
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 11:02 AM
8

han solo?
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 11:00 AM
1

the version of events that everyone else experiences is alot closer to yours when you're sober- drunk you'll think it's the perfect moment or that you're bein all classy etc when really you're a sloppy mess. even if you don't understand why, you're getting the same advice from two ppl, just go with it.
/r/askTRP25/11/13 12:24 AM
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have you explicitly said anything along the lines of i want you or tried going for a kiss- sounds like shes into you but maybe when you're drunk is bad timing go for it sober. sounds like you know what you want and what you should do and just need some support to reaffirm what you already know. fly little bird, fly!
/r/askTRP24/11/13 09:39 AM
1

i was gonna put timing but this is pretty much it
/r/seduction24/11/13 05:05 AM
3

the first one sounds like you missed the timing, if she actually said she wants your cock or whatever you gotta capitalize on that moment,she probably changed her mind during the night. the second one sounds like you gotta make it clear what you want she's probably wondering same as you, that and her roomate didn't help your cause.
/r/askTRP24/11/13 04:47 AM
2

i agree that trp may have constructed a false binary of sluts vs wives maybe a separate thread is in order?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/13 10:13 AM
1

its the same way men are wired for jealousy. men watch over a good woman like hawks when they know other men want them, women have developed deflection and flattery to keep men from reality and alleviate that jealousy. evolutionary sexual arms race.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 04:38 AM
2

well no one qnswered your question, and you neglected to take the advice given. the hamster is strong in this thread.
/r/askTRP30/10/13 01:20 AM
3

nuance has never been popular
/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 05:35 AM
1

fair enough
/r/TheRedPill07/10/13 11:28 AM
2

i've found in the last little while that the carpet-bombing technique of meeting a ton of people as a way of increasing your chances to score on average is quite draining. i find myself having alot of superficial exchanges even if the girl thinks there's some chemistry, i'm just following a formula. people just become faceless blobs and it makes it hard to care about much of what they say or do. as a result im only going for ones who actually pique my interest, not just" that one's hot, let's se…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/13 11:08 AM
0

for cereal? is that even a question?
/r/TheRedPill06/10/13 06:03 AM
2

her: girls have tests you know, and right now you're failing. me: how's this? i'm not playing a fucking game here. goodbye.(walk away) her:(comes running after me) i'm sorry, that was really immature of me...(wordy hamster)
/r/TheRedPill04/10/13 12:40 PM
2

this annoys the fuck out of me but at the same time if i really want a girl's attention i'll call her out on the phone bullshit or just interrupt her as if she weren't on it. i just rudely interrupt the phone geeks now if i want to approach them, lots of the time they'll put it down
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 10:28 PM
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i have a personal rule against chicks who drink frequently or alot in one sitting. it denotes a ton of potential risks I know better than to get near. I also think the abscence of a sense of humour or when they think they're funny but aren't is a sign of prior egofarming/ being gassed up by orbiters.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 07:34 AM
1

kinda funny, I came here for that exact reason and now your explanation completes the bitching/confirmation cycle. Wieeeeeeerd
/r/askTRP01/10/13 12:07 PM
2

I agree that weapons are the democratization of physical strength (not ideology) but I also think that advocating the use of lethal force bespeaks a level of paranoia and hostility that most people don't have to live with in our safe little suburban enclaves. Unless of course you're getting at some Amurican Evangelical Apocalypse scenario in which case you've got a whole new set of issues. Besides that, think of the implication here- if women are wrongfully accussing rape- or neglecting to forse…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/13 06:03 AM
4

I don't like how post one night stand remorse gets classed as rape, but I think it's important to remember that lots of women freeze up (deer in the headlights) in the face of physical intimidation, especially from a man, who in most cases is much bigger and stronger than them. Have you ever had a dude about a foot taller with 40-75lbs on you manhandle you? I think part of it is a lack of knowledge about slef defense. Like the ppl on this thread talking about chicks carrying weapons- unless tjey…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/13 01:53 AM
3

I hang out with alot of itinerant alternative lifestyle traveller type people, of which I am one. Most people in my life are pretty transient, so it comes with the territory. By stick around for a week I think that I've incorrectly implied that we cut off contact once the sex part is over. Usually I try to set a "no pressure" precedent following the first hookup, that way it plants the seed of being casual but they think it's their call. As for the where, I prefer day game. If I see one I like o…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/13 05:15 AM
4

I'm permenantly sterile due to a surgical complication and I get where you're coming from. However, I haven't had any trouble with 21-24 yr old girls, however it's a certain type of girl, ones that I would have had no problem with anyways, they stick around for a week or.two, we have our fun, everyone's happy. It's the special ones who I can't seem to get near, you know like if you can see it going somewhere before even sleeping together. I think they're aware of their smv and play for higher st…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/13 11:45 PM
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you mean those trailer trash lookin wannabe models who put up revealing pics of themselves in obvious cries for attention are only slightly less insecure than the groups of desperate dudes fawning over one mediocre girl in a desperate cry for her attention?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/13 11:34 PM
3

we'll never regret this!
/r/askTRP26/09/13 10:57 AM
1

maybe try talking to your father about it first? you can't usually say what people will do in a given circumstance until they are actually in that situation. I wouldn't advocate anything that would jeoparodize your relationship with your family, but perhaps planting the seed in his mind could make him more understanding?
/r/askTRP25/09/13 11:30 AM
1

grab a handful of her hair and take a long deep smell " we use the same shampoo"
/r/seduction25/09/13 12:16 AM
1

this fallen nature rhetoric sounds eerily similar to a conservative christian trope to me. Maybe you're moralizing too heavily and that's what gives your lens a negative light. Would like to expand but am typing on a phone in a flight boarding line.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/13 12:11 PM
2

lots og landlords are willing to work it where you only pay 2 weeks rent for the last month and they keep the damage deposit. then gtfo
/r/TheRedPill24/09/13 06:07 AM
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I love the books but I wouldn't look to them for guidance. The guy was of exceptional value as a writer,and I'm sure it compensated for his otherwise mediocre market value, but the version of events we get is mediated through his authorial persona. He says in his documentary "It's my story of course I'm the fuckin hero" (or something to that effect). I love pussy, but I don't envy rampant alchoholism.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/13 10:16 PM
1

that attitude won't help
/r/seduction14/09/13 09:06 AM
8

so once she's onboard I club her over the head right?
/r/TheRedPill13/09/13 08:54 AM
1

I actually had the same thing with my lt partner but I had alot of other things going for me to counterbalance it. From the sounds of it this guy needs a haircut.
/r/seduction10/09/13 12:31 PM
1

you can game in multiple circles as long as you keep your bubbles separate. I keep tabs on what's been said about me through a female wingman friend that is a social butterfly so she talks to everybody. I have no intentions on her. In return I.keep her informed on what the guys say about her and neither of us may interfere on the other's set. Our arrangment obviously isn't this explicit but we make a.point of keeping each other informed and sticking up for one another in case of naysayers.
/r/seduction10/09/13 12:23 PM
1

yup
/r/seduction10/09/13 12:21 PM
2

I've decided recently not to focus on bars/clubs as a way for meeting people. I just meet people in the daytime. You get people's actaul attention and as far as girls go there aren't usually crowds of cockblockers getting in the way. I'd chop the hair if you care what girls think of it, lots of them probably find it unhygenic(not trying to be a dick but yeah) Getting in shape is also something you're in control of.
/r/seduction10/09/13 12:15 PM
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she's got 50 other guys trying to undercut your price and in case of conception her investment is relatively extreme. Your sperm and every other guys sperm are practically umlimited making your sexual investment basically worthless. That's why they expect you to invest every possible resource into her(and eventually your offspring). Unfortunately men are in a shit negotiating position. Your leverage is your value eg: your genes, resources, and behavior. Unless of course you don't care if the dea…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/13 01:45 AM
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I plant trees for a living and I love it. I make ok money, and it keeps me in great shape. It got me through uni debt-free and next fall I plan on entering a Master's program. Wear and tear on your body is inevitable and can be mitigated by taking care.of yourself. I love that I can get such a tangible sense of accomplishment from something so simple. I hit 1 million trees this year!
/r/askTRP08/09/13 05:00 AM
2

Ha didn't notice that. I'm typing on a phone and apparently not proofreading.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/13 08:44 AM
2

I seem to attract these ones and found no need to don a costume or educate myself on their music/ scene etc. Being yourself will probly make you naturally different from the other dudes who are into that punk/body mod stuff.
/r/askTRP05/09/13 06:13 AM
1

I'm actually happy with my situation, I am better off on my own. I was stating that I have a hypothetical problem with women I haven't met yet and you turned it into some butthurt ragefest. Calm your achey breaky tits your typing reads like a bitter loser. It's funny everyone assumes I got dumped for being sterile- I left her because I couldn't give her what she deserves, and she still begs to get back together with me; there were other irreconilable issues at play. Did you even read the post?
/r/askTRP30/08/13 10:04 PM
1

Yes, and I do, but it's kinda overwhelming for a woman to think about. I guess I've gotta work on how I spin that.
/r/askTRP27/08/13 11:04 PM
1

If you noticed the details of my problem- nothing comes out. I get a bj, when I come nothing happens. I can see your suggestion working in the case of shooting blanks, but I'm not shooting anything, and they kinda tend to notice that.
/r/askTRP27/08/13 11:02 PM
2

I'm pretty open about it, and it tends to come up organically, I'm just not really ok with deliberately omitting it as part of some strategy
/r/askTRP27/08/13 01:18 PM
1

Women actually assign relative weight to different qualities depending on which stage of their fertilty cycle they are at.Liquidity is certainly a high value quality but creativity increases in value near peak fertility, even if it's not accompanied by an abundance of resources. That's just one example; obviously there are a variety of other traits that have variable values depending on fertility/ environmental context.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/13 10:48 AM
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I've had women tell me that they get turned on by watching me do stereotypically msculine stuff like splitting wood or changing a flat tire.One of my go tos is to invite a girl fishing, then if one us catches a keeper, kill it by punching it, then make a fire and eat it on the spot. They act all concerned for the fish at first but they love it.
/r/seduction27/08/13 10:01 AM
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i have a sneaking suspicion that this thread will never show up when r/feminism gets all butthurt
/r/askTRP
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why is it always "oh that bitch slept with my close friend" why isn't anyonevupset at the duplicity of the guy- what kind of friend does that shit? they can have each other
/r/askTRP
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