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Fitnessfilli1aj/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 02:56 PM
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Find something to get angry about, that’s always worked for me
/r/TheRedPill16/10/25 05:40 PM
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You should listen to the song ‘born and raised’ by John Mayer. I think you’ll relate to it quite well
/r/TheRedPill16/10/25 05:22 PM
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Sounds like you’ve lost your mojo. Getting emotionally destroyed by this new girl will probably help. And I’m not being sarcastic either.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/25 05:15 PM
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That’s fine, everyone’s free to make their own choices
/r/TheRedPill26/09/25 12:50 PM
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What else are they supposed to do? Most people are average and most people won’t escape the average life. Most men either have an office job or a labor job. Very few make it as pro athletes, musicians or whatever other occupation is going to make them busy on a Saturday night. If they want to spend a Saturday night drinking beer, what’s the big deal?
/r/TheRedPill25/09/25 11:46 PM
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This is true. A lot of guys think of the wedding as the finish line. In life you can never truly take your foot off the gas and relax or else things tend to slip away. Marriage included. That said, women are finicky creatures, we cannot control them. A man could do everything right and still find himself in a dead bed room. In any case, I’m not one to wag my finger at another man for enjoying his life. If he wants to spend his weekend with the boys and not his wife, who am I to judge?
/r/TheRedPill25/09/25 07:22 PM
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Could be a chicken or the egg scenario. Which came first, the dead bed room or going out with the guys
/r/TheRedPill24/09/25 11:01 PM
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That is because it is
/r/TheRedPill01/06/25 01:23 PM
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I’m in a pretty similar situation as you. 32, very jacked, make lots of money, close to 1M in mutual funds, friends are all married with kids. Pretty similar attributes. My advice is to listen to some creed, lift weights and care as little about everything as possible.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/25 12:27 PM
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What kind of man gets happy that his child gets murdered? You’re lost man and you don’t even realize it.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/24 07:14 PM
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If the shoe was on the other foot you would not be happy
/r/TheRedPill10/12/23 03:01 AM
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I agree. Back when I was younger and didn’t care about anybody but myself, I dabbled. It just feels gross all around. Not to say I am a virtuous man now, but these days I at least try to leave things better than when I found them. In another world you might end up becoming friends with that woman’s husband. Why do that to another man if you don’t have to.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/23 07:49 PM
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There’s a reason why when my generation were kids there were no girls allowed in the tree house. This is because they always have to make it about them. Once she’s in, say good bye from defending your tree house against orcs and shit. Now it’s about making a play house and having a beauty pageant. Even as little kids we understood these things. Thanks to the indoctrination station AKA public schools, men everywhere have forgotten. Anyways, no girls allowed!!!
/r/TheRedPill02/12/23 10:01 PM
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We’ll take it from me as a guy in his 30s. I don’t have a “squad” anymore. These things matter less as you get older. Your boys will be the first to betray you, this is often true. So it is all the better to focus on self improvement. The more you can provide for yourself the better. Improve enough and you’ll be able to acquire new women quietly. No threat to your situation if no one knows that you have one. Anyway, it’s gets easier with age (because you’ll have more agency)
/r/TheRedPill22/11/23 06:08 PM
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You sound young. I remember back when I was your age and in the fraternity, there was this girl who slept with a different brother every weekend. It didn’t take long until she would pit guys against each other to the point where we had fights in the house over this girl. It happened a couple of times and we had to ban her. Your situation reminds me of that. I’m glad I’m not your age anymore.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/23 01:32 AM
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My friend what you need is to look into -self talk-. Learn how to optimize the voice in your head to work for you not against you. If you think about your life being a factory and all the daily outcomes are products, then the internal voice in your head and the thoughts you tell yourself, are the assembly line. Teach yourself to never use a “down” word or a “negative energy” word. Now don’t look at this like some hippy shit, this is supply chain and logistics baby. Pragmatic, tangible, qualitati…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/23 02:30 PM
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Out growing friend groups is a great sign of self improvement. As a young man your friends are most likely due to proximity. As you get older, new friendships are based on some mutual interest of building or providing value. Beer buddies only matter for young insecure men. If you have real plans, real ambitions, what is a beer buddy doing for you? Nothing but pulling you away from what you could be doing. On the inverse, making friends in the self improvement game, these men will support you bec…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/23 04:23 AM
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The only thing I took away from this post is that you’re insecure about guys with bigger biceps
/r/TheRedPill16/10/23 03:25 AM
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This post is so low effort, why did you even write it?
/r/TheRedPill15/10/23 10:51 PM
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Hard to succinctly explain. But it used to be the Wild West. It was the marriage between a man improving his SMV while maximizing his options. Then the culture war happened. From 2019 and onward the culture war became too much of a burden to ignore. It’s hard to focus on getting laid when an entire skin color/religion on the other side of town wants you dead. And it goes in all directions. Look no further than the brown vs brown you are seeing today, right now. The red pill was great back when c…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/23 09:22 PM
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We cannot underestimate how many men out there want kids and a family but also see the insurmountable levels of risk in doing so. When the deck is stacked this high, it is not surprising that many men are choosing not to play.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/23 09:26 PM
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Whinge is a different word stupid 😭😭😭
/r/TheRedPill22/07/23 04:47 PM
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Not a bad post on the surface but you didn’t offer up any alternative, no call to action, no solutions. Whatever points you have that may have validity to it don’t matter. Without a Point B, this post is nothing more than whinging.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/23 01:53 PM
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Your first time having sex and your ten thousandth time having sex are two very different experiences. One is magical, and the other is no different than having a cigarette or drinking a beer.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/23 12:48 PM
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I’ll give you a lot of credit for trying, most people never get to that point. Personally I never found cold approach or any PUA side of things to ever work. I’ve had my share of spur of the moment flings back when I was a hedonistic party hopper. A vast majority of the time I was meeting people that were also meeting people. I’m sure this will be a divisive take but I am confident that pick up game is a waste of valuable time. As a retired hedonistic party hopper I spent a majority of my 20s cl…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/23 03:28 AM
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100% with the steroids comment. I’m a natural body builder (done 4 shows working on my 5th) and I’m trying to steer the ship around. There is no reason anyone should be doing steroids. Unless of course they are getting paid millions for a movie or something. But that’s not 99.99% of guys.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/23 11:26 PM
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I’ll be honest I didn’t finish the post because it was too long but I’m happy for you getting a part time job in the gym. Smart move.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/23 11:05 AM
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There’s enough slices of the pie to go around. Going after fresh and fit like this just screams sensationalism to me. I do agree with the critique of the whatever pod cast though. I don’t think the Brian fellow is red pilled at all. Which is odd considering he started out as a PUA channel. He has questionable behavior. Anyways I digress. It’s all people trying to make money off grifting.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/23 11:20 PM
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This is a post pointing fingers at grifters meanwhile having clickable links at the bottom of the post selling self help material. Am I the only one who sees the irony here?
/r/TheRedPill19/06/23 06:07 PM
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You are missing the point. Yes they are sleeping with the same men but it’s taking them LONGER to get to the front of the line. Unless you know of some guys that have more than one dick let me know. I could be behind on the times.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/23 07:25 PM
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If you think about it logically that means women are having less sex as well. You ever been to a Costco gas station? Big lines every time. Now imagine half the pumps are down. That line for the pump is now twice as long. Same logic applies
/r/TheRedPill18/06/23 01:39 PM
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Number 1 thing you can do is sign up. Once you pay your registration fee it becomes real. Don’t worry about winning your first show. Just sign up for the open and see how it goes. Most first timers will get smoked by the guys competing for a pro card. Just do the thing and pay the photographer for your stage photos. You’ll have them forever.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/23 01:26 PM
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People are having less sex today than ever before. Mostly men but also women too. Some of the guys here don’t leave their house.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/23 11:40 AM
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Not true. It’s easier now than it was in the 60s and 70s. You could say todays culture is downstream of yesterdays
/r/TheRedPill14/06/23 11:19 PM
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Doing a few shows can be a great way to get footage for social. One show alone can be years worth of footage if you milk it properly
/r/TheRedPill06/06/23 12:50 PM
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I had oenitis real bad back in the day so I won’t grill you like the other guys here did. If it means anything, sometimes she pops up in my Instagram feed and I don’t know what I saw in her. Maybe it was the oxytocin or dopamine, but whatever it was I don’t feel it anymore. The passage of time fixes most things. Definitely compete in bodybuilding though. I’ve done 4 shows and I’m training for my 5th. It’s addicting in its own way
/r/TheRedPill05/06/23 09:39 PM
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Ever since I went sober I’ve been so business driven. I’m in my 30s and have no problem working 80 hours a week. 40 at my day job and every other waking hour on my side business. This would not have been possible if I was hung over all the time.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/23 02:03 AM
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You want to be a baller and yet you’re taking drugs. The word of your life is “or” not “and”. The sooner you figure that out the better.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/23 11:06 AM
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Many of the young men that find themselves here need serious help. Having kids and raising them is the end goal for many guys, this is true. However many of these young lads couldn’t create one if they wanted to. It’s like trying to talk college calculus to a kid who hasn’t learned to solve for X yet.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/23 12:54 PM
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Dating apps are really only good for knocking the rust off the ol screw driver. It was never meant to be any more than that.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/23 02:05 AM
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I’m a semi-professional body builder. At 30 years old I still get asked by strangers what school I go to or what sport I play. At 40 as long as I have a hip hair cut that hides my grays, I don’t see why I couldn’t look the same way I do now. Also major pro tip for the lads. Being tan is the number 1 way to age yourself. I know girls that are 26-27 that have seen so many summers their skin is already like leather. Happens to guys too. Just get a spray tan like the good ol Donald did and be done w…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/23 11:04 PM
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My goodness what has happened to this place. I thought the last post I read here was embarrassing but this is something else entirely. Have you kids been drinking that Ohio water?
/r/TheRedPill27/04/23 08:42 PM
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This post is so whack that I’m embarrassed to be here
/r/TheRedPill21/04/23 12:12 PM
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If people think going to the gym is a chore they should dig up their great grand fathers and ask them how coal mining went. Life used to actually be hard. Nowadays every gym goer is a modern day Socrates, whinging away while performing labor as a leisurely activity. Wouldn’t be a problem if they kept it to themselves. However, these are the same people that are fitness influencers like Jocko and Goggins. To a rookie that has never been to the gym before, the life sounds terrible. Why would anyon…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/23 12:29 AM
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There is all around too much whining in gym culture. You’re going to a cozy room to put metal discs on things and then pick it up. It’s really not that serious. And then you’ve got the guys who go on pod casts and talk about “going to the gym every day, even if you don’t want to.” Who doesn’t want to go to the gym? It’s literally like going to the play ground.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/23 06:05 PM
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Believe me, I am very aware!
/r/TheRedPill11/04/23 01:23 AM
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Transgenders consoom. There’s no ceiling to how much they’ll spend to feel the way they were meant to. Meanwhile all these conservative white guys are saving their money to buy stocks and some of them even build their own stuff!!! How the fuck are you supposed to collect taxes from a guy like that?
/r/TheRedPill10/04/23 06:22 PM
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Let’s compare bank statements!!
/r/TheRedPill09/04/23 10:20 PM
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It’s never too late. I’m busy with Easter but if you send me a DM I will reply. I’m a body builder by trade so I know a thing or two about losing weight
/r/TheRedPill09/04/23 08:09 PM
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The fanfic going on here is odd but I’ll bite. You took a girl to a bar/club which is a terrible move for a guy your age. I’m guessing you are 18-19? Logistics are very important. Club game only works after you’ve had sex. If you’re having sex taking a girl dancing is a fun time. If you haven’t had sex, you’ll end up having a night just like the one you described. I would caution you to lose the ego. You’re 18-19, there is nothing cool or awesome about you. Nothing personal. You haven’t been ali…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/23 05:19 PM
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If you lose all your leverage there’s not much you can do. So it’s better to have not lost the leverage in the first place. Some guys really are past the point of no return, it’s a cruel world. That’s why guys here preach not to get married. Once you’re in the marriage hole there’s not much you can do to dig yourself out, short of cutting your losses and abandoning ship. To me that’s actually a viable option but too many guys get cold feet and won’t follow through with it. So preventive medicine…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/23 04:21 PM
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This mind set right here is why two kids from the same family can have such different lives. One becomes rich and the other a junky. If I could ever personify crab in a bucket mentality to a single comment, yours would be it.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/23 07:03 PM
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I found this sub almost a decade ago now if you can believe it. I got dumped by a girl that made me cry. It was an ugly cry too. Snot coming out of my nose and shit. Back then we had the misc boards on bodybuilding . com. A guy there said to check this place out so I did. Back then we didn't have a fresh and fit podcast and Rollo was still this anonymous guy you knew next to nothing about. It was more exciting back then, more mystery. I don't have anything to contribute, I'm just reminiscing.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/23 06:57 PM
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This is the way. Bless you.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/23 06:45 PM
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This post made me so happy to read. Its fascinating how aligned we are. It is as if you pulled the thoughts right out of my head. To add to this post, the consumer class has one purpose in society and also in life, and that is to have their resources extracted out from them by the productive. The best way to fight back against this social dilemma is to find out what people are wasting their resources on and be the one to give it to them. It is imperative that each of you become producers at all …
/r/TheRedPill03/04/23 06:44 PM
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What adult doesn’t want to have kids are you out of your mind? Guys like you wanna keep shooting your future into some Kleenexes and bitchin about these hoes! Go ahead and lose what the fuck do I care!
/r/TheRedPill28/03/23 08:39 PM
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It’s definitely not bitching on forums about guys that have kids. LOL
/r/TheRedPill28/03/23 08:12 PM
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Crab in a bucket. Some people are in this world winning, you simply aren't one of them.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/23 03:48 PM
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If you are not sure if she’s interested, she is not interested.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/23 11:13 PM
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If I could give my 21 year old self advice it would be to not get involved in the heavy booze and booger sugar. If you start learning how to make money at 21 you will slingshot yourself forward. At 25 you would be ahead of the curve.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/23 06:26 AM
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I found this subreddit years ago and stopped coming around 2017/2018, whenever it was that it got quarantined. I’ve only recently come back as I think there are much bigger problems to be solved than just girls. I post the same messaging here as I do other sites. There is a growing disparity for young men, men in general and even women too. There are many who feel altogether that they do not belong in todays world anymore and I’ve made it somewhat of a mission of mine to try and pull a few peopl…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/23 09:25 PM
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Don’t quit your day job until your side hustle makes 50% of your income and has potential to go vertical. You can always just phone it in. You ever see the movie office space?
/r/TheRedPill08/02/23 05:05 PM
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Look into getting into extreme sports. The more dangerous the better. Not only will it give you more confidence but if it gets you killed in the process, people are going to think, wow I didn’t know AirForceNerd was such a bad ass.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/23 03:09 AM
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You’ll have to decide for yourself if you want to participate. For a man there are 2 options when it comes to dating and the sexual market place. Win as much as possible Or Choose not to participate There’s no right answer between these two in regards to the sexual marketplace. However, “just be yourself” is always the wrong answer.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/23 11:39 PM
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Glad you asked. There are many things you can do for extra money. In fact it’s never been easier than right now. Take a look at all your hobbies. Do you watch football? Do you play video games? Do you eat food? Instead of being a consumer find ways to make money off these things. On Saturdays and Sunday’s, drive Uber for football games, listen to the game on the radio. Instead of playing call of duty, look up what mobile games are coming out in 2023 and start making hype videos for them. When th…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/23 04:54 PM
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Someone you could look into is actually the YouTuber kinobody. Kids background is filthy rich. Disgustingly rich. Thing about him though is his dad died when he was young so he inherited everything. It’s easy to make fun of him and he does seem a bit out of touch with reality, but none the less he’s made a successful fitness YouTube channel that may have surpassed his father in income. Maybe you could look into this guy and see how he does things.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/23 01:54 PM
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The Asians and the whites have a lot in common. I’d rather not cast stones.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/22 01:28 PM
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I'm doing the same thing however on a mountain instead of the beach. In ages past you had to quit your job to be a ski bum, but not anymore! There has never been a better time to bend the rules and push the envelope. If you get caught you can always try again at another company.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/22 05:15 PM
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The issue of the normalization of shitting on white people is a whole other topic. To sum it up, it sucks I’m sure, but the pros outweigh the cons. For the last several centuries White Americans have been and still are the dominant race. At last we see each other plainly. Here is a perfect example of my original statement. Evil whitey and his dominance on the world. I will stick to my own kind but I appreciate your perspective. For the record I believe black Americans have a legitimate reason to…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 11:42 AM
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Yes I do. Also for the Black, Native, Mexican, Jewish, Asian, Eastern European, and so on and so forth These conversations get so tiresome. Ive seen this red herring a thousand times before. You knew my answer before you asked the question. There is no need for either of us to play dumb. I’m happy to inform you I have been waking my fellow man from their slumber. In time the self loathing white will learn to love himself once again. Who knows, maybe you’ll be one of them!
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 05:08 AM
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When I see what has happened to the once great cities of America and Europe my heart weeps. Does you heart weep as mine does?
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 12:00 AM
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Im a Central European white guy who has gone his life being told his kind are evil and “owe it to the world”. I’ve watched my country (USA) get plundered every which way and if this country falls the foreigners will go back to their homelands with riches in hand. My grandfathers generation were tricked into killing each other. I refuse to make the same mistake. Instead I dedicate myself to bringing my brothers up. Strange people speaking strange languages are not my brothers. I was told that lie…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/22 12:42 PM
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I’m going to get in a lot of trouble for this take but here it goes. When I changed my frame from being about me, to being about my ancestry and heritage my frame increased ten fold. My goals have changed from how do I make myself happy, to how can I bring happiness to my people?
/r/TheRedPill19/12/22 11:42 PM
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There is truth to what you are saying and also truth to the middle age divorce raped guys as well. A lot of things in life get better as you become an older man but some things get worse as well. The older you get, the less forgiving the world is on you. Being in your 40s can really suck. Even if you are on top. For reference, we can look at the man himself, Tom Brady. He’s getting divorced, people every where are saying he needs to quit. Guy has 7 rings, more than anyone has ever had and ever w…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/22 04:07 AM
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There are plenty of women out there that are not on birth control. But making the kid is the easy part. Can you keep the family together? That’s the big question, and through the gym I know MANY older guys in their 40s and up. Across the board the answer seems to be no. The issue seems bigger than any one man can solve. I don’t want to believe that the traditional family will stay dead. But I do see signs of you being right about that. What can any of us do? Lift weights and spin plates I guess.…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/22 02:36 PM
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Red pill is nothing more than true knowledge. What you choose to do with it is up to you. If you don’t want to spin plates you don’t have to. Sex is like drugs and dessert. You’ll never be full and you can never have enough. It’s fun but there’s no fulfillment from it. I think every guy should at least experience it, if for no other reason than to get it out of your system. But if it’s never in your system in the first place, and you are ok with that, no need to start. A side note, deep down all…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/22 04:15 AM
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You’re right everything sucks and we’re all doomed. may as well just take the easy way out already. Oy vey
/r/TheRedPill07/12/22 12:53 PM
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2K followers won’t get you anything tangible. That is your foot in the door. Prior to 2K you are invisible on Instagram. As far as making money goes, you have to be savvy with it. If you don’t monetize in any way you’ll make zero dollars, even if you had 50k+ followers. To make money you need to partner with larger businesses to run ads. Or, you start your own business and use your already large following to push your own product/service. So a body builder like myself might put a link in the bio…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/22 12:43 PM
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I agree completely. Some men are born with drive, some have it but it’s buried, and the rest simply lack potential. I think it’s pivotal to the life cycle of a man to do out reach and help young men unlock their potential. But many do not have it. It can be draining to sort through all the bums. Conversely there is something cathartic about sharing success secrets. So even if no one was saved, at least it’s enjoyable to share how we did it.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/22 04:09 AM
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Guy with your level of intelligence I wouldn’t be surprised if you were “vaccinated”. A real fuckin genius you must be!
/r/TheRedPill07/12/22 03:36 AM
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Best way to get followers is to decide what your niche will be. Maybe you like to skate board. Post 20-30 skateboarding pics/reels. After that go look for hash tags related to skateboarding. Sort by new, and start liking, commenting and following each post. Once you hit 2k followers you probably don’t need to follow anymore. But like and comment on new posts every day. Treat Instagram like a game. Lots of people just use it to take photos of themselves out with friends. You are going to use it w…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/22 03:28 AM
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the schmucks here just aren’t going to get it. The Pareto principle reigns again. 20% of people are producers, 80% are consoomers. Consooming product and getting hype for the next product! You are absolutely right about Instagram. The guys willing to put in the work will reap its reward. Forget about the pussy aspect for a moment. An Instagram following of 50k+ opens up money making opportunities that have never existed before in human history. Used to be you had to model and send a portfolio to…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/22 03:22 AM
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What are you trying to be an average Joe Schmoe? Jeeze guy, isn’t the point of this post, and the entire sub, not to be average? It’s not hard to get 1k followers. Any lazy bum who can DM people can get 1k followers. I fuckin tell ya, so many people don’t do shit that if someone does even just a little shit they can pull ahead. Man this comment really rubbed me the wrong way. I should congratulate you for pissing me off this close to bed time.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/22 03:13 AM
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A concept at work that has served me well is to take on as much work as I can handle, and then scale back if I need to.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/22 02:17 PM
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If you want to throw away a possible wife for some street rats who are we to stop you?
/r/TheRedPill01/12/22 01:43 AM
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This is a good lesson for you to learn. Never open up or vent your problems to your girl. Life isn’t fair, you need to understand the rules and play by them. She can’t help you with your financial problems. All she can do is lose attraction. The only thing you might be able to do at this stage is become incredibly aloof over the next few weeks. You may lose her anyway, but by being aloof you might reignite some mysterious qualities in you. I think it goes without saying that you do not explain t…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/22 04:34 PM
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I’m at a loss for words. Leaving it there, peace!
/r/TheRedPill21/11/22 04:34 PM
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One thing I do before I read a post is check how long it is. When I saw how long this was I didn’t even start it. Just being straight up with you OP. You gotta cut the fat if you want people to read.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/22 09:04 PM
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This used to be a nice neighborhood click clack
/r/TheRedPill03/11/22 04:17 PM
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You’re a young guy so I’ll give you a pass for thinking you need to become cold hearted. Family is the one thing you can’t get two of. As a young man you are coming of age and so it’s natural for you to leave the nest and build your own life. It’s not uncommon and most guys your age go through this to some extent. There is a reason the prodigal son is such a popular parable in the New Testament. You’ll learn the lesson later in life that you need to preserve the relationship you have with your f…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/22 12:14 AM
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Good write up and field report. Oneitis gets the best of us. Every guy goes through it eventually. Even post awakening Oneitis is always a heart to heart conversation away. Similar to religious practice, we have to return to our discipline or craft with high frequency lest we forget. Stray for too long and you can fall for the same traps that you did when still plugged in and unaware. Recognizing mistakes and picking yourself up after you fall is part of the growing process. Keep getting better …
/r/TheRedPill07/10/22 06:55 PM
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Before writing posts like these you need to ask yourself what lesson or point you are trying to make to your audience. I did read it and picked up that you are at least aware of enough going on in the world to know about opium in Afghanistan and the poison that is goy slop (sugar). But this post meandered for far too long, with nothing of value coming out of it. If you’re going to write posts you need to have a plan first.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/22 05:58 PM
3

Thanks to the digital age the world has gotten a lot smaller. There's nowhere left to run, no where left to hide. A man has better odds clawing his way to the top than to find gold when there are no longer uncharted lands. Life's a bitch ain't it!
/r/TheRedPill03/10/22 03:44 PM
2

If that is the case, I would recommend doing total body work outs 3x a week. That means you do the core compound movements all in the same day. (3 sets of each, no more than that is needed) Bench, shoulder press, squat, pull ups, seated row. You could also dead lift but I don’t personally like the exercise. A good substitute would be the suit case dead lift (1 hand with a dumbbell or kettlebell) or just kettle bell swings. If you do those 6 exercises (18 sets total), 3 days a week, you should be…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/22 07:03 PM
1

I see that you are staying up late. If you are staying up late playing vidya or watching shows, ask yourself this. What am I accomplishing? If you go to bed just an hour earlier, you can wake up an hour earlier. That's enough time to hit the gym in the morning. Now, not only do you have time to hit the gym 5 days a week, but your nights are also now available for you to go on dates/gym again. Nothing wrong with a little vidya before bed, but you have to be honest with yourself. Is that last hour…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/22 06:03 PM
4

Good perspective on monkey branching. It really is no different than spinning plates for men.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/22 11:49 AM
7

Right there with ya. It’s ironic. Just like you I found the red pill after some very hard experiences in my early 20s that left me broken and confused. I spent the decade improving and becoming the man I always envisioned in my head. Now that I am that guy, dating is harder than ever before. And I don’t mean getting laid, that’s the easy part. I’ve progressed enough that girls that I would’ve fawned over in the past are unsuitable to me. I am the antithesis of a career woman. My standards are to…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/22 04:06 PM
14

Was just talking about this with a friend last night. I gave up plate spinning to give the Christian values a try. I’m still Christian but it doesn’t seem like things are going to change. Thinking about getting back into plate spinning even though I already know it leads no where. If this black pill world is unavoidable, may as well keep getting laid. Beats the alternative I suppose.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/22 02:56 PM
1

The point is that you’re a doomer and life is better off living in the woods or in a black pill commune. Do I have it right?
/r/TheRedPill02/09/22 07:12 PM
1

You already said that. Did you look into the Weimar Republic yet?
/r/TheRedPill02/09/22 06:27 PM
1

The current trend is a truly unregulated sexual market place The last time this happened in recent human history it didn’t end well for those that partook. I won’t get into detail about that here, but I suspect history is going to repeat itself, and these things will sort themselves on their own over time. If you’d like to know more, look into what happened to the republic of Weimar.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/22 12:32 PM
10

The real lesson in this story is not the obvious one. OP has made a post about not wanting to be set up with a biggun. Totally understandable. But how did this come about in the first place? OP's friend. Down in the comments OP states that he has known the guy since childhood. A child hood friend should understand his dating preferences, and know that offering up a biggun is giving him a raw deal. So why then, would he be so persistent about it? The wife. If he doesn't go along with it he's gonn…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/22 09:22 PM
28

It’s going to be wild. Irreversible. Two generations of women are entering a point of no return. The 30-40 crowd is already there, and 20-30 are on their way. Once these generations hit the 50s and up, depression and other womanly problems will be off the charts. Never before seen territory. I think men will do just fine though. Once the culture shifts back to the old ways, as an older man you’ll be able to get with a nice conservative 25 year old. But those women that are your peers will be hol…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/22 07:35 PM
17

If you live life with a defeated attitude you’ll leave this world defeated. “Everyone’s doing it” is how the loser crabs stay in the bucket.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/22 01:16 PM
5

A woman had Herod behead John the Baptist, John THE Baptist! simply because she could.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/22 03:46 PM
24

I like this approach as well. Coffee is great for vetting. Low investment, quick, and an easy exit if she’s not hot. I also agree that the first meet up is not about getting laid. It’s about putting out feelers. I’ve gotten laid on more than a few first meet ups, but that is because there was clear attraction. I guys will be more successful if they enjoy the journey as opposed to rushing to the destination
/r/TheRedPill06/05/22 10:13 PM
4

I weigh everything and track everything. I just do it. It is a part of my daily life like tying my shoes or brushing my teeth. Thanks to myfitnesspal if I use the same measuring parameters, or better yet, scan a bar code than I am able to log food in as little as 2-3 seconds.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/22 01:18 PM
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For anyone reading this I do I mens physique body building you can check my post history, I know what I’m talking about. Bulking is a red herring. You think you want to be big but what you really want is to see your abs. Get your diet under control, lift weights but also do your cardio. No excuses! Unless you are a strong man circus performer, cardio will not kill your gains. Don’t bullshit yourself just do the fucking cardio already!!
/r/TheRedPill03/05/22 02:54 AM
1

I don’t know if it’s just a coming of age thing but, as a man going to be 30 soon, from a mental point of view I am not concerned if I never got laid again for the rest of my life. The irony? Since I started thinking this way it’s never been easier. I’ll be honest I don’t know how to teach this. Best I can do is describe it. Rollo calls it the mental point of origin. Other people call it frame. If nothing else, just know that this state of mind exists and that if it’s possible for us it’s possib…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/22 10:11 PM
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Never underestimate oneitis. I’ve seen guys do absolutely insane things over their girl, guys that otherwise would be considered alpha in all other categories. Rollo has it best when he says that Jada is Wills mental point of origin. If he was his own mental point of origin he would’ve moved on after the kids were old enough to leave the house.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/22 01:47 PM
2

If there is anything a man should take from TRP is the love and confidence in himself. Through that things become possible. You could take that confidence in many different directions but that is the foundation for every man’s success.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/22 04:54 PM
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I like this post a lot. I am 29 myself and still play sports. Once or twice a week I play beer league hockey which keeps me in a competitive mindset. There is shit talking, shit testing, some times you win, some times you lose. It keeps you humble yet confident. And team sports are social by nature. I would encourage any man to pick up a sport. Hockey, soccer, basketball, soft ball. At least one of these 4 should be available in your town.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/22 07:39 PM
1

Sounds to me like you’re stopping yourself
/r/TheRedPill24/03/22 01:40 PM
2

Why waste your time doing all of this out of order if you are just going to come to the same conclusion I have in the long run? Work on yourself > get the girls Try to get the girls > work on yourself later It seems every young man ages 18-25 wants to do strategy 2. I get it, you want to get laid today. But if you do it out of order you won’t have much success. I am a walking receipt, so whenever a girl shit tests me I answer along the lines of “yes I am thanks for noticing ; )”. It doesn’t real…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/22 01:28 PM
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If you are using red pill to get girls you still don’t get it. You use red pill to get yourself. Once you are your own mental point of origin (frame), getting girls is so easy you don’t even really need to put thought into it.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/22 01:13 PM
1

Was this supposed to be a cry for help? Belongs on ask TRP.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/22 12:41 PM
7

There is an old adage, not to interrupt an opponent while they are making a mistake. You are the exhibit.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/22 06:42 PM
9

What an awful take. I don’t care what you do with your personal life. But there are kids that come to this forum trying to learn about life as a masculine man. You spit this nonsense and I have a problem with that. This post is garbage, I didn’t finish reading it, and I would advise any kid that reads this reply to do the same.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/22 02:53 PM
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If someone advises you to go out and get an STD, it’s on you not to finish reading the post.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/22 12:12 PM
6

As a man of 30 who still plays sports I think I can give some input here. ​ You don't need to change but the way you look at yourself does. As you probably are aware from playing sports, different people are good at different things. Lets use hockey for this analogy. Some guys are born naturals when it comes to the puck. They can dangle, they can skate, and they can hit their target when they shoot. Other guys can't handle the puck for shit, but they can swarm the other team like a hornet. What …
/r/TheRedPill16/03/22 08:31 PM
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At this point Im 100% into VOO. I used to pick stocks but it’s a crap shoot. I stay away from options and day trading. Never take investment advice from gambling addicts. For every winner on WSB there are hundreds of losers. It’s so bad in fact that losing is a sense of pride for them. VOO always wins. It’s not flashy, you’ll never be able to brag, but you’ll become a silent millionaire. That’s all you can really ask for in this life.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/22 02:46 AM
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Pick a target of your income to invest. Let’s say this year you picked 25%. Every year push the envelope even further. If you saved 25% this year, next year do 30%. Increase the savings until you get to a level where it feels unbearable. Try to ride that as long as you are able to. Get yourself used to being uncomfortable. After a few years you can pull back a little bit. If you were saving say, 50% for a few years, than dropping down to 40% is going to feel like getting a raise. All the while, …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/22 01:02 AM
2

MGTOW gets a lot of hate because it gets lumped in with incels which is unfortunate. The key detail is that in my case anyway, I’ve already had the women. I walked away from women barring the occasional conjugal visit. My general disinterest is ironically what attracts women the most. By not caring my options have increased dramatically. But because I don’t care, I don’t exercise them often. My condition would make incels cry. The ol adage that beggars can’t be choosers. But a man who cultivates…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/22 06:31 PM
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That’s good to know. I’ve never been, but I’ve heard this before from other people. It’s somewhere I’d definitely like to experience. Waiting for the vaccine mandates to fail before I travel out of country again. Once that eventually happens I may plan something out
/r/TheRedPill02/03/22 01:45 PM
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The South America angle is very interesting to me. Not to bog you or anyone else on here with my personal beliefs, but in the past year I’ve discovered Christianity. It’s given me a purpose and runs parallel with much of the principles we follow here, to one major exception. In Christianity you do not enjoy the ride on social decline. For that reason, having many kids and being a very involved father has become important to me. I would like to be retired or close to it when I have my first child…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/22 07:15 PM
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So I am only 29 but I can offer you my perspective. I haven’t had a girlfriend since I was 25. I chose a happy medium between MGTOW and plate spinning. I typically only see one girl at a time but I don’t offer any commitment or future. Almost all my friends are either in long term relationships, are engaged or married by now. Without going into detail, I am far more financially independent than any of them and it isn’t even close. At the pace I am going, I think it’s possible for me to retire fr…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/22 06:57 PM
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This is projection bro. A guy is sitting at his table. So what? Have you ever been a 10/10 Italian jacked model? These Chads you speak of don’t have to operate the same way you do. Here’s an example, having girls on call so that you can go to the club and enjoy yourself, and they come over when it’s time to go home. Gotta work on your frame, this was a bad take.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/22 01:26 PM
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I’ll be turning 30 soon. Finding this community at 22 is probably the number 1 thing that set me up for success. At 22 I took to heart the fitness and finance advice that people gave here. Roughly 8 years later I am doing body building shows and on my way to financial independence. No nagging woman making me spend money I don’t want to spend, or go to events I have no business being at. When girls do come they come and go, and I am free to work at my goals without distractions. Red pill life is …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/22 03:11 PM
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Our culture is very unwell. Men need to go back to being men. Women need to go back to being women. If a woman leaves it’s more often than not the man’s fault. Blame suffocates growth. The more a man grows from his failures the stronger he becomes.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/22 04:04 PM
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Excellent knowledge right here. Many men will never come to this conclusion. For any younger guys out there that read this comment thread, study the message until you understand it.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/22 04:48 AM
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As men we always want to figure things out. It’s our innate quality that makes us suitable for engineering. We often look at things too closely or overthink an issue. Think back to your high school days, who did all the girls like? The fun, hot, stupid guy. Don’t underestimate the fun and stupid combo. It’s juvenile but works. Good references of guys that embody this would be Gronk, Logan Paul, Young Arnold Schwarzenegger. Oh yeah, you also have to be big and muscular. Otherwise you’re just Chri…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 01:41 AM
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Darn skippy I’ll be right over
/r/TheRedPill22/01/22 01:08 PM
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Welcome to the life my man. It’s good you are starting young. You’re off to a good start. Just be careful about over bulking. I spent much of my 20s in the power lifting scene. I was very strong but wasn’t getting the attention I wanted. Past couple years I realized i didn’t want to be big I wanted to be shredded. So I cut down to the single digits and I’ll never turn back. Girls, guys, coworkers, everybody just assumes you got something going on when you’re shredded. It’s the number 1 best thin…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/22 05:08 PM
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This kids like 18. If someone would’ve told me at 18 that all bulk season will do is turn you into a fat ass that can dead lift a lot I would’ve been thankful. Anyways fuck me for pointing out this kid is following bad advice.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/22 02:26 PM
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Ya what do I know, I only compete in shows
/r/TheRedPill21/01/22 04:49 AM
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If you are 175 now do not bulk up to 215. You will not put on 40 lbs of muscle in this life time. The best you can do naturally at 5’11 is about 185 at 10% body fat. If you eat food until you’re 225 all you’re going to accomplish is getting fat. If you have a six pack you’ve already won. Don’t get wrapped up by the juicy fitness models. If you ain’t juicin, you’ll never be lean and over 190. Looking at your photos you’re probably around 12-13% body fat. If you wanna bulk up to 190 and then cut d…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/22 08:13 PM
1

Well there’s a lot to unpack here. Red pill covers many topics, but the most common one, and one you’ll see here is to lift. Lifting is the primary way to build muscle. While sports are fun, you could be very good at a sport and not be muscular. A muscular frame will translate well to professional sports but I digress. Lifting is a life long journey. I’ve been lifting for 10 years, and only this year did I start competing in body building shows. So it’s not going to happen overnight. Another key…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/22 04:02 AM
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Don’t get too into the weeds. Yes obviously you need muscle mass. That’s a baseline most people already know.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 11:15 PM
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This video is sticky worthy. Feel bad for this fella but it’s one hell of a field report.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 05:30 PM
1

The same is true for men as well. If you are able to bring your body fat percentage to the single digits you will experience this. People will make excuses for you if you are bad at something. The best thing a man can do for his status and place in society is to get in very good shape and maintain it.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 02:31 PM
2

This post was so lazy man. It was hard just to understand what you are saying. I can summarize your post in an easier format to understand, with less words. ​ Step 1. Determine your basal metabolic rate. That is your calorie ceiling. Step 2. Take your body weight, that is your protein requirement. Add 50g of fat, but no more than 70g of fat. Step 3. Eat as many carbs as you need, but not more than your protein requirement. Step 4. High frequency split. All muscle grouping 3 times per week or mor…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/22 07:48 PM
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I was pleasantly surprised by this post. Given the title I was expecting some low effort post from a teenager or college kid. But the substance is actually quite good. I can relate as someone very far along on their red pill journey. When I see people in my field and hobbies that are better than me, I no longer cheer them on. Instead, I watch what they do and try to replicate it, so that I can be what they are. I admire these people, but do not wish to be them. Peers do not worship their peers.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/22 07:25 PM
1

Communists (I’m going to assume you are one) aren’t smart enough to realize the elites they want to destroy are the ones organizing them. The only ones you end up ‘vanquishing’ are the upper middle class who worked smarter than you. Unless you’re a member of the ruling party there is no happy ending for you in communism. If a lowly prol like me can break out of the middle class and become a winner than so could you. We all are, where we deserve to be. I’ll go to the antiwork subreddit from time …
/r/TheRedPill03/01/22 02:39 PM
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As a child it was a mystery to me why anyone would’ve been supportive of Pinochet, Putin or the mustache man. As an adult I now understand why. Any man who pursues personal strength long enough will want a strong community as well. Equality is not natural. The more the western world pushes equality, the further right it will push it’s winners. The losers of society leech off of the winners like parasites. All made possible by totalitarian governments. When the right reaches critical mass, you ge…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/21 07:54 PM
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GOP will win seats in the mid terms, the plugged in Republican base will think they’ve won something. Nothing will get done as par for the course. Just another term in the political hot potato.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/21 05:25 PM
2

Play a sport that requires you to get hurt from time to time
/r/TheRedPill26/12/21 05:57 PM
3

If you are working the back, imagine your elbows to be the point of origin for all your lifts. You aren’t pulling the weight you’re pulling your elbows. The weight is just resistance trying to stop you from pulling those elbows to the ribs. Also, if you’re doing rows with a pronated grip, you should be able to row the weight with very little bicep activation. If you’re able to row the weight with a soft bicep, than you know you’re using those lats.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/21 02:05 AM
3

All the quality posters have moved on. Reddit is dead, and all the good subs died with it. The only reason I still see posts from time to time is because I never I unsubbed. Only reason I come to this app anymore is to occasionally talk video games and to stay a few steps ahead of whatever propaganda is circulating the country.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/21 01:08 AM
4

I agree with this. Same reason birds dance and shit before approaching each other
/r/TheRedPill18/12/21 05:06 PM
1

I would encourage every man to sign up and compete in at least one mens physique show. It’s the easiest class of bodybuilding to get into, and specifically tailored to sex appeal. No one has ever said, “man I really regret doing that physique show”.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/21 04:05 PM
2

I’ve been counting calories for my classic physique prep. It’s the only way to really know. It makes such a difference I don’t know how you’d be able to compete without it.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/21 06:58 PM
1

With that mentality you may as well check yourself off the reproduction list. That’s up to you to decide. But if you do want to have kids some day, any girl you plan on impregnating will have bodied a handful or more guys. It is what it is. A girl that’s at 20 is not the same as one that’s at 100. There’s degrees of severity to this. No need to be autistic about it like OP. For fucks sake if I was him I would’ve banged the girl already.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/21 03:28 AM
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3-4 is still on the low end
/r/TheRedPill05/10/21 01:55 PM
2

Take some ice cold showers. You start your morning with a 2 minute ice cold shower, it puts the rest of your day in perspective.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/21 07:34 PM
1

You have grown. There was a time when you couldn't lift a certain weight. lets just say a 135 bench. You couldn't do it before, but now you can. Keep talking to girls. Talk to many girls. Just like the 135 bench you used to be unable to do, now you can. Because you worked at it. You will find that as you improve, you'll get more confident and approach even more attractive girls. Just like doing a max set, you will probably fail from time to time. It'll feel just as shitty then as it does now. Bu…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/21 07:28 PM
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Back in my day there was a frat next door to ours. A girl wanted to remain anonymous and cried rape to the university. The fraternity was disbanded and the guys from that group had their reputation ruined. Years later at one of my fraternities own homecoming parties, I learned straight from the whorses mouth what happened. By her own account he was an 'asshole' that was taking pictures of her after they had sex. A fraternity destroyed by a single woman. The moral of the story? Well it isn't that…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/21 06:39 PM
1

I prefer to meet girls in the real world but I’d be lying if I said bumble and hinge didn’t multiply my options
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 06:31 PM
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I don't understand why people like the above poster come here to shit talk guys that are asking for help. Some tips to get you started today: Harden up, beat yourself up but in a way that is productive. Give yourself commands. Have that inner voice in your head be a drill sergeant. Identify your weaknesses, and make a plan for each one. Make the decision today that you are going to tackle these weakpoints. ​ I left some advice for you on another comment above. You are rusty. You're at a low poin…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/21 07:52 PM
2

This pandemic fucked a lot of people up. Did me for a while. But think about it, girls are just as lonely and isolated as you are. There's never been a time where girls are more available. Get in the best shape of your life and run app game. Treat it like sales force (a tracking tool for sales agents). Get many matches, multiple leads and set up dates. One after the other, after the other. Run it until you feel like it's wasting your time. And then continue. Do it for a year or two, and you will…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/21 07:30 PM
3

Never have I been more happy to see a post from GLO. If the globohomos want to kill me they’ll have to do it the old fashioned way. My alpha penis is powered by organic sperm©
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 08:52 PM
2

booooo get out of here pussy
/r/TheRedPill17/08/21 02:10 PM
3

In my experience loading up on protein helps a lot with keeping calories low. I could rip through 500 calories of carbs just from having the munchies. You try to rip through 500 calories of chicken it’ll take a half hour to eat all that. It’s not glamorous but it gets the job done
/r/TheRedPill17/08/21 01:13 AM
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I do it anyways. What do I have to lose? If I take in 200+ grams of protein a day, I know without doubt that I am getting enough protein daily. Is it too much? maybe, but who cares? I am hitting the quota with absolute certainty.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/21 07:46 PM
3

You just countered your own argument...
/r/TheRedPill09/08/21 05:26 PM
10

Show me a girl that ‘stops’ after one year of CC and I’ll show you a leprechaun. Things can happen, getting fat, having surprise kids, legs chomped off by a shark, whatever. When they stop it’s not by choice. You find me one that does and I’ll give you two leprechauns.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/21 03:06 AM
2

This right here is why you either spin plates or go celibate. The game is too stacked against us to win. I don't look down on MGTOW people for walking away. If you can't spin plates, you're better off not participating. And if you are spinning plates, you better not be knocking these girls up.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/21 01:33 PM
3

Heavy kettlebell swings will do wonders for the traps and forearms, two areas often neglected in weight training. Add kettlebell swings into your daily lifting routine, 100-200 reps at the end of each work out. Vary the weight, do a Turkish get up or two. The body is full of muscles that isolation exercise and sagittal exercise don't hit very well.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/21 03:00 PM
12

Instead of feeling jealous, accept that they are successful and doing better than you. Once you achieve this, ask yourself what needs to be done in order to do it yourself. All change must come from within, and its usually an uncomfortable process. If you want to rid yourself of these feelings of jealousy, it is none-the-less mandatory.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/21 02:55 PM
2

Look at it like this. The difference between 65 and 85 isn’t much. You get a little slower each year, but aside from that you are the same guy doing the same thing. That’s 20 years. You on the other hand, well shit. 20 years ago you were a sperm. And now you’re a grown man. You haven’t even hit that 20 year mark yet. Consider all the time you had in between now and when you were born. Now apply that to 20-40. You have a LONG time to live like a man. And if you double that, you get to 60. You got…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/21 03:49 PM
2

I and many men our age think and feel as you do. The pendulum is swinging I believe. Many of us were NPC's before finding places like this, the Donald, /pol and Q. All of these forums have 1 major corner stone in common and that is the pursuit of truth and knowledge. The cat is not going back into the bag, and this next decade is going to be transformative. Hopefully for the better. Gulag Archipelago is still a possibility, but I think we're going to win.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/21 12:31 PM
1

If your brain were nothing more than a computer parsing logical code, what would be the right answer?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/21 08:12 PM
5

Sexual strategy is amoral. A logical approach is cruel but correct. Knowing the logical conditions for a woman to leave you will mitigate much of the pain if and when it occurs. Likewise, knowing when it is your logical best play to exit will mitigate the guilt that you will feel as well. Even amongst soldiers and kings, loyalty always has a condition behind it.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/21 08:01 PM
1

The muslims are there to population replace you and when they become the majority they will do things to your women that are unimaginable. Maybe they already have been. This issue has become bigger than, where do I go to get hot pussy? I am across but the pond but I lose sleep at night thinking about what is happening to your continent and mine.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/21 12:53 PM
3

I know you're not OP but another important thing to do which many guys do not do, is hip flexor work. My squats have shot up through the roof since adding hip movements to my daily routine.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/21 08:44 PM
2

Checking in! It is what it is
/r/TheRedPill11/03/21 06:43 PM
1

That would be for the best. She clearly remembers. If she’s saying she doesn’t remember, she will use that against you if her boyfriend finds out. You got the goodies, I’d take that as a win and move on.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 02:55 AM
4

“don’t tell anybody” Why do you think she would say that?
/r/askTRP22/07/20 12:56 AM
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She’s got a boyf. Come on man use your head.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 12:53 AM
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The hardest part of quitting isn’t the sport itself but rather the fellow skiers encouraging you to ride the chair lift back up. No one likes to ride alone so when you say you’ve hung up the skis, they take it as a personal insult. Making friends within the lifting community gave me a new group to run with for a while.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/20 07:30 PM
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When I first quit drugs, in order to coup and really sell it to myself I had to be disgusted by it and filled with vitriol towards those that do it. For me this was the only way, because the group of friends i hung with had it a corner stone of their lives. Especially the snowy kind. While this was in a way, hamstering away the drugs it did work as I haven't done them since. Now that I'm clean and free of any desire to do them I've been able to let go of those strong feelings about it, but I can…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/20 06:43 PM
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I think this is where the Pareto principle comes into play. I have friends in health care, friends in teaching, I’m a STEMlord and I have friends in sales. Everyone works in different fields but all say the same thing. They are surrounded by unpleasant people to work with. Part of being in the top 20% is finding out what makes someone unpleasant, and not being that. Every industry has its rock star. Either become that person or find out who is and hitch your wagon.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 01:28 AM
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If anyone reading this is about to start lifting, please just go to a proper lifting sub. The above workout plan reads like something you’d see on B B dot com. The same workouts I did when I was 18 and didn’t know any better. Beginners should be doing compound lifts and only compound lifts until they are ready to advance.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 01:56 AM
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Bro do yourself a favor and head over to the finical independence sub. Learn how to start investing. Every time you hit 100k you’ll feel a little less dependent on your W2. After 10 years of investing at 30% salary you should be at half a million at the least. By that point you can let compounding interest do it’s thing and cruise control your way into early retirement, or wealth.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/19 02:52 PM
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This is hilarious! Brings me back to my call center days
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 12:07 PM
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Try to wake up before she does and make her breakfast. But don't say anything about it. Showing affection with words = bad. Showing affection with actions = good.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 07:46 PM
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70k is not making bank. It's called an entry level job for a reason. It's perfectly fine to have room mates in their 20s. Not everybody is you.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 01:07 AM
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I live over 500 miles from either city. I am saving a fuck ton of money. And my room mate has also been a best friend since college. So yeah, I am enjoying my room mate.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 07:20 PM
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So because he and I have different life preferences than you do makes us man children? I think you've got some insecurities to work out. I'll gladly take half the rent, solid wing man, and lifting buddy.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 03:55 PM
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Room mates cut rent in half dude...
/r/askTRP14/11/17 09:23 PM
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I am genuinely surprised at this entire post. 'Go lift' is a fucking mantra around here. There's this much attention about a post for weak men afraid of going to the gym? And these guys want to be in the top 20%. Yikes.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 06:53 PM
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I'm doing this as part of a bulk. The program is Jim Wendlers: building the monolith. His only rule for nutrition is to eat 1.5 pounds of beef and a dozen whole eggs a day. But I also read an article on the art of manliness blog about how the guy raised his natural T levels by almost 300 from eating red meat and eggs daily.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 12:51 AM
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Got blood work done a few months ago. T level was 409. Pretty terrible. I've been taking zinc, vitaman D, 2 pounds of beef a day and a dozen eggs. Gonna get retested after 90 days (30-40 days from now) and see where I'm at. Oddly enough I'm a very strong lifter. I'm in the 1000 pound club. I have no idea how my T got that low, but I'm doing whatever it takes to fix it.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 07:02 PM
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Going to planet fitness is like going to supercuts or Borics. Enjoy that sick hair cut dude!!!!!
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 07:27 PM
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You got cheated on bruh. Time to move on.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 09:13 PM
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I think male to female friendships work best in groups. Especially if one or more of the girls are sleeping with you and your friends. There is a saying somewhere in the side bar that a girl has boyfriends and girl friends. If you are not sleeping with her, you are a girl friend. So in these cases if my friend is sleeping with a girl, I have no problem being a girlfriend, and vice versa. Having girls in the group add a dynamic you couldn't get by just a group of guys alone. But this is because o…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 05:33 PM
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Sitting on a lawn chair with my at the time girlfriend on my lap, porch drinking on the last day before graduation. Summertime by Kenny Chesney was playing on the boom box and I had one of those moments of clarity. In that fleeting moment I had everything I wanted. A warm summer night, all my friends around me, a girl on my lap and one of my favorite songs playing. I knew that come tomorrow it would all be over, and so I sat there in silence and just enjoyed being present in my environment. I st…
/r/askTRP01/08/17 03:00 PM
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I'm not fond of strapping up either. However don't assume that just because you're a super rad dude that you can run into a burning building with no fireproof clothing and not get burned. If you're gonna kick the Georgia bull dog, eventually you're gonna feel the bull dog bite.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 07:29 PM
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Since I've lost 35 pounds and packed on plenty of muscle I've heard all of these too, OP. People have accused me of it all, 'starving myself', just a 'phase', must be on 'gear'. My biggest pitfall was that I tried to explain to people how I did it. I follow keto, but more importantly intermittent fasting and people just do not like that I am doing something different than what they were raised to believe is correct. I must be doing SOMETHING to 'cheat'. There's just no way this could 'work' fore…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 06:18 PM
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You might be the coolest dude I've ever seen. Do you give lessons?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 08:03 PM
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I had halo top ice cream last night, so I may sound like a hypocrite here but it's not good for you. It's just less bad. That being said, I get a pint of it pretty often and it sets me back less than Ben and Jerry's would. But it still is a set back at least to some extent.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 07:27 PM
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This is stupid. Why would I watch the Penguins beat the Capitals if I'm not from either city? You ever think that maybe people want to just see the sport played at the highest level?
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 02:25 PM
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If you guys want an even easier one, just don't eat at work. If you work 9-5, skip breakfast and don't eat until you get home. You could take it one step further and not eat until after the gym either. By doing either method you'll be in the 20 and above fasting range. If you adhere to the rule of no food at work, you just about can't fuck up. its best to ramp up though, if you are just starting out than end your fast at 10, 11, noon, etc. By about a month in you should be able to fast however l…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 12:18 PM
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meal prepping is as easy as getting the 5 pound tray of chicken from Kroger and baking that shit in 45 minutes and storing it in tupper ware. Take whatever vegetables you want out of the fridge and heat em up at the same time as when you reheat the chicken. Boom, you've got 10 meals that took 45 minutes to make, and 3 minutes to reheat.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 08:14 PM
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Yes that sounds fine. Try not to make plans four years ahead. It works for things like education or work advancement because once you're on the rails you don't have much influence on the time it takes for certain things to flourish. You can't plan an LTR like a 4 year degree. Just live in the now instead.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 02:36 PM
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Then move in with her? This seems like a no brainer man.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 01:18 PM
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Why would you cohabitate if you don't plan on getting married?
/r/askTRP03/04/17 01:09 PM
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I hope anyone that visits this thread skips the OP and reads this instead. You've got it completely right. It doesn't matter if your number is 1 or 100, let them see the picture they want to paint of you. Whatever crazy shit they come up with, go with it. But to actually expand on that, make sure that it is their idea. Don't ever initiate these kinds of questions, and whenever they come up don't answer them. Instead, open it up for them to answer for you. This way you can't be called out in a li…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 03:00 PM
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I stopped asking why questions and started asking how questions.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 06:00 PM
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Looks like Chad wasn't Chad after all.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 06:05 PM
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The best advice I can give is patience. It sounds to me you are already on the right track, the only variable we can't change is time. In a vacuum, our bodies can only burn 2000-3500 calories per day depending on your activity level. So if you were to quit eating it would still take a few weeks to burn through those pounds. Obviously we don't want that. As long as you are in a caloric deficit you will get there. If you have an event or vacation coming up and you want to lose as much as possible …
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 01:28 PM
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I found this to be true for about the first two months that I was going keto. Once my body had truly adapted I found that you can do it and do it well, if you keto correctly. The loss of strength in the gym isn't because of a lack of carbs but because of a lack of calories. As gross as it might be to have 10 table spoons of olive oil to get my calories, I could do it. I'm down just a hair over 20 pounds since I discovered keto/IF, but I haven't lost a pound on any of my lifts. In fact my body we…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 08:14 PM
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Thank you for the reply. You are absolutely right, it is something you have to feel in order to understand it. I would encourage anyone to just go two months on meat and produce and see how they feel. Chances are high that once they feel it themselves they won't want to stop. Just like we talk about 'unplugging' here, there is an unplugging for processed foods too.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 06:00 PM
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I would be OK with this sub having much more strict posting rules. A lot of good discussions get buried by posts from kids in high-school or early college. Being so young, they have nothing to contribute. And yet they tend to submit the most banal garbage. The youth should listen and observe, and leave the contributions to older RPers. Not that I am one of them, as a mid 20's fella I haven't made any posts, just comments.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 01:44 PM
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Social life is part of being healthy. Don't neglect one aspect of your life to improve another. Try to progress in all of them instantaneously, and when you can't than try to compromise. You always could have moved a day to Saturday/Sunday.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 07:11 PM
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I made the very mistake myself when I was new here. Once you feel that you 'get it' you may want to go and tell your friends. You might find yourself trying to bring RP ideas into conversations at work, at the bar, etc. However true all this may be, it isn't a good look for us. The Law of 38: Think as you like but behave like others. We can't explain this stuff to our friends and family in the same way the side bar does, and so people will think you are scum and rightfully so. A buddy of mine as…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 02:09 PM
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Thats exactly it! Opposites attract and there's nothing more opposite to a man than a woman. Males that adopt female traits are unattractive for that very reason
/r/askTRP28/01/17 02:45 AM
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I suppose you could say that. But being 'beta' as you say is beneficial for them where as it is bad for us. So their 'beta' will always trump your beta so to speak.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 02:17 AM
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Don't forget to keep dressing nice once you're ripped. Speaking of coffee, I'd recommend intermittent fasting, keto, and heavy lifts to get there. (Coffee is key for IF and keto)
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 04:58 PM
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Because if you lose 2 pounds of fat and gain 2 pounds of muscle, the scale says that you've accomplished zero.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 08:13 PM
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I disagree with this. If you are willing to spend the money you can have a perfectly accurate BF% test. I would go so far as to say the BF% is the most important stat. You can lift hard and eat clean all you want and that's fine, but if the data is there why would you not use it? The best goals are quantifiable. Saying, 'I want to go from 12% to 10%' is far more measurable than "I want a six pack when I look in the mirror'. The best way to do it is make teeny tiny goals every month, and record r…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 03:16 PM
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And stop going to places you know she hangs out so you can "run into her by accident." Damn. This one runs deep.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 07:54 PM
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If you want to ramp up your weight loss goals into overdrive and get ripped as all hell I recommend the keto diet. Lots of horribly obese people use this diet to shred 100 pounds in a year, but it works just as well for getting someone from 10-15% down to 5-8%. This diet is life style on hard mode. If you cheat or slack on it, you will get severely punished with headaches and nausea. But if you follow it correctly you'll feel fantastic all the time, and will be incredibly ripped. Up to you if yo…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 04:47 PM
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Well in the hind sight of 20/20. I would agree on the terms that > 6 is short term where as < 1 year is long term. But going into things there is no way to know for sure. You might think you're in what is going to be an LTR that doesn't end up making it. But in the present you might still consider it LTR. It's good to go into it with a sense of awareness, right off the bat ask yourself, is this a fling or am I in it for the long haul? It's easier to leverage your expectations that way, and when …
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 07:40 PM
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The ex girlfriend is an extension of the old you. If you met her for the very first time today, it would be different. But you have a history, your RP skills will dissipate very quickly should you try them on her. In fact, the best way to use your RP skills on her is to maintain no contact. Its not her you need, it's yourself. I advise you, do not do it!
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 07:36 PM
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You are right about LTR's being RP on hard mode. That's why a lot of people go into relationships as an RP man and come out a year or two later a beta. Marriage is even worse, but you can't get divorce-raped if the legal system says you're single. Short term relationships that are monogamous can have all the fun parts of dating without the nagging. And when the nagging inevitably starts, next em. Another benefit to exclusivity is that condoms are not required and often times birth control is use…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 04:57 PM
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You have a healthy mentality OP have an up vote. The stronger and smarter you become, the more fun life gets. I don't play video games anymore either. I'm too busy growing. I find that when you have this aura of personal happiness, having game doesn't matter any more(although subconsciously you'll end up having plenty of it). Girls do all the work for us. It's actually a quite spectacular phenomenon!
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 11:09 PM
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If you want to be with an alpha man you need to be an alpha woman. Raise your SMV, its a two way street.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 08:41 PM
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You don't have to be an awful person to be RP. Just hold frame and be remember that its your turn. Monogamous relationships are mutually beneficial as long as you remember that 1. It's your turn 2. You truly do not need them and 3. getting another girl is easy. Oh, and remember that there is no such thing as the 'one'
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 06:08 PM
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I discovered the red pill a month ago. I was already a heavy lifter before I swallowed it but now I'm like a freak of nature in the gym. I feel good 100% of the day, staying 100% strict on this keto diet (again about a month) and being the most muscular man at the bar/parties is terrific. Being that I'm only 23 I'd say I have a kick ass life ahead of me!
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 01:35 PM
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For any relationship? No. For a majority? Yes. Keep in mind life and relationships are not black and white. There are people who have been hospitalized and came out on top afterwards in their relationship. That being said, a vast majority of us would lose in that situation. As for preventing it look at it like this. I can lift all I want but if I get into a car accident and break my legs, I can't go to the gym. I can work until the cows come home but if the company goes under, I lose my job. You…
/r/askTRP23/11/16 05:15 PM
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I have come upon two beliefs that make getting through this a lot easier. Love is opportunistic not unconditional. Unfortunately for you, some bad things happened that were out of your control. Think of it like a business, you became a bad deal. the pessimist in me says that love and relationships are hopeless, but the optimist in me says that if you raise your value high enough you can have whatever you want. Be the optimist. Go lift and make more money. Love is an in the moment feeling. When a…
/r/askTRP23/11/16 05:04 PM
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