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Strong Independent Womangoldmedalflower/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/19 08:06 PM
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goldmedalflower/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 11:58 AM
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She is a textbook FDS type of woman: bitter, jaded, rejected, miserable, resentful, no self-reflection on her long list of dysfunctions, endless demands on how a man must perform and of course, brings nothing to the table cause she is a queen who is the prize!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/20 02:10 PM
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I am about as real as it gets, and will tell you what I think. You may not like it. It's fascinating to me how so many women proudly announce this horrible personality trait like it's a positive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/20 08:14 PM
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Horse women are definitely weird
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/20 08:12 PM
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This is similar how under Obamacare you're not allowed to charge women more even though they cost a great deal more to insure. Yet that same logic doesn't apply to men and car and life insurance, that's different.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/20 07:26 PM
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I don't understand why wealthy white women qualify as 'oppressed victim' status worthy of so much affirmative action
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/20 03:27 PM
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Same thing with AOC and the media making WWIII because she was "insulted as a woman". Men hear 100x worse all day long and no one bats an eye
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/20 12:39 PM
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Please stop using this term. Very annoying
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/07/20 06:28 AM
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it's that they are often in relationships with men who are as slovenly as teenagers Women choose these men, right? Their choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 12:48 AM
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No, we're not talking about obvious leering that crosses the line and I am not talking about obvious and creepy leering that crosses a line vs. what I would describe as normal glances at a woman in her yoga pants at the gym or at Starbucks. vs your idiotic reply: Secondly, no one said don't ever look. The point is don't be a fucking creep. Is that so hard to grasp
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 08:53 PM
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Read the first and last paragraphs of the original post
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 02:47 PM
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Pro tip: next time you reply, you might want to consider reading the original post first, that way you don't come across as such an idiot. Take care
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 02:18 PM
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"Love to try new restaurants" - don't even think about me splitting the check
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/20 07:53 PM
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It would be nice if the checking out advanced to something else. Ask us out pls. Women, near unanimously, tell men not to do this, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 07:19 PM
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I know, right? They think we're living in a zombie apocalypse with their paranoia.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:54 PM
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Why isn’t he entitled to look? Again, you’re in public and he’s not invading your personal space? People are allowed to look, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 03:44 PM
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It makes them insecure and uncomfortable that someone is looking at them. Women are neurotic and will concoct all kinds of scenarios in their heads about why someone is staring at them. Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 01:38 PM
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“EVEN in the gym, I get stares! All I want to do is work out!!” If I'm on the treadmill and a young girl in yoga pants is doing squats right in front of me. 1) I'm not suppose to look, and, if I do look, 2) she is well within her rights to feel that I am "violating" her? Do I have this correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 01:23 PM
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Surely, there has to be room? The difference doesn't just go from human to sex object. This point needs to be emphasized more. Women have this extreme binary mindset. According to them, there are only two choices 1) treating like a person/human by being completely non-sexual and 2) treating them like a non-human object to have sex with, no in between. You can easily see a pretty girl across the room and be attracted to her and... still see her as a person, gasp!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 01:18 PM
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It doesn't matter who does it The reaction from women will absolutely vary dramatically. Super hot guy makes you feel flattered. Average or below average guy makes you feel “violated”. So then, it’s not about the actual act of staring, right? But who is doing the staring?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 11:57 AM
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It impacts these women because a man's thoughts become obvious and when he stares for too long or too intensely But they’re just thoughts from a person across the room and those thoughts are simply saying “you’re very attractive”. I still don’t see why it impacts them so much, especially if he never invades her personal space.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:19 AM
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If I see a beautiful woman in a shop will I look at her differently than I would at anyone else? I try my hardest not to, It’s literally in your DNA to want to look. No, that doesn’t mean be a creep, but what you are fighting against is basic biology, nature, Darwin, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:04 AM
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I love how women will always give a non answer to why their previous relationships didnt work. That's something the obese mentally ill femcels on FDS never acknowledge. They have a lifetime of utter failure in dating and relationships and the common denominator is them
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/20 02:12 AM
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"Swipes No on about 90%" In a way, this is sad. I blame a lot of this on nature, Darwin, natural selection, etc. We can walk into a room of 100 age-appropriate females and think, "I would happily have sex with 72 of them" but for a lot women like this one, their brain tells them, "Only those handful of super hot guys are worthwhile, everyone else is trash", regardless of how unrealistic her standards are. She is her own worst enemy. I would hate to have to live like that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/20 02:09 AM
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And those 1000 men (CEOs, senators, millionaires, etc) think about the women in their lives - their wife, their daughter, etc. Aren't these women themselves overflowing with privilege too? Yet they somehow still retain their 'oppressed' status?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/07/20 04:28 PM
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The response to this would essentially fall under the ridiculous "benevolent sexism" umbrella where you have absolute, clear-cut examples of female privilege yet, as always, it is instead somehow twisted into female victimization. "Yes, but that's only because people view women as being weak and powerless, so this is really just another example in which females are oppressed in society"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/20 07:59 PM
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they cannot bear themselves to lower their standards to their true SMV match Nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 08:59 AM
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It’s all internet posturing. These ‘Queens’ are barely dating, if at all - let alone some Prince Charming character who acts like a human ATM for months and months
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 06:02 AM
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Typical nice-guys-finish-last scenario. This what is so comical about 'female dating strategy'. They equate a "HVM" as a simp who bends over backwards with so much fawning and attention but in the real world that type of behavior is a huge turn off to most women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/20 03:39 PM
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Obvious what’s going on. She’s probably attractive enough to get a lot of initial interest, she probably says all the right things in her profile, yet when men meet her in real life she oozes mental illness, desperation, dysfunctional red flags from A to Z. Sad, really.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/20 03:10 AM
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To be fair, she works her ass off at Willy Wonka’s factory
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/20 02:53 AM
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Obviously fake
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/20 02:50 AM
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Women’s issues: hundreds of millions in outreach across the entire mainstream. Men’s issues: a few posts of social media and a wonderful thread on Menslib.
/r/MensRights22/06/20 02:56 PM
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She didn’t mean to kill him. She “only” wanted him sent to prison for 7-12 years.
/r/PussyPass21/06/20 06:41 PM
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Go, because captain tingles has died “Something is missing” is code for women placing the responsibility of their personal happiness on the man in life. “Why don’t I feel like that girl in that Ryan Gosling movie? It must be his fault”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/20 03:21 PM
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Much like FDS women, misery loves company and she wants other women to join her in her misery and her hatred of men. That’s why the advice is always some version of encouraging a break up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/20 03:16 PM
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some without the gumption to even ask me out. The entitlement is off the charts. She was at a social event and some men didn't ask her out. The horror. She never even considers the option of asking them out, making herself vulnerable, her having to face rejection, etc. She wants to sit back like a judge on American Idol and have men audition for her and when that doesn't happen, it's men who are the problem?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/20 01:03 PM
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Projection. She's assuming that the disgust women have for short men must also apply in reverse. Comical when you consider that there is absolutely no height-related social penalty of any kind for women who are 5'3".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/20 12:51 PM
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I'd like to hear what her idea of "effort" is She's saying that the father, assuming she even knows who he is, has no part of her kid's life - no shared custody, etc. It also means she has a very poor support system of family and friends to help her with babysitting. All huge red flags which point to what type of miserable human being this person is. The fact that she's still so entitled is just icing on the cake.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/20 02:39 PM
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Now serving grilled cheese with extra yeast and bacterial vaginosis. Yummy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/20 07:02 PM
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Prostitution is illegal in almost all locations in America and an arrest could very easily ruin the life of any man who has a public job, a job with a license, job with the government, most employers run background checks for criminal records, etc, etc, etc. Comical how you minimize this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 10:38 PM
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I hate double standards, but I get it too. Most women would view this as a serious violation where most men would welcome it. I know I would. For the minority who wouldn't be comfortable with this, the man overwhelmingly would not have safety concerns for their physical well being where you generally can't say the same if you reverse the genders. I have this horny 57 year-old lady at work who wears wears too much make-up and perfume and she is in love with me. Rubbing my shoulders and arms, maki…
/r/PussyPass07/06/20 05:50 PM
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Women should include a warning when they ask men to be more emotional. Something like, "Yes, please open up more and tell me all your insecurities and feelings... however, please be advised that women lose all sexual attraction when you do this, but please continue..."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 04:22 PM
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You are looking at extremes This. When this subject comes up, people respond with "Oh, so you're saying a guy who is a millionaire would date a cashier at a convenience store?!" No. But that millionaire would absolutely date a school teacher, nurse, office manager, etc. If you reverse the genders, however, it rarely, rarely happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 12:56 PM
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Even separate from the nude photo, why do women in general post on Tinder then bend over backwards to scream to the world how they are absolutely and under no circumstances looking for a hook-up? That's not what you want? Fine, then join Match.com or something. It would be like going to a Chinese restaurant then screaming to the waiter that you will not eat Chinese food under any circumstances and don't you dare try and convince me otherwise. Then they sit back and shake their head at what an as…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/20 12:28 PM
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FDS has entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 11:00 AM
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Worthless video. Delete
/r/PussyPassDenied01/06/20 10:24 AM
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No intimacy either, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 06:18 PM
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Beta chumps with fat wallets will. FDS types convince themselves these guys are high value (at least until they've extracted as much as they can from the hapless fool). Good point. Women overwhelmingly have no attraction towards those overly nice guy doormats who have no spine, always trying so hard to please, always available and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 06:08 PM
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No sex or intimacy until commitment has been established. Yeah, that will surely worked. The "best" men will definitely play along with this. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 06:04 PM
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"Playing hard to get" only increases your value in the eyes imbeciles. True. Plus consider the messages that men receive. "If it isn't a 'Hell Yes!' then it's a No". "consent must be enthusiastic", "Why can't men read the signals that she's not interested?", "Take a hint guys, she's not interested, stop harassing her", etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 06:03 PM
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playing hard-to-get makes no sense to me because you're actively selecting for men who ignore signals of disinterest That's a great point, especially in this metoo era. Men will read all these signs as her showing disinterest and back away
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 05:27 PM
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White women are probably the most privileged people in America and deep down they know it. Do they know it, though? In the mainstream, white women claim oppression more than all men of color combined.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 12:56 PM
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men have it easier in their 50's How so? Are you referring to the dating market only?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 12:53 PM
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Being a woman does not make life easier. Infant girls and toddlers receive a significantly greater amount of attention vs. boys. Girls in schools are given overwhelming preferential treatment and bias at every level of education. Women receive preferential treatment in hiring, promotions, government contracts, with the police, courts, how you are treated by employees, people being nice to you, etc. Men pay the vast majority of taxes, women consume the vast majority of taxes. 2 out of every 3 hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 12:49 PM
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I think it's helpful to separate online dating, Tinder, etc, from the "real world". With OLD, the bottom 80% of women are absolutely fighting for the tiny, tiny % of men at the very top and become very choosy and entitled about things they ordinarily wouldn't in the real world, strict height requirements, must have a certain resume, etc. Yes, the numbers don't add up. "How are there so many couples if women are only going after the best looking guys?" The answer then comes down to reluctantly se…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 12:43 PM
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Feminists would argue the reason so many young women wear such revealing clothing is because the patriarchy (meaning mostly men) brainwashed them with so much internalized misogyny that these women are actually victims who have been bullied into objectifying themselves against their true wishes. Women are always victims, nothing is their fault - even deciding how they dress themselves.
/r/PussyPass28/05/20 11:43 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 01:32 AM
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She tried to have him arrested for a felony. He could have very easily been fired from his job, lose custody of his kids, lose his freedom, etc
/r/PussyPassDenied27/05/20 11:18 AM
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If she had her way, the guy would have been arrested and hauled off with a criminal charge, pending court date, would have had to hire a lawyer, maybe face jail time, etc. “Believe all Women”
/r/PussyPassDenied27/05/20 08:17 AM
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She still gets a pussy pass because the media has already made this a race issue even though it’s really a case of her weaponizing her gender
/r/PussyPassDenied27/05/20 08:12 AM
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Don’t forget that FDS women are socially awkward femcels with mental health issues. These women are miserable failures when it comes to men. The idea that these women, of all people, will become some ultra-choosy, highly selective, never initiate or pay or anything type is so laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 05:20 AM
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All of your examples are of men oppressing other men. "Men" are brought into this world as newborn infants. We had no say in how the world was created. That 18 year-old being sent off to his death had no choice in this situation. He didn't "self-inflict" anything because he happens to be the same gender.
/r/PussyPass15/05/20 01:08 PM
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The larger point still stands. History, according to feminists, is officially written as "men privileged, women oppressed" and completely ignores how the vast majority of men had to sacrifice themselves into an early grave through war or slaving away all day at a horrific low paying job in very dangerous conditions. Yet only one side had it bad. History also ignores that those few very wealthy men were also surrounded by wealthy women - their wives, daughters, mothers, etc.
/r/PussyPass15/05/20 01:02 PM
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I'm guessing someone left her She's very bitter, you can tell. But the thing is, she put herself in this position. She choose... she picked... she selected a specific man to have a child with and the guy turned out to be a total loser so of course it's not her fault. Next comes the part where she realizes that the quality men she's interested in want absolutely nothing to do with her, which is naturally not her fault either. Much easier to blame an entire gender for her choices in life.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/05/20 01:03 PM
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I get what you're saying. In the black community, black men are struggling. The statistics speak for themselves. They are falling way behind in education, income, high rate of criminal activity and so on. I agree with you that black mothers are failing their sons bigtime. You are correct in that it is black women are directly responsible for so much unnecessary suffering in black neighborhoods because they refuse to have better standards of who to have sex with. Of course you should choose caref…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 01:59 AM
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Males are parasites on women from cradle to grave. CRADLE. TO. GRAVE. You have to understand that many of us are not black and can't relate to your experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 12:16 AM
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FDS says the man must pay 100.00% of the time. Every date. Every holiday. All gift giving. Everything one sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 09:09 PM
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I'm fine with them expecting some effort from my side, but it needs to be a two way street Huh? Two way street?!? Queens dump this LVM loser ASAP!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 06:53 PM
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Again, what does the legit HVM get out of this type of relationship with a typical FDS woman? He does all this effort and what is the benefit in return?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 01:09 PM
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"DITCH HIM QUEEN HE'S A LOSER" Exactly. By their own words, legit HVM are rare and valuable. Yet these guys are going to happily engage in a relationship where they are initiating everything, planning everything, paying for everything, everything completely one sided. What on earth is it for him? What does this legit HVM get out of the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 12:33 PM
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So the question becomes why on earth would a guy with options put up with let alone marry a woman who is acting like a giant pain in ass? You win!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 11:17 AM
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Black men, statistics wise, aren’t doing that well. Unemployment, lack of degrees, high rate of criminal activity, etc. This causes black women to become very bitter and resentful which is why so many of them love FDS. I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 08:41 AM
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Why do black women call each other ‘sis’?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 07:43 AM
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Paragraphs will set you free
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 07:40 AM
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Why only one way “demonstration”?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 10:35 PM
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I appreciate the lighting. Shows it’s late at night
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:32 PM
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The girl who cut my hair today had such a cute face. She was about 5'1'', 204lbs with a very droopy gunt. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:57 AM
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Public freakout is a good one and Idiots in cars
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 01:08 PM
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I despise train wrecks and car accidents but I still turn to look. Point still valid, these Kweens honestly think they have 70,000 real members
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 01:03 PM
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More like the audience of The Jerry Springer Show
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:55 PM
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Women will say anything and everything to convince people that this isn’t a problem, because they are the ones benefitting from it. Yet there is a paradox here, right? On one hand, women have all the power in online dating because of the huge advantage in numbers of men vs. women. However, on the other hand, most women have an intense dislike for OLD. That's odd. All those advantages, yet all that unhappiness? The problem boils down to hypergamy. These women solely target the tiny % of men at th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:52 PM
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Of course not. Where feminism is desperately needed like in Africa and the middle east, feminists barely exists. You need this spoon fed to you? Do I really need to add "in Western cultures..." to every post?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:45 PM
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A huge % of their discussions are about how the worth of a "HVM" (high value male) is based on whether or not he pays for their dinners. Weird, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:41 PM
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This is such an old shit meme, incels aren't even trying now god Old yes, but is it a shit meme? One of the gospels of feminism is that women, all women, no matter how wealthy, no matter their lifestyle, are "oppressed victims" and that men, all men, no matter how poorly educated, poverty, physical issues, mental health issues are "privileged". Think of all the preferential treatment given to women and girls solely because they are female - extreme bias in education, preferential treatment in ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:32 PM
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They get very upset if a man suggests a date other than a free dinner. Feed big Bertha.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:15 AM
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Child birth, requires special treatment I mean, the only thing she's actively doing is spreading her legs and getting cum dumped, right? Mother nature does the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:02 AM
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Women are much, much better at getting Starbucks 10:30am weekday mornings in their yoga pants. Do you have any idea how much bravery this takes?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:00 AM
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We don't need men to like us You sure? There are almost zero success stories, right? Just one endless bitter rant after another.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:14 AM
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No wonder they want dinner so badly. LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:56 PM
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Your typically FDS poster is a socially awkward femcel with a long list of mental illnesses. These gals are in for a very lonely existence if they think some Prince Charming character is going to chase and chase, without sex, then pay for everything, all the while they sit back and do nothing cause they're the "prize". Not going to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:05 PM
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and I find pleasure in watching her shitshow of a life LMAO
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/20 02:45 PM
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A real man would step up to the challenge and sacrifice their sanity for absolutely nothing! :::FDS has entered the chat:::
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/20 02:44 PM
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"I am picky AF". That's code for sour grapes. FDS women are miserable failures at relationships, the men they want to date want absolutely nothing to do with them. Bitter, rejected, lonely, they compensate by saying versions of "I don't really want to date anyway, besides I'm super picky and very happy being single" when we all know it's a lie.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/20 01:32 PM
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Also, man breaks up with woman = he’s an asshole, I can’t believe he did this to you. Woman breaks up with man, good for you, you deserve better, let’s go celebrate
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:08 PM
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the 4's will think they deserve a 7, the 5's will think they deserve an 8, 6's --> 9 and so on. They truly deeply believe that! I don't see how anyone can dispute this. Yes, the 2s don't go after the perfect 10s, but the overreach is just simple reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:28 AM
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The women who have approached me have almost always been women who I thought were less attractive than me. It was basiclally a situation where they were tired of waiting for me to approach Exactly, yet according to that lesser attractive woman the reason you weren't interested in her was because she didn't let you 'chase' her. Makes sense, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:12 AM
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I would argue that most women wouldn’t have the courage to walk up to a man that’s out of their league You're projecting male brain logic. They do exactly that everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:07 AM
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HVM, per your own words, are rare and valuable. Why on earth would they settle for such a one-sided relationship with a mentally ill FDS femcel?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:54 AM
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Oh please. FDS women are femcels woth a long list of mental illnesses. They are miserable failures in dating in spite of the advantages that applies to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:58 PM
28

Why would I want to become a "HVM" as they define it? Good point, actually. The HVM jumps through hoop after hoop after hoop like a circus animal and what does he get in return? There is never a discussion of what he gets out of it, what’s in it for him, what she brings to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:20 PM
92

What’s up with the righteous indignation of Tinder and shaming men for most likely expecting casual fun vs serious LTRs? It would be like joining a gym and then bashing the members who are there to improve their health and fitness. Lady, try match.com or something else.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/20 03:09 PM
1

FKK in Germany, What nationality are the girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 03:47 PM
3

There’s no such thing as a female incel because women can always find some rando a partner of equal or greater attractiveness willing to use her body for sex provide a mutually beneficial and enjoyable sexual, fun, intimate experience. There. All fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:22 AM
24

For things that have never applied to them or any female they know except for their 139 year old grandmother
/r/PussyPassDenied10/04/20 01:01 PM
0

If they admit the truth that means admitting to being shallow, superficial, hypocritical, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 07:10 PM
1

True. The larger point is that the woman herself isn't intimidating but her lack of respect and thinking the guy is 'beneath' her certainly creates an intmiadating situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 05:36 PM
1

When men say stuff like this we are referring to situations where a guy makes $60k/year as a school teacher and he meets up with a $400k/year executive, the man (correctly) knows the vast majority of women will look down on men in his situation, he won’t be able to keep up with her lifestyle, he (correctly) knows she will soon grow resentment at having to pay for vacations and housing with “her money” and an overall lack of true respect for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:30 AM
1

What fascinates me is how their brain tells them a legit ‘HVM’ would put up with their bullshit for a second
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 01:26 AM
4

Someone help me understand why there is so much female rage on FDS? Why are they so bitter and angry?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 01:21 PM
2

He should have stopped tho... that last hit crossed the line
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/20 12:43 PM
6

I can’t believe Ari accidentally killed that call girl in Vegas with that coat rack hook on the door. It was just a terrible accident.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/20 03:38 AM
-1

Oh please, you never read "if a high-value man did all these wonderful things for me of course I would give him great sex, I would cook and clean for him and treat him like such a king" you never ever hear these things. It's not only one-sided only about them, but the extent they mention men it's always about how horrible we all are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 01:55 PM
13

Both of those subs absolutely encourage you to be a better version of yourself. You never see FDS discuss what they bring to the relationship. He is "high value", he plans for and pays for everything, he is denied sex, he is certainly denied any of his fetishes or kinks, he is never texted first, he never receives a single gift or other type of love token. According to them, the relationship is to be completely one-sided and the guy is to be immediately dumped if he doesn't follow the rules. Thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 01:06 PM
49

Red Pill: Here is a long list of self-improvement you need to better yourself to make yourself more attractive. You must put in the work. FDS: Hi Kweens! You're perfect just the way you are, if a guy doesn't see that, that's his problem, don't you dare make any effort in dating, don't plan for anything, don't text, absolutely don't pay for anything, withhold sex for as long a possible, date multiple men at once and if the guy you're with doesn't play along with any of these rules or objects in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 12:07 PM
28

The Chad references are more to expose the hypocrisy, lack of honesty and virtue signaling from women. As far as the guy himself, more power to him, don’t care, good for him, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 05:34 PM
7

From the moment she started making money while I didn't, her attitude slowly changed and she would often be scornful and straight up disrespectful at times. His money is our money. Her money is her money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 02:02 PM
9

most "career" UMC women want is to keep up appearances and make their friends jealous And the flip side to this is how much they dread and dread being asked, "What does your husband do?" by their female friends if the answer is something unimpressive and low paying. They feel so much shame when they have to admit this to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 02:00 PM
2

That’s perfect. Keep saying it exactly like that to the mirror. It’s going to take some time, but eventually you’ll start to really believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 01:57 AM
1

Men have done exactly this since forever. Fascinating how oblivious you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 01:52 AM
5

i'm a flat chested woman with acne scars. most, if not all men would prefer not to have a relationship with someone like me because my body is seen by mainstream society as not good enough. Now imagine if men said, “Women with acne scars are intimidated and insecure because I have smooth skin”. Ridiculous, right? That’s how women sound saying men are intimidated by their success, laughably ignoring their own lack of interest as the real source of all this. PS: men don’t punish flat chested women…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 11:15 PM
3

Works both ways -- successful professional guys aren't going to be marrying a Walmart cashier no matter how hot she may be. No but they would marry a teacher or a flight attendant or a dental hygienist and so on. Now reverse the genders and if this still applies
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 11:04 PM
14

Thank you. Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 06:09 PM
27

You’re really going to argue that a majority of women don’t have a preference that their partner earns at least equal and ideally more than they do? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 01:33 PM
1

Is it just me or are those pics unusually close up?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/20 12:13 PM
1

White knight hero attaboy award nominee.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 02:39 AM
1

a misandrist woman can only really say mean words. "mean words" like false rape and domestic abuse allegations? Those "words" have serious consequences, right? Also, you're limited everything down to who would win in a fight of full strength vs. full strength. The real world doesn't work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 11:55 AM
0

Men cheating is purely physical, it doesn’t change our love for her. Women cheating means she feels there is something significantly missing in the relationship to the point where the damage is often permanent. Of course women cheating is worse
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 03:19 PM
2

You completely exaggerate the 'safety' risk. You're meeting an average guy at a very public place for a date. Nothing will happen. You're not living in a zombie dark alley apocalypse. Stop punishing men for your paranoia.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 04:19 PM
2

You would be wearing all those same things anyway, like if you were having lunch with your girlfriends. Why punish men for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 11:15 AM
2

You’re forgetting the part about getting Starbucks at 10:30am weekday mornings in your yoga pants and iphone. Do you have any idea how much bravery that takes?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 04:01 AM
-1

Awesome the way you can read minds
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 06:32 PM
0

I would hate to be a woman because of biology - pregnancies, menstruation, etc. However, having an entire lifetime on easy mode with everything handed to you doesn't exactly sound so bad either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 06:11 PM
2

Don't know. Don't care. Whatever they are or are not doesn't change the observations of FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 03:27 PM
2

MGTOW at least admits they're trying to go their own way vs bitter FDS femcels pretending their sub is actually about dating
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 03:07 PM
16

Highly educated white women in western cultures .... so oppressed. OMG, they are so brave. I don’t know how they do it.
/r/MensRights17/03/20 03:35 AM
3

A super successful male physician, CEO, lawyer, etc, wouldn't date a minimum wage fast food worker, but he absolutely would date a teacher, flight attendant, office manager, etc. A female physician, executive, lawyer wouldn't dream of dating down like this. Only women do this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 11:56 AM
1

How does the man know the difference in the first 3 months? Both groups are acting identically, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 11:31 PM
1

don't give things to women for free as they just look at me like a walking atm From a guy's perspective, how does FDS behavior differ from golddigger behavior? FDS says to never pay, never plan, never initiate, all gift giving must be one sided and to withhold sex for months and months. A HVM is suppose to just put up with this and hope for the best?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:53 PM
28

Exactly. Where is dating strategy? 99% of the posts are some version of Men = bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:48 PM
20

Give the pour gal a brake
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/20 12:03 PM
11

Chivalrous = “I expect you to pay for everything”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/20 11:59 AM
27

Gunt
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/20 02:50 PM
41

When she moves to a big city full of hot young girls to find her “HVM” she’s going to be in for a rude awakening. This is a great point. A real high value guy has a ton of options. What could possibly be in it for them? Remember, they're withholding sex for 3 months, refusing to plan or pay for anything, never calling or texting first, never gifting or showing any type of effort otherwise. Considering their options, why on earth would these true "high value men" even think of dating an FDS woman…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/20 01:09 PM
15

This exactly. The fox tries and tries to jump up and eat those grapes, over and over again, but they're too high up on the vine.... utterly frustrated, the fox gives up walks away saying some version of, "I didn't want those grapes, they were probably sour anyway". FDS women are bitterly rejected in the dating world so out come the sour grapes to protect their hearts and egos, "I don't want those guys anyway".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/20 12:51 PM
53

FDS women nearly all have mental illness subs in their post history.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/20 12:38 PM
142

And they're not only always single, but utterly failing miserably at dating and relationships... but why? I thought these "strategies" were suppose to work, right?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/20 12:37 PM
4

I wish they'd randomly hit on me more often Women, near unanimously, tell men not to do this, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 10:36 AM
2

The joke is on us gents.... absolutely she will be flooded with tall, fit men would be thrilled to fuck her. She wins in this exchange. You guys know this, right?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/20 11:52 AM
1

I have plenty of options so why wouldn't I go for the guy who is generous and keen to pay for me? Because you're not a whore?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 12:48 PM
5

Don't tell that to the femcels at FDS. Their of idea of "work" is to simply exist. Do absolutely nothing in terms of effort or making the guy feel special and this is somehow suppose to make the HVM want you even more?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 12:38 PM
2

True, women asking men out doesn't work out the majority of times... but not for the reason you indicated. The real reason is doesn't work out is because those very few times that a woman does finally gain the courage to ask him out it is with a guy way, way out of her league.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 12:35 PM
4

A mere three paragraphs into the article, female solipism rears its ugly head. Liz assumes her experience on dating apps is mirrored by men. Her main point, and she's correct, is that one of the things that prevents a connection for both genders is that mindset that there could always be someone better waiting on the next swipe.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/20 01:56 AM
4

Ok, I just read the article and nothing in it "blames men". It was very well balanced. They agreed with many points made here and elsewhere about the advantages women have in dating and how that elevates their SMV to unrealistic levels. The rest was primarily based on the psychological phenomenons associated with OLD which applied to both genders. This thread comes across with the wrong message
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/20 01:53 AM
3

I thought this point was very interesting: Actual romantic chemistry is volatile and hard to predict; it can crackle between two people with nothing in common and fail to materialize in what looks on paper like a perfect match.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/20 01:42 AM
2

Him paying on the first date shows that he’s willing to take care of her(which most women notice) and can provide for a family. FDS doesn't just mention the "first date". Their wonderful strategy is to never pay for anything, ever. Also, to never text first. To never call first. To never even plan or suggest or anything. Oh, and on top of all that, you're suppose to withhold sex for 3 months ideally. The women is suppose to make absolutely no effort of any kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 01:01 PM
24

The primary compliant relates to the lack of honesty and the virtue signaling. There is a vast chasm between what women say with their words and what they say with their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 12:55 PM
6

Unless the person is your really, really super close friend then no one really knows how promiscuous that person is or not. Women who rant about "slut shaming" and double standards are delusional like we all live in small religious town from 100 years ago. No one slut shames anyone because that information is almost always private and the vast majority of people don't care anyway even if it where public knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 12:23 PM
2

Why the enormous leap from those first few dates to childbirth and breastfeeding? A 23 y/o guy has to pay for everything because you might have a kid at some point later in your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 02:37 AM
1

None of what you wrote changes a thing. If I date a chain smoker who leaves cigarette butts all over the house and choose to later marry this person knowing full well what I'm getting into then, sorry, no sympathy. PS: I don't buy the, "I had no idea he was like this in the 7 years we dated" argument either
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 02:24 AM
1

Idk men probably want their wife bringing home a paycheck too but wont help with the house chores. Even in marriages where the wife is making slightly more she is doing more childcare and housework on average than her husband. To whatever extent this may be true, doesn't the wife have a great deal of responsibility for creating and enabling her own situation? She picked the guy, right? She chose to date him, live with him, marry him, move in with him, to stay with him, etc, etc. She knew exactly…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 01:28 AM
2

Men also wanted to be taller, stronger, and more masculine than their partners And women don't demand this overwhelmingly? This is her example of a male double standard?!?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 10:01 PM
3

It's like stating, "Whoever has the most testosterone should pay". So egalitarian of them!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 06:01 PM
3

It's not 'contributing more' it's contributing 100% vs 0%, right? And, ideally, that 0% includes withholding sex for 3 months ideally?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 02:42 PM
5

You could also argue makeup is a privilege for women. Being able to cover up bad skin, being able to go from a 5 to an 8 with the right makeup. Men don't have this option.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 01:07 PM
1

You would wear all that hair and makeup stuff anyway, right? Like if you were meeting your mom and sister for lunch? Why make your voluntary decision to wear all this makeup a man/woman/dating thing? You would wear that same makeup anyway even if there were no dates or men in sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 01:05 PM
7

No one expects a man to pay for everything What do you think of this female dating strategy: Woman makes no effort of any kind. High value man comes along and showers the woman with gifts, meals and attention. Plans and pays for everything all the time, not just the first date. Christmas, Birthdays, Valentine's Day, etc. Everything must be 100% to 0% one sided of the man giving and the woman receiving. Woman continues to make no effort of any kind, only now she withholds sex too. This causes 'hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 12:11 PM
3

I think it's the opposite. Men are bending over backwards to avoid looking like a #metoo Harvey Weinstein creeper that we're discounting their attempts at flirting or showing interest
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 02:17 AM
1

Not only was it "allowed", but in fact, a large majority of non-wealthy women have worked outside the home since the industrial revolution.Many of those jobs involving housekeeping and childcare for those oppressed, suffering wealthy brave white women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 05:48 PM
2

yet women still act like they're living in the 1600s. Lmao. Nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 05:45 PM
3

They want to bypass the hardship and become CEO's of already successful companies which were made successful by men prior or currently working there, then claim credit for So true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 04:17 PM
1

How do you take turns standing in line at the grocery store?
/r/seduction15/02/20 02:46 AM
2

Circle jerk phenomenon. Group think here mentality. "Oh? Everyone else is downvoting, I guess I should too"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 01:06 PM
7

5’11” is too short. I’m sorry.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/20 09:24 PM
27

The message is clear: it’s not you they want, you’re just a human to fill the void.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/20 08:53 PM
6

She gets tons of attention from her online persona and OLD profiles, yet her mental health issues drive men away in real life. Quite the mindfuck
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/20 08:42 PM
2

The problem with this question is that when women hear this they think only about a super heavyweight massive bodybuilder - of course, they don't like that, that's ridiculous, you silly men. Instead they "only" like a Chippendales stripper type body, LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 03:24 PM
1

Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 05:39 PM
5

Hell, why aren’t there any male equivalents for anything? Surprisingly, there is no female equivalent for this: https://old.reddit.com/r/usedpanties/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 05:36 PM
3

Exactly this. Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 12:59 PM
1

The challenge with this topic isn't acknowledgement that both genders have issues vs the complaints that women's and girl's issues alone are addressed in the mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 12:58 PM
10

I am beginning to think that by simply using dating apps, women are actually "ruined" for life. I think this is also true. Women have basically conditioned men and boys that approaching outside of bar or party/social event is non-acceptable creepy, unwanted harassment. OLD is one of the few places where men are "allowed" to approach and show interest. The problem is that online women channel all of their interest into the same small % of elite guys at the very top. This gives this very small gro…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/20 12:16 PM
5

I think she's joking.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/20 03:55 PM
63

"Something's missing" is code for women putting the responsibility of their personal happiness on their partner. It must be his fault, of course.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/20 12:54 PM
3

Like the creepy tat of Frankenstein on her left thigh, that must be fun to look at when you're going down on her
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/20 12:14 PM
9

Why would any guy who is 5'9 to 5'11" even bother replying when you know that she is reluctantly settling for you?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/20 02:56 AM
3

Exactly.she is being honest and upfront and not at all picky. Why are we ripping on her? Maybe she's a widow?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/20 02:38 AM
3

To counterbalance the lies in the mainstream, the lies women tell boys
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:57 AM
8

Yes and fainting couches for any joke of an adult or sexual nature
/r/PussyPassDenied21/01/20 02:47 AM
1

He was also showing a lot of restraint because she's a girk Fuck these girks? Amirite?
/r/PussyPassDenied20/01/20 09:42 PM
4

He would never raise his hand to a woman. What kind of horrible advice is this? You son isn't even allowed to defend himself?
/r/PussyPassDenied20/01/20 05:27 PM
19

And then he gets expelled because a woman’s story always prevails. That only applies to white sorority princess types. Ghetto beasts like this have a bit tougher time
/r/PussyPassDenied20/01/20 05:26 PM
2

I think the point is that most guys would be able to somewhat easily push her off, keep her at arm's length, grab her arms and then most guys can deescalate by leaving the room unharmed vs. just sitting there and getting assaulted.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/01/20 05:24 PM
10

But that's exactly what he did, he stopped punching, threw her to the ground and ended the fight
/r/PussyPassDenied20/01/20 05:19 PM
5

Yes, but to be fair, the father probably has a big cock and some really bad ass tattoos
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/20 12:41 PM
5

I agree with this, just posted something similar. This is the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 11:51 PM
2

I think for young males all this talk about consent consent and more consent has scared them away just a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 11:45 PM
1

women are only sexually attracted to a man who is better than her in some way. Exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 12:35 PM
2

Male physicians would happily date a nurse or a therapist. Male CEOs would happily date an admin person. A successful male lawyer would have no trouble dating someone he sparked with while she was assisting him at a department store. On and and on. Yes, I know that exceptions exist, but if you reverse the genders, it rarely, rarely happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 12:33 PM
2

I have heard many men say they don’t like it, That's a complete falsehood and we both know it
/r/seduction17/01/20 11:45 PM
1

I've found plenty of success with subtle hints, eye contact, etc. You see the eye contact and use that as a green light to cold approach? Is that what you're referring to, like out at the mall?
/r/seduction17/01/20 12:47 PM
1

I (F) was wondering myself whether men like it, when women approach them? How is it possible that you were 'wondering' this? Nearly 100% of men all agree that we love it. How many times does this have to be said? The tiny, tiny, tiny % that doubt have mental health or other personality disorders - in other words, they are doing you a favor by showing you their true colors. Even if we're not interested and/or available, when women make the first move, men are flattered beyond belief because it ha…
/r/seduction17/01/20 12:44 PM
2

Capn Crunch Berries = fruit
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/20 02:58 AM
2

FThese aren’t contradictory. She can regret being single and childless and observe separately that people undervalue the role of Aunts
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/20 02:53 AM
1

She could be joking? Clever if she is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/20 01:09 PM
11

OLD worked for me. She wrote that OLD was "cesspool of horribleness". I think that men, and this sub, sometimes overestimate how easy OLD is for women. Yes, this is true for average and above looking women. But ugly, fat, weird looking women absolutely get passed over a great deal.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/20 12:44 PM
2

[META side question] ... How does one go about capturing and posting an image like this?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/20 12:40 PM
1

Men are DNA, biologically hard wired to desire other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 10:54 AM
1

Depends. Family, friends then no. ANY situation where there is (or hopes to be) sexual attraction then you must avoid or else she's done with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 03:59 PM
5

so if they don’t approach me and tell me they want to be with me, i just let it go But they are saying exactly that. Women are terrible poker players. Their body language gives it all away. The nervous smile, the being overly nice, the looking at you then quickly looking away because you busted them, you catch them eyeing you up and down, etc, etc. All of these things are saying, "Hey YOU! I'm definitely interested. Get over here and say hello to me"
/r/seduction05/01/20 03:38 PM
8

You hear this urban legend all the time, but I just can't believe it's true.
/r/seduction04/01/20 12:58 PM
1

All about availability and demographics. You could be the perfect guy in terms of looks, style, behavior, etc, however if she isn't available (she's taken, she's moving soon, whatever) it doesn't matter what you say or how you say it, she's not going to give you a chance. Likewise with demographics. A 40 year-old lawyer would do great at an art gallery but would do terrible a young hipster bar. You can never tell until you line the two up.
/r/seduction04/01/20 12:55 PM
0

For heterosexuals women it will be a little harder to find a quality mate. I predict the "marriage decline due to lack of economically viable quality men" trend will be the catalyst that allows the mainstream to finally address issues with boys. Meaning the next group of young women (a group that has only known preferential bias and only known positive portrayals in the media) will finally allow a change away from the current themes. Self-serving, of course. This group will be stuck being breadw…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 12:00 PM
1

/thread
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/20 12:09 PM
5

I'm self-conscious and I think that men care. They care only due to the (usually correct) understanding that your higher income also includes a lack of true respect for him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 11:37 AM
3

I find that women who are working their way up the latter or excelling at their careers don't actually care if they make more money then their male Odd that you're so wrong on this observation. If anything, these 'excelling" women care much more. Dating down for them is a real problem
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 11:30 AM
17

I appreciate her honesty. Women hate the thought of spending "their money" on a man, significant other or not.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/20 04:22 AM
5

There's nothing to like about men as they're generally abominable creatures. I am 100.00% convinced this mindset is solely related to resentment at being constantly rejected by the men you think you deserve to be with and the bitterness of having to"settle" for a different class of men (the ones actually in your league).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 03:37 AM
2

HMU when there is a female equivalent to this: https://www.reddit.com/r/usedpanties/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 03:25 AM
189

If a Trump supporter Sugar Daddy presented himself to her, she would instantly spread open like you're pulling apart a grilled cheese sandwich .
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/20 03:21 AM
19

Bartender at TopGolf, drives for Uber, single mom.... yet is asking for a lifetime of free housing and all other life expenses because...she has a vagina?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/20 03:17 AM
1

the world is full of girls who are just waiting for any half-decent guy to approach them. Except the message that women themselves very clearly communicate to men repeatedly is "unless we're at a bar/party/social event, do NOT approach us".
/r/seduction01/01/20 12:32 PM
3

Woman ends relationship: "Good for you! You deserve better. Let's go celebrate" Man ends relationship: "What a jerk! I can't believe he did this to you. Men are such pigs".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 12:03 PM
7

Dating advice for men: lose weight, lift weights, improve your style, update your wardrobe, improve your social skills, learn interesting hobbies, update your haircut, expand your group of friends. Dating advice for women: never settle, you're perfect just the way you are and if doesn't see that, that's his problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 12:01 PM
10

Very easy to forget girls occasionally have difficulties to or may not be able to land someone they really want when you're a guy It fascinates me the way you (and most women in general) don't realize that men go through this uncomfortable, awkward rejection since forever.
/r/seduction31/12/19 03:08 PM
1

Yes. Its, in effect, negotiating chores for more sex. This
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 02:33 PM
1

He's not going to be rich and hot vs desperate and low self-esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 07:08 AM
2

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 07:02 AM
4

FDS: 1). Make no effort of any kind 2) High value male throws himself at you, showers you with attention, pays for everything. 3) Continue to make no effort of any kind except also withhold sex. 4) This causes high value guy to want you even more ????
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 07:01 AM
22

If she expects you to play by the Man Pays rule she sees you as a beta, He's either an utterly desperate pathetic beta with no self-esteem and/or an insecure show-off who is compensating for some dysfunction The single most desperate and low value move a male can make is insisting on paying for an expensive first date.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/19 03:32 AM
5

most women would rather be at home scrubbing out the oven because at least then they've got a clean oven and no memories of having to plaster a half smile on her face while a useless man attached to an overly too eager penis bores her with his ill-informed and entirely too confident opinions all the while he's feeling that's just fine because he bought her something that cost barely anything and she could make at home for a tenth the cost and an even smaller fraction of the hassle. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 04:44 PM
1

I like her honesty
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/19 06:44 AM
-2

Sex workers provide a valuable service that almost all of us will use at some point in our lives.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/19 05:50 PM
-31

Sexworkers are humans with emotions and needs just like everyone else. I say we leave them alone
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/19 11:02 PM
3

She's bluffing, trying to avoid the label of being the desperate to be married woman
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/19 07:59 AM
7

Chivalry is just code for "I expect you to pay for everything"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/19 07:55 AM
15

Important point, she is self-aware st least
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/19 07:26 PM
1

Why do you think the vast majority of male physicians will happily date someone who makes significantly less than them, yet this so rarely applies to female physicians? (yes, always rare exceptions)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 12:58 AM
1

That article confirmed everything I just wrote
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 01:16 PM
5

I don't think so because their body language gives it away, they are a bit nervous, trying to talk in a flirtatious manner, giving you the "look", etc. Also, for the record, I readily admit that typically these women I encounter aren't very attractive generally speaking but I'm still very flattered. The larger point still stands, approaching for a man is asking her out (ideally), "approaching" for women is limited generally to a polite small-talk opener only.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 12:57 PM
3

Congrats. Yes, there are always exceptions to everything
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 12:38 PM
43

Approaching for men is actually making a move, trying to escalate. "Approaching" for women, in their mind, is only saying something very polite like "cute dog" at the park, or "that's a cool watch", etc. Then they sit back and wait for the guy to do all the heavy lifting thinking "I guess he's not interested? How come men can't read signals?" In this context, I usually get 2-3 IOI-type intros per month.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 12:33 PM
4

Of course, men don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 04:22 AM
4

Even women who make over 100k per year still need a man to define her worth. I see this a lot with female physicians. The thought of dating down and spending "their money" (vacations, housing, new cars, etc) on someone who is only a ________ (nurse, therapist, school teacher, etc) is repulsive to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 02:59 AM
3

A lot of guys I’ve talked to, don’t like it. The only (repeat: only) reason guys "don't like it" is they correctly know that the vast, vast majority of women will look down on men who earn less than they do. Can you blame them? No guy wants to be the one who was reluctantly settled for or be with someone who can never truly respect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 02:10 AM
5

Because good luck finding a woman with a fat fetish I admit I have a fat fetish, not so much for obese land whales, but super curvy girls like this This women is ~40lbs overweight. Men who are 40lbs overweight are repulsive to women. It's not their fault, it's in their wiring/DNA/Darwin. You have to choose to accept it and be fit or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 01:54 AM
5

You don't really see this with male politicians. Incorrect https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2016/aug/18/nude-donald-trump-statues-new-york-indecline
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 12:40 PM
4

Men are visibly uncomfortable in the presence of average women. How do you explain that your typically "average girl" (average, not hideous) still has hundreds of "likes", matches, in-box flooded and otherwise a huge amount of attention with online dating? Don't compare average hot to super hot girl, compare her experience to her looksmatch. She still has to put in a fraction of the effort as her hypothetically exact male counterpart.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 12:38 PM
2

He's not complaining about the woman and her bags, he's exposing the double standard that women take up just as much (and usually a lot more) space with their bags than whatever men do with our knees. Yet one was a feminist-driven media 'epidemic' for several years and the other continues to be ignored. To be fair, they seemed to have backed off on this attack in recent years.
/r/MensRights11/12/19 12:30 PM
1

Which part, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 02:31 PM
0

and generally thank their lucky stars they get to fuck something. Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 02:11 PM
14

Follow me on this... here are a few indisputable facts: Most women find most men unattractive, especially their looksmatch. However, they throw themselves at those few very attractive guys at the very top. This in turn gives this very small group of men enormous power - to put in little effort, to perhaps act like an asshole, to certainly not commit to anything, etc. Women themselves create this situation, yet never see their own role in this. "I can't help who I'm attracted to". Most average gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 02:09 PM
11

They're also very, very careful to not include things like financial management, yardwork, automotive repairs, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 12:52 PM
1

Women can't screen for it I don't believe this. It's not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 12:51 PM
6

They're not leaving, they are staying then solely blaming men for the lack of happiness. Imagine: I cannot stand cigarette smoke and I especially dislike smokers who leave their butts in a full ashtray. Yet... sure enough, I start to date a smoker who does exactly this. She's smoking like a chimney on our first date in fact. Then, 6 years and 2 kids later... I am bitter and angry that I have to deal with the smell and mess from all her cigarettes. Yet, I should have absolutely none of the blame …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 12:46 PM
12

Good point. They thought up until now that being a SAHM was the "toughest job in the world"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/19 02:25 AM
1

How does this apply to women? Too many choices and too much attention doesn’t make them ‘victims’, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 05:35 AM
5

Women are taught by men and the media that if we are attractive, we will have LOADS of nice, normal men, asking us out on dates. A huge % of men don't approach even though we're interested... because we're shy, or we're trying to not act like a creep and give her her space, because we might lack confidence and don't think you have a shot, because you're nervous, because you already said a polite small talk opener and didn't get a positive vibe in return, maybe she's surrounded by people, etc, et…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 07:58 AM
3

, most people, women included, will view it negatively. This is an important point. The vast majority of women themselves distance them from feminism.
/r/MensRights29/11/19 01:07 PM
1

This is a perfect example of what I'm talking about. You absolutely do NOT find "feminist commentary in about every newspaper". Go to https://news.google.com/ Scroll and scroll and scroll. You won't find any "feminist commentary" for the first 22 pages. This the victim mindset that you're in therapy for.
/r/MensRights29/11/19 12:59 PM
1

You might want to consider taking a break from Reddit. When you see these stories pop up about anti-male bias and feminism take comfort in that this is not in the mainstream. People find these stories from the fringe and post them here to make it look like it is more prevalent than it really is. Sorry to admit this, but many posters here love being victims and bend over backwards to find reasons to be offended - very similar to what you see feminists doing. When you're at work, school, when you …
/r/MensRights29/11/19 12:54 PM
3

but the ones worth my time understand why I'd do it. I think this is a good point because this is a good filter for both parties. If women want a beta doormat who pays for everything that's their right too. My whole life I've only dated two women who were the "guy should always pay" type and in hindsight they were both terrible human beings overall. One is still single at age 40 and the other is now divorced and looks horrible. When you see this type of red flag behavior, they are doing you a fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 12:47 PM
4

Men leech from women like this all the time and rarely give back. Do you feel this is because, overwhelmingly, you are targeting men out of your league? I get that you can't help who you are attracted to, but that hot guy has a lot of options, women line up around the block to throw themselves at him, etc. Perhaps your circumstances would improve if you gave the guy at your level at chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 11:59 AM
48

Men as a collective are too pathetic and too thirsty. /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 11:52 AM
4

Why isn't the norm where part three is she insists getting the next one? You know, equality?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 12:13 AM
1

Whatever credibility you think you have is 100.00% invalidated by your "guys should always pay" nonsense. The fact that you'll never be smart enough to realize this is unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 10:31 PM
-1

Hi Dad, your name is Sharon? That's cool.
/r/MensRights26/11/19 11:38 AM
2

Most of the 'hints' are just polite small talk openers that can very easily mean she was just being friendly, social, etc. As others have said, plausible deniability. Meaning it's still up to the guy to really escalate, get a number, etc. In her mind, she made the first move because she asked him about his watch?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:55 AM
1

also girls are DEFINITELY still embarrassed to admit they met guys on tinder Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 03:49 AM
-49

I think it's more of the defenselessness aspect. An adult man has at least a shot at fighting back
/r/MensRights18/11/19 09:31 PM
-1

To their credit, women will agree to see movies their boyfriend wants even if they have no interest. Men will fight tooth and nail to avoid a chick flick, especially one with girl power vomit themes. Thus, harder for all-female movies to do more box office.
/r/MensRights16/11/19 04:30 AM
-12

Gay men do this too at the gym. Parading around like a peacock "Look at me!! Look at me!!" Deliberately going out of their way to be as exposed as possible, at the sink, etc. I can see their point
/r/PussyPassDenied12/11/19 02:47 PM
5

Her advice is pretty solid, not the usual “you’re perfect just the way you are and if he doesn’t see that, that’s his problem” advice that is always given to women. She actually tells women to step up, do better, be more realistic, etc
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/19 10:56 AM
10

Boys are raised overwhelmingly by mothers, female teachers and other female caregivers and of course mainstream media and movies all of which lie to boys about this subject
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 12:31 PM
-8

Why did you assume her problems relate to the guy being a 6'2" Chad? She gave exactly zero indication that she's being too picky or choosing guys out of her league, right?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/19 12:52 PM
3

Plus she’s going to a hospital, not a real prison
/r/PussyPassDenied07/11/19 10:04 AM
19

Exactly. Her parole date will be soon, I'm afraid.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/10/19 01:10 PM
5

Men who are assholes being supported by women I was just reading this post from a person who said they have 10 doctors in their healthcare office, 8 men and 2 women. None of the wives of the 8 male doctors work, but with the two female physicians, one is married to another doctor and the other is married to a commercial airline pilot. In other words, women hate, HATE the thought of having to spend 'their money' on a man, even their husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 01:06 PM
-1

making him show investment in you before you do in him But why even this message?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 01:04 PM
-3

It's a parody, not meant to be taken seriously. These are ugly, bitter, rejected women. Does anyone really think any halfway decent human is going to accept having to pay for everything while she makes no effort at all in the relationship? Please. The women on that sub wouldn't dare try any of their comedy in real life and everyone knows it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 01:01 PM
2

He’s protecting the woman is the back from getting stomped
/r/PussyPassDenied29/10/19 09:59 AM
66

7 year sentence, not life. This is a pussy pass, not PPD
/r/PussyPassDenied29/10/19 09:40 AM
-19

Look at how stupid this post is on a men’s rights sub too
/r/MensRights28/10/19 12:24 PM
2

Mental health women would be an obvious exception
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 01:12 PM
1

Insecure or not, social anxiety or not, she's still conceited. That part doesn't change
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 09:35 AM
-2

Being penetrated is perfectly healthy and normal in hetero male female intimacy. What's your deal? Pedo Uncle behind the shed?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 07:23 PM
-1

Why not? Say who? Quit inventing new rules. The point is that it's a loving gesture to your life partner, being generous, pleasing, giving them joy, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 07:16 PM
-1

Why should she care about pretending for the sake of your feelings? Because, like the OP says, it's not that hard. Imagine my wife really, really, really loves having her neck massaged. She loves it. It means a lot to her. It makes her feel great. And yet, I don't feel like it. Fuck her. Not in the mood. Giving her 2-3 neck massages a week is just too much to ask for. Sorry. My feelings always come first. If I do it at all, it will be a half-ass, going through the motions, don't really care type…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 06:49 PM
1

They then went on to tell us that having a desire for sex is wrong and that we need to be aware of our desire so that we can suppress it That happened
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 01:29 PM
4

WHO THE FUCK TOLD YOU THAT? Women mostly, the mothers, aunts, teachers, babysitters, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 01:26 PM
7

Democratic People's Republic of Korea
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 03:51 AM
3

But her female friends will think she's a slut, tho... not to mention how upset the boyfriend will be when he learns she cheated.... Much more convenient this way. Think of it as a strategic business decision
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 03:45 AM
30

the rate is low So what? Doesn't change a single point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 03:42 AM
31

We are all equals, how bout you get off your ass and chase us. Give a guy a compliment, express sexual interest, offer to buy him a drink. Because the one time (or maybe twice) that they tried that it was with a guy way, way out of their league and when it didn't go well, totally oblivious, they concluded that men are 'insecure' about women making a move like that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 12:58 PM
10

Well said
/r/PussyPass19/10/19 02:20 AM
10

Completely ordinary if male astronauts did it tho?
/r/PussyPass18/10/19 11:40 PM
26

All things equal, height is a huge advantage
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/19 06:04 PM
14

THEY HAVE MISSIONARY SEX EVERY YEAR ON AVERAGE MAN'S BIRTHDAY. I get it. I was at a crowded gas station minimart today. I was surrounded by men - service guys, truck drivers, business casual overweight kahki pants guy, etc, etc. Holy fuck men are ugly. We totally got the better end of deal. I don't blame them for not wanting to fuck us.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:47 AM
1

Like the satire and hyperbole however we can acknowledge the overwhelming favoritism given to girls in education, overwhelming advantages in admissions, hiring, promotions. Women pay a fraction of the taxes yet receive a large majority of government services, women's health issues are infinitely more funded. Women live longer, work much less. Etc etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 02:16 PM
8

Surprised feminists allowed this, frankly
/r/MensRights12/10/19 04:15 PM
2

Because women aren't honest about their preferences. Barely will any woman admit that looks and status are the two most important things. This would mean admitting they're superficial /thread This should be the top post. It isn't just that women (mothers and teachers mostly) are lying to boys but they are lying to themselves also. You see this all the time with Reddit women. So much insincere posturing because the alternative would be to acknowledge and admit to negative personality traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 12:40 PM
-3

Why are you acting like her In box isn’t overflowing with interest?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/10/19 03:45 AM
1

Nurse’s aide or hospital housekeeping
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/19 12:53 PM
1

Average.... so, 165lbs?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/19 12:44 PM
0

This is the part where one you geniuses types, "How can she slap?" and gets 300+ upvotes because it's just so hysterical I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 01:49 PM
1

I keep myself a little more guarded with my female coworkers A large % of couples used to meet at work, this trend is dying off now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 07:33 AM
3

You might make some dude extremely uncomfortable, especially if you’re not good looking. Him being uncomfortable has nothing to do with you being good looking or not. Dating at work is very risky for men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 07:29 AM
1

Reverse the genders, same punishment?
/r/PussyPass06/10/19 02:06 PM
19

Refreshingly honest answer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 12:39 PM
1

Socially, everything is handed to women with preferential treatment in education, dating, hiring, admissions, promotions, how people treat you, etc. It's overwhelming (all while claiming to be victims, lol) However... I would not change places because of the biological disadvantages such as menstruation, menopause, hormones, pregnancies, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 12:37 PM
1

Doesn't this make you feel sorry for women? They got a raw deal from nature, Darwin, DNA, etc?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/19 01:11 PM
6

"Yes, but men cost more to insure". Funny how that argument never applies to health insurance (2 out of every 3 healthcare dollars are spent on women), only car and life insurance. You know, cause of equality
/r/MensRights02/10/19 03:45 AM
5

they blame men for it Much like how straight men have never endorsed the anorexic look of the fashion industry yet of course men are to blame
/r/MensRights02/10/19 03:26 AM
15

Woman has all the control over having a child. Who decides if she’s pregnant? The woman. Who decides if she keeps it? The woman. That’s why there’s a positive stigma for single fathers and a negative stigma for single mothers. Men have zero control over a pregnancy. Hell, a man could be raped and still have to pay child support. Nailed it. /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 09:54 PM
1

I think this was meant for places like China and India where most parents strongly prefer male children
/r/MensRights26/09/19 12:41 PM
2

He would be the only hetero guy, surrounded by women. He would be fighting them off. in other words, women aren't as punishing as you make them out to be
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 10:46 PM
4

True or false, if a straight hetero male took up dancing instead of sports and got pretty good at it, that guy would be drowning in more pussy than he could possibly dream of?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 10:41 PM
3

Josie ruined poor Jake's life by consenting while drunk
/r/PussyPassDenied25/09/19 10:35 PM
5

I've noticed this too, especially with anything style related
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 10:55 PM
16

"Remember son women love it when you ask for a consent for each and every little thing"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 10:51 PM
5

In fact, that's actually a common deterrent for women This. I wish it were different but what she wrote won't help most men these days. If anything we have to do the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 10:33 PM
42

Her standards and demands are out of this world unreasonable. That's it. There is absolutely no doubt in my mind that she refuses to consider a man who isn't extremely successful himself, which is fine, who cares, those are her standards, whatever, but then don't play the "woe is me, why can't I find anyone" card when your situation is entirely self-created.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/19 02:38 PM
5

Nerdy girls want the alpha guy .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 06:02 AM
6

Strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 05:59 AM
7

Hypergamy: girl works at low level job, yet wouldn't dream of dating guy who also works at low level job - only women do this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 05:42 AM
8

I disagree with the implication that it is guys who are too picky, unrealistic, standards too high, etc. Overwhelmingly, and it's not even close, is that this applies much more so when you reverse the genders
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 05:27 AM
2

There is no corresponding treatment for men. Celebrities, famous athletes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 01:15 PM
1

Fragile, pearl clutching women need their modesty and fainting couches
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 10:55 AM
18

She had her epiphany at 27 It’s called “my SAHM friends are right, this working full time stuff really sucks”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/19 09:41 AM
1

Good observation. Nailed it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/19 10:43 PM
5

Imagine a man describing his career as, "I'm 41, just now going back to school, meanwhile I support my 3 kids as a waiter", what would be the reaction?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/19 10:42 PM
3

Nice job
/r/seduction12/09/19 03:05 AM
27

Love how the article opens with three women fighting for 6'2" Chad as being example of how hard it is for them. At the same event they were probably surrounded by 75 other single men in their league but didn't even notice.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/19 09:31 AM
71

Can't stand the withholding sex manipulation strategy
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/19 03:00 AM
32

She's would have won her sexual assault harassment lawsuit if not for the video
/r/PussyPassDenied04/09/19 11:08 PM
3

If you want sex from women, screen them hard for sex and you will get sex What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 04:57 PM
7

Its a backlash against feminism contuining to push and push and push. With the full backing of the mainstream media.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 07:46 AM
1

The ending was the usual BP/Disney vomit, up until then, it was surprisingly accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 11:06 AM
-1

Exactly, which is why it was so refreshingly honest when she reacts so harshly and with so much disgust to his nice guy behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 10:52 AM
-3

First and foremost women in mainstream movies for dudes are usually meant to be male fantasy eye candy, not "real" women with flaws and imperfections That's the entire point. It is extremely rare that bad behavior from women is ever shown or even acknowledged in the mainstream. No flaws, always either the indestructible badass or the perfect angel victim, thus why this movie stood out
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 10:45 AM
1

In the movie, the joke is someone spray painted the sign to instead say 'cock'
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 09:28 AM
2

The problem is the guy falls into the "reluctantly settled for" category and no guy wants that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 02:42 AM
1

Why emphasize the prefer part?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 11:38 PM
6

Women are attracted to bad boys. Surprise, they're not great father material
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 03:51 AM
3

S
/r/PussyPassDenied27/08/19 01:12 AM
1

She didn't even first do the virtue signalling that a lot of women might do so that they don't look shallow Good observation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 02:56 PM
39

they choose to work less Then they get to claim to be oppressed victims of discrimination when they bring home less income at the end of the year. It's genius because no one in the mainstream ever challenges the falsehoods. They already have long since been paid equally. They already get to work a fraction of the hours in less stressful, more work/balance jobs - without any social penalty that men face and then.... they're victims too! The media and politicians all play along. Scoreboard.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/08/19 01:10 PM
9

Yeah, comedy audiences love that type of stuff. /s
/r/PussyPassDenied06/08/19 09:42 AM
0

Primarily because women hate the idea of giving an engagement gift to a man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:17 AM
3

Society, media and culture regularly acknowledges, consoles and validates women's difficulties in finding LTRs, up to and including blaming men Isn't that insulting to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 09:47 PM
1

most men have no issue getting commitment Not from their looksmatch, women still have a big advantage there too, but from someone slightly below, definitely. If men would be willing to date the next level down, they'll do well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 09:44 PM
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women date below or well below their league Hypergamy is also just common knowledge. A clear majority of women are hypergamous, yet they also date below their league? You're not making sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 09:40 PM
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IMO, the reason for the lack of empathy for these "unlucky" women is because their plight in life is largely self-created due to, overwhelmingly, them targeting men out of their league - especially with OLD. A woman who is a 4 can very easily get a guy who is a 4 and chooses not to because she wants a 6+ which is fine... her choice, her life, etc. however it's when she starts complaining, whoa is me, why can't I find someone, where are all the good men, etc, is when the backlash and lack of empa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 01:07 PM
0

For the national teams, not pro leagues
/r/PussyPassDenied31/07/19 07:13 PM
-1

For the national teams, not pro leagues
/r/PussyPassDenied31/07/19 12:47 PM
1

WEPL or the WBNA For the national teams, not pro leagues
/r/PussyPassDenied31/07/19 12:47 PM
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For the national teams, not pro leagues
/r/PussyPassDenied31/07/19 03:55 AM
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public mischief. Like a water balloon fight? Or teenagers ringing doorbells and running away?
/r/PussyPassDenied28/07/19 05:12 PM
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How come when feminists always bring up the "yes, but it's just so rare that it is a complete non-factor.... only 2-10%...yada yada yada" how come they never mention that statistic only includes those rare examples where the authorities can prove the case was false? (video tape, she admitted lying in a text or some other type of confession, etc) Even the Rolling Stone UVA hoax is officially listed as "unfounded" because the police can't that prove that something didn't happen to her "somewhere, …
/r/PussyPassDenied28/07/19 05:11 PM
102

That post-slap look of shock says it all, "What!?? I thought the rules were we get to hit guys any time we want without consequences?"
/r/PussyPassDenied20/07/19 02:31 PM
1

I think of the movie, "I know what you did last summer" where a group of kids just graduated high school, out drinking and driving on dark, isolated road and they run over a pedestrian who is just standing there like an idiot in the middle of the road in the middle of the night. You pull over. He's dead. That's it. He's gone. Calling an ambulance won't help. Ok, so now what? Because there was alcohol involved, you now have to have your life destroyed because a pedestrian is standing in the middl…
/r/PussyPass19/07/19 01:40 PM
1

People do not jeer at her, they are not cruel to her, I'm glad this point was acknowledged. That fat guy at work or school is teased mercilessly, yet everyone says very little to the fat girl by comparison because, you know, that would be cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 12:06 AM
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there’s this meme in the manosphere that getting free alcohol is a “female privilege”. I think the point is simply for women to acknowledge their preferential treatment, acknowledge how much more effort is involved for men vs. the usual hand-waving and unrelated redirection "yeah, but we have to wear make-up" etc. We all know the deal otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 01:32 PM
2

Arnold Schwarzenegger met his now ex-wife Maria Shriver at a charity event. She was standing next to her mother and he walked up to her and said, "Look at this ass, that is a great ass" caveman style and she was thrilled with how alpha he was. No, she didn't like the fucking the beast maid part.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 01:28 PM
2

More like cowardice and/or social conditioning masquerading as "empathy." So true. LOL. Nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 11:31 PM
2

a dude came up from behind me to ask about my book According to reddit women, this a violation bordering on assault
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 11:20 PM
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Then when you ask a girl who has done it before what her experience is, more often than not it's largely negative Without question, this almost always is related to her targeting a guy way, way out of her league. As you said, the only times women feel enough desire to step outside their comfort zone is when the guy is extremely attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 10:10 PM
1

There are a ton of Marxist and Socialist theories, for instance, about unpaid labor and the exploitation of women as baby-machines, but are there virtually no theories about the criticizing use of men as workhorses, disposable producers, and beasts of burden for women and society. For all this talk on the wage gap, you never talk about the tax-gap and the disparity between how much men pay into the system and how women, on average, take more out than men will through social programs. Fascinating…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 04:25 PM
1

except that you blame women for his shitty behavior. Yes and no. Of course at the end of the day, the person doing the shitty behavior is responsible, but it is women who primarily created the situation. Ever see that show My 600lb Life? These people literally weight 600+ lbs and can barely get out of bed. Interestingly, every one of these people has an enabler (spouse, child, parent) who is the one who brings them all their food, who helps them to the bathroom, etc. The obese person is responsi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 01:10 PM
1

This whole thing that Beta means uggo and the asshole-Alpha is Chris Hemsworth just doesn't hold up in practically. It does though. Of course there are exceptions but generally women give that hot guy enormous power that doesn't apply to average guys. That hot guy can act entitled, selfish, demanding, lazy, etc and there is a long, long line of women who will happily put up with it. Who cares if she isn't happy or if she leaves, there is another 30 waiting to take her spot on his dating app. Thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 12:29 PM
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In short - lots of women are out here overshooting "their level." I feel this is the root cause of everything related to the frustrations, anger, that women have with dating. There is that chubby, short, balding (and so on) guy who would worship her, but she doesn't want that guy. She's holding out. "I can't help who I'm attracted to", etc. The problem for these women is their "league" means the men who are willing to commit to you, not the men you think should be willing to commit to you. They …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 12:54 PM
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Also, it's worth noting that origin of the joke/satire about "The Wall" is that a good looking woman literally smashed herself into a wall and messed up her face horribly ... aka her looks suddenly were gone. She hit the wall, etc.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/19 03:58 PM
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This woman HAS options. She can easily marry a divorcee, a bald man, a fat man, a very low-earning nobody. Good point.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/19 03:53 PM
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Equally sad that they don't seem to want to warn other women, just to try and make out that basic biology is somehow sexist. Interesting point. You never hear anything like this in the mainstream.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/19 03:50 PM
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Sad. Big girl, works in fast food, lives in Shithole, Alabama or Mississippi, already has a kid, men with a BBW fetish will happily fuck her but otherwise no one wants her, baby daddy long, long gone. This is sad, right? I feel bad for her. Look at her eyes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/19 03:33 PM
1

Privately, you wished you were truly this desirable to garner this level of attention? I understand completely
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 05:01 AM
1

Why are you pretending the 'overreaction' observation isn't valid?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 04:46 AM
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That wasn't the question
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 04:27 AM
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LMAO
/r/PussyPassDenied28/06/19 02:31 AM
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I'm 100% convinced the key to winning these types of street fights is to back away and counterpunch, back away counterpunch again. You see a clear pattern in who wins in these videos
/r/PussyPassDenied28/06/19 02:28 AM
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Its about, exposing the virtue signalling. Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 08:35 AM
28

Any statistic where girls are struggling: hundreds of millions of dollars in government/corporate outreach Any statistic where boys are struggling: those privileged babies need to step up and stop whining
/r/MensRights25/06/19 03:21 AM
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Interesting question.... if she's really attractive, it would take a lot for it to bother me. The Tom Brady SNL skit applies in reverse too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 11:28 AM
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Odd too that someone can be so clueless
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 10:15 PM
6

Insightful post. Upvote
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 10:13 PM
2

You didn't mean to do this, but you inadvertently explained how much more difficult dating is for men. Unlike women, men have to: Build up their reputation, make a name for himself. Make lots of friends, build himself up. Approach and face countless rejection Work on your game by making them laugh, making them feel special Also, treat them well, be very generous, but have no expectations of any kind, no "covert contracts". The female version of this is 1) look your best and 2) show up PS: marry …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 01:36 PM
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How can you not say that women have it easier? Think of two hypothetical exact male and female counterparts. They both post a profile online or they both visit a popular bar on a Saturday night. They are both looking to meet someone and each are proactive. Are you honestly telling us the woman in this scenario has to put in the same effort, face the same rejection, spend the same amount of money, the same level of impressing with their status, etc, etc??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 01:02 PM
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HSV2 is generally referred to genital herpes not HSV1
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/19 05:45 AM
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Cover. Postering. She knows she's going to turn off a lot of guys with her height, weight and kids so she postures as being "picky' to save some sliver of self-esteem for her lack of prospects
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/19 05:41 AM
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She admits to her size and height but very obviously avoids a full body photo which means obviously she's a very large woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/06/19 02:39 PM
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We men are actually rather narrow in what we find attractive. A man can walk into a room of 100 age-appropriate average women easily be attracted to a large majority. When you reverse the genders, women are only attracted to a tiny % of guys at the very top. Yes, they'll relunctantly settle for less, and yes he can make up for it in other ways, but in terms of real attraction, men are much more inclusive and it's not even close
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 12:34 PM
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Like most people, the point is that a man would hypothetically unleash these emotions at home in private with his wife or girlfriend.... except he knows enough not to because of how she'll react
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 07:11 PM
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Sympathize? Perhaps. Lose any and all sexual attraction now and forever? Absolutely. Choose wisely gents.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 03:24 PM
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Man cries over stressful day at work or something similar = instant disgust from women. You've trained us well. We know the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 01:21 PM
2

It's mostly been feminist telling guys they can cry, then they don't fuck or date them, but they can cry insert Bobble head doll in full throttle
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 12:56 PM
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Respectfully disagree. The overwhelming reason men don't show more emotion is because they instantly lose respect from the women in the lives. Women allow men a few manly tears under the right circumstances (death of a loved one) and that is absolutely it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 12:55 PM
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There are two answers: 1) What is their ideal, which is always the same: 5'11 - 6'3". 2) What they will reluctantly settle for if the guy 'makes up for it in other ways' (you know, like he has an STD): "Just be taller than me"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 12:31 PM
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Mainly a concern over people being afraid to "come out" There is the stereotype of the 1968 small town southern sheriff saying to the poor young crying victim, "Oh come on now young lady, this is really your own fault. Look at how you were dressed, you were clearly asking for it, besides he is the star quarterback and we have a big game this weekend, why don't you just get over it". No matter how many decades come and go, the urban myth continues. "...the police will blame you because of how you…
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/19 01:24 AM
1

Women of every age like to fuck, they have to justify it as "relationship" sex though .........true....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/19 12:41 PM
1

trying to please a princess LMAO nailed it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/19 02:54 PM
0

Agree with everything you wrote
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 04:58 AM
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Men don't really care about the number on your paycheck If she's a cashier somewhere that means you're signing up for a lifetime of paying for everything. She would have to be 1998 Carmen Electra hot to pull that off with an upper middle class guy. We care.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 04:30 AM
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The women who would do this are, presumably, dating or married to like-minded men Exactly. Their boyfriend or husband is the only one being punished.
/r/MensRights15/05/19 11:28 AM
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The difference, that you bizarrely keep missing, is that average girl gets 40 matches per every 15 minutes of swiping. Her average guy male identical counterpart gets 3 per month.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 12:45 PM
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Sign up for Tinder, start swiping, choose from among from dozens of matches, screen/meet in public, your place or mine. Done and done. What am I missing? Like ordering take out. Keep in mind, I'm referring to any women 4/10 or better
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 10:44 PM
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Bullshit? Do you not agree that most women can easily match with someone above their level on Tinder with very little effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 09:14 PM
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Top male celebrity Gosling, DiCaprio, etc has the same level of sexual availability as an average female. That's how imbalanced the marketplace is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 09:08 PM
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To be fair, she really didn't list things like income, level of attraction, fitness level. Taller than me is a perfectly normal request too
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/19 03:22 AM
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100% white chicks = diversity. This one always cracks me up. A room full of young, middle/upper class white women, never an older lady, rarely a person of color, is considered a monumental triumph of achievement. Like a gold medal ceremony, everyone clapping.
/r/MensRights06/05/19 01:48 PM
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When a profession is female dominated it is considered "bright spot" but, of course, as always, "we still have a long way to go".
/r/MensRights06/05/19 01:39 PM
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because they demand it from themselves What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 03:49 AM
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It's weird the way more women themselves don't see this as insulting too.
/r/MensRights30/04/19 01:24 PM
1

Who gives a fuck about ratings? People who work more earn more and equally qualified people are paid the same
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 05:47 PM
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The motherhood penalty, fatherhood bonus dynamic is so disingenuous. As always, women are victims and men are privileged. Fathers are under enormous pressure to sacrifice their lives and time away from their families to be a provider. People who work more, earn more. People who work less, earn less. The underlying theme is that the differences in income are related to discrimination and bias against women therefore fathers are "rewarded" by slaving away all day at work and that women are "punish…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 11:32 AM
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Here are the rules (per women): Talk about it! (As if that ever solves anything ever) Focus on her, be more romantic, do more household chores. Lose weight, dress better, update your style Think of clever ways to surprise and impress her. If this doesn't work, suggest counseling. If counseling doesn't work, accept her exactly as she is or end the relationship. Once relationship has ended, you need a break, cooling off period. Slowly start to date again. After several dates with the same person a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 10:52 AM
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Why isn't it done For the same reason why men don't use profanity around women to the same degree, they're viewed as being fragile
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 10:31 PM
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You're still allowed but only at bars, wine/beer tasting, parties, etc. That's it. Everywhere else feminists will not approve
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 09:45 AM
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Women themselves will be the change, finally pushing back against all the victimhood status, finally pushing back against the double standards and the male bashing. Finally standing up to 4th wave feminism. The reason, sadly, will primarily because of hypergamy, not enough quality men to go around, we need to help boys do better so we can find better husbands, etc. That is what will drive this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 10:01 AM
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Consumer brands bend over backwards with retaining marketshare and brand loyalty. 8% loss is huge and it's only going to get worse. Still can't believe they just didn't simply pull the ad. What genius would think that making your customers the villain was a good idea?
/r/MensRights24/04/19 09:44 AM
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women with a variety of undesirable traits/baggage often have extensive and opulent lists regarding what they want/are looking for in a man while simultaneously offering almost nothing of equivalent value. This. "Lower your standards" could be rephrased to "have realistic standards, not hypocrisy and double standards".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 01:01 PM
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Slut shaming to women doesn't happen in the real world with the exception of maybe a few very religious small town communities. How would anyone even know is some adult woman is meeting lots of different persons on her own?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 01:00 PM
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Yeah but you can't fist fight a guy like Brock Lesnar, that's the point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 05:39 PM
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Pretty clear what's going on: the world famous projection we all know so well from women. Like when women gloat about their advanced degree on a dating site. They are famously incorrectly thinking, "This is what appeals to me as a woman, so this must appeal to men too". Same deal with this thread. Women are thinking, "Myself and other women have complete revulsion for short men, so the reverse must be true too... therefore I'll wear heels all day so people will have less disgust for me". Fascina…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 09:55 PM
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Your subconscious insecurities are real. The lack of respect or otherwise negativity from other people because of your height isn't. No one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 02:50 PM
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I know you feel this way however I promise you, you are incorrect. At your height, you are just as "taken seriously" as any other woman. What you are referring to simply does not apply to females. Good news, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 02:07 PM
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I’m 5’2” and have short legs, so I wear heels everyday so that I look average height 5'2" is a perfectly normal height for a woman. No one punishes you for this height. You're thinking, "I wear heels so I can at least get into the average height category" but the truth is you already have exactly 100.00% of the same benefits as those people a few inches taller. If you were 4'9" maybe... If you like the fashion aspect of heels... maybe. But socially? Doesn't help you at all because you're already…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 01:59 PM
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I love being even taller than I already am That seems..... odd to be honest. What on earth is the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 01:56 PM
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Her implication is, "I'm just a regular girl at heart, perfectly fine dating a regular guy but, sadly, men today are just too cowardly." When the reality is the entire universe knows she will only consider the absolute very top of the pyramid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 03:01 AM
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The Victoria's secret model types don't hold all the cards?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 11:16 AM
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Hypergamy is a developed sexual strategy to use mating to increase your financial/social standing. Men largely don’t do this. Not only that, but there is a hypocrisy/double standards aspect where their standards for a man are higher than their standards for themselves. A female physician wouldn't date someone who is "only" a school teacher but would be thrilled to set up her school teacher sister with a male physician. A woman who works a stress free part time job at a bookstore would show disgu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 01:09 PM
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You expect honest replies? /Thread No woman is going to admit, even to themselves, to a negative trait. Such an enormous gap between what women say with their words vs what they say with their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 01:40 AM
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4) boys have been raised by their mothers, female school teachers and the mainstream media overall that women do not want to be approached, leave us alone, rape culture, #metoo, harassment, this is what creeps do and women hate creeps, etc etc. Women seem to be ignorant of how pervasive this indoctrination is for boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 12:26 PM
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I'm a future female physician, why do only men get more valuable under this theory when they acquire financial independence and stability? The challenge here is that successful women such as yourself typically look down on men who earn less than they do. No man wants to be the guy a woman reluctantly settled for. No guy wants to be in a position where he isn't truly respected or he has to "make up for it in other ways". A male physician would have no problem dating a nurse, a therapist, a school…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 01:12 PM
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Exactly. 38% of women reluctantly and absolutely against their true desires... dated down. They hate it and would change it in a second if they had the option.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 01:01 PM
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I've, very often, seen women go nuts financially over men, to include purchasing vehicles, clothes, cologne, etc The problem is this rarely applies in reverse. A woman who earns a lot more won't date down generally and, even when they do, they feel very awkward and uncomfortable paying for a man's vehicle, his vacations, etc. Her money is her money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 12:58 PM
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The results indicate that women mated to more (vs. less) attractive men are more likely to report orgasm at last copulation, and this relationship is mediated by women’s perceptions of other women’s assessments of their partner’s attractiveness. If the guy is hot and, more importantly, if other women view the guy as hot as well.... then magically, the women are more likely to have an orgasm. Quite a different universe vs. the feminist spin of men being selfish, lazy, lacking talent, etc, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 12:43 PM
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Most women do not feel comfortable talking directly about what turns them on. A "real man" would just know what buttons to push. So when everything is done and she wasn't satisfied, of course it's the man's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 12:39 PM
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empowered women being hypocrites Don't forget how utterly disgusted they act around male feminists or men who dare to show too much emotion. Such a vast chasm between what they say with their words and what they say with their actions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/19 03:49 AM
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In fairness to her, attractive women live in a different universe than the rest of us. Everything is handed to them. No accountability of any kind. Of course she's going to think she can get away with everything. It's never stopped her before.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/03/19 11:23 PM
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My impressions often is that men have such low standards for women and they make that known and that is such a turn off. Do you feel that the criticism that your standards are too high or unrealistic is valid? These guys are trying to impress you by talking about themselves. Of course, they should be asking about you too, but in the very beginning, it seems like you're putting them in a job interview audition and perhaps won't give them a chance if they don't pass the audition.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 01:00 PM
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Analogy time: It's like two people are trying to find a full-time job. They visit employer after employer who tells them they only hire part time employees and then promote them to full time once they've demonstrated they're a good fit. Male applicants struggle generally. Most aren't called in for an interview and those that are called in don't get hired at nearly the same rate. Most women however, will get hired at almost every interview. "Yeah, but that's not what I want. I wanted a full-time …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 12:19 PM
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I doubt this is true for any normie 4+/10 female who puts themselves out there. To the few that do struggle, it's overwhelmingly related to them holding out for unrealistic standards, i.e. self-limiting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 04:54 AM
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What you wrote is true however this reality doesn't hit most women until menopause. Up until then, most are still desirable, still given ladies first coddling. And even when they lose their youth, the worst they deal with in life us ut hat they are simply treated like how men are trained their whole lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 04:25 PM
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Messages mean jack shit... Are we to actually say that messages = success? This
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 01:10 PM
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. I can almost use women’s reactions to me as a scale LMAO So true
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 11:44 AM
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My fiancée makes more than me. No one cares. She does. 100% guarentee it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 11:01 PM
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If a man expects me to wear uncomfortable clothes and make-up, I expect to be compensated for the cost and aggravation with free food and entertainment You would be wearing those clothes and that make-up anyway, right? If you were going out with your coworkers and so on? In fact, you probably wear most of those items to primarily impress other women. Oh, and most men (and it's not even close) don't like a ton of make-up. Plus the guy you're with... he also has clothes, watch, car, college degree…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 10:59 PM
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First thing you have to understand with these types of questions is that women are not going to admit publically, or perhaps even admit to themselves privately, a true honest answer to these questions. Instead, what you'll almost always hear is posturing, "What would perfect person say?" "What would person who isn't shallow, materialistic and a non-hypocrite say?" So instead of the their honest answers you get what you're seeing on Reddit. "I always pay at least half the costs of dating", "As lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 10:52 PM
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Ok, except that men like what you described are everywhere. You've gone 'years' without finding a guy up to your standards to approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 12:31 PM
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"males want sex; females want a relationship" I think a better way of putting this is, "Men love women for being women, women love men only for what they can provide"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 12:00 PM
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If i spotted someone that i was intetested in (like my ex) id totally approach , but really i dont find any guys turning my head and haven't for years. So you only approach that tiny % of men who happen to look like a GQ model?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 11:58 AM
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He used to tell me he would pick me up after work, give me flowers and we’re gonna go somewhere nice and special. It's so weird to me how so many women view what a normal dating relationship is suppose to look like in their view. The guy does all the gift giving, all the planning, all the surprises and of course all the paying... and her participation, her reciprocating is she gives the gift of herself. That's her way of contributing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/19 12:56 PM
5

As opposed to TwoX? "I can't believe your husband had sex with you when you were that drunk. That is rape. I would not only divorce him, but call the police this instance!"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 02:53 AM
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I was in plenty and a variety of social situations, and it was always 1-2 men that nearly ALL women wanted Excellent point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 07:10 PM
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No, they proudly stood behind that ad. Here is their response instead: "I know", thinks Gillette executive, "Our target customers are so stupid and pathetic, if we just put out an obvious virtue signaling commercial featuring a brave, good looking white guy being a hero in a military uniform, our idiotic customers will forget all about how we shamed and mocked them in our other ad. Wow, that was easy. We know what buttons to push for these idiots. Let's run with this one". Sorry Gillette. I'm do…
/r/MensRights02/03/19 02:06 PM
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No. And there’s many reasons. That's ok. We know enough to lie about this. So we're good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 12:47 PM
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that easy casual sex isn't a women's privilege, its a "anyone interested in sex with men" privilege A more honest, realistic way of phrasing that is, "heterosexual women have the privilege of having desirable sex with someone at or above their level of attractiveness essentially any time they want". Tinder proves this on a daily basis. It's like you're hungry and need food. One person has to hunt or farm, the other has to walk into a well stocked buffet and simply decide what to put on her plate…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 12:41 PM
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why does it matter if it's easier? Imagine you're a basketball coach. One player is 7'5" tall. The only time he ever scores is when he dunks a basketball. That's it. Super easy too. Effortless. He just barely raises his hands and it's done. The coach is frustrated, he wants to see more outside shots, more layups, etc. On the same team is a 5"6" point guard. He is able to dunk too, but it is very difficult. Not only does he have to leap a great distance up to the hoop, but he has to do it surroun…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 12:35 PM
1

At least she didn't dial up the usual physical requirements
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/19 11:53 AM
20

"chivalry" meaning "you're paying for everything"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/19 11:45 AM
14

I've never understood why being a female alone means you're in a "protected class" with no consideration of other factors - income, education, etc. A wealthy, highly educated white women qualifies for endless government and corporate handouts because she's "oppressed", but a dirt poor white boy growing up in a trailer park shithole is "privileged" and gets nothing.
/r/MensRights28/02/19 12:51 PM
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Feminists will get around to this in their pursuit of equality... just a few more man-verbing items to get through first
/r/PussyPassDenied25/02/19 09:03 PM
3

When women talk about gym rats what they are really saying is, "Of course I'm not shallow and unreasonable. I would not expect nor am I attracted to men who look like this. I am realistic and honest and therefore I graciously only expect my ideal guy to look like this. You're welcome".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 04:18 PM
3

Sorry 6 foot guy, fuck the fuck off shorty.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/19 04:27 AM
15

Shop smart, shop S mart
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/19 04:24 AM
4

And it will all make sense. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 02:30 AM
7

you probably DID get handed some solid RP knowledge over the years, but chose to ignore it. Yep. Tis true
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 02:30 AM
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I mean, it’s diabolical in how hilarious it is, that half the population essentially just exists to be commanded (and be happy about it). Feminists know this too. Privately they admit to themselves: "Who are we kidding that we're really equal. Men still beat us in everything. Decade after decade after decade of preferential treatment in education, hiring, promotions and countless other double standards in our favor and still.... we still invent next to nothing, we rarely start our own companies,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 02:26 AM
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Very well written. Do you think this is because women can't be honest with themselves? A denial of sorts where if they admit these truths, even privately to themselves, it would acknowledging negative personality traits. Admitting being ______ shallow, materialistic, hypergamous, hypocritical, vain, etc. Cognitive dissonance isn't fun. So instead they create a different reality. "What would perfect person say instead?" and out comes the nice guy/rom-com beliefs they spoonfed to boys instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 12:03 AM
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16 Candles, Molly Ringwald should have accepted the love from the Anthony Michael Hall character. Pretty in Pink, same thing, Duckie would have loved her forever. She wins Chad at the end instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 11:57 PM
1

make fun of the land whale as she walks by Unless you're talking about grade school, this doesn't happen. Fat adult women rarely, if ever, hear comments to their face. To the extent that people talk about her behind her back, it is overwhelmingly other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 11:51 PM
1

Then yeah, bitterness ensues. I think the bitterness is based on a negative internal feedback loop. Average Jane simply isn't attracted to her looks-match. "I can't help who I'm attracted to" and she's probably right. It's a very common problem: women aren't attracted to the men in her league and the men she is attracted to don't want her. Of course she's bitter. Women are fucked in this regard. We view it as a privilege that they get so much attention yet we fail to realize they are also cursed…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 11:47 PM
1

"It is as if distancing herself from the unattractive man helps her retain the idea that she is high status, cushioning the blow of the rejection." That sums it up perfectly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 11:36 PM
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The anger is over the fact that women - for the most part - demand more of men than is expected of themselves 100% accurate. Nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 01:10 PM
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I think a lot of the complaints revolve around hypocrisy and double standards. A woman who works in retail wouldn't want to date a man who "only" works in retail. A female physician wouldn't date a man who is "only" a school teacher but would be thrilled to set up her school teacher sister with a male physician. A women who is "just not a career person" and works part time at a bookstore yet shows disgust towards a man who might also take the lessor paying, less stressful career path in life, et…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 01:06 PM
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No. as a rule men do not like women who approach them. Why don't you post a thread in askmen or dating advice or relationships, etc and ask if men like it when women approach.... the responses are ~99% positive. Even when he's not interested in the girl, he is still very much flattered. To the extent that women think otherwise it is solely and absolutely relates to her refusal to approach men in her league.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 01:02 PM
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Women are spectacularly bad at even being able to think about cause and effect in regards to their own choices. In this case, typically a 4 or 5 Plain Jane is out somewhere, "OMG, I just saw the hottest guy", sees a very good looking, stylish, athletic 9 "he would be so perfect for me". Then she stumbles over with a polite small talk opener with no escalation, "I like your watch, was that a gift or did you buy it yourself?". The guy is friendly but doesn't show any interest. The conservation is …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 12:54 PM
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Only when you shoot way way out of your league. So odd how women don't connect the dots about who they approach, who they don't and why they might not succeed at a higher rate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 04:52 AM
3

Jimmy crack corn and I don't care Originally, that was a slave saying "Gimme cracked corn, I don't care" to crack the corn was a reference to getting flogged. Essentially, "go ahead and whip me Master, I don't care"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 04:47 AM
5

12 year old boys in Little League on ESPN have their weight listed publicly as does every other male athlete. Female of all ages and even professionals are given their privacy
/r/MensRights09/02/19 10:57 AM
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There are problems on both sides Of course however this isn't the narrative in the mainstream. Instead it's always men are privileged, women are oppressed, the solutions are more preferential biases in favor of women and girls and more scolding/shaming of men and boys to become better feminists. The "women are privileged too" side of the argument doesn't exist in the mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 07:52 PM
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Even if you were hired for diversity reasons you wouldn't be kept on the payroll if you kept fucking up. The amount of tolerance for "fucking up" and being kept on the payroll is exponentially higher for women. It's very similar to having to fire or discipline an employee who is also the grandchild of the owner of the company. Sure, it can be done but everyone knows there is a different set of rules because they are related to the owner. Likewise, the coddling means absolutely there are differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 01:02 PM
2

The guys on here REALLY like to play dumb about money flexing. Even if that were true, does that really explain why women themselves fail to reciprocate to such a high degree?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:01 PM
1

Lots of proposals on Valentine's Day. Proposals also fall under the same umbrella. Men are expected to save and spend a huge amount of money on an engagement gift and women are expected to do .... nothing. Funny how tradition and equality have different meanings when it's women who are the beneficiaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:00 PM
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Yes, but we are into things like gift giving and gift receiving and wanting gestures returned. Millions of other ways besides hearts and bears
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 03:54 AM
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I understand your point, but it still doesn't address the imbalance question and why things like this are ignored in every 'equality' discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 03:51 AM
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I like the honesty in that thread, women admitting their shallowness for height, admitting double standards, etc
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/19 12:48 AM
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Why do women think men fall for the "Whoops, silly me, I entered the wrong age and I just can't seem to correct it" bullshit? You notice the age is always younger? We all know what they're trying to do. They think they'll get a much younger, hotter guy who would otherwise have filtered her out because of her age. Then, once 32 year-old GQ model sees how irresistible her wonderful self is, he'll have a change of heart and decide just this one time to consider a 49 year-old because, after all, loo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/19 08:11 PM
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Examples: Intel donates $300,000,000 to get more women in STEM. $300 million. Read that again. And a constant stream of articles like this: https://www.forbes.com/sites/quora/2018/10/26/sexism-in-stem-fields-runs-even-deeper-than-most-people-think/#21532953486b Women are given overwhelming advantages in hiring, promotions, scholarships, much more difficult to fire. All solely based on gender. Not once does anyone, ever, suggest holding them to the same standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 02:30 PM
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Quotas, lower standards, hundreds of millions in government and corporate outreach, equality of outcome, shaming anyone who disagrees with these principles, constant demonizing of their 'predatory, sexists' male counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 04:11 AM
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'Welcome to the club', sincerely Men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 11:37 AM
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Interesting. She knows she can't get what she wants, so she's posturing as being super picky. The reason I'm single isn't because I'm pathetic, I'm just too picky, that must be it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/19 11:20 AM
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Do you notice the "men (and boys) just need to do better" argument never applies in reverse to any gap where women are less represented? No one ever says, " If women want to be in STEM, they'll have to fight for it like the way men do. Stop whining already". Instead it's always "systemic oppression", right? Followed by endless well funded campaigns to address the imbalance?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 03:01 AM
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No. I don’t think divorce rape is a thing Women are breadwinners in ~ 37% of house holds, you would think that would also mean they pay a similar number in alimony... yet women only pay 1% of all alimony. In other words, you're wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 10:35 PM
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Yes they think this way, no they won't admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 10:31 PM
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An apology means they face the SJW lynch mob which has the mainstream media in their pocket. Easier just to pile on with the shaming of men.
/r/MensRights30/01/19 02:05 PM
1

Self-hating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 12:05 PM
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The cheap razor movement I think this is an important point. Not only do people not want to be lectured by a razor company, not only do people not want to shamed and insulted as if to suggest that most men are bad people but with Gillette it really is in a different category because they are so overpriced. They've been price gouging us for years and we've all played along because they were the market leader, strong brand awareness. So, not only are millions of us, like me, who will never buy a G…
/r/MensRights26/01/19 01:56 PM
8

I think the reason for this is the usual "it's ok when we do it because we're punching up" excuse feminists cling to.
/r/MensRights25/01/19 12:56 PM
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There has to be more to this story one would think
/r/MensRights23/01/19 07:42 PM
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Of course it's deliberately ignorant, that's the whole point. He's exposing the lunacy of the Gillette ad by reframing the same point against them.
/r/MensRights23/01/19 01:28 AM
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/ thread
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 06:31 PM
2

Every time someone asks a rape victim what they were wearing No one says this outside of feminists quoting strawmen. I challenge you to prove me wrong. Name any cop, any lawyer, any defendant, any judge who has said this in the last 30 years. Go.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 01:50 AM
3

That's just like, your opinion man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 08:31 PM
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It's odd how women don't see their role in this. They throw themselves only at the tiny % of men at the very top of the pyramid which gives this small group of men enormous power - to act like assholes, not commit, pump and dump, show less effort, etc. This is where so many of the "dating is hard for women' stories originate from.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 07:49 PM
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1) Who cares? Why does that matter? Millions of us will never buy Gillette again. I don't need a "prominent figure" to lead me. 2) Right wing media has been all over this, Rush Limbaugh, Fox News, etc. 3) Most other public figures are smart enough to not get involved, especially with the SJW Lynch mob just waiting to end their careers.
/r/MensRights20/01/19 03:33 PM
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"Men need to be more open about their feelings!" Ok, then. My feelings are this Gillette ad went about this in absolutely the worst way. 'Rolls Eyes Oh please, another fragile manbaby. Are you really saying it's ok to harass women? Sounds like you are the kind of person this ad was meant for"
/r/MensRights20/01/19 03:23 PM
1

Are you describing the Steve Carrell character in the 40 year-old Virgin except with escorts?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 02:28 PM
1

You gloss over the power of pussy and how men, young men especially, will always lust after women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 02:06 PM
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In the OP's mind, it's not "fair" that she is expected to wear makeup and have to style her hair while men just shave, a few quick combs and off they go. Therefore it is only fair that we make up for it by taking all the risks of rejection, paying for everything and having to come up with all the ideas of planning, being romantic. Women get to be passive passengers because of makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 11:58 AM
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Mainstream media. They embrace anti-male hate speech and refuse to acknowledge the existence of the other
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 04:29 AM
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Wonderful. You can buy Gilette to your heart's content because I never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 04:44 PM
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Women and others turn around and tell them to change their attitudes How about the reporting on this? "Gillette wants men to be their best to help reduce rape and harassment but apparently some very fragile and insecure men disagree" completely oblivious to the substance of our criticism
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 12:52 PM
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"there is no such a thing as bad publicity". This is different. Yes more women shop for groceries but most men buy their own razors and are very specific about the brand they choose. Now we will have literally millions of us who, like me, will never buy Gillette again. Lifetime customers gone forever. When the mainstream media gender shames us, we have to sit there and take it. When Gillette does it, we finally have the power to fight back. I think this is going to do a huge amount of damage to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 12:44 PM
2

This. We have real power here
/r/MensRights16/01/19 01:52 PM
10

Would love to buy the husband a drink. My man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/19 08:57 PM
6

If a woman (only) is standing to exit her table, men (only) must drop their fork and stand at attention. Likewise, when she returns you jump up like a well trained seal and hold her seat out for her. You know, equality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/19 03:37 PM
1

Why were you men? In what ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 03:32 PM
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Not true at all. They have men approach them and strike up a conversation all day long. No most don't follow up with the, "we should go on a date, can I have your number?" but all of them are hoping the consideration heads in that direction which is up to her if she wants to escalate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 03:24 PM
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Exactly. On paper, male students are eligible. In reality, the first to actually win will be around the year 2138. It's still a female only award.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/01/19 03:12 PM
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Just another MEGA HYPOCRITE You see her justify her hypocrisy throughout: I pay for meals too occasion, plus men are paid more plus I hold the door for everyone and if someone is tired I'll give up my seat too. Completely oblivious
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/19 02:31 PM
0

To be fair, those assholes they dated probably had large cocks
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/19 06:25 AM
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I think everyone here can agree that men face inequality, discrimination, injustice and more. Feminists adamantly disagree with this statement. To the (only) extent they acknowledge men's issues is it always within the context of men themselves being "toxic", "fragile", or lazy, etc. Girls are struggling in STEM? Systemic oppression. Boys are struggling in everything else? Those boys need to step up and stop being so lazy. Perhaps you should address this point about "at least acknowledge the oth…
/r/MensRights10/01/19 12:55 PM
1

Men love women for being women. Women love men for the things that they do for them. This x a big number
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 12:22 PM
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The high divorce rate among women is due to the fact that a large percentage of women do not hold themselves responsible for their overall happiness. "Something's missing, why don't I feel like that girl in that Ryan Gosling movie?". Plus, women's love is often transactional and conditional. If a man runs into financial or career challenges, she's likely to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 12:06 PM
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Or she did one small talk polite opener ice breaker with no follow-up " I saw this super hot guy in line at Starbucks I told him how much I liked his watch and he I said thanks and never asked me out, see we get rejected too"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/19 01:55 PM
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Average guy on the same stairs also makes eye contact. Same girl, "Uggg! Why don't guys get that we just want to be left alone. Can't a girl go to the mall and not get harassed? Is that too much to ask for?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/19 12:04 PM
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I am 100.00% convinced that these, "I've approached men plenty of times, I'm always rejected" posts involve a 5/10 Average Jane crushing on a guy way, way out of her league and then concluding, "See? Women have it just as hard"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/19 11:45 AM
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Feminists will never win with the term "toxic masculinity". It's too offensive to too many people, especially when there is so much resistance to even acknowledge the concept of toxic femininity (which is made even worse when they further double down with 'internalized misogyny' meaning even when women behave badly, it's men's fault). However, back to the this thread, it's not just more men becoming CEOs, you see women enforcing this "toxic" behavior across the spectrum. In dating especially, wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 12:06 PM
1

I think the premise is wrong. The problem a lot of people, myself included, have with all the "female empowerment" is how much it discriminates against boys. Our leaders in education, politics and in the corporate world are bending over backwards with so many programs and campaigns for girls only.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 11:54 AM
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At least she's honest. All single moms think this but a lot lie, even to themselves perhaps, about not looking for a replacement father.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/19 06:50 PM
1

It does if you're in the % of men who are turned on by that. 40-45% of us easy
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/19 04:34 AM
7

I think the problem here is that the assumption is that women just want to fuck a hot guy, even if that leads no where, and is ok with just that moving forward. This was so wonderfully portrayed in Bridesmaids. Average Jane Kristin Wiig meets perfectly reasonable nice guy Irish cop Chris O'Dowd, definitely a looks-match except she doesn't want him. Instead she throws herself at Chad Thundercock Jon Hamm who repeatedly pumps and dumps her and yet she keeps coming back for more and more, all the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 02:15 AM
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My only problem with this event is that a male-only version would never be allowed. There would be so much protest it wouldn't even get off the ground, much less be celebrated. I know, I know, it's different when they do it because their dead female ancestors (only) had problems.
/r/MensRights18/12/18 11:10 PM
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Guy was smart to hightail it out. Nothing positive could be gained by hanging out after that
/r/PussyPassDenied17/12/18 11:55 AM
6

The Last Jedi perfect example of this
/r/MensRights17/12/18 10:42 AM
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It's going to be interesting. They will have to choose to be alone or settle for someone who 'only' has a regular career. Either way, self-imposed misery.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/12/18 01:10 PM
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The thought of a woman paying for a man's vacations, housing, cars, etc is very difficult for most women, even high earning women where finances shouldn't be an issue. Sad, really.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/12/18 12:53 PM
1

I must say, it is odd how feminists not only fight so hard to exclude men from any body shaming debate, but then they're the first in line to say how their critics are _________ virgins, can't get laid, small penis, closeted gay, impotent, etc, etc, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 04:48 AM
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We give preferential to one of those genders The psychology behind their mindset is fascinating. Essentially, what they believe is that there are a large number of girls who, if they were honest with themselves, truly, truly want to become coders or engineers however they are so weak and pathetic, they can't overcome the invisible bullying of the patriarchy which instead steers them into fields which they actually don't want (teaching, nursing, social sciences, etc). Girl, "Look guys, thanks but…
/r/MensRights28/11/18 12:54 PM
1

they believe some fallacious bullshit about height Please. You know this is true in vast, vast majority of instances. Even tall women want tall men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 01:16 AM
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Tall women, like all women, are only attracted to men taller than they are. The challenge for tall women is these tall men generally don't want them so they're forced to reluctantly settle for a guy a bit shorter than them which disgusts them to their core. Sad, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 01:14 AM
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Even if the kid did grope her ass, is that now the definition of a "sexual assault"?? The only reason the media gives a shit about this story is because being accused of being a racist is worst thing in the oppression olympics and now they are forced to play the "racism" card instead of the "feminism" card. Do you notice how all of these "quick, call 911, there's a black person" stories are from paranoid white women? Yet, as always, you never hear a word of criticism from feminists when it comes…
/r/MensRights14/10/18 03:55 PM
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Men have a natural instinct to protect women - daughters, wives, etc. Not to mention, sadly, a large % of men use the White Knight/male feminist act as a sexual/dating strategy. Then, even more sadly, a lot of these guys are self-hating and are trying so hard to overcompensate with virtue signalling posts like this.
/r/MensRights12/10/18 12:58 PM
2

Already stopped listening. We're done.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 12:43 PM
0

not in the mood for sex at all And? Why not do it for no other reason that you know your husband wants it and you love him and want to make him happy? I don't like giving foot massages but I will do it for 10 minutes for my wife. You can't find 10 precious minutes to give him a blowjob?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 12:57 AM
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"toxic masculinity" = feminist hate speech = don't listen to another word that person says.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 10:56 PM
1

I have known a few in real life, but from my own experiences they have been civil IRL Interesting point. I'm friends with two ladies at work. Both of them are hardcore feminists if you look at their Facebook pages, yet in person, they are as quiet as a mouse, always polite, never even hint to their activism even when we're just joking around about it. They know. They know how the rest of the world views them outside the echo chamber.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 01:21 PM
4

Male feminists are self-hating. It's like gay men who are raised in a strict religious, anti-gay upbringing. They grow up to hate themselves and try so hard to overcompensate. Sad, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 01:19 PM
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Doesn't matter either way. Feminism has chosen to make the issue of taking up extra space on public transportation to be a gendered issue where, as always, men bad, women innocent victims. The amount of activism and media attention they produce speaks for itself.
/r/MensRights09/10/18 12:50 PM
2

Elliot Rodger would easily have gotten all the sex he could handle, just like most men, if they dress well, well groomed, a halfway decent attempt at style and, here's the key, actually approach women in real life. I don't mean, "Hi, sorry to bother you, but do you know what time it is?" bullshit fake voice. I mean something like, "Hi my name is John, this might sound a little forward, but I saw you standing there and I would never forgive myself if I didn't say hello, please tell me you're sing…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 11:18 PM
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These articles always leave out the fact that not only are similar men's groups not permitted but these same people crying about these lawsuits would themselves declare WWIII if men dared to try the same things. "It's different when we do it" All they have to do is simple allow both genders to have their own groups but that's not good enough. Only women and girls. That's fair.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/07/18 03:34 PM
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"Boys will be boys" has always meant things like a boy was playing outside and got mud all over his clothes... or a boy was running through the house playing and accidentally knocked over the lamp, etc. Feminists, to their credit, have instead changed this meaning to, "'Boys will be Boys' is society's way of justifying rape and, yet again, refusing to hold men accountable for sexual assault". More falsehoods... all of them unchallenged in the mainstream as per usual. Rape is taken extremely seri…
/r/MensRights29/06/18 12:07 AM
1

"The grass is greener on your side," to, "Fuck this. I want some personal time and control over my life," then it can speak volumes about the male experience that rarely gets discussed. This
/r/MensRights19/03/18 12:45 PM
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It's fascinating that western, college educated, middle/upper class white women claim "oppression" at a rate so much higher than black or hispanic men (and it's not even close). A 20 to 30 something woman in these categories is literally the most privileged and pampered demographic in the history of humanity.
/r/MensRights07/03/18 12:21 AM
1

I have to disagree with the theme of the OP. As a guy who lost a lot of weight and seriously took up weight lifting (my arms, shoulders are jacked, etc) I can tell you it makes a huge difference. Each 10 lbs I lost the level of attention from women slowly went up. At first, it was the walking dead (obese, disgusting types), then more average women, then decent looking women, etc. However, once I finally approached the finish line where I looked good not just compared to my old self, but I looked…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 04:04 PM
3

Paragraphs are your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 11:52 PM
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In America, overwhelmingly, courts will rule that an engagement ring is a conditional gift that must be returned regardless of which party called off the engagement - i.e. sanity. This judge in Australia, for some bizarre reason, thinks only the wedding bands are conditional and the engagement ring was a gift. If you give someone a birthday present in good faith and then 6 months later you get into an argument and ask for the present back, legally the other person gets to keep it still. That's h…
/r/MensRights10/01/18 12:45 PM
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I think yeah it's kind of the point to buy a gift for the other person So few money think this. The idea that you could return the gesture is so foreign to most.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 12:11 PM
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The degree you twist yourself to justify the double standard is fun to watch. "Uhhh... uhhh, it's just a gift you know, like your birthday". lol, not even close to being a true comparison. Valentine's Day would be a close example, however women have no expectation of gift giving their also. Their "gift" is the gift of themselves being available in your presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 07:27 PM
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as sublime pointed out we aren't expected to. What's the point of bringing this up? Does that justify things in your view?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 06:32 PM
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The fact that reciprocating doesn't even enter into thought processes is fascinating. You receive an expensive gift from the man you love. You respond my giving him exactly nothing in return. Then you shrug your shoulders, "since it's not expected of me to give him anything, I'm perfectly willing to cash in on the double standard. Oh well, more for me".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 06:21 PM
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Lol if you think yachts have an ROI Again you miss the bigger picture. Fascinating. The ROI with yachts also relates to quality of life, having fun and adventure with your friends and loved ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 06:14 PM
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"Never" wasn't the question vs. why do women refuse to reciprocate their engagement ring?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 06:11 PM
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How is that fascinating? No offense, but duh. How could it go the other way? Just your lack of awareness at the overall I'm making proves my argument. Let's keep it simple. Person A receives a gift, usually very expensive, from Person B. Person B responds by giving Person A nothing in return. Knowing only this information, if you had to label someone cheap, which person would you choose? Person B obviously. With the subject of engagement is concerned, the amount women reciprocate is usually $0.0…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 05:54 PM
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Maybe we can keep spreading the idea that diamonds are unethical to remove this social burden on men. Or... women could remove this burden themselves? Regardless of their origins, women today use engagement rings as a status symbol. They could change this starting today. Just a thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 05:47 PM
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SHe said its not about nice, its about spending a significant amount of money to prove he's willing to be invested in the relationship Why does the female version of this not exist in any context?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 05:43 PM
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Expensive engagement rings are an obsolete relic The vast majority of women will disagree. No, not to the point where it becomes a deal breaker, they'll still stay with the guy, but the reaction is private disappointment, underlying resentment or bitterness, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 05:38 PM
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Investment properties and yachts have a very specific ROI. The ROI, for men, with regard to engagement rings is to protect yourself from being judged by your wife's female friends and family and to protect your wife from feeling pity from these same people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 05:35 PM
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Half a paychecks worth. What are some of the reasons you decided not to reciprocate? Have your paycheck on a nice watch, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 05:29 PM
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But yes, I would be personally offended if my SO gave me a "cheap" ring His engagement ring, the one that doesn't exist, was pretty cheap, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 05:24 PM
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I think men get big engagement rings for their women to status signal among other men. It has nothing to do with signalling other men. Similar to Valentine's Day. Men alone have pressure to avoid judgment from women. The next day at work, all her female friends and family, "So, how was your Valentine's Day?" means it's judgment time for the boyfriend or husband. Same deal with the ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 04:23 PM
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Link to the local news story?
/r/MensRights07/01/18 01:18 PM
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Let's say one of the females you are referring to has a twin brother. By comparison, when does she get her pension in relation to his? If it's anything other than, "the exact same date", you know your entire point is ridiculous, right?
/r/MensRights17/10/17 08:22 AM
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and waiting extra time for the pensions they had paid into to become available They didn't wait "extra time". They waited the exact same amount of time as their male counterparts. You know, equality?
/r/MensRights17/10/17 12:06 AM
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So I shouldn't buy her those flowers to get out of her doggouse by not being romantic enough?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 03:27 AM
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That only happens because women suffer from low self-esteem and don't understand they can get better than that Quoted for truth
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/17 11:29 PM
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they need to stop patting themselves on the vagina lmao
/r/PussyPassDenied24/06/17 09:41 PM
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She plays the same character in every movie So does Will Ferrel
/r/PussyPassDenied24/06/17 08:25 PM
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"That's why it feels like a pretty big moment for me. The fact that there's this additional curse thing that has been broken, which I didn't know about until a few weeks ago, I just hope in some small way if this movie is able to pave the way for anybody else to make an R comedy by women for women, then I think it's done its job." http://www.businessinsider.com/rough-night-director-lucia-aniello-2017-6
/r/PussyPassDenied24/06/17 07:57 PM
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The only backlash is from SJWs who would absolutely also object to this applying to a female stripper being killed, even in a dark comedy.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/06/17 07:10 PM
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From the link below: But not everyone did great. Sony can't be happy with the performance of the R comedy "Rough Night," which only took in $8 million on over 3,000 screens. Though these kind of movies historically never do well in theaters (everyone waits until these titles hit cable/streaming), Sony was hoping with a cast that included Scarlett Johansson, Kate McKinnon, and "Broad City" star Ilana Glazer, there would be a lot of girls' night out treks to the movies. http://www.businessinsider.…
/r/PussyPassDenied24/06/17 05:20 PM
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With Wonder Woman doing so well (which also had a female director), the "it only failed because of misogyny and the Patriarchy" Ghostbusters excuse won't hold up too well.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/06/17 05:14 PM
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do your own lobbying, fundraising, and advocacy. There's literally nothing stopping you. Feminists go out of their way to literally stop this from happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 11:20 AM
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women do it just as much as any man yes but when feminists hear the term 'manspreading', they come very close to achieving that elusive orgasm that's been eluding them for all these years
/r/MensRights17/06/17 11:30 PM
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Swedish feminists are much better at accepting the extra responsibility that comes with increased equality, imo, while american feminsts are basically just asking for handouts and extra benefits. So true. Feminism in America = preferential treatment, privileges, quotas, double standards, lower standards, policies that only benefit women and girls combined with a never-ending victim complex which leads to another round of even more preferential policies. The cycle repeats in perpetuity. Any criti…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 01:31 PM
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Stockholm Syndrome. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 05:12 AM
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To feminists in America , "gender equality" means focusing exclusively on women and silencing any attempt to discuss issues that might impact men and boys. Perhaps it is different in Sweden, I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 05:10 AM
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"There are legitimate MRM issues.... However...." That feminism speak for, "not listening, plugging my ears"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 05:06 AM
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Most feminist I encounter would consider this sign misogynistic. Not true. Feminist have changed their tune under the umbrella of assisting gay men who are victims at the hands of other men, which is admirable I suppose. The result is you see signs like what was posted above. They also accept the concept that men can be harassed by a female perpetrator however they won't allow any focus on this this for fear that it will take away from female victims.
/r/MensRights28/05/17 06:00 PM
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Let's step back and look at the gender education gap and how much further ahead girls are academically. The numbers speak for themselves. The one, and only, area where boys are ahead are in STEM fields. Look the reaction to this. Look at how much effort, how much energy, time, money, and publicity is spent trying to erase this one and only statistical advantage boys have in education and how little is being down comparatively to address the long, long list of areas were boys are struggling (read…
/r/MensRights18/04/17 12:54 PM
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Women/girls achieved education parity with men/boys in 1979 and have steadily and consistently surpassed them in almost every measurable category since. The entire paradigm of our education system is designed to give preferential treatment to females. The entire curriculum is based on methodologies designed for females. Plus, many boys won't see their first male teacher until high school. Representation is critical, right? If, in spite of this overwhelming bias in her favor, a girl is still stru…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 01:13 AM
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The question was never "who has it worse, who gets it more, who gets it less?". Question is why feminists who, claim equality non-stop, spend so much time and energy on this issue yet strangely never say a word about it as it relates to males. Why the bizarre silence?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 05:41 PM
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The point still stands, genius
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 01:32 PM
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I'd be down for that. 5'8" or whatever, I couldn't care less This is a typical feminists reply. "Yes, I acknowledge that there is a double standard on this issue where the male side is being completely ignored as always. In theory, I suppose I'd be down to include them as well, it's just that me and every other feminist on the planet isn't going to say a word to promote this. We will, however, continue to scream to the rafters about the female-side of things." Complete silence vs. non-stop screa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 01:10 PM
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It's not the "opposite". You just proved his point. If there were body acceptance for men, the message would be you don't need to be muscular, women will think you're ok just the way you are, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 01:03 PM
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It's just that men never faced the same pressure to be attractive as women Just pure ignorance. It would be like saying, "women never face the pressure to provide for a family as men do". You're completely wrong on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 01:01 PM
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Men were never under the same scrutiny for their bodies in the first place. I disagree. Overweight women face a fraction of the face-to-face bullying that their overweight male counterparts face. Classmates or coworkers at school or work would think nothing of giving a male a hard time, but very consciously bite their tongues around females. To the extent that it exists for obese females, it is most other women (and girls) who tease them and even then, it's almost always behind their backs - not…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 12:58 PM
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I think that's a good point. There should be a statistic for which gender gets targeted more. Targeting could mean unwanted conversations, following or otherwise intimidating (and of course any assault). A scumbag might see an old man or a very small, petite man and, even though he can easily overpower them, dismisses the idea. When a woman walks by a few minutes later, I can see the dynamic changing bigtime. Women definitely get targeted more per capita.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 04:25 PM
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The point is that, whatever your situation is, you are still at a clear advantage over a hypothetical identical male twin counterpart.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 02:16 PM
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It isn't "the media" and romantic comedies that are enforcing this. Boys are mostly surrounded by women growing up - mothers, teachers, babysitters, caregivers, etc. This is where the false message of is driven home.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 02:07 PM
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In terms of Mother Nature, women definitely have it worse. The issues mentioned - weaker, hormones, menstruation, menopause, postpartum depression, lactation, slave to their emotions, difficulty having orgasms, etc, etc. In terms of Western society, women have it much better and it's not even close. The list of privileges, preferential treatment and double standards is off the charts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 04:30 AM
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If you want to be fat, regardless of gender, that is your choice. They don't really want to be fat, that's the point.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/03/17 02:32 AM
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The self-deception is fascinating. They know they're lying to themselves and everyone else. They know that everyone knows their lying too. If there was some magic wand that could instantly zap these women into an ideal fitness level they would all use it in a nanosecond. They don't love their current size. Of course. Stop the bullshit. They just want to justify their lack of a healthy lifestyle.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/03/17 12:24 AM
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This. Exactly. Fat women receive a fraction of the face to face bullying as their obese male counterparts.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/03/17 04:18 PM
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It's like it is from Jackie Coakley's incel little brother with Down syndrome. So obviously fake.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/03/17 03:49 AM
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The argument is that women need extra protection and safety so they reserve spots on the first floor near the entrance.
/r/MensRights15/03/17 12:20 PM
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There is an enormous amount of "evidence" that women serve a fraction of incarceration for the exact same offense as their male counterparts. The gender sentencing gap. Google.
/r/MensRights15/03/17 11:56 AM
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Very insightful post
/r/PussyPassDenied11/03/17 07:03 AM
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So... forgetting Trump's comments were 10 years old, forgetting he was thinking it was private conversation, intentionally being vulgar/inappropriate as people do when they're goofing around in these types of situations.... Let's take him at his word, he said essentially that when you're a rich powerful celebrity women will LET YOU (repeat, they-let-you) get away with things that they won't with non-celebrity. That is simply a statement of fact. Any successful male actor, musician or athlete wil…
/r/PussyPassDenied10/03/17 11:56 AM
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