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h22keisuke/r/MensRights11/02/14 07:09 AM
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Controlling for what variables? Men who are "fitter" are more likely to be married AND more likely to live longer.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 10:16 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/15 01:53 PM
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Money doesn't belong in the same category as those other three.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 04:39 AM
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She has an appointment, but she's just now asking you to watch the kids? Nah. What kind of appointment could she possibly have that she only gets 24 hours notice? Plenty of couples get along just fine without one person able to do what she's asking you to do. It seems to me like you have a respect issue, which is not only why you didn't get the BJ, but why she asked you to work from home on short notice.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/15 02:41 AM
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In a situation like this, calling the cops seems to similar to not being able to solve his own problems. It seems like weakness. I think that making it known in a less emotionally charged situation that he won't tolerate this behavior any more makes perfect sense, though.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/15 02:34 AM
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I actually inferred precisely what you admitted in another post not a minute after I made the post you are replying to. You don't have to be oblivious to narcissism to exhibit its traits. As with all personality disorders, narcissism exists on a spectrum. Maybe your aren't diagnosable, maybe you are. I don't know. However, what you're describing reminds me of a specific type of narcissism called Compensatory Narcissism: http://www.ptypes.com/compensatory-narpd.html.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/15 09:37 AM
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I think you were on the right track with narcissism. What I'm picking up here is the fear that she won't live up to their perceptions of her when she commits.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/15 08:58 AM
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It's not okay. Most American men will just say that sort of stuff because they think it's what you want to hear.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 03:24 AM
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You're getting hung up on the word "reward," which is not meant to be taken strictly literally. "Reward sex" is sex that's given by a woman to a man in exchange for bending to her will, typically doing things that would make him subservient, aka "beta" behaviors. You're correct in saying that "reward sex" has no place in a healthy relationship. Nowhere in my post did I suggest any woman play games with her partner. That was your own inference. Is it "reward sex" every time a woman has sex with a…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/15 07:50 AM
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Sex is heavily discussed on here, but everybody needs to remember that TRP is an approach to self-actualization, not just a way to get your dick wet.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 05:28 PM
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God bless you.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/15 05:16 PM
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Your wife needs a "quick" makeup routine in addition to her regular one.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/15 05:13 PM
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Guys.... There is blue pill shit all over this thread. Come on! He likes it when you dress nice. Societal indoctrination and/or consideration for your time is keeping him from saying he would like you to dress nice all the time. But, that's what he really wants. It's up to you to decide if it's worth it to always be looking good for him. It will make him feel like you value him, and it will encourage the development of his alpha traits.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/15 05:10 PM
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You probably won't get an RP man if you wait until your late twenties and have been damaging your body in the military, even though the Air Force is the least taxing among the branches. if you're going to go down that route, then you had better make sure you take excellent care of your face, hands, and feet. Let me be clear: You will still find a BB man, but you're going to have issues with respect and attraction. When a woman thinks she can do better - because she has had better in the past - s…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 04:58 PM
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Hair holds onto scents. Armpit hair holds your sweat and creates an environment for microbes to feast on it and make you stinky. So yea, it is dirty in that sense. Men grow more body hair than women. Men with higher testosterone have more body hair. Therefore, body hair is a masculine trait.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 12:56 AM
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Ah, I see. We're on the same page, then. I edited my post to try and make it more clear.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 07:29 AM
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It's what women want, but not if it's given freely. Acknowledging that your man has other options is a very important step in swallowing the red pill, for both sexes.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 07:17 AM
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I said this in another thread yesterday, but I'll say it again here: if you dont have even a slight concern that your man will leave you if he gets a better option, then you are either taking him for granted or don't think he could do any better (in other words, you are settling). If neither if those are true, then you are probably stuck in a blue pill "oneitis" mentality. You should channel your energy spent worrying into upping your girl game, because jealousy without self improvement is going…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 05:47 AM
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It's misused fairly often as a scapegoat for personal shortcomings, and also as a badge of honor. Not that it doesn't happen. Sexism also goes both ways. I work in a female-dominated field, and there is definitely sexism towards men from time to time. As always, we see what we want to see in the world. Active feminists are going to perceive and infer more sexism than people who don't feel strongly about it.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 06:08 AM
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It depends on how his wife treats him. A lot of women don't appreciate their husbands. I only have one friend whose wife does him right, and he is pretty alpha. The rest of my married friends get shit on. They are in their late twenties and early thirties. I'm 100% positive that some of them will have the confidence to leave their wives once their careers blossom and they realize how many younger women there are who will treat them better. Remember, your man likely knows someone whose partner tr…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 05:59 AM
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This didn't apply to the exact situation you are outlining, but... Honestly, if you aren't even the slightest bit worried that your man could leave you or cheat on you, then you're either taking him for granted or you're settling. You should always be striving to be the best partner you can. He will notice when you slack off, just like you would notice if he did.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 05:51 AM
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It will still help. beard balm is basically a leave in conditioner. My beard is about 1.5" long, so our application would be different. If you took a dollop and rubbed it in your hands then all over your beard, similar to how you might apply a fiber or pomade hair product, then that would probably work. If you work it in slow and deliberately with hair that short, then your skin will look oily for a couple of hours. You can also get scented balms. I've tried wham bam bear balm and all of the Tex…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 07:53 AM
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Gentlemen, let's not try to overgeneralize female behavior to the point of missing the obvious here. You should be using beard balm 1-3 times daily, have a silk pillowcase to keep it from drying out overnight, and avoid washing it with anything but water more than once per week. If you don't do these things, then it's reasonable for her to complain. My wife's skin was literally turning red from abrasion until I consistently used beard balm. It's not hard to grow a glorious beard that feels pleas…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 06:49 AM
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Why not downgrade your job? Get some more time for yourself? Is there some reason why you can't do that? If you're wife is going to give you grief about living a real god damn life, then do it anyway!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/15 04:04 AM
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Nice, you are only one border crossing and 30 miles away from some fantastic booze.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 03:42 AM
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Believe me, psychology can be dangerously close to women's rights.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 07:19 AM
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Almost everyone on Reddit feels the same way. However, I see in her some traits that are hard tocome by in today's mate market: She rarely shit tests me, she is sexually available to the point where I have trouble keeping pace, she is a great cook, she has strong work ethic, and is generally a "real" person who happened to make a huge mistake. So, I'm giving her the opportunity to prove she can be a great wife.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/15 09:03 AM
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Married man here. You are going to need to disclose the information before things get really serious. You are also going to need to be willing to express your sexuality with a worthy partner to the same or greater degree of openness and enthusiasm that you did in the past with people who didn't matter as much. "28, employed, handsome, and very nice/funny" doesn't mean much. A beta man can have those traits. When I met my wife - when I was 28, even - I was slated to take over a company and make n…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/15 07:51 AM
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Uh no. She moves out, not you.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/15 09:22 PM
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Could not possibly agree more with this. Absolutely not RPW, possibly not RPH.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/15 12:30 AM
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You want a woman who chooses to follow your lead because she sees you as strong, not because she is weak willed.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/15 08:04 AM
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My best friend is married to one. She is exhausting to the point where my wife and I won't even spend time with them as a couple anymore. He and I get together every week or two, but my wife doesn't want to be around her flippant attitude. Guess which one of us is happier? Guess which one of us fantasizes all the time about leaving/cheating on their wife?
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/15 08:01 AM
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I do not mean to diminish you, but you are mistaking "having no direction" with "having minimal financial prospects." You clearly want a man who makes enough money so that you aren't forced to work in gainful employment to obtain an acceptable lifestyle. That's okay. Try to be honest with yourself about that. Honestly, if I knew my wife was feeling the way you are now, I would just get a divorce. Nobody is worth a request like that. I love what I do, and I make good money, and if she wanted me t…
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/15 02:19 AM
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Yes absolutely. I now see porn as a waste of time and do things that are more fulfilling. I also have more, better sex with the wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/15 06:40 AM
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One viewpoint that tends to be promoted by feminists is that makeup and physical fitness standards are oppressive to women, and are instated by men. It may not be an actual tenant of feminism, but it is a view held by many feminists. Much like suicide bombing isn't anywhere in the q'aran
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 12:50 AM
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You are referring to terror management theory, which is highly relevant to understanding world views in general.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 12:38 AM
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I thought I preferred my wife without makeup until I started having a say in the makeup/hairstyle she chooses. I told her for two years that I liked her better without it, and that I didn't like women wearing makeup in general. After finding TRP myself, I realized that what I didn't like was women who are superficial and entitled that also tend to wear lots of makeup. Yes, I like it when my wife just curls her eyelashes and wears Chapstick. But now that I've come to understand myself as a man, I…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/15 03:56 AM
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This is great advice, and to supplement: When someone accuses you of doing something wrong, there is always a strong chance of it being a matter of projection. If your wife is paranoid about you cheating on her, she's probably already cheated on you.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/15 12:55 AM
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I don't know the details, but I would honestly just drop the white knight friend. They will backstab you, even when you didn't do anything wrong. Also, why are you allowing your wife to be on a friendly communication basis with her ex? Women will cheat, even if you don't think they will, and they're really fucking good at hiding it. It doesn't mean she has, but you need to figure out how to nail down her communication habits and then make it clear to her that she isn't to maintain a relationship…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/15 12:46 AM
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They hate feminine women because they'll never be one I have a friend whose wife has fallen prey to this. She literally refuses to clean the dishes or fold laundry more than once or twice a year because, in her words, "that's women's work."
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 10:50 PM
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This makes sense, seeing as how white knighting is in itself an act of manipulation and false-faced presentation.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 08:51 AM
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If you lack the foresight to see how rude your actions were going to be, I would honestly consider the possibility that you have Asperger's or high functioning autism. Check out these two conditions and see if they resonate with you, maybe even have a psychologist interview you. I know someone who has a successful marriage despite his Aspergers, but he has to be mindful of how he's missing empathy. The other possibility is that you're a big fucking idiot, but I'd like to give you the benefit of …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/14 08:11 AM
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The no pressure concept shouldn't even come up. If you're not good enough for your wife to want to screw then it's time to take a good hard look at yourself and see if you're not the issue. Sex as a negotiating tool is a slippery slope. You are the man and you have the right to have sex with a woman that you dedicate your life to and treat with respect and consideration. That is part of the deal.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/14 10:01 AM
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First off, stop masturbating so often. It's not helping you in the long run. You need to exude masculinity and creaming into your hand is going to inhibit that. Honestly there's no reason for you to tolerate her lack of willingness to fix her sex problem. You need to tell her that you married her because you love her but that you expect a physical relationship with her. That's the way it is. She needs to improve that shit ASAP. It's what a man and a woman do. Now you also gotta ask yourself if y…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/14 09:57 AM
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Yes you can. Some people get lucky, some people connive their way into success, some are propped up by others, some are diligent and hard working, some are creative geniuses, some were just at the right place at the right time..... Then there's the slew of other characteristics a successful person has that makes them enjoyable and relatable to some people more than others.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 07:12 AM
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I've been told that taking melatonin will reduce your body's ability to produce it in your own. This isn't a side effect per say, but it's interesting to note that some people have weird-as-shit lucid dreams when taking melatonin to sleep.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 04:18 AM
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Well for what it's worth, I majored in psychology and conducted an experiment based on terror management theory for one of my classes that showed that a belief in any form of afterlife was strongly correlated with a higher sense of well-being as measured by the PANAS-X. For both men and women, even.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 08:09 PM
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http://m.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-big-questions/201106/homophobic-men-most-aroused-gay-male-porn Can't find the empirical publication but here's a summation.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 03:25 AM
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Plus you can hold the other dudes hands and look into his eyes.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 10:00 PM
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So... There's a study done in which men were asked how they felt about homosexuality. They were then fitted with a sleeve that measures penis girth in realtime and shown gay (man on man) porn and straight (man in woman) porn. The men who were most disapproving of homosexuality were also the men whose penises became most erect when shown gay porn So yea. What you're saying is empirically substantiated.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 09:58 PM
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You can't protect her, even if she understands she will still make her own decisions. You need to be okay with people in your family not sharing your worldview.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 09:58 PM
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Correct. The same reason that gay men are hypersexualized is the same reason that there are so many fat lesbians: the male influence is magnified in a male-male relationship and absent in a female-female one.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 11:47 PM
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A certain episode of Seinfeld is coming to mind...
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 06:05 PM
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You should be smoking pot while on Molly instead,It counteracts the damage to serotinergic fibers.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 07:21 AM
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Everyone should make it a point to know their state's or country's laws. Washington is a mutual combat state, which means that two consenting adults can beat the shit out of each other without any assault charges.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 06:43 AM
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Is that because of entrapment, or something similar?
/r/MensRights11/02/14 08:20 PM
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.... You're right. If I choose inaction because of a threat to myself, it's oppression.
/r/MensRights11/02/14 10:48 AM
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I need to intern for 17 more months before I can get my license and practice on my own. Whenever I play out this scenario in my head, I imagine them making my life a living hell until I give up and quit before then. Either that, or they find some bullshit reason to fire me. Am I being realistic?
/r/MensRights11/02/14 09:00 AM
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Well, first the Department of Labor and Industries - who contracts the cases out to vocational rehabilitation counselors - requires that I make sure they can't already get into a line of work that they already have the skills for, provided it's within their physical capabilities. But yes, that's what I did for a living, and I loved it. Actually, I haven't run into any issues in developing careers for my clients based on their gender. Because men so often internalize their profession as an import…
/r/MensRights11/02/14 08:57 AM
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It may very well be that I have nothing to lose. I've applied for seven jobs now and haven't gotten a single phone call or e-mail, let alone an interview.
/r/MensRights11/02/14 08:29 AM
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Checking out the website now, thanks. I'm a white male. Unfortunately, no, there is no placement assistance =/
/r/MensRights11/02/14 08:27 AM
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Or maybe she is smart enough to realize that female bullshit is tiring and off-putting.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/14 11:09 PM
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As a man and supporter of /r/mensrights, I disagree with this video's premise. I hang out with plenty of men based on similar interests, even if I find them irritating or unsavory. Examples: Fishing buddies, clamming buddies, Halo buddies, League of Legends buddies, etc. There are also men whose company I enjoy when discussing existential and societal issues, but I hate sharing other interests with him because he sucks at them. Edit: There are also men whose friendship I pursue because I am sexu…
/r/MensRights20/02/12 09:37 AM
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