| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Can casual sex be empowering? | SEEKING ADVICE | isv1234 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 11:15 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 16 | An appreciation meme for all the relentless work that FDS mods do to keep unwanted comments from such people at bay. You're the real MVP.Love this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 04:05 PM |
| 8 | NVM stands up forever girlfriend at their wedding and is elated when she says she will never bring up marriage again. Calls her "wife" in public to continue to rub salt into her wounds.This one actually physically caused me pain | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 07:01 PM |
| 10 | Elisabetta Sirani, a true Queen.Sounds super similar to her! I was surprised (especially the opening the school part) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 06:41 PM |
| 15 | ✔️I am too sister. Especially being very family oriented. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts?I am from a south Asian warzone. This is how we refer to ourselves. As brown. Anonymity is a necessary protective measure for children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 01:41 PM |
| 5 | Told him I wasn't comfortable riding his bike on our first date, he accuses me of "baiting" himGirl why waste your breath and energy on this pure nonsense... sometimes I feel the biggest teacher is silence | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:54 AM |
| 10 | He doesn’t necessarily prefer that you “don’t wear makeup”: he’d just hate that you might expect anything from him.Ive been through that, and threw away all of my clothes. It’s scary. I’m sorry if I reminded you of trauma. But you deserve to take care of yourself in small ways that can work outside of that and are just for you to see - having a hair mask and so own. Or putting a really nice smelling lotion and then covering up with a pair of pants if it makes you feel better. Think of yourself as a garden (that’s what helped me) and that I deserved little things and sun to bloom quietly. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 08:49 PM |
| 12 | He doesn’t necessarily prefer that you “don’t wear makeup”: he’d just hate that you might expect anything from him.Girl, what do you mean you won’t level up? Of course you will. At some point or another. Do you mind me asking you why you don’t enjoy grooming/feeling pretty? There’s a style and level out there that works for everyone. 0 maintenance is bad for your mental health, and I’m not talking about the objective to look good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 08:43 PM |
| 22 | "Where can you lead me? Not up."Same, and I learnt a lot thank you queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 08:09 PM |
| 2 | LVM on CMB with 1 Pic trying to call me fat. Thank goodness I am well trained in FDS.Same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 01:07 PM |
| 4 | They love to make it about themselves 🤦♀️You’re a Strong lady. Rooting for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 10:19 PM |
| 23 | They want us to be legbeards so bad, but we're not: FDS Humble Brag / Femcel Theory Debunked!Exactly, bad treatment instead of being ignored... random men ignore me all you like | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 01:58 PM |
| 37 | You ladies really have a sista's back! Thank you!Dead lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 06:57 AM |
| 63 | Jenna Jameson is recounting how she was groomed and trafficked into the sex industry and scrotes are having a meltdown in the comments. They’re always mad when the truth interrupts their fapping.Comment! Let’s flood her with positivity over the incels | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 06:25 AM |
| 6 | Trying to put FDS into practice. Critique me, ladies!I love the last time, but I wouldn’t have even suggested a day in the first place tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 12:36 PM |
| 3 | Your friends do not exist for the sole purpose of listening to you whine about some man you don’t plan on leaving.I know right! But it’s so necessary. It’s an addiction like any other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 09:57 AM |
| 4 | Friend Bringing Fiancé on K-1 VisaRight? Being on a specifically British dating site also... like girl what are you setting yourself up for | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 02:29 PM |
| 40 | Your friends do not exist for the sole purpose of listening to you whine about some man you don’t plan on leaving.I think it’s better to assert a boundaries first. I had a friend who I thought was doomed 4 years of an absolute sadistic asshole that consumed every aspect of her life and he ruined all our time together, and changed her. We agreed, after many many fights, I can’t hear it anymore. Then suddenly one day she calls me up and says she’s going to a codependency rehab for 6 months and she fully went through with it. She came back to herself and I couldn’t be prouder | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 02:05 PM |
| 2 | How to respond to this? We had a great time. He was super respectful and sweet but he started responding less and less due to a backwards school schedule and a few other problems.“Doesn’t seem to be anything here” - which is still polite & classy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 08:58 AM |
| 7 | proof one red flag should be enough. NEXTI threw up in my mouth a little | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 03:34 PM |
| 18 | How to respond to this? We had a great time. He was super respectful and sweet but he started responding less and less due to a backwards school schedule and a few other problems.I feel like you shouldn’t have put the ball in his court by saying along the lines of “I can tell you’re not into me”. This makes him the center-person that should be impressed. YOU are the center and don’t you forget it xxx | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 08:26 PM |
| 3 | How to respond to this? We had a great time. He was super respectful and sweet but he started responding less and less due to a backwards school schedule and a few other problems.One day you will wake up and it will be different. You’re already doing the mental work and recognizing habits. It WILL pay off. Consider him practice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 08:25 PM |
| 5 | Someone please tell me to block this LV piece of trash... apologises for not making enough effort 2 weeks ago, already back to pushing me away when I'm trying to make plansWow fuck him. Please never speak to him again that’s really atrocious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 07:53 PM |
| -8 | We rarely see women leave/turn down someone due to mental health issues but men are quite differentSo you’re both saying it is totally okay if someone rejects us because of something that we have no control over? Nah, fuck that. I’m worthy of a fulfilling relationship. I was so happy about this community but honestly reading this.... just makes me feel horrible about something I literally cannot control. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 08:00 PM |
| 4 | We rarely see women leave/turn down someone due to mental health issues but men are quite differentThat’s really ableist and hurtful. From someone who suffers from one. Am I unloveable? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 07:43 PM |
| 2 | "I pay for you, I own you"You are so strong. I am in awe of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 08:50 PM |
| 9 | HVM behavior 👏🏼Your mama is a wise one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 01:25 PM |
| 2 | 'I'm gonna let my children and wife suffocate in the no-AC car, because my friend thinks my wife is dressed inappropriately'In private residences and gated communities, absolutely. But it’s unnecessary to use the country in this context it’s just racist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 12:03 PM |
| 8 | 'I'm gonna let my children and wife suffocate in the no-AC car, because my friend thinks my wife is dressed inappropriately'Nah, most Saudi men (don’t let the media and crazy af govt fool you) reaction would be to beat the shit out of someone who would openly shame their wives like this. Don’t be racist. - A khaleeji woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 11:51 AM |
| 0 | Rejecting a LVM like a bad bitch 😏🍹Honestly I loved this. especially the last part. Perhaps I’ll even save it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 11:35 AM |
| 9 | Ladies I need urgent advice!! My date is in 8 hoursLook im super into meat, but I would never behave this way... it’s unnecessary and weird what he’s doing. If there is anymore bs, walk out during the date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 08:45 PM |
| 16 | Something wholesome for once-This movie is an EDUCATION - small town Indian girl gets stood up by fiancé and decides to go on their honeymoon anyways cause it was HER dream and has an adventure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 10:37 AM |
| 51 | Stop mistreating you female friends, especially over a fuckboyThis is the hardest... because then your friend start to resent you and think your jealous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 10:34 AM |
| 133 | Remember this, Queens. 👑I disagree. Only be selfish with men, not our fellow queens and grandmothers and sisters. And in the office, of course | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 01:33 PM |
| 33 | "Starter Wife" - Justine Musk talks about the realities of her relationship with Elon. Note the red flags and familiar-to-all-of-us experiences!As someone who has dated billionaires (and broke scrotes) I can tell you once someone gets past a certain point of money they are effed up beyond repair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 12:08 PM |
| 36 | How to gently let a man down who you are not physically attracted to?Return the wine - then you have nothing that ties you together | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 08:33 PM |
| 12 | Sending love to all the queens healing from jokers.This one hit hard in the best way ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 07:22 PM |
| 5 | Sometimes it’s just another human connection and nothing moreYou’re romanticizing the situation when really he just ghosted you. Sorry for harshness, I mean well. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 10:45 AM |
| 38 | Sometimes it’s just another human connection and nothing moreHe didn’t deserve this emotional labor from you, in my opinion. And saying he “had something” without even saying what it is so vague and an easy way out. Honestly it’s probably a lie. But I think your decision to detach and just view the situation will allow you to learn more from this, because you deserve better. You’re obviously caring enough that if there was something emotionally going on for him, you would be someone to talk to. This is not a human connection OP, you deserve more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 10:11 AM |
| 7 | HV Fucking M. Nothing but respect for this man and his wife. [Couldn’t repost...]We need to share more stories like these to remind ourself of the good ones out there... and to expect nothing less! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 10:03 AM |
| 5 | Movies with HVM leads?Uncle Phil + Aunt Viv? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 08:51 AM |
| 14 | I feel like unattractive women objectively get treated a lot worse by men at large, despite self-esteem?!I disagree. All of the lvm who treat me like garbage always told me how much they loved my looks, and I get a lot of (unwanted) attention. Doesn’t stop me from being continually rejected emotionally. A lovely ex told me your looks are the only thing you have going for you, you have no personality. Which has always haunted me. But you know what? Trash only knows how to act like trash, doesn’t matter how good looking you are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 09:55 AM |
| 5 | Did a man ever make you realize that you weren't expecting too much, it was that your previous boyfriends just had bare minimum value?Damn, men like this exist? Happy for you girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 07:55 PM |
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