I haven’t seen this discussed yet.

Women don’t seem to realize how self absorbed they come across when the only time they want to hang out with their girlfriends is when they get in a fight with their boyfriend/husband. Your female friendships should not be dependent upon whether or not you and your man are on good terms. Your friends are not just fillers to keep you occupied until your boyfriend answers the phone.

If you are this type of woman, cut it out and grow up. If you’re friends with women like this, keep them at a distance or cut them off.

Women are also guilty of using other women for emotional labor and then ditching them. I had a friend like this that id known for more than 10 years that I finally had to cut off. She started dating a LVM 11 years older than her with a kid from a previous relationship when she was 18. I never liked him from the beginning, as he was and still is a lazy leech, living off of her and not helping her pay a single bill. This man has no drivers license due to failure to pay child support and he doesn’t care enough to fix the problem. She is essentially his mother and without her hed be homeless.

The only time I heard from her was when she was mad at him or he was ignoring her for some reason. Every time she called it was the same bullshit about how she was sick of him and he kept saying he was going to do this, that, and the third, but never followed through. Every time I would sit on the phone with her consoling her telling her she needed to kick this loser to the curb, as he is not her child or her responsibility.

Then he’d decide he was ready to be nice to her again and she’d disappear into the vortex. If I texted her to hang out, she wasn’t interested. If she texted me to hang out which only happened when he decided he wanted to go play video games with his friends, she always expected me to drop everything and come over.

Quite frankly, these type of women are not our problem. Their relationship baggage/issues are not our problem and we don’t exist to cater to them. Stop being so nice to women like this, as they are highly manipulative and will exhaust you mentally. If you have a friend like this, I promise you she knows what she needs to do. You don’t owe it to her to listen to her whine day after day about a bum she has no intention of leaving. You’re not a therapist.