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Never text that you enjoyed the night. And never make plans for the next times she's available. That's so beta. Go no contact for 1-2 weeks and let the hamster do the work for you.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 07:28 PM
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What you look for in women is highly personal. From a physical standpoint and beyond. I only want blondes and you may want brunettes. Who gives a shit? Everyone has different tastes. This is why a period of spinning plates/dating/fucking multiple girls is important: You figure out what you like and don't like.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 06:32 PM
1

Doing anything to appear more attractive to women is beta. Do things because you want to.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 06:20 PM
1

Mission/purpose is not about just about making money. Your mission is the reason you wake up in the morning. You can't wait to spend time working on it. If a girl flakes you or doesn't text you back, you don't give a shit because it gives you more time to work on it. It is something you are going to dedicate at least the next 20 years of your life working towards and ideally until the end of your life. When you have a clearly defined mission, you don't get lonely.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 04:31 PM
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You need a mission.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 04:13 PM
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Half the sidebar material has been deleted anyway.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 09:31 PM
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Does this mean equivalent status women should not be LTR'd (risk of branch swinging is higher)?
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 04:17 PM
2

How should I proceed? Soft next, game other girls, and lose the fucking oneitis.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 08:48 PM
1

Don't order the fucking milk shake in front of her ya jerk off. How the fuck would you like it if you were cutting and she ordered that shit and drank it in your face.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 08:46 PM
8

This is gold. You don't ever mention where you are going when you grab her hand and say let's go?
/r/askTRP21/08/18 06:33 PM
1

No need to completely give up on women or you might go insane and shoot up a school or something. Just readjust your priorities and allocate your time to reflect them.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 03:39 PM
1

“Let’s get a drink somewhere that isn’t so loud” What do you do/say after this? Pulling out of the club is definitely a weak point of mine.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 06:21 PM
1

Not sure I agree with that. Why is cold approaching and losing weight/working out an either/or scenario? Why can't you do both if you have the time? I'm a gym freak and work out 6-7 days per week and still am able to go out and game girls 2-3 nights per week most weeks. I would absolutely make getting your health in order the number 1 priority in your life right now if you aren't fit, but there's no reason you can't go out and cold approach if you have the time. So what if you gets rejected? It …
/r/askTRP13/08/18 04:07 PM
1

What are you using to test it?
/r/askTRP10/08/18 05:32 PM
3

Size should definitely be a priority until you hit around 170-180 or so. Being 150 and ripped with abs is a good start but ultimately not really that impressive to men or women unless you're like 16 or something.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 07:32 PM
5

Are you kidding me dude? Every fucking girl on Tinder is looking for ONS, that's why they are on there. Set up dates (at night) with the hottest ones with the best logistics and go for it.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 05:51 PM
1

Girls flake. It's in their nature. Plan for it and never get upset about it. You should have immediately tried to reschedule when she said she can't make it. That fact that she's not completely ghosting you means there still is some slight interest. Since you didn't do that though, wait a few days and try to schedule another meeting. There's literally no downside besides wasting a few seconds with a text so why not.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 05:45 PM
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Companionship (in a way you can't get with male friends) is definitely a major benefit of a good LTR. Something to take in account when deciding what your goals with women are.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 05:35 PM
4

Look at the Occupational Outlook Handbook: https://www.bls.gov/ooh/
/r/askTRP02/08/18 08:29 PM
2

She met someone better and ghosted you, that's what happened. Next.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 07:15 PM
4

The amount of men that can confidently game a HB9 or HB10 without acting anxious, weird, and needy is low. If you can do that, you're SMV (in her eyes) rises from that alone. However, you'll only ever get to that point if you regularly approach hotties.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 05:11 PM
1

Let's hang out.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 08:16 PM
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"Come over"
/r/askTRP20/07/18 08:45 PM
1

Who gives a shit what they talk about. Don't take what women say seriously, just as wouldn't take what a 12 year old says seriously.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 06:49 PM
1

You need more Amused Mastery.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 04:01 PM
1

Do both. DO NOT sacrifice your entire social life for studying. That is not the way forward to happiness. Social skills are going to be very important, possibly the most important skill you can learn, not only for gaming girls but also for networking with men and building life-long male friendships. Balance school with social skill building/learning game as best you can. Also, hit the fucking gym and lift.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 05:33 PM
12

Damn he must have fucked the shit out of her.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 04:02 AM
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This. Jesus christ dude. She's just a plate. Treat her like one. Fuck other girls, get some abundance, and study https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3pltm2/humansockpuppets_guide_to_managing_your_bitches/
/r/askTRP13/07/18 06:17 PM
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This is the most accurate comment here.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 06:34 PM
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Why did you not go to visit her for a weekend out of those 4 weeks (or for her to come home for a weekend)? If she's not begging for you to come see her, that would be a huge red flag in of itself. If you're not seeing a plate, fwb, or even an LTR for a month I feel like you're just asking for hypergamy to take place.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 09:32 PM
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Yeah totally agree man. Their faces look roooooooough to say the least. I wonder if the prior decade of non-stop drinking and partying had anything to do with it as well. I would imagine the lesser party girl types would age a bit better.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 08:47 PM
1

Start going for hotter girls. Trust me, they will challenge the fuck out of you.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 08:15 PM
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Lift like your life depended on it. Muscles are the great equalizer.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 08:13 PM
1

Get sexual very fast in the conversation. These women are hitting the Wall and looking for a BB to settle down with, so you have to present yourself as sexual and alpha but having zero provider potential (act like you're broke). This way she can rationalize it as just guilt free sex with a young hot guy (assuming you are in fact good-looking) without actually dating.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 07:39 PM
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She didn't send an alternate time to meet though so I don't think that makes sense.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 06:32 PM
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An hour of cardio per day until your vacation. You will get shredded. Stop if you start losing too much muscle though.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 09:31 PM
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165 @ 6'0 is light. Losing fat isn't your problem. You need to gain more muscle. I would start lifting more days per week and for longer.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 08:33 PM
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Wrong sub for this question bro.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 07:37 PM
1

Makes your life better not worse.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 05:17 PM
1

They're all sluts for someone.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 05:14 PM
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What's wrong with just meeting for drinks?
/r/askTRP16/05/18 05:13 PM
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Yes, you have answered your own question.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 05:09 PM
2

Jesus christ are you stupid? Go meet her at the bar, be social, show how awesome you are to all her friends, tease her, have a good time, then take her home afterwards and fuck the shit out of her.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 08:27 PM
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Again I'm not a daygame expert but more push/pull. Joke with her but also found out more about her/where she's from/interests in that first initial interaction. If she's not walking away, then she's interested and keep going for as long as time allows (for you or her). Also, if she's asking about you, then you know she's interested as well. Then maybe you can make a call back to a joke you made or something about her in your first text to her (to make her remember who you are) before you ask to …
/r/askTRP14/05/18 04:34 PM
1

For online, the lower her initial interest level (from your pictures) the more you'll need to text probably before she meets up. You can tell by the length of her texts how interested she is. If she's sending walls of text after you simply ask how her day is going, you can tell she's highly interested and you can ask for the meet up pretty quickly. One word answers are going to take more texting. For girls you've already met in person, too many flakes mean you aren't doing enough to hook their i…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 06:23 PM
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Is this for online/tinder girls you haven't met yet? Texting for logistics only does not apply to girls you haven't met yet. You need them to invest somewhat first before they will agree to meet you and not flake. The amount of texting before a girl will meet you varies by girl and the SMV in your pictures basically. However, with girls you HAVE met you need to text only for logistics. The theory here is that you should already have them intrigued/attracted enough to meet you again and you don't…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 04:56 PM
1

What if you fuck them good but they just find someone with higher SMV?
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:50 PM
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Take a look at what the alpha/high-value guys in your city are wearing (aka guys with hot ass girlfriends). Try to imitate that then modify for your individual taste.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 05:02 PM
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This. This. This. Impossible to screen a girl for LTR on a first date. Their behavior as a plate will determine if they are LTR material.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 04:59 PM
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Just add if they are low or high value to these type of questions: Do women like to be hit on by strangers if they are high-value? Yes Do women like to be hit on by strangers if they are low-value? No
/r/askTRP07/05/18 07:56 PM
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Wrong sub for this question bro.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 05:43 PM
1

In terms of the going out sticking point, Does it matter if you are alone or not? This is definitely a problem for me and would require me to go out mostly solo to reach my goal.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 04:02 AM
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Same happens to me with girls I meet online. Even girls I fuck on the 1st date and have great sex with will be hard to meet up for a 2nd or 3rd time. My theory is that most online girls are just content riding the CC hard and have no interest committing to 1 guy, especially the young ones. They are in a buffet and want to sample everything. In fact, many Red Pillers will advocate to never LTR a tinder girl because meeting from Tinder is a huge red flag in itself. In my experience, the plates I'm…
/r/askTRP01/05/18 07:56 PM
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Dude it's Tinder. Girls can and will ghost you at any point if they find a higher value guy, regardless of anything you've done up to that point. Don't worry about it and move on to other girls. In the future, I wouldn't invest too much time/effort in any of them until they are standing in front of you. The goal should be to meet up with them with the least amount of messages possible.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 06:33 PM
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Everyone gets catfished at some point on Tinder. One of the many reasons why I prefer in-person gaming to online.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 05:02 PM
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Tell him to his face that he crossed the line, disrespected you, and you won't be tolerating it in the future or else he will be out of your life. If he's a good guy, he'll see how upset you are and apologize. You can and should be direct with men, unlike women.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 08:19 PM
1

Aesthetics means everything should be in proportion. If your upper body is out of proportion to your legs, then yes give your legs extra priority.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 06:28 PM
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It's safe but I've noticed my hangovers are a lot worse when I drink and take creatine the same day so I won't mix them on days I know I will be drinking (which is rarely). Alchohol in general hinders muscle growth, limits testosterone production, among other negative things so if you want to get serious about working out you should be limiting it anyway. 2nd question: Combination of both. Lift iron and supplement with pullups, pushups, dips, etc
/r/askTRP18/04/18 06:59 PM
1

I'm kind of in the same boat with a plate that I like head-and-shoulders above all my other current options. But as I've come to learn, you can't promote a plate that is undeserving of that type of promotion. She will inevitably end up losing attraction and resent you for it. The good news is if you can get a girl of that type of quality then you can get 5 others just like her. She's set the bar for you now. Start focusing on new prospects of her caliber, while keeping her around as a plate. As …
/r/askTRP18/04/18 05:11 PM
1

Great advice. Thank you.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 09:06 PM
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I like you too. Let's meet up on Tuesday.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 07:51 PM
1

It's simple math. If you burn more calories than you intake, you will lose weight (mixture of fat/muscle depending on your diet, genetics, and activity). This is called cutting. If your macros/workouts/supplements are optimal you can minimize the amount of muscle lost and maximize the fat lost during this process. If you are intaking more than you burn, you are bulking. You will gain a mixture of fat/muscle also depending on your diet/genetics/exercise routine. You can maximize the muscle gain a…
/r/askTRP17/04/18 05:29 PM
1

Find an activity/hobby that involves other people and do that. Examples: join a sports team, pick up basketball, join an MMA gym, yoga studio, etc. Also, find a room mate on craigslist that has similar interests to you, preferably from that city. Their social circle becomes your social circle. I know so many people that have done this and end up being best friends.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 05:14 PM
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When she's no longer standing in front of you. Anything other than, assume interest.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 10:12 PM
2

Weak sauce dude. Actions over words when communicating with women.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 05:07 PM
1

Are you eating them out? Eat their pussy amazingly well and make them cum. Like seriously, eat her out like you're a diabetic and her pussy has insulin in it. 10 minutes minimum. Then when you are done say calmly yet sternly, "I want you to suck my dick." This is what works for me.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 05:02 PM
1

Yeah usually they send me some long-winded fake excuse paragraph the morning of the meet up on how they have food poisoning or some other bs and I always simply reply with "No prob." then never hear from them again. I suppose you're right that taking the time to send that message at least shows some sort of interest otherwise they'd just stand me up I guess. I like the idea of using them as back ups though. That's pretty good.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 09:03 PM
1

How many days later? Do you just text again like nothing happened and ask to meet up again? Or wait for them to contact you first? I've had a trillion flakes lately on bumble. Normally, I just hard next but I guess I should re-engage them?
/r/askTRP13/04/18 07:36 PM
1

In fact you should get on it so you can just ignore all the snaps she sends you.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 06:42 PM
12

Dude I present you the modern-day woman. Just ignore it and let her orbiters shower her validation with it. Maintain frame.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 06:00 PM
1

Why 180?
/r/askTRP12/04/18 09:39 PM
1

Where do you approach on the weekends?
/r/askTRP12/04/18 09:38 PM
2

Find a workout buddy who's more in shape then you and workout with them and learn from them. Go to the gym when they go. This will hold you accountable. If you can't find a friend, hire a trainer.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 04:37 PM
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Sluts (girls with high n-counts) are accustomed to getting fucked so sex is no big deal to them. I don't think this is necessarily hard to explain.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 04:33 PM
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Say "Maybe later on Saturday" and line her up as a Plan B in case you aren't able (or unwilling) to fuck the new girl.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 06:42 PM
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I agree, many girls just flat out don't notice you. Also, as you gain more experience cold approaching, you can start to tell how interested she is during her initial reaction from your first words to her during your approach. This is before the shit tests or anything. Interested ones will have a look in their eye that they are happy you approached them which you will start to spot. My most efficient strategy seems to be to open any girl I think is hot, and then judge her early interest level to…
/r/askTRP30/03/18 08:20 PM
2

"I don't date men older than 27" "Whoa! Who said I wanted to date you sweetheart?!"
/r/askTRP29/03/18 05:10 PM
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This is a shame because I find his posts quite informative. He has the highest ranking post of all time on the TRP. How is he not endorsed?
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 07:50 PM
1

Theory Question - Will a HB10 shit test all males approaching her equally regardless of SMV? My assumption is the higher the SMV of guy approaching, the less harsh the tests will be he receives.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 09:18 PM
1

Snapchat is better for this type of text game.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 08:35 PM
1

"Keep DHVing and teasing her until you have a yellow or a green light" Are there examples of this? How do you tease girls over text?
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 08:50 PM
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It will have no affect. Get a dog if you want a dog. Who gives a fuck what women think.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 06:31 PM
2

Eat healthy and workout regularly. Become serious, if not obsessive, about nutrition and exercise. Your skin will improve and your face will look less chubby among many many other things. Not only will you age well, but your SMV will rise instead of fall as you age and learn more. You're young so this is the best time to build a routine.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 06:28 PM
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“The higher SMV, the more times they’re told how gorgeous they are every day. Unless you're really getting their rocks off you’ll need to increase how frequently you see them. ” Careful though if you try to see them too much you’ll come off needy and they’ll lose attraction. This definitely happened to me with one of my hotter plates.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 05:01 PM
1

The TRP response would be "I don't know what my plans around X are yet, I'll let you know" Furthermore, you can say "I'm free on Y and Z (2 or 3 days later)" if you want to reframe it on your terms. Be mindful of limiting your availability to her, though, because she is clearly limiting it to you.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 11:35 PM
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I see what you're saying. You shouldn't have given her exclusivity to begin with but now that you have, you're in a tough bind. You basically have 2 options as I see it: 1) Overt - Say that you still like her but you can't maintain an exclusive relationship at the current meeting frequency you are maintaining (you can word it differently). You are happy to maintain it as is but it will have to be in a non-exclusive manner. Essentially being upfront about demoting her. 2) Covert - Do nothing and …
/r/askTRP25/01/18 11:28 PM
2

Either she meets on your terms or you don't meet at all and you find someone else who does. Plain and simple. If she insists on planning a week ahead just say you don't know your schedule yet.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 09:48 PM
1

Right it would only be possible he could devest in her (while simultaneously cultivating new prospects). If not, a hard next is the better option so he can focus more on new girls.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 09:17 PM
1

Stripper, VR porn programmer, astronaut, homeless, 7-11. Whatever ridiculous thing pops in my head.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:55 PM
1

Say "Sure" and then soft next her (don't text her unless she texts you).
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:54 PM
1

Simple: Calories in vs Calories out. I use a fitbit HR to determine how many cals I burn per day.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:51 PM
1

I was guilty of this as well. Some women have a ceiling at plate or FWB and will never be girlfriend material no matter how bad you want them to be. A wise poet once said you can't make a hoe a housewife. I suggest rereading and memorizing this excellent piece: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3pltm2/humansockpuppets_guide_to_managing_your_bitches/
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:37 PM
2

Look at the caliber of girls attracted to you.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:36 PM
1

I disagree. He can demote her to plate level 0/1 and proceed from there.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:34 PM
1

Sounds like you were more invested in her than you should have for a plate (level 1). Reread this: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3pltm2/humansockpuppets_guide_to_managing_your_bitches/
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:33 PM
1

My cutting (while also gaining/maintaining muscle mass) diet is as follows: Protein: 1.75-2.5 grams per pound of body weight Carbs: 1-1.5 g per pound of body weight on training days, 0.5-1 g on rest days Fats: 0.3-0.4g per pound of body weight, or 20-25% of total calories I lift 6 days per week, cardio 2-3 days per week (preferably fasted) If you want to prioritize fat loss, I'd do fasted cardio in the morning as much as your schedule allows.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:46 PM
1

Don't listen to what girls say, watch what they do. Read the damn sidebar.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:42 PM
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The SMV gap between you and them is higher.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:42 PM
15

This. Especially club sluts. Girls don't go to clubs to give numbers, they go to get fucked by alphas. The number should be a distant last resort method for not fucking a club slut that night.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 06:34 PM
0

Lift and post the same shit of yourself shirtless. Fight fire with fire.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 05:11 PM
1

It's not a big deal. Ignore it and act like it didn't happen. Hit her up for sex when you want it (don't wait for her to text you), as you normally would.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 09:15 PM
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"She tells me she will be working but what do i have in mind?" Translation: She's interested in a 2nd date (when she's not working) and wants you to fucking lead and take the initiative in planning the exact logistics of the date (when and where). Be a fucking man and do that.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 09:13 PM
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Shit test. Ignore.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 09:07 PM
1

No. AWALT.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 06:55 PM
1

She's interested but you need to bring her to a sex location (your house) and escalate there instead of in public.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 06:53 PM
3

You are doing the right thing. Keep snapping you doing cool stuff while being non-needy and you should be able to pick up where you left off when you return. Maybe they fuck a guy or two while you're gone but who cares.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 06:50 PM
1

non-tongue on the lips
/r/askTRP18/01/18 10:48 PM
1

You need to be FUCKING other girls. Abundance means you have multiple sexual options.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 10:10 PM
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Dude fuck other girls and make them plates. It's the only way to defeat oneitis. You can keep seeing this particular one but think of her only as a plate. She does not deserve the thought of being promoted to girlfriend at this point. Only after having multiple plates spinning (at least 2 at a time), should you even be considering being in an LTR and it only should be requested by the girl, never by you. If an LTR is what you seek, listen to fnordsnord and cultivate other prospects that could be…
/r/askTRP18/01/18 10:04 PM
1

I usually kiss them goodbye the day after sex when she or I has to leave. Seems to work.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 05:39 PM
6

You were probably too needy in text after that.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 11:36 PM
1

Are you fucking them the first time you meet them?
/r/askTRP17/01/18 09:45 PM
1

Angry = moist vagina....keep her hamster spinning by not responding
/r/askTRP17/01/18 09:43 PM
1

1) Not enough attraction building during the initial meet. The goal should be to escalate right then and there as far as you can. Go on an insta-date if you can and only take the number as a last resort. 2) Don't ask them to hang out in text. Tell them - "Meet me tonight at X"
/r/askTRP17/01/18 07:49 PM
1

Only text her for logistics for a meet up. If you are not available to meet up then there is no reason to text her until you are available.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 07:43 PM
1

Next.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 08:41 PM
2

All women talk about themselves all the time.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 08:40 PM
1

Both are beta. Don't reply then text her next time you want to see her.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 08:39 PM
1

Rap/Hip-hop is about alpha as you can get in terms of music.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 08:36 PM
1

Whoever cares the least, wins. In other words, you must be invested less than her. If she puts in low effort, you must put in even lower effort than that (if this is warranted, hard to say without knowing what you did). The major question is how available is she still for sex? If you're still able to fuck her when you want to (even if you have to text/call her first), then its not a major problem. If she is starting to withhold her sexual availability to you, then you need to seriously consider …
/r/askTRP11/01/18 05:33 PM
2

If you want to go full-on retard. Frozen pre-cooked chicken and frozen bagged broccoli. Microwave both and eat. My meal of choice when I only have 2 minutes. Can also use canned tuna instead of chicken, which is very retard friendly.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 07:39 PM
2

I would have grabbed the girl's hand and took her to another part of the bar for drinks or whatever. I've done moves like that in the past to defend AMOGs and it worked. Shows you can lead too.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 10:13 PM
2

Top 20% is not hard to obtain in the modern age of the feminine, beta, blue-pilled man. Lifting and internalizing the sidebar material immediately gets you there.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 10:05 PM
2

Quick Rule of Thumb: take more time to respond to them then they do to you. This helps reinforce the rule in your mind that your time is more valuable then theirs. If this means you have to wait several hours or even days to respond to bitches then so what. Also, generally speaking, more interested girls will respond faster then less interested ones. So if you find that all the girls you are texting aren't very responsive, go out and find some more prospects.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 10:52 PM
2

I wear fitted t-shirts in winter too but just wear a coat outside that I take off once I get inside. The gun show is 24/7/365.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 06:39 PM
3

Sounds like you aren't completely content with your current sexual options. Nothing wrong with trying to upgrade.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 06:34 PM
1

Actually after rereading my comment, never ask to meet up. Tell them. For example, "Let's meet up tonight". I tend to get significantly better responses to that then "Do you want to meet up tonight?"
/r/askTRP02/01/18 10:33 PM
1

Hmmm don't think think it changes much. Even though you couldn't get it up it might not change if she likes you since you had a previous relationship with her anyway and she probably enjoyed the making out, fingering, etc. The only difference is you could probably text her once about music or whatever like you've done before but the key is to do it completely non-needy and in a way that portrays you expect nothing from her. Maybe make a joke about how fucked up you got or something. Don't ask to…
/r/askTRP02/01/18 10:24 PM
1

Don't reply and soft next is the only proper response.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 09:53 PM
1

Stop going for number closes and go for fuck closes that same night. Numbers are always a distant distant distant last resort goal of mine when I'm running night game.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 09:48 PM
4

Don't text her too early after the first fuck to push for another meet up. Number 1 mistake most make when trying to transition to plate status. It makes you look needy. Let her come to you. If she doesn't (some do/some don't), then wait a week or two to hit her up as the comment above suggests. If you are busy next weekend, just simply wait until the weekend after or during the week after you get back on a day that is convenient for you to contact her for a meet. Be patient, 1-2 weeks between m…
/r/askTRP02/01/18 09:38 PM
1

Not sure if this is entirely accurate. Some of the very submissive/feminine (ie HOT) girls will never text me first but will be very receptive after I text them. They are expecting me to lead in every way so waiting for them to text me for a meetup is disingenuous. However, the same concept applies. I don’t text or push for a meet up too much and don’t act needy. I spread my time to a few plates at once to prevent this. When I feel like fucking one I hit her up which is once or maybe twice a wee…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 06:36 PM
2

Fat tends to gain around the stomach on men more than other places.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 10:50 PM
5

You must have lost muscle and gained fat which is way the scale didn't go up. Be more strict on your diet and do more cardio.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 06:39 PM
2

Girls flake. Water is wet. Don't be angered by it, just prepare for it by having a back up activity in place just in case (gym, another girl, etc)
/r/askTRP21/12/17 06:37 PM
1

Meh it might be overrated. If they let you fuck, when you want to fuck, who really gives a shit?
/r/askTRP20/12/17 09:13 PM
1

Social Status = who your friends are....Go out and meet people
/r/askTRP20/12/17 09:08 PM
2

It happens. Try waiting a week instead of 3 days. What are your feeler messages? They really shouldn't be much more than "Hey".
/r/askTRP18/12/17 09:24 PM
2

Sounds like she still may have genuine interest (hard to tell since you aren't giving her much notice). Some women are incapable of setting up a meeting and need you to take the lead and do ALL of the work. So if you try again and she says another time, try pressing her for a future date like "How about Tuesday?" Any response other than a enthusiastic yes and you know for sure to stop wasting your time.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 08:01 PM
2

In my experience, I've found that my hotter plates tend to rarely initiate and rely on me to set up meet ups, however are still very receptive once I reach out. Maybe they are shy, as another poster stated, or maybe they are just more scared of rejection (since it rarely happens to them), or maybe they are more feminine and expect the man to lead always. I really don't know.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 06:42 PM
2

There's NEVER a good time to break up. Once you know, the sooner the better bro so the poor girl can carry on with her life. Before the holidays might even be better because her family can help cheer her up.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 06:35 PM
3

Start doing bar approaches. The quality has been better than online for me personally.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 06:31 PM
22

Find the area of your city where the post-college crowd lives and go to the bars in that area (even better, move there). I live in an area like that and it's basically impossible to find girls over 25 when I go out at night.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 06:27 PM
1

Wait a week of no contact (unless she reaches out to meet up, essentially a soft next) and let the hamster spin. Don't respond to all impersonal snaps she sends you (you might just be on a list). Then when the following week comes, TELL her to meet you, don't ask. This can be "Meet me tonight" or "Meet me Wednesday or Thursday" or "Meet me this week". I've had success with all different variations depending on the girl and my availability during that particular week. If you say this week then wo…
/r/askTRP12/12/17 06:43 PM
1

"I'm going here tonight. You can come along if you want." That seems a little weak to me actually. Adding the "if you want" is unnecessary and leaves them too much of an out. I get better results just straight out telling them what they should do like this: "Meet me at x tonight"
/r/askTRP12/12/17 06:27 PM
1

Don't reply to them if they are just dumb snaps that aren't personal to you. Let the hamster spin. Then wait a week until you feel like fucking her again to hit her up.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 06:23 PM
1

Wait longer to hit them up again. I had this problem as well and I believe I was coming off too needy. I have the most success now waiting at least a full week before setting up another meet up. Sometimes the girls even reach out to me for the 2nd date if I wait long enough. Also try being a little more spontaneous (want to meet up tonight?) instead of planning a date in the future.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 06:12 PM
1

Yes its normal. We always are nervous doing things we aren't comfortable doing. Solution: Continue to do it so much that you no longer feel uncomfortable doing it.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 09:37 PM
1

Fasted cardio in the morning. Lift in the afternoon/evening. Eat clean and consume enough protein.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 09:34 PM
0

Don't be silly wrap your willy.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 12:07 AM
1

Not that I know of. I just kind of do trial and error.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 08:49 PM
1

Yeah weak numbers from lack of attraction building during the initial meeting are the number 1 reason for poor responses (or no response) over text. The whole idea behind "text only for logistics" is that you've already laid the groundwork during the face to face time with her that running game over text is not needed and counterproductive. The minimal texting gives her an "aura of mystery" about you that wants her knowing more. As far as snapchat, I've had good results using it when I wasn't qu…
/r/askTRP05/12/17 06:51 PM
2

No you didn't handle it correctly. You should have asked her out for a drink and then fornicated with her.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 06:34 PM
1

Act like it didn't happen. It's water under the bridge so get over it. If or when she does it again, then make a decision.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 06:32 PM
6

Buy escorts for all other women read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 06:29 PM
1

TRP works on all women. The problem is you don't have solid numbers. Spend more time chatting the hoes up, going on an instadate, escalating, etc BEFORE you even ask for the number. Unless you are running late and need to leave, getting the number should be a back up plan. Also, since you are young try getting their SnapChat and snapping the bitches with your message and your face instead of texting. The young broads love snapchat more then texting nowadays.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 06:24 PM
1

A good rule of thumb is to always take longer to reply then she does. For example, if she takes 5 minutes, you take 6, if she takes 1 hour, you take 1.5 and so on. It seems juvenile but juvenile games are what you must play with children.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 06:18 PM
17

Honestly if you look good AND have great game you can pull a chick home from the bar to bang pretty quickly. Work on that if you want to minimize the bullshit instead of Tinder.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 04:49 PM
1

You can still go to the bar and not drink dude.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 09:27 PM
4

You have to get her wet bro if you are getting resistance. Move down her body and suck the tits then back up and kiss her neck then back down her body to the stomach eventually down to the puss then back up to the tits. Two steps forward one step back, teasing her. Then lick her pussy like you've never done before until she's begging you to fuck her.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 09:22 PM
2

Wrist Curls/Reverse Wrist Curls for forearms
/r/askTRP27/10/17 05:02 PM
1

Get the fuck out of that country.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 09:17 PM
1

Consider it as a soft plan and have a backup activity/activities (or girl/girls) in place. In fact, always consider plans with women as soft plans as it is in their nature to flake. Therefore, you should never be surprised or upset when you are flaked on by a woman, especially a first date. Text her a few hours before 6 to confirm and if she does not confirm proceed to activity 2. Treat all plans with women like this.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 06:57 PM
1

Hmmm I'd say maybe you're messing up in text then. Leave them hanging for several hours or days even for your reply. As TRP preaches, you want to limit your texting to logistics mostly, never chit chat. Low level of words compared to hers. If you don't have time to meet her again yet then you shouldn't be texting her that much. Once you are ready to meet her again, hit her up. It should be really spur of the moment like my example above. How old are the girls usually? If they are younger, you'll…
/r/askTRP23/10/17 09:07 PM
1

One thing I'd ask is how drunk are these girls when you first fuck them?
/r/askTRP23/10/17 07:53 PM
5

I used to have this problem as well and 2 things that helped me convert more ONS to plates I believe: 1) Don't be needy after the 1st fuck. I would often think I could hit them up soon after the initial fuck for a 2nd date. I was wrong. Don't do that. Let her chase and come back to you at her own speed, essentially soft nexting her. Be abundant and focus on other girls while letting her hamster spin. If she hasn't contacted you in 7-10 days then you can hit her up for a 2nd date/meet up. Dependi…
/r/askTRP23/10/17 05:16 PM
2

In a similar situation as well. Would be asking a plate like that randomly out to dinner be a bad move? My thinking is that actually having a good conversation with a woman in addition to proper fucking would create a stronger connection? Or is this just a huge beta move that would scare her off?
/r/askTRP19/10/17 07:16 PM
2

Having this same exact issue with a plate who happens to be the hottest of all my plates right now. Never hits me up but is always responsive/receptive when I hit her up and ask to meet up usually once a week or so. Would like to move her up the ladder and chill with her more but don't want to scare her off by hitting her up too much. Head scratcher.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 04:41 PM
1

Take that anger out on the weights son.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 04:31 PM
1

"Fake it until you make it" is common saying for those who don't quite have abundance yet, which means to act as if you have options of girls even if you don't. Using the example you provide, a man with options would never ask the same girl more than once to meet. He'd simply move on to the next option and stop wasting his time with an unavailable/unresponsive one.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 04:24 PM
5

I would just ignore everything she says about the other guy and not being physical. Like others have stated, most decent looking girls have other guys in the picture so this is nothing new. She's just being open to you about it. Judge by her actions (being available to meet you or not), not her words. If she meets you, she is interested, so run game, show how cool you are, escalate, and try to fuck just like you would with any other girl. If she's not willing to meet you, she's not interested, t…
/r/askTRP16/10/17 05:36 PM
1

Successful 1st dates are always at a bar(s) for me that are crowded so there's not much seating, allowing me to get closer and kino more. I also like bars with games (basketball, skee ball, pool, shuffle board, etc) which prevents from just sitting around and it's fun to tease them while you play. I also try to do at least one venue change to another bar which is another opportunity to kino. As far as drinking, if you don't want to drink then don't and just tell her you aren't drinking that part…
/r/askTRP16/10/17 03:38 PM
2

3 days of lifting and you're not allowed to do anything else for 4 days? Dumbest shit I've ever heard. Bruce Lee would ride a bike for 45 minutes after lifting 6 days per week. Throw that dumb ass guide in the trash and get some better lifting advice. I'd recommend doing cardio-related activities after you've lifted that day however.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 07:30 PM
2

Soft next
/r/askTRP13/10/17 07:25 PM
6

What do you guys think, add 20 lbs or max out at +40-50 lbs? What gets a better real world response? No woman will ever become unattracted to you because you have too much muscle (regardless of what they say). However, you'll get more respect from dudes the more muscle you have (they will be less likely to fuck with you). Also, if you feel you are sufficiently big and want to focus more on definition/separation (assuming you are lean already), lift more sets/reps with less weight (8-12 reps). I …
/r/askTRP20/09/17 07:24 PM
2

How are you meeting these girls?
/r/askTRP18/09/17 03:42 PM
1

How old are the girls you go after? Generally, younger girls will definitely be more into NSA sex than girls approaching or have already hit the wall.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 09:24 PM
2

It will be easier assuming you have raised your SMV (looks, money, status, game). You'll still be able to attract the hot girls much younger than you (meaning you can avoid the older hags hitting the wall as you mention if you want) and you'll have an advantage over the younger guys who don't have their shit together yet. Many Red Pillers will say around 30 is when men hit their peak. This is why we say you should focus on improving yourself when you are a young man in your 20s rather than fucki…
/r/askTRP12/09/17 05:43 PM
2

All women are sluts. Once you truly understand this, you'll feel better.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 10:50 PM
2

Talk to everyone. Girls and guys. Bartenders and bouncers. Doesn't matter. The goal should just to meet a lot of new people and go from there.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 04:19 PM
1

Do some interesting shit then tell people about the interesting shit.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 09:16 PM
2

I never heard of that bullshit before. In terms of gym instructors/trainers/whoever offering me advice, my requirement is simple: You have to have a better body than me for me to listen to what you have to say.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 06:21 PM
5

Lift and be social. Talk to everyone. You'll be fine.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 06:18 PM
6

This is one of the reasons that I actually prefer to go out alone sometimes. There have been too many times to count where my supposed "wingmen" actually turned into obstacles for me to close chicks that I open.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/17 07:41 AM
1

Yeah like he said, at the end of the day it's just math. Eat more than you are burning to get bigger (bulk). Eat less than you are burning to get smaller (cut). Regardless, eat about 1g of protein per lb of body weight so maybe that is your problem. The easiest and most optimal way to eat enough once you know how many cals you need to take in is divide the total number by 5-6 and eat 5-6 meals spread out about 3 hours apart. Also, What's your lifting routine? I lift heavy and hard 6 days per wee…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 09:17 PM
1

50% lifting/50% cardio of your available time (in that order if done together). Never stop lifting. Lowers your T.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 04:36 PM
5

Go to the gym. Get out of your comfort zone. I can assure you, nobody gives a fuck about you at the gym. Everyone is doing their own shit and focusing on themselves.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 10:04 PM
1

~1 month you will notice a difference. ~3 months you will notice a big difference. Keep it up man.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 04:59 PM
1

Take whatever women say with a grain of salt. Actions over words.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 04:56 PM
11

Women are children. Don't discuss important matters like politics with children. Instead, as the leader of conversation topics, talk about how you like the way her ass looks in that dress.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 01:57 PM
2

If you are only trying to become a doctor to get pussy, you are going to be sorely disappointed.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 06:43 PM
2

Find something you are passionate about (not video games) and do that shit. Also, go to the gym for 2 hours instead of 1 if you have the time.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 03:12 PM
2

Don't withdraw from pussy. Tinder for quantity. IRL approaching for quality.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 06:32 PM
6

Your time is more important than hers. Treat it as such. She hangs out on your terms, or she doesn't hang out with you at all and you fuck other women. Period.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 06:44 PM
1

Dude girls will fuck any race. It's their nature. Men want to kill other races, that's their nature. Stop making excuses and go run game on these sluts in any city following the material put forth in the sidebar. If you want to talk about a social stigma of interracial dating (created by men and outside the scope of TRP), my guess is the stigma would be inversely proportional to how liberal a city is. So maybe avoid the red cities/states and go for the bluer places if you want to minimize hostil…
/r/askTRP03/07/17 03:41 PM
2

No. Started from the bottom and now we here. But more seriously, you gotta have quantity before you get to quality.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 04:27 PM
1

I just avoid it. My opinion is that politics should never be discussed with women. They don't have the mental capacity capable of meaningful discussion anyway. In a true Red Pill world, women wouldn't even be allowed to vote. Save the political discussion for your close male friends and family.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 04:47 PM
4

Makes sense. Your dick is essentially holding your brain accountable on following through on your goals. If your brain doesn't follow through, no sex for your dick.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 04:44 PM
1

Stop watching porn and get to the god damn gym for christ sake.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 07:13 PM
6

Love me some Ronnie Coleman
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 04:48 PM
8

first of all don't ever text "kk". Only women do that.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 04:55 PM
4

Only text girls for logistics. Keep everything else to the absolute minimum.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 05:20 PM
3

IOI. Any type of eye contact is good enough reason to start up a conversation in my book.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 05:19 PM
3

I'm 5'9 and my height doesn't prevent me from getting laid with hot bitches. Height is a preference by women but in no way a deal breaker (even if they say it is). It's only one variable. I make it up in other ways, such as my body (lifting heavy 6 days per week) and my game. I will get shit tested about my height but I just ignore it because I'm secure with myself. They are basically just saying "Are YOU secure about your average height? If yes, then I'll still fuck you." The same can be said a…
/r/askTRP16/06/17 05:11 PM
3

Don't overthink the dress part. Just wear fitted clothes that showoff your physique (assuming you have a good one). I mostly wear nice fitted tee shirts and black fitted jeans. You'll see a lot of doushers in suits thinking that's the correct play to impress women. It's not. Going over the top with dress gives off a beta vibe unless your some kind of fucking celebrity. RP Game is much more important as it is anywhere else. My favorite part about vegas is the foreign women. All kinds of Europeans…
/r/askTRP14/06/17 10:45 PM
2

What results should I be expecting?
/r/askTRP31/05/17 08:25 PM
2

Yesterday I had been told I can't and have to stay here for another 3-6 years (because reasons). Get the fuck outta there man. Unless your life is threatened, you don't have to do shit. Take advantage of the travel ban not going through and get your pussy-loving ass to America bro!
/r/askTRP31/05/17 08:23 PM
1

She found a guy with higher SMV than you. Simple as that. This is female hypergamy in all it's glory. They will literally drop you at the drop of a hat for the opportunity to swing to a higher branch. As far as what to do, don't worry about it and move on. There is nothing you can do to prevent it besides constantly striving to improve your SMV. This is also why TRP preaches to spin plates and always have options. If one goes AWAL, who cares. Next bitch up.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 08:09 PM
2

Does this work?
/r/askTRP31/05/17 08:05 PM
1

RSD Tyler
/r/askTRP31/05/17 08:03 PM
4

stop saying shredded
/r/askTRP23/05/17 09:51 PM
1

Exactly. Balance of 3 things. Health, career, pussy. Don't neglect one for the others.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 08:59 PM
1

Any type of in person game will gain you access to MUCH higher quality than online. Like the guy above says, legit stunners don't need those fucking apps to meet guys.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 08:19 PM
1

I would agree that you need to ghost for a little bit but I think she just doesn't want to be a straight booty call and needs a little more comfort. If she doesn't reinitiate contact after a few days/week, just ask her out on a date. A daytime thing, as she suggested, or dinner and then fuck her afterwards.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 03:56 PM
1

They all are sluts dude.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 03:43 PM
2

The biggest con of overtraining is injury. I've been a victim of this and I've learned the limits of what my body can and cannot handle. Other than that though, just do what makes you happy. Fuck what other people think.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 03:42 PM
1

Just ignore it and keep fucking her. Most hot girls will have some crazy exes like this. If you think your safety is in jeopardy and the pussy isn't worth it then drop her.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 03:37 PM
2

The same can be said with going to the gym. If you want to improve, sometimes you have to put in that time when there are a million reasons why you don't want to.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 08:18 PM
3

LIFT
/r/askTRP10/05/17 08:16 PM
3

I think it's normal. Red Pill teaches us that we, men, are the prize. Not women. You must internalize that and make it a true statement if it's not. It will be a continueal process. Whether it's lifting, money, status, career, etc. Be a woman's prize. At 23, you are on ascension and no where near your peak. By swallowing TRP this early you already have a huge leg up on the competition. The more improvements you make in your life, the more alpha (confident) you will feel. Keep going young grassho…
/r/askTRP10/05/17 08:09 PM
27

Drop her like Lebron dropping 30+ on a nightly basis.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 08:02 PM
1

Well what type of girl do you want?
/r/askTRP10/05/17 08:00 PM
13

Literally just say anything other than the real reason why you want it. "So I can get a restraining order against you", "So I can give it to that bum over there", "So I can never call it" Just get in the habit of joking around with girls and not taking anything serious.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 07:57 PM
2

hahaha if only there were more selfless men like you
/r/askTRP14/04/17 03:47 PM
2

I agree about the SMV aspect. In my experience, the larger the SMV gap I have with a chick the longer leash I have with her. This makes sense because it would be harder for her to replace me with an equal SMV guy. However, girls with SMV very close to my own can and will ghost at any moment because they are able to attract men of equal or better to my SMV. Think about it like a job. The harder it is for you to find a better or equal one, the more shit you'll put up with at your current one. Wome…
/r/askTRP13/04/17 08:16 PM
1

Be cool. Meet and chat with her friends. If it gets boring (they are just talking about dumb girl shit), make an excuse to leave and do something else (meeting your friends even if it's a lie).
/r/askTRP13/04/17 08:11 PM
2

When you talk to groups either completely commit to one girl- this is for when you have an inkling of her being into you- or talk to the entire group in a non-committal fashion. How do you go about approaching 2-sets without a wingman? The ugly cock blocking friend can become an annoyance if I ignore her too much (not likely as big an issue in a 3-set), however if I talk to the ugly one too much then she thinks I'm interested. What about if both are hot? Will you just give them both equal attent…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 05:44 PM
1

If you date online long enough, you WILL get catfished. It's part of the deal. One of the reasons I only approach in person now.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 04:27 PM
1

Definitely would be interested in the last two.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 06:38 PM
1

Why does years of training matter?
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 04:42 AM
3

From this point you can start to ramp up the touching. Because most of your game seems to be heavy on physical escalation, can you go into more detail on the kino ladder you use. Are you picking girls up literally, hugs, arm around them, how quickly do you go to make out, etc? Could even be a whole new article for you. I feel like I definitely have been under-utilizing touching in my bar/club game.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 12:16 AM
19

Very interesting post and I'm definitely going to try this. To all of you saying you aren't good looking and this post doesn't apply to you, if you are eating healthy and lifting often then YOU ARE GOOD LOOKING. Remember, most guys don't lift at all. I'm 5'9 160. I'm nowhere near OP, but I lift heavy 6 days per week, eat clean, and my physique shows it. When I enter a bar girls eyes dart to me just like OP described because I'll almost always have one of the top 5-10 male physiques in the venue.…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 12:05 AM
1

If you want to meet up with her again just do it. Call her, text, whatever. Sometimes she won’t want to but usually she will if you had good sex. I'd say message/call sooner rather than later, because some girls feel extremely slutty after a one-night stand. For the most part though 2-4 days is fine. Wouldn't contacting her too soon to meet up a 2nd time give off a needy vibe? I think this has been a problem for me in the past for getting consistent follow up sex and I've seen conflicting advice…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 10:35 PM
1

Being dominant is one of many traits associated with being an alpha male. Being submissive is one of many traits that are associated with beta males.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 05:05 PM
1

What's the three dates thing?
/r/askTRP07/03/17 05:01 PM
1

No just watch RSDTyler on youtube. Pulling becomes exponentially easier as game improves, however the only way to improve is to approach.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 11:00 PM
1

I'd say, yes, it's fair to say the bar to LTR (consistent sex) any given HB is going to be higher than just to fuck her once on a given day, which seems to be what you are essentially asking. You need to be the best option to her that is offering (or has the potential to offer) commitment.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 10:53 PM
1

Just add "for beta men" to the end of all their bio descriptions and it will make sense.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 06:41 PM
1

She doesn't want to be fucked by you anymore bro. Next her and find a girl who does.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 06:39 PM
2

Think of Arnold.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 05:21 PM
2

No porn. Essentially makes you a beta cuckhold watching other men fuck. Differing opinions on masturbation but try to limit it as much as you can. NoFap causes you be more aggressive in talking to women, but can also give off needy vibes so your milage may vary.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 05:16 PM
1

Not necessarily. If she fucks any guy on the first date, she's a slut and not LTR material. However, if she fucks only high value men on the first date (and only high value men at all), then she may be LTR material because her standards are still high. All girls will fuck a Chad quickly if their value is high enough (celebs/athletes). I'd be more concerned with the type of guys she has fucked in the past rather than how quickly she has fucked them, if you really want to evaluate her for an LTR. …
/r/askTRP02/03/17 04:44 PM
1

Islam allows for polygamy of up to 4 wives.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 04:35 PM
0

Men have always been the providers for pregnant females/females with babies in the pre-modern age. In tribal times, no pregnant female would be able to hunt or do much of anything really so it was the men of the tribe doing this for her. Now the state can do that, replacing the role of men in society.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 04:33 PM
1

Are you getting these girls off Tinder/Online? I had this same exact problem when I was on Tinder. In my opinion, tinder girls are much much more likely to fuck you and chuck you because they have a gazillion Chad matches they are waiting on, especially the hot ones. They also are more slutty for the most part (in my experience), and any relationship/needy vibes will send them running even after fucking you. Once I switched to in person approaching only, the 2nd date issue went away for the most…
/r/askTRP01/03/17 05:30 PM
1

Easy. Stop drinking.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 05:23 PM
1

That's bullshit and your just making excuses for not talking to women. Take the 30 seconds out of your day and approach a few women who are giving you IOIs. Get numbers. Take 1 out for coffee then get regular sex whenever you need a study break. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 11:11 PM
2

You should be approaching women at least twice a week for a few hours to advance your social skills. It doesn't have to be in a bar or club either. If the only free time you have is during the day on the weekend then run day game in the public places of your city. Hell, do it on your lunch break if you have to during the week. There's a ton of you tube videos for help.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 11:06 PM
1

Books. There's a book for everything.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 11:03 PM
2

I'd say sure but let her know you don't drink anymore. If she says she doesn't want to drink alone then just say we can just meet and chat at the bar or suggest another activity.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 08:27 PM
3

It required the end of the republic and the beginning of the empire for that to happen though. I wonder if the same thing happens to the modern west.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 07:13 PM
1

Grab her close and kiss her passionately. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 08:47 PM
2

It's never a bad time to cold approach.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 08:22 PM
1

AWALT. Women don't give a fuck about your life. They live in a bubble and the only things they can comprehend are things that involve them. The sooner you understand that, the sooner you will understand women. Be a good listener, but realize that the more a girl blathers to you the more she is interested in you. It's a good thing. It's a great opportunity to escalate. If you want to talk about yourself then get male friends.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 07:07 PM
1

The end game is unique to each red pill man. Now that you are awake, figure out what you want it to be.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 07:02 PM
3

Sounds like you want an LTR. Find a quality girl deserving of one, and try it out.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 07:01 PM
6

Get the fuck out of Turkey.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 05:09 PM
1

Say you enjoy hanging out with her. Make it clear that you enjoy her company for more than just sex (which isn't a lie if you genuinely like her), but you aren't ready for commitment at this point in your life. Then, fuck the shit out of her.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 05:07 PM
2

Get off tinder and approach in the real world. Much easier to find quality girls.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 05:03 PM
1

Great to hear man. Whatever you are doing is working. It's tough considering your situation (hard for you to find other girls for the time being), but just try remember that once you start losing more weight there will be endless girls to talk to and fuck and they will be better than this one specific girl. They will be waiting at the finish line for you and will be impressed with your dedication. I've also heard of guys fucking prostitutes when they have very low SMV but I'm not sure you would …
/r/askTRP08/02/17 05:01 PM
2

Ah I see. I've never had to lose that much weight before so others who have may have better advice, but I would say focus 110% of your energy on your body. Fuck talking to other girls. Fuck talking to anyone that you don't need to. You need to monk mode hard on lifting, cardio, and diet. Studying may need to take a backseat if it has to. Exercise and eat healthy like your life depends on it because it literally does. You won't live long being that overweight. Get a personal trainer if you have t…
/r/askTRP07/02/17 11:27 PM
2

Simple, get off monk mode and fuck other women. Easiest way to do this is Tinder/Bumble. Get on that motherfucker, follow the online dating advice here, and set up as many dates as you can handle (while still focusing on increasing SMV). Don't worry about quality just go for quantity to start. You just need to break the oneitis. Once you fuck a few girls from there, get a plate or two spinning. Graduate to in-person day/night approaching and start focusing on quality when you feel your SMV is su…
/r/askTRP07/02/17 10:00 PM
1

Tuna fish with a little bit of light mayo and Steamfresh green vegetables assuming you have a microwave. Eat that 3-5 days per week for dinner and you will lose fat and gain muscle.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 09:55 PM
22

Appears that there were ZERO arrests as multiple people were assaulted on camera. Appalling.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 06:45 PM
3

You know he's fucking with you right?
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 06:39 PM
3

At the UW Milo rally, an attendee wearing a Trump hat shot a violent antifa that was attacking him. Got off scott free for self defense (correctly). I wonder if this is the precedent being set? That we should strap up if we want to go to these things?
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 06:31 PM
37

They've won the culture war. I disagree. A billionaire whose ran beauty pageants, was a regular guest on the Howard Stern Show, starred in Wrestlemania, was recorded jokingly saying he'd grab a chick by the pussy, and whose third and current wife (half his age) modeled nude has just won the presidency. In other words the most non-PC candidate ever beat the most PC candidate ever. These women are going nuts because they are losing.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 11:45 PM
2

Use it as fuel to motivate you in the gym. Literally think of girls saying that to you as you raise that fucking iron.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 03:47 PM
1

About a year after swallowing the pill. It's a gradual process (just like lifting).
/r/askTRP28/11/16 03:43 PM
2

The quality of your current plates. Low quality plates will equate to higher motivation to upgrade and vice versa. I have to admit I've become a bit complacent presently as I'm fairly satisfied with my current plates (I only have enough time for 2 right now) so my motivation to upgrade has been lacking. And yes, once you achieve a high enough abundance that women are starting to take time away from your life goals (and maintaining high SMV), as others have said, the less attractive, crazier, hig…
/r/askTRP22/11/16 07:47 PM
3

Talking about a specific other dude with you or in front of you.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 07:37 PM
1

It will change your prospects not at all. Money is important for your own financial freedom but for girls you want to focus on your body and game.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 07:35 PM
0

RSD Tyler on youtube
/r/askTRP22/11/16 07:31 PM
2

I think it's foolish to think a return to traditional marriages can happen as soon 8 years. If we are lucky and Trump is successful, I think we will only maybe be able to see a revival in the next generation of American youth (20 years or so). The current generation is too far gone.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 04:31 PM
1

Yeah makes sense and the meal after your workout is the most important for replenishment of carbs. I also eat 5 small meals per day which equates to approx. every 3 hours. Try doing that if you think you are having trouble intaking enough cals.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 06:01 PM
2

Your routine is fine (especially for your age) but every 6-8 weeks or so take an entire week off to let the body recover. You should also be eating clean (good healthy, nutrient-loaded carbs like fruits, vegetables, potatoes, etc) and I'd recommend buying some BCAA supplement to aid the muscle recovery. And don't go too extreme with the calorie cutting. I wouldn't go over a 500 calorie deficet personally.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 06:22 PM
2

Let her come to you. I've made the mistake of asking for the 2nd date/meet up too quickly more times than I can count and it ALWAYS leads to them ghosting me even if I fucked them the 1st time. You need to allow her to chase you, especially for girls met on Tinder. If after a week (be vigilant), she still hasn't texted you then you can hit her up.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 06:12 PM
1

Sounds like they are just losing attraction to you but hard to say based on the limited information. It could also be you aren't comforting enough.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 06:07 PM
2

Next. They aren't interested in meeting you, but they'd gladly take your validation and waste your fucking time.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 06:03 PM
1

I think the problem though is that the Liberal camp has much more power and influence to spread their lies through their ownership of most of the mainstream media and all social media channels.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 05:36 PM
7

I have season tickets (mostly sell them) and it's funny because when you go to a game, many of the male spectators are some of the fattest, most pathetic, no-pussy getting betas you'll ever see in your life. Sometimes they are literally almost in tears when the game doesn't go their way. It's rather sad. I wonder if it was always like this.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 08:26 PM
6

"According to Ouest-France around 100 members of far-right 'identitaire' groups travelled to the village to hold the protest. Reports say very few locals joined in." Doesn't seem like it was local people mounting the pushback.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 02:49 AM
5

Always be lifting. You will actually burn more fat after you start lifting then if you don't. Speeds up your metabolism among many other great things. Always be lifting.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 05:06 PM
2

How can you possibly get others to see the glitches in the matrix? Where I'm at (Washington DC), it seems like an impossible task and I'm at risk for even implying anything other than that the blue pill mythology is the ultimate truth. Law 38.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 02:23 PM
3

Maybe embracing Islam in the western world is the right call if we really do want polygamy as a legitimate option. Some of the rules you outline above are already in place in some muslim countries.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 01:05 AM
1

Well I wouldn't say it benefits betas per se. Ideally, it's beneficial to all men. The idea of AF/BB would fade. As NeoreactionSafe says, electing Trump, is a sign that we are symbolically killing the beta state of mind. The hope is that from the top down, Trump will influence the next generation of men to be more masculine which will in turn cause women to be more feminine. Again, hopefully, American families would look more like the 1960s/1970s before AF/BB and divorce rape was an optimal stra…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 09:03 PM
3

Maybe if your sole goal is to fuck as many women as possible, but he's probably a good first step to destroy divorce culture and making marriage/raising a family advantageous for men again.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 04:51 PM
4

It could be argued that the women get hotter as well. More feminine and less fat.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 04:46 PM
7

Women's suffrage - worst thing to happen to Western Civilization.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 10:11 PM
9

Is it possible Trump will inspire the next generation of men to not be so pussified? Maybe the new Trump-conservatives start to fight back in the culture wars. Start putting up a fucking fight against the liberals in Media, Hollywood, and Academia. Bring masculine energy and role models back into the mainstream for young boys. That's my hope...
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 07:17 PM
3

Your commentary couldn't be more wrong. This particular woman doesn't want it all, she just wants a man with masculine traits that have the balls to approach her confidently. If you have a problem doing that, you haven't swallowed the pill. Coming from Alaska, she was used to that. You probably aren't going to find more masculine men in America than the ones living in the frontier in Alaska. Some of these guys literally hunt for all their food. It was probably shocking for her to be around such …
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 03:49 PM
2

Next her immediately.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 06:41 PM
3

where are you getting that 30 million number from?
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 09:09 PM
2

Excellent advice. Going to try that next time.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 05:49 PM
1

In my experience, it's easier to ONS on Tinder but quality is going to be sacrificed relative to in-person approaching. I don't know your SMV, but personally, I could fuck HB7s fairly routinely when I was Tinder, but I had trouble even meeting up with anything above that, let alone fucking them. I've had much, much, better success going after the higher caliber HB8s+ in person (usually won't bang them same day/night however, most require at least one subsequent meet). That's basically the reason…
/r/askTRP25/10/16 07:36 PM
2

Whatever you feel like doing. Don't ever feel obligated to do anything with a girl you don't want to. If you just want to smash then invite her over and do that. If you want to go out somewhere to eat then do that as well. And don't ever ask her what she want to do. Remember she wants to be led. Once a girl is attracted to you sexually, she will just enjoy being with you. As far as paying for stuff for girls, that's a personal preference and depends on your financial situation. Personally, I enj…
/r/askTRP24/10/16 07:59 PM
1

A) wtf is a beer dinner? B) I always avoid telling prospects (girls I havent fucked yet) about other girls I'm dating/hanging out with. Maybe that's the wrong strategy.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 06:12 PM
2

I'm concerned with what happens to the Alt Right movement in the case of a Hillary win.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 03:46 PM
1

Internailze an IDGAF what other people think mentatlity as much as possible. As far as talking to people (social skills), it's a skill that requires practice just like anything else. The more conversations you have with people, the better you will get.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 07:27 PM
2

Part of me (skeptically) thinks the decline and collapse is inevitable as it was for the Roman Empire. And that We are too far gone for the infection to be completely reversed. It's going to kill us at some point. TRP is just prolonging that from happening eventually. maybe it's an inherent flaw in Western Civilization, a glitch in the matrix that causes it to crash and restart every 1500 years or so. I really hope I'm wrong.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 09:08 PM
1

Looking forward to it.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 03:34 PM
1

Going to WA in January, maybe I shouldn't come back.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 05:58 PM
1

Not you personally I meant 'you' in general as a guy doing the approaching, but yeah I get the point.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 11:05 PM
2

Fuck that I'm going to Australia in January and Florida at least 3-4 times this winter.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 06:22 PM
1

That's a good one.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 04:57 PM
1

Some good ideas. I'm never been in a comical mood when I'm lifting since I'm trying to be in the zone and everyone else is too but I suppose some light joking around might work.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 04:22 PM
1

What will you say when you introduce yourself? Hey what's up...my name is so and so...how long have you been coming here? That kind of shit?
/r/askTRP04/10/16 04:20 PM
1

Was just trying brainstorming openers (don't really care what their actual advice is). I always thought giving unsolicited advice to girls in the gym would be a turn off. I suppose not though assuming your body shows you know what you're talking about like AvatarStinky?
/r/askTRP04/10/16 04:16 PM
3

Interesting advice. I don't compete and my body is not championship level like yours but I usually do have one of the better physiques in the gyms I go to (5'9 165 7-8 bf%) even though I'm not that big. I lift 6 days a week for around 1.5-2 hours a day so I'm definitely proud of what I've built that last few years. I always thought giving advice to girls at the gym would be a doushy move that would be met with disgust by most hot girls so I've never tried it, but I suppose they might be interest…
/r/askTRP04/10/16 04:11 PM
11

Best comment I've ever seen on red pill.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 05:33 PM
3

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/39qnwd/how_to_talk_to_everyone_you_see/ You just need more reps. It's like golf. The more you practice the better you get. Talk to as many people as you can. One thing I'd stress is to try not to talk about yourself too much. Ask questions about the other person and their interests. All people, men or women, LOVE to talk about themselves. Drink water during long conversation.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 05:58 PM
7

Don't overthink it. Meet up with her and bang her. Use the minimum amount of words possible via text to accomplish that.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 05:52 PM
-1

Texting less does not cause you to lose girls. It saves you from wasting time on girls you weren't going to fuck anyway and only want validation. If you need to text more to "game" her you need to work more on your in person game. If a girl really likes you, she will be blowing your phone up, not the other way around.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 09:32 PM
1

rsdtyler on youtube helped me
/r/askTRP01/09/16 05:53 PM
3

I felt really bad when I broke up with my girlfriend and then she found another guy literally the week after. They've been together for 2 years now. Unless she's some horribly obese ogre, she WILL find someone else, move on, and forget about you. Women are programmed to do that.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 10:21 PM
1

Identify and eliminate inefficient/unproductive use of your time. For me, I no longer watch any tv and use that time to go to the gym instead.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 10:13 PM
1

I've never done it myself, but my buddy did it by just introducing them to each other at a bar over a few drinks then proceeded from there.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 10:10 PM
1

You can have a nuclear family with millions of other girls exactly like your girlfriend. She is not a unicorn. If you are not ready for that now, staying with her just because you might want that years down the road is ridiculously stupid. Break up with her and go fuck other girls dude. Spin plates. See what your options are. You'll have a lot of fun in the process. You can always come back to her later in the unlikely event that you don't find someone better. If you are reading and internalizin…
/r/askTRP31/08/16 08:35 PM
1

It's ok. It's all part of the process of swallowing the red pill. Learn from your mistakes so you don't make them again next time. You'll have more chances with more women.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 08:28 PM
1

Dude you need to man up and grab her for a kiss. If she rejects, NEXT.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 06:23 PM
2

Snapchat is perfect for this. You want her snapping you more than you snap her to maintain the attraction. 3-2 ratio bro.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 06:21 PM
1

Break up with her. Trust me, you'll be a lot happier for it.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 06:18 PM
1

I don't do it always but some days when I feel especially fresh and have the time. The leg workout is usually half of my usual leg workout (quads or hams). Once you get to a certain level of fitness, it's not that difficult. I love to lift and I'm passionate about it, so motivation is never a problem for me. To be honest, the hardest part of a dual split like that is finding the time in the day to eat enough to sustain those workouts.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 04:04 PM
2

No its not bad as some people on here may have you think. They are probably just haters. There are 0 reasons why its bad assuming you are an advanced enough lifter and know what you're doing. You're not going to die. A lower body/upper body 2-a-day is a common bodybuilding split. I would, however, stay away from double upper body splits with the exception of arms. I do 2-a-days when I have time (I'm not on juice and weight 160) and it has helped me bring my physique to the next level. Let your b…
/r/askTRP21/07/16 06:28 PM
5

This. Personally, I love playing basketball. I can go to any outdoor court in any city and meet people that love doing the same.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 06:44 PM
1

Also a comp engineer, what do you do specifically? Software consulting? I'm interested in your specific career path.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 07:26 PM
1

Is there ever a scenario where you should verbally set boundaries with a woman? Why can't those 2 options always be used regardless of how alpha/beta you are?
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 03:53 PM
1

AF/BB. Women have a dual mating strategy. They want Alphas to fuck and then later betas for resources. The Red Pill aware man strives to be the former.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 08:16 PM
1

You care. You give a fuck. You must learn to not give a fuck about anyone but yourself.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 08:12 PM
4

Only problem with that method, when I used to online date, was the very real chance of being catfished. A lot harder to bail when the chick comes to your place instead of meeting at the bar. Also, I tend to wonder, if a girl is coming over a random dude's house, who she's only met online, to fuck, how often has she done that before? Has she fucked 100 guys that way? Are her standards absurdly low that she's fine rolling the dice like that? One of the many reasons I only exclusively date from rea…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 09:25 PM
3

Herpes isn't that big of deal as the stigma implies. Like 60% of the population or something has simplex I and many of those people with healthy immune systems don't even have outbreaks or any symptoms. Unless there's visible nastiness on someones lips or genitals, who cares.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 09:16 PM
8

There's also the pretty strong rumor that Tiger was fucking chubby beta golfer Jason Dufner's HOT ass wife (and cheating on Vonn), which in turn caused her to divorce rape Dufner. Assuming it's true, if that's not AF/BB I don't know what is. Tiger is the fucking man. http://thebiglead.com/2015/07/01/tiger-woods-cheated-lindsey-vonn-amanda-dufner-jason-dufner/ Pics of Amanda Dufner who is a legit 10 at the bottom.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 04:17 PM
2

Another thing to keep in mind is if you go several weeks or months without fapping or sex, your standards will start to drop considerably and even chubbers are going to start to look fuckable. Not necessarily a bad thing though if you're in need of a slump buster.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 03:31 PM
2

Instead of bringing your face close to hers, bring hers close to yours. My move is to pull them close to me by the hips so she's facing me close and then go in for the kiss. Almost never get rejected that way by a girl who is attracted to me. I will add that if any girl ever rejects my kiss it's an instant hard next. Either she isn't attracted or she has absurdly high ASD (aka prude), neither of which I want to be a part of.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 06:01 PM
3

Keep in mind that if you are living with the mother, you can still be subject to divorce law according to common-law marriage depending on the state you live in. From my understanding, those laws can vary quite a bit.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 05:54 PM
3

To piggyback on what other commenters have said, NoPorn is a must. NoFap, however, depends on personal preference. For me, if I have at least one plate (and thus have access to regular sex) I go NoFap. It allows me to fuck my plate(s) better. If I have no plates, I'll try to only fap once per week. This allows me to maintain my aggressiveness in approaching girls but also minimize neediness (aka desperation) by busting that one nut. Any more or less than that then I'll lose the right combination…
/r/askTRP29/06/16 05:43 PM
1

rsdtyler on youtube has helped me. He's fairly red pill with his approach.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 05:33 PM
2

From the sidebar - Shit Tests 101: "You simply need to be firm and treat her like a father would to their child who's being disrespectful. You don't get angry, you just call her on the behavior and let her know clearly that you won't stand for it. In a way this is almost a type of pressure flip. You're taking her negative energy and sliding past it and putting the onus on her to react by changing her approach to the topic. For example: Her: Nag nag nag. You: That is disrespectful and I will not …
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 04:47 PM
1

hard next and wake the fuck up
/r/askTRP27/06/16 07:10 PM
3

I'm having trouble understanding how globalism has anything to do with sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 04:22 PM
2

Women like assholes.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 03:48 PM
1

Are they from Online/Tinder? Ghosting is much more common when you date online. These girls (even the mediocre ones) are getting hit up by 100s of dudes daily who are too pussy to approach IRL. One of the many reasons I got off of it. Also, are you being too needy after the fact? You shouldn't text them too much after the date, especially if you had sex. Let them come to you. As far as holding hands, I wouldn't do that unless you've already kissed/made out with her first.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 03:43 PM
1

There is something to be said about that, however it's hard to make a blanket statement over an entire city though. You maybe are just going to the wrong places. I prefer to view it on the micro-level at different bars. I live in the DC area and there are certain bars/clubs where the girls are all 8s or 9s but unless you are repping a 2 plate bench (I don't) the male competition is just going to be too great to overcome unless you have highly advanced level game. On the other hand, there are bar…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 05:46 PM
1

Don't do strong lifts. Break up your lifting into a traditional bodybuilding split with a different body part for each day. That way your body will have adequate time to recover. For example I use the following: Monday/Thurs - Chest/Back, Tues/Fri - Shoulders/Arms, Wed/Sat - Legs, Sun - Rest This allows me at least 2 days of recovery after every part is hit.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 02:21 PM
1

Yes you will continue to improve don't worry. Human social communication is actually incredibly complex and like anything else requires experience and practice. It will be a gradual process. Don't give up and keep trying. Look back at failed interactions and analyze where it went wrong and where you can improve specifically. Try to befriend guys who have alpha-like social skills (i.e. game) and hang out with them. Pay close attention to what they say and how they say it. Learn from them. You wil…
/r/askTRP16/06/16 09:03 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CAyZajdTGTU
/r/askTRP16/06/16 08:57 PM
3

Is your main girl much hotter than the other girls? If so, I'm not sure that is oneitis. Once your dick tastes some hot ass it's hard to go back to less attractive females.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 08:56 PM
10

Get a new job or take less classes. Nothing is more important than your health. A good night's sleep is the foundation of a healthy mind and body. You're going to end up dozing off driving and killing yourself. You can't burn the candle on both ends.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 08:51 PM
1

Yeah I was thinking the same thing. Pressure flip it around to her.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 08:47 PM
1

If you are over 21 and want to fuck, don't get coffee. Get adult beverages with her on an evening.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 06:54 PM
1

god damn that was enlightening
/r/askTRP14/06/16 06:50 PM
1

This. I won't pursue any girl further who does not have sex with me on the 1st date. I know she's had sex on a 1st date before so I refuse to enter the relationship already knowing I'm not good enough as someone she's had in the past. Instant soft next.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 03:24 PM
1

Get out approaching in real life OP. Much higher quality of women to be had out there. Harder than online but learn to game and you're fine. I just made the switch from exclusively online to exclusively in person and couldn't be happier now that I have some decent game. Younger, hotter, and less desperate/damaged than the online hoes.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 03:20 PM
1

I suppose this is case and point why we are told to avoid wall-approaching women.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 03:11 PM
1

40%/40%/20% p-c-f macro split
/r/askTRP09/06/16 05:40 PM
1

"What do you do?" is the perfect opportunity to just say the most outlandish shit you can possibly think of in person or online. Right now I'm a software engineer for a VR Porn startup.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 03:48 PM
2

All valid points although I wouldn't say it's pointless. For me online was good for easy fucks from lower quality chicks (I was on it for almost a year as I learned trp). Once I graduated to exclusively in-person approaching women, I realized the quality women are not meeting guys online. They don't need to. Online served its purpose as training wheels for me and now I don't need it. That's just my particular experience though.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 03:29 PM
1

How do you respond to "Are you sleeping with other women?" Impossible to neither confirm nor deny that one.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 06:45 PM
1

What are some examples of these "tells"?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 06:42 PM
1

will be quicker to seek out resources Financial resources?
/r/askTRP08/06/16 05:19 PM
1

You can and you will if you follow the guidelines set forth here. It will be a hard and slow process but rewarding once you realize you can do it.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 04:06 PM
1

It's not a big deal as long as you are lifting. Once you start to make substantial progress you will love the way you look and feel and there will be no going back.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 04:01 PM
1

But I also want to just travel around the world, meet more girls and live as a bachelor until I find someone really worth marrying. Basically do exactly what you said. 30s are a great age for a man (I'm 31). This is where your SMV will tend to peak as you become established in your career and are still near your physical prime if you maintain your body right. Take advantage of that while you can by not rushing into a LTR. Perfect time to travel as you mentioned. Read everything in the sidebar an…
/r/askTRP07/06/16 09:02 PM
2

Trying to understand what might cause this to happen in such an nightmarish way. I understand the blue pill behavior was a major contributing factor it but is this an example of what might happen if we marry post wall women? Or is her age not really relevant in terms of why this happened?
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 09:46 PM
2

Approach and start conversations with strangers. Men, women, fat, skinny, ugly, hot, it doesn't matter. Social skills are a good thing to work on. Go somewhere or do something that involves some human interaction.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 08:12 PM
7

I think you answered your own question.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 06:59 PM
1

If you follow the theory here, you'll come to realize that pussy is a result of investing in yourself (physically, mentally, financially, etc) and not in women. Also, there will be nice bonuses in addition to just sex. Having a plate cook or bring food to you for instance.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 06:51 PM
2

Team sports. You literally must interact with other humans if you want to play. Personally, I play league softball and pick up basketball. I've met many friends through both activities.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 06:42 PM
3

This. I've been on the wrong end of it so so many times with girls I really liked and am still trying to correct my behavior in this area. The more you show them that you don't care if you lose them, the more they become attracted to you. Logically, it makes no sense but women make no sense. Those are just rules we need to play by in this beta-feminized world. We have to embrace it. Just remember if you lose a really cool girl, there are plenty just like her or better right around the corner.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 09:12 PM
1

"how are you" is my go to You do need to realize most of the time your first message will not elicit a response regardless of what you say though. Welcome to online dating. One other reason to never stop approaching in real life. Also, try Bumble. The girl has to message you first so it eliminates this issue completely.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 09:01 PM
2

Lift more. Up it to 4 or 5 or 6 days per week if time permits. Use the negative depression you are feeling (I've had it) and try to channel it into the gym. Approach. Approach. Approach. You are not wasting your time with woman. Like anything approaching and talking to women takes practice and repetition that no amount of reading can replace. Every rejection makes you better next time. I worked on negging specifically and that helped me get over a hump in this area. Try to analyze specifically w…
/r/askTRP03/06/16 08:49 PM
2

Your words should imply that you couldn't care less if you get laid or not by that particular female. Your actions SHOULD imply that you want sex from her aka kino and escalation.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 08:40 PM
1

Thanks makes sense. You are implying though that it is ok to ask for a dinner date before fucking them however?
/r/askTRP03/06/16 08:34 PM
4

How do you handle her cock blocking friends?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 04:06 PM
1

Reschedule for logistics that are ideal to you. You're a busy man and you don't have time to waste on anything less. If any girl refuses logistics that you pick (within reason), next them. Men lead, women follow.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 07:28 PM
1

Ask yourself this and be honest. How physically attracted are you to her? If the answer is not a lot, then you are only setting yourself up for future problems by staying in a LTR with this woman. Remember attraction is not negotiable and that goes for both sexes.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 07:17 PM
1

Yes. You are over analyzing the text game too much before you've even met. You've got to get her into the real world by setting up a date asap.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 07:09 PM
1

lift
/r/askTRP26/05/16 09:04 PM
2

Actually no. I get all kinds of messages from girls. Varying from simple hi how's your weekend going? to questions about some of my pictures to even long winded cheesy pick up lines. It's interesting because it puts you sort of in the girl's perspective initially. The main reason I like it is because the girl's who don't message me get automatically unmatched after 24 hours so I don't have nearly as many unresponsive dead matches as I do in Tinder so it just ends up being easier to manage. note:…
/r/askTRP26/05/16 03:21 PM
2

I like Bumble better nowadays. Better features and unlimited swipes.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 10:24 PM
0

One of my favorite plates, who I'm considering for a LTR, is 30 and quite attractive. She's was in a LTR for 6 years during most of her 20s (keeping her n-count low), and decided to break it off herself for reasoning that seems to be the guy became a neckbeard slob. No real major red flags except her age (I'm 31). I'm wondering if this is maybe a rare case where age can be overlooked or I'm just being foolish.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 06:18 PM
12

DO NOT wait until the end of any date to kiss a woman for the first time. Women want to be pleasantly surprised when you grab them and pull them close for a kiss. It's very exciting to them when they aren't expecting it. Half-way through the first date is ideal. You'll most likely get rejected if you wait until of end of the date every time. It screams beta and doesn't turn them on. They want a man who takes charge of what he wants and doesn't wait for it. My Advice: Meet her for the next date a…
/r/askTRP24/05/16 04:07 PM
1

Just think of food, as OP has pointed out. Foods with added processed sugar is just playing to the addiction for our taste of sweetness. Likewise, fatty foods with processed oils. It's an addiction that can have negative consequences in your life just like anything else.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 03:43 PM
2

10 is just an arbitrary number I chose. It can be any number. Try for 1. Then 2. Then 3. Challenge yourself and turn it into a game. Make being rejected actually your expected outcome, only then will you no longer fear it. EVERYONE who approaches consistently, regardless of SMV, has or will be rejected 100 times over, if not 1000. It's part of being a man.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 07:06 PM
1

This. One of the benefits of lifting, among many other things, is it raises your testosterone levels. Testosterone is what gives men that "hard" look you seem to be after. It increases bone density and muscle mass which takes time. Keep lifting heavy brother and the results will come.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 06:45 PM
2

If you're with a friend, see who can be the first one to get 10 or 15 rejections. If you're alone, challenge yourself to get 10 rejections in the next hour. If you win, congratulations you have officially beaten approach anxiety. My problem is whenever I play that game, I end up losing and getting laid halfway through.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 06:34 PM
2

Having trouble with the whole "plating falling into place" part after I fuck them once. I'm maybe coming on too strong after that having already thought I hooked the fish? Could you go into more detail? Do you basically just not initiate anything after the first sexual encounter and let them chase you from that point on?
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 05:30 PM
0

low added sugar, low fat diet is what you want
/r/askTRP03/05/16 08:03 PM
2

A woman with a high-paying job would have little incentive to baby trap wouldn't she?
/r/askTRP22/04/16 08:37 PM
3

In terms of my general mood and also my motivation to open/approach and talk to women. If it's longer than a week, my mood is generally more irritable and aggitated and, as the commenter above mentioned, I'm also more desperate/needy with women. I'll check my phone more often, text them more frequently, constantly on tinder, etc. I also notice that my standards will lower. I'll be more willing to approach sub-par women in bars and so on. All bad things for me. On the other hand, if I'm masturbat…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 07:41 PM
2

This. Milage varies with nofap so see what works for you. Personally, I get the best results if I masterbate without porn once per week (assuming I haven't had sex that given week).
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 09:20 PM
2

It's almost not even worth it.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 09:14 PM
1

You said it yourself, treat the gym as your stress relief. Use that built up tension and go pray to the iron temple. It's beneficial on so many levels. I mediate between sets. Helping the mind and the body. If you're worried about hurting yourself, learn correct form, lift lighter, and stop being a pussy. You won't get hurt with proper form and suitable weight to maintain it. If you are hurt, do cardio or even just walk on a treadmill. If you don't know what to do with yourself, go to the fuckin…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 03:41 PM
2

I struggle with that too. I would like to think that some girls that give it up easy to me are only doing that because I'm alpha as fuck and they are so increbibly attracted to me that they can't hold out. However, less alpha/attractive guys have to wait x amount of dates. To me that's ideal. I want a girl that is so insanely attracted to me over other guys from the start that she can't help herself, not one who has to decide over several dates if she wants to fuck me or not. Yet, there's no way…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 06:00 PM
1

Once a week I'd say is pretty standard for a casual/plate relationship (with a girl who lives in your immediate area). Anything more and you may risk giving off LTR vibes. Anything less and you may risk her losing interest.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 10:09 PM
1

Sounds like she's not interested, if she was she'd be able to find time for you in any given week.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 05:30 PM
1

All girls do this. Some more than others. It's ASD and a shit test rolled into one. Plus she's giving herself an out if the date doesn't go well. Just ignore it, continue on with the date as if she never said it, and don't reference it again. Judge her by her actions, not by her words. If she's enjoying herself with you she will stay. If she constantly wants to leave prematurely at the end of your dates, take it for what it is, she doesn't want to be with you any longer.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 05:28 PM
5

Nope never experienced anything like that. In fact, sex usually results immediately after I utter that phrase. I'm guessing it's because their hamster has now rationalised I'm not using them for sex, therefore its fine to have sex with me again.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 12:39 AM
9

I've had good success defusing situations like this with one simple line (usually in person) "I enjoy spending time with you, even when we aren't having sex." It's simple, honest, and doesn't commit you to anything more than what you're already doing (unless she's strictly only a booty call). It's really a response to a comfort test, not a shit test. All the waiting to reply nonsense you had to use may have been prevented with that. Having said that, great example of less is more text game thoug…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 08:18 PM
1

What about doing laundry (I wash it/she folds it)?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 05:55 PM
1

Software Developer here, how'd you get in contact with the online casinos initially?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 04:18 PM
1

Good stuff. My game drastically improves after a few drinks, but I've definitely fallen victim to quick rising BAC and nullified quite a few successful approaches I've had. Nice to know the math behind it.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 06:13 PM
1

Take a shot or 2 before the date. Used to do that with my Tinder dates. Always killed any anxiety I had from meeting them the first time. Now I don't even need to do that.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 04:42 PM
1

Several phone sex things ensued which was funny, and then we scheduled to meet. This is exactly why I try to minimize messaging/texting before the first meet up on Tinder. There's always a chance they'll look much different then their pictures in real life, so I want to keep investment in them to a minimum before then.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 10:31 PM
4

Start by hitting the gym hard, getting a good nights sleep every night, focusing on your career, and maybe finding an interesting hobby. The goal is self-improvement and confidence building during this phase. Identify areas of your life that you want to improve (physique, money, health, playing guitar, etc) and do something about it. Build a plan of action and make it routine, each and every day. Let nothing stand in your way.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 08:08 PM
4

"Never. Don't need to."
/r/askTRP18/01/16 08:01 PM
4

Arnold called it the the "Respect of size".
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 05:18 PM
2

So basically this is the case to stay lean year round.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 05:15 PM
5

Meet women, have children, and just accept that you'll be paying child support and fighting with the mother for the rest of your life who will almost always make access to your children uncomfortable at best, impossible at worst. As her ex, you will be seen as basically evil and this will be transferred to the children. Seems like the best of many bad options if you REALLY want kids. This is what many professional athletes do and maybe they are on to something. If you can keep the relationship c…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 09:21 PM
2

I wonder if NFL players got it right. If you want kids, father them out of wedlock because the child support will be cheaper than the divorce (assuming you can afford it). Maybe they are on to something?
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 09:17 PM
0

Fine China makes Katsudon (my favorite). She comes over and we eat. Lucy texts and asks if I’m available. Om: no Why in the world would you even respond to that text? When a girls asks if I'm busy and I am, they get a text the next day stating that. I thought that was basic RP.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 05:14 PM
3

I'm rubbing her pussy through her pants (crotch is soaking wet) and she's stroking my dick through my sweats (I'm not wearing underwear). Finally the cold is unbearable and we part ways. Seems like you had a shot at slamming it out right then and there. Should have got her inside and went for it man. Perhaps not following through turned her off a bit I don't know.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 05:46 PM
4

Was never a fan of the whole bulking/cutting process. I'm sure there are advantages but the more time you need to cut fat, the more muscle you are going to lose in the process anyway. I've made considerable gains in the last 2 years while simultaneously staying lean by lifting hard and eating smart 12 months a year. Gaining muscle and losing fat is not mutually exclusive. The macro split that has consistently worked for me is high protein, low fat, carbs based on my activity level. I may play wi…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 10:54 PM
6

This is not the fastest route I grant you, but you will continue to lift well this way. If you can lift well during the cut phase why not just start out with the cut? I always thought that you'd be a bit lethargic in workouts during a cut (from the decrease in carbs), but it's ok because of the size gained during the bulk phase.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 09:39 PM
1

Call me stupid but I would just have a hard time resorting to lies like this in order to get pussy. It's almost like stealing, even if I knew I could steal that item and not get caught, as an honest man it makes me feel good to know I can purchase it with my hard earned money.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/15 07:47 PM
1

The motioning over after eye contact trick works great for me too. Funny how women can be lead by strangers without even using words. They almost always come over and I may or may not blow it based on the game I run afterwards. Now I know a good follow up.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 04:59 PM
1

Try to find productive SMV-increasing hobbies/activities that involve other people. For me I love to play sports for my cardio - basketball, football, softball, it doesn't matter really as long as I'm active. The added benefit is I've met alot of friends from doing it.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 05:33 PM
3

I think a man's definition is a bit different than a woman's definition of "chemistry". Some girls get along really well with you but have no desire to fuck you. From their perspective, you're a nice guy but there is no "chemistry", hence the need for this post.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 12:23 AM
6

I've also heard it called "a spark" by women.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 04:19 PM
4

How'd you get her home on a first date? I struggle with that.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 06:35 PM
1

Once you get to a certain level of fitness, a trainer becomes unnecessary and can even be a hinderance to your development. Nobody knows your body like you do. If you need to learn proper technique for certain exercises (deadlift for example), you can always hire them for a single session and say I want to learn know how to do exercise x,y,z.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 09:57 PM
2

Maybe try making the first interaction with her last a bit longer. She may not be comfortable meeting you out after only talking with you for 10 minutes. Think of the first time meeting as already a first date. If it's going well, keep it going. Maybe suggest a coffee or drink right then and there. If either of you have to be on your way, then go with the # close. I think the whole idea of trp text game is that you've already built up enough rapport/comfort in person with them that doing so in t…
/r/askTRP16/11/15 05:22 PM
1

One thing that really helped me get over first date anxiety was taking 2 shots before every first date (especially tinder). Jump starts me into that IDGAF mentality.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 05:09 PM
1

Plus I'm a 2 session-minimum man myself. Jerking off diminishes the ability to do that. Even for the minute men out there, so what. Just wait 10 minutes and go at it again for longer.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 05:04 PM
3

Which photo do you have it as? Been working for me as well as my 2nd to last photo. I feel like maybe it's less douchy that way? Kind of curious though if moving it to my 1st or 2nd would increase/descrease my matches though.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 04:57 PM
1

If you're injuring yourself with your workout I'd say that's a sign of overtraining.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 07:27 PM
1

As others have mentioned, the goal is to feel better about yourself. Whatever looks the best to YOU and makes YOU feel the most confident is what you should strive for. Everyone is unique in that regard.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 07:19 PM
1

I never had a girl straight up no-show for a date with me that was previously confirmed. If they flake, they clearly let me know with some long ass text explaining why they can't come (which I'm sure is bs) a few hours before. That's just my experience.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 06:44 PM
1

I don't even think of them as real people anymore actually. They are more like irrational, passive beings that are kind of just there to be seduced/acquired by men. There's millions of them and they are all exactly the same.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 06:36 PM
2

All depends on your priorities. I would make a list of priorities in your life and stick to it. For me, my work and the gym are my highest priorities in my life right now. No amount of pussy will cause me to sacrifice either. I will switch my workouts sometimes to the morning so I can meet a tinder hoe in the evening, but flat out missing the gym for some puss is just not going to happen with me.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 06:24 PM
5

Yeah I find having a bit of a conversation first is a good way to judge interest before asking for the meet up. I'll usually ask a few questions and just look at how long her responses are. If she's giving me one word answers, then I'll just unmatch her since her interest level is not very high and she'd probably flake anyway. If she's sending me walls of text then I know it's game time. Not sure if this approach actually saves more time in the long run over OP's approach though.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 04:39 PM
5

Dude youre the BB to her AF...take the red pill and break up with the hoe before you get divorce raped.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 05:54 PM
6

Too be honest I have no problem paying for a girl I'm fucking. It's paying for a girl I'm not fucking is what I have a problem with.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 08:16 PM
1

They are looking at her because she's probably attractive and they are heterosexual males. As long as they aren't openly hitting on her right in front of you, you should be flattered dude.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 06:13 PM
1

Women don't care about money until they are approaching the wall.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 06:08 PM
1

You probably want to iso your target. If she's not willing to do that she's not into you.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 06:05 PM
1

Meh you might be right but there's no studies to back up that claim so its just a theory at this point.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 04:54 PM
0

Ok so I just eat less total food then he did since I'm smaller. Doesn't change the ratios at all.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 09:08 PM
7

Wow never knew that. Probably why high-protein diets are correlated with fat loss as well as gaining muscle mass. From https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Muscle_hypertrophy#Protein_synthesis: Di Pasquale (2008), citing recent studies, recommends a minimum protein intake of 2.2 g/kg "for anyone involved in competitive or intense recreational sports who wants to maximize lean body mass but does not wish to gain weight. However athletes involved in strength events (..) may need even more to maximize bod…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 07:16 PM
1

Arnold used 1g protein/lb so I'm going with it to the grave.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 07:09 PM
1

There's a million girls hotter and better then her that are waiting to be fucked by you.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 06:07 PM
0

That doesn't make sense because he would have lost weight not gained weight if that was the case.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 02:48 PM
1

Wrong. People who have very little muscle are precisely the ones who should expect this transformation assuming they are on an intense enough lifting program. Muscle growth follows an exponential decay type model (rapid increase, then leveling off to an upper limit).
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 08:10 PM
1

This is totally possible for someone who hadn't lifted in 5 years, especially for the intensity that he described. The largest gains are always easiest in the beginning when you have very little muscle to start out with. It's an exponential decay model (rapid increase then leveling off). The human body is actually pretty amazing at adaptation to new stimuli. I'm fairly certain that when I first started lifting in high school that I put on 10-15 pounds of muscle in about 6 months on what was a se…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 07:56 PM
1

All good stuff thank you. Definitely going to wait 3-5 days now unless I know for sure it went really well (aka went back to their or my place) and reduce fluff to simply how are you/what are you up to.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 06:57 PM
1

Going to try that for girls I meet at the bar for sure.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 06:52 PM
1

Yes I like that response better good call. As far as messing up in text, my follow up texts are usually just simply a fluff question to even see if they respond back (to which some of them don't) followed by simple logistical texts to set up the 2nd date. It's not alot. At that point, they either don't respond back or give me a flakey answer like "I'm busy this week so I'll try" etc. where I know I'm cooked and basically have no shot. I was texting them 1-2 days after the 1st date so I thought m…
/r/askTRP17/08/15 05:51 PM
1

Well they just start saying they are having a good time and "we should go do xyz next". They were actually good ideas and I usually say "yeah sure we'll figure it out". Does that constitute as them leading? What should I be saying in response? No let's do this instead?
/r/askTRP17/08/15 05:13 PM
1

The funny thing is a few of them have actually discussed exactly what they wanted to do with me for the 2nd date at the end of the 1st to which I agreed, but still ended up non-responsive afterwards to my follow up texts. Those were the biggest head scratchers.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 05:00 PM
1

You are right and I'm definitely escalating. As I've become more and more red pill most of my 1st dates involve making out now (where I can tell the girl is VERY into it), yet I still can't get them out on a 2nd date which was the same result back when I was beta and would never escalate at all. Hence my confusion.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 04:53 PM
2

What would be the proper amount of time to contact her again in that scenario?
/r/askTRP17/08/15 03:31 PM
2

Really good stuff. Going to try it. Should 2nd date always be drinks (again) and not dinner?
/r/askTRP17/08/15 03:08 PM
3

Yeah I think this is one thing I'm doing wrong. I def seem to be letting it go on a bit long.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 03:05 PM
1

High protein-low everything else
/r/askTRP03/08/15 06:00 PM
10

I thought this was about how to actually approach women at the gym. I've yet to see an official red pill endorsed method of doing this. Some of the hottest women I see in my day to day life are in the gym but I have no idea how to approach them without coming off creepy/annoying as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 06:32 PM
1

Breakups are always tough and there's no easy to do it, but you'll be surprised how quickly she'll get over you and be with another dude. You aren't as special to her as you think.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 03:14 PM
1

Why are dates so important for weddings? I always thought weddings are supposed to be good places for single people to meet (even though this particular girl isn't single).
/r/askTRP13/07/15 02:55 PM
1

Kind of interested on how you approach in the gym. Any tips?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 02:58 PM
1

How old are you if I may ask?
/r/seduction02/07/15 06:05 PM
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Dude sounds like you have oneitis. You losing sexual interest in her is a major red flag. You are young so break up with her and go smash other girls before she cheats on you.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 08:03 PM
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How much kino are you doing on these dates before you invite her back?
/r/seduction30/06/15 09:18 PM
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Wow I'm the opposite. I'm newly unplugged and fresh off a LTR but I've thankfully been lifting hard the last year or so and all my pics reflect it. I get so many matches I don't know what to do with them but I'm so fucking beta right now that I have yet to even get a make out on a Tinder first date. Edit: Lifting really does make a huge difference. Just look at your matches pre/post swollness and it's no secret what women are attracted to physically.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 03:32 PM
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How old are you if I may ask? Just got out of a 5 year LTR as well but I'm 30 now which kind of sucks.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 03:39 PM
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