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Rant/Ventingswallowthisthrowaway/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 01:39 PM
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Ask Red Pillswallowthisthrowaway/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 10:52 AM
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Rant/Ventingswallowthisthrowaway/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 07:07 PM
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swallowthisthrowaway/r/askTRP09/02/17 01:00 PM
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Red Pill Theoryswallowthisthrowaway/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 02:12 PM
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swallowthisthrowaway/r/askTRP15/07/14 01:59 AM
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Red Pill Exampleswallowthisthrowaway/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 11:04 PM
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Ask Red Pillswallowthisthrowaway/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 08:10 PM
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Understood, thanks.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 09:44 PM
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Got it, thank you.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 09:44 PM
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The post doesn't quite answer my question. How does female behaviour change in response to too much dread? I rarely actively create dread, I have a lot of passive dread due to my high status in my social circles. A plate that I was vetting for an LTR a while back fell off because she felt that she was easily replaceable and just one of many girls. Obviously this is a bit overkill on the dread, so how does one recognise when there is too much and sprinkle comfort in?
/r/askTRP15/05/20 02:53 PM
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Ah my bad I saw posted 55 minutes ago and assumed it had been reposted, never saw the 2016 marker on the top right.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 08:08 AM
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This post got posted years ago and it got linked to TRP. I can't believe it's been copied word for word and reposted again.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 05:14 PM
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Tell me about it man it's hard to have patience when most don't even read the full post and just give a stock answer as a reply
/r/askTRP19/07/19 08:00 PM
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I still have some mutual friends on social media and that's how I saw pics, however thanks for the insightful comment. How do I go about breaking this altar of love then?
/r/askTRP19/07/19 03:52 PM
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Maybe your reading comprehension is lacking but here I will give a timeline. Nov 2017 break up Dec 2017 back together Jan 2018 break up April 2018 fuck a few times AFTER this she got a boyfriend. April 2018 was last time I saw her. Moreover, there is a subconcious pedestelisation I will agree there, but how do you recommend I fix that? The usual cure is no contact and spin plates and that hasn't fixed it.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 01:11 PM
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Thank you for the better reply. 1) Bear in mind this was 2 years ago, I was much more immature then and the point of this post was not to be validated in my decisions by asktrp. Of course we were as bad as each other. 2) The whole point of oneitis is you think some girl you met is above all other girls and is super special etc. I know objectively she is not, she was never my only option however in an LTR you limit yourself to one person and are bound to catch feelings and mild oneitis. 3) My iss…
/r/askTRP19/07/19 12:42 PM
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This comment is useless. Please try to add something constructive.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 12:15 PM
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Yeah and as I said I have been no contact for more than a year. Again if you read my post instead of repeating redpill mantras you'd see that I don't want her back, I just want to move on and be able to have some sort of emotional connection to women again.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 12:13 PM
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It's obviously oneitis, no doubt. However what of the sidebar have I not done? No contact, no social media, focussed on myself, fucked a lot of girls. What more is there?
/r/askTRP19/07/19 09:55 AM
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Everyone in my family loves cats, and I've lived in a home with a cat for most of my life, I even have my cat in my student flat, which I could get kicked out for. Cats to me are like women. If you can master one, you master the other. My cat whines when he's hungry, but if I feed him straight away he looks at the food and fucks off. If I make him wait until I finish what I'm doing, he'll devour it and then come rub himself against my leg purring away happily. Same with women and attention. My c…
/r/askTRP08/04/17 09:21 AM
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It's not that I can't fuck other girls, it's that it's exam season so I'm studying, lifting and training, no time to meet women and so fuck other girls. Also, her developing feels is of no concern to me. The concern is that I feel there is a risk of me developing feels.
/r/askTRP25/11/16 12:07 PM
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What's the point of this post? What are you asking?
/r/askTRP06/09/16 11:18 AM
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The answer I needed. Thanks
/r/askTRP05/09/16 06:23 PM
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Okay, IMO you should not be pursuing this girl because it sounds like you're in a friend group. Now, she has a boyfriend, so if she cheats with you, she will cheat on you, so an LTR is out the question. If you plate her, it will make the group awkward when the plate falls off. You risk being alienated and villified. Simply due to effort. Like all things game related, it has a dual nature depending on your nature. If you are higher SMV and constantly gaming, she will want you. If you are lower SM…
/r/askTRP24/07/16 05:14 PM
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When it is said women don't know what they want, it is treated like a figure of speech, however, it carries a lot more truth than people like to admit. We all know women are primarily emotional creatures and the way into their panties is by toying with their emotions. However, the caveat is this: it does not matter what emotion she feels, rather, the intensity of emotion she feels. Now your so called friend made her feel more that night. Sure you made her laugh and stuff, but any chump can do th…
/r/askTRP24/07/16 09:57 AM
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AWALT man, this is the shit I see in university so I've been desinsitised as fuck to this type of behaviour. I only want her as a plate anyway.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 08:53 PM
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We had been out at a nightclub and left when it shut. I had no option to go back out and find someone else.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 08:52 PM
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What kinda university students in first year have their financial stability locked down?
/r/askTRP28/03/16 07:40 PM
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Working out gives me hard, tangible results that I can look back at and say, shit, I achieved this. Putting more effort in gaming a girl gives me wet holes to fuck, only to repeat the process the next time I'm out. Hardly similar in terms of benefits gained from effort put in.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 07:39 PM
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I fucked one
/r/askTRP28/03/16 07:38 PM
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So just escalate and game as usual?
/r/askTRP28/03/16 07:38 PM
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So after mentioning a non existent girlfriend, how exactly can I progress through their shit tests? Are there any trp posts relating to this?
/r/askTRP28/03/16 07:37 PM
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And if she brings up R?
/r/askTRP15/02/16 09:30 PM
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I wouldn't say we were friends but something could definitely be on the cards in the future. The massage thing sounds good. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 09:30 PM
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Alright. Next time, don't be so quick to give out your instagram. The risk of doxxing is too real. Your follower to following ratio, number of likes and comments are plus SMV points. I firmly believe in the power of social media to improve SMV. You seem interesting as fuck, girls will love that. The thing for short guys is to get really big and shredded. At the moment, you have some muscle and quite shredded, but a month of lifting will really give you a good plus. Facially, decent facial bone s…
/r/askTRP07/02/16 06:26 PM
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Delete this. Next time PM.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 06:18 PM
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Just give me your insta. Height is only an issue if you make it an issue. Travelled Europe funded by your own business ventures at 17? What sort of life do you lead?
/r/askTRP07/02/16 06:04 PM
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You must have astronomical SMV if a girl gets a sense of urgency to take your virginity. Do you? Continuing from your metaphor, if I had one bullet, I wouldn't go hunting. I'd craft new bullets and then go hunt. Look, part of being a man is making your own decisions and living with the consequences. If you feel you want to dine, fine, go ahead. The 7s are getting fucked regardless, just don't sweat too much if you don't get to fuck the 9. And FYI, you are not locking down the 9. You're too young…
/r/askTRP07/02/16 05:16 PM
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Of course she'd appreciate it if you held off fucking other girls for her. That puts her in such a position of power, she may end up orgasming off the inherent validation radiating from the fact you're "saving" yourself for her. Bro, you're 17. You don't need to waste time at a restaurant. Even the comedy club pushes it, but that is personal choice. If what you say about DTF 7s, who are the same age as you, is true, then you must have a high SMV, hence why she sent that final message. You are no…
/r/askTRP07/02/16 03:54 PM
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It is, but I feel it is too much of an organised slaughter. There are two distinct facebook campaigns and both are gaining alarming momentum that the meeting place will be swarmed. Fuck that shit
/r/askTRP01/02/16 10:07 PM
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Hey man. I get that what I say may be amusing as you look down on me from your mountain of wisdom. I simply ask that you remember the fact that once you were also in my shoes. We are men, not women. It serves us no purpose to laugh at men who are trying to better themselves. If I was a bluepil cuckold, then I'd join you in laughter. But in this situation, critical advice and thinking is more appropriate.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 08:16 PM
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Indeed I had. Thank you.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 08:14 PM
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So, basically, should I just not change my behaviour and keep on doing what I did before?
/r/askTRP07/01/16 08:13 PM
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Well she told me last night she has started seeing someone which is total bullshit, she ended it cos of my inability to perform. I took some l arginine last night by myself and I had a really strong natural erection, so it did have some benefits.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 07:12 AM
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Supplement wise I take DIM, Shilajit Extract, Muira Puama Extract, Vitamin D3 and Chamomile. These are the best I have found after research to naturally maximise my testosterone, could they be somehow interfering?
/r/askTRP08/11/15 06:36 PM
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What dosage of l-arginine should I use?
/r/askTRP08/11/15 06:31 PM
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So, just mention nothing and continue as before?
/r/askTRP07/11/15 04:37 PM
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It is indeed a solid theory. All girls are rather insecure and so can't really come close to my self esteem levels. But I agree I need to find girls that have high self esteem.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 08:31 AM
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So what is the mindset I should have, and how do I go about achieving this mindset?
/r/askTRP03/11/15 08:30 AM
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So raise my standards slightly and cast my net in different waters?
/r/askTRP03/11/15 08:29 AM
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For me, she has to be interesting. One or two hobbies are desired, but she has to be interesting to talk to. She has to keep me on my toes, so there is no chance of me getting complacent, but more importantly so I don't get bored. She has to be in good shape and decently attractive. Preferably a virgin. I don't have really high standards despite having a fairly high SMV. I believed that coming to uni would mean I would meet interesting girls but that has not been the case. They are all dumb and …
/r/askTRP02/11/15 10:00 PM
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I'd like some clarification if you would please. What is the positive that I should make a priority?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 06:56 PM
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Dude, I am not going to wait around for her to have her fun while I twiddle my thumbs. No. I need to find what it was that made her special, find that in other girls and realise that this thing isn't special at all. You think I am living a nightmare? You think? Everywhere I go I am reminded of her, every word, every song, every film, everything. Like I said in my post, I am going insane. I don't need another love story, I need to become immune to oneitis, or rather, recover from this one.
/r/askTRP04/10/15 09:34 PM
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My oneitis is a weird case. She lives about two hours away from me, and has always refused to try anything due to the distance and said she could not trust me to stay loyal. I never met her for a year, it was all through phone calls and messages, as she had again refused to meet me as she didn't want to jeopardise what we already had. I had blocked her several times in order to get over her but always went back. One day after restablishing contact, I said fuck it and went down to her town and we…
/r/askTRP04/10/15 08:20 PM
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My post history is littered with questions about this oneitis. No contact, meeting new girls, nothing has helped me get over her. It is the most toxic thing I have ever experienced, she haunts my every thought and I am slowly losing my sanity. I am not building my oneitis up to be something she is not, I had met many girls before her, during her and after her, and absolutely none compare to her. What I am wanting more than anything else is to be done with my oneitis. The only thing that stood be…
/r/askTRP04/10/15 12:49 PM
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I really appreciate the advice man. Thank you.
/r/askTRP02/08/15 08:47 PM
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I really appreciate the advice Comrade Zaitzev. Hopefully I won't have to make use of it.
/r/askTRP02/08/15 08:40 PM
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I don't want to use drugs as a crux for my psychological problem.
/r/askTRP02/08/15 08:39 PM
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I watched gay porn once and it did nothing for me so I am very certain I'm straight. When I see males women consider hot, I admire them for the amount of effort they put to get to that stage. When I see females men consider hot, I lust for them. Similar feelings, but one is sexual and the other isn't.
/r/askTRP02/08/15 08:38 PM
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This feels like a bandaid solution to a rather significant psychological problem. I don't care for this girl, she'll never be more than a plate. Even that didn't help me.
/r/askTRP02/08/15 08:36 PM
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This whole event happened less than 24 hours ago and I haven't touched porn or will touch porn since.
/r/askTRP02/08/15 12:06 PM
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She represented to me the ideal female. I should mention I am 18 and she is 17. She has strong family, very close to her father, respects male authority, is a virgin. To me, she represented what I felt was a red pill woman. And she was a virgin, so if I took her virginity, there would be a significantly lower chance of her ever cheating on me. I'm highly anti relationship, but she is the only one who would make me consider otherwise. Also, she gave me interesting conversation. Conversation that …
/r/askTRP30/07/15 08:23 PM
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Okay. I lift, I do BJJ, I read, I eat well, I sleep well, I pursue multiple women. My oneitis exists only in my mind, I have deleted and blocked all methods of communication. Yet, everyday I still think of her and miss her. How do you forget the oneitis?
/r/askTRP30/07/15 03:17 PM
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Thanks. I'm in Turkey at the moment so a date is sort of hard to make happen, hence the sexual to keep the iron hot. There has been no personal talk.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 05:39 PM
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I think I'm going to keep in contact until the day of the meetup and if she flakes then she is getting hard nexted.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 05:37 PM
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I went out and came back to a message saying "Aren't I just your little slut?" I replied saying you belongs to me and she instantly replied saying her bf had just fucked her pretty good and wondered if I could fuck her better. What do I respond to that? She was at a festival for a few days and so was easy putty, but now that she is in contact with the bf she is more difficult.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 05:36 PM
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I did the earlier method of the something special line. I went out and came back to a message saying "Aren't I just your little slut?" I replied saying you belongs to me and she instantly replied saying her bf had just fucked her pretty good and wondered if I could fuck her better. What do I respond to that? She was at a festival for a few days and so was easy putty, but now that she is in contact with the bf she is more difficult.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 05:35 PM
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I went out and came back to a message saying "Aren't I just your little slut?" I replied saying you belongs to me and she instantly replied saying her bf had just fucked her pretty good and wondered if I could fuck her better. What do I respond to that? She was at a festival for a few days and so was easy putty, but now that she is in contact with the bf she is more difficult.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 05:34 PM
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That worked perfectly. She now feels confused about her relationship, saying ending it has been on her mind for a while. She wants to branch swing to me I feel. How can I influence a breakup so I can plate her?
/r/askTRP14/07/15 03:13 PM
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And if she persists with the boyfriend crap? She now feels confused as she doesn't know if she wants to be with him. She wants to branch swing to me, I can tell. How can I influence her to dump him and become my plate?
/r/askTRP14/07/15 03:11 PM
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I understand now. Thanks.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 03:08 PM
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What would asking he is there accomplish?
/r/askTRP14/07/15 02:48 PM
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I would if I could. She always refuses to meet me. No matter. Is this total blocking the best course of action?
/r/askTRP10/07/15 02:47 PM
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Are you saying fuck her as in totally forget about her, or fuck her as in sex? I've deleted everything and blocked her on everything. How am I contradicting myself? I'm curious becase all women are hypergamous, even unicorns are they not?
/r/askTRP10/07/15 02:07 PM
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Just Skyped and talked online.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 10:56 PM
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I failed to mention we have been speaking for a year and she has told me she loved me once when she was drunk. I get the feeling I'm just hamstering at this point.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 09:59 PM
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I already have nothing of her. I deleted everything in my first next attempt. The only way I talk to her is through facebook, you can message people you are not friends with. I could never take the step to block her, I guess that's the only option now.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 09:13 PM
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She lives on the other side of Scotland, meeting her is a slim chance. She constantly refuses to meet anyway.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 09:07 PM
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I'll never catch her. If she was really attracted to me, she wouldn't let the distance stop her. I'll just be chasing her forever. I'll take the pulling roots out option. EDIT: I forgot to add, she always refuses meetups. Says if we meet, I may not like her and end up moving on and she loses me.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 09:06 PM
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The reason I spoke about the virginity was that the guy a girl loses her virginity to has a special effect on her for the rest of her life. Rollo Tomassi made a post about it. I always saw myself LTRing this girl, and for it to be successful I would want her to pair bond with me. Silly idea I suppose.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 09:05 PM
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Thanks. The first time I nexted her, I deleted everything. Pics, chats, blocked her number, unfollowed and unfriended. I just never blocked her. I guess that's what I need to do now. EDIT: I forgot to add, she always refuses meetups. Says if we meet, I may not like her and end up moving on and she loses me.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 09:03 PM
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I know all this and I agree I really don't deserve my Y chromosome right now. What the fuck do I do? I'm at my wit's end
/r/askTRP09/07/15 07:56 PM
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Funnily enough, on r/purplepilldebate, I had a similar conversation in the comments, except the user I was talking to wanted to create a separate sub for the anger phase. Why on earth would the younger flairs get bullied? Most likely, harsh words will be said in order to give these kids a slap in the face so they wake the fuck up from whatever delusion they are in, but do not worry for a second that they will get bullied. Plus, most posters put their age anyway. I wholeheartedly agree with your …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 06:10 PM
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Again, why would anyone fantasise about this shit?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 05:50 PM
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I totally agree with you. However, not every teenager is the same. I discovered TRP just before I turned 17 and I'm now 18. I've been through all the stages and I feel glad I discovered it when I did. The problem is, we need to vent. We need to have the anger phase. It's a critical part of swallowing the pill. That is why the mods have quite the issue on their hands, as to censor the wannabe Alphas would make us no better than the feminists, and furthermore, would drive these misguided young men…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 05:49 PM
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Comical and sometimes downright fucking disturbing. The cuckold shit... Totally ignoring gender, how the fuck is that a logical, sane thing to do? And assuming for one second that it was logical and sane, how the fuck is it a turn on? There's plugged into the Matrix, and there's being part of the original source code.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 05:12 PM
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Honestly the best thing is to read the top 20 of all time of each flair once a month. They cover everything.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 04:50 PM
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I did this a few months ago. It comes under concern trolling and has been banned by the mods. Don't do it.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 04:44 PM
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It saddens me that field reports are more and more just literal self masturbation, and less about actually teaching a lesson.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 04:14 PM
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In the Book of Pook, Pook takes the Man into his own mind. He shows the Man a screen and says (I'm paraphrasing to make my point) this screen holds the women in your life. What happens when there is one woman? You get oneitis because you think she is the be all and end all. What happens when you have several? It is impossible to have oneitis. You had one plate. Due to this, your screen only had her. So you got oneitis. Now, the decision to LTR is yours. Does she have a lot of red flags? Do you e…
/r/askTRP06/07/15 04:10 PM
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Regarding your field reports: http://i.imgur.com/EdTq5Nd.jpg Women would rather share an Alpha than lose him, so I would focus on making myself an Alpha rather than how to hide facts from girls.
/r/askTRP06/07/15 03:58 PM
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Why do you care? Just reply with anything. Do not think about your messages. Think leads to overthink. Overthink leads to paranoia. Paranoia leads to despair. Despair leads to oneitis. Oneitis leads to masturbation. You don't want that.
/r/askTRP06/07/15 03:53 PM
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What is this barrier you feel you have hit?
/r/askTRP06/07/15 03:51 PM
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Hard next. If she tries to get back in your life, next again. Oneitis has taken root. Go find a few women and have interesting conversations with them while gaming them, and you'll realise they're all the same and there was nothing special about this one.
/r/askTRP05/07/15 04:46 PM
3

Can someone link me this? This is something I really want to read.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 04:10 PM
2

How did you lose frame? What exactly happened? Already I smell the oneitis...
/r/askTRP05/07/15 04:05 PM
2

I don't particularly care about them. There's enough people fighting back and forth as it is, I'd much rather deal with my own personal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/15 03:21 PM
2

Such is the nature of any movement or idea. There will always be radicalists.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/15 02:10 PM
3

I think the majority of Reddit is exposed to an anger phase Red Piller. Those that have completely swallowed the pill and accept the different genders' sexual dynamics don't really frequent the subreddit or even Reddit. Honestly, I'm happy I know what I know and I accept things for what they are. I've always preferred the truth, but it's not for everyone and I don't judge. I just dislike it when opposing views try to shove their views down others' throats.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/15 01:52 PM
1

I am a TRPer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/15 01:26 PM
0

I concur.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/15 10:27 AM
1

Got it. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP05/07/15 09:56 AM
5

Why can't the med student have good genetics as well? Being smart enough to be in med school doesn't mean you can't be muscular. There are plenty of occassions when women have cheated illogically. How do you explain women cheating with the absolute loser types? The stoners that have absolutely nothing going for them. Surely genetics is not a factor there?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/15 09:54 AM
1

There are no male relatives here. It's just her and her mum. Everyone is strangers here. It's a perfect set up, but this fucking culture... Although, I feel if she wanted me enough, she'd make something happen, which means I'm probably exagerrating her attraction to me?
/r/askTRP05/07/15 09:44 AM
1

We only ever get a few seconds alone. Her mum follows her everywhere, and everyone constantly watches us. I was going a walk and said she could join me if she wanted, but she didn't come. She is rather boring and lazy, but I'm not gonna get much in Turkey so I want to make the most of what little opportunities I get. EDIT: She stays in the room right below me...
/r/askTRP05/07/15 09:31 AM
1

Lol. I'm a liberal(bad) Muslim. The only thing I don't do is eat pork. Everything else is fine for me.
/r/askTRP05/07/15 09:26 AM
5

We say hypergamy is the women wanting the best male she can attain, and branch swinging when he comes up. This is often misinterpreted into believing that a woman is out with her boyfriend, then a 6'5, 230 pound 7% body fat male model flashes a smile at her and she jumps onto him. This is wrong. Hypergamy is the female going for the best male she FEELS she can get. This is why girls do illogical shit like cheating on a med school student with a surfer. To males, we can easily deduce logically th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/15 08:41 AM
2

Read Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. Implement as best you can. Stoicism is like steroids for the brain, and it is masculinity in its purest philosophical form.
/r/askTRP05/07/15 08:22 AM
4

It's the way we are wired. Seeing a girl in any sort of distress triggers our inner father instinct to help her and remove her distress. It is especially common in guys taking in sluts with the excuse that "She just made the wrong choices, I'm here now to make sure she's happy." Commonly referred to as Captain Save-A-Ho.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 11:44 AM
8

If a girl is interested, she'll offer another time and date. Simple as that my friend.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 11:39 AM
2

I'm 18 and she sounds around my age. Trust me, our generation just gorge themselves on validation through the likes of Instagram and Snapchat. You need to stick out from the hordes of thirsty betas who comment and like all their pictures and spontaneously ejaculate in the rare occasion their oneitis likes one of their pictures.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 06:41 AM
3

Very strong scarcity mentality here. This is not a shit test. A shit test is when a girl is attracted to you, but needs to see if you're worth being attracted to. This girl is not attracted to you. She is just fishing for attention. She wants you to see her snapchat. She wants you to inquire. She wants you to show that you are emotionally invested in her. You called and texted and she ignored you? Soft next. Remove her from your life until she wants to re-enter, then let her return on your terms…
/r/askTRP04/07/15 05:31 AM
1

My bad, I didn't make it clear in my comment. Going silent for the night is perfect. My interpretation of entering her frame would be when you indirectly tell her she had no effect on your night. I was always under the impression showing was better than telling.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 04:51 PM
2

Unfortunately, I am not experienced enough to tell you how you can come back from this. If I was pushed, I'd fuck with her mind on the various social media platforms, putting up snapchat stories of me having the time of my life with some hotties and whatnot. Again, that is far too time consuming and of a strong scarcity mentality. One of the endorsed contributors is probably the best person to ask.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 04:49 PM
1

Just makes future ones from the same girl harder because she points out that I totally ignored it and made her feel insecure.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 02:28 PM
-1

I feel this is useless as you are simply entering her frame. You are letting her know what happened, as though you are answering to her. Bitch doesn't deserve to know what you were doing, let her hamster guess.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 01:53 PM
11

Any chick hotter than an 8 lives on validation. When they go through a validation dry spell of an hour or two, they try their utmost to find someone who can supply that attention. This was you. She baited you and baited you and you refused to bite, but eventually you gave in and that's where she lost her non existent interest. As soon as she realised you were coming to meet her, this translated to: "I made a guy drive forty minutes JUST to see me, I must be a special snowflake." And like that, s…
/r/askTRP02/07/15 07:57 AM
1

Ah yes, this would be best. Unfortunately I'm 18 and I mostly deal with girls up to two years younger than me, so TRP is very hard to work with. You need to LTR the virgins to fuck them, and plating is very rare. It's all drunken makeouts, which is sad. I can't even casual date because everyone is interested in getting blackout drunk. Sometimes I hate our culture.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 09:39 PM
2

I was originally gonna reply that that usually loses me the girl, but I supppse abundance means I should not care, right?
/r/askTRP01/07/15 09:28 PM
1

Should you ever validate women? I usually make them so rare that they are really appreciated, but sometimes I get the impression they are too rare and I end up being too aloof.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 09:27 PM
1

Thanks. What is the best way to deal with nudes upon receipt? I usually just ignore them, but I get the feeling it hinders the prospects of future nudes.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 09:25 PM
1

I've actually neglected my lifting when I discovered my 150kg squat, was nowhere near even parallel. Side note since you know a lot about fitness. Before when I had school, I would do bjj every day and lift Monday Wednesday and Friday. Now, as I have infinite free time, I usually do bjj twice a day every day, coming to around 23 hours a week, but do not lift. I want to maintain this but also lift on Monday Wednesday and Friday, and maybe even incorporate kettlebell training on Tuesdays and Thurs…
/r/askTRP01/07/15 02:33 PM
1

Right. My main benefit will be the amount of knowledge I will gain. Our professor is a black belt in brazilian and japanese jiu jitsu, an ex bodybuilder and has trained a few local champion MMA fighters. His whole life is fitness, hopefully this will be really beneficial. Thanks for your input.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 02:27 PM
1

Will the experience be worthwhile?
/r/askTRP01/07/15 02:21 PM
1

That's the thing. I'll get the experience of working in a fitness world, but I will not have any certification. Will there be any risk of someone else getting a fitness related job instead of me, just because they have certification? EDIT: For what it's worth I'm going to be studying Biomedical Engineering at a university with an excellent engineering school.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 02:20 PM
2

Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. Sculpts the body, makes you happy, gives you self defense and surrounds you with natural alphas.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 10:53 AM
3

Only Scots say "hen" from what I've experienced.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 01:49 PM
10

I'd say Scotland. I recognise the speech.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 09:15 AM
14

Unfortunately I have not quadrupled my original SMV, since 4x0 is zero. Jokes aside, I always look at it this way. If you met that person today, the BP one, you may recognise them, but they won't recognise you. You are totally different people. Acknowledge that, acknowledge you have no control over your past and move on. Stoicism teaches us to only care about matters in our control. Therefore, care not about your past, simply learn from it.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 02:22 PM
13

There is a pdf online if you Google search The Manipulated Man pdf. You can pick up where you left off instead of fiddling with Youtube. Here it is: http://dontmarry.files.wordpress.com/2008/08/the_manipulated_man.pdf
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 05:02 PM
3

My bad about misreading about the kid. Just don't deal with single mothers. The pussy is all used up, and they have so much emotional baggage and shit tests. Don't beat yourself up, learn from your mistakes and move on. Whenever a male I know talks about a female friend or a girl they are interested in who has a "personality," I ask them one question: apart from their mouth, vagina, and ass, what can they give you that I or any other male can't? Stammers and shifty eyes soon follow. Just keep th…
/r/askTRP04/01/15 11:09 AM
7

Fuck that friendship. She will manipulate you to the best of her ability. What kind of psycho leaves their kid for four days randomly? You are cuckolding yourself. The mexican was textbook alpha and you are the lesser alpha, which makes you the beta bux. To quote everyone else: RUN.
/r/askTRP04/01/15 10:59 AM
2

Totally unrelated, but holy fuck thank you for the pdf of that book.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 09:44 PM
2

I'm of the view that heavy handedness is required with new guys. You need to be treated like shit, to remove all the 'special snowflake' programming from you. This guy didn't even think about his post, my comment took more effort than his entire post. He needs to learn to bring something to the table.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 12:07 PM
2

Of course it can be achieved. You think everyone on trp were natural alphas and they just write shit there for the lulz? Fucking hell. READ AND READ MORE BEFORE ASKING STUPID QUESTIONS. If you still have stupid questions ask on the IIRC chat, they will be more than happy to help. 'Becoming' alpha for one woman is wrong and is basically oneitis, as I have said countless times we are not a pua extension. If you cut contact, then after an extended period of tine, suddenly she sees you with beautifu…
/r/askTRP30/12/14 11:45 AM
3

I also have a narcisissistic mother, and over the years here is how I learned to deal with her. She threatens to kill me, so I pull myself up to her my full height, walk upto her face and tell her to do it. She crumbles. She calls me stupid, ignored her. She tries to push me out the way, bounces off me. She makes up some bullshit about how everything is my fault, I tell her to do something about it. She crumbles. Basically, you cannot win with them. They will never submit and stop their bullshit…
/r/askTRP26/12/14 10:45 AM
1

You want an LTR and kids by 30? That sounds awfully like a women approaching the wall...
/r/askTRP25/12/14 11:37 PM
1

Old fashioned reads as bluepill. If you had been truly actively reading for six months, you would have realised that unicorns don't exist, and that red pill women are few and far between. So drop your expectations of women. In fact, ignore women and focus on yourself for the next six months. Full monk mode. You'll thank me in june.
/r/askTRP25/12/14 11:24 PM
1

Alright then. Think about what you speak and write. Genuinely think, what did you want to achieve from this post?
/r/askTRP25/12/14 11:03 PM
7

What is the point in this post? I don't see a question. You are preaching to the choir. Please for the love of god, in your first six months of trp, shut the fuck up and just read and read and read. Create a notepad of questions, in time they will be answered by your readings. If you still have questions, THEN ask them, or make postings. You do not become redpill after 30 minutes on the sub. Read, read some more, experience, then read some more.
/r/askTRP25/12/14 10:19 PM
4

I've never heard of women giving betas good sex. It's just boring missionary, where she is totally rigid, and he needs to finish himself off. They receive free shit regardless, the beta has to massage her and listen to her bitch, and then afterwards has to be guilt tripped into how he is a horrible human being for forcing her to have sex after she had such a hard day. Sigh.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 10:06 PM
33

Interestingly, this rule applies perfectly to women and Nice Guys.™ Nice Guys™ buy them drinks, food, furniture and houses for free. The hidden obligation is the expectation of sex: women's greatest and only form of payment. Hence why Nice Guys™ don't get any action, because they try to deceive their way into it.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 05:54 PM
6

The fucking quality of the stuff posted in this sub is just going downhill. Read the fucking sidebar. The message of TRP is self improvement, we are not a fucking extension of PUA with "tactics." Stop thinking about shit. Just do. Experience is the best teacher, the longer you think the more you gerbil and panic. Get a fucking grip, get some self respect and self worth and then start asking questions about women.
/r/askTRP23/12/14 10:36 PM
1

Thanks for the technique man, I appreciate your reply. I have ran out of energy to outfight him, because he never gives in. He always takes it too far and pushes it. We have always been competitive, but I fear a fight will erupt soon, since he constantly ridicules how my BJJ could never stand to his street fighting skills. I do have an insane urge to wreck him in front of everyone, but I fear that would be damaging to my future.
/r/askTRP19/11/14 10:03 PM
1

I've been in semi monk mode for a while, so we haven't hung out for around a month and a half. It just sucks, we have a lot of memories and we go way back. I want to salvage this, but I fear the only way to do so would be to get fat.
/r/askTRP19/11/14 10:00 PM
1

Yeah if it is private then I have no problems with it. In fact I do it back. I just find it incredibly shit when he does it in front of others. If I shut him down by being witty, he always says the same stuff. He says I have five chins, which makes everyone laugh at thr absurdity of it. I shut him down again. Boom he starts naming girls I have failed with, information that in high school is very sensitive and that he should not tell others, thus betraying my trust. How can I recognise and exploi…
/r/askTRP19/11/14 09:59 PM
50

You displayed some very non-Alpha behaviours along with some very Alpha ones. You gave her so much of your time simply talking to her online, and yet she still fucked you. This says a few things. You were very Alpha at the start. Your insane abundance mentality coupled with the reputation you were creating made hipster_girl wet for you. I think I read somewhere that you release some pheromones when you are on a hot streak like you are, but even if that is horse shit, girls can pick up when you a…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 09:35 AM
6

Things are only weird/awkward if you make them. Have enough self confidence, have a good reason and hold frame when she shit tests you on your reason. Example: Hey 'Gemma/Lucy/Roxanne, you should give me your number, I might need it in the future. I have a boyfriend, you know that. Woah woah I ask for your number and already you want to date me? I need to courted first. (Said with a massive grin, agree and amplify)
/r/askTRP14/11/14 05:39 PM
6

Film - American Beauty
/r/askTRP04/11/14 07:31 PM
1

Thank you. Would appreciate any feedback you can offer.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 08:06 AM
1

I ain't beta man. That's just a part I don't understand.
/r/askTRP19/10/14 01:31 AM
1

I will in time. Side question: has the short answer removal bot been disabled?
/r/askTRP19/10/14 12:08 AM
1

Solid advice, thanks man. Any tips on getting over her?
/r/askTRP19/10/14 12:07 AM
1

How do I get over her? I went to a nightclub and kissed two girls on Thursday night, but it didn't cure the oneitis.
/r/askTRP19/10/14 12:06 AM
0

This is what I hoped to hear. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP19/10/14 12:05 AM
0

Join a Brasilian Jiu Jitsu club. You will meet many guys there but a few will be of the calibre you require. Never tell one man too much. You are a jigsaw. Give each friend one piece, but never the same piece to two friends. Knowledge is power. The more one person knows about your deepest secrets, the more power and blackmail leverage they have over you.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 08:40 PM
0

100% recommend BJJ. Fixes posture, improves fitness, shreds body fat, improves confidence, improves self respect. It's the closest thing to a RP silver bullet. I've been training since late July so here's my two cents. I know what you are talking about, but there is a way of countering it. I prefer to spar with men, since they are generally stronger and there are more of them. Concentrate on sparring with men. Ignore the women at your club. Try to make a mantra in your head that goes along the l…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 03:53 PM
1

You don't emulate a psychopath. Sooner or later you will meet a real one and they will play you like a book. Illimitableman did a piece on it a while back.
/r/askTRP12/10/14 03:41 PM
3

Excellent post, as always. I recommend reading it a few times to get a profound understanding of the topic. I do however have one queery. The part in which you are talking about lack of acknowledgement, and how acknowledging your opponents gives then a platform with which to strengthen their assault. Could you give a scenario where not acknowledging your opponent works to your advantage? And one scenario where you must acknowledge your opponent in order to prevent damamge.
/r/AlreadyRed05/10/14 08:04 PM
1

Thanks for replying. So, was my attainability too high or too low for that night? Also, yellow dress had a boyfriend and the other girl was trying to keep an eye on her so she doesn't cheat. I wasn't going for yellow dress anyway.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 02:24 PM
1

Yes but if it "feels good/right/fair" then she will go for it. Regardless of facts.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 10:00 PM
0

So a nuclear dread game then? "I am that high value that I can drop you and this marriage and be happy within a week. And keep most of my money." I may be wrong but this demonstrates self confidence bordering on narcissistic. It's a make or break statement.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 09:54 PM
0

See because you told her that if you were to even bump into her, you would go to jail, which implies she has power over you due to the law. Is this not a bad thing? In that you can be as physically and mentally strong as you want, but she can snap her fingers and ruin you. Most women know this, whether conciously or subconciously, but just stating it up front, isn't that pointing out/reminding that she has an ace in her hand?
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 09:46 PM
1

I don't think I made my point across. This girl thought I was beta. Why would a beta need a condom? Have I changed so she thinks I should carry a condom?
/r/askTRP24/09/14 05:42 AM
1

Yes but this was a girl telling me this. A girl who has never seen me in a sexual way and probably thought I was beta. Why would she say this all of a sudden?
/r/askTRP23/09/14 06:36 PM
1

Thanks for your help man. I am increasing my time at BJJ which means I will be seeing more of her. Not much I can do except remind myself of what the situation really is.
/r/askTRP20/09/14 06:03 PM
1

That was right at the start that I thought TRP = magic wand. I know otherwise now. What's the point in talking to her? She is older than me, has a boyfriend and the worst part is, if I talk to her it will increase my oneitis since I will actually know her. I am not a beta by the way. I sure as hell ain't alpha, but I ain't beta either.
/r/askTRP20/09/14 05:57 PM
1

I've read quite a few RP books, including The Rational Male. I know oneitis is stupid. I doubt I can turn her into a plate since she has a boyfriend. My gym is very closely knit and I don't want to make things awkward by pursuing her. I am quite confident, it's just for a long time I have not felt the need to talk to a girl for anything other than to improve my game or just to get something done. Is there anything that can be done to remove the oneitis? The usual answer is to go out and fuck a c…
/r/askTRP20/09/14 05:49 PM
1

Sigh. What do I do man?
/r/askTRP20/09/14 05:35 PM
1

I've just been trying to lose weight seriously at the gym. I have never tried to bulk or seriously increase strength. I simply haven't had time because I have school and I lose two hours of everyday travelling to and from school. What do you mean gear?
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 08:13 AM
1

60 kg I meant. I'm used to working in kilograms. I started at that weight.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 09:11 PM
1

I am 18 if that makes a difference at all?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 09:06 PM
2

This is what I meant. I started at 60 so shouls progress well soon enough.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 09:05 PM
1

My congratulations and respect at your back strength. My main issue is not having really worked back before I started Stronglifts 5x5, so to jump into a 340 pound deadlift is asking for an injury?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 08:56 PM
1

Will I still be able to increase my weights at the gym on a calorie deficit?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 08:48 PM
1

Should I go to the gym on top of the conditioning, or just do conditioning along with HIIT?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 08:47 PM
1

340lb deadlift... Is my body going to be able to do that?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 08:46 PM
1

Dude, one of the main messages of TRP is TO LIFT. Since my question is lifting related, I figured I could get some valuable no bullshit advice here.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 08:27 PM
1

Thanks for your reply and your hard truths. I cannot get the asshole balance right, I just end up being a dick sometimes and not the hot asshole who breaks girls' hearts but they always go back to him.
/r/askTRP31/08/14 07:12 PM
2

I do BJJ and go to the gym around 2 or 3 times a week. But yes I have a problem with getting angry and sort of being left speechless because I cannot formulate a good reply.
/r/askTRP31/08/14 07:10 PM
1

Gonna start ussing WWCD. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP31/08/14 07:06 PM
1

So, what should I do next time?
/r/askTRP31/08/14 04:35 PM
0

Again thanks for your reply. I am just gonna edit the original post. I was the only one studying. This girl just wanted attention.
/r/askTRP31/08/14 04:34 PM
1

Out of curiosity and not disrespect, what difference does it make?
/r/askTRP31/08/14 04:33 PM
1

This is amazing advice. Thank you. offerings to the bot god.
/r/askTRP31/08/14 04:33 PM
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That was an awesome reply thank you. This girl is a slut and for her age (15) her sexual number that I know of is 6. There must be more. The only reason I was interested at the time was I figured I would get my dick wet as she would be easy. The only reason I want to know a reply is this: I thought that by letting her get away with insulting me, the people I was with would lose respect for me as I just took her words like a bitch.
/r/askTRP31/08/14 04:03 PM
2

Thanks for your reply. I was in a rush typing this and so it was unclear. I was the only one studying. Everyone else was shouting and having fun since it was break.
/r/askTRP31/08/14 03:59 PM
9

Dude chill out man. Learn to drop the scarcity mentality. This girl should know that if she fucks around she is gonna lose out on the big prize (you). If she does not know it then that's you fault. She is dread gaming you whether subconciously or conciously I do not know. Don't let it bother you. Start worrying if she comes back and constantly tries to have unprotected sex with you.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 09:53 PM
2

The fucked up thing is it is literally that easy for women to make choices.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 08:14 PM
1

When we meet up what is the move or a move I should make? I am quite good at kino and flirting but will this apply here?
/r/askTRP20/08/14 08:30 PM
1

Any tips for making some sort of success out of it?
/r/askTRP20/08/14 08:28 PM
3

I probably should have mentionted I have zero sexual experience with a girl. I have not even kissed a girl.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 10:25 PM
1

Oh. I didn't know it existed. Thanks a lot for that.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 09:48 PM
1

With hindsight, ranting on about this was a mistake but I will stand by my post. This is a free subreddit. We are men here and if we have an opinion we voice it. As long as it is not trolling or clearly made to annoy, it gets respect, time and attention whether it is right or wrong. What more can you want?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 09:44 PM
1

Yeah but there are buttons to sort through highest rated reports and the like, so they can read the best stories. There is no need to constantly add to it.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 09:43 PM
3

Sorry man I got annoyed and made this stupid post. Hopefully it won't do any lasting damage.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 09:41 PM
27

Can someone reddit gold or give a delta to this guy please? In fact this should be made a separate post and put in the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 06:56 PM
1

A psychology degree is useless though.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 02:34 PM
1

Medicine is out the window. I'm just asking what other jobs or avenues I should go for.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 02:33 PM
1

I wanted to medicine but you cannot do it anywhere with my grades. I am emailing Turkish universities to see if I can do it there. If money was not an issue I would probably do something I love like psychology.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 01:23 PM
1

The men in my life are practically non existent. The teachers don't really give a fuck. They can find another star pupil.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 01:22 PM
4

Says she is obsessed with sex and no guy has ever pushed her boundaries. Beta bux wants sex and this is too pushy. Sigh.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 01:14 PM
12

There's a psychological term for this. People want something most when they know they are going to lose it.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 09:36 PM
20

The awareness the mods have on TRP is just something else. You lot make this sub a much better place. Thanks. (Fanboy moment ends)
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 10:25 PM
1

I am not saying that. I have a lack of empathy, similar to a psychopath. In fact I am quite sure I am one even though I have never been checked and most psychopaths do not know they are one.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 08:14 PM
1

Is what an abusive relationship is? Show mercy autodelete bot
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 08:12 PM
1

Name? Never heard that one before. What did they call you if you do not mind me asking?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 08:12 PM
1

I need to go home for the immediate future as I have no other options unfortunately.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 08:11 PM
1

This advice is being repeated over and over again. The money business is gonna be really hard to fix.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 08:10 PM
1

If I can destroy this feeling of guilt I can do pretty much everything. It is the guilt which paralyses me and limits what I can do.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 08:09 PM
1

That's some amazing advice. Thanks for your input. If I can find the time I will definitely get a job.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 08:08 PM
1

If my mother and I live to the age of 200 she will never apologise let alone be tearful. You're very lucky.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 08:07 PM
1

Well I started jiu jitsu and have been going to the gym pretty hard. Started keto yesterday. I try and spend as much time out as possible. Thanks a lot for your input and your words. I will do my best.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 08:06 PM
1

University is free here in scotland. I want to study medicine but I get my exam results on tuesday. If I get what I need I can apply else it is out the question and I have no plan b.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 12:36 AM
2

Alright I will do. Thanks man. Autodelete bot offering may it be accepted graciously
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 12:25 AM
1

If there is one thing I learned about life so far, it is that nobody gives a single fuck about me or my problems. We are totally alone. But thanks a lot for your words man
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 12:23 AM
1

It's like a mosquito droning in my ear 24/7. It's so hard to deal with. How can I stop her having an impact on me?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 12:22 AM
1

I am supposed to care. I will care at the start but eventually not. I am 18 in a few months last year of high school. I am very good at saving money. That is another thing. Until 2014 I was not allowed to spend money.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 12:15 AM
4

18 in a few months. Until I found trp i was dealing with suicidal thoughts and pure self hatred. I still feel bad for her though. I am the only thing she has. The only person who cares about her and she treats me like such shit and I just cannot get my head around that.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 12:07 AM
1

Economic situation is quite dire. Plus if I move out our relationship will be terminated as stated by her ultimatum a while back
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 11:55 PM
2

Here is the worst part. Culture conditioning and her conditioning me my whole life means I feel guilt at leaving her alone and helpless. Hell I felt guilty writing this dammit
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 11:54 PM
1

The first time she said she wished shw had aborted I cried for two days and she apologised the third day. Apart from that everything is amazingly my fault even when logic clearly dictates she is to blame. So am I doomed to suffer her noise?
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 11:41 PM
2

Well my view of all this just got nuked. Thanks for the brutal honesty. How do I progress internally then?
/r/askTRP15/07/14 07:53 AM
3

Can I just not toy with her? I improve game and I get the satisfaction of having the tables turned i.e. having an orbiter instead of being one.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 07:35 AM
4

Like I said she is a guinea pig. I just test various negs and tricks on her. She lives two cities away so she is at the bottom of my female list.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 07:02 AM
4

She is literally a means to an end. Whenever I have nothing else to do I reply to her messages. What is the real purpose of all of this?
/r/askTRP15/07/14 07:01 AM
0

Sorry I failed to make that clear. I do not give a single shit what this girl thinks of me. I was just running a game to see if it would work on her so that I may use it on other girls. I said I had an interest in psychology so that was why she told me. Last night was the only time this happened.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 07:00 AM
1

Have no means of getting a prostitute. But I appreciate the advice. Thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 08:22 AM
1

I meant the country in this case. To my knowledge turkey is not a rp slang term.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 08:16 AM
6

That's great advice. Thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 02:10 AM
1

I am going monk mode this summer. Hopefully it will be a big step in the right direction. Thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 02:07 AM
2

How do I let go this need for validation? This is the part that trips me up.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 02:06 AM
2

How do I go about doing that sir?
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 11:06 PM
2

I really, really was not planning on. But thanks for looking out for me.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 10:23 AM
2

All of the responses have been awesome. This was really in depth so thanks for that. The part about the speed cracked me up. Thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 08:16 AM
1

I live in the UK so do I need to adjust slightly culturally?
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 07:16 PM
9

To be honest, I trust males less than I trust females. Bitches never get jealous and try to backstab you. Oh wait...
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 06:33 PM
3

Wow. That's an awesome way of looking at it. Thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 06:32 PM
3

So firm lower lip is less enjoyable?
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 06:31 PM
30

Why I love this sub: clear and to the point. Thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 11:54 AM
4

That analogy was really sweet. Thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 11:39 AM
3

Very impressive. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 05:12 AM
2

And if I cannot afford steak will any red meat do? Eg ribs or diced meat?
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 03:35 PM
3

It says that on cheat days nothing is off limits then it says alcohol is banned. Is it allowed or is it not allowed?
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 10:23 AM
1

I need to just let go man. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 08:20 PM
1

Thanks for the reply. I shouldn't have compared myself to Tyler lile that.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 08:03 PM
2

I never thought of it like that. Thanks man
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 08:02 PM
2

Well explained. Thanks man
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 08:01 PM
1

Yeah I totally misunderstood it. Thanks man
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 08:01 PM
1

I was not looking for gimmicks or rule books. Just a few starting pointers as cultural differences mean there is no one size fits all game and frame.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 07:25 AM
1

I now have an in depth guide to Argentina. Thank you kind sir.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 07:23 AM
1

I am 180cm. What are the best places for me?
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 07:21 AM
1

Partly. I speak Turkish with my family so I never lost the language.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 07:19 AM
1

I live in the UK. I am just here for a long ass holiday. I am as much a tourist as the next backpacker, except that I speak the language perfectly and know my way around.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 07:26 PM
3

Seduction doesn't really deal with frame. If I say something sexual and not back down when I am flirting in the West, I will give a girl the tingles. The same thing done in Turkey will have half the girl's neighborhood hunting you.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 05:49 PM
1

Ugh too much effort considering I am here for another month.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 05:47 PM
4

Thanks GLO. This is the internet so I can never be too safe.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 05:46 PM
6

I need to go to America.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 05:03 PM
4

Yeah but in a non racist way I have never found a black woman attractive.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 05:02 PM
1

I am at Istanbul
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 04:46 PM
21

This sounds like something a twelve year old would say on Call of Duty.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 08:10 AM
19

Paragraphs please.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 07:23 AM
1

Sounds good man. Will make a FR in the future about this.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 08:41 AM
3

It's like the Matrix. You swallow the pill, realise how shitty reality is, but fight through it and triumph or you swallow the pill and relapse back into the Matrix because reality is too harsh.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 08:05 AM
1

I'm fine now man. I just needed to vent I am back on track now. All the replies to this post really gave me a fresh perspective on shit.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 06:20 AM
1

There's so many conflicting view points I don't know what to do.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 06:19 AM
5

Girl rejected me a year ago. Had record breaking oneitis. Went into full blown suicidal depression. Cried about my problems on AskSeddit for 5 months. Someone linked TRP in January. Been studying this ever since. I still have a scarcity mentality but it is nothing like what it was before. And athough I went on a huge whiny rant a few days ago, I feel more positive about life than I have in a long time.
/r/askTRP29/05/14 07:23 AM
1

Fuck man I derped for a minute. It may have been an accidental miracle, as viscous does kind of fit into the context.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 01:37 PM
1

It's such a viscous circle.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 01:25 PM
1

She says she does not want to lose me. I ask her what she sees me in me that she cannot find in her other male friends. She says I can really keep a conversation, and that I am hilarious. I reply by sayin "so nothing then." She says it's not like that. I just said how we would be friends and two months down the line she would be complaining about how some random she fucked was an asshole. She told me she wouldn't as she knows what it is like. I tell her to humour me as I think it's total shit. S…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 12:16 PM
1

Alright thanks man. One more thing. When I start talking to her, what do I say about my actions? Completely ignore anything happened? Say I misunderstood the situation, or what?
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 11:57 AM
3

So, even though I acted like a whiney toddler who didn't get his way, I should still talk to her, and I may still have a chance?
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 11:27 AM
1

Thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 09:12 AM
2

7 billion people on the plant. Think I can afford to lose a few friends.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 09:11 AM
1

Got it. Thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 07:36 AM
2

This could prove to be a lot of fun. What if on a bad cop day I made her so mad she swore never to talk to me again. On good cop day do I suck up to her and apologise and shit? Or just next?
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 07:05 AM
1

Them truths.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 06:52 AM
1

Thanks for sharing and empathising. I cannot actually eat pizza or play video games which is a plus. I am just gonna do lots of press ups and walk a lot so I do not gain weight.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 06:37 AM
2

I am proud that in the fact that I have never bought a girl anything. To be honest I cannot think off the top of my head of any 5s that I friendzoned.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 06:32 AM
3

Seriously? Holy shit. I am glad I ranted. Even though the shit I wrote was pussylike, I learnt a lot from the comments. Thanks man. Side note: How do you know about your daughter's sexual exploits? And why do you not care?
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 06:26 AM
1

Yeah I am.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 06:23 AM
1

How?
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 06:22 AM
1

Literally what I said. Glad to see I did something right.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 06:22 AM
1

You think you have broken habits then in a moment of weakness they come rushing back. It's always the opening up that fucks me. I read in Models by Mark Manson that this was a good thing, the whole "vulnerability" thing. Sigh.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 06:21 AM
2

I realise that now.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 06:19 AM
2

I will start using this. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 06:18 AM
1

She was complaining about how she will always have a limp and may not fully regain control of her arm. I countered by saying there are quadriplegics who are back in the gym purely from determination. I then told her I knew what it was like to struggle in life, and told her the true story of how everyone in my life gave up on me when I fucked up some exams, how I wallowed in hatred and self pity, and how something flipped and I turned everything around. The reason it hit me so hard was because I …
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 06:18 AM
2

Congrats man.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 06:09 AM
1

Total self belief and wear protection. Thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 06:09 AM
1

Once I get back, I am definitely gonna get my shit in place. I always say I will be MGTOW but then some chick comes along and I get the whole "this time my luck might be different" crap.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 06:08 AM
1

I've seen the posts man. Truly scary shit.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 06:04 AM
2

I told her to have a good life as I had enough female friends as it was.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 06:02 AM
1

I don't give a shit about turkey. I am leaving in july. My main culture is the UK.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 08:19 PM
1

So... agree to meet up then change her mind by kino escalation etc?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 08:16 PM
1

I certainly hope so. Thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 08:15 PM
11

I am 18. And I've had 17 outright rejections/LJBF in 3 years. Bearing in mind this is high school and I invested quite a bit in each girl. This is what I mean by always.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 08:14 PM
3

Thanks for sharing man. It's helped a lot.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 08:12 PM
1

This scenario is all too common. A baptism of fire that we have to go through time and time again. I did some press ups. The rage is gone for now. I just feel detached now.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 08:10 PM
1

This scenario is all too common. A baptism of fire that we have to go through time and time again. I did some press ups. The rage is gone for now. I just feel detached now.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 08:10 PM
2

I am in turkey until july. Which is why these girls aren't really talking to me because I am not a priority when 50 other guys are shoveling attention at them. Plus tinder is broken as I am not getting any matches in Istanbul, a city of 13 million.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 08:06 PM
3

Thanks a lot man. Although TRP can be harsh, everyone recognises we are in this together, and the mutual understanding between users really makes this community stand out.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 08:04 PM
3

Well. Fuck. Thanks for the thoughts though. (No sarcasm)
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 07:59 PM
3

In Turkey right now. Cold approaches are outside the cultural norm. I think. About the girl yeah. What fucked me most was this. Her boyfriend was two years younger than her. They dated for two months. She lost her vcard in march. That means they started dating in january. Which is around 3 months after her injury. I find this crushing as it shows how worthless I am in her eyes sexually.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 07:57 PM
1

I have to hope.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 07:51 PM
3

I never have been able to get a scarcity mentality. I just cannot not pedestalise somehow. I've been going to the gym irregularly for a year now. Plan to get my shit together when I return from holiday. I met her through tinder. I had another two dates set up but then this stupid holiday came up, but yes I was chasing multiple women. And she was chasing me. And when she saw interest she just dropped everything.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 07:50 PM
1

She actually said she would always be there for me and would still like to meet up, which is something BP me would have said...
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 07:47 PM
5

How can I not care? Once I expereince this bullshit then I will realise it was not worth it. But until then it's like telling a kid not to stick his finger in a socket. It will do it until it learns its lessons.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 07:46 PM
14

Unfortunately I went all female and my emotions took hold of logic and I sort of repeated many times why me and this always fucking happens
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 07:45 PM
5

Socially I get along well with everyone. I usually am the centre of most conversations. Can flirt well. Cannot kino well. Could not cold approach even if I had a gun pointed at my head.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 07:43 PM
1

How?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 07:35 PM
4

I think that fucked it. The whole opening up. She went from not thinking she could compete with other girls to I want friendship. What did I do differently? A lot more aggressive. Said suggestive shit. Made it clear from the start I wanted to fuck her. Agreed and amplified shit tests.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 07:35 PM
0

Discovered RP at the start of they year. Due to study mainly worked on mental aspects eg confidence and articulacy.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 07:33 PM
1

Alright.
/r/trpGAME26/05/14 12:03 PM
1

Great advice. Thanks man. If all goes well I will probably be making a panicked post on how to have sex for the first time.
/r/trpGAME26/05/14 11:50 AM
1

Thanks man. I struggle so much with abundance mentality, due to my lack of experience.
/r/trpGAME26/05/14 11:49 AM
1

This was really great. It's nice to see something positive every now and then.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 09:18 AM
1

She asked first what I had done. She then told me it was nothing to be embarrased about. I told her that I was not embarrased, I had just prioritised studying over socialisıng for a while. I have snapchatted her for two days. Have I become friendzoned?
/r/trpGAME26/05/14 08:29 AM
1

Just the fact that we are both 18. I don't know why I felt that way. She literally sent a list. Blowjob handjob fingered got licked out and vaginal sex.
/r/trpGAME26/05/14 08:11 AM
2

Got it. On a side note, when she told me that, I felt a deep sadness, and even disgust, as though I was being handed used goods, or a hand-me-down. Is thıs normal?
/r/trpGAME26/05/14 07:30 AM
10

There is a reason why TRP exists. You need guidance and support, you need proof others are going through what you are and have been there before. In the anger stage, a man feel uncontrollable fury at how society works and how everything they have been fed is a lie. This guy had no help. He rejected help, and it was too much for him to bear. There is a reason the manosphere exists. We are men. Men help each other through hardship and struggle. The comradery and brother bonds are something unique …
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 06:40 AM
0

She is fine now. She lost her vcard in march, 5 months after the stroke. She is complete control physically.
/r/trpGAME25/05/14 02:44 PM
3

You make a lot of valid points. On the question of self respect. To be honest, if I use this girl, I am not gonna hate myself. She is outside of the range of girls that I can get, and the fact that she is willing to have a sexual relationship means a quarter of the battle is over. Sure I might be selling myself short, but it would be nice to get some sexual experience and to see what a relationship is like, if that makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 01:20 PM
2

I don't know any of her of friends and she knows none of mine. The city is two hours away on train.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 11:27 AM
1

We're both 18. Why would she see me as her only chance at happiness?
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 11:03 AM
3

Got it. Thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 09:08 AM
2

Thanks man. This was what I was hoping to read.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 07:49 AM
2

That's the general advice but what's the worst that can happen? She lives in a different city from me, if that helps.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 07:41 AM
2

I see. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 07:05 PM
0

There is. Why would it freak you out? Right now my lust emotions are clouding my judgement. I need cold hard brutal logic.
/r/trpGAME24/05/14 06:36 PM
1

Please elaborate
/r/trpGAME24/05/14 06:32 PM
4

Bearing in mind I am an extreme noob, I still want to ask: would it not have been better to walk off instead of informing her you're leaving?
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 05:56 PM
1

Yeah man. I sent her a message I meant to send to another tinder girl and she keeps asking about other girls I talk to. I just reply that I talk to other girls because I don't believe in putting all my eggs in one basket and so I have other options in case she fucks up. Is this dread game? Also as is very obvious I'm still nooby at the game. She told me she lost her virginity and I cracked a few jokes about having sex with her and I told her we would sort things out when I returned. I don't want…
/r/trpGAME24/05/14 05:06 PM
25

Thank you so much for this. EDIT: I began reading the Manipulated Man. This book is paramount in understanding gender roles, and I personally feel that it explains amazingly why so many men feel dissasisfied with their lives and careers. Here it is: http://dontmarry.files.wordpress.com/2008/08/the_manipulated_man.pdf
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 10:22 AM
24

You, sir, are a fucking legend. Please have my eternal gratitude.
/r/trpGAME22/05/14 09:30 AM
1

Thank you for the analysis. I am still very nooby at this game.
/r/trpGAME22/05/14 01:46 AM
-3

Yup. She gets wet panties cos of alphaness and if she says no you do not waste time and energy. Allow one flake then next.
/r/trpGAME21/05/14 07:19 PM
1

Hey you should have lunch with me at X on Y(date). They make the best sushi/fried chicken etc.
/r/trpGAME21/05/14 06:47 PM
6

Like the guy in the article, I too would probably lose my appetite if I saw that walking down the street.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 01:46 PM
1

It's not that I hate video games. I don't think I could ever give them up. They taught me so much about life, and also shaped the way I view life. I love them to bits. It's just I wish I could have been introduced to them later, instead of playing so much perhaps did something like the Scouts or a sport or a martial art.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 07:49 PM
4

It was two women that treated the girl like shit and had her kicked out. The only bit about men was the part about "dads ogling and talking among themselves." Excuse my lack of knowledge, but where is TRP in this?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 07:30 AM
1

Youtube search Mystery?
/r/trpGAME12/05/14 05:39 PM
1

I kissed a girl once, a peck on the lips. I was accused of face rape the next day. We were both 17. That's it. Never tried kino apart from a handshake because whenever I see the suggestions it feels too awkward to do it in real life.
/r/trpGAME11/05/14 03:46 PM
1

Thanks a lot for this. Any that is noob friendly? Because this guide assumes you've some experience with a girl, which I don't.
/r/trpGAME11/05/14 11:29 AM
1

Assume attraction. Thanks kind sir.
/r/trpGAME11/05/14 08:04 AM
1

I used to stress so much over shit like this and then I see RPers saying the most basic stuff and in my heart I know it makes sense and I just look at my life thinking why the fuck did I waste so much time?
/r/trpGAME11/05/14 08:03 AM
2

That's great advice thanks man. Quick question: what if I see her again and again at the gym?
/r/trpGAME05/05/14 05:49 PM
1

Thanks for the advice sir.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 08:54 PM
1

It's utter shit my friend.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 08:53 PM
1

That shit was deep sir. Thank you for sharing with me.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 08:52 PM
2

That last line is my great fear. I remember there was a post about natural alphas, and how they grow up surrounded by chicks and realise they aren't worth shit and everything is easy for them. For me it was not like that, I was polite and nice and kind and caring and all that shit, and it was always "oh I'm sure there is someone out there for you just not me." I am sick of that shit, and I want to get some experience sexually. While monsieurhire2's advice is solid, which I will definitely follow…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 08:51 PM
1

Thank you kind sir.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 08:46 PM
1

Thank you so much man. That analogy was awesome.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 07:47 PM
1

Practice makes perfect. Thanks man
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 07:45 PM
2

Chick that I find sexually attractive. And honestly at this age I don't care about being cheated on. Before the Red Pill I was all for Disney true love relationships and that crap. Now I just want to experience girls.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 07:44 PM
1

Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 05:48 PM
2

I think I needed that. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 05:48 PM
2

This is the primary message of the Red Pill. Focus on yourself and make yourself as near perfect as possible, then the chicks will come. It's just hard to not try to get chicks when guys who are poorer than me, uglier than me, and less fit than me pull chicks left right and centre.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 05:47 PM
1

So when I see a hot chick I assume she would be lucky to get me, and keep walking. Is that it?
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 05:45 PM
2

I don't do it to get girls though. I do it because thanks to the Red Pill I realised I don't need to take their shit anymore.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 05:44 PM
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