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theginger3469/r/seduction11/09/13 04:20 PM
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2 things you could do. Disregard it and move on to the next chick (abundance) Respond with something like "Awww thats cute, you're worried you won't be able to keep up" smirk (confidence)
/r/seduction21/01/15 03:16 PM
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You're 26 dude... do you really wanna get involved with a fickle 18 yr old that can't even get into a bar? Not to say that going to the bar is the only thing you like to do.. Think about it, shes 18, maybe in college, maybe going to college. You're 26, probably out of college, the mindsets are completely different.
/r/seduction21/01/15 03:05 PM
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You only get friendzoned if you chose to be friendzoned. If you make intentions known then friendzone doesn't happen. If she says "well i just want to be friends" You say, "I'm not interested in just being friends". She will either appreciate your honesty or rebuff you. If she rebuffs, then move on to the next chick. There are TONS of women out there. Don't limit yourself to just a small circle.
/r/seduction10/12/14 09:23 PM
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You're only bad with girls because you keep telling yourself you're bad with girls. Fake it till you make it. Act like you know exactly what you're doing. You have friends right? Walk up to girls and treat then like your friends.
/r/seduction10/12/14 05:52 PM
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So date. You get a lot of the perks of a gf w/o having the billshit.
/r/seduction10/12/14 05:47 PM
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haha! I saw this and was like...."uhhhh right..."
/r/seduction05/11/14 03:06 PM
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Boom! Thats how its done son! Nice with the Fry meme, original and playful.
/r/seduction30/10/14 02:35 PM
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2 months? Why so long? Oneitis happens because you find what you think is the "perfect girl" then do everything you can to make her like you. Start thinking "these are the things I like, I wonder if she likes them" and stop thinking "these are the things she likes, I should like them so she likes me" You need to be in the mindset of abundance. Yes, this girl may have been amazing but move on to the next one. You're learning though man. Think of it this way, you've already gone further than many …
/r/seduction28/10/14 02:28 PM
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Start with one thing. For exmaple: remembering names. Once you've got that down, add another thing. Light Kino. Then go on from there. Add one thing at a time until it is so natural you don't have to 'remember' it.
/r/seduction13/10/14 04:03 PM
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Get to the gym. Bulk up. And wait for college. High school is a joke when it comes to relationships and girls. College things click and you'll bE fine.
/r/seduction25/07/14 09:03 AM
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Thats the thing, it doesn't have to rule your life. If you've got stuff to do, then take care of it. No girl wants to talk to a guy thats too tired/exhausted to keep her interest. Take care of your business. Throw some game in there too. Game isn't just about going out to a bar/club to pick up a chick and bang her. Its about inner confidence and using it to improve your life. You don't necessarily have to "schedule a time" for it. You just starting using it in your everyday life. For instance, y…
/r/seduction06/07/14 03:05 PM
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That all depends on you dude. If you let your own "baggage" get to you it will effect your in-field work. If you make the decision to not let it affect your game then it won't. Remember, practice practice practice. You're going to stumble, you're going to screw up. Don't look back and think "Damn, if I didn't have so much baggage that may have worked out". This is a terrible mindset. Look back and think "ok, what didn't work well, what didn't she like, how can improve?"
/r/seduction06/07/14 02:20 PM
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What you have is good. Id also modify it. "Hey i noticed your shirt/purse/hair style/nail polish and thought id come over and say hi"
/r/seduction14/06/14 06:48 PM
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This is A+. I'm gonna have to use it.
/r/seduction08/06/14 02:29 PM
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That was one hell of an awesome read man. If this isn't motivation I don't know what is.
/r/seduction29/05/14 02:46 AM
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Keep her on the list. Don't view this chick as the only chick you can see right now. Occupy your time with other girls too. If you have a free night, text her. Don't keep nights free thinking maybe she will hang out. If she's interested she will want to hang out. If shes not then she'll put you off and tell you reasons shes busy.
/r/seduction15/04/14 02:35 PM
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mufasa pubes haha! Cracked me up. Good read.
/r/seduction02/04/14 02:15 PM
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This right here is some good info. Making your intentions known. Is such an important part of the dating realm that many people miss. Yes it is putting yourself out there and you can possibly be hurt. I really liked the "hang out" part. It is an ambiguous term that I've used in the past thinking "oh man, if I don't tell her its a date then maybe she'll come over and she can see how cool of a guy I am." Which was dumb and wrong of me. You need to tell her up front that you're interested in her. I…
/r/seduction24/03/14 02:38 PM
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ATX ftw.
/r/seduction19/02/14 03:11 PM
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If you got her number then mission accomplished. Don't let it get your night down. Dance around. Have fun. Setup a date and see how things go. If things don't work out then move on. :-)
/r/seduction13/02/14 03:18 PM
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Do you have any recommendations then?
/r/seduction03/02/14 01:50 AM
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Nice, so how'd you get banned?
/r/seduction07/01/14 01:39 AM
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I wondering this as well. What does a moderator get that users dont? other than screening messages?
/r/seduction07/01/14 01:02 AM
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This is good. Just respond with "k" or "Cool". Leave it to them to get in touch with you again.
/r/seduction19/12/13 02:32 PM
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I couldn't agree with you more. If a chick wants to see you, she makes time for you. If they make excuses multiple times in a row, just respond with something like "Cool." or "Awesome." then don't say anything after that. Move on to the next. 1 date does not make a relationship.
/r/seduction06/12/13 12:02 AM
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*Ask how tall she is, if she tells you a number tell her to stand up, take her seat when she does, and then offer that she sits on your lap. Oh! I like this one. Going to have to give it a try.
/r/seduction13/11/13 03:21 PM
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Awesome job dude I bet it feels good to get back in the saddle. Something of note though. Field reports should highlight the techniques and methods used in the game. A lot of people come here and write it like a diary entry.
/r/seduction11/11/13 03:35 PM
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2 ways to go about this: Tell them how old you are... Lie your ass off. Tell them you're 20 about to turn 21. Who cares of you lie to them? You're opening sets, thats the good part.
/r/seduction10/11/13 12:41 AM
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This is an interesting topic. For a long time I thought that calling was the best idea. It shows balls and it is a risk to actually call a chick. But I've had more bad responses than good ones. I've had girls deny the call then text me back saying "why are you calling me?" I was thrown off by this. After setting up a couple of dates I actually asked a few of the girls what they thought when they saw that I was calling? 1 out of 5 thought it was different and cool. All 4 others thought it was wei…
/r/seduction09/11/13 03:45 PM
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A lot of girls will start relationships while already in one. This is college dude. If they aren't married they are fair game. I don't mean go scamming on other guys girls. I mean be flirty and fun to ALL girls. If they haven't mentioned that have a bf then they are at least somewhat interested in you. If they mention a bf shrug it off like any other comment she has made. As soon as you react like "OHHH WELL I GUESS YOU'RE OFF THE MARKET!" then you've lost her before you've even had her. As for …
/r/seduction08/11/13 03:17 PM
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The OP feels like there is enough of a difference to make the post.
/r/seduction08/11/13 12:35 AM
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I was making a joke, it would have to be a girl at like a desk or something.
/r/seduction07/11/13 03:38 PM
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This is good, I like it. Girls on the street are going to be wondering why I'm asking them for a pen and paper.
/r/seduction07/11/13 03:25 PM
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Lie, tell them you are 20. Go out and have fun at that age don't worry about finding "the one".
/r/seduction07/11/13 03:23 PM
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IMO the relationship can make the sex so much better. Casual sex with someone I know its fun and can be great but I find sex with someone I have a relationship with/more comfortable with to be better. There will always be those girls that blow your mind sexually. But just because the sex is good doesn't mean a relationship should be started/ended for it. Give it some time. If things with her current guy don't work out then give it another try.
/r/seduction29/10/13 05:44 PM
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Thats just her trying not to show too much interest. She seems into you. You're wussing out here man. You keep on second guessing yourself which is not showing her any confidence. Make a move. If things doing go well then move on.
/r/seduction29/10/13 02:31 PM
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Don't sleep with her. Things may have been amazing but all it is going to cause its pain. It just creates distrust and lies. Stay single dude. Go out and meet girls. You'll meet a girl that peaks your interest and you'll realize that you hadn't thought about her(ex) in a couple of days. This is a good example of Onitis you need to diversify. C'mon dude, you're cultured. You've lived abroad. Tons of girls will find that interesting. Share your experiences with them.
/r/seduction29/10/13 02:28 PM
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This is good and assertive. I like to use "Lets" because its an implied "We". Not just "I'm taking you home". It conveys more of a "We are going home together", she will feel more comfortable that way IMO. Awesome alternative, I'll have to try it.
/r/seduction28/10/13 02:08 PM
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I just say "lets get out of here." If they are down they will go, if they aren't they will give you a reason why not. If they don't, go for the number and try to hook up later with her.
/r/seduction27/10/13 08:30 PM
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First, did she ask for advice? Girls will often complain about something (a guy, their friend, their mom, etc) but they aren't looking for advice and they aren't looking for you to fix the problem. What they want is validation of their feelings. Offering advice unsolicited can turn her off very quickly. Holy shit, this is great right here. I've wondered this same thing but you've explained it perfectly in words. Thanks.
/r/seduction21/10/13 02:55 PM
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What makes you think you're a bore? You shouldn't need to entertain a girl constantly. If things are going well and clicking then being with each other doing things you both enjoy is entertainment enough.
/r/seduction20/09/13 09:33 PM
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My opinion, move on man. You will change a lot between 21-25. Go to bars, go to parties, meet girls. She may seem perfect, but as soon as you're back with her the same shit that bugged you before will start to bug you again.
/r/seduction19/09/13 08:28 PM
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Do the same thing you're doing with girls. Talk to them. Initiate Kino. You're a big guy, pick a girl up. Walk up behind her and literally sweep her off her feet. She is going to go "wtf are you doing?" you're response is "oh, im sweeping you off your feet" Make your intentions known. "Look I'm not looking for a relationship, but you seem interesteing and I want to get to know you."
/r/seduction19/09/13 08:24 PM
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Well if she was truly the perfect fit yall would still be together. Would you not agree? Being picky is not a bad thing. How old are you btw?
/r/seduction19/09/13 08:19 PM
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Going to have to agree. Feel it out. 4 dates without making a move is too long for me. Build the sexual tension. She will want it just as much as you do. Get to know her, physically and mentally. Why waste 4 dates just to figure out the physical side is not what you like?
/r/seduction19/09/13 08:17 PM
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Agreed. You need to make your intentions known. If anything say to her This is a date, I'm interested in you and want to get to you know you better. If you play your cards right you might even get to go out again with me. Say it playfully.
/r/seduction19/09/13 08:13 PM
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Going to have to say move on dude. "Abundance", there are MILLIONS of girls out there. Don't go searching for the same thing. Get to know new girls. You WILL meet someone that intrigues you and you'll find that you haven't thought of your ex in days.
/r/seduction19/09/13 08:09 PM
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If they ask about family don't avoid it just explain with something like "I had a couple of close family members pass last year from cancer." "I loved them and they are in a better place" With a smile. It may be hard to talk about but say it with a smile and a light hearted tone. The girl may feel some sympathy but to me it shows value because you care about the people you love. Then just move on to the next topic.
/r/seduction13/09/13 04:23 PM
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I would just say it like it is. Who cares if people think you're bragging. Its all in your tone. You have a job you enjoy and you enjoy talking about it. That, in itself, is a great thing. Tons of people hate their jobs. You enjoy yours. Don't let what people think bring you down. "What do you do? I work with some companies and people doing XXXXX" You don't necessarily have to name drop right off the bat. If people ask which companies, then explain more.
/r/seduction13/09/13 04:16 PM
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Sex with mediocre women is only cool for a little while, then you wake up and sneak out of her house in hopes she didn’t remember anything about you. Go out, find the two most attractive women in the bar and try to talk to them. This right here is good shit man. Mediocre women are easy as hell and it does get old. I want stuff to be proud of.
/r/seduction12/09/13 05:08 PM
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Unless he really held hands with a hobo, isn't that a lie as well? Let me clarify my 2). I'm talking about picking up a chick and just trying to get laid here. From what I got from his post is that he is nervous because he doesn't have any experience. IMO he needs to get some experience, needs to GET LAID. It will help with confidence. Once you've got past "Oh my God, I haven't done anything, I'm so nervous" then things will flow smoother. I am all for honesty but "fake it till you make it" does…
/r/seduction11/09/13 04:29 PM
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This guy makes a ton of approaches. IMO its a numbers game. Not every chick is going to respond well to you. While I don't necessarily agree with approaching a chick from behind, this guy has no shame and fucking makes it happen. I like the part when he sits down with the guy and the chick at the table and the dude is friend-zoned to death.
/r/seduction11/09/13 04:24 PM
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Great read dude. I was a lot like you in high school. It took me forever to figure this all out. I finally got my shit together in college but I spent a lot of time alone wondering why girls didn't like me. It was because I didn't like myself. You put it into words perfectly.
/r/seduction11/09/13 03:53 PM
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Theres 2 way you could go about this. Be honest. If you're looking for a relationship and not just to bang then be honest. If she freaks out, then move on to the next chick. Lie your ass off! First kiss? Suzy Q under the swing-set in 5th grade! First sexual experience? The baby sitter thought I was cute when I was 14, she was 16 and showed me a whole new world. How many girlfriends have you had? "Enough to know what I want/like!" The saying fake it till you make it comes to mind. If you are just…
/r/seduction11/09/13 02:16 PM
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Good Job dude. Things don't always work out and you handled it well. I would probably ask why she changed her mind too. Way to not let it trip you up. The way I always see it is "WELP....NEXT!"
/r/seduction04/09/13 03:25 PM
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"Abundance" There are millions of beautiful women out there. One-idis really fucked with me. I'd get hung up on girls and think they were the world. Understanding that there are TONS of girls out there really helped me. All you have to do is say Hi.
/r/seduction29/08/13 03:02 AM
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In reference to rule 3. You need to ask questions to get to know someone. I'm not talking "interview mode". I can be alpha and still get to know someone. Eliminating all question marks is stand-off-ish.
/r/seduction23/08/13 02:18 PM
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I would say go for the number sooner rather than later. I've tried both asking for number and giving mine and the results are about the same. When I ask for a number I say something to the effect of Well, you don't seem like a crazy. Give me your number and we can continue this via text. Other times I just give them my number and let them make the next move. This is after some back and forth messaging that goes well. Hey "OKC Chick", you seem pretty down to earth and not a crazy. XXX-XXX-XXXX is…
/r/seduction18/08/13 02:07 PM
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I was the same way dude. Was married and never wore condoms with the wife. After some testing I found that I like Trojan BareSkin condoms the best. Out of the condoms that I've used they seem the least "plastic bag" feeling.
/r/seduction15/08/13 02:46 PM
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I'd say just keeping being you dude. Being a flirt isn't a bad thing at all. Girl s are "flirts" all the time and no one minds. Just live it up man. Have fun. The girls will see your good time and want to be around you.
/r/seduction10/08/13 01:44 PM
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IMO you make it last as long as you want it to. The "lack of time" thing is so that the girl doesn't think you're just going to sit there and chat her up all day. She becomes more receptive to a quick interaction than some dude creeping on her for 20 min.
/r/seduction29/07/13 02:13 PM
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Agreed. Good job. The cool part is when you develop your own tweaks to textbook game.
/r/seduction29/07/13 02:12 PM
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This. Right here. They are the ones that get the chance to get to know you. If they don't like/respond to it. Their loss. This is great advice, thanks.
/r/seduction27/06/13 04:35 AM
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Maybe because it's because I'm older. 27. I still text but having an actual conversation is quicker and it really shows my personality. My sarcasm is much more easily conveyed on a phone call or in person. If it's off-putting then I'm not interested in talking to her. She has to earn my time. If all she wants to do is just text me then I will go elsewhere.
/r/seduction20/06/13 01:34 PM
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Then leave her a voicemail. She will listen to it. Hear your voice and either text or call you back.
/r/seduction20/06/13 01:27 PM
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Good write up. Text game has worked on and off for me. Like you said, not texting a bunch "is out of my comfort zone." I can think of witty things to say be as suave as I want because why not, its just a text. Here is a thought that might be a little out of the norm for dudes. Call the Girl. You got the balls to get her number, have the balls to call her! You can spend hours trying to figure texts out and think of responses OR you can just call her and take a chance. I'd say just call her. Girls…
/r/seduction19/06/13 05:23 PM
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with girls who don’t have their bitch shields at 200% This like cracked me up. Nice write up.
/r/seduction18/06/13 12:50 PM
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This is some good information. When I text I'm trying to get to know these chicks. I've moved on from "just trying to get laid" I actually want to make a connection with a girl and see where it goes. If I enjoy talking to them I will text them. Not all day every day, but while I'm at work and I have a free second I will text back to keep the conversation up. I've done the quick game where I send 2 messages and met up. It has turned out that if I would have talked to her a little more I probably …
/r/seduction31/05/13 02:02 PM
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I would say thats awesome then. Get the DJ to play it. Go in the middle of the dance floor and get everyone doing it.
/r/seduction28/05/13 07:06 PM
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Dont forget The Wobble! If you can really work it get in a group of girls and just work the hell out of it.
/r/seduction28/05/13 05:01 PM
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I'm starting to come to the same conclusions as you. I've wondered whats wrong with these chicks that they resort to online dating. More of the girls I've met so far have done nothing for me mentally. Just boring as hell. At first I've thought it as a screening process. But I'm really starting to think that just meeting chicks and taking chances is so much better than just reading about someones profile.
/r/seduction24/05/13 07:13 PM
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I came here to say the same thing as you man. It is ALL about confidence. Bleed that shit man. If they don't react well, move on. @CraigRCarter OKCupid is a great place for trial and error. If you get some responses great. If you don't move on to the next. On a place like that you have to blanket message. Hit up tons of girls. The ones I've talked to say the get messages ALL THE TIME. So many people get lost in the bunches. Its just luck of the draw and numbers. 2nd date thing: Be assertive. The…
/r/seduction05/04/13 05:42 PM
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Not stupid per se. Its not for everyone. Me personally, I was very disappointed in sex the first time I had it. "THAT was what all the fuss was about?!" I've had sex with enough girls now to know what I like and don't like. If you want to wait for marriage, wait for marriage. If you don't then don't. Its all about personal beliefs.
/r/seduction03/04/13 04:10 PM
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