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Typically this is because they're checking you out and you just caught them at it. Pretty much every human (and animal)does this, regardless of sex. You "win" this game if you're getting checked out and you don't return the favor.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 06:44 AM
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I think TRP has the same structure of value as other subreddits that claim to have a constructive function: you need a healthy dose of critical thinking to find the good bits. All else is dross.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 03:26 AM
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If you read nofap's sidebar, then you'd see that they are not claiming to be a movement or even be particularly scientific. It's basically a tool for accountability. They make very little judgment on specific rebooting posts because the goals there are so diverse. I agree in that I didn't find it that useful, but plenty of Reddit users do, apparently.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 02:13 AM
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You got moderated for soliciting customers. Everything else you said is sour grapes conjecture. If you tried to sell your "swallow the red pill services" here you'd get moderated, too.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 01:41 AM
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Excellent post. These talks are always a judgment call. If you've only hung out twice before, then no, you don't owe her any explanation. But if you've been fucking for six months to two years and she's obviously looking for commitment, then ditch her. Don't do it because it's the right thing to do, do it because sooner or later she (because you suck at red flags) is gonna go batshit crazy and you'll end up dead, in jail, or on the news. There's nothing that causes a shitstorm more than "wasting…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 05:59 PM
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Association comes when you don't reply for 6 hrs to her text confirming that she went with a guy friend to this concert. Or 24 hrs if it's an ex. Or be a little cold/leavebecausesomethingcameup if it's in person.Those are examples, you get the concept. You're expressing your displeasure. You want it to be noticeable without being a drama queen about it. If it starts an argument then hold frame for dear life.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 04:36 PM
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It's 5 dollars per inch of the marks. But that doesn't take inflation into account. You'd have to consult a future derma-expense attorney for a more specific figure.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 07:39 AM
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"Also, any suggestions on how I could set the boundary besides presenting it logically? Essentially, a way a woman would understand." This statement is a bit off, I think. Women are perfectly capable of understanding a logical argument, but it's not the most effective way to set a boundary. I recommend that if you want her to remember the boundary, then you should withdraw attention/negatively reinforce it. It should be noticeable and should match your displeasure. It's fine to make your case kn…
/r/askTRP18/08/15 07:28 AM
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She's not yours, it's just your turn. Enjoy it while it lasts. Assuming your info is rock solid regarding her meetup with him, do not mention any of this to her. If it continues to bother you, then plan your exit strategy and start acquiring plates. You did prod for this info.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 07:15 AM
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I am also a bear. Without being prompted, every woman has said they liked it. Not one got out of bed because of it. They probably preferred a little less hair, but by that point they were already buying what I was selling.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 07:03 AM
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It's a reflexive invitation for reassurance/compliments.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 06:59 AM
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You gave her all the validation she could want via text, why would she actually want to hang out with you? When she said, "Maybe :) we'll talk about it later," that was your opportunity. You should have immediately soft nexted her at that point. That means no contact unless she initiates it. That "Maybe" should read as "no" to you. You overdid it and blew it. The only way it could possibly come back in your favor is if you never contact her again...and if she contacts you, remain a tad disintere…
/r/askTRP18/08/15 06:41 AM
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Don't necessarily use FRs for your own strategy. It doesn't have to be exact. You don't have to close on the second date if you (should) know that you're lacking abundance mentality, if your SMV isn't sky high, or if you sense that things aren't going smoothly. You absolutely can escalate too quickly. With that said, next time a woman says she's leaving, don't instruct her to do something for you. Say, "Okay," and then proceed as if she has already left. Don't tell her to get anything. Lastly, w…
/r/askTRP18/08/15 06:28 AM
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It's IDGAF.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 06:10 AM
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If she's HB4 then she's just eating up the validation and is getting an emotional surge from the sex. You're the one with the red flag. You're fucking an HB4 that you clearly aren't attracted to. 3-4 pumps...what are YOU getting out of it?
/r/askTRP18/08/15 06:07 AM
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Get a part time job anywhere and pay for your own membership. If your high school has a gym then use that. You'll also need to buy extra food for yourself. Bike to work if you have to...you could work once a week and that would be sufficient
/r/askTRP18/08/15 05:53 AM
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Girls can be rude for a myriad of reasons which may or may not have anything to do with you. If this is happening consistently, then yes you are low SMV. If it's not consistent, then you shouldn't think twice about it.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 05:49 AM
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It depends. Most girls won't challenge it. If she's actually challenging on it, then I usually just raise my eyebrow and continue the previous flow of conversation. Alternatively, you can smirk and teasingly say, "Do alot of guys buy you drinks...(her affirmative response) And where are they now/Well good for you." It's playful and you're basically teasing her for acting like a princess. This doesn't work if you look like a bum.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 05:45 AM
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It's difficult to give advice as we don't know why he's pulling away or really any other info... besides that you have only been exclusive for a short time. I'd advise not to worry overmuch about it as it's only been a few weeks. Any suggestion for a remedy would just be a guess at this point. Ask /r/redpillwomen, they are really pretty good.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 05:36 AM
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Good job holding your ground. There. I validated you. Now break up with her, fool. Read your list of red flags and realize that "because why not" isn't a good reason to stay in a LTR with a "batshit crazy" woman.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 03:51 AM
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Agreed. Each sentence has two verbs, 6 abstract concepts, and four conditional phrases. I'm always amazed on how verbose some posts are since TRP concepts aren't even remotely complex.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 05:07 AM
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Your description of what you want is pretty low hanging fruit.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 10:09 AM
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Thanking her for the food was the right thing to do. Not because it's polite, but because you're rewarding her good behavior. She'll want to tug on that thread until she's tugging on your belt buckle.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 07:43 PM
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TRP and its offshoots getting banned would be equivalent to a law-abiding member of the NRA getting his guns confiscated by the federal government. The sweet, delicious validation is coming!
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 01:29 AM
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TRP is my male space with a mostly testimonial-based philosophy on relationships and personal advancement. It's about overcoming your biological needs as an obstacle so you can get on with shit you care about.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 12:52 AM
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This was my takeaway, too. Spez obviously can't be relied on to keep his word. He doesn't follow on promises two weeks later, much less several years. His presence is designed to lend credibility to the censorship process since he's a founder and can apparently do no wrong. It's pretty clear the "Content Update" is going to be updated a couple dozen times before the year is out, with a brand new set of banned communities each round. I bet we make it to November and no further.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 12:33 AM
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Stating that it is a fact that men also employ a dualistic strategy does not mean it is a fact. You'll need to do better than that if you want "acceptance."
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 06:36 PM
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trp_hamlet will take part in this challenge!
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 03:15 AM
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Exactly. TRPers often apply a double standard to their own arguments. Which is too bad, because the radical feminist double standard is a valuable rebuttal all over this sub. e.g. "I'd help a shorter guy reach something but if some post wall woman asks me then I'd refuse."
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 02:45 AM
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OP used to do tiny favors for women in public because it was no big deal. Now OP does it because of "social pressure" and takes 20 minutes to write a post about it. Just start a blog already.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 02:41 AM
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Also I think this is a repost. Could've sworn I read this yesterday.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 12:32 AM
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If you want to stay, then you need to hold your frame better. Speak with respect and always stay calm under pressure. I get the impression that you become visibly stressed or frantic when confronted by these women. If so, then you've got a bit of a hole to dig out of. You've lost their respect. Keep it simple. Stand up straight. Every response is "no problem." Even if the impossible is asked of you. Restaurant work is bitch work. Pretty soon they'll start flirting with you again after a month or…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 12:14 AM
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Fuck off with your tone policing. Not interested. P.S. AWALT isn't literal, new post on first page for newbies.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 12:34 PM
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You are arguing that AWALT is an assumption and therefore invalid. You won't get much constructive debate here because AWALT is a TRP tenet. For most TRPers, that ship has sailed, and you aren't changing our minds.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 07:59 PM
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Dump them both and begin monk mode. Also, this belongs in asktrp. You've been reading trp for years and you don't know what to do when your LTR isn't giving you sex?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 12:23 PM
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This belongs in asktrp. Feelings are fine, commitment is not. Why would you enter a relationship with someone who can't be trusted in relationships? You're not special and neither is she. Read the sidebar and top posts to find out why! Edit: reread your post. She likely is just looking forward to the validation of you admitting you like her. Deny.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 01:07 PM
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The amount of unproven assertions in an argument generally skyrockets when a woman is the author. Once I run across two or three in the first paragraph, I just have to move on.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 03:52 AM
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Give yourself a specific amount of time to regroup. Like 2-3 days max. During this period you need to soul-search. What do you actually want out of life? Talking 20 year plan, here. Sit in your room, in a park, go somewhere beautiful. Just set this time aside. It's the biggest decision you'll ever make. You'll also be surprised at how certain you become. And the answer will come. Figure out your passion. Start planning. Consider your own weaknesses and implement time management strategies that w…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 02:28 AM
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"...she really thinks I'm a GOOD GUY and has been trying to set us up..." Warning. Warning. You admit to being a newbie in the title, and this is basically the proof. Recommend the same as any brand spanking newbie: read sidebar, top posts, and start your monk mode. TRP isn't an advice column and you can't truly on it for a quick fix. TRP is a massive overhaul of your life philosophy.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 10:02 PM
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TRP can only help those who are looking for it. It doesn't work on a mass media scale. TRP's message is to save yourself, not the world. The world doesn't need saving (i.e. Acceptance Phase).
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 12:27 AM
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This is a pretty big push on boundaries that OP has already set. Recommend dread game. Also recommend less texting in general as it's harder to shut this down over the phone. She's just attention whoring OP with this drama.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 08:55 PM
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I have read the sidebar, thanks for the others.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 02:39 AM
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Thanks for the resources, your tone notwithstanding, and I understand that it's an art. Partially. I'm not looking for a scientific formula per se, but I find it hard to believe that it is a skill that could not be somewhat improved through some study. That's like telling a painter that art books are all completely useless and you just gotta paint, man.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 02:32 AM
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It requires a serious amount of imagination, that's the point. That's how it applies to your post regarding women in EVE. I played with it for over a year and I'm perfectly aware of its strengths and weaknesses.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 02:06 AM
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EVE online is a spreadsheet game. Women get as much treatment as other games, just not on a collective level. There's too few. That game is a male power fantasy with a long way to travel between tutorial to socializing. Women avoid it because the minute-to-minute gameplay is actually crazy boring. Source: Goonwaffe
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 01:24 AM
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I've always found blowjobs to be much more mental than sex. I gotta be in the right mood and super relaxed. Even then, only about 50% of girls were actually good at it. They all swallowed, so I always think it's weird when I hear about girls who don't. P.S. Maybe they'll last longer if you stop talking girls you want to bang instead.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 12:14 AM
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The anger phase / echo chamber is unavoidable. Any media you search for is going to cater to what you're searching for, thus increasing the subjective intensity. That's basic polarization at work, most notably in political media. TRP, at its center, is a very calm philosophy. The raging is the sub's protective outer shell. It stops any disease from spreading, stops the creeping SJW. TRP's unapproachability is its strength. You'll have to practice critical thinking: you should extract what you ne…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 09:43 PM
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Sickening. What good is a man's self respect generated through hamstering if the entire world deep down thinks you're pathetic (including your wife and eventually, kids). He's so fragile he has to reach out on the internet for validation and still can't get it. It's clear he isn't happy, despite his flowery talk.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 05:18 PM
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Not much info provided here. So there's some kind of legal issue with vehicle ownership and a transaction done in his name and we don't know how/if it was resolved. Cool.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 03:43 PM
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I'm deep in monk mode, but my job puts me in regular contact with twenty something year old women. Makes monk mode difficult sometimes. Anyway, since discovering TRP I've incorporated regular teasing into my interaction with attractive girls. 95% of the time I get excellent responses. They eat it up. The other 5% isn't rejections, it just went over there head or whatever. It's now my default setting, although I don't use it unless there's physical attraction. Unattractive women can tell I'm not …
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 03:59 AM
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Play it cool regardless. Go on your flight, find some other girl. No need to cause drama, just don't spend another dime on this one.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 03:09 AM
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Yeah, the "Red Pill Analysis" of literature/media is the worst... like it's a new form of criticism.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 03:06 AM
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Completely agree. Making TRP a little harder to access will help reconcentrate the message. I doubt it will slow that much, however. I found TRP through a random, innocuous imgur comment that referenced it. Little did I know it would become my City on the Hill.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 11:12 PM
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This is a great follow up. The original post and this analysis which further develops the perspective of women are exactly why I check TRP daily for top posts. I have a question for OP: "Since women do not value sex due to it's availability, then what do they value in their experiences with men? What is the most valuable and scarce commodity?"
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 08:49 PM
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I was 100% soylent for three months. Loved it. Had to stop because it didn't fit into my new workout/diet needs (800 calorie deficit diet with high protein).
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 12:50 AM
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It's different for everyone, and you can slip definitely slip backwards. For me, I jumped straight to acceptance because it fit so well with the dozen relationships I had. I can clearly think back to my blue pill actions and how it negatively affected my SMV at the time. I was so throughly convinced that I never had an anger phase.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 06:02 AM
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Your plan is fine. Just remember that you're exchanging attention for sex. No sex, no attention. Kick her out or make her sleep on the couch next time. And then hard next her.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 05:58 AM
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Doesn't mean anything except it looks like a red flag with "Entitled" written across it.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 05:54 AM
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I am a lazy fuck. I took Calculus II, but I always got Bs in math because I got so bored with it as soon as I realized the concept of each Chapter. I overcame my nature with very strict time management scheduling. Every minute is planned out. There's no trick to motivating yourself. You just have to want it. Self-rewarding by playing a.video game in between every two problems isn't going to work. You just have to do it and no inspirational quote is going to help you.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 05:52 AM
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I read your lifting numbers (monk mode, nothing wrong with that) and skipped to your goals. Yours goals are crazily oneitis. 3/5 of your goals mention this girl. She's not special. She's not a critical part of your life. Any plan that involves her is going to fail as it's self defeating. You need to focus on yourself. Monk mode isn't a fucking joke. TRP strategies require long term commitment.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 05:44 AM
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They are either careful or their lawyers handle settlement out of court with confidentiality as part of the settlement.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 05:33 AM
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It's a clear comfort test. Provide a tad bit of comfort since you said you're not a "feeling guy." It'll stick out. Don't provide this extra bit of comfort unless she.tests you again. It's too late otherwise, women value your initial reactions way more than trying to make up for it later. Overseas is serious trouble, but it sounds pretty short term.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 05:30 AM
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5'10 and 160 is very lean. I was 6' and 160 in school and I was a skinny ass cross country runner. Hit 200lbs shredded and you'll be fucking blown away by the difference.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 05:25 AM
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You don't give your height, so it's hard to really determine your physical status. You could be a jacked 5 footer or a lean 6 footer. I encourage you to aggressively work on your body. Do you have a full head of hair? These things are factors. I have a hard time imagining anyone who is jacked is still a 5/10. Unless we're talking some type of heavy skin damage. I've seen some 9/10 HBs madly in love with strong 6/10 fellas who had excellent frame.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 05:20 AM
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"I don't care about your boyfriend." If she gets defensive or keeps denying you, then you need to leave or at least start texting/ignoring her. Your currency is attention and hers is sex.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 05:14 AM
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The best revenge is success.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 03:25 PM
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You say "BP, I know" about a hundred times during your story. Congratulations on taking the first step.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 12:39 PM
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"We need to talk." Neutral location: park, coffee shop, car in parking lot. Make it you specific, outside factor: need to work on my studies/career/etc. That takes away most blame games. When pressured, I've used the calm nuke: "I just don't feel the same way." I've used it several times. They get upset, but it's a conversation ender and is generic enough that you don't have to specify further. If she pushed too hard, then just excuse yourself.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 04:39 AM
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As long as it's sex each night, then frequency/pacing is up to you. I don't think there's a wrong answer here.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 04:30 AM
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From my observations, women get more upset that you aren't exclusive when they know you aren't fucking other women. It's an inconsistency in your Alpha persona. You don't ask any questions so I'll just assume you're looking for general advice. I recommend you find other women to date. This one is his away and apparently wants commitment, which isn't your style. She'll leave and no worries. If you're looking for specific advice regarding "the talk," then just realize it's a shit/comfort test and …
/r/askTRP22/06/15 04:26 AM
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Lifting and making money are both part of monk mode. They are also not mutually exclusive.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 04:19 AM
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Any confrontation will fail. Implement dread game and don't bother discussing other guys. The MMF threesome thing is weird. She may hamster it as permission to cheat.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 04:17 AM
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You're right, it is kind of an inconsistent thing to say. Feel free to ignore that part. And you're welcome.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 02:17 PM
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It's a fictional story designed to entertain people, especially children. No one would watch it if Jasmine blew three guards and then Jaffar in the palace and then branch swung to Aladdin once he hit the jackpot with the lamp. You're getting downvoted probably because your post isn't interesting and you're asking a forum of mostly adult males to dissect a Disney cartoon as anything other than pure escapist fantasy.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 02:07 PM
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She's not a spinning plate unless you have multiple plates. If she's taking up a large portion of your time, then she knows you probably don't have other plates. If you then insist on non-exclusivity when the time comes, she will view this as a huge inconsistency with your Alpha persona. Plates don't spin themselves if they know everything about you. They need mystery. I highly recommend you find more plates asap. Then, you treat her exclusivity shit test just like any other. If she insists, the…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 01:58 PM
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If a relationship is ending, then closure is code for "let's meet up and I'll shit test the fuck out of you." Failing means losing frame and letting her pummel you with shit tests as fast as you can fail them. Passing means keeping frame and handling shit tests like a pro, after which she will attempt to reignite things. In your case, closure 6 months after the fact means she has seen/heard your new frame and she wants to test it for herself.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 03:42 AM
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You don't specify your diet or workout. You only ask how to "present yourself" to women. Not sure what you're asking. Read the sidebar and especially the recommended reading as this applies specifically to your question. Just keep in mind that TRP says that there are no tricks. Attraction is not negotiable.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 03:35 AM
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More details are needed. What specifically are you trying to accomplish? I did casually everything my parents asked of me, except I consistently violated curfew on purpose. Eventually they gave up on it because overall I was generally respectful. This was a sort of civil disobedience. Your situation may be more strict, and your life won't be entirely in control until you are independent. There's no way around this.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 03:30 AM
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This is my favorite kind of FR: an average member who applies TRP theory correctly. Maybe a few more details. Wouldn't mind an update, either.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 03:19 AM
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Never been to the Purple Pill, so I can't make any informed comparisons there. In that example, it's not a loss of frame to report your boss to the authorities. That's a moral choice that has little to do with TRP. It would be a loss of frame, however, to slash his tires. If you're acting out of anger and exposing yourself legally, socially, or otherwise, then yes, it's a loss of frame. I have no comment on your other shit.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 03:10 AM
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This is a post about a comment from your previous post with some added general lines about how unfaithful women are. Nothing to analyze or amuse here.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 03:03 AM
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This is the best explanation I've seen on TRP.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 02:56 AM
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There's no such thing, but if you really want a "good girl," AKA a beta bux hunter, then you may be forced to number close instead of kiss close, and so on. Instead of "good girls," let's just say they are more concerned with reputation. "Any women is a slut for the right guy" is a TRP maxim, and it is generally true. That shouldn't be taken to absolutely mean "any woman is a ONS for the right guy."
/r/askTRP21/06/15 02:50 AM
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It doesn't change anything with regard to TRP theory. You still have to maintain frame, be the leader, self improve, etc. In my observations, most* girls will cling to you, often for a long time. This tempts some guys to LTR the girl and some will slip into blue pill unicorn thinking also. Just stay wise if you do this. It could take days or years, depending on how blue pill you become, but she will eventually want to go to a different school/take a break/study abroad/cheat after you're married …
/r/askTRP21/06/15 02:41 AM
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Honestly, some girls are just weird as hell and it's hard to figure out if you're being shit tested or if she just said something odd because she's just ODD. Usually ignore is best for those moments, just reorient the conversation to something more fluid. You said she texted for the next next meet, so just maintain your frame. Bringing another girl by in your car is a judgment call: odd girls sometimes have less of an esteem balloon to pop, and then she'll just shut down in the face of competiti…
/r/askTRP21/06/15 02:32 AM
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This is a shut test, not a comfort test. I don't know how, anyone could perceive this as a comfort test. The facts literally do not matter, unless you think she may have cheated on you and you're seriously considering dumping her. This is a BIG shit test. You fail if you show any concern whatsoever or ask questions about what happened (the number of questions you ask is proportional to how hard you fail the shit test). There is only one response to this test. Ignore and apply soft dread. Look it…
/r/askTRP21/06/15 02:18 AM
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Without getting too deeply into specifics, revenge (on women/plates/exs) is a definite violation of IDGAF attitude, which is a mainstay of RP theory. However, revenge in general (against coworkers/social peers/road rage/whatever) isn't really addressed in TRP, except it's a distraction from self improvement. TRP doesn't specifically condone or condemn it. But it stands to reason that if you are planning revenge because you're angry and you want to "get back" at someone, then you've lost frame be…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 01:52 AM
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You won't find your validation here.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 11:21 AM
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Wow that last text. She will abort it, take time to recover, then renew her assault on OP.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 12:34 AM
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I see many comments regarding "controlling the relationship" or "controlling the female." This isn't TRP. TRP is frame and IDGAF. You set boundaries and reward good behavior. Meta-relationship conversations are almost always damaging and usually started by a shit/comfort test that you just failed.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 08:36 PM
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I meant if you invite her over and she uses the boyfriend as an excuse/resistance. Yes, if a woman is badmouthing her boyfriend and things are escalating, then this is a clear green light to prove that you're better.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 05:50 AM
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I recommend never apologizing unless it is a bad situation with clear negligence on your part and that needs to be defused. Like if I rear ended your car. Then "I apologize" is appropriate. I never say "I'm sorry" unless you've had someone pass away recently. I'm trying it out, I think it works well. It absolutely lowers your SMV, but sometimes it's appropriate. If the other party continues to bitch, then only silence is appropriate.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 03:39 AM
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Focus more on IDGAF. I've barely started monk mode, but I made this immediate change. They fucking eat it up. I'm rude and women make excuses for it: "That's direct, I kind of like that." In close proximity to a bacholerette party and ignore them. 10 minutes later I'm ignoring a back massage from a HB6 and the HB8 of the group stopped talking about their hot your guide and is now asking me what it was like to grow up in my area (wtf?). I speak to a guy with respect for 10 minutes and his girlfri…
/r/askTRP10/06/15 03:31 AM
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I can't recommend 5x5 highly enough. Just bench the bar if you have to, there is no shame in it. You will increase the weight and be a respectable beginner before you know it. As for the disc, deadlift properly if you can, if not, find an alternative or a series of them. Start incredibly low, many injuries can be worked through (physical therapy). Kill your ego. Do the lifts correctly and don't cheat yourself.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 03:17 AM
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Haven't read it, but if TRPWomen is any indication, it's a great influence. Every time I poke my nose in that subreddit, I'm always impressed with how appealing the responses are.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 03:02 AM
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Talking about an abusive family on the first date is a red flag. It's tinder, grab your balls and just tell her to come over next time you receive ANY clear indication of interest. "I have a boyfriend" merits "I don't care." Saying fuck you and then accepting a handshake, and saying "call me sometime" is very inconsistent behavior. It's probably fine because she's damaged goods, but there are other obvious risks there.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 02:55 AM
0

This is a big ole shit test. More context needed to properly address.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 02:47 AM
2

This story has been analyzed a million times already on this subreddit. Search before you post.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 06:30 PM
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There's plenty of room for personality in TRP and I never miss a GLO post. Style posts by prominent members are an essential part of TRP, as the reinvented semantics and meta posts get quite tedious once you grasp the concepts. Although I'll always be leery of distracting attempts at marketing in this subreddit... I'd be lying if I said I wouldn't at least check out these +15% alpha garments.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 06:26 PM
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It's annoying because TRP is beset by link spam, and it's a pain to filter. I'd settle for one paragraph that summarizes the article (accurately), or at least describes the source with a teaser. Just linking articles and blogs decreases our signal to noise ratio. The Alpha pass and, by extension, the beta behavior that is reinforced by females, is a very basic concept. You say "solid evidence of TRP concepts," I say it repeats shit we already know.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 02:45 PM
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I have my doubts about this beta dumping method. Not only is it a major frame break (yes it doesn't matter if you're pretending), but if yout SMV is that much higher than the plate, it's very likely that they will.be confused and then assume relationship control. Then later comes the browbeating. I suppose you could betamax harder, but Jesus have some self respect. Seems like it would work best on an alpha widow, but it's alot of effort and very deceptive. TRP, in my opinion, does not encourage …
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 12:43 PM
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Your unicorn LTR validation will not be found here.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 06:23 AM
1

Resources: sidebar and top posts. That was easy.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 02:25 AM
1

I saw someone doing this today for the first time. I assumed he was just cheating himself. Interesting to see that it's valid in some circles. What about the claim that you can get stronger faster? How is this measured? Do the partial deadlifters go back and do regular deadlifts to prove the strength improvements? More weight on the bar doesn't mean shit since its just a different exercise. I saw a guy today partial benching 225... the bar was moving about 6 inches each rep. That doesn't make hi…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 11:09 PM
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Another link with no analysis and nothing new to say: women like betas to stay in their place. Lets not link every sex war blog on the internet and just say that we did
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 10:51 PM
2

35 is the sharpest decline, but fertility begins fading at 30.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 10:35 PM
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"A good post which displays all 5 stages of TRP grief." -New York Times
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 08:38 PM
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Some commenters are missing out on the point of the wall. The wall isn't necessarily a term that only describes a woman who is experiencing a drop in SMV due to their youthfulness fading. It's also relevant at 30 because women begin to have fertility concerns around this time, and so society encourages women to have found a beta bux by 30 because of these two factors. The.majority of women keenly feel this social pressure on their 30th birthday. Like most TRP terms, your mileage will vary by ind…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 08:31 PM
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This exactly. You go to work and slay it because working out gives you forward inertia for the rest of the day. Then you see the person next to you and think "what the fuck did this guy/girl do this morning?"
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 08:12 PM
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It's a landmark phrase in TRP, and it is based on the concept of a woman's natural hypergamy. Hypergamy is a fundamental assertion of TRP, so it's everywhere. You will see this phrase in many high profile TRP posts. You will also see it in posts where the OP has oneitis (they think a particular woman is special). It's effective, because it hurts a little to hear. It has a bite to it. When I first saw TRP, I read it for about 12 hours. Now I just make sure to check in when I have a spare minute. …
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 04:24 PM
2

The terms are called hamstering and trickle truth. Look out for these in the homework you've been assigned.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 03:27 PM
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She's not yours, it's just your turn. This girl doesn't matter, so do whatever you want during your self improvement process. The truth is, you'll probably choose a bit of what you see here as advice "specific to my situation" and then it'll just blow up eventually. This is good. Here's hoping you will actually wake up from the wool that has been pulled over your eyes, and change your behavior Read the sidebar. All of it. Read all of the high scoring posts in this subreddit. All of them. Red Pil…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 03:21 PM
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A tragic example which shows that we play for keeps. You cannot have your identity so tied up in another person. My condolences.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 03:29 AM
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A good guide that points to one of TRP's less mentioned guidelines: nonverbal communication of value always beats verbal.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 07:34 PM
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This is a shit test, like any other. Recommend you use the search function to figure out your preferred response. I recommend Ignore.
/r/askTRP07/06/15 05:12 AM
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Good FR. Question for OP and commenters: how would you speak to your top plate in this context if she hadn't apologized immediately and instead had a demanding look on her face?
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 01:15 PM
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Good deal. Remember these TRP maxims: You are the prize (not her). Don't give a fuck (outcome independence). Abundance mentality (Other women are available to you, she is not a special snowflake and the last thing you'll do is make an effort).
/r/askTRP05/06/15 01:05 PM
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What an incredible disconnect from reality she has. She thought it didn't matter . Like it's a $500 credit card bill she forgot about. So, Truth: this guy married an incredible attention whore with a hamster that has broken the landspeed record. Her sister is having her big day and some old Chad Thundercock is in attendance. Cue severe drama self-sabotage. The worst part is this guy is so focused on the infidelity that he misses the guillotine of cognitive dissonance about to chop his balls off.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 04:21 AM
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Make a workout plan and just show up. Showing up at the gym is half the battle when you're in this mindset.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 12:01 AM
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Alternatively, you can change plans, get lunch or something, then make an excuse to leave.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 11:55 PM
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This is most definitely a shit test. Failing the test is a response like, "I don't care, come over anyway," or, "I'll wash you in my shower," or some stupid shit like that. Passing would be, "Then you better take a fucking shower or douche that pussy first," or agree and amplify, "I haven't showered in 3 days, my pits are the pits." The most proper response is "Yeah, okay, weirdo, I'll pass then." And then you soft next her. Tons of options here. Keep in mind that this is a red flag: She's attem…
/r/askTRP04/06/15 11:51 PM
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Fucking amazing. The white whale...
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 10:12 PM
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If you're concerned about backlash, then don't tell her you're busy. Just be busy. Unless she starts directly complaining about it, then go ahead. Typically TRPers encourage nonverbal power communication rather than directly dealing with the problem. Unless things are heating up, which will result from nonverbal cues on occasion.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 12:21 AM
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No, I don't agree. TRP does not stipulate a maximum size. It's a matter of personal preference obviously.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 12:13 AM
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We were talking about the idea that being big is a disadvantage in certain social circles and professions. I didn't realize you were well on your way to looking like Ronnie Coleman.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 12:02 AM
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I see this a lot. "You don't need to keep getting bigger" implies that she is the reason you go to the gym. That's quite an assumption she's making.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 10:40 PM
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People will try and discourage you on your path. Parents, LTRs, random males and females, and Reddit users. It stems from their own insecurities, their own misconceptions, or their own paradigms. Working out isn't going to hold you back in any field. You may catch flak for it occasionally from detractors, but it's nothing you can't handle. I doubt Arnold was excluded from any social circle that he gave a shit about.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 10:37 PM
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Shit like this makes me happy that I wasn't born one hundred years from now. The flying cars wouldn't be worth it.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 11:11 AM
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As you said, this isn't an activist space. TRP is a place for individual reform, not social.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 11:04 AM
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It feels more honest with men because no one is thinking about sex.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 10:49 AM
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Most of TRP just recommends that you not fuck around at a cheating woman's residence. There have been a ton of posts on this subject, but it comes down to this: TRP is amoral. What you choose to do with the information provided is up to you.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 10:44 AM
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I was just listening to the Mating Grounds podcast earlier today. It was an interview with Robert Greene (author of 48 Laws of Power and The Art of Seduction). He explained that we are naturally manipulative creatures: we modify our behavior based on who we are with. This is an essential part of our psychology from a young age, and not only that: Manipulation is rewarded in dating. From wearing a better pair of shoes to gift giving to speaking in a manner that is designed to impress, it is all e…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 10:35 AM
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I didn't see anything about student tuition reimbursement in that language, only affirmative consent and other state mandated requirements.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 10:13 AM
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Immediate soft dread.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 04:38 AM
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Bulk. Pick a 5x5 program. I'd keep bulking for at least the first 20 lbs.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 04:37 AM
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Do whichever is most beneficial to you. If you have other options, walk and see if A will just pay it herself. If you don't, then you pay. This isn't very TRP relevant.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 04:33 AM
1

Don't bother talking about these negative aspects. Nothing major, at least. There's no point and it's very damaging to the relationship. TRP tenet: A woman will never love you in the way you want to be loved.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 04:25 AM
1

Why do you care
/r/askTRP01/06/15 04:22 AM
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I'm also 6 foot. I went to a military school after high school. Went from 165 to 185 in a matter of 4 months. Combination of double meals and thousands of pushups. Result was that on my Christmas break, three girls I previously dated asked to hang out. Had three awesome nights. I had never been quite that popular with women before. When I hit 190, things got even more intense. If you're looking your a turning point, 190 to 200 is where you start to stand out. I don't have experience heavier than…
/r/askTRP01/06/15 04:20 AM
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There's no wrong answer here. Go out, or tell her to come over instead.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 04:14 AM
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Workout to thin the cheeks and use skin care. I don't know what bad eyebrows mean. Plenty of women do not give two shits if you don't have a symmetrical face. Source: I grew up beta with a big lopsided nose and still got laid on occasion despite my massive beta tendencies.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 04:10 AM
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You need to gauge how much monk mode you can handle. Yes, it'd be great if you could work 15 hours a day, workout 3 hours a day, and sleep exactly 6 hours a night...but we aren't machines. Take a cheat day if you're losing your fucking mind.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 04:05 AM
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If you read sidebar and endorsed contributors, then you should be able to recognize authentic TRP mentality in a post yourself. Regardless of troll or not. That said, I haven't seen any troll posts that survived moderator review.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 01:05 AM
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It wasn't a good move, as you said. There are two main responses. Source: both my and other TRPer's experiences. 1) Ignore, divert. Slow down, wait a few minutes, then escalate again. I would always attempt this first. Nonverbal is always better than verbal. 2) End the date. Girls at this point DO NOT want to go home. No need to be a jackass about it, although you can be. Try "Alright, it's late, I'm gonna/you should head home." There will immediately be a shit test to pass, and then you're gold…
/r/askTRP01/06/15 12:56 AM
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Don't change it. Own it. Having a name like that is instant ice breaker.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 12:46 AM
1

I highly recommend Red Pill Women for this type of question. I'm always impressed by their responses.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 12:38 AM
1

You need a mission. What is it?
/r/askTRP01/06/15 12:35 AM
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I think you handled this correctly. If height is that big a disqualifier for her, then don't waste your time. Yeah, you can defeat the shit test over text and still game her in person, but that's an uphill battle. That was a shit test and a red flag in one.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 12:32 AM
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There is no substitute for abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 12:27 AM
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An incel deciding to MGTOW is like someone going vegan and they've never eaten a steak. Recommend you read more and stop rationalizing your lack of confidence as "women aren't worth it." You aren't informed enough to make that decision. You won't find the validation you are looking for here. Approach some girls that you aren't terribly interested in. I think you'll surprise yourself.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 02:11 PM
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Women will attempt to control you and change you. Resist. Refocus on your own life and your own goals.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 03:18 PM
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You just left your wife and you have two kids? Money. Get it quick and keep it coming. Lift for piece of mind and a dozen other reasons. Get to a position of financial stability as fast as you are able. I read some of your past posts. Looks like you saw this coming: so you know that you aren't out of the woods yet.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 05:04 AM
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She's not yours, it's just your turn. Get well soon, get another job, get another plate. Also, if she's your only plate and you've been fucking her for three years, then she's not a plate. It's an LTR. I was confused when I read that you were visiting your "plate's" parents.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 04:54 AM
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This belongs in asktrp. You haven't provided much detail...does she need you 24/7? Go live your life, she's not going anywhere.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 04:42 AM
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He's a high school English teacher and a beta. He's bored as fuck. You probably make his day by joking with him. Ace his class, continue to crack jokes, then show him pictures after class of your hot prom dates.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 04:29 AM
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She's not yours, it's just your turn. Don't contact him. Find additional plates.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 04:25 AM
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You did well. Friends will often fight back as you gain stature within a group (even if you're still bottom half). One rocky night is worth it. Just don't overdue it. Figure out your boundaries and stay stoic. As times passes and once you can back it up, then you can push harder again. It's difficult to do within a group, so many recommend to just move on to another circle.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 04:22 AM
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The activity and conversation is what makes it "coupley." Consider the difference between watching Netflix, cuddling, and talking about your childhood pets vs. putting on a movie and fucking.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 04:17 AM
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I am not as experienced with female bosses and I don't know if you're trying to fuck yours. There is a lot of info on trp if you are willing to search "woman boss" for it. I do know this: women bosses often have more complicated power dynamics with their male employees. Also, if you're flirting with your boss, then all it takes is one bad day for her to decide that she's being sexually harassed. Then you're proper fucked.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 04:08 AM
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A shit test is something she does to see if your confidence is a facade. Nexting (soft) means you are done: no texting, no approaching in public. Qualifying nexting as soft means that if she initiates contact, you have the option to respond. Soft nexting is communicating that you are perfectly willing to walk away from her. You are willing to do this because she is not special and you have other options. It's a powerful message. If she makes contact again, then you have an opportunity to show he…
/r/askTRP30/05/15 04:00 AM
1

An injury just means start small, progress slowly.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 03:50 AM
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Easy mental exercise: Imagine that the worst thing that could happen, happens. How bad is it, really? You make a mistake at work and your supervisor talks to you about it? You make awkward small talk and it's still awkward 30 seconds later? You'll live. Just hold your frame and your social anxiety will dissipate.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 03:48 AM
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It's MGTOW - Men Gone Their Own Way. Perfectly acceptable. I don't think I could ever completely swear off women, but I could definitely swear off relationships.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 03:41 AM
1

Just get her number. Tell her you want to hang out over the summer. Point blank. Then text her a few weeks into summer.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 03:38 AM
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Just hold frame. Hypothetically. I'm concerned that a woman has never been angry with you.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 03:33 AM
1

Confidence gets you so far, it's honestly ridiculous. You bulldozed yourself by friendzoning. Honestly just act like you never said that. Yes, you can use her as a steeping stone to other girls, but the odds are against you. I recommend you keep it sexual with her, get her to hook you up with get friends, and go nuclear if she cockblocks you. There's a huge likelihood you'll just develop oneitis, though
/r/askTRP30/05/15 03:30 AM
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I don't know your exact age range, but regardless there are plenty of girls who will happily fuck you with very little drama involved. Go find one.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 03:23 AM
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Avoid all contact with this girl. You are incel and so automatically have severe oneitis. Find someone else. You said you have a dream job and are relatively good looking, so it shouldn't be that hard. Next time try to hold frame longer, make that your goal.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 03:07 AM
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You've violated the tenet: don't shit where you work. Keep that in mind (if your job is easily replaceable, then great). I recommend you wait at minimum one week, and then send a one word text to initiate. Chances are, she'll contact you first if she's interested. If she doesn't respond to your text, then you're done, soft next.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 03:01 AM
1

Get started on an exercise program. Start lifting, even if you can't bench a barbell. Get started. Exercise is the best anti depressant ever. Simplify your life, make it about the grades, the gym, the money. You absolutely can turn it around and you don't need anyone else to do it. As for girls, just downgrade to very occasional free porn, or no porn at all if you can handle it. Girls will come in their own time, don't obsess over it. And may God have mercy on your soul foot whoever pops your ch…
/r/askTRP30/05/15 02:55 AM
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Agree and amplify works pretty well in many social situations. Exception: they are directly insulting you.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 02:44 AM
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Soft next this girl. She's using you for validation and you're giving it away. Little hugs mean nothing. If she's ignoring you and messing with her phone all night, then you need to ignore her right back. Use the locale to meet new people and move along. If you successfully interact with a new crowd there, then there's a good chance she'll reinitiate contact with you anyway. Recommend no further direct contact unless she initiates it.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 02:40 AM
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Don't shit where you eat. It sounds like you are handling the MILF boss well, though. For the moment. First Law of Power is never outshine the master. So nodding away to appease him for the moment is fine. As long as he respects you, you're good. I highly recommend the 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene. Watch out for the MILF boss.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 02:30 AM
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Your self esteem in social scenarios clearly sucks. The good news is that it is self-defeating...so you're not as shitty as you think, you're just in a negative spiral. Work on your confidence. If you can't fake it till you make it, then research the problem, read books, give yourself tiny incremental challenges to overcome. If you aren't improving after a month or so of that, then your problem may be anxiety related and you may have a chemical imbalance that you need to deal with. It's concerni…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 10:12 PM
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This is a good mini FR. Keep it up.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 02:05 PM
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She's not yours, it's just your turn. Keep your frame and your insecurities to yourself. Do not bring them up with her and maintain boundaries. Do it well enough and one day she'll be your alpha widow.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 02:00 PM
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TRP explains how to get results, but it doesn't tell you what to do with them.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 01:51 PM
2

A textbook TRP reply would be: "If I didn't care/like you/insert comfort here, then we wouldn't be talking right now." Keep it simple. If you've only seen her twice and this is happening, then she may require assurances on a regular basis. It's up to you to decide if that's your style. It also sounds like you may be texting way too much. Try sticking to logistics.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 04:39 AM
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"Talking it out" won't help. Employ soft dread so she's begging you for it. Your sex life isn't nonexistent, so make it very soft dread.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 04:33 AM
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Blue pillers will run rampant in all walks of life. You'll know a Red Piller because you share similar frames. When you share frame AND an interest, there's your new pal. I pursue my interests and strike up conversations at every opportunity and it works like a charm.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 04:00 AM
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Her story seems legit enough. The circumstances don't suggest "regret" rape or "he's not calling me back" rape. The voice she is writing in is detached and concise, which is a possibly consistent with her story. If she claimed she was beaten half to death and then wrote in the same manner, then I'd not believe a word. Of course, we've only heard her side of the story.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 03:39 AM
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I just hit 30 and I wouldn't trade my freedom for anything. If you are determined to never marry and have kids (as I am), then you still need to have a dream. You need to have a fucking near impossible pie in the sky goal for your legacy...because you aren't having kids and you still need something to live for.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 08:22 PM
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Exactly. Also keep in mind that the supposed rapist in the Mattress Girl case was never pursued by police because they knew it was a false accusation... Therefore, that case wouldn't show up in DOJ statistics. Not to mention, two other girls made sexual assault complaints regarding the same man and magically disappeared once they realized there was going to be a university investigation. That's three accusers surfacing for a non-crime that won't show up in any statistical study. Rape is a statis…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 09:36 PM
0

Cash is awesome. Get paid, get laid, do not give a fuck. Connections? You are planning to eat where you've already shat. Bail.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 03:30 AM
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This is assuming she hadn't already fucked Chad and the open relationship proposition wasn't simply part of the massive hamstering process.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 03:16 AM
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The most hard-hitting TRP maxim for me has always been "a woman will never love you in the way that you want to be loved."
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 02:48 AM
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One of the biggest benefits of abundance mentality is that "mistakes" matter less. It's impossible to know for sure without more details, but I'd guess that that is the underlying issue. Also, always consider the possibility that you didn't make a mistake.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 12:38 AM
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