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VirgoRooster/r/askTRP04/12/14 11:59 PM
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VirgoRooster/r/askTRP05/01/15 10:42 PM
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VirgoRooster/r/askTRP16/07/15 12:26 AM
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VirgoRooster/r/askTRP17/08/15 06:14 AM
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VirgoRooster/r/askTRP04/07/14 05:21 AM
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VirgoRooster/r/askTRP13/08/15 01:12 AM
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VirgoRooster/r/askTRP06/08/14 04:21 PM
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VirgoRooster/r/askTRP08/08/15 12:15 AM
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VirgoRooster/r/askTRP21/07/15 03:06 AM
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VirgoRooster/r/askTRP17/04/14 12:11 AM
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VirgoRooster/r/askTRP21/02/14 11:57 PM
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VirgoRooster/r/askTRP03/02/14 04:47 AM
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CMVVirgoRooster/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 04:38 AM
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I just hate the lack of understanding of evo-psych I see on this sub. It's like watching someone try to learn biology while denying evolution. You can try, but it's retarded--nothing will make sense except in light of that concept. No, girls aren't attracted to some sort of intangible "confidence" you exude. They like your muscles, if they like you at all.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 08:41 PM
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I literally wouldn't have any problem with this except for the fact that the state will make the man lose half his money for her behavior. That's what I can't stand. Fuck whoever you want. Some guys are ugly motherfuckers who suck in bed. But why the fuck are you gonna make that poor bastard pay for it? It's insane. And women know they can game the system, and their logic is like, "well, there are more male engineers statistically (or whatever), so this guy owes me money for... some reason...?" …
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 08:36 PM
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90+% of attractiveness is appearance. No amount of game will supercede height, genetics, and shape. Like, all of this song and dance is an evolutionary trick to to produce fit offspring. Nothing is a better predictor of that than physical appearance.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 08:27 PM
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The point of anonymity on the internet is that you are not taking into account the advice-giver's background, but are actually just listening to the advice objectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 01:37 PM
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There is no "best" evolutionary strategy. Simply speaking, what breeds survives on to the next generation. That's all "evolution" care about. If you have 18 kids and raise none of them "properly" some percentage of them (by grace of the state or just pure luck) will go on to make more kids. This is r-selection. If you have one kid and leave him or her a billion dollar trust fund, they'll prolly do alright. This is K-selection. And there's a spectrum in between pure r vs K selection. But it's not…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 11:44 PM
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I've never slept with anyone without their verbal consent. These guys did--and it's somehow my fault they did because I'm "privileged." All I'm saying is, if you hate me and it doesn't bother you that these guys did this enough for you to do something about it, fine. Then I won't do anything about it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 11:10 PM
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Agree to disagree there. And no, the biggest threats facing us are not climate change and scarcity of resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 11:08 PM
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Then go fight the rapists and leave me out of it. If you hate me because Cortes existed (or whatever), why should I care about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 11:00 PM
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You almost definitely won't stop those executions if you destroy the Western world from the inside out first though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 10:58 PM
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She has said and I quote, “I’m a feminist, and I say it whenever I’m asked." I think most people would agree with her. I maintain that feminists expect white men to protect them from rapists while also hating them indiscriminately.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 10:55 PM
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Even Hillary has said she would support more action taken against ISIS.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 10:50 PM
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The problem is they want to send millions of young white men to Syria to kill these guys while banging drums and shouting about how much they hate white men. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 10:33 PM
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Clooney and Pitt aren't their own bosses. They depend on their agents and production companies to hire them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 07:20 PM
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The collection of TRP "core beliefs" that have been proven true anecdotally or scientifically to people who align with TRP are held to be true regardless of whether or not feminism exists. The idea is that feminism won't change 200,000+ years of evolution. Women who purport "feminism" believe they are acting in their own self-interest, but do not have the perspective of heterosexual men, and in some ways are going on a fool's errand--attempting to achieve happiness while completely neglecting ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 07:11 PM
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Which is why I am led to believe that perhaps her relationships are for publicity or whatever. I have not seen any such askmen threads but I don't think askmen is indicative of most men anyway, actually. I still have no idea what the last sentence in the OP meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 06:12 AM
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Well, if you're working excessively and he's working a lot then it may cause a strain on the relationship depending on what your values are but fair deuce. But I don't understand your last sentence? Most men know they can make their own money, and they don't commit to women to have money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 06:06 AM
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This has sort of become the one thing that was always so obvious to me that I almost took it for granted. Look if you remain "blue pill" your whole life, fine, but you do honestly deserve to know that no amount of money will make you more sexually attractive to a heterosexual man in the vast majority of cases. If you walk away with nothing else, know that. If you want to work hard and earn that money, more power to you. It just won't be the thing that helps you attract guys. Do it for you, I gue…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 05:59 AM
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That woman is a genius. She will never pay for anything in her life. Daddy -> Beta Bucks -> momma's boy -> state from cradle to grave
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 07:29 PM
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I said "probably" and you say, "Wow! You're saying NO ONE ever in the history of humankind could ever...?" Did you read the word I wrote? Do you know it's meaning? It's one word that's pretty descriptive in this case. I chose it for a reason. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 07:23 PM
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Probably. Are you saying you're attracted to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 07:11 PM
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I actually posted myself on /r/rateme a couple years ago, and I was told I was average (and that they hated my headphones). Then I posted myself on /r/amiugly and they said I was "TV average" meaning better than the "average-average" but not really that great. (Although, "certainly not ugly.") Back in the day however, 4 out of 5 8th-grade girls polled rated me as the second cutest boy in the class behind athletic, skater-boy Justin Clement, so that's something
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 04:14 PM
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I like how it's entirely white people and then there's just some older, Quechua-looking guy in there. lol I might do this later.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 04:08 PM
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Women are the primary consumers of pop music, so it caters to their desires. Same with the television industry these days. Video games remain pretty red pill although I'd say they are gaining mass appeal. It's just good economics to "give the people what they want." What annoys me is when society tells little boys they should be listening to Sam Smith (not that he doesn't have a good singing voice) and little girls that they should be paying call of duty--even after neither one has expressed int…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 04:04 PM
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The second two points are obvious. Women both report and show via brain activity scans (as best we can tell) that 9-12% body fat is the ideal. That's not skinny, but it's not cartoonish. On the other hand, this guy is simply not attractive to women--no offense to the gentleman in the pic. And I agree that as far as living "comfortably" in a consumerist economy goes, it's not like you need to be east coast old money or something. Obviously it isn't like only the guys who own fleets of private jet…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 04:00 PM
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And if you're a man, you'd likely get kicked out of school and go to jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/16 04:27 PM
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If you can't afford coca cola, buy RC cola. This advice was worth a thread?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 04:26 PM
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Every organic sack of flesh believes it's the most important thing in the universe and why not? We function as inidividuals. It's called solipsism and it's a pretty old concept, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 08:55 PM
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Maybe we should've drafted them to fight the wars to protect those bomb-painting jobs then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 07:15 PM
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Women can have deep conversations with their chihuahuas. The numbers show they care very little about such things as they regularly go against their 150+ IQ hubby's wishes to sleep with a troglodyte. The chihuahua doesn't even have his feelings hurt. The 150+ IQ hubby loses the assurance that his children are his own, and likely half his assets. No thank you. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 07:08 PM
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I don't have any problem with women who pursue scientific endeavors or business ventures, or whatever. I just don't want to go on dates with them because they tend to be high maintenance and uninterested in being the type of person who I'd want to be in a relationship with. Professionally, I have met and even learned from many intelligent women (I work in a sciency field). I still have great respect for them, but I would not date them seriously. Wouldn't you know it? Your devisions and actions p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 06:54 PM
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This is true for me anecdotally. Most of the content/value creators I know--in any discipline save for organizing toddler in tiara conpetitions or something--are men. Most women are consumers. Men are like this too, but there are more male "creators"--anecdotally, at least. On the other hand, women are almost always the "social glue" that bind groups of men together. So fwtw... In fairness, and also anecdotally, I know some really, really good female artists/draftsmen. Most of them don't fit the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 04:03 PM
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You could avoid them because you knew who they were. The other guys were there but you didn't even know they existed from a sexual standpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 03:59 PM
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"Why would I want some schmuck to pay for all my shit while I do nothing but fuck other guys while the system rewards me half his assets when we eventually split?" It may not be for you but it sure sounds tempting to a lot of women...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 03:58 PM
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Wouldn't it make more sense that the opposite occurs? Like a third of the world is Chinese alone...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 12:50 AM
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Prolly tell him to pretend he's an Eastern guru like Kumare did in that documentary. The stupider, free-spirited western women seem to be really into that spiritual shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 08:10 PM
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There is not a single white, male, masculine, heterosexual male fictional character that is not villainized to some degree that shows up anywhere in contemporary Western culture. That tells you all you need to know. "Oh that's ridiculous such characters are overrepresented." Really? Name one within the past 10-15 years. I'll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 01:00 PM
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I mean, I do think there's something to do the fact that no man I know spends in excess of 15 minutes doing their make up or brushing their hair each morning. I think women simply don't value grooming as much as men as far as physical appearance goes--but that doesn't mean they don't value it at all, which is why you should make an effort. In terms of pure, aesthetic facial apoearance... no shit it makes a difference. Otherwise the current definitions of hot, handsome, even cute--as they are app…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 01:46 AM
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It's a goal of the globalists to destroy the western marriage. So currently not worth it, but if the world goes to complete shit again--then maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 06:44 PM
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I'd pay him support. Lol no you wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 06:42 PM
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Why the hell would an attractive woman use a dating site when she's got prolly 5-6 non-pussy guys who are chatting her up offline?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 03:03 PM
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I mean, hard as it may be for you to believe, there is a type of person that prefers living alone to living with others or someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 12:51 PM
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She may be seeing other men then. I don't know your situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 12:47 PM
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The woman gets companionship, someone to help them when they're having a difficult time etc. The man gets zilch.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 12:29 PM
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What the fuck doesn't that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 05:00 AM
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If I were a woman, I wouldn't want to get near some 25-year-old expendable scum. Put yourself in her shoes. Why would she? Why are you asking questons you already know the answer to? Take a trip to Amsterdam for experience or just white lie/avoid if asked. It's none of her business if you've had sex before, and you know she's lying about her number to you so it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 08:33 PM
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Geez. Honestly, I hate the "enjoy the decline" rhetoric I see on TRP but shit like this is just too much. Point me the way to mecca already, just so I can get a head start on how things are gonna be in the West. If we gotta go back to the year 700AD before we can progress, I'm down. I'll take a culture of strong irrationality over one of weak irationality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 07:51 PM
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OK? I've been able to get what I want out of my relationships, while giving something in return. Quid pro quo.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 01:14 PM
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It's true. Cases where the man walks away from a marriage with more money that he was making before are man bites dog. Women really luck out in that regard. That's why these Western men don't want to get married and have kids. They can't afford it. Which is ridiculous considering it literally requires nothing beyond fertility to have a family in the cosmic sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 01:01 PM
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Yes it's a chemical reaction experienced by an individual person (not two people) and has no effect on anything beyond the internal organismal chemical state.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 12:41 PM
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There is no evidence of a magical bond that unites two people who've had sex--nor anything outside a response of a biologically-explainable nature. There's no magic, there's no "love."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 12:39 PM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 12:29 PM
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We're wired to get a dopamine release when we're around someone or fucking with someone who's physically attractive. That much is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 12:21 PM
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Were it so easy...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 12:09 PM
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Dude, try convincing some of the women on here to wear a hijab, I dare you. Some of them consider it patriarchal to expect them to brush their teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 12:04 PM
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The people who actually concern themselves with legitimizing any of those views are globalists, who are more concerned with creating a peaceful one-culture world with themselves at the helm (like the one seen in Star Trek... and also Brave New World...) and insofar as they need to destroy Western values to do it, they'll use anything from feminism to Islam to do it. And then they'll destroy those things. It's brilliant social engineering, really. It also completely disregards the rights and will…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 12:01 PM
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The enforcement of traditional "racial" roles (because Islam is a race) is sexist. Now I've truly heard it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 11:57 AM
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I don't think a woman should unreasonably trust her man in a marriage. My problem with Western marriage is that a woman and a man technically don't even need to have sex, just to "be married" and from that point forward the woman--who may have accomplished nothing in her life--can makea fortune just by filing for divorce. That's fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 11:51 AM
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A unique bond? Like the Force or something? What's amazing to me, and I don't mean this about you specifically, is that there are contemporary scientists with advanced degrees who believe the sort of shit like that--even into their 60s or something. Like, there are chemistry professors that believe in covalent, ionic, hydrogen and... I guess "love" bonds... That's how strong the social engineering that says "love = real" is, it's makes otherwise rational people go insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 11:46 AM
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If you're so irrational as to deny evo-psyche--the one appeal Red Pill/neo reactionary thought has to logos that lends it some actual legitimacy, then you're standing on shaky ground and probably no better than the tumblrinas you oppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 04:41 AM
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And what should be?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 04:32 AM
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I can't see a 20 yo sitting on another 20 yo lap for any reason beyond joking around (in a sexual manner) to be anything but sexual. If you can't provide another example or disagree then the argument ends here because our difference of perspective is just too great. And how would taking the same people and aging them make a difference? You've lost me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 03:42 AM
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It's almost as if the world is very nuanced and comprised of some 7 billion unique perspectives that are subject to change. This is why I encourage people to invest some time in studying the somewhat objective field of evolutionary psychology so they can get their just the facts before forming an opinion on TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 03:05 AM
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Why would anyone want to be described as "beta" anything? That's not very endearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 02:52 AM
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Is a 20 year old female sitting in a 20 yo male's lap sexual? Does this change whether they're married or older? It seems to me it wouldn't. Maybe I'm not understanding what you're insinuating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 02:48 AM
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Alpha fucks beta bucks is just the fuccboi, edgy frat house version of cads vs dads, which is an actual evo-psyche concept supported by real scientific evidence and data that I would encourage you to look into before even engaging in conversation with these assholes who generally don't know anything about sexual selection beyond what they've seen in American Pie. I see people claiming there's an alpha fucs gene or something and it's not even worth having a conversation with those troglodyte. Do …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 02:31 AM
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You're allowing someone you've selected by virtue of them having more experience or resources or connections or pure brute strength to guide you and your family by giving up a part of your autonomy. It's not sugar coated like that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 02:20 AM
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Perfect equality would probably be like a Cold War situation where both sides are distrusting of each other and are constantly seeking to gain a competitive edge over the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 02:17 AM
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Lol you're attempting to make a parody out of something I've never even said, under the guise of asking for serious responses. If you would feel betrayed if your wife kissed someone--probably because it's an act of passion--why wouldn't you "count it"?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 02:12 AM
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This is all supported by the expendable Y theory which is pretty fundamental to a Red Queen understanding of heterosexual relationships. If terpers or bloopers were denying it, they're not based in rationality and science.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 11:40 PM
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What's your angle? I think the first definition is a pretty clear one and pretty well describes the dynamic put forth by MRP and RPW.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 11:32 PM
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Probably anyone who doesn't behave extremely impulsively and in a licentious way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 11:28 PM
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Anything you wouldn't do upon going exclusive with someone counts. So, in other words, if you're married and your partner would be upset with you doing it with someone else, it counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 09:56 PM
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No signs of skinny? Wait wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 06:59 PM
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You used the word "violent" and that's generally not what I think of when white collar crime comes to mind. I would even disagree that the most successful people ato any income level are criminals. At some point, you're reaching the untouchable old money caste who are setting the rules in the first place, but I don't really think they're even ill-meaning so much as egotistical and ambitious, and they also comprise a very, very small portion of the population--obviously not the only ones getting …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 06:56 PM
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Lol yea because the average run of the mill drug runner is making more than my doctor. I guess that's why the former lives in the ghetto/trailer park and exclusively wears tall tees--he just doesn't want to display his wealth. Or maybe he just spent it all on his elaborate facial tattoo?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 06:38 PM
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A million different things are being conflated in this thread, mostly because people are dealing in stereotypes. The opposite of "smart" isn't "bad." "Dumb" is not the opposite of "good." You can be an extremely intelligent person and an asshole, and probably be the apple of some broad's eye to boot. There is probably some correlation between impulsivity and number of sexual encounters, and between impulsivity and criminality. There is no doubt in my mind that there is also some correlation betw…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 06:29 PM
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Our minds are the most powerful heuristic-forming machines in the known universe. Pattern-recognition falls under reason, which should be highly valued by anyone who fancies oneself an autonomously-functioning being. If you don't want to be labeled a certain way by me, then stop behaving in a way that's consistent with how I know other people with that label to behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 02:08 AM
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The name of the country in ENGLISH is Colombia. And it's not Italian. lol
/r/askTRP24/12/15 06:42 PM
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Naw bro it's the zeta-episilon hybrids that are the true weakness of the alpha! God damn this sub has gone to shit.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 07:35 PM
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Why the fuck does a male porn star need a girlfriend?
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 05:01 PM
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Huh? It's 7500 * 10 or 75,000.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 08:43 PM
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http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-M_4ij1oHHGU/TsVmzyodyJI/AAAAAAAAARw/jnQeWycwD2M/s320/Strong_horse_Bin_Laden.png
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 08:38 PM
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Who, exactly, is emotionally invested in an insult? You wish to believe attitude is everything because by any other metric you fail to stack up against legitimately intelligent human beings. Most kids who are "too smart for school" get straight As. I've met such students. They go on to exceptional schools and do quite well without trying. If you're flunking out of fucking middle school, it's probably because you're a retard and not because you're a gifted child with an attitude problem implanted…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 07:04 PM
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The standard deviation is independent of the magnitude of the mean... the higher mean for men (if true) would have nothing to do with standard deviation.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 07:01 PM
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Classic bro science post that tells me this sub is going to shit. Men don't just change their "attitudes" and become better academics in an instant. In fact, it's unrelated, but intelligence (whether measured by academic success or IQ or any other metric) is largely constant for the lifetime of a person. The inspiring story of a delinquent turned success is compelling precisely because it is an exception to this rule. The vast majority of academic failures remain failures and it's infinitely mor…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 07:04 PM
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I mean, I hate saying this sort of thing because it can sometimes give people the wrongful assumption that they have all the time in the world but, dude, you're 20 years old and a bachelor with little responsibility (and hopefully very little debt). The world is still your oyster. Nobody really has their entire life together at age 20 anyway. Just keep working, keep doing, keep some TRP principles in the back of your mind as we do it, keep pushing yourself each day and you'll be alright.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 04:51 PM
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Don't be "nice", be virtuous. Many of the doctors and paramedics I know are assholes (or "hardasses" would be a better description) but they take their jobs seriously and genuinely want the best for their patients. They're "good" people if not "nice" people. Think about it this way: If I lop my arm off in a machine accident, I don't want someone coddling me while I bleed out. I want some one to fucking save my life, and me at least, I'd be grateful to the person who could do that. Unfortunately,…
/r/askTRP01/09/15 06:40 PM
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The whole sub is just too big to be really useful to me anymore. I review the sidebar material as needed but otherwise avoid discussion and comment posts if I can. Also, they removed that, wtf lads?
/r/askTRP29/08/15 06:45 AM
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Where do you get modafinil?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 06:35 AM
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Dude just uses this sub as a vehicle to sell shirts to retards. I actually can only lmao at how effective it's been. lol
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 06:28 AM
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Rubicon by Holland Edit: specifically, this is relating to the fall of the Republic and not the empire. Be aware if you're making comparisons to the modern-day, the Roman civilization was pretty long-lived and went through numerous restructurings. If you count the Eastern Empire, it basically lasted for about 1500+ years just in different forms, so even if I werr using that to inform predictioms for the future, I wouldn't plan on, like, the United States falling apart overnight, or even within o…
/r/askTRP28/08/15 05:42 AM
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He's a 21st century Know-Nothing. He appeals to people who are unadaptable to the demographic changes in the West, and he really doesn't offer anything else of substance beyond that.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 11:30 PM
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There are plenty of people who are cord cutters and still stream ESPN or watch sports. Even alphas who are professional, career sports players themselves make time to watch other sports. Federer was watching a soccer game between his own matches in one of the more recent big tournaments. IIRC, Aaron Rodgers was at the NCAA tournament watching Wisconsin play. I'm not sure what your point is. Nobody here is pretending that cheering for a team is equivalent to being active yourself. Yes, men should…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 10:29 PM
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I nean, it is a waste of time, but nobody can work 24 hours 7 days a week. 80% production, 20% consumption and count sports watching in the consumption part.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 05:49 AM
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The hippies of the 60s may have having more sex than kids today, but AFAIK, kids are having as much sex as ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/15 03:03 AM
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There are probably some men like that but more common are men who take very little care of themselves, have little intrinsic motivation to do anything, are self-deprecating, and have no idea how to turn the opposite sex on or be a leader. There are women like that too mind you. Neither is happy. They both lack agency over their lives and blame it on the opposite sex but on some level, they are disgusted with themselves. I do see TRP as the catalyst to break that cycle in some men, for better or …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/15 02:44 AM
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You just need to work on putting yourself in positions where you'll meet attractive women and prove high status to them. The number one predictor of whether or not two people have sex? Proximity. In a frat, it's easy because the sororities come to you. In the real world, you just have to put in a little work. It's not like the pretty girls of the world just up and disappear once you leave university. I've talked to guys who enjoyed their postgrad 20s more than they did college. Some guys blossom…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 03:12 AM
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Well, women rank 80% of men as being "below average" so clearly there's a mismatch in expectations there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 10:50 PM
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Anger is as natural an evolutionarily-selected-for emotion as any other. It serves a purpose. Men on TRP become angry when they see the state of things. Eventually, they come to put that anger to use, with mixed but often positive results.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 10:48 PM
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I mean, it just seems like eventually you'd have to make it known that you disapproved if it came to it. "Hey, let's throw Virgorooster in the briar patch!" "Okay, yea, do it!" (But secretely, I dont want you to! Heh heh!) "When in Rome..." doesn't necesarilly connote cognitive dissonance in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 10:44 PM
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Ok, but that's such a dumb platitude. "I publically agree with feminists that bachelor taxes should exist and women should be given jobs even when they're unqualified for them with respect to men... ...but I secretly dislike it. hehehe"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 10:08 PM
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How exactly do you be a "fake" feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 09:59 PM
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Why would people spend so much time discussing how to attract women if they hated them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 09:09 PM
2

The concept of marriage as it existed throughout history, for the purpose of strengthening bonds between clans and creating familial units from them has largely been destroyed by stateism, not to say the former purpose has been relevant for the past 100 years. Nowadays people get married with no intention of having kids, they get married to the same sex, they elope, they marry people with the intent to scorn their immediate family members, and they marry, divorce, then remarry the same person, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 09:01 PM
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It literally makes no sense to me how people consider sociology to be "better science" than evo-psyche. "My soft science is better than your hard(er) science!" "So what if you observed women prefer masculine features by studying activity in the pleasure centers of the brain? My online survey says women prefer "nice guys" followed by "other"!" Karl Marx was not a wizard who could change the natural laws of the universe. Think about how silly you sound when peer-reviewed research finds something a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 03:26 PM
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You should consider some stoic teachings or some other form of meditation. That's what I like to use. There were plenty of people who were unattractive, cast-down by society, celibate etc. who still went on to lead meaningful lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 03:12 PM
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Lol. I have seen self-proclaimed monarchists, marxists, fascists, and anarchists post on TRP. That doesn't mean TRP officially aligns itself with any of those things. If somebody thinks women don't deserve rights, they're "allowed" I guess in the cosmic sense, but that's getting to be too far detached from TRP itself, in my opinion. TRP is not a political party.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 03:07 PM
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But if there is nothing wrong with you and you feel that you are just as attractive as other women with the only difference being skin color--you're going to feel anger and resentment because its not fair Honestly, I don't know your situation. I think maybe there are some some men who don't like black girls just because they have black skin. I don't know why. All I can tell you is that I've found black women attractive in the past, and so from my point of view, if someone is unattractive, it's u…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 03:02 PM
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Naw way, you need to live for you. Get what you want out of college. Don't do it for anyone else. I don't know exactly what you look like or how you carry yourself, but I know many black women who I find attractive so I think skin complexion is not the issue here. Honestly, I'm ugly as fuck (take my word for it lol). I've more or less come to terms with it. I can't let the world determine my self-worth. I may only get 80-something years on this Earth, I have to enjoy my work and occasionally sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 02:51 PM
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Well sure, but I mean, you don't have to be in college to meet pretty girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 05:10 AM
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lol damn, I wouldn't say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 05:03 AM
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There are, most certainly, men who have found success in the sexual marketplace who have never even heard of TRP. I would imagine it's either because they have internalized RP without knowing what it is, naturally display alpha characteristics without even knowing why/how they work, have lowered their standards, or are either so powerful, famous, or physically attractive that they legitimately find success in spite of being "plugged in." TRP is just the name of one subreddit, which is part of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 02:34 AM
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"sexy"?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 01:29 AM
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I disagree. In my BP days, I literally had women come up to me and say, "you're going to make someone very happy someday." lol If you think women aren't encouraging each other to "have fun then settle down" you haven't been paying attention, and if you think they're unaware of what exactly they're doing, you're actually mistaking them for being much dumber than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 11:04 PM
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This sounds like a great way to get doxxed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 10:19 PM
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There is actually a sub for ECs which is significantly smaller, less memetic, and more open to debates over individual red pill theories. It's private so as to avoid dumb shit getting posted there and brigading, which is a shame because some of the best philosophy and evo-psyche related content is posted there. It's not very active though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 08:49 PM
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Because culture and race are the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 06:14 AM
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Anecdotally, I know many attractive black women, although there aren't many black women period where I'm from. Truth be told, men across the world are attracted to a lot of the same things. Make an effort to be attractive and you will be. I have a condition which causes me to be rather strange looking. I'll never be a "catch" to any woman. I need to find a reason to live that does not include a "healthy" sex life. I'll let you know when I find out what it is. :\
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 05:03 AM
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There was a great post in some other sub I can't recall, but there is literally an income bracket range for a single mother where it makes more sense for you to collect welfare than to work. As in, you'd be better off quitting your job and doing nothing, and you'd actually make more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 04:42 AM
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Should've been phrased "should be legal." My apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 04:38 AM
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People pick the low hanging fruit and make cheap jokes in an echo chamber. What else is new? I think it's kinda funny that both bloopers and terpers believe the other one to be obese, fedora aficionados running on mountain dew and covered in cheeto dust. I feel bad for the guy that actually is that way and is just sitting on the sidelines. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 04:21 AM
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There is scientific research to back up some of TRP's claims, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:41 PM
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Can someone at least explain to me one tangential thing? I've seen "food" listed as a hobby on some dating profiles. Not cooking. Not baking. Just "food." Okay, really? Food? How can "food" even be a hobby? It's a concrete noun -- a tangible object! Do they mean literally the act of consuming palatable and digestible things through the oropharynx for nutritional purposes? If so, who does not participate in this hobby?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:24 PM
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I don't really know what you mean. TRP's perspective is that both women and men are fundamentally self-serving. I think feminism is inherently self-serving for women (although it's in their best interest to convince men it isn't) and that TRP is fundamentally self-serving for men ("""""""""). Game theory finds that it's always to your benefit to be selfish in the short term, but occasionally mutual beneficial to be cooperative in the long term. Honestly, society is pretty good at making this tru…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 08:47 PM
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Naw, I've gotten into arguments on TRP over this, largely over the usefulness of "game." It's worth more to you to spend 1 hour in the gym than 10 hours on "game" imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 06:17 PM
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It's weird because I get what he's saying but I don't know why it's so. For some reason, I have more respect for older married dudes than old geezers or old bachelors. Think about it, would you vote for an unmarried presidential candidate? Would you expect him to win?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 04:19 PM
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I'm attracted to people who are well-traveled, cultured, talented, industrious, witty, or any other number of positive qualities, but I'm only sexually attracted to a feminine physique and demeanor. In an LTR, sex is the glue that's holding the relationship together, but obviously I'm going to need to kind of like your personality, and for there to be mutual respect for things to work out happily in the long-run. I could have an "LTR" with a cool dude, but my sexual needs could never be met by h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 03:25 PM
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Literally everyone who falls into the "enjoy the decline" camp takes solace in the fact that Western women are likely more sexually accessible (acting in their own agency, no less) to the average middle class man than was ever the case in Western history--so long as you know how to play the game. I would say they like it. The handful (say, 10-20%) of redpillers who fall into the "conservative values" camp consider it to be toxic to the healthy, monogamous familial environment upon which Western …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 05:12 AM
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When I pay for someone's food/movie ticket/education/whatever, I can choose to do it out of charity or as payment for some value they have given me. I can also do it in good faith that they will reward me in turn later (but there is some inherent risk involved). Most feminists don't really do anything for men save for berating them, and would probably be insulted by the insinuation that having their food paid for is a gesture that should be repaid in kind, so my guess is that the only way they c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 05:04 AM
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The male an female orgasm experience from a sensory perspective is remarkably similar. You likely all already know that male and female fetuses develop similarly until SRY on the male's Y chromosome becomes active turning on Sox9 leading to sertoli cell differentiation for the eventual development of the testis. And what do they make? Testosterone. The average adult male has something like 700ng/dL of testosterone in their bloodstream whereas the average woman has perhaps 70ng/dL at most but we …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 04:41 AM
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I accept that my reality is different than that of others, and of women in general specifically because I am a man. If a woman is willing to give me the same treatment, accepting that there are things unique to men, then I can work with them, now we're at least approaching each other from a point where compromise can be made. Evolution did this before we were ever conscious of it. In fact, it did it before humans were ever even around. Have you ever stopped to wonder why there are men and women?…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 08:54 PM
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Plus, social anxiety is one of the most easily treated conditions, if you are properly motivated. Uh, what makes you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 06:12 PM
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I'm unsure what you are referring to. When one of a few varieties of pain receptor is stimulated and the threshold potential is reached, the neuron fires an action potential down its axon and this travels to the CNS and to the brain where your brain interprets the information and goes "ow!" That's pain. You can also get phantom pain, which is essentially a result of the PNS going a little haywire and shooting off signals when there is no stimulus present. Either way, it's a feeling. You feel pai…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 05:39 PM
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Do you mean pain as in sensory feedback in response to tissue damage? Yes. One can acknowledge that pain as defined by those terms is a natural part of the human experience, but if we were so myopic as not to rationalize pain merely as a sensation, and instead only reacted to the stimulus, nobody would ever lift, or run, or get shots, or blood tests etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 05:22 PM
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Hedonism is one of several philosophical conclusions you might arrive at after recognizing the lack of a conscious higher power that takes an active interest in our lives. If it tickles your fancy, go for it. Personally, I find short-term pleasure-seeking to be fleeting. And if you want oxycotin, just get some Percocet from the ER or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 04:28 PM
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My persuasion is one that feelings are to be taken at face value for what they are, maybe reflected on, and then largely ignored so that a logical route of action can be taken. I mean, ok, "love" as defined by either the biological release of dopamine or oxytocin is real. But if you're putting stock in feelings over logic, well, that doesn't sound very RP to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 04:14 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean, but I'm mostly just trying to think in the hypothetical sense. I wonder whether there are examples of so-called 40-year-old virgins who don't actually fit the stereotype.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 04:04 PM
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There's "infatuation" which is a cocktail of hormones swirling around in your brain to initiate baby making but contrary to what Brad Delp sings, it's not more than than a feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 04:01 PM
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It's not really that hard. People are self-serving and enter into social contracts with the expectation of quid pro quo, once either A) you fail to hold up your end of the deal or B) they find a better deal, they break the contract. This is just to say that no woman will remain in a relationship where she feels like she's getting screwed, so be aware of that and don't be an idiot. There's no such thing as "love."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 03:02 PM
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TRP is a reaction to third wave feminism in the West specifically. The birthrate in Western nations is already on the decline. The expectation is that Western society will eventually fall with it. This is why people say, "enjoy the decline." These people are either working for themselves only in a hedonistic sense, or are adapting to the changing global culture by choosing to be with women from other cultures etc. I would say the "enjoy the decline" camp vastly outnumbers the still significant b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 04:35 AM
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We all know the SEC is better.
/r/askTRP16/08/15 09:04 PM
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Honestly, I know it's impossible to find a "bro in a woman's body" but I would hesitate to be with a Mormon or Amish girl. You trade one type of crazy for another. I just wish I could find a stoic or ascetic girl who's also decently attractive but I know that's too much to ask in the modern west.
/r/askTRP16/08/15 06:12 PM
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"Beep beep" "No SpongeBob not insertive... assertive!" Anyway, yea, good post.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 05:24 PM
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Assortive mating never existed in humans. You're kidding yourself if you believe it did. There is no idyllic past where all men lived with a single wife. High quality men have always had their choice of women at the others expense. It is estimated that 16 million men in the world today bear Ghenghis Khan's Y chromosome. This is 10% of the contemporary male population of the region under the Mongol Empire's extent. I saw somewhere that 1 man has reproduced throughout humanity's existence for ever…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 01:51 AM
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You're selling your shirt to the wrong audience. Some schmuck out there wants a cool shirt to help them be more alpha. Most men here are discerning enough that they make their purchases based on usefulness. What can your shirt do that the other shirts can't? If the answer is nothing, and I still need a shirt, well I'm just gonna pick the coolest shirt. That's why people buy Coca-Cola over Jollygood cola, because coke is cool as fuck whereas if you drink jollygood you look like a schlub. Futhermo…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 07:10 PM
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The current career path I'm on, which is that which I always just assumed I would do, essentially requires that in order for the people who do it to pay off their loans. I'm being somewhat cryptic because I don't want to get doxxed, but you probably can put 2 and 2 together. I have little to no sexual experience. I'm not particularly attractive. I'm short(er). And do not have the build to become massive. The only way I'm getting laid is with $$$, on way or another.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 01:00 AM
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Truthfully, I'm a worker bee, man. It's all I know how to do. I'd prefer to live ascetically so long as I could be comfortable and have some work I felt inspired to do. I just necessarily feel that way about my current plan and I feel like if I just work for 80 hrs/week, never form a serious sexual relationships and get the shit taxed out of me... I'd almost rather just die. lol I mean, I'm not even saying that to be a drama queen. I really just don't even see the purpose of doing that.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 12:39 AM
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Are you asking me or are you asking for you? Because I don't know you and what your values are so I have no idea. Personally, I'm rather libertine but appreciate the outdoors and volume. I'd hate living in a big city. I'd like to live somewhere relatively rural but with a high quality of living, access (let's say ~2 hour drive) to a relatively vibrant civilization, and with taxes that are relatively low, but with a functional education system considering I may want to raise kids. I'd also like f…
/r/askTRP07/08/15 10:31 PM
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Avoid x100. They have poor role models on both sides and will almost exclusively take mom's side. Not worth it, imo. They don't know how to have a functional longterm relationship.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 12:00 AM
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Coontown didn't really run itself like TRP did, though. I mean, as long as we're admitting this whole ordeal is about advertising revenue... ...Coontown had a racial epithet in its name, prominently featured pictures of real persons with the intent of making them look foolish, made cheap jabs at racial stereotypes... Point being: Say I'm an advertiser. Someone calls me up on the phone. "Hey, hey! Look at this website where your ad is being featured!" and it takes me to Coontown. I'm going to nop…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 04:29 AM
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Honestly, you can kinda tell even spez and Kn0thing don't really buy into the SJW bullshit, at least not as much as Pao did. The were, at least, reticent to ban many subs before the children started spamming their funding's inbox. I mean, they're going to do what's best for business. Most people on reddit are anti-RP (or at least, anti-RP ideals) and the next largest faction doesn't give a fuck, so RP supporters aren't exactly given special consideration here... I almost can't even blame them fo…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 04:05 AM
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TomJeff and Ben Franklin seemed pretty Red Pill to me. To be honest, you need to be able to separate the founding fathers mystique from the men themselves and realize they were men of their day but they were both quite industrious idea-people (seriously, reading about Ben Franklin especially will make you feel lazy no matter how hard you're working) who played an important role in the histories of the US of course, but also many other disciplines. TomJeff basically invented modern archaeology, f…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 08:19 PM
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To be fair, many of those men weren't really "alpha" in the TRP sense. Newton may have had something akin to severe Aspergers. Da Vinci may have been gay. Tesla was lifelong celibate because he believed in self-imposed eugenics (yea, one of the 21st century's greatest geniuses believed his genes were too inferior to be passed on to the next generation thanks to pseudoscience -- be glad you didn't grow up in the days when that bullshit was popular). Point being: Yes, all of the men you listed are…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 08:07 PM
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I don't dislike Joe but he comes across as somewhat anti-intellectual to me.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 08:02 PM
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Somehow I got into such a conversation with my mother. I can't remember how. I think I was talking about it with my dad and she overheard. She got really mad and said it was distancing me from "nice girls" or something. I told her if she ever wanted to entertain the possibility of grandkids, she'd better let me do my thing. She stopped after that. Don't bother arguing about RP stuff with women. Their perspective is entirely different than ours. For all the talk from feminists about how men need …
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 02:43 AM
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Is there not such a list for SJW posters as well though?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 10:45 PM
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Lol. I must be the odd one out here. I do miss college, but not for the reasons outlined in this thread. I'm still in school, but changed career outlooks and now I'm scrambling to actually graduate while also getting employable skills so I can do something immediately upon graduation. I really wish I hadn't wasted all those years working towards something I didn't like and wish I would've considered engineering. More than anything, it didn't help that I was a lazy, socially anxious shut-in. I do…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 05:36 PM
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Lol. I see where you're coming from. Getting hung up on which character is most "alpha" is pretty silly and useless, but I do think it's important to examine which characters in media exude Red Pill values and which ones do not. Consider that comics especially are still primarily read by impressionable young men. If I'm trying to, for example, raise a son who will grow up in the 21st century world, I want communicate to him which characters are "good" in terms of their RP (and other) values, you…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 03:26 AM
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I'm not "worried" about it. I'm just interested in media and characters that are representative of "Red Pill" behavior above those which are not.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 10:53 PM
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Tony Stark Ironman is pretty alpha in most contexts. Even Captain America is kinda alpha even though he's very golden boy, goody two-shoes.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 07:14 PM
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[SPOILER] The hero himself explicitly explains to his mentor's daughter (his love interest) that the reason he's being sent on the mission is because he's expendable, whereas she's the daughter and so the mentor isn't willing to risk her life. This is explained in the context that the mentor's wife was killed on a similar mission and he doesn't want to lose her the same way. Honestly, I thought that part seemed relatively innocuous and made sense in the scheme of things. OP's point is still rele…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 07:01 PM
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Haha! I knew as soon as I watched that scene I would see something here about it. Yeah, it was pretty lame. They really lathered it on in one scene. "You have to pay child support. C'mon." What the fuck? The guy's painted up to be a Robinhood figure who robbed from a corporation that was short changing his customers but he's an evil scoundrel because a woman living in a fabulous SF house "needs" child support. Also, the notion that two men could somehow happily be in love with the same woman and…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 04:34 PM
2

rn I'm drawing. I'm trying to get kinda good at caricature art so I could get a job working at a Six Flags or some other amusement park for next summer. I think it'd be kinda cool to have that job as it would force me to be somewhat social and to challenge myself with each subject. Also, as far as hobbies go, it's pretty cheap but can be rewarding. Not a great artist yet, haha, but you know there's something cathartic about doodling in its own right, I guess.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 04:57 AM
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Isn't that sort of impulsivity inconsistent with TRP thought though?
/r/askTRP16/07/15 03:41 AM
1

I can see where you're coming from but that operates under the assumption that making such a decision would be better than killing oneself. I suppose someone could reason heuristically that death is greater than leaving their country and starting anew.
/r/askTRP16/07/15 03:40 AM
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Very interesting. Not to say I'm unwilling to give it a look, but is there a tl;dr with regards to what conclusions he comes to?
/r/askTRP16/07/15 02:55 AM
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Yea, I understand what you're saying but let's say, for you, under what circumstances would it make sense?
/r/askTRP16/07/15 01:23 AM
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I'm fairly sure the reason that post got downvoted is because he compared it to 9/11 more than anything else. To your point, yea I think there's an expectation that men will be better able to defend themselves from an assailant than women and children. A part of it is because women are objectively weaker than men, but also because they're raised to diffuse situations by other means than going nuclear with violence. A big enough neutral guy can stop a fist fight by literally beating the shit out …
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 04:57 AM
1

Whatever you do, don't use it as a soapbox. Post some pics once in a while and let yourself get tagged. Use it to make yourself look cool to girls you're friends with on FB. Obviously, your Facebook is rarely going to be seen by people who don't know you so it doesn't do too much by way of attracting new people but if you have a decently fleshed out page to show people you're a living human being, that's probably enough. I know guys who literally never go on FB (or at least, never post or commen…
/r/askTRP30/06/15 04:22 PM
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PPD?
/r/askTRP23/06/15 04:55 PM
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The whole "enjoy the decline" shit is getting old. Guys on here act as though the sky is falling but the truth is that most people don't engage in destructive behaviors because they are destructive. To the thief, everyone is a thief. If you want a healthy, wholesome family life with a picket fence house and a monogamous relationship with stay at home or part-time mom to raise your kids, you can have that. I know because I was the product of such an environment. Avoid catty women and bad company,…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 03:38 PM
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Dad bod is silly. But hulk-like muscles are not the opposite of dad bod. The focus should be on having within the range of "correct" body fat percentage: http://bottomlinehealth.com/what-women-want-in-a-man-low-body-fat/# Contrary to what the immunocompetence theory would predict, the men who had high masculinity ratings were not rated as the most sexually appealing, nor were their immune responses the strongest. Rather, the physical trait that ranked as most attractive among the women was havin…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 10:00 PM
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As much as I appreciate what actually appears to be an attempt at a scientific approach to looking at peer-to-peer sexual relationships and male hierarchies in contrast to the bro-science that's become a staple of this board, I don't know that it would make sense to pinpoint this one thing as being the thing which accounts for love shyness etc. Probably, yes, men with noses that are damaged or otherwise detrimental to breathing properly are likely to have confidence issues. Low confidence leads …
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 04:54 PM
2

I used to very frequently get "stress colds" where I would basically get hayfever any time I was under duress, which was a lot of the time back in middle school.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 04:48 PM
3

Why are people so down on this stuff. In my case, my anxiety gets so bad, I can't even sit still and have a cup of tea sometimes. I can't even be around another human being without feeling angst. On the other hand, I really don't want to go to a shrink to pay an exuberant amount of money to have them put me on Prozac or something. So what do I do? This OTC thing appears to help social anxiety if used in moderation. I just don't understand why it's so bad.
/r/askTRP06/06/15 02:38 AM
1

You can try it, but I would go against the grain and say that it isn't for everyone. You have to ask yourself what you want out of college and whether the fraternity is conducive to getting you there. I have noticed that most social fraternities are geared far more toward business school types and for the work you have to put in to become a member, they might not be as worth it for a STEM major. TRP seems very high on frats, but I think you can subscribe to TRP philosophy and still be turned off…
/r/askTRP05/06/15 06:00 PM
1

Don't worry about all the nonsense people are giving you in this thread to stress you out even more and guilt trip you. Just do this: Focus on the work. No worrying about AF/BB, RSD, this subreddit, what some asshole on here thinks of your situation. Don't worry about what you're parents think, how you'll pay for rent, how you'll get a job. Don't think about entrepreneurship, how difficult it is to get out of bed in the morning, or how much you hate your studies etc... at least not for now... Ju…
/r/askTRP02/06/15 04:14 PM
2

Really? Because "just do it" is insightful? This advice is useless. This dude literally rehashed the sidebar in his own words and punctuated it with "do you." If this fucking garbage passes as quality content, then I don't want a part of this shit. And there's been a ton of shit like this in the past few months.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 05:22 AM
2

The fact is that "do whatever the fuck you want" is bullshit, banal advice that only meatheadded snake oil salesmen peddle. I'm already interested in getting what I want? What kind of fucking retard isn't? I come to this sub to learn ways to accomplish those ends. I want strategies. Real insight. Some sacharrine balogna about "just doing it" isn't novel. Dr. Suess could've given me that. When feel good shit like this gets upvoted, it kills what's already becoming an overcrowded board and people …
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 05:16 AM
3

I mean, people in general are attracted to playful, witty people. I mean, I find that with guys (and actually girls too), the few up them that I enjoy hanging out with are the ones with good banter. Novel, fun, charismatic people have the world at their fingertips.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 04:59 AM
-4

Lol. Were it so easy. The law, your superiors, your finances, your lack of expertise,and public perception can and will prevent you from doing whatever you want. You need the strategies outlined on this board to get what you want in most cases. That may include PUA stuff. It may include lifting and nutrition tips. It may include understanding how to deal with people. Your post is meaningless.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 04:40 AM
4

I get that. I just can't, for the life of me, understand why someone would like this life--much as I try to understand it. Bitchy wife. Shit kids. Your entire life is relegated to keeping them entertained? There's no winning there.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 07:00 PM
5

Lol. I guess I just don't understand this outcome as being a positive one. "I have a shitty wife and shitty kids but I successfully treated them to a vacation by exerting myself to ensure they didn't have any tantrums. Rate my alphaness."
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 06:58 PM
9

Not to beat a dead horse here, but what a fucking horror story. Why put yourself through this? This post does more to dissuade me from ever getting married and having kids than it encourages me to plan my trips ahead of time. Not to say I oppose of the way in which you handled things, but fuck that.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 04:11 PM
4

It has to do with this. It's curious, but it's not has disconcerting as the "sky is falling on Western society" camp may have you believe.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 05:53 PM
6

Natural selection is only concerned with what breeds vs what doesn't. The people who are having kids are winning the game. Their IQ has nothing to do with it.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 05:48 PM
1

Mmmmmm... "likes" shouldn't be a measure of social respect, whatever that means. You'll never outcompete celebrities and bimbos posting their boobs to thirsty dudes on Facebook. Liking people's posts on facebook doesn't really mean I have utmost respect for them--usually just means I like them. I'll be honest, I don't "like" the posts of people who annoy me but this has no bearing on their social status. I know people who don't even have social media and are quite popular and successful in socia…
/r/askTRP26/04/15 04:51 AM
2

Well, it's a great question and my short answer is: Looks absolutely do matter more than any other metric. I don't have the resources to design a study, but I would imagine if you could somehow design one that controlled for appearance as rated by women, money, status etc and assessed sexual activity, you would find that appearance correlates with sexual activity far more than anything else you could reasonably account for (maybe after " local proximity to women" lol). My speculation is that the…
/r/askTRP22/04/15 01:37 AM
2

There's a pretty storied legacy of male artists, writers, and poets dating back to ancient times so I don't really understand where you'd get the impression that any of these things are feminine...? lol As long as you're not delusional or weird about it, I don't see why it's a problem. Self-expression in the form of art is very human. Even the cavemen painted on walls. There's also a body of evidence that supports the notion that even doodling or sketching things can help spark creativity in oth…
/r/askTRP11/04/15 03:59 AM
1

Were it so easy...
/r/askTRP06/04/15 01:11 AM
2

Yes, and also, men are only interested in women who have something they want. In fact, pretty much every social interaction you have is done for the purpose of obtaining something you want from another person.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 02:11 AM
1

Good post, just want to add. Eating healthy and working out are goals in and of themselves, but they also feed into the other things. You'll find it much, much more difficult to maintain long-term focus if you're not eating right or not getting some form of exercise. This is something I still struggle with.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 10:55 PM
1

As long as you're not ugly, the social proof you will get from being a scholarship athlete is infinitely more valuable than having big muscles. I wish I had realized this earlier.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 04:00 AM
-1

Dude, this is not Eat, Pray, Love. You went to India because it's a fun vacation. It probably was an eye-opening experience because it's fun to visit new places and try new things. But you actually don't need to go around the world to do that, or live in a hole, or even spend that much money. Plenty of things present a much more long-term challenge at the cost of $2,000. You could buy a dog to teach yourself more responsibility. You could take a scuba class to push yourself. You could join a spo…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 12:39 AM
5

TRP (or more broadly, "the manosphere") neither discourages nor encourages getting married. If I'm remembering correctly, either Rollo or CH is married and one of the leading contributors to what you might call TRP philosophy. It's a cliche by now that gets repeated ad nauseum but TRP is knowledge--at best it can merely be used inform one of the risks of marriage, but a man could conceivably happen upon a scenario where the benefits outweigh the risks (he's already financially secure, has pre-nu…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 07:34 PM
8

Agreed. I live in a college town and have gone to a couple meetups. If I'm being honest: they're usually complete sausagefests, but I have met some cool, younger guys who are fun to drink and play ultimate frisbee with for an hour or two. I always see that Baltimore picture but I've never seen anything that egregious (or big, usually it's like 10ish ppl total).
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 04:52 AM
45

"Natural alpha" is one of the ridiculous platitudes that has really ruined this sub for me, and I was here since early on. It's almost as stupid as the "omega" "delta" etc. bullshit. None of it has any basis in anything scientific, and there's no logical explanation for such a phenomenon. ...Yeah, there exists a dichotomy in human society, evolutionarily selected for, whereby 90% of the human male population is bred for non-reproductive purposes, and the other 10% are the "natural alphas." You c…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 12:38 AM
6

I never doubted. I don't argue that such people exist. I just wanted to hear more, y'know?
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 12:26 AM
28

Tell some more stories, not that I'm doubting this one. My curiosity has been piqued.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 12:14 AM
7

While there is a biological impetus to have sex and to be valued in a high-status position, I'm not as convinced that all men are wont to put in the effort to achieve those ends as I used to be. I mean, think about all the men who are born disfigured, or who suffer paralyzing injuries. This is just one example. How do you fit these men into your model way of living? It's really hard to go into a club as a dwarf or a wheelchair bound paraplegic and act like you're hot shit. Now think about guys w…
/r/AlreadyRed08/10/14 02:11 AM
8

Damn, this was a good thing to read. I'm like this guy but at an earlier stage. I've been out of the gym for about 3 months and since I've started school in the fall again, I've been lazy, tired, eating poorly, unmotivated, dicking around. I basically failed my first two midterms--one in a class that I had to drop and I'll have to retry next semester, and one that (thankfully) will be dropped as my lowest grade assuming I can do better on the others. I've known I need to get back in the gym and …
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 10:02 PM
7

Ok, but why even bother to make the widgets, dude? Who cares? Suppose the following: There's enough widgets without you. You incur an unnecessary risk by entering the widget business, and, in fact, your widgets probably won't even be the best widgets out there--there's a good chance they'll be shitty, ungrateful widgets and that your business partner will still screw you over and take them from you in the end. More than that, there's an entire industry of widgets being funded on your dime, but t…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 01:51 AM
2

What difficult for me, and from what I gather is difficult for others too, is getting motivated to the point of taking action and accomplishing goals while simultaneously liking and approving of yourself as you are. It's important to develop a healthy competitive drive that also doesn't resort to self-loathing or misplaced anger. You'll never truly be able to be the best at everything, and if you push yourself so hard that you never step back and just appreciate life, you get burnt out and you'r…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 05:13 AM
0

Looks are all that matters, or close to all. It's a reality we must live with. I almost feel like it would be worth more for me to wait until designer babies are a thing and live vicariously through my sons than even bother with the appearance-based hypergamy seen in modern western women. You could, I believe, in a world where genetic engineering is a reality, create a man attractive enough that any woman would forego their current relationships to fuck him. And it makes complete sense from an e…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 09:43 PM
5

See, I'm on the other side of the spectrum. I worry less about meeting new people since I've been RP. I used to think I had to put on an act to please people, but more and more, I just don't give a shit. Now, I'd rather go snorkeling or hiking on my lonesome or with my dog than hang out with boring, superficial people. It really is what you make it.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 02:53 AM
27

I think it's more or less that before RP, you have it in your mind that "all people are just people" and that there's no nuance to their individual likes, wants, needs, motivations, experiences etc... ...but once you've opened your eyes, you realize that the lenses through which men and women view the world is very different. Where I once believed that women were simply prettier men with vaginas, I now realize that, in fact, the differences between them and myself are much greater. All men--even…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/14 09:38 PM
0

So you disagree that not having sex before the age of around 20 means you are not physically attractive? I mean, while I can imagine a scenario where an attractive male would not have had sex before that time, I think it's patently clear that physical appearance plays the biggest role in determining whether or not you get laid, and I maintain this even have sifted through and used 'game', high SMV levels etc.
/r/AlreadyRed13/05/14 03:53 AM
8

It really is. Y'know, for all the shit people give /r/seduction on TRP (and some of it's justified), at least that sub is optimistic. I mean this, once you the basics of TRP philosophy, it is infinitely more valuable to you to "Say hi to 3 women today" (and example of a noobie 'challenge' you might find on seddit) than come here for two hours and complain. I'm probably a little guilty of it too. But really, insofar as TRP is about seeking the truth, ask yourself: Rationally, does it make any sen…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 03:41 AM
1

Which part of my post?
/r/AlreadyRed12/05/14 08:46 PM
5

If you're the one choosing to follow the religion, is the religion dictating your life, or are you?
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 01:09 AM
18

I feel like, and I may be totally off-base here, Asian culture teaches self-loathing to its men as a means to get them to be more bookish and career-oriented. The classic trope is of how men in Asian cultures can bring shame to their families and themselves by failure. I think a lot of Asian men were raised in such a way that they believe they are born failures and have to work ridiculously hard and accomplish ridiculous feats to "prove" that they've arrived at the point where they are no longer…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 04:24 AM
1

I'm always curious who Captain Picard (or anyone 'captain') shares his feelings and doubts with though. Is it really fair to say he doesn't have them? Is there mentor or father figure that can help?
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 03:59 AM
21

The lens through which women view the world is a different one than that of men. Women don't really have to worry about warfare. If they happen to be on the losing side, they'll be claimed as prizes--not massacred. If a gov't takeover were staged, the old regime's men would lose everything, but the women could just switch sides. Society will always take care of women even at their most downtrodden. This simply isn't true for men. Women don't get to see the worst of life only because it's the men…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 03:56 AM
7

This is why I think the nuclear family is so important. I grew up with three brothers and all of us our within 5 years of each other, age wise. It would be quite difficult to form the bond I have with my brothers with any other men, though not impossible I suppose. In the wilderness, your nuclear and extended family was your support group in times of crisis or sickness. Now we live in a society that attempts to destroy the nuclear family.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 03:46 AM
2

It seems like it would almost certainly be epigenetic in nature. Whatever the parents were exposed to alters their genes and this is passed down to their offspring. The sins of the father...
/r/AlreadyRed08/05/14 02:09 AM
1

Low body fat is associated with higher testosterone. Do you have a source for this? Does this mean a long-distance runner has more testosterone than a chubby guy?
/r/AlreadyRed08/05/14 02:06 AM
8

mmm... I think that's oversimplifying things. The fact that Wilson appears "friendlier" to the media doesn't really say much about his "alpha" or "beta" behaviors in any other context. As the quarterback of a Super Bowl winning team, it's hard to say he isn't a leader and an alpha. Once you're SMV reaches as the point that Russell Wilson's has, it doesn't really matter what you do. Women will stand in line to suck Wilson's dick, Kaepernick's, Manziel's, Patrick Kane's etc... They don't really ca…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 01:36 AM
1

I'm not too sure on how the NFL works but why would Wilson be considered a rookie when this past year was his second year in the league? Not saying you're wrong, I just don't know.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 01:32 AM
-2

If the goal is to refute OP's argument by saying humans are not apes, then the counterargument is based on a false premise. "Humans aren't chimps" was maybe what he meant? I have no clue. But you can't take things that are patently false and use them as evidence for your argument.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 03:39 AM
3

Withdrawing from the ranking game makes one an alpha. I'm not necessarily disagreeing with you here, but can you elaborate a bit further on what you mean by this? Is it really fair to say that the loner, whether he be MGTOW or an wandering juvenile chimp is really an alpha?
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 02:18 AM
0

we are not apes Uh... yeah we are... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ape
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 02:15 AM
2

This idea sounds kind of "out there" but the more and more I think about it, it's actually a pretty good idea. It makes total sense for a doctor, lawyer, or CFO in his prime to visit the Philippines, Costa Rica or some such place, meet a nice, young Catholic girl, bring her back home, and then send those kids to East Coast private school. I mean, everyone wins in that scenario, y'know?
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 11:14 PM
2

Here's my question though: How do you maintain the relationship with the wife such that you're getting your needs met, not getting cheated on and able to play an active role in your children's lives? I've seen a lot of kids that were absolutely fucked by divorce. Plus, you lose the kids to mom. I mean, I guess you could just have a bunch of kids with a lot of different women, which would be the natural biological way of doing things, but that shit adds up fast.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 11:10 PM
-1

Yea, I guess you're right... The guy on the left is dreamy...
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 10:34 PM
3

The runner at Marathon? That's a poor example. No woman is attracted to a distance runner's physique. I speak from experience. Also, the guy died, so he probably didn't slay too much pussy after that.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 04:19 AM
-4

Did you post pictures of your face at all on this profile? Facial structure is, fortunately or unfortunately, infinitely more important than anything lifting can do. So I'm curious as to whether or not that was a factor.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 04:17 AM
8

I'm of the opinion that it has less to do with actual muscle mass and more to do with body shape. If you have a toned waist, then your broad shoulders will stand out more, even if a fatter guys shoulders are technically "broader."
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 04:15 AM
4

What if you're exceptionally skinny with no body fat though? :\
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 04:12 AM
4

On top of what you're saying and what's been said in this thread, which I completely agree with: If you read any religious text, you realize that it is, truly, men trying to understand their place in the universe. There's a great deal of value to be found in "religious" texts (everything from the Quran to The Odyssey) IF you take them in context. Look past the "magic" bits and you'll see the thoughts of other, mindful human beings who were trying to figure out the best way to structure a society…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 12:50 AM
3

We all need our own a pimp named slickback.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 01:00 AM
-1

I definitely understand what you're saying (not getting laid because you're "choosing" not to care =/= getting laid) but the problem lies within the notion that "game" or "being alpha" will even get you there. A lot of guys need to hear that being in control of your own life is the ultimate goal, and not just fucking women. Reason being? One major tenet of TRP is that female to male attraction is visceral, biological. It's easier to get poon as an alpha guy who has 9/10 facial aesthetics compare…
/r/AlreadyRed22/04/14 11:37 PM
8

I think most guys who really "get" TRP recognize that no action you take should be done for the sake of attracting women unless that action is logically congruent with your goals. You can sort of corrupt that idea to mean that no action that is not a step toward getting women to like you is worth taking, but that's an oversimplification. Albeit, it's an understandable one given that so many of the people on this board were once beta and want to break those habits. But there are absolutely things…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 09:22 PM
6

I agree with just about everything TRP says with regards to female entitlement and living for yourself, developing social skills and what have you. What I disagree with, and what gets me into some trouble on these boards, is that much of \^that has any impact on your ability to attract women. I'm a student of the "medical sciences" so I've read a lot of biology. I can tell you that, biologically, the attraction that exists between men and women is almost purely physical--anything else is rationa…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 03:03 AM
4

Reddit meetups are 90% men.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 03:00 AM
0

Well, first of all being self-interested doesn't involve self-replicating nucleic acids. ;P But, look, maybe even upon second re-reading, I'm just misunderstanding the blog post's point, but I don't think the advice "be selfish" is good advice for new PUAs because I don't think it ultimately results in actions that are congruent with their goals--which should be key. When I think of "selfish", I think "entitled" and advice meant to encourage entitlement is toxic advice to any man.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 02:53 AM
11

Well, I disagree with most of the "advice" she gives, but I suppose you have to admire her attempt to actually contribute and not just troll.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 02:48 AM
8

If you are truly a "9" as you described, I have a hard time believing you have any experience with what it's like to be an average of less-than-average guy. It's not to say your point is wrong (although I think it is), but your anecdote is rendered void.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 02:44 AM
1

Selfish is different than self-interested/self-motivated. It is different in both definition and in the way described by the blog post. I do not agree that being selfish has any impact on how attractive you are to women. And what's more, I don't accept that behaving selfishly is the most important piece of advice for new PUAs.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 02:38 AM
1

They will never outcompete even the wimpiest guy with a handsome face.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 02:36 AM
2

Eh, game matters less than you think. Appearance is big.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 02:33 AM
2

Women absolutely prioritize appearance like men do. That's the one big takeaway from this anecdote.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 02:32 AM
1

Do you have a link to the study? I ask because that's quite difficult for me to believe. There are absolutely "standards" of handsomeness by which men's facial features are judged. It isn't that men are just judged in relation to one-another.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 02:28 AM
1

1.) Then his usage of the word selfish is wrong. To me (and I suspect many others) selfish means the world owes you something. A beta who complains about being friendzoned is selfish because he expects he "deserves" something from a bitch he hasn't even made sure is dtf. 2.) Absolutely, absolutely, ABSOLUTELY is facial structure more important than literally any game you can spit. Rejection of this notion is asinine in light of the evidence (both anecdotal and scientific) to the contrary. Physic…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 02:16 AM
-5

Bologna. The best thing you can do to attract women is to have an attractive facial structure. Like, that's it. That's numero uno. If you have an attractive enough face, you could literally act gay and you'd have women falling for you. Beyond that, he's also wrong. Acting selfish is just a good way to get other people pissed at you. If I run a red light and nearly hit a female pedestrian, it doesn't wet her panties. It just pisses her and everyone else off. I thought this sub was about being log…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 10:58 PM
1

Well yea, people would rather share an attractive person than keep an ugly one for themselves. A truth rooted in evolutionary biology (when you look at our closest relatives) that I am more and more convinced is true is that humans are naturally polygamous. There isn't "one true love" for every person, but multiple options for those who are a few standard deviations above the hump in the bell curve. And I will go one step further and say something that might even be unpopular on this board. I th…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 09:26 PM
2

I always contend that the terms "alpha" and "beta" as they are used in the manosphere should actually refer to behaviors within a given social context. Every and any man is an alpha and a beta in a given context. There's not genetic difference between "alpha" and "beta"--it's just referring to you behave. As for omega, I don't understand what that term even means. It's apparently referring to men who are not asexual but also not pursuing women... that doesn't seem like it's incompatible with eit…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 11:16 PM
7

Ok, I'll be the loser who asks: How do you get the first one?
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 11:03 PM
2

You know, people make jokes about /r/seduction on here but there is some decent stuff posted there now and again. I always say it's a good place for novices because the focus is on inner game. Just ignore anything that's illogical and/or posted by a chick on there.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 04:32 AM
9

Still somewhat misleading in that women aren't going to just come to you if you're successful, just like DaVinci wasn't getting chased by the women of his day. You still have to approach if that's what you want. Otherwise, it's definitely a good post. You must realize that your value comes from within. Don't seek external validation.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 01:54 AM
-1

But isn't suicide the ultimate means of taking control of your life? I do agree with the sentiment though. Self-love is all the love you need. Some guys will never realize that.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 01:01 AM
15

Y'know, I always hear this said, and at face value--who could disagree with the premise that being reliant on external sources for happiness is a problem? But how do you really develop the sort of self-assurance that you're unfazed by how others perceive you? I ask honestly and not to be flippant, because I'm at a point in my life where I'm under a lot of stress to perform well, I don't really have anyone "intimate" who I share my troubles with, and I really do feel like many things are out of m…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 06:45 PM
16

"I'm such a nerd. Look at this Star Wars shirt I own." Oh yeah, you're really smart and "nerdy."
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 08:40 PM
7

This is why I don't understand RedPillWomen. A woman, by her nature, cannot live a redpill lifestyle. There's some wayward notion that the female and male sexual strategies are complementary. In fact, they are in direct competition with each other.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 02:07 PM
4

It's true, but I think most straight men would agree that they are not truly self-actualized until they've proven themselves capable of seducing and having sex with beautiful women.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 06:05 AM
5

This is somewhat misleading. You'll never get anywhere if you don't approach. There's value in being interesting, dressing well, working out etc. but I think the vast majority of guys on TRP are at least somewhat interested in meeting and having sexual relations with women at the end of the line, and they consider that a part of their goal. (In the sense that they wouldn't be truly happy without it.) That is to say: One aspect of a straight male's satisfaction with his life is his ability to att…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 06:02 AM
1

He's not saying we can't discuss that stuff here. He's telling you to practice what you preach (or read and agree with).
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 10:17 PM
8

I would advise a lot of novices reading this to go to subscribe jointly with /r/seduction which I think is more conducive toward easing newbies into game. Stay subscribed to RP too, but you're right that if you only read the stuff on here, you'll get pretty bitter quick and not want to waste your time. Like, if you can't even comfortably talk to women (as I did early on), /r/seduction will probably do more for you at that stage in the journey. Just keep the RP theory in the back of your head.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 10:15 PM
7

Good post, always a good reminder. One thing that's painful but true when it comes to Red Pill and the pick-up aspect of it especially, is that you HAVE TO approach. Maybe it's better generally summed up with the cliche that you have to be "comfortable being uncomfortable." You could be aware of the M/F sexual dynamic, interesting, have everything else in your life going perfectly, be confident in any other context, and still you won't get anywhere until you approach. And you'll probably get rej…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 10:08 PM
3

Women do not care about male weakness and neither does society, if you are weak, depressed, small, poor, uneducated, unconfident, not powerful then nobody cares. People only care about you when you're powerful or a pretty woman. You have to pull yourself up by the bootstraps because nobody gives a fuck about you. Society will always have a safety net for women, white knights will charge in, the state will provide and etc, as a man you have no such luxury, your propensity and ability to gain powe…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 12:00 AM
14

The way the school system is set up, it teaches you to behave supplicant. You're doing things to "earn" a grade. That's all well and good. In the real world, if you don't work, you don't eat. You gotta earn it. But they never implore you to question whether the task itself is actually worth your attention. Why should I be getting a good grade? If you're a shit teacher, why should I be paying attention? It does nothing for me. Like you say, the cynics, dregs, and lil Machiavellis learn not to giv…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 11:26 PM
1

Hmm. Good article. I have a hard time with 2 and 4. I think I was raised to have a very wimpy, subservient personality. I have no genuine friends, although I am well-liked simply by my nature of not causing a fuss. Cold approaches are made especially difficult when you don't have buddies or much else going on. My frame definitely needs work. I've been a "worrier" for so long and it's a tough habit to break because even though it's left me a socially awkward pissant, it has brought a lot of acade…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 09:28 PM
1

Most television, especially sitcoms, is garbage.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 09:18 PM
3

When I was in eighth grade at a parochial school, one guy kept giving me shit. Every teacher in the school was female. I'll tell you what, I was pretty beta then, and maybe I still am now, but I consider my choice not to talk to them about it to be one of the top decisions in my life. Instead, one afternoon things reached a tipping point, and I we put up our dukes. We were both scrawny, awkward motherfuckers so it probably looked dumb as hell. He said something else and I just went at him. Time …
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 02:36 AM
2

I think partially it's that men were made to form friendships from doing, quid-pro-quo, teamwork etc not via conversation or through feelings... Feelings mean less and less to me. Less and less do I care whether or not a guy "likes" me. There are men who I respect for what they do, but I don't think about whether or not they care about me. I look for what someone can do for me, and I operate under the assumption that this is what they look for in me. I've always appreciated having brothers who w…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 11:21 PM
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Business school sounds like such a chore. I respect (and I mean it) the guys that do it, but it sounds like a rigged game where the only way to win is to schmooze. I understand that schmoozing is life pretty any way you cut it, but I enjoy the occasional respite of numbers, problems, and chemicals. I'm better-suited for a numbers game. I think I'll ride this horse out. I can definitely see how women would use their sexuality to get ahead. It's so obvious that if you had that perk, you'd use it. …
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 11:58 PM
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Well, my description actually sort of fits the theme of my current pic (I box), but I've sort of run the gamut as far as pics go. I've gone with exotic location shot, pic with girl, pic with bro, straight-on face, action shot, physique shot, selfies and non-selfies etc. No dice. What sort of pic + description are you using, if I may ask? I'm pretty sure I'm not an ugly dude. I'm slim, but muscular. Face is decent--won't win any awards but you know, normal.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 11:48 PM
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What can I change though? It's pretty appearance-based. I already work out, but I can't really alter my face. The only other thing I can do is edit my description. As of now, it says, "Fight me! + winky face"
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 10:40 PM
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Women have two default relationships with men, one that's grounded in motherly instinct and one that's grounded in sexuality. I think the beta/alpha distinction is related to which feelings you evoke in them. Women almost subconsciously ask themselves, when they enter a relationship with a guy, are they maiden or mother? The mother's job is unconditional care/love for her offspring in which she has a very vested interest. There's no sexual tension. The relationship can be a comfortable one for t…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 10:36 PM
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Dude, Tinder is frustrating cause there's a lot of hot girls on there but literally none of them bite. I've gotten about 60 matches from being on and off there for a year, mostly uglies, some plain janes, and a few legitimately hot ones. I haven't bothered chatting too many of them up, and I think the well's running dry because it never finds anyone for me.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 05:56 PM
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No, no, you're perfectly allowed to say that you hate them, but you won't be winning any converts from a logical standpoint.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 05:38 PM
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I think maybe you're lowering your standards to meet your SMV. I don't think obese women are more attractive than Victoria's secret models. Sometimes I'll see a girl that's unconventionally attractive. They usually aren't overweight, but maybe a girl with an Aquiline nose or freckly face or something, who is just so commandingly feminine in her fashion sense or strut that it's hard not to turn my head. I don't think that's what you're talking about though because I don't think I'm the only guy w…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 12:15 AM
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What's tetra? I only think of chemistry and tropical fish.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 06:47 PM
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Just don't drop out of STEM. Sure, there's a higher F:M ratio elsewhere but it just ain't worth it.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 06:35 PM
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Here's another interesting place to seek out, especially on a college campus: Go to church. No self-respecting party boy would be caught dead at church, but women flock to it, and most of the guys that do go are either gay (which I thought was weird, I go to a Catholic church so it might be different elsewhere), very beta, or just not really looking to pick girls up.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 06:32 PM
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I think that ultimately, you can do whatever you want with your body. But the thing about tattoos is that they are relatively permanent. On the one hand it shows impulsivity, which can be a good thing. But in other ways it shows lack of control and long-term thinking, especially if it's all up and down your arm or something--clearly visible even with clothing on. Another thing that I always thought was interesting is that the Bible and other religious texts consider tattoos to be some form a sel…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 06:22 PM
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Biologically speaking, men remain fertile for a lifetime while women reach menopause by their mid40s and 50s. Men were "designed" by evolution to reproduce well into old age where women "hit the wall" earlier.
/r/askTRP22/01/14 04:37 PM
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This is kind of where I feel like I am. I'm glad I found TRP when I did, but it's daunting simply because I have no experience with women whatsoever -- beta, omega, anything. I probably haven't had a conversation with a girl other than my mom in weeks. I don't even have any real guy friends that I feel like I could call up and hang out with. It's almost like, even when I'm talking to someone, it's impossible to focus on what I'm saying because I'm focused on what they're thinking of me, or what …
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 04:07 PM
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Yea dude, I had a similar experience growing up. I was intelligent, accomplished, and pretty athletic (for HS game, that's really all you need) but my self-confidence was so low that I never went to dances, or HS sporting events or joined clubs etc. I became bitter. I do like TRP, but I would stress more of the content on /r/seduction to the beginners who have similar confidence issues. If you haven't even held a conversation with a girl in years, doing some of the stuff on TRP is 0 to 60 in no …
/r/askTRP21/01/14 01:13 AM
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He may be gay. Not saying thats a bad thing, but someone doesnt go to 26 without at least TRYING to get with women. I was as beta as they came, no girlfriend basically ever. But i still tried. You'd be surprised. I was and have seen even some decently attractive guys who had such severe confidence issues/other problems that they really didn't try to approach until after college. I think the /r/seduction advice is good though. The stuff on there is more about inner-game and conversation. I think …
/r/askTRP21/01/14 01:03 AM
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Not mother?
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5th paragraph down. I wanted to but finances make that very difficult. I'm trying to figure out what to do short of working retail forever because that sounds just as bad. Just looking for advice to restructuring my career path, I guess.
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Well, what do you mean, dude? Of course I'm bitter about the entitlement I see in others and the fact that I have no one to express my anger and frustration to. Who wouldn't be? If I don't like myself its because there's nothing to like. And I already lift, work hard in school etc. to no avail. But ultimately, if I can't resolve the crisis of literally seeing no point in doing anything, it's just going to spiral into shooting myself. It honestly seems more sensible than living unhappily in a str…
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Living in a Western country, I've never shamed a family for one of their kin committing suicide. Depending on the context, I might think poorly of the person themselves but not their brother or whatever.
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A disability, extreme debt, paralysis are not first world bullshit dude. If you lived in the third world, these things would be just as debilitating.
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Interesting perspective with the lucid dream stuff, but I would argue most people contemplating suicide are either miserable or jaded to the point where it's more like a lucid nightmare, you know?
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What if one legitimately cannot handle the stresses placed upon them? Like I said, let's say somebody is hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt with no marketable skills and nothing to his name. TRP might say, "toughen up and rebuild your life!" but I mean, what are his options? He's gonna live like a slave for the rest of his life.
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Philosophically, if the guy didn't ask to be born, why should he care about others cleaning up "his mess"? I mean, the coroner or contractor gets paid to do that.
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Question for you, because a lot of what you're saying is resonating with me. I don't like drinking or doing drugs (at least smoking of any kind)--tried both and didn't enjoy the experience or how they made me feel. Unfortunately, I'm at a point in my life where this is very commonplace among my peers. What can I do? I know I don't want to drink, and I know that people who want to drink don't want to spend time with me because I'm "too serious" or "anti-fun." Regardless of my shyness or introvers…
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Believe me, I did enough self-loathing "crack the whip"-style motivation to know it won't make me happy in the long term. In HS, I hated myself. I channeled that towards making the grades and doing what I needed to do to get where I wanted to be post-high school. I told myself I would commit suicide if I failed in my goals. It worked as a form of motivation. Now, does that sound like an alpha to you? If it does, our definitions are quite different. It hasn't helped my confidence. It hasn't helpe…
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May I ask how old you are? Because I'm at a point in my life where much of the stuff you're describing seems impossible.
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Ever seen Groundhog Day? Bill Murray relives the same day over and over again and he uses his knowledge to basically do anything he wants, but then he gets bored so he starts improving others lives. That's self-actualization. If I ever get to the point where I could bang any of 10,000 girls on a whim, I'd probably do it, but I might even go so far as to take an interest in their lives too, y'know? Look at Bill Gates. Dude's probably so bored with himself, so he goes around doing philanthropic wo…
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Same question. It seems like it's OTC by the way people describe it but I can't seem to find it anywhere.
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Don't you think every generation that's ever lived has said this? Crazy people have spouted the end of times for generations. Whether you were living in the roaring twenties or the depression era, pessimists always believed it would get worse. I'm actually not convinced society has changed as much as TRP thinks it has in the past 40 years. There was infidelity, social issues, petty conflict since the dawn of man. There was a paper recently concerning how 17 women have reproduced for every man th…
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They actually don't, at least not from the father. Your job is financial support, security, and discipline as necesarry -- not emotional support. Most of the problem with kids without dads today is that they lack money, security, and/or discipline. Sometimes they even lack emotional support from mom to the point that they're basically feral. I know plenty of guys whose parents are divorced but who are still very successful and RP.
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Testosterone levels in Western men have, on average, decreased over the course of the 20th century to today. I am unable to link the relevant paper right now, but if you look up "secular decline in testosterone" you will find many relevant results. It is probably related to obesity though.
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But I mean, the test itself uses just a blood sample, correct?
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Basically it's just a blood test and they give you a number, right?
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This is interesting. Did you essentially just go into the clinic for a blood test and have them look at your T-levels? I ask because I've been wondering if this is true for me. I had a hernia and needed surgery "down there" to fix it. I was told it wouldn't affect T-levels but I'm unsure if that's true. Certainly I've been around TRP for awhile but have become disillusioned with my muscle gains and am often made stressed/anxious by minutiae and so I'm wondering if seeing someone might be in the …
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