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Continue to work on you! You've exposed the fallacy that some men believe that their marriage will improve as they improve. This sub fixes men, not marriages. Much more likely it still implodes only slower. The amount of work it would take to retain the new you isn't worth it to her. If she wanted this you, she woulda stayed single and fucked Chad. She had enough of that and chose the easiest option of settling with a nice, soft, mushy, fat guy she can manipulate. I can count on my hand personal…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 08:31 AM
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Does this matter? This sounds like a feel bad for a beta fucktard story that got taken. Even after he found out he'd still do nothing. OYS! Sometimes you need to be the guy to set the example, you may lose your freedom and possibly your life, but your life was never your own once you chose to share your life with someone. I like the "Don't Get Married"! The only way to win the game is to not play! All decisions come with ramifications. She chose a fool she had no fear of, that way even if it imp…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 05:36 AM
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Did you marry your Mother? It is your responsibility to keep your diet and exercise plans in check. Cook for yourself and let her starve! Let her drive herself, Do your own laundry. You should be so sufficient in life where she looks at you and knows she has nothing on you! Her main supporting role is intimacy and if she weaponizes that "let's face it, she probably already is" you go elsewhere. Stop walking on eggshells, you're acting like a child! Women do not want to fuck their children! Stop …
/r/askMRP02/06/18 06:02 PM
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This is all well and good, but it's lipstick on a pig! Your emotional neediness and insecurity has doomed your relationship and it will not recover. She openly mocks and disrespects you, overtly showing attraction to other men. Stop investing in what amounts to junk bonds! Nobody is going to hang another medal on your chest for this campaign. It's better to start a new relationship where a woman only knows this you, if you choose to actually have another LTR(why would you). Get your ducks in a r…
/r/askMRP11/05/18 01:37 PM
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There is only one insurance policy you have when you choose a wife! Unfortunately for most unaware men they are the ones chosen, often times lying to themselves that they settled. Even when they finally find this sub they still hamster it away that they were the prize prior to letting themselves go, when all along they were the Pawn in her long game! Marriage can be fulfilling! As men we love to teach, impart knowledge, share our life experiences. We're natural teachers! Should that make you giv…
/r/askMRP29/04/18 02:28 AM
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Here is what you do! Go find that box of pictures you guys have saved from when you got together. Look through those early pictures. Were you the AMOG or were you a fat fuck? Did she fuck anyone else in your social circle that was better than you? Did you chase her? Did you ask more than once to date her? If any of these questions are a yes, leave. You will be in no worse shape leaving now as opposed to when you get back on your feet and the sooner you start rebuilding yourself the better. That …
/r/askMRP24/03/18 03:17 AM
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Good Luck! That's one of the downfalls of socialized medicine, it might be free but they get to tell you what you need so you're not wasting it.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 02:11 AM
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Go to an online lab order site, select the panels you want done, get the blood drawn and take your results to a Dr. You need to understand the results, what you're looking at so you can make the argument to them on why you need treatment. Don't rely on Dr's to educate you about your health. The bonus is, usually the lab tests are cheaper online than insurance.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 02:04 AM
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Get blood panels done first. Free and total T, LH, FSH, E2, SHBG, PSA, Lipid panel and CBC. You need to find out why your T is low. You don't wanna start any treatment if you have an underlying condition that could cause you harm and I always say use the lowest possible dose you can that makes your life better. This may be 50mg/wk, I am not a fan of more is better. 200mg shot once a week will screw you up. Test Cyp half life is 6-8 days. So at the 8th day you have half of what you started with a…
/r/askMRP27/02/18 06:11 AM
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This is gold! On my deployment distancing my emotions from a girl 2500 miles away was the toughest thing! When it happens, you'll know it, it'll click! The best asset you have is time, food and weights. Even the most remote FOB's have a basic gym. Make yourself into a God! Expel her from your life! WRITE YOUR CHILD EVERYDAY! TWICE! What I mean is write a letter everyday in duplicate so you have a copy. Be everyone's everything! Be your STBXW's nothing, suck everything from her emotionally you ca…
/r/askMRP17/02/18 02:28 AM
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Read, Read, Read! Before you start any HRT program you should be well versed in how your body works. You need to understand your hormones and what they do and what affects them. Start by getting a complete CBC with lipid panel, you need to check your total and free T, SHBG levels, FSH, TSH and LH values, E2, PSA. You should know these acronymns what they are and what affects them. Going on TRT will only mask your symptoms if you have a shitty diet and lifestyle. This should be fixed first. Diet …
/r/askMRP11/02/18 07:09 PM
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Why should he care if she has ever had tingles. Cheating yeah I agree, but he knew it then and he was ok with it what has changed? It's a known quantity in his relationship. Multiple instances of cheating, manipulation and she basically just used him, but even with all that the straw that finally breaks the camels back is that she never had tingles? There is no better example of someone missing the forest cause he was looking at a few trees.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/18 06:42 AM
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5'6" 153lbs overweight? Wanna hint? @ 66" if you aren't at least 160-170 @ 12% or less you're gonna look frail. Ignore weight while you're skinny fat, it's a poor indicator since muscle weighs more than fat and you'll be much heavier during your journey! Make yourself broader since you cannot get taller. Height is irrelevant when your frame is 6'6"...... That being said, What The Fucking Fuck is wrong with you? You went angry Rambo, abandoned your wife and family for some temporary validation. Y…
/r/askMRP24/01/18 09:24 AM
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In short No! When you start the relationship where she settled for you, your version of what your relationship could be will never become a reality. It cannot, simply due to the fact that as you grow and become the better version of yourself while she may improve a bit, she won't measure up to your new standard. You're looking for an answer that can only be obtained after you've gotten there, but you're searching for it without even making the trip. Once you get there the dynamic changes and you…
/r/askMRP19/01/18 09:48 PM
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The person that values the relationship more always has less power. Even now, you're putting value on something you see as a lost cause. Why? You're not entitled to anything in this life, but the air you steal everyday! You have provided the effect, but the cause is missing. Was she a trophy wife in the beginning, did she support you while you became the top 1%? Run the house while you were working? Raising your children? This was the negotiated transaction. You make the money, she keeps the hom…
/r/askMRP28/12/17 09:36 AM
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STFU about divorcing, about the cheating, life hasn't changed for you one bit since you've found out! You're not getting anymore or any less sex are you? You aren't losing 50% of your net worth while having your kids turned against you. Your children don't have to listen to mommy get pounded in your former marital bed, while you have a 1BR apartment away from your kids. Logistically nothing has changed since yesterday except now you are finally seeing things more clearly. You can be mad, but oth…
/r/askMRP25/12/17 09:46 AM
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Actually what she meant was, if she wanted this muscular you she would have went after your two friends! By starting off with a SMV deficit, no matter how much you work she will only see you as that because she chose to settle for the lesser you! Now she is thinking "who the fuck is this asshole, the reason I chose him was because I didn't have to work to keep him and now I am expected to bust my ass for something I never even wanted in the first place". That is why she is to be used as an educa…
/r/askMRP11/12/17 03:48 AM
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You're putting a heroic spin upon a man's decision to leave this world when in fact more often than not it is quite a pathetic choice, ill conceived and rarely remembered. Most men disposing of themselves could be attributed to their ego, but only those who's ego were created from the validation of a woman(i believe this is what you are touching on). Which is why groups like this need to flourish to combat it. It is also why men need to have an identity apart from BF, Husband, Dad. I would like …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/17 12:03 PM
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Men inherently like to parent, teach and spread their knowledge. We are teachers, we love the idea of passing on skills we've mastered. It is tangible, a value greater upon death than it was when living. It is a value women cannot see and one that which leads to our over investment in a sunken cost fallacy. We see a worth to our life's work, they see what you did last Tuesday. Marriage in the western world is a failure. You get taxed more, you open yourself up to indentured slavery at the expens…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/17 10:22 PM
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You dont want to next her cause you're comfortable and it's easy. It would be too hard to sell this version of you to someone else and get what you think is a viable return on that investment so you accept shitty behavior. You get some half assed attention and some sex, so you negotiate with yourself that maybe she'll turn herself around after the 15th time. You think, "maybe if my frame was stronger she wouldn't lie" when in fact you should be thinking "maybe if my frame was stronger I know I w…
/r/askMRP19/10/17 07:29 AM
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Choosing an ugly woman and locking her in the basement closet? Interesting statement from you! Could you not pull an educated woman, capable of a 6 figure salary, with a low N count that would be willing to give every cent of it to you? I am glad you agree with the last statement, However there is no such thing as a self satisfied woman! She is only satisfied by the things she obtains from your value. If you are shit expect to be treated as such! A self satisified woman, She lives vicariously th…
/r/askMRP22/02/17 04:16 AM
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Why are you bothering with all this drama? You kow how many male friends my SO has? ZERO! You are insecure and this will lead to further altercations. They're all beta orbiters right now, what if Chad friends her up? You still ok with having loose boundries? Find a woman that doesn't need a constant stream of male attention for her to feel good about herself on a daily basis.
/r/askMRP19/02/17 06:18 PM
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Assume them all to be CC riders(or have the ability to be) and put other mechanisms in place to limit your physical, emotional and financial losses in your marriage. Have your own thing. Be Scarce! It gives you time away to devlop or reinvent you. Make sure she earns a living, one where if you are gone she can support herself. This also linits what you would have to pay during a divorce. Maintain a high SMV, to maximize your pussy pulling potential in the event the marriage falls on Chads dick..…
/r/askMRP19/02/17 03:01 PM
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While she is home! Fuck her friend, her sister or her cousin as long as it doesn't knock your social currency down! Have fun living the better you!
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 09:34 PM
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Don't forget, that I will forgive you if you buy me a 30 day Xbox live subscription so I can play video games while you text Chad!
/r/askMRP14/02/17 03:49 AM
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You're not responsible for her emotions! You're not responsible for her emotions! Yo're not responsible for her emotions! You cannot be her girlfriend in arms and fuck her at the same time...........
/r/askMRP12/02/17 07:42 PM
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Gotta be click bait, there is so much of it......
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 07:12 AM
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How Alpha are you gonna be when you're 78 fucking lbs. dying of aids? Would you stick your dick in a heroin addict from the street? Your health, like your fitness and diet is yours and yours only! Even your LTR/ Wife could cheat with a dirty Chad and bring you home a surprise and that is out of your control, but to not protect yourself when you have the freewill to do so means you're not Alpha at all. You're not commanding your own ship, you're sailing blind........ And reproduction has little t…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 06:59 AM
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Wait a minute! She works full time? Does she outearn you or close to it? Do you keep the home mostly? Is she the husband? I fail to see the downside in obtaining a side piece or pieces...... Especially if she was planning to divorce you anyway. Might as well build yourself and your confidence from now until either of you file..... And yes you should file, because being miserable is shitty way to go through life..... You need to accept that your wife chose the old you, not this new half assed att…
/r/askMRP12/02/17 06:06 AM
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You're thinking women see us similar to we see them. Men are visual creatures, that use what we see to form a logical equation if you will. Women are emotional beings, the thought process for emotional thinkers are independent of a visual stimulation. She may see he is hot, but with no game you're a bust! They draw a completely different hypothesis based upon how they feel. It's not just women though some men can be emotional thinkers as well, this is why we have the problems in modern society. …
/r/askMRP11/02/17 09:18 PM
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It is really simple, 1/2 " between you tricep and shirt. Quads 1/4 " hips 1/2" and ankles 1/2". This accentuates your glutes. You will spend money building your style, but it is wirth it!
/r/askMRP09/02/17 08:03 PM
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You're not missing anything! Growing as a young girl is more difficult than as a boy. I have all girls and it is a motherfucker of a responsibility. This RP life is hard, it should be! You want just anyone belonging to this group? Provide the proper leadership and regardless of the outcome you've done what you could! The only outcome is she chooses someone like you! A hard nosed, Ima run shit like a muthfucka attitiude! This is my family! Man the fuck up!
/r/askMRP09/02/17 07:56 PM
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Fcuk this relationship! The only relationship you should be worried about is your children. Stop putting your dick in her. She is obviously fucking other people. Imagine her in a car, feet on the dashboard getting railed raw by some guy she met 2 hrs ago! Do you think it is wise to still put your dick inside of her? Build your exit plan, document everything for the courts. Hell in fact if you can catch her with drugs, call the cops and have her taken in. This is a sure fire way to pull back the …
/r/askMRP09/02/17 04:02 PM
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Great job on a shit response! Why don't you tell him the positives instead. She complied with his leadership, he enjoyed himself, she still came! Her emotions after the fact are not his to navigate. I would be more worried that he overstepped his frame and spent more SMV than he has if she outright said no! This is all about steps, 6 months from now she should be asking you to turn her over! Soldier on!
/r/askMRP09/02/17 03:53 PM
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Organized religion brought us feminism? Yes and No! I say both because under religious law women serve their husbands, but as the church's influence has receded those usually bound by its control have become the main antagonist in the feminist movement. So if Religion wasn't ever created, we as a species would still operate under cultural norms and gender specific obligations to our groups which would normally quell such movements. Yes it sounds mysogonistic, if you feel compelled to ask.... Org…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 05:55 AM
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Go on the vacation! Better yet, book another room and bring your own guest. Can't be much more blunt than that. Just let it go and prepare for divorce, you're not there to help manage her emotions. If she comes around so be it(divorce papers could be pulled) , but you need to plan for a permanent break
/r/askMRP08/02/17 05:06 AM
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I am assuming she is a sahm, right? She sounds like boredom has pushed her into this woe is me state. Let her figure her shit out, you continue to be a great Dad to your kids. Ignore her bullshit, control the spending, definitely get her to see as many counselors and or medical professionals as possible. It will go a long way in substantiating your claims of child neglect based on mental health concerns. Document everything! If you continue to work on you she will either come around or she'll lo…
/r/askMRP07/02/17 08:25 PM
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The two greatest frauds of modern civilization! Organized Religion and Organized Government. At one time or another one would get you killed and the other enslaved, I guess it remains true to this day..... Will there be a RP Christianity sub? Or RP Muslim? It is great that there is a sub dedicated to it, as the bitchslapping contests here would get out of control clogging up the pipeline. Thanks for creating it cause rarely does an emotional thinker agree with a logical thinker on any level, so …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 11:46 AM
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You need to film this shit show so you can warn everyone about the dangers of wifing up a non citizen. I give you 90 days! You better have your anti rape kit ready and your marital escape plan memorized......
/r/askMRP07/02/17 10:25 AM
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If you're a shithead, who either let his wife quit her career or wifed up some dumb snatch with no prospects of a career or earning capacity cause you were thirsty, it's your own fault! Again I will repost the 3 insurance rules of marriage! Never marry a woman without an education! Never marry a woman without a career that can match your earning capacity! Never let her quit her job! Ever! After marriage, after babies, after menopause! Never surrender your insurance policy! If you were stoopid en…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/17 03:33 AM
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You've progressed? Not so! When you consider your poor leadership has led her down this path, this is simply a cosequence of your actions. You need to plan your escape route. Hide money, don't ever fuck her again, withhold access to banks accounts and give her a stipend. You fucked this up, now it us your turn to fix it...
/r/askMRP05/02/17 12:44 AM
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Again, another schlub leaves out the important data in this advice equation...... Is she a SAHM? Is she educated? Does she have a career? Partner count? It may seem trivial but this info is critical to tailoring your advice. I've fucked chicks with Ncounts of +50. Do you think I would marry them? Do you think 50 was the real number? I fucked stoopid chiks! I have fucked intelligent women! You wanna know the difference between them? NOTHING! You chose an inferior woman! Whether you were Beta, For…
/r/askMRP04/02/17 10:08 PM
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Maybe he is the Anti RP. Spreading information around in the hopes he can keep the RP population down and create less competition for his people.... Or he is just weird. If you lay down on the sidewalk here, they will most assuredly pick you up. Either to get looked at or to keep you from loitering. Especially if you aren't indigent(cleanand groomed), then they know your egg is cracked.......
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 04:20 PM
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You also need to fight any restraining orders with a restraining order, make it a laughable tit for tat for the judge. What she is doing is trying to build a history to deny you 50/50 parental rights. By doing so in most states you then will have limited visitation with your children, however the main goal is to get primary custody in order to receive more money in child support for her to live on........ You cannot monitor how she spends it. She could feed the kids hamburger helper every night …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/17 05:38 PM
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First off, you don't shit where you eat! Simple enough right? Do you value your career? How about your reputation? What if your boss disagrees with your philandering ways? Does he keep you from a promotion, ruin your career? What if she is BSC? When she gets called the office slut and files a rape charge, is that something you may be interested in? There is a whole host of options for you, report back on just how bad this shit sandwich of yours goes down........ Wake the fuck up and stop acting …
/r/askMRP01/02/17 05:20 PM
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It comes down to understanding not just the role women fill within your life, but how you will let them act during those interactions. You don't have to bow to them because of societal pressures. You have standards as a man and nobody takes that away, not even another man. You determine your value not the woman hanging on your arm......... It is quite a revelation once it happens. That first time you are in the presence of a taken woman in a social setting, who pubicly admonishes or berates thei…
/r/askMRP28/01/17 02:57 AM
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These guys are fucking idiots and do not understand that their relationship was built on a lie! It will not get better, EVER! Start a new one where she knows the better you! She will only get pissier because you are flipping the script on her. Don't you think that if she wanted the better version of you, she would have found him instead of you! Welcome to the realization of being hamburger in a Steak world!
/r/askMRP28/01/17 02:47 AM
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Your SHBG is pretty low. LH aint bad but could be a little better. E is within range 12-25 is good. It looks like your free T is low only because you aren't producing enough T. I would find a Dr. to try a 3 month cycle on TRT. Any testicular issues in the past? Injuries, damage, surgeries, etc.? PSA is elevated but not alarming, above 4.0 start to worry. Even on TRT mine was close to nil! If you can find a Dr. to put you on Test Cyp. A 3 month run should tell you alot. PM me if you want specific…
/r/askMRP27/01/17 12:18 AM
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What about your SHBG? If it is high, any Testosterone you may have will never get to the cells to do its job since it binds to T and lowers your free T. Plus the more Estro you have, the higher the SHBG will be. It's a vicious cycle. When I was first screened, I found out my body converted alot of my T to E so I had to find a way to compensate for it. I was in the high 300's-400, could't imagine it in the 200's, great job on your lifts with so little fuel supporting it!
/r/askMRP26/01/17 06:45 PM
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Thanks cupcake! [Edit] I'm back off my soapbox!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/17 06:31 PM
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WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS? I just lost two minutes of valuable time, 2.5 if you count my post.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/17 01:37 AM
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If this isn't a troll post good for you! I would incorporate her into your playtime! There is no better wingman than a woman. She knows your likes, style, prefrences. She is still very much involved in your sex life(she wants that, not the scraps) so she feels she has a say in your exploits. A partner in crime! Treat her always as your primary, she has veto power! Let her exercise it a bit! Have fun with this. Caution to you though, it will not last. I promise you that! They get tired of not bei…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/17 03:47 AM
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Morals are a modern day construct! Originally implemented by religious institutions to control people, mainly women! Unfortunately, it is a double edged sword since society would not be what it is today without them......
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 08:52 PM
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Because this! Either accept your life for what you are and what it is, or fix yourself if you think you are doing it wrong! Nobody will judge you, no second guessing, ridicule, etc You reek of validation and self assurance. You want the validation of your pursuits from Men that give 3 fucks less! You want to be told it is ok, yet you give but a glimpse on how you've approached your role in the relationship. Just how they've died on the vine.... Relationships tend to fizzle, I get it! I am no kid…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/17 04:01 AM
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Your not missing anything! There is nothing wrong with seeking personal pleasure in this life. You're not going to die any less of a death because you fucked outside of your marriage or two. The problem is you say you have no problem with it, yet you seek some kind of correspondence about the matter. Is it that you want validation, that what you want as a man to be told it is okay to chase those prizes? You won't find it here, the high and mighty judgements stop upon swallowing the pill and ones…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/17 04:36 AM
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No Ketchup! What about a motherfucking Burger? He must be European! Puttin Mayo on his Frittes!
/r/askMRP11/01/17 03:28 PM
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+1 on setting boundaries. You let her know what is expected of her if she wants a relationship with you. -1 You're communicating feelings with her about an inadequacy in your relationship. She doesn't care about your feelings, even if she did ponder them the next thing on her mind quickly pushes that worry away. She obviously wants to go on the vacation, you established your standards if she goes on it demote her..... It's not that you're being a controlling asshole(as her friend will say), you …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 10:07 AM
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Arguments with women are pointless. Rule of thumb: "Never argue with an Idiot, they will drag the fight down to their level and beat you with experience".
/r/askMRP11/01/17 09:55 AM
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When carbs are mentioned more often than not the carbs associated with refined wheat flour are the ones that come to mind as bad. And rightly so! White Bread for example is no better than refined granulated sugar as far as your body is concerned, wheat flour pasta too! Nobody ever clarifies the type of carb they are speaking of though, which leads to pissing matches here. Eating a diet rich in veggies still gets you your carbs, ones that won't spike your blood sugar. They also have alot of fiber…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 03:26 AM
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You have no idea what you're doing! This dude could be your best wingman, new best friend, but you have already pissed on your spot marking your territory, why? If you read anything here, you would understand 1. You cannot control a woman's propensity to cheat, ever! 2. You shouldn't care if she does, cause #1. Me, I would tease her. It shows your awareness that she finds his qualities attractive, I would then approach every girl in your social environment. If you do not have the SMV to do so yo…
/r/askMRP08/01/17 07:47 PM
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Here is some advice for younger guys that wanna make the same mistake every other married slob complains about. Do not marry a women that doesn't have an education and an ability to earn. Do not marry a woman that doesn't make as much as you(or close to it). Never let her stop working after babies are born, EVER! Never comingle your finances, EVER! This includes money and debts. Always run each others credit reports. Make sure she has an IRA/401K from the word go. Save your money so that you are…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 06:31 AM
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DEATH! As comfortably as possible. Everything up til then is a bonus.......
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/17 06:14 AM
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If she doesn't like boundaries, remove all of them! Take every door off it's hinges, cept the entrance doors. No bathrooms, no bedrooms, etc. Leave them like this until behavior improves. It won't take long.....
/r/askMRP02/01/17 07:49 PM
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OP listen to this advice here! You are accountable for the food that comes into your home. Set your meal plans up, cook ahead of time, prepack your meals. Even without working out she can become thin based on diet. Remove any wheat based carbs from your diets, if she isn't working out any excess calories are stored as fat. Find your BMR's and eat less than that number..... Then find satiating foods to keep hunger at bay, not foods that will make her blood sugar crash and leave her hungry again 4…
/r/askMRP30/12/16 06:53 PM
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So here was your first reply. "No. Ketosis does not make you lose more fat than a high carb diet." I said "Ketosis is tricking your body to burn fat reserves as your primary energy source." Not lose more fat, just a different fuel source. Instead of arguing semantics or what you thought my context was I'd rather you just pick apart my BMR Calc for him at least then you may of had something constructive to add. It doesn't "trick" anything. You are correct Ketosis doesn't trick anything, but if yo…
/r/askMRP24/12/16 08:57 PM
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How about a cold approach to say hello...... Scenario: 2 girls hanging with one guy(both equally cute), casual summer lake environment. Me: "Hey, you here with anyone(to #1)? Yeah him" Guy looks at me, smirks. "How about you(speaking to other girl), me too! Guy smirks again...... Just shook my head and walked away..... Well played.......
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 06:03 PM
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What are you talking about? Sustained energy deficit? What does this even mean? If I can kinda get your statement correct, it sounds like you're saying that a diet whether it be based on carbs fats or protein as long as you maintain a caloric deficit you'll lose weight. You are correct in so far as a calorie deficiency will help you lose weight. But there is way more to it than that. You really need to read more about the human body and how it breaks down fats carbs and protein. The affects of w…
/r/askMRP23/12/16 05:12 AM
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This post is a circle jerk. You're asking how to get around the faults you have without stating those faults to avoid picking them apart so your ego doesn't take a hit. She is laying out your treasure map. You clearly are fucking something up, but you're asking how you can fog her until you possibly get your shit straight. What are her complaints?
/r/askMRP22/12/16 02:01 AM
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Most of the weight likely reflects water loss since your diet has changed. The plateau you'll hit will tell you what caloric intake is good for you to continue losing or maintaining, whichever you seek. You will notice stagnation if you haven't hit it yet, then you can adjust calories from that point on... Good luck!
/r/askMRP22/12/16 12:53 AM
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@ 23% you're probably carrying close to 25 or 30lbs of extra fat. A lean build at 6'2" (non muscular type build) would be 170-175lbs, so lets assume your lean body mass is 175. 175(g) of lean protein per day. Fish, Chicken 75(g) of fat a day(coconut and light olive oil or nuts) 60(g) of carbs a day. No wheat based carbs! Green Veggies for carbs, count your net carbs. If you have 12(g) of carbs and 4(g) of fiber, your net carbs are 8(g) for that portion. Stay away from Banannas, grapes, apples. N…
/r/askMRP21/12/16 09:59 PM
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Do Not, Do Not, Do Not! Let her be a SAHM! You have a divorce rape insurance policy and you wanna not cash it in, but tear it the fuck up! WTF? If it doesn't work out (kinda sounds that way)and you do divorce, do you want to be paying some harpy overweight SSAHM to sit on her ass eat bon bons and pussify for kid. Keep her working, build your career, hell help her build hers too. The only bad thing that could happen is you seperate, you pay a slight difference in your salaries in child support an…
/r/askMRP21/12/16 03:00 PM
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We need to have a holding period on posting. Like an out of state check. Obviously this schlub has zero equity in his account.......
/r/askMRP20/12/16 03:50 AM
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In your example of how German nationalism flourished it did so because Germany was pretty much pure bred and a nationalistic mentality easily flourishes when you are one people and one culture. You also have to demonize another culture to breed the acceptance of the cause. America is not and never has been a society based on inclusion and acceptance. The Italians, the Irish, the Chinese all the big waves of immigration after 1900 were treated like shit. Cultures always clashed, but were tolerate…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 06:01 PM
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This is a scary opinion you have. Most people who think Hitler's Germany was a good place would often be the same people they forced into work camps if they were alive then...... Take what can from each culture to make your life more enjoyable and throw out the rest. If human cultures never clashed throughout mankinds history, the human race would most likely have died off before acheiving the heights we've made it to.... I have lived in quite a few places around this world and I'll admit I am b…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 02:22 PM
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YOU'RE DYING! YOU'VE BEEN DYING SINCE THE DAY YOU WERE BORN....... Most don't get it. They ignore it, they fear it.... Fill out your living will, last testament, DNR What have you... You will wake the fuck up and realize you do not matter. Your death is already written...... Take the approach that you have a gas tank that is capable of getting you a certain amount miles, how you travel those miles is up to you.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 11:53 PM
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HaHa! You're a naive young man............ Tell that to the men in their 70's that saw this shit coming in their 30's...... And I hope they slap the shit out of you! There were men just like you back then too! Yeah! Don't be a BB, dumb dumb..........
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 06:20 PM
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You're seeing short term...... You need to look much further....... There will come a time when a tax is levied upon single men that refuse to be a part of the machine to support the status quo. Women will still want babies and the resources to raise them. Once they secure your assets or potential earning capacity to advance the state, next the genetically superior DNA will be collected to build cute healthy babies........ The only problem is, the BB that usually tow the line just so they can ge…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 03:50 AM
1

If you think about it as a sense of value, what does being able to play a video game do for you? If you cannot put food on the table, will someone pay you to play a video game? Your car is broken and you cannot get to work, can you play a video game to fix it? Light fixture shorted out in your house, is their a video game that fixes it? For me a video game is wasted time. I could use that hour in the gym, garage or workshop. Granted these are skillsets already acquired by me long ago, but anytim…
/r/askMRP13/12/16 06:11 PM
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If you flip the script and you cannot perform once per day are you ok with her breaking up with you? You shouldn't put an arbitrary number out there and let that alone decide your relationship. Because eventually down the line you're gonna get tired of fucking her and sex alone while is high on importance isn't the only thing..... Like you do with the info on TRP/ MRP you have to ask yourself what adds value and what doesn't. If 4 X week is acceptable because she has a great job, earns a quality…
/r/askMRP12/12/16 07:45 PM
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Ask yourself, what is the value of something that is worthless to someone else? You have zero value in her eyes, losing your commitment means nothing to her as she has demonstrated in the past. The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. She will fuck someone else again and you'll have to pick the pieces up again. She has all the power in this relationship, the entitlement she shows is off the charts. MEETING A FRIEND FOR COFFEE! Are fucking serious? And she demands the dishes be don…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/16 08:04 AM
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And you would be wrong in the assumption that she will give you what you envision you want..... If you started your relationship not having this, you will not obtain it. You may get a better version of her, but not the version your mind has concocted. It is ok though, you just have to rationalize that what she is giving you is something you can live with. You can only get to that point if you started there, just read some of the threads of those that have taken this journey. They put their MAP t…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/16 04:32 AM
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This should be the first thing you accept in your journey. While you're relationships may get better because you are fixing yourself, it will never be what the Beta version of you thought it was going to be. It cannot be, simply because what you thought you'd like back then falls short of the standard you require today. You no longer see life through those eyes. You may get some more sex, more compliance even deference as the leader in your relationship, but it will never be that purely raw sexu…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 08:16 PM
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Don't think this was a master plan she hatched to put you into chains. It is a girl's lie they tell themselves. They say he is a guy they "can see myself settling down with". This statement proves that she has accepted settling and as such they feel they dont need to put in the work anymore. You're not worthless because every man has the ability to make himself better and by doing so you can course correct your relationship. But understand that the new course, while better now may still not be e…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 07:22 AM
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Good ole Uncle Sam broke my body pretty good. Between back, shoulder and hip damage lifting heavy is tough(not undoable), but lifting heavy isn't the only way to build a physique that draws an eye. Time Under Tension (TUT) techniques and a calorie surplus will still build muscle. You won't be a monster, but moderate weight, higher reps all the while keeping the muscle group under load and the proper diet works wonders.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 06:35 AM
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You are way to invested in her. Her emotions are her own to navigate. If you are up her ass all the time, be up her ass less. Pretty simple. Sounds like she is starting to check out anyway. I would take a step back and see where you are at in life. What do you offer? Now that she is looking to spend less time with you, you may wanna provide more info on you. Lifting, career, social circles, hobbies, looks relative to hers. This so others here can put on the right path. Then again she could be ac…
/r/askMRP04/12/16 12:01 PM
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As men and chiefly as Fathers we enforce standards. She needs to understand there is a value for everything. In order to receive your benevolence and support she needs to uphold her end of the bargain. Does she like having a cell phone? Does she like having access to computers or being able to go out with friends. If she were to lose the things she likes most, will her behavior change? Teenagers are so connected to their devices and social circles nowadays that any restrictions should induce wit…
/r/askMRP04/12/16 11:54 AM
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Ignore the note. It's her opening volley across your bow. She wants you to fire back. Emotional wars have no winners. If she wants to discuss it again, she'll bring it up. Then you can tell her where the door is, if she is so unhappy. In the meantime make yourself scarce, do your hobbies and gym and come back when you want. Since she regrets being there with you, she won't mind that your not there........ Win win for both of you.......
/r/askMRP04/12/16 11:46 AM
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This isn't pedastalizing anyone. The OP framed the original topic that A+B=C. He had all the boxes checked for a good base to start from, still does but left out a lot. This read more as a logistical / leadership question and not so much Frame based or a oneitis feel. That is until he shared the details. Further down we get the real information we needed in the original post, which would've been helpful. Cause we now see what the original post is all about. He was simply validating himself, thro…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/16 06:44 AM
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I am gonna get blasted, but do not listen to anyone here....... Hiring a hot nanny, WTF! She isn't or least she doesn't sound like your typical 25lb overweight couch surfer you're looking to flip. This active dread tactic won't work....... TRP Dude is on track, so he gets a few points for leadership. Listen, you are experiencing the Apex of a successful relationship. Both of you are killing it, your kids are growing educationally, socially and emotionally. Yet something is missing for you. You'r…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/16 04:37 AM
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Are you Retarded? Everything you have written contradicts itself, other than you being a dick and not STFU. You slapped your wife on the head? Do you do this around your children if you have any or anyone else? Here is a good litmus test for you, if another man would have seen you slapping your woman on the head would he slap the shit out of you? If yes you should think twice about physically demeaning your wife to show dominance. Please take this the wrong way. You sound like a shithead! This i…
/r/askMRP01/12/16 01:30 AM
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NP......
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/16 02:03 AM
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Most people cannot lead themselves, soft guidance only goes so far. Some men and women alike will need enforcement at times..... I hazard a guess that the forcing thing had little to do with this end result as it was already in its death spiral..... In any event we are picking over a carcass at this point, this relationship is dead.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/16 08:56 PM
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I've got news for you, she didn't trade down. You think that because you are no longer eye level with her. She lost an appreciating asset. However it really has no bearing on her moving forward. She is able to compartmentalize it away because she doesn't want the new you, never did! You are too much work for her. The effort needed to get the attention she wants from you is too costly. Especially when she considers your attention as being equal to his(even though you think you are worth more). Do…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/16 06:52 AM
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Unfuck yourself! Tgis doesn't sound like a true troll post so I will give you my .02. Stop with the porn! You are measuring every woman including your wife up to a person that doesn't exist, the way they look, the way they fuck, nonenof it is real. Get some help with it asap. Your wife is not your mom. She do3sn't eant to hear your problems, you should be her rock to break against not the other way around. How could she feel secure knowing she has too take care if kids and you. Unload on your Mo…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 08:32 PM
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Natural Alpha is a misconception. I am sure I will be called out by some that need to hamster their shitty existence away for either not measuring up to other men or validating themselves if they are top tier. Everyone has the ability based on being born a male to be there own version of Alpha. Whether it is learned or beaten into you by circumstance. Environment has more to do with the development than genetics. Don't get me wrong, you can be genetically superior to another man, and all things …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/16 07:26 PM
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This is not active dread. For all she knows it is heresay, you could be just bragging about how someone other than Mommy wants your attention. Active dread would be you taking your wife out and during this time someone approaches you or you are flirty and approach other women to build your social liquidity. If you want to go out, go out. If she protests invite her, why would you keep it from her. You are missing the point here. When you accept that she isn't there to make you happy and you her. …
/r/askMRP26/11/16 04:18 PM
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Thomas, That's the whole thing. My so called RP knowledge(or lack there of it) isn't derived from something I've read and adopted (this is in no way an insult, so don't take it as such). I didn't have something bad happen to me at the hands of a woman, I was never unsuccessful with them, never was ostrecized or outcasted. Never yearned for more attention. I always played on the fringes of every group. I felt more comfortable there. I was always included, but never wanted to be the center of atte…
/r/askMRP22/11/16 11:37 PM
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Listen, I get that you truly believe that your opinion is the correct one and you get to share it here openly. I thank you for your reply. I take little as insults, most comments as constructive criticisms in life since we can always improve, but again your perspective in life seems to be based a lot upon assumptions and suppositions and if you look back on your life I am sure more often than not your assumptions have put you on the wrong side some outcomes. You'll disagree, cause you dodn't hea…
/r/askMRP22/11/16 05:47 PM
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I agree men do get angry, but how is this contradictory to what I said? RP preaches OI, she's not yours and dgaf. Yet we get angry, have anxiety as you stated if she fucked someone else. This in and of itself is contradicting to the teachings. I don't agree with it or condone it, it just is. Sexuality is amoral and some people don't get that attached for it to affect them if she sleeps around. To say you'd lose out on the reproduction evolutionary game would be a stretch since you also would hav…
/r/askMRP21/11/16 03:39 PM
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Well, This is gonna hurt! I am glad you brought it up. Everything you speak of in this post contradicts RP/MRP with the exception that sexuality is amoral. We talk about DGAF, OI and she is not yours, it is only your turn mentality, yet men are so butt hurt with the thought of her fucking another man( as if she hadn't had another cock in her before you). We say AWALT and when she chases Chad we still get upset knowing that AWALT in the first place. We talk about Hypergamy and preach that we shou…
/r/askMRP21/11/16 03:17 AM
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This is the one point I think we at MRP fail to acknowledge and regurgitate to our brothers. It should be one of the first things to accept, that she may not give you what your looking for so put no stock in her. The beginner belief in RP is that if applied you will have the same type of relationship as if you started out this way and it simply is false, misleading and leads men to resentment. I am not saying Next all those relationships, as some men may be happy with a few ticks up on ole fuck-…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/16 03:34 PM
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Spot on! You will never reset the base, ever. The shit sandwich may get more palatable, but it is still shit. If the relationship started with you as blue or even purple for that matter, how the relationship evolves post RP digestion will be drastically different from each perspective. She may mate guard you for your resources, she may open up her legs a bit more, swallow her tounge a bit more and shit test you less, etc. She will not give you the sex and respect you think you'll get by adopting…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/16 05:37 PM
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I am married, have been for longer than I was single before it. I have no complaints as every one of the precautions I listed above I have taken in my marriage. Every marriage is a transaction, there is someone winning and losing in every transaction. You are correct, if you do not have the ability to walk away you are on the losing end of the transaction...
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 04:09 PM
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WTF! Is this "As the Sidebarstudentturns?" Why do you care if she is embarrassed cause you went out? Did you provide for your children? Were they safe? Here is a hint, if she doesn't txt you don't txt her! It is a shit test, if anything is said about not txting you say sorry the kids and I were having fun and U forgot.... Lets talk about why you are worried she isn't txting you goodnight? Maybe you a have a little MYWIFECHOKESONDICKS-itis! Seriously, you are operating in her frame, even when you…
/r/askMRP14/11/16 03:53 AM
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If I just got you off your game with a half of sentence you are fucked more than you know. Please leave, you have nothing to learn here troll..........
/r/askMRP13/11/16 07:39 PM
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Marriage is not a prison, i dont know why this lie gets perpetutated so often. With anything in life you have to weigh risk. Here is a scenario. You meet a girl, she has an education, a very good job you decide to marry. If not she is a pump and dump and should be plated. You keep your finances seperate the whole time no comingling. You buy a house, you split the entire nut each having 50% interest and skin in the game. You do this for a few years, you two decide maybe it is time we have some ch…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/16 07:38 PM
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Cut your losses. Move on! In fact cut your homo friends out too! Fight for her! WTF? You do not measure up to this guy and that is ok you have to accept it. What you don't have to accept is for your manhood to be trampled upon. Wake the fuck up! Put on some big boy pants and get back out there. This is blunt so please accept this advice cautiously. You sound like a manchild, "I can't find a better mate". What are you a fucking 14 yr old girl? Stop investing so much into a woman that you become a…
/r/askMRP13/11/16 05:23 PM
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And men aged 35 to 45 have a greater chance of producing offspring with autism and adhd. This is just nonsense. There is no real way to correlate this idea, since older women are usually paired with like aged males. Show some studies where 18 yr old males knock up 40 yr old women and see how their offspring faired. Furthermore switch it. Does a 45 yr old male have better offspring with an 18 yr old female? Have children, preferrebly when you are young. This goes for both sexes....
/r/TheRedPill13/11/16 06:26 AM
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Get a grill. Unless I am steaming veggies I rarely use a cook top for anything else. I cook off the top rack on high heat. Steak 1" thick 7 minutes each side then 4 mnutes then sit for 5 minutes. Usually perfect unless meat was not room temperature before grilling. Pork obviously more time but you get the gist. I have had cooking duties my entire marriage, I set the meals(when I am home). STFU and ignore her insults and shit tests about your food. Even if you iver cook it, it is still protein
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/16 12:43 AM
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That is why we say "You do You! When you try to help them, you are giving some of yourself to a cause that will most likely fail. It is tough to watch the demise of someone you care for. I tried once, but the Blue was too strong and the SJW indoctrination was just to deeply ingrained. I am told now "You hate women". IMHO if it backfires they double down on the only thing they know.
/r/askMRP10/11/16 06:23 PM
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Stop thinking with your emotions! You think it will get better with the next woman? It won't you'll be in a better position to see it first or NGAF and and soldier on. They all have the ability to throw you a brain grenade. The only thing that protects you as a man is having such an awesome life that when it happens you won't have time to ponder it cause you have too much shit to do and only one life to do it. When I said she settled, that doesn't denegrate you. It happens in probably 8 of 10 re…
/r/askMRP10/11/16 03:43 PM
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None of this is your fault! You need to accept the fact that she settled for you and it will never be what you wanted it to be and that is ok. It really is. You need to improve yourself and make yourself into the man that another woman views as deserving of the sex and companionship you desire. She had an account on AFF prior to marriage? That should tell you enough she had no intentions of making this work. Fix your performance issues, doesn't matter how just fucking fix em. Hire prostitutes to…
/r/askMRP09/11/16 02:12 AM
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Kids are not a mission, they are a responsibility! You are responsible for their education, nutrition, social integration. Your mission is you! Would you listen to someone that says"You shouldn't eat that twinkie and the fucker is 400lbs". Or "You shouldn't do drugs" as you take another hit. The most simple piece of leadership advice is lead by example. If they see discipline in you, they will accept it as the norm. If they see people respecting you, they in turn will think it is the norm. Pouri…
/r/askMRP07/11/16 04:03 AM
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Her losing baby weight is as much your responsibilty as hers. You should control what food is brought into the house. Your poor leadership leaves her own abilities and choices in doubt. Make a meal plan for your family and stick to it. Cut out the extra breads, start with half your weight in (g) of carbs oer day. Rice ir biled potatoes are your best choices. Lean protein meats. She will drop the extra weight. If she chooses to fuck her diet up after that, then it is on her and withdraw according…
/r/askMRP05/11/16 11:57 PM
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Or she doesn't see you as that type of guy. There isn't anything wrong with that either. I've posted in the past a concept that no matter how much you've improved, if you weren't the guy that she'd raw dawg in a bathroom stall the type of sex guys yearn for never comes. Then some rationalize that it must be the teachings that failed them when in fact they were predisposed to living within the confines of how she sees you from the beginning. Keep your head up
/r/askMRP04/11/16 02:33 PM
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Still asking Mommy if it is ok to have sex! You need to handle your shit. Go to Victoria Secret and buy something you like. It isn't for her, it may make her feel sexy at times but it is for you. It is akin to cleaning and waxing a car(it will still drive the same way while being dirty). You buy it, hide it from her. When you want, you lay it out with a little note"BRB, I went to pour some wine, in the meantime put this on". You were thoughtful in purchasing her a gift that she didn't have to de…
/r/askMRP04/11/16 10:52 AM
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For millenia, the weaker part of our species have been controlled by those that posess certain genetic traits that let them conquer the world. The only reason it is the white man, is because he is relevant today. If it were Ghenghis Khan it would be east asian men she'd bitch about Or if it were Saladin it would be middle eastern Muslim men. The people that normally would find themselves living on the fringes of society or at the bottom of the totem pole have found strength in numbers and used t…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 04:44 AM
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Are you acquainted with the Hamburger Analogy? Back to that some more in a minute. You've read, you've improved some, yet OI escapes you. You think because you've made an effort at being a high value male that she or someone else owes you something. Nobody owes you anything for being awesome. You do these things in this life so your life becomes one you like living, not so you can get some feelz from a woman. By you tolerating her shitty behavior, you are showing her that reconciliation is alway…
/r/askMRP03/11/16 07:10 AM
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You are misinterpreting AWALT and female psyche in general. As for your post, you assume a woman is aware of the future, as in what you can provide or how we look together. They are not, that is why at the drop of a dime you're dead and new Chad is Jesus Christ with a 10" dick and she is praying at his altar.... You need to accept that you are only as good as what you have provided to her previously. Just as she looked at the pictures in realtime, they have become a memory with a shelf life that…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/16 10:54 AM
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You'll never be ready! Are you ever ready to rip a band aid off? Ready for a flu shot. You can expect it, but you're never ready. In regards to her knowing, the hamster has this ability to auto correct. If he plays the card, he has a certain amount of time where her hamster will do anything to keep the normalcy going, just up until she realizes you are done and the fucker does a 180* @ a 1000mph. Rip the fucking bandaid off!
/r/askMRP02/11/16 10:45 AM
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You can do three things: You can stay out til late when she is going to sleep anyway. This will build dread in a good way yet still afford you the ability to not fuck her. Smear yourself all over with beta cream. Complain how hard life is. You don't know how you're gonna do it. You've become a bad Dad(dont say bad husband). Wallow in your own pity, this alone should keep any attraction to you from happening, plus it may force her to go fuck someone again and you can get some substantial evidence…
/r/askMRP01/11/16 07:41 PM
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I am gonna be blunt, take this with a grain of salt. All of this, All of it is your fault. You're not a bad guy, in fact you sound like most overinvested, undercapitalized low equity SMV man. You assumed the story was true, fell lock step in with it and you tripped. It happens, what now will you do? The next few months worth of decisions will outline the rest of your life. You need to put the emotions away, like yesterday. They cloud your judgement, stall your improvement and generally take away…
/r/askMRP30/10/16 03:29 AM
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Your communication skills suck. You come across as if you are coach and counseling everyone in the house. It is your job to point out the mistakes, you need to lead your home. However you need to point out not only why their actions were wrong, but the countermeasure you'd employ instead . If she is throwing around divorce at the drop of a hat, it doesn't mean she wants a divorce. It means she is terrified you will divorce her, so it is a preemptive strike. If you draw up papers you only did it …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/16 07:44 AM
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You have a defeatist attitude. Anything is possible with effort. You neex to eat more calories. Not a shake here and there. You need to religiously eat 5000 calories a day for 90 days. Come back and tell us you didnt put any weight on after 90 days and youd be one if the most unique individuals on the planet.
/r/askMRP27/10/16 01:06 AM
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Nice post! Too often Men here think boundaries are for their SO's. When in fact they are for you, you have them in every aspect of your life. She either fits within that boundary or not......
/r/askMRP26/10/16 05:06 PM
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Are you serious? She doesn't love you, she has never loved you and you still want to make this work. Why do you have such a low value of yourself? Ask yourself what does she provide to tou that cannot be readily replaced with someone else? Sharing of bills? Is that a reason to stay? I can guarantee you that this will not be the end of it. She will placate your fears and you will go back to being under her thumb and she will get better at hiding it. There is no way in hell you could ever have a s…
/r/askMRP25/10/16 11:40 PM
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Fear based only because it is a final show down for him, with no come back. I say, If she wanted to be double teamed do it. The next night you bring a girl home and do them both.Next night open up the marriage and establish plates and make your wife top plate(that is all she may ever be) and send her looking for chicks for you to bang. This little fantasy non withstanding he doesn't understand DGAF and OI... If he truly had OI and its just his turn mentality this shit test would be nonexistant. …
/r/askMRP25/10/16 10:47 AM
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You're in a new relationship of a year. You are still building up personality tolerance, likes, quirks and peeves. It is part of the journey.... What is not part of the journey is mate guarding, poor leadership and wishy washy communication. You are failing the communication part of a relationship most men do. It makes for ineffective leadership..... You have standards right? Wanna know something? Women could care less about those standards. Standards aren't for her, they're for you. Think about…
/r/askMRP25/10/16 05:12 AM
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Wow, I am reading this shit and shaking my head, Thinking this MF'er gets it, finally someone that preaches from their soul......
/r/askMRP25/10/16 04:41 AM
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File for divorce. She doesn't want you! It is that easy. She only knows you for the son she didn't want that you made yourself into. I will venture a guess and say you were the nice guy from the beginning, right? You do know where nice guys finish? She has been screaming for you to lead, command, take control and dominate her. You have failed, in fact you have failed at it for such a long time that she has no attraction to you whatsoever. It is not coming back. The best you can hope for is reset…
/r/askMRP25/10/16 04:30 AM
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DODGE Drips Oil Drops Grease Everywhere. MOPAR- Move Over People Are Racing Had to do it! We all like, what we like. In some sense it is kinda like political ideaology...... Getting back to it. Why the fuck is he out drinking and driving anyway? It is an assumption, since ehe said he spent a bunch on alcohol. If he wasn't the prime consumer of said alcohol, we have another problem with him spending his coin for these women to drink away.... So here is the math.... Beta with image insecurities + …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 07:25 PM
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WTF! Do you really fucking care what women think about your car? Are you a car guy or would you rather skimp on a ride so you can enjoy other parts of your life(financial freedom). Here is the thing I am a car guy. I love em.... When I say car guy, I don't mean I wash and wax it like she is my baby. I mean spending upwards of 100k building, buying racing cars at various stages of my life. Think what 100k would do compunded and invested in the market. Guess what, I don't fucking care. I like buil…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 04:33 PM
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You have made this great life for yourself, but the blue streak still shines through. Do not recommit, it will devalue you in her eyes as well as yours one First Mate Bitch-n-Stuff shows back up. Pour that emotion into raising your child and from time to time spank the ex wife. It will not last forever though, She will eventually resettle for another and you get to move on. The only reason she is into it now cause she has had a tatse of a lesser man, knows she at least had you and doesn't have t…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/16 05:53 PM
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It is quite inappropriate to stay out all night and then sleep over someones house. At the very least she is seeking attention and validation while out with friends. More than likely she is either actively cheating, has cheated or is working up to it. Do you have access to her phone? Is she on Apple can you use find my iphone to locate her? Does she stay in contact while out or are you an afterthought until she comes home? Has she ever been Frisky when she comes home, do you initiate and she ref…
/r/askMRP23/10/16 12:31 PM
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So you gave us the after, but you're not telling us the before. Yours is another classic covert contract post, where you've improved and she has made a half assed attempt to follow if any attempt was made at all. If you started this relationship a soft mushy blue, that is what she wanted. Don't you think if she wanted a sub 12% bf, jacked Alpha Male she would have chased him instead? Wait, I get it. You were such a special blue snowflake that she had to have you..... The ability to course correc…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/16 01:46 AM
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Msg me if you need support. You will be happy regardles of her! Hang in there.......
/r/askMRP22/10/16 05:44 PM
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Outcome independence has less to do with caring about if she were to screw someone else than with what you're actions are if said infidelity would happen. I was once asked, "What would you do, if I left? I said "I would find 3 of you half your age". It shows I enjoy who she is, but she isn't special and there are at least 3 that could take her place. You cannot worry about it happening, just maintain your standards. If it does, you move on. Put your big boy pants on and move on.
/r/askMRP22/10/16 05:35 PM
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WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU? Do you like being second? Stop factoring children into your decision. You can still be the same awesome Dad without being married. Probably even moreso. The emotional affair was knife in your back, but to ask for one last conversation that is a stab to your heart. She doesn't respect you! As a man you are more than able to live a life of pain, toiling in your own blood, sweat and tears to make a life that you respect, admire and enjoy. The scars you bare are your…
/r/askMRP22/10/16 05:27 PM
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Enjoy your life my friend! She either adds to it or subtracts from it. As a man you are the King of this world regardless of stature or financial standing..... Enjoy your life!
/r/askMRP22/10/16 04:44 PM
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But you cannot stop her from doing it. It is a means to an end. Albeit a more painful one, but one that will smack you upside you're little Beta fucking head and learn you quick. We say it time and time again, If she wants to fuck someone else she will, whether you are present or not. I have personally witnessed GF's or ex GF's on a FWB situation post breakup where one thing led to another in a group party, club outing and the next thing you know she is asking permission of her friend, ex BF, so…
/r/askMRP22/10/16 02:59 AM
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Holy shit, Do you not have any logic? For one you are semi retarded for agreeing to go out anyway. What she does is her own thing, but to hang out with someone that slid his dick into your wife why? Just plain stupid.... That being said, now that you have agreed here is your plan. Go out, dress as well as you can. Have fun, plan for a hotel that night with your wife. Here is the fork! You have to end the night early, pull her away 3/4 's into the bash and take her away, show her why she chased y…
/r/askMRP19/10/16 03:28 AM
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There is an old military saying: The only easy day was yesterday! This is life for a man, you can just as easily plug back in and forget all this hard work, strife and struggle. Let yourself become soft and mushy.
/r/askMRP18/10/16 10:08 PM
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Interesting read. Always be skeptical of messing with genetics based on biochemical science, weigh your risks and reward bwfore jumping in. When we introduce drugs, we change what our cells produce or how they interpret those chemical signals. There is always a secondary effect to treatments. Modern medicine has grown leaps and bounds in 50 years, but until we crack the genetic code (not just mapping) we cannot fix the biological problems only bandaid them. This is with the hope that the treatme…
/r/askTRP18/10/16 04:47 PM
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67" isn't bad if you are 180lbs of muscle @ 10% BF. Being bald doesn't matter, in fact most women I know either like it or have no preference. These are the cards you were given, play them. Feeling bad about your hair accentuate something else that is a positive for you. In short Money, Sex, Power! If you're rich women will flock to you and you can use them in accordance with your plans in life. You should be way to be busy to worry about them fucking Chad anyway. Sex, you can be broke as fuck! …
/r/askTRP18/10/16 02:03 PM
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You're sweet! But not my type........
/r/askMRP09/10/16 02:46 AM
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Have you accepted she isn't yours, its just your turn? Your plan to improve yourself and enjoy your life should have no bearing if she is there or not. Want companionship? Get a fucking Dog, A male one! There 10X more loyal! Here is your task. Take a piece of paper two columns! On the left write down all the awesome things you can do, wanna do, will do! On the Right put down what you have to do, need to do, cannot stand doing.... Got it so far? Now put her name next to each task or activity that…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/16 03:48 PM
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I am assuming this you're so deprived nonsense has to do with you communicating you want some ass. Stop asking, stop pantomiming, pick her up, take her to bed, put your weight on top of her. Stop with the massages til you make your move nonsense..... If you are given a hard No! You move on..... No butt hurt needed, swallow it and shit it out in the morning..... Here is an example the SO asked for a massage furst, right as I was going in for the kill the other night. I laughed and asked her if I …
/r/askMRP07/10/16 05:03 PM
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First you have to understand the way the body works. Don't think about sugar in a bad way, high fructose corn syrup should be avoided at all cost. It doesn't digest in your system properly, enters straight into the blood, causes spikes in your sugar and eventually inselin resistence. However, Sugar is a carb, pasta is a carb. Your body does not see any difference in either of these foods other than how quickly it can be vmbroken down. A lot of shakes use sucralose, I am not a huge fan of it, but…
/r/askMRP07/10/16 01:12 PM
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Thank you for your PSA. What product do you support that can give him 1790 calories per 24 oz shake? If you don'y have one, have results backed up by prior use why reply, as this tidbit provided zero help to his question. [Edit] How many lbs of muscle has it put on for you? I dont sell GNC products, its what I used. Why is this better? Provide more than a link...... [Edit]
/r/askMRP07/10/16 01:00 PM
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What level dread? The difference in where you're at is her approach to sex with you. Here is your custom tailored analogy..... " I shouldn't have to fuck you" means you're not there yet! Now compare that to "Holy shit, my pussy is on fire and your dick is a water cannon". Simple enough right? Pretty simple, work it up to a point where the outside stimulus of affectionate women hotter than your wife becomes to much, then decide to have your fuck me or fuck you. Either way you're gonna get laid...…
/r/askMRP03/10/16 03:11 PM
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We cannot help you. Please move along to another sub to help you cope with the pain and future occurences. Every reply you've given still resides in the why did I make her do this frame. You did nothing wrong, it was her choice to do it. [Edit] Why have you not told her to go ro her company HR rep or police to file assault charges. He forceably touched your wife. If it wasn't ok with her this is criminal. This should be the nail in the coffin you'll need to move on. My guess is the trickle will …
/r/askMRP03/10/16 01:49 PM
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I am using GNC's Bulk 1340. It is 1340 calories per serving 50g protein, 277 grams of carbs. This is with water 24oz. I am using whole milk so add another 450 calories to it. 2 shakes a day plus my normal diet(chicken, brocoli, nuts). It is a lot easier swallowing 3600 calories of liquid than trying to digest that many chicken legs. I can expect at least a 5% hit in bf trying to go to 200lbs from 174lbs, especially with that many carbs. Try not to worry about BF% so early you have plenty of time…
/r/askMRP03/10/16 02:33 AM
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You've answered your own questions. The foundation is there, you just need to reapply yourself. Reigning in your diet is the single hardest thing to do for your plan. You can skip a gym day, have a cheat day, etc. But if your diet is fucked all the lifting and reading in the world isn't going to help you get below 15% BF, attain the V shape that stands out even in clothes(cept for shitty baggy button downs and T's) and gets you noticed by the oppositte sex. Not just noticed like a glance cause y…
/r/askMRP02/10/16 02:52 PM
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You haven't given us much to go off of. Weight, style, hobbies, friends. Thread after thread, guys come in here asking questions, don't read the sidebar, ask for advice, don't follow it, still don't read the sidebar and come back with more whys. You need to read..... Were you the nice guy when you started dating or were you the fuck her in a bathroom stall guy? If she has never given you the latter you're in trouble. It means she has settled for this relationship and your battle is an uphill one…
/r/askMRP01/10/16 04:53 PM
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She isn't a bitch, she just isn't a morning person. She bitches cause of her own self induced consequences of a poorly planned routine. Well, Fix it! It is your job to implement solutions. Set breakfast up the night before. Lay out three bowls three spoons cereal of their choice etc. Lunches, set their bags up for them. Pack the snack and drink that way whatever else is needed to top it off lunch is thrown right in and go. Water bottles fill em and have them ready. Cmon! This isn't hard shit. Th…
/r/askMRP28/09/16 08:16 PM
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Stop thinking about color! Women do not see color, they may see social inconsistencies based upon cultural upbringing, but if the guy is more Alpha than you she will fuck him. To a woman, for the most part color is irrelevant. Also we don't say disregard her orgasm. We preach enjoying your personal journey, embrace the suck, if she wants to come along for the ride great if not there is an extra billion women more on this planet to enjoy your value. And as far as arranging dates for your wife, if…
/r/askMRP27/09/16 08:08 PM
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If you haven't accepted the fact that there will always be someone better than you, then no amount of reading will help you. She is not yours it is only your turn! Her past is irrelevant. It may lead to future life choices but you can next her if she doesnt fit your mold. Nothing matters, but you and your goals. If she wants to fuck a Brutha, replace her. If she fucked someone better than you and you cannot handle it replace her. You doing you has more to do with you enjoying this journey than t…
/r/askMRP27/09/16 07:25 PM
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Listen, that is all we can do. We don't improve for women, we improve because we need to for ourselves. If she comes along great if not, you're still the man you've always known you wanted to be.....
/r/askMRP23/09/16 03:03 AM
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"I have finally come to accept and internalise that she will never come around into my frame." "I truly think that I have not yet become her alpha and I never might." "She is neither getting her beta me back nor the tingles from me. So its best for her to get out." You are touching on a belief I usually reference with every "I am improving, yet my wife is still not responding". Hence the Filet Mignon! You are hamburger! You are still meat, but you will never be Filet Mignon. Sure you can be made…
/r/askMRP22/09/16 03:37 PM
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Let your body of work speak for you. You're coming along nicely, IMHO you'll get the breakdown portion soon. She (and women in general) cannot keep pace with your improvements. She will resort to a depressive, you're gonna leave me state. When it hits, it is your job to bestow your benevolence upon her. Show her you are not equals, but it is you that is choosing to share your valuable time with her. It sounds like training a dog, mysogynistic at best, but it is the natural order of relationships…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/16 03:49 AM
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Please reply to my post as to why you think your insight on lifes topics will help the men here. There is no need for name calling, what have you done in your life that translates to advice that can be given to the men here that you think are doing it wrong. Obviously you don't agree with what is said here and that is ok, but give us the why..... Either that or you kinda sound like the typical also ran. Pointing fingers at what is wrong, who is to blame dor it, but when asked for a plan to fix i…
/r/askMRP19/09/16 01:48 AM
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WTF? How is anything in here hurting you enough to post a thread? Does it make you feel better to air out your feelings on the topics mentioned here? We are all ok with you bringing a topic together for everyone to debate and learn from. This thread does none of that and is a waste of everyones time. Ask yourself, What could I do besides name calling that would lend some insight as to why their thinking is wrong and enlighten them. That or you just needed to feel better about yourself and had so…
/r/askMRP18/09/16 06:19 PM
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No, read what I wrote, rarely do I speak out of context! By participating in counseling, you are agreeing to work with your SO and her therapist to UNFUCK Her! It is not your responsibility to navigate her emotions. You do you!
/r/askMRP17/09/16 02:06 AM
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Put those feelings in a drawer, pal!
/r/askMRP16/09/16 04:01 PM
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You're missing the point. Deering is something that makes you feel better about your situation, something used to rationalize an outcome already predetermined. DO YOU FEEL BETTER? Yeah, thought so! It depends on how it was delivered, but I see nothing wrong with stating your expectations, as you did, that she will receive praise upon completion(I would of withheld it for being late). Your example is spot on for a man's point of view(which all that matters), but you need kid gloves for your wife?…
/r/askMRP16/09/16 03:57 PM
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Get there, it doesn't matter. None of this matters. If your woman is not filling the void you need as a compliment to your life move on. I would never live a life in fear, I never have. Death comes for us all, I will never sacrifice one of my good days walking on eggshells. There is someone out there for you to compliment you, your life and your legacy. Find it! You now owe me .50 internet cents for this peptalk you Fag!
/r/askMRP16/09/16 02:59 AM
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Do you care? Accept the reality that she isn't yours it is just your turn. Always be prepared for it to end. Anything! Job, you could get fired tomorrow. Relationship, she is likely sucking someone off anyway, you haven't found it. Your Life, yep that too! Here is a trick to accept an inevitable. Plan your will, write down your final wishes, assets, who to leave stuff to. Hopefully it will trigger the finality of it all and you can lose the What Ifs in your life. Get fired, laid off, I have mini…
/r/askMRP15/09/16 10:53 PM
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I hope this thread has given your ego a nice lift...... You're not a special snowflake! Now if you came in here saying I can help build you up by doing these X things I have done. Doing these things has gotten me to Y and can get you there too. Are you a succesful businessman? 6 Figures in the bank? PHD in a discipline applicable to your success? Crazy male only hobby that you rock at. What makes you that successful so as to offer advice to people to help them? I am in my 40's and I learn someth…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 04:08 PM
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Hey you bunch of bickering Faggots(see I used it right), Can I explain a little concept of generational vernacular. Certain generations will use terms identifiable to their own groups. Yes we are all men(or at least striving to be like one), but that doesn't mean the language used around my generation's people works with Millenials. Check your feelings at the door or put a disclaimer on the front page that everyone is a Faggot.......
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/16 04:03 PM
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This will eventually sort itself out. They will either breed themselves out of existence or they will make their offspring so unhealthy that they wont survive to breed. Why help them, we as a race are overpopulated. Let the weaker part of the species die off. We cannot control it at this point. We have made it so easy to continue living that as a species we are approaching a precipice. One which will determine the future of outlr people. Yes my offspring may be some of those casualties, but it h…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 01:23 AM
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Work the problem! No weights I assume means something with your neck, thorasic issue maybe? Access to a pool is a great asset, sounds like you are in it a lot. Take those women's ankle weights, the velcro ones 3 lbs 5 lb bags. Strap them to your wrists and do pec flys. Weighted squats in a pool are great also. I have a an L5 that likes to play anarchy on my lifting program. Gotta work with it, I want to push through it, but it will only sideline me even more... How many guys would kill for a Phe…
/r/askMRP12/09/16 12:59 AM
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Ok, so let me wxplain something to you. You aren't getting shit tests, comfort tests or compliance tests. What you are getting is called emotional abuse and everyday you stay in this relationship you lose more of yourself. If my SO said that shit to me on her way out the door, her shit would be packed before she got home, I wouldn't be there when she got back or she'd have a black eye( I don't condone spousal abuse, so you should choose wisely)......
/r/askMRP10/09/16 01:01 AM
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You're eating wrong. If you are naturally lean you are gonna need more carbs in your diet. Eating lean meats only shreds you further. You're body has to use more calories to break down the protein than you are giving it. Essentially killing whatever surplus you think you're giving yourself..... Go to GNC and get their mass gainer 1850 or whatever it is called. Whole milk 20 oz. 2 tbsp of peanut butter a dash of cinnamon and a tbsp of light olive oil or coconut oil. Drink two of these per day in …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/16 12:52 AM
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Carbs less than 50g a day. Cardio everyday. Match body weight in grams of lean protein daily. Diet Diet, Diet
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/16 12:45 AM
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The advice for 99 out of 100 questions is already here. It is hidden though. In order to access it there are a few things that need to be sone in order. Don't be lazy, posting stupid questions to get an answer to is annoying as fuck. Learn to use a computer! Fairly simple in fact if you are reading this you are already half way to your goal. 3.* Use the search button. The same questions get asked over and over, because guys do not want to do the leg work of searching and reading through a shitlo…
/r/askMRP09/09/16 05:44 PM
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My friend unfortunately you are fighting a battle you cannot win? It is not a normal battle of the CC, post wall rekindling, sowing old oats, etc. You are dealing with an alcoholic, an addiction so strong that millionaires have lost it all, the best Dads became the worst Fathers, the best partners became perpetual one night stands to their mates! Not knowing what person they will encounter the next day. The frontal lobe is what alcohol affects. In a cognitive sense it doesn't seem to have terrib…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/16 02:08 AM
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Stop worrying and lead. 3 kids, she works full time and is a dress size smaller than her wedding dress 15 yrs ago. Didn't have last kid until 40's. You get out what you put in. You dictate the meal plan, hell you cook it! Don't have time, prep it the night before. Always be active, don't lounge around the sofa, unless its so damn cold out you cannot go outside. Take a proactive approach in leading and educating your children, you didn't give them to her to raise. She had them with you. Their hea…
/r/askMRP06/09/16 02:55 PM
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What you have is a cultural bias. It isn't completly unfounded but sterotypical of the american society based upon a limited world view. American views are often limited to American cultural norms. I was stationed in Germany and the blonde haired blue eyed German girls lined up to be plowed by my dark skinned brothers. Good for them I held no contempt, they had a commodity in a market lacking and they filled it. It really isn't a matter of color, more of a difference in culture women haven't exp…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 03:18 PM
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That is decent I will have to look. Does it taste Like cardboard? At this point due to the blood sugar spike, I try to stay away from breads.....
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 02:55 AM
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Potatoes aren't bad for you, it is how you prepare them. Bake a potato and it acts like a slice of white bread, boil that same potatoe and it drops the glycemic number into the 50's. Brown Rice also works. Pasta, bread, high fructose corn syrups are a big fat no. I disagree with you on the soda though. It is a great fuel source pre, mid or post workout. Ever ride a bike for 60 miles? Energy gels and sodas go a long way after your reserves are tapped. The trick is to use a soda that has sugar, in…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 02:41 AM
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Hahaha. Thanks that made me laugh, no joking that is funny. I hope you meant it to be. Seriously, invest in wrist straps if you think your wrists cannot support your lifts. After working with my hands for years(not carpel tunnel but bursitis, arthitis). I get crab hands, where they lock up, pain through the wrists into the fingers. You'll work around it, better to be bulky then emaciated. GL!
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/16 01:06 AM
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Stop limiting yourself to a defined weight. Muscle weighs more than fat + or - 5 to 7 Lbs of water. You got a good 3 inches on me in height, but I am at 172lbs now at around 15%. I am trying to get to 180lbs this winter before cutting again for next spring. @ 5' 10" 180 will still look lean. 165lbs is down right skinny...
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/16 01:37 PM
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I have never voted for a democrat in my life, even when I was poor...... I am now in the political corner of anyone who wants to use the death penalty liberally and expeditiously. There are way too many fucking people on this planet! With all the strength and power of all the big 7 countries, we couldn't come up with a plan for sterilization? Not unlike Dan Brown's novel Inferno. Where it affects every third person or so. It doesn't commit genocide or kill the people it just renders them steril.…
/r/askMRP31/08/16 02:28 AM
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Your views on broken women are misguided and one sided. Partner? I want a partner that best suits my needs to advance my life. If I wanted someone to strut around in VS gear for me I will hire someone. Renting is a hell of a lot cheaper than buying it. Why would you think broken women are exciting in bed? That is like saying Red heads are firery or Black men can jump higher. Any more stereotypes you can share... Stop living inside a box. Life is a business, if you live it like it isn't you are d…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/16 10:43 PM
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There is no curing emotional baggage there is managing it. Just like any other dependency, very rarely does the baggage go away we as humans find ways to work around them. As for being a catch, it is his interpretation of her and what she means to him. If he feels she is worth it but otherwise has this baggage he has to lug around for her it is only up to him to determne if this version of her is the version he wishes to help (SAVE).... Just my .02, I could be way off, but having similar soundin…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/16 05:22 PM
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Dude, This isn't captain save a ho. She has baggage, they all do. Some more some less. She sounds solid, you will never fix this. She resides in an emotional state, as most women do. She gives you what she can. Something as serious as this has broken her and you have to make the choice if this "version of her" is enough. I have similar issues in my relationship and it has taken the better part of 15 yrs to work it. See I said work it, not fix it. For some women applying TRP sends them into a dep…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/16 03:45 AM
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You cannot be angry at a situation. It is the effect not the cause. You chose certain paths and it has led you here. If you think anything here is going to fix her, you're wrong. Why are you angry? Not the situation, not her bitching, what inside of you makes you angry? I can honestly tell you that if you search and still cannot find it guess what? You're just fucking Angry! Lots of us are truly mean people. I have a hatred for mankind, but I have to dial it back to function in the real world, b…
/r/askMRP30/08/16 03:03 AM
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This may pan out for you in the end. Nobody here has walked in your shoes, so take all advice with a grain of salt. IMHO you sound severly co dependent. I haven't checked your history, but it sounds like your relationship has always been kinda upside down. When both of your SMV's crash through the basement floor and you're looking for companionship you may find common ground in each other and ride this pony into the sunset. Why don't you close up the relationshio and work on yourselves. Open rel…
/r/askMRP29/08/16 04:13 AM
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[Edit] This is not including benefits which the Dickhead of DC has caused to go through the fucking roof for everyone. No such thing as a free lunch......
/r/askMRP25/08/16 07:02 PM
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Major metro area here. Average between 150-160k. COL is a large part of the income equation. By the time your done factoring in taxes insurance mortgage etc its roughly 40k right off of that. Taxes fed and state at least 35k. Investments(fuck not saving for retirement). 529 plans(why save for retirement if your children will tap into it for college). Car insurance, ugh. If you live in a cold area heating your house is a fortune. Hell milk is $4 a gallon. Depending on the area 150k is middle clas…
/r/askMRP25/08/16 07:01 PM
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I can always tell where I stand with my SO. Here is a lil test and her reaction will tell you where you stand. Come up behind her in the kitchen, slide your hand down the inside of her hips and into her pants, get into her panties while you bite lightly on the back of her neck. Hold her firm or pin her against the stove or counter. Does she lean back into your bite? Does she try to get away? Does she berate you? When you finally reach the level of being that guy, she won't ever squirm away. Kiss…
/r/askMRP24/08/16 07:32 PM
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This, This, This......... In fact, I replied something similar in ask MRP. Confidence goes a long way. If you aren't intimidated by toys, her experiences with you could be 10X as pleasureable for both of you. As for size, go larger, thicker, etc. The idea is that you are comfortable with what you were born with and that you are into experiencing something new with her. A partner in crime as you'd have it..... Some like length, cervical stimulation........ Some like girth, stretch that shit out..…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/16 07:42 PM
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What about toys? Do you have vibrators? Handcuffs, blindfolds, porn? Women lime these things just as much as men, but you need to be confident enough for her to divulge it. She is insecure and even moreso if you cannot draw her sex kitten out of her. Here is a task for you. Spontaneously whip out a small toy(she'll get creeped out if you bust out a black 9" toy right out the gate) that you purchased without consulting her. Gauge her reaction. If she shuts you down, reciprocate. Withdraw. Tell he…
/r/askMRP23/08/16 07:19 PM
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WTF! You should ask yourself why she thinks it is ok to text someone she has fucked before? What are you doing wrong? Women are never friends with men and vice verse. The dynamics of relationships dictate a physical or emotional gain from those relationships. Obviously your SO is getting something from the men she has previously had interactions with under the guise of friends. When that stimuli goes away she will move to the attention if those she hasn't slept with..... She will only give you t…
/r/askMRP23/08/16 01:54 PM
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Why? You are not a special snowflake! We here believe to be a great man is to add value, will there be times where someone has made her cum harder, most likely. Will there be men with bigger dicks, yes! You are only showing your insecurities by not letting her live in her natural state(emotional). Use her memories and experiences to get her hotter, if you haven't found that much out yet you need to expand your reading. You can use her brain to give you the best sex you've ever had. Everyone that…
/r/askMRP22/08/16 06:31 PM
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WTF is this? Are you not aware your snowflake has fucked other men? Are you so immature and uncomfortable with your sexuality that you cannot use her past feels to heighten your sex life? Start reading! Put your feelings away, they are only limiting your improvement at this point........
/r/askMRP22/08/16 02:23 AM
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All these guys trying to psycho analyze you....... Here I just thought you fell off the wagon, P.U.I. should be illegal here..... (Posting Under the Influence)
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/16 02:16 PM
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I am not saying nuke it and start over as there could be financial, custody, inheritence implications when dealing with MRP. I am simply stating you have to do one thing before lift, before diet, before dread(not before reading though). It is an honest coming to Jesus with yourself. You need to understand just how handicapped you were in the beginning, failure to do this will sabotage your outlook on just how well this stuff works. Most noobs as you know apply dread 10, talk about RP with their …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/16 07:13 PM
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It very well could be that men once improved are investing further in a valueless relationship. I think messages are muddled based on the writings we read and how they're interpreted. As I've stated before, there is a power dynamic at play from the very minute you meet. A woman knows your sexual value before you close her. She decides your fitness within the first 5 minutes if you can fuck her or not. There is no lets negotiate, no grand test, there is only her tingles. Now if she acted like a d…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/16 08:47 AM
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You fail to grasp the reality that MRP fixes anything to do with your relationship. MRP/TRP does not fix relationships contrary to what you just stated. I will give you 50% cause it gives you the tools to fix you but not the relationship.... That's like throwing a rachet at a car and expecting it to be fixed. TRP/MRP builds a better you, so you can then try to fix a relationship. Just because you are in denial on what frame your relationship started from, and how using these tactics has turned i…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/16 03:07 AM
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I know they fit, right! Thanks Bogey
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/16 02:40 AM
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THE MARRIED RED PILL! Where we put some D's in some A's..... Or Where Cunts come to get fucked verbally......... We should have a protected sub-sub reddit where feelings are stored..........
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/16 02:39 AM
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1st piece of advice. Never, never, never, ever, ever, ever get married when you're in the military. At the very least wait til your first enlistment is over... You may ask"Why shouldn't I get married while in" you're enlistment will end, you will want to get out. Having a wife and kids to support while trying to transition out of the military is very tough and most choose to stay in for the reliable check and benefits even if they want out. I was told early on, don't get married by my NCO's. Bes…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/16 02:51 AM
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You're not giving them the wrong idea, RP works for you not for your relationships. Remember TRP fixes broken men not broken relationships. If you are trying to repair a relationship that didn't work in the first place whats the point? It is like changing out your transmission, when you have a blown engine.......
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/16 11:54 PM
1

Well that's a SHITTY moniker..............
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/16 10:46 PM
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Haha Bullshit my ass...... Not in her eyes...... You are above or below her.... Nothing more.......
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/16 10:38 PM
1

I expect more out of you BPP. You quoted me and then contradicted yourself on the very next sentence and then came right back to my point. Are you having an off day? Way broad? There is no in between. There is only 2 options. You were Alpha or Beta and how you started plays a larger role in your end result whether you realize it or not. If you started as Alpha to her you can get back..... If you started as Beta and you add in RP you are a fraud to her. It may not be quick to crumble but it will …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/16 07:36 PM
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I am glad you finally have caught on. For sometime now I have been reposting the same B.S. that it's a fallacy to believe that it will get better. It may improve some, but it will never be what you want because she settled for you. Being the best available loser of all the other losers makes you still just a loser. That is not to say you haven't gotten better, she will never appreciate it as it causes angst and puts her in an uncomfortable position. Do not confuse this angst with that early exci…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/16 06:34 PM
0

If you are speaking of the ancient world and sex there are variables that do not compute with todays modern society. The availability of sex was more due to lack of stimulus than the Alpha dynamic. Surviving was tough, but the day to day activities and the tine requirements were less. Just think of commuting and how much time it wastes out of your day. The moral code and religious pressures were not developed for quite some time so Hypergamy was probably more apparent. Hypergamy wasn't corraled …
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 03:07 PM
1

WTF? You have to be what 35 yrs old minimum? You sound like a 14 yr old girl. What she thinks or does doesn't matter....... Internalize that for a minute. You are justifying how awesome you think you are by her responses and affections for you. GROW THE FUCK UP! You are a useless p.o.s. drone needed for provisions for the hive queen. The day you accept she has always had the power, is the day you decide to create the new you and market yourself to other potential mates. Realtionships in which yo…
/r/askMRP15/08/16 04:05 AM
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Biologically speaking, women can only have 1 child per yr but men can father thousands per year. There are more women born than men for this reason. If you are a high SMV, it pays benefits to ignore the natural urge to settle with the woman if your offspring so you can spread your DNA further. As for diversifying your finances, a high value man can make enough working one career to secure his future on investments alone. Wreck it in the business world and your pleasure time will be spent having …
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 02:20 AM
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"Love is what you feel, when logic leaves you"
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 08:49 PM
1

"Any attention is bad attention?" I think you mean. Negative attention is still attention! In the absence of drama, a woman will create drama just to have something to feel. For them if their emotions aren't in play daily, they truly feel dead. It doesn't matter if you scold her, praise her, agree with her(never do this), ignore her she needs something emotionaly charged to keep the wheel spinning....... Ignore it, as your son gets older explain why women do this so he can spot the tell and take…
/r/askMRP10/08/16 08:45 PM
2

May I add: Arabian goggles Trojan helmet Angry Pirate Chicken Cutlet Dirty Sanchez LOL This some funny shit......
/r/askMRP10/08/16 08:36 PM
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Everyone over 30 should get a panel done. I use walkin labs, I wont post a link to their site, but you can go through a lot of their tests and see what each test does and what the ranges should be. Be warned though, Certain states don't allow you to just order a test, "Geeze why would I, the Patient ever want to take control of my own health without having to get a script from a DR. and pay his co pay". Fcukin Socialism...... So the panel I normally get done pulls your normal cbc and metabolic p…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/16 10:44 PM
1

What I mean by in alone out alone is, just like any other journey you will always be by yourself. Nobody will be there when it passes going "Fuck that was rough". If you take this approach to every journey in this life, you will never look for help. If you fail, you failed because you weren't good enough and you'll work harder next time. You didn't fail because nobody helped you...... This mindset helps you achieve loftier goals, IMHO. You can use the tools around you, but uliltimately it is up …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/16 04:25 PM
1

Happy or validated? It is a state if mind, IMHO. I am most happy when I am validated.... In my fucked up head, I validate myself constantly Shit almost daily. I don't need a woman to do it. New personal best yes! Knock 30 seconds off my run yes! Big raise, woot.... I have always been an egomaniac(thanks MOM) But at this point IDGAF about women at my age. Maybe I am getting old.... It has always been a sadistic pleasure to coerce women, just to see how far they would go. Got a boyfriend, steal a …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/16 03:08 AM
1

You have not entered dread level five. As much as you want to think your progress will change her, you're shoveling shit against the tide. You are still seeking a result from her through your progress, instead of seeing your progress for the benefit it is to you. If you start the relationship underwater(she settled for the Beta you were or could be) it is going to take a mammoth effort on your part and a Herculean effort on hers. She has only known you one way and to her you will always be that …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/16 01:01 AM
1

Whether in a LDR or not, all you can do is you. Life is hard and for a man it should be. Just when life is hard and you are up against it, you get a gut check and a kick in the balls from a friend, colleague, co worker just to see how much more you can take. She is there to augment your life and you to add value to hers. She wants a high value man in her life and you are getting there. If she waits great, if not it's the next ones turn......
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 07:05 PM
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Wow, It is plain to see you have zero frame. Mommy comes home and asks you if you did your chores and you get butthurt. You further aggrivated the issue with a passive aggressive argument. WTF? Do you feel the need to be validated by her? Cooking dinner isn't one of your chores, it is something that you need to do. Only you can manage the food you need to consume. Relying on her to feed you will make you fat. What you should have done is correct her tone. "Hello! How was your day?" You were look…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 06:34 PM
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How long has this been going on? She may be adjusting to new roles and unfortunately a timeline for compliance is on you and what you'll tolerate. That being said you cannot negotiate desire, if you were blue at the start she may always think of you as blue at the least or worse resent the new you and always be combative. She doesn't like your new attitude. If she wanted this type of you, she would have married him instead. Sound familiar? Focus on you, improve yourself either she'll follow or g…
/r/askMRP01/08/16 04:05 AM
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"Why would I be upset that you didn't get to have sex with me?" Or "It's not a bad thing, if you aren't into it then it isn't going to be good for either of us." You are the prize...... Kiss her on the forehead and go be awesome.........
/r/askMRP01/08/16 03:46 AM
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You cannot downgrade something you are not in charge of. From the sounds of it, she has and in all likelyhood has had the power from the beginning. Have you ever known any entity to give up power without a fight? You're gonna need to provide more info, we couldn't possibly tell you what to do without knowing what value you posess. Is there any built in dread in your relationship? Did she chase an Alpha or settle for a Beta? If it is the latter you are going to have a significantly harder time fi…
/r/askMRP01/08/16 03:06 AM
1

I like this, but go one step further. You should own your own sexuality, don't give in to hers. Think about that for a minute, even the most sexed up lil kitten still gets fucked by a man. You are always the fuckER, not the fuckEE. By truly accepting your god given role as the male in a sexual relationship, you reduce your oneitis as this thinking removes the service contract society used to require of you. She is to work to please you, regardless of her outcome. Why do you think Chad slams your…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 05:28 PM
1

Watch your E, arimidex should always be your first request after labs. I found .5 on the 3rd day works best. I wont take a shot without it. My body converts like a MF and sends estro into the stratosphere. First started i had acne, sweats & oily skin were common. Knock E down to below 30 and keep and eye on shrinkage and the 18 yr old you will hang around for a while......
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 11:59 PM
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What I cannot reconcile with some in the RP mindset is OI vs partner count/ LTR's sexual past.... As someone else said we all want virgins, but we want to fuck them all. With this many men, Eventually you run out of virgins...... If you truly adopt OI and not because you spun a plate or two, Or you got the tip wet a few times on the rebound after your girl swallowed your friends cum and kissed you....... eeeewwwww! To truly have OI, accept that all things end and take proper precaution for that …
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 11:55 PM
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1 massive shot a week of 200mg is a big shot for TRT(At least it was for me) Any labs at 14 weeks? Arimidex? HCG? Your numbers are probably through the roof.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 08:33 PM
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Most courts will not grant a divorce if you are still having relations with your spouse. You can hide it if you want from the couts, but if this is known it most likely will void the divorce. Also, why are you having sex with her? She initiated the divorce, pack up move on, salvage what is left of your masculinity.
/r/askMRP24/07/16 06:03 PM
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I am assuming the dumb fuck was leveled at me. So I will bite.... Let us assume you can read and didn't just fire off a response after the first paragraph. Did you miss the parentheses? Where it is stated marriage in general is stupid nowadays. Most likely, so let me say this. Getting married is dumb, however my marriage is quite good. Would I do it again? No. That being said. She is a 6 figure earner, a good mother, well educated and a quality first mate. There was talk of quitting her career w…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 09:43 PM
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A divorce is a divorce! I frankly would be much more upset at having the court steal my money every month and give it to someone that doesn't want to take care of themselves, just because the pretty girl conned me. Because the likelyhood of a high earning wife causing a divorce goes up, doesn't mean the point isn't valid. If you were to marry(again don't)it behooves you to find a partner that limits your downside in this financial transaction. It is a transaction right? That is what is often sta…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 03:17 AM
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Why is it Bullshit? One can assume there was a discussion on being a SAHM, right? She didn't just say hey I am staying at home now to raise your babies. If she did and the door mat let her do it then fuck him, he is an idiot and shouldn't be procreating..... If I may, What if she had a 6 figure job she gave up at your request(as dumb as it may be) to be a sahm. Are you legally obligated to help get her back on her feet? Here is a better one. What if she gave up a career significantly more valuab…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 08:36 AM
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HaHa. What I don't get is you telling him to acknowledge it, confront it, why? She ended the relationship. Do you keep going back for beatings? As for ego,Yeah a pretty big one I guess.... Thanks for noticing....... ;) On yer way
/r/askMRP19/07/16 01:46 PM
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For one, Hypergamy isn't relegated to the modern age hell not even the earliest part of cohesive tribal civilizations. If you interpret the Bible for what it is(Book of Metaphors) you see the earliest known instance of hypergamy had to do with Eve and Adam. The Bible tried to contain it, it was semi useful early on but no more. So we legislated it with the right to property, voting or education. Now women have access there too. See the analogy below. Eve used her association with Adam to gain ac…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 05:30 AM
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Again with this height bullshit! This has got to be a millenial thing. In my teens I was no bigger than I am now 66" and it did not matter. This may be due to the fact online dating wasn't around and as men we needed to develop socially to interact with the opposite sex. Money, Sex, Power! Have one of the three and you'll be in good shape. I guarantee you guys with height hangups, that if you make 100k yr, are in great shape (not super jacked, but a low BF muscular physique. Think Pitt in Fight …
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 04:07 AM
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What you have is a hobby, fairly interesting one but still a hobby. The point of lifting is to not only build your body, but to align your mind with your goals. Lifting not only builds muscles, but the mental preparation and concentration that goes into perfecting your lifts carries over to other parts of your life. Doing compound exercises has been shown to increase testosterone, this is the building block for all muscular development. You can maintain an athletic shape climbing, but it wont be…
/r/askMRP19/07/16 01:46 AM
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In before the lock! Troll.......... If not, you should move back with mom....... Youre not ready
/r/askMRP19/07/16 01:39 AM
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Here is what I would tell him. Group sex is fun(usually happens at a younger age), however I was never in a relationship or plate status with any of the girls. That being said I say go for it! You may like it! I sure as fuck did... Maybe and I am just thinking Maybe you could even parlay this into some income. Get her toes wet the first time, then when that chemical addicton sets in you can tell her "Hun, you know what would be so hot? Why don't I pick the next few partners". You can then arrang…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 02:28 AM
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"Stay Manipulated My Friend"
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/16 11:23 PM
1

If you cannot overpower someone physically or mentally, you legislate power through the masses. With numbers comes the power. Do you think it was happenstance that those in power built cities, where the population is dense. If you concentrate the population in a few key areas you can lose a popular vote but still win. The weak have bound together to force acceptence of them and their do called needs by the physically, financially and morally strong. Think what you may, but do as others do. Ply y…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 11:58 PM
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Sugar Babies- young girls, with physical assets exchanging them for monetary gain, usually with older established gentlemen. They are usually too lazy to actually build something for themselves so they exchange the commodity they do have for cash right now. --Whores- Any age, any type, any color. She gets paid to provide a sexual service to another person. --Modern CC rider- independent of cash flow, enjoys the lifestyle, will provide sex without payment in the hopes later down the line she may …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/16 06:16 PM
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We all settle down eventually. The fear people have of settling down after running in the pack is that it will end(and lets face it things rarely end amiciably). Guess what gents! All things end, as will your relationship. Just like life, accept the finality of it all and enjoy the hell out if it. It is finite, remember that pesky little idea that she is not yours it is just your turn. I firmly believe all things fall apart no matter the work you put in. Just like the universe, things are create…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/16 01:17 PM
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I saw no problem with prostitution when living abroad. It employs people that otherwise would be a drain on society, those lacking a skillset. However it is legal, taxed and requires testing for continued participation in that labor market. If legalalized here it may put in a check and balance on the manipulation of men(to an extent). If the man is wise enough to not give more than the pussy is worth(gifts, cash, rent). He would satisfy his physical needs while maintaining his assets if he so ch…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/16 11:09 AM
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Unfortunately, I don't have that mindset. I believe this place if cultivated properly has an opportunity to effect change and alter the course of a married man. Rat3ly on Relationshits is any advice of value and mostly consists of whining. Sifting through the bullshit posts, posting before required reading and the general whining that accompanies some of the more valuable threads sucks. It is a thankless job and the mods deserve credit, but all should pitch in.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/16 01:38 AM
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One of the main issues is The RP in MRP. Too often gentlemen get redirected here from that teenage sub expecting for it to be based on the same ideaology, but for LTR's or marriages. TRP is based on sex, how to get it, how to keep it, spin it, flip it, quit it. MRP is about making boys into men, the fact that your SO has lost her tingles for you is of little concern when you're in such poor shape any woman would feel that way. Be the better man and she will be a better woman. Fixing you, fixes t…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/16 05:38 AM
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So lets give him advice on how to put the pussy back up on the pedestal. That seems like sound advice. You're missing the whole focus of MRP aren't you? MRP is about improving you, making you a better man, husband, partner. By improving yourself she will follow you and the tingles return. If not then he can decide to next her. Seriously,If you want sex advice, cause she lost the tingles go over to the other sub. They will give you the cheat codes to the game of pussy...... Better yet, lets let h…
/r/askMRP12/07/16 05:17 AM
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Body weight exercises. Pushups- regular, wide arm, diamonds Situps- regular, inclined, crunches Squats- regular, closed leg(feet, knees together) Calf raises- stand on a curb or step on your stairs max out til your legs shake and you cannot do another. I chose to answer this in light of your lack of ability to fucking use the search option. Are you 3? Here: body weight exercises. Copy and Paste! Stop being a CUNT and use the search button!
/r/askMRP10/07/16 04:55 PM
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OP Please delete this thread. This isn't something anyone here can help you with based on what you gave us. This isn't about control, dominance, permission. This has little to add to anyones well being and improvement. I mean seriously, this has no substance, none. You shouldn't have even asked her. You didn't give us any background for context. Do you need her there? Is he there to help mediate for you? You are giving us no information, no background to even vet you from. Please reformat, tell …
/r/askMRP10/07/16 03:47 PM
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Stop fixing something that isn't broken. She lost her tingles so fucking what. She demoted your relationship and you're trying to rebuild it. Why? It should be her finding out why the pussy valve seized up not you. You're only concern should be you. Diet, diet, diet...... Lifting can be accomplished in as little as an hr a day. Your gains are in your diet and time management. In an hr you could be so far into muscle failure that you do not need any additional time. However most bring their phone…
/r/askMRP08/07/16 02:59 AM
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Very well written. I can connect with this on so many levels. One thing learned from alanon when I was younger, is that you understand its not you. It's the chemical fixes received from their fixes and the emotional wreckage that it creates. I understood this early on whether it is a drugs, alcohol, praise, elation, resentment. There are so many ways one can get the chemical release they feed on. Nothing else matters when the brain is hurting and the button on the morphine pump is empty. Doing w…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/16 02:46 AM
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Being succesful in life increases your SMV not in a Beta provisioning way, but it gives you the financial ability to access parts of society unattainable by the minimum wage group and as such opens up doors with women of said group. Beter hobbies, better toys, better wardrobe, better food(keeping you fit and lean). Ever wonder why poor people in the US are fat and poor people in Africa are skinny? Processed food is cheap cause it isn't real food. It will fill your belly, but will kill you, make …
/r/askMRP07/07/16 12:57 PM
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Most men here have no idea on how long it takes, the investment needed or how far they are along on this journey. We simply cannot give you, if you are at X she should be doing Y. It sucks, but there is no fucking mile marker gentlemen. How can we tell you where you are if we don't even know what road your on. The blanket statements made about women over in TRP, serve little benefit to men here. TRP should be perused only in the anger phase, then come here to get your 5 W's answered. Once you kn…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/16 03:02 AM
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What is funny is you don't see the problem. She sees there is a shot that you have the act aloof, mgtow, IDGAF gene that makes her wet. I am assuming less than 5 years together prolly between 36-48 months? She wants to play with you, but she then thinks about your negative qualities and the Sahara winds blow in. What you got was a not a compliance test, wasn't a shit test either. What you got was a fucking Memo. It states, I like this part of you, the pussy valve is unlocked but you are shit wit…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/16 06:22 PM
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Sounds like he's got a forest then
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 01:12 AM
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Life also gets better when you are a chisled greek god compared to every one of her friends fat hambeasts and their even fatter Blue Balled Hubby......
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/16 01:10 AM
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Hey Sweetheart! I don't know if you know this, but you are the plate not her. You pay for all the shit, you share your feelings, you made yourself available for sex when she wanted it, wtf? Now take those feelings off and put them back in the drawer.......
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 07:33 PM
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Here is the thing. If she wants to fuck him she will. If she is good you'll never know about it. Stop obsessing over pussy ownership, she isn't yours. You need to clearly state your boundaries, establish what is acceptable and clearly state the ramifications of breaking those boundaries. As for your edit. There is no retort to her fucking another guy and make no mistake any wife willing to spend time alone with another male that is not her Father or Brother is looking for attention and it will l…
/r/askMRP04/07/16 04:38 PM
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In all your ramblings you fail to understand the basic tenet of the red pill. AWALT. Expect the worst and you'll never be disappointed. Don't over commit, if it ends you simply go about gaming someone new. Put mechanisms in place to limit your exposure to the downside, it is possible. TRP is just a toolbox, I don't think anyone blindly follows anything. Shame on them if they do. Just like your posts, take what you need from them and leave the rest. Either way, whether you understand it, condone …
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 02:17 AM
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This isn't an attack, think of it has a friendly slap in the ass to get you moving. That us what we do here. We are unapologetic, firm and resourceful. We know what works, cause we have been there. We continue to learn and geow everyday. That us what this sub is for. As for the food if money is tight. Find a buffet. You could pretty much gorge your self on enough to supply your daily protein requirements. Then it is a matter of maintain your commitment. Let her bitch, you do you......
/r/askMRP04/07/16 02:02 AM
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As a man I learned early on that you shouldn't accept blame for anybodys actions against you, simply put you can only control how you react to their behavior. I was fortunate enough to have the Army take over where Dad left off......... Cheers
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/16 04:08 PM
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I agree with don't get married, I wouldn't do it again. I have many similarities with you, but may I counter. Your point is coming from you looking through Rose Colored Glasses. Without being single in your late 30's you wouldn't know how much happier you'd be. It could suck, you coukd be the old single guy that everyone laughs at holding on to his youth..... I csnnot argue with you here, How do you keep the pyramid scheme going without new investors coming in? 3&4 ate mutually exclusive. In ord…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 03:57 PM
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Sharia law much? Those that cant own it wish to legislate it. You a Democrat? Most of the young men here have no clue what life is about. How to make themselves happy, how to put mechanisms and controls in place to minimize their hardships. In short they are young and do not have the life experiences needed to manage life on hard mode. You can limit your downside in every aspect of your life. You need to make concessions, choose wisely and for god's sake stop putting the "P" on a pedastal. How m…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 02:54 PM
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Beer has its place! Not for him, not yet........
/r/askMRP03/07/16 02:37 PM
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So you got fired cause you used drugs, disobeyed corporate policy and now want to open up a business in the lucrative and demanding field of Aquariums? Are you Retarded? Seriously, slightly maybe? Get a Godamn skillset. See those trucks those pallets were loaded on? You know the ones with the shit you picked when you had a fucking job, yeah those. Do you think the seams were welded magically? Figure out a skilled trade, learn it, ply it and then make your business dream a reality. Let me help yo…
/r/askMRP03/07/16 02:34 PM
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There is a flip side to co dependency and I believe I lived it. I was raised in a codependent single mother home. Product of an MIA father, my mother chose instead to validate me at any and every juncture of my life. My ego was built at a very young age. I truly believe my mother replaced my father with me. She could not get out of him what she needed, she turned that affection on me. Were there hard times, Yes. I would get the "You're gonna grow up to be like him" sporadically when she couldn't…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/16 01:36 PM
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It doesn't work with all types of women, but I leave no ambiguity as to my needs, wants, desires. My actions have always been the constant, they rarely change so if I have to say something you better perk up and listen. I do not imbellish the truth for even the slightest personal gain. At times my moral high ground in life leads to missed opportunities, but I have no regrets. Cheers
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/16 08:42 PM
2

Nice Rebound thread, I've found that hiding the butthurt looks worse. You're hiding emotions from a creature that only knows emotions. It's akin to lying, an expert giving a polygraph will catch you. I initiate, rarely do I get turned away(I'm not Super Chad though so sometimes it does happen). If I do, she knows that the time I am sharing with her could be better spent doing a multitude of other things. I then explain to her, not in a butthurt way that I am reprioritizing my to do list and it w…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/16 08:12 PM
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This thinking gets perpertuated again and again. If you pick a low value mate, you get what you deserve. Why would anyone venture into an agreement with anyone about anything and not expect them to have skin in the game? You didn't have to choose an SO that is uneducated, but you did. You didn't have to choose an SO without a career, but you did. You didn't have to let her stop working after she pushed out some pups, but you did. Without knowing it, you gave up the only insurance policy you have…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 04:05 PM
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You're only as fucked as you want to be. You determine how good your life is, since you are the only one that can make the changes necessary to be awesome. She is acting like this because you let her. Sell the house and downsize to something you can afford, one that is suitable for your child. Sounds like it is coming anyway. Why give her the chance to take it in a divorce, while making you pay for her to stay in it. She doesn't work so she shouldn't have a say(unless you put her on the mortgage…
/r/askMRP02/07/16 03:06 PM
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However, you were butthurt, she knew it, you knew it. You did not display any value to her by leaving, she is inexperienced and capitulated by having sex with you upon your return instead of pouncing on the opportunity. She has the tools but not the knowhow to frag you with a brain grenade yet. Once it clicks, that she sees your butthurt, you leave after rejection, etc. She will start making demands upon your return prior to doling out a lil poon. Does Choreplay get you hard? You'd better get us…
/r/askMRP02/07/16 12:12 PM
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What you have to understand is most women aren't BP. It is thrown about so much here as a way to deflect poor leadership and an even worse long term memory. Think back, way back to the beginning there was no disorder, no bitchiness, no compliance tests. A shit test to validate if you are deserving of the pussy. As men we forget that she needs that same interaction, tingles, leadership to be happy. All these problems come about due to eroding frame, poor leadership and general lazyness on our par…
/r/askMRP02/07/16 11:47 AM
1

I am going to give you the short form: You're a Bitch! Women do not find weak men attractive and make no mistake her probes to see if you'd assault her was just what she needed. You should have said "I'd hate for you to find out". What she thought was "Wow he really is so fucking weak, Chad's cock is gonna taste so much better now". You're still trying to rationalize her behavior, when this is all your fault. It is time for you to double down on you. Start by jettisoning her ASAP. Since you have…
/r/askMRP30/06/16 03:47 PM
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Because unless your game is tight and I mean Virgin on prom night tight, you'll get screwed. Most don't have the staying power to make this work. You have kids with her and she will still own you. I have no less than 6 friends paying child support and conveniently enough it is always just enough to support her and the kids. Literally $400 wk! WTF does she feed the kids? Apparently they eat Louis Vuitton bags....... If I was to ever marry again(I should be committed to an asylum), it would be of …
/r/askMRP29/06/16 03:08 AM
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If youre gonna do a shake do casein protein(slow digesting, lasts all night) I mix in a half teaspoon of cinnamin as well......
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/16 11:06 PM
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Good starting point, but there is no need to go that low on carbs. Anything below 50g is optimal. It all depends on where you get your carbs. Rice or boiled potatoes. 1/4 cup of dry rice equals 38 g of carbs. You can have that as your staple. It is a slow digesting carb and should be eaten 1hr before your workout. Green veggies have carbs as well but usually are negated by the fiber in them. Meat, water, brocoli. Definitely supllement your salt intake. Supplement with nuts, coconut or light oliv…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/16 10:55 PM
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The economy will rebound with Trump in place. Having control of the Senate and House will be easier to make it business friendly again. There is still too much milk in this cow for it to go belly up just yet, so all the doom and gloom is not right around the corner. That is why they are gonna milk it a lil more. If the Repubs manage to replace the ACA with something cheaper then thats more cash in our pockets to spend(God knows anything less than the 800/mo. I spend for benefits would be nice). …
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 10:36 PM
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You never spend time with me: You'll have to learn how to share. You never compliment me: I love how awesome you make me look! You're always at the gym: Sure am, how else would I satisfy my ego..... Where's my hair clip. Someone must have taken it.... I will see if I can get it back......
/r/askMRP28/06/16 03:53 PM
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I don't believe in the next, no contact at the drop of a hat. Communication is key here. You need to let her know that you knew she has been planning this trip for a while. She deliberately chose to deceive you by lying about it. That being said, this type of behavior is not something you'd want from an LTR. You know her plans for the trip, the people she is going with and you are completely ok with it. Tell her you want her to have a guilt free conscience during her vacation so you are ending y…
/r/askMRP28/06/16 03:47 PM
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Unfortunately what you are seeing here is men that were deceived by women. They often lash out irrationally, most posters are in the anger stage. They are younger as well so the control of their emotions isn't there yet and the iternet is all too easy to preserve their stupidisms for generations to come...... Lying to a man is a pretty big dea, IMHO. I believe a man is born with a certain sense of honesty, integrity and self reflection. As we age, it either is cultivated or extinguished based up…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 02:45 AM
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Sounds like a solid plan, but you still can get nabbed. Break a condom and life is over unless you wanna get snipped early on and get a final solution. If you look at history the threat of violence often times was the leash that held a woman's urges in check......
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/16 02:21 AM
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The problem is, voting for Trump delays the inevitable. Voting for the Harpy Cow pushes the breaking point up a couple of years. There is just too many fucking people. We have no predator to keep our numbers in check and we have managed to let inferior people fuck their way towards our oblivion.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 02:09 AM
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Furthermore, Car sex. Even if it is at the end if your driveway(Its a little dangerous, but still controlled) BJ's in public she loves the naughtiness you get the pleasure. Make it discreet Get her a wearable panty set with a toy in it, And with a remote you get to turn on at your whim. Out at dinner, at the movies, etc. For the more uninhibited, there is exhibitionism. You're still fucking her, but others get to watch (slippery slope though as she may want more down the line). Remember when you…
/r/askMRP27/06/16 01:43 PM
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I don't have to pretend, nor do I need to base a belief on any one thing according to race. I am a bit older and wiser than in my youth and have come to judge all things for their value. Would I have an issue with a black man marrying my daughter? Maybe, Maybe not don't know. However I definitely would have a problem with some p.o.s. white trash meth head that beats her so that is a dilemma. Do we value a man that is educated, responsible, trustworthy, has integrity and will lead his family acco…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 05:11 AM
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100mg/wk is good half life of test cyp is 6/8 days, so your window is good as long as your amiridex does its job. 50mg twice wk is better. Get an HCG shot with every other cyp shot minimum. Too much hcg and your body with ignore the shot and shut it off completely, forever. Do not take test without checking your Estro. Its a waste of money, what good is a 1500 and 50 free test if your E2 is 100. That is if you convert high like me. My first cycle E popped to 140, my shbg is also naturally high. …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/16 09:42 PM
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Haha, What do I care? I am amoral, life sucks you cannot help everyone. Da Fuck I care about anyone. Biologically speaking if the human race lasts another 100,000 years everyone will be an olive color, more heavily mixed then we are now. Do some reading every nationality is mixed. The Irish have Spanish blood(Basque area specifically) The French have Norman blood The Italians have african, jewish, and slavic origins. Again if this bothers you so much that it is shaping the way you interact with …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 03:40 PM
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Start using condoms. Rub one out early in the day if your having sex at night. Use a dezensitizing cream, hell rub some ambwsol on the head... Think of your Grandma, LOL
/r/askMRP23/06/16 04:28 PM
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This is true for everything. Top 40 radio, you know why they play songs on repetition, cause it gets trapped in your brain. Commercials, subliminal messages are all over. With that being said. Why are you so passionate about this? What can the RP do to help you get passed this. This forums isn't about bitching, it isn't about hivemind mentality or even starting a grass roots org. It is about helping other men, so I ask you what is it that you are voicing that will help us here. I have no black c…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 04:24 PM
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Do you need going white to be produced? Why is this bothering you on such a scale that you're devoting some serious time to it. Are you Jezus"Porn" Christ? Are you gonna rid the world of those naughty thoughts. Shit I know the Puritans came to America with their holier than now religious idealogy I just didn't think it was still around across the pond? But fuck its been over 200 years....... You're not changing shit! What happened to giving less fucks? How has this style of porn affected you? Si…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 04:25 PM
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You sound like a white supremicist. The RP isn't about helping white men, it's about helping every man better themselves. If those that have a specific sexual preference like it so be it. There is no grand conspiracy to get your white women to fuck black men. If they do and he fucks her better than you, again so be it you shoulda been better. If you complain you cannot compete with the black mamba, you have an inferiority complex and need to work on yourself.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 01:47 PM
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Troll, blah, blah, blah Troll Death Grip, blah, blah, blah Blue Balls So i found a support page for you. www.iamgoingtoendupmarryingafatbitchthatcucksmecauseiamtherealpussy.com Please feel free to share your feelings there.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 01:02 PM
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Suits are for business and unless you are running daygame constantly. Even a 6' guy will have trouble because the environment is tougher.... Still your outlook sounds miserable. You may need to work on it with a counselor, but stay away from medicine
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 12:01 PM
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Eh! I have to go with what I know. 2 kids in my family Dad went 1 for 2, that is my sample size.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 11:57 AM
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Dude WTF! Almost 5'8" 180 turned that shit into muscle and you'll be noticed. At 182lbs your fat at the very least skinny fat. If you didnt come in here and puke instead asked questions like how can I cut my spending, finances, food bill down to create a surplus. How can I eat lean enough to turn myself into an adonis. Where can I find good used clothkng to sharpen my inage. Any of these questions would have been answered in a professional courteous manner. But you will get attacked by posting w…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 06:25 AM
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Thats it sweety get it all out. Tge big bad white man has it out for you. LOL Why are you in NYC then? You know what, grew up not far from you way back when, couldn't afford shit then either. You now what I did? I left and maybe you should too. Maybe change your manpon on the way out, you crabby little Bitch. Stop your victim puking, it has been said before this isn't a support group.....
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 06:17 AM
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You're lazy! You lack the intestinal fortitude necessary to push through your most simpliest of lifes circumstances. In short you are a cunt, an anonymous one, but nevertheless still a cunt. You need to find something to pour yourself into, find a goddamn hobby son.... Get two jobs, make money, restore an old car, buy your first house fix it up and sell or rent it, start a business. These are all things even the most inferior of men can attempt. Sex should be the last thing on your mind since yo…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 03:31 AM
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Are there any kids? What the fuck is this Disney vacation. If you don't have children why in the fuckin fuck would you want to spend your hard earned cash at Estrogenville. If there are no kids and she is talking divorce, tell her to file already so you can continue your awesome life somewhere else.....
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 01:52 AM
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Sounds like my "hamburger all dressed up just becomes better hamburger" theory. With all your increases in life, she still knows you're hamburger. Yeah maybe you have relish now or your on an artisian roll, but you're still fucking hamburger. Go market yourself to someome else as filet mignon. Put her in the life pod and eject her. Tell her to look you up on FB......... Or slowly demote her to plate status until she cheats on you, which she may be leading to anyway. Even if she does you gives tw…
/r/askMRP22/06/16 01:35 AM
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Wait What? Can't have back to back O's from cunnilingus? In what journal of science did this come from Dr. Labia... You show your naivete in declaring this. Have you actually tried this or are you assuming this to be true based upon your personal experiences? Also you dont need a 9 inch Alpha dick for PIV orgasms. You want powerplay? Kneel along side her, left hand around her throat and use your right hand on her(preferrebly ring and middle fingers). The G spot is anywhere between 1-3 inches in …
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 05:26 AM
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Don't be so naive to think you can shame them into submission. It hasn't worked for Slut Shaming has it? With the SJW'S out there backing them up you're fucked. They have entrenched themselves in every aspect of society now. LGBT, Single Mothers, Democrats they have the numbers and an idealogical belief that trumps your hard work and integrity. There is no Karma in this universe. You are either the guy she fears would do something like this or not, there is no way around it. After a life spent t…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 04:19 PM
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There is no way in hell the government will pay for the extra kids with no Dads. They will force another tax down the public's throat. It is really a shame when you realize she can put your name on the birth certificate and the hospital will go along with it. In fact there is a disclaimer on there now that says you are accepting paternity regardless of the biological relation and will support said child financially by signing the document
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 01:50 AM
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Don't look to your woman to make the effort tk call you when not there. You barely register if you are not visible. What you should do is instruct her on when to call. The call is for afterall, she is simply carrying out your orders.....
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 01:36 AM
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Men do, women feel...... Educate your son that it is ok to share hugs with other men, his emotions. Teach him to be thankful for his days on this Earth, no matter how hard the day is a day above the ground is better than in it.... Unfortunately when you leave the hen house to be managed by the biggest Hen you get a product of them. Communication is the key, she is your XO. If the Battallion Commander is away, are PT and morning formation still required? Let her know that she should follow your l…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/16 08:04 PM
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From what I've read I would catergorize most of the APPROVED guys to be former Alphas or started the relationship in an Alphaesque way. I can see repairing an LTR from that starting point. It doesn't matter that you found it @ your low. You were once high! I am saying if you started as a Beta she settled for you and it wont get better, so start another relationship as an Alpha and stay there. Sunken cost applies.....
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/16 07:56 PM
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So lets have a math class. If you eat 1 gram of protein per day of body weight and you eat 165 grams you'd be? Keeping carbs this low will keep your body in ketosis and your body fat low. I am 5'6 with my chin held high, LOL To bulk depending on your BMR you'd need a surplus. This is not a surplus. I try to consume 2 times this from September to March to add weight....
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 07:21 PM
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This is IMHO the only thing a woman can do to you as a man that would warrant the ultimate punishment. She voluntarily took away your right to pass on your genetic code, you have every right to take away someones' ability to breathe. However, the man these women try to defraud most definitely couldn't nor wouldn't ever be the scorched earth/ go out in a hail of bullets guy(which is why she tried to sucker them in the first place). Every woman should be educated early in their hypergamous life th…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 07:04 PM
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I should of prefaced my comment with In regards to the BP marriage marketplace and adopting RP fundamentals to negotiate a better outcome for the husband. Everyone in here is beginning or continuing a journey or helping others along the way. The longer I stay on this planet the more I see these types of marriages (Starting from scratch as BP) are forever doomed even if RP strategies are implemented. Then again it may just be my little circle I see this in. Are these types of marriages destined f…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 03:39 AM
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ArthurTheAstronaut? Are you a fucking Space Cadet? You cannot play a game that has already ended. There is a reason this forum says not to go back to an ex. You are over invested emotionally, that much is clear but why? Love? WTF is love? Is love worth you putting yourself out there again and again and when September comes she wrecks you yet again? Everyone responding to your post is telling you what you need to hear, but you want someone to endulge you in your Disney B.S. Grow the fuck up. She …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 01:29 AM
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The problem with the married SMP is: Hamburger nevers becomes filet mignon? She purchased the hamburger with her value based on the market at the time. She knows it's hamburger no matter how you dress it up. If she has always known you to be Hamburger(cause that is what you were in the beginning) she may resent you for trying to look like filet mignon. In this case it may be better for you to seek out another consumer that doesn't know you started out as hamburger. I would like to see some real …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 12:31 AM
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It never goes away, ever...... Some of your relationships built in those times are seamless. They pickup right where they ended. Treat your new relationships at work like you would with children. Use a little tact, influence them the only way they know, using kids gloves. They don't know better, they think they live in the real world or you do, but either way you are correct it is you. Not because you're wrong, but because you're outnumbered. Adapt and overcome.... Keep your head up, chest out..…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/16 10:43 AM
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But there was for sure some hand holding. Eye gazing and if you grabbed her panties that night you'd see the remnants of that milky white stain leftover from her wanting him. Feel better now? Or you can continue to lie to yourself. But hey it's your lie make it as big as you want ...
/r/askMRP16/06/16 10:36 AM
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Don't listen to diet infomercials. Or calorie restrictions. If you starve yourself, your body will store more fat.. You want to force your body into choosing to burn your fat reserves. If you give your body a rock to eat(protein) and it has to choose a fuel source to break down for energy it will choose the easiest thing to break down and that is fat..... Maintaing a healthy weight is 90% diet. You could easily shave 2lbs a week. Water weighs a lot 8lbs a gallon. I am sure you are carrying aroun…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/16 12:48 AM
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I was going to go into a Marriage is work, it's what you make it blah, blah, blah...... Until I read the end of your post. Frag her and move on. She met someone for coffee? WTF? And you are still there? Ask for your balls back on the way out the door.... Oh and be sure to let her family know why your initiating it. I am sure it wasn't just for coffee, it always ends up being a bit more than that.....
/r/askMRP15/06/16 11:53 PM
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What you are suggesting with eating simple sugars/carbs leads to insulin resistance and will fuck your body up. You will age quicker and die a horrible death drinking soda. Soda? The high fructose corn syrup soda, holy shit..... refined Sugar to boot holy hell. Stop posting.... You're going to make somebody sick. I cannot figure your schtick. Are you a Dentist drumming up clients? An endocrinologist looking for patients? We should call you Dr. Big Gulp...... Do you have a Big Gulp Guide? Maybe a…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 03:32 AM
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WTF is this? I am hoping this to be a facetious statement, but you never know on here. If not say goodbye to your toes and eyesight......
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 03:07 PM
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I see your analogy about swinging and believe maybe that lifestyle may have advantages later down the line for some of you younger guys. Not worried about lesser genes at all, mine already have been passed on and there wont be anymore than I already have. Just a thought......
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 04:44 PM
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Stop binge drinking, not because of the calories but because you're using it as a crutch and building an addiction. Feeling down? Go lift. Got rejected? Go lift. Bury yourself into your fitness. The type of alcohol you drink has a big impact. The lower the proof the worse it is for you. Girlie drinks, beer, liquores all are gonna put fat on you. If you think you are saddled with poor genes or you're not asthetically pleasing pick one thing you can change and max it out. IE your physique. Ever se…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 08:13 AM
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The Anger phase does end, be patient........
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 07:53 AM
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Why hate anything for being what it is? Relationships aren't unsuccessful just because they end. Everything ends. Enjoy the memory of it, it added to your life in some way. Now go about making new memories..... Men are disposable. She got out of you what she could. Does an old pair of shoes cry when you get rid of them? I consider myself to be fairly sucessful in most facets of life and yet still I ponder why we endorse monogamy as social norm. Sure we have the predispostion to pass on our genes…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 06:02 AM
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Your model#1 concept about a woman's career taking a backseat is a farce. It is an idealogical throwback mindest to the 50's. Why is this model unfulfilling to men in their 30's? In as much as we haven't changed genetically in 60000 yrs and the man woman dynamic still holds true, but there is no reason a woman cannot be just as invested in making it work by opening up herself to take a loss by burning the relationshhip to the ground. This shows that we haven't evolved to master our environment u…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 10:50 AM
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Keep in mind you can too! If your SMV is high enough she will look the other way. She would rather share you than have a loser all to her self. Don't embarass her, rub it in her face and you may pull it off. Plenty have.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 09:19 AM
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You're only retort to a breakup from a girl(whether you're hurting on not, man the fuck up) should be "Oh, thankyou! I didn't have the heart to finally say it. You've taken a tremendous weight off my shoulders". This flips the script and creates a power vaccum. She has the power and still does by initiating the breakup. However, this extracts from her the very thing needed for her closure and hinders her ability to move on. You have her thinking she unintentionally helped you, which is worse cau…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 11:39 PM
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Give yourself a timeline, say a year. Put your goals on one side and hers on the other. If you've met your goals and she hasn't made an effort on the ones you've set for her then you reevaluate. RP isn't about fixing her or fixing your relationship. It's about fixing you. Once that happens you'll attract someone worthy of your commitment.
/r/askMRP11/06/16 08:16 PM
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Motivation: Not being that feeble old man til I have to be. I will stop lifting when my joints beeak, then I will go to body weight, then I will go into a box. What works: Ketosis. Stay below 50g a day in carbs and you will lose weight. Up you protein or your body will metabolize your muscle. HR above 160bpm with a 1 minute blast past 190 for interval training on cardio days. No sugar, that means black coffee fellas. No banannas, oranges, onions, garlic, grapes. Meat and lots of it. Learn to lov…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/16 08:01 PM
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How was your relationship in the beginning? It isn't said often enough, but if she settled for you and only knows you as a Beta you may never get what you want. She knows it's an act because if it wasn't you would have been that way when you got together. I am not saying it is a sunken cost, butn it is going to be 10X harder than if you were her superior at the beginning and fell off... Continue to work, establish a timeline for what you think is accpetable. Even she doesn't meet, reevaluate.
/r/askMRP09/06/16 02:26 PM
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I don't know where this school of thought on parenting comes from. Some parents treat their children as if they are inferior life forms, when in fact they are the same as anyone else but they lack the life experience and cognitive decision making capabilities due to that lack of experience. That is where you come in as a leader. A leader doesn't lead because he is expected too. He leads because he sees the problem and works it. That is all an effective leader is. He is a complex problem solver, …
/r/askMRP09/06/16 02:16 PM
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You should of changed the fucking locks! When she tries to get in and you are not home (cause you're out being awesome), you tell her "I thought you left. I didn't want to leave the house in an unprotected state. Why don't you go to your parents and I will come get you when I am done". There is a place for everything and everything has a place....... Including her
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/16 01:10 AM
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Being polite, nice, caring isn't a fault and there is no requirement to be a jerk in being RP. Maintain your strength. We believe RP is nothing but a toolbox. Which tools you use to build yourself is your choice. Use the wrong tool get the wrong result. This sub is about building a better you, nothing more. Being Beta is about letting people take something from you, no matter how small the piece is you lose something in the exchange. Add all these pieces up and you end up a fraction of the man y…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 12:00 AM
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Define normal? What you believe is normal may be lunacy to others. The only normal there is, is you! You decide how far into her frame you'll venture. LTR's are like playing a distant game of chicken, except she is in 4x4 and you're on a bike. Once she finds out you're on a bike she is gonna steam roll you. Who the fuck cares if she is in the same town? Get better, fuck her friends, get hotter women. Not because you wanna show her up, but because your ever increasing value warrants them.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 11:32 PM
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The game is called "Chase". Your 10 yrs old running around the playground, you tag a girl and she chases you. Although your fast, witty, able to avoid her, you somehow let your guard down and let her tag you back. YOU'VE JUST LOST THE GAME! She will now go chase after the other boy who is quicker than you, the one she hasn't gotten to tag yet. You gave in and lost. Don't ever lose again. Always show them you are superior, hold your frame. It isn't how many times you get knocked down. We all need…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 10:00 PM
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Your success in life is directly related to your effort. A little luck maybe, but some seem to think that if they bring home the bacon they can be hands off to a degree. Your commitment never gets easier.....
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 05:47 PM
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I would disagree and give you food for thought based on everything we learn about women and how their emotions (feels) dictate their direction. It really only is a short term infatuation with a child like fantasy of a long term happiness. To them there is no long term outlook on her happiness. She currently needs control of the relationship(power) to feel it's hers. She chose the path that led to her short term happiness(which is all they have, remember there is no long term agenda). That is why…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 05:44 PM
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I had no issue with the 5x5, but as with any program your body will adjust to it or you may get bored with it. Let me ask, do you not do anything else, any exercise the other 4 days on the 5x5? Wind sprints, hard cardio, ab/core days, etc? Lifting is great for T production, building strength and muscle mass. For an aesthetically pleasing look or a refined physique you're gonna have to focus on your diet and cardio.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 01:41 AM
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Dude, why are you upset? You wouldn't get upset at a misquito biting you, would ya? Or a dog for pissing on the rug when u forgot to take him out. It sounds stupid, I know. You have to understand the nature of women. You exchanged resources for sex, good sex as you call. That is a good thing, you just happen to get attached to it. A positive is she is hopefully making good money, you don't get ass raped by the courts and you've had the poon before that new guy. There is an old saying that goes"n…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 01:27 AM
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Simple answer they wont. You know what that means? The spoils of war are there for those few who know the game, understand how to play it and win. It pays to be a winner, not just being the friend of a winner. If you've found this place you're on your way. Here is my devil's advocate part though.... Why as a group those who truly believe in an RP way of life want the masses to adopt our lifestyle. Should we invite competition? I understand educating our young men to be productive, self aware and…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 08:38 PM
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Absolutely they can, but with my awesome leadership, a commitment to exercise and a healthy diet I am providing every tool I can for them to be awesome. I educate them, play with them, I have an open honest dialogue about life in general. If they turn out otherwise so be it. You are who you are and environment you are raised in only plays a small part in your overall makeup as a human being. We can give them all the tools, but sometimes they will not use them. You may ask why bother then? Becaus…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 06:54 PM
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Here is my talk from a long time ago. Her: I don't think I want to go back to work full time after the baby is born. Me: That sounds good lets get divorced so my name won't be on the birth certificate. You'd get to collect. Her: I'm not going on welfare! Me: I'm not gonna be the sole provider and not see my kids working 16hrs a day. We each will contribute 50% of the love, sex, money needed to make this work for the long term. Her: What if I don't go back and quit? Me: So will I! And you know I …
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 08:30 PM
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The only thing that sucks with establishing your DGAF stance is the quantity of SJW's ready to snipe you at any point. 48 laws of power #38, Think as you like, but behave like others. You've worked hard to master a skillset providing a handsome living for yourself. In certain industries one black mark by a feminist may well ruin your career path. It is awesome that some of us can navigate the professional world with a DGAF attitude, unfortunatwly I have to be a ninja..... t sucks to have to act …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 02:15 AM
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From what I read T has somewhat of the same effects on female libido as a mans' to a degree, but the mental aspect of intimacy seems to be a bigger part of her cycle. Any of the knowledge base talked about in here during her pre and post ovulatory cycle where she wants the Alpha just before and during and coomfort post cycle seems to validate this. Her high is high but her low is really low and without the mental stimulation needed to overcome the lack of desire she stays stuck in the rut. It ma…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 03:03 PM
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Listen, I am just calling out the nonsense you posted about context. I personally don't care what your opinion is and accept my post as constructive criticism. No AMOG implied! Hopefully after your rape you've seen the light as far as relationships go and learned from all of our mistakes. That being said, A mans partner count means nothing to himself, could mean a lot more to a partner. Women want to fuck men who are wanted by other women. So you asked if a blowjob increases my count, fingering,…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 11:49 AM
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Notch count is just some data, it's the context that matters? Please tell us WTF does this mean! You sound mildly retarded. In what other context can sucking a man's dick be taken in? If you state she had 3 partners, but blew them a total of 300 times who cares? But if she had blown 30 different men once, obviously she was chasing the attention and validation and is a huge red flag in anybodys book. Reread the sidebar and unplug cause if you don't you're ignoring another red flag. Come back here…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 06:53 PM
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The problem with IRS code 401K isn't that it is a scam it is that it is underutilized by many and in the manner in which it is designed. However you can work around it to better your financial situation. Although it may be at the expense of an employer match. The 401k gives two benefits one to your employer and one to you. The employer writes off the cost of said plan and contributions if they match. They get to use this fund (sometimes the value is in the hundreds of millions for a large compan…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 06:11 PM
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She only operates within the guidelines you've established. If you let her stop working that is on you. Hold her to the standards you need to keep her in your life. Prior to marriage, kids buying a house I laid out a plan for building a family. It required a level of committment to an emotional, physical and financial plan. So far it has worked, if your mission fails it's because you planned it ineffectively....
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 11:27 AM
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Wow! Insecure much? Why would you worry? Set your boundaries and enforce them. If she breaks them move on.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 11:05 AM
2

Unfortunately I believe there is a level of craziness already built into every woman. Proper leadership can hold it at bay, but it is like shoveling shit against the tide.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 03:09 AM
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Partner count doesn't matter. You're not gonna get the truth anyway. Here is why. Take my SO with a stated count of 4. I bit on it and went peeked further down the rabbit hole. She didn't include blowjobs as sexual partners and thought it was crazy that men include this count. My response was "that's great a guy will marry a girl that had 4 piv partners but gave 126 BJ's". Is that fair to him? Or she has no PIV partners whatsoever, but took it in the ass 22 times. The end result doesn't matter. …
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 12:27 AM
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Wrong! Then you get to pay alimony and child support until the kids are 26(thanks obamacare and college). Alimony sometimes for the rest of her life, not a great idea. If you are gonna get married she better have an education, a career she could support herself on if you leave, be able to provide 50% child support as you'd be a fool to not fight for split custody. Too many guys on here and some on MRP want that 50's family. WTF for, do you wanna lose everything if it goes south? You want her to …
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 06:19 PM
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Join the military! @ 29 yrs old you're in your prime years, use them for something. You won't have time to play video games in tbe beginning and can stop your cycle..... See I fixed everything for you with one suggestion! Go get em Tiger.....
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 12:55 PM
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IMHO there is at least 10% extra weight hidden in everyones 1RM. I am a novice at best, but at 5' nothing and 169lbs I broke 200lbs BP 1RM, 235lbs dead 3x, only 165lbs squat(L5 disc is damaged and cannot afford for it to slip). I've noticed in the gym, guys tend to muscle the weight, they wreck their form and either get hurt or stay at a plateu. By engaging your secondary muscle groups, it stabilizes your frame and will help push through to a new max.... In order to get used to doing it, I had t…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 10:48 PM
1

I hate sounding like an old fuck, but there should be an age attached to each post. I hated the way older guys sounded when I was a teen and 20 something, but they were often times right. As you age you definitely see the world through a different lense, I can only hope you will mature as you age. However if you already are post 30, you're fucked and should probably end it. You're using up valuable resources for others to use to become awesome. Stop breathing! You want mommy's love, grow up! She…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 02:33 PM
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30%BF 30lbs @ what height? Exercising is the smallest part of the equation. Diet, diet, diet. Will power to not fuck yourself with a poor diet. Ketosis- In 7 weeks losing 1 3/4 to 2lbs a week(very doable just starting out you will plateau as you get back in line with what your body should be weighing). 14lbs is a real solid expectation. Get a HR monitor and keep your HR above 160, don't over cardio. Lifting will burn more calories 50% 1RM, high reps. Compound exercises. Squats, overhead lifts, b…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/16 02:01 PM
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I alternate between hot and cold as it is one if the only things that will help migraines. Don't know if there is any science to it, but after a day of feeling like shit and in the past being bed ridden at times it kinda shocks my brain back into functioning properly.
/r/askMRP26/05/16 01:40 PM
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I disagree with she hasn't cheated. She has, that is why she is telling you to get some elsewhere so she feels it's even steven. She fucks you randomly after getting aroused by thinking about the other guy[s], but then is repulsed by the fact that she fucked you. It's not mate guarding or trying to save it, she is overloaded with emotion and has no way of controlling it. She's an addict...... 5'7" 170 is a great weight to be if you're not a mushy pile of potatoes. You have good weight, turn it t…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 07:21 PM
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6 month old baby at home and you think now is the right time to build some dread? You're not a dildo, you're an insensitive dickhead. You should be taking this time to bond with your child regardless of what she thinks of you. Some guys just don't get it. Postpartum is the absolutely worst fucking time to practice this shit. You sound like some of the thirtsy chumps running around here whining they can't get laid from their wives a week after giving birth. It's good you are taking time for you, …
/r/askMRP22/05/16 09:17 PM
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If you can do 77 pushups in 2 minutes, 82 situps in 2 minutes and run 2miles in 12:54 and you don't shove garbage in your piehole, you should have a decent physique with low BF% & wouldn't be confused with a fat fuck....... And these are the new softer ARMY standards...... Being poor means little, being lazy is everything..... Just like exercising, it means nothing if your diet is shit. Some of these examples are solid(weighted milk jugs) to augment your routines after you've mastered your body …
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 04:09 PM
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I was the mirror image of you when I got out cept for the working from home. My dread never had to go above 6, it takes a little while to flip them. Just the other day my wife had a dr. Appt and the doc said why are you so thin. Her response(Well when your husband hits 40 and looks like he has a 25 year olds body I have to try to keep up). Keep working on you, if the relationship is great and it sounds like it is you have an option. Give her some time, if she doesn't come around let her know wha…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/16 05:32 PM
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Just because a relationship ends doesn't mean that it wasn't successful. Sometimes things have to run their course. Enjoy anyone or anything for the time you have it. There isn't a place in this universe where something lasts forever, so don't get upset when your particular journey ends.....
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 04:10 AM
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Why so upset? You were neither the cause of it nor a contributor to the demise. If you are a part of the select group of men able to use the knowledge found within these walls your life will be enjoyable. You can maintain relationships, they just won't be the fairytales you were told about. Accepy it, it is the norm now.....
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 08:09 AM
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Cast a wider net... Hit on every tall woman you see, get so used to rejection that it won't matter to you. This coming from a vertically challenged person "It doesn't matter". Throw enough shit against the wall and some of it will stick. If that doesn't work, deception. Rent a Lambo and use some of your cash and play the game.....
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 07:47 AM
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Keep in mind carb the fuck up doesn't mean eating pasta 5 days a week. The right carbs still need to be selected for a proper diet. There are so many diet plans out there that everyone can find one that fits. For me personally, I've found keeping carbs around 65g/ day or lower(50g when cutting) when eating for maintenance is good. Boiled potatoes or rice are my go to choices, along with Brocoli(it's a vial weed), but I love it.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 04:39 AM
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Shave your head Add 25lbs of muscle Lose 10% BF Or go to Turkey and get a transplant! If I made the money I make now when I was early 20's I would of done it. However, restoration was in its infancy then. Even now you have to take drugs to keep what original hair you have post surgery. Factor that with even a slight hint at some drugs fucking up my dick no way Jose..... Shave it.......
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 05:59 AM
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Where can you start? 1st- Fitness +Diet. If you are skinny eat like you haven't eaten in years and lift heavy shit. Start with a 5x5 program. If you are fat cut your carbs to below 65 first, then below 50g/ day and lift heavy shit. This time dedicated to your fitness will keep you away from her(she sounds poisonous). Why do you fucking care about her and her new boss? You need to support her with this, encourage her as this is the only chance you have at offsetting the impending divorce rape tha…
/r/askMRP09/05/16 04:26 AM
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It's not a rant if it's true. It's called preaching. As married men we approach TRP differently. I enjoy this sub for the knowlwdge that was gained through failure. I cannot connect with a younger generation that mixes entitlement with irresponsibility and then blames it on someone else. That being said....... I've posted previously about putting in some protections for yourself, an insurance policy for the married man. If you are dumb enough to get married(no I would never do it again, but I am…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 02:17 PM
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Ramblen is correct. Who is paying for the animal? Will it be boarded ehen you go on vacation? Who feeds it, walks it, etc. You should not tie the animal to your DB. Your DB is tied to one thing and one thing only, YOU! Was it a DB before you married her? Be honest? If so she settled, has no real consideration of fucking you like you want, cause you were never that guy in the first place. The dread game works two ways dependent upon how you are viewed. If you were her settlement and you now are s…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 04:34 PM
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Your diet and meal plan are your responsibility! She's not your Mom. Take care of your food, yourself. Prepare your meal plan for the week the way you would tailor your workouts. Does she spot you in the gym? Get it together. Stop bitching about your commute or your job, we all have them, it's a tool that contributes to your success. Use this tool wisely. Your commute should be used either reading or listening to audio books, stop wasting your most precious resource. You should have engaged her …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 04:12 PM
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Awww Look at you, you're so cute with your peeing on your keyboard marking your territory and all. I asked you to provide your experiences. I don't care about your opinion much, young people do have stuff to offer you just haven't provided it so yes your opinion and any value to this community is nill. No need to reply any further..... On your way young man.....
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 01:44 AM
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Why are you here? Your comments and thread in general provide no valuable information whatsoever. You're 21years old. Right I get it, your brash, maybe you have a bunch of cooler guys to hang with(pack of alphas I guess), hell maybe even got your tip wet a few times, but what can you post of value that can help someone here. If the sidebar we preach is wrong, what do you have to offer anyone here to fix themselves. This sub is about content, where is yours? At 21 what life experiences can you sh…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 12:44 AM
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You need to check your SHBG, it binds to Test making it useless. That is why having a normal range means jack shit. You may be at 500, but with a high SHBG count attaching to it reduces the free test which is what you want to bring up. You need to check your Estradiol. You may be a high converter, which means you will end up with a less than desireable estrogen level as you increase your Test. Needs to be in the 20's, take an AI low dose at first to dial it in too low of an E number is worse tha…
/r/askMRP29/04/16 06:44 PM
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Stop begging for sex, spend more time away from her doing anything other than what you're doing(which is whining). Women have to want to chase you, if they have already caught you and feel no threat as to you leaving or sharing your commitment with another female they do not want to fuck you period. Sure you may get pity sex once and a while, you may even get mate guarding sex if she notices others eye fucking you, but for her to truly want to fuck you you have to care less. You also have to tak…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/16 12:38 PM
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What you do doesn't matter to anyone. Harsh isn't it? What matters is how you live your life and its meaning to you. You are looking to validate your life through external validation. Guess what? You will forever be miserable, if you put your happiness in the hands of others as they will always and I mean always disappoint you in one way or another. If you don't like being an accountant don't be one. If you think one weekend isn't enough go active. I for one commend you since even one weekend a …
/r/askMRP21/04/16 03:39 PM
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Most men that come here have one common issue, All of us need improvement. There are ways to better ourselves through many avenues such as lifting, reading, taking responsibility for your actions and proper leadership. What is fairly often never spoken about is the role communication plays in your daily relatonships. If as a man your integrity, your word means what it should mean, then stating your opinions, beliefs and boundaries should be an afterthought to you. When you swallow the pill and f…
/r/askMRP21/04/16 02:38 PM
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You failed to give your age. If she is past 40 good luck getting her ass in gear after all this time. Can you tell us if the relationship started with you as BB? If so you may not change her outlook. She only knows you as Beta Bob no matter how you improve. In fact she may really resent you after improving thinking "This guy had this in him the whole time and he brings it out now, when I am fat, drunk and lazy in this relationship. I cannot go chasing for a Chad at this stage of my life" Since y…
/r/askMRP19/04/16 02:33 AM
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You are not special and neither is she for that matter. Women know the implications of having a high N count, that is why they hide it. With every increase in the number the % of high quality men they may attract decreases. You have to get over the fact that higher SMV men(jacked as you say) have fucked your girl. She isn't your girl, it is just your turn. You however can decide how long the ride lasts by owning your shit, being the best possible man you can be and not giving a fuck if she stays…
/r/askMRP15/04/16 06:05 PM
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DaFuck? This is the second time in a week some thirsty ass MF wants to plate an LTR tgat is trying to branch swing. You guys dont get it. You are the plate not the other way around. She is obviously getting something from you(just as u would plate for sex), hint its not sex. You make her panties drier than the Sahara. How the fuck do you plate someone that has no sexual interest in you? U less your definition of plating is keeping her around to abuse you and take your time, validation and money.…
/r/askMRP12/04/16 06:37 PM
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You aren't gonna cut that much in 6 weeks. Your problem isn't in your Routine or Diet. You said you lost about 40lbs right, now 180lbs? On a 5'7" frame @ that weight you were quite obese. Your body is still evolving and learning to live on what you've already restricted it to as far as calories go. Based on this restriction your body will most likely be in fat storage mode(depending on how long you've been doing it). Trying to stay in Ketosis is hard on the body, drink plenty of water(gallon a d…
/r/askMRP11/04/16 09:58 PM
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Solid points... I would recommend using gloves with wrists straps though, grips minimum. Your hygeine can make up for rough hands, smooth your calluses. It won't however stop you from hurting your wrists and with the propensity of sedentery work being the norm most guys wrist already have some damage built in from computer/cubicle living..... I have found that going to department stores trying on clothes and then finding them through an online retailer with coupons to be the cheapest way of upgr…
/r/askMRP09/04/16 05:00 PM
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Stop this circling of the drain. It is over already who cares if she knows you know. Wipe her phone, go no contact and go find someone new after you have improved yourself. You are way to emotionally invested at this point, anything other than no contact will hurt you long term......... Cut your losses
/r/askMRP09/04/16 04:48 PM
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Holy Shit, you are exceptionally retarded aren't you. You ask for advice and then don't follow it. You get advice, don't like the advice you get, do something diffrent then you'll come back complaining about how horribly it worked out. WTF? I usually stop in the first instance, but it is obvious you need to be pounded on a bit. So I will give some quick bullets...... Why not give all the information out firsthand and stop trickling out the facts so people can help you. Again we will try this....…
/r/askMRP09/04/16 04:46 PM
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Friend, I am sorry to say it is already over. If she agreed to a meeting she has grabbed the next branch. If you aren't living with her go no contact. Literally not even a word. Block numbers, social media, everything. This will hurt her more than any word you could ever mutter. It hurts, it sucks, but you showing up at the meeting will only hurt you and not her cause she gives no fucks about your feelings. Not to mention what you did to her phone is illegal, so don't post it on Fece Book. Be a …
/r/askMRP09/04/16 03:24 AM
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WTF can you not communicate? What you do with your time is yours, set your boundaries. Pass her comfort test, she is witholding sex as her last card, once it is played she either walks or submits. Like her, Love her even but maintain your control over your emotions. Tell her you are secure in your relationship and if she has ussues they are hers alone. You were fine before she sucked your dick and you'll be fine after, everything in the middle is slippery goodness.........
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 09:29 PM
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Wow, I guess this really is a thing now. I thought it was just some nonsense from TV. $250 for a $40 bottle of booze(probably an old bottle filled with shit alcohol, know your bar margins). Here is what you should do. Pick up the tab for the party that you promised your little princess, have her get liquored up and then you can leave and let her find some strange.... That sounds like a great present, don't you think? You get what you want(being a provider), she gets what she wants(having you pay…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/16 04:46 AM
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When you finally come to the realization you're alone out here, it stings at first. You're a man and unfortunately the path you travel is lonely, but every once and a while you run into a friend or meet someone intriguing along the way. But godddamn it's so fucking good to be a man. Think about that for a minute, you are the best apex predator this world has ever seen. You're a decendent from people who tamed the entire animal kingdom and shaped a planet to your needs. You can mske fire, you can…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/16 03:55 AM
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Final word! She is cheating......... Any and I mean any instance where she doesn't shut it down with a hard no and stop contacting me, she gets nexted. Are you fucking serious? What are you gonna wait for a slip trip or fall accident on his dick. You control your feelings and have the upperhand knowing she is just about touching the next branch. Break that motherfucking limb she is standing on.... If indeed she thinks of you as better than him, but still craves his attention you widow her ass ye…
/r/askMRP06/04/16 04:20 PM
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Here's the problem, you don't offer her a ticket with conditions. WTF? It is your responsibility to plan the evening. Secure the sitter, make dinner reservations, tell her what to wear and even fucking order for her if necessary. You are not leading properly. How is she expected to follow you if you abandon her at the smallest obstacle. Would your chief tell you "Hey you're going to the promotion board next month, but only if you can guess what you'll be tested on". No he is gonna tell you what …
/r/askMRP05/04/16 01:38 AM
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Stop tickling other Guys kids....... That's just wrong and maybe illegal........
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 12:31 AM
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The reason she.......... Awww Fuck it, you wouldn't understand the logic anyways so we will fast forward to advice....... Stop eating shit(figuratively and literally), lift shit up and put it back down, Read the fucking sidebar, distance equals attraction. Even if you have little value in her eyes, the more time you spend away from her the bigger the wheel becomes that her hamster has to turn. Either that or it will give her an opportunity to get some dick, which obviously she's lacking....... A…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 12:26 AM
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It's not your fault, any conversation you have had with a woman is perpetual. There was a start to it, but no end. It always continues from the last point in the conversation no matter how long the interval. It is the center of the universe mindest. Everything and everyone within her sphere orbits around her and should take notice of where she is and when you last spoke and what about. I usually deflect with "Put the crazy away for 5 and lets start from the top" or "Who have you been talking to …
/r/askMRP02/04/16 06:46 PM
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Shit talking and sarcasm are still here, it just isn't found in a cubicle. It's all about the environment you choose to spend your time in. Learn a skilled trade in a male dominated field and the thick skinned approach to life and the camaraderie built from that interaction grows.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 06:03 AM
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"Who is this?"
/r/askMRP02/04/16 05:52 AM
1

1 gram of protein per lb lean body mass. Keep carbs under 65 grams a day(get them from veggies, no pasta or bread) rice is ok but I wouldnt even touch that in the beginning. Fats 75 grams a day light olive oil, coconut oil etc. Gallon of water per day. You'll have to count your cals in the beginning and if you can stick to a basic bland diet after awhile on a keto based diet you'll know what food you need to consume just by looking at it. Chicken, Brocoli, Water Once you find your target and sti…
/r/askMRP31/03/16 01:10 AM
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Your diet matters more than your lifts. Hell you could do body weight exercises and have a nice physique if your diet is on..... You just won't be swollen
/r/askMRP30/03/16 05:44 AM
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You seek validation because it is nice to get, makes you feel special. Mommy used to do it, so we got used to it, crave it even but your relationship isn't a mommy son relationship. You wouldn't wanna fuck Mommy and she doesn't wanna be your Mom...... You are not a special snowflake.... Your validation should be that you get to lay your head down on your pillow at the end of the day knowing you earned it. You cannot get that from someone else.... Cut the cord......... If you have this much time …
/r/askMRP30/03/16 04:59 AM
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In my house if she initiates before I do something is wrong. I must be off my game or my nuts got clipped.......
/r/askMRP30/03/16 04:51 AM
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It is not whether you're happy with marriage or your marriage per say. It is a question of if you are happy with yourself being married. I've been together with my wife for almost 18 years, married for for 14 and the longer it goes on the easier it is to walk away. We are friends(sounds gay), we get along great, she makes 6 figures(as do I), shares in chores(does more actually) and tries for the most part to put the 100% of her half each of us are required to put in to make a relationship work. …
/r/askMRP27/03/16 01:30 AM
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Best: Kill your Ego, Own your Life(its the only one you'll get), If it doesn't add value remove it...... Worst: Teenagers posting nonsense, read more post less, stop clogging threads......
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 03:04 AM
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Pay no mind Lube Hamsters gonna run......
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 05:39 PM
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You answered your question with your first sentence. You have to get back into lifting? If you aren't maxing out your current self taking anything isn't going to help you. I am on the other side of 40 too and yes it is hard as fuck to do, but is doable. Do not even consider taking any drugs until you have a solid year in the gym and this is after your diet and bf% are at acceptable levels. If you start a cycle you will get fatter, your blood will be fucked and it could have bad implications late…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 02:47 PM
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You are speaking of your personal preference, using your logic, derived from your life experiences. I agree women can grow and build value, but they don't need to lime men do. I am simply stating a woman can get through life on her looks alone far easier than a man. By that I mean her value is assigned to her by men willing to pay to obtain her. If you subscribe to the theory that men exchange resources and commitment for sex this is a valid statement.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/16 06:32 PM
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There should always be a disclaimer of sorts posted with every thread of this nature. There is a lot of opinions here that aren't based on real world experiences, not that literature isn't bad to reference but every person is different on both a psychological and physiological level. I had mine tested since I felt the same way, with a lagging tiredness, no morning wood, no energy or appetite for quite a while. I've been tested at least 6 times by different primary care Dr's in 4 years. All came …
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 05:30 PM
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Life is unfair, we all know it. Men are not born with any value, we are disposable and have to build our wealth as men. Women are born with an innate value wholy bequeathed to them by us males. As you've read on this sub numerous times their value is short term, like a very risky pool of investments. They need to get the most return in a short period of time unlike men who if invested in properly will pay dividends for the forseeable future. If she believes that she chose you(IE you were lower o…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/16 05:41 PM
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Definition of Vagina: The Box A Penis Comes In!
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 09:02 PM
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+1 Funny as shit!
/r/askMRP14/03/16 02:31 AM
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Girls far and away are much more expensive. Establishing a male on his journey in this life to me isn't as expensive since he has to find his value. Even if you provide a pure RP upbringing he will not understand the value of the torture it is to be a man until the pain is felt. To ensure she will have what she needs, I need to provide college and influence her as much as possible to pick a career that is financially rewarding. I also instruct them to never owe their welfare to someone else. It …
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 10:46 PM
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I have all girls, too many. They're crazy, erratic, illogical, emotional messes at times. But every once and a while you get that idolized worship from them. Every once and a while you become a god in their eyes. No you don't need the validation, acceptance, etc. It's a role we play as men, some wanna play, some don't some are good and some are bad. Am I broke yup! But I knew that going in, am I tired sometimes, yup but I knew that too. In the end it doesn't matter I enjoy them. They are my bloo…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 08:15 PM
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I put together a rediculously bland routine that worked for me. Hell trying to stick to it, if you like food that is. 1lb chicken breast= 440cal. 92 g protein If chicken breast is too expensive chicken legs and thighs 139/206 and 17.5/ 20g protein respectively. Bulk buying us the way to go. 1cup cooked shrimp 209 cal and 40g protein 2 carbs. Again on sale only, too damn expensive. 1lb of brocoli 154 cal 30g carbs(11g fiber, so total net carbs are 19g) 12 g protein. Cheap as hell, everyone hates …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/16 02:25 PM
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Can you provide a source for the archetypes you listed? Betas: Seeks love through purchasing? What if you're broke? Most seek love through belonging(like Omegas just a tad higher on looks earning potential scale, a second choice after the CC riding has ended) and service to others. The originators of the covert contracts. If I do X she'll love me more or give me more access to sex. Why would you think Sigmas aren't Alphas? Every piece of literature out there I've read indicates the Sigma may not…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 03:24 PM
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You have your first example wrong. The QB is the annointed alpha of the team. The fans blindly follow the team and the game. However the owner isn't the sigma, he could very well be the Beta Bucks in any relationship listed here. The Sigma is the flashy WR! Doesn't have to lead the team, enjoys the rewards of associating with the Alpha and knows the Alpha would not have his success without him. He gets energized by his limited time in the limelight after the catch, yet willingly gives the attent…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 04:19 AM
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If you are smart you will use this time of no sexual contact to get your ass snipped lickety split. As it was mentioned get a vasectomy before you end up paying for a third kid. She wants one and the biological clock overrules any semblence of logic during ovulation. Turn up the wick on your dread machine. You aren't getting any anyway, go out and have some platonic fun while spending quality time without her. She won't know either way and keep the V to yourself. Dont play the trump card until y…
/r/askMRP03/03/16 05:43 AM
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He'll learn soon enough. In the real world threats aren't broadcasted. What would he do if said Beta cracked the head off his snapple bottle and stuck it in his fucking neck. He'd be whimpering little girl cries as he bled out on the cafeteria floor.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 06:54 PM
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First off, none of this is your fault. There are broken people in this world and there is nothing you can do about it. Second, it sounds like you have accepted this and that is a first step in your recovery. It is a long journey of whys and hows. Why would someone do this? How could anyone not see it happening. You cannot change the past, you can only control how you move forward. Third, Is this man still alive? Is this still a burden you carry or does your family know. You should not have to lu…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 03:57 AM
1

We've all been there, it sucks being the romantic part of this species but at least you know what the deal is. It isn't an us vs them or a game with a fixed outcome, it just is what it is. Unfortunately as men we sometimes do not understand that a woman can be your kryptonite and unless you stay away from it, your power over yourself becomes compromised.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 09:27 PM
2

An Adda-dick-to-me. Sounds like he needs one...... Give some less fucks. The military in general is tougher to ply your trade since it is all competition all the time. Plus the Navy I know from friends is tough if you are on a cruise. That means you have to game everything in a 6 month window. Kind of like farming sow your field, harvest your crops then try to last till next crop season. Or hit a port of call and pay for some gash..... If you are land based there is no excuse to not expand your …
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 12:12 PM
2

Leaders don't just lead only when they need to. In the absence of true leadership, the sheep will listen to anyone. Natural leaders are tinkerers. They pick apart things in life to determine how they fit together that way they can fix it when it breaks(it always breaks). Leaders are tactful, get people to do what you want and have them feel good about doing it. Anyone can direct, a leader is someone that can fix the chaotic mess that has happened after the situation became FUBAR'd. There are nat…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/16 06:03 PM
2

Look at the bright side, your child will grow up knowing what the example of a man should look like. You can now be a great Father not because of her, but in spite of her. I often feel the same as you, a deal entered under prior conditions may not survive the transition to an RP lifestyle..... Good luck to you
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/16 03:04 AM
3

WTF? This doesn't help anybody. Lock it!
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 01:48 AM
1

Surprised her fantasy hasn't come crashing down yet. Guess it will when the new guy ditches her. Unfortunately she will probably make her return to your area when this happens. Good for you, I am happy your outcome differs from the norm...... Enjoy your children......
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 03:07 AM
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Living a clean life, having a proper diet and exercise goes a long way in helping keep estrogen in check. This means eating lots of animal protein and fresh vegetables, at least your weight in ounces in water a day(I purchase natural spring water in bulk, I don't drink from the tap) and exercising daily. Some studies indicate large daily doses of soy may play a role in converting free Testosterone to Estrogen. Don't heat your food up in plastic containers. Free range chicken and grass fed beef i…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 03:01 AM
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Join MRP, the advice you will get IMHO will be tailored more to your needs. I enjoy both subs, for different reasons, but feel the information for the married men and fathers found there will suit you better.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 08:41 PM
1

When she says"You don't respect my feelings". Are you sure you are not confusing her woman speak as opinions, thoughts or ideas? Please provide a context. Is the shit test about you or something you do or do not do? Women will say" you don't respect my feelings", but what she really means is you don't respect my opinion or ideas. In general women communicate through emotions, it is up to you to decipher. Take the info from your first mate, give it its due process and decide how best to use it or…
/r/askMRP15/02/16 08:17 PM
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NJ is one of the worst, for paternity. Forced paternity is here to stay. There are a tremendous amount of presumptions regarding the paternity of a child. Here is some of them from our friends in the NJ legislature. Can't post a link and as usual the bill is too damn long..... a. A man is presumed to be the father of a child if: he and the mother of the child are married to each other and the child is born during the marriage; he and the mother of the child were married to each other and the chi…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 09:11 PM
5

HaHa, this! He will quietly wreck your party and leave his scent on your carpet..........
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 03:51 PM
1

If I was in your position I would have a pros and cons list. You have to see if she adds value to you and your relationship. You kid will always be your kid, stop using it as a crutch. Since you run the finances, have your cell phone provider send you a detailed 6 month billing cycle. You will see how many times she was texting a particular number. Take her phone if she has an iphone and back it up and restore the deleted messages. To be fair if my gut feeling was as yours I'd want to know too. …
/r/askMRP06/02/16 02:17 PM
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Come up with a better one or STFU! Add something constructive........
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 02:18 PM
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Being attractive is an attribute, not pre-selection. It will open the door, but that is about it. Take this example: Grown Ups 2 the wives are hanging beside the pool checking out a young, ripped 20 something male. They look at his muscles, check his pkg. If you have seen the movie you know what happens next. He opens his mouth and a little girls voice pops out, laughter ensues. Taking his looks at face value only says he can close any of those wives(yeah I know bad example since they aren't wor…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 01:17 AM
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TRP is Amoral. Don't judge the man for enjoying what was freely given to him. She knew she was in a relationship, she could have decided not to cheat but her emotional high mattered more. On a side note to his tattoo remarks as being undisciplined is silly as he sees them from his point of view only and as such shows a closed minded approach to broader conceptualized thinking. IMHO for me its an expression of my ideas, thoughts and lifes journey. I got my first one in the Army years ago and just…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 07:25 PM
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I am right there with you, time will tell whether this will last or not. For me the view from the top is murky at best and it is getting harder to see her from here. MRP is the training behind being the best juggler you can be. It is about juggling your career vs how much you see your SO(lots of comfort tests when you are putting in the hours to better yourself professionally). It is about juggling your passions and hobbies as a man with responsibilities at home independent of what she thinks(de…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/16 02:05 AM
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Just next her already! You're so much better than her..... As a man you have a natural instinct to navigate, hunt, kill, protect and govern. OK, I think this is what you were fishing for........ PS you now owe me a dollar for feeding your stoopid fucking hamster!
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/16 01:14 AM
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I give you a lot of credit, I can walk away from almost anything except paternity. All bets are off and her life would never be the same again after cucking me. Then again I am a scorched earth kind of guy . I commend you on taking the responsibility of raising her seriously and hope you can build yourself into what you want.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/16 01:50 AM
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Your statement here proves you do not even understand the role of men in a community, let alone women. I have very few friends I consider brothers. Ones that can come cry to me and vice verse and would think nothing of it for he is my brother. If they called at 3am I would have to put my boots on no matter what stupid thing they did to put him in the need for my help. If you have not found a man like this in your life, you need to grow personal relationships more. You aren't gay for sharing your…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 03:36 AM
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I am assuming you're a Troll, but just in case you are not I will take a shot...... At 19 you may have the building blocks to be high value. It is quite rare for someone so young to put it all together as the journey has just started for you.... Stop looking for validation from a woman! They do not want you to share your feels. No woman you are fucking wants to be your Mom. Looking for that emotional bond you didn't get from your Mom in a girlfriend or wife is going to ruin you. It sucks, it is …
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 02:19 AM
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Unfortunately you can only legislate so much. The physical more dominate part of a species always wins. Lets not get our panties in a bunch. The pendulum never swings back to the center after traveling far left. It always has to travel just as far in the opposite direction. She even said it, the 20's and 60's. It will return back to the status quo. It is up to the men with children to educate his offspring so the balance of life can be enjoyed and not ridiculed......
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 08:40 PM
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Getting back with an ex is pointless. Lead your children, take her back to court for custody. Have your kids speak to professionals and have it documented how unhappy they are at your wife's house. Whatever you do, do not go back to a poisoned well. Imagine getting on a plane and it crashes and you were the only survivor. Would you walk back into the terminal and get on another flight with the same airline?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/16 04:59 PM
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"Expect the worst and you'll never be disappointed" It doesn't matter, we all know what a woman is capable of. Take your turn, you may be one of the lucky ones to get sick of riding the roller coaster before she does......
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 03:26 AM
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Bust one out in the morning, by the time night rolls around you'll be ready for number 2 but it will take longer...... That or think of your Grandma going to poundtown!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/16 03:21 AM
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This is why you find a hole in the wall gym for you and not a pussy, prancing, princess, plant churning out a used up commodity for thirsty losers. Anybody that invested to get sub 10% BF is likely more worried about his effort in the gym than what ass is running around in it. Thankfully enough the gym I go to has neither so zoning in on my routine is easy.....
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 02:56 AM
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You will realize that this is just beginning of the anger meter. It does get worse. You will get to the level where your SMV is way ahead of hers and her hamster will spool up to try to keep pace with your ascension. She will workout, she will start to dress better and you are gonna say "fuck where was this effort the whole time". Guess what, after that phase comes the "shit, look at him I better start fucking him before someone else does". All sorts of new activities and adventures will be on t…
/r/askMRP23/01/16 02:09 AM
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Add everyone from your previous account and close it. No need to explain it to anyone, A&A.... "My new friends are too cool to play Dungeons and Dragons(or whatever other NERD game is up your alley)so I needed to expand my list" "Trying to get jnto the Guiness book for largest Circle Jerk, wanna film it?" The more outlandish the better. I personally would ignore it and let it die its due death......
/r/askMRP21/01/16 11:18 PM
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Here is a question for you from all of us. Why did you reopen your previous facebook account? If we wanted to hear from your woman we can just message her. A lot of guys come here with questions, what ifs, advice requests but only give us 10% of the problem to work with. If it was to get some attention/ validation from old flames and conquests good for you! Your hamster still needs his food. Not good if you are looking for improvement though. When you finally kill or starve that lil fucker to de…
/r/askMRP21/01/16 09:53 PM
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I have daughters and I can only impart the knowledge gained in my life to them to hopefully influence their future choices. Unfortunately, Fathers today want to be friends more than Fathers. What I mean by that is around 14 or 15 a discussion needs to happen about sex that destroys your Father Princess relationship and turns you into just another guy. She doesn't need all your glory tales just the value of them. This in addition to your SO's reinforcement of these ideas hopefully leads you and t…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 08:24 AM
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From the sounds of it, despite your improvements whether realized or invented she is still in the mindset of you being beneath her. Be 100% honest, were you below her SMV wise when you got together. Some may say it shouldn't matter, but it is harder to become an Alpha when she has only known you to be a Beta, no matter your gains. I got news for you Sport! She wants to be treated like a piece of meat, she wants to have her ass slapped and her pussy sore the next day from hard sex just not from s…
/r/askMRP18/01/16 05:57 PM
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Unless you can possibly find a way to secure the majority of your assets with her signature prior to getting involved with her again you'd be a fool. I give you lots of credit for your composure in tough times, learn from that experience and use it here with your decision. If she truly has had a change of heart approach her with a post nuptual agreement outlining any future cheating and the dire financial predicament it would put her in. If she balks you know it is all bullshit and use anything …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/16 02:48 AM
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I call this bullshit, but I am white so I haven't walked in anyone's shoes. The game is about SMV. In short Money, Sex, Power! Max yourself out, period! Do you think women care you have slanted eyes if you show up in a Ferrari? Do you think women care you have an accent if you show up with an entourage or you are sitting at an A list celebrity table? Do you think women care if you are bald if you are jacked, dress well, spit game like a player? Get out of your comfort zone! You know how I know r…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 03:22 AM
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Those are not TRP things! Now get back under your Bridge........
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 03:01 AM
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I choose the tickle method, takes my wife right back to being 11 or 12 years old where the stress of life hadn't come yet. I don't mean play tickle either, when she gets sour and pissy I will hold her down and tickle the shit out of her to she almost pisses herself. At this point she has no more energy left to put into the drama machine so it turns off. Worth a shot, try and add it to your aresenal and see what happens. Remember they are all little girls inside.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 11:38 PM
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Absolutely, initiate everyday even during shark week. Get her used to you having what all men need daily and when it doesn't happen that day or that night she is the one wondring why the norm has changed.. Never worry about yesterday, you cannot change it.....
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 02:26 PM
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Stop validating yourself, we in here subscribe and require brutal honesty. Seriously and I say this direct with only a hunt of malice since you still are denying the truth "She wants to FUCK him" she will fuck him and come running back to you cause you're the nice guy.... Stop being a nice guy, fist her and send her on her way. JK! Just next her, no contact next her. Hamster will hit hit light speed
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 04:34 AM
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5 to 1 she dates the creep within 6 months. Congrats on getting your pass though...BSC avoided Hand out a few tickets to the girls that wanna ride your CC....
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 09:03 PM
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WTF is with the recent victim puke drunk posting here. You know what helps the pill go down easier? Actually swallowing it. Stop drinking, for a month, week, day and evaluate whether you can stop at all. She is not attracted to you, why would she be after 1 month really? It took me a year of 7X/wk in the gym to get my body back and for her tingles to ramp up. You can read all you want, fake it til you make it, but until you start looking the part she will not want you. The question you need to a…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/16 03:32 PM
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Stop drunk posting. Explain you value your own integrity and wouldn't break your word on your commitment to her. Explain how you value gender defined roles in relationships and how well they work as long as the man is holding his end of the relationship up(which lets face it, usually it is 90% of the work involved). Explain these points on the other side of her ovulation cycle..... She may be more receptive...... Good Luck, maybe you will keep your shit high and tight from now on Fucker.....
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/16 02:58 PM
1

Skydiving! Although not exclusively male the people are usually awesome once they know you are into getting certified and want to put in the time to learn. If you live in a socialist state like mine grabbing a few buds to shoot with at a local range takes half the day right there. Sprint triathalons, make a weekend of it drive to where one is being held.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/16 11:14 PM
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If only the hair restoration technology out there now was available 16 years ago when I first shaved my head. Ive wasted more on Beer in that timeframe than it would of cost to do a high end surgery twice(norwood 4-5). If you have decent coverage in the back of your head transplant it. I have been shaving for years, have a perfectly round, dentless head and like being bald in the summer, but I've always missed my hair & wouldn't mind having it back not for someone elses benefit but for my own. I…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 10:35 PM
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Be more aggressive with him. Dig your nails in bite the shit out of him, make him react in an aggressive manner. Don't tell him u want it rougher, take the approach that you were so into it you couldn't help yourself. When riding him grab is hand and smack your upper thigh. Take his hands and have him pinch your nipples together, letting him know you like it as he applies more pressure. From behind tell him to lift one leg up, he will be able to dive deeper even if he intentionally doesn't mean …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/16 04:08 AM
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As your body digests and absorbs the water it interacts with the lemon in the water(called anionsand will become more alkaline during this process. The 3 main ways of bringing up the ph is drops, baking soda and lemon(fresh pressed lemon not processed juice). I have a link I can send you for a good read.....
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 05:33 PM
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I think it is more prevelent in older established women because they have usually locked down the resources from their Beta that is needed at this point. They also have a better idea of their value in the SMP and what they can get for it as opposed to a younger girl who is unsure of her value and carelessly slinging their pussy around.... However, the need for validation is still there for them even as they age and since they don't get enough of it post wall they crave it that much more... Comin…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 10:24 PM
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First thing you are taught here is that you can't negotiate desire. She has a connection to this man for a reason she isn't sharing with you. Sounds like she was alpha widowed to me. If I get the math right she was 18 when you got together(29-11yrs). If so this is a classic example of missing her chance to ride the carousel. She started to young and settled down and now is bored, but could have wanted him or had him before you and is trying to relive her wonder years. Did she settle with you? Th…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/15 09:44 PM
2

I dont see a huge bulk from one pic to the next. Taking T and lifting will bulk you but it also improves the gains in thise areas that arent supposed to be huge such as traps that look like mountains and hugw forearms which he doesn't have. He was already lean just looks like he added some more muscle and cut the ither 5% of BF. Staying in ketosis will shred you but going to deep without nutrition will start to erode muscle.... Damn respectable either way.....
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 08:50 PM
1

See definition of cunning and smart they are quite different..... Women marry up not down, yes my SO is pretty but still below my SMV. Guess I am not of high value since she has the examples I put forth or I am the male unicorn and she married down. Guess this wont work... Sounds like you work at McD's, of course you banging the afternoon shift manager isn't going to be the same equivalent but hey keep gutter diving. As you said you're a kid and I felt the same way at your age running around the…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 03:22 AM
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You gave pretty much no info other than you lease together somewhere to live. Does she work? SAHM? Who is the bread winner? Were you Beta turned RP or Alpha Beta RP. It goes a long way giving the info needed to offer quality advice. For example, if she always saw you as Beta from the start of your relationship it will ne tougher to kill the frequency of shit tests as she knew you in your Blue days and fears going back as opposed to being Alpha turned Beta and finding the pill. Anyways, honestly …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 12:24 AM
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Wow, you really have it all wrong don't you. You sound like an early 20's take my ball and go home brat. Unless I am getting this wrong you have no children right? Until you have one you will never understand the fulfillment you get from Fatherhood. No it isn't an idealic notion we have or a blind view of the world. We know the world for what it is and operate within it. It is a birthrite as a man to raise another human, investing in them and seeing the fruits of your labor. What do you want as …
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 03:48 AM
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What it means is you double down on you and pass an extra comfort test or two for 30 weeks straight. It means you cannot track her cycle(there is none). It means sex is there for you but it is" tell me I am beautiful first" sex. It means your mind reading skills will be tested. The downfall however is that as her body morphs into something she despises any increase of your SMV will be twofold. The cheating accusations will increase, the pleas for you to not go to the gym will come about. Ignore …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/15 03:12 AM
1

Overblown? Possibly, so what you are saying is that if you are open and honest and completely upfront to a perspective sexual partner that you have herpes it will not impact whether you sleep with her. What about once it gets out to her social circles( if you run in them)that isn't going to ruin your social life? The flip side..... Think about for a second, that you meet a girl while out You chat, light touching ensues you go to close she says she has herpes you still gonna get your dick wet? Or…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 05:46 AM
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Really, please read on what herpes is and the difference between 1 and 2. A large percentage has simplex 1 dealing with oral cold sores mostly. 2 is worse in that most sores are found around the rectum and vagina(genitalia). 1 could lead to sores on genitals but most often not. But go ahead and not worry about it........ I like not having open sores on my dick......
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 06:06 PM
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Don't forget Herpes, guaranteed to ruin any social life you have the rest of your life....
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 02:47 PM
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WTF? Have you been eating paste in school this whole time, you clearly are retarded. I've got a sleeve on my arm, does that mean that I am owned by a Puerto Rican tatoo artist? What a fucktard..... You could be the councilman of Retardville, hell even mayor. Take your fucking helmet off, collect your crayons and get back to work........
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 04:59 AM
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Ignore it, @ this stage she does hate you. It sucks i have been through it 3 times, it takes a while for them to feel like a woman again and not be on protecting the cub mode 24/7. A&A her shit test about sex. "If you truly felt that way, how come your panties were always soaked when we first got together?" Calmly ask her if this will be a permanent thing? I know if my wife ever said that shit to me she would be standing at the door watching me get into a car that a younger hotter woman is drivi…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 04:52 AM
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+1000 here. Monitor her SSN. A marriage is a business decision. Either she deposits all ofbher money into an account you manage and put her on a stipend or split everything 50%. Keep in mind though that if you divorce she will be entitled to your money because you have saved more so "HIDE YOUR FUCKING MONEY" I will not go into how to do it but it is possible and quite legal.....
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 04:25 AM
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Veteran of three here, it is a long haul. Only after the 3rd did the sex come back, but this had a multiplier called TRP. Keep working on you, she either falls inline or you leave.....
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 04:19 AM
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Other than her out of control spending, allowed by your drunken captaincy is she worth it? You say she is fat have you been improving? Is she mirroring your actions(working out). That is a tell tale sign, when your SMV skyrockets she will try to keep up, but like every woman she will falter. They aren't made for it, they cannot keep up. Now to fix your problem. It sounds like she has access to your money and that shouldn't be. Split your accounts. A common account for rent or mortgage and utilit…
/r/askMRP23/12/15 04:12 AM
1

Assured desruction I am sorry but you dont get it. It sux I know. You may have read a little, internalized some of what you digested, but you are in purgatory. Let me be blunt. Unfuck yourself, let me say it again "YOU NEED TO UNFUCK YOURSELF" You are seeking validation from a woman, if you cannot see how far away you are from swallowing this pill we cannot help you. Live your life, she can only add to it.....
/r/askMRP21/12/15 11:38 PM
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Unfortunately, what you fail to understand is they don't want to have sex for the sake of having sex. This is true especially if it is with their Blue balled husbands. However, your statement about wanting an alpha is incorrect also as the requirement to gain access to the pussy isn't being Red but just a lighter shade of Blue. You just need to be slightly better than their SO's.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 02:36 AM
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Go to the gym without her. Pack a bag, then do not come home. Call her mid afternoon and say you ran into an old friend and are going for drinks. Go NC and enjoy your night. Tittly bar, movie, hell go to the gala without her and flirt your ass off do anything you want. Come gome late that night hopefully you'll have some stripper glitter on you and initiate hard. Turn her over, reach under her chin hold her tightly and rail her. Hit the shower right after and continue to act as if nothing happen…
/r/askMRP20/12/15 12:25 AM
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Who cares, keep your name. For me the ultimate act of betrayal is being cucked into raising some other man's child. That would be dealt with unimaginable consequences. Then again if your woman knew you were capable of these actions from the beginning, that alone goes along way to keeping it from happening. It doesn't stop it cause AWALT and Hypergamy has ruined even the strongest Alpha relationships, but then at least she knew what the outcome would be she just chose to ignore it.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/15 03:17 AM
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Here is an easy answer for you. "Up your game and get a bitch that will suck your dick like she is paying off a debt" Divorce is in your future and as a man you should be ok with it.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 03:10 AM
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You kinda sound like a dick! Hey, it works for you so have at it. Don't get butt hurt when she tella you she startwd cuddling with one of her Beta Orbiters..... Food for thought
/r/askMRP16/12/15 10:57 PM
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Research pelvic floor prolapse. Suggest Kegels and if all else fails surgery to tighten the vaginal opening. Communication is on you, be a man an address the issue. If you are her top alpha she will work on the issue And it also helps her with bladder control......(kegels)
/r/askMRP16/12/15 10:53 PM
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So you described what seems to be at least a high status plate if not an LTR material woman, ask yourself "What did you do to fuck this up?" At least you have the starting point for your journey...
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 09:08 AM
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And you say you're a friend! Keeping this shit from him is really low. You should've fcuked her. Either way you aren't doing him any favors. It is just as bad cause she is going to fuck someone and you could at least give him the knowledge of what is to come whether or not he wants to follow it. Tell the man, when they break up you can nail her later....
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 11:44 PM
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Find a girl to plate with her name. Easier to disassociate her face with the name.... JK Dont do this! Ok do it but tell any of us here.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 01:01 AM
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What the hell were you thinking of LTR'ing a 17 yr old @ 21? No matter your choice, but young women with little experience although easy to tame at first wander more as they age and boredom sets in. To answer your question, nothing. Mate guarding is weak. Ask yourself this question. If she were to cheat would you be done? Flat out, no contingencies, no ifs, not oh the kids. If this is anything other than a yes, you should fix that problem first. Fixing the first problem will nullify the 2nd.....…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 12:48 AM
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From the sounds of it I f she even fucks you, you're the one going to be plated. You have Oneitis it is clear to me and I am sure others will call you out on it. This sub is brutally honest so my opinion which means dick is for you to go no contact, even when you go back ignore her or truly friendzone her and plate other women. She has power over you, she knows it, you know it. By sticking your dick in her that emotional bond she has created between will be strengthened and yet more power relinq…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 06:36 PM
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Nothing, why do you care? These friends of yours if they are High value aren't looking for your wife. She is just displaying her nature subconciously. If she wants to cheat she will, you cannot stop it no matter how jacked you are. This is clear by her showing interest in two seperate men. What you don't get is that If she was with the first guy she would still have followed the second guy, it just is that way. You obviously haven't mastered OI. I would of laughed at her after doeing after him w…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/15 06:22 PM
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This is long but it may help someone. My schedule is fcuked. I work shift 12hrs swapping from days to nights and vice versa so the gains came more slowly(never more than 5 hrs of sleep on my best night). January 2015 I was 197lbs and carrying it on a 5'6 ish frame hurt. By August I was 153.5lbs and around 12%BF. Not huge, but a defined physique. Here is what I did: Lifted 5 days a week not consecutive all the time but as my schedule let me. Cardio everyday! Nothing great 2 to 3 miles at first, a…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 03:46 AM
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Well played, I am surprised she left. Good for you. I have more than a half dozen friends this has happened to and while not the norm it seems that women are now more often leaning towards leaving their children. Which is awesome since they are so fcuked in the head at least you have the shot at raising them properly... Continue to improve
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/15 07:56 PM
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Don't get married(least of all to a 22 year old). LTR fine, but why would you agree to wager half of your shit for the sake of a commitment which lets face it isn't iron clad with any woman. That being said here is the perfect time to test out your SMV. Be the person you want to be, if she stays great if she goes great. The outcome is the same. Unfortunately you are hooked already and will end up back here after your honeymoon phase is over in your new marriage asking the same questions or how t…
/r/askMRP11/12/15 02:56 PM
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t's an arbitrary number equating to a substandard effort on her part. You can make it half or any other number you want based on perceived effort, but letting her know that starfish sex isn't acceptable. I've personally used this vernacular along with "I expected a better effort and left the room". The trick is not to get her to commit more effort to the current event, but to supercharge her hamster from the rejection and how her lack of effort caused it.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/15 06:18 AM
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Burn that Fcukin letter, then piss on it, then slap yourself upside the head. Maybe you'll understand then your feelings on how things went or what you feel mean as much as the ashes from that letter. Ignore her, spend the time with your child, you are the only one that can keep her grounded and while not totally immune to the draw of the carousel at least a better shot with you as her alpha. Don't spend time with her and your SO, daddy daughter day as I call it releases huge bonding hormones in…
/r/askMRP08/12/15 05:42 AM
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I dont know of any studies since in the modern age our govt system all but extinguished the true competition in the SMP as it was when we were a more physical population. This has enabled Hypergamy to flourish out in the open with the threat of severe punishment if males try to contain it, usially at the hands of a weaker feminist enabled male population that wouldn't otherwise be able to exist in that marketplace. I ask though what is the possibility that once hypergamy is contained or nullifie…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 09:46 PM
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Remember you kicked her to the curb, why should you feel bad? You are the HMFIC, you run shit. All she has to offer to anyone was spent with the first dick she took. It is a depreciating asset from there on out, yours only goes up from here.......
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 03:21 AM
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Flip the script! She wants to be validated and chased well you can do both. When she starts to go starfish, you pull away kiss her on the forehead and go do what you want. No butthurt, no feelings. She will chase you at that point. You tell her " I don't want 30% of you I want all of you" and then reject her. The hamster kicks it down a gear to climb that feelings hill. You're implying she is valued which is what she wants, but your time is worth more. She cannot grasp the calculation of you bei…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/15 03:12 AM
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You're on the right track, stay strong and STFU. If she does hook up with anyone the outcome is still the same. You'll be a better you in no time.....
/r/askMRP01/12/15 02:28 PM
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Stop Fuckin Talking! Stop Fuckin Talking! Stop Fuckin Talking! Holy MotherFucking Jesus In Heaven! Stop talking to her, you're seeking validation to fill that empty hole in your mangina. Lift, Run, Run some fucking more. Run so fuckin hard you puke. Have you ever thrown up from putting everything into an effort before? If you haven't you haven't tapped the potential of what you are as a man. No this isn't some feel good reverse psycho pep talk, you truly need to unfuck yourself and it starts wit…
/r/askMRP01/12/15 03:45 AM
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Fuckin awesome choice Bro! I miss the service all the time. Here are some thoughts for the Army. If you are going Army Reserve I would go 38B(Civil Affairs) although may be rank/grade restricted. Mortuary Affairs is a great 150k/yr career when you get out and go through formal training little morbid. Lineman, plumber, welder all have skills and are 100k/yr jobs in major metro areas. Active Duty is tougher since all the skilled support jobs have been moved to the reserve component. Prime Power is…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 08:27 PM
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One of my favorite rules to live by is "Never argure with an idiot, they'll drag you down to their level and beat you with experience" Next her, she already has nexted you. Take off those rose colored glasses(actually blue tinted would be a better description) and see it. This just gives her plausible deniability when she fucks some random from the bar this weekend(and she is going to) and when you get all Cunty about it she is gonna say "I told you we needed a break". Go find some strange young…
/r/askMRP27/11/15 06:03 PM
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I've posted this before. First off do not get married, ever, period. Even those of us that have what we would consider a fruitful RP based marriage that works wouldn't do it again if we had a choice. That being said if you are in the market for a woman for a LTR. Here is my advice, it has worked for me even with a little backsliding on my part. Find an educated woman(not some shit major either, history, stem, business a logic based education). If you cannot stand talking to her, once the sex get…
/r/askMRP24/11/15 10:11 PM
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I don't see what your saying. Are you talking about making money as in hey Babe I make 750k/yr wanna go out. Or are we talking I have 30 million in the bank ..... if it is the latter you might want to consider this. If it is net worth we're talking then I think rejecting the notion it doesn't play into the SMV equation is a fallacy. Money like no other tool in your toolbox, has the ability to make up for your other shortcomings. It puts you in a certain social circle, it affords you an exciting …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/15 08:24 PM
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Training the Brain+1 for you. I went in at 17(mom signed me in) and hated and loved every minute of my time there. The military only works if you surrender to the model, but once you do it makes life so simple. You get the master cheat code to every game, even the ones you don't have experience playing.... It may not work for everyone, but for those that get it life has unlimited potential...... Very Nice Post
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/15 08:01 PM
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3 months post birth? Really? Just because you've reignited that fire in your belly doesn't mean she is going to follow your timeline. I have an 8 month old and I consider my SO's comeback pretty good(20+ times a month PIV). It takes twice as long to get back what you destroyed becoming a beta. That and you need to track her cycle, sex is not always on the table. Plus if you're dread is so high she is willing to give you sex when she is clearly out of the sex window it is going to fuck with her a…
/r/askMRP22/11/15 05:51 PM
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I don't disagree with his actions here just his reasoning for them. He has developed a coping mechanism(new pussy, acceptance) to deal with the trauma from previous rejections. For me cheating doesn't mean squat, it more has to do with my personal integrity. Take away everything I have made in this life, only it shall remain. It isn't a holier than now excuse, it is my own coping mechanism for growing up with a lying, cheating, alcoholic father. You see we all have them, but there are better one…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/15 03:44 PM
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Even if you next her you are fcuked! All of her eggs are in your basket. Be prepared to lose your basket. You've gotten her accustomed to a lifestyle built on your back, hell she even works for you.... WTF were u thinking? She is going to take half and you cannot even lay her off, so she can mail it in every fuckin day post divorce and smile at you while you continue to pay her.... Stash the cash, plate her til this erupts in divorce and then move on. Learnfrom this mistake and never make it aga…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/15 04:34 AM
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You guys are funny..... The height rejection comments from girls are shit tests. It is the first and most easiest to play to see if it breaks your frame. Granted you shouldn't be gaming a 5'10" woman when you're 5'7, but I can't say I haven't tried it. And yes to reiterate, there are those that will just not be attracted to a shorter guy, but there is no reason you cannot bag women of your same height within an inch or so. Here's a prescription to fix your height disadvantage. 1. Make $150k/yr 2…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 02:09 AM
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You have a serious OI deficiency. You clearly put all of your SMV into provisions which accounts for a minute % of overall SMV. You are worried if she left or cheated. You are over invested at this point. Build your value up, put resources aside that only you know about(in brother or sister's name, only someone you wholeheartedly trust) set up your transition plan in case this happens. You'll find that as your SMV increases it drastically affects her interactions with you. You may not even need …
/r/askMRP21/11/15 02:14 PM
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Unfortunately what you fail to see is women do not see color the way men do. Whether you are white, black, brown or yellow(I hope this covers all of us). In all of my relationships with women(90% white girls) not one of them would rule out sleeping with men of another color. Its about the tingles not to mention the reputation for a larger pkg with some ethnicities and the inquisitive nature of females. It sounds like you're preconceived notion is based upon your inability to score with white gir…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 08:18 AM
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OP has got some solid advice here, However what he has failed to share is "How the relationship started". Were you friends? Did you settle for each other, decided yeah we could do this. Or did she in the beginning get so wet even being around you that she craved any physical affection you would give her? Did her body physically go into withdrawl and ache without you? All of these questions get to the root of your relationship. If you started as Beta, handsome nice guy, Alpha everywhere else but …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/15 05:52 PM
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Let me ask you, would the misery be any diffrent for you if it ended today or continued this prolonged back and forth nonsense? She is spelling out RP truths to you, you're here on this website so I am sure you know what RP is but you aren't following the basic rules. Shut up, go to the gym, work on you. Good God man, She is literally begging you to be absent, mysterious aloof so she can chase you. You're asking a woman how to be a man(3 things to fix), how the fcuk would she know. Build your so…
/r/askMRP16/11/15 12:11 AM
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You've failed to mention the implications of this concerning your marriage to the manipulative widower, divorcee monster in laws daughter and how their relationship impacts you. I don't get shit tested at all from the moocher in my house, but I have to listen to her daughter and the baggage she has to carry because of it. Her mother's poor choices in life has left her basically destitute while leaving cancerous lesion on my marriage. Fortunately Big Daddy Govt will be there to see her through...…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 07:21 AM
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Money means nothing unless you don't have it than it means everything. Sounds like a Yogi ism. She will happily turn over her check and cede financial control to you(they hate to manage money). They just wanna be told yes baby you can have that bag or pair of shoes. They don't wanna know the specifics, "is there enough so I can do X hair and nails to feel girlie". Millenials do look at money differently though, they comingle finances less which tells me there is always some little checks and bal…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 06:44 AM
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Women have more insecurities than men. Men's insecurities are almost always realized post confrontation as we replay a scene(logical beings) in our heads. Coming from a short guy I can tell you the easiest insecurity to play a woman on is her weight when she shit tests your height. Be prepared to freeze her out by conversing with a skinnier hotter chick immediately after your linguistic barb though, don't go back and forth. You'll lose the effect of the timed explosion that you've planted in her…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 05:36 AM
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It only slows as much as you want it to. Keep yourself top shelf and she will always feel the need to fuck you. For her own satisfaction, mate guarding and general mental health. No LTR's longer than a few months in my past, had lots of hookups(wouldn't even classify as FWB's). At least 3 dozen notches before I met my wife. All were nuts with so many red flags I shouldn't have dipped my toes in the water. She has maybe 1 and not even a bad one at that. Low N count by todays standard. No concerns…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 08:42 AM
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Unless your state recognizes common law as a marriage, why get married? Biologically speaking we need to procreate but don't do it if it's at the expense of yourself. If she doesn't work she needs your resources and I am sad to say too many men believe that cooking cleaning and laundry is a fair exchange for potentially losing half of your shit. Do not marry anyone that cannot fully provide for themselves without you in the picture. The old saying goes"No matter how hot a women seems, there is s…
/r/askMRP21/10/15 09:16 PM
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My first post, woot! I've been married 13 years, together for 17. I came into my relationship pure RP/IDGAF(5 years AD military). The Army gave me such a valuable education regarding women, Hypergamy and the system, I just didn't understand the knowledge nor the RP terminology til a year ago(found RP) I didn't realize at the time it was all women not just the sloots around the military. Read the prerequisites all the nightmare stories on Reddit, noticed wife wasn't as receptive to me, she was no…
/r/askMRP17/10/15 07:37 PM
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