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| 16 | Don’t. Ever. Fucking. Quit.This reads like an advertisement, good message though | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/23 02:23 PM |
| 8 | High schooler seemed stuck on his date, so I briefly intervened to motivate him."Excuse me sir I'm bombing on this date can you chaperone this interaction for us?" | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/23 03:18 PM |
| 10 | Is it as simple as choosing power?If you put an ice cube in a room thats 22 degrees fahrenheit, and each month you raised the temperature in that room by 1 degrees, it'd be a very long time before you saw anything. Then suddenly, after 10 months, the ice would start melting. From the outside looking in, you'd assume that one day, out of nowhere, the ice JUST started melting. As if it was fed up and simply chose to stop existing in its previous form. This would be a logical assumption given what is observed, but it is incorrect. … | /r/askMRP | 25/08/23 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Questions about my frame.Hey, where OP said he has only improved since he met his LTR, you called that a covert contract. Can you go into a bit more detail and explain why it is a CC? | /r/askMRP | 23/08/23 02:20 PM |
| 1 | I'm still red pilledPlenty of it is speculation, because no formal studies have been conducted. Plenty of it has empirical evidence with studies cited. The depth of red pill goes far beyond "women are this and men are this." I urge you to do further research. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/23 03:56 PM |
| 2 | I'm still red pilledI'm not overlooking it, I do agree it's a flaw in the community. I've stated why it's there and the purpose it trying serve. And the majority if things I've said and believe absolutely come from self help books. Each book thus far has been recommended to me by the red pill side bar. But I stand by red pill because at it's core it says we'd all prefer relationships that are romantically passionate, rather than something closer to a friendship. It also says that in order for this passion to be pre… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/23 01:10 PM |
| 1 | I'm still red pilledI'm not, it's not something I'm interested in at the moment | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/23 03:35 AM |
| 2 | I'm still red pilledCheck this Post out and tell me what you think about the comments. I'm sure we see two different things, but I'm genuinely curious to know your opinion. I don't think any comment in there is preaching that he lie or be dishonest, and the majority of the comments are telling him that he needs to be more assertive and willing to express his wants/ needs, and accept the consequences for expressing himself (be honest and be vulnerable). Or in their words, "You sound like a pussy, man up" lol. What d… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/23 12:24 AM |
| 0 | I'm still red pilledIt was the first self improvement book I read and I love it to this day. I reread it once every couple of years. Do you think red pill preaches that you should lie and be dishonest towards women? | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/23 12:12 AM |
| 1 | I'm still red pilledtouche. Take my upvote. I've researched both sides plenty, what evidence would you provide to prove that red pill contains no truth? | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/23 12:10 AM |
| 0 | I'm still red pilledWell frankly coming to this sub, I agreed with a lot of the things I saw. Quite a few posts left me scratching my head and saying "how is this anti red pill?" I would also have to suppose you'd be right on red pill being opinion based and not fact based. Red pill will forever be a theory, but the history of it is fascinating. Up until covid, (since the late 90's) it's always been men sharing notes and collectively testing those notes when out trying to pick up women or within their relationships… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/23 12:04 AM |
| 3 | I'm still red pilledI'd imagine anyone who is logical to a certain extent would be able to spot and correct fallacies within their logic. Red pill or not. And your right. Not all women are hypergamous. And plenty of men are hypergamous. My personal interpretation of hypergamy has always been "the average" or "there is a trend" and I'd think it be silly to assume something applies to ALL people without any variability. Unfortunately, a lot of people who come across red pill content cannot make that discretion. In th… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/08/23 08:52 PM |
| 0 | I'm still red pilledI can see where you're coming from, and from my perspective, it sounds like you only looked at a fraction of red pill. The most surface level lessons of red pill are often taken to extremes, a lot of manosphere youtubers are prime examples of that. It goes a lot deeper than teaching struggling men about women. And to be honest, I think the married red pill subreddit is a great example of that. The community there seemed to be much more grounded in reality and mature than just the standard red pi… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/08/23 08:27 PM |
| 0 | I'm still red pilledWhat is red pill to you? | /r/ExRedPill | 13/08/23 07:43 PM |
| -5 | I'm still red pilledWhat is all about gender to you? | /r/ExRedPill | 13/08/23 06:56 PM |
| 4 | I'm still red pilledMyself? Personally? Because I'm autistic and need a blue print to follow. Red pill provided that, high school musical did not. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/08/23 06:54 PM |
| -9 | I'm still red pilledWhat does being all about gender mean to you? Because I thought my last reply made it clear that red pill was a theory all about genders. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/08/23 06:50 PM |
| 2 | I'm still red pilledYou don't need red pill to reach that conclusion. Every teen movie has that conclusion, most young adults come to that conclusion on there own. But for some people, life experiences or teen movies don't do it, but red pill does. And in some cases, not even red pill brings people to that conclusion. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/08/23 06:47 PM |
| -22 | I'm still red pilledRed pill is not a theory of psychology, it is a theory of inter gender dynamics. It is heavily focused on sex and on genders. The theory states what is observed, there is quite a bit of history that can be found to explain why red pill looks the way it does now, the community dates back to the late 90s. The conclusion that most red pillers come to after digesting the theory is that you need to take accountability for yourself and your results. Make yourself your primary focus and stop putting ot… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/08/23 06:10 PM |
| 3 | I'm still red pilledBecause that is the main issue of men who come to red pill. "Nice guys" They struggle with setting boundaries, they get all of their validation from others and treat women like gods (and when a god doesn't acknowledge your prayers, you either lash out and curse your god, or you double down on your praise), they don't really have to ask people about their own relationships and what they should do, because they flat out can't decide for themselves. A lot of the time they've never put themselves fi… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/08/23 05:57 PM |
| 5 | I'm still red pilledUnfortunately a lot of men (more than I realized) can't handle that grain of salt and don't have the nuance to properly interpret and integrate the information. Too many of them make it into a "us vs them" mentality | /r/ExRedPill | 13/08/23 05:16 PM |
| -3 | I'm still red pilledNo, I'm red pill. Red pill says "be your own man and make your own rules. Stop being who you think other people want you to be." That's the end goal of red pill theory. If you want to be dommed by your woman and wear a leash for her in the bedroom, don't feel ashamed about that. If you want to be friends with women, don't let anyone tell you that your wrong for that. If you want to have kids and settle down, go for it. If you don't, learn how to not feel pressured by society to do so. If you wan… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/08/23 05:13 PM |
| -28 | I'm still red pilledAll of them really. To me it is a science. It's a theory. For me, hearing about hypergamy makes sense to me and inspires no hatred towards women, just a better understanding. I think most people hear about hypergamy and use it as a cop out to hate on women and call them hoes or sluts or whatever other insult. I think for the vast majority of people, I think the latter is what their red pill experience is like. I really feel like this is driven by figures in the manosphere who feed off of hurt an… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/08/23 05:00 PM |
| 0 | I'm still red pilledI've seen quite a bit more success actually. Pretty sure I'm on the spectrum, so having things spelt out so clearly made it much easier to navigate intimate situations. Have lost no friends and no women have ghosted me. Although a few friends were worried at first, they come to realize red pill has only made me a better friend and person. I treat it like fight club, as I know how it is perceived and would rather not have the misogynous red pill stereotype associated with me. But when I do feel c… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/08/23 04:48 PM |
| 73 | Having trouble getting over wife’s sexual past.Two guys in one night. Wow. Fucking her so easily on the first date should've tripped the "This is a plate" alarm in your mind. | /r/askMRP | 12/08/23 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Women lack men’s physical and mental advantages and so take out their revenge with liesI had a different experience. I will say it was way longer than it had to be, but for a "Red Pill 101" I think it does the job well. I will say, watching his content, dude gives me a bad vibe. His content and information is great, but him as a person gives me the impression that he's REALLY putting on an act once the camera comes on. Can you link the vasectomy comments? Anyways, OP sounded like he was missing a lot of the basics and just wanted hate on women. The Rational Male seemed like a good… | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/08/23 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Women lack men’s physical and mental advantages and so take out their revenge with liesThat's an Ad-Hominem fallacy, his book is filled with great information. The information isn't any less valid because of it's origin. | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/08/23 01:24 AM |
| 3 | Women lack men’s physical and mental advantages and so take out their revenge with liesDo you have to care about women or do you chose to do so? You are good enough bro, I can tell the reason why you're not seeing the success you want is because of your mindset. The first step is knowing you're good enough, and you are. Getting all the bitches in the world will not change how you feel about yourself. I promise. | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/08/23 12:45 PM |
| 0 | Women lack men’s physical and mental advantages and so take out their revenge with liesYou're right. Being shorter is a massive disadvantage when dating. You quite literally just have to make up for it in other areas bro. I have multiple short friends who have gone from no action AT ALL to multiple partners/ girl friends. It's possible. Let's look at validation again. By not wanting to be a beta, you are saying "I don't want to be hated. I want to be respected." and, by being wanting to be an alpha, the motivation would "I want to be loved. I don't want to be walked all over or di… | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/08/23 12:09 PM |
| 2 | Women lack men’s physical and mental advantages and so take out their revenge with liesBy that logic, if I could bring myself to have sex with my gym bros then I hate them. Do you hate your male friends because you do not want to sleep with them? You're using bad metrics. Understandably so, I've been able to relate. This stems from a need of validation (Read No More Mr.Nice Guy). Someone wanting to have sex with you is an indicator of sexual interest and nothing more. If a person does not want to have sex with you, there is no sexual interest. Sexual interest is not required for y… | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/08/23 11:54 AM |
| 4 | Women lack men’s physical and mental advantages and so take out their revenge with liesYou sound hurt. I fall into the red pill camp, but this just seems like a way to justify hatred. And using bad evidence to do so. I'd argue that none of the "lies" you were told were pushed on to you with the intent of deceiving you. You were trained to be a beta. Women LIKE betas. But they like betas for different reasons compared to why they like alphas. They'd rather settle down and marry a beta. They rather get their brains fucked out by an alpha. Getting back on track though, this whole pos… | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/08/23 09:57 AM |
| -3 | Caught her in a lieNegative. I'm not married, nor do I have kids. I haven't gotten myself into anything, nor do I feel bad for being called out on my mistakes. I'm not interested in being told about them when nobody is offering a solution to the original question. My game is nowhere near perfect, I could post 1,000 questions on this sub picking apart everything I've done, but for the time being, I'm interested in this one situation. Iron Rule #1: Frame is everything. If this isn't about frame, what is it about? Ce… | /r/askMRP | 30/06/23 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Caught her in a lieShe did say she would pay me back, she did not give a specific date. It was mutually agreed to be vaguely in the near future. It's been about a month and I haven't mentioned it until yesterday. Further context. Asked for money back. She said she didn't have it. I said "Bs, you've touched more than $100 in the last few weeks." She threw pussy at me in response. To answer all 3 questions, it's respect. I want her to respect me. I can see now that she doesn't (at least not as much as I'd like) Your… | /r/askMRP | 30/06/23 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Caught her in a lieAcknowledge my request. Say "no can't do it" or say "here's $100." The outcome is irrelevant. She didn't acknowledge it though. Somewhere, at some point, I fucked up frame control. Only interested in how I can reestablish that. Next time (there won't be a next time) I ask for my money back, I don't want her to throw pussy at me to defuse. I'd rather she knows that's not acceptable behavior. | /r/askMRP | 30/06/23 12:38 AM |
| -2 | Caught her in a lieThis post is less about $100 and more about what should be done in the situation I described within the post. Obviously my frame control needs work, but the only question I'm interested in (in terms of properly controlling frame) is if one should press a lie or simply let your plate think you're oblivious. Ik I shouldn't have loaned her $100. I don't mind losing it (I would never give it out if I really needed it) but when I brought it up, she dismissed it by throwing pussy at me. To me, that sh… | /r/askMRP | 30/06/23 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Caught her in a lieDon't care abt the $100, its more how she's avoiding it Nope, she didn't. Don't care abt the $100, its more how she's avoiding it Don't care abt the $100, its more how she's avoiding it First time spinning plates. More concerned with properly maintaining frame. Tired of being a simp. Ignoring something that bothers me and giving her attention anyways doesn't seem like the right play. I'd be fine if she straight up told me she's never going to pay me back, but she just tried to disarm me by throw… | /r/askMRP | 30/06/23 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Caught her in a lieWhat would you recommend? | /r/askMRP | 29/06/23 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Caught her in a liegood advice | /r/askMRP | 29/06/23 07:12 PM |
| -2 | Caught her in a lieThanks for this reply. I had hit her up for the $100 and she didn't respond. She then reached out for a late night link (still ignoring my message about money prior) and I just left the message on seen. No response on my end. I suppose the boundary there is "no, you're going to respond to me and pussy can't make this go away." Don't think I should be worried about the $100 at this point, although it's more or less the principal of "you will pay me back" that's concerning me. I doubt she will pay… | /r/askMRP | 29/06/23 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Caught her in a lieThe way you worded that clicked for me, thanks for the reply. This is the first few weeks of me practicing RP, I'm still learning as I go. I can't say I'm surprised with her behavior though. | /r/askMRP | 29/06/23 06:00 PM |
| -2 | Caught her in a lieShe owes me money. I shouldn't have loaned it to her, lesson learned for next time. Nothing deep, only $100. In reality, my own self respect is worth more than a crumb of coochie and $100, I'mma call it out next time it is appropriate. | /r/askMRP | 29/06/23 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Caught her in a lieShe's a plate. She has a boyfriend. I am not that boyfriend. | /r/askMRP | 29/06/23 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with rejection or oneitis? Take a dose of the Red Pill again and recalibrate your mental point of origin.Lol. If it was simple as you say, we'd all read a single post and never look at this sub again. Reworking an entire frame set of believes takes time and consistency, if it didn't, we simply wouldn't be here right now. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/23 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with rejection or oneitis? Take a dose of the Red Pill again and recalibrate your mental point of origin.Is it okay to be shat on by others? No. Should you be genuinely surprised when it happens? No. To revolt against hypergamy and its existence is to revolt against evolutionary biology. It's delusional. It's not going anywhere. It is far more than just the status quo, it is a fundamental property of the sex. I'm not telling you to let people force shit down your throat with a smile, I'm telling you to not be surprised when they try. Be prepared, be rational, have the next-button nice and warmed up… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/23 11:23 AM |
| 20 | Dealing with rejection or oneitis? Take a dose of the Red Pill again and recalibrate your mental point of origin.Girls with daddy issues look like sluts. Men with mommy issues look like simps/ cucks. If you had a healthy relationship with your mother (which from the sounds of your description of her, you didn't) you would've never found yourself in the situation you're in. You would treat LTRs like you treat any other relationship with your bros. The only difference being sex. Your LTR would be a part of your life, but it would not be your life. Just like any other friend. "Oh you can't come over and play … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/23 01:35 AM |
| 5 | Dealing with rejection or oneitis? Take a dose of the Red Pill again and recalibrate your mental point of origin.Being good enough is not the same as being perfect. There is always room for improvement obviously. If you have to source motivation through self degradation, more power to you brother. An alpha sees himself as the shit and acts like it. Again, to each their own. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/23 10:16 PM |
| 12 | After date everything changedTexting should be minimal. Its a method to set up a date, it is not a date itself. Don't use it to get to know each other. You didn't give many details on the date so I can't comment on the rest of your game, but it's safe to say you fucked up somewhere. Don't sweat it. Ironically, not caring is what makes you successful with women. Caring too much makes you do worse. Everyone is going to say this, so hopefully it registers for you, but spin more plates. All of your issues go away once you start… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/23 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Field Report: First Weeks Practicing Red PillIt was either bartending or personal training, just happened to land a gym job first. And I only had one friend prior to joining the staff. He and I were gym bros for years and he picked up the gig to stay afloat, once I joined the team he got much more comfortable with the staff and eventually we created our own circle. Not necessarily from scratch, but pretty damn close. The group is formed around hitting work outs, posting content/ gym edits on IG (we're personal trainers, so it's a way to ma… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/23 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Attachment Theory and Applicability to MRPFR on telling my girl about her avoidant attachment style. I got LJBF'd. Picked up red pill a few months ago, stumbled across Attached and it flipped my world upside down. Thought I could fix my issues by being "secure" and encouraging her to do the same. Made her more avoidant and made me more anxious. Lesson learned. Wish this was posted a few months ago. Either way, have come to a similar conclusion myself. Could've never written it as eloquently. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/06/23 02:29 AM |
| 14 | I don't feel like fucking my wifeIs she giving you enjoyable sex? Is she helping you achieve success faster? Is she slowing you down or making you a better version of yourself? Is she playing a key role in building this business? Could you build it faster without her? If she doesn't make you a better man and she doesn't provide you with sex (at the bare minimum) what is it that she does for you? Separating may be jumping the gun, but it's something you may want to consider. Before that, see if there's anything she can do to mak… | /r/askMRP | 18/06/23 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Why do I gravitate towards more motherly women?Believe me brother I know. It's one of those things that is simple but that doesn't necessarily make it easy. Day by day though, I'm learning to be more accepting of myself. Red pill is playing a major role. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/23 12:33 AM |
| 5 | Field Report: First date in 7 yearsIf you could go back and redo the last 7 years, would you go on more dates? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/23 04:02 PM |
| 17 | How to establish frame with a plate? So she knows and enjoys being a FWB and no moreLet your plate initiate this conversation. Be truthful. Your plate will either continue to spin herself or she won't. At that point, you decide if the juice is worth the squeeze. There's not much else to it. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/23 11:05 PM |
| 3 | My Ex Created an OnlyFans - Confirmed everything I’ve learned on here and in lifeI've had a similar experience, turned 23 not too long ago. I was just thinking to myself how the theme for this year seems to be uncovering trauma and working through it. The whole process has made me realize just how much more maturing I have to do. Kind of a system shock. Turns out I'm still a little boy in a lot of ways, regardless of the bass in my voice | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/23 09:15 AM |
| 50 | Never fucking show your weaknesses.Abundance mindset. She was never yours, it was only your turn. She wasn't the "one" either, if her behavior wasn't evidence enough. She was one of many, and one that you will out grow in SMV as you age. You've lost nothing. Don't cry over spilt milk. Just clean up the mess and pour another glass. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/23 05:07 PM |
| 9 | Why do I gravitate towards more motherly women?The book "No More Mr. Nice Guy" preaches a similar message. I'm looking into therapy at the moment, as I know there's a bit of a mess under the hood. Thank you for the advice, I think I'm going to give the book a re-read to refresh myself and take a deeper look at my child hood | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/23 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Why do I gravitate towards more motherly women?I appreciate the input. There's a lot of truth in your post. I've preached that men are success objects while women are sex objects, but in practice I'm falling short. Part of how I value women is their social economic status, that's a trend I've just now been made aware of. (That's actually a lot for me to unpack, I'm not sure why I do this.) I definitely got too serious too fast with my last chick. She commented on it now that I look back. Lastly, I think mastery of Game is the next step for m… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/23 01:05 AM |
| 5 | Why do I gravitate towards more motherly women?Honestly, I think I see these women as status symbols. Not only are they a source of validation, but they're also a way for me to show my friends and family that "hey, I'm not a fuck up." or "hey, I'm doing well in life." I know, I know, I know. Be better. But no matter how much I work on myself, I'll always gain status from dating a Beyonce. Even if I have the mansion and the yatch and the 100 million in my bank account. I can always add a 10/10 to my arsenal. I damage my image when I'm flexing… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/23 12:26 AM |
| 4 | Why do I gravitate towards more motherly women?I identify as the dominate partner in the bed room. Being entirely honest with you, I've noticed I am willing to play a more submissive role but only with the type of women I wrote about in my post. Lets take eating out for example. Very rarely do I want to do it. But with women I see as "above" me, I love it. I could eat them out for hours, and I have. I enjoy them being in more of a dominant role, but it's always with the understanding that IM letting them, not that they're making me. I still … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/23 12:10 AM |
| 3 | Why do I gravitate towards more motherly women?Never been tested but I'm a body builder/ personal trainer. 190lbs body weight, benching 295lb, Squatting 405, and deading 500lb. I seriously doubt I have low test, never been tested though. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/23 11:40 PM |
| 4 | Why do I gravitate towards more motherly women?I used motherly in the sense that they seem to take lead and frame in the relationship, but you're right. The women I catch oneitis for are "out of my league," but not in terms of physical attraction, just in terms of success/ potential in life. For example, I've found myself sleeping with a stripper/ adult content creator lately. She's just as pretty as any other girl I've caught oneitis for (arguably hotter) but knowing how she makes her money (and just how she navigates life) makes me so much… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/23 11:34 PM |
| 21 | Why do I gravitate towards more motherly women?I've always been lead by women. My relationship with my mother as a child was usually her being upset which taught me to stay away. She was very bossy, demeaning, and physically abused me until I got a little older. Around age 12-13 things flipped with her, I think because I finally grew past her in height. She started to be much more receptive to what I had to say, never hit me or even hinted at it, hell she never even raised her voice at me. I can recall a lot of times she had depended on me r… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/23 07:30 PM |
| 15 | What are the most commonly misunderstood TRP concepts for beginners (and even intermediate) guys in RP? | Ask TRPI'm new to red pill. I've posted once or twice. Been here long enough to realize how much work I still need to do. The hardest thing for me to conceptualize is frame. It's one of those things we all operate on, but are rarely made aware of it. I think I have a better understanding of it now, but when it was first introduced to me it just didn't click. Beyond that, game in general. For me, things like agree & amplify and cocky/ funny are still hard to get the hang of. Shit tests are difficult for… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/23 04:29 PM |
| 1 | My struggles thus far with taking the RedPillI've been consistent with the gym for two years now, just getting into MMA. Starting to get tired of body building/ power lifting which has naturally drawn me to focus on other areas of my life, main reason why I started MMA. I don't think the habit is going away anytime soon, but I wish I could rediscover the gym all over again lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/23 08:20 PM |
| 1 | My struggles thus far with taking the RedPillCopy that. I appreciate you breaking it down for me. Friends, Social skills, and education are my priority atm. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/23 08:00 PM |
| 2 | My struggles thus far with taking the RedPillYeah I know your right, I wont care in a few months. I'm still in a withdrawal phase, similar to you back in college. Ik she's toxic too smh. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/23 09:59 AM |
| 3 | My struggles thus far with taking the RedPillThe way you worded things really clicked with me. Right now the only thing I have going for me is my physical appearance. I'm a gym rat with solid genetics, and since I started lifting nearly all of my attraction from women has come from that fact. I've gotten pretty bored of lifting and recently added MMA to the mix, with the hopes that I can find some more like-minded individuals. My current focus is on expanding my social circle, as that seems to be what I'm craving the most now that my relat… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/23 01:11 AM |
| 2 | My struggles thus far with taking the RedPillThanks for clarifying. I have the basics down, I'm pretty well off for my age. 23 with 60k a year. Nothing crazy but a hell of a lot more than my friends. My own car and my own crib as well of course. Fairly attractive and great body, been in the gym for 2 years. If I looked at maslow's hierarchy of needs, I'm at level 3. My social life is awful. I'm military and away from home, I haven't done the best job at making new friends since getting to my new base 3 years ago. If my car broke down there… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/23 12:51 AM |
| 2 | My struggles thus far with taking the RedPillWould you say women should never be the goal? I've taken the opposite approach, and made it the goal to practice spinning plates. Do you think this goal is short sighted? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/23 12:30 AM |
| 12 | My struggles thus far with taking the RedPillI appreciate your perspective. I never thought about like that. I noticed a lot of my pervious issues went away when the two of us first started seeing one another. It never occurred to me that I had just replaced a few bad habits for a single person. It's a lot to take in but I think you're right. Other areas of my life are lacking and I've been coping. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/23 12:02 AM |
| 12 | My struggles thus far with taking the RedPillMore anxious than depressed. I have has issues with substances in the past aswell. I'm putting in the work to straighten out my mental health | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/23 11:54 PM |
| 5 | I spit the redpill back up, I'm struggling to get it back down againOP here. Thank you all for the responses. I know I have a lot of work to put in. You guys are telling me I never swallowed the red pill to begin with, and that I basically got a really good look at the damn thing but never put it down the hatch. I'd have to agree. I haven't read all the material, I haven't practiced the lessons in real life, I haven't solidified my understanding. I just discovered the community and convinced myself I had nothing to learn. Wouldn't've entered a LTR after meeting … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/23 07:29 PM |
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