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DiscussionIm_Unsure_For_Sure/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:31 PM
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DiscussionIm_Unsure_For_Sure/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:01 AM
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Question For WomenIm_Unsure_For_Sure/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:15 PM
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DiscussionIm_Unsure_For_Sure/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:16 AM
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Question For WomenIm_Unsure_For_Sure/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 08:33 AM
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Question For WomenIm_Unsure_For_Sure/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:29 PM
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Question For WomenIm_Unsure_For_Sure/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 08:55 AM
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DiscussionIm_Unsure_For_Sure/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:49 AM
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DiscussionIm_Unsure_For_Sure/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:31 AM
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Question For WomenIm_Unsure_For_Sure/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:23 AM
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DiscussionIm_Unsure_For_Sure/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:09 AM
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The increase or reduction of testosterone seems to be a primary driver for someone being "bad" in your mind. Pretty heavy implications for trans folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:28 AM
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Damn, I bet you got some real fucked up thoughts on trans people lol Your definition of bad sucks but at least I understand the math now. Still sucks though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:48 AM
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Swamp = all available water is undrinkable AKA all men are bad and not worth dating. All men are bad is misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 05:35 PM
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Yes, men are disproportionately bad people. Just science folks. The bad genes are stored in your cock and balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 05:30 PM
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Yeah, the major difference is the statistical likelihood of each of those scenarios occuring.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 05:28 PM
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You moved the goalposts with every one of your previous comment. Apologies for only focusing on your final pivot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 09:06 AM
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How many more therapists do you think an incel will need to visit to find one who even takes him seriously vs a woman who hates men? Therapy for men, especially angry men, has significantly more hurdles than you are considering. Certainly more than any gendered financial gap would cover.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:51 PM
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Rage bait works well for a reason. People are looking for a distraction and anger seems to satisfy that need better than joy does.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:37 PM
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men in general are not demonized simply for wanting sex. I'm assuming you're lazily saying that the demonization is for more complex reasons but even that's bullshit - men's sexual desire is absolutely judged, even in its most simplistic existence. It's seen as gross, immature, dangerous and selfish by quite a few folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:29 PM
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allowed to age Didn't realize permission was needed but I guess when the list of "ways to be a victim" grows smaller and smaller, you've got to create new scenarios. And I'm assuming these controllers of the right to age are all men despite every woman saying they explicitly don't wear makeup for men. Odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:11 PM
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The body of the average father is anything from skinny fat to moderately obese - both with little to no muscle. The dad bods women point to are always a bit of extra fat sitting on top of 5+ years of dedicated muscle building effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:06 PM
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Man, your comments are wild. You talk about earning women's rights and privileges like a rich kid talks about earning their trust fund. You did literally nothing outside of being born at the right time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:30 AM
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Only about 41% of women have ever used dating apps Throwing "only" in front of 2/5ths of the population doesn't magically make it a small amount lol Take women aged <18 and >60 out of that population and you'll actually have to say "most women have used dating apps".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:08 PM
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The goalpost was always your exaggerative language and I make that very clear in both comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:46 PM
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I absolutely have but I'm not broken in whatever unique way you seem to be. Might be a prerequisite.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:23 PM
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With an impressive combined net negative downvote score for the entire group of comments. Surprised you even posted it tbh but I guess the searching-to-snippet-to-paint time investment was justification enough. If a handful of lunatics is the bar for "a significant number" of people to think a thing then that applies to quite literally every conceivable opinion that exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:14 AM
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a significant number don’t want women to have the right to vote. I simply refuse to believe that you believe this. Women's voting rights are a not even a topic of conversation, much less a contentious one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:30 AM
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Dumbest shit I've read this week.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:18 AM
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Dumpster diving is a very easy way to get free food to eat but most folks spend a good deal of their time working to buy food from a store.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 12:48 PM
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I dont know which is worse, not understanding how public forums work or thinking you'd be justified in disparaging "MEN" if one idiot you were talking to had poor logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:13 AM
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There’s a HUGE difference between saying that I’d prefer my boyfriend’s dick to be two inches longer and picking a larger dick with zero context in a survey. The scenarios are different, I'll grant you that. But the one HUGE thing they have in common is the size of the dick you'd prefer in both.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:07 PM
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I’d probably pick a larger one because…duh. But do you see how this matters very little in a real life scenario? I dunno. Tell your man you'd prefer his dick be 2 inches bigger and see how much it matters. Tell a woman who is lamenting having small breasts that yeah men might generally prefer she have a larger chest but she should just get over it because it "matters very little in a real life scenario". Its easy to say something doesn't matter much when you aren't the one it matters the most to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:07 PM
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When I think of someone being the provider, that’s more what I picture, basically a partnership where one person has more of the income-earning duties and the other has more of the home/family duties, I always hear it framed this way but this isn't accurate. You don't picture "one person has more of the income-earning duties", you picture one person exclusively having the income-earning duties while also doing some home/family duties.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:44 AM
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definitely by middle and heading into high school kids are very capable of forming their own values and belief systems that do not necessarily align with what their parents think. Youthful rebellion and all that. Young adults "choose" to rebel just like they "choose" to eat when hungry. Free will is a bit silly conceptually but it's certainly silly to act as though youthful rebellion is an intentionally conscious path.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:45 PM
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these are problems most women encounter Either link to some sort of data or a scanned copy of your multiple personality disorder diagnosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 07:53 PM
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Yes. And this is something that I always thought was wrong. Thought? Are you being critical in the comments when it happens here every day? Cause I certainly never see it from anyone. Maybe you should practice what you preach and keep the same energy when you see those comments from women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 05:04 PM
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Wouldn't that be entirely dependent on the individuals/the couple in question? Not according to the person I'm responding to, no. Which is why I asked them for a number.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:16 PM
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I suppose you should tell that to the person I responded to who does defines it that way...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:15 PM
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Fir months now I’ve been asking guys on this sub now for feminism doing violence against men, or celebrating violence against men, or trying to advocate for mens rights to be taken off them, I’m always met with crickets. May as well provide an incel with videos of men beating women while we're at it lol. You are a misandrist and seek no information in good faith that might encourage empathy towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:14 PM
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the idea of not fucking as many women as possible is painful for them FOMO stands for fear of missing out, not fear of maxing out. These "so many dudes" are not fucking 5 women while wanting a 6th. They are fucking 0 while wanting 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:09 PM
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But men really dont like to commit. So this is 4 billion men. Cuz mine said he will commit, then he took my virginity, and left me from the first challenge as a couple. And this is 1 man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:06 PM
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So where is the goal post these days? How many dates does it take to get to the emotional intimacy before sex is no longer casual?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:04 PM
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Not to mention all of the pointless, off-topic bitching... You're doing your part at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 08:57 PM
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Only to women who are 2s but think they are 5s.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:22 PM
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I think people are far more varied than you are making them out to be. I would bet that the main reason you think these attitudes are gendered has nothing to do with a real difference in scenario preference but rather that society tends to judge women for having one night stands and applauds men for the same. People shy away from saying they engage in activities when doing so usually results in judgement. And they lean into it when it usually gets them praise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:09 AM
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"I would rather have a partner who lies and doesnt trust me than deal with a negative situation." Didn't realize this type of logic extended much past middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:00 AM
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Twisting a scenario where a man is being honest with his wife as always being either malicious or lazy is so on-brand for this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:58 AM
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The person I was responding to had a different perspective on the phrase, and I shared mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:42 PM
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Sweet! We finally overcame that pesky gender pay gap!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:23 PM
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reducing them to functionality and accessibility Lol so the exact same thing that happens when women place high value on a man's career and earning potential. Its all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:20 PM
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If they wanted to be honest, it would absolutely be 3% of women (maybe 3.5% if we want to be generous). I get that people pull stats out of their ass a lot here but this is the first time ive seen half a percent begrudgingly make it's way out of an asshole. Bravo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:40 AM
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"Men are always complaining when I'm around." Checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:21 AM
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Gotta say this is the more refreshing PPD I’ve seen in a while A boring strawman argument is the most refreshing thing you've seen in a while? Huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:25 AM
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an army of men get ridiculously defensive. 4 reddit commenters is an army all of sudden. Perhaps you used ridiculous language in that comment as well - tends to aggravate folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:46 PM
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They’re two extremes, no one side has it “easier” because each extreme served as a major deterrent Having to test drive 50 cars to find a reliable one is better than being too broke to afford transportation. If only one side has the opportunity to get a satisfactory result, you cannot say they don't have it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:22 AM
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Finally someone believes the same thing I do!!!! uPdOoTs!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:19 AM
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They are just defending their poor choices. Very few women here are going to bat for anyone with a penis lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:12 AM
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Or there are too many women wanting wholesome men who aren't bringing anything to the table to justify their interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:10 AM
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I mean she does say "lesser". Think we can take a stab at her opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:07 AM
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Or it's just not wanting to waste time and energy on pointless conversations Ugh the cognitive dissonance hurts my fuckin brain. You post here ALL DAY EVERY DAY ffs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 09:40 PM
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People are rarely ideal. This fact should not absolve you of dealing with situations like an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 09:38 PM
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Huh, sounds like the same reasoning old racist ladies use after they clutch their purse when a black person walks by. Just sexism instead of racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 09:37 PM
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So, if you tell someone why you won't date them anymore, and they won't accept it, do you still call it ghosting? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 09:34 PM
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Experience has taught me that people only think of themselves I mean that's literally what your behavior is doing so im not surprised you've found this to be the case lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 09:33 PM
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Do you preemptively assume minorities are criminals to keep yourself safe too? Same pattern of logic so I'd assume so.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 09:29 PM
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I don't know what you're talking about. It doesn't matter if we have free will or not. It doesn't matter? Then why write all of this? I am talking about feeling not action. People can't force themselves to feel what they don't feel, but they can force themselves to refrain from actions they don't want to commit. Regardless, we aren't talking about punishment, we are talking about your incredibly inconsistent application of evolutionary traits as an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:00 PM
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This is nothing new. So is this silly belief that we have free will rather than just being utterly dependant on our hormones, genetics, upbringing and environmental variables. To presuppose there is a cap on horniness and reason has to be deliberately relinquished before a rapist commits the act is just a cop-out so you can keep on judging people on the edges of your belief system. A rapist rapes for the same reason as a mother drowns her children or an arsonist sets shit on fire. They're fucked…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:28 PM
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The point is literally the disparity between allowable emotions based on gender. Bringing up the other half of the topic isn't whataboutism lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 08:49 PM
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Testosterone also drives sexual aggressiveness but I doubt you'd maintain your evolutionary defense to absolve men who sexually assault women... It's an all or nothing line of thinking and it's a silly one that no one truly holds.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 08:43 PM
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cries when it’s appropriate Lol imagine a man demanding his partner only "cry when it's appropriate". Not to mention, most men who have tested that boundary seem to find the answer to be it's never appropriate and a surefire way to lose significant value in your partner's eyes, instantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 08:36 PM
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One of many catchphrases used exclusively by terrible people to justify their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:39 AM
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idk, i feel like this is actually super common for women to experience at some point in high school/college since like, 2010s You think something is SUPER COMMON because of ONE experience? I hate it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:37 AM
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Males-posting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:34 AM
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That it is soul-drainingly tedious in the extreme to be berated for not wanting to discuss the same topic over and over again - just to be lectured on how you're wrong-wrong-stupid-wrong and have your personal opinion shut down over and over again when you do finally give in and respond? Yep, that is super tedious, indeed. Someone have a gun to your head, forcing you to post on this subreddit? If not, you're being completely ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:31 AM
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Oh totally, feminist women never grow distant when their boyfriend gets emotional for the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:56 PM
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Eh, I actually only ever heard “guys don’t approach you because you’re intimidating ” from men, never women. Not kidding. For real. People generally don't provide feedback on systems they don't engage with. The average woman has never needed to traverse the mental hellscape of finding someone attractive and having to weigh out the variables of approaching when it's easier to just hold eye contact for an extra second, play with your hair or some other equally similar risk-free childish behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:10 AM
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I'd define "powerful" women as women in positions of power. I'll be more specific: They earn 3x or more the median income for their age, and their job involves telling other people what to do and dressing business casual or fancier. Ahh yes, nothing screams "perfect partner" quite like a middle management role in corporate America. I feel like you fucked around with a recently divorced junior VP once and you've created an army out of her to have some semblance of a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:56 AM
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Facebook comments be like
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:08 AM
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I think the person you're replying to is completely off base but admittedly, one of the differences would be the n-word gets them banned if they type it out. As it should but still, your argument is a tad disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:06 AM
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Having sex while single makes women more superficial than men? Waxing nostalgic about the good old days where you fucked mentally deficient men is pretty damn superficial, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:03 PM
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I didn't always want to be in a relationship. I didn't always have time for a relationship. Huh, I only had to fuck one idiot to realize the juice wasn't worth the squeeze. Waking up next to a moron is too much of a hassle. Guess women can be more superficial than men...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:34 PM
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The math just ain't mathin If your standards for hotness are always there and you can land a hot, smart man, you would never fuck a himbo. If I've got two cars that look the same but one breaks down all the time; why would I ever drive that one?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:46 AM
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Yes, you were calling out hypocrisy while being hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:27 PM
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"This is how men are" "WOMEN ARENT ALL THE SAME" Can we at least avoid being a hypocrite within the same comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:33 AM
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Which scenario, specifically? I'm not sure I understand the point you're making. Explain, please? I'm genuinely trying to think of how this response could be anything other than disingenuous and I'm coming up short, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:48 AM
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You've apparently just memorized some template criticisms of scientific papers and you're attempting to apply them here without really understanding either the template or the argument at hand. So, sorry, you still lose. Yet to meet someone who has to say "you lose" when they actually win an argument lol But thanks for the compliment. I've been dealing with stupid people misrepresenting stupid data for a long time so I do suppose my feedback has begun to appear scripted. Much appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:18 AM
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I get that Reddit has no sourcing standards but I expect better of a debate sub. The only place I care to see what a measly dataset of 1000 men prefer is at the tail end of a meta-analysis compilation. The other commenter's anecdotal bullshit is indeed anecdotal and for sure bullshit but I'll happily take instantly dismissable nonsense over someone lauding an irrelevant dataset like it's any better than an anecdote.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:48 AM
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Most people in America are overweight and most overweight people don't call other overweight people fat. Any man who goes to the gym is going to clock all of these correctly- especially the fit ones that have you intentionally misleading with the "BMI wise" language.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:38 AM
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If you exhibit a behaviour because "far too many men" respond a certain way, you are making the assumption, by paying, that each and every man sitting across from you will try to expect something in return if he pays. If you think I'm arguing in bad-faith, imagine how bad-faith your mindset is towards the men you are dating lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:25 AM
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This I prefer to go Dutch because far too many men, whether they admit it or not, think of paying money as an "investment." Which means they expect dividends. And this the woman pays for her own food because she thinks you're going to treat her like a prostitute Are the same. It's certainly more direct than your investing analogy but I fail to see any exaggeration.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:09 AM
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Tradition. There is a tradition in our culture I'm pretty sure women have been bucking tradition in the name of equality for a good chunk of time now. Odd that this scenario didn't make the list, seems like an easy one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:51 AM
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So either the woman pays for her own food because she thinks you're going to treat her like a prostitute or she expects you to pay because her time is more valuable than yours. Why the fuck are yall even dating men at this point?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:46 AM
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But Im older, and this "return " to purity culture has only been a thing for 5 years if that. Media has been telling me violence is cool and nudity/sex is taboo for decades. Assuming you are American, Purity culture has been American culture since at least the 90s (sans a Tumblr hyperminority).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:32 AM
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I don't think many below average people, men or women, are going to acknowledge they are worse than most lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:25 AM
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For being so active on a debate subreddit, you sure seem incapable of responding to the actual thing being said to you. Thought folks grew out of that tactic in middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:14 AM
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Serious issue? If putting words in people's mouth is the only way you can muster a response, why bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:09 PM
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"I mean, It is what it is." PPD Women discussing any issue men face
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:08 AM
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The Ten Commandments address coveting another man’s wife but nothing about women coveting a woman’s husband. Seems historically men like women who belong to other men. The Bible presumes women are property. Property is only coveted, never covets. I might be envious of my neighbors car but his car is never gonna wish to be parked in my driveway. A woman using the Bible as a gotcha was super fucking funny though so thanks for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 01:51 PM
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as I am already sufficiently charming and confident Confidence - Humility = Arrogance
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 01:44 PM
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You haven't been fucking the right people if this is consistently true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:47 AM
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Huh, in real life I've exclusively had women use "lonely" to mean "miss being in a relationship". Doesn't help that some men are too afraid of being seen as effeminate to ever admit to being lonely in the first place lol Either way, it's a multi-purpose word. Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:42 AM
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I'm sure you were still behaving this way last year.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:08 PM
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Ah, the "If my grandmother had wheels, she would have been a bike" rebuttal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:37 AM
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Your rigid definition of "need" is silly and barely even valid as a semantic argument. I need to get to Philadelphia on Monday for a meeting. I won't die if I don't go. I won't be fired if I don't go. It'll just be a pain in the ass for a bunch of people if I'm not there. Need is still the correct word.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:13 AM
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Lol she brought up empathy, not him. And she did it while completely dismissing the topic and implying it was only being broached to achieve a malicious goal. Ah, so much reading comprehension demonstrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:07 AM
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It feels like the difference between someone complaining that they don’t have a house to live in, vs someone complaining that they don’t live in a mansion. So it's like the difference between men complaining that they have no dating options vs women complaining about having to filter through too many options?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:01 PM
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Sounds like you concede on 7 out of 10 points. I'll take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:40 AM
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I never said you did? I can pretend I dont understand inference too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:36 AM
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Kamala lost and did run on basically "everyone but men should have their voice heard". Trump only cares about himself and he ran on no policies imo. Dems outreach to men was insulting. Not sure what you expect them to do but vote for the party that isn't actively malicious towards them (I've voted democrat down ballot for 20 years to be clear) Men aren't demanding anything. We are told not to. Hence your second point here. Men bad. Fix it yourselves. Got it. Cool. Thanks. Advocating for men's ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:27 PM
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If you wouldn't want to spend time with the person, don't take their comments to heart. Do you just plug your ears and "lalala" away folks who voice nazi rhetoric? This attitude is how societies crumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:31 AM
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"I'm not your therapists" can be used in a way you're describing and I do disagree with this attitude, but at least originally it's supposed to mean that your partner can't substitute professional help No well-meaning partner is ever saying "I'm not your therapist" in response to an emotional situation. If your partner is dropping this line rather than waiting for a period of calm to patiently discuss therapy, they don't give a fuck about you actually seeing a therapist - they just want you to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:14 AM
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So i think on balance yes women need to be more open to men showing vulnerability. But men need to find wider support systems too. Women - be more considerate with your partner's emotions. Men - reject societal norms that you've been raised with and manifest a well-rounded support system from scratch with other men who have been similarly conditioned. Ultimately I agree with you but these are not comparible expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:04 AM
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I think of the men I've known in my life all but two have thrown things/punched a wall. Women throw shit all the time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:54 AM
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• Males and women • Loser • Femcel Behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:40 PM
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Males. Projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:36 PM
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Oh well if you're pretty sure, I guess that settles it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:32 PM
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Women taking credit for being born into a society that default teaches them to support each other is so odd. Like congrats I guess? You did what you were raised being shown to do? It's like you're a nepo baby who wants to look down at the homeless because you have a job at your daddy's law firm lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:02 PM
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I'm probably more likely to settle down with a woman than a man Why is this? Genital type certainly doesn't impact a person's ability to behave like your ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:31 PM
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Like I said I do not believe that relationship equality really even exists. Having read your extensive comments here, I think you might believe it exists lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:28 PM
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I could say the same to your scenario. Yet to meet a fuck-maid irl actually. Alas, none of us are omnipresent so it's kinda irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:04 PM
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listening to women when they say XYZ is creepy is not a bad thing. You're eliminating the possibility that stupid/malicious women are also engaging in this feedback. TikTok telling 20 year old men that shit like wearing hats backwards or crocs is creepy is pretty objectively a bad thing. Creepy, to some women, is effectively just "I find this unattractive"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:37 PM
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Nah, i just thought it was a weak one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:52 AM
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Women aren't worse, they are just better at fucking criminals than they are at being criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:37 PM
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I never saw food service guys or retail workers being incels despite technically being at the bottom of the social and economic totem pole. You expecting the dude at the Wendy's drive through to mutter "I fucking hate women" when he hands you your order?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:34 PM
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Why is when women talk about creepy men, we’re told choose beeter, but when guys talk about being called creepy, its never his fault, its just women wanting Chad? I believe they call it Motivated Perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:07 PM
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Men are people, not validation appreciators.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 02:04 PM
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Women are people, not a source for validation. They are both. Validation is obtained societally (via people) Hopefully you come around to arguing in good faith at some point cause this twisting everything men here say down to whatever most degrading/misogynistic version your mind can think up really defeats the purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 09:05 PM
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The only difference is whether you still find them attractive lol I dont lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:20 AM
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For every man I see in an ill-fitted shirt and cargo shorts, there is a woman in skin tight leggings she hasn't got the physique for and shirt that looks like floral accented wallpaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:11 PM
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This would be the normal habitat you stalker lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:29 PM
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Leaving and abandoning are synonyms.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:25 PM
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It goes against my beliefs to get a biological abortion. But not a financial abortion. Your belief structure allows you to abandon your child but not abort a fetus?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:46 PM
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Wait, are adult women falling for this line? This kinda shit should red flag like crazy past high school. If a man said he got ghosted after some girl got a vacation out of him with "If you take me on a trip, I'll know you're serious about us", not a single person would treat him like a victim. He was just an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:16 PM
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Most men don't even know what that word means.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:16 AM
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Imagine falling in love with someone only to discover you are sexually incompatible. Craziness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:30 PM
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A guy with options means he's actively talking to many women at the same time A guy with options means he has a decent job, haircut and a reasonable tinder profile. Not sure why you think it's about how many women he's actively talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:28 PM
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You sound like one of his friends lol How meta.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:19 AM
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"I put my bad faith interpretations in quotes to make them appear more legitimate."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:27 AM
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Asking a woman to specify how quickly she lets men fuck her is like asking a man how big his dick is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 10:44 PM
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You have MANY female friends who have MANY male friends who don't want to sleep with them? You put out a group poll on Facebook or something? You are literally just making random stuff up. Think you might be projecting a bit here brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:39 AM
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Might be a net-positive for the women of this subreddit and their bulletpoint lists of why their sexism is justifiable. Wouldn't take more than a few occurrences before it can be added to the neverending set of scenarios that will statistically never happen to you but are totally worth fearing will occur every time you walk outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:25 AM
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So your unrealistic scenario for men is expecting a women they are trying to date to pay for the food she eats and actually be sexually interested in them. And the female equivalent is expecting to have your life bankrolled without doing in anything in exchange? These are equally ridiculous in your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 10:58 AM
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its why I find these convos so confusing. "What? No, I ate earlier, thanks. Why are all these starving people so damn interested in talking about food?" Hope it helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 08:44 AM
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There are ugly men who have charisma that are totally fuckable and that’s something that is captured early. How can you post this immediately after this lol I said what I said about 30 seconds to do a decent enough analysis. Skin, teeth, clothing, shoes, cleanliness, posture, hands, overall energy So there are men that bomb your first 7 points of criteria but run the whole thing back on just the thing you mention last? Cmon. Yall out here fucking homeless amateur magicians?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 08:38 AM
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If he asks questions about my living situation. Can you flesh this one out? The others make sense but this seems like a reasonable first date topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 08:33 AM
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And for every man who claims "women love the attention and live for the approach", there is a man who is crying because she got scared and filmed him or asked management for an escort to her car. Yes, people have different opinions based on their lived experience. So long as they don't posit those opinions as though speaking for all/most men, they aren't behaving like you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 01:27 PM
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Many of the women here are very confident that the thoughts and opinions they and their 6 female friends share are also shared by the vast majority of other women. Best just to not engage, this attitude is not approachable via reddit comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 09:01 PM
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So I don’t see the point of doing even more. Even more than what? Existing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:16 PM
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after a time of heartbreak healing Sometimes it doesn't heal. Sounds like you just haven't experienced that level of emotional pain so you assume it doesn't exist. Or you maybe think you're just better at "emotions", who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 11:21 PM
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If that's the only way men You're doing it again lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 11:14 PM
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Meaning your analogy sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:53 PM
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I think you may be conflating any amount of consideration towards a topic as immediately becoming thousands of hours scouring the internet for information.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:41 PM
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If you find yourself, as a woman, having similar success to a straight man on grindr, you should probably throw in the towel.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 12:37 PM
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To say that all of dating is easier for one gender or the other is dishonest and will only serve to divide people. Same goes for needing it to be a competition rather than just empathizing with a man who is expressing his troubles in dating. Women certainly don't appreciate it when men chime in with a "well men have issues like this too" but yall seem perfectly fine doing it when the situation is reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 12:32 PM
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"this is not a threat but if birth rates continue to plummet because of feminism, we are going to have to take measures" For every 1 incel I see posting this nonsense, I see 100 women regurgitating it like these men are littering every thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 12:23 PM
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It does matter if it's exaggerated. Women say men are more dangerous than bears. Exaggeration is part of the game now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:30 PM
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Males lol. You wouldn't care either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:27 PM
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I think men are just far more likely to suspend disbelief than women I think you need to get to know more women. Plenty of women with near-permanent suspended disbelief in their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:02 PM
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Lol yall gotta start fucking adult men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:12 PM
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Circlejerk in DMs, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:09 PM
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My experience is that they do So your one anecdotal experience. Why on earth do you think this extrapolates to anything significant?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:46 PM
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Weirdest set of circlejerking comments I've seen here so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:21 PM
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Then who on earth on you and OP talking to? There some secret server where all of the men who post here have their personal info compiled before you ladies make a final decision on their social worthiness? Or is this all a bunch of assumptive shit you've created in your head about the men here because only a loser would disagree with you about whatever silly topic trended today?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:29 AM
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So you know how nasty the men are on grindr but you're a straight woman. And then you feel confident that it's 1 in 30 men because of your dating history. So you've dated 30 men and 1 was a freak? 300:10? 3000:100? And then you somehow seem to know that only men are watching extreme porn. This that 1 freaky dude again or has someone outside of the voice in your head also said this? I think you just say whatever exaggeration or lie comes to mind to make your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:45 AM
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Men need to learn to shop in their budget not just look for a looks match. I swear, no man has ever portrayed women more aggressively like objects than I see other women do here every day lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 10:18 PM
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Women wanting, at the very least, a moderately expensive wedding and a diamond ring transcends all of the social circles that I've seen in America. Men aren't choosing to be born into this cultural norm so I'm not sure why you're acting like it's their fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 10:10 PM
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If the only thing you're going to do is deflect, could you at least quote me accurately?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 09:58 PM
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seen on several of my friends. Always the best route to crafting a theory you intend to apply to an entire gender - just gather a few friend's tales of how their relationships disintegrated despite them being incredible partners who did everything right. Simple answer indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 12:48 PM
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So let's logic this out - This man is miserable in his marriage. But if his wife does everything for him, why would he be unhappy? And if she's married to a miserable toddler of a man who isn't carrying anything in the relationship, why hasn't she left? Clearly she's more than capable of being single. You stole a quote that doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 12:32 PM
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I really shouldn't respond as you are clearly a perpetual hand-waiver but oh well. most people who are paying really don’t mind. The same underlying social coercion that pushes a man to pay for a strangers meal would also prevent them from voicing their displeasure in the process. you’d be surprised how many women are okay with not having any of these and don’t want these. Ahh, an assumption as to my level of surprise. What a useful metric to throw into a conversation. These things are demanded …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:44 PM
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I promise you, nobody thinks about this to such a great extent Yeah, that's kinda the point and why it comes up so often in these spaces. It's a net positive to women so there is really no societal interest in resolving it despite it clearly falling in the bucket of gender inequality. Same goes for big expensive weddings and the big expensive diamond ring the bride receives. Progressive women have no interest in walking away from the scenarios where they are the near-exclusively advantaged party…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:31 PM
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Nobody forces you to go to work every day either but it sure as hell ain't much of a choice. Coercion plays a huge role in most of the things we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:25 PM
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Having children does not create a biological demand for an obese mother. If motherhood was able to override our understanding of thermodynamics, I'm sure I would have caught wind of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:43 AM
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Guess what happens to a woman's body after a few kids? This type of language is part of the problem. Talking about a mothers inevitable obesity like she's an abandoned house being reclaimed by nature. Insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:56 PM
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Most of these men are far too stupid to intentionally engage in any of these behaviors you're describing. Idiots just look evil a lot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:04 AM
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True. Evil is the wrong word. Many believe that they would be safer with a wild bear than any random man. Maybe subhuman fits better than evil?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:57 AM
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It doesn't change a thing about my point but sure, I'll give it a disclaimer - Shitty people don't discuss the shitty things they do with people who don't also engage in or approve of that shitty thing. That work?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:17 PM
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(But that was an insta-dump - and frankly, the problem usually was evident early enough along that we didn't get to bed.) So you are complaining about a problem you were conjuring up in your head based off of other negative traits you spotted prior to having sex with them? And you think this is sufficient enough logic to not only dump them but to then speak to their THEORETICAL response to your THEORETICAL feedback as though it took place in real life? I thought that "she's mad at me because I m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:09 PM
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Why not just be friends or FWB? The entanglement of lives, emotions and everything else is so much effort if you're anticipating having to detangle it all. It'd be like convincing yourself to go to the gym everyday while assuming you're not going to improve in any way. Why make the effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:00 AM
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Do you consider yourself a feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:28 PM
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The difference in a woman who takes 15-20 minutes to get ready vs one who takes two hours is not the resulting attractiveness, it's her ability to respect other people's time and focus on the task at hand. That fourteenth change in your bracelets and earrings ain't making you prettier - It's making us fucking late for dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:23 PM
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tamper with a lone woman and interfere with her autonomy, her peace, and her safety. Well written victim-fiction, I must say. Insane to be sure but nice prose.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:48 AM
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So what do you mean by "we"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:31 AM
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Perhaps you can't read because I answered your point immediately and went back to the topic at hand. But way to completely ignore that original topic - again. But hey, you get ego boosts from arguments on reddit so I guess you are probably trying your best.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:16 PM
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The same thing with minorities. Minorities in their 20s, 30s and 40s don't talk shit about how they earned their freedom/rights so everyone else better put in the work lol Only women seem oblivious enough to stolen valor the efforts of people who aren't even alive anymore. What the fuck are they doing that’s even remotely close to the men I have talked about? Feel free to point me to the Wikipedia page detailing your efforts at improving things otherwise you sound completely fucking ridiculous. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:57 PM
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You will have to specify which kinds of feminisms you are talking about, which feminist ideologies you would like us to discuss. Did all of the sects get unique names and start differentiating as groups or is this just a deflection tactic? Last I checked they all just call themselves "feminists".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 09:10 AM
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How can we help that doesn’t require women. I'm trying to understand if this is a wording error because otherwise it makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 09:07 AM
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Because women actually fought for them and confronted the powers that be. So you get to enjoy the rewards of their fight, cause you sure as shit weren't alive for it, but you can't give any leeway to men? What silver spoon nonsense is this? Do you not even see your privilege here?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 08:58 AM
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I knew a guy like that. Purple Pill Woman How?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 08:46 AM
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So a woman can only have her "best years" before 30? How dreadful. If you're defining your "best years" by the time you are the most attractive to the most men, that's on you. But if you don't believe that metric to be valuable, who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 07:57 AM
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Can yall like, have a group meeting and decide what the fuck feminism is? Every sect seems to have hundreds of arrogant folks like you speaking objectively as to their ownership of the movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 07:37 AM
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I'm sure I bet you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 07:34 AM
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Books written on how to win at gambling don't usually contain sections on what you do with your winnings.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:39 PM
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we get much more societal pushback than older male/younger female relationships with age gaps of 15-120 years or even more. I swear this subreddit has an abnormal amount of people who conflate their lived experiences as being so much more valuable than anything they haven't directly dealt with. You don't get "much more pushback", you just think the shit you deal with is the only thing that is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:20 PM
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We all feel that some standards are impossible and we all crave validation or connection. Some folks complain that they don't like the taste of the water from their tap and others complain about the fact that they have no water to drink. I'd expect the latter group to be a bit more aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 11:12 AM
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I’ve never heard anyone wanting men not to share with each other? I've never heard anyone discuss wanting to rape or assault women. People who behave shittily don't just go around chatting about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:05 PM
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Never seen a goalpost moved so blatantly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:19 PM
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You are fruitlessly complaining about other people fruitlessly complaining lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:54 AM
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Im not sure what are you talking about When someone says "women", they don't mean "all women". Sounds like lazy reasoning to me but it seems to be accepted when discussing "men".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:53 AM
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You can't just roll into Thanksgiving dinner with a shit pie and then stomp your feet, demanding to see what food everyone else brought to eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:34 PM
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Multiple folks quoting the same person, who is famous for being an actress rather than a feminist is actually proving OPs point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:31 PM
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I’d argue woman hatred is more physically dangerous though. Who would you be arguing with? No one here is claiming otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:25 PM
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So men are dealing with profound self-hatred issues alongside equal amounts of hatred from women? Cool. What a useless comparative evaluation...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:29 PM
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Unrelated question - do you ever get confused or angry when you see food that you dislike being sold at the grocery store?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:06 AM
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men are choosing to initiate and are not forced. The definition of a bad faith argument lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:03 AM
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A few dozen morons refuse to wash their ass because they think its gay and all of a sudden "lots and lots of men don't wash their asses". The internet makes every one-off lunatic out to be a person you need to watch out for. It's incredibly dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:55 AM
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but most women will agree this is the normal pattern. Most women (people) don't agree about much of anything and there is certainly no data AFAIK that points to this conclusion. People who have had negative experiences are significantly more likely to voice those experiences. The occasional squeaky wheel does not imply that all wheels need grease.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:46 AM
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So no answer. Cool. Trump doesn't strike me as a reader so I suppose he may have not literally lied on that one. Probably got the verbal cliff notes from the authors when they were discussing their future roles in his cabinet. Where they will, ya know, enact the shit they wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 10:12 PM
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I see women routinely argue other women into the ground when something they say rings false, but I very rarely see men argue against the insane takes of their peers. Wow. I see literally the exact opposite. That's interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 05:24 PM
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How many co-authors of Project 2025 does he need to enlist into his cabinet to shift his alignment for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 05:22 PM
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The only women jumping in this early and not just echoing their support online were already not fucking anyone outside of very progressive men so it's kinda just pissing off allies... And I don't buy that conservative men are faking it to get women into bed - a woman who has decided to participate in 4b would absolutely make politics a major part of first date conversation and young conservative men aren't exactly known for their impressive intellect. These women know a conservative man when the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 04:04 PM
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I dont know it it's reasonable to directly link 4Bs current strength to women increasingly being single and childless. I haven't seen any large-scale data that can attribute these stats being due to the lifestyle actively being "chosen" rather than just disinterest or low effort due to low expectations. I'd bet it more likely that the post-internet era has allowed for a subset of people to be completely solitary without sacrificing everything that choice would have entailed 50 years ago. Also wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:48 PM
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Women are giving up sex cause Nick Fuentes trolled them (which he does every day but usually to minorities). I cannot imagine the backlash they would get if they banned TwoX. I don't think the lunatics housed there have a 4chan-esque alternative to fall back on like the incels did.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:41 PM
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I'm a moderate btw Lol how moderate did you feel when you voted for Trump? Moderates don't call people fascists and only boomer fox news watchers kept using snowflake after the mid 2010s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:36 PM
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I swear to God you’re mad if they stay and you’re mad if they refuse to tolerate bullshit. I know that all of the text here looks the same but it's actually different people saying different things and not just one super hypocritical man. The more ya know. 🌈
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 04:47 AM
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Because capitalism still exists and connects hot young women to rich douchebags? It's always been a derogatory term though so the point still stands I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 04:44 AM
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Id accept that logic in any other setting but not here, sorry. Good on ya if that's true but I was speaking more broadly, to the women of this subreddit in general. It's pretty consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 04:27 AM
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I really wish there was a more efficient way for you all to provide feedback that is critical of other women without having to write a disclaimer that's twice as long just reminding everyone that men can also be bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:55 PM
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Some people are idiots indeed You completely misrepresented the information. Countering ignorant opinions with bad information does not improve things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:49 PM
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This opinion would only anger SAHMs with a wildly elevated opinion of their daily demands. These women are already married and have children. They won't be participating in the 4b movement... You could have at least dodged the rebuttal with a point that made sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:19 AM
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Yeah some people are idiots, I'm talking about your grandiose "well well well" nonsense. Focus.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:13 AM
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If this were true, you would be working 7 days a week in a fuckin coal mine lol I get it, we hate boomers on reddit but try to stay at least a little grounded in reality. Plenty of shade in comparison to a brief moment ago in history.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:00 AM
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"Social skills" in this comparison is literally autism lol Like yeah, no shit having a pretty face ranks lower in impact compared to being autistic. This ain't a revelation, this is you not understanding the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:37 AM
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Don't date men who disparage groups of people. There ya go. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:30 AM
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Men have certain social barriers to overcome that women do not. A woman can strike up a conversation without causing worry/concern, especially with the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 10:35 PM
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The same person who paid all the bills lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:33 PM
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People who say that never run a successful household. I find this type of language similar to the weaponizing of therapy-speak. You are not running a factory - you are picking up toys, vacuuming and doing laundry.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:26 PM
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People are no more responsible for choosing their intellect than they are for choosing the symmetry of their face. Being a horny eruditian is not some elevated state of being compared to women who marries a himbo. I mean, other than the fact that they don't imply that their husband is physically unattractive with their reasoning lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 10:11 AM
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Women when women choose to be selfish - "Your happiness is what matters! Do what you need to do to live your best life!" Women when men choose to be selfish - "How dare you?!"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 10:03 AM
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commits mass genocide via murder It's gender-agnostic. Every ruler with an army has committed mass genocide.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:29 PM
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Beggars can't be choosers. Women aren't begging. They can choose. His post is pretty dumb but so are most of these rebuttals.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 07:31 AM
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You say "most" and "usually" too much. Be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 07:30 AM
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Oh, you're a child. Shit, sorry, didn't mean to come at you so aggressively.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 09:37 AM
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You should look up the definition of objectively. And hey, then you can say you've mastered the English language and be an Arbiter on that subject!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 09:31 AM
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Why are the trolliest trolls on this subreddit always blue pillers?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:10 PM
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We know pregnancy and childbirth has devastating physical and mental consequences I like how the narrative has swung from one ridiculous set point to another. Used to be women were expected to be fully capable in days and now we assume every woman will have extreme PPD and years of intense physical recovery. It's like we can't ever have reasonable narratives. Everything has to be discussed at a spectrum's end depending on who needs to be the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:03 PM
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Most men would happily take the money because that's all they care about Lol what part of the blue pill espouses this misandrist shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:56 PM
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You: I have definitive knowledge on how children behave. Also you: I had a 3 year old for 8 hours last month Dr. Fuckin Spock over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:52 PM
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You can specify bad feminists. They don’t and don’t need to represent the underlying philosophy That’s like me saying criminals accurately represent men It is up to "good feminists" to publically distance themselves from "bad feminists" and the larger group seems hesitant to do that. Better to stay silent I guess, than to call out any woman being critical of men. Cause then you'd be a pick-me or somesuch.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:37 PM
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Because you're a man. Then why did women have to EARN their rights?? Women alive today in the west have earned just as many rights as men have. None. This stolen valor nonsense is absolutely victim mongering. A thing you weren't alive for is your jumping off point of how hard it is to be a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:20 PM
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Everything is luck. Free will is a lovely little lie we tell ourselves. Just gotta try your best to roll with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:13 PM
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Twice but completely irrelevant. (Other than to say go fuck yourself for the assumption) I just understand that ghosting a psychopath vs rejecting them directly doesn't matter. They are crazy people who would respond crazily no matter what. One is just cowardly and let's me avoid an awkward responsibility while also painting myself as a victim. Like I said, shit children do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:59 AM
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They aren't implying you're discussing it with strangers. They're asking how you can confidently know someone's inner turmoil on discussing something like this. It's rhetorical anyway. You can't know and behaving like you do is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:57 PM
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Cesspit of a subreddit with absolutely no purpose other than to silo hurt people together and further the gender divide. Believing that any action you take or don't take will impact the responsive behaviors of lunatics is bullshit and just an excuse for women to not have to behave like adults when they interact with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:13 PM
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But here's what the left doesn't seem to understand. They can afford to dismiss our viewpoints. We can't afford to dismiss theirs. Huh? Yall just won the entire government - it's literally the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:19 PM
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You've already said you've read the research and have tried to convince him. Your stance is that it shouldn't be done if that's the case. Again, you are hiding behind things so you can just acquiesce to your husbands ignorant demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:41 PM
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“Men have needs” Literally never heard this quote in my life. Trying to even picture what kind of man would say this because it comes off as incredibly feminine - most men who are controlled by their libido are terrified of that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:08 AM
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if you give him the benefit of the doubt. Lol, new here?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 06:37 PM
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If you are complicit, you are responsible. Stop blaming the man you fucked and take accountability for the wellbeing of your future child.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 06:34 PM
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Huh, I thought people who let their daddy issues dictate their relationships weren't so actively aware of said daddy issues...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:08 PM
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Some folks are willing to sacrifice a dual 6 figure income household because they fell in love. You can just have less shit. Just one of a million scenarios... The world is not just filled with the one type of relationship you imagined while typing out a pissy response lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:05 PM
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What's it like to imagine that your hyper-unique infinitesimally fractional existence is worth throwing into conversations as a guiding path for billions of others? Does it feel as narcissistic as it sounds?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:59 PM
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When men give general advice that paints women as bad people based on only their own negative experiences, we call them incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:58 PM
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Unless we suddenly begin to see millions of women putting on MAGA hats, you will continue to unknowingly defend and cheerlead these women in every conversation that isn't explicitly about trump and abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 09:59 PM
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How many of the people who say "kill all men" have ever actually killed any men? Probably a similar number to the amount of women internet incels have killed. Neither group goes outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:08 PM
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You earlier in this same comment section - You value money for yourself and I value a better community. Some of you are fucking caricatures I swear.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:57 AM
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I just gotta know. Would you have this same level of unempathetic aggressiveness with a woman who had been SAd by two men on dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 07:33 AM
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If you wanna live and die by some silly stats, go for it. Grandpa at Thanksgiving dinner explaining why he thinks vaccinations are a hoax.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 07:31 AM
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Imagine someone asking a woman who was SAd twice why she wasnt asking new dates if they were rapists rather than just empathizing with her lol These women are going on dates while dating/living with men who are willing to commit felonies. She's not gonna be like "Oh yeah, Daves gonna try to kill you for taking me to applebees".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 07:25 AM
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All men initially misrepresent themselves as competent, chivalrous sweethearts. Light blue pilled lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 07:35 AM
2

Downplaying the power that feminism holds in progressive spaces is just arguing in bad faith tbh. The fact that feminism has, in no way, swayed towards egalitarianism should be proof enough that many women are not interested in equality and men are not likely to see improvements while this remains the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 07:29 AM
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Lol they didn't even mention the person's political affiliation. Utter brainrot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 07:13 AM
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And they did it (and continue to do it) with the help of men. But for men, it's solely on their shoulders? Sure seems like that a lot of women are happy to pull that gender equality ladder up behind them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:47 AM
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You have to want to be liberated regardless of how others perceive you and I don’t think men are at that point yet and I’m not sure they ever will. Unless you are near to a centenarian, stop it with this stolen valor nonsense. You are riding the wave of progressivism that OTHER women AND men fought for. Casting your dismissive bullshit on men while you've done absolutely nothing but be born at the right time is utterly ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:41 AM
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Dang, using an anecdote where you come off terribly as proof of what all men do is certainly one way to go about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:28 AM
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We are where we are as a species, in part, due to our ability to overanalyze things. And we do it with everything. It's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:52 PM
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Me when I get my masters degree in history so I can discover more scenarios to justify my hatred of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:29 AM
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You have years and years of everyday experiences and encounters with male morticians fucking corpses?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:11 AM
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Women die alone because women live longer! Pregnancy is dangerous and kills women! AI designed to reply to any topic with a reason why it's actually about women being victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:37 PM
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Yes, yes, being called names by idiots is analogous to being poisoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:12 PM
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This is the move fellas. Every time you get told that the problem might in fact be you, just say some silly shit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:26 PM
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We tend to assume that our personal preferences are more universal than they truly are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:01 PM
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A glass of room temperature tap water sounds pretty appealing to folks suffering from terminal dehydration.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:57 AM
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Reducing safe down to boring is so incredibly lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:05 AM
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I completely agree with you but I'm curious if you don't think this is almost an identical problem for young women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:01 AM
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Dang, that's impressive. How many reincarnations did you have to run through before being capable of deciding what can and cannot happen in a relationship? Musta be quite a few. Kudos.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:25 PM
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You keep ignoring their main point. Do you agree or disagree that porn and erotica are interchangeable in this discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 11:26 AM
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You left out the behind their back part? I talk shit about my dumbass friends to their faces. Because they are my friends. That's how it works. As I said, different definition of friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:15 PM
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So long as you don't blame men for fucking married women, fair enough. Both parties suck to varying degrees imo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 06:47 PM
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Probably wouldn't end the friendship but would talk shit behind her back tbh I feel like you have a fundamentally different definition of friendship than most people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 06:42 PM
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If you abstract this comment out like a half-step, you could be talking about a man purchasing a fleshlight. Some folks are a bit more of an active participant in their own lives is all I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:02 PM
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Speaking in absolutes about the behavior and actions of 4 billion people is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:47 AM
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Man, men don’t like truths that don’t be either do they? Can I get that again in english?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:20 AM
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Most rapists are people you trust. And most people you trust aren't rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:07 AM
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Seeing as you've already depicted men as the Soyjak and women as the Chad, I suppose you're right. (You may be too internet-brained to understand normal phrases so I'm speaking to you in memes. If this reaches you, please come back to reality)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:04 AM
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Your defense of your source is that other shitty sources also exist and are referenced? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:42 PM
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A few dozen men is effectively an anecdote.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:56 PM
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I can't tell if you're a bot or just resort to nonsensical replies when you've run out of points. Either way, this reply doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:31 AM
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People respect me I'm not saying you're wrong but I can confidently say that every person I've met who feels comfortable declaring this has been incredibly wrong lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 07:43 AM
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muscle building require skimpy clothing. Tell that to every powerlifter at the gym wearing a 3xl hoodie and sweatpants. If they can squat 700 pounds in winter-wear, you can do it without me seeing your labia.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:14 AM
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You have an uncanny confidence in being able to see the truly terrible person existing behind reddit comments that I assume only exists in freshmen psychology students. Perhaps you should indulge in a bit of this self-flaggelation you speak of.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:59 AM
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You are arguing against a point I never made. Men have it great compared to the past and I never claimed otherwise. I should have used this point as another deflection example.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:53 AM
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There isn’t a woman alive who won’t acknowledge that we have it better than what we had 100+ years ago. There are several in this comment section.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:46 AM
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My gut is rarely wrong so i follow it. Said every lunatic ever to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 10:38 AM
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ATM, men are getting more of it. But a few decades ago I don't care. The women behaving this way weren't alive a few decades ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 10:37 AM
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I wouldn’t of had to hit you if you will be made me kind of stuff. I refuse to believe you have heard this reasoning used in the past 30 years and have it be met with public acceptance. This is some 1950s shit. Yall gotta stop pulling this stolen valor nonsense from your great grandmothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 10:29 AM
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Saying women should stop expecting their partner to out-earn them is not expecting them to be disadvantaged. It's expecting them to shoulder equality in one of the rare instances where it doesn't suit them. You're right though, when equality feels like oppression, like not demanding a man be the more significant provider, it really does speak to a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:48 PM
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So the scholarship programs that are currently targeted at women should be refocused on men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:35 PM
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but the alternative is go out there and meet with men who only want sex, or aggressive, or still married. So in a sense risk reward ratio I mean yeah, if you assume all men who try to date you are pieces of shit... but that's not reality. That's just sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:35 AM
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People don't talk about the "easy to manipulate" thing for women in their 20s, that's a strawman you just invented. If you haven't seen this, you are overlooking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:09 PM
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There are many women who are like I was. You just don't see them. Is this a datapoint you're pulling from somewhere or were you just unhappy with your experience being anecdotal so you felt the need to throw a "BTW- lots of women are suffering and men suck for not even noticing" disclaimer on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 09:21 AM
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If we drop context for every question then it's easy to refute what anyone says Around here, you gotta HOPE it's just the context being dropped and not a complete mental rewrite of your words with the assumption you're actually one of the most evil people walking the earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:49 AM
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Sounds like you've got an informed opinion there, bringing up data and all... Got a paper to point to regarding the reason for the discrepancy or is this just a hunch?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 07:21 AM
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You're treating a stranger non-neutral based on an immutable characteristic. Racists are doing the same. It's just replacing penis with skin color. How you can have so blatant a 1:1 comparison exist and treat one as righteous and the other as basically one of the worst things a person can do is incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:47 AM
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I mean it in the same way you'd mean it when describing how a racist might passively treat minorities. Down to the same dismissive justification of "just exerting caution and common sense around strangers". These people are the company you're keeping.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:57 AM
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Never understood this argument. The second example is implicitly followed by "or i will leave you". It's just semantics. "Don't cheat on me" is certainly not controlling lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:39 PM
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Don't think that was their goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:36 PM
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Yes, yes, you think men are bad and women are good. Thanks for the unnecessary detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:26 PM
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hence why the leaving usually happens after securing a replacement In retrospect, it's much better to just leave the way women do Lol did I enter an alternate universe where men are monkey-branching and women aren't?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:12 PM
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You're wrong. Feel free to Google both phrases.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 11:43 AM
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Statistically you are wrong since SA is more likely to be done by someone you know. That's my whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 11:42 AM
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You can be wary of someone, use common sense, or exert caution and not isolate yourself from society. I agree but to point towards statistics to justify a distrust of men who are strangers while ignoring the far more significant statistic that most SA is done by men you know doesn't make sense. I think it's just that you lose nothing by treating strangers poorly but losing a close relationship isn't worth it so you ignore the stats. But if that's the case, it's not really about preventing SA - I…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 11:23 AM
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You've pushed so deep into a progressive stance on rejection that you've accidentally wandered into ableism lol "I rejected you because your eyes are giving retarded" HA
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:03 PM
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Huh. Odd that none of Leonardo Dicaprios' girlfriends have ever asked for advice. Hasn't stopped millions of women from offering up their crazy opinions/concerns.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:54 AM
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It's not true, generalizing people is always wrong These are excerpts from, quite literally, your last 3 comments today - Over the billions of simps, bfs and male friends I've encountered. They only do that to flirt. . Africa is full of promiscuity, they aren't necessarily the best continent ever . Premeditated cheating is done by intelligent beings in order to obtain an advantage of some kind. If it's done by pure emotion, then said person is a slave. Either take your own advice or stop making …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:40 AM
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Ahh so its like jealous women calling men groomers/pedos for doing the exact same thing. We aren't so different after all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:57 AM
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Huh. This sub must just be full of abnormal women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:53 AM
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Unironic r/malesandwomen user jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:46 AM
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So he should be able to feel upset but ultimately your feelings matter more and he should squash his feelings with empathy for you? Even though you are the one misjudging him? He's the only victim in this scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:42 AM
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Males lol Yall are such fucking hypocrites, I swear.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:37 AM
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It's okay. Lots of people are utterly uneducated in areas they consider to be major parts of their belief structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:35 AM
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So rather than have a space where men and women are both respected and considered, you'd prefer we funnel everyone into their respective hate-filled silos? Brilliant stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:33 PM
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The relationships sub are the only places on reddit that have any 'pro' women comments So all of the places where critical discussion about gendered issues take place? A bunch of incels jerking each other off on meme subreddits is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:29 PM
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rather have an easy life than be having confrontations constantly. This doesnt make sense. Isn't them vaguely hitting on you also a constant confrontation?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:36 PM
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he is just dumb or has nefarious intentions of using her for whatever Same could be said for the woman in this scenario. Happens just as often.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:33 PM
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Sounds like a pair of cowards tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:30 PM
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act like a feminine and appreciative woman. Jfc. No one is buying this subterfuge in 2024. Just say "have sex with me".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:13 PM
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Internet WGTOWs always be thinking they are the majority lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:01 AM
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I dont think you want to be on the receiving end of most species sexual proclivities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:58 AM
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Analogies this bad should be bannable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:37 AM
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1-3% chance that the most monumental thing in your life is the product of the worst deception possible from the person you've trusted the most. No biggie.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:26 AM
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Incels and femcels say all kinds of deranged nonsense. So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:12 PM
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use you as a fleshlight Sometimes it's the only thing being offered that's worth taking. Just sayin.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:09 PM
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or going gay, This is dumb, just fyi
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:04 PM
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Lol you seem nice, best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:26 AM
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Pretty sure they are implying that many women should not have these demands that they themselves fail to meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:02 AM
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I have fallen for more than a few gay men You say this like it speaks positively to your character but I sure bet you wouldn't like a man who has "fallen for more than a few lesbians".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:19 AM
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Nah, it's just cope women use for justifying their terrible choice in men. Same with men who always date crazy women but "at least they are crazy in bed too". All cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:51 AM
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Ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 02:09 PM
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You provided an example that proves that despite low probability, sometimes you should just take the risk. This is the opposite of your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 02:09 PM
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Nah they are saying treating every man like a potential rapist is like treating every black person like a potential criminal. Both are bad, both are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:34 AM
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The odds of me winning the lottery are infinitesimal but I still buy the occasional ticket Unless the odds are zero, there’s no harm in being cautious. God yall suck at analogies. You out here cautiously buying powerball tickets?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:31 AM
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Fuck you're moral consistency. Aww did someone forget to build their belief structure off solid principles?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:22 AM
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I'd rather be cold to a guy who had good intentions, than let my guard down around someone who didn't. I learnt that the hard way. old racist person discussing black men being potential criminals
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:43 PM
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It's simply a reality for women everywhere that we don't know which men could pose a threat to us. This is the exact same logic racists use when they assume all black people are thugs to "protect themselves". You're no better than they are. I am still constantly astounded how the whole "don't judge people based on immutable characteristics" thing doesn't apply to penis-havers. It is such a good first principle that we've really fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 07:52 AM
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Feminists didn’t create it Such a dull point. Men created everything horrible because men created almost everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 12:42 PM
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Do you think the percentage of men who are rapists and women who use language manipulatively are the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:43 AM
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No response to my point AND you sleuthed through my comments to workshop an insult? I guess I hit a nerve lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:07 AM
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Another fun dichotomy - Men who want to be with you without getting to know you are douchebags. And men who get to know you first are just sneaky assholes pretending to get to know you to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:51 AM
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I guess the definition of friend can vary a bit but this seems to fall outside of even that range. This is like, an acquaintance at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:46 AM
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This is true regardless of category or genre. You've made so many comments for such a silly point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:14 AM
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Men very often will leave over not getting sex. So do women. Sexual satisfaction is very important to the longevity of a relationship. And men say from their own mouths that they don’t care about our hobbies or interests Just like "women" say they don't care about video games and sports. Who cares? Not everyone is compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:46 PM
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An ex girlfriend tried to burn my house down once. I dont consider women to be arsonists because of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:05 AM
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Oh so you don't even have first hand experience guiding your opinion. Fantastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:04 AM
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So like 30-50 men then. You should publish that data.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:03 AM
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shifting contexts If by context you mean the gender of the person you're talking to, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:01 PM
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Mhmmm. And that's cool for them. Shouldn't you be "tut-tutting" this commentor for labeling a negative human behavior as being an explicitly male one? Can't even be consistent in the same comment section... always gotta be team sports around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:03 PM
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It's also frustrating because a large portion of men aren't like this. It's just that unfortunately a larger portion are. Let me guess, these stats are based on you having dated 3 slobs vs 2 men concerned with cleanliness?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 12:55 PM
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Yeah, no worries. I wouldn't say insufficient though, I just dont find it appropriate to let my trauma negatively impact my view of strangers. Seems like the obvious way to behave but we all have different perspectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:58 AM
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I'm asking you specifically to read what was written, the point being made is that the actions of some men are dehumanizing. And the actions of some minorities are criminal. Being told not to worry because you're one of the good ones is insufficient in all cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:38 PM
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Would you silently listen to a racist try to justify their racism because they were assaulted by minorities in the past? That's what you're asking men to do here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:39 PM
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It is specifically things that sexualize a man’s appearance that men are lacking. I literally asked you to name any of these things and you missed that I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:00 AM
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Lol you say some of the most simplistic, childish nonsense on this subreddit. You 10 hours ago - Men don’t want to be betas, they want to be the alpha impregnators who leave
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:17 AM
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then they should start sexualizing themselves and their bodies for the opposite sex's consumption the same way women do Could you expand on this? Curious if there is anything outside of good hygiene, physical fitness and proper clothing. Women are sexualized by default so honestly don't believe this is a gap that can be bridged.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:52 AM
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The majority of women are not attracted to men who wear significant amounts of makeup to hide their immutable flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:44 AM
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You live in an alternate reality...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:16 AM
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Nah, it's just you I think. When you're a misandrist, everything you say is Implicitly misandrist lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:14 AM
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heightened standards of excellence our mothers had to perform to. The women who fought to get into the workforce, fought for education, and equal pay. They had to do it all, be the same beautiful and caring woman they were assigned and then carry the added weight of professional success on top of that. Jesus Christ, you're describing like <1% of women in the past century. Most women in 1920 were not doing a damn thing, just like most men. Just like most of us now. They were just regular people -…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:12 AM
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If your "hormones" override your "logic and reasoning" abilities You're using the same lines as misogynistic men use towards women on their periods lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:54 AM
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It's a meh gotcha but hormones do kinda run the show you must admit. Plenty of straight women actively complain about being sexually attracted to men...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:17 AM
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A man could make these same complaints. This has nothing to do with gender. Playing the game doesn't require you to have a penis. It requires you to do shit you don't want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:57 AM
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who will still like us when it’s over. This is unknowable lol. Life isn't a romcom.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:58 AM
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I wish I could craft such ridiculous narratives to prove why things happen. Must make life so much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:56 AM
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This subreddit has a Implicitly acknowledging that the world has a Women are Wonderful/Victims bias lol You love to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:53 PM
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Haven't seen this level of conceit here yet but I'm pretty sure self-circlejerking is also not allowed...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:47 PM
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Men are not a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:11 PM
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It’s normal to have anxiety around and not trust strangers. It's not normal to have anxiety around strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:23 AM
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Exactly most violent crimes are committed by men, so idk what kind of idiot we’d have to be to just blindly walk around trusting every single guy?? Ahh, so you also consider every black man to be a criminal by default, right? Just trying to follow your logic here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:22 AM
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You are proving their point...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:16 AM
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Your gender-swapped scenario misses the whole "years of deceit from your spouse" bit. Kinda the whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:41 AM
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The way you believe the average man behaves is analogous to the way incels believe the average woman behaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:35 AM
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Until the subset of people committing violence and violative actions stop, I don’t see the subset of people reacting negatively to the violence and violative actions stopping easily. Good luck. Would you apply this same logic to a person refusing to stop being racist because - "until black men stop being criminals, I will continue to assume they are all criminals"?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:32 AM
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It's real simple. I'll reduce it down to a simpler analogy to help even morons get the idea. If the book you just wrote here is the simpler version, what the fuck does the standard version look like? Learn to make concise analogies jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:26 AM
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Troll
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:08 AM
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they know very quickly if they want to marry you or not Anyone who "knows very quickly" that they want to spend the rest of their life with you either lacks self esteem or has attachment issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:07 AM
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and those same men that say "find an emily to marry" are the same men saying "marriage is nothing for a man, never marry" Nah, you just like to think they are the same people so you can judge them as hypocrites and move on. The internet is large.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:04 AM
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women have a much bigger risk of their date getting intimidated that she's coming on too strong. Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:02 AM
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What these takes seems to be missing is that the kid is a separate person from the mom, who you (hopefully) form a relationship with apart from your relationship with their mother. And what your take seems to be missing is that these men now have a walking, talking, different man's features having reminder of the years and years of lies and deceit they endured. But it's a scenario you can never experience so you have 0 empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:47 AM
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Yes, the world is huge, there probably exist women who do it ‘for attention’, and there also exist women who do it because ‘it makes them feel good’. Reread that statement and tell us why you only dropped a "probably" on the first scenario? It's like woman here are incapable of providing direct criticism against other women in any way without some form of plausible deniability.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:38 AM
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They were agreeing with you and then stating something they felt is equally as bad. Not saying you said it. Yall really gotta stop letting your defensiveness override your ability to comprehend what people are writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:27 PM
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Women are socialized to care more about their appearance That just increases the baseline for women, not the men they are with. If every woman puts more effort in, the bar for an average woman just goes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:32 PM
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Clean goalpost move from "do these people even exist" to "just ignore them bro".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 08:24 AM
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Having boobs is considered attractive much more than height for women. The only thing I can think you're saying here is incredibly wrong but this sentence is so poorly written that I can't be sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:22 AM
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Yes, it's as equally stupid as that. Thanks for the observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:27 PM
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Bit unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:31 AM
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Do you think we are one collective mestsack? Guess hate is easier that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:27 AM
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This is such a childish response to criticism. Tantrum-esque.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:21 AM
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A single reddit comment with no upvotes is worth attributing to "men". Why even waste time pasting that link? It just makes you look silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:28 PM
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You're comparing 30% of women to .001% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:05 AM
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I've never met a strong and independent person who describes themselves as "strong and independent" I think it's similar to men who always want to talk about how badass they are. They're never anything close.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:53 AM
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Women need flirting skills about as much as hot people need to be funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:52 AM
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Pretty sure there is no requirement that you meet with them for lunches and dinners. I'd advise looking up what social circles means but that might take a small percentage of your victimhood away.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:25 AM
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It's a good thing that as, I'm assuming, a progressive woman, you spend your life completely separated from these conservative misogynistic douchebags. Different social circles being what they are... Unfortunately for progressive men, misandry is inherent to the progressive groups they find themselves in every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:30 PM
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It’s just a feeling and not every feeling needs to be addressed. Yall sure are logical when men are being idiots... Feel free to use this brilliant reply whenever women here are discussing the nonstop fear of being raped/assaulted they allow to dictate their lives and general distrust of men. Some feelings don't need addressing, amiright?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:41 AM
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So you believe that if a poll was run on twox asking "do you consider yourself to be a feminist?" - it wouldn't be answered OVERWHELMINGLY yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:22 PM
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You are thinking of radical feminists. They just call themselves feminists. And they are loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:18 PM
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so obviously it’s not just about being easy because even when you’re not easy Men can't know if you're lying. For every anecdote like yours, there is a woman who says she doesn't have sex on the first date but absolutely does.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:20 AM
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Women ITT: Men experience more violent crime but since they share the same genital type as their attackers, it's not as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:04 AM
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Removing acne scaring alone can jump a person 3 points. Contouring could go 4+ depending on the feature you're obscuring.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:19 AM
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If you have stats showing females murdering and raping as much as males, I’m all ears. The bar for trauma doesn't start at rape/murder. You continuing to set it there is telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:18 AM
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There are 8 billion people on earth. There is abundant evidence for all kinds of shit that rarely happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:10 AM
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The behavior is the same, the reasoning behind it is not. It's like saying "Hey look, those two people are both running" and one is participating in a race while the other is being chased by a tiger.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:07 AM
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I thought circlejerking wasn't allowed in this subreddit...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:31 AM
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You'll be 80 or 90% of your natty limit after two years of hard training. Absolute lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:25 AM
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Stating that someone is wary of something is not hating them. Racists have been dogwhistling in this EXACT way for decades. Cmon now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:09 AM
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"When men have trauma, it's petty nonsense. When women have trauma, it's totally justified." So unbiased. So brave.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:03 AM
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More like a 5 to 5.5, maybe 6. Women rarely judge other women as sub 5. Some "unity over reality" nonsense. These post-makeup women were likely 3s to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:55 AM
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Men tend to be more thirsty People with less/no access to water do tend to be thirstier. Framing it as "some men will fuck anything" is so weak a point. Like yeah, hormones ain't gonna stop hormoning just because you're ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:49 AM
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So interesting how the default response for a man expressing a complaint is to victim blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 07:46 AM
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OP has specifically said just one cat is insufficient. But this whole thread is stupid so I guess you being misaligned with OP is just a minor issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:00 AM
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You're applying your own severe thoughts about sex to everyone else. Some people can decouple sex from intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:26 AM
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they would rather be in an abusive relationship with a drug addict than be alone I would wager that significantly more women are in this scenario than men. Just another needlessly gendered whinefest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:05 PM
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You continue to astound me with these statements! The only thing you need to work on controlling is your own unreasonable fear of being assaulted. The world does not need MORE fear of the unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:51 PM
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Ahh yes, an anecdote. My mind is changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:27 AM
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women struggle with safety Men are 6-7 more likely to be assaulted or murdered than women in the US. Your fear is self-imposed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:24 AM
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I think the only thing easy about being a man is less fear of being assaulted. Even though statistically you have a higher chance even as a man. I can't believe this was sincerely written out. Yall have been encouraged to be victims to such a degree that you've created self-aware cognitive dissonance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:21 AM
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Would you judge a starving homeless person for eating food out of a dumpster?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:06 AM
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Wanting to improve to get someone better is not hypergamy. Wanting someone better without improving is hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 04:38 PM
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He doesn’t want his looksmatch. He wants to elevate himself to achieve a higher looksmatch, but that is not possible. Which again, is blackpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:34 PM
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You could at least pretend to argue the point. This IS blackpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:46 PM
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Isn't a huge tenet of the blackpill that physical attractiveness is a primary determiner in sexual interest? And that there are limited/no ways to overcome this? This is textbook blackpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:40 PM
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It would be arrogant and ignorant to dismiss assume the general/majority view
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:53 AM
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Are you daft? Ghosting people is shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:36 AM
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Men are not a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:34 AM
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Agreed. You are amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:05 AM
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Can you expand on this fun fact? Does a male rape victim not count because their penis cancels out the rapers penis?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:56 AM
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Okay. Good luck with that. See if gamifying relationships gets you your virgin tradwife when you’re 40. For someone calling others bitter, you sure do reak of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:50 AM
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Having an easier time getting dates doesn’t mean it’s easy to find commitment with your soulmate. It literally does. Like mathematically.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:08 AM
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Then they wonder why we hate males Lol no one's wondering why you hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 08:15 AM
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Excellent rebuttal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 04:47 PM
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What a shit argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 12:49 PM
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Maybe like, um, hey you burnt a bunch of women at the stake. If 14 women and 5 men being killed 300+ years ago is your go-to example for how you're oppressed by the patriarchy, you've already lost the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:02 AM
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An interesting point. I do think men fear losing (being a loser) more than women do but it still falls back into other issues - Men are told they need to win to have value. Women are not. Men have fewer safety nets if they repeatedly lose in life than women, generally. So yes I agree the insult packs more of a punch for men but only because of the unfair implications it speaks to. Women "own it more" in the same way that men own being called ugly more - because it has fewer social implications.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:45 AM
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I would not care because their "privilege" doesn't mean anything for my success. This is a discussion about societal value, not how it would impact you directly. Feel free to apply this logic to most conversations on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:42 AM
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I think we call those "grifters" nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:34 PM
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Thats very disingenuous. We all make immediate assessments of strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:25 PM
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their "friend" fucks right off the face of the earth upon hearing a relationship isn't on the table. You're placing so much malice on this. If you fall for your friend and they don't reciprocate, sometimes you need to step away for your mental health, not because the friendship was fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 08:13 AM
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That’s why I’m saying that the friend method sucks for everyone. Except for the millions of couples that started off this way...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 08:11 AM
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If you had to worry about getting pregnant, it’d be a different story. There are preventative measures you can take here...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:38 AM
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Why does the attacker's genital-type matter when assessing a victim's danger?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:34 AM
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I'm not blaming anyone for anything. I feel bad for both of the hypothetical people. I'm saying a woman who can't figure out her boyfriend is married after a year of dating is fooling herself in the same way the OF simp is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:18 AM
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Who said it has to be done on the app? This thread is discussing maintaining a relationship with a married man, not having a first date with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:16 AM
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Start engaging in the conversations and quit crying about me crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:12 PM
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Both scenarios are stupid people dismissing obvious realities. Because love or emotions or whatever. Married men trying to date and OF models trying to make money are selling incredibly similar things. Again, you just don't give a shit about those dorks who fall in love with an OF models so it's easy to dismiss their circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:05 PM
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Dating is inherently steeped in discrimination. It's like a prerequisite. I don't think you know what fair means.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:06 AM
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There's a subset of insecure men who are attracted to OF models, but a lot of men are tricked into thinking those models are in love with them. See how silly it sounds to say adults are being "tricked" when it's a group of people no one cares about?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:53 AM
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Women's behavior is the thing being discussed here. Most people already agree that the cheating husband sucks by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:51 AM
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Using "Oh yeah well did you know that men kill women!" as a rebuttal should get you banned on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:48 AM
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25-33% chance of getting raped or sexually asssulted Men have a 75% of being falsely accused of rape or rejected by a woman at some point in their life. Bad faith statements using statistics are so neat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:27 PM
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doesn't turn you into a sex symbol. If the bar is "sex symbol", you've already screwed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:41 AM
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Who has eyes for ugly women? Or ugly men? What kind of "gotcha" do you think you've managed here?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:33 AM
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Most women have a basal metabolic rate of what, 1500 calories? I never got this point from women. Your hunger cues align with your caloric needs, just because a man can eat more calories doesn't mean you suffer more. It's the same system.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:26 AM
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You aren't mature enough to argue in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:26 PM
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The vibes are off. If the vibes are off every time you run into a man alone at night, you suffer from mental illness. If the vibes are chill when you run into a bear at night, you suffer from SEVERE mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:48 PM
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Kids in high school grow up thinking they'll magically be rich "once they're older." Kids in high school are far richer when they are older than in high school. Men who focus on their career and fitness are more desirable in their 30s than their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:40 AM
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a strange man probably has the worst vibes when compared to a bear. What in the everloving fuck are you talking about? Have you met men before? Do you live in some alternate mad max world?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:26 AM
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how most adolescents don’t have the maturity to separate their identity from their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:19 AM
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I feel like social media has convoluted my perspective of the average human. Probably
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:17 AM
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The secret ingredient is self assuredness You trying to turn these lost men into stalkers bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:09 AM
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Lol even rhetorically you're a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:21 PM
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Most things don't happen but occasionally they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:17 PM
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My point was not why you did it, my point was that you used it as your primary example of how women can also be expected to protect. Men are so overwhelmingly responsible for protection that your main example is just you protecting someone by-proxy using men lol "Women protect too! Lemme tell ya about this time I made a phone call!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:29 PM
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I think the fundamental flaw in this whole scenario is that someone is looking for a Gucci bag in the bargain bin in the first place because they are too broke to afford a Gucci bag. This is just an analogy for demanding a partner that's out of your league...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 09:19 AM
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So yalls quippy response to this is - "No, women don't withhold affection, they withhold sex"? Really? This is your winning counterargument?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:56 AM
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You want credit for protecting your friend because you... made a phone call to make other men go protect your friend? So even in your primary example of how its not always a burden placed on men... it's a burden you placed on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:45 AM
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The assumption is ALWAYS the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:40 AM
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"Doesn't matter, had sex" - acknowledges reality "I was used for sex" - self victimization
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:21 AM
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bipolar obese lady hell bent on wrecking their lives. From what I understand, many men are, with full awareness, constantly choosing to fuck these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:48 PM
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Generally stalkers you aren’t attracted to. In an odd way, this being true does suggest that societally attractive men are less capable of hitting the creepy/stalker end of the spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:46 PM
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Im not interested in playing this game. You dont need examples to understand that misandry exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:28 AM
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He didn’t provide examples. I explained “shitting on men for breathing” isn’t something I see in my actual life. I have never seen a woman be catcalled or harassed. Should I be critical like you are when women claim to have these experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:22 PM
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Are you telling me if you went on a date with a man and he was 6 foot and then when you saw him going to the bathroom in the morning and he was 5'7, that wouldn't draw any concern? But yeah, it's definitely a thing. Hell, Trump has 100 things worse than that he's wearing inserts but it is definitely one of the most commonly made fun of things about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:04 PM
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It's as deceptive as using elevated insoles, hill lifts, I think nearly everyone agrees that a man who uses insoles or lifts is being deceptive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:16 AM
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When "most" of a group experience a similar struggle - we call those issues systemic. And we try to not to fixate on the failure of individuals within the group - we call that tactic victim blaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 07:35 AM
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There is no need to repay. It doesn't even make sense men here think there needs to be a parallel. It's such unhealthy thinking. Unhealthy thinking would be expecting your partner to put in tons of effort while you do nothing in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:06 AM
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I mean this is statistically true. Have you ever turned him down for sex? If so, what does he do? Just punch himself in the crotch and go on about his day?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:03 AM
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I'm hot Never met a decent person who would ever lead with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:01 AM
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I’ve been informed by many men on this sub that my standards are wayy too high, especially as a woman whose wrist makes my skin crease when I bend it at a 90 degree angle This was the only ridiculous thing about your comment. A Victim Disclaimer. Let's just see how many men comment negatively about your completely reasonable standards since apparently they are all over the place here lol. Betting it'll be 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:57 AM
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there's work to be done That's what people say about chores. Unfortunately, the need for foreplay is an incredibly one sided need in most relationships so it's hard to draw parallels. Closest I can think of is a husband demanding his wife stay fit to turn him on. Feel like plenty of women here would find that demand to be a tad much. Who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:25 AM
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If your only response is arguing about semantics, your response is unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:28 PM
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it’s with being completely dependent on porn to orgasm So you'd agree with forcing women to abandon vibrators if they require them to orgasm? Just want to make sure we are stepping into EVERYONES life here and not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:58 AM
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It's almost like obesity rates are increasing at similar rates in parallel but I'm sure that's just a tertiary factor and it's totally porn doing the bulk of the work... /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:55 AM
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He gave you information. If your defense is literally "there are multiple studies showing X", the expectation is that you provide them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:56 AM
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The level of semantic arguments I see in this subreddit absolutely level everywhere else. "I can do whatever I want!" "Oh yeah? I bet you can't hold your bosses mouth open and shit in it!"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 08:24 PM
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You think women have been the privileged ones all along? All along? Nah. The last 40 years? For sure. So just for the entire lifetime of most of the women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:53 PM
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You should focus your snide comments towards the person who asked a stupid question instead of the person who tried to answer it. Also, masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:08 AM
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They are acting the way they are because it's a semantic point - I dont want my partner talking to their exes I won't be in a relationship with a partner who still contacts their exes. These are the same fucking thing. As they always are, every single time this drum gets beaten.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:04 AM
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“Watch what they do, not what they say” While you rant about things people are saying on the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:02 AM
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Because any demand society places on women became worthy of incessant complaining sometime in the past 20 years. Society demands all kinds of shit from men, we just don't complain about it because there's more important shit to deal with. And those who do complain are just called incels or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:45 AM
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Your datapoints are filtered TikTok clips lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:41 AM
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Aww there there friend, you've shown you're one of the good ones. Lower your head so the ladies can give you a little pat for dehumanizing yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:53 PM
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If you're going by tropes, it's mothers/sons and fathers/daughters. And it's possessiveness rather than protectiveness in those cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:38 AM
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when a lone man is on the prowl. You literally cannot help yourself. Only in your perverse fantasies are men hunting women to the degree where this kind of language is appropriate. I know you think it's just normal phrasing but it's not. Imagine a man calling a women who is flirting a "bitch in heat" - that's the level of insult you have casually dropped twice now towards men. If you cared one iota about your advice being followed, you wouldn't couch it in such dehumanizing nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:35 AM
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Assuming you're actually on a replacement dose, sure. But no one who makes your username is on a replacement dose. So no, botox and lip fillers will not fuck up your organs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:32 AM
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rather than a healthy interest in sex. Please define this for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:59 AM
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keeps in shape "TRT" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:19 AM
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It’s “don’t hunt women”. The 40 serial killers out there hunting women have no interest in this advice so maybe the best route towards change is to not choose hyperbolic, instigating, asshole language to make your point. Or maybe your goal isn't in improving gender relations but rather in maximizing your own victimhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:14 AM
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You're literally doing the thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:40 PM
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How many take women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:36 PM
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She's self labeled as radfem. She disagrees with everything here if it so much as hints at being critical of women...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:32 PM
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I’m used to men dropping themselves at my feet, so less obvious men have always raised more attention to me anyways, as weird as that sounds. Weird is not the word I'd choose lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:33 PM
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Women refuse to say hi on bumble and society will adjust but men will literally change their schedule for weeks to get a date and be shamed for it. Crazy world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:31 PM
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but like most men, they make everything about themselves and fail to take responsibility Holy moly. Please tell me what world you live in where women are a bastion of selflessness and personal accountability?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:30 AM
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I can't argue your lived experience but I am curious - do you put the failure of the relationship fully on them? Also, all 3 did the exact same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:28 AM
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Can you quantify personality and social skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:08 AM
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What they aren’t good at is maintaining relationships with actual love. Actual love? I'm sure that's a completely objective term. Scientific even.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:55 AM
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"Women who have never experienced anything but you are more likely to accept whatever it is you provide" ain't the winning hand you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:50 AM
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You made a generalization based on your personal experiences and then they did the same. Being critical here is hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:46 AM
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It's not "no interest". Don't be hyperbolic. It's just avoiding hyperfixation. People like to be desired but not by people who have nothing better to do than desire them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:18 AM
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Huh, the only female comment and it's a completely asinine point... Did you draw the short straw?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 07:11 AM
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Women have been complaining about being stuck in situationships for this exact same reason for years. When men complain, they get insulted. When women complain, they get told they deserve better. Would be nice if society could take a gender neutral stance and stop having horseshoe-theory level opinions on literally every topic where gender is the main variable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:07 AM
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Whoever is earning more at the moment pays more. 60/40 usually. Do you swap back and forth often? What it the ratio unusually?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:03 PM
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Either you've really lucked out on sexual compatibility with your partners or your a middling lover. I have a guess as to which.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:34 AM
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If you look hard enough, every moment of life is transactional and coerced. The only solution is to not look so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:32 AM
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Definitely not a piece of advice ever given to men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:29 AM
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idk i think it’s reasonable to side-eye anyone, man or woman, who looks for an overly-agreeable yes-partner who won’t say no to any of their whims. I can almost guarantee that of the men you've side-eyed, you know none of them well enough to know that this is a type of woman they seek out rather than just one they've ended up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:48 AM
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The real measure of what you’re talking about comes down to how these relationships pan out The real measure is whatever the other person decides it is for them. And in this case, it is availability of dating options, not successful relationships. You're actively trying to dismiss an issue men face by moving the goalposts. Why this incessant need to be the true victim in situations where men are clearly at a disadvantage?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:46 AM
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I’m young, and old men have been grossing me out since I was twelve or thirteen. According to the internet, you're brain hasn't developed enough to create proper opinions or decisions so I think you'll need to let those thoughts simmer for a bit. Sorry, not my call.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:04 AM
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Racists have been using similar stats to justify hatred of black people for decades. Like almost word for word identical to what you are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:03 AM
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No one is pressed over women expressing their fear. OP literally acknowledges it - and that while women are always worried about safety, which is fair, men are also frequently worried about getting accused of something they didn't do The issue is that women continue to ignore this acknowledgement. Men just want their emotional hurt over this to be acknowledged alongside women's.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:56 AM
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If you’ve been assaulted, harassed, stalked, followed, etc, enough, it’s simply just logical to be wary. So what's the number of occurrences you need before it's okay to pre-judge people based on similar immutable characteristics? How many times does a person need to be attacked by black people before they are justified with "being wary" of all black people?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:50 AM
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Most upvoted comment and yet the women who regularly comment here are running defense everywhere else in the threads but not here. Not even to acknowledge a quality perspective. Disappointing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:41 AM
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I thought that was primarily because the name “Boy Scouts” reminded many men of the pedo sexual abuse and the sexual abuse between peers that used to go on? I thought mothers were the primary deciders of children's extracurricular activity in most households. I suppose your argument wouldn't be airtight if women entered even a step into the realm of accountability here. I'm sure everything else you've said is in good faith though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:45 PM
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What's the purpose of this question if you don't think it's his responsibility? How sure are you that she’s really okay with it, and isn’t just lying to herself and to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:30 PM
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Demanding literalism when you read hyperbole to avoid discussing the actual topic is the thing that isn't fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:54 AM
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they tend to Please expand on what these words mean. Men TEND TO eat, sleep, breathe, piss and shit. They sure as fuck don't TEND TO murder women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:49 AM
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"You folks in here discussing disadvantages men have in society??? Well, did you know MEN CAN BE RAPISTS?!?!"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:43 AM
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"Oh you have a grievance against women? Well have you considered that MEN ARE MURDERERS?!?!!" Gender war brain damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:55 PM
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If a woman pursues a guy it's very likely she will be strung along Strung along usually implies maliciousness. I dont think this is "very likely". A man willing to sleep with you is very likely but that's not being strung along - not hard to just leave if you aren't getting the commitment you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:52 PM
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Is arguing in good faith something that doesn't happen anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:42 PM
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Fighting hyperbole with semantics. A fun way to spend your time!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:38 AM
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I think a spouse who dedicates themselves to being the primary child raiser should absolutely be compensated for that sacrifice... But I swear, according to the debates here, every woman who succumbs to motherhood has sacrificed her career as a world class neurosurgeon - when in reality, most would have worked In a call center for 30 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:27 AM
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Is it possible for women here to condemn other women's actions without a caveat that men are worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:42 AM
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got cancelled for the same things Literally the point of the post. Men were told 20 years ago that this kind of shit was unacceptable to push on mainstream television. Women are still free to behave this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:40 AM
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many of the dudes on this sub are exactly why women pick the bear. Are you accusing men here of being rapists? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:31 AM
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I've seen Andrew Tate's impact dismissed in a similar way. People lying to huge audiences on the internet can literally impact the foundations of our society. It can be as deep as you want to dig.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 08:42 AM
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All accountability flow charts lead to the patriarchy lol Wonder how many generations of equal rights it'll take before women stop pointing at dead men to justify things happening today.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:33 AM
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For a mod of a debate sub, you sure are hesitant to defend your stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:46 AM
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Gotta make sure to say that women have it worse before you offer up any empathy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:50 AM
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It does, but when men try and ridiculously justify why they are the edge case and it's actually women who are the problem, we call them incels. As we should. But when a women tries to say that naw, it's just that men suck, they don't really get pushback from society as a whole. They get rallied around and told that yes, they just got unlucky X times. It's literally being attempted in this comment section.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:38 AM
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Nothing like falling back on semantics when you're called out... your exasperation speaks quite clearly as to what you think about men being "allowed" to be upset here. To quote you - Oh my God.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:37 PM
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If a bear kills me, nobody is gonna say, "she should have worn different clothing. She was dressed like she was asking for it." "I've decided to distrust every man, not because I'm a hateful sexist, but because some dumbasses might blame me for being raped." Brilliant stuff. Truly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:57 AM
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at least they will be blaring their hate outside of earshot. That's not how the internet works unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:55 AM
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So women are allowed to let their emotions demonize an entire gender but men aren't allowed to be emotional about the demonization? Isn't this the toxic masculinity that feminism is supposed to be fighting against?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:51 AM
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I haven’t paid it any mind. Neither gender has anything to gain from that discussion. You are actively arguing about it elsewhere in this comment section lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:52 PM
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If a person is raised in an environment where a certain race behaves poorly, we do not give them a pass to speak negatively about those people for the rest of their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:49 PM
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Those are the men who are angry about this hypothetical. "If you disagree with being labeled as more dangerous that a bear, you're an autistic misogynist." I'll pass on your solidarity via hateful sexism. Thanks though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:47 PM
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You only knew a handful of women in the 90s and now you can receive the opinion of thousands of angry women on the internet. Nothing else changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:29 PM
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I am his dream idealization of the perfect woman that he desires. You'd have to be actively on ecstacy to believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:37 AM
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In my lived experience it's more "men aren't wonderful". I only spend time in progressive spaces so that's a filter for sure, but in those spaces, women seem to be evaluated as individuals before any assumptions are applied. Men are unfortunately the closest thing these spaces have as a generic enemy, so they are required to start off bearing the weight of the bad men most women have previously encountered. It's a similar phenomenon in incels and their attitude towards women but society, rightfu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:40 AM
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Women are absolutely getting approached in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:00 AM
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Yall say the most out of pocket shit here, I swear. "I think that's the stupidest thing ever but you have fun over there being stupid"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:52 AM
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This is either a fake persona you've created to disingenuously start this discussion or confusion is your natural state of existence and extends far beyond this topic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:46 PM
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Most women get a disgust response I find this so interesting. I wonder if it's a childish need to have relationships be magically organic or that disgust is the natural reaction to the flesh market that is OLD when you can just find partners by existing in public spaces?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:29 PM
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It's so funny that you did some weird set of data analysis only to have it conclude with the most emotionally derived sexism you could muster. Men hateeeeww this Really? Why even gather data when you've built your conclusion before you even started.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:59 AM
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choose shitty ones out of desperation. So not only is this avoiding accountability, you're complaining to men in this subreddit that women are forced into accepting poor partners due to desperation. May as well go bitch to a homeless person about how awful the steak you had for dinner was lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:39 AM
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Really stretching that argument now that data was provided I see
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:00 AM
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I’m glad I grew up in an upper middle class community. "I'm so glad I grew up wealthy and cultured, unlike you dirty fucking poors."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:56 AM
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than gamble with their life tbh. Why are you being so hyperbolic? This is like saying you don't drive because people die in car crashes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:52 AM
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otherwise I might also have some confusing thoughts about work pizza parties too, huh? Wouldn't surprise me a bit tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:30 AM
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...where? Where have you seen this "pattern"? Just upvote if you agree- no need to say some nonsensical shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:41 PM
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You expect your partner to be a 50/50 mate you get to have sex with. How romantic If having your food paid for makes a relationship more romantic, you must have some odd thoughts about your father.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:39 PM
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The same reason why men today are held accountable for the misogyny of their forefathers. Because sometimes life isn't fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:25 PM
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Nah, those are rapists. Men who own their sexuality and are confident in stating what they want are pigs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:32 AM
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men should own the choices they make around their sexuality instead of just being written off as pigs. Men who own their sexuality are explicitly considered pigs in progressive spaces...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:48 PM
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Thinking the grass is greener for an unattractive person is wild. Like truly brain broken stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 08:44 AM
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I dont like being strong because people expect me to help them move. This is how you sound. Being attractive to the world is up there with being wealthy as far as advantages go.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:38 PM
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Seems to have worked pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:30 PM
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It's the whole starving children argument, the starving children over there don't make my situation any better, especially if all I want to do is vent a bit because I just read the twentieth comment about some creep wanting to suck my tits. I think the issue here is that you're complaining on the Reddit, where many of these starving children (sexless men) congregate. I imagine you would stifle your complaints about the lack of options you had for breakfast if a group of starving children was sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:48 AM
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Women are not desperate to tie a man down for marriage, LOL. Always curious why people do this. You're speaking on your own situation for the entire post and only when it comes to needing men, it's "women" and no longer just you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:38 AM
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If I’d cheated on my wife See, I can't even get this far hypothetically. I put cheating up there with rape, it's not something I could even imagine doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:08 AM
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I wouldn't physically cheat but I'd probably continue a friendship that would ultimately cause me to leave my current relationship. There would likely be some level of subconscious emotional cheating before I caught it. 39/m. 2/3. Physically cheat - 15%, emotionally cheat - 75%. Same stats for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:56 PM
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"I put in no effort and got no effort results, this sucks!" You can't see how this is entitled behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:15 AM
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What they really see is a guy out there having FUN... You can have fun at the local zoo. You having fun via international travel is about money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:13 AM
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Can I say i really appreciate you throwing out that you've built such rigid worldviews from interacting with, generously, less than 50 men. Saved me all that time not reading the remaining paragraphs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:51 PM
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Severity shifts a bit when it's not supporting your argument lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:57 AM
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It was a direct comparison. Just read the words.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:53 AM
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because men had financial superiority over women, without that, the patriarchy crumbles. So the patriarchy crumbled in the West about 30 years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:15 PM
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didn't care whether I paid for dates or not and it was still not hard to find women to split dates. Using your own anecdotal experience as proof of something immediately after bitching about how this place is full of repetitive bullshit is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:57 PM
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Your acknowledgment was unnecessary. Just fyi for future time saving. Or just don't make up things to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 11:40 AM
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Thirsty in this context is more sad than gross. Men who put up with these women have few options. Why focus your anger at them instead of the women who are behaving so shittily?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:58 AM
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That might be the point of the thread but the comments above are just "men bad".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:11 AM
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I am funny, I know how to cook, and I know how to fuck And humble to boot lol He can excuse that I’m not an 85lb To set the weight expectation this exaggeratively low says a lot. This is fetish level thin - men just want you to not be obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:03 AM
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such an outgoing verbal processor. Does this just mean "excellent communicator"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:01 AM
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Most men don't Either you've forgotten to link a study here or you severely overvalue your anecdotal experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:44 AM
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r/TwoXChromosomes tagline
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:41 AM
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but it's certainly not how most, or even a significant minority of women act. The only thing I'm certain of is that this information was pulled directly out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:40 AM
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Lol making single motherhood about empowerment rather than poor decision making skills is an interesting route to take.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:04 AM
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If communications are clear about it being only FWB, there are no boundaries to cross. Like shit, If you meet my parents, you're just a female friend who met my parents, who I also happen to sleep with. Hence the Friends with benefits. That this is a grey area at all is wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:01 AM
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They absolutely do and good lord the backlash they receive when they verbally daydream about being attractive! An avalanche of - "IM HARASSED BY MEN EVERY DAY, YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT YOURE TALKING ABOUT!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 08:57 AM
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You lack quite a few things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:35 PM
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I’ll be too rich to care about male attention at all (hopefully) So you're an asexual temporary prostitute for dinners and gifts? Your pride is so misplaced I can't tell if you're a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:27 PM
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Men are traditionally expected to "perform" during the texting phase of a dating app match so I'd be curious to know what other logical reason there might be for your lack of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:37 PM
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If loving us is a problem, we'll find someone riddler levels of excited about solving us. "I'd rather date a lunatic than work on improving my personality."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:34 PM
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Most men can’t even clear the 1st barrier to entry which is the attraction threshold What percentage of men would you say you find attractive? Would you consider yourself in the top, whatever that percentage is, of attractive women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 08:48 AM
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Shark attacks rise with ice cream sales.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 08:45 AM
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Tell people on the internet that she don't need no man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 08:43 AM
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More often than not it is in my experience as a woman. How many related experiences could you possibly have had to decide that the world is probably this way for all 8 billion people? You're just trying to be judgemental and couch it behind "well that's just my experience". Probably the most classic sexist/racist tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 08:41 AM
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This might be, and I hesitate to say it, but this might be the stupidest thing I've read on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 08:33 AM
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Agreed but I think the arguments tend to start when folks start inferring that they are happier single than they could ever be while in a relationship. If you're hatred for the opposite sex has developed to such a degree that you can't even acknowledge that good relationship > single, you've lost the plot. Or you have people who are single because 4 billion people aren't worth dating rather than because they need to work on themselves, that's also bananas.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:08 AM
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Men outnumber women on reddit 3:1. Reddit, you mean the incredibly progressive website? Good job brothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:30 AM
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Free will is fiction, so sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:14 AM
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I'm not sure what tier of misandry is required to see no hateful phrasings in the OP but it's one of the higher ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:27 AM
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No one needs this answer just like no one needs to know that 2+2 = 4, four and IIII
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:19 PM
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Do you always play out the worst case scenario for men and the best case scenario for women? I guess it keeps things simple for ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:17 PM
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Social sphere, social venues, social spaces, social events. Glad to see folks are still using the thesaurus but no need to pad your response like a high school essay.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:57 PM
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"If you have to say "not all women!", you're one of the ones we're talking about. Be better sweetie."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:31 PM
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It's not the "women are wonderful in the eyes of their partners" phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:56 AM
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You're holding incompatible beliefs. In the future, pick one - Ok I’m a woman who believes in male privilege and female oppression. Or I don’t believe what YOU just said, that it’s a binary.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:25 AM
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If you're only interested in being purchased by a woman, then yeah, they kinda need to think you're a mango when they're hungry for mango. That's the marketplace in "sexual marketplace"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:51 PM
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Ok I’m a woman who believes in male privilege and female oppression. Huh? Do you believe women have no privileges and men are in no way oppressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:48 PM
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If you chose to let your happiness depend on another person that's no one's fault but your own. Literally more drivel. Are you only capable of providing fortune cookie generic advice? I do have empathy for it which is why I think it's kinda pathetic I dont think you understand what empathy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:43 AM
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When one man is having this issue, it's a fair response. When millions of men are having this issue, it's unempathetic nonsense. It'd be like women complaining about abortion being illegal and a man telling you to just not get pregnant. That would technically resolve the issue for you personally but it's not very helpful to the conversation, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:56 AM
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I do wish you contributed to the topic but aye. Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:40 AM
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Harassment is defined ad-hoc. No one is consulting a dictionary before posting on social media or filing a police report.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:06 AM
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Cause in my anecdotal experience I have simply never seen this happen and I am outside all the time. Oh shit! You're outside ALL THE TIME?! Well fuck me - our sincerest apologies Oh Gracious Arbiter of All Things Occuring Outdoors. Clownery indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:59 AM
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Why do people nest stats in bullshit to sensationalize them? Here - half the women I've dated for over 5 years have tried to burn my house down! Women sure are crazy!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:33 AM
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Now the important part is asking why that is. In areas where iron was scarce, many crafting techniques flourished as alternatives to simply using nails. But if you have nails, best to just use them. Women are weaker, they needed alternatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 09:06 AM
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We view women as less bad because in general, they are. We view woman as less VIOLENT because in general, they are. Problem is people on the internet take non-violent to mean good and it's not. Men and women are equally "bad". Women are just less capable of violence due to physiology, hormones and societal grooming.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:46 PM
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If man do bad, man should fix. If woman do bad, it because man, man should fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:43 AM
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Couldn't happen fast enough to impact existing generations. Drive to procreate will keep enough men in the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:22 AM
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Women only have options because men throw them at women There ya go. Now you can just copy/paste this for all future PPD posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:02 AM
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I've been told that these tinder stacks are all useless men who only want to fuck but never learned how. I can't keep up - are men amazing or worthless?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:52 AM
-1

Better to believe all men are evil tricksters than to assume even a single woman is a dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:26 PM
1

I've been followed many times Aka men walking in the same direction as you. I guess if you add a hoodie, that upgrades them to rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:33 AM
1

Spending all your free time at the airport, bitching about the noise the airplanes make lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:23 AM
3

I'm a man, and I'd be much more afraid of encountering men while walking alone in the dark than of encountering women in such situations. Makes a bit of sense. You're about 7 times more likely to be murdered than women are. But even you put it hypothetically because men just don't get to be crybabies about statistically unlikely events.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:16 AM
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No one's gonna murder you. I swear, this level of statistical incomprehension is usually reserved for the elderly and small children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:11 AM
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There shouldn’t be a need for men now a days to protect their girlfriend because men should just be in control of themselves and act right There shouldn't be a need for a lot of things. Not sure what that has to do with reality though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:08 AM
1

Oh no. Not a HOODIE! Surely I would piss myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:43 AM
1

Men are not all criminals, but basically every single criminal of note is a man. This is the same logic that old racist folks use to label black people as criminals. It's racist when they treat people poorly based on this nonsense and it's sexist when you do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:41 AM
1

I'm sharing how it actually works. You're sharing your personal failures as gospel to alleviate the shame of said failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:34 AM
1

I think it exists in equal quantities to one spouse being hyper-neurotic with their household chore demands, which society will perceive as the other spouse using "weaponized incompetence".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:35 AM
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I'm not looking to make a thread just to talk about personal experiences. I mean... this is that thread. You're upset that money has not given you statistical success. You could be unlucky, an abrasive asshole, hideous or a hundred other things. Either way, you're anecdotal experience is abnormal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:30 AM
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Because they are the ugly men those "changed standards" imply. Same reason ugly women are mad that they are only desired for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 10:03 PM
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You literally agreed with me in a different post not 12 hours later lol Women are as stupid for love as men are for sex, and are to blame for a lot of their own unhappiness
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:25 PM
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This argument only works as a circlejerk Works the same for these so called happy women. Never known truly happy folks who feel the need to yell at the world about how happy they are...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:34 PM
2

Yall out here acting like a Pharoah's concubine and proud of it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:57 AM
2

Can kind wholesome honest women enjoy casual sex? Or do those not exist either?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:53 AM
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The male version of "sometimes you need a good dicking" would be "Sometimes you just need a pussy to fuck" and that would absolutely be taken as a negative objectifying statement. It's just a double standard. No one cares if you reduce a man to his penis but a whole bunch of people take offense to reducing a woman to her vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:50 AM
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What are you on about? It's just a different organ. Women blame their hearts in the exact same way men blame their dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:45 AM
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I think these women exist but in such low quantities that it's not worth being concerned with. Don't date women who treat you transactionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:37 AM
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I was agreeing with you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:21 PM
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I cannot imagine how incredibly absent of difficulty one's life must be to have to point to the hardship's of women who died before they were born to justify their piss-poor behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:14 PM
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social events I pity your ability to read. This is a thread about dates. But hey you're a woman who needs to approach men so you're probably quite familiar with being pitied... 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 09:10 AM
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She mentions the "average woman" and you immediately picture 6 genetic marvels on Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:21 AM
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You are in this thread claiming that the lowest of the low human beings are mostly men. You are the gender-swapped version of these ignorant "shes chasing chad" men. Their hatred is just louder.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:18 AM
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how can you be left if you don't think there's a rape epidemic, for instance? Because I know what epidemic means. or if you don't believe in no-fault divorce? I do believe in no fault divorce. or if you don't believe in widely available, safe, legal abortions? I do, I'm pro choice. What are you even talking about? Is it just easier to hate men if you think we are all the exact same person?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 07:22 AM
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Expecting empathy from men while proudly denying men empathy is such a weird stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 07:09 AM
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We call that every day survival. Lol. Imagine if someone called their commute to work "every day survival" because car accidents happen and they have to pay attention. The mental weight of this preemptive victimization is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 07:05 AM
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It's funny. I find that despite this website being overwhelmingly progressive, everyone presumes the men here to be incel conservatives. As well as thinking that conservative women just don't exist on the internet at all. Most of us lean left because this is reddit and not facebook. But I guess you'd have to treat men more reasonably here if you assumed this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:47 AM
1

Around 0.00001%. Serious number for America at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:25 AM
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Like, my instinctual answer is that men treat women worse because men are Bad. Just say bad next time and save us all some time. Good lord, what a pathetic attempt to justify everything bad women do and exaggerate everything bad that men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:22 AM
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This user is only capable of quippy one liners.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:05 AM
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And what if, like I do, the person who invites, pays You can do whatever you want but acting like this is any more progressive than just having men continue to pay for the first date is ridiculous. Men are the askers in 95%+ of circumstances. If you're going to make a recommendation for how people behave, it's important to assess if what you do is what most people do - and it isn't in this case - most women do not approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:58 AM
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I've been a man for quite a while which apparently places me categorically at a 7x likelihood of being murdered. And yet, I and all of my fellow men do not fear this or complain about it on the internet. Again, this is all in my original post which I am now presuming you may not have even read. I'd say that's shocking, but it's really not, not even a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 10:28 AM
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What's really wild to me is that you've ignored my entire point, which is that murder is far from the only thing women worry about around men. You skirted right around it. I'd say that's shocking but it's really not, not even a little bit. Well seeing as my post was about women specifically being worried about murder and questioning why that was so common, I feel that ignoring your point was appropriate - considering you did the same to me. Ultimately it seems that yes, you need to widen the top…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:37 AM
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Most women don't assume a man by himself is a serial killer. I swear, yall should just stay inside, maybe curled up in the bath tub, just to be safe...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:57 AM
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This to me does not seem to be a beauty standard if attraction is not based on you but rather in what you represent. Until you can separate these things in reality, their distinction only exists academically.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:36 AM
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Using a single scenario as you're example before saying I underestimate anything doesn't make sense. I have data and you have an anecdote. I am more informed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:08 AM
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Feel free to read the other comments. I think I summed it up quite nicely.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:05 AM
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You use stats poorly. In this scenario, half of the cars that exist are Hondas and men would die in them 0.00002% of time. You feel free to fear every person resembling a man for the rest of your life, I'm just saying it's irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:00 AM
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I have never in my life met a woman who has never been harassed assaulted or raped at least once in their lifetime. Listen, I'm not going to argue with you but when you group things like this, you may as well just yell "IM DISINGENUOUS!" Please don't group things that are wildly different levels of severity just so you can get a 100% in return. "I've never met someone who hasn't been brutally raped or stubbed their toe." Being raped is not the same as a man pestering you a little too long at a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:56 AM
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Because being extra careful takes energy and that energy should be reserved for things that make more statistical sense than being murdered.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:57 AM
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. There’s still a chance I could be murdered by a man.. isn’t there? Yes or no Yes. There's also a chance you could be struck by lightning but I'd think you were silly if you complained about how dangerous it is to go outside because of that fear. Again, the point of my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:49 AM
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If the conversations were around being fearful of your partner and not "men", this would make total sense. 100% agree with you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:45 AM
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The answer to the question doesn’t change because more men are killed by men. It necessitates that your answer change. It wouldn't make sense otherwise being that it is the point of my question. Perhaps less men would be murdered if they were more worried.. like women are Oh okay so your answer did change. I disagree with this but thanks for at least trying to engage honestly there at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:43 AM
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Your husband is illogical. Those fathers are illogical. This is literally the point of my post just one person removed. Why is your husband not 6 times more worried for his own safety? He should be statistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:39 AM
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Yes, almost always. Aggressive men do not limit themselves to targeting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:37 AM
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Had not taken this into account. Very good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:35 AM
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The existence of an illogical man does not resolve my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:34 AM
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I certainly don’t stand a chance if I were to be unlucky enough to become a statistic. I certainly wouldn't want you to become one of the 0.00002% of women that were murdered in America last year. My point is that that number is not worth adjusting your life around. The same way men ignore it despite being 6 times more likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:32 AM
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Read the other comments I guess lol. I dont think this is a wild idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:23 AM
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Never said there was no danger. Just that the fear is unfounded at the current volumes I see posted online.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:23 AM
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I didn't say otherwise. You may have misinterpreted my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:22 AM
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I never said otherwise. Please reread my post. Men do murder women. But they also murder way more other men and that hasn't seemed to make men complain about the risk of being murdered.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:21 AM
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At the same time, almost no man gets a consistent dose of feeling very vulnerable physically, while getting picked on by other bigger and stronger men for no reason at all. I completely disagree with this premise. Men size each other up all the time and it sucks. Doesn't make me fear being murdered though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:20 AM
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Excellent clarification! I was confident he meant every last woman...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 03:59 PM
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boring attracts boring. That's the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 03:58 PM
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Why are you afraid to say you believe in egalitarianism? Why are you afraid to acknowledge the unsavory elements of feminism? You seem eager to do this for MRAs...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:44 AM
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Egalitarianism is reasonable, no? I mean hey, feel free to join the MRAs as a woman since they are also looking for equality... Fortunately men are expected to distance themselves from MRA because we don't want to be associates with their worst actors (incels mostly). If only women felt the same about feminism and its growing subsets of misandrists and TERFs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 07:59 AM
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Comes to debate sub, replies "bullshit", pretends to know what debating is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:57 AM
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How offputting. This is no place for Bible scripture.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 02:27 PM
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I'd like to know if you feel it is sufficient for the claim I stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:09 AM
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I've never seen a woman be catcalled. Isn't it crazy how useless anecdotal experience is?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 08:58 AM
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Alternative hypothesis men bad lack self awareness and come off as rude constantly get deserved matched energy or confuse indifference for rudeness then come online and act like victims. A recommendation for next time. Save us all a few seconds and I think it reads about the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 08:55 AM
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Dang. I was really hoping you'd use at least one example of data being misused to disparage men but I guess expecting data-driven folks to be neutral here would be too much to ask for. But fuck it, will go for the hail Mary to see if you are here in good faith. How do you feel about the 515 participant study that women constantly use to say that men are far more likely to leave their sick spouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 10:05 AM
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proves You use words inappropriately.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:28 AM
0

True. Some are also fucking your money and power.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:26 AM
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A lot of women It doesn’t seem like men Captivating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:24 AM
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And here it is. Lol here what is? People don't generally give out money to strangers for no reason. Weird that you even think this is a noteworthy discovery.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:35 AM
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Lol nah, I call out misandry a lot though. No worries. Could see how you might miss that. Keep stalking my profile I guess. Maybe you'll start to see the pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:35 PM
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More options = more demanding. When a rich person says they can't find a car they like, we understand what that means. They have hyper-specific "needs". Just apply this logic to women. They don't want a corolla.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 10:10 AM
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Women who are insecure, neurotic and anti social do NOT have the same dating opportunities as their more extroverted counterparts. This post is discussing their male counterparts...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:03 AM
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You cheated on your wife and you're complaining about women not having loyalty lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:48 PM
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I'm not sure what's more strange, knowing the accolades of your doctor or using them as some sort of improved "gotcha" on the internet. "My dad could beat up your dad" energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 09:19 AM
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Sounds like you're just an anxious guy. Men who do this kind of things are not. Or they've learned how to tune it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:55 AM
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your husband could have your brain cut up for being annoying to him or not behaving how he liked. LEGALLY I think the issue is that while this is true, it's spoken of as though you replaced "could" with "did". Every man a monster and every woman a poor victimized slave. A fable lacking nuance but justifying that hey, yeah women kinda hate men a bit these days but it's only fair because look how men cut off the wings of all of these angelic women just a few generations ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:35 AM
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I was even generous enough to say that hey men and women fall for this. I love when people tell on themselves. Thanks for being generous with your honesty lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:29 AM
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When you point out his chaste little girlfriend sent nudes to her last boyfriend and did anal with him and let him record it and he probably still has those recordings and jerks off to them daily, and the girlfriend refuses to do anal with the new guy, men lose their minds in a jealous rage. Been meaning to ask this question to someone who thinks the way you do here - if a boyfriend ate out his ex gf but refused to do the same to his current gf, would that be unreasonable for her to be upset abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:21 AM
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Because they can emit vibrations that others might feel. Oh stop it. Please tell me you're trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:08 AM
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Never claimed you knew a solution, just that you were being a hypocrite. No amount of context resolves that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:59 PM
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Yall just be saying shit sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:59 AM
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Lol this is such a funny response. Imagine if when women complained about not being listened to by doctors, societies response was "well hopefully more women will become doctors to resolve this" rather than the appropriate response of expecting the existing system to just improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:30 AM
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Men take a few anecdotal examples and tell other men that’s how it is. It is men. Complaining about men using anecdotal examples by using your own set of anecdotal examples of these men is so lacking in self reflection that I want to believe it's satire...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:22 AM
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So you only develop relationships if they serve you? No one is out here selflessly developing relationships lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:53 AM
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men or women using sex toys as those are a different thing without the same negative connotations I dunno, women seem to have a visceral reaction when men use fleshlights in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:31 AM
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Every person I've met who has taken the effort to say they weren't a creep, was absolutely a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:56 PM
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"Very introverted social butterfly" is an oxymoron. You are either very mildly introverted or not quite the butterfly you claim to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:50 PM
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Lol this is the silliest thing I've read here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:18 PM
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you should consider doing what women less suitable to the app environment have done. Stop complaining and instead remove yourself from the app zone, return to use of social circles. Have you done a study on these women or are you just talking out of your ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:14 PM
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A woman using suicide rates as a pathway for compassion, in this subreddit of all places, is really funny. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:55 PM
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The 60s were like, a 100 years ago. How do you manage to have so many opinions while having so few thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:56 PM
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Wait, how do you not consider that to be a fundamental variable in that study?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:29 AM
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Just picture here an anecdote that is the opposite of yours. I don't feel like making one right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:27 AM
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Did you read your first link?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:33 AM
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Making this whole post arguing about people mislabeling based on behavior only to start calling men narcissists based on you disagreeing with their actions lol At least wait until another post to be a hypocrite jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:26 PM
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I feel repulsion towards older men (above 30), and nothing will change that. Lol the female Leonardo Dicaprio.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:38 AM
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Finally! Someone who believes the thing I do! We're so right and the others are so dumb! Hallelujah! Lol if this place was satirical, it'd be criticized as being too on the nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:59 AM
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What? You've never had a bit of free time at work and decided to proceed with a divorce just to pass the time???
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:49 AM
2

It's so sad that you're obsessed about hydration as you wander the desert, what works for me is I just see if the next Starbucks I come across sells the brand of water I like. Maybe give that a shot."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:07 AM
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Looking for content-rich rhetoric here kinda falls on you tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:47 PM
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I noticed a few terrible arguments in this thread and they were all you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:18 PM
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That's a totally human thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:31 PM
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You thought that the use of misandry in - Men's rights activism - branched off in the 1970s and Usenet - created in 1980 was the most useful info? That a word was used in environments that weren't created until 40-50 years ago and that must be when it started? Not that it has been in literature for 200+ years?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:12 AM
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Apologies, I didn't realize you skipped over the section where a words origination is discussed to use the section that had the dates you preferred. In the future, if you're discussing when a word started - I recommend the etymology section. Less funny but yes, a continued illustration of a bias. ​ Use of the word can be found as far back as the 19th century, including an 1871 use in The Spectator magazine.[16] It appeared in Merriam-Webster's Collegiate Dictionary (11th ed.) in 1952. Translatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:30 AM
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So you didn't get it. Just another way to redirect the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:26 AM
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I like how you googled Misogyny to be accurate but just lie about misandry's origin. It's got a Wikipedia page ffs. Really illustrates your bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:28 AM
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I get you said it's an oversimplification Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:24 AM
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Acting like this is a discussion about consent is such a copout.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:38 AM
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You've got an imaginary friend named Evidence, don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:08 AM
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It is completely natural and completely gender neutral. Plenty of half-baked theories around these parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:06 AM
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I’m married lmao Femcels aren't virgins lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:28 PM
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Some women keep sex limited to "keep a man desiring it". Seems to be a disappearing trend but definitely still active, especially in religious circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:02 PM
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You're literally crafting a stereotype right now to be mad at. Maybe you should work on your confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:58 PM
0

...do they not do analogies in Eastern Europe?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:59 PM
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Men that are confident behave in whatever way they prefer - and many times that is masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:56 PM
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Lol rocking that "I've got black friends" energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:13 AM
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actually prefer my men more feminine.. I respect men who don't feel emasculated by the slightest things. This kind of statement has always felt weird to me. I'm a more feminine guy fwiw but to say that a masculine man is, by default, fearful of being emasculated is silly. It'd be like saying feminine men act that way because they are scared of being manly. Makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:40 AM
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The idea that a women being critical of other women is by default "playing an act" is so wild. Like you've created a system in your head that makes women infallible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:24 AM
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If you agree to pay a prostitute $100 and she robs you of $500 before she leaves, that's upsetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:29 PM
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They do, technically.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:17 PM
0

The vast majority of adult women are not OK with men who expect to have sex before you become exclusive. Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:26 PM
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I know that analogies can be tough but the linking feature for comparison here would be that both are mandatory to masturbating for some people. Oh and you could also say that insecure men shit on sex toys the same way insecure women shit on porn. Fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:43 PM
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if I even compliment a man im labeled a cheating whore. This never happened. Stop conflating real life and the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:09 AM
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Would you think the same of women who can't get off without toys?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:20 AM
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It's one of those blindspots women have. A man who focuses on getting his woman off during sex is the bare minimum. A woman who focuses on getting her man off during sex is a unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 10:16 AM
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I see your point, but "Thanks but I'm going to continue to think less of men anyway" More women meet your standards because you are a misandrist lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:12 PM
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Logic is irrelevant in the face of fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:16 PM
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Huh? I think this is a dumb post but the use of exploitation is accurate. Woman absolutely benefit from a lopsided population on dating apps. And they tend to treat men as more entertainment than fellow human due to that delta. They exploit them, if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:51 PM
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she won't leave on the basis of just a feeling and women are heavily berated for doing this. Lol. We live in different universes. Heavily berated by who?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:36 AM
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Believe that is more to encourage the gender that participates less, to have a space where they can be comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:22 AM
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It's all pretty wacky but let's stick to the objective stuff to save time. ​ All the men you claim to be after us are just after someone because they're settling for anyone. None of you want to date overweight women, but most of us are, but even if we were thin we wouldn't be enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 09:54 AM
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How is saying that a non-obese woman is by default moderately attractive, the same as saying that weight loss is easy for women? Obtaining attractiveness is EASIER for women because it only requires weight management. But the easier part is the obtaining attractiveness bit, not the losing weight bit. It's like how men are told about privilege, it's not that it makes it easy, it just doesn't make it harder. Men are disadvantaged when it comes to becoming attractive - it takes more work in more ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:56 AM
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But I guess we just disagree on what "hard" means here. Every person has a different metabolic drive for food and a different threshold for being full. Along with hundreds of other genetic/learned variables. Difficulty in dieting between two people is literally not comparable. Like compare the opposite end - most people are literally incapable of weighing 600 pounds, just because it would be impossible to maintain that intake of calories without becoming full and the displeasure of being so enor…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:49 AM
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Leave it to a TERF to think twox isn't a hatesub lol. Hell they probably treat men too well for your taste. Doubt you even think FDS was an anti-man sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:41 PM
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lol so women calling men incels are also just being insensitive. Cool. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:10 PM
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Would you consider those statements to be victim blaming? Sure seems like it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:09 PM
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otherwise we wouldn’t be telling so many unhappy women that their men suck and to “choose better” Who is the "we" in this scenario? Any time I see someone asking a woman to be accountable for her selection of a partner, the unanimous response is to call this victim blaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:00 AM
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It's just jokes! I see this argument a lot, as a justification for when women say shitty sexists thing about men. But for some odd reason, whenever men do the same, they are just labeled incels. No jokes to be found there. Really strange stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:55 AM
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The moment I stopped trying to be cool all the time, I found far more success. Probably partly that I suck at pretending to be cool, to be fair. Just be your weird-ass self, lots of women are weird and they like weird men despite what this subreddit says. (talking about "says odd/funny shit" type of weird, not "stalker with a scat fetish" weird)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:38 AM
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Are we adding "what if it's a simulation tho" to the growing list of thought terminating cliches used in this cesspit?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:22 PM
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Most women don’t really give a shit. Most women YOU PERSONALLY KNOW don't really give a shit. You won't have to constantly move the goalposts in a conversation if you just stop making sweeping generalizations like you know everyone and everything. ​ Overwhelming majority of women in my age group are pretty progressive. No. Majority of women are independents in every age group. And 25% are usually conservatives. Again, the world is not limited to your 9 besties on facebook. ​ where you guys find …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:57 AM
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Why wouldnt he? Because then she would have to answer the question instead of clumsily redirecting the conversation. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:42 AM
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Weddings are a fantastic litmus test with progressive women. You can really see the facade slip away if your progressive girlfriend who dislikes anything - religious or relating to religion traditional/conservative relationship expressions or expectations but for some odd reason, is absolutely willing to throw away your relationship if you refuse to accept a TRADITIONAL, INHERENTLY RELIGIOUS wedding. Wild stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:26 PM
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How is dismissing the limitless variables of the lives of 50 million men in America, not the truth? Because it isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:57 PM
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If you can't get a girlfriend and are above 20yo, you are the issue, not women. I get that this space isn't exactly known for nuanced takes but holy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:24 PM
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If a whore finds jesus, it doesn't mean prostitution is Christianity. Love this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:52 PM
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Learning to carefully manuever around your partner's mood is absolutely a mandatory part of a healthy relationship. And yeah, most women have mood swings around their periods. Severity is certainly a spectrum but to act like it isn't something you have to deal with is silly. And men aren't immune, hormones fuck us all up, all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 10:03 AM
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as men struggle the most with be taking seriously over these matters. ​ Says men struggle the most; uses only women as examples ​ they also pick targets they think will be open to their bs, so generally younger, or single mums or women that have already experienced trauma. ​ I know you wanna score as many gotchas as you can within one comment but consistency is key. Pretend to care about men throughout the entire post next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:30 AM
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The review demonstrated that the amount that people talk is most likely related to the status of the person given the kind of setting in which the conversation occurs. Totally agree. And the takeaway from that meta-analysis is that status is the main predictor, not sex/gender. But u/TigerLilly00 decided to quote the article in such a way as to say something different. Analysis doesn't matter when people can so easily twist the narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:16 AM
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Anger = Bad. So if a man and a woman both have 1.00 anger, that would be 1wa (woman anger) / 1ma (man anger) = 1.00 Just say your "angry men kill people! rawr rawr!" line and be done with it. Stop pretending like you need a back and forth conversation to get your tired quip in.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:09 AM
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Sexism is refreshing when women do it. Clown take.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 12:48 PM
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Jeez, I figured it was just a one-off in your main post but you really do just say "women" and "males" constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:12 AM
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Is there a method you are using to verify this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:14 AM
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Also I just can’t really see her as something worth fucking. Is a wild choice of words there. Lil Freudian slip I doubt you would be upset if a woman here considered a notably vile man to be subhuman. Some pearls aren't worth clutching.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:22 AM
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I’m conventionally attractive. Congrats. We weren't talking about you. We were talking about 90% of my country Perhaps you are attractive enough to not need to follow the conversations you are actively participating in. Again, congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:05 PM
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your FwBs have been tall, conventionally attractive white men. ​ I mean 90% of my country is tall and white so that’s just how it is You omitted the conventionally attractive part. That bit is kind of important.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:27 AM
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Seemed like you were implying something else. No seeming about it, they didn't use a comma when it was crucial - 1: Lol no sex is how I check if I want to see someone again 🤣 2: Lol no, sex is how I check if I want to see someone again 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:18 AM
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comments about her body/face So they need to be dishonest... The reason a man cold approaches a woman 99% of the time is because he thinks she is pretty. It will always be the thing he is actively thinking. And I'm not saying it's acceptable to say "ooga booga me want sex with ur hot body omg" but putting the bar at "I will reject you for acknowledging the reason you are here" is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:53 AM
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Exceptions tend to prove a rule, not contest it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:06 AM
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I find it very disturbing when adult women consistently try to shift the conversation from being about a female pedophile to being about stupid men in comment sections.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:39 AM
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Didn't realize you were incapable of arguing the point. My apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:02 AM
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I think the issue here is that everyone giving an age is thinking of a very specific person / situation. There are too many variables for this question to be answered with any degree of accuracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:51 AM
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It always comes back to being men’s problem. Holy shit. You've actually said it. You said the thing!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:44 AM
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men typically prefer women in make up without knowing that they prefer that.. So you're a women telling men that they prefer a thing that they don't know they prefer but that you know they prefer. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:40 AM
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Seems like such unnecessary victimization. You shouldn't need to create this hypothetical "prostitute-man" to justify paying for the things that you eat and drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:34 AM
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The original post he is replying to here uses the term male or males three times. In the exact same way. He still seems kinda incel-y by the rest of his comment but you've got no case on the female usage bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:22 PM
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been told on sick media? lol you're supposed to let him respond before you throw out your bias. Amateur.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:18 PM
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That is most definitely fear mongering. You are trying to portray something that is incredibly rare as though it is common. It'd be akin to someone saying that men should be wary of leaving their kids alone with their wives because women have PPD and kill their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:01 PM
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It was a running joke in Mensa for years that men couldn’t handle being second fiddle. I know you don't care at all but man alive, casually referencing Mensa is so cringy. High School smart kid vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 11:56 AM
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ITT: Men - Relationships have positives and negatives, it varies. Women - Yeah, single is better because men are either predators or inept children. ​ This thread has really brought out the sharp contrast in attitudes of the subgroups here...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:35 AM
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It’s becoming the norm because some influencers are fear mongering men into believing that all women bad. She says, below a comment fear mongering women into believing that all men are bad. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:30 AM
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same as I believe medicine is good for women as long as doctors are doing good research which involves female participants. Women complain about not being appropriately considered or diagnosed by physicians all. of. the. time. So then you would agree - men find themselves in a similar situation with psychologists and therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:32 PM
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we just have to...live with it I guess. Just curious, are there any plights that women experience where you feel this same way? The ONLY time I see this "shrugged shoulders, it is what it is" response from women on this subreddit is when discussing men's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:27 AM
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Do you feel clever when you think up these stupid strawman "gotcha" arguments?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:14 AM
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You could discover you have stage 4 cancer next week. COVID2 could happen next week and destroy whatever industry you work in. You could be paralyzed from a car accident. You could... a million other things outside of your control. Unless you are incredibly fortunate, life is curveballs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:50 AM
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Geez, this reads as such the antithesis to the wholesome comment chain above from u/RorschachRosettes. Really does seem that some folks have not have an organically positive relationship in their entire lives and assume things only work out when everyone is being pushed and tested and conditioned. Sounds horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:40 AM
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I think you're probably right to a degree but It's more of a 60/40 split than a 90/10 one. Y'know, cause most women in the real world don't have this overwhelming hatred for men factor. Most straight women want to have sex with men quite a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:00 AM
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Where are these men? They certainly aren't here. The stances here are - Men - "Men and Women suck" Women - "Men suck"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:18 AM
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The plural form of "anecdote" is not "data".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:02 AM
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They're confident, they're accepted as part of a group of other well respected men, they're social, they're ambitious, they're hardworking. Maybe at a glance. More like they're arrogant, reluctantly accepted by others, socially vindictive, ambitious to the point of casual betrayal and some of the laziest assholes to exist (they just "work" all the time). And their interest in nurturing a relationship with their partner is basically non-existant. A distraction from success (assuming they care eno…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:33 AM
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ITT: Women : this NEVER happens or "men are worse because x" OP: This happens CONSTANTLY I guess this subreddit wouldn't exist if the lunatic extremists stop posting/commenting but c'mon yall. This is a very small subset of women and yes, they are crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:08 AM
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Most men want their girlfriend or wife to be their mommies while they do as little as possible. Citation Needed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:05 AM
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Okay, let me try again. So if the baby is declared healthy, an abortion should not be allowed when the mother intended to get pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:42 AM
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The man in question would also have to prove the pregnancy was not planned somehow as I don't think you should be able to plan a pregnancy and be like I'm out. Do you believe a woman should be held to the same standard in regards to aborting a planned pregnancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:06 AM
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She says, tactlessly. The cognitive dissonance it must take to be a woman who hates men but wants men to not hate women must be an absolute trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:01 AM
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It's okay to reject any one for any reason. It's not SOCIALLY okay to tell someone you rejected them because they are fat. It's not constructive feedback, they know they're fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:25 PM
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So when "Muh algorithms" failed, you resort to calling someone mentally ill based on a handful of comments. I'd make some comments on your character based on this but that would just be repeating your mistakes on this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:45 AM
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Seems they are just asking for an equivalent formula to a decent portion of a dating man's value is Height + Income. The the point that it defines the top end of the dating pool. And they want to know what this "elegant formula" is for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:36 AM
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The study has definitely not been retracted but man, the fact that you feel comfortable saying - ​ Males are 7 times more likely to leave their female partner with a life threatening illness, than females are likely to leave their sick male partner ​ based on a study of 515 participants is absolutely fucking wild. 515 may as well be 0 for such a strong claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:11 AM
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How else would you ask for advice if you were unsure in a situation? Are they really unsure though? If a woman is posting a relationship scenario on TwoX for example, she knows EXACTLY what feedback she is going to receive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 09:24 PM
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I think the issue is that the default assumption that if a woman is complaining about her partner not doing 50% of the housework, the assumption is ALWAYS that he's a douchebag slob who shits in the corner of the living room. When in reality, we've all known people who are neurotic about how their home looks and it would be unhealthy to make a partner participate in that craziness. We need to stop assuming any scenario is an extreme one and look at these type of concerns individually. But that k…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:31 PM
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Your comments seem to be beating around the bush. Are you comparing a man being kind and a woman who refuses to engage in a sexual relationship as being similar issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:02 AM
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The majority of posters on those subs are overwhelmingly female And what does this imply? Men bad, women victim? Or maybe women are encouraged to voice their plights and men are encouraged to stay quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:57 AM
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It would be gross to bring a 30 year old to a 20 year old party This is up there with the most ignorant shit I've seen written here. It's like what a 12 year old thinks about a scenario. May as well say it would be icky.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:37 AM
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Master manipulators are a minority. But to acknowledge that would be to acknowledge that tons of women are in shitty relationships because they are also shitty people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:24 AM
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So many reasons without listing the statistically obvious one - the woman is also an awful and abusive person, but we only hear their version of the story. Shitty people tend to date/fuck one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:20 AM
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Where can I find women who actually say this? r/TwoXChromosomes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:26 PM
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Man, nothing makes women say "well...men and women are different", quite like a valid double standard that men are on the losing side of. Y'all are ridiculous. Ladies, next time you feel the need to complain about women being treated poorly in some way compared to men, just remember - men and women are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:30 PM
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some women You quoted it but I guess you didn't read it so I'll quote them for you again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:43 PM
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I think some women like to act like nothing happened because it kind of sucks to feel someone wants nothing to do with you anymore because you had to reject them. Lol making a victim out of the person who ghosted someone. Brilliant stuff. Y'all really are just team sports on this subreddit I swear.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:18 AM
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She literally ghosted him? Why are you people so blind to the offensive actions of your people?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:17 AM
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Very astute of you. Did you know that per the data, most shark attacks happen at public beaches? The more you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:30 AM
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Your comment brought a memory out of me - my grandfather saying "I don't dislikes blacks, I just don't want them in my house". ​ Turns out he really disliked black people. Good stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:20 AM
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So they said If you don't hit the baseline for physical attraction, then you're not going to get to prove any of the other metrics. Then you said this I disagree. I think you just have to be good enough to step through the door. ​ ...What? Do you just lack the ability to agree? Those are the EXACT same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:42 AM
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You do realize that women have a hand in raising these men, right? Motherhood, I think they call it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:32 AM
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