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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
33	What hoops do you have to jump through while trying to date?	Question For Men	Lysa_Bell	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/26 01:10 PM
10	How could OLD be improved?	Debate	Lysa_Bell	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/22 05:09 PM
10	Did you learn and use certain strategies for dating?	Question For Men	Lysa_Bell	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/26 11:52 AM
10	AI/android could be a good thing	Discussion	Lysa_Bell	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/24 05:08 AM
10	How does a relationship look like for you?	Question For Men	Lysa_Bell	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/26 09:21 AM

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Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	What do women truly think about masculinity? Societal expectations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/26 04:28 AM
–	What do women truly think about masculinity? Men have been told for decades about the issues. Instead they decided to follow alpha bro podcasts and ignore womens opinions. Of course women are opting out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 05:34 PM
–	What do women truly think about masculinity? Thats men's issues. Not womens to fix	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 05:24 PM
–	Common law marriages should not exist and are legal scams and are unfair to men Truth is determined by facts	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 05:23 PM
–	Common law marriages should not exist and are legal scams and are unfair to men Can you explain your question different?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 04:39 PM
–	Common law marriages should not exist and are legal scams and are unfair to men What?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 04:30 PM
–	Common law marriages should not exist and are legal scams and are unfair to men As long as the majority of murders are committed by men on women there isn't hypocrisy. There is only stating facts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 04:26 PM
–	Common law marriages should not exist and are legal scams and are unfair to men I'd argue both sides are stupid but as long as one is viewed as valied I will point out the hypocrisy	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 04:22 PM
–	What do women truly think about masculinity? So men dont care about what women think or are but what other men think or are. Men don't care if a woman is confident or competent because those things are seen as masculine while women just think these things are supposed to be something any adult should show. Thats the issue. Men only care if other men value them. They want to be praised by other men. They don't care about women at all. Women are a price to be won to impress other men. It doesn't matter what the woman wants.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 04:14 PM
–	What do women truly think about masculinity? Women aren't a hivemind. Men prosper in hierarchy and strife for it. Women just want equality. Masculinity is overrated if you can just take accountability	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 04:02 PM
–	What do women truly think about masculinity? Men value masculinity more than women. Men only try to impress others men. They dont care what women think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 03:52 PM
–	Men get approached by women less because women rarely cold approach. I commented that male approaching is not worth anything because they dont value women. You came to the same conclusion for womens approaching. So technically we come to the same point for the opposite gender. That's why I replied to the automod	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 02:51 PM
–	Men get approached by women less because women rarely cold approach. You compared it to prostitutes. Im saying society views women approaching men as sluts. Female sexuality is still viewed as dirty and undignified. A woman approaching a man is views as a slut, easy and not worth a relationship. Take it up with society that keeps harping on womens sexual desires.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 02:46 PM
–	Men get approached by women less because women rarely cold approach. Do you have anything else to add than the quotes of a fictional character or is that the depth of your conversation skills?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 02:42 PM
–	Men get approached by women less because women rarely cold approach. Isn't it interesting that you connect slut to prostitutes? One is doing it for the joy of the game, the other does it for the business.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 02:40 PM
–	Men get approached by women less because women rarely cold approach. Correct. Men are shooting their shot. Women are sluts. What else is new	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 02:37 PM
–	Men get approached by women less because women rarely cold approach. My point is this: I wasn't approached because I was uniquely special. Omg! It's almost like men also just approach any woman and not because they are special and thats why it doesn't feel special to women! Who could've guessed?! 😱	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 02:35 PM
–	Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays. Because this thread is about women and whataboutism is useless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 09:32 AM
–	CMV: It actually is terrible advice for feminists to tell high earning women who want to become mothers to seek a sperm bank and hire a nannie, because a stay at home dad is cheaper if they believe in emotional labor I told my husband that there are some kinda secret women only villages. He asked me if he can hide in my closet if I ever want to run off to one of the villages, just so he can still be with me 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 09:30 AM
–	CMV: It actually is terrible advice for feminists to tell high earning women who want to become mothers to seek a sperm bank and hire a nannie, because a stay at home dad is cheaper if they believe in emotional labor I saw a comment the other day on social media of a woman that lives in a "pink marriage". She lives with another woman and they are both mom's of two kids each. They decided to move in together when their relationship with the baby daddy ended. She said this is actually the best living condition she was ever in. The moms both have their own rooms but they share responsibilities and bills. Its like a flatshare but with kids. I can see that becoming more preferable	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 04:09 AM
–	Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays. Anything but acknowledging womens experiences. Great stuff	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 04:04 AM
–	Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays. Its not even comparable. Men that hate women still want access to women. Women that hate men want to stay away from men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 04:03 AM
–	Why don't most women normally wear their hair up? Oh! fetish posting on a monday on ppd. Interesting choice	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 06:59 PM
1	Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays. I don't subscribe to 4B. I wasn't even the one that started to talk about 4B. I said that women will keep distancing themselves more and more from men. And that is happening already. Its currently in a transition phase.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 06:13 PM
0	Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays. There is not a lot of men that benefit from casual sex. They can get neither casual sex nore relationships. And women will probably even lose the interest in casual sex because of the way men behave. The juice isn't worth the squeeze.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 05:26 PM
0	Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays. Using men as dildos is close enough to 4B. And I think most women will not risk being with men too much anyway. Celibacy isn't as hard on most women as it is on men	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 05:04 PM
0	Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays. Women aren't men. The majority of single women maybe has some casual sex here and there. They dont have constantly sex with men	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 04:58 PM
-3	Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays. Men keep confusing criticism and indifference with hatred. They are so emotional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 04:49 PM
-1	Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays. 45% of Women Will Be Single by 2030	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 11:59 AM
5	Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays. A lot of the serious complaints are just declared as hate and propaganda. If you can't reach them with the message you have to find a slogan. If the only way to get men to actively listen to the complaints is to hit them emotionally then the means justifies the message.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 09:49 AM
5	Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays. If there are serious complaints by soooo many women that are being repeated and shared and communicated wouldn't it be better to find a solution for the issues instead of just declaring it propaganda and hate? Wouldn't it be worth listening to what women have to say and why women even without these bad experiences are now scared to even engage with men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 09:38 AM
4	Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays. Do you think explaining your experiences with the opposite gender is propaganda? Do you think this kind of propaganda is working on someone that has never had the same experiences with the opposite gender?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 09:07 AM
3	Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays. If they complain and other complain about the same issues, it shows its a pattern. If its a pattern the solution is to learn more about the pattern to avoid it. For that there needs to be multiple conversations and not just one person complaining.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 08:30 AM
5	Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays. Are women not allowed to complain?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 08:25 AM
5	Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays. Whats is a misandrist narrative?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 08:02 AM
0	Common law marriages should not exist and are legal scams and are unfair to men I will agree when I actually see a shift in the sentiment. Until then I will keep pointing out the hypocrisy	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 07:16 AM
3	Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays. That is part of it. Because you can see the comments everywhere, where women are talking about these issues that its depicted as "hate for men". Even the comments under my comment here, men are saying it is hate against men if women remove themselves from dating men. Thats the issue. Women aren't supposed to openly criticise anything because it is viewed as hatred. Even when women are bringing studies, statistics and other evidence it gets handwaved as cherry picking to justify hate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 07:08 AM
1	Common law marriages should not exist and are legal scams and are unfair to men And yet thats what women are told. Or look at states where cheating isn't recognised as a viable reason to get a divorce and women are stuck in marriages with partners that are cheating on them. Men tell them they should have informed themselves before they got married or they shouldn't have moved to these states. I'm tired of the double standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 07:06 AM
11	Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays. You still haven't explained how this is a war on men if women just stay away from men. Its also a pretty misogynistic view to assume men alone created society without women being involved. But here we are. Being a worker bee isn't a consequence of misandry or feminism or a war on men. Thats the consequence of capitalism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 06:45 AM
1	Common law marriages should not exist and are legal scams and are unfair to men And yet. Governments still do that. As a woman leaving a state to get an abortion you can end up in jail for that. So yeah. Don't move in with a partner and dont have sex. Consequences are consequences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 06:40 AM
8	Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays. into middle management/service jobs to leach resources from working masses. Are you confused? How is it leaching if women are working? Every pebble road plank nail and anything else related to society was created by men, and remain running because of men Not all men How is it a war on men if men have the exact same options and opportunities that women have? The only difference is, that men don't have easy access to women anymore. Thats not war.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 06:21 AM
7	Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays. Where am I talking about myself personally? Stop making things personal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 06:14 AM
-2	Common law marriages should not exist and are legal scams and are unfair to men The government also wants to have a say at what women do with their own bodies as the consequence of sex. Everyone has to carry the consequence for their actions. You don't have to be in a relationship if you don't want to carry the consequences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 06:12 AM
8	Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays. You don't get to dictate what I do with my life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 06:03 AM
7	Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays. How is it war if women stay away from men because of their shared experiences with men? Women aren't murdering men on mass, they aren't SAing them, they aren't even interacting with them. Men not having access to women isn't a war on men. Its a consequence of men's behaviours that is observed by women everywhere and compared.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 06:02 AM
1	Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays. What do you think 4B and similar movements are doing? They are encouraging women to stay away from men. And to be fair, you don't even need the movements for that. Men are very competent at advocating against relationships with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 05:49 AM
4	Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays. There will never be a healthy society without accountability	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 05:26 AM
-1	Common law marriages should not exist and are legal scams and are unfair to men Yes it is. You still make the choice to date and move in with someone. You don't want consequences? Dont do that. Its the same as when people tell women "you don't want to get pregnant? Keep your legs closed".	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 05:01 AM
2	Most young women who appear to hate men in social media, don't actually hate men. They LARP as misandrists because it's the cool thing to do nowadays. Its not misandry to call out negative, dangerous or abusive behaviour by men. Its women comparing notes and realise there is a pattern that is consistent and not just "you picked a bad one". It is women sharing experiences and encouraging other women to be vigilant and question their own perception of what is actually healthy in relationships and dating. For some reason that is seen as hate. Claiming its hate is a way to try to silence women and stop talking about the things they notice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 04:20 AM
4	Common law marriages should not exist and are legal scams and are unfair to men There is another guy in the comments saying that if women get screwed over that is just the consequences of being an adult and making decisions. Seems like it should count the same for men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 03:32 AM
3	What do women think about other women who expect elaborate, movie-like romantic gestures without communicating those expectations, reciprocating similar effort, and making it a deciding factor if the guy actually loves you? What are you talking about? This thread is about romantic gestures.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 03:18 AM
1	Simps have ruined the dating world. Of course not. Accountability? In this economy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/26 01:23 PM
5	Simps have ruined the dating world. No matter the man a woman chooses she will receive scrutiny for his behaviours and other men will blame him and her. He spends resources on the woman he wants to be with? He is a simp and she is a gold digger diggers that wants to betabux him He doest spend money? He just wants to fuck and she is only attracted to Chad. He spends money in the beginning and then stops and she stays with him? He love bombed her and is a walking red flag and she should've known better than to settle for someone. He…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/26 03:40 AM
7	What do women think about other women who expect elaborate, movie-like romantic gestures without communicating those expectations, reciprocating similar effort, and making it a deciding factor if the guy actually loves you? They are expecting too much if the guy they are with doesn't do these things naturally. Everyone should date the people that are showing up enthusiastic. What enthusiastic means is different for everyone. Romantic gesture for me is when my husband brings me my favourite energy drink or asks me if we want to go to M&S so I can browse the isles. For some women that would seem pathetic. But this is what my husband does for me without me having to ask for it, because he knows how much I appreciate t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/26 02:48 PM
11	Preference to not date or marry victims of abuse As long as its a preference and not a thing used to put someone down, thats perfectly fine. Preferences are basically boundaries. They involve you and not someone else. Being self reflected enough to know you can't handle someone with this sort of trauma is fine. Saying they "lost worth" or something along this line is not okay. I would never date someone with children because I am child free. Thats my boundary. That doesn't make single parents bad or anything. I just wouldn't be good around chi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/26 02:36 PM
–	Why do women who claim to be progressive still feed the patriarchy? Same. I just wanted someone that is a adventure partner, sexual companion and friend. My husband was unemployed when we met. It didn't matter. Money was never what drew me to him. Other people keep telling him he needs to be a "provider". I hate this pressure they put on him. Its so toxic. And it hurts his self esteem. It just makes me sad that this is still a message that get put on men. And they keep swallowing it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/26 01:29 PM
–	Why do women who claim to be progressive still feed the patriarchy? Someone in another sub linked this little tinder stats info: Bartenders get 3.5x more matches than Software Engineers (13.87% vs 3.95%). The more specific your tech title, the worse you do. I think men care much more about the income thing. I assume that when a guy earns a certain amount of money he feels more confident in himself and is more likely to ask out more women. There are so many guys in the manosphere and in male spaces itself that say stuff like "I am focusing on becoming successful …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/26 12:38 PM
7	Do you believe that men and women have the exact same sex drives? Male hormonal cycle is 24 hours. While womens is 28 days. (For both: on average). That alone already shows there is no biological equality when comes to hormones and libido. If you stretched out the male 24 hour cycle to 28 days, men would probably have a similar behaviour that women have even if they don't have the ovulation cycle. There would be a week where they are extremely horny and then not so much around that. If you shrink down womens cycle to a 24 hour cycle then women could also be in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/26 06:33 AM
2	How do women know what about personality turns them on? Yeh. I experience that a lot. I sometimes start watching youtubers because they talk about a topic I am interested in. I feel nothing for the youtubers themselves. But the more they talk and the more I engage with them the more attractive they become.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 04:26 PM
3	How do women know what about personality turns them on? He was kinda okay. Nothing out of average. His passion made him more attracted	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 04:16 PM
3	How do women know what about personality turns them on? 😂 I wont. My husband is a brit. He has one tooth too much in the front. Its almost like a extra vampire tooth. He hates it. I love it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 02:17 PM
1	How do women know what about personality turns them on? I love how witty he is. While he always tries to be fair and look at things from different perspectives but also calls out people for their bs. He's such a treat	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 02:11 PM
3	How do women know what about personality turns them on? Hello you gorgeous donut!	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 02:08 PM
3	How do women know what about personality turns them on? I once crushed really hard on one of my profs in university. He was incredibly passionate and knowledgeable about a topic. I only learned much later he was gay and married to his husband. If a guy knows his shit but doesn't use it to show off or try to impress someone but is actually just really into something that is incredibly attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 02:06 PM
–	What do female Redditors who dislike sex with men want their courting process to look like? We back at "women are asexual" again? Wasn't that banned as black pill content?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 01:05 PM
2	The Red Pill is great strategy just to for dating. Nope. Men regularly and routinely ignore womens consent and bodily autonomy. They coerce women to sex and they have no issue violating womena boundaries. They dont care about women as long as they get what they want out of women. Just because they don't do that with women they have familiar bonds with (and even that can be questioned by the porn preferences of men) doesn't undermine the issue itself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 12:11 PM
2	The Red Pill is great strategy just to for dating. As long as the majority of men view women as objects, mens PR is in the gutter which will make women hesitant to engage with men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 11:48 AM
2	The Red Pill is great strategy just to for dating. Nope. Men are very honest that they don't love women. They dont even like women. They just want women shaped appliances. They celebrate sex bots and AI girlfriends. They want to control women. There is no love in men claiming love. Its all about feeling superior to something and owning it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 10:54 AM
9	Q4W: How would you vet another woman if you were looking for one to date? It is like vetting men. Its how you are vetting anyone. And it is basically as you said in your second paragraph. You get to know someone. You learn what things are very important to you inside of relationships and you make sure you have honest conversations with a potential partner very early on about the things that are very important to you. If they are wishy washy about the things fhat matter to you in a relationship, you break it off. If their actions don't match their words, you break it o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/26 03:54 AM
2	Why do Blue Pill men rush to defend women on every single issue? Its not a study ffs. Stop claiming it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/26 03:14 PM
2	The real line between wanting something and acting entitled to it. We try. Slim picking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 07:47 PM
1	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have I hope you come up with theory of equal level to yours here for the others. I am looking forward to see you putting this much convincing and enthusiasm into these preferences as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 06:34 PM
1	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have I will redirect the virgin hunters and age gap defendist to you then. I hope you keep questioning these preferences with the same distrust as you do when it comes to women not picking bi men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 06:17 PM
1	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have And you are perfectly fine if we criticise everyone's dating preferences and assign them hateful underlying reasons?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 05:55 PM
3	The real line between wanting something and acting entitled to it. Or men could just stop being shitty	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 05:53 PM
1	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Someone will always be excluded from your preferences. Does that make your preferences immoral? Do you have to examine everything or can it just be "because I like this and not that"? This moral policing of romantic relationships is so tiring. Men are constantly doing that with women on here with the whole bs of "average women need to be attracted to average men"	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 05:09 PM
1	Do you think heterosexuality is innately polarizing? Instantly controversial. Is it gender or sex? Is a straight man still straight if he is attracted to a female presenting man? Is it being attracted to the genials or the gender roles someone is performing? As if sexuality was this simple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 05:07 PM
1	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Or we stop assigning moral and hatred to preferences in dating and just accept people for who they are the same way bi men are allowed to pick a partner and have their preferences. Or would you call a bi man that is monogamous with a woman bigoted against men for not being together with a man?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 05:04 PM
1	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Do you 100% know exactly where every single preference for a partner comes from?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 04:39 PM
1	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have I could also just say its a preference. Are you happy with that? The mechanism is implausible because you are trying to assign a weird inferiority complex about femininity onto some women as a way to make them feel guilty for not being attracted to something. Its really weird how obsessed you are with trying to assign some moral failure to a personal decision like who to date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 03:41 PM
1	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Lol. You are expecting me to disprove your own thoughts and beliefs? Thats like asking me to disprove god to a religious person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 03:30 PM
0	The real line between wanting something and acting entitled to it. Only if you notice it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 03:27 PM
3	The real line between wanting something and acting entitled to it. What if he is still nice but sabotages you and manipulates you but pretends to respect you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 02:49 PM
1	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have "A lot of women". No proof. You just randomly assigned a motive. Maybe a debate sub isn't for you if you just want to talk about some random theory you came up with	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 01:46 PM
1	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have You are irritated because I called out your conspiracy theory. And you didn't provide sources anyway. There were no links to actually read the studies. If you want to write an opinion piece maybe make sure you declare it properly instead of just trying to make it seem like you actually have any basis to stand on. Its also funny how you went from "women are worried about having to compete with masculinity" to "women are bigoted". I'm not suprised by it though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 01:27 PM
1	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have And that was so supporting to your claims that you pull it out 3 hours later and not provide the actual sources in your OP. And again you are just making random connections. Maybe you should try to write an actual post instead of just an opinion piece. Then a debate might actual be possible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 01:10 PM
1	Women don’t actually need men anymore. So what incentive is left for commitment? I talked to him first. I visited him first. I said I love you first. I proposed to him. I know this is a shocker for you guys but when a woman meets a guy she is actually interested in, that treats her well, that is a good person and she is compatible with, she will actually show enthusiasm towards him. Not all men are desperate	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 12:55 PM
1	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Debating unfounded opinions is usually not really the point of a debate. At some point you should be able to provide some facts and data. I get constantly screamed at in here by guys, that lived experiences aren't proof of anything. Also I'm mostly just bored	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 12:46 PM
1	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Okay. Its unproven and unconvincing. At that point we are still only talking about a random theory.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 12:36 PM
–	Men need to come up with an alternative to marriage. The alternative is community and integrity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 12:34 PM
1	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Nope	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 12:29 PM
1	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have No, speculations and randomly assigning patterns to something doesn't make it more valid. Thats like saying ice creams cause robberies. You are just trying to justify your theory without anything supporting it. There is just nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 12:29 PM
1	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have See you figured out that my argument is also speculation but can't make that connection to your own? My argument could just be "no" and it would still be equally as valid as your post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 12:00 PM
–	Age gap relationships are psychologically optimal for both genders Men around here always complain how women are transactional and gold diggers. And then they post threads like this 🤦‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 11:43 AM
1	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Nope. Message still not received. Let's see how long its going.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 11:41 AM
1	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Wow. Only took 5 more replies to understand. Let's see if you actually get the message.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 11:38 AM
1	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have You seem very emotional. Maybe take a little break buddy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 11:33 AM
1	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Lol. As if you are better. You keep responding despite me clearly stating I won't actually engage with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 11:28 AM
0	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have That is an argument. You have no basis for your beliefs other than "this could he true". Thats conspiracy theory	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 11:27 AM
0	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have I didn't assign my own weird agenda about femininity and masculinity about bisexual men. You are basically just trying to talk about your opinion on just nothing. Thats just conspiracy theory. Or religion. Depends where you coming from.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 11:23 AM
0	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Correct. I'm not talking with you about the topic because you lost any right to a proper conversation by insinuating I dont understand the topic. Good job that you figured that out now. Well done	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 11:21 AM
0	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have One wonders why you keep commenting and replying to a comment under the automod that specifically says, anything that doesnt talk about the actual debate should go there, only to then try to insult me by insinuating I dont understand the post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 11:15 AM
0	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Again. This post is just trying to manufacture some conspiracy reasons behind the insecurity. There is no proof of anything. Thats why the post itself is pointless anyway. Its the same as if I made a post about claiming all men that only want virgin gf's have small dicks. There is just nothing there. At that point you just argue to argue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 11:14 AM
0	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Yep. I'm not the one claiming I don't understand the OP. You lost any right to a proper conversation when you tried to minimise my understanding.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 11:08 AM
0	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have I already told you I don't really engage with you. So. Yeah. I'm not arguing with someone about my own understanding of the OP	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 11:02 AM
2	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have You are just assuming that is has something to do with femininity. Should we then also just assume that every guy that is insecure about a womans body count has a tiny penis or something? All of these things are just assumptions. The root is still just insecurity. The triggers could be multifaceted. Assuming it is rooted in the believe of womens femininity and claiming it as such is pointless. There is no proof of that. This is why I commented under the automod. I knew this would just be a rando…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 11:01 AM
0	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Not really replying to you. Since you just claimed I don't understand the argument. Your comment was nothing and is treated as such	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 10:55 AM
3	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Its an opinion. OPs opinion	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 10:53 AM
1	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have OP is a guy	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 10:47 AM
0	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Because you keep commenting for no reason	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 10:47 AM
3	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Yes it does. Insecure people would stop dating someone if they found something that makes them feel insecure about them. Like body count. It is exactly the same. Sexuality is just one aspect of it. Insecure small men also don't date taller women. Its all the same. You find something that makes you Insecure about the person and then you don't date them. It can be anything. That doesn't make bisexuality special. Its just one more added feature.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 10:39 AM
0	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have I don't respond do comments questioning my intelligence with actual engagement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 10:36 AM
0	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have More contentless rethoric by you and just trying to insult my intelligence. Great commentary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 10:18 AM
3	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Insecure people are insecure because of low self esteem and abandonment issues. It is always the same. It doesn't matter what category you pick. You can chose the guys that only want a virgin gf so she has no experience with any other guy before him. You can chose the woman that wants to make sure her partner spends lots of money on her. It always comes down to trying to validate your own insecurities. Nothing more, nothing less. The only thing that people are looking for is to minimise their ow…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 10:11 AM
3	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have The you could've saved yourself your comment in the first place where you questioned if I even read the post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 10:06 AM
4	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have That sounds more like projecting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 10:02 AM
2	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have You can also not just grow to over 6 feet if you are 5'4. Again. This is just being insecure about yourself and worried you will be replaced by someone else. The issue is low self esteem and abandonment issues. Not competition of masculinity and femininity or sexuality itself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 10:01 AM
6	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Any person in a monogamous relationship will have to come to terms that their partner might be attracted to something that they dont represent. That has nothing to do with bisexuality. Thats just a thing about being realistic. Sure insecure people tend to fight with that thought which is why TRP invented the whole alpha widow thing. This isn't exclusive to bisexuality. This goes for every relationship. Insecure people will be insecure. Nothing to do with femininity or masculinity either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 09:51 AM
2	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have I read the post. I don't see what femininity or masculinity have to do with it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 09:47 AM
5	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Why would femininity compete with masculinity? Its the same thing. Just two sides of the same coin. They don't compete. They exist equally	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 09:37 AM
13	A lot of women reject bisexual men because femininity is the only leverage they think they have Wouldn't the femininity part still only come from women if the dude is bi? Doesn't being bi just means he is also into masculine? Unless you insinuate that bi or gay men are inherently more feminine I don't see why femininity would play any role in this? This is such a twisted logic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 09:33 AM
13	The core of our problems might be a matter of Trust Lol. "it was so much nicer when the father could just sell their daughter to a guy that he thought would be a good husband and he had great relationships with" They are still doing that. In Afghanistan and places like that. Where fathers sell their 9 year old daughters to some random guy in the next village as his second wife. This idea that when women are trapped somehow abusive men are punished by the "institutions" is so ridiculous. Men even today can kill their partner and they get a slap on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 09:14 AM
1	Women don’t actually need men anymore. So what incentive is left for commitment? Correct. He is a normal guy. He is only special to me because I love him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 08:27 AM
1	Women don’t actually need men anymore. So what incentive is left for commitment? Of course I would notice. I love my husband. That doesn't mean he is necessary for my survival. I am with him because I want to. I know men around here don't care about women and can just replace them by any other woman but that not how it is for me. My husband is special to me, but I don't need him to survive	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 04:30 AM
3	Women don’t actually need men anymore. So what incentive is left for commitment? You don't speak for all men. And no he didnt. I actually want to be with him so he didn't had to put in effort.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 04:28 AM
15	Women don’t actually need men anymore. So what incentive is left for commitment? Thats your own title.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 08:11 PM
17	Women don’t actually need men anymore. So what incentive is left for commitment? I dont need a partner. I got one because he enriches my life. I love pizza. I could live without pizza but my life is better with pizza in it. I feel the same about my husband.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 07:43 PM
–	Women of Reddit, I genuinely want to understand something about long-term relationships from your perspective. Yeah. A lot of men seem to get bored with monogamy. The older they get, the more likely they are to cheat 🤷	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 07:38 PM
2	Not having sex is an acceptable outcome Hey, if a a defense spell against the dark arts works irl, I'm all for it	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 07:37 PM
1	Not having sex is an acceptable outcome Then we are back at the no issue again. I just googled and there a lists with basically unused English words. Defenestrate – to throw someone out of a window. 😂 I like that one. I think it probably needs to be something that you can scream and that can't be confused with any other word.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 07:24 PM
3	Not having sex is an acceptable outcome I know. But I think even the stop light system is too generic. It needs to be a obscure, complete show stopper word that is not used in normal conversations at all. So that there is no plausible deniability ala "oh, I thought you just meant the pedestrian crossing light" or some shit. It needs to be so outlandish that there is no excuse and everyone around you instantly knows that this means "go away and stop whatever you are doing here. Take at least 5 steps away from me and stop talking to me"…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 06:49 PM
2	Not having sex is an acceptable outcome Maybe "red" is still to generic. Maybe it needs to be a completely obscure word that is not used in normal conversations at all. So its a complete show stopper and everyone around you instantly knows whats going on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 06:46 PM
–	Women of Reddit, I genuinely want to understand something about long-term relationships from your perspective. The only thing that would come to mind would be maybe sex with a stranger? Because once you are in a committed monogamous relationship you dont really have sex with strangers anymore. You can maybe roleplay that. Which can be fun. But other than that - there is probably nothing I did outside of my relationship that I enjoyed that I didn't want to do inside my relationship unless my partner doesn't want to do that. I don't just stop my sexuality just because I am monogamous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 06:32 PM
8	Not having sex is an acceptable outcome And I want to see some accountability of people that keep pestering others. Why is your own wants more important than the first "no" of the other person? Whats up with this kind of disrespect towards another human?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 06:24 PM
10	Not having sex is an acceptable outcome It is on you to stop pestering people that said no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 06:19 PM
4	Not having sex is an acceptable outcome Okay! I have an idea! Apparently saying "no" isn't enough anymore and leaves too many grey areas for some people. How about we implement kink consent for all society? We all come together and vote for a universal safeword. One word that instantly means "stop whatever you are doing and leave me alone or you will end up in jail". Like really hard consequences. So nobody is confused about grey zones and anything anymore. Make it something absolutely outstanding that is basically never used in norma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 06:16 PM
10	Not having sex is an acceptable outcome Coercion via pestering. This is why we aren't officially calling that when it comes to sex "rape" either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 06:05 PM
–	Women of Reddit, I genuinely want to understand something about long-term relationships from your perspective. I was very explorative with my sexuality before I met my husband and I figured out lots of stuff. Some of the "adventures" things were also based on my partners and my circumstances. Making out as a teenager on a children's playground at night might feel exciting. It loses a lot of that excitement once you get older. Having sex in a tent is different when you are 19 vs 35. I also did certain things with partners that would cross my husbands boundaries and he made very clear he doesn't want, desp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 05:55 PM
8	Not having sex is an acceptable outcome If there is something worth to debate about I will. But if it is debates that make me question humanity I would just get mad and thats not really productive 🤷	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 05:44 PM
3	Men need to display invulnerability rather I refer again to my previous comment. And I won't engage in these women bashing conversations anymore. You guys keep living in a bubble. Of course the Internet is full of bad examples. How often do you think a happy guy in a happy relationship puts in the effort to go online and talk about how his partner supported him? This confirmation bias is so boring.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 03:13 PM
3	Men need to display invulnerability rather I posted under the automod because I made a comment not a debate. I don't have to debate every single thing, especially when it has nothing to do with my comment to begin with and is just used to trash women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 02:46 PM
3	Men need to display invulnerability rather Why? You already made up your mind anyway. I would only waste my time	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 02:36 PM
3	Men need to display invulnerability rather Emotional intelligence seems to be very hard around here	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 01:49 PM
1	Men should also wear wigs, height boosters , normal makeup etc Just because you know some women doesn't mean you speak for women. Stop using women as a stick to beat men with. Its that easy. Stop speaking for women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 11:10 AM
1	Men should also wear wigs, height boosters , normal makeup etc But if a guy WANTS to appeal to women more and is ready to either sacrifice something for it, then i won't tell him to do something women definitely won't find attractive. Because you are a woman and you are the one that decides what women like and what they dont like? Stop using women to police other men!	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 11:01 AM
1	Men should also wear wigs, height boosters , normal makeup etc Encouraging more personal expression is not the same as shaming someone and trying to force them to stick to outdated gender roles or victim blaming them. You are doing the same alpha bro bs that tell men "women will only fuck you if you are rich". You are trying to trap men in these roles. Men are suffering because of these rigid systems they are trapped in and men that use women as a stick to beat other men with just keep this system running.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 10:50 AM
1	Men should also wear wigs, height boosters , normal makeup etc Do you think society will ever change and make it better for men if other men ridicule each other and fear monger them into complying with this stuff? Has that helped so far? Is male suicide rates going down? Addiction? Are men happier being trapped in this societal expectation? I dont think so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 10:37 AM
0	Men should also wear wigs, height boosters , normal makeup etc "If you don't behave how I approve, no woman will want you" This is the toxic masculinity bs that keeps men trapped in their dystopian gender roles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 10:13 AM
–	Men should also wear wigs, height boosters , normal makeup etc Another guy trying to shame men 💁‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 09:55 AM
–	Men should also wear wigs, height boosters , normal makeup etc The desperation to please women instead of doing what makes you feel better about yourself is the ick	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 09:37 AM
2	Men need to display invulnerability rather Bro discovered resilience 🤦‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 09:32 AM
–	Men should also wear wigs, height boosters , normal makeup etc Relationships and sex are all about feeling good. Dunno what you do with them but thats what they are supposed to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 09:26 AM
–	Men should also wear wigs, height boosters , normal makeup etc Read the last two sentences of my comment again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 09:05 AM
–	Men should also wear wigs, height boosters , normal makeup etc There was a reel on IG of a guy showing how he removes and attaches his toupet. It was a whole process and I just wrote a comment of "great! Finally a guy that takes as long as I do in the bathroom to get ready!" His comment section was full of guys telling him to "just go bald bro" and "just shave bro". He said he likes himself more with hair. It isn't necessarily women that have an issue with this. Its other men. There is also a make up artist that shows "male make up" tips. Like using conceal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 05:28 AM
4	Do you like someone more when they're exceptional at things you're deficient in, or when they're similar at things you're exceptional in? I like it when someone is passionate about something. They don't need to be exceptional or even good at it. Just be passionate and have fun with it. I love the energy of someone being excited for something. Passion is more important than being good at it. Someone can be an excellent lover for instance but if it feels lifeless and mechanical it is not the same as someone that is very eager and enthusiastic but maybe a bit clumsy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/26 01:02 PM
2	What do you think about this quote from Bell Hooks? Yep. Same. Lots of therapy and self reflection. Still not done but getting better. And this is no one elses responsibility but my own.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/26 11:49 AM
7	What do you think about this quote from Bell Hooks? That would be the best case scenario but lots of parents are failures as parents. When that doesn't happen in our childhood we have to parent ourselves in our adulthood.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/26 07:59 AM
14	What do you think about this quote from Bell Hooks? You can not love and cherrish someone to value themselves. The value and worth feeling has to come from within. It is a self cultivated mindset, not a manufactured state of being. This is work you have to do on your own. Otherwise people will try to pour love into a black hole.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/26 03:43 AM
–	So are most men "normal and well adjusted" or are most men immoral predators? Predatory behaviour is normalised. Thats the issue. And it is an issue for women as well. Women are groomed into believing their own bodily autonomy and consent is supposed to be an obstacle for men to overcome to "proof" he is actually invested in her. We see that in the majority of old school Disney movies, in romance movies, etc. People are constantly bombarded that "romance" should be a challenge. It is just normalised behaviour. Which we as a society need to deconstruct and we are slowly de…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/26 03:31 AM
4	Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore. You need a job to survive. You need money to survive. You don't need a relationship to survive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/26 02:39 AM
1	Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore. Where did I say enlightened?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/26 02:38 AM
2	Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt. It specifically states that they are using these tactics deliberately to make a woman have sex with them. This is the reality	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/26 02:36 AM
3	Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt. Why do you assume this is before the women have been approached? You are trying to discredit this study with every means possible despite this just being a reality in dating that coercion is a common tactic that is even promoted by men to other men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 07:56 PM
3	Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt. If you have to change the circumstances to get someone to have sex with you that is still coercion. This seems to be a very difficult concept around here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 06:34 PM
3	Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt. What part of "did not want to have sex" is unclear here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 06:33 PM
2	Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt. You mean: Used your money, age, status to convince her ? I think you don't understand this study. He is using these things to change her "no" to a "yes". That is manipulation. Why is his want to have sex with her more valid than her resistance?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 01:51 PM
4	Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore. The point is that going through horrible things and continously trying to go through horrible things just to get social interactions is not viable and shouldn't even be seen as a path.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 01:31 PM
2	Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt. Where does it say Wearing a muscle shirt, wearing better clothes. ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 01:29 PM
5	Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt. In that case the person values their own wants over the person's resistance. Why are someone's wants more important than the "no" of someone else?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 01:25 PM
4	Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore. If you can't get your social needs met through friends, you need better friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 01:24 PM
10	Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt. Wearing a muscle shirt, wearing better clothes. What?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 01:23 PM
12	Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt. Why are you trying to change her mind anyway? She already said no or showed no interest. Stop trying to convince people to have sex with you. Its that easy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 12:46 PM
14	Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt. Women are capable of changing their mind. The issue is if it comes freely or is manipulated	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 12:44 PM
6	Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore. Relationships aren't a guarantee for a social bond. It just means a status change. There are enough people deeply lonely inside of a relationship. That find no connection or intimacy in a relationship. So the idea that a relationship is a requirement when you can meet basically all of those needs outside of a relationship is outdated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 12:43 PM
5	Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore. So a partner isn't what makes it social.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 12:19 PM
10	Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt. Manipulation. Again. We are talking about a situation in which a woman doesn't want to have sex with someone. Then he tells her something to manipulate her choice. There you go	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 12:18 PM
5	Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore. Would you call a widower antisocial?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 12:04 PM
7	Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore. Social doesn't mean partnered.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 11:50 AM
22	Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt. If you have to use a strategy to get someone to have sex with you that they declined, that is coercion. Rape seems to be a trigger word for men which is why its not used in these studies. There is actually a conversation about how men are saying they aren't rapists but when you describe things that are rape without using the word they are agreeing to doing that. A lot of people don't understand that rape isn't a stranger dragging someone into a bush via force. But I am not suprised this is a pro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 11:47 AM
7	Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore. If being single is horrible, they are doing it wrong. Create a better life without needing another human to subsidised it	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 11:30 AM
10	Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt. Finally, when you actually check the questions as they researchers are being deliberately deceptive, this is what they actually asked: "In the past four years, how many times have you used any of the following strategies to get (or try to get) a woman to have some type of sex when she did not want to have sex or acted like she did not want to have sex? How is that deceptive or any different? They are still not respecting her consent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 11:29 AM
14	Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt. The fact that this is consistently downplayed as "harmless flirting" and "grey area" makes it even more disgusting. All of your "grey area" points are completely nullified by the fact that this study specifically says these guys knew they are convincing a woman to have sex with them despite her resistance. And I'm honestly tired of men excusing this kind of rape culture as harmless flirting. And no. The Alpha bros are not universally condemned. They keep indoctrinating younger men into the minds…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 11:27 AM
5	Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore. They do care, they just don't want to have to go through or deal with all negitive realities of trying to date. Having to be a jester and shell out a bunch of time and money just to have a negative outcome by the end of it, and being burned so much that you just grow tired of it Then don't. If everything around dating is so horrible for men, then stop doing that. Its that easy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 11:05 AM
20	Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt. Overall, 95.1% reported having recently used at least one of the strategies to get a woman to have sex who they knew did not want sex and had not consented. They used at least one of these strategies to get a woman they knew didn't want to have sex and didn't consented to it, to change her mind the average number ever used was 8.94. On average they used 9 of these 36 strategies. Its not even that they asked multiple times and then left. No. They moved from strategy to strategy to get her to have…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 10:59 AM
8	Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore. And women aren't cars or cheeseburgers either but apparently the only way to make some men understand these concept is to use analogies with objects.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 09:20 AM
–	What do you think of declining birthrates? Its about time we stop this manufactured breeding craziness. We are already like pigs in a slaughter house. Breeding for the "elite". The wolfs are worried the sheep aren't multiplying anymore. Declining birth rates is a good thing. It shows the errors in the system and forces people to open their eyes to them to hopefully address it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 08:10 AM
8	Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore. So no more denial about men's selection? Thought so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 08:06 AM
12	Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore. Men call that "dumpster diving". So yeah. They also don't really care about women. A lot of men are obsessed with the idea of replacing women with robots. They actually hate women. They just enjoy the sexual gratification they get out of getting with women. Yes women are more selective. That doesn't automatically mean their selection is perfect. Lots of people are scammed by a fake designer bag.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 07:15 AM
11	Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore. If you can't have a civil conversation without being insulting, you aren't worth having a conversation at all. Bye	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 07:04 AM
10	Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore. Nobody is forcing men to do that. This is a free choice for themselves. They are creating their own hell by making women feel like cheeseburgers and then wonder why women don't jump at the opportunity to be treated as such. Men trap themselves in these issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 06:58 AM
16	Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore. Men's attention is generic. They would have sex with anything. So obviously it doesn't feel special to women. It feels more like being an animal in a zoo and having visitors taking pictures of you. It doesn't make you feel special. It doesn't make you feel like you are someone they are actually attracted to. It makes you just one of many. Like a McDonald's cheeseburger. Women on the other hand are selective. They will review a guy like a very expensive special designer bag. Women will look at it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 06:20 AM
1	What does the future of dating look like in a job market that favors women yet many of whom still won’t “date down”? He is not a chad guy. He is a wonderful person that I love more than anything but he isn't this weird caricature of a chad that insecure men assume are the only guys that women get. I know this is a hard truth to swallow for a lot of unselected men but the issue is with them. It has nothing to do with them not being chad or women being asexual or whatever. And I am far from a rare outlier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 04:52 AM
4	Genuine question for feminists Do you think the draft is acceptable if you get women as a prize for potentially being drafted into a war? Do you think the fact that most wars are created by other men and offer women as a potential prize to be handed over to men to fight in the war men create is a fair deal?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 07:08 PM
6	Why do so many women end up choosing the guy who was simply more present? Its not just about making your interest known. A stalker can make their interest known, thats doesn't mean they are building anything with the person they are attracted to. But in general - yeah. How would you know someone actually wants to invest into a relationship with you if they don't show up for the relationship? If they only pop up randomly you have a fuckbuddy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 07:01 PM
1	What does the future of dating look like in a job market that favors women yet many of whom still won’t “date down”? Friends of mine rated my husband a 4. I rated him a 10. So its probably very subjective. When we met he didn't have a drivers license, a job or a school degree. He dropped out of school to take care of his dying mother. He did that for a decade. She died a couple of month before we met. He was unemployed for a while and went to therapy to deal with the loss of his mom. She first had cancer and when she beat it, she got diagnosed with crones disease which slowly ate her alive. He stopped his life…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 06:58 PM
5	Why do so many women end up choosing the guy who was simply more present? Consistency builds intimacy and safety. These are necessary for arousal for a lot of women. Sure the exciting guy that is flaky can be a thrill but for someone that wants to feel save and low cortisol that wont lead to long term results. On of the things I really love about my husband is that he calls me every single day during his lunch break just to spend like 10 minutes on the phone with me. Even if we don't have much to talk about it is a routine that makes me feel valued and prioritised. It…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 06:46 PM
3	Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric. Absolutely. Dating in its current form is just not working anymore and needs a complete overhaul.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 11:17 AM
–	Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric. Exactly. So everyone needs to suck it up with the complaints about "dates feel like job interviews" and actually put in some actual thought, honesty and boundaries in, before everyone wastes their time and feels used. It might not be what we used to understand as "romance" but that is obviously not working	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 10:54 AM
3	What does the future of dating look like in a job market that favors women yet many of whom still won’t “date down”? I did. So that statement is objectively false	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 10:51 AM
–	Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric. As long as "courtship is nebulous and vibe-based" abusers and manipulators will always have a excuse and plausible deniability. This is why the conversation about informed consent, only yes means yes and coercion is so important. All of this needs to stop.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 10:33 AM
–	Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric. At this point I think the only way to keep this up is by having kind of Google reviews from previous partners on dating profiles...	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 10:23 AM
–	Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric. It is the pretending of something else to get consent to have sex, that is the issue. Did the guy afterwards said he doesn't want to be with her anymore because of the yoshi tattoo? Did he stopped when he saw it or did he still have sex with knowing he would not keep going. Thats not revoking consent. Thats using someone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 10:15 AM
–	Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric. If you buy a car from a dealer that told you the car has never been in an accident, just to drive the car and then find out the breaks are broken because it was in an accident before, that would invalidate a contract.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 09:24 AM
–	Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric. Who says the guy can't revoke consent? He can. There is a difference between finding out someone pretended to be something else to have sex with you vs. being incompatible after having sex. Why is consent such a difficult topic around here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 09:21 AM
2	Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric. Don't assume every man has the best intentions either. 90% of the time, this comes from women assuming best case scenario I don't have to	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 09:18 AM
–	Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric. You just make the claim that men are inherently bad. Which is convenient for bad men because they can claim all men are like that and the good men have to suffer for the actions of bad man. We should hold men to higher standards and believe they are good and moral people. Why do you advocate for misandry?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 08:32 AM
–	Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric. Thats a pretty misandrist view that we should just assume all men are bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 08:26 AM
–	Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric. So nothing	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 08:25 AM
–	Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric. Show me the study	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 07:46 AM
–	Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric. So we should just assume "all men"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 07:46 AM
–	Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric. Consent to sex is only valid if it is fully informed. Otherwise its invalid. Don't lie about your intentions to get sex. Its that easy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 07:43 AM
–	Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric. Do I need to post the coercion study again? Consent achieved under false facts isn't consent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 07:40 AM
3	What does the future of dating look like in a job market that favors women yet many of whom still won’t “date down”? You can obviously buy your way out of being an incel. You can buy your way out of jail. If that's what you want, no big deal. Thats why I said in my top comment - transactional people will find other transactional people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 05:18 AM
5	What does the future of dating look like in a job market that favors women yet many of whom still won’t “date down”? True. There is a bar. For both looks and personality. Most men fail at the personality bar. Most people date in their own society economic group anyway. But I agree that being content with being single should always be the normal state. Instead of being bitter and hateful that someone doesnt want you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 04:26 AM
4	What does the future of dating look like in a job market that favors women yet many of whom still won’t “date down”? Chad and hypergamy are just boogeyman for unselected men that try to find excuses for who they are unselected. And instead of self reflecting and realising they are believing the lies that other men tell them about what women want, they rather live in a delusion where its not their own short comings that prevent them from being in a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 04:11 AM
7	What does the future of dating look like in a job market that favors women yet many of whom still won’t “date down”? Who are you even talking about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 08:56 PM
6	What does the future of dating look like in a job market that favors women yet many of whom still won’t “date down”? What men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 08:47 PM
13	What does the future of dating look like in a job market that favors women yet many of whom still won’t “date down”? Lol. Did you actually read the study or are you just pasting it in hopes nobody is actually going to read it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 08:45 PM
12	What does the future of dating look like in a job market that favors women yet many of whom still won’t “date down”? Its also not even true btw. Yeah, women are the primary grocery shoppers but that doesnt really mean much anyway because on average men consume more calories than women, because of their caloric needs. Also: Women tend to spend more on personal care products, healthcare, housing, and transportation, while men spend more on new vehicles, tobacco, and alcohol. Women alao spend more on clothes. But when we keep in mind that womens clothing tends to be more expensive and cheaper quality than men's i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 07:45 PM
22	What does the future of dating look like in a job market that favors women yet many of whom still won’t “date down”? Always spending on material goods and dinner. Those damn womens spending money on things and food! How dare them! Grrr Anyway. Lots of women will happily date the guys that aren't completely obsessed with the power dynamic in a relationship based on money. The ones that are transactional will still find other transactional people. The ones that don't care about this kind of transactional relationship will find each other. Also. Give it a hot minute. Women just managed to catch up on education an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 07:03 PM
–	Contrary to stereotypes, older women are often much kinder, sluttier and less entitled than younger and same-aged women Or, hear me out, instead of painting everything with a generalisation brush, we could maybe accept that people aren't one homogeneous mass. So there is no hivemind for all women. There is no hivemind for all older women. There is no hivemind for all younger women. Etc. Maybe we need to zoom in and focus on the one person we are actually trying to engage with instead of trying to stereotype everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 03:15 PM
3	The Red Pill is great strategy just to for dating. Back in the day the Internet was cat videos, telling people about your day and some DIY tutorials. Now its hate speech of people that have no credentials promoted by tech oligarchs because controversy generates more money. None of this is helpful for society and humanity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 02:11 PM
2	The Red Pill is great strategy just to for dating. Yeah. A disclaimer should be the least that could be done. And actually thinking about what kind of message is promoted including potential consequences instead of just spouting advice to sell courses, dating coach lessons, crypto and so on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 01:53 PM
3	The Red Pill is great strategy just to for dating. Content creators need to realise they dont act in a vacuum but a ecosystem. The times of "I am putting a little helpful video out there with some current trending tags" and then assuming it won't have consequence are over. Thats not how algorithms work anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 12:55 PM
6	The Red Pill is great strategy just to for dating. RP is not just "a little pick and then leave". It is a system that is designed to drag you in and keep you. I watched reels of a transguy explaining he just wanted to watch some videos of how to tie a tie. Then he started getting videos recommend on how to improve his dating life. And that led him down the road to hating women. Thats how indoctrination works. And RP starts especially with young guys that don't even recognise what is happening to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 12:18 PM
15	The Red Pill is great strategy just to for dating. The mistake is the idea that these guys actually want love. They don't. They get off on power. Women are just one tool used to fuel their power driven ego. Women are part of their validation from other men to feel like they actually have value. They are deeply insecure, self hating people that feel like they have no worth in this world. It has nothing to do with love.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 11:54 AM
–	Immediate disqualifying factors are viewed as something negative by the person disqualifying I didn't want to have children. So a potential partner that wanted to have children was a disqualifier. That doesn't make them bad. They can find someone that wants to have that. It just doesn't align with my idea of a relationship and how I want my life to look like. That's not negative or positive. Its just incompatibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 11:44 AM
-2	I'm starting to think men don't consider women they're not attracted to to be women Tbf. They don't even treat women they are attracted to as people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/26 06:05 AM
9	do you truly believe the bar is lower for men? My step dad is too lazy to eat properly. If my mom doesn't cook for him he just doesn't eat. If he looks like he lost weight, my parent's friends ask my mom why she isn't taking care of him or if she is starving him. The bar is not the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/26 04:42 AM
–	Men have to build their assets, but women are born with them. Looks thread is gonna get nuked	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/26 05:58 AM
3	There are similar patterns in men anticipating sex, and women anticipating commitment Yeah. This whole assumption of everyone being on the same page is so immature. And suddenly you are 6 month in with someone that wants to have a white picked fence and three kids or just wants to have a short term fling before they are moving to Japan or something and then the heartbreak is real when you notice you are incompatible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/26 03:19 PM
2	If you are sahm, it's your job to take the mental load. And this is why its not even worth considering this job.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/26 02:30 PM
14	What's your opinion on vtubers? I am glad the Vtubers can do the same jobs male streamers do but still have a protective layer of anonymity. We know how some people get with their parasocial relationships. So anonymity tends to be important. If people want to jerk it to anime cat girls, thats up to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/26 12:42 PM
4	CMV: It is not the premature ejaculator's job to solve the problem, it is the other partner's, because they are the ones who wants them to last longer Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/26 10:31 AM
5	CMV: It is not the premature ejaculator's job to solve the problem, it is the other partner's, because they are the ones who wants them to last longer Do you understand why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/26 10:08 AM
5	CMV: It is not the premature ejaculator's job to solve the problem, it is the other partner's, because they are the ones who wants them to last longer You are aware there is a difference between being angry at a stranger not having sex with you vs. Wanting longer sessions with a person you are already having consentual sex with?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/26 09:54 AM
3	CMV: It is not the premature ejaculator's job to solve the problem, it is the other partner's, because they are the ones who wants them to last longer My favourite part is: "this person wants more sex with me. Thats 🍇"	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/26 09:00 AM
9	CMV: It is not the premature ejaculator's job to solve the problem, it is the other partner's, because they are the ones who wants them to last longer Is this a try to reverse engineer the "orgasm gap" into premature ejaculation?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/26 08:13 AM
–	We men are setting ourselves back. And there's no excuse Commenting for later to read replies	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/26 07:20 AM
4	There are similar patterns in men anticipating sex, and women anticipating commitment And this is why everyone need to have the conversation about what they expect out of a relationship extremely early on. No covert contracts. None of this "dragging along" because you just assume you are on the same page when you haven't even talked about it. One of the very first conversations I had with my husband was what we expect our relationship to look like. I told him explicitly that I am not going to have children and if he wants that he needs to find someone else. No beating around the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/26 04:54 AM
1	Would you like to live in a post gender society? I am being selfish with my answer: No. It took me too long to be comfortable with my gender identity as a woman to say I want to get rid of it. I enjoy dressing feminine. I enjoy "girly" things and expressing my gender in a way that is seen as positive by society. I do wish gender norms weren't as strict as they are. Especially for men. But I also like when men dress in suits and show off their manly bodies. I also like when women wear things that are gender conformative. I like when pretty wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/26 04:41 AM
9	what is it you think when men complain? Yes. And they will say "I just need to vent". But when you let men vent and show compassion/sympathy they will tell you it was useless since you dont offer advice, or saying it doesnt help them or they dont want to hear useless platitudes. Women will vent together and agree with each other about their grievance or just rage with each other. And then they will feel better. Thats not the same with men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/26 05:19 PM
9	what is it you think when men complain? Yes. And they will say "I just need to vent". But when you let men vent and show compassion/sympathy they will tell you it was useless since you dont offer advice, or saying it doesnt help them or they dont want to hear useless platitudes. Women will vent together and agree with each other about their grievance or just rage with each other. And then they will feel better. Thats not the same with men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/26 05:19 PM
20	what is it you think when men complain? I have experienced that when men complained and I offered either compassion or advice it was not received well. I was told "you don't understand", "you don't know what you are talking about", "that doesn't help", "I can't do that", etc. Basically every suggestion or feedback for the complaint was rejected. At some point I kind of gave up. I won't force my help on someone that clearly doesn't want it. That is a waste of energy and time. Instead I focus and invest in people that are open to either…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/26 03:39 PM
–	Women what are your Standards for hookup vs relationship I can imagine having sex with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/26 01:23 PM
–	Women what are your Standards for hookup vs relationship Hookups: are they attractive enough? Are they willing to have sex? Am I horny? Relationships: a much longer list that includes the hookup criteria but has muuuuch more points.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/26 01:22 PM
13	Women have no problems with "power dynamics" if it’s something they’re attracted to and validates their egos Men are 7-11 years behind women in psychological development? Where is that coming from?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/26 05:48 AM
1	What was it like when you had your first period? I started having monthly cramps around the age of 9. Doctors couldn't figure out what was wrong. At first they told me it was psychosomatic and they asked me if I was being bullied in school or had some other stress. When they couldn't find anything more they took out my appendix. After I was still having monthly cramps they simply told me that it might just be early symptoms of my period. I started bleeding for the first time around 13 or 14. I already knew everything because of my history but …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 05:50 PM
1	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do I do believe there are women that do that. Not at the same rate as men but there are. I assume its similar to the violence distribution rate of men vs women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 05:39 PM
3	"Some men aren't given the opportunity to show off their personality" is a victim narrative myth and a red flag. I was told that you can now make posts every 12 hours.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 01:22 PM
1	Red pill "logic" applied to men shows the absurdity needed. That debate was such a shitshow. I could only watch some clips of it because it hurt my brain too much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 12:42 PM
–	I genuinely believe most women would be happier if they put more emphasis on trying to start a family. If we use OPs definition of "women would be happier if they had a child" then yes, thats just selfish.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 11:38 AM
–	My (35m) girlfriend (32f) broke up with me because I didn't "support her" and had "mental health" issues. I'm curious where I could have improved. Personal advice posts aren't allowed on here. This is a debate sub	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 08:50 AM
1	A man without female friends is a red flag If you disagree, you can debate why. If you don't want to debate you don't have to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 07:51 AM
4	A man without female friends is a red flag Kind of yes. But personally I don't think anyone needs to friends with someone based on the gender. The more important part is if they hold everyone accountable and to up to the same standard despite the gender. You don't even need to have friends for that. If you tell someone a story about another person and they have a different opinion on the behaviour in the story based on the gender, thats a red flag. If a guy holds too much onto the "women are wonderful" effect because he puts women on a p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 07:49 AM
2	A man without female friends is a red flag Read the title. Its not that complicated	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 07:41 AM
1	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do Lying to safe yourself is different than lying to get something you want or convince someone to do something you want. Thats the coercion part. And idk why you assume I am making that a gendered issue when I am not. When I am talking about coercion for sex it tends to be genders but its not a 99/1 issue. There are women that lie to get sex. We just don't hear about it because men tend to agree to sex even if they are lied to. Even after they get to know they have been lied to, very rarely do the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 06:57 AM
–	More women today have a disdain for men because the only thing women can offer today is sex, so they understand all of men's efforts today is just for her pussy, which fills them with contempt Most men just want a highly trained emotional support animal that they can have sex with. They don't even like women. Its a wonder our species has survived for this long once we started to talk to each other and could understand each other. The only reason humans are this overpopulated now with the mindset men bring is because they enslaved women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 06:08 AM
–	I genuinely believe most women would be happier if they put more emphasis on trying to start a family. I am a bit of an outlier because I am a antinatalist. So my opinion will seem more radical. But for real - have you looked at the world lately? I think it is incredibly unethical, selfish and abusive to bring another human into this. If I had a child just to "be happy" it would absolutely be the wrong decision. And I think it is a disgusting idea to value your own happiness over the potential horrors you are sending another human into.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 05:57 AM
1	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do Lying to safe your own skin is different than lying to make someone else have sex with you. At that point you devoid them of consent because they can't consent if they dont know what they are consenting to. If you want we can call it rape.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 05:42 AM
1	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do Lying to get sex from someone is manipulation. If you use manipulation to get sex from someone its coercion	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 05:38 AM
1	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do Does this idea of "coercion" apply elsewhere? If a car salesman embellishes a car's feature to me, was I "coerced" ? Yes. You are even allowed to cancel contracts if you can proof you have been manipulated	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 05:37 AM
1	Guys need to ask themselves what value they bring to others. Does that count for men too that say all women are shitty when they take just any woman?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 05:35 AM
2	Women, what kind of lies are not acceptable from men, and which lies do you expect men to be okay with? I sometimes do. I say things like "I've already told you how I think about this". But again. Certain topics are a recurring thing and sometimes he just needs to vent. So I let him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 05:34 AM
1	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do More projection. I hope you can heal. Have a good one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 06:07 PM
1	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do You are drawing conclusions and make your own interpretations. I said "If you believe that, I can't help you". Which means this is entirely opinion based and I don't actually have anything more to add to the conversation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 05:31 PM
10	Women, what kind of lies are not acceptable from men, and which lies do you expect men to be okay with? I don't want any lies. And I don't expect any man to accept lies. 0 lies is the acceptable amount of lies. The only time you could say I am "lying" to my husband is if we have a conversation about something we had multiple times before that he is frustrated about and I voiced my opinion/advice/etc about it before. But don't say it again because I am aware it is not helping him, or he doesn't need to hear it again because he already knows my opinion about it, or he isn't in the right mindset for …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 05:25 PM
1	Guys need to ask themselves what value they bring to others. Whats your definition of "dating"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 05:16 PM
1	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do You seem to have issues reading and understanding words. They seem to morph in your brain into whatever fits your narrative. Maybe work on that. A dictionary could be helpful if you have trouble reading and understand written words.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 05:13 PM
5	Guys need to ask themselves what value they bring to others. The personal aspect speaks about how you view dating as a whole and with which goal. If you personally define dating as lying and using to achieve a certain goal then that would be fair according to you and you shouldn't have an issue with that. Maybe OP should've clarified her definition of "dating" because apparently it seems to be a difficult concept.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 04:51 PM
5	Guys need to ask themselves what value they bring to others. So for you lying and using is a part of dating. Is that your goal in dating?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 04:44 PM
7	Guys need to ask themselves what value they bring to others. Is lying and using someone included in dating?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 04:37 PM
9	Guys need to ask themselves what value they bring to others. Isn't it fascinating that when the topic is "what do you bring to the table" you equate it with "using you for sex and lying". Is that what men bring to the table in dating?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 04:33 PM
1	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do I am respecting your beliefs, darling. And I said nowhere in that comment "women never do that". That is your interpretation and your projection, buttercup.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 04:30 PM
1	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do Show me the comment where I said "women never do that". Why are you antagonising me when I am showing empathy to your experiences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 04:13 PM
0	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do I wrote you a compassionate comment. Your interpretation of it as sarcasm isn't my responsibility. I have nothing else to offer than words of sympathy. I hope you can heal from the trauma	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 04:11 PM
1	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do I believe you. I'm sorry you got 🍇ed so much. I hope you are working through that trauma	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 04:07 PM
-1	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do If you believe that, I can't help you	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 04:04 PM
-1	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do Are women telling men they are the hottest men ever in an attempt to only have sex with them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 03:59 PM
5	Guys need to ask themselves what value they bring to others. I think what is seen as "unfair" is that women get to have a choice at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 03:47 PM
6	women dont think about men Again. Words have meanings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 11:49 AM
11	women dont think about men Word have meanings. Two words aren't synonyms just because you try to portray them as such. Sexual arousal, attraction and interest are all different things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 10:14 AM
13	Many women say that if a woman rejects a man, he should accept it and move on, never trying again. "Just ignore her no and hope she settles for you if you convince/pester her long enough" Pathetic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 08:44 AM
1	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do Yes. Thats lying by omission. Hope that helps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 08:38 AM
-1	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do Nope. Lying to get sex is not a difference of opinion	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 08:35 AM
2	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do If you aren't sure. You can ask. If she then says she doesn't wear makeup. Thats a lie.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 07:00 AM
-2	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do Can you see make up with your eyes? Even without talking to the woman?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 06:55 AM
-1	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do Someone that lies to get sex? Yeah. It actually makes it pretty difficult to trust someone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 06:45 AM
2	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do But nobody is home	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 06:00 AM
12	women dont think about men You asked about spontaneous sexual arousal for a stranger. That is not the same as getting interested in a man and then responding to that interested with sexual arousal. Men keep conflating being interested in someone with instant sexual arousal. Just because it happens for men at the same time doesn't mean it happens for women at the same time. Sexual arousal for a lot of women is a reaction to more than just physical aspects. Men need to pop up for women as people before they become sexual ob…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 05:32 AM
2	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do Teach your eyes to see the truth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 05:25 AM
3	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do I saw a IG post about a female babysitter that SAed the toddlers. In the comments were guys saying "can she babysit me?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 04:32 AM
-6	Debate: Women engage in rape apologia of male victims more than men do Yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 04:29 AM
3	If below average men were given experience they would even themselves out. Thats okay. We all make sacrifices. You are also not allowed to drive a car without a license even if you would like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 04:15 AM
3	If below average men were given experience they would even themselves out. It is a bit dystopian that we are at a point where it seems to be necessary	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 07:59 PM
2	When is it fair to say "you should have chosen better"? Oh yeah. I agree. I personally know people that are like "I'm actually not eating that much and its not that bad". Then I explain how much calories bread and olive oil has. Doing that after calculating the TDEE is usually a shock for them. They tend to be very suprised by the density of very tiny portions and the calories. But yeah. Obviously thats not the only thing you need to do. I always struggled with my calories and weight and felt like I was a failure. Turned out - pcos and insulin resist…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 07:23 PM
3	When is it fair to say "you should have chosen better"? There can be underlying reasons for people to be fat. Then its not just "you need to eat less" it is also "you need to figure out what is making losing weight more difficult for you". Sometimes you actually need to get to the root and not just blame it on them. Making people feel shit about themselves usually doesn't help them lose weight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 07:01 PM
2	If below average men were given experience they would even themselves out. Somebody would definitely make money of it already 😅	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 06:55 PM
3	If below average men were given experience they would even themselves out. True. AI isn't really good with that. But again. I don't think one date is enough to really zoom in on the issues and everything. It would have to be a whole package deal over multiple dates and situations with almost a team behind it doing a proper analysis of how to improve. And that would be incredibly expensive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 05:36 PM
2	If below average men were given experience they would even themselves out. I guess the closes thing is a dating coach but they aren't really doing the dating properly. And then again it would need to be very very vague because not every woman is the same. You can only correct so many things. This is why you kind of need a "trial partner" to really figure that out and that is almost like sugar dating at that point. But the sugar babes aren't really honest. That is obviously the issue with real people. And a "trial partner" could be incredibly dangerous again. Especially…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 04:48 PM
2	If below average men were given experience they would even themselves out. Personally I think this is a great thing. Especially because it could really help anxious people train. We have training programmes for everything. Driving cars, working jobs, we go to schools to learn... why not dating? I think a robot would also be a better thing that a human because they could be more objective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 04:24 PM
10	If below average men were given experience they would even themselves out. Ohhh. I wanna be a bit more dystopian hypothetical! How about we introduce a relationship test. Like a drivers license. Everyone get a robo partner that teaches you how to properly behave in a relationship and at the end of that phase you get a evaluation and a score. If you fail you have to improve. If you pass you are allowed to date humans. And even if you pass you get like recommendations how to improve. Almost like they used to do back in the day when you were supposed to learn how it is to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 03:40 PM
2	Men don't have a natural instinct to protect women So male morale is men exercising their power. Their power to do what?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 01:39 PM
4	Men don't have a natural instinct to protect women But the unhinged stuff is the most fun!	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 01:26 PM
2	Men don't have a natural instinct to protect women I agree. I am just curious what you think is male morale	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 01:25 PM
6	The utter revulsion women feel and openly express against the idea of coddling or nurturing their partners like a mother figure is conclusive proof that women do not actually love men for who they are Username checks out	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 12:47 PM
3	There’s no point in women freely give away sexual attention when men dont appreciate it. Ah. I see.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 12:34 PM
2	There’s no point in women freely give away sexual attention when men dont appreciate it. Real men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 12:31 PM
5	Men don't have a natural instinct to protect women Another question! Isnt in your description "male morale" basically the exact thing that Rollo is accusing women about? men must be freed from the unconscious, knee-jerk expression of their protective instincts before they can deal with women in a way that maximizes their benefit rather than that of a stranger. A world dominated by feminism (and feminist-incentivized traditional conservatism) is a world where men prioritize the interests of women, and women prioritize the interests of themselves.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 09:47 AM
7	Men don't have a natural instinct to protect women Religion was basically created by men. How is it womens fault that it corrupted "male morale"? 🤔	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 09:01 AM
11	how frequently you turned on about men you see in public ? They won't. If it doesn't fit in their world view its wrong, evil or broken.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 05:00 AM
1	CMV: Many of men's dating problems start With treating women as opportunities rather than people I love the "dodge accountability" dance. Its fine. I said my piece. Maybe actually reply to the original commentator if you want to have a discussion about the original comment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 04:59 AM
1	CMV: Many of men's dating problems start With treating women as opportunities rather than people You know what they say about assuming.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 04:52 AM
1	CMV: Many of men's dating problems start With treating women as opportunities rather than people So you did only use my comment as a jumping board to have a different imaginary conversation with another poster since you simply agree with my original point. We got there in the end.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 04:48 AM
1	CMV: Many of men's dating problems start With treating women as opportunities rather than people Do you disagree that men are more likely to end up homeless because they are more risk taking?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 04:41 AM
1	CMV: Many of men's dating problems start With treating women as opportunities rather than people I didn't. I explained why men are more likely to be homeless because you asked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 04:38 AM
2	CMV: Many of men's dating problems start With treating women as opportunities rather than people Read my comment again. I only explained why men are more likely to be homeless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 04:34 AM
1	CMV: Many of men's dating problems start With treating women as opportunities rather than people You were replying to my comment. Not someone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 04:28 AM
-1	CMV: Many of men's dating problems start With treating women as opportunities rather than people You are having an imaginary conversation with another commentor as a response to my comment?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 04:21 AM
10	how frequently you turned on about men you see in public ? Men still don't understand that womens arousal is different than mens. For women there needs to be a baseline of attraction to feel open to further engage with a man. The baseline is actually pretty easy to pass. But the baseline doesn't trigger arousal. Womens attraction is holistic instead of just visual. Attraction is a combination of multiple aspects of a person instead of just the visual. Women are less objectifying than men. So while a woman can walk through her life and even think "he is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 04:16 AM
0	CMV: Many of men's dating problems start With treating women as opportunities rather than people What does that have to do with my explanation for why men are more likely to be homeless? Are you saying society pressures men to spend more money on personal items which turns them into homeless?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 04:07 AM
4	CMV: Many of men's dating problems start With treating women as opportunities rather than people Men fall more into extremes in any category. Addiction, violence, etc. Mostly because men are much more risk taking than women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/26 03:51 AM
8	Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense. And women are shamed for leaving an abusive husband because "they are breaking a family apart!" Who cares? People will always find a reason to shame you. If you stay you are a doormat and beta, if you leave you are insecure and loved here. People are idiots.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/26 08:17 PM
4	Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense. Whats more important? How other people view you or making two people unhappy by staying in a relationship that makes you unhappy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/26 06:14 PM
1	The disparity between good men and good women I know. I wanted the commentator to do the research themselve. They never do...	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/26 03:40 PM
14	Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense. First of all: sex isn't supposed to be a favour one gives to another. That mindset is really disgusting and needs to stop. Second: what is insulting about that? Why is this a dick measuring contest? If you are unhappy with what you have, leave.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/26 01:30 PM
6	Women, when you ask a man to take out the trash, what is the time limit for the man to do that? Its is a immediate thing. If I ever ask for anything and it doesn't have a certain timeframe already attached to it, it means now. Because if I am doing something and need something else done immediately thats when I ask. But I usually dont ask for these things. If the trash is full, I take it out. I sometimes ask my husband "hey, when you go downstairs, can you take my cup and plate?". Usually when he is on his way anyway. If it is something that he isn't already doing it is usually a request f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/26 11:12 AM
20	Most Modern Women are Alpha Widows Sshhhh. you are not supposed to tell them that more relationships could mean actually learning things because women aren't supposed to gain that kind of knowledge according to RP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/26 11:02 AM
7	Most Modern Women are Alpha Widows I always wonder what the "alpha" is actually supposed to be. Because no matter the person you will always have to make some compromise. At the end of the day we are all humans. So is the "alpha" the giant penis guy that could rearrange your gut but was otherwise a total failure as a partner? Is the "alpha" the 6feet guy that didn't know how to clean a toilet? Is the "alpha" the guy that could buy everything but was a raging narcissist? Most people will think if the partner is a balanced mixed ou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/26 10:38 AM
8	Women are not masculine enough. It doesnt really matter what women do, they get criticism for everything anyway and are supposed to take the blame for everything. Also if women are doing the "masculine" and "feminine" things in a relationship... what are men doing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/26 09:48 AM
4	men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa. So propaganda	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/26 04:19 AM
1	AI is now banned and also join our discord come argue with incels, misogynists and misandrists Or they aren't on the discord	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/26 07:33 PM
4	Its hypocritical for 🔵BP/Feminist society to be outraged at the likes of Bonnie Blue/Lily Philips or even Clavicular, since its just the end result of their own ideals (Sex Positive, Sexual Revolution, Sexual Autonomy). Taking psyOPs by tech oligarchs to try to paint feminism a certain way is so funny to me. People fall for everything nowadays.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/26 06:31 PM
1	Just because a woman wants a relationship with you doesn't mean she desires you. Yeah... I know. But I like to respond to some of these things more like a normal person might think and not someone that is completely pornfried	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/26 05:16 PM
1	AI is now banned and also join our discord come argue with incels, misogynists and misandrists Good job 👍	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/26 04:17 PM
–	Women need to stop acting like it’s men’s fault they have to work Yep. When the industrial revolution happend they promised people they would need to work less at same income. It was predicted we were supposed to work 4 hours a day. When women started working to gain more independence wages stayed the same or even got lower in jobs women were doing predominantly. Everything else got more expensive. Government keep cutting social funding to give it to corporations as tax cuts in the name of capital and economy. Its all a scam. Capitalism is a scam. And people s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/26 01:52 PM
4	Q4W: Would you participate in or use a dating app that had no pictures of the person you are talking to? 😂 the first time I saw a webcam video of my husband I thought "oh god" because he had longer hair and a unkempt longer beard. That was right after his mother died (which I didn't knew at that point). Then we had a video call. He had freshly cut hair and his beard was trimmed. And I was like "oh!". Then I met him in person after we had already talked for a while and I was instantly in love with him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/26 01:12 PM
16	If you dont like women, don’t date them. They don't recognise it as an issue. They assume women are the same. This is why they feel so weird when women actually ask questions during a date. They feel like they are in an interview when women just are interested in them as people. This is why they try to reduce womens interest in them as just into finances. If women aren't as shallow the same way they are, they have to be shallow in a different way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/26 12:45 PM
10	If you dont like women, don’t date them. They don't care if they don't like women as people. They like their bodies. Thats it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/26 12:41 PM
6	Q4W: Would you participate in or use a dating app that had no pictures of the person you are talking to? Yeah. We did a lot of that back in the day in really big chat room for your area. You got to talk a lot with lots of people. Then if you hit it off you went to private chat rooms. And only after a long ass time people would shyly ask for a pic. Because it wasn't as normalised as it is today to share photos of yourself on the Internet. With my husband it was mostly luck tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/26 11:29 AM
14	Q4W: Would you participate in or use a dating app that had no pictures of the person you are talking to? I wouldn't wait until the first date. But this is how my husband and I met. We didn't know what the other looked like when we started talking to each other. We only got to know that after we already talked for a while. But we didn't wait to share what we looked till we met irl. If this is something that most people would do? Probably not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/26 11:22 AM
–	Women need to stop acting like it’s men’s fault they have to work Personally I think everyone should have everything to survive without "having to work" for it. The idea that you need to pay for things you need to survive is still horrible to me. Survival shouldn't be dependent on what you can provide for society. I want to do things that make me feel like I am adding to society. But it shouldn't be the basis for my Survival. I wish humans were further evolved at this point but alas... capitalism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/26 08:57 AM
1	Men aren't supposed to be seductive Feminism gave women the chance to refuse men they don't want. Pick up artists turned seduction into a buisness and took the art out of the art to commercialise it. Now it is a paid lesson instead of a acquired skill. Thats why its not as effective anymore. Then the PUAs ramped it up to love bombing. And now everyone has their shields up to seduction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/26 06:31 AM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Thats not a way to balance that out. "If you get pregnant, I will not infringe on your rights" is coercion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/26 05:10 AM
9	What should the punishment be for false accusations of paternity fraud? Tell the woman you are dating that in case of having a child you expect a paternity test. Do that before you get married and have children. Just put it as a boundary before it gets serious. Its in the same kind of breath of "do you want to have children?". Its a compatibility test for the person you are dating. Simple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 07:15 PM
1	Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standards Same with discrimination. Most men and women don't want to discriminate against single women. So yay!	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 06:48 PM
2	Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standards Like raping women and children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 06:39 PM
2	Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standards And men are still murdering women even if it is against the law.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 06:26 PM
2	Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standards Discrimination based on gender is against the law. For a good reason as we see in this conversation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 06:21 PM
2	Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standards Thats not incentives. That punishments and isolation. Incentives are supposed to add to your life, not give you the same freedom and opportunity as someone else. On that alone you aren't actually advocating for incentives. You are advocating for discrimination.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 06:13 PM
2	Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standards How did it work?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 06:05 PM
2	Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standards You think non single women would go against single women despite women having a higher ingroup bias? Also how is antagonising single women making it more likely for them to couple up? We already had that before when women were shamed for being old cat ladies and shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 05:58 PM
2	Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standards You know that women also have buisnesses? Are part of corporations? Sit in HR? Surprisingly men aren't the only working people. Would you be okay if women behaved the same way then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 05:40 PM
4	Just because a woman wants a relationship with you doesn't mean she desires you. Something like that. Women tend to be held to an imaginary standard that for some reason is only there to make men feel good about themselves but completely ignores womens comfort 🤔	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 05:30 PM
2	Just because a woman wants a relationship with you doesn't mean she desires you. Correct. Which is why I keep advising guys on here not to settle for women that aren't enthusiastic about them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 05:22 PM
1	Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standards Ah okay. Thats cool then. Doesn't actually have any negative impact on womens lives then. Cool cool	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 05:21 PM
5	Just because a woman wants a relationship with you doesn't mean she desires you. One can desire someone and still not risk their health, safety and future after meeting twice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 04:55 PM
3	Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standards Does that mean only negative interactions with men? How does that look like?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 04:29 PM
1	Just because a woman wants a relationship with you doesn't mean she desires you. Okay. Good that you know your standards 👍	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 02:52 PM
1	Just because a woman wants a relationship with you doesn't mean she desires you. Would making out, quick texts and telling you how hot you are be enough?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 02:43 PM
3	Just because a woman wants a relationship with you doesn't mean she desires you. Do you think its possible that women that don't instantly have sex just want to check if you actually want to do these things too instead of only doing the sex part?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 02:29 PM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Yeah. I think we are moving more into purity culture again where open display of sexuality isn't really seen anymore. I blame social media. Nowadays people don't feel as free anymore to express themselves because everything is always filmed and uploaded for the world to see. And then everyone is cringe and judgey about it. Thats so disappointing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 02:27 PM
4	Just because a woman wants a relationship with you doesn't mean she desires you. Then why should any woman even want a relationship when its only about sex and telling each other how hot they are. Thats not a relationship imo. Thats just fuckbuddies. Which is fine. If thats what you are looking for. Most women actually want a little bit more out of a relationship than only sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 02:23 PM
8	Just because a woman wants a relationship with you doesn't mean she desires you. Can you answer the other question too?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 02:14 PM
7	Just because a woman wants a relationship with you doesn't mean she desires you. What is waiting too long? I can agree with the other things. Is this kind of desire the only qualifier for a relationship with a woman for you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 02:10 PM
6	Just because a woman wants a relationship with you doesn't mean she desires you. I feel the same about overly expensive fancy food. I have been to these kinds of restaurants. Tiny portions for a giant price. So not worth it. Give me the greasy pizza.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 02:06 PM
7	Just because a woman wants a relationship with you doesn't mean she desires you. Yeah, I have a feeling here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 02:01 PM
9	Just because a woman wants a relationship with you doesn't mean she desires you. How does 100% desire look like in action?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 02:00 PM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. I'm sorry thats your experience. That sounds depressing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 01:53 PM
14	Just because a woman wants a relationship with you doesn't mean she desires you. What does desiring 100% look like? Do you feel the same about the women you are with?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 01:52 PM
23	Just because a woman wants a relationship with you doesn't mean she desires you. The percentage of relationships that happen without desire is very small nowadays. At least in liberal spaces. I know that does happen in more conservative spaces. Which is why its always confusing to me that a lot of men seem to want more "traditional" wifes when the norm was that the desire wasnt actually present but duty was on the forefront. Although thinking about that. 🤔 now it actually makes sense why so many conservative men are trying to be with more liberal women and also try to hide t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 01:44 PM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Anyone? Really? You have never seen any woman every showing sexual interest in any man? Have you ever been outside?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 01:29 PM
1	What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ? You think it makes me look guilty because of your own assumption that the only thing men could be more useful for is financial provision. And then you tried to attack me by calling me a misogynist. Trying to blame me for your bad faith argument doesn't prove anything. It just makes your attack look weak. Which is why I won't engage further. Have a good one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 01:17 PM
1	What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ? Its not my responsibility that you pull random conclusions that I didn't state. And its very misandrist to assume men are only good for financial provision. Especially in a time when don't actually need men to provide for them anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 01:08 PM
2	Women are to blame for doing more house work and not men True. You keep negotiating during your relationship. But the baseline that is established should still be the baseline unless there are extraordinary circumstances that prevent the baseline that was compromised on with both people that entered the relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 01:03 PM
1	What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ? I never talked about money. You are reinforcing traditional gender roles by assuming men should be financially useful. Your assumptions turn it into misandry by assuming the only thing men are providing in a relationship is financial.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 12:59 PM
4	Women are to blame for doing more house work and not men Yep. Which is why you need to be honest about your habits early on instead of pretending. You can only compromise on what is presented to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 12:57 PM
1	What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ? Its not misogynistic to expect a partner to provide something in a relationship that is more valuable than being a pet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 12:54 PM
10	Women are to blame for doing more house work and not men If you respect your partner and want to protect them and their peace, everyone should be able to compromise on certain things in a relationship. But this is also part of vetting a partner. If you are dating someone that lives like a pig, red flag. If you are dating someone thats not enthusiastic about you, red flag. Thats why you shouldn't pretend to be someone during dating and then just completely drop off once you feel you secured them. Show up where you are. Let both people compare notes abo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 12:34 PM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. If you decide to be childfree that's fair. If you want a family - whats the thing that makes it equal?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 12:17 PM
4	Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standards Please explain what you understand of freedom of association and how it is supposed to incentivise people to couple up more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 11:58 AM
–	Women use the internet as proof to judge men but never themselves. Which country are you even talking about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 10:59 AM
–	Women use the internet as proof to judge men but never themselves. My country?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 10:51 AM
–	Women use the internet as proof to judge men but never themselves. You commented something about my country on a comment that is about online echo chambers. Doesn't seem normal to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 10:42 AM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Then why did you reply again. You seem very pressed. I hope you get better	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 10:41 AM
11	Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standards If you need to force people to trade their singlehood for a relationship its not a voluntary trade, is it? Why do you want to force the state then to have people give up their freedom and bodily autonomy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 10:40 AM
12	Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standards Why should being alone over settling be penalised?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 10:31 AM
4	Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standards How?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 10:22 AM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Whats the equal exchange for pregnancy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 08:31 AM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. I don't think courtship is a right as much as a courtesy. But yeah. If it was up to me I would also say this whole approaching stuff is overblown. Meeting your partner in a social group is still the best option imo	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 07:28 AM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. I think that mindset is shrinking more and more. When I grew up I was raised to think being single is a failure. I was asked at 14 if I had a boyfriend yet. I know this mindset is still prevalent somewhat and especially men feel something is wrong with them for being single, but I also think we are moving away from that. Which is good. Too many people are in relationships where they can't stand their partners. That men and women. The amount of social media post you can see where people objective…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 07:25 AM
15	Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps. Its at the simp distribution office. You will have to fill out a form and have to wait 6 month to 1 year to be assigned a simp. They will do some background checks and check your credit score just to make sure you aren't abusing the social service when you can afford to be your own simp.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 07:09 AM
9	Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps. Just gotta remember that this is a minority that thinks this way. Then its not that bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 07:08 AM
15	CMV: Women shouldn't complain that men don't pull their weight in cooking + cleaning + parenting based on dubious self-reported statistics when they are willing to pay men for it. This thread is all over the place. From economic impact, to paying men higher salaries for jobs that are expected of women to do for free at home, to wage differences between service jobs based on gender, to custody battles. What a wild ride of a thread.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 07:05 AM
2	What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ? Look up how often alimony is actually paid for divorced people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 07:01 AM
1	What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ? Sounds like father's need to step up and actually be present in their children's lives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 07:00 AM
1	we already agree on the principle, we're just not applying it consistently. http://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/IFZ2sqL9nR And http://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/yZMWC2vrnf I answered your thread twice already. You seem to be overwhelmed with your own post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 05:56 AM
5	Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standards Why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 05:46 AM
–	Women use the internet as proof to judge men but never themselves. What a weird thing to say when this is a 3 day old comment about Internet echo chambers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 05:37 AM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Your own words aren't strawmen. I don't care about winning when you are this obvious with your opinion	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 05:34 AM
1	we already agree on the principle, we're just not applying it consistently. I have answered your question twice already. But you are forgiven for the lack of attention since you seem very distracted by the conversations in this thread.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 05:33 AM
1	we already agree on the principle, we're just not applying it consistently. Thats what I am doing. So yay me! I am being a good friend	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 08:13 PM
2	we already agree on the principle, we're just not applying it consistently. I thought holding others accountable makes everything better?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 08:13 PM
3	we already agree on the principle, we're just not applying it consistently. I wish this would show more detailed who receives what. Because it basically just says old people receive most medical aid and poor people receive most social aid. It doesn't really go into detail of things. Also: The female non-college group is large among older generations but has declined rapidly for subsequent birth cohorts. With the fact that more women are now college educated than men the whole tax thing is going to look different in the upcoming years and decades. I would also like to kn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 08:12 PM
2	we already agree on the principle, we're just not applying it consistently. I am only giving back the advice men on here give out because they seem to think its the most valuable and empathetic. Isn't that supposed to be the equality and keeping each other accountable that is consistently being said should be the standard? I don't know why you are reaction so emotional about this. I am just being logical and consistent with what men have told me is the way to go.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 07:36 PM
2	we already agree on the principle, we're just not applying it consistently. Again. Same principle women have to hear when they have multiple abusive partners. I am just giving the advice back that women receive to have some equality	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 07:24 PM
2	we already agree on the principle, we're just not applying it consistently. We can't assume he isn't. He only said it happens.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 07:22 PM
0	we already agree on the principle, we're just not applying it consistently. And this happens a lot either a woman randomly asked me for money or to buy her dinner or something like that. Its a pattern	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 07:18 PM
2	we already agree on the principle, we're just not applying it consistently. You got some source for where taxes are mostly used on?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 07:17 PM
2	we already agree on the principle, we're just not applying it consistently. He said it happend multiple times. There is a pattern	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 07:14 PM
3	we already agree on the principle, we're just not applying it consistently. Are you new here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 06:51 PM
1	we already agree on the principle, we're just not applying it consistently. I already agreed and said as long as we are still allowed to hold each other accountable. What everyone does with the social contract is up to the individual. I will still drive my landlady to her doctors appointments or help someone I don't know in the supermarket or tell someone the way and stuff like that. I am in general a helpful person. But I also know that people like the woman you talked about can abuse helpfulness and in the end it feels like you are setting yourself on fire to keep oth…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 06:33 PM
1	we already agree on the principle, we're just not applying it consistently. She sucks. And Im not complaining?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 06:27 PM
3	we already agree on the principle, we're just not applying it consistently. I am calm. We don't choose to have people ask us for money sex. They start full ass conversation faked interest and then ask you for money sex. Same conversation. I do agree for more empathy but only if we are also allowed to call for accountability equally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 06:25 PM
4	we already agree on the principle, we're just not applying it consistently. But you engaged sparsely with her until she asked you for a favour despite her being flaky on you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 06:21 PM
7	we already agree on the principle, we're just not applying it consistently. You guys seriously need to raise your standards. Thats the same kind of treatment men would call out in the way "why do you let men use you for sex?" And "choose better"	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 06:20 PM
2	we already agree on the principle, we're just not applying it consistently. Why do you accept that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 06:18 PM
5	we already agree on the principle, we're just not applying it consistently. And this happens a lot either a woman randomly asked me for money or to buy her dinner or something like that. That happens a lot to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 06:17 PM
3	we already agree on the principle, we're just not applying it consistently. I disagree about the lying. People need to respect when other people don't want to do stuff for them. I do agree with the "why are you dating her, if you aren't interested?". At that point it seems equal. He wants to use her for her body, she wants to use him for his body. Both are wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 06:15 PM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Are men collectively respecting womens boundaries yet?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 06:10 PM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. How do you know if men collectively calm down and let women breath for a bit, that nobody would be dating?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 05:32 PM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. And I think daring shouldn't be done on the consent of women because I am dealing with life long trauma of people that dared.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 03:54 PM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. They do not. Because we have studies and polls that show a lot of men dont understand SA as SA if you call it that. But if you describe the actions they will agree they are doing that. I see that all the time "I'm a good guy. I would never force a woman to have sex with me!" Then when you describe coercion: "well that's just normal dating".	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 02:44 PM
0	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. I used your words. Read your own comment and think about what you wrote. When a woman is afraid I'm not going to like her because <<insert random unfounded insecurity here>> I don't back off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 02:41 PM
3	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Great. We agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 02:16 PM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. "I am not dangerous" says the guy that also insists that you need to push womens boundaries for your own happiness. Its funny how you call women neurotic and that they make stuff up one sentence after you declared you arent dangerous but also dont let anyone's silly little opinion stand in the way of your happiness. That is exactly what people say that don't respect boundaries and bodily autonomy. Congrats.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 02:15 PM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Again. Look at the comments. It is the same guys! They keep saying that keep saying they can't even talk to a woman anymore without being accused of SA. So apparently it is just all men and women that need to learn about enthusiastic consent so no one is confused anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 02:11 PM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Even dating. If she isn't enthusiastic she isn't it. Again. Women need to learn to actually show interest instead of hiding behind plausible deniability. We all need to work together to change this bs behaviour so no one has an excuse anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 02:09 PM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. And often if you do push like that you get rewarded, but if you don't push at all you always lose out. Thats the issue. They push and afterwards they are offended they get accused of SAing a woman. Men need to learn not to accept ambiguity and women need to learn that ambiguity hurts other women. Yes this is a issue for both genders. Thats why advocating for "enthusiasts yes" is so important. No grey zones no victims.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 01:53 PM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. If men understood consent they wouldn't argue that approaching a woman would paint them as SA perpetrators. Have you seen the comments I got on here? Men being afraid of being falsely accused. There seems to be a complete disconnect between approaching someone and violating their consent. It is the same guys that say they are worried about being painted as a perpetrator. If they don't know the difference between hello and grabbing a crotch then there is obviously an issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 01:51 PM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. They are confused about the details. You can see that in a lot of studies and polls. Everytime a poll uses the words rape or sexual assault, men are deeply offended and pearl clutch just to say they aren't that type of guy. As soon as you don't use the words but rather just describe the actions that are happening they go "oh yeah, I do that". I don't know why you think we shouldn't keep having these conversations when it is obviously there is a serious disconnect of understanding of consent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 12:12 PM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. And there we go. Any unwanted touch is played down as "minor annoyance" this is exactly the excuse making I am criticising because this mindset has an effect into any situation. It is really disgusting how normalised it is to just bulldoze over bodily autonomy just because you can't be bothered to respect your partner. I see that all the time. And it gets downplayed with coercion up to sexual assault and rape. I'm not saying every couple has to ask everytime for consent for touch if they actuall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 12:08 PM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Seeking consent is not idiotic. Thats what people say that don't respect bodily autonomy. Then they make excuses when their partners are tired of being groped. If seeking consent is awkward for you, thats a you problem. Feeling entitled to someone elses body is a epidemic and especially older divorced women are talking about how they couldn't even get dressed around their husbands without him invading their bodies. This is a real issue but I can see why men are struggling with the idea of not ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 11:43 AM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. I am more likely to come across someone thats doesn't understand boundaries or proper consent than a murderer or violent rapist. Personally I think it is more important to talk to the broader spectrum of people that you meet everyday that is confused about the details than the small percentage that I am less likely to encounter in my life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 11:28 AM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. You'd be suprised with how many many I had to have conversations about consent and bodily autonomy. The fact that I still have to debate about this shows me education has not gone far enough. When I talk about sexual violence, coercion and similar topics lots of guys jump in and say they would never do any of that and they are good guys. Once you actually go into details, suddenly its "well, thats just part of dating! Thats normal!". The amount of excuses people use to justify their own bad beha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 10:48 AM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Again. You brought up your personal anecdotes and now you want to judge me for engaging with them? Thats just bad faith debate. Have a good day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 10:43 AM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. You brought up your ex and made it personal. My original point stand. Men need to stop this consistent bargain for some crumbs of attention.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 10:35 AM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. And thats how you became a black pill man?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 10:16 AM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. 6 years? She settled.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 10:00 AM
2	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. And many women are complaining about being constantly touched by their partner without their consent. That is one of the reasons women with a low libido cite as a source for their decline in libido. Not everyone needs to go the extra mile like me and my husband. But feeling entitled to just touch your partner in any way shape or form is not good for a relationship. The way women in relationships are complaining about getting their tits randomly honked, their ass grabbed and other random touches …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 09:59 AM
2	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Prioritising each other's autonomy is awful? Do you rather not be asked before something is done to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 08:34 AM
3	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Most of the time. "Can we hold hands?", "can I get a hug?", "can I get a kiss?", "I want to feel you so badly right now". My husband always has the option to say no and so do I. Just because we are married doesn't mean I just assume I get to have access to his body whenever I feel like. Sometimes we do practice implied consent where when we are already cuddling it will become more intimate. But again. We also regularly have check ins if each of us is okay with what is happening in our relationsh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 08:29 AM
–	Is it bad that I cut ties and ignore women after rejection? Its not bad to cut ties. Just be polite. Done. You are not responsible for how other people feel as long as you aren't insulting, rude or anything like that when cutting ties.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 08:25 AM
0	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. If a women is not enthusiastic about you and is being off put by you asking for consent to touch her, don't keep engaging with her. This is a sign you will end up being seen as a shitty partner. Stop playing these games. Hold womem accountable instead of playing into shit tests. And yes. I do ask my husband regularly for consent. We have regular conversations about boundaries and we both make sure we are always on the same page when it comes to anything related to bodily autonomy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 08:22 AM
4	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Don't you think inflating births that way is a bad thing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 07:54 AM
-1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. All of that are excuses. This idea that women dont have autonomy and need to be coddled and bargained with to settle for men they aren't excited about needs to stop. If there is no reciprocity there shouldn't be a relationship. If men would stop flooding women they could finally take a breath and actually engage with men on a neutral level instead of keeping their defences up. There is nothing organic about convincing someone to settle for you. Why would anyone want to be with someone that isn't…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 07:28 AM
2	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. What does that mean?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 04:57 AM
3	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. I also think it would be good for 100% of men to not approach. Because then women can stop being burned out from this. The idea that you think women want to constantly interrupted by random men do reproduce is really funny to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 04:56 AM
-1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. I got a good man because I approached him. If men would stop hounding women constantly this would happen much more often because women wouldn't be burned out from this bs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 09:02 PM
-1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Okay. Again. Nobody forces men to approach anyone. Its saver for everyone if men leave women alone anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 08:50 PM
0	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Women already approach the men they want. Guys always pretend like thats never happening. And consent isnt depending on many factors. Thats just an excuse predators use. But I agree if men can't respect boundaries and are afraid of being falsely accused. Just leave women alone and wait for them to approach.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 07:32 PM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. No woman thinks saying "hello" is sexual assault. Thats just psychotic	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 07:27 PM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Did you read what I wrote or did you just make up stuff in your head? Read the words I wrote again. Very slowly. Maybe that helps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 06:11 PM
2	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Im not just talking about 🍇 here. I'm also just talking about not respecting boundaries, not taking no for an answer and coercion. These aren't irrational fears because they are a very common occurrence. Which is why I find it so funny that the men here in the comments are all like "either I am allowed to SA a woman or I won't say hello anymore". I'm not suprised consent is such a difficult concept.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 06:06 PM
2	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. That sounds like a revenge fantasy of how women deserve to be abused because they didn't settle for someone else. You are aware that abuse can come from any man? Even a short, fat, hairless, dirty, jobless guy. And if she actually leaves "she is not worth it! Women initiate the majority of divorces!". So either a woman stays in a relationship and is abused and its her own fault for not getting the ick, she leaves and she is used, she leaves and she doesnt value commitment and leaves because of e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 05:51 PM
-2	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. What does approaching have to do with women deserving it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 05:43 PM
6	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Personally I would never stay in a relationship I am not enthusiastic about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 05:41 PM
4	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. I love how we always go from pushing boundaries, grey areas fo "women have a low chance of 🍇". As if only that counts as grey area. But you are right. Not dating is always an option.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 05:02 PM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. I have pushed boundaries. My friends have pushed boundaries. We hold each other accountable and learn and become better. This is why I consistently ask my husband for consent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 05:00 PM
-1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. If men dont understand consent then its better if they dont approach. And apparently no one on here does because I get the same replies over and over how good men dont risk approaching. Good men understand rejections and boundaries. That doesnt mean you can't say hello to someone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 04:51 PM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Women are actually talking in more detail. How do you think we know that men keep violating boundaries? Women are very honest about this shit. But of course no guy has ever heard any of his friends do anything boundary pushing. Suprising how many women experience that and how many men online acknowledge they do it but no man ever knows one of them irl.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 04:50 PM
-1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Again. Why is "saying hello" always the same on here like sexually assaulting someone? We are talking about consent. Accepting a rejection. Why is it this all or nothing thinking of "either I can 🍇 this woman or I wont even say hello".	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 04:47 PM
3	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. No. Men do not actually say they raped someone. But they talk about what they do with women. Ask follow up questions. Don't just high five a guy when he said he had sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 04:44 PM
4	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Do you see in my comment how I adress men and women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 04:42 PM
7	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. If you respect the rejection you dont get the police called on you. Thats just fear mongering	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 04:22 PM
–	Do you think "problematic" themes are more okay in women's smut than men's? Some of these words. I swear. I constantly have to google shit which word I actually mean.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 04:15 PM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Why do you even want to know any answer then from me if my opinion doesnt matter anyway to you? You already said I'm just a woman with a opinion not up to the norm. I am invalid already so even if I gave you any more answers they would be invalid unless you just wanted to cherry picking from my opinions. You have ended the conversation this way. Have a good one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 04:14 PM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Why is accepting a "no" and not pushing boundaries the exact same thing as "approaching women"? Can guys not separate between "hello" and sexually molesting a woman?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 04:11 PM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. I know. Women are choosing better. And men are losing to nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 04:02 PM
2	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Good. Then you dont need to worry about women at all. But its hilarious how much men think they know why women enjoy these stories and the result is just: because it revolves around a man. And a woman actually says something its always handwaved with "no, thats not what women want and say, thats not true". I am not suprised to see dating go down the drain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 04:01 PM
3	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Do you think the millionaire vampire doesn't come with dangers? Thats the point that makes it exciting. The same way driving the bank heist car. You get the excitement from the fantasy. Thats doesn't mean you want to do exactly the same thing as in the movies or books. The movies or book are fun because they take the danger away. Thats the point of them. Its the exact same concept. And yes. Learning consent is actually a thing. It is part of learning boundaries. As children we are grabbing onto …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 03:45 PM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Where is "do nothing more than talking" comes in?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 03:34 PM
1	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Then we agree. As long as men keep dismissing consent and taking accountability women should just avoid them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 03:13 PM
6	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Pretty much all of them imply that you are serving voluntarily. Because the games are a fantasy! Thats the point. The fantasy is fun. The reality isnt. Stop comparing fantasy to reality. And women need to learn consent too. We all need to learn that. Why are other womens voices more important than mine despite men constantly going on about being afraid of false allegations. But when I give you guys the road map to avoid them and tell you to ask for explicit verbal consent, thats also not right. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 03:13 PM
0	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Women are already taking steps. Its men that don't listen. <image>	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 03:00 PM
5	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Why are men complaining about the draft and being potentially dragged into a war but still play COD and Battlefield and other shooters? Do you understand the difference between a fantasy and reality?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 02:57 PM
6	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Stop accepting less. You guys are way to desperate. If she isn't verbally consenting she isn't into you enough. Thats it. You guys need to stop thinking with your dick and start growing a backbone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 02:47 PM
4	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Yes you can influence it. Talk to each other. Educate each other. Hold each other accountable. Women can't just be the only ones that advocate for these things and call men out for it. Instead we get manosphere bs that young guys follow blindly and then become more and more violent against women. Women keep telling men for ages what they want and they aren't listening. And instead of taking some accountability its always "well, what am I supposed to do?". So then women completely opt out of dati…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 02:39 PM
5	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. You know what happens when bad actors cause negative consequences for the overall population? They get called out (or voted into office but thats a different issue). Men need to call out other men. Dont let the bad actors drag the good guys down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 02:27 PM
10	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Men need to stop accepting this and women need to stop doing that. More honesty for everyone	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 02:25 PM
10	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. This is not created by women. This is a male issue. Men aren't accepting "no", they keep pushing, they keep disrespecting womens autonomy. If men collectively would just stop doing that, women would feel more comfortable to actually engage with more men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 02:12 PM
6	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. "I would love to hold your hand right now, is that okay?" Say that in a quiet moment when you are engaging with each other, preferably with eye contact.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 02:06 PM
14	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Don't engage in shit tests. Women and men need to learn that this is not okay. If men and women would finally accept that this kind of stuff is detrimental for everyone, we wouldn't even have these conversations	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 02:01 PM
4	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. Verbal to be safe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 02:00 PM
36	Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable. I am currently having an argument with someone else on another platform about this. He is insisting that women use excuses to avoid saying no. I keep telling him if he feels like its an excuse he needs to back off. If the excuse is something that could be seen as a way to escape, he needs to back off. Stop pursuing women that aren't enthusiastic about you. Ask for consent. Yes there are ways to make it romantic or sexy. Breaking the touch barrier should only be done with consent. If you you have…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 01:53 PM
6	What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ? Its always kind of funny to me. Before it was "cat lady" and women were like "you are losing to cats. Thats a self-own". And now its this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 01:40 PM
4	What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ? True. Personally I think universal income should be a thing and shelter, food, water and clothing should also be provided from society to everyone because without it we are dying. Even if someone doesn't add to society they should still be able to survive. But I also think that if someone adds to society via a job, parenthood, protecting society, etc. They should have an extra compensation on top of basic needs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 01:31 PM
7	What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ? Its not irrelevant. It doesn't matter if a single parent put themselves into that position on purpose or not. As a parent they are still providing more for society than a NEET. Thats like trying to compare a soldier that signs up for war to a NEET.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 01:15 PM
7	What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ? NEETs dont contribute to society. Mothers do. Single parenthood isn't bad behaviour.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 12:46 PM
6	What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ? Friendly reminder that this paper is just an opinion piece based on the facts that there are declining birthrates. Its not a scientific paper. Its just three people talking about the issue and throwing out ideas about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 12:45 PM
2	Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic ones How sad. I think learning, debating, growing and discussing can be very entertaining. But not if it is something where there isn't anything left to debate, grow, learn or discuss about because it has been debated for soooo many times already.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 11:40 AM
2	Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic ones Why does all of these exclude entertainment?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 11:35 AM
2	Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic ones Why do you think you are here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 11:31 AM
–	Do you think "problematic" themes are more okay in women's smut than men's? 😂 thanks for the info. I hate how close these words are. When it comes to porn: I wonder if it would influence mens libido if they didn't have these readily available outlets for it. Although personally I think even if they use it as a crutch its not a good crutch because on average it actually makes men insecure about their bodies and sexual performance to watch porn. I wonder if men would be happier if they would use more of their imagination than the dopamine rush of fast food sexual gratific…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 10:46 AM
5	Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic ones Nice try. Have a lovely Sunday 🌞	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 10:23 AM
7	Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic ones Boooooring. We need a new dating topic to argue about. This is chewed up like a old gum on a sidewalk.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 10:18 AM
–	Do you think "problematic" themes are more okay in women's smut than men's? Yes its different. Men and women experience different consequences from certain themes and even just the medium itself. Sexual function goes up for women and down for men with porn use. Partnered sexual satisfaction has almost no impact on women with frequent porn use compared to men. It seems men are having issues with using sexual content while it has a more positive impact on women. The themes might not even play much of a role itself but it seems obvious that there is a correlation between m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 09:11 AM
1	Ladies, do you get aroused when watching mainstream porn like men do? I feel like there should be a alternative for that for women. Like a OG tumblr knockoff. It just can't devolve into typical porn websites. Then its just overrun by men again. Like deviantart had its perks too. But its also not the same anymore. Nowadays a website is either catering to the male taste or doesn't allow anything visually spicy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 07:38 AM
1	Ladies, do you get aroused when watching mainstream porn like men do? Right?! The fantasies are fun but damn there were some hot things on tumblr. Makes me so nostalgic. It also had the perfect mix of stories, videos, art, gifs, etc. Just a really good vibe	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 07:32 AM
1	Ladies, do you get aroused when watching mainstream porn like men do? Same. Sometimes I find something nice on Pinterest and then I get the stupid email again that it was removed because it violates content guidelines. There is no real place save space for womens arousal like there was on tumblr. Sure it also had a lot of normal porn but at least we could be horny on main and others would join into that delight. I still remember how validating it felt reading peoples tags when they reblogged something and it described exactly what I was feeling but they had the be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 07:09 AM
2	Ladies, do you get aroused when watching mainstream porn like men do? Same. I know tumblr is still around and active especially for fandoms and stuff. But it soured me when they decided to ban porn. The only platform that felt like a save space for women and they decided to ruin it. Sure we still got some other platforms that is majority women but they aren't the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 06:15 AM
2	Ladies, do you get aroused when watching mainstream porn like men do? Happy cake day!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 05:43 AM
6	Ladies, do you get aroused when watching mainstream porn like men do? They murdered my favourite gif sets back in the day. Since then I haven't really been on there anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 05:33 AM
8	Ladies, do you get aroused when watching mainstream porn like men do? I am aroused by that. But it is contextual for me. I have videos and memories of me and my husband doing that. That is arousing because I make sure it is aesthetically pleasing to me and contextual. I am not voyeuristic enough to enjoy watching the genitals of two complete strangers smashing into each other. I think men on average have a higher likelihood for voyeurism so they get sexually aroused by contextless sexual acts. Personally I need a certain emotional investment. I need a story that i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 05:24 AM
7	Ladies, do you get aroused when watching mainstream porn like men do? I'm still miffed that tumblr outlawed "sexual content" back in the day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 05:14 AM
18	Ladies, do you get aroused when watching mainstream porn like men do? Thats not visual. Thats objectifying. The bouncing still needs to be aesthetically pleasing to me in more than just watching bodies in motion. The acting needs to feel sensual as if they actually enjoy it. Non of this over the top fake moaning bs. The lighting and scene itself needs to be moody and erotic. If none of these criteria are met its not engaging for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 05:03 AM
5	What do you mean exactly when you say that men are “disappointing”? When my standards were already low and the men I got with still managed to drop below that, thats what disappointing. These guys didn't care about me as a person, bad hygiene, no ambition for anything, didn't care about my sexual needs, pushed boundaries, were talking shit about others with their friends, had no interest in the world, didn't care about anything that wasn't immediate gratification to them, antisocial behaviours, etc. It got much better for me after I raised my standards much high…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 04:59 AM
10	Why don't unattractive men want to completely eradicate their libido? Ive seen men online ask how to get rid of their libido. The issue is that a lack of libido tends to be a side effect of medication and you can't always pick and choose which side effects you get. I've seen men in sexless marriages recommend ssri's for that. The downside of that is that a lot of things in the body tend to play together. The same for women. Thats why women tend to get prescribed hormonal therapy when they are in their menopause (which can influence the libido too). There isn't rea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 04:51 AM
28	Ladies, do you get aroused when watching mainstream porn like men do? I wish men would stop saying they are visual when its basically objectifying. If men were actually visual they would care for aesthetics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 04:45 AM
26	Ladies, do you get aroused when watching mainstream porn like men do? Personally. No. I have tried to watch mainstream porn in the past. I hate it. The acting is weird, the lighting is horrible, the sets look boring, there is just no mood, aesthetic or feeling in these videos. They make me nauseous. I am always suprised that the gender that says they are "visual" is so obsessed with these visually unpleasant scenes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 04:34 AM
–	Why do women act like that they don't already lower their standards after they turn old ? Why is changing standards the same as lowering them? Just because you liked vanilla ice cream the most in your life doesn't mean your taste changing to chocolate ice cream makes one better than the other. They are both ice cream. They are both equal. They just taste different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 04:25 AM
7	The disparity between good men and good women What is the average body count for men and women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 04:17 AM
8	The disparity between good men and good women Men that compromise their own integrity because they are "thirsty" are not good men. If you settled for a bad partner because you wanna smash you are a bad partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 07:29 PM
–	I believe that just like how there are "Nice Guys" ,there are also "Nice Girls". Both. If you are only a simp because you hope you will receive something in return thats called "covert contract" and makes you a Nice Guy™. Covert contracts fall under the umbrella of manipulation	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 03:15 PM
–	I believe that just like how there are "Nice Guys" ,there are also "Nice Girls". Most of the time I see that happen its not because the woman waits to lock down the man. But they were already struggling with effort, emotional intimacy and sex before they get married and both assume getting married will fix it. When it doesnt. These are imo the most delusional people. Its the same ones that try to save their relationship by having a baby. Its wild to me how common this mindset to "make it work" was. Nowadays its luckily not as common anymore but I still see it here and there.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 02:16 PM
–	It's weird to date a gender who's general impression of dating your gender is mild disgust. Make sure you take some break from the online world. It can suck you into a downwards spiral. Take care of yourself	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 10:42 AM
2	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. This is up to you and her to decide. I am giving my opinion on what is a better solution based on the knowledge I have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 10:13 AM
2	Women control the grey area Then these women need to grow up and learn to have clear communications. And men shouldn't accept grey areas either. Its harms everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 10:06 AM
8	Women control the grey area I personally just don't like the way he phrased it as "wasting his time". But I like that he was honest and it was the best approach. Women should be grateful for this instead of arguing about coercion. There might be some pushback but this is actually the way to go. "Only yes means yes". No grey areas. Women and men need to learn that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 09:59 AM
–	It's weird to date a gender who's general impression of dating your gender is mild disgust. You might need a little break. You seem to be very emotional. Maybe do something fun and spend time with friends or have a little snack. Take a walk. I'm not sure ranting online will improve your mood.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 09:47 AM
2	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. Then the other question is just if she wants to. Easy as that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 09:39 AM
2	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. If she can't afford it, nobody can stay at home	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 08:01 AM
2	Women use the internet as proof to judge men but never themselves. Amen. I'm currently watching that in another sub. Its bizarre	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 05:11 AM
–	Do most women take the marriage and kids revelation as positive or negative realistically? Gear shift is a good metaphor for it. I always knew I didn't want kids so for me that wasn't the case. But I have seen how it is affecting other women. I do feel sorey for the ones that try to go hard for it but can't make it work. It is a little death when that dream actually dies. Then they have to grief that dream and recalibrate from something they thought would happen for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 09:29 PM
–	Do most women take the marriage and kids revelation as positive or negative realistically? A lot of women know early on what they want in life. The question is usually to find the right partner to get there. Its less of a sudden realisation but more of the feeling of a dream starting to slip away and there is more urgency. Its a bit like when people get into a midlife crisis because they suddenly realise they aren't as fit anymore as they used to so they want to fulfil some things they thought they still have time for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 09:15 PM
2	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. I'm not clicking your YouTube videos. If you cant have a text based conversation you shouldn't be on reddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 07:44 PM
3	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. Because monkeys dont do that. Only humans	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 07:33 PM
4	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. Do whatever you want. Thats just my suggestion	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 06:27 PM
6	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. If a monkey would hoard all bananas and let all the other monkeys starve we would study whats wrong with it. But we accept this behaviour as normal in humans.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 04:29 PM
3	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. If you dont want that you can decide that in your relationship. I just promote what I think is the safest thing to do for sahp.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 03:58 PM
3	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. Because this thread is about stay at home! Why is it so hard to stay on topic here. This continous derailing is so tiring.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 03:10 PM
3	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. Agree! Maybe another species has that better figured out than us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 03:07 PM
3	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. I am responding based on the thread. Not on two working people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 03:04 PM
6	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. Because thats the topic of this thread	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 02:46 PM
5	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. Putting children, parents and people that need care as first priority instead of spending tons of money on wars and corporate welfare.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 02:13 PM
7	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. Not just women. I explicitly said this is for any breadwinner	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 01:59 PM
3	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. Then the decision needs to be "can we afford children?". Because the if someone isn't future oriented and still wants to have children they are just offloading their own shortsightedness onto their kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 01:31 PM
2	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. What is?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 01:04 PM
–	Social justice for me but not for thee: Common female reactions to the 'hiplet' trend versus to heightshaming men are showing their double standards and inherent view of males as lesser beings - just as the trend intended Don't think men have gotten that memo yet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 11:15 AM
5	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. I am not but I still advocate for these things. Right now the social state in my country is being destroyed by the government. I am very angry right now. Everything is just made worse than better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 11:12 AM
–	Social justice for me but not for thee: Common female reactions to the 'hiplet' trend versus to heightshaming men are showing their double standards and inherent view of males as lesser beings - just as the trend intended It really can. This is so sad	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 11:10 AM
8	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. Sorry I care about other people	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 11:09 AM
–	Social justice for me but not for thee: Common female reactions to the 'hiplet' trend versus to heightshaming men are showing their double standards and inherent view of males as lesser beings - just as the trend intended You probably havent noticed its a pretty common thing. Most men don't care about it. When I talked with my husband about it before he said he never noticed it even though I have hip dips. A lot of women also edit it or use shape ware to hid them	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 10:42 AM
–	Social justice for me but not for thee: Common female reactions to the 'hiplet' trend versus to heightshaming men are showing their double standards and inherent view of males as lesser beings - just as the trend intended The dip itself or the shaming around it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 10:38 AM
8	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. We are seeing how well the whole immigration system is working everywhere. Especially with declining birth rates world wide. Personally I don't really care. I advocate for higher taxes and better children and parent treatment. Despite me not being a parent. In the end. The decisions arent up to me and I wont bring anyone into this to deal with this. Im not putting the debt of figuring this out on the next generation. Thats just cruel	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 10:38 AM
–	Social justice for me but not for thee: Common female reactions to the 'hiplet' trend versus to heightshaming men are showing their double standards and inherent view of males as lesser beings - just as the trend intended If someone find them unattractive thats up to them. Nothing to be done about. Obviously people are trying to make money with insecurities. Its a typical sales method. Create a problem and then sell the solution for it. For the hip dip there are workout programmes and shape underwear and all that bs. Its always the same bs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 10:30 AM
–	Social justice for me but not for thee: Common female reactions to the 'hiplet' trend versus to heightshaming men are showing their double standards and inherent view of males as lesser beings - just as the trend intended 👍 I got you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 09:40 AM
–	Social justice for me but not for thee: Common female reactions to the 'hiplet' trend versus to heightshaming men are showing their double standards and inherent view of males as lesser beings - just as the trend intended <image>	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 09:26 AM
–	Social justice for me but not for thee: Common female reactions to the 'hiplet' trend versus to heightshaming men are showing their double standards and inherent view of males as lesser beings - just as the trend intended This is such a stupid conversation. 🤦‍♂️ I have hipdips. I know some women are insecure about them. The same way ANYTHING can be turned into a stupid insecurity. The amount of bs and body shaming they consistently find is wild. Thigh gaps, muffin tops, breast shapes, visible collar bones, double chins, nose shapes, eyelid shapes, knee shapes, etc. The list of potential insecurities goes on and on and on. It is so stupid. The looksmaxx peeps really hammered that in for men (pun intended). In the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 08:58 AM
12	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. Awesome. I'm glad to see that some people are figuring this out properly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 05:47 AM
30	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. Personally I think this needs to go even further. And not even in the gendered way. The breadwinner should automatically give the stay at home partner a part of their paycheck that only the sahp has access too. They also should pay equally as for themselves into a pension account. One of the things that happens with sahp is that they aren't able to retire without the other partner because they have not been able to to care for their future. We are seeing that a lot with older generations where w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 05:12 AM
–	Why do some women find it so much more difficult to orgasm than others? Personally - orgasms are a lot about tension and relaxation at the right moments for me. I have certain muscles in my body I need to tense to be able to achive an orgasm while simultaneously have a certain kind of sensory/stimulation. It is a very intense focus until I reach the point of no return and have my O. Then its like a body vibration where my muscles tense on its own and my body feels like there is almost a kind of carbonation washing over my insides through my body. Then the relaxation…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/26 07:49 PM
1	Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problem I wish it would go both ways instead of one gender being overwhelmingly violent towards the other. I never said any of that doesn't happen to men. I am talking about majorities. Especially when you want to argue how much men care about women. Which they dont.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/26 04:38 PM
–	CMV: On Reddit, posts asking for emotional support get significantly more replies when they appear to be from women than from men Some people can't read so they can't talk about books. Sorry, I just giggle about that 😂. Imagine reading a thread title "lets talk about books" and then thinking on a reading based platform "well I cant read" I know this is not what you meant but for a moment it really made me laugh. Thank for that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/26 04:35 PM
1	Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problem Men are murdered by men. You were debating that men actually like women while women only use men. Statistics show thats not the case. Men neither like women nore other men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/26 04:30 PM
1	Why do women so drastically change their mind about marriage? Yeah. I dont even think we need coming of age parties. I think we need like annual parties like that. We have these traditions in germany where in certain states there are things called hunter festival. The men compete to become hunter kings and they have their own little hunter court. The partners of them are dressing up in these elaborate dresses and then they do like marching band parades and shit. All very traditional. I think it would be good if we take something like that and turn it into …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/26 02:51 PM
4	Why do women so drastically change their mind about marriage? Social indoctrination. I hope at some point we can all move on from this fantasy of a "dream wedding". There is this idea that there is this big beautiful princess like party. A lot of women want to be a princess, at least for a day. We don't really have reasons to wear these over the top fantasy dresses and have this magical day. Yes it is selfish to not really think about the men in that. The marriage itself tends to be just a thing a lot of people assume will just figure itself out. I think w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/26 02:06 PM
1	Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problem As if thats is different from women. The majority of men that sexually assaulted anyone never spends a day in jail. Men are consistently and constantly getting away with it. Even if they are found guilty they can still become the president.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/26 01:44 PM
1	Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problem The majority of sexual violence committed against men is by other men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/26 01:33 PM
0	Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problem Men are comitting sexual violence against women. All the time. I can absolutely blame men for that. Womens are responsible for their own financial wellbeing and they are doing that. Its not like there is a epidemic of women robbing men of their money. While there is sexual violence committed against women everyday.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/26 01:25 PM
1	Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problem They dont like women though. They only like what women provide for them. Thats not liking thats using. Thats why so many men are advocating for taking away womens equality. They want to force them to be usable to them again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/26 01:16 PM
2	Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problem With the difference that women dont try to date men anymore. Men are still doing that even though they dont care about the women they try to date. If men are left behind why would women need them anymore?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/26 12:35 PM
1	Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problem The song and dance isn't because they care about women. They want to win them. Like a trophy. Thats not caring thats just competing in the hopes to succeed. A minority of men actually truly cares about their partners. But sure. If we talk about averages that probably makes most men average. Thats just not good enough for the majority of women anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/26 11:15 AM
4	Society only "appreciates" men if they get married or get some kind of approval from women. I think this is a bit backwards. A man integrated in society is usually social and will find a partner. You dont need to have a partner to be integrated in society. Into certain parts of society? Sure. Parents are more likely to hang out with parents and so on. If you feel you need to be in a relationship to be approved by society you have some work to do with your own perception of your value as a human. This is a job a lot of men are not doing. They are trying to suppliment their feeling of be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/26 08:27 AM
–	Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problem I was commenting on your comment. Not the post itself. Thats why I asked you specifically about your comment instead of in the context of what the average man does. Men that don't care about their partners aren't even average. They are below average.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/26 08:18 AM
–	Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problem Then men that don't care about their partners comfort and preferences will face the consequences and will not be partners anymore. It is the entire point. I wouldn't want to be together with someone that doesnt respect me enough to pay attention to what I care about and how they can make me feel loved and cherrished. At that point a relationship is not worth it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/26 07:44 AM
–	Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problem Why would a woman want to be with a man that doesn't care about something that is important to her? Even if I don't care I still make an effort to make my partner happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/26 06:18 AM
0	Lots of the frustrations in the current dating world are from some men refusing to accept that most women are generally more valuable than most men You are welcome, I guess?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/26 05:42 AM
0	There are no blue pill influencers for men because the lies don't work I would take Hasan and Vaush and stuff more as political commentator too. If we are looking at genderwar peeps we have to probably go even smaller with people like willhitchins, Professor_neil, thespeechprof and people like that. Thats the ones I would count more on gender commentators.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/26 05:33 AM
2	A large number of people in this sub resort to bulverism when arguing. Tbf anything that you personally never experienced is very hard to actually imagining properly. We all think our empathy would be enough to make us able to identify with someone but unless we all at some point get to upload our brains into a computer and really share all our feelings and experiences there will always be a part of your brain that dismisses someone's elses reality if you are completely removed from it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 11:49 PM
5	A large number of people in this sub resort to bulverism when arguing. I mean. Yeah. Unless we are actually talking statistics most of the stuff on here is anecdotes and anecdotes are based on personality and gender and all of these traits that turn you into who you are. Thats just how our world view forms.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 11:39 PM
1	There are no blue pill influencers for men because the lies don't work The ones that I follow have a mix with mostly leaning towards calling out the gender war bs. I follow also some political commentators but they are much less likely to comment on gender war stuff. Everyone is a bit in their own niche when it comes to this stuff	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 11:30 PM
3	Men should have primary custody of their kids by default. They do. Usually thats the kinds of system that is setup outside of courts. It only goes to courts if the men tries to fight it	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 10:49 PM
6	There are no blue pill influencers for men because the lies don't work Progressive influencers mostly spend their time debunking the bs that manosphere influencers are shouting. They dont sell stuff (except if they are psychologists or something, then maybe they will try to sell a book or something). And most of their audience is female anyway. Men usually just call them white knights, traitors, BBs and gay in the comments. They are mostly reaction influencers and not promoting some dating course or something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 10:46 PM
3	Men should have primary custody of their kids by default. Even full custody could be an issue. Unless they are actually fully no contact and most mothers will probably not do that because a lot of moms bond pretty strong to their offspring. Thats why they are doing most of the child rearing anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 10:35 PM
3	Men should have primary custody of their kids by default. The average child support payment in the U.S. is approximately $430 to $441 per month and about 30% of parents who are owed child support payments receive nothing. So the child support stuff is not true. Children are very expensive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 10:25 PM
2	Men should have primary custody of their kids by default. Kind of yes. But the issue is that mothers of the children will be charged if they dont protect the children from neglect or abuse by the father. So either she abandons her child and might be liable for what happens to the children and is looked at as a dead beat or the child gets raised by potential strangers that are also potentially neglectful/abusive and mom is still on the hook. The best case scenario would be a dedicated father with a whole village and the mom having the children sometimes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 10:21 PM
2	Lots of the frustrations in the current dating world are from some men refusing to accept that most women are generally more valuable than most men Its not really about value. Its about flexibility. Men are amazing when it comes to following a certain order. Their level of tolerance to absolute horrible conditions is pretty high. They are stronger, dont catch as much health issues, dont have to compensate for a complicated hormonal system. The issue is that women were used on every front that was necessary. Hunting, gathering, child rearing, then farming, house keeping, care work in general, when there was war women were working in factorie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 07:05 PM
0	Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselves Means also large competition	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 01:05 PM
0	Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselves Ah. You are in Berlin. That is a rough area for dating in germany. I will agree to that. It is much easier in the country side. Tbf any bit city will be much worse wherever you are because of the large quantity of options.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 12:31 PM
1	Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselves Did you try schützenfest?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 12:24 PM
1	Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselves Ich bin auch nicht mit einem Deutschen verheiratet. Und ich will weg wegen der politik.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 12:14 PM
1	Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselves It proofs the point that you are a piece of tofu in an ocean of steak	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 11:47 AM
1	Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselves Its not how its supposed to be. Its how it is presented as the norm because thats all you have to select from. If you don't really see or engage with any alternatives then obviously you will be skeptical. Thats what happend with veganism. Now we have loads of meat replacement products and vegan and vegetarian options everywhere. Are there still people that eat meat? Sure but at least alternatives are more available. Now when you get into a restaurant you can actually usually order something inst…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 11:45 AM
1	Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselves See. Me too. And I am german too. And I was taller than most of my gf and friends anyway. My husband is 175cm - 178cm (as I said, depending on the day).	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 11:38 AM
1	Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselves Your issue is that you fall outside the expected norm because the expected norm is the overwhelming majority. Thats the actual issue. If more men would embrace who they actually are that wouldn't be an issue	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 11:36 AM
1	Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselves Are all the woman you meet taller?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 11:34 AM
1	Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselves If 90% of men are conforming themselves to traditional masculinity then obviously that will look like women are attracted to that. You dont really have much of a choice at that point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 11:30 AM
3	Being her best sexually isn't that important and is unrealistic I hope most people would let go of that with time and just enjoy their sex life. Then I see some stuff on rhe marriage subreddit where that still pops up even a decade into a marriage. Thats always wild to me	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 11:28 AM
0	Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselves Maybe its unlucky that you are	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 11:25 AM
2	Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselves Im not disagreeing that there are women that are attracted to a certain type. I am disagreeing that all men need to be the same to attract all woman. Men shoot themselves in the foot with that. If more men would live more authentic and individual then we wouldn't even have the issue of defining masculinity as a certain thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 11:24 AM
2	Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselves Because most men stuff themselves in a box anyway. And again. I was told on here multiple times that my husband is a BB and that I am not attracted to him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 11:18 AM
1	Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselves I am actually taller than my husband in heels. But I also very rarely wear heels. I think the height thing is overblown	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 11:16 AM
1	Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselves So you don't have preferences. Good. There we go. And yes. Most women just want someone taller than them generally. And on average men are taller than women anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 10:58 AM
2	Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselves So obese is a extreme deformity. With defining things like that you could just exclude whatever as extreme deformity. And no. My husband is my height. Although some days is a bit taller than me because of a birth defect in his back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 10:49 AM
2	Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselves So you would feel attracted to a 50 y.o obese woman with shaven head, crooked teeth, dyed armpit hair. The same way as a 20 y.o gym rat with long natural hair?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 10:28 AM
3	Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselves You have absolutely no preference for anything physical?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 10:19 AM
2	Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselves What makes you attracted to the women you are attracted to?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 10:14 AM
0	Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselves We do. And then we get accused of not being attracted to our partners or that we are only using them for resources	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 09:35 AM
5	Men’s rigid conformity to idealised masculinity is harmful to themselves You can see that in a lot of comment sections of men that dont perform this stereotypical masculinity in ANY small way. Instantly you see comments from men attacking another man's sexuality or validity as a "real man". The small box men are allowed to navigate their own identity in, seems so exhausting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 09:33 AM
6	Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did. Yep <image>	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 01:28 PM
3	Men are incompatible with long term partnership I saw a reel of a American that moved to germany. She explained that she had to inform the school that her daughter was riding her bike home after school and made sure she had a special permission for that in america. She said in germany that is just normal that kids go to and from school alone and that nobody bats an eye. It blew my mind that that isn't a normal experience for children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 10:07 AM
2	Men are incompatible with long term partnership Yeah. There needs to be a balance between responsibilities and childhood joy imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 09:48 AM
7	Men are incompatible with long term partnership I think I read a thing before where some scientists talked about a 7 year monogamy thing. Because that is the age in which children become pretty self sufficient without their parents having to keep taking care of them. Which is why a lot of relationships seemed to die on the 7 year hill bump. That was interesting too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 09:28 AM
2	Men are incompatible with long term partnership I think most of these things are not gendered and more based on peoples personalities. The issue is that a lot of people aren't honest about themselves and who they are and what they actually want. They still follow certain expectations set by society instead of honestly reflect on what they truly want. Then they end up in situations where they are miserable and drag others down too. I think some people are made for long term relationships. They enjoy the commitment and security. And some people…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 09:25 AM
4	I think most men would prefer to marry a virgin woman. Tbf. Women have tried to do the same objectification thing too. It just never took off as the way men do it. I think most of these are an attempt in revenge when women do it. The whole "pencil vs. Pencil sharpener, loaded gun, atm, etc" thing. The objectification of men isnt as prevalent for women as it is for men. This is why the objectification game is fun	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 08:16 AM
11	I think most men would prefer to marry a virgin woman. In today's episode of: "what object can we compare a woman to?!" What is the contestant offering? The old reliable "lock, car or even more exotic with the actual creature, fish?" Oh! We have gotten a special one today ladies! Its a "restaurant"! We dont get a lot of location comparisons! How fun. Thank you for playing in our show. Get your coupon code on the way out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 07:35 AM
1	Why do women keep getting into situationships? I think most of my experiences work better digested as short stories like this post. But I think it is interesting to see some personal anecdotes how these things can play out. This is why I have no issue talking about my history on here. But thanks for the compliment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 06:43 AM
3	Let's speculate about men who claim misandry, etc. Natural selection to me means only people that want to breed with each other mutually get to. Whoever wants to and consents to it without any force or coercion Absolutely. Based on my family history my line should've ended much earlier. Now it ends with me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 06:15 AM
0	Why do women keep getting into situationships? I have been in two situationships. The first one lasted almost a decade. I crushed really hard on her when I was like 18. She triggered my protector response and I was insanely attracted to her. She was in a dead end relationship when we met. She cheated on her gf with me for a while. When she broke it off with her gf I thought "now we can become a couple". She said she needed more time. I was incredibly patient while we were still best friends and me fucking her brain out. She never reciprocate…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 06:13 AM
1	Let's speculate about men who claim misandry, etc. I think the complete system is broken. Thats the point. The industrial age promised less work. AI promised to replace peoples labour. Instead we created a lot of useless labour and made everything overcomplicated so we could pay someone to live. A system that runs on consistent growth in a finite world is not working and we are already seeing the consequences of that. I'm just realistic about it. You seem very emotional about my points, maybe you should take a breath and calm down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 05:56 AM
5	Women are not more emotionally intelligent, Men just complain less This reminds me of this one study where they asked men and women who talk more. Men were absolutely 💯 certain women talk more in conversations. Women said it was about equal. In reality in a mixed gender conversation men talk actually a lot more. I think a lot of men struggle to recognise when they are complaining and instead assumr its just them providing information or something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 05:50 AM
1	As a single man who has no children, yes, I am expendable. I am married but I am expendable the same way. That doesn't mean your survival instinct wouldn't kick in if you were asked to sacrifice yourself. You never know how you actually react in that kind of situation. The latest movie about the self sacrifice was Project Hail Mary: !>The protagonist is forced into space because he is the only one left to hopefully save humanity. He doesn't want to do it and they make him go. He tries to run away though. The people that force him use the same arguments.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 05:09 AM
8	As a single man who has no children, yes, I am expendable. I am not sure if its was with the titanic or some other thing but I remember seeing a story about a guy that survived being in super cold ocean water because he was incredibly drunk. Like so drunk it actually raised his body temperature so he could survive the super cold water. So pro survival tip: if your ship goes down in a very cold ocean - get reeeeaaaalllyy drunk.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 05:03 AM
3	Let's speculate about men who claim misandry, etc. Most of this comes down to a certain imprinted mindset of entitlement and privilege. They saw that decades ago a man only had to work a job and that guaranteed him access to a womans body. They think it is an unfair change of their own living standard that this is not the case anymore. This is what centuries of forced coupling up and patriarchy does to us. Its similar still for some women. Some women still think the man should be the provider for her lifestyle and she offers access to her body. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 04:55 AM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) If its not weaponised, or just pure refusal as a rebellion, then it is at least a clear incompatibility and these people shouldn't be together anyway. All of these scenarios point in that direction and its a coward move to make the demanding partner break the relationship up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 06:59 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) If you are not doing something just because then its not weaponised incompetence and you are debating again a preference and not the actual topic of this thread.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 06:10 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) That is weaponizing incompetence. He is rebelling the demands he accepted by pretending	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 06:04 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) He decides to accept something that he disagrees with and acts passive agressive with weaponised incompetence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 05:50 PM
0	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Then he shouldn't complain and just accept the consequences of his decisions. Some accountability isn't too much to be expected.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 05:33 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Then they both need to have a honest conversation instead of rebel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 05:19 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Resisting the demands by pretending to be incompetent is still rebelling like a teenager. Honesty should be the baseline in a adult relationship instead of trying to avoid confrontation like that. Thats how relationships end in resentment. It is counter productive to relationships to try to "rebel".	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 05:02 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) It is dismissing the premise as dramatic	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 04:57 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) And you argue it is used as a way to rebel	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 04:57 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Do you regularly rebel in a situation you think is unreasonable by pretending to be incompetent?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 04:48 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) This is quite the first world problem. Some people in this world actually have struggles with real dangerous circumstances This is not a genuine reason or even a proper response to any debate in a debate subreddit. This is dismissive and derailing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 04:45 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Because you are just arguing the point of avoidance again. Who rebels in a relationship? Thats not how adults should behave.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 04:44 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) I have addresses the point of unreasonable standards already. You are just circling now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 04:34 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) What else is it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 04:31 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Who else would rebel that way?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 04:30 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) "When the body senses danger from a virus or infection, the immune system kicks into gear and attacks it. This is called an immune response. Sometimes, healthy cells and tissues are caught up in this response, resulting in autoimmune disease." Keeping a clean environment could prevent the trigger of the immune system which attacks viruses and infections. Which results in collateral damage of health cells and tissues. The less a woman is subjected to something that triggers her immune system the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 04:29 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Rebel? Are they are teenager or in a committed relationships?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 04:19 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) You were questioning if they are disagreeing with the frequency and thats why they are pretending	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 04:15 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) So dismissing someones concerns is perfectly fine because other people have bigger issues? Yeah thats going to go well with a partner. Thats how you end up with a divorce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 04:10 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) If they aren't malicious then its not weaponised incompetence. Same as a woman that might be awkward during sex and only wants it once a month when the guys wants it everyday.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 04:07 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Same with cleaning. And the frequency is subjective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 04:01 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) So again. We are back at the point where a woman can just pretend she is bad at sex and make excuses because she disagrees with the frequency of sex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 03:57 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Not likely. The conversation itself plays no role in the argument. It has no effect on the action of weaponised incompetence	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 03:55 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) There is nothing in the term that suggest a discussion has happend before either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 03:53 PM
2	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Then be honest about that before engaging in a relationship so all of this can be avoided.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 03:52 PM
2	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Are you pretending to be stupid at work?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 03:52 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Weaponised incompetence happens when someone doesn’t even voice their disagreement with their partner but rather just pretend they are incapable of doing it so they dont have to. Its the cowards way to avoid actually saying they disagree with the thing because then they would actually have to have a conversation. Weaponised incompetence is conflict avoidance by pretending to be incapable	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 03:51 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) This is quite the first world problem. Some people in this world actually have struggles with real dangerous circumstances Thats not offering perspective. Thats dismissing someone else's problems. Thats like telling a depressed person they could have it worse and they should smile more	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 03:49 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Then you aren't actually debating the topic but just making it about preferences which. Which makes your whole comment chain just a complete derail from the actual OP	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 03:37 PM
2	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Dismissing isn't engaging in the debate. Then you dont want to actually talk about the topic but just handwave it	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 03:36 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) You want me to tag you everytime on here dudes argue again that men need to be protectors and providers to have a chance of a relationship?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 03:35 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Dismissing a issue isn't engaging. Thats the same criticism some men have when they talk about being lonely and they are being dismissed	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 03:35 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) This is a post about weaponised incompetence	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 03:32 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Then maybe men should finally stop using it	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 03:19 PM
2	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Thats not a point. If he doesn't want to engage with a debate and just declare it as ridiculous because it doesnt affect him then he shouldn't comment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 03:18 PM
2	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Exactly. So stop acting retarded and just be honest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 03:16 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) The issue is the playing dumb part. How would you feel if your gf had lots of sex before you got together, even had sex with you while you were together and at some point just says "you know? You are so much better at making yourself orgasm with your own hand. I dont know what I am doing" or intentionally makes every session absolutely bad and then says she has no idea how to improve just so you give up? Are you okay with that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 03:14 PM
2	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) What is that even supposed to mean?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 03:12 PM
2	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) He has no point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 03:11 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Where would the line of ridiculous be? Isn't that also subjective? Maybe she thinks him demanding once a month is objectively ridiculous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 03:10 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Can we tell the same to men that demand a certain amount of sex too?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 03:04 PM
2	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) "tHeRe ArE cHiLdReN sTaRvInG iN aFrIcA"	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 03:02 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) And thats when you break up instead of pretending to be too dumb to do it to avoid the consequences	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 03:01 PM
0	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Perfect. So there should be a compromise instead of pretending you are an idiot and cant do a task.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 02:50 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Did you reply to the wrong comment? This comment chain is about helping a neighbour by simply saying no instead of pretending not to be good at it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 02:49 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Same as men. If a woman says sex once a year is reasonable then obviously the man should be open to adjust their standards too	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 02:48 PM
2	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Studies show spikes in cortisol related to clutter in the home, and women show higher spikes than men. females are more resistant to infectious diseases and much more likely to develop autoimmune diseases. Women's cortisol levels spike because of clutter (that can be a result of how we are raised) and womens immune system can trigger auto immune issues based on environmental contamination. 80% of those who have autoimmune diseases are women. I think the least we can expect from the "protectors a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 02:27 PM
4	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) What facts?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 02:03 PM
3	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) What is reasonable is subjective and needs to be negotiated instead of just being played dumb to avoid doing it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 02:03 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) What do you mean "budge"? Consent is consent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 02:02 PM
4	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) The standard of cleanliness between women and men is different because of biological reasons. Thats the whole point. But I agree it should be made clear in the beginning so the toddler brain issue doesnt even becomes a thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 02:02 PM
2	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Absolutely. Because your argument is that if women expect men to do things that any functioning adult should do it will lead to absurd situations where someone is asked to vacuum 35 times. Thats just a bad faith argument you are trying to push to ridicule reasonable requests.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 02:00 PM
2	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Then if you want to you can communication why. If thats so important to you. Better than lying and pretending you are stupid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 01:58 PM
4	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) You dont have to. Thats the same argument when guys ask a woman out and she says "no".	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 01:56 PM
4	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) I asked for a study that a specific sex act that isn't given is raising mens cortisol. The same way that clutter (which is a specific thing) raises cortisol in women. This is a gendered issue and what you provided is a general stress response by everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 01:56 PM
2	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Not when its used the way you are using it. Then its just slippery slope.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 01:54 PM
1	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Thats an article.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 01:49 PM
4	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) You got a study on that? As far as I know sex in general lowers cortisol and not a specific sex act.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 01:44 PM
5	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) So what? Then everyone needs to learn to respect no. Its a good lesson at that point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 01:41 PM
3	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Clutter does can cause a cortisol spikes. Prolonged high cortisol has detrimental effects on people health.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 01:40 PM
7	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) You can't outsource everything to children and machines. Thats not how households work (yet). And again. Just because you dont care doesn't mean it has no effect on the health of your partner. Thats like arguing that you dont care if your partner has allergies to nuts and yet you keep cooking with nuts because you dont care about them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 01:38 PM
2	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Because you are debating in bad faith by using Reductio ad absurdum	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 01:34 PM
7	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) There is biological aspects on why clutter and dirt are a bigger issue for women than for men. Clutter causes cortisol spikes in women which stresses them out and dirt can cause stronger immune responses in women because of our immune system. If men really wanted to provide and protect the way they keep claiming they would make sure to prioritise and respect womens health.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 01:31 PM
7	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) You can just say "no" without insulting someone. Maybe men need to learn too that "no" is a full sentence instead of just lying to save face	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 01:27 PM
6	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) So lying is better?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 01:19 PM
7	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Just say no. Why do you act like an idiot instead of using your words and clear communication?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 01:10 PM
4	Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general) Toddler brain makes it even worse than weaponised incompetence. The amount of women that dont want to have sex with toddlers is probably pretty high. With weaponised incompetence you can at least argue they are adult enough to have a tactic. Still the same outcome though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 01:04 PM
2	if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killer If the whole debate comes back to "its just luck" then there is no winning, no debate and it is just distraction. Which tbf I am doing too but I usually like a little more substance in my debates than "divine intervention". Anyway. Have a nice workday.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 09:41 AM
2	if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killer If its all luck at this point why even the discussion about morals at all?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 09:31 AM
2	if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killer Maybe men need to do more target audience research instead of doing AWALT to get the results they want. A lot of people suggest when it comes to dating to pick a niche based on your own hobbies, morals and values. Thats a typical BP advice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 09:16 AM
4	if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killer Then men need to stop viewing women as a hive mind and actually ask the women they want to date instead of all women. If they want to date women that are okay with dating serial killers they need to ask them about their morals instead of assuming all women think the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 09:05 AM
2	if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killer Depends on the people. This is where my husband and I also divert. I am pro-billionair woodchipper. He doesn't agree with that. And I am sure there are women that are morally even more diverse than that. Depends on a lot of things where your morals come from. I am also anti child harm and would love to see some people punished in certain ways, yet here we are and seeing that this doesn't seem to be a universal moral thing and there are actually a lot of people that protect these kind of people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 08:50 AM
4	how interest are you about what men like? I can make compromises on certain things if I want a long term relationship with someone. I am not going to change anything about myself just to appeal to someone. Then they wouldn't be in love with me but with a version I pretend to be. I can't keep up a facade just to make someone like me. I want to be loved for who I am, not for how I pretend to be. Thats just disingenuous. Which is also a thing that gets criticism from everyone. The whole "bait and switch" is never cute.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 08:47 AM
1	if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killer Morality is subjective though. Just because I find something morally bad doesn't mean everyone else agrees. Thats not even a gendered thing. We do have laws for the really morally bad things and even these are not even universal and arent even enforced universally. You could ask different people the exact same moral question and would get different answers. Even my husband and I have different moral values on certain thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 08:33 AM
9	how interest are you about what men like? Why would I care about what random people I dont care about want, if I am not what they want?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 08:13 AM
4	if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killer I think my main complaint about this is the size issue. Because murderers and stuff is a very small percentage of the human population. And sure some of them (usually the most prominent of them) have success with women. Thats what? 1%? Men complain when women say "all men" and then bring statistics to proof its not all men. But then they turn around and use that tiny percentage as proof of their own bias? If the 1% of super dangerous men have partners so do the 1% of average and the 1% of morall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 08:01 AM
3	how interest are you about what men like? competence noun uk /ˈkɒm.pɪ.təns/ us /ˈkɑːm.pə.t̬əns/ (also competency) the ability to do something well	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 05:55 AM
5	how interest are you about what men like? Honest observation isn't hate. You seem very emotional about this topic. Centering your whole life around how to make someone love you is desperation and the fact that a lot of the men that stay unselected even after they centered their whole identity around attracting women and become bitter about it just proofs it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 05:46 AM
6	how interest are you about what men like? No. The men in my life are all either in relationships or just between relationships. They don't do the desperation dance the unselected men are doing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 05:38 AM
7	how interest are you about what men like? Oh I know them. I see them on here and on social media. The unselected men are very vocal how much they constantly try to mould themselves into becoming selected. The desperation is very loud	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 05:34 AM
8	how interest are you about what men like? They dont focus their whole life around women. They actually have a life	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 05:26 AM
6	how interest are you about what men like? All of these are skewed towards unsuccessful men. Thats just selection bias.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 04:38 AM
8	how interest are you about what men like? The most time I have spend learning about men was how to avoid being harmed by them. After that they are incredible vocal what they want. They basically never shut up about their preferences. And usually that doesnt align with their actions. Watch what they do, not what they say. Other than that I just lived my life and cared about myself. My husband came along and we are very compatible so I don't have to change who I am. On the contrary - I can actually be who I am around him without judgment.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 04:34 AM
1	Men shouldn’t have to be hypermasculine providers in order to get into relationships. The results revealed a twofold phenomenon. Among men, a higher frequency of porn use (wave 1) and increased porn use over time (waves 1–3) were associated with lower levels of sexual self-competence, impaired sexual functioning, and decreased partner-reported sexual satisfaction. In contrast, among women, higher and increasing frequencies of porn use were associated with higher levels of sexual self-competence, improved sexual functioning, and enhanced partner-reported sexual satisfaction (for s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 06:27 PM
1	Men shouldn’t have to be hypermasculine providers in order to get into relationships. Women know that fiction isn't real. Its men that keep confusing women reading romance with them watching porn. Sex is important. Porn is not sex. Its theatre.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 05:01 PM
2	Sex is not a thing, like gold or land or peanuts. Women are more likely to go to a therapist anyway. I think if this would become a proper profession women would engage in it as much as in normal therapy. And in the beginning of the transition of sex work to health care there should be programmes to incentives people to get the license obviously so they can actually do the work legal. But its fine if you dont want to talk about it anymore. Have a good one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 04:08 PM
1	Sex is not a thing, like gold or land or peanuts. It doesnt need to be a full doctora degree. There should definitely be a professional training involved with it but it doesnt necessarily need to be to the full standard of a doctor. But if we put it on a similar level as social workers, physical therapists, etc. And we really punish anyone doing the job without proper licensing that would help getting rid of the black market and make the profession saver for people engaging in it. And as I said - even women might feel more comfortable going to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 03:36 PM
1	Sex is not a thing, like gold or land or peanuts. There are enough reasons in there that make it viable. I am okay with that list of reasons also for sex workers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 03:31 PM
1	Sex is not a thing, like gold or land or peanuts. I am actually having a conversation with someone about the right to refuse further in the comments of this comment here. I compared sex workers to therapists and we are talking about why for instance in the UK therapists can reject a client. I found a website where a therapist listed reasons they could refuse a client and the list actually sounds reasonable even for sex workers as health care providers. It is an interesting topic definitely	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 03:30 PM
1	Sex is not a thing, like gold or land or peanuts. As therapists, we reserve the right to choose who we work with. The reasons for not working with clients, should never be made on reasons of discrimination, if this would be the case, the therapist is in the wrong profession and is in breach of the code of ethics for the NCH and AfSFH. There may be times when a therapist chooses not to work with a particular client for some of the reasons below, If the therapist feels the clients’ needs are above his/her experience level. If a client is aggressi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 02:43 PM
1	Sex is not a thing, like gold or land or peanuts. We are debating sex work on the bases of the need for sex as a mental health service. Maybe it shouldn't be a way to make quick and easy money because thats a way to create a black market and force people into it. Especially without really looking at the consequences of becoming a sex worker because it is a emergency service. If it is a need and a medical necessity then age shouldn't even matter in that line of work. Otherwise it wouldn't count as a necessity but instead would be a luxury again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 02:39 PM
1	Sex is not a thing, like gold or land or peanuts. I think it would actually be a pretty good idea because there are enough people that engage in sex work without a license and a lot of them are forced into it. If this kind of practice could be turned into a legitimate career the crack down on the illegal buisness might be easier. Of course it wont be cheap but if we want to classify it as health care then the provider deserves to be paid a proper wage. Thats the whole point. It might actually be a pretty good idea for men and women tbf. I think…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 02:00 PM
1	Sex is not a thing, like gold or land or peanuts. Are you assuming someone shouldn't be able to refuse a certain treatment just because they are working in a certain field? Thats not even how that works under socialism. Even a GP can refuse you an appointment. If you are in a medical emergency you go to the ER. If you are in a psychological emergency you dont go to a therapist you go to the ER to get immediate medical attention from a psychiatrist. Sex workers wouldn't count as emergency service itself. And I think any service provider should b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 01:32 PM
1	Sex is not a thing, like gold or land or peanuts. Yes. They dont get paid if they dont take clients. Its that easy. That is the same under any system. Again I can mostly just talk about the german system but here they have a certain amount of clients from the public health insurance they are allowed to take on per month. Before you can go to a therapist you have to get the insurance to agree to therapy. You can get 1 session with a therapist where you get to know each other and then you and the therapist can decide if you want to continue toget…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 01:22 PM
1	Sex is not a thing, like gold or land or peanuts. A therapist refusing clients is a good thing. You dont want the wrong therapist for something. If you are dealing with trauma you dont need a therapist that is specialised on phobia. So even under socialist circumstances the therapist is supposed to not just take on any client if they arent convinced they aren't the best qualified to help them. I would expect sex workers to have the same medical integrity instead of just taking on any client.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 01:07 PM
1	Sex is not a thing, like gold or land or peanuts. Then the first major issue would be fixing the health care system probably for refusing to engage in prevention measurements while simultaneously getting sex work admitted into health care fields with degrees and licenses. Until then debating if sex workers are allowed to reject clients is a bit pointless. Especially because again - therapists are allowed to refuse clients as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 12:54 PM
2	Sex is not a thing, like gold or land or peanuts. Doctors can decide what clients they take. Especially therapist can decide what clients they take. If we would look at prostitutes as something along the lines of sex therapists that still allows them to decline clients. The same way doctors for instance can refuse to perform abortions if it is against their own religious beliefs. Health care is a very interesting field when it comes to that. For instance if we look at the American insurance system where the insurance refuses to pay for doctors …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 12:42 PM
2	Sex is not a thing, like gold or land or peanuts. I assume thats where you were going with this. And I kind of agree. I commented on someone else in this thread if sex work would be seen more as health care if it was tied to a official degree and license when it comes to care. Like therapists and nurses and your typical health care providers. I think if people were pushing more for it in a health care provider sense it would be more accepted. Until then it seems more like a house cleaning service which is a luxury.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 12:27 PM
0	Sex is not a thing, like gold or land or peanuts. Most of health care is elderly care which is about dignity and pain management. Anything untreated for too long can become life threatening. So technically yes. But as I said I am also about prevention of deteriorating health. Which is why people go to check ups and stuff.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 12:19 PM
0	Sex is not a thing, like gold or land or peanuts. Its also about preventative meassure like vaccines and care before something becomes a life threatening illness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 11:20 AM
8	Do most women feel they have to restrain their sexuality to find a compatible man? Personally no. I had the sex I wanted to have (except for the times I was rejected obviously). I learned what how I wanted my sex life to look like. I had sex with men and women. I had relationships with men and women. Then I found myself a partner that provided the thing that I learned are important to me in a relationship and in my sex life. Then I married him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 04:11 AM
4	Sex is not a thing, like gold or land or peanuts. We generally ban prostitution in many places because it often invites predatory behaviors and trafficking, and because it can be seen as coercive if someone is destitute enough...which is a secondary layer on top of the above that complicates it ethically for many people (especially since the "women's rights" crowd is often on the side of "sex work is great" in the modern paradigm). What I find interesting about this topic is that some people (even in this thread) compare sex work to health care…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 04:06 AM
4	Sex is not a thing, like gold or land or peanuts. Healthcare is a service that is paid for by the society for the people that need it because otherwise they would die. Anything that kills you if you don't get it should be provided for. Shelter, food, water, health care, etc. Basic human needs. Sex isn't a necessity. You dont die without it. Its a luxury.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 03:58 AM
5	Going Out Alone as a Guy in a New City Is Brutal I read this thread in my head with the voice of a nature documentary show narrator. That was funny. Would recommend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 03:36 AM
10	Men shouldn’t have to be hypermasculine providers in order to get into relationships. Porn isn't real	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 03:28 AM
5	Men shouldn’t have to be hypermasculine providers in order to get into relationships. Or! Men could realise that porn isnt real.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 03:28 AM
13	Men shouldn’t have to be hypermasculine providers in order to get into relationships. Which is fine. I am not telling men or anyone to lower their standards or be with someone they dont want to be with. But I wish this false propaganda of "men need to be hypermasculine providers for a chance of a relationship" would finally stop.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 08:19 PM
14	Men shouldn’t have to be hypermasculine providers in order to get into relationships. Like porn. Sexual worship And now this idea that women aren't into men makes sense. Porn is the bar that women are supposed to jump over to make men believe they are desired.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 06:53 PM
15	Men shouldn’t have to be hypermasculine providers in order to get into relationships. Choose better people to date or become a better person to date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 06:49 PM
18	Men shouldn’t have to be hypermasculine providers in order to get into relationships. Men don't have to be anything. But you have to provide something to be a selected partner. And the main issue is the women most men want will have higher standards when it comes to the provider mindset than the women that are invisible to men. There was a askmen thread a while ago that asked men why they are single. And the majority of the answers came down to "I am not attracted to the women that are attracted to me". Thats it. Thats the issue. Women only need to deliver something physical beca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 06:24 PM
9	Debate: women are allowed to distrust men, men are not allowed to distrust women (repost as I dodn't partipate within three hours) What? you didn't copy paste my comment? I feel left out 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 04:08 PM
7	Life as a woman in west is so much easier My man lives in Berlin and doesn't realise men have the same social safety nets that women do. 🤦‍♂️	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 02:47 PM
1	Has your past/current female partners wanted more or less sex than you? Just commenting here to come back later and see if anyone replied. And if they reply based on stereotypes or actual personal experiences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 10:30 AM
18	Honestly, to what degree do you want double standards? I have different treatments for different kinds of relationships. I treat stranger different from friends, friends from family, family from partners. The gender isn't really relevant in this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 10:04 AM
2	Debate: women are allowed to distrust men, men are not allowed to distrust women If you are seen as a victim you are also seen as incompetent. Which actually only further the need for help and funding. It is a cycle. Women are slowly breaking out of the gender bias of being seen as incompetent victims by taking on more typically defined masculine traits. Men on the other hand still refuse to take on more typically feminine defined traits. This is why OPs idea at all is receiving push back (if we leave out the way he is in other threads describing his idea and actually focus …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 09:54 AM
4	Debate: women are allowed to distrust men, men are not allowed to distrust women But men dont trust women. It is just based on which topic you look at. Go into the ask men subreddit and talk about marriage and a bunch of guys will tell you its not worth it because women are more likely to initiate divorce and will take everything from you. When you go into the marriage subreddit you see a lot of guys talking about prenups to protect their assets. Prenups are very rarely pushed by women (yes you can argue that is because women on average will be the lower income one). The dis…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 09:21 AM
4	Debate: women are allowed to distrust men, men are not allowed to distrust women This is true. But there is also the other side of the coin that does turn women into victims and makes them look weak and incompetent. This is the whole issue around gender based bias.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 09:14 AM
15	Bachelorette parties They exist but are very rare. I was a photographer for 20 years and I did a lot of weddings and also my fair share of Bachelorette photoshoots. They were usually just fun. The ladies would ride around in a Limousine, get drunk, take some fun photos and maybe go to parties. When you have been at a lot of weddings you hear it all. I think the strippers thing is mostly Hollywood. What is more likely is just regular cheating. Your best mate is more likely to cheat with your soon to be wife than a ra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 04:24 AM
2	I feel like many women complain about not being able to find a “good guy” or steady man but are having sex way too early on. Happy cake day Lemon 🎉🎂	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 02:55 PM
2	I feel like many women complain about not being able to find a “good guy” or steady man but are having sex way too early on. It doesn't matter. Having sex early or later really doesnt matter at all if a relationship is successful. My longest relationship before my husband were 6 month. Terrible relationships. I had sex with my husband the first time we met. We are together 8 years now and married for 2. It makes no sense to put this much emphasis on sex. Its just one more thing to check for if you are compatible. You can be with someone for month and only then discover you are incompatible no matter the timing of sex.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 02:54 PM
3	Men aren't lonely and single because they're toxic, violent and sexist; they're lonely and single because they're unattractive, broke and awkward Do you believe that the earth is flat? Because I can just say the earth is flat and I dont need to proof it because obviously the earth is flat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 01:17 PM
6	Men aren't lonely and single because they're toxic, violent and sexist; they're lonely and single because they're unattractive, broke and awkward So nothing? You just try to use your bias as a way to make your claim believable. Come back when you actually have some data instead of anecdotes	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 01:09 PM
2	Men aren't lonely and single because they're toxic, violent and sexist; they're lonely and single because they're unattractive, broke and awkward Thats not an answer to my question	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 12:54 PM
5	Men aren't lonely and single because they're toxic, violent and sexist; they're lonely and single because they're unattractive, broke and awkward What percentage of women? Do you have a number?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 12:45 PM
3	Men aren't lonely and single because they're toxic, violent and sexist; they're lonely and single because they're unattractive, broke and awkward At this point the majority of online content is generated by AI already. The only thing we can do is educated and keep ourselves grounded to realise this is all a business. Engage IRL. Real life community. They are slowly killing the Internet anyway. At some point people will turn away from it. The downside of that is: the world will never be as connected as it is right now. There are always pros and cons to everything	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 12:45 PM
2	Men aren't lonely and single because they're toxic, violent and sexist; they're lonely and single because they're unattractive, broke and awkward How much more?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 12:35 PM
9	Men aren't lonely and single because they're toxic, violent and sexist; they're lonely and single because they're unattractive, broke and awkward The reason isn't that men are toxic, violent and sexist. The reason is that these are the things that we see. Men have absolutely abysmal PR. So the loudest voices from men are the ones that are toxic, violent and sexist because thats what shown to women by the algorithm. Even if it is like 1% of men. Women are scared to engage with that if there is even the chance of that. Its the same thing why we have these constant threads of men being scared to talk to women because they are worried they ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 12:26 PM
2	Most dating issues is caused by anxiously attached people Its desperation for being loved. There is a pretty quote: "When you are not fed love on a silver spoon, you learn to lick it off knives.". All of it comes down to the attachment theory but its also incredibly difficult to change your attachment once its formed. Takes a lot of effort and self reflection and time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 04:26 AM
1	Most dating issues is caused by anxiously attached people Dating outside the comfort zone and anxious attachment isnt the same. But I agree that the majority of dating problems come from attachment styles and not gender. The issue is that people are attracted to their counter parts instead of what actually compliments them. So the person that would need someone that is securely attached because the consistency would be good for them, gets bored with the consistency and craves the uncertainty, despite uncertainty being negative for them. Most people don…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/26 04:14 AM
7	If men understood having a victim complex is "feminine", very few of them would have it. Happy cakeday lilith! 🎉🎂	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/26 11:57 AM
7	The superpower most men would choose—after eternal youth and unlimited wealth—is the ability to sleep with any woman they’re attracted to just by snapping their fingers. Urgh. I feared it would be something like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/26 10:00 AM
9	The superpower most men would choose—after eternal youth and unlimited wealth—is the ability to sleep with any woman they’re attracted to just by snapping their fingers. Do the women in this superpower fantasy consent to that? Or is it more a 🍇 fantasy without resistance?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/26 09:44 AM
5	Do you ever see successful men put down loser men in a way that bothers you? Yes and no. I have seen men putting down other men. But I have also seen men viewing any criticism of their stance as a put down to victimised themselves. Almost as if any criticism is an attack on them. So it really depends on the specifics when it comes to it. I have also seen some men as frustrated as women with certain points on here where they rather just hand wave the topic and throw some platitudes because it is a topic we have been over and over and over again and again. Frustration play…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/26 07:29 PM
1	Women's preferences make sense This threat is 2 month old. You commented to tell me "get over it". Are you okay?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/26 05:36 PM
6	If you were born male, do you think you'd be doing better than other men in areas that you criticize men for? I'm just gonna copy and paste parts I answered from a month ago when a similar question was asked: This thought experiment would depend on a lot of things. If it was just me staying me but I would grow a penis and nobody knew I was a woman before it would probably result in similar outcomes to the ones men currently experiencing. Dating and approaching dont happen in a vacuum. Women on average are more cautious around men. Me growing a penis doesnt change the underlying social situation of that.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/26 05:00 PM
13	Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSG Telegram Groups Shared Assault Videos of Drugged Wives Researchers spent six weeks early this year tracking nearly 2.8 million messages across 16 Italian and Spanish-speaking Telegram groups, according to a report by WIRED. During this timeframe, they identified over 24,000 members who collectively traded more than 82,000 pieces of media, including photos, videos, and voice recordings. Germany's NDR Investigation Uncovers 70,000 Men Sharing Sexual Assault Advice on Telegram They already doing th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/26 05:48 AM
6	Do you think you have a positiv impact on men here? See thats the kind of conversations I really enjoy on here. Not just "this gender bad" but more nuanced and looking at things from different perspectives. I had to fight a bit in the abortion thread too with some ladies because the topic is highly controversial. But that also makes it fun to talk about as long as it doesnt completely dissolve in hate. The domestic thing is really difficult to handle. I kind of blame the nuclear family structure for it where a lot of women lost their village and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 07:03 PM
4	Do you think you have a positiv impact on men here? Oh yeah! That one was a amazing conversation too! I love that one and the responses to that were really good. I was for the idea of paper abortions but had issues with the logistics of it and maybe you or someone else chimed in and said this should be dealt with pre-intercourse so everyone was on the same page if they still wanted to risk it or not. I am definitely for that. The cleanliness issue is interestingly one that might not be resolved but at least there can be spread awareness around it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 06:31 PM
10	Do you think you have a positiv impact on men here? Things like domestic violence statistics, male communication patterns, certain prison sentences, how to implement dna testing for offspring, sexist laws of 🍇, different responses between men and women when it comes to clutter and cleanliness, and probably some other stuff I can't really recall right now. There are things that I didn't realise men and women respond differently to and how it affected the genders. I was raised in a way to think that men and women are the same. But the older I get t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 06:13 PM
0	Passport broing should unironically be illegal I am aware of this. That doesn't mean I can't advocate for more equality and freedom worldwide. The good thing is that with the Internet we are more connected than we have ever been before. We can see the inequality in some countries. And other countries can see how bad their own systems are. 30 years ago you couldn't have a conversation on discord with someone on the other side of the world. Now we get livestreams of it and governemts have a much harder time hiding it. It is a fascinating devel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 06:06 PM
0	Passport broing should unironically be illegal Naaah. Let them go wherever they want. A lot of the woman in their home countries use these guys and they have insults for them. The only thing I wish was that they were more honest with the women they pursue instead of future faking them. Personally I think we need to raise the standards of living world wide and make traveling and migration wherever easier. More equality world wide means it doesnt matter if you are a loser at home - you will be a loser everywhere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 05:59 PM
13	Do you think you have a positiv impact on men here? You can change your mind if you are confronted with evidence that you opinion is based on false believes. I changed my mind multiple times on here. But I don't expect others to do that. So I will mostly just try to have some interesting conversations instead of real debates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 05:45 PM
26	Do you think you have a positiv impact on men here? God no. You can't debate someone to change their own opinions about things they are convinced about. Thats like trying to debate someone about their religion. Its useless. Nobody responds to statistics or anecdotes or anything if their mind is made up. Change needs to come from within. It wont happen from outside.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 05:23 PM
–	Why do some men act like simps and white knights? I questioned that before too and was informed that it is okay to ask ingroup questions if you are outside the group. Means red pill guys are allowed to ask blue pill guys and so on 🤷	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 03:17 PM
–	Why do some men act like simps and white knights? Sometimes I have my husband read some of the threads on here. After almost every sentence he goes "no it isnt" and at the end he usually goes "what is wrong with these guys?". He is a very average blue pill guy. And guys on here would call him a simp and they have called him a beta bux. And yet he was basically never single. Maybe he is doing something right that a lot of guys on here dont understand and rather judge.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 03:14 PM
11	Our male ancestors would laugh at the complaints of modern men What kind of debate it this? This is just a weird rant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 11:53 AM
1	How do you explain the "Dark Romance" Boom? Clearly you are unable to actually engage in this conversation in a productive way since you refuse to provide me the way to clearly communicate this with you. So much for problem solving. You have disproved your own claim in your own reply. You don't want to learn anything. What a fruitless bad faith conversation. Have a good day	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 11:03 AM
1	How do you explain the "Dark Romance" Boom? Im trying to meet you where you understand the answer. This is why I am asking for an example. Why do you keep refusing if you said you have a clear list of it? I already answered you multiple times and you were dissatisfied. So now I need a clear outline on what answer you expect. That only works if you actually provide an example of how you want to receive information. You stared you have a list. Just give me the list.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 10:54 AM
1	How do you explain the "Dark Romance" Boom? Give me an example list of why and how you feel about an activity you enjoy or we will just keep going in circles because obviously you are looking for a very specific answer. It shouldn't be an issue to just write down your list so I can transfer it over to romance books.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 10:46 AM
10	Fair feminists exist and they get hate from both men and many feminist women Tbf. No matter where you are you will always receive criticism for your stands because there is almost nothing in this world that is 100% accepted as truth. I saw a reel the other day of a guy asking about things that do not generate any kind of debate. I thought saying "the northern lights are pretty" would be uncontroversial. Got a comment from someone saying they are overhyped and ridiculous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 10:35 AM
2	How do you explain the "Dark Romance" Boom? Give me your list for something you enjoy. Maybe I can gauge what kind of answer you expect here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 10:31 AM
1	How do you explain the "Dark Romance" Boom? I really dont understand your confusion? Why do you do anything you enjoy doing? Do you have a detailed list of reasons why you engage in anything?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 10:13 AM
2	How do you explain the "Dark Romance" Boom? We want things that give us positive emotional stimulation. Thats the whole point. Thats why we do most things in life that are not necessary for our survival. What do women get out of the fantasy? Dopamine and oxytocin. Thats it. That what you get out of these fantasies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 10:04 AM
–	Having low standards doesn't make you charitable, and it's not correlated with the ability ti love deeply I agree. Although the reason why people with low standards feel like they are more morally good is because they view themselves as the better person and they feel like they are sacrificing themselves to be with someone that doesnt actually enriches their life as long as they get that one thing that they want. People with high standards dont want to settle for someone that doesn't add to their life in multiple ways. It is the fundamental idea of how someone views a relationship and themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 09:59 AM
17	Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equally I'm glad how many women are taking accountability by completely avoiding relationships ✨️	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 09:26 AM
30	Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equally I agree. Thats why when someone talks about an abusive ex some people's sentiment is "you deserved it for choosing them". You can take accountability and try to avoid abusive partners in the future. That doesn't mean anyone deserves abuse. Accountability is acknowledging and learning.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 08:19 AM
0	How do you explain the "Dark Romance" Boom? What about that? I still don't understand why this is such a controversial topic for some guys to understand. Men that play war games don't actually want to go to war. They just like exploring the feelings of excitement you get from it. People that play zombie apocalypse games don't want that to actually be a thing. It is the exact same concept. But because women enjoy the simulation suddenly its controversial	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 08:08 AM
2	How do you explain the "Dark Romance" Boom? It is simulating emotions. That is the answer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 05:51 AM
1	How do you explain the "Dark Romance" Boom? Its also random monsters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/26 05:50 AM
1	How do you explain the "Dark Romance" Boom? It gives them the feeling. It is the fantasy. How does playing call of duty give men the feeling of being a war hero? By simulating it. It is a simulation. Why is that so hard to understand?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 09:25 PM
7	We should shut this sub and focus on our own lives This sub is mostly for entertainment tbf. Its just fun to talk about gender bs. And my neurospicy ass actually gets to understand why 30% of men are unhappy about their dating lives and why half of women dont want to be in relationships anymore. Its a bit like going to a zoo. You have fun, you learn something, maybe you get a snack and you might even see something cute.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 04:07 PM
8	AWALT is used by guys who are bad judges of character. Yesterday it was 20%. I wonder if that means my stocks go up or down if it is today 5% 🤔	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 03:17 PM
14	AWALT is used by guys who are bad judges of character. Oh! We are down to 5% today? This is like a stock market at this point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 03:02 PM
2	Men have no sympathy towards women I think for men sympathy means actions while for women sympathy means emotional co-regulation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 01:35 PM
4	Men have no sympathy towards women I think men are just bad at communicating what they mean by "sympathy". Because we all use that word but I'm pretty sure they mean something different than what a lot of women would understand when we talk about sympathy. Thats why when there are posts about how "nobody cares about lonely men" and they say they just want sympathy they dont mean what women mean when they talk about sympathy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 11:25 AM
2	How do you explain the "Dark Romance" Boom? Its a fantasy. Women are stimulated more by thought than just visuals. Thats why men watch porn and women read books. And stories have different characters and different plots. The idea that romance books are all the same is very sad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 09:49 AM
0	Asking men to support feminism is peak audacity: Feminists in Australia lobbied to have suicidal men insta-flagged as potential woman abusers when they reach out to authorities for help You recognise usernames? How sad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 07:48 AM
–	Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married him I agree. I think not enough people talk about their expectations for sex. This is men and women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 02:16 AM
1	Asking men to support feminism is peak audacity: Feminists in Australia lobbied to have suicidal men insta-flagged as potential woman abusers when they reach out to authorities for help Spamming? What exactly makes my comments spam? Just because you don't like them doesnt make it spam. You seem confused about what a debate subreddit is	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 01:37 AM
0	Asking men to support feminism is peak audacity: Feminists in Australia lobbied to have suicidal men insta-flagged as potential woman abusers when they reach out to authorities for help Why? Because you dont want to acknowledge that men are responsible for the majority of violent crimes? And that they are less likely to seek out mental health help? Ignoring reality and trying to paint it as feminist propaganda will not support your agenda	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 08:05 PM
2	Asking men to support feminism is peak audacity: Feminists in Australia lobbied to have suicidal men insta-flagged as potential woman abusers when they reach out to authorities for help She would have to if she assumed I was a threat. Thats her job. She would have to have me involuntary checked into a mental hospital if there ever was the worry I was a threat to myself or others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 07:32 PM
1	If roughly half of Gen Z men have no hope of ever getting married and having children, how can anyone be surprised they're being radicalized? What a narcissistic mindset to have. That everything in the world is just there to further your own feeling of achievements.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 07:05 PM
1	If roughly half of Gen Z men have no hope of ever getting married and having children, how can anyone be surprised they're being radicalized? Women aren't a milestone on your timeline. Disgusting mindset.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 06:39 PM
1	If roughly half of Gen Z men have no hope of ever getting married and having children, how can anyone be surprised they're being radicalized? Women are the first quest 🤢 gross	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 06:11 PM
1	If roughly half of Gen Z men have no hope of ever getting married and having children, how can anyone be surprised they're being radicalized? Maybe that should be something men are advocating more for. Nice mission for them to have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 05:51 PM
1	If roughly half of Gen Z men have no hope of ever getting married and having children, how can anyone be surprised they're being radicalized? You can adopt a child. Lots of children in the system that need help. Fostering too	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 05:34 PM
3	Asking men to support feminism is peak audacity: Feminists in Australia lobbied to have suicidal men insta-flagged as potential woman abusers when they reach out to authorities for help My therapist regularly has me sign a paper that I am not a risk for myself or others. Sure it is mostly for her to safe herself. But it is also a standard procedure to ask that. This isnt just a feminist thing. This is a mental health thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 05:33 PM
2	How do you explain the "Dark Romance" Boom? Putting things into perspective in a societal context is part of the topic at hand. If you have an issue with that you dont have to keep this discussion going.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 05:21 PM
1	If roughly half of Gen Z men have no hope of ever getting married and having children, how can anyone be surprised they're being radicalized? You can have children from a surrogate if you really want one. The way that women are supposed to be just one more thing in a check list of men's lifes is very insulting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 05:19 PM
4	How do you explain the "Dark Romance" Boom? If the criticism is just for womens fantasies and its not equally applied to men's then it is sexism and should be called out as that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 04:55 PM
3	If roughly half of Gen Z men have no hope of ever getting married and having children, how can anyone be surprised they're being radicalized? Men are only falling behind because their only incentives are women. If they stopped centering women and centered themselves they would do the work for themselves instead of feeling aimless because they arent getting women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 04:54 PM
6	How do you explain the "Dark Romance" Boom? Why is only female entertainment an issue but male entertainment isnt?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 04:34 PM
3	If roughly half of Gen Z men have no hope of ever getting married and having children, how can anyone be surprised they're being radicalized? Should upwards mobility only be accessible to men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 04:33 PM
2	Good behavior is earned The difference is that OP is stating that the "good behaviour" has to be earned. That isnt the same as retaliation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 04:31 PM
10	What do you mean by “social skills”? I dont assume. Men keep saying this over and over and over. I believe men 🤷	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 12:57 PM
4	Good behavior is earned They only do that because you aren't the one to earn that good behavior from them. Dis your post?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 12:54 PM
11	What do you mean by “social skills”? Yeah. There will always be guys lining up to take on the socially stunted woman. As long as she has a vagina he can use he doesn't care about if she has a personality or a job or anything. Mens standards are ridiculously low.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 12:53 PM
7	Good behavior is earned "You made me do this". This kind of thinking is the excuses abusers use. The way they try to tell their victims "if you were better I wouldn't do this to you". This is a very bad line of argument to go down on. I would not recommend to defend this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 12:50 PM
9	What do you mean by “social skills”? Women dont have to follow that. Men will want a woman if she is hot enough. They don't care about her social skills.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 12:45 PM
11	How do you explain the "Dark Romance" Boom? Women are craving romance, passion and adventure. Its the same reason men love to play certain video games. Its excitement, heroic and adventure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 12:38 PM
1	Gendered expectations for men are only retired in word, not reality Men keep reminding us aaaaall the time how they build everything. And that women didn't contribute anything. If the thing you build is oppressing you, then you need to take responsibility for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 12:36 PM
0	Gendered expectations for men are only retired in word, not reality Men made society	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 11:33 AM
5	If roughly half of Gen Z men have no hope of ever getting married and having children, how can anyone be surprised they're being radicalized? Why dont you just have sex with these men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 06:07 AM
0	Gendered expectations for men are only retired in word, not reality Men suffer because of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/26 05:59 AM
8	Where is it ok to "cold approach" woman? Its not about "where". Its about "how". I find men on average are just bad at approaching because they are too generic. The way to approach someone is by making it personal. I had a lovely conversation with a guy in the sauna before. We were both naked so that was a bit awkward and I am married, but if I wasn't I would've been open to more conversations. He saw me looking at the time table for the next steaming session and approached me asking if I was looking for something specific. I said I wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 04:02 PM
1	Gendered expectations for men are only retired in word, not reality When will men take responsibility? We are still waiting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 12:59 PM
–	If roughly half of Gen Z men have no hope of ever getting married and having children, how can anyone be surprised they're being radicalized? Read some of the responses in this thread and in others. The solution is always forcing women to somehow settle again with men they don't want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 12:10 PM
–	If roughly half of Gen Z men have no hope of ever getting married and having children, how can anyone be surprised they're being radicalized? Are you new here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 12:05 PM
–	If roughly half of Gen Z men have no hope of ever getting married and having children, how can anyone be surprised they're being radicalized? Why is the radicalisation always about taking womens rights away instead of making the world a better place outside of procreation? Why is the glue that holds society together on the back of womens bodies? Pathetic	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 11:51 AM
1	Gendered expectations for men are only retired in word, not reality True. It should just apply to all men and all states and the whole world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 11:13 AM
1	Gendered expectations for men are only retired in word, not reality Russians are also seeking asylum. A lot of Russian men got send into the war without even knowing they are going to war. They had to escape. Asylum shouldn't even be necessary if men stopped starting wars and trying to exploit the world for more money and power.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 10:38 AM
–	The current gyno centric system will have to break in the next few decades 1990s? You seem confused about timelines of sexual freedom.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 10:35 AM
1	Gendered expectations for men are only retired in word, not reality Who is at war? Who started the war? Why does everyone else need to sacrifice themselves for the wars men start?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 10:30 AM
1	Gendered expectations for men are only retired in word, not reality The Ukraine and Russia are feminist states?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 10:26 AM
–	A question regarding chores and sexual altruism of men Yeah. Because the majority of people are stupid and just expect things to be a certain way instead of actually focusing on selecting for it. Which is why men end up in dead bedrooms and with gold diggers and women end up with slobs and man children. Selecting for a long term partner is a skill. Most people only learn that skill way too late when they already have sunken cost fallacy. Then they complain about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 09:14 AM
1	Gendered expectations for men are only retired in word, not reality I am insisting on focusing on the root instead of trying to focus on the results. Because the results will always be the same if the root doesn't get addressed. Thats the whole point. This is like talking about "follow the money". Who profits of the destruction of this planet? Then do something against the root instead of telling individuals to use paper straws to save the environment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 08:50 AM
0	Gendered expectations for men are only retired in word, not reality The war being the root doesn't clear the second choice. Yes it does. Without the root the second choice wouldn't even exist. This is an entirely men made issue and you are trying to shift the responsibility towards people that have to deal with the consequences of this man made issue. Do men suffer from it? Yes absolutely. I dont deny that men are suffering from it. This again goes back that men are rather blame the consequences for their own systems on people that have to deal with the conseque…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 08:27 AM
–	The current gyno centric system will have to break in the next few decades This is the same post we have almost everyday here. I wish you guys were a bit more creative with the gender and dating topics instead of repeating the same bs over and over again which has been discussed a million times. Its like a broken record. 🥱	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 08:12 AM
-1	Gendered expectations for men are only retired in word, not reality Again. You are asking a state to sacrifice itself to fight a system that is a world wide issue. This is asking feminists to sacrifice everything because men on power dont want to stop killing each other. Why aren't you against the root of this issue which is the war itself instead of the consequences of this? This boils down to "what was she wearing".	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 08:08 AM
0	Gendered expectations for men are only retired in word, not reality Again. You are looking at it in a vacuum. Thats not how the world works. You are trying to blame feminists for a system that was build and kept up by men. We would have to overhaul the whole system for it to not affect other areas and thats not what the men in power want. Hate the game not the players.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 07:54 AM
0	Gendered expectations for men are only retired in word, not reality This is nonsense Great argument And ah yes. Because patriarchy works so well for everyone 🙄. Which is why we have this post that complains about how men are getting drafted into wars.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 07:51 AM
0	Gendered expectations for men are only retired in word, not reality A man started the war in a patriarchal system that men have to suffer in. You are expecting a state to hurt itself by trying to change the world that is run by men. You can call out the hypocrisy but it seems weird to only view it in a vacuum of personal responsibility when its a whole world wide system that is build to support this. Men are more than welcome to change every government into a equal one but the men in power are supported by other men in power because the patriarchy rewards the hi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 07:05 AM
0	Gendered expectations for men are only retired in word, not reality A woman in a position of power in a patriarchy has to follow the rules of the patriarchy to be in power. Thats the whole issue of the system that is in place. You only get into power in that kind of system if you play inside of the system.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 07:00 AM
-8	Gendered expectations for men are only retired in word, not reality As long as men are starting wars, men will sacrifice themselves to fight in them. You can't have one feminist state and then assume the whole world is working that way. We would need the whole world to be on the same page to actually have the same rights for everyone. As long as men are starting wars for stupid reasons there is no way for actual equality. This would have to be a worldwide effort. We could be there already but especially religious fanatics and crazy rich people love to divide bec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 06:29 AM
0	What % of your attraction to a man is physical and what % is everything else? Most people I see range from a 20% to a 60% physical attraction. Thata just your average dude. People below the 20% are completely out for me because they are instantly unattractive. If I interact with the average guy and his behaviour and personality is good he can easily gain %. A lot. Like a 20% guy can gain 40% by personality which makes him incredibly attractive. I had that happen before. Usually by them being very intelligent, articulated, funny, kind, etc. Then suddenly their physical app…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 06:16 AM
–	“Just be happy single” is easy advice when singledom is optional. Sadness over failure isn't feeling like your owed success. Bitterness is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 05:59 AM
–	“Just be happy single” is easy advice when singledom is optional. If you are bitter about something not being given to you you feel entitled because you assume you should have it. That is entitlement. You can be sad about not experiencing something without it turning into bitterness. The bitter part is what turns it into entitlement	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 05:48 AM
–	“Just be happy single” is easy advice when singledom is optional. Getting bitter about not getting it and blaming and insulting strangers and whole groups of people for not providing it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 05:41 AM
–	A question regarding chores and sexual altruism of men They would if its important. Can't just expect anyone to actually be like yourself and then be suprised they arent. While selecting a partner you even need to check for the absolute basics too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 05:38 AM
–	A question regarding chores and sexual altruism of men Most women assume men are competent adults just to realise thats not the case. Thats why everyone has to learn how to properly prioritise what is important 🤷	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 08:50 PM
–	A question regarding chores and sexual altruism of men That only comes up after you are already started dating. Sometimes only after you are moved in together.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 08:28 PM
–	A question regarding chores and sexual altruism of men My criteria for my partner was "be kind, view me as a friend, endulge in my kinks and sexual preferences". Thats exactly who I married. Women know they can't have everything and a lot of the times they have to compromise on certain things. There is no perfection. So you have to find someone that fulfills what you actually want in a partner. Very rarely anyone things "is this person cleaning the way I want them to clean?" Unless it is a very specific want of someone it is probably kind of low on …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 07:22 PM
11	Why do women on this sub seem to consider pregnancy to never be worth it. Exactly. That is the point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 07:03 PM
15	Why do women on this sub seem to consider pregnancy to never be worth it. I will not educate you on the current state of the world and why I think it isn't a good idea to bring more people into this. If you want to have children you are welcome to. I won't stop you. But I made my choice and I am very clear about being the end of my bloodline for multiple reasons. Having children doesn't outweigh any of the negatives I am observing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 06:55 PM
0	Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠 I don't care to educate you. I said my pieces on your original point where you wanted to call out women for not competing for undervalued and unpaid labour they had to participate. You keep shifting the topic along and I have no interest in further talking about this with you. Have a nice day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 06:32 PM
17	Why do women on this sub seem to consider pregnancy to never be worth it. I see no reason to bring a life into this world. Its not even the pregnancy itself that I worry about. Its everything else. I don't look at this world and think "oh yeah, bringing another person into this is a good idea because they will have an amazing life full of happiness". When I talked with my mother about not having children in my 20s - she said she didn't even consider not having children as an option. I have this option. She said if she would have the choice today she would also decide …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 06:18 PM
2	Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠 The richest woman in the world got her money off marriage. This world has the riches man in the world because he got money from daddy. This isn't a gendered thing. Some men are paying taxes to raise children that aren’t theirs. So do women. I dont have children and still pay taxes. Because p ussy is a privilege that can be leveraged to ply open almost any door, granted for free, at birth. Pussy privilege is only a thing if you use your pussy. Men are born with their male privilege and are blind …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 06:01 PM
-1	Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠 Exactly this. At least now women can actually get paid and dont have to tip toe around the male ego just to survive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 05:55 PM
0	Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠 What does that have to do with anything? Is nurturing and caretaking compensated like the work men did? No. It was ridiculed and just expected. Women and men now get the same privileges of getting paid for the work they are doing. Thats all women wanted. This is why women had to compete with men and have to compete with men. Because society as a whole does not recognises unpaid labour as labour so women dont want to do it anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 05:18 PM
0	Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠 Women will do these things as soon as they get actually valued by society the same way evil middle management HR and stuff gets valued and compensated. Until then - nope.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 04:45 PM
–	Men who have a hard time getting laid, do you read romance novels? The issue with advices like this is that unsuccessful men will try to emulate what they see in porn or read in romance books. Which makes it cringe when they try to play these roles. Playing the part in a believable way means actually portraying it with someone that is attracted to them instead of playing the role for a stranger. If these things feel unnatural to themselves they will feel unnatural to others. Flirting and game is very rarely a "fake it till you make it" situation. At that point …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 12:26 PM
0	Why should men feel sympathy for women’s right to an abortion? We are talking about abortions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/26 02:37 PM
1	“Just be happy single” is easy advice when singledom is optional. Isnt that the same assumption as "just be happy"? Its the assumption of "its easy for you". My advice to people is to focus on the things they actually have control over and enjoy them and if there is love then that is a happy bonus instead of this all consuming goal that leaves you empty if you can't reach it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/26 12:32 PM
0	“Just be happy single” is easy advice when singledom is optional. Its not a sin wanting to be loved. Its a sin getting angry and bitter about not being handed the love you feel entitled to. Thats the difference. I was single for 5 years before I met my husband and I didn't expect to ever be in a relationship again until I met him. My perspective is coming from decentering relationships instead of an ivory tower. If all your focus is on circling around love and relationships you will be miserable if you dont get that. Whats the point? That is wasting so much ti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/26 12:27 PM
1	“Just be happy single” is easy advice when singledom is optional. You can crave something in your life. But that doesn't mean it should consume your every being. Thats the point of "just be happy single". You shouldn't be miserable about something that is outside of your control. You can mourn the loss of the life you aren't having and then move on. We have that with everything in life that we are making decisions about. There is no use becoming bitter and resentful about something because you feel the universe is refusing to hand you something. That is the fe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/26 12:18 PM
1	I'll never understand this female instinct to give it up to someone who already has it. What?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/26 11:13 AM
7	I'll never understand this female instinct to give it up to someone who already has it. Its almost like sex isnt a resource women are handing out. But rather a enjoyable activity people engage in that both get something out of. Why are some guys around here pretend that sex is a thing that you can hand out like money?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/26 10:56 AM
4	Why should men feel sympathy for women’s right to an abortion? There are a lot of people that have that mindset actually. And I rather not have children and people suffer if it can be prevented. I hate the idea of forcing someone into existence that is unwanted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/26 05:25 AM
2	Why should men feel sympathy for women’s right to an abortion? In my mind it is: if you are against abortions you just want more children as victims for the epstein class. You want to see children suffer or you actively want to harm children. Which makes you a terrible human being. Watch some of the videos of what these people are doing to children and then tell me again how you are okay with giving them more victims. We know they are having trafficking rings that make children from orphanages disappear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/26 04:03 AM
8	Too many men are obsessed with masculinity when it’s really they’re not acting like adults. I mean. RP specifically says women are the oldest children in the house. We have constantly threads about how women dont take responsibility and arent accountable 🤷	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/26 12:18 PM
7	Too many men are obsessed with masculinity when it’s really they’re not acting like adults. Tbf. I dont want to be an adult either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/26 11:30 AM
–	Should I give up on trying to get my girlfriend to orgasm? This is a very personal preference. And if you aren't okay with the idea of her NEVER orgasm then that's a deal breaker. You are together long enough to understand this is a pattern. And hoping it would change is unfair to her and to you. You can't force this and you have to make the decision to either be okay with it or it is a deal breaker. Its that simple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/26 09:23 AM
–	Should I give up on trying to get my girlfriend to orgasm? Personally I also dont always orgasm with my husband but he has no issue with it. I still enjoy the sex itself and I get lots out of it. OP said he doesn't enjoy his sex life if his partner doesn't orgasm. At the end of the day it is a incompatibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/26 09:14 AM
–	Should I give up on trying to get my girlfriend to orgasm? She needs to figure this out if she wants that. If she doesn't care about it, he shouldn't try to force it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/26 08:55 AM
–	Should I give up on trying to get my girlfriend to orgasm? If you are unsatisfied with your sex life if your partner doesn't orgasm then that is a incompatibility. If she says she is happy with your sex life but doesnt orgasm and now you want to change your sex life because she doesn't orgasm that might make her sex life worse. Which is also a incompatibility. Maybe she enjoys the effort you put in but you dont enjoy the effort if it doesn't give you the results you want. This would be a deal breaker for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/26 08:36 AM
1	Are you sure size doesn't matter? Its not about the size of the ship but rather the motion of the ocean.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/26 07:37 AM
6	How do you get women to understand they need to be more feminine? This could have actually be a interesting conversation on the balance of masculinity and femininity in a relationship and how to complete each other and give each other room to embrace certain characteristics that are defined via gender roles. Instead it is a baiting "how to train your bitch" post. Such low effort.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/26 06:43 AM
2	If a woman is not a 8/10 at least she is nobody dreamgirl I think its more of an excitement thing than a devotion thing. This is btw not a gendered issue. It also has to do with attachment styles. People that have issues with secure attachment tend to seek more excitement in their relationships to feel fulfilled. So if you are very devoted and secure in your attachment that can translate to someone with a insecure attachment as boring. Then these people will become complacent. So if you want to keep their attention you have to excited them a little bit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/26 08:45 AM
2	The ideal human society is 80% female and 20% male. Gonna be a lot of fridge moving for the 20%. They would be superman	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/26 05:53 AM
2	Women have delusions of grandeur in relationships 😂 there are some of these on here sometimes too. Usually as a response to one of the really bad ones.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/26 05:51 AM
-1	Women have delusions of grandeur in relationships It kind of devolves into that. If you want to enjoy your time here you pick and choose your topics or parts of topics and try to add your own opinions to it and debate on that. Otherwise there isnt much else around here 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/26 05:39 AM
-1	Women have delusions of grandeur in relationships Thats what this sub is about. Have you not read the description?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/26 05:28 AM
4	Women have delusions of grandeur in relationships I dont think its a delusion instead of a counter movement of minimising women's contributions. When I was growing up and even nowadays I was told as an insult "go to the kitchen and make me a sandwich". Men have been using typical domestic labour as insults and minimising the contributions women had in relationships forever. Even if a woman was the "home maker" and did everything domestic and social her contributions were seen as nothing because that is what she was supposed to do while men were…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/26 05:26 AM
1	"Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would work There is no point if, because you just state something wrong as if it is a fact. Have a good one too	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/26 04:44 AM
2	"Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would work No its not	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 05:31 PM
1	A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimum I find it kind of funny how this sudden realisation hits boys at puberty that maybe you should also be physically attracted to your partner. Do boys never observe their world?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 09:54 AM
1	A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimum I am a millennial and I am aware how blue pilled they are. Its ridiculous to assume looks mean absolutely nothing when it comes to attraction. At that point I am just assuming you are naive if you think that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 08:29 AM
1	A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimum Neurodynamic is just what I prefer to use as a term to neurodiverse. Blue pillers say women care about personality but not that its the only thing. Thats just what people hear that think in black and white.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 08:21 AM
–	Gender relationship are harmed by blank slatism Absolutely. This is why I think these blanket statements of "just accept its this" is wrong and misses sooo much nuance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 08:19 AM
1	A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimum Only because neurodynamic people don't understand nuanced and implied communication. Thats why BP is neurobasic advise. And neurodynamics think it is meant as black and white thinking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 08:09 AM
2	A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimum Its also "choose better" when he doesn't do the dishes properly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 08:08 AM
–	Gender relationship are harmed by blank slatism I might confuse you, but are you the same woman that feels weird about having an orgasm in front of her husband?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 07:50 AM
7	"Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would work Oxytocin isnt just deployed via long term relationships. You get oxytocin also from petting animals. Try not to downplay the complexity of this topic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 07:07 AM
10	Gender relationship are harmed by blank slatism The issue with nature vs nurture is that you can almost never 100% tell which is which. Especially when it comes to sex drives. It depends so much on environment, culture, nutrition, etc. That its hard to make a blank statement about anything. There are obviously biological differences but it is incredibly hard to tell how much any of that actually influences anything. We dont live in a vacuum. Pushing just one "truth" feels too simple for me personally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 06:47 AM
1	How do red pillers reconcile the war bride theory of politics with the fact that local women rarely fck migrant men? Because racial content is against the rules of this subreddit	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 06:15 AM
4	"Covenant Men" idea to solve the dating crisis... not that people would sign on, but it would work I agree with everything except point 1. Because just because you have casual sex doesnt mean your oxytocin receptors are being worn out. They are worn out by anything. They are lower in reception also in relationships so your body isn't responding as strong anymore. Thats what happens when you get out of the honeymoon phase. They also respond to aging which is why older people tend to feel lonlier because oxytocin doesn't hit as hard anymore. So the pair bonding stuff is a bit more complicated t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 06:14 AM
1	How do red pillers reconcile the war bride theory of politics with the fact that local women rarely fck migrant men? This is getting deleted for race baiting. Also germans are not majority blond, blue eyed and tall. That was just the idea of the perfect human by Hitler 🙄	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 05:51 AM
2	Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is Entitlement At this point you are just cherry picking which actions are supposed to present you and which ones doesn't. Actions are reflections of the person you are. Your words about who you are mean nothing. Let's say you claim to be a generous person. If you dont show that you shouldn't claim that. If a person wants a partner that is generous that has to be reflected in actions somehow. It all comes down to compatibility. And I say that as someone that doesnt care about the money thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/26 06:59 PM
–	Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is Entitlement So actions dont define who you are? Do you care about body count of a woman?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/26 06:39 PM
–	Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is Entitlement You didn't answer the question	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/26 05:13 PM
2	We shouldn't incentive young heterosexuals to have relationships, maybe the opposite I agree. But I'm an antinatalist. This isn't a mainstream idea. Especially on here where lonely men preach that everyone should be forced to couple up and procreate 🤷	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/26 03:37 PM
1	Independence is not as good as people make it out to be I would never do that too amazing pizza.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/26 12:59 PM
3	Fellas it isn’t a matter of women not being into you because of lack of moral character but seeing you as defective/incompetent The president of the United States has a lot of power but no competence. I dont think women are on mass attracted to him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/26 10:14 AM
2	Fellas it isn’t a matter of women not being into you because of lack of moral character but seeing you as defective/incompetent I dont think they are the same. Power means influence and authority. Competence just means effectiveness, skill and doing something well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/26 08:09 AM
2	Fellas it isn’t a matter of women not being into you because of lack of moral character but seeing you as defective/incompetent Are you confusing competence with power?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/26 07:13 AM
8	Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is Entitlement If you pay for a date you are showing who you are. Why are we pretending that actions aren't part of who you are?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/26 07:00 AM
2	A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimum Yes you do	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 08:42 PM
4	A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimum The first layer will be superficial because thats what you see first.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 08:37 PM
1	A lot of men do not believe women as a whole should have bodily autonomy, which can be proven by a simply hypothetical. So what is stopping you now from acting like a animal? Just the fear of punishment?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 07:56 PM
1	A lot of men do not believe women as a whole should have bodily autonomy, which can be proven by a simply hypothetical. Last without morals are anarchy	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 07:54 PM
2	A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimum How would you know the majority is superficial?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 07:54 PM
9	CMV: women find male sexuality disgusting No matter your sexuality. You dont want to be a part of it. Neither want women without consenting to it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 06:24 PM
8	A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimum If you have a checklist of 100 points, how likely are you to hit all points especially when some are more important than others?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 06:10 PM
10	CMV: women find male sexuality disgusting Do you feel comfortable if a much bigger man that is absolutely capable of overpowering you tells you what kind of sexual things he wants to do to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 06:01 PM
2	A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimum Eh. Remember that men and women are different 🤷	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 05:20 PM
10	CMV: women find male sexuality disgusting Yes it does.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 05:13 PM
1	A lot of men do not believe women as a whole should have bodily autonomy, which can be proven by a simply hypothetical. I dont think thats civilised. But you are entitled to your own opinion	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 05:00 PM
2	A lot of men do not believe women as a whole should have bodily autonomy, which can be proven by a simply hypothetical. Thats a very reductionary way to look at humans isnt it? What other animal has the idea of morals or philosophy in general?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 04:59 PM
2	A lot of men do not believe women as a whole should have bodily autonomy, which can be proven by a simply hypothetical. Do you think humans have to be reduced to animalistic instincts despite the fact that they are aware of philosophy and things like bodily autonomy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 03:55 PM
4	A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimum Who is telling you the only bar that is rising is the superficial one?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 03:51 PM
2	A lot of men do not believe women as a whole should have bodily autonomy, which can be proven by a simply hypothetical. I will wait	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 02:57 PM
2	A lot of men do not believe women as a whole should have bodily autonomy, which can be proven by a simply hypothetical. So you would argue against womens autonomy if you dont get a mate?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 02:10 PM
11	A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimum Its getting there. Its a slow process to decenter others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 02:09 PM
2	A lot of men do not believe women as a whole should have bodily autonomy, which can be proven by a simply hypothetical. You wouldn't have a mate to protect	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 02:06 PM
20	A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimum If men keep telling women that her choices are wrong is it suprising that the bar keeps getting higher and higher? And then we get men complaining about women having too high of standards and are delusional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 01:55 PM
19	CMV: women find male sexuality disgusting Consent. The difference is consent. I am absolutely perfectly happy with my husbands sexuality towards me. I encourage it. I embrace it. I love it. A strangers sexuality pushed onto me? Not so much. I dont consent to be part of someone else's sexuality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 01:52 PM
2	A lot of men do not believe women as a whole should have bodily autonomy, which can be proven by a simply hypothetical. What if you are one of the 3 that dont have a mate?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 01:50 PM
15	A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimum Are we pretending like this isn't a thread about how womens options and choices get judged negatively no matter what?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 01:41 PM
2	A lot of men do not believe women as a whole should have bodily autonomy, which can be proven by a simply hypothetical. But technically the men that want to take womens bodily autonomy arent a threat to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 01:40 PM
1	A lot of men do not believe women as a whole should have bodily autonomy, which can be proven by a simply hypothetical. Isn't it weird the that the only solution acceptable to morality is violence? Isn't that counter productive to morality?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 01:29 PM
1	A lot of men do not believe women as a whole should have bodily autonomy, which can be proven by a simply hypothetical. Do you think it feels like a lose lose because technically they aren't an issue for men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 01:27 PM
3	A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimum Shouldn't bare minimum mean "good enough" instead of "trash fire desperation"? Maybe thats where the issue of men and women comes in when it comes to the discussion about bare minimum...	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 01:26 PM
2	A lot of men do not believe women as a whole should have bodily autonomy, which can be proven by a simply hypothetical. Why? Also what wont I acknowledge?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 01:03 PM
3	A lot of men do not believe women as a whole should have bodily autonomy, which can be proven by a simply hypothetical. Do you think every disagreement results in violence between men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 12:58 PM
2	A lot of men do not believe women as a whole should have bodily autonomy, which can be proven by a simply hypothetical. What makes it a lose lose situation?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 12:55 PM
6	A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimum There was a content creator that made a series about how men dont wipe their ass properly which results in the brown streaks in their underwear. The men in his comments said that was normal because wiping too much is gay. You see where the issue is with the bare minimum?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 12:54 PM
5	A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimum So hygiene isn't part of your bare minimum or do you automatically count that in attractiveness? Because here we already start to see how if we get a tiny bit into the topic suddenly details about the bare minimum start to become important.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 12:48 PM
0	A lot of men do not believe women as a whole should have bodily autonomy, which can be proven by a simply hypothetical. I think it would be more like 1 guy would say that women shouldn't have rights, 2 would kind of agree with him but wouldn't say it out loud themselves, 4 would just say nothing, 2 would grumble something how thats probably not cool to say and 1 would absolutely lay into him what a horrible person he is. There is a bell curve of morality. Not just for men but also for women. Technically there is a bell curve for basically everything and most people would be in the middle and average. Which in thi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 12:37 PM
10	A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimum Is cleanliness the same for you as hygiene?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 12:25 PM
17	A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimum How would you define the bare minimum, because at this point there seems absolutely no consensus on what it is and sometimes its such miniscule things that then become a 100 points checklist. At what point does the bare minimum becomes less of a bare minimum?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 11:23 AM
34	A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimum The other day a woman on here was complaining how her husband doesn't properly clean the pots and pans. Guys on here told her she needs to divorce and choose better. And then we get threads like this that complain how a man has to be perfect and the bare minimum isn't the bare minimum and how everything gets thrown away over small things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 07:55 AM
44	A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimum There we go. "Choose better".	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 07:00 AM
48	A woman's "bare minimum" is never just the bare minimum Thats what happens when you make someone responsible for the failing of others. If women complain about a certain behaviour of men the advice is always "choose better". Of course this raises the bar infinitely. I dont understand why that is suprising.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 06:43 AM
3	Who's worse: a man who pays for sex or a man who lies to get laid?? Both are just viewing a woman as a means to an end. They dont see women as humans but as a product they can get by certain ways. Anyone that sees another human as that is just bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/26 06:00 AM
1	Why do women expect absolute perfection from a man? Because patriarchy told women that men are protectors and providers. Feminism told women they need someone compatible. If you mix the two you get a checklist with a lot of boxes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/26 07:46 PM
9	Why doesn't accurate information bring women more comfort Then you just get into whataboutism and that also doesnt help. The pink tax isnt just about the exact same product marketed for men and women. The pink tax is also products that only women have to buy like female hygiene products which men dont have to. Then men can say "sure you have to spend more money on hygiene but I need to spend more money on food because I need more calories based on my BMR". At that point you are just trying to argue nothing. The playing games thing isn't about how much …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/26 03:30 PM
26	Why doesn't accurate information bring women more comfort Bias, solipsism, history, victim mentality, actual victimization, knowledge of how flawed a lot of studies actually are, etc. Lots of reasons. This is also not a gendered thing. Do you think men that are completely sexless find it comforting to know that a minority of people dont have sex? Do you think a couple in a dead bedroom finds it comforting that dead bedrooms are statistically rare and usually couples have sex once a week? Do you think a woman that has been raped finds it comforting that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/26 03:16 PM
6	Women, what if the problem isn’t men, but the criteria you use to choose them? I think a lot of men aren't capable of actually tapping into the emotional maturity that a lot of women are craving while simultaneously generating excitement. And to be fair - it is kind of exhausting trying to be everything. Because women need safety and stability while also excitement to stay sexual. This is a very tough act to balance when it doesnt come natural to you. And then when men are feeling burned out from something they have to fake they drop down and women wonder why they stopped …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/26 09:39 AM
1	Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding. Oh boo hoo As soon as you start anything like this I wont further engage in any discussion anymore because at this point there is no point debating. Now it just turns into emotional bad faith ranting instead of actual discussion. Have a good day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/26 08:21 AM
2	Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding. Why should women care if men call women hoes and whores, right? Because men have a history of violence against women especially the ones they deem unworthy. This is why comparing men's expression of frustration and womens expression of frustration isnt the same. Women that are frustrated with men avoid men. Men that are frustrated with women still want to use women. If the women said "a man that makes me feel good" then they would also be talking about an internal feeling, but they say "good men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/26 07:39 AM
1	Men had their Enlightenment in the 17th and 18th centuries. Women’s may be about to come I think Godzilla is like the dinosaurs from jurassic Park. It can change its sex based on what it needs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/26 05:54 AM
2	Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding. You'll also rarely see men who say they want peace, who then go chase women who talk non-stop and stir up drama. Then why are men complaining about the women that chase criminals (who are definitely drama) when they say they want peace? Why do they care? Also the idea that this just because someone states they want to be in a certain state of being makes it universal to just say "peace" when the actions to achieve this kind of state can vary a lot from men to men so what "peace" actually looks l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/26 05:48 AM
2	Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding. Taste is different than the definition of a social system. Although you need to have a certain understanding for everything to be able to communicate your thoughts properly. Now we are just coming to the issue of linguistic and the different meaning of words. Thats not a gendered issue. Because when you ask men what they want in women they will say "peace" and they all have different ideas what that exactly looks like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/26 04:55 AM
1	How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man? Dating is supposed to be fun Why can't you just enjoy yourself?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 06:32 PM
1	How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man? Maybe you wont become a parent. Nothing is guaranteed in life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 06:29 PM
1	How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man? I'm too focused on the destination, but I don't do things to experience the act of getting to the thing I wanted. When the destination is depending on someone else getting you there trying to repeat something over and over again without changing the destination and without getting there is just insanity. Maybe the focus then needs to be on the first thing as destination instead of trying to force to get to the goal far down the line.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 06:16 PM
2	Men should not be seeking dating advice from women Here is a some actual advice: Instead of asking random people for advice figure out who you are, how you want to actually show up in relationships, what you are looking for in a partner and what your deal breakers are. Then actually hold up those standards and show up as who you are instead of trying to portrait this generic caricature of someone that has no backbone because he is just a amalgamation of different advices in the hopes anyone will love him if he is just moldable enough. There is n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 06:11 PM
1	How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man? Why would you frame something out of your control as a failure? Failure itself is just a social concept and only if you define something like it. What you define as failure others could define as success or a lesson. It depends on the framing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 06:03 PM
1	How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man? Its not a failure because there are things in life you can't control. No matter how hard you try.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 05:29 PM
3	CMV: Young women despise young men in the context of relationships The incels are currently groomed into soldiers for ww3.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 05:28 PM
3	Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding. Because I dont think this is about bad apples or intentional misdirect or being malicious. There is generic advice. There is learned advice. There is specific advice. And I understand that the nuance can be frustrating especially when it comes to socialising and romantic interactions. Especially for people struggling with these things. I think the main issue comes from the idea that for a long time everything was forced into just certain roles. And this started splitting more and more and more o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 05:21 PM
3	Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding. I am confused what is supposed to be done about "mixed signals in the context of dating"? I could denounce that hypocrisy is an issue and most people are hypocrites at some point or another. We have examples of that all the time. "Do as I say, not as I do" comes to mind. It happens on every single scale of human interaction. Not sure how that is connected to cops and systemic policing. That seems to be a totally different issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 05:01 PM
5	Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding. Big ick energy 🤢	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 04:56 PM
0	Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding. I mostly just brought the example that this contradiction isnt a gendered issue. Even if we say nobody is like someone else - there is also the thing where people change or dont react how they expect to react to things. Emotions are a very complicated thing. For everyone. I often think I would know how I would react to certain things and then I react much different and am suprised by my own reaction. For example: the other day a actor died that I liked a lot. I thought I was prepared for it beca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 04:09 PM
4	The Scum manifesto has some good points… I once read a mini story of a cannibal that skinned his victims and cooked them and then used the skin as wallpaper for his place. Similarly flowery language is used in this as it was in the short story. Similarly nauseating. Thanks, I hate it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 02:29 PM
7	Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding. You want something and then not anymore because you decide you want something else. Its either contradiction or just flaky	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 02:25 PM
3	Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding. Seems contradicting to me. But if you say so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 01:48 PM
16	Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding. Men will say they want a equal partner in life and then cheat with the woman that is 10 years younger and has nothing. True story many many times over.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 01:17 PM
5	There are no free good men I was debating with a guy on here a while ago. He told me women need to stay virgins to get one of the high value men. After some back and forth he admitted that only a small minority of men are actually good. After asking for a percentage he told me he thinks only like 10% of men are actually good high value partners and thats why women should stay virgins because these guys will want to have a virgin. Not even men believe there is a big demographic of high value men. So yeah. I agree. There ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 01:11 PM
65	Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding. Surprisingly. Not all women want the same things. This is not a thing about "mixed signals", this is a thing about expectation and how the assumption is that all women should think and feel identical.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 09:18 AM
2	How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man? Yes. That happens. Around 65% of people own their homes. The other percentage dont. Depending on ages the percentages vary. Same with relationships and sex. Life isn't liner. And there is no guarantee for anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 09:12 AM
2	How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man? If many men have 0% of the same experiences as other people that means they arent the only ones not having the same experiences as other people. At that point we can agree that it is actually a much more common experiences to not have the same experiences as others. So what is the issue? Is it feeling that you should be able to have the same experiences as other people despite many others not having the same experiences? Dunno what to say to the assholeness sentence since it has nothing to do wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 08:14 AM
4	How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man? The reverse question is actually not necessary. Men keep answering over and over the same things. They would have lots of sex with chad and sell their body on OF and then settle for a BB when they want children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 08:02 AM
3	How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man? They could get out of the relationship if they wanted to try and have that happen in their 40s. Lots of men are replacing their wifes when they have a midlife crisis. It all comes down to the choices you make.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 07:52 AM
2	How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man? You will never ever have 100% the same experiences as other people. That is not how life works. And this fomo thinking is just making your own life more miserable. Make the best of the life you are actually living without this constant comparison to other people. Everything else is just self pity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 07:51 AM
2	How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man? Yeah. People that decided to be in a monogamous relationship early would also miss out on that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 07:43 AM
1	How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man? Society also tells you if you aren't working hard enough you are a failure. Societal programming is a cancer. I hope at some point we can free ourselves from these expectations and just live a life that makes us feel good without performing to a random standard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 07:41 AM
4	How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man? I wanted to be a fashion designer when I was a kid. I wanted to be a jewelry maker when I was a teenager. I wanted to never have a car accident. I wanted to never experience sexual assault. I wanted to do more traveling in my youth. I wanted to be done with my university quicker. I wanted my self employment to be successful. You can want whatever. And you can try to make things work. But some things are out of your control for one reason or another. Being bitter about it helps no one. Life doesn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 07:22 AM
3	How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man? I get that it can be frustrating not to experience something that is perceived as a "normal" path of life. But I find it weird to see that as a failure. Life isn't just one set path of experiences. There are so many things you can feel like you missed out on or you had to make certain choices but that doesn't change reality and trying to just make the best of what you have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 07:16 AM
5	How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man? What do you mean "failed"? Thats not failure thats just life. If I lost my virginity at 26 then I would've lost it at 26. I would still live my life. There is no guarantee for anything. You do your best, you try to enjoy the way of life as best as possible and you deal with everything as it happens.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 06:20 AM
3	Would you truly enjoy and appreciate arelationship that goes against gender norms of men providing and protecting? Thats pretty much my relationship. Although I think my husband would protect me if necessary. But other than that we are just friends that are also intimate. We spend equal. Neither of us expects to spend on the other. He has very expensive hobbies he spends his money on which is perfectly fine. He doesnt wear make up but he goes to the barbers at least once a month to get his hair and beard trimmed. I am married to exactly what I wanted to be. An equal partner and friend that shares my sexual p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 04:51 AM
2	How would you have wanted your dating life to be if you were born a man? Probably similar to how my dating life as a woman went. Had my first relationship experiences as a teen or at least some casual flirting. It would be so much easier because I wouldn't have to worry for my safety all the time. Go to university. Go to parties and have some casual flirts and flings. Maybe a random relationship here and there if it happens it happens. Trying to find something more long term, stable in my late 20s/early 30s via hobbies. Although with the freedom a guy has I would've …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 04:33 AM
2	Hypergamy is serious topic that woke and bluepilled people uncomfortable and they are unwilling to take seriously, analyze, and discuss the issue. Sure. I am 2 years older than him anyway. I never cared about income or anything. Its nice that he has a drivers license and a job now, but I never pushed him to get either. It was mostly for his own comfort. Again. I never wanted children so for me the connection was always more important than anything else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/26 02:29 PM
4	Male puberty needs to be celebrated This is very culture dependant. Both my brother and I had "youth consecration" (Jugendweihe) when we turned 14. Which was celebrated as like a step from childhood into adulthood. We had a family party and we both got some money gifted. If you have a Christian religion in germany you usually have a thing called "Konfirmation". Similar situation except its more religious. Most of these traditions are based on religious practices. Nowadays it feels weird to celebrate it because it isn't really a st…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/26 02:25 PM
1	Hypergamy is serious topic that woke and bluepilled people uncomfortable and they are unwilling to take seriously, analyze, and discuss the issue. he was 26.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/26 02:12 PM
1	If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more. Natural selection instead of the inflated breeding the patriarchy has done for centuries. It will balance out again. This is just the transition phase between forced coupling to natural. It sucks for the people right now but it will become more natural again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/26 11:08 AM
1	If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more. Half of men are in relationships. This only affects unselected men and they are isolated anyway	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/26 10:29 AM
17	Women don't suffer from loneliness Love how we are now gatekeeping emotions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/26 10:14 AM
1	If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more. So nothing changes anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/26 10:09 AM
10	Independence is not as good as people make it out to be I dont need pizza in my life. But I still want pizza because my life is better with pizza. Same with my husband.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/26 05:42 AM
0	If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more. I wonder how many of you have actually ever stepped up when someone needed help.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/26 05:29 AM
2	If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more. So this whole thread is just a rant	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 09:58 PM
2	If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more. Then bad people walk away and good people help. That can be men or women. We already know that. So nothing changes	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 09:56 PM
1	If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more. Help for what? Most people just keep walking anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 09:49 PM
0	If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more. How does "more selfish" actually looks like in this context for men? I was looking at the comments and you keep talking about voting, movements and protection. What does all of that actually look like in action?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 09:38 PM
4	Red Pill men: Why do you want to settle down with women if they're so bad? Im tired of the condescending way you are talking to me. If you cant have a normal conversation talking about your boundaries and where your lines are when someone is curious about that, I wont further engage with you. We could've had a completely normal and productive conversation to help me easier understand the male perspective but your answers keep devolving into attacks and disrespect. I hope you are a better communicator in your relationship. Have a good one	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 02:52 PM
6	Red Pill men: Why do you want to settle down with women if they're so bad? Whats the point where it turns into butt heads and arguing? Like you said she shouldn't be egotistical and grateful if you pay rent. If she says "I don't like this thing you did" do you see that as ungrateful because she should be happy you pay rant or is that not arguing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 02:42 PM
4	Red Pill men: Why do you want to settle down with women if they're so bad? Appreciate what someone does and their limits and don't constantly butt heads and look to argue about everything. That's it, it's that simple But you also said to have adult conversations about things that someone isn't okay with. That was my point. Do you have a specific line from where it turns from "adult conversation" to "buzz heads and looking to argue"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 02:36 PM
0	Does anyone care that dating is better now for women? Friends has 10 seasons and aired for 10 years. Should be enough material to recognise how shitty he was. It also had millions of people talking and comparing notes on him. Maybe people should come with reviews and ratings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 02:33 PM
1	Does anyone care that dating is better now for women? Yep.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 02:04 PM
10	Red Pill men: Why do you want to settle down with women if they're so bad? I dont know why you are responding to me so agressive when I am asking follow up questions. Especially when you didn't even answer my original question properly. Because I asked what a woman is supposed to do and you answered with things she is not supposed to do. Since you couldn't answer properly I have to work around to understand how that works. What do you expect when you arent properly replying to the things I ask. I will then have follow up questions. You are also replying to things that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 02:03 PM
4	Red Pill men: Why do you want to settle down with women if they're so bad? I am responding in good faith. I am asking follow up questions. So if you pay her rent she should not complain about anything in the relationship? What if you dont pay her rent and dont buy her stuff or is that just something that you are automatically doing in a relationship?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 01:53 PM
2	Does anyone care that dating is better now for women? Its so funny how people are defending Ross. He was one of the prototype nice guys that men always made fun of and he turned into the beta bux simp that RP made fun of. He was a walking red flag parade. He was a exhausting character. Is the bar really that low nowadays?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 01:50 PM
6	Red Pill men: Why do you want to settle down with women if they're so bad? Isn't the second paragraph kind of contradicting the first one? If she tells you things she is not happy with isnt that kind of egotistical and argumentative?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 01:39 PM
1	Women couldn’t even begin to understand what real loneliness is Great conversation. Have a good day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 12:22 PM
2	Women couldn’t even begin to understand what real loneliness is Maybe because I don't connect sex and loneliness with each other. You can have either. But I do know that if you refuse to acknowledge that the other gender even feels loneliness, which can be translated into "othering" the other gender, it can easily turn into objectification which has historically roots in pretty brutal practices in medicine. Which people even nowadays still suffer the consequences from.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 11:30 AM
5	Women couldn’t even begin to understand what real loneliness is Which topic? Loneliness of men vs women or how I use generalisations? Because you were the first one to derail the topic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 11:02 AM
2	Women couldn’t even begin to understand what real loneliness is I see. Frustration it is. I hope you feel better now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 10:57 AM
5	Women couldn’t even begin to understand what real loneliness is I saw the post. I read the post. I commented how this line of thinking has historical implications and how it has already affected people in the past. You came in and tried to make it personal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 10:56 AM
5	Women couldn’t even begin to understand what real loneliness is Do you want me to actually engage in your ragebait or do you just want to write out your frustration to make yourself feel better?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 10:43 AM
6	Women couldn’t even begin to understand what real loneliness is Do you actually have anything to say to my points or do you just want to try to do a "waahh but you use generalisations!"? Have you seen me make a thread that says "men can't even begin to understand what real lonliness feels like"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 10:40 AM
6	Women couldn’t even begin to understand what real loneliness is Whataboutism	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 10:18 AM
16	Red Pill men: Why do you want to settle down with women if they're so bad? Can you be less generic? Is she just sitting on your sofa doing nothing so she doesnt rock the boat? What actions is a woman supposed to do to make you feel the way you want to feel in a relationship?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 09:10 AM
15	Women couldn’t even begin to understand what real loneliness is Did we move on from "women arent straight" to "women dont feel emotions"? These kinds of lines of thinking turn women into "others" which makes it easer to not view them as humans, which makes it easier to use violence against them. This is the same kind of line of logic medicine used for POC and women. The idea that they "don't feel pain" was a wide spread issue for the longest time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 09:00 AM
13	Red Pill men: Why do you want to settle down with women if they're so bad? How would you say a woman provides stability and makes your life easier? What are the actions that make you feel that way?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 08:28 AM