| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 11 | “Free yourselves from the bondage of male validation” -@sheenie_weenie_, 2021 ADRape culture is so mainstream now I am literally starting to become SCARED to go outside on the real | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 04:02 PM |
| 53 | “don’t protect women, teach men how to behave!” 👏🏽 this brown queen is spitting FACTS! I wish more people in Desi culture adopted this mentalityGirl no she didn’t tell them to go! Go away!” Like the dogs they are 😂 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 05:47 PM |
| 10 | 👑 Listening to this on repeat! It’s valid for me to happiest single. Marriage and babies don’t have to be my life goals 👑She said MARRIAGE is a part of patriarchial norms...not companionship. Marriage is literally based off of men owning women. You can still seek out companionship without wanting to be a part of the traditionally oppressive construct that is marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 05:45 PM |
| 9 | 👑 Listening to this on repeat! It’s valid for me to happiest single. Marriage and babies don’t have to be my life goals 👑No it’s not. It’s a circumstance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 05:43 PM |
| 4 | MeN aRe ViSuAl CrEaTuReS is a lieBwahahahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 10:00 PM |
| 51 | Do women have bad taste in men, or are men just terrible people?I think it’s a little of both; in that there are very few decent men left, and a whole LOOOOT of horrible men to “choose” from....The pickins are slim. So a lot of women just take what they can get and then complain. But no one is forcing her to give that man the time of day. So she’s CHOOSING to be with a tryflin man. In other words, there are very few QUALITY men (in comparison to quality women) out there, but that doesn’t mean we have to pick them. If you start a vehicle and notice it doesn’t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 01:11 AM |
| 20 | Why being single is preferable over dating for many women- especially when unlearning pickme behaviours.I just got out of my first relationship (I’m 32-years old) and honestly I never had to deal with any of this, lol. Sounds miserable! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 08:55 PM |
| 10 | Just me?Me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 03:47 PM |
| -9 | She's in a "traditional marriage" but works full time AS WELL AS acting like his servant... Someone save this womanSounds like she doesn’t mind it 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 02:29 PM |
| 4 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.I dont even like that, tbh. Ain’t no “I THINK you’re mistaken. He’s just straight up MISTAKEN. To be firm and assertive is to do away with terms like, “I think” and “that was still sweet of you” because neither of them are true and it shows that you’re not clear or confident in what you’re saying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 02:01 AM |
| 6 | Being single is not an insultThey’re EVERYWHERE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 09:25 PM |
| 4 | Client Sent Me A Nude At WorkOh I hate everything god this is so disgusting The managers reaction more than the so-called client | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 06:18 PM |
| -1 | "Why didn't she say no?" BECAUSE YOU DON'T EVER TAKE NO AS AN ANSWER.The OP made it seem like she knows what this guy is capable of and continues to hand out with him. Why “hang out” with someone that makes you feel uncomfortable? And if it’s like that for all men, stop hanging out with men. It’s not victim-blaming..it’s self-love. When you love yourself, you don’t waste your beautiful finite energy with people who you don’t get anything out of or people who make you feel uncomfortable. Who has time to be ducking and dodging folks or feeling anything but FREE at … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 07:44 PM |
| 8 | "Why didn't she say no?" BECAUSE YOU DON'T EVER TAKE NO AS AN ANSWER.A gun or knife is even better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 06:43 PM |
| 29 | "Why didn't she say no?" BECAUSE YOU DON'T EVER TAKE NO AS AN ANSWER.My only question is, Why would you even hang out with someone like this? I hate that men in general have become such BEASTS that she feels that uncomfortable in their presence. If it were me, I’d refuse to be “hanging out” with any of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Not a ring but a commitment gift to myself anyways. 2021 I cherish and put myself first.That’s a gorgeous watch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Got a ring as a commitment to myself. I will never put my needs and desires aside, I will live life on my own terms, and always value myself and know my worth.Gorgeous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 03:15 AM |
| 4 | If you catch feelings easily, this might help! Stay strong! >:)Bwahahahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 01:28 AM |
| 25 | Girlfriend pranks boyfriend by leaving porn open on his laptop, while knowing he also watches porn. The way he reacts shows that men know how that it’s wrong to be placed in second place sexually.Wow they are both so ridiculous I can’t even imagine living as either of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:14 PM |
| 14 | “Should I wait around for crumbs? He says he likes me, tho”Why are you still there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 01:35 PM |
| 0 | Interesting video: Most men are gay-ish... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 01:03 PM |
| 8 | What Living With a LVM Looks LikeOh that’s horrible. When is he (or you) moving out? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 01:44 AM |
| 9 | Where's the lie though?Bwahaha! This is so true. I’ve always hated this saying cuz it’s like , “So you’ve been treating your wife/girlfriend like crap all this time?” I’d feel so disrespected if this were my husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 09:02 PM |
| 14 | Online: Keeping a Relationship Private vs. a Secret?He posts me all the time and always has me on his profile photo. I, on the other hand, never post him and he’s complained a bit before. I do feel sort of awful about this because I know it means something to him (to be posted about,) but I just don’t feel like getting married right now. And I think when/if I post someone online, I’d like to be married or at least engaged with a date set first. 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 12:02 AM |
| 29 | Digital boundaries are just as important as ones IRL!!They love this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 06:12 PM |
| 23 | Louder for the ladies in the back.Yeah he’s just not interested. It’s okay | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 08:26 PM |
| 20 | Should we strategize with sex even in a committed & healthy/fulfilling relationship?I can’t answer the first part but I just wanna to to say that those Tik Tok videos have to be fake. They react like they’ve never seen her naked before. As far as The sex thing, I honestly think that if you make it about your satisfaction, everything else will literally fall in place. He will recognize that you’re fulfilling your own needs. But if you’re Having sex just because, and it doesn’t feel special to you, I would guess that could come across in the vibe. Obviously if he is not continuin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 03:13 AM |
| 21 | That’s so grossHahah Yesssssss Make him stop AND think | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 10:18 PM |
| 8 | Being with a good woman is a privilege!You don’t have to put up with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 04:59 AM |
| 18 | Why are men so unattractive (cough cough UGLY) in comparison to women on dating appsIt’s to the point where when you see a man who looks groomed, you automatically wondering if he’s gay. Because those are the only ones who take care of themselves nowadays. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 04:23 AM |
| 4 | Men need to stop projecting their personal rejections onto women. Like shut the fuck up already bro!!I def get Michael Jackson vibes in the first pic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 11:54 PM |
| 12 | Men need to stop projecting their personal rejections onto women. Like shut the fuck up already bro!!He ain’t right for that hair | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 08:26 PM |
| 3 | The Bible has arrived! Something in this book made me not regret giving chances to low value men occasionally . Let me explainNice. "go to the cash register where it's a man..." LOL! That's funny, something I never thought about! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 07:57 PM |
| 7 | The Bible has arrived! Something in this book made me not regret giving chances to low value men occasionally . Let me explainYou just need to be disposed to receive and not be the proactive one. If you like him, RECEIVE what he’s offering! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 01:53 AM |
| 2 | I'm not wrongI have asthma so no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 01:44 AM |
| 15 | Found on r/witchesvspatriarcyI will never forget the day. My next-door neighbor and her so-called husband had a baby boy just several months after their first son. There was a huge shower ( and probably 100 gifts) for the first baby, and a few months later, when she had the second one, This time, there was no baby shower and I guess she didn’t get much attention/gifts this time around so she posted on Facebook: “Good thing my husband is going to take care of our second baby. Because nobody got him anything. Thank God for my… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 01:16 AM |
| 2 | [Discussion] What are your deal breakers, and why?Surely this woman has done her research before bringing her kids into it. Why would you even? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 01:03 AM |
| 13 | Can we not with this in 2020. All of this makes me vom.Her nails been waiting as long as she has | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 12:49 AM |
| 3 | You deserve to be lovedI feel the same. And I also felt like he was always romanticizing marriage as this happily ever after fairy tale when it’s not 100% likethat...it’s hard work. He grew up in a single-parent household and just saw married couples from afar, so he was always fascinated with his friends lives who had both parents and to this day, he tells the stories of going over their house and watching them interact just like the small kid he once was. He doesn’t seem to acknowledge the REAL / GRITTY side of livi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 03:36 PM |
| 33 | To the men that call us ‘entitled princesses’ 👸That about sums it up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 03:13 PM |
| 37 | Who ages like milk, again? Gwen Stefani vs Blake SheltonSo it seems he’s never been handsome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 02:54 PM |
| 11 | You deserve to be lovedI found this. Well, he found me... but I could never get past his finances. He wanted to be a husband (and eventually a father..urrgh kids) but he couldn’t provide. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 06:47 AM |
| 10 | Can We Talk About Lesbian Pickmeishas who are always outraged on behalf of men and have “advice” for straight women that’s always about settling for less? They are NOT your friends.Most lesbians I know have been hurt by men and do not cape for them. Issa troll. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 06:39 AM |
| 23 | Man (29) laments that his coworker (40F) won’t give him a chance because he is 11 years younger than her, is looking for advice on how to get her to give him a chance.I can tell he’s unattractive and also lame because he said, “it’s not fair.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 06:35 AM |
| 23 | In response to r/BlackPeopleTwitter praising men getting sex without taking women out on dates/belittling women who want more than coffee & soda dates. The male view on women who are male Twitter's ideal woman (one who doesn't expect anything or have standards), straight from the horse's mouth.It’s been said here, but I just want to reiterate that this is still a man that even the highest value woman would want to steer clear of. I always want to know exactly how a man has treated the women in his past because if a person has that little respect for another human being and refuses to afford her any dignity, it says a lot about himself. Let’s say you are the dream woman that he has been so-called saving his high-value self for all his life, he pulls out all the stops for you, and you e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 06:26 AM |
| 70 | TLDR; 38F quits her job and moves across the country for a 46S just to be used for sex. My heart genuinely breaks for this lady. (From Askwomenover30)Why do people discuss kids without discussing marriage like they’re not an even bigger commitment that you can’t hop out of? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 05:49 AM |
| 21 | As requested: a medical professional explains why you should not be having anal sex.Ok, I used the wrong term with my “waiting for marriage” self but I hope y’all still get my point! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 03:54 AM |
| 62 | As requested: a medical professional explains why you should not be having anal sex.I guess I’m the only one gets gay vibes when a man is obsessed with “hittin it from the back.” That’s really the only way two gay men can have intercourse, and it literally ignores a woman’s vagina. I’d feel weirded out by a man who insists or is too excited about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 02:23 AM |
| 12 | What are some little known traits of HVMs that are not mentioned very often?Paid off (and clean) car | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 02:10 AM |
| 50 | Can I request a nurse to be present with my male gyno?Yes, and that’s weird that a nurse is not already present. I have a woman gyno , and even she always has another person present when we are doing a procedure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Married to a HVM, but in limbo about wanting to leave. Help.Just because he’s not doing anything wrong doesn’t mean he’s doing it RIGHT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 02:18 PM |
| 9 | Reminder #46368 keep your sexual history to yourself- American Olympian Lolo Jones talks about her virginity with Kevin HartI am a 31 year old virgin as well, and though I see nothing wrong with it, to tell the whole world serves absolutely no purpose at all. It’s just not anyone’s business except your doctor and the person you’re vetting for marriage. Sorry, Lolo Jones is crazy and that has nothing to do with her virginity. She seems to just use it for attention, as if she’s not talented or something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 02:07 AM |
| 6 | And this is somebody who asked me to send him TWO (!!) body shots of myself! The audacity!! Moobs and bald head! And he wants a body shot to make sure I’m skinny enough for him lmaoDid you tell him about himself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 01:12 PM |
| 5 | I feel bad for rejecting a HVM years ago just because he wasn’t ambitious . Does this make me weird or a pick me? Please I’m really lostHow can he be a high value man with little ambition? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 01:18 AM |
| 12 | Getting DMs from angry guys 1 day after joining this sub.Wooo chyle I can’t believe you had the energy to reply | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 04:13 AM |
| 4 | We don’t date based on potential. Who is he TODAY, sis?Would it still be considered a LVM if he is kind, compassionate, treats you like you’re the only woman in the world, but you can’t see him as a husband because his financial health is ailing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 12:47 AM |
| 8 | Seen on FB. My LVM ex used to make me give him my card/cash so he could look like he was paying for our date.Yooooooo 😂😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 04:58 AM |
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