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Rant/Ventinggopher_glitz/r/TheRedPill15/09/13 01:30 AM
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Red Pill Theorygopher_glitz/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 11:55 PM
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Field Reportgopher_glitz/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 05:41 AM
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gopher_glitz/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:18 AM
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CMVgopher_glitz/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/15 10:33 PM
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CMVgopher_glitz/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:09 AM
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gopher_glitz/r/askTRP08/11/15 03:32 AM
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Discussiongopher_glitz/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 03:12 AM
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gopher_glitz/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:29 PM
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gopher_glitz/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 06:54 AM
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gopher_glitz/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:15 PM
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gopher_glitz/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 07:39 AM
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gopher_glitz/r/MGTOW222/08/19 12:50 AM
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Red Pill Theorygopher_glitz/r/TheRedPill08/10/13 11:30 PM
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gopher_glitz/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 10:56 PM
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Discussiongopher_glitz/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 03:06 PM
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Men who women like have no incentive to stick to one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:50 PM
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Perhaps but there's still plenty that have their incomes grow, they lean how to dress, they build out their social networks and low and behold all the women who rejected them before are now hitting them up after getting divorced, popped out some kids gained weight, got old etc etc. I've seen it plenty enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:49 PM
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The right guy will get a girl easily that is impossible for other guys to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:18 PM
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It's almost as if all men aren't the same. Lots of young guys get zero women. Once they're older, richer, more mature etc etc they get the ran through left overs with all their baggage. So many will complain about standards too high while young and women have been through too many guys when they get a little older.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:16 PM
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Does this apply to men who have paid for sex or paid for sex 100 times?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:23 PM
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A girl once told me that if you're tall and have hair you're like top tier. We went to a comic con and pointed out every tall guy with hair. She took back what she said.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:36 AM
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It's like being tall is basically +0 but being short feels like -5.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:16 PM
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It's not an attempt to appear attractive. The point is that despite being those things and more and having a large social circle and plenty of female friends, it doesn't mean much. People can't respond with "it's probably because your short, or fat, or bald, or broke etc" if you've already laid out that it isn't a factor. I'm sure you or at least someone you know has met a great guy who may have even been good looking and perhaps even 'checked all the boxes' but despite all that, there just wasn…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:33 PM
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Never had it and not interested, doesn't do anything for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:00 PM
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Don't have kids, probably won't, don't desire them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:18 PM
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I know a lot of guys who think a girl loved them but they'd be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:22 PM
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It's easy to make women like you and enjoy your company for a brief time. It's harder to get them to want to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:21 PM
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My point is that many men wish they got laid or laid more so they're envious of men who do. They want what those men have. Women don't evny women who've slept around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:19 PM
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I've never met a women who was envious of another with a high body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:35 PM
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"Women care too much about having babies"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:42 AM
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High body count is an indicator of poor judgment and often a way of cope/self harm. I've never met a woman with a high body count that was mentally healthy and well adjusted. Usually fatherless or poor relationship with father, abused, self medicated with alcohol or drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:49 PM
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Key word "seems". It's not just how I feel but 100% of what I've witnessed when it comes to people having affairs. Single men don't want to share their only girl with her man too. When a woman is already in a relationship, single guys don't have as much appeal as a guy who's willing to risk marriage for her. "Leaving his wife for me" is like a drug for some women I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:49 PM
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It's seems affairs are always when both people are not single. But most often it seems women in a relationship aren't looking for an affair with a single guy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:46 PM
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Definitely don't trust the claim. Women don't need a website to cheat lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:45 PM
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I think 'Reality Bites' captures that being promiscuous isn't about enjoying sex but a form of self harm. There's also a scene in Mr. Robot and even Friends (Ross's wedding and Monica seeks out Joey but settles for Chandler)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:46 PM
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People lose in love to people who don't give a fuck. It's why guys madly in love lose to women and other men who don't give a fuck about love and that's why they cheat and it's way, way too common.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 01:05 PM
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Depends on the guy. I personally wouldn't but I also am not a drinker. My friends while drunk and lonely have definitely bagged some beasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:10 PM
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Women being 'shamed' for being a 'hoe' is like being shamed for being rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:23 PM
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I'm 6'3" and fit too and being tall doesn't hurt but it doesn't help as much as one would think.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:32 PM
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Sex is like air, it's only a big deal if you're not getting enough of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:20 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:52 PM
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We're definitely headed to a Japan like dating environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:52 PM
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Some men are shitty. But at the same time it's like men asking, "why don't women ever ask me out on dates" Men must be the pursuer and some are shit at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:15 PM
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Men don't need to lie, because some women lie to themselves plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:53 PM
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Because I don’t get pleasure from sex This isn't because you settled down early or because you didn't have casual sex with random strangers. It's because he sucks or you suck at communication or what would be a ton of other issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:26 PM
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Why would a guy 'stay pure' and not 'find himself' too if that's what women are doing? If women are having sex with random strangers why wouldn't a guy want to one of them, instead of just giving his soul to one? Why would a man want to invest his heart into a woman who just sleeps with random men she meets at bars? It's weird to think you have to sleep with tons of different men they've never met to be flirty, sexy or fun. If women weren't having causal sex, I wouldn't want to either nut they c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:25 PM
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If I had to choose between a good, faithful, fun, sexy, pure wife and a bunch of random sluts, I'd choose the wife. The problem today is that by the time a woman wants to be a wife, she's already banged a bunch of guys. So I can't be sitting around just waiting for her to finish "finding herself" so I feel like even guys who prefer emotionally and sexually fulfilling relationships over casual sex they might as well "find themselves" too because that's what their future wives are doing. Or just s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:15 PM
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Love this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:11 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:39 PM
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Same as men. I'm saying due to lack of make up, hair styles, nails, clothes the beauty standards are more even for both men and women in these situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 09:27 PM
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Basically in certain training environments women can't wear make up. Then all their hair has to be up/tied etc. Everyone's clothes are identical. So then it's just regular grooming, hygiene and fitness. The way the beauty standards shift become interesting because all the focus shifts. Women who lean on make up get a reality check etc. Hair, nails being 'done' is no longer a thing either. Despite all that change and relief on looking a certain way, men are still interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:46 PM
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It's interesting in organizations with strict uniform/dress/appearance standards like the military, or least how it used to be. Men and women's 'beauty' standards were a bit more leveled. Especially if the women couldn't wear any make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:41 PM
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Impeccable hygine and grooming go along away. Also being fit helps. Even if you're balding/ugly/short.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:37 PM
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Top men have options. When you have options you're willing to put up with less.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:35 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:13 PM
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I felt the same way with most women but people's mind start to wonder If you're not chasing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 08:51 PM
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Perfect. I can pop a few adderall and drink a bunch of shots and go kill someone but I don't have to be accountable because I didn't consent. Typical female lack of accountability. You're a dangerous idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:21 PM
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Blackout isn't passed out. Plenty of women will enthusiastically fuck a total stranger and the next day not remember shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:16 PM
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"you're basically using her as a Fleshlight with a pulse" Lol, what do you think blackout drunk one night stands are? It's why why men and women are so very different and why double standards are so penetrative in societies all throughout history. If men treated sex like women, we'd all go extinct
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:03 PM
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Is that really surprising?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:00 PM
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Smart cookie.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:00 PM
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Dating someone you're crazy about is amazing but then people want to move in, get married and have kids and due to those changes they grow to absolutely hate each other. Imagine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:14 PM
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I would 100% sleep with women I absolutely hate. There's also women that are so fun and lovable that I could love very deeply but would never marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:16 PM
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Not all short guys are Short Kings. I've heard people say that all you need is to be tall and have thick hair. Then we went to comic con. All these tall ass dudes with full heads of thick, dark, greasy hair. Yeah....look around, these guys aren't pulling nothing but anime pillows despite their hair and height.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:12 PM
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Depends. Short, balding, fit, successful and self assured beat out short, balding and constantly bitching 100% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:56 PM
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I know a bunch of short guys who are also balding. Some piss and moan constantly about it and everyone takes note. Others stand like they're 7ft tall and smile their crooked smile and people really like them. It's noticeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:49 PM
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The "male loneliness epidemic" is the PC term for male incel epidemic. It's probably because of the micro/nano plastics in the environment/testosterone collapse and advanced capitalst economic state.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:11 PM
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There's so many people who would get divorced if it wouldn't cost them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 10:01 PM
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Your 100% correct. I just find it a bit amusing that for a lot of people you can just buy consent. Consent is something for sale. Consent is just $.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:35 PM
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Yes and it definitely changes the dynamics. Don't be an asshole but have a backbone. Hold frame, pass the tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:19 PM
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Please, for everyone's sake remain single and don't settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:17 PM
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"Omg get away you disgusting creep! AS IF!" Later that evening... "So it's $100 for Bj and $150 for piv."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:16 PM
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Being rich helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 04:07 PM
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Knew a woman who lived with her boyfriend. Started an affair with a married guy at her work. Go out for drinks because they're both taken so no harm....so it starts out. If he had been single, she would've passed because it already feels wrong before anything evolves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:13 PM
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I've met plenty of women who beg to get married but zero men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:10 PM
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Biologically a man is successful if he has sex with lots of different women because his reproduction limit is set by women. A woman's offspring is limited by gestation periods so her success means securing resources to ensure best outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:09 PM
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I've only known one person who did this and she's a complete mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:27 PM
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Obviously 1, kids raised by strangers?? Not it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:57 PM
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If you have $, you can store baby batter and then get one. If you ever want them you still got the mats.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 01:52 PM
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Women who are willing to be used as a cum receptacle aren't worth the risk either. But they'll say it's just because men are insecure....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:20 PM
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If a guy genuinely thinks his girl is sexually attractive, he's not really other guys agree. It's going to be much more important that he finds her hot. Granted guys fuck ugly women and hide them. But that's all part of the self esteem from attractive women thing. If a woman already thinks a guy is sexually attractive, she isn't going to be that worried about his friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:31 PM
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Social proof is important to a man's sexual attractiveness to women. So what are you on about, "desiring male approval" Guys who women want to fuck don't give a shit about male approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:52 PM
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How would a man live and take of himself alone vs with a women? That's how you'll know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:31 PM
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? I don't understand what you're saying. Women don't respect, desire or admire men who marry or are devoted to promiscuous women. Guys who marry ugly women aren't winning any sexual points with pretty women. Guys who marry gorgeous women are seen by other women are as sexually desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:11 PM
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Admittedly yes. This is why paying for sex is nothing to be proud of. You could be rich, smart, strong and athletic but if women aren't physically attracted to you then you aren't going to have a lot of self esteem. This is also why men feel ashamed to have promiscuous wives/partners or fat/ugly ones. It's a representation of what you're able to get. You're emotionally invested in a women who's been around the block because you aren't good enough to do better. Your wife/girlfriend is fat/ugly be…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:46 PM
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For ONS, basically zero standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:03 PM
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In my experience sex isn't about sex with women. It's cope. Cope because their friend/sister/ex is getting married. Cope because their addicted to validation. Cope because they're hurting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:21 PM
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For some reason the most toxic, crazy women give the best sex. Healthy, stable, women seem to not even like sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:41 AM
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Loneliness for young men is a PC term for lack of sex. I've never met a man who identifying as single yet getting laid constantly be 'lonely'
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:09 PM
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Children are lovable and parents are lovable but even a daughter loves her mom different than she loves her dad. A woman can never love a man as a man would love a woman much like a woman could never love a man as she would her own child. It's just different.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:06 PM
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Never expect a woman to love you as you love her. It's like an adult expecting their child to love them the same as they love their child.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:24 PM
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True, eveyone knowing that you'd be able to even without being rich is basically ultimate validation and self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 06:37 AM
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People seem to generally admire men and women in long term healthy, happy relationships. A man isn't given all these loser labels if he married his HS sweetheart and is happy with a great family, UNLESS his wife is for the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:58 PM
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Lol, women don't wanna fuck because the guy isn't attractive, not because she's worried about accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:53 PM
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Because they don't care about you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:51 PM
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10000 years ago, all men had to do was hunt and fish etc. Now they gotta earn 150k min or some BS. 10000 years ago women had to cook, clean, childcare etc etc. Now they don't want to do any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:47 AM
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Salary has only existed very recently in human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:01 PM
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Any women I meet the first unconscious automatic uncontrollable intrusive thought is would I?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:00 PM
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Average women don't view themselves as average and they view average men as way below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:57 PM
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The core of the issue is parental certainty. Humans are decedents of mammals going back countless generations. There's no way for a man to know if a child is his unless his female partner is faithful. If she is ready to fuck random strangers, this is an unsettling pattern of behavior. Being mammals that require 9 months of gestation and years of rearing, sex and pregnancy is very biologically expensive for females. Hence why females are much more choosy in their sexual partners, which makes sens…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 01:53 AM
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I don't look down on women who are single and child free but It's annoying that they seem to sometimes look down on people who aren't. Same with child free people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 01:46 AM
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Men grow in wealth which is what women actually want to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:56 AM
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You're much more likely to be killed by your partner and yet they're more terrified of strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:51 AM
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This is why movies usually have to skip a lot because nobody knows lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 01:23 PM
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Exactly why men shouldn't marry
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 05:49 PM
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Lol, I've seen this plenty with wives who don't work and don't even have kids. Their husband's pay for everything and they even have house cleaners. It's because they have to get a man to be attracted to them again. They don't care to he attractive to their husband's anymore because they know if he leaves she'll get the house and $$$ that she can then use to get fit and try to be hot again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:42 PM
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Transgender men always talk about how much their emotions change when they start male levels of testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:25 PM
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Be a broke man and see how much love you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:23 PM
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Same for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:22 PM
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Which is why marriage is a bad deal, especially in 2024. Some women who never marry often see themselves as failures. Women who've been married multiple times are and collecting houses and child support from each are I'm much better circumstances. Not so for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:46 PM
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A single woman still has errands and still has to do childcare....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:44 PM
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The number of these women who 180 after becoming single again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:47 AM
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Being bored. So many women in dead bedrooms as soon as their relationship ends they lose 50lbs, do their hair again, get glamorous, get heels/boots and get wild again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:46 AM
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It's weird because I know women who consistently choose the same types of guys over and over again and I know women who wouldn't in a million years choose these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:44 AM
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I've had women slap my ass. If the roles were reversed it would've 100% sexual assault
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:06 PM
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It's so much easier to hook up while traveling because your job, car, income or dates don't matter. Just have a nice spot to go to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 06:22 AM
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I'd imagine everyone is bluepill and would want to stay that way. Then they move through life and have experiences that show it's all bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 06:03 AM
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Plenty enough do. Usually they get older, grow tired of the drugs, late nights, abuse, shame etc. They long for stability, real love and to start a family. Then they reinvent themselves and dupe some poor guy into being Captain Save a hoe and as hard as she may try once the situation presents itself her true self will sabotage everything and the good family man will be left with a broken spirt for life and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:39 PM
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"Yeah sure when I was the most attractive I would have threesomes, get dolled up and wear heels and lingerie for guys who treated me badly but now that I'm older, fatter and less attractive I want a man who will treat me like a princess while I offer the lamest sex after making him wait and buy me all kinds of shit I don't need"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:47 PM
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To be fair, unrealistic expectations of porn are far from the unrealistic expectations of being tall, fun, handsome, high earnings etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:42 PM
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"date" I wouldn't think blowing a guy for a bump of coke in the club bathroom counts as a "date".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:40 PM
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That's what's always said about sex workers. They're never in it because they just love sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:28 PM
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Alcohol and drugs I feel are at the core of ONS with random strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:27 PM
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Sober?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:25 PM
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I've never seen a ONS that didn't revolve around being drunk or about drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:24 PM
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I knew a girl who was perpetually single...actually she was just dating constantly and looking for a sugar daddy ...then married a cop....haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:53 PM
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I apologize. I jumped to mistake your description of behaviorally masculine to mean guys that are more manly men types instead of just being bold, out going, non neurotic etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:22 PM
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Unfortunately damaged women and esp pdb women are fast, easy and fuck as crazy as they are. But men usually also realize they're horrible to deal with
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:53 AM
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Enter Justin Biber, Timberlake, Prince, Harry Styles, leonardo dicaprio, timothée chalamet, pop etc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:52 AM
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Whenever a woman talks about wanting children, especially if she's infertile I just remind her that having children isn't a need. You won't die if you never have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:12 AM
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There's so many women who are really heartless people with BPD and they fuck like absolute champs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:52 PM
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Over 100 million babies are born a year. Baseline birth ratio is 100 female to 105 males. Giving you at least 2.5 MILLION males without a female. That's not counting all the female babies tossed out in places like China/India.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:33 PM
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Yeah, and women want to be valued by men for more than sex while providing less than 99.99% of women in history.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:29 PM
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Not necessarily true. Sometimes people fuck people because their friend is getting married. Sometimes it's because they have money. Sometimes it's because they're on a European vacation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:29 AM
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It's too bad the narrative isn't just, "women don't date guys because they're nice, they date guys that are attractive"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:08 PM
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I guess it depends on your social circle. Know a handful of women who's body counts are triple digits.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 09:54 AM
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Another reason not to have kids, for them to be saved by this seemingly inevitable feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 09:52 AM
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The more attractive a sex worker is, the more she can charge. The higher the price for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:44 PM
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I love how many guys have been able to catfish women with fake pictures, even though they just use their same personality. Or how many guys have plenty of female friends that all really like him but never would fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:42 PM
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I find that things are very contextual. For example a women will think a guys is hot because he has a hot girlfriend. If he was single, she might not think that. When two people have affairs with each other, I wonder how it would have gone down if they were both just single.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:41 PM
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I wonder if Oprah Winfrey and Stedman Graham or Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell's relationships would survive marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:25 PM
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That's true. Many couples live together and play house for years without much issue. As soon as they tie the knot it implodes. Wonder why?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 07:27 PM
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No such thing as 'works', only 'works for now'. Because one day can 180, no matter the circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:33 PM
1

Well that's the easy part. Weddings, photoshoots, you're very own special day that costs $$$. Then it's over, the reality sets in and for seemingly so many, it's not pretty. The basic premise is for some to maybe ask themselves, "would pledge to spend the rest of my entire life with this person even if we didn't have a wedding?"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:31 PM
1

Challenge a woman to get married and never post the photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:15 AM
1

You can't be a bully If you don't have the size, status etc. Of course these are the guys women swarm. They're assholes because they don't have accountability or someone to check them. They're top of the social latter and can shit on everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:08 AM
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Being vulnerable as a man to someone you're sleeping with is a HUGE mistake but some guys just have to learn the hard way. Great way to get out of a relationship without feeling guilty though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:10 PM
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Bring nice isn't sexy, it's not a turn on. Being cruel or mean usually is a turn off however.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:08 PM
1

Sexually seems to demonized in general, men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:43 AM
1

"Do most guys catergorize girls into wifey or hook up material?" 100% Not much to do with looks but attitude etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:25 PM
2

When single I only had 1 problem. Romantic loneliness. Then I'll have 100 problems, to include still at times....romantic loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 06:57 AM
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Lol, thinking women talk about their past from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:05 AM
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Dumping a woman because of her past pisses them off, a lot. And they always will attack you and say you're insecure because that's all they have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:02 AM
1

no not like a bi*ch, normally. Exactly. If a man wants to keep his girl, he must never, ever show any sign of weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:56 AM
1

Basically many men are always 'hungry' up until they nut and about 40mins after. "Don't go grocery shopping when you're hungry." Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:55 AM
4

I prefer women who don't sleep with lots of random men that they don't even know but women try and say that's because I'm insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:50 AM
3

Progressiveness for Men, like splitting the bill or being a stay at home dad is just a turn off. You can't 'progress' out of sexauilty.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:56 PM
1

You can't be ugly and a bitch. So hot women are bitches because they get away with it. They don't like bitches, they like hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:27 PM
13

Maybe she has BPD. Girls with BPD will shoot for guys they can easily control and manipulate. They go for guys who will be obsessed with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:20 PM
1

Sex in general is almost always circumstantial
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:49 AM
2

Women don't mind be a side chick if they know they're a side chick and they have a side guy. Look at the number of married or committed people cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:57 PM
1

Some women are almost always unhappy because they're never satisfied or content.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:53 PM
13

All the absolutely broken men I've been around are due to their wives divorce and the disgusting laws around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:51 PM
2

Yes to a degree. Many men would sleep with a porn star but would never marry one for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:49 PM
4

"Women fuck who they want and men fuck who they can" Women ultimately choose and sometimes they choose older. When I was 16 I wanted to date a girl my age but they all wanted to date older guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:48 PM
3

There are more people staving and lack clean water today than another time in history.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:32 PM
2

Yeah, agriculture. 99% of human history we've been small bands of semi nomadic hunter gatherers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:30 PM
4

Women reject younger guys in favor of older ones with $$$
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:48 PM
2

This woman had rejected so many guys she liked because she was so preoccupied with height. After turning 30 something she married a guy shorter than her. Of course now she's older and has tons more dating/relationship baggage and his height represents her personal 'failure' to 'win' a guy she always held out for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 01:31 PM
1

Turn off, these women tend to be overly competitive and always compensating for something, also trying to be 'bad ass'. They usually are feminine and sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:43 PM
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You shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:41 PM
1

6'3" is a plus 0. It's like being clean. No girl is with a guy because he's clean but no girl wants a slob. Being short is bad, being tall is just neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:55 PM
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Being 6'3" is a plus 0. Will Ferrell and Mr Beast are both that tall and that alone doesn't make them sexy or hot. If you make 6+ figures but drive an older economy car and wear normal clothes, nobody will think you're rich. Then if you're very fit and have good size, no woman is going to know that unless you're already in the position for her to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:26 PM
1

I do but it doesn't mean much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:47 PM
3

They're around, I've met a few myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:24 PM
1

Porn stars and hookers have lower non professional body counts than plenty of women I know that just fuck random dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:22 PM
1

I've hooked up before and I'd prefer traditional dating because that's the kind of girl I'd want. Since girls control the sexual landscape I'm just living in their game.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:20 PM
3

Dating is like capitalism, you don't 'solve' capitalism even when you known it's shit, you become a better capitalist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:43 PM
0

Because women where more 'pure' if a man stepped out on her it was seen as dastardly. Now women sleep around so if you stepped out on a woman who's been around the block, people aren't going to feel as bad it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:48 AM
6

They're hot or the type of autism that makes them crazy rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 01:50 AM
1

I know so many older people in long term relationships that are so fucking miserable but financial reality keeps them trappped.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:05 PM
2

I love to make him happy and show my appreciation This is fantastic and you both must feel lucky to have one another. However, this has not been my observation or experience for the vast majority. Hopefully more women will follow suit. Obviously if it were the reality for most then there wouldn't be such debate about such things. Perhaps in the end everyone just wants fairness so people should really be examining what fairness is and why it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:03 PM
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Women are single, men are alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 06:04 PM
3

How is what you're saying any different than men do men shit so women gotta do women shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:19 AM
6

2023 men are expected to do 50% of cooking, cleaning and laundry too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:29 AM
4

I’m not sure why you think women would be opposed to driving and pumping gas? Because I don't know a single couple where this is the case. Go to Costco and look for couples and count the times women are driving and pumping while their boyfriend/husband's are chilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:01 AM
3

Lol, no woman is going to do any of those things if she has a man. A man enjoying his life, hobbies or friends while his wife is mowing the lawn? On the roof while he's sipping iced tea in a hammock? He's on his phone while she's driving and pumping the gas? Yeah, doesn't work. It's like palpable resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:37 PM
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Why do I have to always drive? Why am I the one always putting together all the furniture, maintaining the cars, roof, gutters, hvac, lawn? Why am I always the one expected to install the cameras, lights, stereo, mount the TV etc etc? Pay for the dates? Oh right....because I'm a man. If I gotta do 'man' shit women gotta do women shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:13 PM
2

Get a pet, get some friends, make money, travel, get some hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:24 PM
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Lol, go to any gym. Most people there are men. Go to any recreational area of basketball, softball, skatepark. Mostly men again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:04 PM
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Lol. You think most women throughout human history were ran through? Had tons of baggage? Fat? Materialistic? Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:29 AM
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At least in years gone past a woman in his 'league' wouldn't be ran through, saddled with baggage, fat, materialistic, past her prime and be happy to cook, clean and run a home and raise a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:59 PM
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i had to figure out how to make enough money to live without their help. Smart. Dig it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:40 PM
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Some women love having a bunch of male friends around whom theyre not romanticly/sexually attatacted to because it gives them a gaggle of dudes who will help her in some way. Help her move, help her with homework, help her with someone to complain to, help her with her car, help her with her computer, help her with her apartment, dogs, cats, house etc. Then most of those guys, given the green light would gladly fuck her without hesitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:36 PM
1

I've seen guys who flirt, charm, compliment every attractive woman that comes there way. They're called flirty, charming or players...but only if they're attractive and successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:30 PM
4

If they're smart enough
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:18 AM
0

Thirsty is just flirty for unattractive dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:15 AM
10

Guys that aren't hot enough to have options are forced to settle for women who've run out of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:12 AM
6

People shit on Jenny from Forest Gump but Jenny's behavior/judgement is a result of cope from the abuse of her father. Unfortunately I think tens of millions of women suffer the same types of abuse by men -> self destruction. It's incredibly sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:26 PM
1

Plenty if dudes would fuck a porn star, guaranteed none of them are envious of their husband's.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:30 PM
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Lol if a man told other men he's into astrology you think they wouldn't bust his balls?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:26 PM
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Men who aren't getting laid but still have everything else have to balance the trade of the problem of no sex vs the problem of dealing with women. Trading 1 problem for many.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:19 PM
4

Every time a man who's single talks about being happy because he has family, friends, pets, hobbies, money and loves his freedom to travel, cooks and cleans his own home the first and only thing I've ever heard a woman say is, "what about sex though" Because they know that's the only thing missing in his life and the only thing a women can offer a straight man that he can't get anywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:30 PM
4

Long fake nails are disgusting imo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:46 AM
0

There's some with a sense of humor at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:41 AM
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high body count, promiscuous behavior, acting like you belong to the streets. Bad hygiene, zero effort into looks, lack of fitness. Zero interests/hobbies, social media/reality TV obsession's, materialism, too focused on 'brands'/status, zero friends, being a fake 'guys gal' and being clingy. Being fake dumb, being fake helpless/needy Acting too cool or like you're better than everyone else, looking down on people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:27 AM
8

Yet some women still don't understand why there's a 'double standard' when it comes to a stud vs a 'slut'
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:21 AM
5

I'd say most of hook up culture exists due to alcohol. A very high percent of sexual assaults involve alcohol. I'd imagine most times people cheat on people they "love" alcohol is involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:22 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:51 AM
19

After I was born my dad got a vasectomy. After he died, I found out he wasn't my biological dad. He was absolutely clueless. My mom died a few months ago. I hadn't talked to her in years. Shit fucked. Get that test.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:23 AM
2

What else could these women being doing that would make a man in 2023 want a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:35 PM
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I think women have a lot of regrettable hook ups because they use drunken hook ups are cope from abuse trauma. Lot of Jenny's and lots of Forreste out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:28 PM
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Most hook ups are a matter of attraction and circumstances. Circumstances count for a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:41 AM
1

Although I can see this definitely being a thing with some men, I often find it strange when women judge men for being single yet happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:44 PM
1

Probably most cultures for most of human history though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:37 PM
1

Men with hobbies, money, friends, family, pets are usually very content and although the want sex. Most women aren't going to add value but subtract it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:09 PM
0

Not at all. Love and lifelong love is an especially tall order. Half of marriages end in divorce and that doesn't even include all the married yet miserable people. If you're a woman the person most likely to harm you is a spouse and yet so many women just want to be married. It's bananas.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:04 PM
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Lol. How many women in Afghanistan or India have known love before marriage or being traded for livestock to their much older uncle for countless generations?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:14 PM
3

Probably for the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:12 PM
1

Sex for sex isn't a fair exchange between men and women And then women piss and moan about double standards
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:42 PM
3

How many men are 6x6x6?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:30 PM
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It is very absurd. It's 2023 and these women rail against the 'patriarchy' yet don't wanna pay and be pampered. It's not like if you pay 100% they're going to happily do 100% of the cooking, cleaning, child raising, lawn care hvac, gutters/roof, driveway, lawn care, vehicle maintenance, taking out the garbage and shit too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:01 PM
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50/50 on a date and women want to talk about raising kids. I'll pick up more of the tab AFTER we live together or married or have kids. Otherwise I'm just paying more because you're for sale.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:48 PM
4

I've never known a woman who stayed with a man even though he was boring. Known a lot who stayed even though he was abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:44 PM
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Every promiscuous woman I've ever met was using sex as a form of self harm or cope due to trauma etc. Also usually abuse substances and was definitely a 'mean girl'.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:16 PM
2

Because is 1000% more work than pleasing a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:14 PM
5

I've seen these types. Fat, unhygienic, pale and gross usually. If not, they cater to such like Bella Delphin....still gross seeming.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:47 PM
4

I've never met a slut who also wasn't a drunk. I've never met a woman who's randomly fucked a stranger who also wasn't drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:29 PM
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All the time. They're just neurotic, bald, short, poor, fat or ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:17 AM
3

Making 100k+ doesn't mean shit even your competitors are making at least 300k+ Being 6'3" doesn't mean shit when your competition is 6'8"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:48 AM
1

18-20 year olds do porn for the notoriety, they think they'll be famous. They can make way more as sugar babies but there's no fame in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:44 AM
1

Much easier and valuable to get love and support from family and friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:52 PM
1

What difference? If a man knows he's not getting sex he's not going to date a woman. He's not going to put up with her. He's not going to deal with her much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:48 PM
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Because women don't love men. When a man loves a woman it's just loving someone who will never love you back in the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:31 PM
2

And they don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:25 PM
1

Lol, women detest men that make them pay for things. only dealing with women for sex“ and being in a relationship „with no sex“ are very different things." Ehhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:26 PM
1

Maybe the real question is why a young women would reject men her age and instead accept the advances of an older man?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:59 PM
2

Men should never ever complain or share their struggles with women unless they're family. They don't give a shit, they do not care and they will not care to help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:57 PM
0

If he's not a top man, it's probably null.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:28 PM
1

Meanwhile top men are spinning plates with their soft harems.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:27 PM
3

You think men want to marry, date or be in a relationship with a woman with no sex? Pay for everything and do all the heavy lifting? Bet not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:26 PM
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A top man will get to choose a woman with a low body count. A lesser man will have to accept that many have already been with his woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:57 PM
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My point is that reason men even deal with women is for sex, the reason women deal with men is as a resource. Marriage ensures men are obligated to be a resource for a woman but the trade off for sex isn't so men are always at a disadvantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:56 PM
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lol, this data is based over the course of one year, not a lifetime. A woman would rather have zero partners in the hope that a top man will come along and sweep her off her feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:04 PM
1

I've never met an attractive woman who had her heart broken or that was obsessed with a guy. They're always full of so many options that it feels overwhelming. Less attractive women with options like a man, yeah it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:46 PM
1

Men are demonized for ignoring women, called out for being gay or that there MUST be something wrong with him. But also for wanting women too but unable to get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:42 PM
1

But a marriage contract has no say in if you're going to get fucked either. You could marry and within a few months you've got contract for $ but you could have a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:40 PM
2

A buddy of mine got a woman pregnant and she wasn't even going to tell him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:39 PM
0

Most women reject men because they all want to share the minority of 'top men' not because they're afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:37 PM
2

It's hard to care about anything when you don't have air, or water, or food. So if a man isn't getting laid, that will occupy a huge amount of his bandwidth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:35 PM
3

For some crazy reason women are like magnates to red flag men. It's how so many older married men have affairs with younger women. These women know full well these older men are married. The amount it happens is mind blowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:50 PM
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Lol. I'm 6'3", make 6 figures and am in great shape. Have thick hair etc etc. My face anesthetic is lacking. It's still hard out there. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:49 PM
1

Lol. I'd bet that there are way more women who fuck random strangers than men who pay sex workers 10k a night. But you're right, woman who sleep around are similar to men who pay for sex. If men could really use sex services without shame and it was legal in the U.S. you'd see 10,000% increase.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:23 PM
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Free sex worker....once again we see that sex is what men want from women and women just use sex to.get what they want. Sex is something women award/trade to men, got it. Women will always complain about men who use sex services even if they pay $10000 a night.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:55 PM
2

Traditionally throughout history this might have worked with tribes, small towns and with communities and bonded family ties, churches etc. But now with globalized social media and the mentality of 'I have a pussy so therefor I'm a Queen' and deserve 1st class, 5 star, VIP everything and I have a never ending stream of men to fuck but if I don't get what I want I'll just be alone' then you've got an American society hurtling towards a Japan like future but for even worse reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:51 PM
6

I'd be shocked if she pays for anything in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:21 PM
4

Women do not want a team mate. They want a champion and they want to be a fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:21 PM
14

Lol, typical. Unattractive lonely men are just losers with the prize of highest sucide rate. Women are like....but but we're called ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:20 PM
11

Attractive men don't need to ask, they're told
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:09 AM
14

Most young men struggle with dating because they're not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:05 PM
0

Then the fear is that if she loves sex so much or uses sex as a form of self harm, cope etc she's more likely to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:15 PM
6

My dad wasn't my biological dad. He never knew, shit is fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:09 AM
8

I've never known a women who was rejected for her looks unless she was fat as shit or straight ugly. Guys are rejected for just not being hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:20 PM
3

I've never met a decent guy who was content to be single and not have women assume that their MUST be something wrong with him or gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:54 AM
8

A group of older women collectively buy a house and hang out to knit. - "wholesome and enviable" A group of older gents collectively live together and fish, golf, weight lift, craft, poker etc - "They MUST be losers who couldn't get wives"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:52 AM
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Plenty of women don't grow old and alone, they're sleeping with some married guy with a family. As a guy I'm much more afraid of being divorced, broke and alone than intact, never married and alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:39 PM
2

After my dad died I found out my biological father died in the 90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:16 PM
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This is why men should never marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:15 PM
1

Redpilling without calling it Redpill. Some men are already well aware that women are more likely to 'share' the minority of attractive top men than be with the losers. These loser men need to mgtow and focus on themselves because these women are never going to want them and if they somehow get married these women are just going to be bitter because their marriage will just be a final manifestation of their own failure to secure a top man and the hypergamy will slowly eat away at them and their …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:40 PM
1

Well men resent sluts if they are forced to settle with one. I'm curious as to your seeming preoccupation with bottom tier men's opinions of promiscuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:16 PM
1

Men love sex, not sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:45 PM
1

Women will fuck an ugly guy if there's money.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:12 PM
2

Things men would never say even though feminist insist men and women are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:13 PM
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I agree and to add men should also be reminded that should they marry they will have a legal financial responsibility to their spouse, women don't have that for sex or even for fidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:41 PM
1

I'd argue that many relationships can be amazing for years all the way up until you live together. Some relationships are amazing all the way up until you get married. Some are great until you have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:39 PM
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I think woman don't understand or refuse to admit their own sexual responses. So many woman have rejected guys on the bases of height, only to marry a guy who would've otherwise been too short later on. However they can never articulate or admit why that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:35 PM
1

Fair enough. When woman want to get serious in a relationship and the guy rejects her because he thinks she'll make a poor wife due her sexual history then he shouldn't be made out to be the 'bad guy' or 'insecure' or whatever other bullshit people love to demonize men for rejecting woman who want to get married/live together etc. No, I don't want to marry you should be enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:32 PM
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I'd really like to take you out sometime Sorry, I don't date guys who don't have a masters degree Proceeds to start fucking some married guy with kids who never finished college because tingles
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:41 PM
2

Lol, of course in a room there can be more than one attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 12:44 PM
2

It works for those it works for. Many guys when they're 16-25 just aren't going to attract women. However some will hit 25-30+ and really hit their stride. I've seen it plenty enough. They get money, they mature, they get style, they grow their social circle, get skills, hobbies, confidence, value and those types that always rejected them before come back around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:48 AM
3

Some guys get fat and lose their hair as they age. Some earn way more, learn to dress and actually get fit and better looking. Young fit, handsome ,rich guys are only dating younger attractive women. Older hot rich guys are dating older attractive women and younger attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:36 PM
1

They do if he's hot and a lot of guys that were not hot when they were young are much hotter at 30. George Clooney and John Hamm would not have been thought of as attractive in their teens and 20s are they where in their 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:28 PM
2

Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:01 PM
1

If a guy don't have any issues attracting women they can try again and again. If someone is putting everything on just having one girlfriend and it doesn't work out....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:00 PM
3

Partners aren't also receptive to have people telling their problems too either. I'd never tell my problems to a female partner, it always, ALWAYS will be used against you and it's not sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:01 PM
1

Meeting someone and getting married is not a box you check off for happiness. Being a husband is a job. It's something you have to work on everyday and you can love it, hate it or lose it. Tons of guys checked the love -> marriage box only to get put through the ringer and get divorced and now they're alone, bitter AND broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:20 PM
5

Do you have a dog or pet? I think it would help a ton. Also traveling and really soaking up being free.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:17 PM
1

It's like men asking why women want a babies...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:16 PM
1

Never sleeping around then being with someone who has...a lot seems to make plenty of men miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:33 PM
3

Do women envy promiscuous women? Probably not. Do men envy men who get to be promiscuous? Usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:28 PM
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Slut is an insult women use against other women regardless If they're actually promiscuous or not. So being insulted just for the fact people 'thinks' you're promiscuous is very telling. Nobody insults a man by calling him a player even if they're a virgin because there's no shame. Shame isn't something you can make people feel, people are ashamed of things they've done that are only known to them. Because they already know it's shameful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:16 PM
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Plenty of women in the right context are down with being the +1 in a threesome with a couple but would never be a couple looking for a plus one. However men can be the same. Plenty of guys wouldn't mind be a +1 in couples threesome but would never be part of a relationship looking for a male +1.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:13 PM
0

One example is that it's annoying that so many women refuse to the one to cook/clean but also are unwilling to be the one to mow the lawn, take care of the cars, the gutters/roof, plumbing/hvac, sprinkler system, moss management etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:07 PM
1

To be perfectly honest I'd totally bang woman I hate and women whom I'm not even attracted to and I know a significant amount of men agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:05 PM
1

Lol. Every affair and sugar baby/daddy relationship would say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:03 PM
6

Yet record youth unemployment and over education
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:11 PM
1

The natural birth rate is 105 males per every 100 females.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:24 PM
3

Yeah, I mean guys that pay for sex all the time are a good match for prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:28 PM
7

Enjoying sex or sexuality could just mean liking sex with your boyfriend. Yet it's like, oh this girls fucked 80 guys and most where random strangers. Yeah....that's wife material for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:51 PM
1

Lol don't forget the natural birthrate of 105 men for 100 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:27 PM
3

Plenty of guys could get laid but the women they can get aren't worth the headache so it's better to just direct your time and energy to a sure thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:06 AM
2

I mean you're not wrong but I always laugh at dudes who go to EDCLV and try and get girls to leave with them...it's like dude, these girls are wanting to actually see the show.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:19 PM
2

Women aren't trying to get laid at huge raves though, if they're single and paid $$$ for tickets and to get there they're there to see the show.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:09 PM
17

Sometimes the juice just isn't worth the squeeze. Good on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:06 PM
8

What you described is very common so don't think it's abnormal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:05 PM
2

Women hate being called out on it because they're ashamed. It's why when a girl drunkenly hooks up with a guy she doesn't even know and the next day even though nobody else knows, she is ashamed. Same with when men pay for sex. Most would feel shame, even if it's a total secret. They are not proud to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:19 PM
1

No, they're just desperate, lonely, horny fools. They think they're doing fine but they're just being taken advantage of, they think they're doing fine but they're being cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:16 PM
1

Common enough, especially dead bedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:14 PM
1

Never in my life have a heard a man say, "back when I was young I dated shitty women but then I grew out of it and mature and now I date nice girls" so of course it's a double standard...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:23 AM
2

There's a reason men have such a deep aversion to investing in such women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:21 AM
3

100% sorry you had to learn the hard way but don't take it personally. Sluts gonna slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:27 AM
1

So far I've never met a man who was great with getting women stay with a shitty one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:25 PM
1

I'd say it's just mens desperation sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:18 PM
9

True, this is what I tell women unable to bare children as well. "Susan, you're not going to die just because you're sterile why does it even matter?"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:17 PM
3

You and tens of millions of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:15 PM
3

It's true. Leaving a partner for being boring is easy. Leaving an abusive relationship tends to be impossible for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:13 PM
5

Unfortunately this isn't uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:12 PM
11

How's it go? "Men date who they can, women date who they want?" Men don't reject good women for being stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:57 PM
10

Because accountability. You still have to hold yourself accountable and recognize that YOU ended with these types of men because of YOUR daddy issues. Just like the vast majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:04 PM
10

It's the same reason women who've slept with loads of strangers is flag. It's usually while drunk and it's a form of self harm and cope due to trauma or personality disorder like BPD and will usually result in cheating behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:40 PM
61

Everyone woman I've ever met who's dated a shit guy had always dated shit guys. If they meet a nice normal man they always cheat on him. Every woman I've ever known who dated regular guys always dated regular guys. It all comes back to abuse and trauma in their lives and being unable to accept normal relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:18 PM
1

Yet not uncommon
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:27 PM
1

devoted her entire life to living in your home There are probably hundreds of thousands if not millions of women just living with some guy they can't stand because breaking up means being on the street or worse...like back tracking their lifestyle etc. 1 example...Melina Trump. You really think she loves Trump? That's they're fucking? Hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:26 PM
1

Too many miserable women that stay because the guy is her meal ticket.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:05 AM
1

100% "cheaper to keep her" is very real
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:05 AM
1

Meh, sex is sex. Once she asks for more or you find something better you dip.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:31 AM
3

Women all offer basically the same thing but charge different depending on the guy. Men charge the same but what they offer changes depending on how they really feel about the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:24 AM
0

These guy are hypocrites for sure. I'd much rather just a normal relationship and hook up culture isn't my thing at all. But if sluts going to slut then I feel I have to participate. There's no winning if you don't participate and then get into a relationship with someone who has.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:18 AM
4

This is why I laugh when some woman are like, "I've slept around and it never bothered any guys" Meanwhile guys are dumping their girl for being a hoe but giving her a completely different excuse lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:14 AM
1

"You're good enough to waste your time, money and energy on me but not good enough to sleep with"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:13 AM
4

Men readily explain that some women are fine for sex, some are fine to date, some are great for a relationship, some would make good moms etc. Women usually are like, "I'm just not that type of girl" or "I'm worth more than that" instead of being like, "you're not sexy enough to get this for free like all these other guys"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:32 PM
3

There's less women on dating apps/sites because they're all fwb with the same minority of top guys
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:34 PM
1

Because men just want sex/company. Women want everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:32 PM
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Reminds me of Karen from the office playing a joke on Jim that she dated so many people at the party. Also in the film 'Office Space' where they talk about his boss had banged his new girlfriend before and she gets around "like a record"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:39 PM
1

Shit, same reason 'real dolls' and 'blow up dolls' and those types of things have always been more popular with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:35 PM
4

He's desperate and she's hot and he doesn't know she cheats on him on the regular
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:32 PM
8

She's getting best of both worlds right now. A beta bucks to pay for everything and hot dudes to sleep with. She won't find a man with both because she's a single mom with 2 teenagers
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:38 AM
13

I know a broke ass attractive woman with two kids who has a boyfriend who pays for everything. She isn't attracted to him at all and cheats on him constantly with hot studs who don't pay for shit. She doesn't just dump him because he's her meal ticket. Very fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:44 AM
3

because being misogynistic never stopped them from getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:50 PM
1

I know a women who is not in a relationship but she's going on dates and getting as much sex as she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:48 PM
1

I think that if a women is dating a guy she knows she is planning on breaking up with or definitely not going to marry she is using him but it could be for many reasons. If a guy is dating a woman and he decides that he's not going to marry her and doesn't want to string her along and dumps her even if things are going great she will usually feel used for sex because that's why guys go for women 99% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:46 PM
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I feel like plenty of women have sex with a guy and the next day they are full of regret and shame....and then do it again. They're using sex as a form of self harm or cope. An example in film is Vickie Miner from 'Reality Bites'
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:39 PM
1

I take super greens from costco and stuff them into a high powered blender and mix with like naked green machine and ice water. Also take costco vegan protien power and blend with frozen banana and sometimes scoop of peanut butter. Those two smoothies stop hunger pains.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:20 PM
4

A man being accepting of high N for a relationship is a defeat, an acceptance. It's like those dudes with fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:17 PM
1

A girl I dated told me that when she was 19 she had sex with a women at her work who was 39. It definitely triggered something in me and girl on girl action became a focal point for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:14 PM
2

they'll get married to guys without better options
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:12 PM
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I also find this to be true, BUT plenty of woman are okay with being wined and dined by a guy they aren't very into.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:11 PM
2

Exactly, he's unremarkable and normal. He's not 'super hot' or 'gorgeous' so he's not getting anywhere with his looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:18 PM
5

They're terrified of meeting a random guy for a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:47 AM
2

I'm 6'3" and in great shape, my face is my weak point
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:13 PM
28

Women are terrified of being raped and murdered by a date or stranger when the reality is most rapes are by people they already know and most murders are probably the husband's
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:51 PM
1

I'd say a significant enough number could be. It's more common for the older man to be typically less attractive yet "rich". So they are using that as leverage and that makes people uncomfortable. However if the older man is a 'daddy' and fit/handsome then they benefit from the halo affect and other women are just like, "omg, where can I find a rich daddy to take care of me" So many women are outspoken about how gross older men are with younger women but then get real quiet when people find out …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:24 PM
7

Everyone hates creeps (ugly people) and people who abuse their power no matter the age.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:54 PM
1

And Robert Downey Jr is 5'8", Johnny Depp is 5"10". I'm 6'3" myself and height definitely isn't all you need. I also have been lifting weights for years. Doesn't guarantee anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:50 PM
2

Context. Many guys that got laid, if things weren't in that context, it would have never happened. Take the show friends. If Joey was there, Chandler wouldn't have gotten Monica. If it weren't for the wedding, Monica wouldn't have being on the hunt for Joey.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:36 AM
1

Having an awesome build and being tall doesn't help if you don't have the face/jaw to go with it. Mr. Beast is 6'3", you think if he was ripped girls would think he was hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:34 AM
1

Misreading her and making a move only to be torn to pieces.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:39 PM
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Have six pack, make 6 figures and am 6'3". Plenty of female friends and male friends for that matter. Still have sat by and watched myself be passed over. Point is, just having those things don't mean squat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:37 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:28 AM
6

Just goes to show, sex isn't something men and women share. It's something women give to men in exchange for something else men 'trade' women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:58 PM
-3

You seem like a woman who's worthwhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:35 PM
-1

Lol. Your think a guy in his 30s who would date an 18yr old would want to spend more time with her than his actual male friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:38 PM
1

The juice has to be worth the squeeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:56 PM
6

Lol, people you hang out with and people you fuck aren't the same
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:55 PM
2

You shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:53 PM
3

Don't get married, just don't. DO. NOT. GET. MARRIED.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:16 PM
2

You gotta go back and forth, if you put it out and she doesn't show any indicators of interest you go back
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:20 PM
4

It's not that they're even ugly, they're just not 'soo hot' and since they know even a really hot guy will still be willing to have sex with them, they just all go for the same top 1%
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:04 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:09 PM
0

I think even if you're miles ahead of the curve you can still fall short of 'success'.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:44 PM
3

It's weird how frats are characterized as 'rape houses and yet women still go there. Or how dangerous clubs are and yet they still go.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:46 PM
2

Got plenty of matches in Tinder. Went on dates. Dates wanted to be friends. Repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:44 PM
10

The bar is low, if you're good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:35 PM
3

Radfems and FDS'ers believe that but seem pretty hurt when men don't want to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 11:24 PM
1

Mr. Beast is 6'3" if he wasn't famous he'd probably have a harder time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:54 AM
0

Lol. My 600lb life almost all the women are in relationships almost none of the men are. The only ugly men that get any leeway is if they're rich, which is rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:11 PM
0

Men treat ugly women like they do useless men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:23 PM
11

Knew a girl who hooked up with two guys in the same night, she went to therapy over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:19 PM
1

That's true. But if you're the type to fuck a random guy you don't even know because you popped an adderall and drank until you blacked out, then if you're in a committed relationship and end up popping and adderall and blacking out, chances of you fucking a random are way higher than if you're the type of women who would only have sex within the confines of a relationship with a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:48 AM
0

A number of popular porn stars actually only perform with their male partner. Also if you're a high end escort that charges 10k a night, you can definitely discriminate when it comes to clients. Being at the top of the escort hiarecty definitely comes with the ability to choose your clients.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:45 AM
2

Loving sex with your boyfriend and expressing your love together and fucking lots of random strangers aren't the same thing imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:02 PM
1

High n count
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:37 PM
0

Broken people aren't bad people, they're just bad investments.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:21 PM
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I think it's way more common than people realize but it's usually a dark secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:10 PM
0

But that's just it. Many promiscuous women don't have sex because they like sex. They have sex because they love attention, validation, control or it's a method of self harm, self destruction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:09 PM
2

You never ever give lap dances?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:52 PM
0

There's so many women who've accepted money for sex in their lives even If it was only once or even if it was totally unplanned. For many it's too easy to say yes when it's a lot of money and because they're in control and can say no if they want (no pimp) and the guy is normal/not gross ugly, they'll give in.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:50 PM
-2

It's funny women worry about this when taking about sex work but don't seem to be worried about it when they're being promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:47 PM
1

Personally I just pay half because I don’t want anyone to get the wrong idea. I feel like this is so very important.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:46 PM
-1

If a gorgeous sexy man want you and was willing to pay you, you wouldn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:43 PM
0

You don't make money from stripping, you make it from lap dances. If your lap dances aren't as good as the rest, you're probably not going to make much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:42 PM
6

It's strange that women seem to completely understand why being a prostitute or porn star would damage their social status in the dating game but don't understand why being promiscuous shouldnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:40 PM
4

I bet it's way higher
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:37 PM
1

Pretty much every sex worker is fucking the type of men they detest and they do it for $$$, just like always and forever. Men fuck to fuck and women fuck for $.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:43 PM
0

A woman who loves sex is great, a woman who loves sex with everyone is not a good emotional investment. It's not that complicated really and it's always been that way across nearly ever culture since the beginning of history.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:42 PM
2

There's obviously exceptions. Will a man sleep with a woman for nothing in return? Probably. Will a woman sleep with a man with nothing in return? Much less likely. As long as that's the case we know sex is something women trade to men instead of something men and women share with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:40 PM
1

It's easy. But yeah, I mean probably millions of women will bang a guy whom they don't even know his name.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:37 PM
2

Money. Why so many women detest having to even to pay their own half.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:27 PM
0

Sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:26 PM
1

If mens sex drive keeps dipping, we'll be Japan. Sex has to be a power driver for men because otherwise they wouldn't wanna deal with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:25 PM
1

not seeing them as good for much that isn't sex I have such a hard time with this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:35 PM
3

Many women see many men as only good for one thing too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:33 PM
10

There's so many women I didn't like that I would 100% sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:31 PM
5

Sex for promiscuous women isn't about orgasim or sex, it's about attention, power and control
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 11:56 PM
1

We'll be Japan soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 11:55 PM
1

Loyalty is like air, it's only a big deal if you don't have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:45 PM
1

I'm 6'3". I've never called people short or really noticed. After seen online people talk about how women can be to shorter men or seen men get rejected for being short really opened my mind to how some people are hyper focused on this struggle and I've never thought about it once in my life. It's like a rich kid finding out about poor people. BUT, being 6'3" and in good shape, making good money, having plenty of female friends etc never felt like an advantage because I was still always losing o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:44 PM
1

It's very rare a man is even in the position to flatout reject a woman. Some women are hit on and accosted so much they get pissy and then can become more cruel
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:30 PM
2

Eh, people bang, sometimes they get pregnant and hope they'll get married and then they don't. Honestly I've seen never married people co-parent in a very healthy and conducive way and I've seen people who married and divorced and the bitterness and squabbling was much worse for kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:00 PM
3

Most never married single moms ive met just couldn't lock down the father. It wasn't their choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:58 PM
0

I don't expect women to do anything or even give a shit. It would be a relief however if women were like, "we're all willing to share the same top men then only settle for the rest after we are past our prime desirable years"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:57 PM
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It's why women are the 'home wrecker' they enable or even encourage the man to do what he his by default genetically programed to do. Women are always the chooser. Women fuck who they want, men fuck who they can. If women turn themselves from 'red light' to 'green light' on a man, that's her initiative. Not saying he's innocent though. Lots of cheaters seem to cheat with cheaters so that they both have 'skin in the game'. I bet if they were both single it wouldn't have happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:40 PM
11

I'd say chances are higher. If you've always been 'the guy' that all women adore, you're probably more likely to treat them as you've been treated. If you've been met with constant and perhaps cruel rejection for decades and then due to income increase or being a late bloomer the revenge complex can really come into play if all the sudden the tables are turned.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:37 PM
1

Body counts don't matter unless you are emotionally invested, looking for a wife or mother to your children.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:42 PM
1

With the rise of onlyfans, many won't have to imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:14 AM
2

30 to 40 year old men don't reject 30 to 40 year old women in hopes that they'll end up with 18-22 year old women. Besides, attractive enough 18-22 year old women outnumber hot, successful, fun, rich, tall, charming, mature, desirable 30 to 40 year olds like 1000 to 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:52 PM
2

All these decent guys getting consistently rejected and passed over for like 15 years then once they get a little money these women come back around again after so many failed relationships, older, fatter, and saddled with bagged and expect these men to just swoop in. Ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:15 PM
4

Yeah, imagine a bunch of people at a job fair and they're all rejecting all the job offers because they're not starting at 100k. It would be silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:48 PM
1

What's the sex ratio for elephant seals? 4% of males sire 84% of offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:42 AM
4

Because women reject men in hopes of landing a tall rich men. Most won't. So then if they don't want to stay single they're forced to settle for a shorter guy with less money...after they're old, desperate and saddled with baggage. If every tall, rich, handsome, non cheater, sweet, funny, charming man without ED etc were all located on one island women would quickly change their tune and adjust accordingly. Women who refuse a man because he isn't tall or rich is just delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:29 AM
5

The point is that female virginity is important and has value to men. Male virginity doesn't to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:02 PM
9

I've never offered money for sex, I've been offered sex for money more times than I can remember. So you know who taught me that sex is something to be bought? Women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:40 PM
7

That's cute. 99% of the time women offer sex for money, men don't offer money for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:31 PM
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It sure would make everything easier
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:03 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Virginity_auction Male virginity isn't worth jack compared to women's.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:01 PM
1

I know so many women with implants. Zero of which were ever rejected because of their tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:41 PM
85

Male virgins have no special value to women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:38 PM
5

If a girl has had threesomes, what's the likelihood she'll want to allow her husband and father of her children bang other women in front of her?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:32 PM
1

I think childcare should be encouraged more than anything. Children are adult at 18, marriages are expected to last forever? Seems backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:29 PM
1

It's weird. All the most promiscuous women I know sex isn't about 'pleasure' it's about control, or attention or way of self harm. It almost always when they're drunk or abusing some kind of substance. There's always some level of shame to it. It's always reasoned with like, 'It's because so and so got married and I'm not' BPD, risk taking etc. It reminds me of Vickie Miner in Reality Bites.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:27 PM
1

The only power men have is willingness to walk away. Many have nothing to walk away from. So many might as well make as much money as you can, get some enjoyable hobbies, travel, get a dog and focus on putting women at the bottom of your list because the juice isn't going to be worth the squeeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:21 PM
4

If a woman has 'low libido', I'd bet a fresh new attractive partner later she'll definitely be back to it....at least for awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:39 PM
1

Nobody is jealous of these men's choice in a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 02:08 PM
0

Because often they'll be forced to anyway. The number of guys that were rejected in high school by women their own age only to age 10 years and then see their option grow is all too common. In highschool they weren't good enough but now they are after the girls in their highschool have failed to find someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 02:06 PM
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Usually it just buys you more time. Gets her to stop wanting to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 02:03 PM
5

Time>standards. Then some woman resents the guys she ends up with because he's her failure personified.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:45 AM
9

I'm 6'3", 215lbs, very fit. Full head of hair, bought a house at 22, bachelor's degree, 100k income female friends blah blah But I don't drink so I'm very, very behind and all that doesn't seem to be enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:02 PM
1

No. I workout at the gym at least 3 days and live a fit and active lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:59 AM
3

you accept this arrangement or you stay single. If you reject this arrangement you're labeled insecure and a terrible person and solo loser weirdo. There's no winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:39 PM
1

So, if you're not a promiscuous man and you don't desire a promiscuous woman why does it still seem so problematic still?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:33 AM
2

"Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" women become furious if they're the ones rejected. A guy who doesn't prioritize women/sex is always labeled gay/loser/weirdo. If you're sexless and bitter you're a hateful loser. If you're content in your sexlessness you're just a regular loser. When a husband or boyfriend is no longer motivated by sex or the false promise of sex he becomes worthless to her because her power is gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:54 AM
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It's funny that the thought of just being perceived as promiscuous is an offensive insult to nonpromiscuous women. Yet actally being promiscuous is something promiscuous women think men should desire in a life partner. What a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:50 AM
2

I'm sure if a guy was sucking strangers dick in the bathroom at the club and the next day demanded his date pay for his meal, women would criticize him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:54 AM
1

If a man has lots of close awesome friends, family, money, pets, hobbies, travels his own home/homes and doesnt want kids and tells any female that he is happy with his life she will almost always say, "but what about sex?" Because they know it's the main thing he might be missing and the most valuable thing woman can offer him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:03 PM
1

When woman say they are unable to have children I just tell then it's okay because you won't die if you can't have a baby. It really helps them understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:57 PM
4

Hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:45 PM
2

That's only because he's getting his too. I'm sure it's easy to marry a promiscuous woman If you're a promiscuous man and then some. Most men are not promiscuous, many can't even date but then are expected to give their soul for some ass after she's given it to Tom, dick, Harry, Larry and their brothers already.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:16 PM
3

So feminism isn't about equality because obviously feminism 100% judges male sexual activity. If it's not about equally then it should be no suprise that men would be against feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:14 PM
5

That's why it's a double standard. A man alone on an island with 10 woman might be in sexual heaven. A woman alone on an island with 10 men is most likely going to be a sexual dangerous nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:42 PM
1

Diagnosed bpd she seems to be doing alright Yeah. I bet her friends see her husband as a real catch if she even has female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:09 PM
3

Do women have respect and admireration for their female friends who sleep around with strangers?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:07 PM
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Women aren't envious of promiscuous women who sleep with random strangers. They don't get jealous of their friend blowing random dudes in the club bathroom. They don't wish they could bang two guys in one night. I knew a girl that slept with two men in the same night and she went to therapy over it. If a guy bangs two in one night, it's probably one of his best memories.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:04 PM
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They're hyopcrits because they've had sex with tons or women? Because they've slept with women they've just only met? They gave it up easily for a stranger woman but then felt entitled to be wined and dined and doted upon?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:00 PM
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No, it's about bring cheated on and expending more for less. If she's the type to fuck random strangers, the she's more likely to cheat. She doesn't care about the partner just the sex/validation. I'm never met a highly promiscuous woman that was mentally healthy. She gives it up for nothing to strangers but requires you to jump through hoop after hoop. Just not a good deal. She has threesomes with random couples but if your her man, it's never happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:28 PM
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This is a good point. I think it goes the other way too. Some women completely lean into being hot and that being their only 'good value', it's their entire personality/job. I think this is what guy mean when they say some objectify themselves. Sex workers don't want clients to actually know them or there real selves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:23 PM
1

People date cheaters all the time because they're cheating on someone with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:07 PM
2

So he's teenage heartthrob as a 23 year old, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:09 PM
2

Doesn't he pretend to be a teenager
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:15 PM
1

The point is leading men, Hollywood or otherwise aren't men who are 18-25.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:05 PM
0

Meh, I've know 19 year olds and 27 year olds that dated 40+ year old dudes. If those 40 year old guy was 19 he'd have never had a chance. I know they're movie stars but George Clooney, John Ham, even Chris Hemsworth at 19 years old vs thrm at like 35-40. Way more distinguished, rich, mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:20 PM
2

Never, ever let complain to women, esp about getting women. They don't give a shit. Keep that shit to yourself or vent to other guys who share your frustrations. Don't ever go beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:33 PM
5

I wish I could find them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:30 PM
2

I'd bet there's a 35-40 years old good looking fit rich guy you'd love 10x more than any average 19 year old boy your own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:30 PM
1

Yeah the truth. "We'd rather share a desirable man and be part of a harem then date losers'
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:25 PM
0

Yeah, when men were in charge for countless generations women had all this and then went and fucked it all up...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:22 PM
9

And yet still gay relationships have considerably more sex than lesbien ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:50 PM
2

Anything. It's never 50/50. She'll complain about plates but has never mowed the lawn, taken out the trash, cleaned the gutters/roof, did zero automobile maintenance, never fixed any plumbing, hvac or drywall, never put together, built or installed shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:06 PM
2

If a man is paying then she better be picking up his damn plates.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:34 PM
1

100% Men as fathers have failed many daughters who then become problematic partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:33 PM
1

Do dolls take away the need for babies?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:09 PM
1

Does a man have to pay for sex once or a few times before it's a turn off?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:40 AM
2

Perfect. I wish I could find a woman who didn't have baby rabies
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:38 AM
1

Banging random strangers is pretty casual
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:37 AM
1

Key words. Casual. Many. If she's giving it away, why would I want to pay more? If she's giving it away often, how is she holding value to herself? If she's so willing so often, how can I trust her?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:06 PM
1

Slut - a woman who has many casual sexual partners. I mean, I'd say 5+ years younger might be pushing it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:42 PM
1

Fidelity tops everything 1-3 - don't care as long as she's attractive, feminine and hygienic/well groomed Not fat Don't care, as long as she is economically fair Don't care, as long as she doesn't use it against me Not trying to emotionally invest in a slut See #7 Agnostic Bi Younger Non political
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:57 PM
1

Knew a girl 27ish with a guy 40+. He was married and she had a serious boyfriend. Crazy part is I'd bet that if they were both single and he was like 30+, they wouldn't have never gotten together.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:24 PM
1

you are watching another guy fuck a girl Jokes on you, I consume milf/teen strap on lesbien porn
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:10 PM
3

This is like saying, "Todays society is PERFECT for people, we have mega yachts, helicopters, super cars all the best shit ever"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:15 AM
5

100% Cold approach's are cold because the 'target' gave ZERO indicators of interest. If you have ZERO indicators of interest and you cold approach, you're doing it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 11:02 PM
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Male 'beauty standards' are disqualifiers for sex with women. Female beauty standards are just excuses women need to make up to justify their anxieties.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 10:58 PM
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Women - "I know plenty of decent, attractive, nice guys that I'm not sexually attracted to" Also Women - "You fucking incel loser, you must be horrible if you can't get laid, the bar is in hell"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 10:48 PM
1

Some women think they love men, but in reality they only love the way men make them feel about themselves. Which is why every man they're involved with are interchangeable and never matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:05 AM
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I could avoid a 40 hour work week to do onlyfans or porn I’d do it. This is an uncommon and unhealthy way to view sex and this is why most normal healthy women are disgusted by the idea. If you go up to a random woman and offer her 10k, 20k, 30k to perform a teen/milf threesome, most are going to be very offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:02 AM
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Japan is an island and wasn't literally BUILT on immigration. Why be a poor conservative hating the rich screwing you over when you can be a poor conservative hating other poor people?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:47 AM
5

Chads are bar tenders or drug dealers or both and then go into real estate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:31 PM
5

I think the right does the same, hating desperate migrants and the poors
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:31 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:29 PM
2

He's literally a punk that Ciara has a baby by and then Russell married lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 08:39 PM
1

Women prefer douchbags to boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:01 PM
1

I've never heard of a woman being a commitment phob
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:59 PM
5

Women be like, "I'm not that type of girl" yes, yes you are, just stop with the bullshit. Just say you need more resources to trade for your ass. Just say you trade you ass for resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:49 PM
0

For a man to be respected, he has to be admired. He has to be someone other men look up to and aspire to be. Generally, young men are not out here being like, "oh shit yeah, let me wife up some single mom who's had kids with some professional baby daddy." Might as well marry one of Nick Cannons baby mamas.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:44 PM
0

Not just any man, literally the most bad boy fuck boi rapper.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:21 PM
1

Well, it's not as if women don't sleep with men they know they aren't going to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:57 PM
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Most women see most men as unattractive and even guys they think are 'attractive' they aren't trying to sleep with. Guys will sleep with anything if she meets his GLE (good looking enough) threshold
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:34 PM
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I hope women understand that guys will enjoy fucking GLE (good looking enough) women they actually can't stand or even hate. But as far as emotional investment....horoscopes and being whoo whoo is huge
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:32 PM
1

It's not like some system you buy into. It's just a reaction to the realities of male and female dynamics in the 21st century
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:00 AM
11

Don't ever marry a promiscuous woman, just don't. Some are going to read this, do it anyway and then regret it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:26 AM
1

TRP doesn't fix your bones or height but making sure you hold frame and your self respect is important. It might not help you get 'laid' but it helps you in various relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:21 AM
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Having good frame but being overall unattractive is still important. Otherwise your an ugly, desperate doormat that some woman will toy with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:35 PM
2

Reject tall guys with records and horrible credit and go for short guys who enjoy building 'adult' legos and receding hairlines.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:29 PM
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Yeah...most 10/10 women don't go for that esp if you want them when you want and want them to bring a friend etc. If you wanted an stunning tight bodied 18 year old wearing a school uniform blowing you while getting banged by a knock out 45 year old wearing a teachers uniform, a strap on and 6inch black heels on Tuesday at 330pm. You COULD see how long it would take you to get that or you just shell out 1,000 bucks. You can basically enact any legal porn scene at any time when you have the money…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:22 PM
2

Lol, I'd bet money most highly promiscuous woman would 100% accept money for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:19 PM
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Why? I bet girls walking around town have been with more men than girls that charge 10k
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:40 AM
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Frame, having and holding frame is super important.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:33 AM
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When you have enough money to pay girls 10k a night and can get the most beautiful, sexy women and have them do exactly what you want and your time is hyper valuable it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:32 AM
1

Japan
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:59 AM
9

I've seen an amazing 50yr old the other day
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:53 AM
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Women who earn money and are willing to pay for their own shit doesn't make her sexy but it's important.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:56 PM
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Maybe if these men had an actual chance. But they don't Exactly. Guys that knowingly marry promiscuous women do so because they don't have better options. These guys have little dating experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:58 PM
2

Love is about exclusiveness and that seems harder and harder to come by.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:56 PM
2

I've wondered If naturally woman started to conceive way more females If men would be as interested in having kids. I figure lots of men don't want kids as much as they want sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:55 PM
1

It's not sperm donation insemination though, it's embryonic implantation which is very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:47 PM
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Lol. It's funny how upset women get when men say they don't want to wife up a promiscuous woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:45 PM
1

Sex selective embryonic implantation is already a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:58 PM
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Hence Japan
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:56 PM
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On a scale of 8 billion...that's a lot of single men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:55 PM
5

Dope, just gotta wait until your 70s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:54 PM
6

So their husband's were real lady killers than, tons of dating experience? Their husband's are fully aware? Their husband's aren't cucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:37 PM
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Most women do and if they got a man, they don't like to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:20 PM
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Guys without better options
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:06 AM
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But I bet their woman don't spend their own money to maintain their cars
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:05 AM
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Single woman pay for a mechanic, which I'm sure they love, esp when their friends with men don't have to. I've never met woman with a man who pays a mechanic to work on her car. Either the man pays a mechanic or he does it himself. Be it a boyfriend, husband, brother, dad etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:54 PM
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They don't. They want a wedding for status and because of Hollywood. They want a husband for status and to deal with everything they don't. They don't want to take out the trash, deal with the car, the furnace, the yard, the dogs etc. When single woman or a woman without a dedicated boyfriend complains about x, y and z and then their married friends or those with men are like, "I wouldn't know my hubby takes care of all that for me" the envy is palatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:48 PM
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I've never met a promiscuous woman that wasn't a victim of massive trauma. It's usually a cycle of pain -> substance abuse -> sex & food
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:20 PM
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Women seems to want a husband but they don't want to be wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:18 PM
1

They're impressed by something
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:12 AM
0

It's weird to me that women understand why men wouldn't want to be in a relationship prostitute but don't understand why men are averse to being in a relationship with a promiscuous woman...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:11 AM
0

I've never seen a woman admire or be envious of another women for getting sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:08 AM
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Like why is it when a man sleeps with woman easily he's desired by women and envied by men but when a woman easily sleeps with men other women are not envious and men don't want to invest in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:06 AM
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Then women wonder why they're double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:35 PM
0

Men aren't trying to waste money. Rich men also aren't trying to waste their time. Women who feign interest for resources are gold diggers, it doesn't matter if it's for a beer or for their rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:32 PM
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guys don't have to 'tell themselves' anything when you have women who literally just go on dates for free food and drinks A guy doesn't have to be rich to pay for dates and going on dates that never go anywhere adds up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:09 PM
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Men without a lot of money are going to be way more concerned about a woman using them. If a guy is paying for drinks and dinner and it's like a large portion of his disposal income, he'd much rather have a woman that actually likes him instead of one who just wants free dinner/drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:23 PM
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I've also heard the opposite like, "he's not attractive and has so many flags, I'm so confused as to why I'm cheating on my amazing husband with him" Women and sex aren't like men and sex...at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:21 PM
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Western Women are like, "men are terrible" Men are like, "I'm going abroad to find women that I would be happier with" Western women are like, "I hate that men I hate are going abroad to get women"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:48 PM
5

Too many women get married because of how much it benefits them to divorce and then hate the man they married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:50 AM
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Women be like, "men are horrible" Men be like, "marriage is a horrible scam, don't do it" Women be like, " actually, marriage is beneficial to men" and start to defend marriage but never men themselves...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:00 PM
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You're 100% correct, I'm just talking about sexual trauma in the context of 'hook up' culture. I've never met a highly promiscuous woman that didn't experience sexual trauma as a child. I've also never known a highly promiscuous woman that didn't cheat. Which is why I think promiscuous woman make for very poor emotional investment and wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 02:05 PM
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It's harder to have sexual trauma if you only have sex within a relationship. If you're getting fucked up at the bars/clubs & meeting random strangers online the likelihood you've have some fucked up sexual shit go down is way higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:21 AM
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I've never met a women who was highly promiscuous that hadn't been though some kind of massive trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:19 AM
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I bet a lot of escorts have had less partners than some of these hoes out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:18 AM
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A female doctor is much less likely to date a male nurse. A male doctor has no issue dating a female nurse. Every amazing sexy/hot female will grow old and age and lose their sex appeal, men are already downgrading every passing year.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:17 AM
1

I'd bet money if Ethan Slader was single, Ariana wouldn't have gotten with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:32 PM
1

Having a complete stranger bust his nut in your mouth after a few days of gross camping and banging you in someone else's tent next to a sleeping person...yeah that's what I'd want for my daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:31 PM
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Ha no. I come from shit, my life is objectively amazing actually. I haven't become an amoral man so I still go though witnessing constantly other dudes 'clean up'. Example - I went on this amazing bachelor party at a remote lake with like damn near 30 dudes. It was an epic forest party with lights, music, boats, waterfalls the whole 9. I've got all my own nice gear and I'm helping everyone set up and cook and clean etc. This other dude doesn't help with shit, takes WAY much, loses his mind and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:23 PM
3

Here's the thing. I come from shit and women who don't come from shit don't want a guy who comes from shit. Women who come from shit, who 'get it' will be attractive or not. The attractive ones who get a lot of male attention will weaponize it or compound their trauma or both. Being amoral gets men laid 1000% more. Especially since easy woman don't usually care. Sadly 2 faithful couples have less sex than 4 cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:33 PM
13

I always looked up to Superman and other movie heros. I wanted to be a good guy and do the right things. I remember unintentionally developing feelings for this woman I knew....and she was cheating on her husband with a guy who was cheating on his girlfriend. I realized that being a cheater, liar, sneaky slim ball gets guys way farther than being a 'good guy'. I could never pull off the lovable sleaze ball so I didn't change. I don't have to feel bad about who I am but I still see the drug deale…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:10 PM
1

Probably less than divorced people. Point being is that you might have X amount that never divorce but how many of them are happily married? How many aren't divorced by they're separated? How many are still married but would divorce in a heartbeat if they could? How many never married people are miserable BECAUSE they lack a spouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:53 AM
1

There's women I'd hated and I'd 100% would have loved to bend them over.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:54 PM
1

Best option at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:53 PM
1

Even if a guys is hyper sexually attracted, he's not going to bring a girl around if he know she's slutty. If there's a chance someone in the social circle has already been there, he's going to avoid that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:53 PM
1

Unless he's worried that his friends have already been there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:51 PM
3

Definitely not my definition of 'pick me'. Pick me is like desperate door mat
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:44 PM
24

"I don't want some guy out there with all these hoes...but then I'm like, why don't he got no hoes?"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:29 PM
1

I know a married couple that hasn't gotten divorced. They're miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:27 PM
1

Doubt. You show a woman 100 photos of fit, tall men with nice teeth and a full head of hair and I'd bet money that she'd say more than 10 are attractive enough to desire to sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:08 PM
4

Probably because many died and many were genetic losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:31 PM
5

Harem or polygamy is non functional even in the most basic human humanoid. Right....which is why most women find most men unattractive...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:28 PM
5

For countless generations most men didn't reproduce. A minor of men got all the women. Then society informed pair's for such a long time but it's clear how many women are okay with being some high ststus man's mistress than to go out and find a regular single man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:52 PM
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It's interesting. If women could they would send all the undesirable men away but then they'd be mad they'd all have to compete for the tiny minority of men that women actually would want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:20 PM
5

still at our core we're all just primates. 'Civil society' is just the fresh unstable dusting on top of mile thick layer of countless generations of primal social group dynamics and hierarchies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:23 PM
2

I really admire and respect a good step dad. They can literally make all the difference in a young childs life, ESP a young male. A young male with a good step dad makes for a better citizen, neighbor, co-worker, partner, friend etc. Shout out to all the good step dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:18 PM
1

Until she's popping out his baby....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:16 PM
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Yet if a guy didn't have much or any sexual experience it is seen as a flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:15 PM
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the most promiscuous men I've met all had one thing in common. They were all drug dealers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:14 PM
1

A women will jam a toilet brush ALL the way the fuck into a toilet and NEED to call a (usually male) plumber and pay a fee. She'll neglect her gas furnace and have to call a (usually male) HVAC person. She'll neglect her car and have to call a (usually male) mechanic. She won't want to mow her yard so she'll call a (usually male) groundskeeper. I could go on and on and on. Women can call a man to do a 'mans job' and pay him and nobody will say anything. Men call a women to fuck him and it's horr…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:12 PM
1

If a woman isn't into threesomes that's fine and I respect that. If she's had threesomes before and she doesn't want that with me, I'm going to find one that will. Nobody want's to be with someone after they've already given their best to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:08 PM
2

Basically every cells job is to replicate. The best way for a human man to replicate is sex. Because to a man, sex = replication. Women sex = replication + pregnancy + vulnerability + burden and it can only happen every 9~ months MAX. If a man has sex with 100 women in 9 months he could potentially replicate 100 time which is a huge genetic win. If a women has sex with 100 men in 9 months she'll have replicated once and have a hell of a time trying to convince one of them to invest the resources…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:06 PM
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It's a flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:05 AM
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I've never met a promiscuous woman who wasn't using sex/sexuality as some kind of coping mechanism or method of self harm due to abuse/trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:15 PM
15

Women sexual behavior it seems is very context based. Using an example from popular media, Monica had sex with Chandler because her brother was getting married and Joey wasn't avaliable. Chandler had sex with Monica because she's attractive and he has a punishment. So there's basically unlimited situations in which Chandler would be willing to sleep with Monica but very, very specific situations where Monica would find herself sleeping with Chandler. I've seen things similar play out in real lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:05 PM
1

I do better now that I work out, am more mature/experienced, dress better, better haircut and have money. All just comes with time and aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:25 PM
2

Knew a girl who was perpetually 'single', basically getting hummed and dumped a lot. Settled for a 'short' guy that she normally would've rejected. They're getting married this month.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:23 PM
2

Most women reject most men and then when asked why they can't even articulate why. When women stay with shitty guys and asked why, it usually boils down to just, "he's hot"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 12:08 PM
3

It doesn't take much to get rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:48 PM
18

Sex can also be far more dangerous for women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:38 PM
1

Biologically speaking, men can have children with many women. Women can only every 9~ months and the cost it very high.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:41 AM
1

When sisters, mothers and friends that are women complain that their 'great' brother/son/friend is really having a hard time due to the socioeconomic climate in dating, it very much, "I KNOW right!" People feel heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:26 PM
1

Get with a guy in which he has no other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 12:18 AM
2

How long do I have to wait vs how long did she make others guys wait? If she made every single guy she's ever had sex with wait, then it's fine if she's worth the wait. If she was a virgin and was worth it, I'd wait too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:53 PM
12

Women love when a man is traditional, pay for everything, does all lawn work/house projects/automobile tasks but they often aren't tryna be traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 09:12 PM
27

100% the first insult that women lob at men is attacking their ability to get women to sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:55 PM
2

What the incentive to fuck random strangers?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:18 PM
3

If you're a woman who's priority is finding a guy who will treat you like a child by being your provider, then just do that. Just stop with all this equality bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:16 PM
0

What do women gain by fucking random strangers? Blowing guys they don't even know their name in the club bathroom?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:14 PM
0

If you're a healthy, fit guy with money, friends, family, hobbies and has everything he wants, of course getting laid is priority #1. Priority #1 is always the thing you don't have. Ever notice women who want to have a baby are always wanting to have a baby?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:13 PM
4

So many guys at 18 vs 28 do SO much better with woman it's not even funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:10 PM
11

Promiscuous women hate being judged so they snap back. I bet money any professional psychologist will tell you that fucking loads of random strangers isn't healthy behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:09 PM
1

This is always what I tell woman who wish to have a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:45 AM
11

Any vulnerability you show a woman, when the chips are down she will use it against you to hurt you. She will try and cut you down with it. 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:25 AM
2

It depends on life goals. If my desire is to travel the world, I could do it alone. If I have a partner that I have to carry us both I wouldn't be able to. Having a partner who can carry her weight, then we can share that dream together.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:54 PM
2

For countless generations 2 women + 1 man = 2 babies. Genetic winning. 2 men + 1 women = only 1 baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:52 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:24 PM
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Most guys would sleep with their 'purely platonic' female friends if given the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:22 PM
1

Good, drain the gene pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:11 AM
1

Why do some women have zero standards when it comes to having a baby? Men want sex as much as women want babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:42 PM
1

I didn't say better did I? I'm talking about Children and women having similar testosterone vs adult male levels of testosterone. Countless generations of humans had women smaller and weaker compared to men. Much like children, dependent on men for survival and protection. Men view women and children the same. Weak and in need of protection to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:33 PM
-1

Men don't give jewelry or gifts to women they don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:49 PM
-1

Yes, women are physically weaker on average then men. Men have more testosterone on average than women. Women have the testosterone and physical strength much more like children than adult men. Laying out facts always sounds misogynist to women because it's exactly how children react.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:47 PM
2

The only women I've ever met who had this attitude were ones that men didn't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 12:58 PM
3

Women to men are much more childlike than men to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 12:56 PM
0

Most hoes will eventually want a ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:54 PM
2

The guys I know that got laid the most where party drug dealers
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:29 PM
1

Or if you're paying 1k an hour
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:58 PM
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Unless the girl finds out that the reason you didn't futher invest was because of her past. Hearing from women who got dumped by guys they really, really wanted commitment from due to their past....it's like you can see them flashing back to all those unsatisfying, drunkin encounters with random men who they didn't even know and the regretful mornings after all come bubbling to the surface again and how NOT worth it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:31 PM
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Drinking/drug use and hooking up are very intertwined. If you're not a drinker, you're usually not hooking up either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:31 PM
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"Oh, you had a hoe phase? That's cool, I'm actually in a noncommittal phase right now so I get that."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:52 PM
5

This happened to me too a few times. I didn't make a move because I didn't want to offend and then that was the ends of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:12 PM
2

People who are successful aren't always successful with women. People with limited options take what they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:27 PM
1

This is why men don't see these types of women as wife material.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:19 PM
1

18 year old Jessica Simpson met 25 year old Nick Lachey. I'd bet money that 18 year old Jessica Simpson would not have been attracted to 18 year old Nich Lachey.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:33 AM
1

Women that date Older guys would never date them when they were the same age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:59 PM
2

If a woman is posting thirst trap pics solo, that's disrespectful to her man. If she liking thirst traps, it's similar I'd say.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:35 PM
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Lol. Every single woman I know that is single is sick and tired of having to reject so many guys. Yet It's all for superficial reasons because they know there's a line of countless men waiting for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:51 PM
3

This isn't a bad idea, I'm just annoyed that people have to spend money to develop a social circle as a regular somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:13 AM
1

Every 'get rich' program is at the expense of someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 06:06 PM
1

The guys that ghost after 3 dates don't get to care about 'purity'
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:43 PM
2

Not good looking enough. I always had plenty of female friends and friends in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:47 PM
1

Even when a woman knows 100% she won't marry a guy, she will dump him if he says he doesn't want to get married. She takes it as pre rejection and will reject the guy first before he has a chance, even if she was going to reject him anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:58 PM
1

One of the most memorable things a woman did for me was super low effort but I'll never forget it. It was totally sex related though so....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:15 AM
1

If I was dating a woman and she cooked and cleaned for me I would feel really impressed and appreciative. Paying for things would seem like a privilege. Like we are taking care of each other, like a team. However, if she was into all the sexy stuff I like, she'd never have to lift a finger or so much as cook a cup of noodles and I probably wouldn't even notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:40 PM
2

Still sexual I'd say
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:23 PM
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Cook and clean. I will say I do love it when they fall asleep laying their head on your chest. Back/shoulder rubs are good too. Picnics are nice. Handholding.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:22 PM
1

Spending time together isn't the same as living together. Living together isn't the same as raising a family together. Even raising a family isn't the same as spending all the remaining time of your life together. We have fairy tailed ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 06:29 PM
1

I guess what I mean is that relationships don't have to end with a blowout. An amazing, incredible relationship can end just because you know you don't see a future.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:13 PM
1

I get your point but for sure some people are just looking to date for the sake of dating. A person may have just gotten out of a 2 year, serious relationship and so even if they're dating someone they know 100%, they aren't going to marry, they'll still date them because they're having so much fun and they aren't trying to jump from serious to serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:24 PM
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Someone could be dating for 6 months, have an amazing time then dump or get dumped and be left wondering wtf happened. But the reality would be that despite an amazing 6 months they know it's not for life just because of something else. The point being is that people expect a relationship to end in a huge fight or blow up or in a bad, horrible way. However, people seem to be so troubled when it ends when everything seems amazing, even if it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:21 PM
2

Sometimes they don't show until later. They aren't deal breakers for dating but they would be for something more perhaps
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:19 PM
0

You could be dating someone for six months and be 100% down to keep dating but little things have popped up that shows that the next level isn't the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:18 PM
3

Guys go for girls who aren't ugly or fat, then they go for who's the best to be around, the best lay, cook, fun etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:51 AM
1

Sounds like survivorship bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:02 AM
2

Agreed. Either he doesn't know or his options are limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:15 AM
3

Wants a partner who's faithful but cheats themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:13 AM
15

If a chick has fucked 80+ guys and 67~ of those where one night stands, that says a lot about the type of person she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:59 PM
10

I think the height thing is more of a statistic thing. Like some of these woman don't understand how being 6'3" is the 97.4% Percentile of all men in the U.S. I know this girl who rejected so many guys for not being tall and now she's marrying a guy shorter than dudes she rejected for not being all enough. So basically in the end, she played herself and it was for not. The money thing is funny too. "The girls with the bodies like boys with Ferraris" There are SO many more 'girls with the bodies'…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:55 PM
3

This is one of the realist comments I've seen posted by a woman and I felt it. I think it goes both ways. I would rather be threesome material than boyfriend material. Nobody wants to be the boyfriend to the girl who's having threesomes with other couples but instead see you an less sexual but great dad kinda guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:14 AM
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Them - "how can I get my boyfriend of 3 years to wash his ass?" Me - "you dated a guy who didn't wash his ass....and then made him your boyfriend....for YEARS!?" I'm only imagining what type of women would do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:40 AM
1

If things are fair, they do the bathroom or the laundry and their husband in return does the oil etc. Instead they bitch and moan about the housework but still demand their husband do everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:14 PM
1

You're delusional If you think most women would happily change their own oil if they had a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:37 PM
12

If no kids then it falls part
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:03 PM
1

would I have to do this if I lived alone?" If the answer is yes, then just go do it. I'd love for husbands to tell their wives this too and see how they feel about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:03 PM
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Every woman I know HATES the idea of cleaning, cooking being THEIR job but LOVE that mowing the lawn, taking out the trash, cleaning the gutters, bringing the cans to the street, pickup up the branches after a windstorm and hacking them up, picking up the dog shit, anything automotive related, hanging the shelves, building the closet, fixing the drawers, installing the mailbox, changing the light bulbs and of course SPIDERS and countless other things are still a 'MANS' job.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:00 PM
3

100% compare sexual partners, but sometimes they aren't different enough to matter. The insecurity about their previous partners isn't just about comparing yourself to them, but the statistical probability of her cheating or how much she values herself. If she has fucked tons of random strangers then she's more likely to cheat than if she's the type to only have sex after developing a connection or being in a relationship. Not to say that those types of girls never cheat, it's just a statistical…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:43 PM
2

51%+ take what they can get 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:22 PM
1

Depends. If she wants to pay she's a 6, otherwise still a 5. If I'm rich enough, definitely still a 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 12:53 PM
6

Because lower tier men of the pyramid are the ones left to commit to them. They're the ones these women settle for after their past their prime. These guys have been rejected before and now after they've been single for a really long time, these ran through women come back around. These guys are so lonely they are forced to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 12:51 PM
12

This is true. A man might marry her but only If she is still the best option and there will still be some resentment. He won't treat her or love her as much. Ghosts of cocks past will always be a splinter in his mind. When she wants something, he'll always think about what he would say if she didn't have such a past vs not, like himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 12:47 PM
8

Women are like employers hiring shitty workers and keeping them around. Men are like workers, taking what they can get. Let's not forget that saying women love, "women fuck who they want, men fuck who they can"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 12:41 PM
17

Ugly women are like those making $15hr in America. Ugly men are like those living off $1 a day in the poorest country on Earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:51 PM
3

Some relationships have a shelf life. Amazing for 6 months but then just got bad due to time. I had a blast in some places I've traveled to but would hate to live there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:47 AM
1

Well they bring it up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 11:34 PM
2

If I meet a woman and she's very hush hush about sex or never brings it up, then I don't really think about it. I don't see her in that way maybe. However, some bring it up all the time, talk about what they've done, whom they've done, etc etc. Then it's all I think about everytime I see them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:45 PM
2

It's a feedback loop I think. I heard this girl tell a story about her friend having a threesome at burning man with a random couple and then banging another random dude. Now when I see her I always think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:43 PM
1

100%
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:40 PM
1

Sadly true for many
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:57 AM
5

Being into boozing and drugs will get you way more opportunities for getting laid. All the guys I know who get laid the most and have the most friends are drug dealers. Not like 'the wire' but like the successful guys who likes to party and always has shrooms, molly, dmt, coke, Xanax, lsd, percs etc. They're always super popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:33 AM
1

No. My original comment was just about what society would look like with 99% of babies being born female. Like a mix between 'Childen of Men', 'The Last Y', 'Hamdmaidens' that episode of 'Sliders'
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:32 AM
1

Think of all the SHOPPING
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:29 AM
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They were mainly one night stands and I found it a bit grim that he’d slept with so many strangers on a night out. Yeah, when a woman is like "I've had 70+ one night stands" that's what concerning body count is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:12 AM
1

They don't do construction or commercial fishing, oil rig work, mining, pipe fitting, septic tank install, 95% of pilots are male and so are 75% of farmers...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:08 AM
1

Maybe, or they just go lez
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:04 AM
0

Imagine all babies born from here on out are 99% female. How much will they effect everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:19 PM
2

I tried to find myself on the female calculator and I don't even exist. I guess being 6'3" not fat and making more than 80k does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:31 AM
1

17.3% because of fatties
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:28 AM
1

So many women would be so attractive if they weren't fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:05 AM
1

Here's another, for every 100 females, there are 105 males born. For every 100 million women, there's 5 million men who are 100% SOL
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:24 PM
1

In a primal sense, women's bodies etc gotta be fit for child bearing. Men's just gotta be fit to fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:46 AM
-1

Probably not. That's why sex has to be such a strong motivator to men. Otherwise women aren't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:43 AM
10

So true. Single guys are very content with little, it's only when they are trying to date do they spend $$$
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:42 AM
4

It's overwhelming now. These are people's brothers and sons now. Almost everyone knows a guy in this boat. Also the violence and lashing out at society and self destruction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:40 AM
1

I know a good dude. He's successful but economic minded, neurotic, bald, short, unfortunate looking and in poor shape. He's a very decent guy but its no mystery why he's single. Some would see him as a loser for being single but it makes total sense to me. His options just aren't good.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:01 AM
8

I very much disagree that wanting to have sex with someone means you like them. They're are so many women I don't like that I would climb a mountain top to bang.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:58 PM
2

I know guys 6'3" plus that have decent jobs but don't make 6figs. They probably could get with gross, terrible attitude fatties but they'd rather just do their hobbies with their friends and pets but they are romantically lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:06 PM
1

People with options can be more picky. If woman is really into you and you dump her for a different one, it's almost guaranteed she'll tell everyone you're an asshole, even if you're very nice. If you're a desirable man and you date and then you break up at some point for any reason, she'll most likely tell everyone you're an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:03 AM
0

"Many trans men who go on testosterone therapy report feeling incredibly horny and irritable. They say it’s like nothing they ever experienced before they went on testosterone therapy. They start to view women lustfully as objects to fulfill their carnal desires." Pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:00 AM
1

Definitely single.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:12 AM
3

Know a guy with an open marriage. His wife gets around more than him. He makes really good money and is an overall cool dude. He doesn't garner much 'respect' though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:06 AM
1

naw, I always shoot for, "what do you like to do for fun"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:04 AM
2

seeking arrangement is the only dating website with more females than males
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:03 AM
2

They're broke
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:02 AM
1

It's usually easier just because $$$
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:01 AM
2

No, he gave her everything he could get his sons without a further battle. I swear these men or women need to document their divorces because shit is fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:37 PM
4

100% she knows if she leaves she is going to get $$$
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:06 AM
8

They bought the house together. They both had careers and she got the house and sold it and he got nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:03 PM
4

No, she didn't. He was the primary care taker at the time so he got the kids are she never paid child support and she got the house even though they bought it together...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:02 PM
15

My buddy's wife left him....because she was bored and she got a house for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:11 PM
1

Her parents
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:30 PM
1

Lol. My brother has never saved money. He's been homeless multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:29 PM
4

It's like asking, "How can some women accept or even beg for money from men for sex/dates/onlyfans/stripping/sugaring etc but then say that men who pay for such services are 'low value' and less respectable? Being a guy who can easily sleep with many women is a fantasy, it's not a reality. Being a women who can easily sleep with many guys is just up to her. Men have always wanted easy women but women didn't want to be easy. Then in the 60s, it was WOMEN who made it all possible, who made the cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:01 AM
1

That's a shame, I've never seen it myself but I guess that's just our different experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 07:58 PM
1

I don't
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 01:54 AM
1

No, no it doesn't. There's an entire moment of 'just believe women' especially if they come from money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:21 PM
0

Lol, that's rich. You're lucky you haven't been there to see these types of things play out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:20 PM
1

While I don't deny it's anecdotal, I've never known a single dad to just agree to give full custody and be forced to pay child support....never ever and I've known quite a lot. They always desire joint custody and then get strong armed by the mom and they can't afford the court process so they just give in. So then stats reflect...."dad didn't contest full custody/child support"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:18 PM
1

So basically our entire society is unsustainable
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:15 PM
1

Have you ever known a man to do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:04 PM
0

Would I imagine it's the majority of the cases? Probably not. However, source stats on custody arrangements don't factor in what is going on behind the scenes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:15 AM
2

It doesn't seem like you've been in a legal custody battle over kids with a woman who is willing to do and say anything to win...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:14 AM
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Of course he does. Time, effort, legal aid, online guides etc aren't nothing vs her well heeled parents and her word as a women against his own. How can he fight is she just says, "he molested them" and has the $$$ to hire a legal team against him? On paper, on statistics it looks like he gave up but he never had a fighting chance and I suspect that's the case much of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:40 AM
-1

Yeah....because some women would never threaten false allegations when child custody/child support payments are on the line...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:37 AM
0

Piss poor judgment and no money. (he doesn't support his kids at all and never married)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:00 AM
3

because they have no money? My buddy would have hired an attorney if he could have afforded it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:59 AM
2

Yeah, I could see this with most women. Women will notice a guy is attractive, comment as such but then say she isn't attracted to him which makes sense for a women to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:55 AM
1

Employee - "please don't judge me for being fired and/or quitting 50+ jobs in the past few years" When a women's sexual experience is 90% drunken ONS with random strangers, SHE IS NOT WORTH becoming emotionally invested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:25 AM
1

My dad was a decent man. My mom completely ruined his life and now he's dead. She did him SO dirty....that I found out I'm not even his son.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:22 AM
1

Women trade sex for relationships because how much it benefits them. If they really wanted to fuck the guy then the trade is just sex for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:10 AM
2

hard to fight when you don't have money
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:09 AM
6

The vast majority (80%) of custody arrangements are reached between the mother and father on their own. I knew a couple that did this....after she threated him with false allegations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:43 AM
0

My brother never wanted kids....he has like 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:42 AM
4

I would 100% be interested in being a parent if this society/world/environment/government/my own family weren't shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:42 AM
2

So I stick with what I got rather than chasing a greener pasture that may never materialize I'd bet money at least tens of millions of others feel the same. Romantic loneliness is easier for some than others I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:31 AM
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So, so, SO many of those. First, I think the number of people who would divorce if they could without financial consequences would be HUGE but I also think if you said, "You can divorce without consequences AND drop X amount of weight or get 100k" or whatever someone feels is their big detraction from finding someone better or leaving....jeeze the numbers would be astronomical. Be single is so easy for guys, the only hard part is the romantic loneliness but that shit isn't guaranteed once you ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:22 AM
2

population is in decline but it will stabilize. Care to expand on this 'rude surprise' for regular folk besides social security/program pyramid scheme collapse?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:09 AM
3

it is a real economic concern For the rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:07 AM
6

I also know a LOT of people are married but if they woke up tomorrow and it was the day before they met their spouse, they wouldn't make the same choices. Lots of unhappy marriages because divorce is too expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:07 AM
11

The point being that in and of itself doesn't make women attracted to you, it just means you don't be as repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:02 AM
10

Perhaps a little. Speaking biologically, a man who isn't getting enough sex is more like a women who is infertile. As long as humans have been humans and even before that, sex for women had the same cost or has gone down since birth control. It's only been since the modern divorce and custody laws did 'end game' commitment become so risky for men. Before, women expected food, shelter, protection from men. Now they want 6 fig min and all the bullshit consumer products etc etc. Men wanted sex mill…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:59 PM
1

Being tall, having full head of great hair, having perfect teeth, perfect skin, broad shoulders and being fit, smelling good, being well dressed/groomed are all +0. Being short, fat, balding, fucked up grill, acne, shit posture or bad hygiene are like -10 to -infinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:50 PM
2

There are plenty of women...particularly younger ones...who see a man who's hot as hell and who proceed to fuck the hell out of him without much fanfare. Women who sleep around will definitely fuck hot guys but these types will fuck 'regular' guys just as often.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:48 PM
2

This is why the men women love most are literally fucking vampires and werewolves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:44 PM
7

I've heard so many women say about a guy..."He checks so many boxes and he's so great and fun and this and that but I just don't know why I'm not into him" I've also heard women say, "He's horrible, abusive, gross, married or bad quality x,y and z BUT I can't quit him"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:43 PM
10

I know plenty of guys who are at least 6'3", fit/work out, broad shoulders and have nice teeth and a full head of great hair and women are just like....meh. They don't stick out at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:40 PM
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It's high compared to men. Why? Because biologically, sex is VERY expensive for women and has been for countless generations. Women can only replicate every 9 months, so the threshold for sexual attractiveness in a mate HAS to be higher. The biological expense for men is basically zero. A man could get 10+ women pregnant a day so male threshold for attractiveness is very low for most.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:37 PM
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So many women if they became single would instantly drop 40lbs and fuck like their livelihoods depended on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:03 PM
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Guys who are career ambitious don't need a career ambitious woman, they want a family ambitious woman. Ambitious women don't want a non ambitious man. Non ambitious men are resented by ambitious women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:07 PM
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I wish that Valentines day was seen as what it is, a bullshit holiday.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:22 AM
1

Ever notice that the men who women lust after and the men they want their sons to look up to are two completely different groups. Wholesomeness isn't sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:20 AM
1

I've never met a woman who wanted to fuck a teacher or thought male teachers where hot and desirable....female students on the other hand...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:16 AM
2

I appreciate it a lot when women highlight their feminine charm and put effort into looking even more sexy but that's different then washing it off and looking like a totally different person. Likewise, heel lifts and fake hair make men more attractive...until women find out they're not that tall and their hair is fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:11 AM
1

Cry like a baby to your mama or your sister/auntie, no woman wants to bang a baby or a weak man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 04:14 PM
2

That's really messed up and I'm sorry this happened to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:54 PM
2

Well, not terrible about themselves but terrible about that missing piece.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:17 PM
2

It's hard to untangle your self-worth from women when you have everything else so that's all that's left to want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:51 AM
1

Really promiscuous women that regularly drunk/drug bang strangers they met a bars are rarely sexually satisfied by these encounters. These encounters are usually a form of self harm due to mental illness or unhealed trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 08:43 PM
3

When you have everything except for romantic companionship, romantic companionship becomes that much more important. Someone with money, friends, family, hobbies, travels etc is going to be focused solely on what they lack.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 08:41 PM
1

I never met a women begging to marry a man who doesn't take care of his home... When a man owns a house or a few and his space is inviting, warm, clean and has style women beg to move in. When the guy doesn't want that, these types of women will usually complain about 'commitment phobia' which is laughable. Out of all the insults women lob at men it's the most flattering. "Boo hoo, I want this man to commit because hes in the top percent but he won't whaaa"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 08:34 PM
1

Yet women hate being 'forever girlfriends' and hate being 'future faked'
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 08:15 AM
1

well adjusted normal young girls. These aren't the types to have mdma threesomes or fuck like their lives depend on it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:27 PM
1

If you're 100% honest, don't drink, don't do drugs, don't eat trash food out and don't smoke your chances of participating in hook up culture is basically zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:10 PM
4

Men who don't want to be betabux in a dead-bedroom relationship should avoid significant commitment at all costs. I cannot stress this enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:58 AM
0

Not having the upperhand.... Almost zero men could be like, "she going to buy me a diamond ring and pay for all the dates" Where for most women this is the standard and norm despite having income of their own and not being royalty...smfh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:39 AM
4

those older people have an upper hand. This is every heterosexual relationship when it comes to women. Women almost always have the upper hand because options. It's why men have to pay for everything, make more, be taller, be it all and everything. It's Why women can have higher standards...THEY have the upper hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:59 PM
2

If he's got more to offer than others. I know a case of a 40+ dude who was KILLING it with girls in their 20s AND he was married AND these girls had boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:34 PM
2

Rp types that are good looking and rich get literally all the women. Because they usually lie and are full of shit too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:36 PM
1

Soft harem. Like 1 guy will be having like 6 girls a year and always have access to sex/dating. Those 6 girls will be single/having ONS those other 8 months of the year as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:37 PM
3

Knew a guy in his 40s who got dumped by his gf in her 20s because she didn't want to marry him for various reasons. However they were having threesomes with her best friend. Like she was cool with that, cool with him being married too. After she met her husband, but I would guess she's unwilling to share him unlike how she would 'share' her ex with her bestie. I would 100% rather be the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:34 PM
1

It's insane how dangerous 'spring break' and 'frat party's' are for women in terms of being sexually assaulted or doing something they will end up regretting. Even 'clubs' or 'bars' are so much more dangerous then regular dating. However, even armed with this information, women flock to them. Blows my mind they just don't host their own parties and invite vetted men they wanna have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:29 PM
1

I knew a girl and it blew my mind that she'd say shit like, "but he had a bmw"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:19 AM
1

Being tall, having your life together/career/not poor, having hair, being clean/hygienic, good grooming, can cook, kind/nice, funny, having a degree/education, nice smile, being fit are all qualities worth ZERO. Maybe you won't repel women but it's not enough in and of itself to attract them. To attract you need to be top in looks/money/status be exciting/dangerous, shameless, drug dealer, position of power or a lying narcissistic, selfish person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:14 AM
1

There's a reason they call it 'getting lucky' or 'luck' with women. Plenty of decent guys fail because they aren't at the right place at the right time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:09 AM
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But there are less single women in their 30-40s and they are usually no longer as promiscuous because now they're past their 'hoe phase' and 'looking for love' and 'stability'. It's realistic If you're a hot older guy. Lots of guys at 35 are way more attractive to 25 year olds then when they themselves were 25. At 18 I couldn't get an 18 year old. At 22 I could get tons of 18 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:50 AM
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But every guys best chance is with a promiscuous women. So it makes sense that older guys still try for younger girls. I remember how girls in my HS had huge crushes on 'Hot' teachers and I'd bet that If those hot teachers were their HS selves they'd be unnoticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:39 AM
1

I don't think I've ever met a promiscuous women who hadn't fucked a guy at least 13+ years older than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:27 AM
1

100% I knew a guy. Married, in his 40s. Girl was 26/27, with a long term bf. They started fucking....but he's an old asshole cheating on his wife right? Nope....because he's 'sexy' so the rules don't apply. Then her best friend who's in a LDR also starts fucking him after his divorce at the same time. I don't mean on the same day but literally at the same time. So lesson here is, if you're attractive it does matter if your married, doesn't matter if you're co-workers, doesn't matter if she has a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:12 AM
1

Because the more decent men a woman can reject the more her ego and self worth can grow. The more men she can tell herself she 'doesn't need' the better she can feel about herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:53 AM
1

Who was it with LTR Age Old enough What happened? Definitely one of the best experiences I had. After a wedding this girl was giving vibes she was down for a little something, something with my girl. So they start going at it and the three of us go upstairs. My girls going down on her and she's loving it. I get up behind my girl while she's dining at the Y. A+ shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 01:53 AM
1

Maybe, just don't end up like Mickey Rourke. I know a girl with a guy. She said he's more sexy than any guy she's ever dated. He's gotten loads of girls. He's under 6'3", his hair is thinning and a average build but he's got the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:02 AM
1

Plenty of examples of guys using model profile pics and getting tons of attention so it's obvious their 'game' is fine and it's their face that's the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:27 AM
2

Gym maxing, have a full head of great hair and being 6'3" i can tell you is only worth like +0
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:23 AM
2

It's easier to be physically attractive and get status than vice versa I'd say.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:22 AM
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It will probably end up looking more like Japan does. "when single men were asked how many people they had dated since graduation from junior high school, 39.8% of those in their twenties and 34.1% of those in their thirties answered “zero.” In contrast, among the single women with no dating experience, 25.1% were in their twenties and 21.5% were in their thirties"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:26 PM
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Another girl would reject guy after guy for not being tall enough. Now that she's pushing 30, she's marrying a short guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:30 AM
2

The problem with nice guys is that they think these basic or even high effort acts of niceness will have the same impcat of an attractive dude. It seems women on PPD on the net will say, "You probably aren't getting dates because of your shit personality or you're a terrible person" etc. However, the reality is that most guys are flat out rejected because they aren't physically attractive enough to ask a random woman out and are constantly rejected. It's like everything else though. Being tall, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:39 AM
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Relationships and sex are way more contextual than dating I think. For example I know a woman who if you asked her what she's looking for and she made a list, zero of the guys she has dated checked all the boxes. Every guy she had a relationship with was contextual. Guys from her social circles, guy from work, guy a friend set her up with, guy from school. However, all these guys in a dating app probably would have gotten swiped left on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:33 AM
2

For a lot of frustrated guys, all they hear all day from women is how "nice" and "sweet" they are. Translation - nobody wants to fuck you. Being a great guy isn't sexy in and of itself. Being kind and a good person doesn't make women want to fuck you. Lots of women want to assume that a guy isn't getting dates or laid because of shit personality but usually they know a 'great guy' that isn't getting laid either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:18 PM
2

Damn, I'm really sorry to hear that. Personally, good friends are just as important if not more so than a romantic partner. I really, really hope you get some friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:31 PM
2

As individuals, men often depend on women for emotional support, sex, help in the house, rising children, etc. Good friends/family are 1000% better for emotional support. Help in the house? Women don't want to do this anymore. Thinking a woman is 'good for cleaning' is just asinine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:51 AM
1

I think both can be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:50 AM
1

I never knew my biological father, never met him and he never knew I even existed. He was the HUGE ladies man apparently and complete stud. Every woman who has seen his photo says how much of a stud he is. My birth certificate dad wasn't, the women he had around were....pretty gross. He he wasn't around much ether. I often wonder what kind of man I'd become if my super stud bio dad raised me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:34 AM
1

Women are worried about low n count men because if they get an opportunity, they might take it. Where as another man who ALWAYS has an opportunity doesn't see the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:25 AM
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The crazy part is how many women in the 'west' would be 100x more beautiful if they just weren't so fat and had shit attitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:20 AM
1

"women like sex as much as men"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:16 AM
0

100% but I've never seen a woman who makes more than her man happy about it. Especially subconsciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:27 PM
1

Indeed. But it's interesting how upset even 'strangers' get when you dump someone for their previous conduct. People seem to really get rubbed the wrong way about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:24 PM
3

Most people are unconcerned about strangers. Someone who wishes for you to give them your life, well now that's something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:25 PM
1

So if a woman has had sex with 70 random strangers, I wonder what that would signify?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:12 AM
1

Sounds accurate. But sometimes it's like, "I like this guy so much I'd never share him" or "I love this guy so I don't what him to think the best part of me is the sex, because I want him to commit to me and see me as more than that"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 08:12 AM
1

Not fat and not ugly. Everything else is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:58 PM
1

I knew a guy who liked to play video games. When his girlfriend was new and they first started dating she was like, "I HATE video games" and he never played again. But after they got married he got into more nerdy shit because she's not going to dump him for being a nerd now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:58 PM
1

Men lead girls on for sex and then onto the next. You're not wrong but this is a tiny minority of the most desirable men. A man's mentality of "I can do better" vs "I'm not gong to do better than this" is contingent on his options and how desirable he is which most men aren't. Since there is only a tiny minority of the most desirable men they really have near unlimited options. This is also why some guys are like, "this is the best I can do" then they get wealthy and that changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:54 PM
1

It's so easy to get long and be liked by women. It's quite different to get them to want to fuck you. Hell, given the choice some women would rather fuck a hot guy they hate than a guy they really like who's unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:06 PM
1

The only downside for a single man who has it all is occasional romantic loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:04 PM
7

It's a shit feeling when you know YOUR girl would sleep with her friends guy but HIS girl wouldn't sleep with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:03 PM
1

When people get rejected it hurts and a lot of time people don't have the heart to tell them the truth about why they were rejected. This dude dumped her because he had better sex lined up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:00 PM
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Having casual sex could mean threesomes but if you're "boyfriend material" it usually doesn't mean threesomes but instead paying for everything and then having to meet the family and have all this pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 09:27 PM
3

The pressure to pay for everything, the pressure to change your life to make someone else happy, giving up the freedom to do whatever you want whenever you want. It comes down to what's worse, being lonely or not having freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 09:26 PM
18

Women don't give two shits about an amazing yet unattractive man they 'missed' out on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:32 PM
-2

Make a man's dick hard, not his life and he'll make your pussy wet and not your eyes. To be, it means basically not being a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:19 PM
5

Lots of guys don't commit or want kids either for the same reason. This isn't unique to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:51 AM
7

Women aren't a good investment and neither are children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:01 AM
10

Lol, guys getting sex on the first date on ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:08 AM
2

You're correct so I'll rephrase. She rejected a lot of guys for not being tall enough, her 'standard' was at least 6'.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:10 AM
1

I knew a girl who rejected a lot of guys because they were too short. Now she's getting married to a guy who's 5'9".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:21 PM
2

I know a lot of divorced people that love their relationships but love having their own place so they'll never move in with each other until they are forced to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:38 PM
4

I view this as conflict minimization. The less opportunity for conflict the less conflict is likely to occur, increasing the value of the relationship. No squabbling over dishes or domestic bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:37 PM
1

For those with standards, it's definitely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:13 AM
1

Meh, most porn shit is gross. I just love a hot women who play with each other in heels or lingerie but then again, I grew up on playboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:00 AM
0

Lol, nobody gives a shit about men's problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:57 AM
1

I knew a few like that, super gross. That's just it though, really attractive women who are mentally healthy don't do that. They're above it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:56 AM
3

Exactly. You're not going to be blowing random dudes when you have wealthy regular clients.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:12 AM
1

Top tier escorts would probably never have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:47 AM
2

Blowing random guys in the club bathroom is real romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:47 AM
2

In 1950 they'd probably have a proper income. A huge factor in having a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:46 AM
2

The same could be said about coding but that doesn't mean Bill Gates is trying to spend time writing code.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:00 AM
2

Good looking, tall, fit, well dressed, insanely rich dudes don't need skill to seduce someone and after doing it enough times to satisfy their ego, they don't care anymore. However, finding the right person takes time and the effort is really just putting up with bullshit. Ultimately, a civilian girl is going to want more than the guys willing to give and then he becomes a bad guy for not complying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:27 PM
2

If money is nothing to you and time is everything you're not going to waste time trying to find 2 incredibly gorgeous women who'll have a threesome with you while wearing exactly what you want and smelling exactly how you want. But when you're spending basically pennies to cut the bullshit and pick 2 or three or more and play out any fantasy you want, it's no wonder insanely rich dudes partake.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:04 PM
2

Guys like sex, casual or otherwise. Usually the more casual the better. A guy that can get a lot of quality casual sex or even date a lot are probably really attractive to women. A guy that other guys might want to be like. Some dudes are sleazy as fuck, lie a ton etc. The types you'd never want around women you care about. These guys are shitty and ruin things for everyone else. Some dudes fuck anything, they have no standards. Nothing admirable about it. Some dudes are drug dealers and use it …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:32 PM
3

Top paid escorts aren't getting dates because their clients are too unattractive to date. They're clients are men who have way more money than time. Theu are too busy to deal with the bullshit of dating and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:19 PM
5

Omg love, you're so smart, fun, kind, generous, dedicated and talented. So what if you're only like a 5, I don't care about looks. Que her mentally throwing herself off a building.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:13 PM
-1

Which is why there's a double standard when it comes to sleeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:10 PM
1

Every promiscuous woman I've ever know was deeply troubled, full of trauma, abused substances, had a mental illness, poor judgment, poor impulse control, daddy issues etc. The promiscuous men were just sleazy or drug dealers who usually went after the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:10 PM
2

I'd bet money so many wives in low sex marriages where she's packed it on, if they got divorced she'd drop weight so fast and be fucking like a banshee with some random she just met real quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:47 PM
3

Prostitutes are very 'get what you pay for' $200£ an hour vs $5 steet crack whore
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:44 PM
2

A guy who's slept with tons of women but who has paid for it is definitely not seen as a stud. A guys who's slept with tons of unattractive women are also not seen as a stud either. Stud as we know comes from a Stud Horse. Studs and their seeds are the most valuable. Females have a wider spread of value but are far more valuable than bottom males. Bottom males only value is the labor they provide. This is true across nearly all mammals, the top males ability to sire is limited only by the number…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:23 PM
2

Women wouldn't sleep with men unless they were married. The reason that changed was because of women, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:11 PM
3

Not washing your ass is an L. Dating a guy who doesn't wash his ass then bitching about it instead of dumping him is a huge L too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:10 PM
1

You could be tall, fit, funny, have friends and a large social circle, have all the trappings of a good life and if you're still single, non shitty people will assume you're gay or that your dick is broke or you a serial killer or some shit like Dexter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:07 PM
2

I'm 6'3" so height is a +0. Height, impeccable grooming/hygiene, having money and being 'nice' are all just +0. If I was 6< height would be a -5. If you're a slob, gross, broke/poor or rude etc it's like -1000 but being all these things are just the expected standard. They aren't going to help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:04 PM
1

It's funny, guys that go 'monk mode' or stop trying so hard get dragged too as losers or freaks. If you aren't trying hard enough to get laid, if you're not jumping through all the hoops then you must be gay or there must be something wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:59 PM
2

Yeah...he definitely didn't know about her past until after.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:11 AM
6

That's actually pretty funny but no, I was pretty grossed out. After he said he busted in her mouth and knowing he hadn't showered it was gross. Then the next day after we had to take the boats back I was in the boat with her and her friend and she knew I knew. You could feel her shame, yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 11:58 PM
1

That's actually pretty funny but no, I was pretty grossed out. After he said he busted in her mouth and knowing he hadn't showered it was gross. Then the next day after we had to take the boats back I was in the boat with her and her friend and she knew I knew. You could feel her shame, yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 11:54 PM
3

Feeling judged by and stranger or someone they wanted to marry? I knew a very successful woman, dating an extremely successful man. He ended up dumping her because of her past and not being wife material. She was absolutely devastated. But you're absolutely right, because following that she went into a hyper slut faze. Lots of guys benefited from her coping with that break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 11:49 PM
4

Because men tend to give ourselves a free pass Free pass? Men don't care if other men are promiscuous because hetero men aren't trying to marry other men. That's like men saying, "why does it matter how much money I make, I don't care if my girl is a high earner" or height etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:41 PM
1

Do you think women respect or admire men who marry sex workers?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:26 PM
5

Why do women care so much that guys reject promiscuous women for marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:06 PM
2

This should be on a billboard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:46 PM
3

Do you think women in general have more respect for men who commit to women with high n counts?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:45 PM
4

It also makes sense that she decides not to ever have sex with him. Usually the guy only cares if he's already invested. If he isn't invested she'll just get dumped. It makes sense when women are heartbroken after they get dumped because their boyfriend found out how much she got around.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:43 PM
5

Sleazy ass dude on a camping trip, no shower for days and doesn't even have his own TENT. Girl comes over to the camp site, they party and she fucks him WHILE his buddy is trying to sleep in the tent too. He busts in her mouth, she doesn't even orgasm. The next day, the sleazy dude is going to be getting high fives from all his friends (except the one was in the tent) How's the girl going to feel? You think Mr. Sleaze respects her? You think his friends are going to respect her? You think the ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:40 PM
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If a women has made all her sexual partners wait until they are in an exclusive relationship for some time, I think it's totally fair and I actually can respect that even If I leave for a better option. If she's slept with a bunch of dudes by just hooking up for ONS and NOW she is saying you gotta wait and jump through all these hoops, If I have a better option, I'm out. That's why only dudes with less options stick around....with some level of bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:33 PM
1

despite most women getting their n-counts through LTRs. If not? If a women has slept with at least 80 guys, the vast majority were ONS and all things being equal, would you expect him to invest in her or commit to her vs a woman who's dating history or N count match his own?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:30 PM
2

"I've fucked loads of guys who didn't even buy me a single drink or take me on a date or I don't even remember their name but now that I'm older and less attractive I only fuck guys after 3 months after he's paid for everything"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:27 PM
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proving women’s point What is women's point? That sex is the only thing women have to offer men that they cannot get anywhere else or that women actually have more to offer? Sure, women have the ability and capacity to make a man's house a home but most don't want to or bitch about it. Women have the ability and capacity to raise children, but not without constant complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:11 PM
2

Why? The bride isn't the one, it's your date who's been with everyone else. Why, do men, in general, seem to not prefer having lots of Eskimo Bros? Why would it be bro code to notify? Why do women play oblivious? Why do non promiscuous women get so defensive for promiscuous women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:57 PM
1

I'm saying the guy might have a low or even very low n count and his girl has a very, VERY high n count. Do you think people would admire him?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:56 AM
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You really don't understand how people work when it comes to sex, do you? If a woman lets her best friend have sex with her bf, they aren't going to stay best friends for very long. Yeah most women haven't fucked 80-100+ dudes. Most women don't fuck strangers they just met. Yet these are the types of women I'm talking about and if a guy would not prefer such a woman as his wife, he's labeled as insecure. The worst part is I didn't really make anything up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:54 AM
1

I don't know why I would be at that wedding. Because your future wife is friends with the bride. As for the bridesmaid, I'd be perfectly cool with that and hoping for a threesome. Lol, the bridemade has a boyfriend who's already been with your future wife. Unlike the girl your with she'd never have a threesome with another couple and would never cheat on her boyfriend. The girl your with only would have a threesome were she is the 3rd. She'd never have a threesome with her own future husband. Al…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:53 PM
1

Women - "men only want sex and wanting sex so badly is gross" Also women - "women have so much to offer men so they should move heaven and earth for us"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:31 PM
9

Women want a man who looks tough and strong... Titanic Leonardo Dicaprio, Timothée Chalamet, Tom Holland, Jungkook(bts), Pete Davidson etc etc has entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:19 PM
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Nobody cares how many men the woman you're in a relationship has slept with before you. Say you're at a wedding with a girl you are seeing. The groom, bestman, his brother and the one of the bridemades boyfriends have all fucked the girl you're with, even had threesomes with her. Are you feeling proud? Shaking hands with everyone, meeting everyone. Do you feel respected? Does it make you want to marry this girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:53 PM
0

You'd say that when a man commits his life to a women who's slept with a lot of other men people would view him as mature? Someone to admire and respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:55 PM
1

Think about a very promiscuous women and then think of her husband. Do you picture the husband as a mature and deep person? Is he someone to admire? Do you think other men respect and envy him?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:49 PM
1

Party girls for sure but also many use sex as a form of self harm/cope due to trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:45 PM
2

A small minority of men also love watching other dudes fuck their girl in front of them so....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:56 AM
4

I think you have some fair points, but then it begs the question as to why a man would want to sign away his life to such women in 2022?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 12:55 AM
0

Do you think it bothers him? Do you think he's a cuck? Do you think he's embarrassed about her past?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:52 PM
3

I agree with you. Promiscuous women hate hearing this so they're just like, "you're just mad about your dick" or some bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:49 PM
3

I am in 100% agreement with you. However people have explained to me that male aversion to promiscuous women is due to my own insecurity about dick size or whatever because I'm scared of her previous lovers or some bullshit and it's an unfair double standard because men who sleep around blah blah blah
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:37 PM
0

Does he know? Do you think he knows? Would you think he'd tell his friends or family?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:23 PM
1

I would agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:43 PM
2

100%
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:43 PM
10

majority of men wouldn’t respect the guy, since a man’s women is considered an extension of himself I see this as well
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:42 PM
4

When it comes highly promiscuous women, what percent would you guess are happy and have high self esteem?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:41 PM
3

I don't think N count is a big deal unless it's really high. I know females that start at 80 and just go up. That's high, that's like top percent high.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:29 PM
3

20+ maybe 'high' to some but girls I know are at least 80 and go up from there. Trauma, substance abuse, poor impulse control, blackout drunk and mental illness (bpd) everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:48 PM
2

Do they bang these dudes sober or...?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:43 PM
1

But 'Chads' are everything 'regular guys' hate and everything they WISHED they could be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:46 AM
3

Successful casual sex? Like when they wake up the next day hung over, cringing and crying over their bad decisions or maybe it's when they're desperately trying to get the guy to reply on social? Maybe it's at the therapist office?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:37 AM
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they aren't the type Probably more like never ever could. Lots of 'chads' would never invest in a girl like this though...and women hate that. Plus, 'chads' don't invest in these types of women, they cheat on their wives with these types but try to avoid marrying them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:32 AM
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No it signals substance abuse, unresolved trauma, daddy issues, poor judgment, impulse control on and on. It's flags on flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:29 AM
3

Probably why promiscuous men are viewed differently than promiscuous women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:34 AM
2

Men are hoping for 'good' sex from a woman. Women are hoping for good sex and everything else and then some.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 11:11 PM
0

This is like blaming men when talking about billionaires. It's so rare that a guy is getting laid like crazy and then slut shames women. BUT it does make sense that women would care so much about such a guys opinion on promiscuity because he's probably very desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:07 PM
2

I know a few women who are all above 80+ 50 before age 22, If that isn't a cause for concern...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:05 PM
3

Yet it's not just guys that are perpetuating this double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:43 PM
4

men on this sub aren't kickboxing champions with tens of millions of dollars, fame and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:42 PM
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Nah, if a women you are just sleeping with is like, "I've done this a lot" the guy is not going to care. If a guy falls in love with a women and wants to give her everything and she's like, "I've blown a lot of random strangers in the club toilet" he's going to be heartbroken. It's also WAY more likely the 2nd guy isn't a heartthrob 'Chad' type because then he might be like, "Yeah, I know that's how I met you"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:40 PM
1

So many guys are 'accomplished' in the sense of having financial success and are able to buy homes, cars, travel and have lots of hobbies. However, they aren't able to attract women so they feel inadequate and society labels them as losers for being alone or simps for golddiggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:11 PM
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Naw, these guys are more than happy to fuck hoes. These chicks just get butt hurt when they get dumped because "no hoe into a housewife" 'rule'.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:09 PM
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or....she has BPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:06 PM
-1

Is it counter intuitive for a women to want men to pay for things but not want a man who's payed for women? The entire reason men are adverse to investing in a woman that sleeps around is because of the deep DNA of parental uncertainty. Women are uncuckable, for men, it's about the worst biological/genetic outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:03 PM
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'Red Pill' + 'Girlfriend' or 'wife' lol. The whole point of every man's life is to reproduce. Fucking lots of women is how we trick ourselves into thinking we are. Honestly having bitchy girlfriends or a whore or a wife is more MGTOW not red Pill. Red Pill is just simply understanding women aren't shit and to watch their actions, not what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:48 PM
2

Are you saying that when women are drunk and bang random guys they don't know at bars/clubs they're not self harming and don't feel shame but instead are doing it because it's so fun/safe and that their chance of orgaism and risk of pregnancy is the same as men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:07 PM
1

Men don't bang random women as a self harm or coping mechanism, they bang random women because they don't have to worry about becoming pregnant and orgasim 99.99% of the time making their genetics think they're winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:05 PM
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“Men shouldn’t expect women to stick around after paying for her meal at an expensive 5 star restaurant. Its YOUR FAULT if she doesn't." Literally happens all day long. I think you're missing a lot of nuance here. I mean some women make for amazing girlfriends but terrible wives. Some are great to date for a bit but would be bad relationship material. Some have 'BPD' so they're amazing to sleep with but horrible to date. What are guys supposed to do? Not sleep with them and let some other guy do…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 02:23 PM
1

See the entire wedding industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 02:01 PM
9

Women by and large to men - "You should feel obliged to support women and buy them stuff/pay for things but never expect women to give a damn about you." Most women find most men unattractive, ESP for having causal sex or sex on the 1st date. Since most guys are NOT flush with options, if they can get laid or get laid like this they aren't going ANYWARE. Any guy who has the luxury of 'pumping and dumping' is a rare kind of man. This is like grouping all men with the top 1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:54 PM
0

It would be easier to do if it was more socially acceptable. Female friends always trying to 'find' someone for you, always asking why you don't date, being gay rumors, "there must be something wrong with him", broken dick rumors etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:34 PM
1

You're aren't wrong but women will always talk about men in alpha vs beta terms. It may not be true in the sense you've linked but all women know a so called 'alpha' or 'beta' when they see one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 12:49 AM
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Lol, meanwhile women swipe left like 80-95% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:17 PM
3

that topic just never came up between them. Again, don't be a simp
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:02 PM
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Don't simp then
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:41 AM
4

The juice has to be worth the squeeze and for many guys it won't be. Just save your money, time, get a dog, enjoy your friends/family, hobbies and travel. Retire early in a cheap developing country and maybe the ladies there will make things worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:33 AM
0

Couldn't even come up with one, just like I figured. Also, 'seem' is not a strong affirmative statement but more like a guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:04 PM
-3

Nope, not confirmed. There is zero hard evidence that Adele had to pay out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:18 AM
2

Just don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:33 AM
0

Find a case where a women has been confirmed to have paid out a man. Just one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:31 AM
11

Men are generally not going to even be in a relationship unless they're getting sex. Women are all to happy to be a in sexless relationship where their partner just buys them things. Sex is the only thing Women have to offer hetro men that they can't get anywhere else. Romantic love isn't worth piss if your aren't bustin'
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:51 AM
3

I think that's why there isn't hard stats because they're probably ugly. 64% of men remarry, and I'd bet money a higher percent of women come away with a payday after divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:51 PM
5

Women have financial incentives to divorce. I know women who divorced their husband's because they were bored. It's interesting there isn't hard divorce stats about why and the outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:39 PM
11

Divorce settlements also seem overwhelming better for women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:20 PM
1

No but have myself and witnessed plenty of them end and remain unsat due to these factors
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:17 PM
1

Nah, it's about experiencing what works and what doesn't. Through lived experience I already know what I'm looking for. I already know that if their lifestyle is a certain way or their beliefs are a certain way, it's not going to work because that's why it hasn't worked out in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:39 PM
1

I would never want to waste my time with someone who's religious, someone who smokes is a big drinker or doesn't share my politics etc. Best of luck to those desperate enough who don't have any other options who have to just accept anyone willing but that's not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:48 AM
1

So many guys do just fine using a 'Hot guy' profile online, that's why they 100% know it's because of their looks, esp their face.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:22 PM
1

Same with being tall. Things like being tall are a +0 but being short is like -3.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:21 PM
2

I have so much more confidence now that I'm older. I can read situations so much better and am so less worried about rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:20 PM
2

Loneliness effects people differently. It wasn't hard for me to spend 4 stright days in my apt alone without even going outside or talking to anyone. Others would go mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:18 PM
3

Going to the gym and lifting to me are like showering and brushing my teeth. It's basic health hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:46 AM
1

If some has horrible credit and massive debt, at wait point of an amazing relationship/date do you bring it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:42 AM
1

No guy writes 'I'm only looking for a hook up' is going to matches either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:38 AM
1

I'm talking about a person pushing 40, so I'm talk about people at that level. Religion has massive implications for life decisions, what are you on? Smokers/drinkers is definitely a big deal. Political stances is huge factor in chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:36 AM
2

I'm not saying, "This is my profile, what do you think?" I'm saying 'if' someone said, "this is where I am at in my life and I'm looking for someone who's in the same boat" they'd be probably be getting way less matches. Not like, "if you don't have 800+ credit score don't talk to me" type of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:32 AM
1

Your point is fair enough on some things for sure but some people don't want to waste time with people they know aren't going to work out. Wanting kids vs not, wanting marriage vs not, being religious vs not, being a smoker/drinker vs not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:02 AM
1

I've seen women do the exact same thing of their profiles as well but you make a soild point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:00 AM
0

Someone who understands the point I was getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:58 AM
1

I personally actually would never make such a profile. The point I was getting at is that there is a lot of criticism about standards, esp when they're seen as hypocritical. So hypothetically if someone was like, "this is my situation and I want someone to match" are people going to get offended because they know they don't meet it. So it's sort of a pre-rejection. You don't get to reject them because they've already rejected you because they've laid out themselves and want a match and the obser…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:56 AM
2

I feel If someone posted what they're looking for and then found a match though, yeah would be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:10 AM
2

I feel like guys who are in good shape physically and financially who want a female who is as well get so much shit for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:16 AM
7

Yeah going on an amazing date and then going separate ways because you don't want kids or marriage and they do is a great strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:14 AM
1

How many people would travel if they couldn't post it on social media? How many people would want to get married if they didn't have a wedding? Marriage is a bad contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:02 PM
6

I also know more women into BDSM than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:58 PM
6

Also 5'9"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:57 PM
1

he was 5'9" and I'd bet money he was on the autism spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:56 PM
4

Aka 'bomb pussy disorder' but they're also usually narcissistic sociopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:39 PM
6

Females with BPD are usually horrible partners to invest in/trust but fuck like their lives depend on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 08:58 PM
5

The guys I knew who got the most were drug dealers. They always had MDMA, coke, mushrooms, LSD, ketamine etc. They had no sexual morals and were absolutely ruthless, ZERO fucks given and completely shameless. Really offensive to 'proper' girl types. Once word got out they they were banging lots of girls it was even easier and girls would come to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:43 AM
40

In this day and age WAY more guys have nothing vs everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:39 AM
2

In comes social media. Men witness these attractive women online who have insatiable capacity for attention and from guys they would NEVER interact with in real life. Online/r/gone wild for exp - "omg, thanks hun I'm so wet" IRL - "omg, you disgusting creep POLICE!"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 09:05 PM
5

I remember this super rich girl was a sugar baby. She said she did it because how much she loved the gifts from her sugar daddy and it made her feel special. Most street prostitutes are addicts and they can't make enough money for their habbit otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:06 PM
1

If she's hot? A lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:47 AM
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Women love men they can't have. It's the same physiological phenomenon with celebrities and serial killers. If they can never have these men and their relationship can never be realized, they just fill in the gaps with fantasy and it's perfect in their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 08:43 PM
1

I have a lot of respect and envy for couples that don't have a over priced diamond as a ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 06:34 PM
1

Lol, women don't do that shit for pleasure. It's a coping mechanism. It's why some women go hyper sexual after being raped. It's about control in their lives or they use it for manipulation or to try and prove they heterosexual etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 06:32 PM
1

I get the same vibe from barren women who want a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:53 AM
1

Almost any guy can have sex with beautiful women if he's willing to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:49 AM
8

"It's like air, only a big deal if you're not getting any."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:47 AM
1

When a wealthy, handsome, funny, charming, kind and generous older man hits on another adult they can just be like, "nah" and then go for the young, immature, video game playing, broke ass, bong hitting, not good at fixing shit, mama's boy, porn sick minute man with his mattress sitting directly on the floor slob. People who don't have their needs met will complain about why they think their needs aren't being met. Old hags that can't land their dream man are going to bitch and moan about the yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:50 PM
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The issue is that it seems so many women use sex to get what they want. "If you don't give me xzy then you won't get laid" When you're a guy not ruled by his dick, a lot of women get upset you won't simp out and basically say you're a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:29 AM
2

You take an island full of exclusively Lesbiens and one with only gay men. You do a sex survey, the gay men will report way more sex. What does 'gay people aren't stright people' even mean when it comes to sex? The only reason stright men don't get laid as much as gay men is because women aren't into sex like men are and that's why even Lesbiens with the fear of pregnancy or getting attacked, by their non porn sick lovers better hygiene, better listener dates still DON'T have as much sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:31 PM
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Again Lesbiens don't have those barriers and have way less sex with each other. While gay men have WAY more sex with one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:19 PM
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because a man will be upgraded by the time he is ready to start a family. More mature, more wealth, more stable. She will be older, fatter and less attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:12 AM
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lol. Women that are willing to be a 3rd in a threesome and definitely NOT willing to let THEIR boyfriend fuck the other girl. Girls who have threesomes with their own boyfriend, they never marry those ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:10 AM
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A guy with a really low sex drive is made to feel like a weird loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:08 AM
1

So many women get offended and are like, "I'm not that kind of girl"....yeah fucking right. You defiantly are but not anymore or not with this particular guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:51 AM
1

Coolidge effect? A lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:49 AM
1

Uncomfortable truths here. What men need from women is sex but if they pay for it, it's shameful. What women need from men like let's say an electrician, plumber, HVAC etc etc she can pay a man and it's no big deal. All the small jobs I've done for women if they had to call out a pro, it would have cost them $$$$.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:36 AM
1

Lol, obviously women have less barriers in getting laid than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:04 PM
2

A women thinking she knows what it's like to be a man in regards to sex is like a man thinking he knows what it's like for a women in regards to carrying a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:03 PM
1

I completely agree. Women should have high standards as long as they know they'll probably end up alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:00 PM
6

1000% women are usually worse friends than bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:27 PM
5

Lol. James loves fishing so he goes everyday. Mark only goes fishing once a year but says he enjoys it as much as Jim. Jim wonders why if Mark loves fishing as much as he does, why doesn't he go more often?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:25 PM
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If this were true, rates of sex with be equal between gay men and lesbiens.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:56 PM
3

Lol, if this were even remotely true, lesbiens and gay men would be having equal amounts of sex. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:55 PM
1

1000%
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:51 PM
2

The benefits are the same except collectively men probably orgasim 100x as much as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:49 PM
5

Lol if you think prostitution isn't a major, major market.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:46 PM
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the reality is if that was true guys would be able to get sex whenever they want. Additionally, if women really were as sexual as men then there would be more male prostitutes, male only fans creators and strip clubs with men dancing. This right here is another reason for the double standard views on promiscuouity. Although I don't disagree with your points, women should know that the most valuable thing women offer men is sex....that's it. If a man has friends, hobbies, pets etc. He only really…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:07 PM
1

You make a valid point. It's hard to face these things. "Is Rebecca your dream girl?" "No, she just fills in for the times I feel lonely and it's the best I can do" - Jeremys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:51 PM
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Jeremy will care will Rebecca is done with 'Chad's' and comes back to him after he's established himself. Then Jeremy will reluctantly settle for Rebecca and her, filled with resentment will settle for Jeremy. Jeremy bitter that he was only an option after the fact and now only when Rebecca is long past her best buy date. Meanwhile aging Chad is on his 7th under 25 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:21 PM
1

Yet I know a few so....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 03:43 AM
2

Sluts love to gossip about other sluts and non promiscuous women LOVE to gossip about their slutty friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 03:42 AM
2

Lol, sluts are so intrigued by guys with high body counts. The looks on their faces when they hear a dude has had sex with 100+ women. They immediately want to know how? Like is he amazing? Huge dick? Sluts totally gravitate towards pussy slayers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 03:41 AM
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Picture the guy trying to be romantic with a girl who's already taken down 100+ dicks. Makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 03:37 AM
-1

It's harder to get bait and switched with a fatty etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 03:36 AM
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Women are butt hurt about the non promiscuity preference because they got into a relationship of some kind, the guy found out some way and then got dumped for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 01:18 PM
2

Abuse victims attract abusers. It's not their fault but they definitely gravitate towards one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:42 AM
1

marriage is inherently prostitution is not true. Yeah, prostitutes exchange sex for money. In a marriage men are just legally bound to give up resources and just have to hope for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:32 PM
1

Lol. So many dudes bag a drunk fatty and then ghost her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:29 PM
1

People aren't going to think women who waste utilities, want clothes, trips, dining out, etc. Most of them when a woman marries a guy with money, she wants to be taken care of like he's her father. A guy with his own money who doesn't want kids and a women who doesn't pay 50% is an economic drag so he is basically in a contract were he is financially responsible for her but she isn't responsible for his sexual needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:26 PM
1

When do you spend more? You spend more on him? I mean, because if it all goes in the same pot then you're still spending the same unless the 'pot' gets divided 50/50 if things go south. But if you're no shit spending more when it comes to pay for bills at restaurants, gifts etc, is that a turn off? Do you hold it against him? Even subconsciously? If you go 50% on taxes, isn't he paying more?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:22 PM
0

I make more than my husband Are the bills 50/50, does he spend more on you or you more on him?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:58 PM
1

both benefit from forming a single financial unit Not men who are already rich and who earn money on their own. Most of these guys have wives which are an economic drag/liability.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:55 PM
5

The point I was trying to make was that 'Taylor Swift' is seen as good by general society yet this is the advice she gives on how to treat men, to 'freeze them out'.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:53 PM
1

Women prefer a connection from a man. Biologically a mans ability to reproduce is only limited by how many times he can blow beans up the muff. Women are limited by gestation periods but it's not like babies just pop out and are good to go. Women have a biological incentive to keep a man around to assist her and protect her, men don't have that same incentive as much. Additionally if a man bangs a slut he might be able to reproduce, if a man emotionally connects with a slut he might be spending …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:46 PM
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Here’s something our readers ask about constantly: When you feel like a guy you’re dating has the upper hand, how do you change the game? Taylor Swift: Freeze-out. CL: What’s the freeze-out? Taylor Swift: You don’t respond to any of his texts or calls until he does something desperate [like] shows up. Or he calls and leaves a voice mail. Something that makes it very clear to you that he’s interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:41 PM
1

I was a very popular and confident kid and then I got really bad acne. Same person but treated pretty badly because of my skin. Fast forward to when I started hitting the gym and then people asking me if I'm on the college football team, asking how much I lift etc. Wild ride life is but have had similar exp.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:40 PM
1

There's that show 'Alone' some people go crazy being alone and some are unbothered. So if you're unbothered it's easier Also, if you don't want to feel like a slave to your dick, it makes it easier as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:15 AM
1

Romance is made up by Hollywood and fairytales.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:16 PM
1

And guys aren't trying to invest their time into hoes and wife up sluts. Also, shit is 100% transactional. Exploitation? I said had sex with, not paid and not street hooked, escort.. some escorts make 10k a night.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:12 PM
-1

Love is Blind. Cole is like, "you're and incredible women and I love you and I'm with you and you're a 9/10 and maybe she's a 10/10 but only physically" and that girl is devastated
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:43 AM
7

Or says, "I've had sex with an escort"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:41 AM
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People say body counts don't matter, that's until their girl admits she used to be sugar baby or has fucked like 80 dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:48 PM
4

Sex is one thing. I love a girl who enjoys lingerie and heels. Some women like that too, some are open to and some aren't into it. Some are down with candles some only in the dark. Some love being watched, I don't. Some love when other people hear them, I hate that. Some are strictly missionary and others are down with the karma sutra. Some are down with couples night at the strip club and the orgy dome at black Rock city and others despise the idea of porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:19 PM
0

It's a sad thing but for some types of women they can't NOT go to bars/clubs alone because they feed of attention and socialization. We had this girl staying over and at 1am she left to go back out alone to the bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:01 PM
1

Lifting weights, working out and leaning about nutrition was definitely one of the best things I ever did. Also, you DAMN better be as fit or more fit than the type of girl you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:19 PM
0

"I don’t really date cis men" This explains so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:12 PM
0

I'm just thinking about how when women are like, "my standards are 6,6,6. Over 6 feet tall, 6 figures and at least 6 inches" Then all these dudes started pointing about that single men who are that tall and earn that much are a tiny minority. Then these women fired back with, "The only reason you're complaining about our standards is because YOU don't meet them"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:51 PM
2

Media uses things that people relate to. For instance Or famously
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:42 PM
1

Hard to bang a 100 women if you're not attractive enough. Easy to bang 100 dudes if you're a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:40 PM
0

So...transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:26 PM
4

I personally know women that fucked well over 100 guys. They have massive issues that make them horrible long term investments.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:58 PM
0

Women do, after they get dumped for being a hoe or when they wanna get married the guys is like, "can't turn a hoe into a housewife"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:57 PM
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Sex for sex sake isn’t what women want This totally makes sense to me but then people wonder why the double standards when it comes to promiscuity. If she's the type to sleep around, why emotionally invest? Why commit? She's obviously shown she's down and willing without.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:43 AM
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Plenty of fatties feel ashamed for eating an entire costco cake, even if nobody knows they did it. You don't have to call a girl a slut or even know if she's a slut already for her to feel like one. And a man who sleeps around being called a slut isn't going to make him feel ashamed if he doesn't already feel it. Sluts get butthurt about seeing slut shaming because it reminds them of the shame they already feel. The feeling they get when the guy never calls them back or the tears of pain from no…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:17 AM
-1

if you do everything yourself what’s the point of being in a relationship at all? Sex I bought my own house by myself, career, hobbies, family, friends, travel, money etc etc. I had everything I could possibly need and very content. My friends girls were always just like, "What about sex though?" That was it, that's all they could ever wonder about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:51 PM
6

Men looking for a mommy - shameful loser Women looking for a daddy - AYE PAPI
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:34 PM
-1

why just produce your own shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:33 PM
1

Or they just don't want a girl with massive issues. No female whos fucks tons of random dudes doesn't have issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:04 PM
3

You can't make people ashamed, they already feel shame, you're just holding up a mirror. Like just because you shouldn't fat shame, doesn't mean the person isn't fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:55 PM
1

1000%
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:54 PM
3

Sounds nice, best of luck
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:54 PM
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I have never met a promiscuous woman that didn't have daddy issues, substance abuse issues, poor impulse control, BPD and was just overall damaged and used sex as almost like a self destruction coping thing usually while drunk as fuck. It was never pretty, lots of crying and "I don't know why I do this" type of shit. It also amazes me that when a woman is a stripper/escort/hooker/porn star, women assume abuse/coercion/exploitation because they're like, "Women would never doing this willingly or …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:53 PM
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You're not wrong, it's different but red flags are red flags. I don't care if a woman is 5'8", earns less, weaker than myself and is 5-10 years younger but you flip that around and it matters to women when dating guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:09 AM
1

Understandable. Yet woman think that if she's fucked 80 guys it's shouldn't be a flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:50 AM
1

Yeah but he's got experience so why isn't it all the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:33 AM
0

Does it make a difference if he's paid for sex with lots of different women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:50 AM
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Guy sleeps with lots of women -> Player, dog but most likely has desirable traits. Guys PAYS to sleep with lots of women -> ew, reguradless
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:15 AM
1

What about with pros?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:14 AM
1

Single woman - understandable, men are terrible. Single guy - loser, creep, gay, something to hide etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:33 PM
1

I remember an article about some mid 40s or maybe mid 50s single women/moms that all bought a big house together and lived this sisterhood life and everyone was cheering for them and etc. If some dudes did that, they would be ridiculed to no end. Whenever a decent seeming guy is single, women (who don't think he's attractive but like him) are always pressuring them to 'find someone' and then if they aren't into dating/ don't want kids/marriage, then it's always, "but what about sex" and if a guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:54 PM
1

It feels good to contribute any way that I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:14 AM
1

Women have already made it very clear that most guys, young or old are not sexually attractive. However, some guys that weren't hot eventually get older and get money so they've gotten way more attractive then they ever could be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:13 AM
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She will compare you to guys who make more, are more handy, who spend more money, who are 'sweeter' etc. It never ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:29 AM
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Women have such a problem with dudes rejecting promiscuous women. Why are you concerned? Worried you don't cut it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:28 AM
1

It's funny that women understand why a man wouldn't want to marry a sex worker for they don't understand why a man wouldn't want to marry a slut? Shamming sex workers is okay but not sluts?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:12 AM
1

When women demand men pay for all their shit, how is that all that different than sex work?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:11 AM
2

Some women will fuck you right away and you can skip the date all together if you just pay them directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:30 PM
2

The guy didn't have a better option. He is a man without options, so probably not really a catch. She withheld how promiscuous she was until after marriage. You going to divorce and lose $$$ because of it? If I had the option I would 100% pick a non promiscuous woman to have an invested relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:56 AM
5

These men just want to be acknowledged.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 02:32 PM
1

I like having someone around but not being pressured into forced conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:20 AM
1

People who feel this way usually act the fool but I don't know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:16 AM
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