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SEEKING ADVICEtiavarga/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:18 PM
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9

And don’t forget other subs banning you just for subbing to FDS—even if you don’t comment! SMH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 01:58 AM
37

Pick-mes don’t care how many women they throw under the bus as long as they are “chosen” by a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 03:41 PM
28

Internalized misogyny is a hell of a drug.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 03:38 PM
18

This should be under “Queen Shit” 👏🏻👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 03:17 AM
31

He really thought he did something here. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 01:42 AM
8

I love this Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 11:18 AM
31

These guys have NO chill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 09:24 PM
22

Sir, minding your own business is FREE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 01:37 AM
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Queen, I want to copy, cut and paste your entire post and use it to respond to all the single Dads in my inbox despite me stating I’m CHILD-FREE and do NOT date men with children prominently on my profile. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 05:40 PM
21

Right? I’m like, does he mean baby poop? Good grammar and intelligence are sexy, men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 06:19 PM
12

Whew, chile…the scrotacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 04:32 AM
27

Justin is definitely one. 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 02:47 PM
27

OMG. This is so heartbreaking. This poor woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 04:30 PM
21

Exactly! Male chefs vs female cooks; men making the most in the makeup influencer game — even though women overwhelmingly use and have experience in cosmetics. The only industries when woman out-earn men in the aggregate are modeling and porn. Ugh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 07:52 PM
11

Yup! My friends act like I’m Ina Garten or something and are always so effusive in their praise and thanks for my cooking. So I love cooking for them. Dumb ass men act ungrateful and wonder why “these women don’t want to cook for us anymore”. SMH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 04:24 PM
10

Oooh, I may have to borrow this tactic, Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 05:15 AM
41

This! I’m an excellent cook and so many LVM/NVM men will eat your delicious home cooking and baking and not even say “thank you” or be grateful. Now I only cook for my myself and my female friends who are always complimentary and gracious when I do. No more wife sh*t for ungrateful loser men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 05:13 AM
7

Sir, if you do not get out of my face with your blatant scrotery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 11:54 PM
42

Same here! A LOT of flaky people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 04:24 PM
39

Men nowadays want a supermodel that brings home the figurative and literal (premium) bacon, cooks it, hand feeds it it him, cleans up afterwards and gives him a porn-worthy BJ—without him doing anything in return. He is a man so he is told he deserves it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 04:41 AM
27

plays church organ because every single post on here is preaching the gospel truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 04:22 PM
22

lol 😂 I’m crying right now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 06:52 AM
1

You just described my Dad to a T.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 05:18 PM
3

I like ones without the ability to self-reflect. They tell on themselves and make it so much easier to block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 04:48 PM
112

plays church organ because you are preaching the gospel truth right now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 07:32 PM
97

And here we are at FDS getting attacked from everyone but guys like this are out there saying “she’s below my level” and not a peep out of Reddit. Your misogyny is showing, Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 07:00 PM
260

I had a guy comment on my appetite when I ate half of a burger on a date…like I ate soooooo much. When pressed he talked about the eating habits of women in his family and when I asked him if the women he knows have eating disorders, he admitted they did. Ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 03:18 PM
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In my younger days (before Reddit and FDS were around) I learned this lesson the hard way. You younger women are so lucky to have FDS to avoid the mistakes a lot of women make.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 02:48 PM
8

Nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 06:52 PM
59

Yes! I feel like a lot of us had PickMe moms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 06:35 PM
20

He’s just mad because there are fewer women out there he can cheat with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 07:14 PM
56

Seriously, I was lonely and decided to download a dating app (I KNOW!) and I practically strained my thumb swiping left. Nothing but uggos that never heard of a comb or skincare as far as the eye could see. And I live in a big U.S. city so it’s not like the pool of potential men is small. I deleted that app so fast. I’m okay with building a nice life on my own if guys like that are my only option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 04:20 PM
15

This should be labeled “Queen Sh*t”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 07:12 PM
185

Porn-induced death grip
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 12:50 PM
105

This. They actually believed the lies they read on the internet (written by other deluded men) that once they hit their mid to late 30’s, young women will be all over them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 07:49 PM
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Oh honey, no. Just no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 03:59 AM
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I have lived in the SF Bay Area for over 10 years. The stories I could tell…and it’s just getting worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 12:41 AM
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I’m not contradicting you. Those were the stories my family told me, that they, and the girls in the village would be sent to the woods to hide from the Soviet soldiers and why they had to hide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 07:17 PM
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As someone who has Hungarian grandparents, I have heard the stories of what Soviet soldiers did to young women back then. Horrific. They used to make the young girls hide in the woods to try avoid them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 07:09 PM
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And that’s when you call the cops and get the idiot arrested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 05:28 PM
24

“Oh, you can’t have friends?” Ugh! Like, Sir, you don’t want to be my friend unless it’s of the “with benefits” variety. Cut it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 04:38 PM
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Of course his name is Matt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 07:31 PM
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Yup. It’s so much easier (especially on the fragile male ego) to scream into the void how everything is unfair and other people are the problem than it is to work and improve oneself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 04:53 PM
2

If you have experience, jump firms. Once I got started on my Paralegal certificate, I jumped to a new role and made $30K more than before. You don’t owe them any loyalty. My last firm paid me peanuts and after just getting a “thank you” instead of monetary compensation yet again, I knew I had to leave. I did my research and let employers know that I was halfway to completing my Certification and you would not believe how many recruiters and firms were fighting for me to come work for them. I fou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 07:21 PM
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Just remember: 1 in 100 people is a sociopath
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:19 PM
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This is what happens when PickMes become Moms. They worship their sons, creating entitled ass-hats like Bradley.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 05:47 PM
2

You both are the real MVPs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 02:20 PM
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He’s just mad that he’s going to be in debt getting those General Ed requirements out of the way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 02:55 AM
32

If anyone gets the link to her show where she plays the Mom’s voicemail, please share! I couldn’t find it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 01:04 AM
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I’d be leery for all the reasons above and the fact you live in a desirable area. You’d be surprised how many LV, barely-acquaintances come out of the woodwork when you live in a tourist place, hoping for a free place to crash/dinner/drinks/tour guide/all of the above.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 12:26 AM
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plays organ ‘cause you’re preaching the gospel truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 04:54 PM
53

“Hello, 911? I’d like to report a murder.” 😂 He just roasted him to hell and back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 12:43 AM
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Preach! I am a music nerd that loves pop, rock and punk music from the 70s to 90s and the sheer number of LV-mouth breathers that want to practically fight me because I tell the truth about what abusers and predators their faves are is ridiculous! Like sorry, John Lennon was a wife-beater and shitty father and Jimmy Page statutorily raped a 14 year old girl in his late 20’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:26 PM
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These hoes ain’t loyal. 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 07:13 PM
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And hips! I see more and more men that have child-bearing hips these days!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 06:11 AM
128

“My King” 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:34 PM
186

It’s a decent bedroom…for a 15 year old boy. Why is it so hard for so many men to adult properly?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:46 PM
183

I’ve never met a HVM while dating but I have met them via professional channels but they all were already married and my mentors/bosses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 11:43 PM
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Seriously. I’m just looking for a kind, professional, caring, attractive man who values me. Apparently these are impossible standards and we are unfair, man-hating shrews for wanting men to have good hygiene, know how to adult, and not be cruel to us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 07:40 AM
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When the music started playing, I nearly spit out my coffee! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 04:44 PM
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I knew it was Matthew Hussey. He loooooves to encourage PickMe behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 09:29 PM
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This!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 04:41 PM
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I used to listen to him and Matthew Hussey. Hussey you could tell had a huge ego and encouraged pick me behavior. Derrick always seemed too good to be true. You can’t trust any of those male dating coaches. They don’t care about women, they care about $$$ and clout.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 10:47 PM
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Did you notice how he mentioned that his wife’s income can cover all the bills? What if she wants to stop working?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 10:38 PM
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Back in the day, I was young and kinda lost and dating this LVM co-worker at the bar I worked at. Want to know how he decided to surprise me for Valentine’s Day? He brought a much-younger girl to the bar as a date—while I was bartending. It was bad enough the scrote-stain didn’t have the balls to tell me he didn’t like me anymore by bringing another girl around, I had to serve them drinks too! I was an aloof ice Queen to them but went home and cried so hard that night. It was a decade ago but it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:36 PM
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Jesus. Where’s the husband’s pacifier and does she wipe his butt for him too? I.CANNOT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:24 PM
50

George wasn’t a prize either. He admitted to cheating on Patty and then said he didn’t care about her after she got fed up and left him for Eric Clapton. And let’s not forget the grossest of all—both Ted Nugent and Steven Tyler adopted 14 year old girls so they could avoid statutory rape charges and then left them once they were tired of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 02:05 PM
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Preach! My vagina didn’t file a 501c3 so it’s not a charity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 04:12 PM
60

I needed to see this today to realize it’s not just me. Finally decided to give OLD another try after a good first date that just fizzled and disappointing Meet Up events. Why did the only seemingly attractive, professional guy I found message me right away saying he’s only interested in FWB and I’m so his type. sigh Block and delete and another break from OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 11:18 PM
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Men are out of their minds. He wants to explore polyamory, do the van thing at 38 AND expects a HVW woman like OP to be cool with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 10:22 PM
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Growing up in the punk and post-HarDCore scenes, it was rampant. God forbid you were a pretty girl—then the guys got snarky and catty too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 05:28 PM
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I lived in DC throughout my 20s and then moved to California on a whim because I was OVER IT. I was sooooooo mad at myself for staying in DC that long during my young and cute years. Get out while you can!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 06:05 PM
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Mad Dog 20/20 apparently
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 03:15 PM
18

How dare she buy him a thoughtful and nice gift? Man, she sounds terrible. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 08:18 PM
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I want her as my best friend 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 07:03 AM
27

Oh.My.God. I mean…I can’t even. This is too horrific for words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 11:02 PM
49

The way he can’t take his eyes off her, like she is the most beautiful woman he’s ever seen! #goals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:10 PM
54

This! This right here. I have no desire to be a Stepmom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 08:26 PM
8

I’ll take things that never happened for $500, Alex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 04:17 AM
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Because men cannot conceive that there are people who don’t care what they think and want. Nobody cares about your boners, dudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 05:32 PM
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What could possess a person to say that to a date and think that would be a good idea!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 06:27 AM
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😂 I nearly spit out my coffee!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 04:23 PM
11

Girl, throw the whole man out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 04:21 PM
26

This! So much this. Back in the day, I had to hear “Baby Got Back” sung to me all the time and if I never hear that song again, it will be too soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 04:15 PM
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Men telling you that you are too good for them and that they doesn’t deserve you. They aren’t being modest, they really aren’t good enough for you but think that because they tell you that they don’t have to do the work to level up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 05:08 PM
90

They say she’s still waiting for the ring to this day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 08:19 PM
153

Do 👏🏻 NOT 👏🏻 give 👏🏻 wife 👏🏻 privileges 👏🏻 to 👏🏻 boyfriends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 02:52 PM
117

Damn…why broadcast to the world you are the biggest PickMeisha ever? She doesn’t love herself. —NOT Barb the Builder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:03 PM
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This! 👆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 10:43 AM
34

Aww…it’s so nice to see a Grandpa take his Granddaughter for a stroll. 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 10:59 PM
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This is such a good example of asserting your boundaries. It made me realize I need to re-read the handbook because I sometimes have to ask/prompt if a guy doesn’t immediately propose a firm day/time/activity for a first date. A HVM won’t need prompting or hints.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 03:59 AM
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Right?! I’m like, if dudes are rejecting her, they really are tripping. It really is them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 07:09 PM
15

🤮 why is an adult asking to be mothered?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 03:22 PM
70

I see you’ve met my brother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 06:03 PM
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Let’s DO This, Queens! 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 11:19 PM
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I wish we could actually have an FDS Rescue Team. They would go in like a SWAT Team/Navy SEALS, armed with Tiaras and Champagne, to take these women out to brunch to remind them these Scrotes ain’t sh*t and compose mean break up texts to get these NVM/LVM men out of women’s lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 07:53 PM
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This is the kind of thing we need to know! Protect yourself and your interests, Queens!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 10:31 PM
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“Women don’t want to build together anymore!” Sir, I am thriving on my own. What do you bring to the table other than audacity and a low credit score?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:04 PM
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“I’m actually (insert age 5-10 years older than their stated age) but the app won’t let me change it.” Suuuuuuure!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 01:01 PM
81

Wait…how can you see all the OLD profiles I receive? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:04 PM
18

God, how sociopathic is it to make the person you purportedly “love” sick ON PURPOSE? Just because you felt like it, wanted to see what would happen, or because you wanted to get back at them for something. That’s f’d up on a whole another level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:14 PM
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I feel like this too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:44 AM
7

I looooooooove her! Preach, Queen!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 01:42 AM
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Yup. I just ask if they are ready to finish. Hurry up and get off me because I sure as hell am not getting off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 08:48 PM
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Girl didn’t even come once. 3 times my behind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 08:46 PM
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Thank you for posting this. I’m around your age and in frustration was almost going to relax my “no kids” rule for men because, as you said, it’s rare for a man not to have kids in his 40s. But, I can’t do it. If I am going to be in a relationship with someone, giving up my peace and calm, I will not be second (or third or fourth) place in my partner’s affections. I will not be an afterthought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:56 AM
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Same. They get so mad or they ignore you and try to convince you that they and their kids are different. Sir, I am not interested in men with children. Yes, even yours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 11:01 PM
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Lawd! 🔥🔥🔥😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:55 AM
14

Who is this? I love her energy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:25 PM
14

Where is the lie?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:17 PM
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lol As if women need providers nowadays. We can make our own money. We don’t need men for economic survival anymore. Guys like this need to wake up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:49 PM
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I felt this in my SOUL. Damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:40 PM
12

This. My main reason to be in a relationship is to have a partner to experience and share life with. Tell me why I had to do all the planning and still have them not wanting to do what I planned at the last minute. Like you, I learned if I want to do something, I’m better off just doing it alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 06:21 PM
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Shots fired! (And I love it!) 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:39 PM
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They are idiots, then. I’ll bet your tattoos are beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:38 PM
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Those movies are trying to indoctrinate women to try to be the beautiful, magical rescuer for men. Even in those movies, the women just end up being a plot point for a man to discover himself. Nah—I’m good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:25 PM
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Oooh girl, you have summed up online dating for a woman over 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:32 PM
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Wants an exciting Manic Pixie Dream girl with joie de vivre but he only stays inside and plays video games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:30 PM
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What is that about?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:28 PM
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Right?!? Sir, escorting would net women faaaar more than $10/session. What a dumbass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:20 PM
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I think also J.Lo is one of those “in love with love” women. I feel for her a bit as what man is on her level but I wish she would be alone for a minute and find out what she needs without a partner. As a white-passing but curvy Boricua, I don’t know what it is but Boston boys (and Midwestern guys) really like Latinas. When I was a Flight Attendant and had layovers in Boston, guys would hit on me constantly. Even in a fun bun and jeans grabbing Dunkin’ super early in the morning. Even another Ul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 12:15 AM
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Bumble BFF made me almost feel bad for men. 😜 Trying to get other women to do ANYTHING was like pulling teeth. Even if it was masked and socially-distanced. I do not understand people that make zero effort or don’t reciprocate energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 09:41 PM
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Jane Austen has entered the chat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 01:46 AM
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That’s an FDS bird right there. She is straight up unimpressed and keeps swerving him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:26 PM
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And running around with (still-married) J. Hough maskless during the pandemic made me side-eye him a bit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 03:45 AM
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Why is this news channel debating one woman’s standards for dating? You disagree? Fine, keep it moving and stop judging her. Why are so many people pressed about this? If you don’t agree, just ignore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:40 AM
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I want to be her friend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:18 AM
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And really block and delete after that break up text. I was sucked in by the gaslighting and “busy” excuses after sending break up texts in the past and gave second chances—only for their bad behavior to continue. Which is infuriating. Like, I GAVE you an easy out with a text AND you still didn’t take it to string me along a little longer? No Sir... I mean, Scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:58 AM
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I had to learn this one the hard way in my younger days. This was before “the slow fade” and “bread crumbing” were common terms. Younger me had to take a few L’s and realize I was not #1 choice and/or unwillingly part of a roster for dudes before I learned to dip (and now block and delete) immediately when the communication slows/stops.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:53 AM
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“My boyfriend constantly belittles me and makes me feel terrible about myself. What should I do?” “That’s terrible. You should leave him.” “What?!? I love him! We have a wonderful relationship! How DARE you! My boyfriend Scrotey is amazing!” 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:13 PM
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We have one in my area. Sadly, it is ridiculously expensive and very limited hours but when I have gone there with a pass it was really nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:05 PM
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Ignore that noise! You want what you want. I want a few rooms myself—I want a study and a music room. Or a walk in closet! (What? I love shoes!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:48 PM
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Yup. I’ve had scrotes find me and reach out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:48 PM
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I love our FDS forebearers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:47 PM
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He ain’t gonna pick you except for unsatisfactory NSA sex, Sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 06:15 PM
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When people tell you who they are, listen to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:16 AM
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Where is the lie? This Queen is telling straight facts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:39 PM
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This is 💯 accurate. So many guys on Reddit will post stuff like this to get low self esteem PickMeishas to sleep with them while they dream of some other girl. This site is filled with baby scrotes and I’m so glad we escape them (for the most part) here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:11 PM
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Yup. I got banned from a dating sub just because I post here sometimes. Never said or did anything inflammatory in that relationship sub yet I was banned for being part of a “hate group”/FDS (their words, not mine).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:01 PM
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Die mad, scrote lurkers. You literally have every other sub on Reddit. Heaven forbid, some women want ONE space for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 06:55 PM
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Women wanting one damn safe space for themselves. (Thank you FDS.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:01 AM
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I hope men calm the F down. I remember early on in quarantine, scrotes were out in full force. My daily allowed walk was filled with catcalls and leering men. It got so bad I wore a big costume ring that looks like an engagement ring. Once their supply of women were cut off due to lockdown, a lot of LVM/NVM lost their damn minds. It’s been better now that things are opening up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:50 PM
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I found that when I do not respect a man, I cannot be attracted to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:07 PM
2

Yeah. It’s sad when their best is just sub-par.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:00 PM
115

This! I wish more women would understand that most men will future-fake and give the bare minimum to a woman they don’t care about for YEARS if that woman is giving him easy Bang Mommy benefits. This is why some women are engaged for DECADES without a ring. Most women couldn’t string along a man they don’t care for because it’s cruel. Men have no problem doing that for access to sex and a girlfriend-maid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:36 PM
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It has not aged well, but I liked that the true love story in Sex in the City is between the 4 friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 03:25 AM
113

Men will have sex with anything and not care. If you ask him out, he knows he can (and he will) use you for sex while he asks out the girl he really wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 07:28 AM
14

Where’s the lie?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:53 AM
7

He acts like he discovered the cure for cancer by—get this—being attentive to his partner’s habits and likes/dislikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:50 PM
2

Oh hell naw!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:00 PM
2

This video is awesometown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:00 AM
8

I’m sorry, Sir, I don’t speak incel. 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:40 PM
3

plays organ ‘cause you’re preaching, Queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:13 PM
1

This 👆. This right here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:09 PM
6

Scroteslation: No one else likes me because I’m boring aka “unique”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:00 PM
9

He needs a new prescription for those glasses!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:56 PM
19

I’ll bet he still wants children, too. Guys like him think they gave aaaaalll the time in the world to be Fathers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:55 PM
140

You know why men’s clothes have pockets? To carry all of their audacity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:52 AM
34

Me too! Love her energy and message!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:17 PM
35

Girl, fellow big booty girl that came of age in the Kate Moss/heroin-chic era. The fact that people now get injections and surgery to get bodies like ours is so crazy to me. It is a good reminder that what is considered “beautiful” by media has no meaning in real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:59 AM
10

This! This right here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 06:26 AM
26

“bepenised” 😂 Yes! lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 06:24 AM
20

I hAZ pEniS so I Am ImPoRtaNT! —Scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 06:22 AM
17

Thank 👏🏻you 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:17 PM
22

She’s (rightly) picked the cat, Dude. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 12:00 AM
19

That’s exactly what I thought of when I saw this picture!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:06 PM
20

Now they are just trolling us. Right? RIGHT?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:13 PM
15

I was always questioned or shamed for asking for them by so-called medical professionals. Their attitude was like, you are not high risk so why test before a new partner!?! I insisted and got new doctors. And we wonder why STI rates are so high.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:45 PM
70

Team Jaxn—what’s happening? Uh, you are a cheater—that’s what’s happening! 🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:07 PM
14

Let his Mom yell at him. You are too busy and important to deal with him anymore. Block and delete, Sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 04:29 PM
21

Yes! On my OLD profile, I explicitly stated my dealbreakers were men that had kids, were divorced, or had substance abuse issues. Take a good guess who flooded my inbox? If they like your picture, they are going to try it. They’ll even try to convince you to disrespect your own boundaries for them. As if.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 08:49 PM
38

“She is kINk SHamInG him”. Ugh! I can’t with other Reddit forums right now. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:16 PM
7

It took awhile for me as well—I had to request twice. I’ve been posting here for a bit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:38 PM
11

This! This right here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:17 PM
8

Watching this thread 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:01 PM
4

The bar is in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:36 PM
96

I noticed how he didn’t say he would stop doing porn and stop contributing to a messed up industry...so...baby golf claps for him, I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 05:26 PM
143

Or act like they are the aggrieved party. “It hurts my feelings that you are disappointed that I flaked on our dinner plans.” Like, OMG Matt, maybe we need a fainting couch that you can dramatically drape yourself over with one hand on your forehead since you insist on going full Drama Queen every time I say your actions disappoint me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 04:43 PM
29

Put on Beyoncé’s “Irreplaceable” to really rub salt in his wounds, Queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:49 PM
48

This. They would rather complain/use a straw man argument then actually improve themselves or consider how much men DO abuse and mistreat women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:44 PM
30

Oh, and don’t forget decorative swords hanging on the wall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:10 AM
8

She is spitting 💯 facts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 03:14 PM
12

Men do not appreciate anything that comes easy to them. I’m not saying that easy as in promiscuous, but easy as in you do all the relationship lifting. Unlike women, men will have sex with and string along women they don’t care for because it suits them. If you do all the work, you are more likely to end up with one of these guys that doesn’t actually care and is only in it for the sex and other benefits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 05:13 PM
163

She is talking marriage with an uncouth, greasy boy with a goddamn struggle mustache. 💅🏻 you hate to see it...couldn’t be me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 05:01 PM
10

That poor girl never had a chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 07:03 AM
16

What in the PickMe Delusion is this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 08:12 PM
250

His daughter is growing up happy and loved! She will not have to ever doubt her worth or that she deserves love, unlike us with crap fathers. My Dad passes the phone to my Mom when I call my parents. He doesn’t even bother to pretend to want to talk to me. This makes my heart happy that this girl won’t have that experience and there are good fathers in this world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 07:37 PM
15

That’s it. I’m moving to a remote cabin in the woods away from everyone. I can’t with men like this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:55 PM
117

You had me at tapas. Count me in! 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:27 PM
235

What’s with this new wave of backlash? I just received a notification that I am now prevented from posting in a certain subreddit about dating just because I’ve posted on FDS before. Not for anything I’ve done or posted, but because I post comments here sometimes. Absolutely ridiculous!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:17 PM
17

He needs to get his messaging straight. He said if a man wants to leave, he’ll leave—even after sex. We know that. That’s why we vet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:06 AM
10

I am not jumping through arbitrary hoops for some Scrote to want to date me. That’s PickMe behavior and I’m a Queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:51 AM
17

I didn’t have much luck. Potential BFFs were just as flaky as men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:35 AM
3

🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:34 AM
25

OMG, why is a woman stating her damn boundaries so triggering to men?!?! If I don’t like or agree with what’s written on someone’s profile, I ignore, swipe left, and keep it moving. What I DON’T do is message the person to argue or try to change their mind. I don’t know why these guys can’t seem to mind their own damn business! I guess all attention is good attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 01:22 AM
8

So you were the girl that a guy wanted to take for a walk in a field!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 11:47 PM
28

This is a very good point. I also think because most men don’t have strong social relationships, they want their partner to be everything and simpatico in every way. But no partner can be everything. That’s why it’s healthy to have friends and interests outside of a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 11:02 PM
41

Men need to grow the F up and stop making life decisions based upon how their penises feel. I’m acquaintances with some guys in bands and a lot of them complain that they can’t talk to their (much younger) girlfriends like they can to me (a woman around their own age). But when I dare to mention that maybe they should try dating women their own age with actual careers and similar interests instead of these young girls from a different generation that haven’t lived through much yet, they don’t wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 08:00 PM
23

I was part of an online therapy group and ended up quitting for the same reason. Men and toxic people that loved to hear themselves talk and the facilitators did nothing to curb it. Then they were shocked Pikachu face and asked “Why?” when I told them I wanted to quit group.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:54 PM
68

Right?! Most women don’t have the “luxury” of letting everything fall apart because we are the ones that keep everything going for those around us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:28 PM
9

Right?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:21 PM
8

No lies detected here. 🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 08:10 PM
19

This! So much this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:04 PM
26

Where is Judge Judy or Judge Toller to give a long rant about gifts and paying for things so this numbskull understands? So bitter and petty of him. Dates don’t come with a guarantee, Sir. Most don’t work out for either party.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:59 PM
7

OMG! If a woman says she prefers larger penises it’s not a damn hate crime, Scrotes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:25 PM
9

I remember a post about women preferring larger penises was deleted super quickly. The post didn’t even say anything about small penises and yet, it got reported and removed within the hour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 03:12 AM
20

Yup. I was friends with a group of guys in a band and one guy in particular seemed to absolutely hate the girlfriend of another guy in the band. He was always talking shit about her. I couldn’t figure out why he had such strong feelings for someone who was someone else’s girlfriend. Guess who the shit-talking guy is going to have a baby with? The ex-girlfriend of his bandmate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:06 PM
12

This is a very astute observation! They seem to want EVERY woman into them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:02 PM
81

Say it louder for the PickMes in the back, Fellow Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:41 PM
33

Yes. I am a makeup artist and I love trying new looks and being creative. I don’t do it for men but everyone seems to think I do. Puhleeze! Like I perfected winged eyeliner for a Justin. I perfected it so I can strut around like a 50s glamor girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 08:33 PM
3

Miranda got 6’3” gorgeous Tom Ellis in her show. Of course, she wrote, produced it so she could choose her co-star.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:00 AM
25

Your post made me examine my app dating history. Dating apps have crappy ROI (return on investment), at least for me! Over a decade on them and what do I have to show? One ex-boyfriend, two dating experiences that lasted a few months, two VERY bad experiences, and a lot of mediocre dates that didn’t go anywhere. All for putting in effort to make a great profile, making choices, crafting messages and getting dolled up for dates. And ending up single anyway. So much time wasted. This is why FDS is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 07:10 AM
17

“I’m a single dad. Where is my medal and my pussy?!?!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:24 AM
50

In my young, pickme days, I gave my boyfriend a BJ even though I had been sick enough to vomit an hour earlier—which he knew. I couldn’t take his pleading/nagging and I loved him. Older, wiser me just shakes my head at that younger self and wishes FDS had been around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:15 AM
1

👆This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:02 PM
1

I’m reminded of that scene in Airplane the Movie: “Excuse me, Sir, but I speak Scrote.” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 08:11 PM
1

Thank!You!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 08:09 PM
31

Yeah, Kyle sucks. 😁 Go make a podcast and stop rating women, Kyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:36 PM
47

They all think they will get a woman in her 20s to have their babies. Sir, you are not Chris Evans or George Clooney. Those guys have fame and money that make them attractive to younger women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:53 PM
7

What the what?!? I feel like I’m taking crazy pills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:39 AM
5

Your post reminded me of an interview I saw of another male ex-Porn actor who said he couldn’t have relationships because all the sex he had warped his view of women (they were indistinguishable objects to him) and intimacy. He said doing porn really messed him up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:53 AM
2

Yup. That sounds like my friend I described above.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:44 AM
5

A good looking, built man with intelligence and sense of humor plus a service industry job can rack up a pretty high body count. I was friends with one. Football player in HS and college, then owned a bar. He had women throwing themselves at him plus, he told me he lost his virginity at young age (13) and if you average 2-5 partners a year from then, it adds up by the time you are in your 30s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:42 AM
12

The whole Burger records saga was eye-opening. Even low-level garage rock guys are predators and creeps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:29 AM
2

You are strong, Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:32 PM
70

Oh to have the confidence of a mediocre man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:00 AM
28

Lol right!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 07:20 PM
129

I met a guy that thought because I ignored him, I wanted him. I’m like, I avoid and ignore you because you are repellent, give off predator vibes, and your personality is foul. The DELUSION!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 06:23 PM
27

She’s going to be just fine! 😃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:05 AM
51

Ladies, if you want to keep your sex life hot, watch porn together—it’s totally a sexy bonding experience! You are a liberal, empowered, sexy woman so don’t let those FDS killjoys tell you porn is degrading and dehumanizing to women. They don’t know about what turns men on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 11:09 PM
17

Yeah, I’m thinking she had to sign an NDA or something to get a divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 03:53 AM
10

The accuracy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 06:46 PM
45

FDS Unofficial Motto to me: Die mad, Scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 05:40 PM
31

Where’s the picture of his “apartment” aka Mom’s basement? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 05:33 PM
16

These are brilliant. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 11:49 PM
10

There used to be a site called Don’t Date Him Girl to name and shame cheaters but I think it got shut down. I found it after doing a Google search on a guy I was interested in. It was VERY useful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 10:18 PM
6

Future FDS MOD 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 10:13 PM
121

The bar is in hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 06:42 PM
101

You women want too much from us! If you ladies wanted us to have hygiene you should buy the soap and give us sponge baths! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 06:41 PM
54

💯 this. I was talking to this guy...well, I should say he was talking AT me. He’d send me long paragraphs about himself and never asked me anything about myself. I’d be polite and ask him about himself but he never did the same. I finally stopped responding. He probably thinks I’m sooo rude and “ghosted” him. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 09:23 PM
13

lol I live in the Bay Area and can tell you that is total BS. If you are young and Asian or blonde you’ll do all right. Quantity doesn’t equal quality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:26 PM
11

Thank 👏 you 👏. Some people never meet their person and it is okay. You can still have a full, happy life of your own making. Never forget that the most reliable way of finding contentment and happiness is giving it to yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:19 PM
26

She’s hilarious 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 06:03 AM
161

7 years! That poor woman put up with this fool’s mess for 7 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 02:27 AM
20

Dear Men: we don’t care what you find attractive or your boners. Move 👏 along 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:11 PM
19

Gross 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 01:30 AM
7

Block and delete. Also, can we stop with ageism, please? There is nothing wrong with being 40+ and on dating apps. Some people are widowed, divorced or just haven’t been lucky enough to meet their person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:57 PM
14

He looks like a bloated Stewie from Family Guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 11:03 PM
42

So mad. They even insinuate Jackman is gay because why else would he want to be with a woman that is (shock! gasp!) older. It’s so sick how they tell on themselves. Heaven forbid he love his wife!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 11:00 PM
19

I found that sexual promiscuity is often a cover for unresolved issues. I once dated a very handsome, decent, funny man who was fantastic in bed. When I found out how many women he had slept with (A LOT), it was a turn off but we had a good connection and we both had clear STD tests so I let it go. You know what broke us up? He could not open up emotionally to save his life. He was the strong, silent, stoic type and I could never get a read on his feelings. I believe that he used sex as a replac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:37 PM
17

OMG. I’ve been following the Armie Hammer story and if there are comments about the story there are soooo many people screaming, “kink shaming!” Ummmm, the man was taking about eating people. Miss me with that sh*t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:56 PM
2

No lies detected. This is 💯 percent Queen Shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:07 AM
38

I think they do it because they are cowards that only pick on people they perceive are “weaker” and “less powerful” than them. It’s the same reason men harass and abuse us but won’t say shit to another man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 01:30 AM
14

A blank profile with the following: “I’m an open book, ask me anything.” Or “Will fill this out later.” If the man can’t even be bothered to fill out his own damn dating profile, I already know the kind of effort (NONE) that he will put into a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 09:37 PM
35

I could’ve written this myself. We’ve got this Queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 09:33 PM
14

That forum is a dumpster fire. It’s just a bunch a sad-sack men that just want to rail about the (supposed) injustices that life and women have done to them. When someone dares to mention that their anger, lack of will power and discipline to make positive changes in their life is causing them misery (not life or women)...they refuse to hear it. They would rather complain and whine that life is unfair rather than growing as a person that others would want to be around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 09:16 PM
2

Oh.My.God. I... I don’t even have the words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 06:53 PM
13

Amazing! I would add some crates for “tables” strewn about and just a mattress on the floor (no bed frame), plus some Lubriderm and tissues next to the bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 12:35 AM
113

There was a study of college-aged men where when the researchers described behaviors like sexual coercion and forced sex, a majority of men said they had done those things. However, when the researchers actually called those behaviors what they are—rape—far fewer men admitted to it. The mental disconnect is astounding. They have no problem with actually assaulting someone but don’t you dare call them a rapist!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 07:58 PM
40

The worst place I’ve ever been hit on—the Holocaust Museum in D.C. by a security guard there. If you haven’t been it’s powerful, moving but really difficult emotionally due to viewing the worst of what humans can do to each other. I was a crying at the horror and that callous guy thought it would be a good idea to hit on me. I’ve also had randoms hit me up on MeetUp. One girl threatened me to stay away from “her man” and I’d never interacted with him at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 02:35 AM
16

He’s the only male dating coach that I bother to listen to. He has men so pressed too, so you know he’s doing something right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 06:56 PM
2

Why are the sooooo pressed?!? A woman exists and seems to be content and they take it as a personal affront.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 10:03 PM
24

Say it louder for the PickMes in the back! 🗣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 06:11 PM
6

They’d never want a woman who could shock, gasp be better than them at something seen as sort of “masculine”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:41 PM
9

Better role models AND better Fathers. I had an emotionally distant Father and it made me a low self-esteem pick me in my younger years as I just wanted to be loved and “picked” by a man since my Dad didn’t care about me. Luckily, therapy, growth, time and experience cured me of that but sh*tty Fathers have A LOT to answer for when it comes to women’s relationships with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:39 PM
29

Yup! It’s the same as men that say they want a low-maintenance girl but lust and chase after full-glam Insta baddies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:30 PM
4

You deserve it, Queen! Good for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:39 PM
16

I’ve written on here before about being a Flight Attendant and disclosing it on dates and OLD. Some porn sick idiots think that job means you are easy or some 70s stewardess porn trope. Then there are dusties that want to use you for free (and First Class) travel. Then there are guys that either get mad at you for being away a lot (they miss their bang mommy) or like it because they feel it’s easier to cheat. And this is just potential dates. Never mind the passengers that poke and grope and tre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 06:13 AM
8

Thurston did cheat (with a much younger woman) and Patrick Carney basically ghosted and gaslit his wife—they are the bad ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:11 PM
37

Kim and Thurston from Sonic Youth, Patrick Carney and his first wife(that story is a doozy!) Though, on the bright side, Robert Smith and Mary are going strong. My favorite goth couple!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:08 AM
9

plays organ because you are preaching the truth 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 06:15 PM
115

I could have written this myself. So many single Dads out there thinking that they will change my mind about dating them. Don’t even get me started on the men 45+ wanting kids “someday”. Really?!? At 45, you are still hoping to be a Dad?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 10:23 AM
17

❤️❤️❤️Thank you, Queen. You have a kind, beautiful, and wise heart.👑👑👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 05:00 AM
7

Ding! Ding! Ding! We have a winner! 💯facts☝🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 11:43 PM
16

Oh, I wish a scrote would try to send a message like that to me. He would learn that day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 08:00 AM
109

Media/culture and patriarchy. How many times have we seen some male actor that looks like a thumb paired with a gorgeous actress (that’s usually much younger). Or how the unattractive social outcast miraculously gets the hot girl next door or popular girl to fall for him. These bozos think that’s reality, not just another fantasy cooked up by loser male writers, producers and filmmakers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 04:27 PM
92

Right? That phrase with a blank-ass profile. It shows the exact amount of energy (none) that they will bring to dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 04:23 PM
7

The accuracy 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 04:20 PM
3

I think this belongs in the Pickme Hall of “Fame”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:45 PM
10

She really blew up her entire life for a known manipulative creep and fraud?!?! sigh You hate to see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:42 PM
1

A walk in a field (never gets old for me). 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 05:07 AM
18

Exactly! I met a man that was cute but not my type (he was a blonde surfer boy type and I like dark, tattooed and artistic) but he became very attractive when I saw how caring he was and how he took care of everyone around him—from his friends to even helping me take care of a friend that drank too much even though we had just met him. He was so kind, thoughtful, caring and respectful. It made him SO ATTRACTIVE to me. If he wasn’t just visiting from Australia, I’d of snatched him up. It was so r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 07:20 PM
53

Thank you! Yeah, cervical biopsies to check for cancer are soooo fun and painless (/s). Totally worth it for disappointing sex with no orgasm with a guy that couldn’t find the clitoris with a flashlight and map. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 06:49 PM
19

This poor woman. My heart hurts for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 07:20 AM
44

Queen, I’m intrigued by your ideas and would like to subscribe to your newsletter. 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 07:10 AM
2

plays the organ because you preaching, Queen 🙋🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 07:02 AM
6

He’d probably get off on it if a woman breathed on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 06:52 AM
5

I don’t think they love older women, they just want to check off the older woman fantasy off their sexual bucket list and/or believe society’s patriarchal bullshit lie that older women are so desperate that they will allow themselves to be sexually used by some worthless scrote and be happy about it. Puhleeze! I look like a taller, curvier, brunette Shakira (and my hips don’t lie either, ha, ha) and I never want for attention. They can keep dreaming that this “older” woman wants them. Women take…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 06:43 AM
6

I hear you. As a native East Coaster that has lived in California for over 13 years now...whew! It’s ROUGH out here trying to make true friendships and connections. I wish I could bring my East Coast friends out here. They refuse and I get it. This guy is an incel chucklehead, though. “Punishment”. GTFO. Just block and delete and move on, son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 11:19 PM
11

🤣🤣 This comment! I’m dead! 🪦 Please send flowers. 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 11:08 PM
9

Usually I date 3-5 years younger. Not that I’ve sought it out but I’ve been told I look much younger and I’m very energetic and carefree so that’s how it usually works out. I’ve done as young as 7 years younger but that experience kinda put me off much younger men. And online (Hinge) the guys that are hitting on me are just ridiculously too young—15-20 years younger—and I just ignore them because it’s gross!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 05:43 PM
46

Yup. As an “older” women that constantly has baby Scrotes hitting on her online—they don’t even have the decency to be good looking. Maybe 3 have been great looking (not that I would partake, I don’t like much younger men). The majority are not attractive. At all. They are just young and are too stupid to realize that older women aren’t depraved like them, where barely legal and young are the ideal, despite the level of attractiveness. An older woman with any sense will not go for much younger m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 01:59 PM
16

Oh hell no. If he doesn’t ask within 1.5 years, he’s never going to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 02:29 AM
22

Don’t let it get you down, Queen. A LOT OF US (myself included) wished I knew this in my 20s and had to learn this lesson the hard way a couple of times because, “Hey, maybe it was just that guy that didn’t have good intentions. This new guy seems way more sincere.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:05 PM
20

I wish I had FDS in my younger days, that’s for sure!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:02 PM
13

This ☝🏻so much this 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 08:41 PM
7

👏😂 That video is amazeballs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 08:35 PM
28

I had a date early this year who claimed to be divorced. When pressed, he admitted that he wasn’t divorced, just separated. He didn’t seem in any hurry to get divorced either. These men will try it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 02:46 AM
31

“BuT HAvE yOu tRieD TAlking about it?” —typical male & PickMe Reddit response OMG, if you any illusions about Reddit not being a cesspool of young, narcissistic Scrotes, abandon them now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:59 PM
3

Ah, hell no!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:56 PM
18

Yes! I definitely had sex a couple times when all I wanted was to be held, caressed and kissed gently and I knew that having sex was the only way I’d get that from a guy. It’s rough being single during COVID but I’m never doing that again. I hope when this pandemic is under control I can go back to in-person yoga and massage therapy to get back in touch with my body and therapeutic touch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:48 PM
6

Yeah, the world is soooo kind to overweight women. 🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 05:04 PM
10

Thank 👏 You 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 01:09 AM
16

Story of my life. Do you have a link to this article because I’d love to read the whole thing, please?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 12:44 AM
26

Yeah. As a makeup artist, I was like, “Oh no, girl! What are you doing?!?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 07:43 PM
9

My father told me that he would have loved it if I had been the one to keep living at home as I cooked, cleaned up after myself, and was responsible and respectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 04:17 AM
6

My brother went from my parents home to his wife’s home. Shocker: he’s a LVM and my Mother’s favorite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 04:14 AM
2

You have so much talent, Queen! 👌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 04:05 AM
61

Me too! Just like taking a walk “in a field”. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:03 AM
4

💀 Dead! Ahahahaha You can also add penis to oatmeal cookie mix instead of eggs, though I think it may make the cookies non-Vegan
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 10:16 PM
5

Scrotes need to learn sex with another person is a privilege, not a right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 11:17 PM
7

I love how he calls himself attractive yet only films himself in a dark, candlelit room. Let’s see his crusty face and body under bright lights!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 06:43 PM
4

That made me so angry. That bitter, nasty man just tried to break this woman’s spirit just because he knows he is just a horrible, spiteful joke inside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 06:41 PM
60

Can’t keep up AND probably can’t get it up anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 12:03 PM
2

No lies detected here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 12:23 AM
14

Exactly! People praise my gift-giving abilities when it’s just a matter of listening and paying attention. If a person mentions they need something or like something, I remember that when it comes time to give a gift. They are always like, “It’s perfect!” or “It’s just what I wanted/needed! How did you know?” I know because I care and pay attention. Sadly, this courtesy is rarely returned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 12:10 AM
9

I tried to speak about my wants, needs and feelings in my past relationships—only to get ignored and dismissed. They only listened if it involved sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 11:53 PM
33

But muh penis! —Scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:47 PM
15

“you are too picky” “You can teach him how to dress” “Men aren’t like women, you have to help them” So.damn.tired of being told I have to build-a-man to have a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 06:20 PM
36

Oakland representing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 01:39 AM
5

Get that money, Sis. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 03:45 PM
156

AND had a baby with his sorry ass. Where is her self-esteem?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 12:13 PM
11

OMG. What did I just read? I am weird and watch a lot of true crime and forensics shows. I wish this girl watched them too because then she would know that she just described how a lot of serial killers killed their female victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 12:05 PM
11

I love Miss Fisher too! Jack is also a HVM. I’ve taken to writing my own stories and screenplays because I never see women that look like me in starring roles. One movie that brought me to tears was Wonder Woman when it showed all the amazing, beautiful strong warrior women of Themyscira. It was the first time I saw a lot of women of all ages, shapes, races, ethnicities, body types being bad-ass, capable, and strong warrior women and I just burst into tears when I saw it in the movie. I didn’t r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 07:32 AM
8

David Cross too. Ugh! No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:13 AM
133

They just learned that word, they think it sounds more sophisticated but we all know that it really means an alcoholic porn-sick douche canoe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 08:40 PM
13

I love it when trash takes itself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 08:38 PM
56

Oh, she knows about you or she suspected something. He was probably pulling away from her to love bomb you and she knew just how to reel him back in or he wanted to make her jealous and it worked. They deserve each other. As far as working with him: Go total ICE QUEEN. He means nothing to you and you don’t care about what he does. Only speak to him if you absolutely must but otherwise be icy, regal and detached.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:00 AM
4

Holy controlling man-baby, Batman!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:51 AM
22

And if men were smart, they would realize porn addiction and being exposed to hardcore porn too early and often harms them too. It’s not normal to have such high levels of erectile dysfunction in young men as we are seeing now. It’s also preventing them from having basic relational social skills and healthy sexual and romantic relationships with women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 06:03 AM
60

I remember watching an interview with young porn actresses and all of them said being exposed to, and watching a lot of, porn from a young age is the reason they were in the porn industry now. They were so young they thought that porn sex was normal and being exposed to it so early made all the extreme, degrading stuff seem like it was no big deal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 05:57 AM
11

💯 facts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 02:00 AM
36

Teddy, just say you are broke and/or cheap and keep it moving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 08:18 PM
2

Yes! When I do nice things for my female friends, they are so grateful and I know they have and would do the same for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:17 AM
8

Let’s not forget the married & taken men that pester and try to talk to you because they want female attention. Or even if they are single and they try to get you to acknowledge them. I tend to ignore most people as I’m a busy woman. And If I see a ring, I am especially paying you dust. They act like toddlers when they don’t get attention, too. I told one guy who would not leave me alone while I was picking up some food to call his wife if he needed something, as I am busy and he put on shocked …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:14 AM
16

That’s a really helpful analogy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 01:50 AM
30

Where is this from? I love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 08:30 PM
58

Yup. Marilyn “Sex Goddess” Monroe got cheated on and used by LVM. None of us are safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 07:53 PM
1

Oh hell no. I love food and someone will get their hand slapped if they come for my food. It has happened!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:43 AM
22

💯💯💯Louder for the Pickmes in the back, Queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 05:39 PM
31

OMG. This poor, poor woman. I would be locked up for punching his stupid ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 07:28 AM
19

I’ve always thought this. Bella DePaulo writes about this kind of thing all the time. She is a single person guru!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 04:07 AM
3

The accuracy 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 11:20 AM
10

A man...excuse me, a scrote, wrote this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 12:36 AM
20

If I hear anything about a “spicy Latina” (I’m not a salsa) or a mention that they love to dance Salsa, I’m out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 05:48 PM
35

There was a meme going around that said, “Never mess with a woman over 35. They are full of rage and sick of everyone’s shit.” As a woman in that demographic now, I feel that meme so hard. Women have been through so much and for far too long, and once we age out of being treated “nicely” (read: not really) by society because we’re not pretty young things anymore, we start giving back “attitude” and anger to people that mistreat us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:38 PM
121

They talk so much crap about FDS in that sub. They need to be mad at the people making that sub toxic instead of complaining about FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 05:31 PM
27

Right?!? And where I am, bars are for the most part, closed. You can only get drinks if you buy food but these broke scrotes don’t want to pay for dinner. Hence, all the offers for walks and coffee. Miss me with that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 05:04 PM
9

As an “older” woman, I hate Hinge. Only super young men (who watch too much MILF Porn) or men that are much older (and lie about being divorced and having kids) contact me. I block and delete so much on that app, it’s ridiculous. Just blocked a scrote just now that tried to neg me for replying the day after he sent a message. It’s like, I have a life. If you are not in your 20s to early 30s as a woman, OLD is the worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 10:25 PM
6

You know why men’s clothing have pockets? To carry all their audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 04:27 PM
13

Thank 👏 You 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 04:25 PM
44

Porn has really messed with their heads. Beautiful woman are not ready to throw themselves at, and have immediate sex with, random dudes that look in their direction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 04:25 PM
26

plays organ ‘cause you’re preaching the gospel truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 04:18 PM
29

Men never appreciate what comes without effort. They are not like us. Woman in general are more empathetic, gracious and intelligent. Notice who is super grateful and says thank you when you do something nice for them (hint: women). Men will not value a woman who asks them out and makes things easy for them. They just don’t—they only wonder what’s “wrong” with a woman that had to “chase” them or they become spoiled and think they are more attractive than the woman that asked them out and start l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 03:26 PM
18

Is there room on that bingo card for the shirtless bathroom selfie? Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 08:36 PM
11

All their whining about “catfishing” when they are biggest offenders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 08:35 PM
6

Always!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 08:34 PM
5

Hobosexuals...all of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 02:12 AM
11

Ooh, he sounds like the same type of guy that asks you to meet him and his friends at a bar. I told a guy that doing that is NOT a date and he was all shocked Pikachu face, especially when a mutual female friend backed me up on that. He couldn’t believe that I vetoed it and called it a hang out, not a date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 02:07 AM
31

Yup. I had to implement FDS tactics for flaky-ass “friends” myself. Yay, living in California! /s My East Coast friends would never. And people wonder why I still have TONS of friends back East and only acquaintances out here, despite living here for awhile now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:12 PM
6

You answered perfectly! 👌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:07 PM
4

Stay mad, scrotes. If you don’t like this forum, don’t lurk or read. I feel like ones that post stuff like this just want attention or to hear an echo chamber of people that think the same way they do. No one invited you to this reddit FDS party, so why are you complaining about what we post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:33 AM
70

I ❤️ her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:22 AM
32

This was indeed timely. I was just sitting here super annoyed that friends, family and co-workers aren’t getting back to me or if they do, it’s too late and/or they didn’t read my message. Thank you, fellow Queen. I needed this reminder that my peace comes first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:37 PM
52

He also cheated on his girlfriend at the time to get with her. Paulina seems like a nice, if naive, lady.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 12:18 AM
2

I’m not like other guys...I’m a cool and sensitive guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 11:56 PM
22

We can’t even be in our own damn house and be free of harassment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 08:34 PM
102

I love how The Rock made fun of Khaled for not going down on his wife. That had to hurt. A man like The Rock, who most men see as the ultimate man, clowned you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 06:01 PM
8

plays the organ ‘cause you preaching, Sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 05:55 PM
44

I was a Flight Attendant and when a passenger grabbed my hip, I had to defend myself to my airline for yelling at him for it. I almost lost my job because I dared to protest when a passenger groped me. It was the main reason I left that industry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 04:38 PM
9

Girl, I could’ve written this myself. Same. So much same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 08:32 PM
224

In a field. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 02:04 AM
10

Young me learned this lesson the hard way. Whew!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 04:48 PM
6

I’m sooooo using this response. We are sick of doing all the emotional labor for you, boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 04:45 PM
25

And the bad part, the women’s gyms in my area charge way more in monthly dues than other surrounding gyms while having less amenities. So my choice is, not be ogled and pay more, or save some money and get stared out by Neanderthals. We can’t win as women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 08:37 PM
12

Unofficial FDS Motto: Die Mad, Scrotes. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 10:04 AM
15

I don’t think my Dad knows how old I am. When I call and try to talk to him, he just hands the phone to my Mother. I’m used to it but when I was younger, that sh*t hurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 04:21 PM
48

Don’t forget all the Conservative lawmakers that are vehemently anti-gay and anti-women’s rights who later get caught blowing some twink trick in a bathroom. So many men hate themselves and instead of working on that, they turn that hatred toward women, POC, LGBT people, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:30 PM
1

Thank.You. If they devoted the time they spent whining and posting unhinged internet rants into bettering themselves, they probably would find a partner. But noooooo...not for these “princes”...they want everything just given to them. They are so weak—they wouldn’t last 5 minutes as a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 04:12 PM
3

Thank.You. If they devoted the time they spent whining and posting unhinged internet rants into bettering themselves, they probably would find a partner. But noooooo...not for these “princes”...they want everything just given to them. They are so weak—they wouldn’t last 5 minutes as a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 04:11 PM
25

Men are so messed up. I’ve stopped telling them I’ve been assaulted because EVERY SINGLE ONE of them treated me like damaged goods after I shared. It was so terrible. They never looked at me the same way again. Now I keep it inside. My assault was NOT my fault and no piece of crap man will ever make me feel like it was, or that I’m less than, EVER AGAIN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 10:14 PM
14

I sense a Pick Me disturbance in the Force!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 12:51 AM
27

Thank you for this post, OP. I grew up raised in two, non-American cultures despite living in the US and I always felt dating and relationships here are dire compared to the values I was taught. It, sadly, doesn’t make me happy that you noticed it but it is affirming that we are not imagining the horrible treatment women receive from men here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 12:41 AM
13

They are so elegant! My Latina and German genes have been good to me so far. Here’s to keeping a good thing going!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 05:25 PM
6

Did Ted Bundy write that post? What a sociopath—he emotionally tortured that girl for a year and made her want to end her life. shudder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 04:16 PM
16

Seriously insecure. I have (in the past, before FDS) offered to pay my share after so-so dates so I wouldn’t have to deal with the guy complaining later when I turned down a second date with them. The men seemed truly offended that I offered. They know women only offer to pay if they think the man can’t pay or she doesn’t want to see him again. They KNOW this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:06 AM
21

Yup. I used to think it meant that I had to try harder and be the girl they wanted to be with. Didn’t do me a damn bit of good. If a man doesn’t want you, he doesn’t want you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 01:44 AM
17

Younger me needed to see this quote. I’m glad I’m beyond it now but, whew, the heartache younger me could’ve avoided.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 01:39 AM
3

Thank you! Rather than appreciating her for standing up for herself, all they can do is criticize her weight and looks. If one more a-hole in their comments mentions their views on her “health”, I will go off. What about her mental health?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 01:31 AM
54

I think that should be the FDS Unofficial Slogan: Die mad, scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 05:25 PM
7

That man has more chins than a Chinese phone book and has some nerve complaining about overweight women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:16 PM
35

Did they forget how many much younger cocktail waitresses/aspiring actresses he played around with before his wife? And, as you point out, his wife is still almost 20 years younger than him. Society always wants to hand out cookies to men for the bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:16 PM
6

This is next level sleuthing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:09 AM
68

Yes! Last time I checked mine didn’t apply for tax-exempt status. No charity punani and every scrote will get left behind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:21 AM
97

“I don’t know to change it on this app!” Bullshit and why did you make it lower than your actual age in the first place, bro?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:03 AM
78

This! They all think tons of attractive, younger women are going to line up to have sex with, hang out with, and play nurse-maid to their dusty, ancient asses. As Mariah would sing, “you’re delusional...you’re delusional.” 🎤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:01 AM
15

Why are they so quick to try and call you. I reply to a guy on Hinge for the first time and he starts trying to call me right then and there via the app. Settle down, bro!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:57 PM
5

Get one of your bros to hug you. I’m busy 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 08:34 PM
10

Yup. Had a scrote in my younger days whine, “You act like you don’t care and that’s hurtful”. Meanwhile his dumb ass was the one to start seeing a girl of 19 (10 years younger than we were) out of nowhere when we had been dating for a few weeks, effectively ruining whatever we could’ve had. Like that didn’t hurt me but I have PRIDE and wouldn’t dare let a man see that he hurt me. Side note: Never date scrotes that are actors, Queens. Learn from my mistakes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:33 PM
51

Yes! I realized that I really enjoyed (before the pandemic) going solo to dinner/art events/concerts, and traveling alone . With the pandemic, I’ve switched to picnics at a nearby lake, splurging on delivery from my favorite restaurants occasionally, and small day trips via car. I’m treating myself how I’d want a partner to treat me and it’s so nice. It makes it so much easier to turn down “date” offers like taking a walk, home “visits” (as if), coffee, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:33 PM
4

Thank 👏 you 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:45 AM
72

This. This right here. There have been studies where men have readily admitted to behavior that qualifies as rape, but only if the behavior wasn’t (correctly) labeled as rape. Once researchers labeled the behavior as rape, far fewer men admitted to it. They engage in rape but heaven forbid you call them rapists or call behaviors like sexual coercion by manipulation or force, assaulting unconscious women what they really are—rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:17 PM
2

Girl, I almost spit out my coffee! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:14 PM
8

A lot of guys out here want boyfriend privileges right off the bat. Walking dogs together and a day in bed—cute and lovely in a relationship, cheap and presumptuous when you are basically strangers. You are not eligible for those privileges yet, Sir.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:01 PM
5

One thing I did during Shelter in Place was re-decorate and re-vamp my apartment as I figured I’m saving money by not going out and if I have to be indoors, now is the time. I was surprised how much joy and peace this project and my apartment has given me. In addition, I got a gourmet food delivery service so I take pride in cooking healthy and delicious meals for myself. I am also researching jobs and homes in a place I’ve always wanted to move to and it’s giving me hope. I don’t believe it whe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:34 PM
16

Yes, I had an ex like that who just couldn’t understand why I didn’t want to continue to party and do tequila shots after we got back from the club with a tour group we were with. I finally was like, “You are a 6’2” former college lineman (football player) and I’m 5’6. If I keep drinking I will DIE of alcohol poisoning!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:24 PM
59

“But...but...aren’t you going to have sex with me now? Isn’t that how it works? No? Gold digging b*tch!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 02:09 PM
3

Waaaaaaah, what about my little fee-fees? You can’t be supporting or encouraging to anyone but me? I’m supposed to be your everything. (God, what an insufferable man-baby! I’ll bet he’ll be one of those guys that resents his wife for caring for their children because he isn’t getting as much attention.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 12:12 AM
10

I want to move to Italy so bad. I fall in lust every 20 seconds every time I visit—so many hot men! And no one wears a suit like an Italian man. Spain, too! Most guys in the US are just tragic, especially when they aren’t young anymore because they don’t take care of themselves and dress like slobs/overgrown toddlers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 12:04 AM
15

nods in SF Bay Area So many unattractive men here that think because they work in tech, hot women should fawn over them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 11:57 PM
11

If the stretch marks aren’t red/new anymore, they are there to stay. I’ve been in the Beauty and Dermatology industries for awhile and I wish more companies were honest as to how limited topicals and certain treatments can be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:33 AM
10

Me too, Sis. Me too. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:23 AM
42

🤣 DEAD!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:55 PM
5

“It doesn’t mean you can’t talk to her.” Yes....Yes it does mean you can’t talk to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:41 PM
33

Clare isn’t playing. Go Clare!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:15 AM
36

I was recently messaged by a “high-end” matchmaker who said I’d be perfect for a Client of hers and she wanted to match me with him, with no cost on my part. Reported her. LinkedIn is for work and career networking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:59 AM
10

Seriously. Thank you. It’s a safe, supportive, powerful female space in the cesspool of Reddit (and a patriarchical world) for me and I am so grateful for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:12 AM
21

No lies are being told here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 02:33 AM
113

Just because they don’t have yet another platform to try and MANSPLAIN to us, they think they are oppressed. Little boys, please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 01:07 AM
2

He at least let you know that he was interested and fell back when you told him that you were with someone else. I just heard back from a guy that left me on read for two months on OLD today. I forgot it and kept messaging with other guys and today I get a message from him asking if I’m still around. Immediately blocked his 🤡 ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 03:01 AM
6

Yeah, the dehumanizing way he called women “prizes” was not good. I know men are shallow but to have them view us as objects for their pleasure is really messed up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 02:41 AM
4

He drinks Budweiser. That’s all you need to know. Trash man drinks trash beer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 12:39 AM
35

I think it’s that Linemen are defensive players—they are really big boys that protect the Quarterback and offense. That is their job. The QB and offense strategize and run plays to get touchdowns so their job is more thinking over muscle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:24 PM
19

Right?! Men: “We can’t help what we are attracted to...evolutionary biology...blah, blah, blah.” Yeah well, neither can women so, you better be successful and a good provider then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 08:25 PM
12

I always think, “Nobody cares about your boner, Dude.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:15 PM
48

You know what I got out of reading that? He hadn’t changed a bit. He does not care that he hurt her AT ALL and only cares that it is hard to find a job. The whole time reading that all I saw was ME ME ME. He’s trash. Throw the whole damn man away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 09:06 PM
4

She’s talking straight facts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 02:56 PM
1

A sociopath says what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 02:51 AM
3

You got this, Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 09:59 PM
3

I feel this so hard and I’m so tired of it. I’m glad I’ve never married but it still doesn’t escape my attention that I know men my age are OLD but I only ever get messages from men 15-20 years older than me and look like grandfathers and I’m looking great due to genetics and a lifelong obsession with skincare and taking care of myself. Yes, many young men in their 20s message me but they only want sex with an older woman (I blame cougar porn tropes) and not a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 10:05 PM
6

Men are so dumb. If they knew how cranky from not enough sleep, overwork, and sh*tty passengers the average Flight Attendant was, they would forget that fantasy fast. Let’s see how hot they would find it watching a group of frazzled girls scarf down burgers while hiding in a jetway because they have a full day of flight turns and have 5 minutes to get some food before the next flight boards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:21 PM
28

“Don’t stop, I’m almost there.” he orgasms immediately “God damn it! I said DON’T stop.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:04 PM
12

🤣 The truth. Only had one man that knew what he was doing, and was hot and really well-endowed as a bonus. It’s almost bad I dated him because before him, I never knew sex could be fantastic. Now I know better and it’s a damn shame for us women. So much mediocre sex for women, it is ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 02:57 PM
19

Is he on crack? She look like she’s super fit and works out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 06:13 AM
12

If these guys had ANY emotional literacy, self-awareness or sense, they would know that women give signals when they are interested. But noooooo...they just assume they are God’s gift and hit on women, especially women FAR out of their league. Dude, if she is avoiding eye contact, ignoring you, and/or giving you short, terse answers, she is NOT interested. Keep it moving, Sir!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 12:17 AM
17

Yeah, from everyone’s responses I’m starting to see it’s a distraction and these guys may not have the best intentions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 11:50 PM
12

Yeah, I get hit up for buddy passes all the time and it’s annoying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 11:49 PM
16

😂 that is brilliant!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 11:46 PM
25

That’s the vibe I’m getting but I am not sure if I’m being too suspicious or not?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:38 PM
15

What would he know about being hungry?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:04 AM
6

My pet peeve is people that use loose to mean lose. And don’t know the proper usage of to, two, and too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 03:48 PM
17

I worked for doctors and lawyers. Not all were bad but ugh, a lot of them were the wooooorst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 12:51 AM
6

I needed to hear this. I’ve been messaging with some guys that seemed HV on OKC but I’m becoming more aware of how long it has been taking for some of them to message me back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 12:41 AM
9

sigh This is what happens when you cut funding for public education, lawmakers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 08:43 PM
3

No lies told here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 05:35 PM
43

I just got “Oi” as an opener on Hinge. I unmatched so fast, I think I broke a world record.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 05:06 PM
50

Made time-and-labor intensive meals for 2 men: The first one came to eat it HOURS after he’d said he would arrive. I later found out this “Prince Charming” had knocked up another girl while he was trying to date me. Number 2, I brought the dinner to his work. He barely thanked me but showed off to his friends that I made and brought him dinner. You know who was truly appreciative of my home-cooked meals? My female friends. Raves about my cooking, thanked me profusely and repeatedly. They were so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 04:42 PM
34

My ex boyfriend let his friends joke and tease him mercilessly and he would just laugh about it. I would say one mildly critical thing about him and it would be WW III and a huge argument.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 04:25 PM
7

You can also use the Burner app to get a fake number that will ring to your phone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 04:05 PM
8

Justin (never met a good one). Matt—this one is just personal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:18 AM
1

Half Latina and I look terrible with blonde hair. Highlights are fine but I tried on some blonde wigs for fun and I felt I looked “cheap”. I nearly threw the wig across the room. It’s hard to pull off some colors with olive-toned skin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 12:59 AM
16

Yup. When I wear my big, sparkly, fake “engagement” ring out during my daily walks, men leave me alone. If I forget to wear it... catcalls galore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:11 PM
29

Not surprised it’s men saying that. Love languages have nothing to do with forgetting an anniversary. That’s just bad behavior, selfishness, and rudeness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 08:54 PM
2

Aww...he thinks he’s cute...let’s see how cute he feels when the police arrest him for trespassing on her property.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 12:33 AM
121

Yup. Supermodels, actresses and even sex goddess Marilyn Monroe got cheated on. For scrotes, the best girl is a new girl—doesn’t matter how gorgeous and amazing his partner is. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 09:30 PM
157

Straight.Facts. 👏 I’m a direct person so I would always ask men that were pulling away or doing the “slow fade” to tell me straight-up if they weren’t feeling it or liked someone else so I could move on. (Before I learned to just Block and Delete.) EVERY SINGLE MAN straight up lied to me and gave me excuses like they were busy or other such nonsense. I still ended up getting ghosted, even though I gave them the option of telling me the truth and being a decent person. Also remember that most men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 04:48 PM
2

Or, “open to being friends, maybe more if something develops”. I believe the term you are looking for is, “Friends with benefits”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 12:58 AM
3

Saving this too! I loved your response. So classy and yet effective. I’m like that too, always making the effort and reaching out, but I’ve stopped and while it can be lonely, at least I’m not lonely AND irritated like before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 12:51 AM
30

Thank.You. In my younger years, I did “wife stuff” (cook for, emotionally support, buy gifts, was nurturing and loving, was a giving sexual partner) for LVM/NVM in the hopes that doing that would make them see what a catch I was. Never worked. Couldn’t keep even one of them. They would ghost me, or go back to another girl in their roster. One went back to his stripper ex, even though she cheated on him (true story). That guy’s friends apologized to me for his behavior—even they knew he wasn’t sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 12:38 AM
3

The pure selfishness. It’s almost sociopathic. I hope this woman leaves him and has a support network. So sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 10:28 PM
22

I put off moving cross country for a man and it pissed me off to NO END when he turned out to be a NV F*ckboi and I went a year after I wanted to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:53 PM
14

Perching for ideas because I don’t know either One date I was on was so bad that the whole time I wanted to flee. Luckily for me, we were at a karaoke place and he left his ID as collateral. It was so bad (he yelled at me because he felt I wasn’t paying enough attention to him while he was singing AND totally took over and sang over me while it was my turn). This was after he continually mansplained and talked down to me about a passion of mine (music). I finally had enough and suddenly said , “…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:44 PM
8

I’m so sorry this happened to you. Yeah, they don’t care. When I was younger and working as a bartender, my older boss tried to make a move on me as we were taking a break after closing. He had a fiancé that I had met. It was horrible and I tried to avoid being alone with him after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:07 PM
20

He looks like a diseased foot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:35 PM
6

This is sexual abuse. End of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 07:13 PM
54

Right?!? cries in East Bay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:28 AM
9

Oh, it’s the same on International Women’s Day. Nothing but scrotes complaining that we get a day. We can’t even have ONE day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:23 AM
8

Thank you! I was like, how DARE someone come for Hatchetface. She was a boss b*tch and an amazing friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:20 AM
21

That is a dream closet! He’s a keeper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 12:13 AM
5

Right? I have real champagne and excellent edibles (I live in Cali so it’s legal) at home. Is your lame-ass beer supposed to entice me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 05:06 PM
21

Yup. I picked up on that test too. Puuuhleeze. I don’t have anything to prove to a damn stranger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:01 AM
43

OMG, the “surprise invitation”. I just started Hinge and I’m about to leave because of this crap. I match with a guy, and immediately his first message, is like, “Let’s see how adventurous you are. Come meet me later and we’ll chill. I’ve got beer.” Scrote, please. Instant Unmatch from me. What is wrong with these men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 04:51 AM
19

Corey learned today. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:03 PM
6

I just started using Hinge and I do not like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 01:57 AM
6

Yup! Not in the UK but I have definitely noticed an uptick in approaches, catcalls AND way more anger when I ignore or rebuff them. I live in a progressive California city so it usually isn’t so bad but COVID has made people and these men aggressive! It has gotten so bad, I wear a big, shiny costume CZ ring that looks like an engagement ring as a deterrent!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:26 AM
32

My friend was with a man for 10 years. He broke up with her and married a girl less than 6 months later. It practically broke her. Luckily she found love again with a childhood friend but she wasted 10 years with a fool that was never going to marry her. My Mom said if a man doesn’t even mention marriage about a year to 1.5 years in, he will never marry you. She was always right about these things. My Mama didn’t raise no fool. I wish my friend had been given this advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:31 AM
322

Throw the whole man away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 01:34 AM
8

I used to be friends with a lot of guys in bands. Used to be. They were always shocked...shocked...that it didn’t work out with their stripper, lingerie/Insta/fetish-“model” girlfriends that were around half their age. I was always like, how did you think it would work? You are completely different generations! You have NOTHING in common except you both think she’s pretty. Scrotes can be so damn dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:55 AM
50

I saw a stand up comic (Neal Brennan, I think) say he was so excited to make money so he could get beautiful women finally but he was shocked to realize even supposed “gold diggers” (his term) had standards and didn’t fall all over him. It’s almost as if society lied to them and most women are complex human beings who need attraction to be with a partner. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 03:14 PM
29

I’m in the same boat. Young guys are not relationship-worthy but they can be a lot of fun in the short term. The dates were fun (though I hated the music playing in the background of bars and clubs we went to as their generation’s music is terrible) 😂but they still want to do things and have fun and go out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 03:05 PM
33

plays organ because you’re preaching the truth right now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 03:01 PM
56

Thank you for this! Society and misogynists keep telling me I should be ashamed that I am a single woman in her late 30s and that I’m “old”. Sometimes, it gets so much that I start to believe those lies. Funny though, I’m happy, created a nice home for myself, make my own money and choices, and I still turn heads. And the best part is that I don’t have to be a bangmaid & therapist to a LVM. I will live my life and if a HVM finds me, great, but if not, I know I will continue to be happy on my own…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 02:58 PM
6

An ex-boyfriend once shushed me. I kicked him out of my house so fast. He learned that day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 01:29 AM
6

“Filling out OLD profiles is hard” or “Just looking. Will fill out this profile later.” No, it’s not hard to fill out an OLD profile. At.all. If a guy can’t even write a few lines about himself and what he is looking for in order to date someone, I don’t know what to tell him other than he is lazy and low value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 09:28 AM
1

That is so great! You are the prize, Sis! I’m brand new to the forum but I love the daily reminders to remind myself that I am high value and I will wait for someone special that values me as such—even if it takes a long time. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 02:01 PM
2

Oh, that’s cute—he thought you’d care about what he prefers at this stage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:50 PM
2

He’s going to need lots of aloe because she seriously burned him! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:50 PM
19

Yeah, why do the work to be a better man when you can blame women and call them picky? SMH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 04:17 PM
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