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I already know that, but I still want to have the perfect body. It will give me confidence so I can have casual sex more easily and finally know what it feels like to be desired for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 06:20 PM
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<image> Good physique for casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 05:40 PM
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He had many FWBs, so I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 05:31 AM
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Plenty of people have had good experiences with it too. But, as I already said, I personally don’t care whether I enjoy it or not, as long as I feel and know that I’m desirable for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 05:39 PM
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It will disappear, and then I’ll become the person I want to be, as perfect as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 05:37 PM
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Thanks. I hope so too. It's what I want most in the world right now: what it's like to be desired for casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 05:35 PM
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Self-hatred is the only motivation I have because the things I’m missing out on make me want them more, so I try harder to achieve them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 05:31 PM
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Maybe, but it helps keep me motivated because I know I'm missing out on amazing experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 05:27 PM
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Depression and self-hatred always hit me when my friend tells me stories about the casual sex he’s had.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 05:20 PM
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Ah. Is there any way I can see what the replies were?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 06:46 AM
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I asked a girl I was talking to for months if she wanted to hook up or FWB with me because she wanted a relationship with me, and she declined it lmao. Even though she had casual sex in the past after she broke up with her ex, I just don’t get what makes me so unappealing for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:57 PM
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Yes, I mean that. If you can hook up with a woman while she’s sober, that makes you far more desirable than a guy who can only do it when girls are drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:30 PM
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Young Adriana Lima was so hot, God. Blue eyes make women 10 times more attractive to me. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:28 PM
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Young Adriana Lima was so hot, God. Blue eyes make women 10 times more attractive to me. https://preview.redd.it/mwxjmvw2hsih1.png?width=2000&format=png&auto=webp&s=eb54e24fb5c6412ba51aff4a24a93f88baa211e9
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:28 PM
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Young Adriana Lima was so hot, God. Blue eyes make women 10 times more attractive to me. https://preview.redd.it/bpkay5sagsih1.jpeg?width=1584&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=50f63791d1742a350904744694dc7cdeaab89718
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 06:23 PM
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While I don’t disagree, I also think you need to be able to have casual sex sober to truly know that you’re desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 05:58 PM
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I love blue eyes so much; they make women ten times more attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 05:22 PM
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I am 6'4" tall with olive skin, black hair, and dark brown eyes. I have a relatively handsome face.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 08:03 AM
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Me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 07:47 AM
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I was willing to have a girlfriend if she hadn’t had casual sex in the past, but I think that’s unrealistic. it’s better for me to have casual sex first.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:05 PM
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It’s not wrong. I have to be perfect to become desirable and finally experience what it’s like to feel wanted for casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:02 PM
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Lol, you’re so obsessed with this guy who has a wife and is taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 06:56 PM
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Are you not living in an muslim country? Why do you care about the New York mayor so much? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 06:38 PM
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t does not correlate with each other. I learned my lesson. Now I am trying to get only casual sex, to finally achieve my dream of knowing what it feels like when women desire you for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 06:25 PM
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Me trying to become perfect wouldn’t stop even if I got a girlfriend. It’s a lifetime goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 06:18 PM
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I know that. She did want an exclusive relationship with me, but I wasn’t sure yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 06:14 PM
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I was willing to have a girlfriend if she hadn’t had casual sex in the past, but I think that’s unrealistic. it’s better for me to have casual sex first.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 06:12 PM
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Ah, I got my hopes way too high. This girl had been talking to me for months, and I thought I was going to ask her to be my girlfriend. But she told me she had casual sex in the past after breaking up with her ex. I guess I should just give up on the idea and try to have casual sex myself, so I don’t get disappointed in the future too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 06:04 PM
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Some people just don't have big goals and prefer to go with the flow.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:14 AM
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The narrative is always that women only have their looks to be attractive to men, while men can be unattractive but become attractive because of money or fame. However, rich and famous women also wouldn't have any trouble attracting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:12 AM
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Why don't you like his personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 07:06 AM
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I want to build a similar body, but I don't think genetics are really on my side. Still, I have to try so I can become desirable to a lot of women, or I feel like I have no reason to live at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:38 PM
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23
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 03:33 PM
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This isn’t me, but I’m trying to get a similar body.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 07:18 PM
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<image> What about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 07:07 PM
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<image> Good physique for casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:49 PM
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Shape > Size
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 04:11 PM
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It's hard to know, but I've thought something similar in the past. If I were a 6'4" straight girl, dating would be hard, but I could filter out insecure men and height mog them, which sounds fun. I'd play sports like basketball or volleyball. I'd also have the same type in men as I currently have in women as a straight man: nerdy, assertive girls. As for children, I still haven't decided whether I want them or not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 01:08 PM
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That’s only if she’s never had casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 05:48 AM
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I mean, yes, I’ve seen that too. If women say they want casual sex, many people say they shouldn’t, but others say they should because they’ve had good experiences with casual sex. But if men want casual sex and sleep with a lot of women, people say they’re bad people who just want to use women. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 06:31 PM
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Reddit is really anti-casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 06:28 PM
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It’s not about opportunity. They have lower self-esteem and chase more excitement and the feeling of being better; that’s why they cheat more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 07:07 PM
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I can't cheat, even if I wanted to. Unfortunately, it's just my nature. Betraying someone and the guilt would destroy me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 06:34 PM
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I can't cheat, even if I wanted to. It's just not in my nature. Betraying someone and living with the guilt would destroy me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 06:33 PM
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It doesn't matter. Losing attraction will still happen one day
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:37 PM
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That's why you should never get too attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 02:27 PM
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My girlfriend just will not be anyone, she will be my dream girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 07:06 PM
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Nah, I can’t cheat on anyone. Personally, I don’t want to be the kind of woman who is okay with me cheating either way. I want to be with a woman who is obsessed with me and would be hurt if I cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 06:58 PM
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I get that, but WTF? That guy can’t be that good if she hasn’t gotten over it in 7 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 06:55 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 06:53 PM
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I don't know who Dan is, but I prefer the first lifestyle in my 20s, and after 30 I prefer PewDiePie’s lifestyle. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 06:46 PM
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Seven-year situationship? Lmao, they should just get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 06:43 PM
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Then I will make sure I am the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 06:28 PM
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Who knows, maybe I will enjoy it. I’ve never had it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 06:23 PM
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Then I will make sure I am the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 06:21 PM
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Yes, a hot fling from her past who rocked her world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 06:20 PM
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A hot fling from her past.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 06:19 PM
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She won't if you rock her world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 06:06 PM
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What why? Becoming perfect takes time. Building the perfect body alone takes years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:22 PM
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Yeah, but it takes time, unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:19 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:18 PM
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I don't trust how much she desires me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:03 PM
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I dont trust it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:57 PM
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Not yet. I'm not ready for it right now. I'm in my self-improvement phase, working to become perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:56 PM
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I am jealous that she had the experiences many people have when they're young, and I didn't. It makes me feel undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:51 PM
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Stop this gay accusation thing. You know what I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:47 PM
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I've never had casual sex, so I would experience retroactive jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:43 PM
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It's not for me. I will have it even if I had to sacrifice everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:40 PM
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No, what if that girl had casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:38 PM
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If that hypothetical situation were real, I would get a girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 01:10 PM
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Yes, that's the 'what if.' But I've never had that validation in my life. Now I need it. I crave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 12:26 PM
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Technically, yes. It is validation for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 12:21 PM
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Because they were not good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 11:19 AM
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It is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 11:17 AM
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No, that doesn't make me feel desirable. I already said I don't care whether I enjoy it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 11:17 AM
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You should be so good that they will remember you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 08:46 AM
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What I meant : Someone whose goal is to sleep with as many women as possible. I don't even care whether I enjoy the sex or not. As long as I know I'm desirable to a lot of women, they enjoy it a lot, and they'll probably remember me for a long time, that's enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 07:02 AM
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What I meant : Someone whose goal is to sleep with as many women as possible. I don't even care whether I enjoy the sex or not. As long as I know I'm desirable to a lot of women, they enjoy it a lot, and they'll probably remember me for a long time, that's enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 07:01 AM
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Someone whose goal is to sleep with as many women as possible. I don't even care whether I enjoy the sex or not. As long as I know I'm desirable to a lot of women, they enjoy it a lot, and they'll probably remember me for a long time, that's enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 07:01 AM
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Someone whose goal is to sleep with as many women as possible. I don’t even care if I enjoy the sex or not; as long as I know I’m desirable to a lot of women, that’s enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 04:06 AM
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I meant whether I enjoy it or not is what's important, and I do enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 04:05 AM
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You don't have to replay.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 07:43 PM
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Are you talking about my comment? I don’t care about women wanting men with money at all. I’m saying that money does make men more attractive. Ugly men with money will find relationships, and I also think ugly women with money would do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 07:21 PM
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I don’t know about others, but I need to experience casual sex at all costs to know I am able to be with a lot of women. Only after that can I enter a long-term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 07:15 PM
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Someone whose goal is to sleep with as many women as possible. I don’t even care if they enjoy the sex or not; as long as I know I’m desirable to a lot of women, that’s enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 07:11 PM
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Same way women would be in a relationship with a guy they don’t desire but who has a lot of money
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 06:50 PM
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I don't understand why women often claim that if they aren't attractive, they will never be desired like men are, simply because men only value looks. Men who aren't conventionally attractive but are funny, wealthy, and have successful careers can still find women who desire them. Women who are funny, wealthy, and successful would have an equally easy time finding a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 06:36 PM
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Good for you. I much prefer women with this mindset over those who pretend they did it because of society or low self-esteem as a justification.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 06:13 PM
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My entire goal is to become as close to perfect as possible so I can sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:48 PM
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100% true. For a gay guy, you know so many truth nukes about straight relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 04:47 PM
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I never claimed it was her fault. It's my fault in the first place for not experiencing casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 07:47 PM
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It doesn't matter to me. Either way, they never had casual sex, or I'll experience casual sex myself, so I won't care later.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 07:36 PM
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That's only if she never had casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 07:33 PM
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I don't know. Maybe it's because I want to experience casual sex, and if she did and I didn't, maybe it's envy because I've never done it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 07:33 PM
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They are completely different things. I can experience all of that in a relationship, but I can't experience casual sex because I'm already in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 07:28 PM
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What does main character syndrome have to do with it? I'm just insecure. I want to experience everything myself because my future partner probably already has, and I don't want to feel inferior.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 07:24 PM
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I don’t disagree; you are right about many things here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 07:18 PM
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Maybe he just didn’t care about it. Did his wife have casual sex? Because I wouldn’t be able to handle knowing that if my wife had casual sex and I never had that experience myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 07:16 PM
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Good life. You had a lot of casual sex when you were young, and now you probably have an amazing wife and children. Is that not winning?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 07:10 PM
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No, if most men could have casual sex, the world would be a happier place.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:59 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-than-long-term-partners-husbands-TViyiCJ
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:57 PM
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Men who have the ability to have casual sex are winners in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:49 PM
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What more do you want me to say? Yes, I know I'm insecure, but that's impossible to fix unless I perfect myself completely. Yes, I know most men don't have to be perfect to have casual sex or get what they want, but I'm not one of those men. Men who can sleep with as many women as possible are the winners in life. I want to be one of them someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:32 PM
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No one can ever fully leave PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:29 PM
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How easy do you think it is to become perfect? Yes, it takes time. Building the perfect body alone takes many years.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:28 PM
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Calm down. You don't have to insult me. The majority of attractive men still have to lower their standards if they want casual sex. Men as a whole often have to do this because many women say casual sex is riskier for them. They say, "Why would I hook up with an average guy when I could do it with an attractive guy and make it worth it?"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:26 PM
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Stop using the words ‘Stacy’ or ‘Chad’; it’s cringe. Why would an average woman have casual sex with an average guy? She could have it with a much more attractive guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 05:01 PM
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No, they can't. Especially with highly attractive girls, you have to be really attractive to have that experience. Average women can sleep with much hotter men than themselves, but average men have to lower their standards much more if they want to experience it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 04:51 PM
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The problem is that most men can't live that lifestyle. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 04:39 PM
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No, but they do look good and aren't bad for your health.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 07:02 PM
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Food can’t be that good; I just don’t get it. Yes, I ate junk food in the past too, but then I started eating a lot of protein. I don’t crave food anymore; I always feel full. And becoming perfect and sleep with as many women as possible is far more motivating for me, which makes me not crave food.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:51 PM
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Last time I ate sugar was a year ago, lol. The only sugar I eat is from fruits and artificial sweeteners
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:42 PM
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<image> Actual recent photo of them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 04:45 PM
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You didn't have to say it because you cropped it like you wanted to tell me that. Why did you choose that picture out of so many, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 04:37 PM
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Okay? If you crop certain pictures, anyone can look ugly, lol. He's still a really attractive guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 04:34 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/chico_lachowski/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 04:31 PM
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That's not Chico Lachowski lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 04:30 PM
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Many don't, but I personally know that nothing lasts forever. I always enter a relationship knowing it will end one day or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 05:24 PM
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<image> Supermodel Chico Lachowski and his wife
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 05:21 PM
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I was joking lol. I would never get that surgery, even if I were short. It has too many downsides.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:00 PM
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At least I would be taller than the guy my ex cheated on me with
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:57 PM
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Should I text my ex again? I want to have sex with her again. It's been a few weeks, and it was great. Before that, I hadn't had sex in about a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:52 PM
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Maybe I should get leg-lengthening surgery and become 6'7" tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:34 PM
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It's not about being an asshole; it's about being confident and assertive. Yes, some confident and assertive people can come across as assholes, but that's not always the case. I have a friend with a body count of 30+, and he's not an asshole. He's not a bad person, but he's not overly nice either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:31 PM
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For me, LTR or hookup depends on their personality, not looks. My type: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:20 AM
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Is that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:43 PM
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One of the biggest reasons why I want to have casual sex. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 05:30 PM
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It's been one year since I started going to the gym. I never thought I would become so addicted to it. Right now, nothing in this world makes me feel as good as lifting heavy. I feel so much stronger, so much more confident. Sooner or later, I will become perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:06 PM
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WTF. A woman you rate as 3.5 is far more attractive and cute to me than a woman you rate as a 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:03 PM
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I will one day, then I will become perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:16 PM
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I have to, and I will, experience everything. I can't love a woman who has had casual sex if I've never had it. It's one of the reasons I need to have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:02 PM
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Maybe it will, or maybe it won’t. I have to experience it first.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:05 PM
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Until I feel it’s enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:58 PM
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Yes, if that kind of woman exists for me, lol. Even if she does exist, she probably has far more experience than me and have had casual sex. I don’t think I can be someone like that unless I experience it myself first.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:53 PM
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There is no exact number. Just many as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:50 PM
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Just one woman being attracted to me isn't enough. It could just mean I got lucky. I need many women to be attracted to me so I know I'm desirable. Then I'll believe that someday I'll be satisfied, and only then will it be okay to get into a long-term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:43 PM
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What supplements do you take? I take omega-3, zinc, magnesium, L-theanine, and ashwagandha.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:07 PM
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Because they know how much being attractive actually affects how people treat you, they take full advantage of it. People who became good-looking later in life are often more aware of this. On the other hand, people who have always been good-looking are usually kinder because they've generally been treated kindly throughout their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:33 PM
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Because every pill is bullshit, that's why I don't believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:48 AM
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Oh, I did not see that it was only a question for women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:12 PM
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It depends. If I tried, I could enter a relationship to get sex, but that’s not what I want. It does not make me feel desirable. On the other hand, wanting casual sex is hard because the requirements are much higher, you need looks and charisma far more than you do in a relationship. But if I want to feel desired, I need to have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:07 PM
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When did I claim that there’s something wrong with women if a woman isn’t like that? I’m just saying that if a woman did something like that in the past but didn’t do it with me, then of course she doesn’t think I’m desirable enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:58 PM
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I don't need any porn fantasies. I've seen women sleep with my friend after meeting him just 30 minutes earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:26 PM
1

Why are obese women more likely to want casual sex? Usually, when I see women on dating apps who are looking for short-term relationships, they seem to be obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 04:11 PM
6

I hate myself for not being able to have casual sex. It is only way I’ll ever get better
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:18 PM
2

I desired my ex-girlfriend that much, but she did not desire me 100% because she cheated on me. Yes, it is possible for 100% desire to decline over time too, but my only hope is that I can always keep it high.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:16 PM
3

Even if she wasn’t, it’s normal to mix up words sometimes, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:13 PM
1

Calm down, why are you so angry? lol. She just mixed up a words. That never happened to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:10 PM
2

So they are lying ? Being in the right place at the right time doesn’t mean anything; you also have to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:09 PM
2

Most women have at least one casual sex experience. Because I am young, this is the exact time women are having casual sex. Some women like it, while others do not; you can search on Reddit to find stories of women who have had good experiences with casual sex. A man's ability to have casual sex means he is desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:06 PM
5

The majority of men would be able to have casual sex if that were common.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:55 PM
3

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:44 PM
0

Yes, it’s true. It’s not about ego boost only. womenhave casual sex with men they desire because it makes them feel desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:43 PM
2

Yes, only if she didn’t have casual sex before. Or they would have to make me feel so desirable without sex that I wouldn’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:31 PM
2

Then I am absolutely certain she desires me. If she does not want a relationship with me, then I will find other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:27 PM
4

It’s not fully everything, but it’s highly important to me personally. I would also want a woman I can have deep conversations with, cuddle, play video games with, cook food together, and enjoy nerdy stuff with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:25 PM
3

If women did not benefit from casual sex, there would be no casual sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:23 PM
2

Yes it is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:19 PM
2

like waiting a month
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:11 PM
2

Because highly desirable men are in high demand, it is difficult for most women to get them. Instead, they prefer a comfortable life with men they don't fully desire, but desire just enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:09 PM
8

I absolutely never claimed such a thing ever. WTF?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:06 PM
1

It’s not, but it has to be high
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:04 PM
3

You can enter an exclusive relationship after having sex on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:03 PM
4

She doesn’t wait long to have sex with you. She wants you often, messages you frequently, and tells you how hot you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:02 PM
5

No, it’s not. 1% doesn’t even mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:00 PM
4

I honestly don’t care about her past if I feel that she desires me 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:59 PM
2

100% desire means she thought you were the hottest man in the world, but that kind of desire is truly rare. And I think the same way about the woman I would enter a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:55 PM
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I’m really liberal and would never date a conservative woman. But that doesn’t mean I’m not still afraid of entering a relationship with a woman who doesn’t fully desire me 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:48 PM
0

Because sexual compatibility before marriage is important to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:46 PM
8

Because who wants a relationship with a woman who only desires them like 50%, not fully?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:45 PM
2

Because women here have said to men many times that a woman wanting a relationship with you means she desires you more than women who want something casual with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:43 PM
0

It depends on many things and on men and women. For some women, sleeping with really hot men can be an ego boost, and for others, not so much. For most men, they benefit from casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:42 PM
5

Desire is not 100% or 0%; it can be somewhere in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:40 PM
9

Because highly desirable men are in high demand, it is difficult for most women to get that kind of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:39 PM
1

Your last point can only happen if she has never had casual sex before.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:39 PM
3

They don’t have to be desperate. They just prefer living comfortably rather than being with men whom they highly desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:38 PM
5

Yes, it can go both ways with both. There are some men who would have sex with women they desire, and men would then have relationships with women they don’t desire as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:36 PM
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If you both want marriage, it can be hard to know for sure, but I would not recommend waiting for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:35 PM
2

Desire is not 100% or 0%; it can be somewhere in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:34 PM
21

Not every woman can have a relationship with the guys she actually desires. They just accept their second or third best.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:33 PM
1

5 eggs, protein powder, Greek yogurt, and 500 g of chicken fillet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:02 AM
1

Good
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:33 PM
0

Maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:32 PM
1

It was normal. We had sex, and I left, but I felt good because I hadn't slept with anyone for two years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:31 PM
0

I personally don't have a problem paying for dates. Being a gentleman gives you a higher chance of having casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:00 PM
1

Aren't you Indian? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 06:02 PM
3

Do you think he actually cares about looksmaxxing? I personally don’t think he does. I think he cares about whatever he thinks will make him money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:15 PM
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I am meeting my ex tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:10 PM
4

Because he is not famous in France. Yes, some people there still know him, but the majority of his audience is from English-speaking countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:09 PM
6

Looksmaxxing doesn’t even matter anymore for Clavicular. He has become too famous now; his fame carries him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:59 PM
12

You are obsessed with Clavicular, lol. I don't think even black pillers watch him more than you or some other podcasters.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:55 PM
1

I want to, but she cheated on me. Maybe sleeping with her one last time will make my feelings disappear.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:36 PM
0

Should I sleep with my ex one last time?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:25 PM
1

Being rich and famous can be a curse. You never know if women genuinely wants you or just wants your money and fame. That's why dating someone who is also rich and famous the only safe option.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:50 PM
1

It doesn't matter if it's making my life hard. I'm combating it now and do feel a little better, but I still have a long way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:19 PM
1

It's how I feel: incompetent inside. I hate myself so much because my anxiety isn't letting me succeed at anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:11 PM
1

I am tall and have almost a full head of hair, but I feel like I'm the ugliest person alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:08 PM
1

Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:05 PM
0

I have to be perfect so that people ask my future girlfriend, "How did you manage to pull him?"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:54 PM
2

I mean, I'd sleep with most women unless they're too obese. I don't need to see her face for that, but I have higher standards for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:56 PM
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So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:13 PM
-1

I do want it after I experience casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:09 PM
-1

New fear unlocked
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:02 PM
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True lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:51 PM
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<image> Based lol. Maybe I should've slept with my cheating ex's friends too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:48 PM
1

I was 10 when I started watching porn. The only time I never watched it was when I was in a relationship, because I didn't need it then. I only use porn to cope with my loneliness
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:10 PM
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Alt women are my type, tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:07 PM
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First time seeing an alt girl who's conservative and wants something short-term. How does that even work? lol <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:50 PM
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It can be both true. I would not call it object or number. It is an ego boost I need and crave, and women who give me that will always be liked by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:26 PM
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I would. Why wouldn’t I like women who make me feel desirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:22 PM
6

I do feel lonely. I hope casual sex makes it a little better when I feel desirable. I am so used to loneliness that I can’t imagine my life any other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:12 PM
13

No, I mean men who can have casual sex often.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:08 PM
2

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:45 PM
2

Then you said men do this, and I said I have never done it personally. But I don’t care about what she did in the past if she wants to sleep with me. As someone who wants to sleep with as many women as possible, if I cared about and judged her for her past, I would be a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:42 PM
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Love them? Maybe not, but I would like every woman who would sleep with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:39 PM
1

I don't believe in love that lasts, so I prefer sleeping with as many women as possible casually.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:34 PM
2

But I never did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:31 PM
2

6 feet is not small, but it’s not that tall to make women go ‘wooah.’
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:30 PM
0

I am 6'4" tall, so I can
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:21 PM
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I do want to see her. I don’t want to get back with her. I wouldn’t mind having sex with her at least one last time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:20 PM
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I don't know. She says she wants to meet me and talk to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:15 PM
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God, my cheating ex sent me a message after such a long time. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:14 PM
12

That’s true. That’s why you have to become more valuable than 80% of men in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:03 PM
1

My post is still being removed even though I didn’t mention any N count.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:01 PM
5

Once a month? WTF, I’d rather have casual sex then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:00 PM
1

I am talking about women like you, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:54 PM
1

I did not say anything N count,
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:52 PM
1

There are many women like that whom I am talking to, but not others.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:49 PM
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I don’t slut-shame; I don’t care. I just personally want to sleep with as many women as possible. I don’t care what they did before.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:46 PM
1

I’m not from India, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:44 PM
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Would you have sex on the first date with someone you are interested in for a long-term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:41 PM
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No, many times they are the same people: women who have casual sex and wait with the men they want a long-term relationship with because they don’t want to be seen as sluts. But then they say they don’t care about being slut-shamed, even though they had casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:37 PM
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Did you have sex on the first date? Did you ever have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:33 PM
0

Yes, most people aren't like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:10 PM
-1

Just because your ex was like that doesn't mean everyone who wants validation is like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:05 PM
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There is no correlation between the two because he wanted validation but did not care about others. That does not mean everyone is like that. I do care about people who validate me. Yes, I want to know if I'm desirable. I am willing to do anything for it, or I will do it until I know I'm desirable, even if it kills me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:22 PM
1

No, I can't enjoy games as much anymore, but I'm still looking forward to a few games, like GTA 6, because I grew up playing GTA. It's a part of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:34 AM
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Sounds fun to me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:46 PM
1

Yeah, maybe, but I would never enter a relationship if we don’t sleep together on the first date, because I don’t trust that she actually desires me otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:40 PM
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Yeah, maybe, but I've never experienced casual sex, so that's what I want most in the world right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:30 PM
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Yeah, maybe, but I've never experienced casual sex, so that's what I want most in the world right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:29 PM
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It doesn't, but you can find new people
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:22 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:17 PM
-1

Because the majority of men cannot get casual sex. If you can, you're better than the majority of men. The more women you can sleep with, the more desirable you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:13 PM
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If you always stay at the peak condition for your age, you can make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:11 PM
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Love doesn't last. Novelty fades, and familiarity destroys it. The only thing that's truly endless is casual desire, because you can always find someone new. Sleeping with a new person every day sounds better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:05 PM
0

Love doesn't last. Novelty fades, and familiarity destroys it. The only thing that's truly endless is casual desire, because you can always find someone new. Sleeping with a new person every day sounds better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:03 PM
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it's necessary if you can't get on a dating app. If you are not desirable, you need intense self-hatred until you become perfect, or at least keep trying until you die. If you can't have casual sex, you will never know what true desire is. There is no point in living if you can't
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:35 PM
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True, but everything I said is true. If you are not desirable, you need intense self-hatred until you become perfect, or at least keep trying. If you can't have casual sex, you will never know what true desire is. There is no point in living if you can't
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:30 PM
1

This is not true. Most men know it's their own fault. These men lack self-hatred; they need more self-hatred until they become desirable. For casual sex, you need to be ready to sacrifice everything to be desirable, or at least try becoming it until dying, become desirable, sleeping with as many women as possible. Because life is nothing without being desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:26 PM
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This is not true. Most men know it's their own fault. These men lack self-hatred; they need more self-hatred until they become desirable. For casual sex, you need to be ready to sacrifice everything to be desirable, or at least try becoming it until dying, become desirable, sleeping with as many women as possible. Because life is nothing without being desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:25 PM
0

No
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:51 PM
0

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:45 PM
1

We get it. Stop
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:26 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:26 PM
0

I’m thinking about having a placeholder girlfriend for a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:15 PM
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My friend, I do know a few of them. He is tall, good-looking, and charismatic. Women throw themselves at him. His body count is really high, and he enjoys all the attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:15 PM
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I’ve seen how women act when they’re actually attracted to men, and it makes you realize you should never settle for less.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:05 PM
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I said most women, not every woman. That's based on the books women usually read.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:30 PM
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Probably because harems aren't a women's fantasy. Women's fantasies are more like a 6'6", nonchalant billionaire werewolf man who has a soft spot for her, or love triangles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:14 PM
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So, do women like being in a "Chad's" harem?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:35 PM
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You should calm down your imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:08 PM
0

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:43 PM
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I do agree. You have to do what it takes if you want to be desired. Men who can sleep with a lot of women are winners in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:19 PM
5

You’ve been posting here for at least 6–7 years. Aren’t you bored?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 06:47 PM
1

Become better at things he is not good at.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:44 PM
1

Did you ask him?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:39 PM
1

I don’t think so. They can change if they want to. That’s too much of a generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:38 PM
1

Why can’t he become better at these?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:36 PM
1

What does that mean exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:34 PM
1

Why
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:33 PM
1

Is your current boyfriend the best you’ve ever had?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:31 PM
1

Asking her? She can lie, but that’s on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:19 PM
2

It does to me. I will be no inferior to anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:08 PM
2

If that’s true, it’s one of the reasons why I should have casual sex to make sure my future girlfriend isn’t my best if I won’t be hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:04 PM
1

How exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:01 PM
1

There's no point in love if I don't know whether I'm desirable for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:57 PM
2

Why is it unrealistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:53 PM
1

It is, but I hate myself too much to be able to change outside, knowing I am desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:30 PM
1

I can’t. I know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:28 PM
1

Exactly, if I truly want to feel desirable, then I have to sacrifice everything if necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:27 PM
1

Then I will sleep with women who already have an STD.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:23 PM
1

I don’t care if I get any more. I don’t really care about anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:21 PM
1

That says more about you than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:19 PM
1

Still, you can be careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:17 PM
2

Hahaha, you’ve had casual sex 23 times, so you have no right to tell me anything about casual sex. I can protected myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:09 PM
2

You had casual sex. Do you have any STDs?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:07 PM
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I don't think they are the same men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:56 PM
0

I don't mind never being loved, as long as I'm desirable for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:34 PM
1

I don't mind never being loved, as long as I'm desirable for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 12:12 PM
1

Like I always do, building the perfect body.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:50 AM
-5

Because when you expect the worst, you won't be disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:29 AM
2

Men who can easily have casual sex won't have a problem getting into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:46 AM
1

I get that, you said you wouldn't date a man with a body count over 20 because that's too high, but 20 is already high. So does that mean you don't really care if it's high?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 06:20 AM
2

Yeah, 20 is a high number for someone in their 20s, which means you don't care about having a high body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 06:11 AM
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Why? Most marriages fail. The novelty fades, and you end up in a dead bedroom, or your partner cheats on you, and you get divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:56 AM
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Like, 20 is a low number, but it probably depends on your age.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:41 AM
-3

I just read your comment wrong, but why would you care about your future husband? Just have casual sex forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:40 AM
5

Then why are you blackpilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:34 AM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 07:20 PM
0

I know a friend who has a high body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:35 PM
-5

Men are not high value if they do not have a high body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:29 PM
2

Then there's no reason to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:22 PM
3

If they can't, they should be mad at themselves first. If you want to be a high-value man who has the ability to sleep with as many women as possible, you have to put in the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:20 PM
1

Who cares about being an asshole? Just do what makes women attracted to you. If women are attracted to assholes, then be an asshole. If they're not, then don't. If you want to sleep with as many women as possible, you have to do whatever it takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:04 PM
1

Lol, NO
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:28 PM
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You should be able to have a FWB or a fuck buddy. That's one way to know you're desirable. It should be with a somewhat attractive woman, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:14 AM
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If you've never had the ability to have casual sex, then yes, you're not desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:10 AM
1

Most of the time, they are real people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:21 PM
1

Most of the time, they are very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:08 PM
1

There's no way I'm very attractive. Maybe it's just my height carrying me, but I don't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:03 PM
1

If you're getting at least one match every day on a dating app, Does it mean you're attractive or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:53 PM
1

It doesn't matter that Trump was born into a rich family.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:08 PM
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I still need to sleep with a lot of women to know what it feels like to be desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:17 PM
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rump looked good when he was young. Yes, Elon is average-looking, but what about someone like Jeremy Meeks, a convicted felon who became a model after his mugshot and married a millionaire because of his looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:13 PM
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It doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:10 PM
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I don’t disagree. Money is also important, but if you have looks privilege, money will come too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:09 PM
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Because it gives you privilege in life, I want as much privilege as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:05 PM
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I can’t do that. Without it, I am an empty shell. I need motivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:02 PM
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Why is it an empty goal? It is a good goal for me to be desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:01 PM
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You can think what you want, but you have to be desirable to be able to sleep with a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:58 PM
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Yes, you have to resist that. I have had so many times where I wanted to smash my head against the wall until I felt nothing, but I resisted it. Harming myself won't make me able to sleep with as many women as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:57 PM
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If you want to feel what true desire is, you have to be willing to sacrifice everything. If you can’t have casual sex normally, you need to sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:55 PM
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Oh, I do know what self-hatred feels like. It's the only real feeling I have, and it's the only thing that makes me want to become perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:53 PM
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If you want to know whether you're really desirable, you need to sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:44 PM
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Being angry at women won't change your chances. You should be angry at yourself instead. That's better. Self hatred can motivate you to improve and become perfect. One day, you might become successful enough to sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:38 PM
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Depends in what way they're angry. If they're angry because they can't get laid and they blame women, then I agree. But if they're angry and blame themselves, then that's good. Self-hatred can motivate you to improve and become Perfect. One day, you might become successful enough to sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:18 PM
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As long as she passes well, I don't have a problem dating a trans girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:00 AM
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What’s your type? Mine is a tall, 6' nerd alt girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:22 PM
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But I am tall
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:12 PM
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No, I can’t. I’m too anxious for that, but I’m trying to take natural medication to reduce it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:46 AM
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Because I don’t feel worthy, I have bad anxiety and low self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:41 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:40 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:21 AM
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Therapist cannot help. I just have to become men I want to and enjoy all privileges.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:22 PM
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Looks matter if you want to have a privileged life, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:13 PM
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t’s not about that lol I just want to be considered attractive I want women to desire me and want me and be thirsting for me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:12 PM
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I simply don’t have motivation or passion for anything. I want to be considered attractive and also become rich, but becoming rich without being attractive doesn’t motivate me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:10 PM
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I hope casual sex can help with my depression and make life feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:06 PM
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I’m interested: what would be considered my looks match / my league? I’m 6'4", average-looking, and have an average income. What qualities would the women have?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:57 PM
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Better looking
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:02 AM
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Does this couple look like a match? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:01 AM
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True, but being 6'4" helps
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:50 PM
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Do you think I can find a hookup today?" <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:44 PM
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Why did you want a husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:28 PM
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Yes, I already know this. I will never enter a relationship if I am not 100% sure she desires me. It has to start from a hookup too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:27 PM
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Because the majority of married couples have kids? I said that if you don’t want kids, then being in a casual relationship is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:26 PM
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Yes, I already know this. I will never enter a relationship if I am not 100% sure she desires me. It has to start from a hookup too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:22 PM
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Love, more money, more stability and companionship, sharing everything together. But I don’t feel like most people have that. These kinds of people exist, but many people settle. Even if they love each other at first, it usually fades, and comfort and familiarity can turn into a stuck, boring relationship, or sometimes someone cheats. You should always enter a relationship knowing this so it won’t hurt you, or if you don’t want kids, you should stick to casual sex forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:19 PM
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Maybe, but I have to experience casual sex too. I need to experience everything possible so I don't live with regrets in the future for not experiencing it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:33 PM
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How do you know? Maybe it will. LTR didn’t work for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:29 PM
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<image> Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:28 PM
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I mean you did remember many of them before. You commented many times and it had an effect on me making me want to experience it too at all costs and it fueled my self hatred
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:24 PM
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Tell me something good about the experience of casual sex and how good it feels, because I am losing a little self hatred. I need more motivation and more drive. Then I know I am not experiencing it, so I want it more to become perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:13 PM
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My friend told me once that a girl wanted to have sex in her parents' bedroom, lol. Is this a kink?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:10 PM
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I mean, a girl giving me an expensive gift while not knowing me that well is much harder than having a hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:37 PM
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The only way to know a woman desired me, outside of having sex with me quickly, is gifts. I love gifts, the more expensive, the more I love them. Maybe if a girl gifted me GTA 6, I would change my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:34 PM
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I want a couple of hookups, feel desirable, know I am attractive, and then a relationship, which I want to start from a hookup so I know she desires me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:05 PM
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Personally, I am tall, and I am not really interested in trad women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:57 PM
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Heterosexual men and women who place high importance on a romantic partner’s height are more likely to endorse traditional gender norms. Even my height isn’t in my favor. Don’t alt women like tall men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:36 PM
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I don’t trust anyone. I can’t trust anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:06 PM
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That’s what I’ve been talking about this whole time. Casual sex is the only way to know you’re desirable and that women actually want to have sex with you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:30 PM
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Today is the summer solstice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:11 PM
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So many games, I don't remember every game.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:31 PM
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I go to the gym almost every day. I used to play video games, but I can’t enjoy them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:27 PM
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Not much nothing really feels fun to me anymore except lifting weights it’s the only time I feel happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:24 PM
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So what, should I not want to ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:12 PM
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Lmao I would not record anyone, but I do feel great when then I walk and I have to look down, majority of men and women look up to me because I am tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:11 PM
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No, I just want to have as much privilege in life as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:09 PM
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I mean, why not? People’s respect is important; it can give many privileges in life to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:04 PM
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No, I want to sleep with women because I want to be so desirable that I could sleep with as many women as I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:02 PM
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That’s why you shouldn’t get married if you’re still not satisfied. It’s better to stay single and just have casual sex forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:00 PM
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Men with a high body count are usually respected more by other men. Women depend, but usually they don’t care. But men with a high body count will never have a problem finding women to date
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:59 PM
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I just found it amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:54 PM
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Because there is not an exact number, it just does.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:53 PM
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You two not replying to each other: Challenge impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:51 PM
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You're right, I can even debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:49 PM
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I mean yes they exist. I’m the opposite I want to sleep with as many women as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:47 PM
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I said a lot. What more do you want to answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:46 PM
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It’s simple: you ask stupid questions, I answer stupidly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:42 PM
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A status showing how desirable you are, which increases a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:40 PM
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I mean no, if you want to have sex with attractive women, you have to be desirable yourself. If he lives in the slums, his status is not high. Both money and sleeping with as many women as possible define your desirability and value.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:38 PM
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More valuable than the majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:09 PM
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It depends. If he could be in a casual situation with three models, it increase his status more than actually dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:56 PM
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Depends on body count the more you have the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:54 PM
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I’m not fixated on body count only. I’m not really a drinker, and I wouldn’t want to be with a woman who drinks often either. I’m not a smoker either, and I wouldn’t date a smoker.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:45 PM
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It does
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:38 PM
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Some people who have a low count want someone who also has a low count, and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:38 PM
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A high body count in men is better because it shows how high-value he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:37 PM
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I don’t think humans peaked in modern times. Humans will never be stronger or taller than people today unless there’s genetic editing. The idea of 6'4 becoming the average height sounds too unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:17 AM
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Height inflation is getting out of hand. Soon I’ll be considered average height too lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:13 AM
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Ok? But beating my social anxiety will definitely make me succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:17 PM
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What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:06 PM
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I mean, yes, but being 6'4 definitely helps. If I were less socially anxious, my “body count” would be in the triple digits.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:04 PM
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Lol, I like directness. Maybe you’re right, but I don’t have a problem getting casual sex with good-looking women. I get plenty of matches. Outside I don’t have a problem; it’s something inside that’s stopping me, chronic social anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:26 PM
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Ugly is subjective. But did she hook up with ugly guys? No, she would hook up with guys who were out of her league
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:14 PM
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<image> Ah yes, ugly women who had situationships and hookups. So much privilege, something I would kill for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:13 PM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:50 PM
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Good for him. I would sell my soul to experience something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:29 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:21 PM
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You should sleep with all those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:28 PM
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I simply will never let anyone hurt me ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:27 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:26 PM
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Of course it does this time I will become perfect and true desirable men who women cheat on their boyfriends with, not getting cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:25 PM
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I am 23
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:22 PM
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She cheated on me with a guy she met once who is taller and more attractive than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:20 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:19 PM
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I am already unbearable without that. My last girlfriend would not have cheated on me if I were desirable. I would not have problems finding casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:18 PM
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No shit. Men who are desirable already know it. I know I’m not desirable, and I will do anything to become one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:14 PM
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It doesn’t matter; men who are desirable won’t have a problem dating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:12 PM
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Good for you, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:10 PM
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If you want to live a privileged life, it’s necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:09 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:08 PM
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Why would I not care about being desirable? Lol, it gives so much privilege in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:07 PM
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If you haven’t had casual sex, you will never know if you are desirable. And if your girlfriend has had it, you will always see her as lower than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:00 PM
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If you haven’t had casual sex, you will never know if you are desirable. And if your girlfriend has had it, you will always see her as lower than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:00 PM
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Because if you could never experience casual sex, that means you are not desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:48 PM
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Of course it does
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:46 PM
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I remember you denied this many times in the past. Are you admitting it now and saying it’s okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:42 PM
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I guess then it means that “hookup material” is a better compliment than “husband material.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:41 PM
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How do you know their height and dick size from here?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:38 PM
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How many proofs need to exist for women to finally admit that casual sex has higher standards in looks, and that most of the time their long-term partner will never be as good-looking as casual flings, with some exceptions of course?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:32 PM
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It’s not a maybe if the majority of women say it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:30 PM
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Casual partners, most of the time, will be better looking than long-term partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:28 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:27 PM
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Why does it matter if it was 10 months ago? Has casual changed since then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:25 PM
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What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:24 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/q1wmbpazqu7h1.png?width=2262&format=png&auto=webp&s=d461ff9ba03681f550f3a5e60f065275366f44a0 Almost 1 year of progress what do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:22 PM
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Maybe, but I will become as close to perfect as possible. I don't whine; I just vent. I do improve myself in irl for my goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:36 PM
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Then you have more hope in my life than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:47 PM
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I just don’t trust anyone that easily anymore. I will become perfect and find a woman who will worship me, so I know I’m desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:44 PM
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That’s not enough for me to know I’m desirable. My last girlfriend was also willing to date me, but things didn’t work out like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:39 PM
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I wouldn’t be obsessed with casual sex if women did not lower the sexual attraction threshold for long-term relationships or make men wait a long time for sex, because now casual sex is the only way to know you are desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:34 PM
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I wouldn’t be obsessed with casual sex if finding women who have never had casual sex even once were possible. I think it’s much easier for me to have casual sex than to find women who have never had it. If I have casual sex, then I will not care if my future girlfriend has had it either. Our relationship has to start from casual sex to know she desires me. I don’t want women who wait for marriage either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:29 PM
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I wouldn’t be obsessed with casual sex if finding women who have never had casual sex even once were possible. I think it’s much easier for me to have casual sex than to find a woman who has never had it. If I have casual sex, then I will not care if my future girlfriend has had it either
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:28 PM
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That’s it? I buried two bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:17 PM
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I meant, who has the most bodies here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:46 PM
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Who has slept with the most people here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:36 PM
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You can do both.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:22 PM
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My height compensates for my average face so much. If I were short, it would be over.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:33 PM
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Something has to make me happy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:52 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:49 PM
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There is nothing that gives me happiness. I don’t believe in love because I know it does not exist for me or will last, because no one can love me. So I’d rather just sleep around without any responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:47 PM
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I don’t have anything better to do anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:43 PM
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You are right about that; I did not consider it. But finding women who have never had casual sex even once is definitely a challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:33 PM
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I know it will. I will do it until it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:09 PM
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I don’t have any other way to know or feel desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:04 PM
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I mean, maybe, but I do believe what I say. I also love arguing with people because most of them are hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:00 PM
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It’s not that I just love arguing with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:57 PM
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I am not perfect yet, but I have to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:57 PM
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People who disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:55 PM
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There is nothing wrong with wanting to sleep with as many women as possible for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:43 PM
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There is nothing wrong. I wanted to sleep with as many women as possible for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:41 PM
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Yes, and I know from my friend who has casual sex how amazing it feels too. Casual sex is the only true desire. Novelty and being with a new woman every day is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:28 PM
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She cheated on me with a man she had only met once, who is taller and better-looking than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:53 AM
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It does not make you desirable. Women need to choose you for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:50 PM
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I agree with the second paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:23 PM
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What is the manosphere? I don’t watch or listen to any manosphere. Everything I say is from Reddit, from female-dominated subreddits, or from real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:17 PM
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Most men can’t have casual sex in the first place, and if they do, they have to go for someone significantly less attractive to have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:11 PM
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Yes, but not all hookups involve alcohol. You can have sober ones; that can make you even more desirable as a man if you can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:06 PM
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I did miss a relationship that started as a hookup. That’s probably the only way I would personally enter a relationship. Women are not usually having casual sex with average guys most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:05 PM
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I mean, it won’t work for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:03 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:03 PM
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I don’t disagree, I’m insecure after what happened with my ex-girlfriend, but I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:02 PM
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I did miss a relationship that started through a hookup. Probably that’s the only way I would personally enter a relationship. But I don’t think women who have casual sex are trash, and if someone does have casual sex, they should at least be with a guy they are really attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:01 PM
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Most women have hooked up at least once.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:58 PM
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I have naturally big legs for my body. I started lifting a year ago, and I’m gaining mass. It looks much better than when I had noodle arms. I’m 6'4".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 05:55 PM
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Someone posted: ‘What would you do if you were magically turned into a woman?’ I’d do the same thing I want to do now: sleep with as many women as possible and finally know that I’m desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 05:50 PM
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I can’t imagine how good you have to look for women to approach you, or for women to thirst for you like they do for celebrities. I can’t even imagine that happening to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:33 PM
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I can’t imagine how good you have to look for women to approach you, or for women to thirst for you like they do for celebrities. I can’t even imagine that happening to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:31 PM
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How much full head hair is necessary to have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:07 PM
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For casual sex, looks are 70% and charisma is 30%.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:14 PM
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If looks didn’t matter for casual sex, most men would be able to hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:12 PM
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Yes, unfortunately it was a 40-year-old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:06 PM
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Too many calories aren’t a bad thing if they come from nutrient-dense foods like avocados. Ice cream, on the other hand, is mostly full of sugar and will spike your insulin.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:09 PM
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Too much calories
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:04 PM
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Did not take long lol <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:35 PM
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Lol, some gay French-Canadian guy DM'd me. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:59 PM
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Just think logically. Of course, it’s men who have had a lot of sex before, especially casual sex. The more women you sleep with, the more experienced you become and the better you are at satisfying different women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:26 PM
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Great
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:58 PM
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Fun story. I’d probably hook up first how would I then want to enter a long-term relationship too because otherwise I would never know if I’m desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:53 PM
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Probably, if you hook up first before entering a long-term relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:45 PM
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What is the best casual sex you’ve ever had?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:37 PM
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Unfortunately, me neither, but I am not giving up. I am willing to sacrifice everything if it becomes necessary. I am willing to do whatever it takes to know I am desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:30 PM
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Q4A: What is the best casual sex you’ve ever had?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:24 PM
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Ugly girls have lower self-esteem, are more likely to cheat on you, and have serious jealousy problems
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:28 PM
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Women say they make men they care about wait for sex because they don't want to be seen as a slut, even though they've had hookups in the past. In this situation, who are you lying to, yourself or him?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:43 PM
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It’s fun, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:11 PM
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You can protect yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:34 PM
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Exactly: you need charisma, not niceness or jestering, and you’ll be able to sleep many women as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:33 PM
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I am not ugly, and I am tall even by Nordic country standards. The more relaxed lifestyle and drinking culture make it much easier to sleep with women, so I would sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:56 PM
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You can't reply without a GIF, can you? But I do agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:51 PM
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It's great. I wish I had been born in a Nordic country. I would have racked up numbers so high.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:47 PM
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What should we do to make casual sex more common, like in the Nordic countries, where people have sex first and talk later ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:42 PM
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What should we do to make casual sex more common, like in the Nordic countries, where people have sex first and talk later ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:41 PM
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His best friend should have told him he was having a FWB with Nikki. He would’ve lost attraction instantly, at least I would have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 06:04 PM
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I don't care about my sexual pleasure as long as I feel desirable.For me, casual sex is about feeling desirable. I don't even care whether I enjoy the sex or not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:08 PM
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I could never enter a relationship with a woman unless she sleeps with me on the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:51 PM
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I simply add weight, then I feel like I can do heavier lifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:42 PM
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Maybe, but I don’t care. I won’t be inferior to anyone else. I will experience everything everyone else does.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:28 PM
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I don’t really bench, and I don’t track numbers anyway. Then I feel like I just add weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:27 PM
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Sorry, English is not my first language.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:22 PM
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It’s really simple, actually. I almost work out every day. I do chest, triceps, and shoulders one day; back and biceps the second day; and legs on the third day. If I feel too sore, I usually rest for a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:15 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:04 PM
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I’ve been lifting for a year now. I need more self-hatred. I think one day I’ll be able to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:03 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:55 PM
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Yes, it is, but I feel better when I share it with others; it motivates me more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:55 PM
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Then I will finally feel desirable; it will be enough
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:52 PM
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Yeah, they can be okay, but I will not. I will become desirable and sleep many women as possible to finally feel desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:51 PM
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Yeah, they most likely are average and are okay with being average. I will never be okay with being average.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:44 PM
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Unless you are in the top 20%, you are not desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:39 PM
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No, that kind of person doesn’t exist for many people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:35 PM
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yes people break up so if its what will happen majority of people or loveless sexless marriage. i rather forever casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:30 PM
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I’ve seen it myself. It has happened to me and everyone I know many times. Most people cheat or get divorced. It is much safer to stay casual forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:20 PM
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Exactly, that’s good. That’s why I want to sleep with lots of women to know I am desirable and then find a long-term relationship afterward
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:17 PM
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Yes, the majority end up in loveless marriages or divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:16 PM
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Who cares ltrs anyway? Love does not last forever; it always fades. The only true thing is novelty with a new person. If desire fails, you will just go find a new one and repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:14 PM
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FWB is a good indicator, if he is, but it depends. Having one in the first place is already extremely hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:11 PM
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Then I say a desirable man, I mean a man who does not have to compete for women; it is the women who compete for him
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:10 PM
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He does not live in Canada and does not have a lot of lts. If he wants he can, women throw themselves at him
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:09 PM
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How do you know he is desirable to the majority of women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:05 PM
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They will still find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:03 PM
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I know through my friend who can sleep with a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:03 PM
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Men who can have casual sex easily will not have a problem entering a long-term relationship if they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:30 PM
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So, does that mean you are not a desirable man because you had a high body count before meeting your wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:25 AM
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Desirable men will have so many chances of having it; they will rack up numbers one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:36 PM
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It doesn’t matter; desirable men will sleep around somehow even if they don’t want to
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:29 PM
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Men who are desirable have a high body count. If you don’t, that means you are not desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:58 PM
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That’s good for me. I want to sleep with as many women as possible anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 03:08 PM
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This doesn’t annoy me particularly, just people who think they are better than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:38 PM
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Because it has nothing to do with eugenics?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:32 PM
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It’s pissing me off because many people say it’s eugenics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:29 PM
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Blondes are fine Carnivores are fine I love meat Tradition no I don’t like traditional girls Anti feminist no I like feminist women but it depends on the woman Conservative no I like liberal women What does pro salt mean lol Slavic is fine Anti vegetables absolutely not I like healthy food WTF is a raw meat eater
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:27 PM
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What’s wrong with Down syndrome disappearing? Raising a child with Down syndrome takes a lot of effort that most people can’t handle. You also have to care for them for the rest of your life, and after you die, who will take care of them? Personally, I couldn’t do something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:37 PM
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Why is abortion after a Down syndrome diagnosis considered controversial? YouTuber Jesse Ridgway and his wife terminated a pregnancy after a Down syndrome diagnosis, and people are split on it. I don’t really get why. I would have done the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:26 PM
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Maybe from the outside
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:46 PM
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I got 3 matches in the same day. That’s a new record.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:20 PM
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Everything
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:46 PM
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Because my anxiety is not letting me live the way I want to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:42 PM
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Lol, so all women who have casual sex had a traumatic childhood?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:51 AM
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That's exactly why being casual-sex material is harder to be, because if a woman is willing to risk all that to have sex without any expectations, you are a desirable man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:02 AM
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What are you talking about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:59 AM
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I know it's just how I feel about myself. I don't just hate myself; I despise myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:43 AM
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Days like this, my self-hatred gets so bad that I want to smash my head into a wall endlessly until I stop feeling emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:31 AM
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Idk why I love alt women so much. I fall in love with them so easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:21 PM
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3
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:14 PM
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I just wish I’ll have a full head of hair at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:47 PM
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Then when someone says “aged like wine,” only one person comes to my mind: Jensen Ackles. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:18 PM
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Harem is not about cheating. Harems are consensual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:16 PM
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Yes, but wanting to have a harem is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:03 PM
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Why do so many women’s romance stories involve cheating? I get that it’s for drama, but why?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:00 PM
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I hope it goes well. You deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:40 PM
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A person with self-discipline who takes risks will have the successful life he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 11:36 AM
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Why don’t you like gym muscles?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:42 PM
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Great
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:29 PM
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How did your date go?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:26 PM
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Yeah, true, but the majority of women do like muscles, and for casual sex you need them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:33 PM
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It makes men look more aesthetic and can even influence facial appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:29 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:29 PM
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Women usually imagine steroid-filled dudes when you talk about muscles
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:26 PM
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Women not liking muscles is such a cope. Have you seen TikTok and Instagram? So many women thirst over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:24 PM
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desirable as convincingly attractive, where women compete for him, not he competes for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:01 PM
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If you have to ‘simp,’ that means you are not desirable. A so-called ‘alpha’ may have multiple children with different partners, so he is considered more successful in terms of reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:57 PM
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Okay, I get it, but because of you I didn’t enjoy it. So I shouldn’t have it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:41 PM
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That’s not specific to casual sex only.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:38 PM
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I will judge that myself, then I will have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:36 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:25 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:24 PM
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I don’t know. It’s impressive because last year, at the exact same time, I couldn’t even do one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:21 PM
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30
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:19 PM
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I want to experience everything. I won’t be inferior to everyone else. I will have casual sex, and then when I get bored I will find a relationship. At least I won’t wonder what casual sex is like, since most people experience it, and it’s highly likely my future girlfriend had experienced too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:55 PM
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If I don’t feel motivated to go to the gym, I remember I need to be someone’s hot fling or hookup, and that’s what pushes me to go to the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:19 PM
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What is obsession wanting submissive women? I don’t know those kinds of women aren’t really attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:57 PM
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Then find another woman. It’s much easier when you’re casual, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:39 PM
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I get it. If they hated it, I would not force anyone to do it again. But if I never experienced that thing, then I never will. That’s why I advise having casual sex first to experience everything, because what if your future girlfriend has experienced and does not want to with you? because she hated it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:28 PM
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I get it. If they hated it, I would not force anyone to do it again. But if I never experienced that thing, then I never will. That’s why I advise having casual sex first to experience everything, because what if your future girlfriend has experienced and does not want to with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:14 PM
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You’re really obsessed with this topic, are you not?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:11 PM
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6'4
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:30 PM
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Pretty good. I’ve never had any problems with back pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:23 PM
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I mean, I’m tall, so it makes sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:49 PM
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6'4
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:46 PM
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It’s funny how many conservative and moderate women match with me even though I’m liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:41 PM
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How tall I am and how attractive I am, personally too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:40 PM
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I am not lying about anything. Sleeping with as many women as possible will make me feel desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:28 PM
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Yes, I want to sleep with as many women as possible so I know I’m a desirable man, because most men cannot do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:40 PM
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Yes, I need to know I am desirable, so I need to have casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:39 AM
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I can actually do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:26 PM
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I will not be inferior to anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:25 PM
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It doesn’t have to be exact, but as long as he himself has had casual sex, it doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:24 PM
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Yeah, I will become real slut sooner or later.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:20 PM
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That’s why you have to experience everything with casual sex, so that when you enter a long-term relationship, you won’t care anymore about what she has experienced because you did too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:17 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:14 PM
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What disability?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:12 PM
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2
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:10 PM
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How do you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:54 PM
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I personally would, if she really enjoys it. I don’t really have a problem doing things I might not particularly enjoy if my partner wants to, unless it’s too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:43 PM
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I’m not really a kinky person, so who knows? It depends on what others consider kinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:20 PM
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Depends, yes, most of them are not real, but you can find ones that feel real.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:10 PM
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I mean, I do, because if I know it’s fake, I can’t physically enjoy it. At least amateurs feel real.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:08 PM
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I never watch that kind of porn. It turns me off. I prefer amateur stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:06 PM
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God, where do you all meet these kinds of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:59 PM
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Your boyfriend is either really confident or insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:58 PM
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Your boyfriend is fine you living with your ex lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:55 PM
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Why do you live with your ex? Do you not have a boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:53 PM
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New thread: I declare my body count has not changed, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:47 PM
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<image> This is what they consider True Adam wtf is this lol it’s too ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:31 PM
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Yeah, maybe because becoming a Chad is possible, but to be a true Adam, you have to be born one. I hate these terms. I cringe every time I use them. I’d rather use ‘attractive guy’ and ‘attractive woman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:18 PM
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Why is Chad more popular when there’s an even higher attractiveness scale, like “true Adam”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:11 PM
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Both girlfriends I had approached me first. I never had casual relationships, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:19 AM
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Nah, I want abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:12 PM
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Did I say it was impossible for all short men? I said it would be for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:09 PM
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Not yet, I am in my self-improvement phase for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:08 PM
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I’m already doing so, but first I want to build a perfect body.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:07 PM
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I’m not going to seek out taken women specifically. That doesn’t matter, as long as I sleep with as many women as possible. She met him at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:06 PM
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Yeah this time I want to become a far more desirable guy. The guy she cheated with was also a fuckboy and now I will become one too at all costs not the guy women cheat on but the guy women cheat with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:02 PM
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6'4
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:55 PM
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My first girlfriend really liked me for my height and always complimented me. She also liked how other girls reacted to how tall I was. At least she didn’t cheat on me, and we broke up peacefully. My second girlfriend also liked my height, but she cheated on me with a better-looking guy who she had only met once. He was taller than me, somewhere around 6'6.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:52 PM
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I don’t see it as a requirement, but maybe I do for casual sex because it’s much harder for me to get, so you have to be better than most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:49 PM
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Why ? do you think being 6'4" has never helped me at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:43 PM
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Yeah, I was just talking about myself. I didn’t say all short guys are doomed, but being tall definitely helps with some of my shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:37 PM
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Nah, I’m too tall for that. I still have potential to achieve my goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:32 PM
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If I were short, it would be over for me, literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:23 PM
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I don’t think so, I’m average-looking
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:48 PM
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I know, and I am working on it because I want to become perfect one day
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:26 PM
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Yeah, a bit, but not much more like skinny fat because I’ve lacked muscle mass. At first, I wanted to lose weight so I cut for six months. After that, I realized it’s better to eat a small surplus to gain muscle first and then cut afterward.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:23 PM
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I’ve been lifting for 1 year now. I did a cut before, and it wasn’t hard. Bulking is much harder for me now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:18 PM
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I agree, you have to become the best if you want women to choose you, whether for casual sex or a long-term relationship. That’s why I’m trying to become as close to perfect as possible and sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:08 PM
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I am 6'4" and 200 lbs, currently clean bulking to build muscle. I’m male and go to the gym 4–5 days a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:08 PM
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I could never understand why people have such a hard time losing weight. Personally, I’ve never had that issue. I don’t crave food that much, and I never crave sugar at all. Usually, if I crave something, it’s salty or bread based, like pizza. Maybe it’s easier for me because I have to eat 3,000+ calories or more to gain weight. But I don’t even crave junk food much. Maybe I don’t know why, so I feel kind of like an anomaly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:04 PM
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Sleeping with as many women as possible and getting rich sounds like a fun life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 06:59 PM
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That’s what I am implying all the time here: if you can’t have casual sex, you are not a desirable man, and you will never be truly desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:31 PM
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Perfection is unattainable, but that should not stop us from trying to achieve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:29 PM
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That’s why you have to become perfect so that such a thing doesn’t happen to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:13 PM
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This time I will become a perfect, truly desirable man who can sleep with many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:39 PM
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I had two girlfriends before. The last one cheated on me with a better-looking guy after meeting him only once.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:33 PM
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I want to sleep with as many women as possible, casual sex, not a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:18 PM
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I just wish I was that kind of POS person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:14 PM
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Unfortunately, I can’t do something like getting a girlfriend just to become more desirable to most women than cheat to sleep with as many women as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:10 PM
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I guess I should get a girlfriend to become desirable to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:07 PM
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I guess I should get a girlfriend to become desirable to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:06 PM
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in one study, 90% of single women were interested in a man they believed was taken, compared with only 59% when they thought he was single.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:46 PM
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I can’t anymore. Until I know I’m desirable for casual, I can’t love anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:14 PM
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I personally would never date women who want providers. Those kinds of women are always the worst. Trad girls and overly submissive girls turn me off too. I prefer women who are more in the middle ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 06:59 PM
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True, I’m thinking the same. I want to move somewhere more liberal; it’ll be easier to hook up with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:15 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:10 PM
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Yeah, I’ll probably work out legs tomorrow, and then take a rest day and hope it goes away.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:08 PM
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I’m using a heat patch. I hope it gets better in a couple of days. I don’t like it when I have to miss the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:05 PM
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Not good because during lifting my upper right back hurt and it ruined my entire day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:02 PM
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I can have casual sex with someone I’m not really disgusted by, but in a relationship I have higher standards for looks I don’t need a model just someone somewhat attractive. She should also be a good person nerdy kind and a bit assertive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:00 PM
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This is because it is not a discussion post. If you are making a discussion post, it needs approval
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:54 PM
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This depends on where you are from and your family’s economic status. It does not matter whether you are a man or a woman. casual sex is easier for women, but if I were a woman, I probably would not have casual sex because it is too easy and it has no value. Maybe only once out of curiosity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:13 PM
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Yeah, maybe I hate summers too, but I’ve never heard of a “winter fling” before lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:48 PM
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Not often, unfortunately, but I’ve started trying at least
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:24 PM
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I know it’s not, but I need to experience everything possible so I don’t live with regret in the future because it’s not possible anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:20 PM
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It’s not about making out on a playground; it’s about the teen love I missed. Other things are still possible for me to experience
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:16 PM
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Summer is coming, and I hope I can have a fling this summer. Many women have summer flings. I hope my future self will thank me for the experience, remember the summer fling, and not feel inferior to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:50 PM
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What? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:47 PM
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That’s why you’re a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:46 PM
1

Yeah, she did not mention casual, but that doesn’t mean it wasn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:31 PM
1

Did he have casual sex before meeting you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:22 PM
1

Lol, that’s ultra rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:18 PM
1

So, you’re older than him? That’s rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:17 PM
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23
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:14 PM
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I am taller than your boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:12 PM
1

I was talking about ThatBitchA
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 10:39 AM
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It’s not only about making out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 10:26 AM
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Thanks, I hope so. I need to experience everything while I’m young so I don’t live with regret when I’m older. I hope you will find the relationship you long for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 09:05 AM
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I missed many things. I didn’t have a girlfriend before I was 20. Yes, I can never experience that kind of thing now. I want to experience other things, but the more time passes, the more things I’ll miss if I don’t take action now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 09:02 AM
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I mean, she said so herself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 08:59 AM
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That's why men need to experience casual sex to experience all this. This all makes me despise myself even more. If I don’t experience it now, I never will. I will sacrifice everything about myself if necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:06 PM
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You can change it. You don’t have to be obese for your health first.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:01 PM
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This is exactly why you need to experience this things when you’re young, because if you don’t, you never will. You yourself say that. That’s why I need to do anything to have it while I am young.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:57 PM
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This is exactly why you need to experience this things when you’re young, because if you don’t, you never will. You yourself say that. That’s why I need to do anything to have it while I am young.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:57 PM
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It’s destroying me that I’ve never been someone’s fling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:50 PM
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I don’t know how you look, but there’s no way you look that bad that someone wouldn’t want a relationship with you. Even people who are 600 lbs can have partners, lol. Losing weight is good for you in the first place. It can glow you up I know it. You just have to believe in yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:49 PM
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It’s destroying me that I’ve never been someone for fling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:47 PM
1

You need therapy more than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:28 PM
1

Get fit and you will live much longer. It will also boost your confidence, increasing your chances of finding a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:09 PM
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Yeah, your defeatist attitude is the reason why.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:51 PM
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Yeah, you are 20 years older than me, but you are not old. There is still a chance it could happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:47 PM
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You are too pessimistic. I don’t disagree that looks matter, but you can still find it. I think the same way sometimes. If I want women to truly desire me, I have to become perfect in both mind and body, or she will cheat on me or stop desiring me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:38 PM
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Maybe, but first you have to pass the looks threshold if someone wants to know who you are in person. Just get fit, stop having casual, and you’ll find someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:24 PM
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Maybe, but didn’t you lose weight?, If that’s true, you should having casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:16 PM
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I’m not very picky. Not too old, not too obese; chubby is fine, and whether someone is ugly depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:13 PM
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You have too low self-confidence. If casual sex is low value, does that mean I have zero value because women don’t choose me for casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:09 PM
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Yes, you still have casual sex, boosting their value, their confidence, and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:05 PM
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It depends. If you can have casual sex while sober, that makes you far more desirable than people who need to be drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:56 PM
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I’m not trying to fake it. If I can have casual sex, it means I’m somewhat desirable, because most men can’t have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:50 PM
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How can you talk about self-worth regarding me when you are having casual sex with men because they won’t date you due to low self-worth?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:40 PM
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I’d rather get in the top 20% of men at all costs and sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:34 PM
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Therapy cannot help it. Yes, maybe my insecurities won’t disappear, but I will sleep with as many women as possible until it will make me feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:33 PM
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Yeah, maybe, but I can never be sure how desirable I am until I know I can have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:30 PM
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Yeah, for women it makes sense, but for men, having casual sex is much harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:25 PM
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I think I’m the opposite. I can only have sex in relationships because I’m not good-looking enough for women to choose me for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:20 PM
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Wait, I thought you could only have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:12 PM
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I just have a feeling. novelty fades and familiarity kills it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:35 PM
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It didn’t work for me. I don’t think anyone can actually love me, or that it would even last.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:16 PM
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Why not? Telling people to give up their goals is not a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:40 AM
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It’s because they should encourage it to do anything possible to sleep with many women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:54 AM
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Nah, absolutely not. I’ll sell my soul if necessary to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:53 AM
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It’s hypocritical high-count people telling men that if they can’t get casual sex they should just give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:08 PM
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True, that’s why I need to become perfect in every way, both mind and body.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:50 PM
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Yeah, maybe, but I want to sleep with many women as possible. I can’t drink every time or I will become alcoholic. I need to be able to do it while sober.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:45 PM
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If I can find casual sex while sober, that means I am more desirable than people who can only do it while intoxicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:42 PM
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I want to remember it. If I can’t, there’s no point. I need to find casual sex sober, but I’ll do it drunk too if I can’t find it any other way
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:39 PM
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I have to become perfect in every way, both body and mind, to become truly desirable and be able to have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:27 PM
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Yeah, I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:05 PM
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Yeah, people here are obsessed with one specific subject. I’m the only normal one here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:01 PM
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Yeah, people here are obsessed with one specific subject. I’m the only normal one here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:00 PM
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Nah, my parents divorced. My mom remarried, then she got divorced again. I’ve never really seen love or truly experienced it, so that’s why I don’t believe in it. Sleeping with a lot of women and casual sex sounds better to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:54 PM
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Did you ever have a FWB or fuck buddy? How many?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:57 PM
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That can't be me. I'm a pretty polite guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:35 PM
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Many insist it’s necessary for casual sex, so that’s why I said it. But I do think it’s easier to do when drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:56 PM
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FWB is most likely sober anyway, but ONS is more likely to involve alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:39 PM
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I can’t really debate because I’ve never experienced casual sex. First, I need to know what it feels like.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:34 PM
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I know. Many women here insist that casual sex only happens if people drink because alcohol lowers inhibitions, but it’s still possible to have casual sober sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:33 PM
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It means women do have casual sex when sober.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:19 PM
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So, women having casual sex only when drunk is not real?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:06 PM
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Have you ever had sober casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 05:54 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:44 PM
2

Q4W: Your boyfriend comments on looksmaxxing videos on TikTok about his potential. Would you break up with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:36 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/h0uvhn3kxc0h1.jpeg?width=1264&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1624d346daeca70ed8e861fd454013633e86fafe Looksmaxxing reached dating apps. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:58 PM
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I would definitely be angry if it happened not long ago. I would also confront him, but it depends because it could be dangerous. I just think you want your boyfriend to fight for you, maybe because it validates you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:46 PM
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Do you want them to fight after it happens if they were not in there?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:33 PM
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What are these weird fantasies about pissing? Is it your fetish?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:28 PM
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How many casual sexual encounters did you have this week?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:07 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:47 AM
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0
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 04:55 AM
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Most women would hook up with an attractive guy, you just need a little bit of a push.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:04 PM
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It’s really hard to know if you’re desirable if you can’t have casual sex, because if women desire you for casual sex, then you are desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:55 PM
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It’s really hard to know if you’re desirable if you don’t have casual sex, because if women desire you for casual sex, you are desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:51 PM
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How many times do women need to say that women hook up with hotter guys than they marry for you to finally admit it? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:05 AM
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Nah, this guy has a timeline on his social media. It’s easy to tell if someone is on steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:02 PM
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Good for you and him. That’s probably the only way I would enter a relationship too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:58 PM
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Valuable to men, you just boost a man’s value by having casual sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:57 PM
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This is achievable naturally in 2–3 years of lifting. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:55 PM
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I’m not talking about steroid-filled dudes. I’m natural, and I want to achieve a similar body to this: https://preview.redd.it/2yzddw0kmyzg1.png?width=536&format=png&auto=webp&s=aaa00b68c2b29caf1eac2c8952ebd9636968d832
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:50 PM
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Did I do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:49 PM
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Just because you don’t value something doesn’t mean it’s not valuable. Less men have to have sex; more desirable he is. Casual men don’t have to wait for sex and have fewer responsibilities compared to relationship guys who wait and have more responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:46 PM
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What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:44 PM
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Being shredded is great for my overall health, and as a bonus it attracts women. It’s not a new thing,
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:44 PM
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Because it’s easier, no responsibility, with benefits, and almost no chance of getting hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:40 PM
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What methods? I’ve never done any looksmaxing methods except getting shredded.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:39 PM
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I already told you I need to believe I can do it, because if I don’t, I have nothing to live for. Didn’t you have hookups? Why do you want me to give up so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:35 PM
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I just can’t understand why they can’t admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:32 PM
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Yes, maybe, but that’s not common.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:31 PM
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Why do women deny so much that guys they hook up with are most of the time more attractive than guys they enter long-term relationships with?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:30 PM
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So just because some people can’t do it, I should give up? It’s my dream to become rich and sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:26 PM
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I lift pretty heavy, but I need to maintain a perfect body if I want to someday get close to 20% and sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:17 PM
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Too many calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:14 PM
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Yeah, maybe, but I need to believe it’s possible, or I don’t have anything to live for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:11 PM
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Yeah, maybe, but that kind of love doesn’t exist for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:06 PM
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How is it not true? People are more likely to tell the truth when they are anonymous. I am angry and rejected to myself. If I were only better, I would be able to have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:02 PM
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That’s exactly why you need to become part of the top 20% to be able to sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:55 PM
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Maybe, but I don't care. I still want to experience it at all costs, to know that I am desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:50 PM
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That’s because it’s true https://imgur.com/a/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-sexually-superior-to-long-term-partners-husbands-latter-are-inferior-arent-attractive-enough-recreational-as-evidenced-from-responses-TViyiCJ
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:40 PM
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It’s hard for me to define it because I can’t even imagine that kind of person exists for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:12 PM
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But I am not overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:18 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 09:41 AM
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Trump probably slept with a lot of women when he was young.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 09:33 AM
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I don't like using the words “alpha” and “beta.” I just use “attractive guy.” Anyone who can get casual sex and sleep with as many women as possible is what I consider a truly desirable man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:57 AM
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It does not matter unless you can have casual sex easily. That means you are not desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:07 AM
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If you say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:49 PM
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You think that because you know nothing about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:47 PM
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Maybe, but if I can’t do it, I’ll probably kill myself sooner or later.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:45 PM
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Who knows, I still have time to try many things. Everything I do has one goal: to get casual sex and sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:41 PM
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Nah, if I have to always get drunk to go get casual sex, then I’m not desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:38 PM
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I’m thinking of just drinking all the time because when I’m drunk, I can do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:32 PM
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What place ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:23 PM
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Do you use GIFs to irritate me? I don’t care about advice; that kind of thing can’t help me, especially with those kinds of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:20 PM
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So, do you choose random men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:18 PM
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Sorry, I meant: What made you choose that person?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:17 PM
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Sorry, I meant: What made you choose that person?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:17 PM
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I’m not paying for anything because I don’t believe it can help me. Most I can just listen to free advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:15 PM
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Question: How did you have casual sex? Like, what made you choose that person?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:08 PM
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For me, lying is everything. If I have to lie, that means I’m not desirable enough to have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:07 PM
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Lying to women to have casual sex is not anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:58 PM
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I’d rather lie with women to have casual sex than destroy my health that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:56 PM
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We’ll see, maybe if I get that desperate, I’ll do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:52 PM
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Who knows, maybe if it helps me have casual sex and sleep with as many women as possible, it would be worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:51 PM
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Nah, the things he recommended have a high chance of making my situation even worse. I can’t risk that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:49 PM
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nah, Clavicular methods are too extreme. I can do anything in many ways, but if negatives outweigh positives, it’s not worth it. and he is mostly cared about his fame anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:46 PM
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stop this clavicular shit, I don’t care about that guy, wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:40 PM
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I don’t need meth to stay lean. I’m already lean. I don’t have any problem eating healthy food and staying lean. I’m also tall, but the problem is my face. I need a better face if I want to enjoy “looks privilege” and be able to sleep with as many women as possible and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:38 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:28 PM
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I will do anything to achieve looks privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:26 PM
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Sleep many women as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:38 PM
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I don’t know what you’re talking about. I just said I wish I looked like a model or actor so I could sleep with many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:30 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:23 PM
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Ok, but not all models are gay lol. Who cares? Just give me their looks so I can sleep with as many as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:16 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:10 PM
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Sometimes I wish I looked like a model. Imagine how many women they could sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:03 PM
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That’s why you should have casual sex to know you are desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:41 PM
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It doesn’t matter; I need to experience it myself to know what it’s like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:26 PM
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Yeah, but I need to experience casual sex before I can feel complete. I don’t want to wonder what casual sex is like after I enter a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:22 PM
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It didn’t work the same for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:14 PM
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Congrats, you lived my dream life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:09 PM
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Where did you find the guy? How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:02 PM
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I meant casual, like hookups or FWB If you entered a relationship after that, it’s not casual anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:57 PM
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What? Lol, why ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:56 PM
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So, did you marry the same woman you had casual sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:54 PM
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Did he also have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:51 PM
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Wait, did you get back together?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:50 PM
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Why did you? How old were you? Do you have a partner now?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:35 PM
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When was the last time you had casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:18 PM
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At least you know your privilege. I would sell my soul to be able to have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:37 PM
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Yes, I know he has to be charming and have a little charisma, and be somewhat attractive too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:21 PM
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If you can have casual sex with her, you will get her best now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:15 PM
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You can be an exception because you have low self-esteem and would hook up with anyone; I also would, so I understand. I just want to know if I can have casual sex and if women would want casual with me and won't expect more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:14 PM
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I mean, they usually have best sex with casual partner; experiment with them too. And hetero sex is not only men skill; starfish women suck in bed who does not give good blowjobs and do nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:10 PM
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Most women give their best during casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:04 PM
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You have to be far more attractive to get casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:03 PM
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There’s no difference for men. Women always say how ugly men are with attractive women, but they never think about whether those men are actually desired. Lol, they are not. Those women probably had casual sex with more attractive guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:58 PM
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I don’t understand what’s the point of DMing someone just to insult them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:35 PM
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What is ‘moid,’ lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:30 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/2kksqv5x0dzg1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1403beb76ce0a3f982dbca145b33d1b287fbf304 Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:12 PM
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I would make him more extroverted and social, remove the balding gene, and teach him to sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:47 PM
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Why its sad?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:20 PM
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So what should I do? Should I send dick pictures?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:14 PM
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I’m too shy and anxious to do something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:08 PM
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I know I need rizz for casual sex. Tell me something new. I am 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:05 PM
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Unfortunately I don’t have rizz either but I never showed my dick to anyone on app lol. Is that normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:02 PM
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Hinge
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:59 PM
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I do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:57 PM
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It depends; some women have both on their profile too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:56 PM
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I have both on my profile, but I can’t remove “long term” because I’ll get no matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:52 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:51 PM
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I can’t. Then I will get no matches. I need that to feel a little desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:47 PM
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I have both long-term and short-term options on my profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:46 PM
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I want to get matches. It makes me feel desired and more confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:24 PM
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I get matches with women who want something long term but I don’t know I want to experience casual sex. I don’t want to cheat. I just don’t understand why women want long term but no women want short term with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:21 PM
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I don’t know; she is not my type of woman, maybe that’s the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:18 PM
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Its not?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:10 PM
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Not that post, the other one. It was removed because it was a leading question. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:03 PM
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It means women settle for less attractive guys because they prioritize other things, so you will always be a less attractive guy .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:58 PM
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Some exceptions exist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:56 PM
1

Women do that all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:55 PM
1

Are guys who are more attractive than women in relationships called gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:54 PM
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It’s a subconscious thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:52 PM
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I’m not attracted to trad wives either way, and I prefer alt women. But the problem is that 7/10 women can hook up with 10/10 men, while 7/10 men cannot hook up with 10/10 women, so men will always be inferior
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:51 PM
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It can be 50/50 chance about whether they truly desired each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:47 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:47 PM
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It’s simple: women hook up with more attractive men and settle down with less attractive men. To avoid being settled for, you need to be more attractive than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:47 PM
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To truly know you are desirable and attractive to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:45 PM
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Looksmatch couples can be 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:43 PM
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I never heard that personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:42 PM
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Expectation exists, but if she knows she can do better than you, she won’t worship you or truly desire you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:41 PM
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Based on these pictures : https://imgur.com/a/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-than-long-term-partners-husbands-TViyiCJ
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:40 PM
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Called the guy about what?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:39 PM
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Depends. They can be considered a looks match.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:38 PM
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yes you can be with your looksmatch too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:38 PM
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Clavicular is a clown and does what makes money, but I understand boys who watch him because they want to be truly desirable and sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:27 PM
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Why was my post removed for a stupid reason? What the hell?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:25 PM
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Looks and personality are 50/50 for me. No amount of good personality can make a woman attractive to me if I don’t find her physically attractive. But even if she is a 10/10 and has a bad personality, I wouldn’t be able to deal with that either. But I can’t hook up with 10/10 women, while average women can hook up with far better-looking guys. So, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:15 PM
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Do you expect me to show you proof? Just search it yourself on Reddit and ask women whether their hookups were more attractive than their relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 12:41 PM
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Proof of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 12:28 PM
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Yes, because women feel better than men, they have power over them and know better, and they are better looking in relationships. And if she would not hook up with you, it means she does not desire you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 12:12 PM
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Depends, looks matter for casual sex you generally need to be better looking than most men. For relationships, women say looks are less important than other priorities. Still, I don’t think these women actually desire those men. To be actually desired by women, you have to be better looking than her so she would worship you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:58 AM
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Depends, looks matter for casual sex you generally need to be better looking than most men. For relationships, women say looks are less important than other priorities. Still, I don’t think these women actually desire those men. To be actually desired by women, you have to be better looking than her so she would worship you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:57 AM
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Depends, for casual sex, looks matter, you need to be better-looking than the majority of men. For a relationship, women themselves say that looks are less important than other priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:29 AM
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I don’t know about them, but men are straightforward about how much they care about looks, while women downplay it and say looks aren’t as important as personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:27 AM
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About what?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:22 AM
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Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:21 AM
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How often do men say they don’t care about a woman’s looks and care more about her personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:20 AM
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Men are straightforward about how much they care about looks compared to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:15 AM
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Thanks. Usually people say I shouldn’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:54 PM
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I am thinking about sleeping with as many women as possible until I am 30. After that, I will find a woman to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:49 PM
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Being rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:38 PM
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Or you can do both to be truly desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:36 PM
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Casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:31 PM
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Fat depends on how fat, chubby women can be attractive. Old women probably not. ugly is fine too. Woman who would worship me would be amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:29 PM
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I don’t think I’m an anomaly, but I’m more open about how much I crave it. Everything I do is a way to get women to desire me, to thirst for me. I do everything for it. Maybe it was caused by my ex girlfriend cheating on me IDK
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:19 PM
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I don’t think I’m an anomaly, as say, but I’m more open about how I crave it. Everything I do is a way to get approval from women, so they might want me. I’ll do whatever it take.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:18 PM
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Lol, that’s a good question for me. I crave it like I crave nothing else in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:13 PM
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Not every man wants casual sex. I personally do. I want to be hot and attractive to women, have them thirst for me, sleep with many women, and just feel desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:49 PM
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I am 23. I have had two girlfriends. I loved them, but I never felt desired. My second girlfriend cheated on me with a better-looking guy she met once. My friend, who has a lot of casual sex, tells me how good it makes him feel. I just want to feel that feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:26 PM
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What I need is to sleep with as many women as possible and finally know I’m desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:21 PM
3

Why should you not try to get the things you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:20 PM
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Clavicular is a clown. I don’t recommend taking things that affect your health if the risks outweigh the positives.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:19 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:12 PM
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Yes, but if you want to be truly desirable, you should not need money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:08 PM
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It should not need to be healthy. If you want to be a truly desirable man, you have to do things that are not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:07 PM
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Yes, but if you want to be truly desirable, you need money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:04 PM
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Yes, but it's not enough to be considered desirable. You need more different women more often to be truly desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:01 PM
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Being good-looking will affect most of your life. You should aim to be hottest if you want easier life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:58 PM
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He is talking about relationship sex, not casual sex, which means you are truly desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:57 PM
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Looks and personality are 50/50 for me. No amount of good personality can make a woman attractive to me if I don’t find her attractive on the outside. But even if she is a 10/10 and has a bad personality, I wouldn’t be able to deal with that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:42 PM
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I don’t hate women; I hate myself because I’m not good enough for women to choose me for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:06 PM
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I am talking about truly desperate men. Easier methods can’t make them have casual sex, but if that’s enough for you, then it’s good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:21 PM
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Going to the gym is very important to become desirable, but you also need to be natural and have a good job. However, all of this may not be enough for casual sex. If you’re not tall and don’t have a good face, you may need more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:18 PM
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Yes, you can, but it’s easier if you are attractive, and it’s still harder than getting into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:16 PM
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Prove I am an attractive and charming man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:08 PM
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I usually mean your body and mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:06 PM
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You have to be really attractive if you want to sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:02 PM
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You can see my replies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:56 PM
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I had two girlfriends. I loved them, but I never felt desired. My second girlfriend cheated on me with a better-looking guy she met once.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:54 PM
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A job is also important here; I would not sacrifice that, because you need money to be desirable, and family depends on having a good relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:52 PM
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I mean everything to become desirable, not to become a slave to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:48 PM
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Lying about what? If they ask my body count, I would not lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:47 PM
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What? No. I want to sleep with as many women as possible to prove to myself that I am a highly desirable man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:46 PM
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I think being rich and sleeping with as many women as possible is a great life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:45 PM
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Giving up is easier, and I don’t respect people who give up. You have to try harder if you want something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:44 PM
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You can’t become highly desirable to men without casual sex. Yes, you can do things, but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:43 PM
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I get it, but complaining won’t make a $100 toothpaste go back to its original price.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:42 PM
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Because I know myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:41 PM
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Yes, then I know I’m highly desirable; I can finally feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:41 PM
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Not yet
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:38 PM
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You don’t have to say it to women; you have to know yourself. You become more skilled, and sleeping with women becomes easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:37 PM
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I mean, if you want casual sex and you can’t, should you just give up and live a miserable life?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:36 PM
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Sleeping with as many women as possible sounds good to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:35 PM
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If you have to be a slave to women, that means you are not desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:34 PM
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Casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:32 PM
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Therapy won't make you desirable, but sleeping with as many women as possible maybe can.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:32 PM
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I mean, if you are not willing to do that, then why complain?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:30 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:29 PM
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I can get a relationship. Most men can, but not all men can get casual sex. You have to be extremely desirable for that, which I want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:28 PM
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No. If you have to get jailed for casual sexual, then that means you are not desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:22 PM
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What argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:21 PM
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No, but you should still try it if you still can’t then find a relationship, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:20 PM
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You don’t know that maybe casual sex will be an incredibly amazing experience for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:18 PM
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If you want it and there’s no other way, you should be willing to do whatever it takes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:17 PM
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1
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:11 PM
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One day
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:38 PM
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God, I wish I could experience it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:37 PM
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Yes, it’s true she cheated because she was trash but I still have to be close to perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:35 PM
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I was cheated on because I wasn’t perfect. Soon I will be. I don’t need a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:33 PM
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What help?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:31 PM
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I’m jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:15 PM
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It makes sense, I guess. Most men would sleep with majority women, but it’s the opposite for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:07 PM
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I am not that kind of person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:58 PM
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IDK
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:57 PM
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I can date trans girls, but they have to pass really well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:56 PM
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Yes, a bit. I don’t care if I don’t enjoy it as long as I know I am desirable and attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:54 PM
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Yes, I would care about a woman’s pleasure because that would make me even more desirable. I don’t want to “pump and dump”; only undesirable men do that. Truly desirable men do not need to do that. It matters because relationship desire won’t last forever; novelty will fade, and attraction can change over time. She might dump you, cheat on you, or end up in a dead bedroom forever. I would not mind having FWB either because that makes you even more desirable than just hooking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:52 PM
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Good for you. I haven’t even had one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:46 PM
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That’s the only way to validate myself, so I want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:46 PM
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I’m jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:44 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:39 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:39 PM
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Depends, but most of the time it doesn’t. Most men can get into relationships, but not every man can get casual sex. Usually only the more desirable and attractive ones do. I did have relationships, but I didn’t really feel desired. She also cheated on me with a better looking guy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:38 PM
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Maybe, but it’s the only way for me to know I am a highly desirable and attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:33 PM
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So yes, technically you did have a kind of FWB situation, so that’s casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:31 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:30 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:29 PM
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But you still had it; it doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:27 PM
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I don’t even care if I enjoy it, as long as I know I’m desirable enough to have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:26 PM
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I don’t even care if I enjoy it, as long as I know I’m desirable enough to have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:24 PM
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For women it makes sense, but for men casual sex is harder to have than relationships, so it has much more value.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:23 PM
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I’m jealous; I wish I could experience it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:20 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:17 PM
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As long as you enjoy it, it’s good. Love isn’t real anyway; only true desire is casual, and sleeping with as many people as possible. I am just jealous of the ability to sleep with so many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:16 PM
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Good for you. I’d rather sleep with many women, if possible
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:07 PM
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Sounds amazing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:03 PM
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Why are you a black-pill woman? Do you enjoy it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:02 PM
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God, I wish I could experience that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:57 PM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:28 PM
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Did you enjoy it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:27 PM
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Q4A: How much casual sex have you had?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:25 PM
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I’m not really aware, to be honest. I don’t know about autism, but I’m 100% sure I have ADHD.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:13 PM
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I do both of these sometimes, and I don’t know which one I am
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:11 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/63n1a4kkujyg1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=12429bf649b25f45ea6dcf020cc5aa0eaf255e90 I found this on Facebook, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 04:04 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/f949iemfsjyg1.png?width=777&format=png&auto=webp&s=3b2331e112804854ee3809652a48a01dfd659651 Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:53 PM
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Casual sex is far harder for men to get than a relationship, so it does make you a highly desirable man. One day, I will be satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:17 AM
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It means I am a desirable man, so I can finally feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:11 AM
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As long as I sleep with as many women as possible, I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:09 AM
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Yes, I know it’s impossible to be desirable to all women, but I want to be desirable to most.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:08 AM
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I want to be desirable to the majority of women, not just one
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:04 AM
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Lol looksmaxxer mom https://vt.tiktok.com/ZS954A1by/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:01 AM
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I wouldn’t mind a FWB either, because that would mean I’m desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:13 AM
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I don’t think that kind of person exists for me, or that it will last.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:11 AM
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I am not red pill. Personally, I don’t care as long as I sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:06 AM
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I don’t care; I’m just jealous. I want to sleep with as many women as possible too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:40 PM
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No, being a slave means you are not desirable enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:32 PM
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Lol, any man suggesting an open relationship to his girlfriend is like letting a leopard eat his face, how stupid do you have to be. I don’t have sympathy. They get “cucked” because how easy it is for women to find sex and only 5% of men can do that, like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:21 PM
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I’m already trying to change that; it just takes time, even years.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:38 PM
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Therapy will not help me sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:07 PM
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It’s simple, but it still takes time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:03 PM
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I don’t care about women’s body count anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:00 PM
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It’s simple: become perfect, or close to it, and sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:00 PM
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To know and become a desirable man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:57 PM
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That’s exactly why only real desire is casual sex, because the novelty in relationships never lasts; it’s doomed from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:48 PM
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I don’t even care anymore if I enjoy casual sex, as long as I can rack my body count high.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:47 PM
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If she easily develops a crush on a new guy, she never strongly desired that guy in the first place. If a woman truly desires you, she will worship you even if you're a bit mean but it depends. You have to become perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:43 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:06 AM
1

23
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:38 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/ygwrfxgypyxg1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=df567979aea10d5854226c5c78df6d4dde0b6e20 Imagine being this much of a POS.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:01 PM
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I don’t know what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:06 PM
2

What fake methods? I am trying to become better like build perfect body and become more charismatic to sleep many women as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:04 PM
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Good for you, I guess. I also want to experience sleeping with that many women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:00 PM
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How hard is it to remember how many women you’ve slept with if it’s not like 50+? Why would he even lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:54 PM
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I’ve personally seen him picking up girls and girls approaching him lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:46 PM
1

I’m not against relationships, but I want to experience casual sex: hookups and FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:42 PM
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I know because he told me how amazing it makes him feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:40 PM
1

Now, until I experience casual sex, I cannot enter a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:39 PM
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Yes, but it’s much harder for casual sex. My first girlfriend was truly luck, and my second one cheated on me with a better-looking guy she met once.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:37 PM
1

Not for me I want to sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:36 PM
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Because hooking up requires better charisma and looks, which I don’t have.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:35 PM
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I’ve had two girlfriends before, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:24 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:12 PM
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My best friend’s body count is 20+, and mine is 2 lol. We’re the same age. I hope one day I’ll surpass it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:01 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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