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Discussionyoureloser/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:12 AM
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Where the hell do you live that "a lot of men" walk around with dirty clothes and food in their beards? Lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:42 PM
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So you'd be okay with a dead bedroom for the rest of your life if it came down to it? I'd like to think like you, that I'd just suck it up, but I don't know how I'd act if placed within the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 02:09 AM
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I'm not quite sure. It's the foundation of it - if your partner goes out and fucks someone else, would you accept it? What if your libido had dropped to near zero, you still wouldn't like the fact that they did that even if you don't want to fuck. Perhaps this is the fundamental difference on sexual desire in men and women, I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 11:22 PM
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Yes but, it is the end-all. It is absolutely the foundation of a marriage or otherwise romantic relationship. Sexual fidelity is a must for nearly every relationship. If one partner was dissatisfied with the sex and went out to get some on the side, that wouldn't be appreciated by the other partner even if they couldn't or even don't want to have sex, themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 11:18 PM
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I'll agree that not every woman was, but certainly not to the same degree as now because of two things: lack of birth control, and higher religious belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:03 PM
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They obviously mean socially not fiscally conservative. Although they are still wrong, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:46 AM
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the man had a public twitter account and was in the news earlier something to do regarding helping Saudi atheists escape. You can all plainly see that. What do you mean it is debunked?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:37 AM
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At that age his (and your) parents are sure to be quite elderly. He could be helping them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:40 AM
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Trump is religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:36 AM
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let me backtrack my statement. I think it's entirely possible half of young men have never approached a women. They may have flirted, asked out, made a move, kissed etc. But they didn't "approach" someone because they found the girl on an app, through friends, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:38 PM
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You think 50% of guys (let's say under 25) have never flirted with, asked out or made a move on, or kissed a girl? Statistically yes, at least within the past year, not never. Did you actually go to high school or college? Have you ever been to a club on a weekend? Or a music festival. Like you think 50% of young men have literally never talked to women? It's half the men (or some fraction) hitting on a lot of women. Not all young men hitting on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:10 PM
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if she approaches any dude she likes it's likely he'll say yes, but not because he likes her, it could be because he's horny and "why not" true lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:22 PM
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women are the ones who pick, men are the ones who approach. if women are the ones who pick, why don't they approach? makes this thing a whole lot simpler.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:04 PM
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Boomers calling marriage the ol' ball and chain leads to younger generations not wanting marriage. A massive oversimplification but you get what I mean right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:49 PM
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This is the consequence of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:46 PM
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sounds like you live in a tech area and your husband works in tech. It may be different in something like finance, law, medicine, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:01 AM
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This applies to people with multiple social circles that intersect. Somehow X knows Y.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:06 PM
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Because he already served two terms as President. He won.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:34 PM
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sometimes i piss my pants just to feel some warmth
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:00 AM
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Intent is the same. Only one succeeded at it and the other failed. Skill issue lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:00 AM
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But if you aks most women, they would say teenagers shouldn't be having sex. They need to be protected. They're just children. teenagers like sex. when they grow up they don't like their teenaged children having sex. its plainly obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:56 AM
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We should have way more conservative outliers that do drive the average way up the really conservative people likely have a lot of people married off (arranged) at a younger age like early twenties or even late teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:54 AM
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getting more interest from women You think those women are well-adjusted and representative of most women? And you WANT their attention??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:53 PM
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Yep. I'm not disagreeing that work sucks and I can't really judge people for letting things slide when life gets tough. But there are many people who really can do it all. It's not a Herculean effort for them to get fit, but for some it is. Strange how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:43 AM
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This is perhaps more applicable to South than East Asia, but while their culture is more collective, conformed than individualistic, they have such a heavy focus on academics that they have little social development. Morning tuitions, then regular school, then tuitions, then homework etc. That's the vibe I get. Secondly is the more conservative outlook many places have, schools are gender-segregated and some families may not be as encouraging of opposite gender friendships. I think I'm overstati…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:40 AM
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Well either way they aren't getting sex whether partnered up or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:43 AM
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I don't think a single Fortune 500 CEO nor American President were some sort of socially stunted incel in their youth. Not a single one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:44 PM
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What changed? Too much technology usage and a more individualistic society. Otherwise they would've been well adjusted individuals too. I guess autism isn't really to blame here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:38 PM
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I wonder if a lot of these people have subclinical levels of autism or other disorder that puts a ceiling or damper on their social skill development.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:47 PM
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I somehow doubt any of those highly successful people in extroverted careers were the quiet brooding type when they were younger. People don't change, people don't just 180 their personality, life ain't a movie. We can all improve ourselves but I wouldn't doubt there's some natural unique ceiling we all have.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:45 PM
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based and chill pilled indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:32 PM
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Yes, I forgot to add the point that everything is casual now, people are afraid to take things seriously and to date with intention. Being emotional, having goals and whatnot is looked down upon. Only people from more religious and traditional backgrounds date from the get go with the intention of marriage. Most people would think that is too forward and to just "date around and meet people" even if you're wasting your time with someone fundamentally incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:17 AM
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Like I said. Attitude perhaps? We are straight men, we can only judge a fellow man's attractiveness based on aesthetics. Sexual attractiveness and personality wouldn't factor in but it makes a tangible difference. And even aesthetics-wise our taste would be different from a straight woman's obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:41 AM
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These men are typically not attractive. Why? Which way is the causation? Is it that most men would sleep around given the chance, and those who are attractive can get away with it? Or men who desire casual sex have more desirable traits. If so, what could those be? Is it the careless/carefree attitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:37 AM
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Probably because: Having sex early on in a relationship seems to be fairly normalized now. Like on the third, second, even first date sometimes. Over the decades it seems sex has been pushed forward more and more so now it's like an entry requirement for a relationship or something. Because of this, it's possible that some guys are liars, but also some men go into it with good intentions but are turned off by the sex, or other reasons and bail. But either way the woman feels used at the end of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:30 AM
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I agree with you on how he's been phoning it in the past few years but I think back in the day when he was young and hungry his music was way better, more effort, more emotion in it. He's definitely up there and Kendrick was right when he said he likes Drake with the melodies, not when he acts tough. Also no I'm pretty sure his parents did not help produce the show, his mom was a school teacher and his dad a musician.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:06 AM
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My point being that if your social skills are enough to make friends at all then their good enough to get a girlfriend. Woman aren't mythical beings that require James Bond levels charm and intrigue to impress. If you can be friendly with normal men you already have the social skills necessary to date women. lmao. you're partly right, BUT you're joking if you think it doesn't drastically lower their chances. it's not impossible but an uphill battle. if you have very poor social skills how are yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:46 PM
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I'd rather be alone than abandon any form of standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:27 PM
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Whatever man. Like what you like my guy. You don't have to bend this far to justify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:51 PM
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So that's your bar then. Someone who wants you. That's all. They don't even have to shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:49 PM
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Wtf at the guys choosing Mina: no license, doesn’t like going out often. will need to be reminded to shower every now and then. very obsessive and clingy and will baby you. I think it tracks that the guys on here would prefer her and her submissive personality. Note how all the Mina fans are Red pillers. Lol. None for me, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:01 PM
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No, I just feel like you're reading way, way too much into people picking Melissa and shoehorning that into your view of Western men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:48 PM
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I expect most men here to pick Melissa, because people here are predominantly from the states and most western men are pussies, with no sense of style, little experience, feminine/androgynous. Melissa is a perfect western man's match. just wtf, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:34 PM
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They can't cure autism brah. You can't be a different man, only a better version of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:17 AM
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These guys are facing mental illnesses for sure which they can't easily dig themselves out of. Just my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:02 AM
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Yeah there should be a punishment for such fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:34 AM
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Well as they would say, the child is no longer their problem. The kid should take it up with the mother and bio father. I understand if the father wants to leave but let them down gently like I remember that greentext where the father called OP a bastard and son of a whore to his face, which may be technically true but just devastating to hear from the man who raised you and loved you. I empathize with those men like you'd be broken over being cucked for sure but if you as a man cannot get a gri…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:33 AM
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Love is conditional to many
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:41 AM
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I woulda been your daddy, but the dog beat me over the fence!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:38 AM
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Let's remove the cucking part, say you learn your kid was swapped in the hospital. Would you maintain contact, because you weren't cucked?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:25 AM
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No one is saying they want to return to the old days of disease, war, and famine. It's just that social norms have changed and community has arguably degraded over time. Now if you would argue those strong bonds were a result of those difficult times and cannot be replicated in modern society you'd have a point but otherwise it's irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:58 PM
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I think they mean 80, 100, 200 years ago, not 1000. And in the East it's more like 20, 50 years ago. Even now in some places.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:51 PM
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Obviously I'm talking about people who made it to marriageable age, what are you going on about??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:45 PM
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I'm guessing they died alone. Most were set up eventually, I think. Some died in war, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:40 PM
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If you're any type of brown pretty much all your ancestors (and living relatives back home) did NOT do that, they were set up with someone their family found for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:36 PM
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Wtf did we men have then, that was "destroyed by society", that we don't have now??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:28 PM
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They are two different men with likely two different relationship goals. They are interested in different types women who want different things. Anyways attractive people get laid, they can away with more, groundbreaking news!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:26 PM
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What was taken away from boys? Who is telling boys their every feeling is toxic? I get the rest of what you're saying, there's something deeply wrong with society causing boys to turn to influencers but it's complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:21 PM
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Lol. Being manipulated is good because you feel good about it because you don't realize you are being manipulated. Just lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:16 PM
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Yes I misspoke, I was trying to convey that you CAN'T generalize like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:03 AM
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men who say women are emotionally driven and irrational should just look at these male reactions. We are no better. Haven't these guys ever fucked around at work, not even once? I know the video may be cringe, but..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 11:26 PM
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The writers and the stars of the show are boomers. Not sure what the target audience's age would be though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:20 PM
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They don't seem to, in Toronto at least lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:49 PM
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lot of dumb things are popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:46 AM
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The killers for the rest are: Devout Christian and reads the Bible every day - I am not from a Christian background nor am I religious anyways. Waiting until marriage to have sex - imagine you weren't aware of the next bit. Has a low sex drive High strung and seems to be in a bad mood 25% of the time. Has slept with 32 guys. Like 5, 10, 15.. but 32, I'm not sure how to process that lol. Is frequently too busy to meet up with you. Can only meet with you once per month. If you text her, she will f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:34 AM
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I think he means you need to reflect upon what you did wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:21 AM
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what are men sacrificing, and for what/whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:19 AM
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If they do not feel attracted to you, then how will there be (romantic) love?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:14 AM
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these people have no fucking brains. you have to literally spell out everything to them. it's like they were born yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:13 AM
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no one said fuck the accountant, no one called him a loser. only you did. think about who you like and what qualities they have. what makes you drawn to someone, what makes you want to get to know them, and hang out with them. what makes you friends with each other. are they chill? smart? boring? high-strung? adventurous?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:12 AM
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well no, but that wasn't the question here. besides if he was a competent dealer, he'd know not to get high on his own supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:10 AM
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In many non-American cultures prostitution is a lot less serious. lmfao, where? It's pretty serious in the vast majority in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:47 PM
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You're putting words in my mouth, trying to read my future while you don't even know me. That is the problem with this sub, a lot of you think in extremes. You either have to be a drill sergeant type parent, and anyone who slightly disagrees with you is some lazy liberal raising delinquent children. It doesn't have to be like that I seriously don't understand your train of thought. It's not one or the other and I'm starting to think you are just trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:47 AM
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You're not their bestie but you aren't their drill sergeant or commander nor are you a cop. You're their fucking parent. You seem like you get off on authority. Wanna boss some kids around join the JROTC or Cadets. I'm not saying don't discipline your kid, but you don't have to make your family life like the military just because you're in it. You don't have to rant about liberals either, I see all kids of parents just handing their kid an iPad to shut them up and putting up with all kinds of no…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:27 AM
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what kid is partying at 8 bro. Let them play soccer till the sun sets. Let them go to birthdays and shit. Let them participate in normal human activities, interactions, and friendships. Don't turn them into stunted robots.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:21 AM
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it doesn't even get dark till like 9 in the summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:52 PM
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Look, you want to be a responsible parent and do not want to repeat others' mistakes, I get that, but you seem like a such a hardass I somehow doubt you will find someone willing to have children with you. Chill out a bit. I don't know why you are yelling about "you damn liberals", you think the kids stealing cars, getting in fights, doing drugs are the kids of some Reddit liberal types? Just fucking lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:51 PM
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I could easily say home and school and that's it.... I mean you could.. nothing stopping you. And?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:48 PM
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6pm...? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:55 PM
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Man. You see athletic guys with women. Twinks with women. Dad bod guys with women. Idk what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:48 PM
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They're just saying it's easier and more efficient for the picker gender to do the approaching. Ends up with less rejection and embarrassment overall. Sure, no one can approach if that's what you want, we can all be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:47 PM
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I never said it was a good signal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:13 PM
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it operates on a subconscious level. it takes conscious EFFORT to fight against our biases IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:20 AM
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ok Mr Enlightened Buddha lmfaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:17 AM
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I think there's many who put sex on a pedestal, and also many who put women on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:10 AM
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For women, it's mostly attention, love and receiving acts of service You don't think men value this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:09 AM
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this forum is a social experience. yes but barely lol, social media is not even a fraction as valuable as a real relationship with other humans is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:07 AM
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Fuck about 10 girls and u start to realise it isn't that serious I'm sorry but most people will never reach even half that number in their lifetime. They will always have the chase in the back of their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 02:55 AM
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What? No one thinks highly of a man with a good wife because he must be spending a lot of money on her and the family and because they are capitalist that is good because they are propping up the economy. No. The reason is simpler, as they said it is just a signal of competence. Social proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 02:52 AM
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Ofcourse it can. Status is a social construct. Not something that exists in nature. Even chickens have a pecking order.. and don't get the people here started on lobsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 02:50 AM
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yes. no one cares what you went through, and what you did to get to where you are today. people only see, and care about the end result.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 12:20 AM
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you CAN do that. or you can just not accept settling for someone like that and not accept being settled for in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 12:08 AM
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i wish i found someone at the age where we could grow together. rip.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 12:07 AM
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after doing this for a while, you start to feel like a chump. You are improving yourself in many ways but sometimes the thought crosses your mind: what am i doing this for? I'm not saying women or a relationship is the answer. But plenty of people out there are seeking an answer and seem to think that IS the answer. it doesn't really matter, no matter what, every day you should be trying to be better than you were the day before, self-improvement should simply be baked into life. but the grind g…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 12:06 AM
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I'm just saying don't settle, what else can we really do about it? Yeah we can continue to point out hypocrisy in dating and gender standards but that's really all we can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:21 PM
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We are expected to work hard for 5+ years (otherwise we get mocked, belittled or isolated) to be worthy of being a girls retirement plan after she is done with her fun. The girl in question is as bad as we were before any self-improvement and it is expected that as soon as we marry her it is okay for her to get fat and lazy. Expected by who? We gotta maintain our standards bro, and be okay with being alone if they no one matches up. You don't have to lower your standards because other men do. Be…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:56 PM
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Women can get good men and are accepted for free. Women wanting to use artificial enhancements to deal with their insecurities and try to fuck Chads is her selfish choice. They're just not into you. Simple as. Everyone wants to get into a relationship with someone they are attracted to, and not be in a relationship with someone they aren't attracted to. And many will do whatever they can to ensure that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:40 PM
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I somehow doubt the majority of those marriages back then were "romantic". Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:01 PM
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Btw if this is true you know this is becuase feminism right? You don't think there were people with no romantic success before feminism? I don't get it bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:43 PM
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His comments at the top of the chain are like I get what you're saying, then eventually down the chain I'm like oh so bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:39 PM
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It doesn't matter. Men have a physical standard, women have a physical standard as well. And you can't compare male to female attractiveness 1:1.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:34 PM
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It is her her body, her choice. But we hold men accountable for her poor mating choices. How are we holding men in particular for that accountable? Maybe society as a whole, but as a man I don't feel targeted for abortion rights issues. Women rapes a child? It is his fault for complaining and he should be thankful for the privilege of having sex with her. Are you for real? The only people saying it's his fault are men, and only a small number of men anyways. Most people are against that shit. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:31 PM
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If your straight female friend is not attracted to, you might as well be a woman, get it? Being straight or gay doesn't mean you are into EVERY man, or EVERY woman.
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Isn't it more like bottom 20% for women? Men's standards are different than women's.
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:22 PM
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Agreed it's like adulthood keeps getting pushed back.. people start careers later, spend more time in school, move out later, have kids later etc. Though in much of the world such indicators are less meaningful. Many people don't move out until after marriage (or straight up never, their spouse moves IN with the family). Many do not have teenage relationships either, they are focused on study.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:15 PM
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Yeah. I'd have to correct that to "since industrialization". Besides, much of the world didn't and still don't really do relationships like that, they just get set up by their respective families.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:12 PM
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I mean.. in most of the world for most of history, most kids did NOT have relationships in high school and their teenage years.
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:25 AM
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Nope. Only person I know who really listens to metal is in his 30s and a man.
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:50 AM
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Metal shows? Just lol. Men and women have significantly different genre preferences anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:48 AM
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Nope. Every time an incel posts a photo they look totally fucking normal. It's in their head. Or it's just chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:48 AM
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I think the other component is not just validation and sexual self gratification, but for some sheer loneliness.. people have less family and friends these days and their partner takes the weight of being the bulk of their human interaction and support. So sex is really just a duty for them. They'd rather settle for someone who is unattractive but good company and a good partner, than be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:34 PM
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Men fuck not only their own hands but coconuts, flashlights, and god knows what else.
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:59 PM
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There's levels of attraction and people settle all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 12:17 AM
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Exactly, I think they would be more promiscuous, but they simply don't go out enough. They have nothing against casual hookups, they just have less opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:04 PM
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But that will happen in modern dating as OP said. If people fuck after the first few dates and not after commitment then it is inevitable most will have had many past partners reducing pair bonding ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:32 PM
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I'll let you in on a little secret. OP, and others posting here, do not actually care about society's future. They just want an arranged marriage so they can get their dick wet. So a woman would settle for a "nice guy" like him. Personally, I'm just trying to grapple with the cultural differences of this setup. Billions of people still get married this way even today. I'm sure it works out for some. They cite "love after marriage" which isn't a gamble I am willing to take. Maybe it isn't worth i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:14 AM
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I know.. people whose family/neighbors cut them off because their daughter married another caste. But I'm saying not every person is in that situation. So it is hard to separate the statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:59 AM
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Yeah, getting married to the wrong person can get you in a lot of shit. I hear many stories online of parents saying they are feeling sick, will get a heart attack, refusing to eat, even threatening to take poison because the kid wants to marry someone of their own choice. I'd take any relationship statistic out of that country with a HUGE grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:55 AM
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Proceeds to act like being sexually attracted to your partner and compatible with your partner are stupid, irrelevant considerations. Because they "don't really translate to being a good partner or mother or father." It is objectively illogical. But we are illogical beings. Don't we sometimes have to set aside our wants for the needs of our family and future generations? The greedy dating apps do not select your partners. It's not "greedy dating apps" vs "your parents." But if your parents pick …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:52 AM
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I think it's a poor solution too I'm just saying hear the guy out. But I see where he's coming from. I honestly cannot imagine many many older people I know meeting, dating, and getting married without arranged marriage. It's utterly inconceivable. Anyways, India's birth rate has been on a constant decline since the 60s, about to hit 2.0, so clearly this isn't the solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:46 AM
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It's hard to separate what we want and what we are told to do. Divorce is still allowed in most countries Yes, divorce is taboo in some places. But can you place an exact number of how many marriages that affects and the divorces that would have happened otherwise? Society can encourage someone to do something without coercion. But the problem is there is no definite line between these two things. Where can we say they are a product of their society and where can we say they made their own decis…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:42 AM
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"Sexual attraction shouldn't matter for sexual relationships, and compatibility is irrelevant." Sexual attraction matters, but in OP's ideology what matters is the birth rate and survival of our society. Civilizations weren't built exclusively by hot couples. No, most people really weren't that attractive at all. Someone I don't want to fuck is not a "good partner" for me. Yeah but there's a wide range of people you'd want to fuck. Would you rather a 10/10 with a shit personality or an 8/10 with…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:36 AM
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Yeah it's a poor solution. Those who get together may stay together, but still not have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:12 AM
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He is presenting this as a solution to societal problems. Single and lonely people, and a falling birth rate. It doesn't work if only he wants to sign up for arranged marriage, enough people need to do it, to work. He's just pointing out an idea, not trying to legislate arranged marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:04 AM
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It's possible they do not approve for an idiotic reason. Many people unironically care about things like horoscopes/astrology. Or race.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:02 AM
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As great as my parents are, I'd trust my friends on relationships more than my parents tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:01 AM
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This is an idea that I have thought about before. Yes, we obviously care about our own well-being. But so many are blinded by "love", they ignore glaring red flags. Your parents will look at the good qualities he or she has, not whether they are "hot" or has "charm" or something like that. It doesn't really translate to being a good partner or mother or father. The problem is most people's parents want what's best for their children, but they only see it through their lens. Through what they the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:00 AM
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I've heard a number of Desi Americans go the arranged marriage route out of choice. I guess they couldn't hack it in dating. Arranged marriages these days often have a courtship period it's not just alright you're getting married next month send out the invitations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:54 PM
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I agree. But what do you say to more premarital partners actually being worse for divorce rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:52 PM
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Also how does climate change affect this, lmao, whys everyone saying this?? It's a cover, they just want to buy more funko pops and raise "heckin puppers".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:50 PM
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I'm sure some cultures had an analog of "dating" pre-1900s, they just didn't call it that. Do you think every person before the year 1900 got married to whoever their dad found them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:48 PM
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The reason in some cultures even the working classes conduct(ed) arranged marriages is because inter-sex communication is taboo. Even school classes or entire schools may be gender-segregated. Opposite gender friendships are discouraged. For Muslim cultures, Hijabs and Burqas.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:46 PM
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I think he wants to bring in a culture of arranged marriages without the forced part they do in some families. Such a thing can't really sprout from nowhere, I don't see how Western families would start doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:44 PM
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So how would we achieve this in today's society?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:41 PM
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Those are orthogonal issues.. we can't have a continuously growing birth rate in the first world, our consumption would be too high. Politicians are letting in so many people to drive down wages, it's not wholly for society's benefit. A falling birth rate isn't necessarily bad, although I do agree that it has to eventually go up at some point but right now I don't know what will make that happen in our current state of affairs. People don't seem to want to have kids end of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:36 PM
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Basically they do not want to commit, i.e. they're fuckboys, so the girls are tired of being in situationships and criticisms like that. It could just be a Toronto mans problem idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:31 PM
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I think it's a country divide. the Toronto area has a very strong South Asian population and most second generation kids retain their culture (while integrating into Canada ofc).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:16 PM
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Not Indian but I've heard the opposite - South Asian women giving up on South Asian men and getting with a white man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 02:33 PM
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Yeah, obviously race preferences and outright racism in dating exists for all races.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:12 AM
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And how about the socially anxious women? You are saying generally women are more outgoing and less anxious than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:05 AM
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Why is that? Seems sorta sad :(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:02 AM
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This shift is likely linked to the growing liberal-conservative divide between women and men in many countries especially the US and Korea.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:01 AM
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So it really is a race and height, not "muh cultural differences and personality" thing! He's from Houston not India. They wouldn't even hear him out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:57 AM
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Swingers clubs are full of the 45+ crowd. That's like.. an extreme minority of old people. But okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:21 AM
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Prefixes change the connotation. It's simple colloquial English. "boss bitch", "bad bitch", "that bitch" etc., are generally positive terms. Same way "badass", "the shit" are positive while "dumbass", or "shit", isn't. Yeah, anyone who calls themselves "boss bitch" or "badass" are gassing themselves up and are probably full of shit. Those are terms you earn, and are bestowed upon you by others. Haven't met anyone who is a proud "bitch" though, thankfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:42 AM
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In typical Redditor fashion, you're taking it literally. They aren't actually going around acting like a bitch, bitching about shit. They have co-opted the term into its own meaning. It's like how black people have co-opted the n-word into its own thing, separate from what the white people intended in it's original usage. I'm not disagreeing with the premise of the post at all - OP posed a good question, why did they choose "bitch" of all words? Well here's your explanation in the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:33 AM
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Isn't what you said also lying to yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:14 AM
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Doesn't it also work in reverse? The more you know someone and their personality, the more you notice how attractive they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:20 PM
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You don't see chubby dudes with average women? You think men as a whole are all nice to women that don't meet their physical standards? You don't see the barrage of cruel and racist comments lately towards the actress in that Romeo & Juliet play? Some men absolutely despise women they see as unattractive. You don't. I don't. But many, many do. I don't think it is a male/female thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:40 AM
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I respect your self-awareness. But I don't get it. Doesn't it go both ways? I'm sure you would never treat an overweight woman like they treated you, it was wrong of them to disparage you in those ways but you wouldn't be into them the same way they wouldn't be into your past self, right?
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:01 AM
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Companionship - It's not the same as friends. Imagine being 40, 60, 80 and living alone, doing everything alone while all your friends and relatives are busy with families of their own. Also to bear and raise children together. If they would be a good parent, isn't that what matters most?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:54 AM
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Not all women.. not all men, we aren't hiveminds.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:55 AM
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Did they do this study on men? How can you say it is a woman thing when you omitted the results of the same experiment on men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:54 AM
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More of a rhetorical question but yeah I'm guilty of using Reddit a bit much. Other social media, hardly. Would you not own a gun because households with guns are more likely to experience a shooting? Would you or have you ever engaged in dating and premarital relationships because it's proven that it affects pair bonding? Would you never drink a sip of alcohol, eat grilled food, red meat, and cookies, because they objectively are detrimental to your health? All I'm saying is we CAN'T live a sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:29 PM
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Literally, every marker shows that men and women are worse off when they are on social media. Are you going to stop using social media, including Reddit? Statistics may guide my decisions but not decide them completely.
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:56 AM
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It may be true but doesn't really counter his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:31 AM
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Not just women but children. And a woman is a prerequisite for children obviously. I don't think family and friends are the same..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 08:47 PM
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Provide and protect for whom? Many men do not have anyone to do that for. If you say that is their purpose, then many men are simply lost and that number will only grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 08:14 PM
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If sex is just a bonus, can this person seek outside help if their partner doesn't feel like doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:26 PM
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What have women done to men in SK? Show me the assault statistics? Or any data, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:25 AM
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I agree, perhaps the draft should include women. I suppose there's a reason most militaries don't, it's a pain logistically and tactically. And gratitude. How would they show it? By sleeping with men? Is that what you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:28 AM
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How are they doing that? How can I get in on this??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:14 AM
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A lot of countries have paternity leave. Besides, do you think maternity leave is a vacation? Fair. How can you not be responsible for a child YOU created? It takes two to make one. Fair. That's not a right men ever had and never has been. But aren't many of your points due to a paternalistic attitude that women are wonderful and precious or whatever? I.e. decidedly not feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:14 AM
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Who's conscripting men? Is it women, or other men? You think "ungrateful women" are making your country not worth defending? How do you expect the women to show you gratitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:09 AM
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Sure. I think we are judging our standards of living based on the baby boom and postwar prosperity of America and others from the 50s to the 2000s. It is a blip in history. Before then there wasn't feminism yet the majority of the world lived in relative squalor. No one had big houses and big yards, nor a semblance of work life balance or workers rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:49 PM
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Nahh I'm in Canada that's a thing and it's fun and all but it's not common either. Early-mid 20s so no one has their own house so while we invite close friends over we don't throw large parties at our families home. But yeah grilling and drinking in the park is a thing, the former technically needs a permit and the latter is against bylaws at most parks but no one really cares 😂. Most of the time though friends just do things with their group.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:58 PM
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Okay. But if someone is picky (i.e. has standards) that means they are shallow, selfish, vacuous, entitled, and narcissistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:22 PM
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It's not compatible with Western culture. You really think Westerners will be okay with their tax dollars going to a government sponsored dating app? The one thing we fear more than giving private companies our data is giving it to the government. It will take a colossal shift. Maybe in a few decades we will reach a breaking point which will convince the masses that this is necessary but not anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:29 PM
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Most people get fat after a few years. It's seemingly inevitable for most.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:24 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:24 PM
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That's so infrequent you will have zero success that way. When and how in the world will you meet your coworkers sisters and friends of their girlfriends? Like that's not impossible but it's quite uncommon in my experience. If I am hanging with my coworkers it is mostly to play sports so if they bring their friends it will be other dudes (usually).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:22 PM
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That's not the government's responsibility. It doesn't fit with Western politics. It's something Asian countries like Singapore did, and I can see others like China, Korea, and Japan doing it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:15 PM
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Semantics. Everyone on here takes that phrase too literally. The point is that you don't want to spend the next and last 5 decades of your life alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:13 PM
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Thousands if not millions of women get approached every day. Yet there aren't millions of new tiktoks and harassment cases every day. What are you going on about? Secondly, does being picky in choosing a partner speak negatively about you? Everyone has the right to their own standards, and they don't owe others a relationship nor sex. Is that the only metric you judge a person's character by? Whether they're willing to fuck you or not? If you judge women by those metrics couldn't you judge men? …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:11 PM
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People don't even go as a friend group? And sports is populated by couples? That seems odd. In my personal experience you're right. My friends don't do these, we don't go to third places we just do things with our group. But I would think other friend groups are more outgoing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:05 PM
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Like? Bars?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:59 PM
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Yes. Anyways my point is that most people WANT to be desired in that way. Many won't because either they won't put the effort in, or (a few) have extenuating circumstances out of their control. Yeah, you're right in that not everyone gets what they want and historically many, or even most didn't, but if people just accepted that, this subreddit would have no reason to exist. Like why are we here?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:58 PM
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Anyone can work out and eat healthy and become fit. The difficult part is facial structure which is harder to change but you can improve it with hairstyle, facial hair, contacts, losing weight, surgery. But my point is, if you are settling that low, to someone who doesn't even desire you, are you not better off alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:44 PM
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People make friends when they're 5, 10, 12, etc. if they diverge as they all grow up does that reflect poorly on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:35 PM
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You're okay with either jerking off for the rest of your life or using someone's body to jerk yourself off for the rest of your life? Instead of sex with mutual passion and attraction? Something you do together instead of doing to someone? It doesn't need to be a lot of women, it just needs to be one. Who a lot of these guys seemingly have a problem finding.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:56 AM
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buddy, we all have fried dopamine receptors these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:53 AM
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I wonder how they dealt with the difference in gendered interests and social circles in the past. I don't think pre-1950s, men and women went to the same bars or pubs (I doubt many women went at all), I'm sure sports were generally gender segregated and mostly male, most women did not work either. I suppose they were introduced to each other at church or something like that through family and friends. But this could be me just assuming it was all like Victorian England out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:38 PM
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So you center your days and life decisions around (potentially) meeting the opposite sex? Lol. Never said to not prioritize work life balance and do what you like - problem is what men and women like to do are different, so each gender is stuck in their own bubble. I'm not saying these aren't choices and you shouldn't make them, I'm just refuting the purported "fact" that the (single) dudes on here are lacking social skills - I just think they are lacking in opportunities and if they make those …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:27 PM
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Why are you assuming the work environment is toxic? In tech there isn't really anywhere you can go that would have a near even gender ratio, besides that's a stupid criteria for a job. And you can't fake interest in activities. You can try new things and broaden your interests. But in a busy life you gotta do what you need to do and what you actually want to do first. You can't just barge into new friend groups either. It all just happens by chance. It's not like my friends don't have female fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:55 PM
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Many STEM programs are 70-90% men. Depending on where you work, the demographics will be similar. Then they may lift or play sports with the boys. Most sports are gendered. I don't see women playing pick up basketball with men, really, to give an example. Then they go home and hop on a discord call with the boys and play video games. I notice some people are on discord at work or just while doing other things. On the weekends they may go out and do something with their friends, perhaps a movie, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:35 PM
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I get bored or sad every couple months, spend a lot of time here and realize most are idiots, then repeat this cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:25 PM
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For many here, yes. But the biggest problem IMO is that they simply aren't in such situations ever. They just aren't around women in a social setting regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:23 PM
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Maybe your friend isn't like those guys who don't have their shit together - he's an exception and simply unlucky. Maybe he's looking in the wrong places. There's a chance element.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:54 PM
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Yeah but IMO the points you brought up aren't really a big deal. And while a lot of behaviour is innate, a lot is simply learned. But you do you, and the French will do as they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:54 PM
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What is the natural order of things?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:25 PM
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Idk about porn but there are so many men who don't game all day. Sure, some do, many don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:21 AM
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What is causing low T? Is it lack of exercise and obesity? Or something else. Interestingly, low T presents as depression in some.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:19 AM
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Everything is girl power What do you mean "everything"? Yeah Marvel is trying to pander, that's what companies do. Doesn't take away from men really, stuff is pretty male-centric aside from some cringe forced scenes in Avengers. new girl superhero movie, no matter how much they suck you’re supposed to shut up and watch them Who is forcing you to watch them? Is there anyone you know making you watch girl superhero movies? manly jobs are automated/outsourced Fair point. But I thought the trades ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:18 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:09 AM
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Destruction? How? How will you start fighting for your futures? What do you mean by "the gloves"?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:06 AM
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What gives you the right to impose control on the third world? Do you really think colonialism went well? You think the West eased up on the throttle because of "white guilt" and the kindness of their hearts? You don't think some of these issues in today's world are due to the effects of colonialism and sucking a country dry essentially? Anyways, colonialism will not return. We are no longer run by kings and queens. Besides, the vast majority of people in the West will not support it and I see n…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:58 AM
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what's that supposed to mean lmao? What is the reason, tell me? And how are you going to show how you supposedly won? Don't mince your words.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:39 AM
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That was my response to him. Of course they will. But in the time it takes to adapt, it will have serious ramifications to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:02 AM
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You're missing his point, most people can do any of those jobs if they learn, but his point is that if all men magically vanished overnight, we would obviously lose most of our farmers, truckers, and trades workers instantly and it will be difficult to recover. It's not a very insightful point IMO but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:47 AM
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well duh. if all that expertise and manpower vanishes in an instant we are screwed. And I can't imagine the same would happen if all women vanished overnight. But does it matter? It's not going to happen. I don't get the point of the argument. A better experiment would be what if every baby born from now on was female (or male). And we have cloning now. What would the world be like in 10, 50, 100 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:39 AM
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That's idiotic. It's entirely possible for men to live in a male bubble and a woman to live in a female bubble. Many careers, activities, and social circles are gendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:30 AM
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This is an idiotic thought experiment. Having half the population vanish overnight is going to destabilize civilization no matter what. Yes, there are some jobs that are 98% men. Women would certainly have a difficult time, but they would adapt. Obviously societies will struggle, even collapse in some places as we lose expertise that will take years to rebuild. But humans will adapt and overcome as is usual.
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Why would you waste time texting for months, meeting in person is far better for any type of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:24 PM
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If you get laid off then I assume you would be taking care of the domestic chores?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:19 PM
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..okay? How about the 25 year old man in medical school or residency? Or the 30 year old lawyer?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 11:36 PM
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I'm saying it from a utilitarian perspective. One can argue that while we are paying someone else's responsibility, social programs benefit society as whole because it helps develop productive members of society instead of letting them fall through the cracks and cost society in terms of say, crime and healthcare burden. (Obviously we should get the biological father to pay child support as he is the one liable I'm not saying we shouldn't) Secondly, some say we are facing a demographic crisis wi…
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:38 PM
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They have to swallow that pill. They will whine about not wanting more taxes but also bring up crime and the state of youth. If we as a society support single mothers, it will benefit society as a whole because we will gain more productive members of society.
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:28 PM
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There’s a million other better things to do. Agreed. But it probably doesn't resonate with people. Like I could choose to believe in God and go to a church, but I wouldn't actually believe in it. Or, I could choose to go to school do my CPA and be an accountant, but it wouldn't mean anything to me. It's not a reason to live or do things. I think a lot of people have little direction and a lack of meaning in life. Not only that, I do think there is some deep urge in most humans to seek sex and co…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:40 AM
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It's hard to come to terms with the fact that they will always want you less than you want them. You will be chasing after people all your life who don't value you the way you value them. You can then logically tell yourself it's not worth it, but the human heart longs for companionship and you cannot overcome it. Hence the resentment brewing in communities like these.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:11 AM
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But the guys I'm not attracted to are repulsive to me. Are most men out there not attractive to you? Are most men out there physically repulsive to you? That can't be healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:07 AM
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Quoting my own reply to the other person: This is the fundamental difference between (many) men and (many) women. Men will fuck literally anything and anyone. Women want an emotional attachment, they want to be seen and wanted for who they are - maybe there's a really hot dude where those things go out the window, idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:03 AM
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This is the fundamental difference between (many) men and (many) women. Men will fuck literally anything and anyone. Women want an emotional attachment, they want to be seen and wanted for who they are - maybe there's a really hot dude where those things go out the window, idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:02 AM
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with people who meet their attraction threshold What if they don't? What if as a straight male you were lonely but a lot of dudes hit you up wanting only to smash? they just wanted your ass? Can I then say "It must be terrible to keep meeting people who want to have sex with you!"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:00 AM
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What da hell, gotta dap up the homies, your colleagues, your gym bros more often. You gotta build your relationships and put effort into them even if they seem trivial. You think women are just magically having friends fall into their lap? (lol). They put themselves out there that's HOW they deal with it. I'm not denying that male friendships can be shallower and that touch starvation is a thing but if there are so many men in this lonely situation why don't they hang, be less lonely together?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:57 AM
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Yeah I agree but OP's point is that it does not even affect her at this point. She does not have depression or lingering sadness any longer.. at least after 26. She came to terms with it and found meaning in her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:49 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:33 AM
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You're right, that's only one aspect, a lot of dudes are slobs I can't lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:43 PM
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There's no one group that controls everything. It's not that simple, implementing a solution isn't going to be simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:43 PM
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The point is, the possibility is low but plenty high enough to reconsider being financially dependent on one man. I know men here say oh yeah they totally wouldn't mind being in that situation but to be married fresh out of college with no experience.. dependent on your partner while you raise the kids fulltime for the next 10-20 years.. if anything happens in between with your partner what do you do? You are screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:17 AM
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Agreed but who is "they"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:09 AM
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The world has billions of people so I'd be inclined to say.. yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:08 AM
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You think that's the extreme? There's millions of men worldwide who beat the shit out of their wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 03:05 AM
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What?? Obesity rates in men are higher sure but not that much higher. So many dudes "looksmaxxing" these days
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:58 AM
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Bro it's a dialect difference ever heard of AAVE?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:55 AM
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Chilling at home with the gals
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:52 AM
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Americans are the ones moving out early, having tons of casual sex, but go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:30 PM
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People ignore so many red flags, love is often blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:42 PM
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The other thing I forgot to mention is religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:23 PM
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Yes and I'm not sure how we will change this. With the rise of automation perhaps we can reduce our working hours dramatically and people will be more inclined to have children. Technology has advanced a thousand fold over the last thousand years, yet in many countries especially Asia, people work 50, 60, even 70 hour weeks and the cost of living is nuts so there is little choice. Keep in mind that child labor laws are another preventative factor - we can't just have children help us in the fami…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:10 PM
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Someone's mad. Those were rhetorical questions. Didn't need this wall of text. Your mistake is thinking of women as a monolith, a singular party who "reaps what they sow", who "ought to come up with better rules". Yes, women can and probably should call out the toxic discourse just like we should when we have the opportunity. What do you expect women to do? I don't expect men nor women to go around the internet trying to change people's minds in comment sections and forums. It will take a big so…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:41 PM
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Okay? Are you calling out all the men who hit and quit? Who send dick pics? Who creep on women in public, which is why they don't want to be approached in the first place? Are we responsible for the actions of other men just because we are also men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:04 PM
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It's probably a small minority of overconfident jackasses asking everyone out. There will always be a few who don't care about social norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:56 PM
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LMAO. You realize women are individuals so some may have the former opinion and some may have the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:48 PM
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Yeah that's what I meant. Sadly a lot of people do not have those close friendships and family anymore. So they turn to romantic relationships which are generally the closest relationship you will have with someone in your lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:41 PM
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I think most people would agree with me and not you. Yet the majority of people are not in fact, needy and sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:32 PM
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For how long can you be completely alone and not be lonely?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:31 PM
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Humans are social animals. Of course we need others to not be lonely aside from a few hermits.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:19 PM
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No, I do not want to be left alone with my own thoughts. Then again doomscrolling here is a poor distraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:42 AM
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Sorry I was talking within the context of this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 11:47 PM
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Okay, agreed. So there's nothing wrong with the advice to put more effort into your existing relationships rather than thinking a romantic relationship will solve everything for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 11:32 PM
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There is no other way. Maybe you join some class or sport. Maybe you meet them at some sort of party or gathering because they are in your circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:45 AM
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Either they don't, or they use the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:19 AM
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It will never be mutual for most of us. I'd have to approach because there's no situation where there's be a mutually initiated interaction. It just doesn't happen. Exceedingly rarely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:19 AM
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It's what the women you're interested in want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:17 AM
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If I go about my life, I will never have like a natural reason to approach a woman that I'm interested in, or even a woman at all. Even if I'm in some class or job or group or whatever I still have to approach them we will almost never naturally talk to each other, I don't think she is thinking let alone aware of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:15 AM
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Why would I bother people chilling with their friends? If it's weird 99% of the time and works 1% it's not worth looking like a fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:02 AM
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They're not interested in conversing with you most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:47 PM
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So you're saying the difference between a man satisfied with life and one who isn't, is a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:47 PM
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Yes. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:17 PM
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LOL. So your life's revolve around pussy, that's it? The difference between being a "slave" and a "Chad" is sex? Women should reward men with sex for participating in society? this subreddit makes me want to stick a fork in an electrical outlet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:17 PM
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Okay so that's one random dude who became famous. And? Oh my god, you're just learning about pretty privilege now? Lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:15 PM
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people go out to have a good time with their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:05 PM
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"Chad" has to go to work too. What are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:59 PM
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Zero success doesn't mean desirable or not, maybe he was looking in the wrong places.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:35 AM
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Why does anyone cheat lmao?
/r/ExRedPill01/12/23 01:54 AM
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Exactly. To a woman, the average man might as well be another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:44 AM
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What if they were all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:43 AM
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As I stated in another sub today: I think having men do the asking is a filter, it filters out those who are too timid, less socially skilled, or simply not interested enough. With the current state of social interaction and dating, it might just select for men who are too ballsy and aggressive, those who don't care as much about modern social norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:10 AM
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lol, nice save. in no way was sarcasm construed in your original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:50 AM
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If you have a Muslim name, that's a big one... Obviously people may assume you are incompatible. If you are not religious then show that, religion is one of the profile fields on Hinge.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:27 AM
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Dumbest comment I've seen on this sub today and that's really saying something.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:24 AM
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These days there is a lot more helicopter parenting and strict immigrant parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:48 AM
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A weight preference will obviously not be received well. They are a company looking out for their best interests, they don't care about equality, whatever that means. Second of all, weight varies with height and musculature. So a singular weight filter is not that helpful. Even BMI doesn't consider body composition.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:53 PM
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I grew up in Toronto. Many places in the West where you have immigrant kids who grew up religious or were just disadvantaged dating wise. Or didn't even prioritize it themselves. Most friends in high school didn't date, and I'm sure they didn't many years beyond it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:59 PM
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If they're Muslim it's likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:58 AM
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Are you going to say we all hate cancer patients because we're trying to eradicate cancer?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:35 PM
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Yeah that's what I meant, parents house. Pretty normal in Ontario, Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:40 AM
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Not denying your overall point, but the whole point is that relationships are inaccessible to some until they get older, richer, and a woman settles with them for money and stability to raise a family (or not). No one wants to be settled for. I'd say don't settle for someone who just wants you for your money but, these guys feel they have no other option.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:26 AM
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If you live in Canada, for example the greater Toronto area, most people commute from home to university. The rent is just too damn high in this country and we get paid peanuts. Also many excellent schools in big cities so no need to move.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:22 AM
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At home? What are you, stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:20 AM
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Yeah I'm not saying that just trying to figure out his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:18 PM
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Delusional comment. Only coherent point was the weight and maybe wanting kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:17 PM
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Delusional. If those were your real arguments why not a first or second generation immigrant? They may share your values. But they won't want you because they're already here and have plenty of better choices. You have to go to their country of origin and "passport bro" because they want out, they don't want you, they want a green card and are simply willing to put up with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:14 PM
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His point is that those relationships are meaningless on a societal level, what society needs is more kids as our fertility level is below replacement.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:07 PM
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You're trolling. While short, you are likely decent looking and charming. These blackpillers are often awkward or even neurodivergent, they don't have charm, game, rizz, none of that and may not even be capable of attaining such skills. You have missed the point entirely.
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 01:55 AM
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How, who adds randoms on socials??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:29 AM
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Who adds random people. Tf?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:27 AM
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This is either a salient point or the dumbest thing I've read today and I can't decide which.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:44 PM
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I'm sure while many were stuck in bitter marriages, some grew to like each other, some grew to even love each other. I'm sure quite a few cheated to get what they desired, people for sure made room for emotion and mistakes. We just don't hear as much about the marriages that failed. Maybe it's just my internal cope that millions of people weren't actually stuck in some lonely marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:32 PM
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I agree with you somewhat that it's promoted by the government and church for the stability of family and society, but I will still agree with the above commenter that on the individual level it's really a view promoted by those who know they can't get casual sex, whether it's their fault or the way society is. That, or those who are stuck in some sexless traditional marriage and are bitter about it because they never had the opportunity for good sex and never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:10 PM
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Hmm yes, in the past the masses didn't all have the opportunity to marry the one they love. The rest either had to suppress their love, get it on the side, or never had the opportunity for love and passion in their lives. The institution of marriage was probably promoted by the government and religion to ensure familial and societal stability. As much as lonely people on the internet whine, we live in one of the best times for love.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:23 AM
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Because of cultural norms, familial and societal obligation to marry. Also to raise children in a stable household. Or if your partner is suffering from some mental or neurological illness where they cannot even have an emotional connection with you yet you stick together because your vows are through both sickness and good health.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:20 AM
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You think that's a woman thing? This whole red, purple, black pill nonsense is because men also have an intensely difficult time dealing with their feelings. We're all emotionally driven beings at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:17 AM
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Our logical choices are made to fulfill our feelings. Logic cannot drive you because there is a lack of purpose. Logic tells you how to do X to achieve Y, not what that Y is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:16 AM
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How do you get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:27 AM
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So it's not fully about height then is it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:26 AM
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Because you can afford to be more selective with your dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:39 PM
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Because each woman has different standards? And no one said it was a meritocracy. Trashy women will find trashy men, more news at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:47 AM
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No, children can be borne of a dispassionate session solely for the continuation of the bloodline. Many who believe sex is solely for procreation. But in this case I'm sure both parties possess a desire which they suppressed (even if they don't desire each other in particular).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:47 AM
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Lol just go on the subreddit. What do you think MGTOWs talk about?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:47 PM
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How does doubling your salary help, assuming you weren't poor before? For them to know, did you inflate your lifestyle then? Pull up in a fancy car? Wear lots of jewelry? Or did you change your company or even entire career to something that people outwardly know is high status and lucrative, and then namedrop what you do and where you work?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:06 PM
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Dating up/down and hypergamy refers to socioeconomic status and not looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:03 PM
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It's not just that IMO. Physically a lot of these dudes look fine. They gotta work on the emotional and personality bit for sure. But I also think they simply aren't around women enough hence the recommendation to widen your social circle. It doesn't matter if you're an 8/10 and just work from home, hit the gym, hang out with your two high school buddies every few weeks, you will never meet anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:51 PM
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This. Dudes will go to insane lengths to avoid the fact that the real reason they are single is mental, not physical. More than half of these incels probably look perfectly normal. I'm not saying attractive people can't get further with the same personality as an unattractive person. But still..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:47 PM
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"and call it something different" bro can't read 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:44 PM
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You smell good is something I wouldn't say to a complete stranger bro
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:18 PM
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This is humanities' future, OLD for the few, Flashlights and AI robots for the masses. Bleak.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:13 PM
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I'm just too in my own head to enjoy it, I'll 100 percent look out of place as well like wtf am i doing. If I drink a lot and I mean a ton maybe, but that's not worth it. As for your second point, yes true, fair enough. Still feels weird to do that with someone who's essentially a complete stranger. Logistically it doesn't work either, I don't have my own place and it would be weird at home to stay over at a randoms instead of coming home. I can imagine getting a barrage of calls when with this …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:08 PM
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Watch movies, eat, play ball, occasionally do something different like an escape room or bowling or pool or something like that. Most of my friends don't drink, we don't go to bars, and even if we did is that a social environment or just hang with your friends and drink?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:57 AM
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I can't dance. I feel so out of place. So full of people like I turn and bump into three others. Also people say it's where you find hookups not relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:53 AM
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The original post is about how to meet women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:45 AM
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Canada. What parties? And clubs, nah, idk what to do there. Also many say not the place to find relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:42 AM
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Not where I'm from.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:26 AM
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Lol, most people fall into relationships by chance. Nothing to do with your "advice".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:25 AM
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Who the hell talks to people at grocery stores. Been going to them regularly for decades and this has not happened once.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:23 AM
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..no? People don't randomly talk to each other here. Yeah I often make an effort to at least nod hey or say something at the gym and at work, where we have something in common. Leads me to male acquaintances and friends, doing things like climbing or playing ball, not female acquaintances lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:22 AM
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Yeah I do, make a point to do it even if I don't every single time I see someone at the work or gym. Made some acquaintances and friends. Ok maybe I should actually get more peoples numbers. Okay. For sure I have to initiate more, I hardly do with most groups. I guess I don't believe that I have that pull with them yet. Don't have the initiative either. And now we get to here, all my friends groups are 99% guys. Lol. At the same time I wouldn't say my socialization skills are great, I still feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:18 AM
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It feels kinda rude and random. Like no one randomly approaches me or anyone in public. I'd think they were crazy. The one time someone did they were a Mormon or something. Besides that, there is literally nothing to talk to with a random person outside. How the hell do you even open a conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:11 AM
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Yeah now I have a bunch of guy friends and acquaintances. Then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:05 AM
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Lol then why is singleness and loneliness on the rise? Lol. Lmao even.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:03 AM
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Social status? Who cares what regarded people think. Those girls are irrelevant. Only care about the real ones. No one that matters cares. Your family, your friends, your employer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:51 AM
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2nd lowest status in society? Lmaooo. Touch grass brah.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:39 AM
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Never seen dudes on here talk about wanting a "take-charge", alpha female. Then again, their standards are rock bottom so it checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 03:20 PM
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I think it's that for men, the top qualities they look for in women aren't "strong", "assertive", "confident", or a leader. Not that they don't appreciate that, but I rarely see this discussed. There are clearly different expectations that men and women have from each other. Either it's that or women or more likely to have those qualities than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 03:00 PM
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Is there a way to turn off the part of my brain that gives a fuck, and be more aggressive? Targeted brain damage, perhaps?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:37 PM
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I wish I could be someone else sometimes. But you're right, people can't change. Maybe electric shock therapy, hitting my head, or heroic doses of psychedelics will change me. That or going to war.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:34 PM
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No, but there's only so much you can learn. Such confident and socially skilled people never had to "study" it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:31 PM
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So you cold approach at a party. Wouldn't that be a social life? Isn't that an appropriate situation to do so? Maybe it would be a considered a warm approach idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:28 AM
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They're just saying they disagree that your sample is representative of the population. And even if it is, there is say 10% who are alone and they congregate here. Also, you interact with and know the relationship status of 1,300 other young people? hmm..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 09:06 PM
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I think their point is that there is a silent majority of people online wo aren't dating. Because they are less social, they wouldn't be in your friend group.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:17 AM
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I think a lot of Gen Z people don't even conceptualize going to a place like that by themselves anymore. You go to bars by yourself? And what, just chill? Borderline Gen Z here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:58 PM
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How about the women who go for very rich older dudes. Like it's obvious it's for the money but it's a mutual benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 11:46 PM
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No, just terminally online.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 11:45 PM
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Absolutely. I guess it just doesn't square with the conservative/trad sentiment I see out online. Like many many people on instagram or even Reddit subs will absolutely flame you for saying all this. That one is wrong or lesser or weak for not wanting children, and they will lament the downfall of the west or whatever lol. But religious feelings aside an argument that's hard to refute is the population/demographic collapse, it's not sustainable to have an elderly society if many more people deci…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:09 PM
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What do you think of people saying that's weak. We need children, you're weak for "giving up", ending your bloodline, going against nature, depopulation agenda, etc? And that without building a family modern men and women are just "consoomers".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 07:08 PM
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All I'm saying is that a female individual does not, and should not, need or rely on a male partner to live within society. Nor does a male individual require a female partner. I'm not saying who needs men, who needs women, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:27 PM
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What's your point then? Do you want to ban women from the workforce? Do you support employers discriminating against women? Like what exactly are you going to do about it? Also when you put it that way, working for a wage isn't empowering. But it is empowering in the sense that women don't have to rely on a man. They can leave an abusive household because they can stand on their own. Societies that are largely feminist still have male and female dominated professions. But that's okay because may…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:22 PM
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As a man, what are your needs from a wife then? Why do you NEED anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:39 PM
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Ok they were able to contribute to society. But only in the ways those in power saw fit. Not to their own interests and individual strengths.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:14 PM
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Those were all jobs way before Feminism was a thing. Feminism never replaced the husband with paid men. Do you think every husband was simultaneously a cop, plumber, electrician, and soldier? Did feminism replace wives with paid women, like nurses and teachers? I don't think so. I don't get your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:11 PM
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I'm just saying that is a pathetic reason to have a male only space. Maybe we should have them still, I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:27 PM
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Just wear slightly shorter and shorter lifts every time you see them until you don't need them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 09:33 PM
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Why? Cause y'all are horny, desperate, snake ass bitches? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 09:20 PM
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Why not someone who has both?? It's not an either or thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 09:16 PM
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Ok but the quantity for them is otherwise zero, lol. Might as well lower the bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 09:15 PM
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Maybe it's biological. Will require significant effort to get over if even possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 08:43 PM
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What? How did they deconstruct it? The only thing that was deconstructed was the patriarchy - women don't need a male partner anymore. Because of more explicit factors like they can own property, vote, have a good job and career. And more recently by more implicit factors, they are judged less for staying single, not having children, less of a cultural and family pressure to marry and have kids (it still exists and applies to men as well).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 08:41 PM
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Your taxes are going to males' NEETbux.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:56 PM
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No one deals drugs to be attractive. They're just saying that to SOME women, drug dealers are more attractive than SOME jobs like Walmart greeters. In some places being "hard" is valued. And it's attractive on a primal level. In those places the women may not have the option of a military man. Many drug dealers aren't that rich but if you're higher up the chain it's a more lucrative business.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:12 PM
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Strength, courage, and toughness are attractive. Not a hard concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:48 PM
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💀 wrong. Touch grass or find better people to hang with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 06:27 PM
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No one is calling each other incels and sluts in real life. Please get off Twitter and Reddit. No one even calls each other nerds - I don't recall that insult being unironically thrown around in my whole life. Maybe Toronto Canada is a whole different culture than America but I doubt it. Marketing and media is just that. Media. High school and college portrayed in media is fictionalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:24 PM
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No. Their point was that people looked for qualities like intellect, kindness, whatever else instead of being a "fuckboy" and looking down on "nerds" - according to the OP at least. I think it's not true and a oversimplification at best. But my point here is people were more monogamous and more likely to marry and raise children. There was more pressure by society and family to marry. Women were more dependent on men due to society. In Asia arranged marriages were more common - still are in some…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:21 PM
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In my day to day life who gives a fuck how much sex others are having? Where the hell do y'all live??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:38 PM
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Wouldn't it be the same with the genders reversed?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:38 PM
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Because the earlier generations weren't sexually liberated. They looked for different qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:36 PM
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Virgin teetotaler vs Chad crackhead.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 09:18 PM
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Did they control for other factors? Perhaps the type of couples who would cohabit before marriage are also more open to the idea of divorce in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:25 AM
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Then not you specifically but I'm saying these men gotta opt out of choosing at all like some of the women on here do. Why take just anything? I know it's a hard pill to swallow. More women are truly going their own way unlike "MGTOW".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:27 AM
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Why take what you can get? Do not be desperate. Have standards and keep them if reasonable. I think the fundamental problem is that men are far less comfortable being alone than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:14 AM
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Isn't that up to men to have higher standards for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:38 AM
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What nutritious food did they make unaffordable? Why would they want to make driving and nutritious food unaffordable? How is that helping them? And how is that communism? How is covid fake? Many people got sick and died. The virus is certainly real. You think every single government on earth was magically on the same page somehow and decided to fake it? Lol. It's ok to stand up for men's issues and call out hypocritical behavior by women but why put them down and be misogynistic? You think the …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:15 PM
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openly pushed your family and gender roles The man who has 10 children with many mothers. The man who is an OnlyFans pimp. Totally a man of family values. You're either a die-hard troll or delusional. Please tell me how climate change is going to take away our rights and private ownership? Please tell me how covid is a set up? Many governments will abuse a crisis to take away rights but it doesn't mean the crisis isn't real either. There are hundreds of other people speaking out about the issues…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:53 AM
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LOL. You think Tate is a political prisoner and revolutionary speaking out against the elites. LOL. LOL. LOL. LOLLLL.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:10 AM
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That's just prostitution with extra steps. Would you do that? And it's still not your money even if he buys you fancy things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:35 PM
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How is that turning your back on your parents? You can take care of them but you can create whole new people for them. Children are people not accessories. You have them because you want to raise them and raise them well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:58 PM
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I think their point is that it won't be easy or an instant solution you just have to keep trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:42 PM
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Yeah that's an interesting way to put it, you may be close to and spend time with your parents, siblings, children, and other relatives, you wouldn't consider them your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:16 PM
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Yeah as long as both people are getting what they want. I guess that's more like being roommates, FWBs, or co-parents, no? And if you can't be yourself with your spouse like you are with your best friend why are you together? I'm not talking about two people who are just dating but an actual couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:45 PM
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So you're what then? Roommates and co-parents who smash from time to time? Like some people on here seem to have little interest in spending time with their (potential) partner, they're just obsessed with sex and looks, not what you'll be doing the other 99% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:43 PM
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Why do you deserve commitment then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:29 PM
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I know you're just trying to crack a joke but. Social interaction with men and friendships are gay This is why incels and people in general are lonely lmao. Social interaction centered around getting with a woman instead of making connections with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:27 PM
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Yes but in old age they will have children and grandchildren.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:21 PM
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I think they mean people should take a bit of emotion out of it and be more logical. Humanity needs children. Children need parents. Men and women should get together to raise them. These men and women should have relationships based on compatibility, good character, and child raising qualities. Not lust or irrational feelings. But I also don't think children would be raised right by two people who don't want to be together and who may or may not even want children.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:17 PM
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