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| 1 | How to game as an attractive guy? How to ease intimidation?It happens... but this just puts you in a more advantageous position. When it happens, you have a very clear confirmation that she likes you. So lead her. Just straight up say "I like you, let's hang out X day at X place". The shyer girls that freeze up will appreciate this. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/17 08:53 PM |
| 2 | How to game as an attractive guy? How to ease intimidation?I am indifferent. I leak out aloofness my man. That's because I actually am bored with/apathetic about most things. But you can pretend until it becomes natural (I find that this is a good life strategy. Almost as good as true outcome independence but easier to cultivate). But I'm this way with everyone; every single person I meet. At work this is my reputation. People try to initiate things with me but I suavely diffuse that shit instantly. I'd rather be alone. So when people see me putting in … | /r/askTRP | 29/09/17 07:07 PM |
| 18 | Best way to show intent in a girl other than say it?Body language and sub communications. How you feel around her is communicated (wether by aura magic, mentative currents, or the mirror neurons in our brains and our ability to subconsciously gauge things, you choose) to her. And it's also expressed in your body language. Tactfully eye fucking her + smirking works for me as long as the rest of my body is chill and I'm not faking anything. Just think about what it'd be like to fuck her silly mid-conversation. Then move and act from that feeling. I… | /r/askTRP | 29/09/17 07:01 AM |
| 3 | Why is it that some pretty girls who seem so happy on social media, famous, getting all the likes, are usually depressed on social media?Everyone is human. Beneficial genetics with respect to aesthetics do not magically bless your psychological state. Although being good looking and sad is whack when there are ugly people out there living it up. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/17 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Voice Tonality.Speak like you've run out of fucks to give Stays very neutral throughout, almost monotone. Works great | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 07:05 AM |
| 1 | HB8 gave me her number, definitely wants to fuck, what do I do?Also highly logical, perhaps verging on autistic ;) | /r/askTRP | 24/09/17 10:08 PM |
| 1 | HB8 gave me her number, definitely wants to fuck, what do I do?Stop it man you're making me depressed | /r/askTRP | 21/09/17 05:15 PM |
| 1 | HB8 gave me her number, definitely wants to fuck, what do I do?That's golden , thanks again man. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 09:49 PM |
| 1 | HB8 gave me her number, definitely wants to fuck, what do I do?Gracias bro | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 09:44 PM |
| 1 | HB8 gave me her number, definitely wants to fuck, what do I do?Yeah, where should I go for that? Date first then what? Straight to place for action, no pre-cursor? What kind of place should I go to in any case? She kept bringing up the fact that her and her friends were moving out to a new house. Should I go to her place? She also said "'man We're going to need to break-in this comforter tonight" to her friend right in front of me which to me was like yooo | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 09:28 PM |
| 3 | HB8 gave me her number, definitely wants to fuck, what do I do?I'm retarded for overthinking this shit | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 09:17 PM |
| 1 | HB8 gave me her number, definitely wants to fuck, what do I do?Right. What should I "meet" her for? | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 09:16 PM |
| 2 | HB8 gave me her number, definitely wants to fuck, what do I do?You serious? If you are, that's already functionally terrible, because she won't know who it's coming from. I'm also not her fucking psychotherapist. I'm a man with a penis. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 08:45 PM |
| 3 | So basically I have to do the opposite of every basic beta instinct, be a dick, always escalate, and be as hot as I can, is that it?To do what? Attract women? or to have fun with life and feel better about yourself? That's the critical distinction. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 08:15 PM |
| 2 | monk mode and temporary nofap (limited fapping)? has anyone ever done it?Yeah I did monk mode + NoFap for 80-something days and it didn't really do anything extraordinary. I got in excellent shape, but because I worked out. And I learned some shit because I meditated. NoFap didn't do shit, in fact, I think it killed my sex drive after 3 weeks. As far as NoFap goes, you just don't masturbate and do other stuff instead. For me, that was Olympian-level exercise routines daily (I did not have a job or school at that time). Now I find masturbating every 3-5 days to be an … | /r/askTRP | 14/09/17 05:29 PM |
| 1 | The power of antidepressants, attracting more women via lethargy and lack of care it inducesSame, no one agrees with my life philosophy. I am not on antidepressants, but probably should try some. Keep living life my friend | /r/askTRP | 13/09/17 09:31 PM |
| 1 | The power of antidepressants, attracting more women via lethargy and lack of care it inducesI'm not on antidepressants but I do live a careless, lethargic lifestyle. I do my thing and fuck everyone/everything else. I do get lots of attraction, but 0 pulls or relationships or even friends. Why? My social skills suck (so I don't try), I don't care about most people, and I'm indifferent about this situation of mine. I'm really out here careless as fuck being cool with being a complete loner as long as I can do drugs, meditate, and exercise. If one day a girl wants to fuck me or hang out, … | /r/askTRP | 13/09/17 09:24 PM |
| 10 | Shit Test From HB10... How would you handle?10s do not exist in this dimension | /r/askTRP | 12/09/17 10:24 PM |
| 0 | Girl thinks I've become "mean" ever since I adopted TRP into my lifeYeah I had no experience with women prior to my reading TRP, I still have hardly any, but I'm pretty sure I exclusively give off "fuckboy" vibes because of TRP and because I'm pretty good looking. girls that were really interested in me before TRP (without me trying) are probably really confused about my sudden change in attitude (and not in a good way). My attitude now probably seems fake and overly "game-y". It's not really, I'm just kind of a dick with no game and stopped putting women on a p… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/17 06:40 AM |
| 3 | ADHD, carefree, non-serious, always smiling face hijacking my approaches. I need help!I'm on the opposite side of the spectrum. Hyper masculine resting bitch face Not fun or beneficial, I wish I had your "problem". Keep your face and just strengthen your frame. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/17 06:18 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when you can't stand 99% of people?You can change, it's just extremely hard. Do basic research in the subconscious mind and the self-image. Then read psycho-cybernetics You will then know how to change | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Should I practice running or calisthenics/bodyweight training?You can (should) do both, or replace running with HIIT. Calisthenics won't make you big as much or as quickly as weight training would, but it will do. Doing both calisthenics and some form of "serious" cardio (I highly recommend HIIT) will get you lean as fuck. If you have a good skeletal structure (broad shoulders and angular face mostly ), the lean "not-too-massive" look will do you well. Always run after doing calisthenics. Always do HIIT after calisthenics (you don't want to deplete blood-g… | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 06:21 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else have absolutely no fucking idea what to do with their life?How's it going man... lol | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 06:20 AM |
| 2 | Making male friends at uni?Doesn't matter... if you think is gay, then when you ask for his number your insecurity will violently permeate the surrounding atmosphere. Just be cool about it. But no, it's not generally. Lead into it with something else, though. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 06:14 AM |
| 3 | Anyone else have absolutely no fucking idea what to do with their life?Yeah but it's cool. Just let yourself be led by your desires. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 04:26 AM |
| 31 | I feel like I've lost the ability to love.See love for what it is; an ephemeral reproductive mechanism... Appreciate it for what it is. We should strive to experience beautiful things to their fullest extent, but this becomes an issue when we try to seize and control the thing that brings us pleasure. Don't try to seize that which is transient in nature, this will only bring you suffering and scarcity. So love your dog, fully, but know that it will die. And love your women if you want, just remember, AWALT. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/17 07:53 AM |
| 5 | How do you guys mentally deal with making a big mistake at work or life?Focus on only the things you control (your attitude and words, etc) simply accept all that you cannot control (external consequences and invasive thoughts/worries etc). keep your inner monologue positive when you remember to, and just do your best | /r/askTRP | 04/09/17 06:57 PM |
| 1 | New to game, women aren't shit testing me.I said "alright I gotta go to (nearby outlets) to meet up some friends, but we should hang out some time" and they said "yeah" all girly and shit. Then I got their numbers after some deliberation on what to use for communication (Snapchat or numbers). | /r/askTRP | 04/09/17 03:45 AM |
| 2 | New to game, women aren't shit testing me.I see. Thanks for the help man. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/17 03:33 AM |
| 1 | New to game, women aren't shit testing me.How so? Will do. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/17 03:30 AM |
| 1 | New to game, women aren't shit testing me.I hugged them both when I left, I'll admit that part was a little awkward, but probably "normally" so. I did one thing (which I think was good) which was high five one of the girls (and not the other) when I asked them both a question and only one responded "favorably". She kinda noodle high fived me and let her handle linger on mine as both our hands went down. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/17 03:26 AM |
| 2 | New to game, women aren't shit testing me.I never stated it explicitly, but I think it was plentifully clear implicitly. You're right though, good point, I never made any "clear" moves... I guess I was, ironically, too focused on shit tests. The clearest indication was my eye fucking them and smirking, which I do a lot already so it was easy. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/17 03:19 AM |
| 3 | Should I stop gaming,stop playing videogames as a 16yo?I quit video games all at once about a year ago, no regrets, and I don't feel the need to play them anymore. They're still fun when I come across them, but they're not a part of my life anymore (I don't any systems or a powerful enough PC). | /r/askTRP | 03/09/17 07:28 PM |
| 1 | What music would you say is RP?Tool | /r/askTRP | 31/08/17 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Any Redpillers in Reno, NV?If you're serious PM me then or sooner whatever is cool | /r/askTRP | 31/08/17 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Any Redpillers in Reno, NV?True Especially not with the recent neo nazi shit supposedly going on at UNR | /r/askTRP | 30/08/17 10:34 PM |
| 2 | How to stop from turning MGTOWI'm not recommending this as a permanent solution. But just for enough time to get my shit straight. And getting women off my brain will surely help. Plus I'm starting not to care about a lot of shit (in the least progressive way possible) ... which is how I ended up at a thought such as the one I explained to you. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/17 01:37 AM |
| 2 | How to stop from turning MGTOWAs long as you truly have a mission in life, YesFap will take your mind off women. I'm attractive but my psyche is beyond fucked so the other day I thought "fuck it I can just masturbate to porn whenever I'm horny" and women seemed a lot less attractive, worthy of my time, and problematic then And, ironically, by fapping with the intent of not giving a fuck about women will make your more attractive in the end | /r/askTRP | 30/08/17 01:17 AM |
| 18 | Started reading /r/incelsNone. The majority of guys (or the most vocal guys) are melodramatic and retarded.., all they do is dig the hole deeper for themselves. They call self-improvement "cope". Just their excuse to keep being lazy whiny bitches. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/17 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Is my "social anxiety" really just an incessant need to be liked?Thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/17 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Is my "social anxiety" really just an incessant need to be liked?I see. I'll start dispelling fantasies and see myself for what I am. Thanks for the clarification, hopefully it sticks | /r/askTRP | 27/08/17 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Is my "social anxiety" really just an incessant need to be liked?Fucking sick. I had a similar thought a few weeks ago but did not have faith in it. I will now implement this full-time. Thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/17 10:12 AM |
| 1 | Is my "social anxiety" really just an incessant need to be liked?The insecurities thing, I might try that. Why did you suggest it? I once thought "everyone is human and everyone is insecure and no one is really confident" and that made me more at ease and made me feel more powerful. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/17 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Is my "social anxiety" really just an incessant need to be liked?My ego does get in the way and my external circumstances tease and satiate it via a shitty feedback loop. I look masculine/attractive, my ego tells me that I should be perceived as masculine/attractive, and it bothers me when that is not the case. What do you mean my anxiety is telling me I am wrong? | /r/askTRP | 27/08/17 10:01 AM |
| 2 | Is my "social anxiety" really just an incessant need to be liked?I see. I've been thinking about going the "absolutely no fucks to give" route... What do you suggest that I do? | /r/askTRP | 27/08/17 09:43 AM |
| 2 | Gaining WeightI'm already attractive so being fit didn't impact the amount of IOIs I got (I think). But what did happen was that I got a huge boost in confidence from having the discipline to work out and also from the way I looked and felt. But damn dude, I wish I was you. I would eat so much.... | /r/askTRP | 26/08/17 01:53 AM |
| 3 | What's the most perfect weight loss strategy you came across?One hell of a drug | /r/askTRP | 25/08/17 08:04 PM |
| 0 | What are your experiences with shy girls?aye aye AYE AYE | /r/askTRP | 25/08/17 07:16 AM |
| 1 | What are your experiences with shy girls?I'm an attractive guy. A very cute/feminine "shy" girl sat next to me at an orientation two days ago. I, being a self-improving man, decided to spread myself out (fully cognizant of the implications with respect to this girl being right next to me) for all the benefits that doing that brings. I would say that the fact that I was somewhat "invading" her space was (decidedly) not totally ambiguous to both of us. I, then, just played it off like nothing was abnormal. That's all I did. And, her, in … | /r/askTRP | 25/08/17 05:35 AM |
| 5 | WHY exactly is it considered masculine to speak less?Read somewhere that talking less was linked to having higher testosterone levels Don't know how true that is But I personally have high t levels and don't ever feel the need to say much to answer questions or to explain stuff... or just in general, although I don't know how much the "general" is because of social anxiety. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/17 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Should I just go for it?Thanks man | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 07:53 AM |
| 2 | Should I just go for it?Haha... great analogy. I understand. But is there a need for me to be overtly game-y? Like deploying specific tactics, reacting "correctly" to shit tests, and tuning my behaviors in accordance to her responses? Or can I just be physically attractive and subtly purposive with what I say (with sexuality in mind)? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 07:16 AM |
| 6 | How to actually use your anger and pain as energy and fuel?The "energy" lasts for as long as the ACTUAL anger/pain emotion, so, only a short while. So, in that regard, it's not much better than random "motivation". You'd have to keep "motivating" yourself, or, in this case, angering yourself. So unless you have chronic anger issues, this won't work. And if you do, get that shit fixed. If you're are referring to an "ideological anger" or a thirst for vengeance etc, this will just turn you into a negative bastard over time. Could work, but I'd avoid it. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/17 02:58 AM |
| 5 | How to make the most out of my personal training?Athlean-X on YouTube is all you need if you have a normal body. Just watch his videos on whatever you want to know. Guy knows his stuff. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/17 04:08 AM |
| 4 | Questions about masculinity/testosterone/toughness.My dad attempted to raise me by being a cold, hard, angry, hard-to-please masculine father. The only thing this did was fuck my self-esteem and it made me afraid of trying, irrationally afraid of confrontation, and approval-seeking as fuck. I also probably have minor-to-moderate anxiety. Being raised by my dad was hell-ish. Some days he was cool as fuck, mostly he was brutal and abusive (he once whipped me with a belt for not eating fast enough. I remember that for every 10 seconds that passed o… | /r/askTRP | 15/08/17 03:07 AM |
| 3 | What do you do when your confidence takes a slump?I just go into the shitstorm of feeling like ass full force I go all in it dissipates in a day or a few at most, and along with the dissipation comes some relevant insight usually | /r/askTRP | 15/08/17 01:54 AM |
| 1 | What should my strategy be if a girl is already attracted to me?Great tips. There are things that I find interesting and I can talk about those, but probably not to most people (sciences, self-improvement etc). But there are things I find exciting to do (drugs, exercise, rock climbing etc) which will probably be more relatable. Thing is, it's hard for me to be passionate about anything. Maybe I'm depressed (neurochemically). Maybe it's the fact that I'm probably a psychopath. In either case, I should probably find a passion or something I can be passionate a… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/17 03:53 PM |
| 1 | What should my strategy be if a girl is already attracted to me?The ability to talk to women and 1) have fun 2) have sex | /r/askTRP | 14/08/17 03:50 PM |
| 2 | What should my strategy be if a girl is already attracted to me?That I am seeking to eradicate with the help of TRP, hence the post... | /r/askTRP | 14/08/17 03:19 AM |
| 1 | What should my strategy be if a girl is already attracted to me?Thanks, I do not value this job. You're right. I was attached to the idea of things "working out" and having sex. I should just try to talk to her and see where it goes.... I should just try to fucking TALK and actually have a conversation, lol. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/17 02:07 AM |
| 1 | What should my strategy be if a girl is already attracted to me?Damn, good point. Didn't think about that. I've realized that I see this girl specifically because 1) I'm attracted to her 2) work gives me more to talk about than just "game". | /r/askTRP | 14/08/17 02:05 AM |
| 1 | How to use good looks to my advantage?That's probably my biggest downfall... I don't know shit about what's popular. I will look into that, once again, thanks for the intel. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/17 02:55 AM |
| 1 | How to use good looks to my advantage?I actually thought I was autistic. I did research on it, turn out I'm not. I'm just never learned how to be human . But You're right. Most stuff bores me and I don't know how to be dumb. But I do fucking love adrenaline rushes and drugs and all that typical teenaged shit, but more extremely than most. I'll try going that route. And I'm actually borderline psychopathic (no, really) and was raised by a(n abusive) all-the-way psychopath... what that does for me now is it inspires nothing but disint… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/17 02:41 AM |
| 3 | Do girls of different races give IOIs in different ways? Notice black and Hispanic girls are touchier.I think that the sluttier the girl, the more touchy and flirty she will be. I don't think it's as race-related as you think. Perhaps some races, via their respective cultures, raise some women to be more "open" and "expressive". This may influence their behavior a bit. But the confidence required for girls to be all touchy and shit is most easily (and most frequently) developed by getting fucked. Average-to-uglier girls are typically more touchy because they get fucked more. Attractive girls are… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/17 02:18 AM |
| 1 | How to use good looks to my advantage?hahaha... you're right man. But what do I say? I know I have to not worry about that, but when I do that, I eventually end up being dead silent. To you socializing is stupidly simple, to me it's pretty hard. If I explain why will you help me out? | /r/askTRP | 10/08/17 01:49 AM |
| 2 | So no one here has any idea about making new friends and creating a high status social life?Those that do are out there living that life instead of being here on Reddit | /r/askTRP | 06/08/17 11:48 PM |
| 2 | I have submissive fetishes and I do not want them. Are these innate or can I overcome them?Keep doing NoFap. I did it for ~80 days, and while I got no superpowers from it, the experience resulted in that porn BARELY arouses me now, and I have to be in the right mood for it to do so. I used to be an oiled fat asses guy. Also, provocative pics from instagram don't do much for me anymore. Before I'd pretty much "have" to masturbate after seeing a really hot pic. I really could go for long periods of time without PMO, but recently I've been doing it once every 5 days or so out of sheer bo… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Cutting meal plan?Here's how I cut without worrying about my macros (I got a 6 pack in 1 1/2 months this way, along with the exercise): Make sure you get enough protein from sources with good-to-great protein-to-calorie ratios. Anything above 1:10 P:C is good. YOU probably need around 180-200 g of protein. Make yourself a green juice every morning, look up green juices, make sure you get like 5-7 servings of vegetables in there. Celery, spinach, kale, carrots, beets were what I put in mine. Then just generally ea… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Is making eye contact with strangers creepy? What's the fine line between bold/attractive and creepy?I second that second part. Your internal state effectively projects itself through your eyes. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/17 12:17 AM |
| 2 | Help! Beta dating a 9Was gonna help but, FUCK, use paragraphs dude. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 04:35 AM |
| 1 | TRP LTR breakup advice neededDon't over think it and just be honest. I assume that you are having problems because you know that there are TRP ways to break up with her like an "indifferent, abundance mentality, unapologetic badass" but you can't do that because you don't want to hurt her. So that leaves you with two basic options: 1) Try the TRP way and learn from the experience 2) Be honest, even if it means being a little bit of a sissy by TRP standards. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 04:33 AM |
| 2 | Tips to hit the ground running after monk mode?Nice man. I'm pretty down atm and it was cool to see that you've gotten so much out of monk mode. My advice to you, given the amount of discipline that you have, is to start a specific visualization now. Start visualizing how you'd like to see yourself at the party, and in vivid detail. I'm pretty sure you already know what visualization is and how to do it, but if you don't, there are plenty of sources online to learn how. But the main point is this: You are worried about failing at the party, … | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 04:28 AM |
| 3 | Improving your self confidence without external validation?Visualization. Your brain cannot tell the difference between real and vividly imagined experience. Visualize success, then visualize the validation if you still need to. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Question about realistic placement within the top 20%Social skills are definitely the best thing to improve in order to climb the SMV ranking system;genetics alone are not enough to be top-tier, or even a decent tier. I know this because I am easily top 10-5% genetics wise, but because my internal state is shit, I'm a (nearly) friendless virgin who's never had a gf at age 18 and 7 months. I have no social skills and so I'm bottom tier as fuck. Without social skills you can't make it past a certain (very low) rank no matter who you are, and great s… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/17 10:34 PM |
| 6 | Can i still be a emotional man?"Being in charge" just means that you always do what YOU want to do and you don't sacrifice that easily. You can be emotional as you want, fucking cry when there are full moons, just don't care about what others think. Don't need others to see/acknowledge your "deep emotions" but also don't be afraid to show them. And don't be emotionally needy. Learn to be emotional by yourself. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/17 12:43 AM |
| 1 | How can you become better at story telling?It's simple: Be descriptive and imagine that you're on a stage telling a written story. I don't mean be corny, but DO 1) use intonation 2) pause 3) use gestures 4) be fittingly emotive etc | /r/askTRP | 29/07/17 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Can your SMV be too high?I'm Chad externally (seriously) but an absolute fucking wreck on the inside. I also have a natural, very masculine resting bitch-face. These things about me combined result in automatic and immediate shit tests from any attractive girl I make eye contact with. They see my resting (attractive) bitch face as well as tailored body language and decent style (I do what I can) and I immediately get things that seem like indications of disinterest when they're actually attraction-inspired shit tests. y… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/17 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Using weed to network: good idea or nah?Hang out with them, smoke less weed. Hold it. Abstain it completely if you need to. Do whatever you need to do to successfully reach your goal, which seems to be to expand your social group. Focus on your goal, and if you do so well enough, you'll know what to do. It's not that hard to not smoke. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/17 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Help a brother out with basic game.Ok, how should I basically game the younger girl? Like I said, the older woman I'm not too interested in (but there truly exists a tangible possibility). And yes, I have read the sidebar. I'm somewhere near half-way though the manipulated man. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/17 04:13 AM |
| 0 | Help a brother out with basic game.I disagree, but I definitely see why you think that. I knew posting about my looks would bring me more harm than good, but, on the off-chance that I got an exceptional response from someone here, they'd know to incorporate what I said about my physicality. As I mentioned, my appearance has done lots for me. And, rationally speaking, a 9/10 dude should have different game than a 5/10 dude. You did redeem yourself with some solid advice at the bottom though. I think that is a good idea, don't know… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/17 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Help a brother out with basic game.I will read and re-read it. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/17 04:03 AM |
| -1 | Help a brother out with basic game.I undestand and did see that when I skimmed the side bar. But this is a fast food place that I'll work at for 2-3 months. I will read everything. You have clearly missed the point of my question. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/17 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Help a brother out with basic game.Thanks for the advice. You really think i should just tackle that behemoth side bar? It has fucking books in it and shit, and I have until wednesday on a busy schedule. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/17 03:43 AM |
| 1 | How do you meditate?shua huang hing zang jong motherfucker fuck the names how do you do any of these | /r/askTRP | 17/05/17 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Alternative to lifting for mental control1) Meditation is, hands-down, the best thing you can for mental strength. but HIIT and running at a challenging pace for an extended period of time build up your willpower reserves as well, and willpower is a finite resource. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/17 08:35 PM |
| 1 | First position as a boss, unsure how to actholy shit | /r/askTRP | 16/05/17 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Help with choosing a bankI see, thanks | /r/askTRP | 16/05/17 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Help with choosing a bankThanks man | /r/askTRP | 16/05/17 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Help with choosing a bankAlright, thanks for the advice. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/17 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Help with choosing a bankThanks, is a CC really necessary? And why do you say to avoid bank of america? | /r/askTRP | 16/05/17 12:44 AM |
| 3 | Vasectomy + freezing sperm in your 20s?Vasectomies are god's gift to Red Pillers | /r/askTRP | 15/05/17 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Need some urgent advice: Social anxietyMindfulness Breathing I do this one 10 min daily Do Nothing, longer explanation Do Nothing, more concise explanation I Do Nothing 20 min daily Noting I do Noting 10 minutes daily. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/17 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Need some urgent advice: Social anxietyThanks, and you are right. I guess I am normalizing more than I thought. Here's what my social anxiety/low self esteem did was at it's worst (but it's been similarly bad since beginning of high school, I just was not exposed to self-improvement knowledge until april last year, which made me worse, funnily enough, for the body language shit I mentioned earlier): I'll include tl;dr at the bottom of the story in case it gets too long. Last year (august-ocotber), I was a new kid as a senior in a new… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/17 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Need some urgent advice: Social anxietyI have recovered enough to the point where, a few days ago, I had a job interview at Chipotle (I'm 18). I was the only person out of 8-10 people to get hired on the spot, I got IOIs from a HB8 employee (she also seemed intimidated), and I even got a free meal afterward. I behaved pretty confidently that day, wouldn't say alpha, but very confident. I was only slightly nervous before the 1st interview, but it went away mostly as I started getting into it. I mindset-ed and focused my way through th… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/17 05:53 AM |
| 2 | Need some urgent advice: Social anxietyMeditation takes at least a month to start showing you its beautiful face of benefits. For now just focus on doing it and doing it with willful intent and not as something "you have to do" or you "need to get done". Yeah body language is a BIIIITCH when you're thinking about it. Meditation will help you stop thinking about it, and it will slowly start normalizing. I've gotten better at eye contact just by not thinking about it. Its weird. My theory is that, because mediation helps with focus, an… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/17 05:12 AM |
| 9 | Need some urgent advice: Social anxietySup, fellow external Chad with self-esteem problems. Funnily enough I am also 5'11". I have tried a bunch of shit, a bunch of external solutions to body language problems etc. They have just resulted in me being intimidating/off-putting to men and (probably) creepy to women. Honestly, when your internals are as fucked as mine were/are, nothing external like that will help in the long run.Sure, some days you'll feel like your eye contact "was on point" and your stride was "totally relaxed and in … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/17 04:53 AM |
| 2 | Meditations on a Decade in the Game: What Works?Identity is an on-going mental construct; it's dynamic. You can take over its dynamic nature or you can let it spiral out of control to continue to form the BP idiot the landed on this sub. An identity is not "true" or "false" because there is no set reference point for identity. You were not born to be a certain way, how you are is the summation of all your experiences and how you've reacted to them (and your reaction is based on prior experiences), and all of these influences are largely outsi… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/17 04:29 AM |
| 1 | For the guys that "don't know what to say": Cocky ComedyHe means that attraction is triggered, not decided or created. Basically, you will inevitably "attract" a female with the right mindset/behavior. Being cocky funny/playful+challenging triggers attraction in females. In this view, attraction is a mechanism, not a choice. Attraction is the consequential result to a specific set of behaviors. You are right about someone unattractive not being able to attract hot girls. The trick is to become attractive. Being cocky funny, or at least effectively em… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/17 09:15 PM |
| 1 | For the guys that "don't know what to say": Cocky Comedyidk about the guy, but the stuff is legit. Jason Capital uses the same methods, dudes a beast with women. But he calls it "Playful and challenging" instead of cocky funny. He even explains this in one of his (overpriced) programs. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/17 05:44 PM |
| 1 | For the guys that "don't know what to say": Cocky ComedyIt works no matter who you are. Jason Capital peaches the same shit, but he phrases it better. Think about it as being "Playful + Challenging". Replace cocky funny with playful challenging anytime CF is mentioned in the material, and it will all make better sense. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/17 05:43 PM |
| 11 | For the guys that "don't know what to say": Cocky ComedyDamn, good thing I torrented Jason Capital's "attraction god" because this free-ass, condensed, less flashy PDF is the same fucking shit. Great read. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/17 03:56 PM |
| 1 | A confession and a question about TRP....I'll take that as an indication for me to start reading the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/17 01:49 AM |
| 1 | A confession and a question about TRP.Nice, one last question: Who is GayLubeOil and why does he have that big-ass emblem by his username? | /r/askTRP | 12/05/17 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Solid, insightful books to read ?Gorilla Mindset is a short, really practical book that helped me out big time. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/17 01:45 AM |
| 1 | A confession and a question about TRP.Just in recognizing that, without reading anything yet, I think I've made a valuable insight. If women constantly seek a higher value man, then I should constantly seek to increase my value and maintain it, which I am doing on my own for self-improvement anyway. If that is true and in-line with TRP, then I think I'll have an easy time swallowing the pill. And even if women are fucking horrible (probably not), I appreciate the lucidity that that knowledge will give me. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/17 01:43 AM |
| 1 | A confession and a question about TRP.You are right about the cowardice, thanks for the advice. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/17 01:41 AM |
| 1 | A confession and a question about TRP.I see, thanks for the insight. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/17 01:33 AM |
| 1 | A confession and a question about TRP.Will do, is the side bar "in order" from top-to-bottom? If not, what do you recommend I read first, or what is, in your opinion, the most essential/fundamental piece? | /r/askTRP | 12/05/17 01:32 AM |
| 1 | A confession and a question about TRP.I see, that shouldn't be an issue for me, then. Looks like I'm ready to dive in. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/17 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Advice for dealing with a chronically negative mindset?I want to thank the fuck out of you for recommending Gorilla Mindset to me. I just got done with chapter 5, and I really feel my mindset transforming. THANK YOU. May your plates be hot and plentiful and may your baby mammas non-existent. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/17 09:07 PM |
| 2 | I farted where I am about to work, but I know not to shit there, so what do I do?Thank you brother. This was what I was looking for. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/17 08:59 PM |
| 1 | I farted where I am about to work, but I know not to shit there, so what do I do?why hindi ? xD | /r/askTRP | 11/05/17 08:06 PM |
| 1 | I farted where I am about to work, but I know not to shit there, so what do I do?I will try to game them without any actually intent to see how it goes. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/17 04:11 PM |
| 1 | I farted where I am about to work, but I know not to shit there, so what do I do?Right, thanks. I don't want to lose frame, that would be weak. This is just a different type of shit test. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/17 04:09 PM |
| 2 | How to stop Over-ThinkingI do that one, but just focusing on the breath through the nostrils. This one I do for 10 minutes daily, as I've only recently started doing this. I consider this one good for developing foundational mindfulness. I also Do Nothing This one I do because it seems to do for me something that mindfulness meditation does not and is stupidly easy. I do this for 20 minutes daily, and I have been doing this one longest. I also do Noting This one works on mindfulness, but it is said to bring insights and… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/17 04:34 AM |
| 3 | How to stop Over-ThinkingKeep meditating, and don't stop until the day you die. Make meditation a priority. Read Gorilla Mindset. Read Psycho-cybernetics. Read The Power of Now. Apply the fuck out of those books. Once you done those things, you should be practically free. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/17 04:12 AM |
| 2 | I farted where I am about to work, but I know not to shit there, so what do I do?I have high SMV, that's the main reason I suspect they "won't cool down" and by that I mean that the IOIs will continue, which leads me to my next point. When given IOIs, I either blatantly dismiss and ignore the girl (when I don't want to fuck) or flirt back. The first option results in generally negative relations, the second option results in escalation. I don't know how to deploy a "middle ground". Reason is I went from social outcast to game-and-frame-boy 3000. I never learned how to be pla… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/17 04:00 AM |
| 1 | I farted where I am about to work, but I know not to shit there, so what do I do?True, thanks. I'll maintain frame, but what should it be generally? | /r/askTRP | 11/05/17 03:59 AM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread May 10One of the greatest albums of all time | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/17 06:14 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread May 10Ah, never looked at it this way. Thanks for the tip. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/17 06:00 PM |
| 5 | askTRP Megathread May 10How to be successfully aloof with both men and women? I have realized I can't fake interest, and I'm fairly disinterested in most people, so how can I be that way effectively? Aloofness, after all, pulls bitches right? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/17 04:49 PM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread May 10Find another facial expression, start using. The subconscious is all about repetition. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/17 04:03 PM |
| 1 | I Found A Glitchhahaha, awesome, and badass | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/17 03:55 AM |
| 2 | Is getting back into facebook worthwhile?You sound "older" (25+) so Facebook for you is as valid as anything else, it may even be your best bet. Yes, you can clean your Facebook, do it. Fuck what anyone else thinks. Facebook is for you want people to see anyway. The truth is no one cares about your individual profile as much as you think. The only people who do are a) exes (fuck them) b) your mom c) potential new friends/mates who haven't even seen your shit yet, so clean it up. But if you're not "older," try twitter and instagram. Bot… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/17 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Is there a risk to overdo the TRP theory?yeah you may drown in pussy | /r/askTRP | 09/05/17 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Not interesting enough to keep her entertained?She seems to be way less interested/invested than you are. She, therefore, has all the power. "He/she who cares less (in the relationship) has the power". This is why you're doing this and worrying etc while she seems to be just chilling. The solution, then, is not to get her to invest more necessarily, YOU just need to invest less than her (which will likely result in her investing more anyway). So get more bitches, amplify your abundance mindset, and realize that this girl is just one in a mil… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/17 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Embarrassment?Those are external circumstances. You ultimately cannot control how people will react or what they will say. Instead, take control of your internals. Stop caring about it, if you stop, they will too, even if they ask. "Yo what's up with your skin you fucking mole rat lmao wtf nasty motherfucker" in confident, indifferent, self-assured tone "It's a condition I have, relax, it's no big deal" "oh right on" | /r/askTRP | 08/05/17 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill tips for job interview?Thank you | /r/askTRP | 08/05/17 02:28 AM |
| 2 | How tough is it for a guy to go from being a 25 year old virgin to being a slayer?Not that hard. You are imagining that it is harder than it is. Follow TRP and you'll be slaying in no time. I realized on an LSD trip that to get out there and fuck bitches, all you need to do is get out there.... then fuck bitches. It's really that fucking simple. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/17 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Embarrassment?Stop thinking like you do about yourself. People will look at it funny for a second, but how they perpetually perceive it is up to you. If you don't give a fuck, they won't. If you do, they will. The golden rule is "nothing is a big deal unless you make it a big deal". Plus you're making me think you look like one of those zombie things from Fallout, but I doubt you look anything like that. YOU made me think that and I haven't even seen you. That's some fucked up shit. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/17 02:17 AM |
| 0 | Younger guys (< 30) of TRP, what troubles you or worries you most about getting older? Older guys of TRP, what do you have to say about those troubles and worries?I am good-looking, masculine-looking, and my voice is deep as fuck. I'm not an alpha internally, but at first glance (after some body language modifications on my part) people treat me like one. Once I start behaving like one fully I'll be swimming in bitches and status. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/17 02:14 AM |
| 0 | Younger guys (< 30) of TRP, what troubles you or worries you most about getting older? Older guys of TRP, what do you have to say about those troubles and worries?My SMV gives ME potential. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/17 01:46 AM |
| 0 | Younger guys (< 30) of TRP, what troubles you or worries you most about getting older? Older guys of TRP, what do you have to say about those troubles and worries?What do you mean? | /r/askTRP | 08/05/17 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Not interesting enough to keep her entertained?1) Don't give a fuck about and don't be made uncomfortable by silences and the problem disappears. 2) Don't fill the gaps, that's the woman's job. 3) Have no standards for conversation. You can talk about literally ANYTHING, as long as you're cool, indifferent, and confident about it. 4) create something to do, especially if you like the girl. LEAD her into something. Is nothing happening? Escalate on her non-suspecting ass. Just make sure the existing relationship allows for such a thing and th… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/17 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Why cant i focus on my studyStudy what? School work? Just fucking hammer through it, read/repeat the info enough and it will stick, that's just how the brain works. It will be grueling and boring, but you have to just do it. But if you're talking about studying self-improvement, then, to put it simply, you're in idiot if you don't study that shit just because you're not feeling it. To grow himself is a man's mandate. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/17 01:21 AM |
| -2 | Younger guys (< 30) of TRP, what troubles you or worries you most about getting older? Older guys of TRP, what do you have to say about those troubles and worries?I'm 18, still a virgin, but my SMV has insane potential. I'm concerned about getting to alpha-tier levels of personality, confidence, focus and frame by age 20, especially since my SMV "demands" these things. I'm also concerned about not "making it big" in life some way in my 20s. I'm afraid of being 30 period, lol. But I don't let these things bother me. Instead, I focus on today and being better than yesterday. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/17 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Redpill local groups? Anyone from San Diego?Im from SoCal, and I'd be willing to drive around every once in a while for meet ups or gaming together or talking life strategies etc. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/17 01:05 AM |
| 5 | How important are shoes?sock game... lol, the shit we do to get laid. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/17 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Advice for dealing with a chronically negative mindset?Gorilla Mindset looks badass, thanks for the recommendation | /r/askTRP | 05/05/17 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Advice for dealing with a chronically negative mindset?Right now my focus is to love myself so much that validation/confirmation/anything from other people becomes worthless, and at that point, I will finally stop seeking those things from others consciously and subconsciously. At this ultimate point, I will finally have the right foundation to build absolute social freedom on. I'll say, do, think whatever the fuck I want at all times without worrying A) about other people B) about what will happen to or with them. I am caring less about what people… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/17 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Advice for dealing with a chronically negative mindset?Fuck, good question. I can't tell you what they are exactly, because I'm not sure. But they keep me from doing a lot of shit. I do and am all these amazing things, and yet I don't feel confident or even happy. I think people would be super confident and happy if they had and did all that I do. I'm very good looking, smart as balls, have a great physique, I exercise lots, eat very well, meditate daily, read daily, etc. Despite those things, I can't move forward. And if I don't do every one of tho… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/17 04:30 AM |
| 1 | How to be more charismatic and friendly when talkative?Yes, but don't limit yourself to TRP. The world of self-improvement is huge. navigate it, but with caution | /r/askTRP | 05/05/17 03:58 AM |
| 6 | How to be more charismatic and friendly when talkative?It is crucial that you, ultimately, do not give A FUCK about coming across charismatic. From this, the most powerful charisma is born. Make sure that you're internally sound as well. love yourself unconditionally. Be confident in yourself. Focus only on yourself, on learning, improving, on experiencing fully, etc. Be sure that you are a strong human being first. Then read more books like the charisma myth. If you're a badass human being first, that'll be all you need. But books like the one you … | /r/askTRP | 05/05/17 03:28 AM |
| 10 | What are some of your go to escalation moves?In 1-on-1 conversations: 1)Establish a sexual mood. Be having fun. Be sure the interaction as a whole is generally positive. 2) Get her to talk about herself (or about anything, really, but about herself is best) for a decent amount of time. You're going to need some time, so ask her an open ended question or something. 2) if you like her, imagine vividly what it would be like to fuck her senseless 3) Feel the horniness/emotions 4) Once you're charged up, gaze deeply into her and let your face d… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/17 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Who should I be at my (entry-level) job?Thanks man, I appreciate it. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/17 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Who should I be at my (entry-level) job?I won't be fired immediately for not being stereotypically "friendly," then? | /r/askTRP | 04/05/17 11:43 PM |
| 1 | If you had to nominate a song to be the TRP theme song...what would it be?Yellow - Coldplay | /r/askTRP | 04/05/17 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Do any of you purposely conceal your SMV?lol what the fuck | /r/askTRP | 04/05/17 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Relationship with a woman 10 years older: bad idea?No, and, in general, if you're not 100% sure about a girl, do not ever LTR her. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/17 12:48 AM |
| 5 | How can I try again?FUCK that bitch, if you want your kids, take em, but keep that bitch away. You should not forgive her for cheating on you, period. Do not get back with her. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/17 11:15 PM |
| 1 | HyperactivityTry a dynamic meditation | /r/askTRP | 01/05/17 10:28 PM |
| 3 | Does this work?The basic trick is to make it look like your life is 100 times better without her. Make your life much better, and make sure she notices. She will want you back, surely. But if you really do make your life that great, you won't want her anymore, and you shouldn't, anyway. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/17 02:48 AM |
| 4 | Ever notice the diff between women vs betas vs alphas in youtube tutorial videos?I have not noticed this, any examples? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/17 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Acute fracture in my foot. How can I keep active in this situation?Look up all the exercises available for the areas you want to target and simply avoid all the ones that involve the foot you injured. You are making this harder than it needs to be. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/17 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Why do they say tall "dark" and handsome and looking "exotic" is a good thing when most hot girls in their prime prefer blonde men?Key words there are tall and handsome. The dark thing is about a human's desire for novelty. In a sea of white people, an attractive mexican dude will get a lot of attention. But in any case, don't listen to shit you "often hear". Most people (especially women with respect to the men they want) don't know what the fuck they're talking about. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/17 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Is being too smart a disadvantage?what the fuck... you sure it's 98% under 120? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/17 07:47 PM |
| 3 | TiredYou may be smoking too much Indica, Jake420Blaze. If not then you're sick or some shit. Chemically depressed maybe. If the symptoms continue for longer than 1 week, see a doctor. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/17 03:38 AM |
| 3 | Why is it that girls always act awkward and weird around me? They don't say anything to me and often I suspect that they're thinking about me naked or something? Why is it always awkward?Your question is basically "why are girls awkward around me?" There could be 1000000000000 reasons for that. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/17 03:31 AM |
| 4 | Why is it that girls always act awkward and weird around me? They don't say anything to me and often I suspect that they're thinking about me naked or something? Why is it always awkward?Without context, this question is impossible to answer. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/17 03:28 AM |
| 24 | Is being too smart a disadvantage?Seems like those guys don't give a fuck, whereas you seem to give too many fucks about what others are doing and how they're doing those things. Not giving a fuck= attractive. Also, frat guys usually have more social prowess and status than your typical guy, so you can imagine they have decent game, even if they don't know what game is. Be more like those guys, give less fucks. Give less fucks about fucking girls and do your own things like those guys and their drugs and frats. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/17 03:26 AM |
| 1 | You're first redpill momentI once interrupted a girl's passionate rant about her pastimes by saying 'god, you're such a jixer," as if she'd said something that put me off, then looked away in the most aloof, indifferent way possible. The conversation died. Jixer isn't a real word (made it up on the stop). After class she followed me out and starting qualifying her shit to me like crazy, and I didn't even know her name. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/17 11:05 PM |
| 1 | You're first redpill momentUpon reading redpill stuff, realizing that my dad is dark triad and that my mom is the stereotypical attractive woman that a majority of redpillers have come to despise 18 years after my birth, my mom "still loves" my dad, my dad doesn't give a fuck, and my mom is with some ultra beta provider motherfucker. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/17 11:01 PM |
| 3 | How to develop a love for reading?Read stuff you like, or read about inspiring people, or read about self-help. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/17 12:08 AM |
| 3 | How does one achieve happiness, and what does it feel like?A lot of meditation. Saying happiness is "internal" is cliche, but it is absolutely true. The present moment is the only source of lasting happiness there is. Be in it, fully, without judgement, and you will find happiness (contentment). Self-improvement is paradoxical in this way. Think of all the shit you're do daily so that "one day" you will be better, stronger, more confident, happier. What about right now? Why are you not happy/unhappy right NOW? Right now is all you'll ever have. Just acc… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/17 09:48 PM |
| 4 | Morning wood, Nofap, testosterone and diet. Why don't I have any morning boners?I'm 28 days into NoFap and don't remember any morning boners, except for this morning. I lift weights daily and alternate between jogging and sprinting daily. I eat a protein-rich diet that is deliberately deficient in calories. I eat enough vegetables. I suspect my testosterone is higher than average (I'm a hairy motherfucker, have a deep voice, broad shoulders, angular face). I think the lack of boners is as a result of y(our) porned-up brain normalizing and not getting a boner as a result of … | /r/askTRP | 26/04/17 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Music festival openers"hey... :)... wanna hit this?" | /r/askTRP | 26/04/17 03:28 AM |
| 7 | Is Nofap worth it? (Lost my sex drive)"Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, pause, and reflect." Normal folks jack off, but normal folks (also) don't get laid too often. I'm no day 27, I think it is worth for a few reasons, but mostly, because it "reboots" your likely fucked reward circuit. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/17 03:27 AM |
| 0 | after redpill victory, now what?Success is not an external destination, it is an internal mechanism. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/17 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Types of laughs during cold approach? How to read her eyes?Come in with more obvious/stronger intent, make it clear that you're trynna smash. Then her acceptance/reluctance will be obvious. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/17 04:19 AM |
| 7 | Seen a cute girl in the library and left her a note asking for her number when she went to the toilet. When she got back she opens the notes and looks at me with disgust lol I don't know what I did wrong I mean I'm a decent looking guy and wouldn't that be a compliment to her ?She thought it was creepy; you had to be watching her to know she went to the toilet. Also, what you did indicates low confidence, which is unattractive. You didn't mean for it to be creepy but that's how she perceived it. | /r/seduction | 24/04/17 10:14 PM |
| 6 | How to drop all anxiety and ramp up levels of energy and excitement?Meditate to learn how to truly focus, then focus on good stuff. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/17 03:54 AM |
| 9 | Need man to man advice, quickGET THE FUCK OUT OF THERE. Struggle it out, become independent. It's one of the most emasculating things you can do. If you're in SoCal, I'll move in with you. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/17 02:58 AM |
| 2 | What's everyone's view on LTR's?They're what you will fall back on when you can't get other bitches. Or what you fall back on when you think you can't do better than the girl you currently have. This is the way I see it for any decent looking man with game who is not looking to have kids. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/17 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Should I focus on improving my SMV until I'm able to attract girls I actually want to fuck (8,9,10s)?Then figure out why you suck with attractive girls, and then stop sucking with them. If you have the inner game, high SMV won't help you too much. Instead of attacking the problem in a roundabout way with improving SMV, figure out why it is that you suck with hot girls specifically. If you have the inner game, figuring out this specific problem be all you need. But, of course, improve your SMV anyway, but not as a means to magically stop sucking with hot girls. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/17 02:26 AM |
| 1 | I'm surrounded by betas and negative environnementMove out, struggle it the fuck out, but move out. There is lots of learning in hardship. Or you can struggle like I am doing to change yourself while constantly being bombarded with negativity and counterproductivity. It works, but it takes much longer. If you live in SoCal or want to come here, I'll move in with you, as all my surroundings are also beta. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/17 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Should I focus on improving my SMV until I'm able to attract girls I actually want to fuck (8,9,10s)?Yeah, and "inner game" as well to rid yourself of "sucking with attractive girls," because they're the same as non-hot girls. The only exception to this rule is the high status, elusive 10, which may or may not exist in this dimension. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/17 02:22 AM |
| 1 | is 5'11" a good height?TLDR You are defending something worthless, too fiercely, from some random motherfucker on the internet. I recommend not taking things so seriously. Thanks for the your analysis, I could probably learn something from it, but I don't need your false psychology. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/17 05:46 PM |
| 1 | is 5'11" a good height?You just seem way too angry altogether. Before I knew TRP, I was about general self-improvement (legit psychology, introspection, etc). It seems that you need less TRP and more holistic improvement. I get that you're trying to maintain your frame most likely, but you come off as incredibly angry in the process. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/17 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here on nofap?I'm on it. 3 weeks today. The confidence boost seems to be real. I also feel slightly more self-assured each day. But the biggest reason I do it is because PMO fucks with your brain, especially the porn. It fucks your reward-curicuit, which will make you lazy, dissatisfied, etc. Seems to be common among TRP-ers to hate on NoFap, but it definitely has merit. Do it. At least quit porn. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/17 11:52 PM |
| 1 | is 5'11" a good height?Very true! That's why I ask religious grocery store workers about space-time determinism. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/17 08:05 PM |
| 1 | is 5'11" a good height?It really pissed you off that I said I was a masculine sexy beast, huh? | /r/askTRP | 19/04/17 07:15 PM |
| 1 | is 5'11" a good height?Are you suggesting that with inner strength I will be PHYSICALLY imposing? While that is true, it is not what I am looking for. Regular advice for good body language results in weird shit for me like people thinking I do MMA 24/7 or that I hate the world. People still are submissive to me, but out of intimidation. This is bad because taller guys (6'2" and up) want to pick fights with me. I want to alleviate that issue while still being "physically imposing" in a "good" way. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/17 05:40 PM |
| 0 | is 5'11" a good height?you're offended? on the internet? What the fuck dude, if you're on TRP you have just done a 180 (in the wrong direction) you fucking trigger-warning, safety-space feminist. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/17 05:29 PM |
| 1 | is 5'11" a good height?It is true that I am seeking a form of validation, but from TRP and not some BP male or a girl who I know is attracted to me anyway. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/17 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Living in a new city and trying to meet girlsYou're going to have to cold approach. Let go of needing to say witty shit. Just say whatever confidently, it works. If you're still worried, expect to fail a lot first, be ok with it. Also, make some friends. Then you can go to bars, festivals, all kinds of places without feeling weird. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/17 05:46 AM |
| 2 | I only trade sex for sex, but how about blowjobs?"You get to enjoy my dick in your mouth" in the most indifferent, self-assured tone you can speak in. Then stick it right in. This only works if you've been similarly ballsy/confident in the past. If she's been asking for a while, when she asks again throw in a very slight hint of (playful) frustration when you bust out the line, as if you're tired of her asking. I think it will work. Props for getting a 21 year old at your age. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/17 05:41 AM |
| 1 | is 5'11" a good height?thanks | /r/askTRP | 19/04/17 04:03 AM |
| 6 | is 5'11" a good height?lol, fucking girls man. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/17 03:59 AM |
| 1 | is 5'11" a good height?I really hope you're correct about the 95%. My biggest concern was not being taller than at least 90% of girls with heals on. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/17 03:28 AM |
| 1 | is 5'11" a good height?:) | /r/askTRP | 19/04/17 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Will I become too boring?thanks, you been to burning man? | /r/askTRP | 17/04/17 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Will I become too boring?My dad is clinically psychopathic, pretty sure I am too... | /r/askTRP | 17/04/17 05:02 AM |
| 2 | Would telling a girl I've seen her youtube make her think I'm a stalker?"people date up or across, never down" | /r/askTRP | 14/04/17 08:19 PM |
| 1 | hot girl literally flaunting her ass at me, but I have 0 game, what do I do?That's the thing, I'm very rarely invested emotionally in anything. So I have lots of experience in pretending to care and being fake-nice and all that (I thought this was what manners were), but I fucking hate to do that. I've come to realize that I should just keep my indifference but be genuine/honest about it. I think I can do that easily, but I'll have to develop some finesse to come off confident/attractive and not offensive. Any general tips on how to do that? | /r/askTRP | 09/04/17 06:36 PM |
| 1 | hot girl literally flaunting her ass at me, but I have 0 game, what do I do?Thanks | /r/askTRP | 09/04/17 06:29 PM |
| 1 | hot girl literally flaunting her ass at me, but I have 0 game, what do I do?This is something I've found out by meditating my balls off for months, it's not something I pride myself in believing. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/17 06:28 PM |
| 2 | hot girl literally flaunting her ass at me, but I have 0 game, what do I do?I've had a huge realization, probably as a result of what you've said. In a nutshell, the no confidence indifference I've had my whole life comes off douchey, but confident indifference I think will work for me (great source of negs, if nothing else). I thought that I'd have to change myself fundamentally to be socially acceptable. Thanks a lot man, I feel like a weight has been lifted from my shoulders and like 100 muscle tensions have dissolved. I feel like I want to talk to people now :) | /r/askTRP | 09/04/17 07:23 AM |
| 2 | hot girl literally flaunting her ass at me, but I have 0 game, what do I do?So it is true that bullshit spoken from a confident, indifferent place is passable? I believe I have the indifference/apathy down (as I've alluded to slightly), but I'm never "confident" about it. If it is true that all I need is to keep my indifference and change my tone/vocal inflection a bit to seem confident (until it comes naturally), I'm certain that I can get rid of all the rappor-seeking bullshit habits on monday straight away. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/17 07:11 AM |
| 2 | hot girl literally flaunting her ass at me, but I have 0 game, what do I do?I think my issue is the decent person bit. Like I said, I think that with confidence and all that, I'll just end up as an "asshole" anyway. I have a hard time genuinely caring about what people are saying most of the time, and I am not at all interested in talking about myself in conversation. I have tried the "asking about others" thing, but I am still bored and feel disingenuous while I'm at it. The only times I feel like talking are when something I like is the topic or if I want a girl. Howe… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/17 07:01 AM |
| 1 | hot girl literally flaunting her ass at me, but I have 0 game, what do I do?I should add that I have a hard time making male friends who are not obviously submissive to me. All the non-nerds are intimated/threatened by my resting bitch-face, so I just avoid them. How should I be friendly without being supplicating to alleviate this? | /r/askTRP | 09/04/17 06:55 AM |
| 2 | hot girl literally flaunting her ass at me, but I have 0 game, what do I do?Gracias bro. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/17 06:52 AM |
| 2 | hot girl literally flaunting her ass at me, but I have 0 game, what do I do?I don't think that purposefully, I really like all the stupid shit "dumb" people do, I just have it somehow ingrained it me that I am weird because I am smart. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/17 06:49 AM |
| 2 | is it true that material things are worthless anyway?Not worthless, but not necessary for what they're assumed to bring you (happiness). You can probably read a shit ton of philosophy about it, but this truth comes from meditating, being present/accepting, etc. It's not a spiritual thing either, a lot of it is rooted in our neurology (reward-circuit, endorphins systems, etc) | /r/askTRP | 09/04/17 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Misplaced ThoughtsI recommend meditation. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/17 12:33 AM |
| 5 | Got any advice on meditation?Ditch the music. To step it up, simply increase the time for each session. 10 min each session is pretty measly, 20 minutes is usually the "general good baseline". If you want to increase hardcoreness, try noting and/or Do Nothing. I stared with Do Nothing (20 minutes 1x day), Mindfulness breathing (5 min 1 or 2x day), and Noting (5 min 1 or 2x day). I started with Do Nothing, and then added time to the other methods as I got better. Breathing is good for what you'd expect (Mindfulness/Focus/Con… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/17 12:32 AM |
| 3 | SMV about to take a major hit...Not giving a fuck about the opinions of others = successfully owned. and either case, no one really gives that much of a shit about someone being in the boy scouts. They'll bag on you more as a result of their own insecurity and wanting to "fit in". | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Getting aggressive vibes from female coworkers recently, how do I approach this without stirring the pot?What would I do? I'd fuck them all. But, I suggest you just be firm when needed. That is, when their bullshiting interferes with work, be direct and call them out on it. Not in a playful way, but in a firm, serious, "professional" manner. Otherwise, just ignore their shit. I like how you dealt with the "why does it matter?" question. Keep it that way. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/17 03:44 AM |
| 10 | What do you a tell a girl when she thinks she's special?"Chill out, you're not special, you just have a nice (insert body part here)" She sounds insufferable as fuck. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/17 02:56 AM |
| 2 | how much does having a good face help you when you're otherwise unskilled at picking up women?Im as tall as you, but I'm very attractive, and more athletic physique-wise, but not buff. I'm also much younger, but we look the same age if what you're saying about your appearance is true. In my experience, looks give you a head-start, more attention, blatant IOI's, and more opportunities to fuck up (you can have crappier game in general). This is true regardless of where you visit. The only thing that changes is your strategy for where you visit. At a bar/club, you'll need to have game, but … | /r/askTRP | 02/04/17 11:41 PM |
| 3 | What are your views on RATING Women?While this scale is more logical/realistic and is also preferable, no one uses it, so you might as well just stick to the regular one. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/17 08:42 PM |
| 3 | How to stop giving a fuck about what people think?Meditation is a great tool for these kinds of things. Worrying about what people think is a form of neurosis/overthinking, and meditation will help in relieving you of both of those things. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/17 10:22 PM |
| 2 | How to stop giving a fuck about what people think?my nigga Leo :) | /r/askTRP | 01/04/17 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Retrospective Saturday.Trust yourself and your future, and be present. It's not one, it's both. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/17 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Advice on deeply rooted blueismMeditate and read TRP. I'd also recommend reading Psycho-Cybernetics. With meditation, if you do not get rid of the bad thoughts, you will at least be unphased by them. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/17 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Struggling with body image (Skinny)Calisthenics, and read Psycho-Cybernetics to help with your self-image problems. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/17 05:51 PM |
| 6 | Succesful night out and reminder of TRP mentalityCuando entro al cuento me pongo violento | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/17 05:47 PM |
| 26 | How do YOU have fun in your free time? (pls help im clueless)Learn a martial art. Meditate for long enough and meditation becomes actually fun. Play a instrument Write Draw Go Outside If nothing else, go fuck some bitches. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/17 08:51 PM |
| 5 | My dad is naturally Dark-Triad.I get that you're joking but I intended this post to be serious. Guess I should've known better but.... my dad is 6'4" ;) | /r/askTRP | 31/03/17 07:57 PM |
| 2 | My dad is naturally Dark-Triad.My dad, who is older now, has been sleeping around with women 20 years younger than him as well. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/17 07:55 PM |
| 7 | Looking for advice handling a shit testI usually leave chicks like these. Go get some more. Remember, you are the chooser; you don't chase, you go choose. Just say some shit to amuse yourself with, and if she bitches, move on. I agree with the "Anal?" suggestion, lol. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/17 09:11 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think about the MGTOW sub?Was wondering what the difference is between TRP and MGTOW, and your final sentence explained it perfectly. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/17 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Tight ass cheeksThanks | /r/askTRP | 30/03/17 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Tight ass cheeksInteresting that you mention the jail thing, because before today, I thought my clenched ass cheeks were a manifestation of a subconscious tension/insecurity... or of a fear of being spontaneously raped. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/17 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Tight ass cheeksInteresting, thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/17 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Can you get younger hot girls as an older guy?Looks are definitely important, without a doubt. But they aren't everything. Attitude is (also) a HUGE component. Make yourself a god internally, then raise your status, and you'll get all the bitches. In High School, especially senior year, I was an attractive guy; I was decently tall (5' 11"), was widely perceived as the smartest guy in the school, and I also have a deep voice. Those who didn't know me frequently said "damn, you must get a lot of girls". But the truth is, I was a virgin and gi… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/17 11:51 PM |
| 9 | How can one grow up, from a boy to a man?It's about conquering yourself, and then conquering the world. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/17 11:40 PM |
| 2 | Theory Question: How do women seduce?From my own experience, it's feminine behavior. Once a HB7.5 came up to me randomly in class and asked "Do you need hep with anything?" She did this while batting her eyelids, looking at me intently with pretty eyes, crossing her legs and having her arms combined into a v shape with the vertex formed with her hands clasped down by the crotch region. It was a very cartoony, flirty, feminine mannerism, but FUCK did it work on me. There were hotter girls in the school, but I never forgot the impres… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/17 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Im only confident when im horny. Any help?Yes, go out immediately after jacking off and while reeking of semen. Seriously though, prove to yourself that you don't need to be horny to be confident; go out anyway. You'll suck at first, but accept that. "You gain confidence through competence." many people are as awkward or more than you are while not-horny (and even while horny), but they get out and learn this shit anyway. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/17 06:18 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with disrespect?Be truly abundant and just walk away, either physically or metaphorically, from those who maliciously, consistently, or deliberately disrespect you. Go make new friends. If it's spontaneous or from strangers, learn to be truly unaffected by it. I think, then, you'll deal with it easily. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/17 06:12 PM |
| 5 | Oneitis dumped me, started eating everything, bacame fat sob, smv tanked=no bitches -> found trp, decided I needed to change, went monk mode to raise smv and find myself. What do you think? Am I ready to get back out there?If you think your ability to go out there is more dependent on how you look externally vs how you feel internally, then you've got some work to do on the inside. But you're never not ready to get out there and experiment. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/17 05:46 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about Jason Capital?In my opinion, a great guy to learn game and life starts from. Google him. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/17 02:55 AM |
| 3 | Any videos or posts that helped you with the way you speak/ walk?Generally: 1. Do everything more slowly, A LOT more slowly. You can move a lot more slowly than you normally do and still look normal (and more confident/deliberate). You can also speak a lot more slowly and achieve the same effect. 2. Maintain an "open," relaxed, and upright posture in anything you do. It's as simple as that. Don't force shit. Be natural. 3. Learn to breath and speak diaphragmatically for vocal power. This will force you to speak slower as a bonus. 4. Don't do anything unnecess… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/17 02:22 AM |
| 1 | My personal growth in 1 year: Went from losing my virginity to getting an HB10 girlfriendGood shit my man :) | /r/seduction | 15/03/17 02:52 AM |
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