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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 0 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit ItWhat load of bullocks. Another man trying to humble women AGAIN and then proceeds to contradict himself in the post 💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 09:21 AM |
| 128 | Really fulfilled and happy in my life, open to dating again!This is great! Happy for you 😊 We definitely need more positivity in this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 07:32 PM |
| 3 | “If he wanted to, he would” fair, but how do I let him know I’m interested without directly asking him out?You literally said he would end up using me to sleep with me? That’s very presumptuous and disrespectful of you. You don’t know me. Get out of here with that mean girl energy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 04:17 PM |
| -3 | “If he wanted to, he would” fair, but how do I let him know I’m interested without directly asking him out?I disagree with you. The reason I asked is because this a work context and any decent guy would not want to make me feel uncomfortable at work in any way. I am not a pick me and would not tolerate that being thrown at me. Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 03:24 PM |
| 6 | “If he wanted to, he would” fair, but how do I let him know I’m interested without directly asking him out?This has nothing to do with adulthood. You’re just rude, thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 02:39 PM |
| 4 | “If he wanted to, he would” fair, but how do I let him know I’m interested without directly asking him out?Thank you for your kind well thought out answer 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 02:27 PM |
| 3 | “If he wanted to, he would” fair, but how do I let him know I’m interested without directly asking him out?Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 02:19 PM |
| 8 | “If he wanted to, he would” fair, but how do I let him know I’m interested without directly asking him out?Thank you asoww, I’m all for having high standards and vetting men. But a lot of women on this sub are so overly angry that everything is high risk, like damn chill lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 02:17 PM |
| 15 | “If he wanted to, he would” fair, but how do I let him know I’m interested without directly asking him out?You don’t know me enough to say I’m overly invested based on ONE post. You’re being rude and presumptuous Not everything is warfare, being cordial enough to grab a coffee with a colleague does not mean I’m a pick me who can’t be saved 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 02:13 PM |
| 22 | “If he wanted to, he would” fair, but how do I let him know I’m interested without directly asking him out?Thank you so much! I absolutely agree with you. Feel a lot of the comments are taking it toooo far! We don’t even work in the same department lol and I didn’t even know he existed until last month! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 01:21 PM |
| 14 | “If he wanted to, he would” fair, but how do I let him know I’m interested without directly asking him out?Fair points thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 01:14 PM |
| 20 | “If he wanted to, he would” fair, but how do I let him know I’m interested without directly asking him out?…… he’s been really polite and suggested we grabbed coffee during working hours. I did and I liked him so not sure about the second point you made but thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 01:10 PM |
| 16 | “If he wanted to, he would” fair, but how do I let him know I’m interested without directly asking him out?Most people meet their partners at work, we work in different departments and I’m open to it. Thanks tho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 01:05 PM |
| 31 | “If he wanted to, he would” fair, but how do I let him know I’m interested without directly asking him out?Idk Mehn research says most find their life partners at work and I work in a nice ambitious industry so I’m open to it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 01:04 PM |
| 90 | Had a guy lose interest because I told him I do not like to partySpot on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 02:25 PM |
| 299 | Had a guy lose interest because I told him I do not like to partyYet somehow they are the “logical” gender | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 11:12 AM |
| 18 | Feelings of loneliness is realPersonally I play sports and go to networking events within my industry. But I met most of my good friends in high school/university 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/22 08:23 PM |
| 31 | Feelings of loneliness is realThank you so much ❤️ Really needed to hear this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/22 08:22 PM |
| 176 | Feelings of loneliness is realThis is it… I have a lot of surface level connections and it is bloody exhausting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/22 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Saw this on Twitter and I’m ANGRY, dumb pick meShe’s very obtuse because we all know how much women do for men! And most times, men never appreciate it. Run away from pick me’s like this, they are dangerous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Saw this on Twitter and I’m ANGRY, dumb pick meThere’s a caption, not sure how to add more texts? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 11:14 PM |
| 25 | Saw this on Twitter and I’m ANGRY, dumb pick meThis right here. Nothing good has ever come out of being overly accommodating and accessible to men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 04:02 PM |
| 167 | Saw this on Twitter and I’m ANGRY, dumb pick meShe’s so dumb. How can she not see how much women do for men in exchange for crumbs?!?! Bitch please | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 10:39 AM |
| 7 | Normalise telling men to just shut upLOL this is funny and sad 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 02:39 PM |
| 110 | Normalise telling men to just shut upNo way 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 12:06 AM |
| 20 | Continuing from recent post by another Queen. Absolute trash book.I absolutely hate books like these! These sort of authors are scum snake oil salesmen preying on naive and desperate women. BULLSHIT It is so infuriating because I can guarantee you that you’ll do everything in this book and a guy will still not text you back because he’s not interested | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 08:07 PM |
| 3 | What would you tell your 10 year old self if you could?We are all just trying to figure it out :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/22 08:22 AM |
| 13 | What would you tell your 10 year old self if you could?Your life is yours and yours alone. Your parents do not know everything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 07:35 PM |
| 3 | G.L Lambert is trash (@8plus9 on twitter)This is a perfect response! His book is manipulative nonsense and he contradicts himself SO MANY TIMES. Basically what you said 😅 He is trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 07:13 AM |
| -10 | Finding out one of my “good” male friend is a scroteLol whatever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 03:43 PM |
| 34 | Finding out one of my “good” male friend is a scroteUhhh I think you are taking things a bit too far…. He was my friend and friends have disagreements all the time. Doesn’t mean there were unresolved attraction lol It was a fight because I didn’t believe how he could be saying those things so I got angry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 01:09 PM |
| 81 | Finding out one of my “good” male friend is a scroteHis reasoning did not make sense at all. He kept going round in circles. The guy is just an idiot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 01:04 PM |
| 114 | Finding out one of my “good” male friend is a scroteWe met at university and used to have really good debates about life, science and stuff. Then I started asking him about how he sees dating, women etc and my God, I was disappointed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 10:49 AM |
| 159 | “Men are simple creatures”This is it. It’s such a great manipulation tactic and a way to gaslight women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 01:34 PM |
| 29 | Men who try to trick you into coming over on the first date or early onWhen I was 17 and dumb, had one guy said he would “cook for me”. I went over, it was instant noodles. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 06:41 AM |
| 113 | Why are men so fucking weird ?Wtf is he on about 😭 Lord can men just go extinct | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 05:58 PM |
| 1 | How does FDS feel about women who watch porn for self pressure?No need to be rude. Just asking a question jeez. I can’t know everything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 08:22 PM |
| 44 | I don’t know who’s worse: her trifling mama or her POS husband. I found this on Facebook and was shook. Honestly I probably would have went to jail.The entire family is garbage and she needs to throw them away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 02:42 PM |
| 266 | He wants to move in togetherDon’t move in with him, enough said. You need to focus on your life and your aspirations without becoming a live-in fake wife. If he’s that great, then try long distance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 06:43 AM |
| 457 | Good LuckI’m so happy when women give out that kind of energy and are not shy to pushback. Men and their sickness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 09:31 PM |
| 212 | Obvious things I never realized until someone else pointed it outWORD! Men make me sick with their entitlement and stupid double standards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 08:09 AM |
| 75 | A man will date you for weeks, have you be exclusive with him JUST to have sex and leave as soon as he gets it. This scares the hell out of me about dating, I wonder how one can vet this kind of behavior.Gosh this is absolutely horrible. This post just triggered my anxiety. Most men are absolutely DISGUSTING! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 11:11 PM |
| 8 | Are most high value women “doomed”?Rihanna’s situation had me in tears! Most men are just ew | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 08:07 AM |
| 9 | Are most high value women “doomed”?Because it feels good…… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 10:43 PM |
| 15 | Are most high value women “doomed”?How do I get the quality sex outside a relationship ? I know it goes against FDS principles but I’m a 23 year old who hasn’t had sex since I was 19! Feels like I’m missing out on all the sexual things I want to try 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 05:46 PM |
| 17 | Are most high value women “doomed”?Thank you. Needed this! You’re absolutely right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 03:54 PM |
| 11 | A Professor Wasted Her Time Interviewing 46 Men About Why They CheatBest thing I’ve read in a while! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 07:44 AM |
| 53 | Forever gfs be likeI don’t think marriage is that big of a deal but 10 years as a girlfriend is just awful (unless you’re significantly richer than him and you must protect your assets e.g Oprah) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 10:24 AM |
| 63 | Why he will punish you for giving him second chancesWell written! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 06:04 PM |
| 72 | He forgets about her bday and ignores her, but he (finally) surprises her! Is this a new rock bottom?I just want women to stop putting themselves in situations like this. I understand that we all mature and grow at different times but this is awful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 09:56 AM |
| 231 | Beware of « stable » families who will judge you for your past trauma.I agree with this. People who grew up with healthy families are usually ignorant to the fact that not every family is like theirs. They also lack a level of empathy and it’s exhausting trying to show them what they may not understand. I wouldn’t even bother | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 09:50 AM |
| 69 | Play stupid games, win stupid prizesWhen you do clownery, you get clownery. He deserve what he got, prick. The delusion and entitlement of men is beyond me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 01:39 AM |
| 6 | Thoughts on G.L Lambert? Relationship expert (@8plus9 on twitter)This is a really really good analysis! Thanks for contributing, you have strong points He definitely saved me a lot of heartbreak when I was 18-22, but as an older woman now, he’s nothing but a misogynist packaging his mediocre advice as female domination. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on G.L Lambert? Relationship expert (@8plus9 on twitter)Please leave your shitty marriage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 08:54 PM |
| 5 | Thoughts on G.L Lambert? Relationship expert (@8plus9 on twitter)He has some good points here and there but the books were really cringe LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 04:43 AM |
| 9 | Thoughts on G.L Lambert? Relationship expert (@8plus9 on twitter)Very good analysis. He has some good points here and there but yes he’s definitely a PUA and it’s gross how he is now charging women monthly subscription. Wtf?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 08:44 PM |
| 21 | Thoughts on G.L Lambert? Relationship expert (@8plus9 on twitter)I agree with you. He charged for his book (fair enough) but now he’s charging for his website??? How is he a woman champion when he’s charging women for advice??? Lol I’m over it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 03:08 PM |
| 14 | Thoughts on G.L Lambert? Relationship expert (@8plus9 on twitter)He also contradicted himself a lot in the book, it’s a mess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 03:06 PM |
| 17 | Thoughts on G.L Lambert? Relationship expert (@8plus9 on twitter)This is what annoyed me THE MOST, trying to charge insecure women for regurgitated “advice”. He’s not a psychologist, who does he think he is lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 03:05 PM |
| 10 | “Merry Christmas from me and my family, whom I hate!”Men are so bloody strange ew | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 06:55 PM |
| 14 | Why do men “not want a relationship” because of a breakup ages ago, but women are still willing to seek real connections and love despite the amount of horror we’ve gone through?The want all the benefits a relationship offers them without the responsibility of being loyal, available and loving on their part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 07:15 PM |
| 214 | Ladies, don't be a FWBMen are terrifying and deranged. Reading those things gave me chills.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 04:16 AM |
| 2 | HVM examples in fiction and irl?Didn’t know this... was thinking about how much his current wife (Melody Hobson) talks so greatly about him . She is a top executive too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 05:57 PM |
| -2 | HVM examples in fiction and irl?George Lucas | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 07:36 AM |
| 20 | Where do you draw the line between being diplomatic and keeping your boundaries?I wouldn’t want to open a joint account with a loser like that as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 01:55 PM |
| 143 | “I didn’t know what you meant”Men do shit like this on purpose hoping you’ll never ask them to do anything again. It’s disgusting and manipulative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 04:18 PM |
| 2 | How do you forgive yourself for being a pickme (my journey to FDS)You also do not have to share your story with others! Especially no to “bond” with men as they can use this against you, it’s not their business! We all do mistakes and as long as you learn from them and understand that women are literally brainwashed from birth then you will be fine :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 05:14 PM |
| 2 | It was the music choice that got meAnd she probably pays 50% of the bills too 😂 I feel sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 10:56 AM |
| 4 | “Women are toxic, jealous and fake friends”This is so true. I was on a male dominated course at university (college for Americans) and I currently work at a male dominated job. Men gossip, back-bite and talk so much shit at an alarming rate and usually spend more time “networking” than doing actual work! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 10:19 AM |
| 12 | Have you noticed this?Men are truly sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 07:31 AM |
| 14 | Avoid men who constantly talk about how “busy” they areThis is FACTS! Always “too busy” to talk or go on proper dates but somehow has time for every thing else (entertainment wise) 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 07:08 PM |
| 11 | Ladies, don't treat your boyfriend like he's your husbandThis post is spot on and true! I’m a feminist but I feel like modern-day feminism has gone too far and allows men to do much less while they get more benefits! Last time I checked women are the ones still getting pregnant while still having to work, doing free labour AND contributing 50% of the household income all with a man she’s not married to. That’s not progressive at all. Seems we’ve taken many steps back, doing even more labour, contributing more financially all without even being married… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 06:52 PM |
| 25 | Everything was going well…then it turns out he’s into beastiality.Every day men find a way to disgust me even more... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 06:43 PM |
| 10 | Life is a lot less stressful nowI’m always so shocked when women talk how some guy (who wasted their time or ghosted them earlier) is texting/calling them again. Like girl how does he still have access to you??? Use your block button! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 06:41 PM |
| 3 | “I just don’t like texting” 🙄“I’m just toooo busy to text” but somehow he has time to be online 24/7 and do everything else in his life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 05:20 AM |
| 2 | “I just don’t like texting” 🙄LVM actually make me sick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 05:18 AM |
| 242 | Where are all my girlfriends now who used the tell me to get a man asap, because "how are you going to survive without a man?"The sad part is a lot of women do this. You’re basically being scammed. Being the bread-winner AND the full time homemaker. SCAM SCAM SCAM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 03:33 PM |
| 2 | This showed up as “liked you.” Not only a liar but can’t add apparently.This man is at least 63 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 12:29 PM |
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