Continuing from recent post by another Queen. Absolute trash book.

Platipus6 · 2022-03-19T08:04:34+00:00

I ain't got time to fix training wheels to men, Bruce.

keep_my_stuff · 2022-03-19T11:13:28+00:00

I think injecting personality to your texts and asking questions based on the current topic is no brainer advice. But you know that most scrotes don't give you the same energy, that the only acceptable personality is bubbly and fawning and that they expect you to carry the weight of the convo and keep it going when they say they spent their evening boiling potatoes.

Serious_Papaya8615 · 2022-03-19T06:23:50+00:00

All the mainstream dating advice given to women is how to bend over backwards and become doormats, centering men and being willing to change anything and everything about themselves to appeal to men.

All the mainstream dating advice given to men is how to manipulate and coerce women.

themissdaydreamer · 2022-03-19T12:01:52+00:00

this book contains two of the things I hate the most: men telling women how to date, and telling women how to carry an "interesting conversation". it's annoying how dating coaches pretend the average guy is a good conversationalist. any women who tried these texting prompts know how underwhelming and disappointing it is when you take your valued time to "create a connection" and the guy doesn't even bother to match your energy and effort. men don't start conversations to connect with women, they just want to schedule a hook-up as little effort as possible. if I have to create a "quirky voice", craft an interesting personality and think on how to keep the other part engaged, I might as well get a copywriting side hustle and make some money.

Firefly10886 · 2022-03-19T04:53:38+00:00

“And when in doubt, simply pretend as if you have a personality so likable, it could make Jennifer Anniston jealous.” 🤮

How to be a pickme, and of course written by a man.

Carneliancat · 2022-03-19T13:49:00+00:00

Nope. I'm not dancing around like a dog with a ruffle around its neck at the circus in an attempt to snare and entertain some scrote, and inject some sparkle into his colorless life. I don't lift a finger to get picked.

When it comes to men, the worse you treat them, the better they seem to like it. Be the girl who doesn't text back. That will get and keep a man's attention like nothing else.

Fun_Sherbet · 2022-03-19T05:27:30+00:00

Act like you enjoy life? Ask questions that follow the topic? This details the minimum for having a decent conversation. Why would you pretend to be someone who enjoys life, when you could simply be someone who enjoys life? Seems like a lot of pretending, Bruce. Pretend to have a personality that's likeable? Seems like projection, Bruce. And why are you writing for women, Bruce? Clearly men need this information more than us, what with their pitiful conversational skills. Bruce, sweetie, don't quit your dayjob.

Catz10000 · 2022-03-19T14:46:14+00:00

We are not rehabilitation centers for men. We do all of the emotional labor as it is. We have to hold their hands in impressing us too?! In teaching basic coMuNicatIoN? Arrgh. If he can't do the minimum, he's not HV. Next.

all_or_nothing_bet · 2022-03-19T16:16:41+00:00

I want to see a book for men on how to grow an ounce of personality besides ball scratching, porn and video games and evolve emotionally into an actual human being.

poppinkitty · 2022-03-19T10:31:30+00:00

So Bruce is a total scrote huh 🙄

elainejay82 · 2022-03-19T12:39:36+00:00

Damnit, Bruce. No.

Also, BRUCE, we don't text men no mo'.

queenofswordsxxx · 2022-03-19T16:31:27+00:00

Just another way to put the onus on women, like we’re supposed to be the ones doing all the emotional heavyweight lifting, establishing a connection, because men are (insert XYZ excuse… bad texters etc.)

Africanaissues · 2022-03-19T20:07:47+00:00

I absolutely hate books like these! These sort of authors are scum snake oil salesmen preying on naive and desperate women. BULLSHIT

It is so infuriating because I can guarantee you that you’ll do everything in this book and a guy will still not text you back because he’s not interested

anahatasanah · 2022-03-19T21:03:28+00:00

Sassy texting secrets: follow the handbook and keep blocking and deleting those not worthy of us! 💖

GlitteringContact8 · 2022-03-19T17:56:32+00:00

If conversation is effortful throw him out lol

Title	Continuing from recent post by another Queen. Absolute trash book.
Author	Firefly10886
Upvotes	201
Comments	27
Date	March 19, 2022 4:50 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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