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| 450 | Women have it way harder then men in almost everything.Women are indoctrinated from an early age to always make themselves uncomfortable in order to please a man. We are expected to let go of the things we like or care about if men deem them as “unattractive” and to seek their validation instead. Men are taught to do the complete opposite and to immediately tear apart anyone who questions their interests (which on average are also far more deprived). Men are also largely valued in society for just about anything they do, meanwhile women are told, on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 01:07 PM |
| 376 | Beware of men who try to turn every discussion into an argumentI agree and I think it also ties in closely with men who disagree with women just for the sake of disagreeing. I think this kind are painfully misogynistic and cannot stand the idea of a woman being right and KNOWING she is right. It’s a form of negging meant to tear your self esteem apart. If you’re unfortunate enough to stick around you end up finding yourself doubting your every thought and preemptively knowing he would disagree with it, so you either start fully silencing yourself or you sta… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 04:26 AM |
| 55 | Update on my most recent post. Digging into OP’s comment history only confirmed to me what I already thought; he isn’t a good partner to her & she deserves better. I seriously doubt she doesn’t fake cum with him because she sounds v turned off. He asked some1 what a clitoris is. Is this April fools?She’s “smart and hot as fuck” meanwhile he’s a 300 pounds pornsick loser with rapey fantasies and delusional expectations. At his morbidly obese weight he is physically unable to have the type of sex he sees in porn and wants to reenact lol. He wants to “wrap around each other like boas”, like 🤣🤣💀💀 Poor woman probably married him out of pity because we’re told since we’re young to “give ugly men a chance”. This is what that shit leads to. No wonder she doesn’t want to have sex with him, he sound… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 12:38 PM |
| 198 | I have a feeling there’s more to the story than what was said here. I also have a feeling the wife rarely ever gets an orgasm from her porn-sick husband. Why did you marry her if you thought she was too vanilla? Because you had a Madonna/whore complex and now you’re playing the victim in bed?This scrote’s entire post sounds very rapey for some reason | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 11:19 PM |
| 86 | Red flag: The man who disagrees with everything you have to sayMe neither. My best guess is that deep down they actually despise their partner. Otherwise they wouldn’t enjoy deliberately putting them down. It’s a sociopathic thing to do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 09:06 PM |
| 160 | If it’s one thing men are good at, it’s low blows.Men are disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 05:10 PM |
| 242 | Continuing from recent post by another Queen. Absolute trash book.All the mainstream dating advice given to women is how to bend over backwards and become doormats, centering men and being willing to change anything and everything about themselves to appeal to men. All the mainstream dating advice given to men is how to manipulate and coerce women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 06:23 AM |
| 103 | How are you leveling up?Eliminating pointless labour that society places on women since early childhood. So many women are unable to leave the house without makeup on, are scared to be seen with body hair, burn their hair down with hair straighteners and toxic chemicals, live with undiagnosed and untreated eating disorders to stay skinny and develop foot and spine problems from wearing high heels. Unlearning misogynistic patriarchal garbage is one of the most important ways to mentally level up as women. The “I do it f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 12:04 PM |
| 179 | How can you tell if a guy is negging you or not?If something he says makes you feel bad or defensive, like you have to justify yourself to him in some way, it’s a neg. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 12:06 PM |
| 186 | how men really feel about women centering themA HVM will always prioritize you and your happiness. This is full-blown LVM scrote energy. HVM do not follow misogynistic lines of thinking such as “bros before hoes” and “make her see what she’s missing”. That’s just LVM and their usual garbage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/22 07:35 PM |
| 76 | The Bite-Size Guide to Vet a Potential Suitor: Does he make you feel BALANCED?This 100%. If you find yourself getting anxious about things to do with him or things you were not previously anxious about, needing reassurance over and over again (because his actions are proving you right in being worried), isolating yourself from others or just generally falling back into previous BAD habits around this man or habits you had in previous toxic relationships with LVM, you need to RUN! Your instincts are not lying to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/22 04:35 PM |
| 241 | This review for an odor removing laundry detergent….what the heck is wrong with your husbands health that led to this review????My question is why is SHE washing HIS sheets? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 05:53 PM |
| 269 | I was told by a female colleague that at first sight I’m totally unapproachableThis is so commonly said to women but nobody would ever say it to a man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 01:34 PM |
| 70 | Why are men so fucking weird ?They don’t. They read a crapton of PUA and redpill garbage and then try to play “mind games” with living, breathing human beings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 05:44 PM |
| 59 | Vetting: if a worst case scenario happens to you, can you rely on him?I would also add to this to check for his reactions to things upsetting you, even if they may be minor things. Does he call you “too sensitive”? Does he gaslight you into thinking you’re overreacting and that your feelings are not valid? Does he laugh at you for being upset? These are all red flags to look out for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 02:08 PM |
| 47 | The term Pickme gaining traction? thoughts?I think the big issue with memes like this is that it highlights the “other girls” as superficial or otherwise places them into very negative stereotypes. Liking pizza and anime does not set someone apart and there is really no point bringing other women down while at it. That’s absolutely a very pickme thing to do. The vast majority of people love pizza and anime also has a huge audience worldwide. It doesn’t set someone apart liking these things. Not even sure why she added “internet” in there… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 12:13 PM |
| 11 | Apparently, to some pickmes, opening doors is a grand romantic gesture worthy of sex. And of course, someone calling this out gets downvotedOn today’s episode of things that never happened | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 03:38 AM |
| 130 | "wait to have sex" labeled as "bad dating advice"...and all of the people in the comments applauding...“Sex-negative cultural values” 🤡🤡🤡 Sex workers are disproportionately more physically abused, harmed and killed than any people in any other field of work. This libfem “sex positive” culture is a plague that is only leading women to danger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 07:31 PM |
| 130 | If you ever want to get over an infatuation/crush, just check their Instagram follow listThis works on me without fail. I could have the most stomach-butterflies inducing crush and that shit will be GONE the moment I look at his following list. I was in an abusive relationship as a teenager and he cheated on me then gaslight the hell out of me until I believed I (a 16 year old) had raging jealousy issues over him (22 years old) CHEATING. Anything jealousy-inducing is now an instant dealbreaker to me. I won’t even give it a second thought. Following models? Bye. Making unnecessary co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 06:18 AM |
| 34 | A good vetting strategy is to share a FAKE pet peeveI think they definitely would! I was just thinking however that if it’s a REAL one it might actually hurt you. That’s why I thought fake was better! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 01:04 AM |
| 190 | A good vetting strategy is to share a FAKE pet peeveOh yes, this is also a very good example! Men who do this don’t take you seriously and whatever you tell him he’ll likely perceive as nonessential/stupid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 05:37 PM |
| 76 | Being single protects men from drama and politics, ladies. Leave them alone.If he was actually happy with his life he wouldn’t be wasting time making garbage “memes” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 07:01 PM |
| 57 | We have to stop putting up with this shit 🤡He most likely used her as a rebound. Lies are an immediate dealbreaker to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 09:03 PM |
| 25 | "I just fell asleep" Men that won't say goodnight or just dip from convosMy abusive ex from a few years ago would regularly pretend he was asleep for 12 hours at the time, and would magically be “falling asleep” throughout the day for hours on end. It’s a huge trigger of mine now and I don’t give the benefit of the doubt anymore because of what I’ve been through | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 05:30 PM |
| 19 | "I just fell asleep" Men that won't say goodnight or just dip from convosThis is all so good. I feel like I’ve ticked just about all of these at some point in my life.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 05:29 PM |
| 326 | What’s with men not giving a damn about birth controlIf I have to actually ask/remind a man I’m in a relationship with to put a condom on he will not be hearing from me again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 04:57 PM |
| 48 | What classifies as social media red flags?I think he definitely lied about that. And it’s also a really cruel thing to lie about but a lot of messed up people will because it’s something they usually cannot be called out on without the person calling them out looking insensitive or evil. That man would not be hearing from me again. It takes literally 10 seconds to let someone know in advance if something is up and the fact that he was liking posts on social media while “grieving” is just a pile of steaming garbage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 05:34 PM |
| 79 | What classifies as social media red flags?Honestly men like that make me want to take a screenshot of the request and send it to their unfortunate partners. I have had my HAIRSTYLIST’s husband add me (he is also 15 years older than me). It makes me feel so bad for these poor women because they most likely want to be the “cool permissive girlfriend” and are too scared to snoop even if they have raging doubts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 04:39 AM |
| 71 | What classifies as social media red flags?I’m really sorry and I hope you’re doing alright now. That is a 1000% valid boundary to have. I’m very similar to that myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 04:37 AM |
| 49 | Basically they admit to everything FDS warns us about.I don’t even want to imagine all the STDs this gross scrote is carrying around if he’s actually had sex with 76 people. Community dick is a health hazard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 01:24 PM |
| 341 | Your partner should never ask you for a gift wish list.To add to all the amazing points, men who buy you cooking/cleaning products, things for you to use in his car, or shaving kits/lingerie for you to wear in bed with him are LV as shit and buying THEMSELVES gifts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 02:03 PM |
| 197 | Men that push for 50/50 still don’t realize that dating has become a ladies’ market in 2021, with Tinder being 78% male / 22% female and Bumble & Hinge being 65% male / 35% female. Men outnumber women 4-to-1 on Tinder and 3-to-1 on Bumble/Hinge.After the countless examples I’ve seen of men having vile intentions despite acting so well to gain a woman’s trust, only to later reveal that all he wanted was to use her for sex, or all the shit like “am I the only one who thinks of other women’s bodies while having sex with my gf”, I can with 100% accuracy confirm that I will never be caught dead pursuing a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 09:48 AM |
| 32 | Freeloading scrotes 😐“He wasn’t sure exactly how to do that” he’s hoping she’ll give up on even asking him to pay the electricity difference. Scrotes’ audacity knows no limits | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 08:23 AM |
| 299 | What I posted versus a reason for a permaban from a large “feminist” subreddit. Wow I wonder why :)The first picture is a perfectly accurate depiction of this platform unfortunately. As for the mod’s reply in the second picture, I don’t even think I understand?? Like were they just trying to be a jerk? (May I ask why… - Yes you may). Like I’m sorry but that just feels like the type of “response” an angry 12 year old would give. Also it shows that there was zero basis as to why you were banned. Probably a pornsick manlet with a fun-sized peepee who got his feelings hurt by logic. From what I’v… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 06:33 PM |
| 70 | single womenI appreciate the company of single women so much more purely because of the number of times I have been forgotten by pickme friends and even best friends once they got into a relationship. So many pickme “friends” will literally never hang out with you anymore once they get into a relationship or will go out with the LV scrote six days out of seven and MAYBE see you once a week (during which they’re constantly on their phones texting him) - true story. Happily single women also usually have much… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 07:47 PM |
| 21 | The First Time He Uses Your Trauma/Insecurity Against You Should Be Last Time100%! Also, to add to this, ANYONE who is a part of your life and you have trusted with your trauma and personal issues who has the audacity to use it against you should be cut off IMMEDIATELY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 01:03 AM |
| 170 | Reminder: never chase men, this is what they actually think when you initiateImagine calling a woman low-value for being ill and needing to go to the doctor frequently or for having hypochondria (which can be a HIGHLY debilitating mental disorder). What a disgusting POS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 05:08 PM |
| 154 | Today marks the 32nd anniversary of the Polytechnique massacre in which 14 women were killed for being engineering students.I didn’t know of this, it’s truly heartbreaking. May they rest in peace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 01:19 AM |
| 69 | Precisely all the red flags we talk about 😂He put 44 in so younger women with that target age group will find his profile. It’s no mistake or “silly joke”. He’s manipulative | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 11:29 PM |
| 107 | Title is along the lines of "she doesn't have a sense of humor." Nah bro you're just being a creep“Are we gonna have a problem” honestly comes off so fucking pointlessly agressive. Like this is a potential partner and THIS is how you choose to try to impress her??? The fuck is wrong with men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 12:45 AM |
| 16 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerI cackled | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 12:35 AM |
| 2 | SighI’ve googled it just now and can confirm this is indeed true. Another reason why I’m so glad I’m single | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 10:21 PM |
| 3 | SighA few years back I dated a hardcore gamer (who was also many years older than me 🚩) who went for TWO WEEKS without brushing his teeth the longest. Usually he’d brush them every 4-5 days. His record for not showering was close to 2 months from July to August and he had started to develop patches of skin where the dirt and gunk accumulated had hardened and could not be washed off anymore. Meanwhile he had shit to say about his pubic hair “preferences” on me (I was also underage at the time). There… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 10:14 PM |
| 103 | Beware of men who engage in avoidance, intimidation, infantilisation, or emotionally abusive manipulations when you bring up a concern. The very moment he displays any of the following (& more), DROP him! Do not let men damage your health.This and also garbage like “you look so cute when you’re mad”, starting to laugh etc. I’d punch a man in the face if he did some stupid shit like that to me NOW. Past me felt invalidated as hell but couldn’t quite pinpoint why a guy doing this to me made me feel so bad. I just thought I was crazy for bringing up his disrespect. NEVER AGAIN! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 05:43 PM |
| 85 | Currently viral on social media, please do not be a man’s free ATM!! Libfem behaviour is NOT empowering to women, it literally only benefits the man while draining your bank account, health and energy.What is going on in the US right now is abysmal. We are living in the 21st century and somehow women’s bodies and bodily autonomy are still fundamentally being controlled by men. I wish I could move to a different planet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 01:03 AM |
| 69 | Currently viral on social media, please do not be a man’s free ATM!! Libfem behaviour is NOT empowering to women, it literally only benefits the man while draining your bank account, health and energy.Yep! I haven’t liked this feminine/masculine urge joke since it started gaining popularity about a month ago, as all it does is reinforce gender stereotypes, usually in the form of giving men a pass for garbage behavior while mocking women for normal shit. However this one I think is particularly harmful and it quickly gained a lot of popularity which means that unfortunately a lot of pickmes (and desperate male leeches) agree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 12:40 AM |
| 570 | Two of the biggest lies patriarchy tells us: “men age like fine wine” & “age gap relationships are totally natural”Thank you for that last picture, gave me a good laugh 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 02:22 PM |
| 3 | I’m stealing this responseI wouldn’t entertain pornsick idiots. Instant block from me followed by a report | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 09:47 AM |
| 171 | This is considered a success? Guy never initiates giving oral sex, only wants to receive, then presses his junk against her mouth, she needs to keep asking for him to go down on her and he laughs at her and calls her demanding WTFAny manipulation tactic involving sex instantly gives me rapist vibes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 09:43 AM |
| 64 | Things you used to find romantic before FDS?Yupp, red flag! Just any negative behavior he exhibits only towards you in a group shows he doesn’t respect you and is ashamed to be seen with you. 🚮🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 11:33 PM |
| 173 | Things you used to find romantic before FDS?Men treating me differently IN A NEGATIVE WAY in groups of people. Such as talking less to me. I used to take it as a sign that he was either shy or wanted me to be impressed by what he was saying to others. 🤡🤡 Now it’s an instant red flag and big turn off, just goes to show that he’s either incapable of making quality conversation with you or that for whatever reason he dislikes the idea of being close with you in public, which is never good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 11:00 PM |
| 75 | What are the most ridiculous pick-me opinions you had before reaching the age of reason?As a teenager I fell badly for the “feminism is a hate movement” one. I was young and had been bullied in school and seeing how the word “feminist” was primarily used as an insult towards women it scared me and I wanted to always make sure I would never be called that. Then as I grew older and started giving less of a shit about what people thought about me, I also started unpacking my past relationship trauma and discovered FDS. It’s easy to say life turned around for me after that and my minds… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 10:55 PM |
| 11 | Does anybody else never click links posted here for security reasons?I’ve been wary of links too. Sometimes if I agree with the title and what the OP has written besides the link I’ll like the post and not click on the link. It’s good to be cautious especially on Reddit and ESPECIALLY in places men hate, because they can sometimes make it through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 10:47 PM |
| 107 | Why do men think that saying "enjoy being single forever" is supposed to insult us?Because the patriarchy has been digging it into our brains from a very early age that being single is somehow a failure on our part and that something must be wrong with us if we are not in a relationship with a man, especially by a certain age (where we are then seen as inadequate if we aren’t married with kids). This narrative benefits men greatly because it gives many unwashed asses the feeling that they are somehow a prize, so they then use it to try and insult us and threaten us that unless… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 06:32 PM |
| 189 | The main character is catfished by some ugly guy but she eventually falls in love with his “personality”. Safe to say this is my least favourite film everThis 10000%! They also picked a highly attractive actress as the protagonist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 05:35 PM |
| 7 | IMO, there's no fixed way to determine whether a man you're dating is actually good.Being HV is a reflection of one’s actions. I think that’s what we need to guide ourselves by. A lot of LVM will pull off a good act in the honeymoon phase and then the mask slips off. That is why we never stop vetting. Liking animals is not a proper indicator of good value, a lot of criminals have had pets. Also a lot of men treat women worse than they would treat a pet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 07:18 PM |
| 233 | A warning against having children with NVM. Can’t even join a pregnancy sub without seeing this shit. Oh but it’s okay because she can work on her “insecurities” and of course ComMunICaTe! 🙄I find the comment in the second picture both infuriating and sad at the same time. A lot of women literally delude themselves into feeling better because of how shitty their LV boyfriends/husbands are. “I know he loves me”, “I know he finds me attractive” do you??? Is that what his actions are telling you? Is that what him jerking off to other naked women is showing you? Come on. That’s some pretty bad mental gymnastics you’re doing to self-soothe yourself. Stop putting trash men first. Put YOU… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 05:10 PM |
| 4 | How do you comfort yourself after a break up?I always make sure to stay away from things that would make me feel even worse - sad, romantic songs, romance books/movies, sometimes even certain social media content. I like to keep myself busy and especially SOCIAL. That always helped me a lot. Whether it was talking to my family or to friends, it helped a lot. Also playing joyous songs and just engaging with positive content. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 08:36 PM |
| 31 | Tropes I’m tired ofThis is all so true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 03:56 PM |
| 175 | Type of man to avoid: the brosocial or homosocial manI agree with all the points made and I would also like to add: beware of men who only seem to talk to each other in group settings and barely acknowledge the women! This can often happen in work situations and friend groups. There’s usually a pretty thick layer of misogyny to it, as they see the women “stupid” and unable to make good conversation with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 09:42 PM |
| 46 | “Communicating” gives LVM the perfect opportunity to gaslight youI’m really really sorry you had to go through that and I hope you’re in a much better place now! I understand what you’ve been through, I was abused as a teenager by an older scrote. I used to think it was somehow my fault and IT WAS NOT. These men know what they’re doing to us. FDS opened my eyes to so many things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 12:39 AM |
| 170 | I feel like there are no good menHe didn’t even label it as what it is - rape, instead he didn’t do it because it’s “cheating”. Aka he didn’t do it because it messed with his mental game. You can’t make this shit up. He didn’t want to rape them not because it’s fucking rape and it’s wrong, but rather because it was making HIM fee bad in some way. Fucking disgusting human garbage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 12:53 AM |
| 95 | Straight from the horse’s mouth: men who ask you to hook up with them literally only want you for sex. These comments were in response to a woman who was complaining about the audacity men on Tinder have in asking her if she “wants to fuck”This is why we don’t ask for advice on Reddit anywhere but on this sub. It offers scrotes the perfect opportunity to mansplain and brainwash unfortunate women into letting go of all of their values and trust that they have for themselves. “I’ll tell you why” - about to mansplain some predatory shit into some boohoo poor me mEn sO oPpReSsEd shit “SHE’s mad cause she KNOWS he lost interest” = I as a man am actually mad as fuck and projecting it onto you because I’m a virgin and toxic masculinity h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 01:55 PM |
| 193 | LV partners who ask to see us in VERY specific lingerieEver since I discovered FDS almost 2 years ago I’ve been doing active work towards realizing just how much us women are expected to do for men. From being stick thin, sometimes through dangerously restrictive diets which can put our health in great danger, to shaving basically every inch of hair on our bodies almost everyday, to spending hours upon hours doing makeup and other beauty routines. Then we are expected to dress in certain ways (and still get scrutinized no matter what) and make ourse… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 04:11 PM |
| 216 | This is why FDS recommends snooping. Be very ruthless with your vetting process! You never know how deprived some men can beThese vile creatures walk among us and we don’t even know | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 12:57 AM |
| 55 | The GermansI was born in Germany and moved to the United States with my family when I was very young. From what I’ve heard from them I believe the quote is quite accurate 😂 As far as men are concerned, it truly is awful how most of them don’t even see us as fully human. Their only interest is to satisfy their own wants. This is why 50/50 doesn’t benefit women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 09:07 PM |
| 644 | A collection of recent bios I’ve seen on OLD, and their translations“Let’s see where this goes” = fuckboy, will not commit and will most likely cheat given the opportunity because wE aRe noT oFFiCiaL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 05:26 PM |
| 370 | Don’t bother manipulating a LVM from doing weaponized incompetence. Just leave him. It will only get worse if you have children with him.If men are so childish and incompetent they should be abolished from politics and any leadership roles. They’re emotionally unstable, lazy and opportunistic. If a man pretends he cannot do basic chores to basically keep himself alive, then logically speaking he is not a functioning member of society. Women are not rehabilitation centers or caretakers for dysfunctional fucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 01:34 PM |
| 21 | Gathered from the redpill sub, which is filled with posts like this. These men are literally advocating for sexual assault and somehow people still have the nerve to say FDS is the same, when it teaches us how to stay away precisely from men like this and vet for the sake of our own safety.I’m crying at this 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 03:35 AM |
| 196 | Gathered from the redpill sub, which is filled with posts like this. These men are literally advocating for sexual assault and somehow people still have the nerve to say FDS is the same, when it teaches us how to stay away precisely from men like this and vet for the sake of our own safety.This is literally how these men see us and think about us. Stay woke and aware of this, ladies. If you ever get too soft or feel yourself falling back into pickme patterns, just have a brief look at the horrors they write about women. It’s like taking a cold shower. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 01:04 AM |
| 322 | Just recently found out that rock n’ roll LEGEND Tina Turner was cheated on and abused multiple times by her LV husband Ike. Can’t believe guys actually pull shit like this and then swear up and down they don’t abuse women 😑😡“I never beat her” but he punched her to the ground 🤡🤡🤡. Fucking disgusting. Goes to reaffirm that being a celebrity is NEVER a guarantee of being a HVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 12:28 AM |
| 15 | Asking a man for his zodiac sign can be a great vetting strategyThis is exactly the point I was trying to make. I’m neutral when it comes to astrology, but I don’t believe calling someone intellectually inferior for liking it is right. And getting angry or insulting someone for doing so is a massive red flag to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 10:39 PM |
| 46 | Judging women for loving animalsI’m really sorry she said those things to you. I think a big part why men use loving pets and animals as an insult and why they hate women who do is because they cannot be a part of that. It’s something they’re excluded from because the bond between a pet and its owner is something unique. Just today I had the misfortune of coming across a comment on a post about cats where the man started spreading misogyny because he somehow saw an opportunity to. Anything that makes us happy LVM and NVM will … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 12:25 AM |
| 18 | OLD: Who needs personality when you’ve been on a boat, caught a fish that one time or go to the gym?Honestly the gym bros are the lamest. To so many of them their whole entire lives seem to be centered around going to the gym. They’re also most likely the kind to start complaining about your physical appearance or lifestyle habits if you date them. To me they come off as shallow, narcissistic and self-centered. A big no. I also get similar vibes from men who post pictures of themselves leaning on very expensive cars which they obviously don’t own, as another commenter said. I’ve seen so many o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 07:46 PM |
| 97 | If he has to think about why he loves you, he doesn’t love you.“I love her because she makes me a better person” 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 03:30 AM |
| 56 | Reminder why it’s crucial that you do not reveal any personal information or pictures on the Reddit account you use for FDS. If writing a post looking for advice, I’d suggest lying about your age, the time the situation happened, names (obviously) etc for your own protection. Please stay safe.100% agreed. Reddit in particular is not and has never been on our side and these predators are protected and allowed to harass and abuse/threaten women with no consequences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 07:39 PM |
| 66 | Reminder why it’s crucial that you do not reveal any personal information or pictures on the Reddit account you use for FDS. If writing a post looking for advice, I’d suggest lying about your age, the time the situation happened, names (obviously) etc for your own protection. Please stay safe.I thought I had mine turned off too, turns out after turning them on to thank people for their awards I somehow forgot to turn them back off. It was absolutely disgusting to read, especially as an almost-rape survivor. But yeah, keeping them off is probably the best idea considering how depraved men on Reddit are. I wish we could literally exist without receiving this shit.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 07:33 PM |
| 14 | Reminder why it’s crucial that you do not reveal any personal information or pictures on the Reddit account you use for FDS. If writing a post looking for advice, I’d suggest lying about your age, the time the situation happened, names (obviously) etc for your own protection. Please stay safe.I have just now! Apologies for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 03:22 PM |
| 54 | Do you guys know how or why our posts here would show up on this site? Y'all be careful, I legit just stumbled across this while searching my own reddit username out of curiosity. *Sorry in advance if this violates any rule and has to be removed.I found one of the FDS posts from one of my previous accounts on this same website last autumn and was like wtf. I’ve since made it my life’s mission to ensure I post no identifying info on Reddit or pictures I myself have taken. Redpill scrotes and incels are dangerous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 01:26 PM |
| 613 | Remember to give low-income males a chance, ladies! Don't be classist! /s21 thousand likes.. Also funny how they’re somehow entitled to their girlfriends staying by their side when they’re broke and at their lowest while they’re contemplating on how they’ll dump them once they make enough money to pay rent 🤡 Men make me sick at this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 01:13 AM |
| 55 | Part 2 of the sh*t scrotes say about women vs. how THEY look, inspired by a previous postLmaooo 😭😭😭💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 06:10 PM |
| 94 | Another red flag from Chris Pratt’s captionThis is repulsive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Prime example that having money does not automatically make you a HVM! Beware of ‘godly men’ queens.The fact that he said how she basically does everything for him yet he only “sometimes helps her open a jar of pickles” LIKE THAT’S SUPPOSED TO BE CUTE?? 🤮🤮🤮 The bar is below ground level | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 05:34 PM |
| 66 | I don’t cook nor clean for any manI would NEVER cook for a man. I’m still pretty young, I have always disliked cooking and been very upfront about that to people. I cannot tell you how many times scrotes have had the audacity to tell me shit like “you have time to learn” 🤡🤡🤡🤡. Like go to hell. I get periods, I’m the one supposed to go through the horrors of childbirth, I’m physically weaker. Things will never be equal between me and a man. So tell me again how it should be ME that’s wasting time cooking for HIM. I don’t think so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 01:30 PM |
| 29 | No one inherently HV or LV. We are what we repeatedly do.Absolutely this!! I’ve seen so many posts from women calling their partners HVM who then unfortunately followed up a while later with posts about how those same men cheated/lied/abused them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 06:03 PM |
| 152 | This is what men think of women they hook up with. It is not in our best interests as women to sleep with men casually.This is disturbing. This is why it’s important that we don’t turn a blind eye to what they say when they think women aren’t reading. Knowing how they think can help us protect ourselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 10:50 PM |
| 63 | Let's talk about picky eaters.I personally don’t like to cook myself but do see it as a red flag if a man I’m potentially interested in doesn’t know or want to learn how to cook. 9 times out of 10 he’ll be misogynistic and have that 1950 mindset of “cooking is the woman’s business and I am entitled to that” which I do not f with. Unfortunately a lot of scrotes still think like this and I don’t take chances with it because this kind of audacity pisses me off to no end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 06:37 PM |
| 92 | 🤮Meanwhile we’re made to feel insecure if we have 1 tiny unshaved spot or if our hair is even slightly messy. And they’re allowed to “live” like this and NEVER fucking feel bad or ashamed about it. I’m so fucking fed up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 03:31 PM |
| 514 | This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setupThe fact that he sees buying her the ring she wants (which she would wear FOR LIFE in an ideal scenario) as an OBLIGATION which he “doesn’t have”, especially after that girl helped him so much when he needed it the most.. what a piece of shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 10:30 PM |
| 9 | The Guide to Being Approved (ie, Getting a Flair)I’ve also been waiting for a few months now and used to post regularly but was a bit discouraged because my comments were never approved 😟 However I fully understand that this sub is unfortunately always under constant fire from men leaving abuse and spam under posts. I wish we could have women-only spaces without all of that.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Pick-mes Who Try to Act Powerful or Like BossesThis is perfectly put. My mother who physically abused me as a child was even beaten up by my father, twice, and chose to stay under the bs guise of “children need to see the parents together”. I fucking resent her for everything and she’s a lost cause who could’ve done much more in life than to abuse me and choose a walking pile of shit of a man over me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 03:00 PM |
| 46 | Pickmes play a big part in why things are changing for the worseThis is what I’m staying hopeful for. I’m just starting to see things such as the bill split, BDSM, hookups etc become so normalized that sometimes I start to lose hope | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 05:37 PM |
| 10 | Women that join men to bitch about or laugh at other women, are bottom barrel.A man doing that is NOT high value | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 10:16 AM |
| 13 | Exhausted from men at the gymI’ve had a handful of awful experiences with male trainers in the gym. When I was 18 and had lost a lot of weight after developing an eating disorder I went to the gym and took up more serious lifting to build up some muscle and strength. A 35-40 year old trainer came up to me repeatedly to “correct my form” on basic machines and TOUCHED MY ASS. I had turned 18 only two months prior. I’ve never looked older than I was, as I’ve always had quite a childlike nose and a round-shaped face. He 100% co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 10:41 PM |
| 25 | Beware of Male PostersThey’re probably doing this to further paint FDS in a negative light. I’ve seen countless posts comparing FDS to red pill subs and it just baffles me how some people think they’re even REMOTELY similar. FDS focuses helping women protect themselves from the abuse red pillers inflict on them. They’re not even slightly similar | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 02:00 PM |
| 40 | “Build with him”I don’t think it is. I think it’s mostly raising awareness of how even married men are definitely not safe and how many masquerade as being HV when they’re pure trash. We shouldn’t let our guard down | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 02:50 PM |
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