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AreYouAware_/r/askTRP11/07/14 09:36 AM
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This touches on something I've been theorizing about lately. Does it seem to you that women are remarkably impatient when it comes to watching for signs that a man is a rising commodity? They don't care what you'll be in a year from now, just what you are at this moment. It's as though they have no faith that you'll change, and that you're a static being. At one point I'd right that it was because they themselves believe that they lack the power to change and this project that onto men too, but …
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 04:46 PM
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It wasn't even a week ago that I saw a thread where all the people advocating acting shrewdly and with an understanding of human behavior were downvoted to oblivion by a parade of guys chest thumping about "honor" and "cowardice." All while on a sub that explicitly states that morality does not apply to optimal sexual strategy. To paraphrase one of the better messages from that thread, "people here jerk off to the concept of being a dark triad alpha, but god help you if you actually apply the so…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 09:11 PM
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If she really wanted to see you she'd counter offer with a new time and place. She's pulling a rejection by flake. Next.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 04:58 AM
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Is 2015 really going to be the year when TRP decided collectively to take up DT shaming? What universe have I stepped into where critical thinking skills are down voted while the feelz get all the upvotes?
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 06:23 PM
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I've noticed this same thing. It's purely ressentiment on the part of people who see the game, and who know they lack the stomach or the aptitude to succeed. Their response is not to get better at playing the game of hardball, but to delude themselves into thinking the game has different, gentler rules, and to convince everyone else to play along with the softball league they've dreamed up, at the risk of being shamed if they don't comply. It's a well worn strategy, employed particularly by femi…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 06:17 PM
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Here, I'll take a guess. In a panic, she'll cast about for ways to deflect any responsibility from herself. She'll be sure to say that she was pressured into it, and even raped. Heck, if she has an idea which man spilled the beans to her cuck, she'll go out of her way to make sure he's painted as the ring leader and most brutal of all the gang rapists, even if the reality is that he stayed clear of her out of respect for his friend. The only winning move is not to play.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 04:34 AM
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Is there a reason you had to come here to say that instead of just keeping it to yourself and going about your life on your own terms? This isn't a debate sub.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 05:12 PM
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Spot on. What exactly does this have to do with TRP?
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 04:51 PM
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Instead of just a link and a teaser, perhaps you'd like to give us a detailed rundown of what we'll find, and your observations on how it fits (or doesn't fit) into RP theory?
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 09:41 PM
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I think it's actually even worse than what you say, because her image of "you" in terms of the delta between you will likely lag just a bit. Your changes over time in the positive direction are harder to track and less visible than those in the negative.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 04:52 PM
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No. A woman is not an investment, and no amount of effort you put towards helping her improve herself or the quality of her life will prevent her from branch swinging. Hypergamy doesn't care. Relationship equity is a fallacy that men frequently ascribe to women. As far all their loyalty goes, It doesn't matter what you did in the past. It's always about "what have you done for me lately?" Most likely she won't lose the weight. She'll resent you for pushing to better herself. You'll both be unhap…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 02:33 PM
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I'll second erqos's take on the matter, and reemphasize that indeed there will be a man out there who will take an older woman. That man will most likely be a beta. Whether he's a betabux (with actual bux) or just a schlub will depend on just how much care for herself OP is willing to invest.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 08:54 PM
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Hey, rule #1 is that you never talk about TRP outside of TRP. Besides, you're not naming names, right? Surely they weren't that dumb as to reveal their identities?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 06:38 PM
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Want to write a field report or two, then?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 04:23 PM
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Is screen reader software not an option for you?
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 09:55 PM
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Because, in my experience, heartiste has the correct measure of the situation for the average case. "Maxim #109: Consensual polyamory is a contrived hookup service for undesirable sexual market rejects." https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/11/18/polyamory-is-disguised-polygamy/
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 09:32 PM
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A poor strategist reveals to his mark the source of his information. Telling her that you're onto her tricks is a strategic blunder because she now knows what she can't pull over on you... But you didn't establish to her that she shouldn't try something else against you. You gave her no reason to fear the consequences of her tricks. You haven't raised your value, or shown her that you have options, or that you don't need her. Her insubordination will continue. You have however, shown her that sh…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 09:14 PM
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Here's an example. her: "You never want to do anything fun!" you: "Alright, get your clothes off, get in that bed, and I'll show you fun." Because of your 8 years of beta conditioning she will absolutely balk at that. When she says "no" in whatever form, pressure flip her by telling her that she's the one who doesn't want to have fun. See what she has to say about that Might this blow up on you? Absolutely! The key to making it work is a complete detachment from the outcome. How can you do that?…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 09:04 PM
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Perhaps you have some thoughts of your own to share first, before asking the community? An analysis of the contents of the videos? A summary or a breakdown of the people shown? A relevant excerpt that relates to RP principles or understanding?
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 08:16 PM
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It would definitely appeal to their biological instincts, but their cultural programming would rankle at the situation. I don't think there truly is a way for the majority of modern women to be happy. Thank God for Xanax, indeed.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 07:26 PM
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Is there a reason you're engaging her hamster with logic instead of shutting her down with a cocky frame? You don't logic with them on matters of attraction.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/14 08:50 PM
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No. How do you define an RPW? Assuming that you define them as women who have a lucid view in sexual and relationship strategy, and a strong sense of self interest, then there's no reason to believe that their advice would be any better. There has been exactly two women who gave me straight-out RP advice, practically from the side bar. One was a shrink I was paying money to talk to. The other? My mom.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/14 08:44 AM
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Even men will stab you in the back if you hand them a knife and give them a compelling reason. Psychopaths are real.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 07:58 PM
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You'd get a better response in altTRP. This sub is for men who want to fuck women. Not for men who have one-itis over other men.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 09:27 PM
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The theory here is solid, but there is one thing that gives me pause. Most people I know chronically leave their voice mail unchecked. They rack up dozens of unheard messages before they bother to do anything about them. Had this not been an issue with your approach?
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 07:19 PM
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This is the real answer. Programming is a relatively well paid dead end career, in which your expected expiration date is age 35. After that, if you aren't in management or a new career path, you're fucked.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 06:18 PM
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Did you get it notarized? Otherwise, she totally can claim coercion and that jet signature wasn't real consent.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 05:01 PM
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You're confusing advancing your technical job title with holding power. You're not using this approach if all you want is to be a more versatile and well paid code monkey. Your ultimate goal with this approach is to gain power over people, not expand your technical dominion. You've already proven that you're better than the others, so this is your opportunity to show that your true value is not in simply implementation, but in getting the most out of your slacker teammates. Power is not being th…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 01:45 PM
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He'll be divorce-raped in five years. Count on it.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 10:13 PM
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You've reminded me of a saying: "To an American, one hundred years is a long time. To a European, one hundred miles is a long distance." Three years is nothing. To a young person, or a perpetually single person, three years can seem like a solid and stable relationship, but on a larger time scale, it pales. Depending on the study you reference, the average relationship lasts between 2 and 9 years. The average divorce happens after 8 to 13. How many of those years was a beta bux suffering under t…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 10:11 PM
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That's a myth that women who ride the carousel spread to try and make their betabux feel special, and trick him into thinking he's getting a good deal. In reality, the single biggest marker for how good the sex will be with a girl is how compliant she is with your demands... Because make no mistake, she wants you to be demanding, and commanding. That means you are the one who becomes more valuable with experience, not her. Have a strong frame, be a man, make her yours. Her desire will do the res…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 09:53 PM
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You're definitely right about women judging men on their paternalistic behavior. A recent example came when I teased my main plate, telling her to get to work on her essay, and not let me distract her. She started begging me to stick around, and I would cut her off mid-sentence to restate, more and more forcefully that she was to get to work. Her response after being told what to do: "I can't believe this, and I don't know why, but I love it when you're just so... paternal. Just laying down the …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 09:26 PM
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What did you do to leverage your capital when you made it clear that you're no ordinary drone? It sounds like you've missed an opportunity to advance. If you're really the person on whom everything hinges then they need to appease you. Ask yourself the following: If you walk out the door right now, how fucked would they be? Do they have any idea how fucked they would be, or are they ignorant? How easy would it be to replace you and at what cost?
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 08:35 PM
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This isn't false, but it ignores the law about making others dependent on you. If you've made yourself so valuable from your ability to handle yourself and others effortlessly, then you need to let them know that they have to play ball on your terms or else they're going to have to replace you, and sooner rather than later. On your terms, not theirs. Accepting extra responsibility with no corresponding reward is failing a massive corporate shit test. Falling for threats that you're replaceable w…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 08:31 PM
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And yet, when considering marriage there is a direct and sharp correlation between partner count and divorce risk. If she's just a plate, then no it doesn't really matter. But I'd you're looking for someone to form a relationship with then your an idiot if you don't take past behavior into account when predicting the future. You think she isn't doing that to you?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 06:31 PM
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I think you'd find it very enlightening to read the Rational Male articles about how men and women love. http://therationalmale.com/2011/12/27/women-in-love/ http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/26/the-true-romantics/ The golden quote is that men are actually romantics pretending to be realists, while women are the ones who pretend to be romantics while secretly being realists.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 01:47 AM
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This is actually a really good question, and it's one with many different answers. Ultimately, the goal of taking the red pill is to remove the blinders and illusions that hold back your success, specifically with women. To this point, generalizations are perfectly acceptable because they offer a very useful baseline from which to operate on any one individual. The observant will note that the applications of this knowledge are much broader than simply getting laid.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 01:42 AM
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That's not really a pussypass issue. Bars are legally obligated to turn away and refuse service to people who are already roaring drunk. As a matter of public safety, I find that reasonable.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 04:55 PM
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Personal questions belong in /r/askTRP
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 02:22 AM
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Understandable. Just remember that the advice against asking a fish how to catch a fish applies to women asking men about relationships just as much as men asking women about sex.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 01:24 AM
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/r/redpillwomen is over that way.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 01:10 AM
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Salon, Slate, xojane, jezabelle, pretty much any site like that is bannable.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 01:07 AM
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Direct linking to salon is likely to get you banned. Use archive dot today instead.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 12:25 AM
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The sub is about self improvement, but only in as much as it's about accepting the reality of female desire and the feminine imperative and dealing with them, instead of living blind to their existence and influence. Shedding illusions is arguably self improvement, but the self improvement you're saying that the sub is about is a side effect, not the goal.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 06:33 AM
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I agree with the sentiment. A heterosexual strategy sub that focuses on men learning how to attract and fuck women is not an ideal place for gay men to seek advice. This isn't even the classic mistake of asking a fish how to catch a fish instead of asking a fisherman. It's more akin to asking a hen how to pull teeth. The premise itself is nonsense. At the same time, the main strength of redpill is that it's mercilessly teaching you to see and act within the reality that exists rather than the on…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 10:32 PM
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Earlier in the week there was some article on a click bait site that "exposed" the terrible evil that is TRP, so we've got a lot of new readers who have no idea what this place is about, haven't read the sidebar, and think they're ready to start posting because they think this is just an anti-feminist equivalent to /relationships or /askmen or /funny.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 05:21 PM
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You have nothing to gain and everything to lose by telling him. You have no reason to get caught up in his problems any further than you are. Your responsibility is only to yourself in this situation, not to another man. The reality is that it's a jungle out there, and there's no room to let misplaced loyalty based on gender sway you
/r/askTRP05/12/14 05:52 AM
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I'm not convinced that they're innately better at decoration, art, or fashion. Historically, how many of the great poets, painters, composers, architects, and designers have been women? How many have been men? The numbers are shockingly one-sided. Further, look back into history and observe that fashion and style have mostly been a function of status and station, and that regardless of whether you're a man or a woman, those of high status have a correspondingly high class of attire. I subscribe …
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 03:32 AM
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You are wrong, go read the study.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 01:21 AM
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They are innately better at dark triad behaviors, particularly machiavellianism and narcissism.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 01:00 AM
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Because A woman would rather share an alpha with another woman than have a beta to herself. Because women are validated in their attraction to a man by the number of other women who are attracted to him. Because if you dinner at least pretend you have other options then a woman will lose respect and attraction for you.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 05:18 PM
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This sort of post is a bannable offense. Read the sidebar and the rules for posting. Tell us what's remarkable about this video, or what's interesting below the surface. Give us your thoughts and analysis. Don't just drop a link to a video with a sensational title.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 02:04 AM
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This sort of post is a bannable offense. Read the sidebar and the rules for posting. Tell us what's remarkable about this video, or what's interesting below the surface. Give us your thoughts and analysis. Don't just drop a link to a video with a sensational title.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 02:03 AM
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Mechanics are another service professional that you should never cross. You're going to treat like shit a person who holds the safety of your vehicle in his hands? Really?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 05:18 PM
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Are you prepared to be the traditional Japanese style husband that a traditional Japanese woman expects you to be? This includes you handing over your entire paycheck to her and letting her handle all matters of finance and the home, including giving you a small allowance for your discretionary spending and meals.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 07:44 AM
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Why are you direct linking to anti-rp click bait? Archive dot today.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 06:15 PM
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Where did this light triad come from all of a sudden? And where are you getting your definition for it? If DT is narcissism, machiavellianism, and psychopathy, then the opposites of those are not what you wrote at all. They're Altruism, Trust, and Self-Sacrifice. Is quite well established that this is the recipe for beta Bux, and not a successful strategy.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 03:49 PM
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I'm growing a fascination with religion ever since diving into TRP. You're correct in your observation. Men have known for thousands of years what women's nature is and where it will lead to if unchecked. Religions like the abrahamic monotheist variety have this nailed down, each in their own ways. That said, buying into any religion's metaphysical narrative based on little more than the writings of politically motivated desert dwellers, seeking to secure a grasp on their own power, is yet anoth…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 02:02 AM
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Nobody cares about the misfortunes or suffering of men. Not other men, and especially not women. You aren't going to change this, not culturally or biologically. Such a movement is bound to fail because men in a position of disadvantage are weak and expendable.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 10:12 PM
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It's faulty logic to assume that because you find something neutral, attractive, or unattractive on a woman that she will think the same of a man. Men and women are different, and what you find attractive in them is in many ways opposite of what they find attractive in you.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 10:54 PM
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Glasses almost always count against you. Even in the cases where the frames look good against your face, they frequently cast ugly shadows across your face in the wrong lighting. They also distract from your gaze and distort the appearance of your eyes slightly. Also, they make it hard for you to look out of the corner of your eye, to communicate with glances, and to rely on peripheral vision. You end up turning your head more frequently and directly, which communicates a bit differently than be…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 10:47 PM
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Alternatively, they think he's gay and checking them out. Or they think he's trying to get their attention and they have better things to do than give it to him. Without knowing more it's impossible to say.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 02:13 AM
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Or perhaps it's a troll who is copying and pasting random quotations from Wikipedia articles and crackpot websites. Wouldn't be the first time.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 12:35 AM
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This really should go without saying but apparently a lot of newer people here haven't drawn the connection yet. Trying to save your blue pill friends by feeding them the red pill is a serious violation of the 5th law of power. I know you feel like you've just uncovered some great secret, and you think you need to share it with your buds. I know you wish that someone would have saved you sooner, and you're trying to pay it forward. Don't. This knowledge is not well received, and being known to h…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 05:01 PM
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Absolutely correct. If she's really into you then the escalation can be extremely rapid, and start within the first five minutes. The fact that op recognized that a lack of reciprocation is meaningful says that he knows this already.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 07:56 PM
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No. There is no such thing as relationship equity. No amount of years equates to a single iota of "investment" in Women's mind. This is a classic blue pill fallacy. Her level of investment is ruled by her level of tingles in the here and now. Always.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 04:33 PM
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I would honestly question the wisdom of your friend for trying to share this knowledge with you. You're clearly not of a mindset that you're accepting of it, and all he's doing is giving you blackmail material with which you can sabotage him socially. Tell him it's not his job to save you from your blue pill mentality.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 02:30 AM
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Indeed, not cool at all... But useful. Feminists see how desperate nerd culture in general is for female validation, and they play on that need to garner support. They make the nerds feel solidarity with them as fellow oppressed people. The line of thinking goes as such: Surely if we stand up and help out our oppressed sisters in their fight against the evil cool-kids club known as Patriarchy, we'll prove ourselves to them as worthy men and mates. So yes, they're in many ways the useful idiots o…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 02:45 AM
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Something to bear in mind, for those of you who might be just recently unplugging, is you might have been under some mistaken impression that we're living in an age where there is a new appreciation for the nerd, as he's finally taken his rightful place as an important and respected cornerstone of the world. Modern society would literally crumble without his knowledge and efforts, so surely this must make him powerful, desirable, and respected. Think again. All that's happened is that nerds are …
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 02:22 AM
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Honestly, this would be the most disastrous fate for TRP. If the moderators have a tough job now, just imagine how insane things would get if reddit made this sub a front page default.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 09:19 PM
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There is also something to be said for avoiding getting sucked into the drama of the unhappy and the unlucky. Why are these friends so valuable in the first place? What do they bring to your life? Is it really worth your time and energy to get mired in their woes? Discernment is a great skill, and you absolutely need to learn how to scout quality friends and associates, but doing so for the purposes of feeding them the pill, thus increasing your pool of viable competitors seems short sighted.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 09:08 PM
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You might be surprised how far information can spread. The world is very small these days, and if your plate has a "type" that you fall into, and that type ends up being someone on the same career track as you, then she very well may spill your RSD dirt to someone who could use it against you. It's a matter of weighing long term consequences that might or might not arise vs short term attraction with a woman who probably won't be around for the long term. You might judge that you're sufficiently…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 08:57 PM
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While this may well work for you in the short term, you should expect a plate to drop at some point, and an LTR to explode eventually. When that happens, what is this ex going to say about you to: Her social circle Your social circle Your professional circle You're just giving her ammunition, a lever that she can use to harm you that came directly from your own mouth. You should assume that all unflattering secrets you share with a woman will be exposed in anger, or in contempt, or even simply i…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 08:45 PM
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Get a burner phone and send her that number.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 02:18 AM
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There are homosexual men and women, so what happens withn non-heterosexual couples? TRP does not really care about homosexual strategy, since it is expressly about heterosexual men succeeding at attracting women. Where do you get the idea that women need to be subservient in order to fulfilled? There can be fulfillment beyond sexual gratification for both men and women. Celibate men and women can achieve spiritual fulfillment beyond sex that men are "entitled" to and sexual humiliation that wome…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 12:33 AM
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No, you can't. Not if you're mate-hunting on professional grounds. Not when there are laws that govern what constitutes sexual harassment in the workplace. Not when a rebuffed sexual advance or a failed relationship compromises your position to advance your career. Her value as a sex provider is in direct conflict with her value as a wealth and opportunity provider. No surprise then, that men find her wealth provision potential to be a better and safer long term bet than her pussy provision.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 09:13 PM
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You need to read the sidebar. You've got yourself hung up on one girl here. Never get caught up on just one girl. You need to move on and fuck ten other girls. Then come back and see how much you still care about getting with this one.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 04:42 PM
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You need to remember that feminism as a concept was started by and is still most vocally supported by unattractive women, who themselves are less likely to ever experience being overcome by a high value man. Their strategy is to maximize their own outcomes by creating a social contract that maximally extracts dollars and servitude from beta males, while shaming and trying to convince alpha men that their desire to fuck young, healthy, attractive women is wrong. It's all a power play by the women…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 04:00 PM
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Adopting her child as his own? Surely this was her idea. It must be. Even assuming that it's not an overt play for his cash, only a woman would somehow make herself believe that taking on a one-sided legal liability equates to building family and togetherness.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 01:56 AM
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Indeed, younger women are sometimes discouraged from having it inserted. This is particularly true if they haven't yet birthed a child, due to potentially (though not certainly) extreme pain and months of uncontrollable bleeding due to opening the cervix in such a way.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 01:36 AM
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There's a very strange phenomenon on this sub where people try to hype up how DT they are by making a show of their embrace of psychopathy and narcissism, while ignoring or denigrating that third component: Machiavellianism. You know what Psychopathy + Narcissism is on its own? Entitlement. As we all know here, on its own, entitlement is ugly and ultimately impotent. Actions have consequences. Always. Have a plan, have a clue, and don't be surprised if your arrogance leads you to your ruin if yo…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 09:01 PM
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Think this through. RSD guys may not have anything to lose directly, but their clients very much do. No man with half a brain would be seen in public taking instruction from Julien now, because he runs a real risk of being doxxed and made an example of, or being caught in a riot, or sent to jail because of an assault on him from a white knight. If your customers can't be known to do business with you, you soon won't have customers. That's business. That's reality. We're here to face reality like…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 08:54 PM
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This is beautiful. You can see the white knight's body language just crumble after every passing second. That moment when Tyler tells Sir Save-a-ho that he's just passing on the pain that he's been saddled with was the moment of brilliance. Even with the black bar you can see in his face that it hit home. People here ask what frame is. This is frame. Also, you might be right about his motivations and deeply held goals... Or he might just be using it as a mask to make money. In either case he rea…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 08:46 PM
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Tyler's mode of expression is extremely repetitive, and in this case probably works against him. He didn't need to repeat himself so many times and in so many ways.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 06:07 PM
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Men and women both have their own agenda, and their own sexual and relationship strategies. These strategies are at odds with each other in many ways, as you've noted. The seemingly impossible standards men seem to express are your problem, not ours. Likewise, the illogical and conflicting standards women express are our problem to deal with... Hence this sub. Of course, one of the problems with asking the crowd about matters like this is that different members are in different life phases and h…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 10:32 PM
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You're missing the part where men must always keep themselves in top form if they want a top level life. We're not talking about Joe Schmoe, or basement dwellers, here. We're talking about real men who take care of themselves and have their lives together. Yes, a woman absolutely does need to work to secure that kind of man.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 10:10 PM
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Now I'm curious what it said.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 10:05 PM
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Not my problem. I know it sounds flippant, but it's true. We live in a world that has normalized promiscuity, and which has given women a large incentive to divorce when they become unhaaaaapy instead of to stay loyal. If men are the gatekeepers to commitment then it can't be surprising that our standards for commitment must account for all external factors.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 08:57 PM
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And as promised, here is the link to the blog. It is rife with details both of the setup and the aftermath. https://cantswing.wordpress.com/tag/foursome/ I ended up with the impression that this guy honestly would rather have felt guilty and powerless to stop an attempt to rape his wife than to feel the pain of insecurity that she wanted to fuck some other man more than him, or love some other man more than him. Little does he know that this insecurity is exactly why he's stuck with this his gui…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 04:11 AM
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This posting looks like it was copied nearly verbatim from a blog posting that some folks linked to a few months ago here. In one of the posts, the man describes everything just exactly like this, even down to the names Harry and Sally. In a different posting he talks of the aftermath, in which his wife drags him around to various relationship councilors until she finds one that will back her up on her rape narrative. The counselor and the wife work together to hang all the guilt on the husband.…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 02:38 AM
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It's worse than you say. This isn't just a blue pill example on the man's part. You forgot to mention the fact that his wife's hamster spun this series of events into "I was raped!" And then hung the guilt of not being able to defend her from her "rapist" on him.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 02:20 AM
6

There will soon be as many classifications for male archetypes as there are genders for Tumblrinas. Once we exhaust the Greek alphabet, we should just skip straight to Chinese pictograms.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 02:15 AM
10

There absolutely is, but it goes deeper than this. No matter what group you wander into, once you get to 10 or more people, it will have its own cool kids club. You'll either get on with them or you won't, and if you don't you're really just a hanger-on. Regardless of your niche or social pool, you have to identify who is really on top and mesh with them.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 02:12 AM
2

Don't forget though, that the corny website worked and that she took him back. Granted, that's probably a far worse fate than had it failed.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 01:14 AM
3

You can't be top dog in a game you don't play, though. There is no sitting on the sidelines. Social game is not a spectator sport. If you can't walk into a group and make things happen you don't have power. That trait is constantly missing from the definition of sigma, and it's an important one. It's one thing to say or to think you have that power but if you never prove you have it or prove that you're willing to use it, your influence will wane.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 01:09 AM
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You are not Morpheus, and you don't have any obligation or any good reason to play his role. If you really want to show the way you only can do so in as much as you lead by example. Maintain plausible deniability about where and how you learn this stuff or else he has a weapon to use against you... And he will use it to hurt you. He won't have the balls to alpha up, but his inner beta, full of ressentiment, will relish the chance to hurt the man who style his true love.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 04:56 PM
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I had this same reaction. He's not in control of himself, let alone her or the relationship. Both of them sound quite crazy, and the only happy part of this story is that they're with each other rather than infecting some unsuspecting innocent with their behaviour.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 08:09 PM
10

There isn't an elevator pitch because either you're ready for this knowledge or you aren't, and it resonates with your experiences or it doesn't. Why do you feel the need to spread this knowledge?
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 09:42 PM
9

Are you going to spend all day just posting links to other subs without adding any commentary, substance, or theory?
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 07:17 PM
9

I'm not here to argue or debate or any of that. I won't even link to the post. Well, why are you posting here, then? I'm not sure I understand what point you're hoping to make.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 05:09 AM
17

Read the sidebar. Note in particular all information about the Cock Carousel and Hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 04:48 AM
2

Now imagine a world in which there are so few chubby girls that even the hot ones have to go above and beyond just like the desperate fatty you just described.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 04:05 PM
2

I'm not convinced that your premise is true. Plenty of women love doing drugs. What you find is that women from different backgrounds will have a different reaction to different drugs. Classy women will think that crack stinks of the ghetto while cocaine is seen as powerful and upscale. Prescriptions are also quite popular.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 01:20 AM
20

Remember that study OKCupid released that showed that women rated the majority of all men as significantly less attractive than average? This should explain it. Male average today is flat out awful, particularly in Americanized areas.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 12:06 AM
15

This really needs to be said, and it's not said often enough. There was a posting here a while back with a title along the lines of "Don't Feed The Wildlife" and it was all about the fact that in the west, there's a terrible obesity epidemic because that's what men have proven they'll settle for. As in all markets, actors in the SMP set the price that the market will bear. The market will bear fat, ugly women, so that's all the effort they'll put it. The fat acceptance movement is just going to …
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 09:35 PM
1

A single chin is a requirement for anything over a 5, and nothing below 6 is even worth considering. She has a monster double chin. It doesn't really matter where she falls, she's sub-6 and therefore Untouchable. This is why I generally don't bother with the 1-10 scale, personally. They're either hot or they're not. I'd bang a 6 as soon as a 10, after all.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 09:05 PM
7

My best piece of wisdom is a bit from the 48 Laws of Power. Think as you wish, but behave like others. You should not flaunt unpopular opinions in front of people, lest you make enemies instead of friends. You are in a position where you have no real power, and if you expose yourself as loathsome to the current power holders, you will never have any. If you must make your beliefs known, then do so only in disguise. Mask your thoughts as support for your opposition, but undermine them by making t…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 08:15 PM
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I wasn't thinking of negs, per se. More like keeping the banter rolling, instead of just handing control back over to her with the admission that the pickup line was lame and that she should buy a better one. That puts her in the driver's seat, and firmly in charge of the exchange, and we know that women hate being put in the driver's seat and that they punish men who put them in charge. Something a little more challenging, like telling her that she can only spend the points on drinks later, or …
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 08:07 PM
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She was looking for sarcasm, and for you to bite back. She wants a man who's witty and sharp. You caved in on her when you said that she'd have to buy you a better pickup line. You showed a lack of wit, an abundance of boredom, and that you are ready to just hand over the reigns. You showed weakness and she just pressed the attack. I give it good odds that if you'd gotten into a barb slinging match instead of bowing out after her first zinger that she'd have been dtf.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 07:45 PM
2

This is what, the seventh, eighth repost of this in just the past hour?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 07:24 PM
2

Filter by new posts. Total time investment, one second.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 07:18 PM
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In many ways, the presence of a beta make women feel afraid because the beta is fundamentally not in control of anything, including himself. His approach is full of nerves, so clearly he has a reason to be nervous. Maybe that reason is sinister. His approach violates social norms. Is he just ignorant? Or is he dangerous?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 06:35 PM
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Those are ploys to start a conversation. The problem is that men who resort to this tactic do it in such a way as makes themselves seem low value. They follow, they orbit, and they get offended if they are rebuffed and lash out in anger. These are all signs of weakness and stink of beta. They also convey that they are so low value that they have no prospects in their social circle and must resort to fishing randomly on the street. It is possible to street approach with class, but you have to und…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 06:31 PM
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It can be. Many of the reactions from indignant women are over the top because they're imagining the worst case scenario, and some of them are just outright irrational (eg: "how about you show your concern or consideration by letting them walk in peace?") You've really got one very narrow shot if you want to street approach, and you have to be ready and willing to drop the approach without a hint of hurt feelings or malice if she's not into it. Otherwise, it probably is harassment, and is certai…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 06:22 PM
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In one breath you say you were trying not to offend her and in the next breath you say you were trying to troll her. Which is it?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:07 PM
6

Do you have anything to add to this posting? A deconstruction of it? Where is the value you're bringing to this post? Why are you posting it?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 03:59 PM
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Even one word spent on them is wasting your time. Silence is an appropriate answer. As for trying to let them down easily, don't bother. There's no polite way to tell someone you're not attracted to them, and particularly not when it comes to a woman's weight. It doesn't matter that she theoretically could get fit, most women don't have the agency or desire to take control of their lives like that.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 03:56 PM
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The answer to this is much simpler than what you're theorizing. We live in a society that makes repairing and building from scratch a much more costly endeavor than replacing broken and worn items. It's called planned obsolescence and it's a cornerstone of the modern profit engine. You can't have a consumer culture or a consumer driven economy without a constant impetus to buy.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 12:27 AM
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No. You never "shove the pill down their throat." You think they're screwing up your game now? Just wait until you tell them about TRP and they start spreading the word far and wide that you're a misogynist creep who hates and manipulates women. You think they won't do that? Why wouldn't they? They already showed you that they're terrible friends. Edit: Just silently drop contact with them. They don't need or deserve to hear from you what transgressions they committed. From now on you're always …
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 11:54 PM
2

Unlikely. The judge would be loathe to create a ward of the state.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 07:06 PM
4

Doesn't matter. At that point it all becomes about the welfare of the child.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 06:58 PM
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What exactly is your interest in reading up on this sickness? The first time I read about it ten years ago I couldn't imagine that any male could want this. I wasn't at all surprised when the story (related by the bull) ended with the cuck killing himself. Ever since then hearing anything about the subject just feels like watching a slow motion train wreck.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 01:33 AM
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Not that this is any guarantee that it'll work out just fine if it was the cuck's idea. The last thread I saw and the topic on TRP actually was and just that scenario. Of course the woman left him. She couldn't respect him anymore.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 01:26 AM
17

Bragplaining, not Bragsplaining.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 08:42 PM
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A close friend had picked it out for me when we were shopping, and, in that "you go girl" kind of way had urged me to buy it. Also known as sabotage. Women's close friends are just as likely to give them terrible fashion advice because they want to devalue their friends' SMP offerings relative to their own.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 06:28 PM
1

I found the Art of Seduction to be a difficult read. I admit that I haven't finished it, though I think now that I might have a better appreciation for it and may give it another try.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 03:06 AM
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This is well covered by Law 30 in the 48 Laws of Power. "Make your accomplishments look effortless." If you appear to be naturally amazing without expending any effort, then to any onlooker you appear to be like a god. You appear to have unlimited potential, and that only a fool would dare test your limits (or pass up the opportunities you present them). Once the effort involved in your gesture become apparent, you look weak. You look like just another guy, and that anyone could do what you just…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 10:26 PM
10

There are a lot of people here these days who still have some sort of emotional attachment or investment in their BP selves, and reflexively hit the blue button when you drop a hard truth like this without trying to cushion the blow. They have seen through one set of illusions that were crafted for them without having the ability to see through the ones they created for themselves.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 06:31 PM
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Considering that she took him back, I think his awakening is nowhere to be seen on the horizon. You're certainly correct, but strangely enough it appears that this tactic actually "worked" for him.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 06:25 PM
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Do remember where you are. Since we believe only what you do rather than what you say, have there been any such gestures that a man tried to perform for you that caused you to back away and cut him off? If no man has yet tried something like this, you may find your reaction is different in real life than what you imagine.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 05:21 PM
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Google Hybristophilia. Men who are notorious for their murderous pasts do indeed receive fan mail in prison, from women, who are obsessed with the idea of being with and marrying them.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 03:40 PM
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Direct linking to xojane is a quick route to getting banned.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 11:00 PM
4

Absolutely. You have to train them to do these things because their entitled mothers and weak/absent fathers never taught them how. Housework? That's what you hire people to do, right?
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 10:07 PM
2

I think I'm going to reference this when people say that game, fame, and cash doesn't matter in the face of physical attractiveness and height. Not because of any failure on Arnie's party but because of the success of people like Flav.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 07:54 PM
3

Indeed. When I'm with women a foot shorter than me, they're very much turned on by the height difference. The smaller and weaker they feel next to you the better they like it.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 07:38 PM
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They say that if the tall men were killers or child molesters that the short men would have a chance, yet all evidence indicates that criminal behavior makes women more attracted to a man. Remember all the sluts going wild over the photogenic convict's mugshot this summer? While I'm not saying that height doesn't matter, what I am saying is that you never trust what a woman says about what she finds attractive. Particularly not when she's dealing with abstracts rather than a real man face to fac…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 07:35 PM
5

This falls into a broad range of questions that all boil down to the question of why all women won't tell you the truth about what they find attractive One reason that is seldom touched on but is none the less valid is that if you ask to her face, she'll assume that you're trying to mold yourself to her specific taste. This is bad for many reasons. Let's say she's unattracted to you and you ask this question. She's already convinced that you're permanently on the unattractive list, and she doesn…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 07:10 PM
5

She's trying to put a preemptive stop on you increasing your SMV. If you do get big and ripped, she's going to feel very insecure. She wants to lock you down, and if that means keeping you from realizing your full potential in the SMP them that's what she'll do.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 06:34 PM
5

I don't think you can compare MGTOW to a kind of boycott. For there to be a boycott there has to be two potentially consenting parties to a transaction. I'd argue that there are two kinds of MGTOW that make the majority: The ones who are actually incel and either learning to live with this forever. Those who try to find within themselves the sort of man who is actually attractive to women. The remaining small number could attract women if they wish, but are tired of the game. Therefore, as a who…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 02:40 PM
10

You tried to reason and logic her out of resenting you and failed. You also kept bringing the subject up on your own, unbidden, showing an investment in the outcome and her thoughts about you. She interpreted your attempts to help her after first rebuffing her as an attempt to soothe your guilty conscience for denying her and she decided to twist the knife. Your justifications came off as just that. Justifying.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 08:28 PM
8

Consider the findings of the study recently done in which it was found that when people were shown photos of attractive women, asked to rate them, then were told that some of them used to be fat, that men and women alike both down-rated the former fatties. I think this suggests that there's a possibility that this sort of evaluation happens in and to all people, and in more areas than weight. We are absolutely judged on our pasts, and on how others judged us in our pasts.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 12:37 AM
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The crab bucket is a well known phenomenon. While women are notorious for doing it, men are not exempt either. Look at any dieting message forum and you'll find examples of people looking for advice on how to deal with friends and coworkers who make a special effort to give the dieter extra food, leave candies out on their desks, cajole them into taking second, and more.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 11:39 PM
1

It might be more an example of Poe's law in action.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 06:38 PM
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How would you say that game is manipulative, and what are you comparing it to that isn't manipulative?
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 06:34 PM
1

I'd wager that at least one in three new members is here with the hope of either getting back with their special snowflake princess, or trying desperately to hold onto the first girl in years (or ever) to let them touch her. They don't get it. They probably won't until they crash and burn twice or three times over.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 06:05 PM
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But the less aware of her surroundings she is the more opportunity this affords her to gain her coveted victim card. The funny part is that if you're attractive enough, relaxed enough, and man enough, you can talk to a girl who is otherwise tuned out like that and she'll welcome the interruption. She looks busy? Half the time she's just trying to distract herself from her dull existence. You're likely to be a better distraction that Facebook. Of the remainder of the time, when she might actually…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 04:17 PM
13

You absolutely do not introduce a prospective mating partner, or anyone else to this website. Period. That is social suicide.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 04:42 PM
10

Indeed. People here keep saying they want to find a RPW, but honestly all it really means to be a RPW is that she's self-aware of her female needs and desires, and looking to fill them openly and honestly rather than remain deluded and clueless. They aren't some sort of unicorns. They're just capable of self reflection.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 04:33 PM
4

I think there is one red pill principle to note, but it's not one related to women. In particular, I'm thinking of the story by the user who refused to take part in the scam to abuse the A and C inventory dichotomy to help the senior staff bilk the company for discount products. Turns out that everyone above and at his level was in on the scam. They fired all the other workers and put him in charge of the facility until they could replace the upper management. Notice what they did not do: promot…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 01:34 AM
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Because by definition he is not getting laid beyond highly infrequent duty sex. She meanwhile, will be approached by and submit to other men. She may cuckold him, conceive a child by another man, and fool or coerce her beta into raising and/or providing for an illegitimate child. A better question is "What isn't wrong with being beta bux?"
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 07:46 PM
5

There is an eBook floating around out there, written by a man who used keyloggers on his computer to monitor what his girlfriends would do when they got into Facebook or email. Without exception, all these women were covertly keeping their options open, stringing orbiters along, flirting with hot guys, and more. AWALT. You are a fool if you don't suspect that your woman is keeping her options open. This is a certainty. How you handle that is what sets you up as an insecure beta vs a man who proj…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 06:25 PM
1

I love it. It won't work, yet it's manipulative and abusive because... It works?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 03:08 PM
8

Even in the case where they don't repudiate you out of hand, it's good to remember this - Law 10 of the 48 laws of power: "Avoid the Unhappy and the Unlucky." This applies just as well to trying to save your friends and acquaintances from their misguided ways. If you don't keep your distance from these people, you'll find that they drain you of your time and your sympathies at best. At worst, you wind up trapped in their drama as a player yourself. You also run the risk of falling victim to the …
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 12:52 AM
2

If you choose to play a game where the deck is stacked against you, then you most likely will lose. You're correct in that the game of approaching the decision-makers as a faceless candidate, one among many, subjects you to rules that may well be stacked against you. You're choosing to fight a losing battle. If instead you choose to make the correct friends, do favors for the correct people, lay a foundation of support from within the system you hope to penetrate, then you'll find that your odds…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 07:37 PM
1

If you're looking for examples in action, the articles on the Jervais Principle are a very good starting point, and give a wide variety, albeit from "The Office." Have you read it? Did the examples make sense? The 48 Laws of Power also contain a number of good examples of successful (and failed) examples of how to navigate power. Have you read it? As the top commenter had pointed out, there can be no power talk unless there are stakes in the conversation. Real stakes are required, else the parti…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 06:49 PM
1

Are we not on the Red Pill sub where we're here to look honestly and critically about how the world really works? Isn't, name-calling, and justification of our own failures as the result of following a code of moral superiority a blue-pill white-knight tactic?
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 06:12 PM
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Exactly, and if you're close enough with the decision-makers, and you can convince them by hook or by crook that you're the unquestionable choice, then you're in. Any competition from the outside is merely ceremony. Assuming that his writing persona is an accurate representation of how he communicated as a corporate drone, then he's got a terminal case of foot-in-mouth disease that will put a hard celling on his advancement in that world. Straight talk is not the lingua franca of power.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 05:46 PM
-1

Let's be real here, if Scott Adams had been politically adept and versed in manipulating the levers of power, he would never have been passed over in those contexts. Affirmative action or no, he got out-foxed in the corporate world. Good for him that he's managed to make money on his inability to politick by lampooning the sociopaths and the clueless in a comic strip written in straight-talk, aimed at fellow losers like himself, but if he were skilled at playing the game rather than simply smart…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 04:55 PM
-1

That last part of the TL;DR could probably be worth a whole post. On the other hand, if your post needs a TL;DR or else nobody would read it, then perhaps you have little of value to say in the first place. TL;DR is a crutch for the compositionally weak, and the unconfident.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 05:16 PM
2

The first thing you should do is read all the sidebar material. Particularly, read The Rational Male years 1 and 2. Next, never try to "win her back." You need to have options in your life such that one woman falling away won't cause a dent in your life. You'll feel better about yourself, and women will see you as more attractive too. Beyond that, lurk more and post less. Most of your questions can be answered by reading what those who came before you have written.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 04:32 PM
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Note the part where she says that "he goes to the gym but it doesn't look like it's helping." There are a couple of things to draw from this. Women have no concept of what changing one's body looks like or the pace it happens. People in general won't just wait around for you to reach your goals. They aren't going to give you time to get ripped/rich/powerful. They don't believe you can, and until you prove them wrong they won't invest in you. Would you date a hamplanet if she told you she'd alrea…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 06:58 AM
16

She's not offended on her friend's behalf. You're reminding her that her own status hinges on beauty, and that her grip on all she hold dear is precarious indeed.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 03:45 PM
4

Where are people getting the supposed morals and ethics of TRP from? There are none. It is explicitly amoral, and as such leaves all questions of moral and ethical behavior completely to the individual. Honestly, I've seen so many people walk through here trying to say that TRP is about honor and integrity, or trying to cast it as some force of good against feminist evil, while conveniently ignoring the whole dark triad aspect that is foundational to the strategy and world view. Are you really t…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 10:25 PM
3

Real men sound like some boring company. Or some useful idiots.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 04:56 PM
11

Actually she's confirming everything that's been said already. "I hate weak men" "I want a man who is desired by other women." This is TRP 101 level stuff. It's basically the essence of hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 10:20 PM
1

No argument or major disagreement from me on any of this except that your local poly scene might not have any fat women, but I've met a number of them who are not simply fat, but morbidly obese HAES types. Shockingly, one of them in particular has about 4 orbiters at any given time. I wonder if this is more a function of the average appearance of a woman in a given town or city? If a locale is known for having a lot of pretty faces, then even the local weak contenders will feel pressured to up t…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 09:52 PM
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No arguments about people thriving on validation. I contend that open embrace of poly (with an emphasis on the "amorous" part of the equation) is one of the biggest signifiers of low value a man can adopt for several reasons. The biggest ones have been listed already in this thread, but a couple have not. I'll summarize: It's an open admission that you're not man enough to satisfy a woman on your own. You don't believe you can, nor that she should expect you to be able to. You're admitting that …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 08:43 PM
4

Yes, it is. Generalizations are common and accepted on TRP. AWALT, for example. I'm fairly certain this is covered in the sidebar material.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 07:56 PM
15

Here's the thing, if you are a high value man then it's virtually assumed that all your relationships will be "open" in a discreet manner. That is to say, she won't ask and you won't tell who else you're banging. She's also not going to risk losing you by banging someone else herself, because she knows she's not going to do any better. She won't necessarily be happy that you're getting side pussy, but she'll be gratified to know (or at least believe) that she is the one you keep closest. The onl…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 07:11 PM
4

I too like people better when I perceive myself above them.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 05:37 PM
2

Agreed. Women say things like "somehow we ended up in bed..." Or "... One thing led to another, and I wasn't planning on it, but..." Don't be a woman.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 05:09 PM
7

Google Schrodinger's Rapist. This will answer your question.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 05:06 PM
1

Thank you. When someone founds a company it's common parlance to say that the person made the company's product even if their involvement in the construction was minimal to non existent. And this is about the dumbest dating app idea ever.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 04:50 PM
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' She never told me I was fat, but she kept dropping hints about going to the gym and I noticed her looking down at my gut,' he said. 'We'd be sat drinking in a pub and I'd see her eyes following fit, muscly guys. She'd also swoon over men on the TV saying, "You could be like that if you wanted to be". For as smart as we make doctors out to be, he was so stupid. She was literally telling him to get his fat ass in gear and he just wouldn't listen. I suppose he thought the prestige of being a doct…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 02:22 AM
1

It's definitely not for everyone, I'll say that. A more direct form of communication is much easier to deal with, and that's just more some people's speed. The thing to remember though, is that powertalk isn't about being a liar. It's about subtext, and nuance. It is at its most effective when everything you say is true.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 05:02 PM
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Another point to add is that they are unrepentant gossips. You want something to spread far and wide? Tell a woman "it's a secret."
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 01:24 AM
6

Even this requires women have too much agency for their tastes. By and large they won't ever directly signal interest, and if they reveal themselves then they've most assuredly signaled interest directly. They don't want to browse and select, they want to be selected and they can't do that if they're invisible. And what exactly is the draw for a man to ever create a profile here? So they can have zero women to message ever?
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 10:35 PM
17

Honestly, if the recounting is true, the condom part would have been enough to put it into rape territory. What I find so interesting is that she hamstered so hard, for so many years, to say it really wasn't. On the other hand, she said herself that's she's an "unreliable narrator," so what the fuck are you supposed to believe anyway?
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 03:05 PM
8

It's not the first, not the last time you'll see this. How long ago was it that relationships had a thread where a guy had posted images that a friend of his fiance sent him that very obviously (even if merely suggestively) showed her and her friends sucking off a stripper , and he was trying so hard to rationalize it away as something other than what it was? That guy was saying how he was going to break up with her if he found conclusive evidence (as though he needed more?) Of her infidelity. T…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 09:28 PM
21

Any man with respectable fashion sense wouldn't be caught dead in a graphic tee, and more to the point any man who is willing to out himself as RP with his clothing choices has failed to internalize several of the 48 laws of power. On the other hand, maybe that's a good thing. Let them fall on their swords.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 10:55 PM
6

Another thing to consider is that straight talk in the non digital world is unlikely to gain you favors even from people who agree with you. Sure, you have exposed your agreement with them, but you have also exposed that you are not merely incapable of powertalk, but also dangerously toxic to their reputation. They might have an image to uphold, and they can hardly afford to tip their hands to a buffoon. Even if they might ordinarily enjoy the chance to drop the charade and indulge in straight t…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 05:21 AM
2

Post less, lurk more, read the side bar.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 06:26 PM
7

And this relates to RP because... ?
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 11:11 PM
1

Absolutely. Women have hypoagency, to which it follows that men must act as thought they have hyperagency. It's always up to the man to identify his own weaknesses and shore them up. It's always up to the man to identify when his woman's attentions are straying, and take appropriate action (dread, nexting outright) to put an end to it.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 03:16 PM
7

There are a lot of new guys here trying to get with their oneitis, while deriding the advice they get because they're not trying to be a "player", completely missing the bigger picture. What makes this girl so special? Once you're of a higher value than she is, why shouldn't you keep your options open? You think she wouldn't leave you for someone better if she had the chance?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 03:10 PM
8

Telling her that you want to be FWB because you don't have time to find someone else to fuck displays a marked lack of abundance mentality both to us and to her. Why do you care so much about keeping her around? Are you looking for other women? Why not? Stop contacting her and find a new plate.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 03:47 PM
1

One of the things you discover is that hypoagency prevents them from solving their problems themselves. That's why they need men to have hyperagency.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 04:36 PM
7

Note however that there is a chance that she'll resent you for not loving her "the way she is" and ultimately failing to appreciate the good you've done her.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 11:29 PM
0

Now that you abandon the moral argument, you have one that makes sense. I agree with the reasoning, personally. That said, rather than insist that there is such a thing as a skank vs a good girl, understand AWALT. You've made a rational decision not to bring drama into your life by allowing your dick to be her next branch. She's following her biological instincts, and she no different from any other woman. Will you now look at other women and expect them to be or act differently?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 10:33 PM
2

One of the 48 laws of power is to believe as you wish but behave like others. This includes keeping up appearances. You do not want to go around dropping Red Pills everywhere, and giving people a reason to spite you. Learn to fit in, and cue in to how people act. Read the subtext in what they say and do. TRP on reddit is a place where we can engage in straighttalk about strategy. Out in the world, you absolutely must master the art of powertalk. Otherwise, even if you meet people who agree with …
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 10:17 PM
0

It isn't that morals and integrity aren't important, it's that they're irrelevant to the topic of identifying optimal sexual strategy. You are under no obligation to act without morals. Just because you know what works doesn't mean you have to do it if it keeps you up at night. You should absolutely be aware though, of how other people may act, what motivates them, and how to deal with them. Rather than shame the people here for dropping the scales from your eyes you could thank them for reveali…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 10:00 PM
2

Past benefit and actions do not guarantee future association from a woman. The phrase is "what have you done for me lately?" They can and will throw away a relationship of "depth" at the drop of a hat if they think you're falling down on the job in the current moment and someone potentially better comes along.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 09:50 PM
2

Where does it day anything about ethics? TRP is specifically an amoral sexual strategy. Any ethics or morals you choose to live by are your own.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 09:36 PM
1

There is no capitulation. TRP has always posited that women aren't able to be loyal, and that they aren't willing or able to love a man as he would have them do.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 09:26 PM
2

TRP is heavily existentialist. It absolutely forces you to confront observed reality instead of clinging to a fantasy. AWALT isn't 100% accurate in all cases but it's close enough that you can account for the outliers on the fly as they're far less common. Feeling like you could never truly love a woman isn't an unreasonable reaction, but likewise is just as reasonable to decide that you love them in spite of, or even because of their flaws. Just simply understanding the realities of what to exp…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 10:26 PM
2

Yes. Accept reality, understand your own motivations and the motivations of others. Use this information for your best happiness. The pill is bitter, but it's liberating. It destroys your comforting fantasy but opens the door to true fulfillment.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 09:54 PM
1

While it's certainly possible for a man to be attracted to another man, you are not describing a straight man. By the LGBTQ community's own logic, such a man is on some level Q. TRP as a strategy is not geared for Q.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 09:50 PM
2

Post-wall hamsters use intellectual compatibility and non-sexual properties to justify why a man "should" prefer her over a young and actually attractive woman. This is the same sort of hamster logic. A man is not attractive to a heterosexual man. No surgery or dress style compensates for this.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 09:38 PM
8

Look at the hamster down the thread But this is advice is only good to the extent of getting laid. It is only the first step. It is important not to overdo it and start equating "getting women" and "getting the latest iphone" as the same thing. She says that there are downsides to following this advice in that she always felt like she was a second priority and easily replaceable, which gave her the sads. Therefore he shouldn't take this advice too much to heart. After all, he doesn't just want t…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 10:51 PM
10

Thoughts? Lurk more. Post less.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 10:34 PM
2

You can get away with a lot of crazy fashion statements if you just own them and your body language make it clear that you're comfortable with how you appear. So yes, try a cape. You'd best make the rest of the outfit match, though.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 04:22 PM
20

Try to shame a woman out of having standards and you're a misogynist neckbeard. She isn't obligated to have sex with anybody. Try to shame a man out of having standards and you're fighting closed minded ignorance. He's obligated to look past every indiscretion and give her a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 01:19 AM
3

Poe's law in action, I suppose.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 05:02 PM
7

But if he does this and the court holds her responsible, then that might scare women who have been actually victimized out of taking their stories and holding real criminals accountable. Your friend should just lie down and take it like a man. A man's ruined reputation is a small price to pay for a society that finally takes women's complaints seriously, right?
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 03:50 PM
3

Indeed. It's even in their nature to be herd animals, just going with the flow. I'm not convinced that most of them really have a choice. Their agency is very selective.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 11:41 PM
2

If the pickings are so slim then the guys have to work with what they've got, yes? Isn't there also a gender imbalance in tech heavy cities in the first place? There is literally no reason for a woman to put any effort whatsoever into herself when her competition is so weak. Perhaps the men of Seattle should just say "thanks but no thanks" to the women there until they shape up, if this is such a problem. Either that or move.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 10:51 PM
12

These sorts of subcommunications are crucial, and while they're mentioned from time to time here, I notice them getting lost in the pile. To add another aspect to this point, consider that to women the 80% of men who aren't top-tier are invisible. Their opinions are so unimportant that they might as well not even exist. Their validation is unacknowledged at best, and taken as an insult at worst (" is that creeper really the best I can attract?! ")
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 08:04 PM
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He's said that one of his failed strategies is to compliment her more often. This is deadly for two reasons. The first reason is well known to TRP, and that is the fact that you're elevating her status above yours. The second reason is a bit more subtle, though. When women say that they want to be complimented, they don't mean that they want a straight-talk overt communication of the fact. They want a covert communication of this fact. They want to feel attractive by knowing that they've attract…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 06:38 PM
10

Point 11 really is the gold nugget. It's the very definition of entitlement.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 01:29 PM
3

You don't. You take that pussy off the pedestal, spin plates, and make her know that she has to work to keep you. You have to be ready to walk away at a moments notice with no regrets and no remorse.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 09:49 PM
11

Funny that her definition of equitable does not include the ~$50MM she brought into the marriage, and she needs $2.75 billion + maintenance. I mean, how can you expect anyone to survive on a paltry 50 million?
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 08:31 PM
2

While his comparison of the expectation of security with online banking and email to the idea that people should feel secure keeping nude photos isn't entirely wrong, there's an important difference. Society had pushed us towards using these inherently insecure means of handling our affairs, and we all are at risk because of them. A responsible person mitigates that risk as best they can. An irresponsible person exacerbates that risk. Would you call keeping nude photos on a device that is easy t…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 08:25 PM
7

I say let her stay ignorant. Pearls before swine, and such. If you must show her anything, direct her to karen straughan and her YouTube channel. She's more MRA but a woman's face delivering the message will make the medicine go down easier.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 04:22 PM
0

Honestly, anything society can do to encourage women to get off their fat assess and make themselves attractive to men should be applauded. Also, this is TRP. Self-censoring is beta. Curse or don't. Who are you afraid of offending with uncensored four-letter words in your title?
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 06:16 PM
8

Note also that this article is replete with examples of how lack of social proof makes life exponentially harder. "Every one of the women in our friend group can't stand this guy" and "every gathering is an excuse for him to try to get laid" or "he gets a crush on every new girl." As if his own behavior weren't enough to repel women, the new ones he talks to see clearly that he has no social capital amongst the other women. They see that nobody else wants him, so his advances must be unwanted. T…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 04:59 PM
5

Honest answer, no snark. Women have every right to whatever opinions and thoughts they want. In fact, understanding those opinions and thoughts is key to male sexual strategy. We observe how women behave and use those observations to our benefit. Happily, it also gives women what they want as well... Real men.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 01:36 AM
12

Fair point. That said, is hard to argue that he was unsuccessful. A small regional promotion didn't become the undisputed king of its domain through luck and nepotism.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 11:26 PM
0

I don't know, what are you talking about?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 10:17 PM
0

Rather than telling you if this was BP, here's an alternate take on events. This guy clearly can't manage time or else he wouldn't have made the commitment he did. He seems to really need something from you and you're in the position to give it to him. What could you have extracted from him in this situation? A free month? A discount on some items at the gym shop? What could you get from him that would be more valuable to you than cutting short one day of weight training?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 07:34 PM
1

True enough, you absolutely wouldn't have anything to do with her at that point.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 07:25 PM
-2

And if it's not true then what? You're tactility admitting that you're cool with her cheating on you? That's marginally better than flipping your shit, but it's still a net loss. You could come back and try to say that the bull is wrong, but then all he has to say is "That's not what she tells me." Or "I guess you're just not enough to keep her satisfied?"
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 07:10 PM
7

"How does my dick taste?" "I don't know, it's not like you've ever had it in that ho."
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 06:22 PM
13

Don't all women line up a new relationship, or at least a promising prospect, before they start a new one?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 06:02 PM
8

With the right frame, it would make her wet and she'd get all confused and ask you why the thought of you on a date with another woman makes her so horny.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 06:21 AM
3

In fact, depending on the circles you wish to display value, cursing may only serve to diminish your social status. It's base, and gauche. It's too 'easy' and lacks wit. If your milieu is the sort of rough crowd that values cursing and you wish to rise to the top then by all means adopt it. Be aware of your circles. Believe as you wish but behave like others.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 11:25 PM
1

I think though, that if you want to become that general that you probably shouldn't marry when you're a lieutenant. Least of all when you're still plugged in. Even if she temporarily has the lucidity to follow that advice at first, her fear that you'll outshine her later will cause her to sabotage you and bring drama to your life, distracting you from your goals.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 05:30 PM
2

Just imagine the contractual nightmare that poly divorce would summon up
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 01:24 AM
3

True. At a certain point you have to ask yourself if your friends are holding you back. While saying that to them might provoke an angry response, it will help identify who is on board to escape the bucket and who will just try to pull you back down with the other crabs.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 12:01 AM
73

For people who are still stuck on the point your friend is, here is some medicine. Do you really expect that the quality of the goods you have inside your box can be discerned without first opening that box? Picture this, when given the choice of opening a box that is : Immaculately decorated with ornate wrappings of velvet and silk, with a personalized name tag addressed to you Or A paper sack with grease stains and a slight odor of feces Which would you rather open? Which one would you expect …
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 08:34 PM
2

In the spirit of reasoned exploration, what have you observed that doesn't hold up to scrutiny? What alternative explanations and approaches have you observed or theorized?
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 07:19 PM
2

Guys (hopefully) see weakness as an area that could improve; girls see weakness as...weakness. Maybe it stems from how differently we acquire our sexual attractiveness: Guys work for it, girls just pull lotto tickets at birth. Very little room for improvement for them. Astute. I don't necessarily think they're wrong on a gut level, in that most people will do the least possible to get by in life, so you can imagine that if someone is already mediocre then they probably don't have it in them to r…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 02:43 PM
3

And a great haircut, dressing sharp and working out. That is hard to hide. Of course you don't talk about being at the gym 6 days a week and that you are counting cals to look like that. Doesn't mean you should stop doing it. Absolutely right. They want to keep hold of an illusion of excellence, and they'll go to great lengths to preserve it. As long as you don't outright tell them what's up, they're notoriously bad at estimating what's natural vs what's effort. I dress several notches above wha…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 02:37 PM
10

They also seem to think that telling a man who isn't ripped that he's "fine the way he is" and that they "don't really like muscular men" is being supportive of him in the same way that they feel they're being supportive of each other when they tell each other that they're "beautiful just like you are" and that they "don't need to lose those extra five pounds, you're perfect!" They're just trying to make him feel better about himself as he is rather than push him to succeed. Granted, they also t…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 04:54 AM
5

Wait, you work with her? And you live in a small town? And she's cheating on her boyfriend with you? You've got much bigger problems than trying to figure out how to convert her from plate to girlfriend.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 04:45 AM
3

Try always to remember to embody amused mastery. Anger communicates to your adversary and to your audience that you feel that you have something at stake, and that you perceive that you are in danger of losing it. It gives credibility to your adversary automatically, without them having to work for it.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 04:36 AM
7

"The water cooler is over by the chips and dip. There should be cups there as well." Replace beverages and locations as needed. Subcommunicate that you're teaching him how to get it himself, and that if he wants a drink he's going to have to get it himself. You haven't directly told him off, so your hands are clean if he starts shit over it.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 04:27 AM
2

True, but be aware that if she gets knocked up during the separation but before the divorce is finalized there is a non-zero chance that the judge will put you on the hook for the child support. She has no reason not to take this tack unless she just flat out doesn't want a child.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 02:24 AM
3

Note also that in some states you can sue for property and maintenance even if you're cohabiting. It's not just marriage to watch out for.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 10:39 PM
3

That article says "wives and girlfriends" so I would suspect that this is also yet another reason never to co-habitate.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 04:35 AM
1

Not better, just more focused on other things. Time spent pursuing many women could be better spent on career, artistic endeavors, martial arts, honing a mind for strategy. The more women you have hanging on, the more opportunity they have to distract you.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 10:36 PM
12

Thanks, with the author's names I found it in 5 seconds. Here it is, a Salon article by Janet. http://www.salon.com/2013/03/17/my_tantric_awakening_turned_me_off_sex/
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 10:16 PM
9

It solves your problem of having a man who can't satisfy your desire for sex and status but it doesn't satisfy the desire of any man who wants a faithful partner and devoted mate. Every minute a poly woman spends on a date or in bed with another man is one less minute she spends satisfying the needs of the man she should care about. It's also one more opportunity to "accidentally" cuckold her unsuspecting beta.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 09:27 PM
36

I can't remember where I read about this but it seems that in the years since writing that book one of the authors had a sexual experience that burned her libido so bad that she desires no sex from anyone ever now. I'll see if I can find it later, as it's an utterly unsurprising result of their lifestyle.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 08:57 PM
10

"Sarah" tells him that he should stay with his wife, and he interprets this as meaning that she really wants to start a family with him. He remains delusional.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 08:50 PM
2

This is the part I don't get. How does she get fat and then still manage to get her extramarital AF at the same time? How does she find an alpha who will have her like that?
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 05:27 PM
2

No. You have to show interest and intent. Investment means you care about the outcome. Intent simply signifies that your attention is on her. You approach a girl invested in the outcome, and she has the power. Approach with a devil-may-care attitude and she won't feel above you.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 06:44 PM
3

No, it's a validation of it. By necessity, dread only works if you are less invested than she is. Attraction itself relies on her being more invested than you are. If you're more invested than her, you're "clingy." If you're less invested, you're "aloof." One of these fosters attraction and the other kills it. Since women are more attracted to a man with options, implicitly they are attracted to men who are more likely to have less investment.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 05:00 PM
3

When she gets PMS-y, you have two options. Find a new plate to spend time with for a few days Fuck the crazy out of her. If she gets emotional and disconsolate, just toss her down and go to town. It's good for her cramps. She'll thank you immediately. Hygienically? IDGAF. We have modern sanitation. It's not like her bathing in the communal water is going to give us all the plague. If society collapses and we're all living a feral indigenous lifestyle, that changes things a bit.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 10:20 PM
5

Then go fuck a model. It would be easier than trying to game a fat girl into losing weight.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 04:19 PM
12

The fact is that you aren't attracted to her, or at the least you can see the train wreck coming. Lay it out on the table. Tell her what's acceptable and what isn't, and let her know that you have options and you aren't going to stick around if she gains weight. Dread game is your friend. You do have other options, right?
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 02:54 PM
5

I too thought at one time that I'd found someone for whom I could abandon the SMP and who I thought for once proved NAWALT. Even though I'd had some knowledge back then that would today be called RP, I wanted to believe. I even married her. Just remember how you traversed the path to acceptance the last time. You likely will need to walk it again. Ask me how I know.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 06:41 AM
24

"he just felt like he was trying to be a better "man" for Brittney so she wouldn't leave." No shit, it didn't work. The dude got oneitis and it wrecked everything. There's no such thing as doing the right things for the wrong reasons. The reasons themselves make the basis for whether the action is right or wrong, and seeking the approval of a single pussy so she won't leave you is guaranteed to fail. You can't just force yourself on a bitch who's already put you in the beta slot and expect that …
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 10:58 PM
2

It's not really a matter of my opinion on what is and isn't programming, I'm just going by what's in the dictionary. Providing a computer with coded instructions can be done in many ways and for many purposes.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 08:59 PM
8

This is the real answer. Long ago, in the days of vacuum tubes and punch cards, programming was considered to be women's work. All that's changed is the perceptions and the stereotypes. It's logical for women to avoid computer science and engineering given the social circles it puts them into contact with.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 08:26 PM
37

From a female psychologist : "The person who is less invested in a relationship is the one who is in control of it."
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 06:09 PM
5

There's a difference between desire and simpering neediness. The article incorrectly states that women want to be "needed" when in fact they definitely want to be desired... But only by a man desired by other women.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 08:49 PM
2

This is congruent with RP. If a man is more educated and with a greater net worth, then there is even stronger incentive for his wife to clean him out. This is doubly true if the male is BB
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 07:37 PM
1

As you might expect, they primarily are looking for alpha cock right up until the wall when they start looking for Bux. That said, they can often fish for cock post wall fairly easily. Also, some of them are more forward than others in regards to sending a first message than they would be approaching a man in person. While it's true that most women who initiate are undesirable, I've met a few notable exceptions. Also, when she messages you first, you can usually escalate her more far more rapidl…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 02:20 AM
1

he's already lost his wife's trust and she will absolutely work to undermine his authority now that she feels that he can't be trusted. No matter whether she leaves him or not, that family is broken at this point and he's too attached to trolling on the internet to care. He played a game and lost. Men and women both have every right to lose trust in each other based on observed actions, and in this case she might very well be correct to question her past judgments.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 08:47 PM
1

Even more to the point, he doesn't owe her a commitment even if she gives him sex. Just like women will tell you that no woman owes a man sex just because he has given her a committed relationship.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 05:40 PM
1

Amazingly, if you read to the very end, she actually sees the light. So, with that, I am exiting for a bit from the body positive and fat positive movement. I have to focus on concrete action — with myself. And if that means eating a Greek yogurt and orange for breakfast and a salad for lunch like I did today, with the goal of, yeah, dropping a few clothing sizes, I should be allowed to without feeling guilty that I am letting down a group. I wish everyone nothing but positive feelings about how…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 12:23 AM
27

It is never too late. If you think it's painful to eject now, just wait until she gets unhaaaaaapy and ejects herself with your hard won assets. You see this coming and you're still not going to dodge the bullet?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 09:14 PM
2

And yet people who are careful and selective can have quite a lot of sex partners while still remaining free of the virus, verifiable by testing. It also helps if you are careful not to place things that other people have on their lips (drinking glasses, straws, utensils, cigarettes, hookahs, etc) up to your own lips.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 07:18 PM
2

Here's the thing, when you apply the knowledge correctly they won't recognize it as being "Red Pill." They'll just recognize it as you being assertive, dominant, and attractive. These are all behaviors that they like, and as long as they like what you're doing they're not going to think to themselves "OMG I'm talking to some creepy TRPer!" Half the people on Reddit think TRP means that you go around with a hate-boner being a nice-guy and wearing a fedora while complaining that m'lady isn't dispe…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 02:59 PM
3

It would be entertaining to see the same chart except where the question is "Under what situation are you entitled to a man's commitment?"
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 12:34 AM
6

Thinking about how you want to be loved is such an alien concept. It's amazing but when I just asked myself that question I truly did not know the answer. It's critical in life to have a clear idea of where you want to go or you'll never get there save through blind luck. I can't believe this thing which feels so intuitive eludes description right now. I've got some reflection to do.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 11:56 PM
16

Many a truth are spoken in jest.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 07:14 PM
2

What I would say is adequately written in the post above yours about not feeding the wildlife. If you're settling for low value women whose value is a result of factors they have no control over, that's on you. Butterfaces can't help what they are, and a hot body is what it is. If you're settling for hamplanets and women who just don't put in any effort, then you're just encouraging other women by example that they don't need to do anything to get laid other than exist. Is that the message you w…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 07:00 PM
1

Actually I do see some value here. It's frilly, but the situation at its core is believable and realistic. It's also one that a bp man who believes that counceling and communication are going to be of benefit to him in any way needs to be aware of. There are good counselors out there but expect your woman's hamster to feel threatened and "unsafe" when confronted with her own failings in a session with one. She will likely try to guide you to one who is on her side and against yours and against t…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 06:33 PM
1

That is the kick in the teeth of existentialism, isn't it? The only meaning of anything in life is what you give it. What will you give it? Do you have the strength and will to conceive a reason? To make it real? To live it? What I or anyone else had chosen to do is irrelevant to you and your life.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 05:40 PM
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The way she talked about it, you would've thought she was a regular on here. This is ridiculously common. The shit that falls out of women's mouths when they're fawning over you is crazy, and it is possibly the only time you can actually take them at their word since it matches their actions.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 11:15 PM
3

I can't say that I disagree with the underlying premises at all, though I can surely say that I wish the world worked differently. That said, I'm not going to let idealism get in the way of pragmatism.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 09:46 PM
100

The best resources here remain the sidebar, field reports, and examples of the consequences of men's strategies red and blue alike. There's a lot of understandable anger and frustration here and it's grown with the sub's reputation, as it attracts more and more men with more and more ressentiment against women and feminism, but it ultimately gets in the way of understanding and useful action. That level of anger and emotionalism, if anything, will be the sub's downfall. A man who isn't in contro…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 06:46 PM
4

This would be fairly useless in a no-fault state. So you caught her cheating? Big deal. It doesn't factor one bit into the judgment, which will usually tip in her favor by default. Even worse, if it's an at-fault state and your involvement were discovered then I'd be concerned that the court would somehow justify that you'd engineered the failure by your own actions and still put the fault on your shoulders.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 11:42 PM
1

I suppose I understand what you mean about people being predictable. There's a lot of TRP techniques that are based on knowing the likely ways women act and react to men, and the more i've observed the more it's confirmed. That being the case, of course men should be just as easy to anticipate. I suppose it's all about context, yes? Do you have a specific book or set of articles you'd recommend as a starting point?
/r/askTRP11/07/14 09:59 PM
1

Perhaps you're correct, but how does one learn to defend against such manipulations without knowing personally how they work?
/r/askTRP11/07/14 09:54 PM
1

I gave you an upvote for your thoughts on the subject. It's not strictly a means to attract women, but a way to practice the art of engineering circumstances such that they work out favorably for me. At the very least, learning to think with more cunning should allow a person to detect when others are possibly doing the same. That said, how does a person learn to internalize the skills without utilizing them? I've never truly learned a thing simply from academic reading. There's a difference bet…
/r/askTRP11/07/14 09:52 PM
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Honestly, if TRP is simply men taking a realistic view of the world in order to make the best of themselves in the SMP and achieve their goals as men, then of course RPW would be filled with women who are doing the exact same thing but for themselves. No, RPW should not be expected to prioritize or care about men's interests any farther than is required to maximize women's sexual strategies. Just like TRP should not be expected to care about women's interests any farther than to maximize men's s…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 06:39 PM
2

Indeed. Before this guy's mugshot got famous, the most popular photogenic mugshot was a hot woman, lusted after by men all over the internet. People like to look at hot people, and fantasize away that person's life and experiences. That's pretty obvious, and isn't really cause for outrage.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 06:02 PM
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Cognitive dissonance should occur right about here: "Why doesn't everyone realize that women love to fuck?" Combined with "An infamous sub that tries to teach men how to manipulate women into having sex with them" So which is it? Do you love to fuck or do you have to be manipulated into fucking?
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 09:29 PM
2

Likewise you will be able to identify the crabs and cut them out of your life on your way out of the bucket. Watch who reacts with inspiration and who reacts with ressentiment.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 08:15 PM
0

There are some needy and desperate males in the world, and just because a social nitwit has read a few RP posts doesn't mean he understands a word of it or has the ability to put it into practice.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 09:05 PM
1

No joke. Honestly, most people lack smarts and savvy. The ones who need RP the most are at first the least equipped to practice it. They learn by painful trial and error if at all. Practicing social intelligence is harder than just lifting and eating right, and social intelligence is a key skill for anyone hoping to better their lives with RP.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 08:53 PM
9

Honestly I don't think it would be very uplifting. The reverse would be to look up international news and read stories about women in Bangladesh getting their faces melted off with battery acid for turning down a sexual advance, or a classroom full of immigrant girls in Sweden being found to have been genially mutilated as per the customs of their homeland. Shit can be completely fucked up for women in some parts of the world.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 08:32 PM
16

For someone who said he was RedPill that guy was a complete and utter beta bitch, and had completely failed to understand the rules of power and attraction. Really, if you're going out there and telling women in a first date that you're RedPill then you have utterly failed to comprehend it.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 08:20 PM
7

Bingo. Women are seen as a huge untapped and underserved market, and because more women than ever have jobs that make decent money themselves, while men take the brunt of the effect from the economic downturn, they are a highly logical group to appeal to.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 08:01 PM
14

I love how a list of perfectly rational observations about attractiveness is "dictating to women what they need to do" while telling men that they need to put aside all preferences and accept all women unconditionally is simply standing up for women's dignity. Are any of those 13 qualities that enhance attractiveness objectively bad things? Is it suddenly admirable to say "I shouldn't have to be smart or educated! I can be as dumb as I want!". Or "It's literally impossible for me to put even a t…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 07:49 PM
2

Eh, I'd actually be inclined to take the Google scout tale at face value. It totally sounds like a </thathappened> story from the outside, but I've watched various levels of actual sexism in practice at such networking events. It's generally a bit more subtle, though. No argument about the "Shocking" part.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 03:39 AM
5

Anecdotally, you're correct. Women I've been with love to know that they followed a line of others. They love feeling like I had options but chose them. They really love getting worked up imagining how awesome I'm going to make them feel using past women as proxy imagination porn. They want to know they chose a valuable and desirable asset, as measured by the marketplace, and that they are attractive enough to snag the very best. Sure, intellectually they don't want "a player" for a host of logi…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 11:17 PM
2

When men here come to understand that asking women for advice on how to attract women is useless, they normally liken it to the following: "You never ask a fish how best to catch a fish." But since you did ask, all I'll say is that once you know what men value, if you can look at the way you live your life and honestly and without qualifications or rationalizations, say this: "The man I want to attract would be proud to have me by his side." Then you're probably on the right track.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 08:00 PM
1

Thanks, that was in fact quite eye-opening.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 07:45 PM
14

There are some real advantages and opportunities to owning property, but if the only thing you're doing with it is using it for shelter and hoping it appreciates enough to flip, then your in for a really bad time. One other thing to keep in mind is that once you add up all the interest on the loan, you may end up paying double the sticker price at the end of 30 years.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 06:08 PM
7

Yep, women will absolutely try to sabotage self-improvement in a man when it threatens to raise his SMV to a level that she can't branch-swing to on her own. She knows the score, and she'll try to keep herself "happy" by dragging you back down.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 04:14 PM
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Have any examples that you can point to? I'm curious to see this in action.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 09:16 AM
2

Her sudden post-facto about-face from "fuck me!" to "I was raped!" Probably came from a few different angles. 1) She'd planned this orgy in advance but still needed the excuse provided by lots of alcohol before she felt empowered to do her thing. This gave her perfect plausible deniability to claim that her real desires were the result of being manipulated. 2) We know what women rationalize away their agency when they regret consensual sex under normal circumstances. Ordinarily their regret is f…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 08:16 PM
13

As I said, we've been seeing a counsellor but I don't know that it's helping at all. I thought things had been improving, we were laughing, having fun, getting things done and ready for the baby, then in session she said she's never felt further from me and that she thinks there's something we just can't fix. Pregnant or not, hormonal or not, this is real-talk, unmasked, straight-up saying "I'm ready to leave you. I have nine toes out the door and the tenth is slipping." Regardless of how he fee…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 02:01 PM
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Yeah, but you're having to make up for centuries of inequity so the 23% is justified. Hell, it should really be 46% to pay down the interest on all that devalued labor we've gotten from them. Might as well round it up to 50% of income since we're so close anyway. Oh, who am I kidding? Clearly the only fair situation is to hand over our entire paycheck and accept a small allowance from her to fund our meager subsistence. That's fairness!
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 02:23 PM
1

This actually gets to the heart of something I've wondered for a while now. What is the benefit of spreading RP knowledge at all? Doesn't this simply increase the pool of competitors who are well equipped to deal with the SMP? Isn't that bad for men who currently have the advantage? I can't possibly deny the truth or utility of RP, but what is the motivation here?
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 11:27 PM
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I don't think we're in disagreement. I didn't say that the behavior is good or productive, merely understandable and hopefully transitory.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 10:06 PM
3

There's real grief here. Anger is a very valid and recognizable step on the path of dealing with grief. It's not usually productive, and it's ugly, but it's understandable. One hopes that it's simply a step along the path to acceptance.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 09:37 PM
1

If they liked challenges then they wouldn't have society's switch flipped to easy mode. They are most assuredly not looking for a challenging mate. They are looking for a reliable and dependable mate who chooses them. They default to thinking of themselves as the challenge to be overcome, because they want a man who can overcome a challenge. This is the root of shit tests, after all. If women liked a challenge then it would be men dishing out the shit instead.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 09:22 PM
6

Never listen to what women say. Only listen to what they do. If she is making a big deal out of the fact that you left her out of this process and this decision, then that speaks far more clearly than the words "I don't ever want to move in together, and don't want to marry."
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 08:27 PM
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Thank you for clarifying, that does change the equation a bit. I think the others here have a lot of good ideas. One other thing to consider is that if people in your culture tend to live with their families well into their 30s then it's possible that what she said so long ago in her youth may not apply now. People change a lot over time, and sometimes people don't realize how they will feel later in life when making promises at the age of 19. Perhaps she wondering just what material value she's…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 08:13 PM
4

There is so much missing here. How old are you? How old is she? You've been together for 9 years and you're just now moving out of your parents' place? She thought you were a spoiled child, and yet stayed with you the whole time? This doesn't add up. How attractive is she? Could it be that she fears that you're elevating yourself to a branch higher than she could swing if she left you for someone else? This could cause her to feel anxiety that you'll realize how much better you can do and leave …
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 07:56 PM
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Generally, European attitudes about male circumcision is congruent with their views on female circumcision, in that both should not happen. Also, as you say, the mutilations discussed here are far more severe. A more fair comparison would be completely severing the penis and cauterizing the wound shut, while leaving the tesicles intact so they could be milked out later to ensure that reproduction can still happen but under the most painful way possible. So no, at least this time it is not an ins…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 06:54 PM
2

I don't really want to dump her because she is a really good catch and I think that it's fixable. This sounds like one-itis. Do you think she'll stop and think at some point that you're "a really good catch if she can just fix X?" Or will she leave you for a better prospect? Relationship equity doesn't exist in her mind, and you should question how valuable hers should be for you. making a mental exchange chart which alots a certain amount of affection for every bj/slam I get with her (so a bj -…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 05:35 PM
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