A thought on red pill theory

B_Polar · 2014-12-15T02:02:21+00:00

I don't know if it's the season or what, but I'm feeling lonely.

This is your main problem, you need to learn to be more yourself and stop giving a fuck if people like you. You say you have friends, if this is true, you should be getting companionship from them, if not than you must be holding back.

I can't have fun with them because I need to find out if they're loyal, I can't be kind to them because I need to find out if they can be abusive, I can't talk about anything personal because I need to find out if they are self-sufficient and self-sustainable.

This reeks of problems, you need to learn how to have fun dispite them. Learn to not allow them being abusive to affect you. Learn to be more comfortable with who you are and where your going, be a good judge and base everything on their actions.

So right now I don't know what the hell to do, I feel like I've sailed out in a boat and it's foggy and the map says I'm on path but it's just a fucking map that someone said it was a good map. Does anyone else feel like this.

Have you read the sidebar? Granted we are all in this together...the world and especially women do not give a fuck about you and how you feel.

circlhat · 2014-12-15T02:32:31+00:00

I can't have fun with them

You can't use red pill to have a blue pill style relationship, you know that kind of relationship is a myth, this is as good as it gets

trpMilo · 2014-12-15T04:41:46+00:00

"Have had sex maybe 5 times within the year"

You need to be having sex 5 times a week, then tell me how lonely you are. Yes, it's possible. For anyone.

Gunnilingus · 2014-12-15T05:35:48+00:00

You did a pretty good job of articulating the one misgiving that I've had since swallowing. Reading theory and FRs from veteran TRP posters, and from my own more limited experience, I can see that TRP philosophy is accurate. I see countless success stories posted by men in full control of their lives and relationships. What I don't see is those men indicating that they feel fufilled. TRP declares that the fairy tale romance/relationship paradigm pushed by chick flicks is a lie that encourages beta behavior and that after swallowing the pill men often feel frustrated and angry that what they all hoped for does not exist; I agree wholeheartedly, but wonder if that anger and frustration ever truly goes away. If one was born into TRP philosophy, it stands to reason that one could live a completely fufilling life as they never had the expectation of the fairy tale romance that blue pill pushes. However, adopting TRP later in life exposes the lie, but does not eliminate the ingrained, deep desire for the lie to be true. My misgiving is this: is there any way to ever truly fill the void that was formerly filled by the expectation of the fairy tale ending?

SelfMadeMonarch · 2014-12-15T02:32:35+00:00

You don't need to like a woman to fuck her. She doesn't have to be a unicorn to be good at tacking your load.

As an appeal to beta logic, how many women complain about their asshole boyfriends or the jerk she can't get to commit? Why is it that men aren't allowed the same reprieve? Yeah she a sloot, but I like to fuck her.

Spin plates.

NabroleonBonaparte · 2014-12-15T02:37:14+00:00

I kind of relate to what you're saying. I've been more introverted than I've ever been and I'm slowly working on eliminating that. At the moment my life is work, read, lift, socialize with the best of the friends I have time. Not getting laid every week but more successful when I do approach and getting hotter girls. I Keep few females friends since I haven't found many that fill my standard of friendship and invest more in my male friends that have good qualities.

I find myself quite happy although I have that "wandering through a fog feeling." Nowhere near my full potential but still kicking.

I ended up learning something from my workouts though. My routines are planned for the next 9months so my effort has only been exerted in showing up and increasing weight. It's almost like a flow state. So I figured I'd apply the same planning to life to truly reap a flow state.

To use the map analogy, instead of looking at it for coordinates, it's better to just head in a general direction and toss the map and just see what those blank spaces are when you reach them; pivot if necessary. If you seek to clear the fog it'll just get thicker but if you just move forward you end up leaving it real quick.

You've swallowed the RP and if you keep finding more truths you'll have an arsenal of things not to do and if you don't do those things, essentially every right action should work in your favor.

Hope my insight helped in some way. You may not ever leave the fog but if you move forward you'll look up someday and find yourself much better than you've ever been and that'll be such a gratifying feeling.

Stay strong comrade. Keep improving, move forward with confidence and everything will work out

kingofpoplives · 2014-12-15T15:06:44+00:00

I don't know if it's the season or what, but I'm feeling lonely.

You're looking at life through the lens of mild seasonal depression, so of course everything looks shitty. It's very common to start feeling down this time of year when winter comes on, it's dark all the time, and we have time off work to wallow in it. Stay active, work out a lot, and do your best to shake it off.

Have had sex maybe 5 times within the year

I think it's safe to say this was not a great year for you romantically. And you already have your excuse tacked on there. You're "busy with work."

If you want more companionship you need to put more effort into meeting women. How many dates have you been on in the past year?

You question the TRP map, but you aren't actually living it. I think you would be a lot happier if you at least had a plate or three you were seeing on an ongoing basis. It's not quite the same as having an LTR around all the time, but it takes the edge off of singlehood while you continue looking for a winner.

[deleted] · 2014-12-15T02:11:25+00:00

Keep improving yourself. Keep working out. Keep socializing and dating.

I think you may be distancing yourself too much from women by "interviewing" them. You will never find the elusive unicorn. Have an AWALT/abundance mentality and the women will sense your confidence and flock to you.

You can be nice to them, just don't fail their shit-tests. She will respect you more for holding frame.

You can talk them about personal stuff to create a connection, but don't reveal too much of what may make you seem weak.

I'm on path but it's just a fucking map that someone said it was a good map.

RP isn't just a map. It's reality. The "fog" will clear as you learn a study more. Unfortunately, with the way modern feminism has destroyed any sense of loyalty in women, finding one suitable for an LTR has become more difficult.

Stay strong, brother.

BluepillProfessor · 2014-12-15T07:44:10+00:00

I can't have fun with them because I need to find out if they're loyal,

They are not- or at the least they are only as loyal as your frame.

I can't be kind to them because I need to find out if they can be abusive,

WTF? Are you afraid your GF is going to beat you up? Are you worred she is going to be emotionally abusive? She will be, if you let her and if this post is indicating it is certain.

I can't talk about anything personal because I need to find out if they are self-sufficient and self-sustainable.

What are you people, on dope?.

t21spectre · 2014-12-15T08:27:30+00:00

As a fellow introvert OP I enjoy being alone. You know who I find to be the best company? Me. You know who thinks all my jokes are funny? Me. You know who enjoys everything I enjoy? Me. ..and so on...

Learn to love yourself and having only the company of yourself. When you don't "need" people you will never be dependent or co-dependent. Then you can truly enjoy the company of others because you are not trying to fill some void. This is very true when it comes to women too, they add to your life, they don't complete it or fill some hole in it. You are already complete and whole.

smokingmonkey420 · 2014-12-15T10:15:33+00:00

Take an AWALT mentality. Assume that they aren't loyal, can be abusive and are needy. They most likely are anyways. Let them prove to you otherwise and you might be pleasantly surprised.

aguy01 · 2014-12-15T16:57:56+00:00

Turn those one-nighters into plates.. you can plate women beneath your LTR standards, you know.

Also, don't lift so hard and eat more carbs to raise your T. You sound like you got the low T.

FrackFieldFirestorm · 2014-12-15T02:08:40+00:00

Dude! Chill, find yourself a fuck buddy, hey, you can even bang yourself an old cougar you found protesting with NOW or some crazy commie liberal leftist wacko parade. :D

BTW, don't take any dogma too seriously, including TRP and all its trappings. I mean, look at this BS. http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/europe/france/11293112/Men-who-like-spicier-food-are-alpha-males-with-higher-levels-of-testosterone-French-report-claims.html

So, yeah, I got like no sex drive, and I ingest spicy food like it's heroin. Plus I'm going bald like a mofo, guess that makes me alpha to hell and gone. ;) In the end, I'll probably end up with some 45 Y/O Thai mama who ain't that pretty, but cooks up a Cincinnati ghost pepper chili like nobodies business, and has sex like a manic psychotic with something to prove.

But what the hell? I'm getting old, and I got nothing to prove to 20 y/o punks into their drama, and Dr Phil pop psychology. lol!

Title	A thought on red pill theory
Author	Mathematic21
Upvotes	18
Comments	26
Date	December 15, 2014 1:02 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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