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| 5 | Opinions on dating a man whose dad is a serial cheater?Maybe. But if he’s had therapy to work through it, he knows better than anyone why it’s wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 01:53 PM |
| 3 | Opinions on dating a man whose dad is a serial cheater?I hear everyone saying he was raised around that so it was normalized to him. I can’t believe I’m about to stand up for a man. I was raised around alcoholism, drug use, infidelity, mental illness, etc. I’m a healthy, strong person now. I know those things are not normal better than anyone. We can’t throw people away because of their parents, many of we women would get thrown away. What is he like otherwise, OP? Has he worked through that trauma? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 01:52 PM |
| 6 | Gaslight-proof way to definitively show yourself you do more than your LV/NV domestic partner: have both of you write down everything you do around the house for a week or month.Keeping records helps you come out of the fog and stop gaslighting yourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 06:24 PM |
| 10 | Gaslight-proof way to definitively show yourself you do more than your LV/NV domestic partner: have both of you write down everything you do around the house for a week or month.It’ll be more obvious this way. This tip is only for women who are mostly gaslighting themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 01:04 PM |
| 8 | Gaslight-proof way to definitively show yourself you do more than your LV/NV domestic partner: have both of you write down everything you do around the house for a week or month.Agree to disagree. I think it’s sometimes more effective to lead towards, not with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 11:43 PM |
| 29 | Gaslight-proof way to definitively show yourself you do more than your LV/NV domestic partner: have both of you write down everything you do around the house for a week or month.It’s an exercise for women still in the sexist social fog | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 10:54 PM |
| 21 | Gaslight-proof way to definitively show yourself you do more than your LV/NV domestic partner: have both of you write down everything you do around the house for a week or month.This tip is for women still struggling with societal and interpersonal gaslighting. It helps them get to the point where they know, with evidence, that their home life is a 90/10 relationship. This is not to prove it their partner, this is to help prove things to themselves so they feel better leaving. Men are audacious about maximizing their minimal contributions and taking advantage of women, who are socially conditioned to over-function. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 10:53 PM |
| 43 | Gaslight-proof way to definitively show yourself you do more than your LV/NV domestic partner: have both of you write down everything you do around the house for a week or month.This tip is for women who are still In the fog | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 09:14 PM |
| 45 | Gaslight-proof way to definitively show yourself you do more than your LV/NV domestic partner: have both of you write down everything you do around the house for a week or month.I need my house to be clean and orderly to feel my best. I grew up in a lot of mess and chaos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 05:47 PM |
| 74 | Gaslight-proof way to definitively show yourself you do more than your LV/NV domestic partner: have both of you write down everything you do around the house for a week or month.Absolutely agree. However, this way you will have evidence that he thinks that’s cleaning the bathroom and you can make decisions based on that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 05:28 PM |
| 49 | The kids are gonna be alright! (Scroll for comments)I mean, I still enjoy TikTok either way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 04:59 PM |
| 202 | The kids are gonna be alright! (Scroll for comments)I’m a 38yo woman but I have to stay relevant on what the kids are up to (I work in marketing and advertising). I always feel so old doing it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 04:51 PM |
| 13 | Do you have any male friends?Yeah your stance reeks of internalized misogyny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 07:13 PM |
| 20 | Do you have any male friends?Most men will pretend to be your friend to bed you. Most men don’t love women, they only desire us as validation giving, caregiving, sexual objects. They save their real love for themselves and other men. I would not be close to any men except for a taken HVM who wants me to know him and his wife as a unit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 05:31 PM |
| 29 | Ask Amy: I think my wife is lazy for not having a career while raising our kidsShe’s taking out student loans?! Did I read that right? These men always act like women knocked themselves up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 12:54 PM |
| 7 | Avoidantly attached men like to pretend securely or anxiously attached women are “needy” when avoidants are actually very, VERY needy.You don’t even have to do it in person if you don’t want! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Avoidantly attached men like to pretend securely or anxiously attached women are “needy” when avoidants are actually very, VERY needy.The men you were with were likely anxiously attached. Am I right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 12:56 PM |
| 12 | Avoidantly attached men like to pretend securely or anxiously attached women are “needy” when avoidants are actually very, VERY needy.I have an anxious attachment style I’ve healed into damn near secure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 07:50 AM |
| 88 | Avoidantly attached men like to pretend securely or anxiously attached women are “needy” when avoidants are actually very, VERY needy.Women can’t be avoidant and find a partner. Under patriarchy, only men are entitled to be emotionally unavailable. It’s a woman’s job to manage the feelings of everyone around her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 02:06 AM |
| 47 | What are the most ridiculous pick-me opinions you had before reaching the age of reason?Sex work is empowering. Swinging and polyamory are empowering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 11:16 PM |
| 3 | I have no wordsWhat a controlling asshole | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 01:32 PM |
| 132 | The 30+ playboy life style isn’t what you think it is.It’s avoidant attachment + magical thinking + misogyny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Help me out of this spiralHe wrote you a letter after you made it clear you wanted no contact by blocking him on social media? Doesn’t that strike you as someone who STILL does not respect you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 11:59 PM |
| 34 | Chicken 🐓 Queen 👑 spreading the gospel that males of all species are generally uselessI admit that side of this is horrifying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 01:43 AM |
| 49 | OP is ignored by her boyfriend at a friend's birthday party because he was busy speaking to another woman all day. Comments told her to just talk to him. Proceeds to make a bunch of excuses for him as well.Men have created a culture where women gaslight themselves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 10:33 PM |
| 48 | Just a friendly reminder that men will date and marry women they don’t like.Men really think that they don’t need to be attractive for some reason. No amount of income or “entrepreneurship” is enough to make up for being an eyesore. This man literally looks like an M&M that got dropped on a pubey locker room floor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 05:46 PM |
| 181 | I haven't seen a disgusting serial dater like Pete DavidsonThis is a PR stunt to detract from the Travis Scott mess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 02:04 PM |
| 14 | Kinds of men that should be a deal-breaker but aren't, for majority of women, idk why. Note: some are a mix of all these.JUST MEN | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 01:28 AM |
| 20 | She asked a guy out. Scrotes responded "good, you deserve it. Now you know what it's like to be a man." She responded with a list of the garbage women have to go through.I don’t think he’s annoyed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Teal Swans’s observation? I think she means “accountability” and not ownership. I agree that lack of ownership is men’s passive aggressive response to female liberation.Ooof, deleting now. This is the first video I've seen of her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Telling women to “just communicate” with their uncaring, oblivious, self centered partners is the advice equivalent of asking, “Have you tried turning off and back on again?”Relationships shouldn’t get to the point where you have to put your foot down. Your partner should listen and care and accept your influence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 01:09 PM |
| 12 | Telling women to “just communicate” with their uncaring, oblivious, self centered partners is the advice equivalent of asking, “Have you tried turning off and back on again?”The point is by the time someone gets to the point where they're calling about a faulty device, they HAVE tried turning it off and on again several times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 05:22 PM |
| 94 | Telling women to “just communicate” with their uncaring, oblivious, self centered partners is the advice equivalent of asking, “Have you tried turning off and back on again?”Seriously, it's like telling women who have been r*ped that they "should have just communicated more clearly" with their rapist. EXACT SAME VIBE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 05:21 PM |
| 115 | Telling women to “just communicate” with their uncaring, oblivious, self centered partners is the advice equivalent of asking, “Have you tried turning off and back on again?”It’s called a double bind | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 04:05 PM |
| 159 | Telling women to “just communicate” with their uncaring, oblivious, self centered partners is the advice equivalent of asking, “Have you tried turning off and back on again?”LOL, the point is most people have already tried it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 03:46 PM |
| 54 | Telling women to “just communicate” with their uncaring, oblivious, self centered partners is the advice equivalent of asking, “Have you tried turning off and back on again?”That is a SOUND THEORY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 03:45 PM |
| 57 | How many red flags can you pack into 1 profile? LET'S COUNT!Men seriously do not realize that dating profiles are for marketing THEMSELVES to women not placing a takeout order. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 02:24 PM |
| 24 | How many red flags can you pack into 1 profile? LET'S COUNT!What’s his work that doesn’t allow him to post photos on a dating site? Professional house husband? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 02:21 PM |
| 3 | Another reason why we should never date men who don’t clean and proactively manage their health: this woman’s husband has poorly managed IBS and she’s getting shamed for being disgusted (“IN SICKNESS OR IN HEALTH!”) because he makes her clean up his literal shit.bingo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 07:41 PM |
| 28 | Another reason why we should never date men who don’t clean and proactively manage their health: this woman’s husband has poorly managed IBS and she’s getting shamed for being disgusted (“IN SICKNESS OR IN HEALTH!”) because he makes her clean up his literal shit.That exact sentiment is a huge portion of the comments | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 05:51 PM |
| 25 | Another reason why we should never date men who don’t clean and proactively manage their health: this woman’s husband has poorly managed IBS and she’s getting shamed for being disgusted (“IN SICKNESS OR IN HEALTH!”) because he makes her clean up his literal shit.Wives are expected to be mothers, it’s Oedipal AF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 04:47 PM |
| 79 | Another reason why we should never date men who don’t clean and proactively manage their health: this woman’s husband has poorly managed IBS and she’s getting shamed for being disgusted (“IN SICKNESS OR IN HEALTH!”) because he makes her clean up his literal shit.He feels ENTITLED to subject her to this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 04:47 PM |
| 43 | Another reason why we should never date men who don’t clean and proactively manage their health: this woman’s husband has poorly managed IBS and she’s getting shamed for being disgusted (“IN SICKNESS OR IN HEALTH!”) because he makes her clean up his literal shit.Women are made to feel crippling guilt for situations like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 04:05 PM |
| 449 | Another reason why we should never date men who don’t clean and proactively manage their health: this woman’s husband has poorly managed IBS and she’s getting shamed for being disgusted (“IN SICKNESS OR IN HEALTH!”) because he makes her clean up his literal shit.If this was a husband posting and he had to clean up his wife’s actual shit, what do you think the group response would be? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 02:28 PM |
| 7 | This is hands down one of the most utterly depressing things I’ve ever seen. No matter how bleak things get, thanks to FDS we’ll never be this woman, passively rejected for a proposal by her child’s father after 11 YEARS of dating.There’s no love there to be addicted to. She’s afraid more than anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 12:45 AM |
| 35 | I updated my LinkedIn with a big promotion. The same week, I started getting LI ads for local divorce lawyers. Even the adbots know financial freedom *for* women means freedom *from* men.Someone in analytics is ON THEIR GAME | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 11:51 PM |
| 41 | I updated my LinkedIn with a big promotion. The same week, I started getting LI ads for local divorce lawyers. Even the adbots know financial freedom *for* women means freedom *from* men.“I can’t control you anymore with the threat of poverty and homelessness? Better pack it up then” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 10:28 PM |
| 69 | I updated my LinkedIn with a big promotion. The same week, I started getting LI ads for local divorce lawyers. Even the adbots know financial freedom *for* women means freedom *from* men.YIKES CTRL ALT DEL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 07:29 PM |
| 138 | I updated my LinkedIn with a big promotion. The same week, I started getting LI ads for local divorce lawyers. Even the adbots know financial freedom *for* women means freedom *from* men.Thanks :D I beat out a mediocre man, which was most rewarding | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 02:47 PM |
| 5 | When we say some men are delusional, this what they mean. Your wife is not yet born is creepy! Calling women pretty young things is gross and dehumanizing.OMG how delusional | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 12:32 PM |
| 24 | Could you imagine the outrage if women routinely turned down sex with their partners to watch porn and masturbate? How did that become something we have to accept from men?AND they keep needing more extreme subject matter over time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 07:29 PM |
| 45 | Could you imagine the outrage if women routinely turned down sex with their partners to watch porn and masturbate? How did that become something we have to accept from men?Google John Gottman porn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 12:51 PM |
| 248 | Could you imagine the outrage if women routinely turned down sex with their partners to watch porn and masturbate? How did that become something we have to accept from men?FYI: The world’s leading expert on marriages says his research shows porn use by the male partner lowers the frequency and quality of sex for the couple. Porn is a “supernormal stimulus” and basically kills men’s interest in mutually satisfying real life sex. https://www.gottman.com/blog/an-open-letter-on-porn/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 12:28 AM |
| 132 | Could you imagine the outrage if women routinely turned down sex with their partners to watch porn and masturbate? How did that become something we have to accept from men?I’m talking about how wives and girlfriends are pressured and socialized to accept that men watching porn and jerking off is “normal” and “just what men do.” Men aren’t doing this because women are crappy in bed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 12:26 AM |
| 46 | Take your SO to a haunted house and see what happens.One reason so many men act so poorly in haunted houses is they’re not used to their lives being at risk everyday like women are. We’ve had more mental practice on how we should react to danger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 07:09 PM |
| 4 | What kind of tattoos are LVM red flags to you?No one nice gets tattoos like that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 03:07 PM |
| 6 | What kind of tattoos are LVM red flags to you?I can verify. I had six tattoos (down to two after laser removal, still working on those) and I was an absolute trashball wreck of a human being when I was in a state of mind to get tattooed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 11:46 AM |
| 31 | What kind of tattoos are LVM red flags to you?Like, if you loved your kids so much, why aren’t you still with their mom? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 09:56 PM |
| 498 | What kind of tattoos are LVM red flags to you?Confederate flag anything Harley Davidson logo Any objectifying depictions of women Any cultural tattoos from a culture that he doesn’t belong to Other women’s names | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 07:17 PM |
| 4 | Men Who are Still Friends With their ExesAmicable if they ran into each other socially? Absolutely. Actual friendship? Hell no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 01:22 PM |
| 3 | This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setupIf you’re married for 30 years, a $10k ring is less than $1/day. We’re worth more than that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 08:25 PM |
| 3 | Spotted in another sub. Subtle red flag that I (as a short-legged woman) have experienced too!I’m just imagining this scrote shoving his date to the ground to power walk away with his ass cheeks clenched tight | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 05:48 PM |
| 33 | Things you can say to piss off men (he has an entire series).I love the “we love a short king” woman 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 08:13 PM |
| 7 | Why do so many men refuse to go to the doctor for injuries, illnesses, etc? Growing old with someone who doesn’t take their health seriously doesn’t seem like a good choice.Yup, it usually gets to the ultimatum point with LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 06:25 PM |
| 42 | Why do so many men refuse to go to the doctor for injuries, illnesses, etc? Growing old with someone who doesn’t take their health seriously doesn’t seem like a good choice.Even mentally ill people have a logic process. It might not be sound, but they can describe it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 12:42 PM |
| 19 | Why do so many men refuse to go to the doctor for injuries, illnesses, etc? Growing old with someone who doesn’t take their health seriously doesn’t seem like a good choice.That’s what I’m saying, you’re doing right by yourself and those around you by being on top of it and trying everything possible, even if remission isn’t an option. Men don’t do that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 12:20 PM |
| 14 | Why do so many men refuse to go to the doctor for injuries, illnesses, etc? Growing old with someone who doesn’t take their health seriously doesn’t seem like a good choice.Have you tried everything to stop them? Like Botox? The point is that men don’t exhaust every option to have a good quality of life like women do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 11:32 AM |
| 34 | Why do so many men refuse to go to the doctor for injuries, illnesses, etc? Growing old with someone who doesn’t take their health seriously doesn’t seem like a good choice.^ this!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 01:08 AM |
| 126 | Why do so many men refuse to go to the doctor for injuries, illnesses, etc? Growing old with someone who doesn’t take their health seriously doesn’t seem like a good choice.That’s so weird. What was his logic? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 01:07 AM |
| 6 | A weird form of negging, but I can’t quite put a finger on what I should call itIt’s weird. He’s trying to equate having a pretty public face with being strong and independent? And saying that it’s a fake display and behind it you’re weak and vulnerable and need a man to feel okay? What the hell. No thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 12:49 PM |
| 17 | Men cannot be trusted with an idea like polyamory and its popularity shows how naive and desperate women have becomeBINGO (said as someone who used to be a Pickmeisha and dabbled in polyamory and swinging). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 12:21 PM |
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| 1 | a day in the life of a woman who doesn’t use a separate account for FDSCould be a guy recording his partner and posing as her online? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 08:17 PM |
| 2 | a day in the life of a woman who doesn’t use a separate account for FDSI’m not sure. The multiple videos make me think maybe it’s really a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 08:17 PM |
| 1 | a day in the life of a woman who doesn’t use a separate account for FDSBTW it’s insane there’s multiple versions of this woman out there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 12:32 PM |
| 12 | Bachelor Party And Strip ClubsMale strippers exist for other men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 10:10 AM |
| 1 | a day in the life of a woman who doesn’t use a separate account for FDSI don’t know. I wonder if she’s asked a few of the women her husband also fucks or the men who fuck her at his direction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 10:21 PM |
| 2 | a day in the life of a woman who doesn’t use a separate account for FDSYes, agree. And she calls all FDSers trolls right off the bat. She was commenting on a post where a women caught her porn addicted SO using again, and she suggested enabling it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 10:01 PM |
| 106 | Bachelor Party And Strip ClubsMale strippers are NOT the equivalent | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 08:54 PM |
| 4 | a day in the life of a woman who doesn’t use a separate account for FDSShe’s in my recent comment history | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 08:50 PM |
| 18 | a day in the life of a woman who doesn’t use a separate account for FDSA woman who is literally her husbands slave (according to her profile) and has a profile full of posts of him having sex with and abusing her told me I’m the maladjusted one for being on FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 07:51 PM |
| 37 | Grown man with a family asks “what am I left with?” if he can’t move across the country for a jobLeave and send child support 👋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 11:08 PM |
| 26 | Men don’t always marry the woman they love the most: a n insight from an OLD convoThese men don’t want to be emotionally attached but lack the self awareness to know what they’re doing, so they do things like idolize “the one that got away” instead of focusing on the here and now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 11:30 AM |
| 96 | Men don’t always marry the woman they love the most: a n insight from an OLD convoThis is just some fearful-avoidant attachment bullshit. If they got her back, they’d be back to alienating and losing her in no time. It’s a good way to remain unattached to available women, too. I’m amazed at the complex maladaptive behaviors of emotionally unavailable, insecure men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 12:08 AM |
| 10 | ladies whats some red flags that tell you a man is low key sexist?Cannot take feedback from a woman Is threatened by women in positions of power (such as a boss) Laughs at sexist jokes Is stuck on a particular body part (butt man, boob man, etc) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 11:22 PM |
| 8 | Instead of looking for a partner, look for the father of your childrenNope. The best thing a man can do for his kids is to love their mother properly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 06:03 PM |
| 23 | A Coward Move Many Men Make and I Just Don’t Understand“If I have to do work and take accountability in this relationship, I’d rather not.” One of the mindset giveaways of an abuser is feeling entitled to do NO work to maintain the relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 04:57 PM |
| 83 | The nerve to be jealous that he didn't get the 'peak hot' version of her, what a shame for the poor woman.Typical male doctor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Ladies how do you plan to KeEp A mAn? Wrong answers onlyThis is like standing out front of a 5 star restaurant and calling people stupid for not just coming out back and eating out of the dumpster | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 08:23 PM |
| 10 | Straight from the horse's mouth and a reminder why you shouldn't date men you are not attracted to in some way shape or form. Because chances are he's just settling for you, if he could do better he would replace you in a heartbeatThe absolute lack of self awareness and their market value is astounding. The entitlement is astounding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 03:25 PM |
| 26 | Why they neg, straight from the horse’s mouth.Your elbow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 01:49 AM |
| 111 | Why they neg, straight from the horse’s mouth.Sounds like you might not be straight, buddy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 01:48 AM |
| 19 | Weaponized incompetence is a form of mental abuse.You can’t tolerate this dynamic. You can control your part in it by leaving or calling his bluff. Don’t budge. Don’t do it for him. Google “overfunctioning underfunctioning marriage” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 12:58 AM |
| 12 | Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire.Under that deranged muppet of a beard is a recessed chin | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 11:04 PM |
| 8 | The straw that broke the camels back for me, and what has turned me angry and bitter against men is not only the abuse they've subjected me to, but the fact that I'm 28 years old and no man has never even gifted me a bouquet.I would continue to focus on your mental health and self esteem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 09:54 AM |
| 10 | I’d show you the comment I was responding to, but he deleted it. Called out a misogynist and he wrote an essay in response.A 90s man? Like a grunge dude in a flannel taking E? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 09:21 PM |
| 32 | Queens, we have angered reddit again...😂 The comments are really nice.This is some textbook DARVO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 04:10 PM |
| 28 | It's no wonder that men are as dysfunctional as they are... this is from a men's therapist's site...It’s probably a list of acts of basic human decency or baseline adult responsibilities | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 02:07 AM |
| 123 | I went and read comments about the Korean Marriage situation and thought this one was greatPlease make sure he’s actually non-traditional and not cosplaying that until he has you babytrapped | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 12:33 AM |
| 31 | Men are becoming aware of women's anti pornography stances and are using it to manipulate women.Yup, to Juggs Magazine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 10:20 PM |
| 33 | Reality of a future with any scrote that uses porn. This poor woman.Imagine the male outrage if women routinely turned down men for sex because they’d rather use porn and masturbate. Men would be ENRAGED! That’s at the real heart of the hypocrisy of male porn use: their entitlement. They’re entitled to as much sex from you as they want from you AND all your sexual energy should be given to them. But if they have “excess” sexual energy, they should be allowed to outsource it however they want instead of trying to reconcile differing sex drives head on. Or maybe g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 01:13 PM |
| 77 | Do not underestimate male entitlement and their capacity for retroactive jealousy.Or she doesn’t like his nasty bad diet dehydrated jizz screwing up her delicate PH. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 06:19 PM |
| 60 | I think we can all guess how this went down-- Elon must've used his work travel as an excuse to have an "oPeN rElAtiOnShiP", a total slap in the face to Grimes after having his baby!!! Friendly reminder that most wealthy men are LVM who treat women as sex objects and incubators.Men with shorter penises are more likely to have boys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 12:17 AM |
| 12 | Cry me a riverHe does not know or love the real Genny. He wants to endlessly chase the idealized version of Genny in his head so he can continue to suffer, which is comfortable for him. He knows he will never get Genny, and this way he gets to avoid being close to anyone. Classic unhealed avoidant attachment bullshit plus objectification (Genny is not a real person to him, she’s a symbol). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 04:40 PM |
| 3 | Always keep your coins snatchedIt is, but it’s a good place to start | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 05:17 PM |
| 146 | Always keep your coins snatchedIf you don’t combine accounts, your money from before the marriage is 100% yours. Once you mingle accounts, it’s marital property. Don’t do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 08:01 PM |
| 97 | LVM coworkers ranted(?) to me and I'm sad for the women in their livesWrite it down. I see this being part of a future harassment case. They’re latching onto you and will eventually turn on you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 12:18 PM |
| 35 | It's amazing to me how anyone can justify manipulation!Group sex is not normal or healthy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 11:11 PM |
| 32 | It's amazing to me how anyone can justify manipulation!Even if they were morally and emotionally neutral (which they are not), FMF threesomes don’t make sense. 6 holes and one dick? MFM makes way more sense logistically. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 11:10 PM |
| 82 | It's amazing to me how anyone can justify manipulation!Her friend is probably who he wants the threesome with. They might have planned this together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 11:08 PM |
| 16 | Research proves men are not the heroes they claim!Men protect themselves and no one else | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 11:32 PM |
| 20 | Study suggests that I don't give afThey feel entitled to be desired, whether it’s earned or not | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 05:55 PM |
| 42 | Congrats scrotes! Your screeching into the void and constant harrassment of FDS and its members has continued to propel us to the front page!FDS changed my life for the better! It empowered and refined that voice in my head that KNEW that libfem and conservative ideals were both wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 08:43 PM |
| 21 | Boundaries in bedIt does not sound high maintenance. Hair pulling is something we should get past after age three. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 12:08 PM |
| 11 | workplace dynamicsI did that when a guy posted the Wikipedia page for “beaver” in the group chat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 11:49 PM |
| 40 | workplace dynamicsI worked in automotive marketing and experienced the same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 11:47 PM |
| 39 | Men admit to being sexually attracted to their 15 year old daughter’s UNDERAGE friends and gets THOUSANDS of upvotes. Honestly I think 99% of men are closet pedophiles and this is what most women with daughters will have to deal with.The guy talking about not fucking 18yo’s ONLY because they’re emotionally immature 🤯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 08:18 PM |
| 5 | "My well off husband is "guarded with money" because of pAsT eXpErIeNcEs and sits by as I flounder. How do I convince him I'm not a gold digger and ask him to please help me so that I can stop crying myself to sleep?"This is textbook financial abuse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 04:35 PM |
| 50 | Every one of my exes, though.Because feeling guilty is a useful and normal reaction that you should utilize to work on yourself. It's a message from your body that you did something you don't feel proud about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 02:32 PM |
| 11 | "My well off husband is "guarded with money" because of pAsT eXpErIeNcEs and sits by as I flounder. How do I convince him I'm not a gold digger and ask him to please help me so that I can stop crying myself to sleep?"This is what paying for yourself on the first date leads to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 09:50 AM |
| 8 | Difference between a great man and a garbageThe story of protecting a woman and getting stabbed in the face for it will get him mad honeys in the future | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 04:58 PM |
| 28 | Every time I start to have 2nd thoughts about OLD, I find a post that reminds me that a large majority of the men on there are scumbag LVM & Queens can do better. I'm sure he will NEVER ask for sex and those wee blue pills he has are just "vitamins.'Hopefully he’ll get frustrated and just be some strippers annoying but cash flush regular eventually | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 10:35 PM |
| 12 | Every time I start to have 2nd thoughts about OLD, I find a post that reminds me that a large majority of the men on there are scumbag LVM & Queens can do better. I'm sure he will NEVER ask for sex and those wee blue pills he has are just "vitamins.'2.52 times | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 10:34 PM |
| 7 | This is an actual “settlement” proposed by the pro se defendant in a divorce case. Unbelievable.She’s gonna get such a good deal because of this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 05:41 PM |
| 67 | The comments all say "men are dumb, he's being practical" but completely disregard what this means for how he values his hobbies over his girlfriend. SmhShe needs to dump this guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 12:27 AM |
| 17 | “You’re a woman though”I hope he loses everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Lingerie is NOT a giftEww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 03:32 AM |
| 34 | Lingerie is NOT a giftIs “torture” a spot on typo or on purpose? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 01:09 AM |
| 4 | Lingerie is NOT a giftI would way prefer a guy who got turned on by a sun dress over lingerie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 01:08 AM |
| 24 | Lingerie is NOT a giftLingerie is so demeaning and such a turn off. If I’m not hot enough for you as-is, move along and get a pickme or pay for a hooker. I’m not performing for you in silk and lace while you have holey boxers and unshaved sack. Men who find typical daily stuff hot (like a sundress or a tank top) are much more arousing for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 01:06 AM |
| 73 | This is so real and it makes me sick.Women make holiday magic happen and everyone takes it for granted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 11:00 PM |
| 10 | Girl, you need the FBI, not relationship advice 😳This guy needs to be committed or imprisoned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 08:21 PM |
| 4 | Girl, you need the FBI, not relationship advice 😳Meh, I suffer from intrusive thoughts from complex post traumatic stress syndrome. They’re entirely unwelcome and they are not me or my actions. I have had therapy to help them pass, but they’re likely never going away. When you’ve had lots of bad things happen to you, you become more aware than others that you ARE capable of doing horrible things and horrible things CAN happen at any moment. This guy ACTED on his initial thoughts instead of acknowledging them as problematic and helping them dis… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 08:19 PM |
| 7 | Girl, you need the FBI, not relationship advice 😳“Somehow I became a real rape and murder victim by allowing my boyfriend to use me for his rape and murder fantasies. 😮 “ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 08:16 PM |
| 89 | Girl, you need the FBI, not relationship advice 😳Nope. It further hardwires the pathways of arousal in the brain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 01:51 PM |
| 11 | "He never seemed to mention that he could only live those dreams because his wife was at home with the kids." I don't think many men even consider the perspective of their wives giving up their own life for them. ('Humans of New York' if you want to read the rest)Glad for her he’s gone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 12:25 AM |
| 34 | What are your favorite quotes from Lundy Bancroft’s “Why Does He Do That?”Couple's counseling with an abuser never works because the GOAL of couple's counseling is to keep the two people together, so in the case of abuse, the counselor will become an enabler, helping find ways for you to tolerate that treatment and learn to better manage his moods. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 07:04 PM |
| 13 | FDS teaches independence. “Men’s rights” teaches exploitation and control. The differences in internal discussions about being a HVM versus a HVW are staggering.They are absolutely anti women and pro patriarchy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 03:47 PM |
| 41 | Female billionaire vs. Male billionaires— contrast between Mackenzie Scott and her ugly scrote ex Jeff Bozo 🤡She helped build Amazon so she didn’t steal a damn thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 12:38 PM |
| 116 | Bullied for being a FDS-er. How do you react to this ?From now on, when someone compliments your jewelry, just say thanks. Don’t talk about your dating life at work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 12:33 PM |
| 16 | UPDATE: I got a job! (From: "I'm an escort and camgirl. The FDS Podcast made me realize I need to quit")Former SW here who got out for a mediocre job and then advanced. I’m now an associate creative director at a multi billion dollar company. It can be done. FDS is the best female empowerment subreddit, period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 01:03 PM |
| 7 | I regret giving back my diamond engagement ring after the divorcehttps://igionline.com/ecert/ you can look up your certificate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 08:45 PM |
| 38 | I regret giving back my diamond engagement ring after the divorceJewelers are not going to pay anywhere near the appraised amount, no matter what institution did the appraisal. They wouldn’t refuse to buy based on not having a certificate (most diamonds have a number lasered on them that corresponds to a record in a database). Appraisals and certificates are for insurance use (price to replace if stolen), not resale value. Resale value to another consumer is 20-40% of the current retail price for similar diamonds. It’s even less to sell it to a jeweler. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 08:33 PM |
| 42 | I regret giving back my diamond engagement ring after the divorceYou can also go get a new certificate by having the ring inspected and appraised | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 07:37 PM |
| 243 | I regret giving back my diamond engagement ring after the divorceDita von Teese kept her giant diamond from Marilyn Manson after their divorce and made it into a right hand ring because she “suffered greatly for that diamond.” Follow her example! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 07:31 PM |
| 27 | I regret giving back my diamond engagement ring after the divorceThe papers don’t matter. Unless a diamond is more than 2 carats and high quality, it won’t resell for much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 07:29 PM |
| 16 | It Never EndsWhere was he with the budget for surgery, personal training, a nutritionist, personal chef, etc? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 12:58 AM |
| 85 | Men hate us both for being “high maintenance” when we’re young and “not taking care of ourselves” when we’re old🍤🍆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 12:44 AM |
| 1 | I have gotten banned from two subreddits now for “victim blaming” for saying women have an obligation to themselves to carefully vet men and be on the lookout for signs they’d be abusive. What gives?Thanks you for your kind words. Unfortunately, my mother was such a Pickmeisha that she got back together with my dad after having a kid, getting beaten up, running away from him, and him following her from Texas to Florida. And then she “accidentally” had two more kids with him (she was trying to baby trap him into acting right). She knew what she was getting herself into. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 03:05 PM |
| 1 | I have gotten banned from two subreddits now for “victim blaming” for saying women have an obligation to themselves to carefully vet men and be on the lookout for signs they’d be abusive. What gives?Thank you. It’s from childhood, not relationships. If my mom had known how to pick better men, it wouldn’t have happened. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 01:12 PM |
| 1 | I have gotten banned from two subreddits now for “victim blaming” for saying women have an obligation to themselves to carefully vet men and be on the lookout for signs they’d be abusive. What gives?I don’t think it’s about changing the message, it’s about the timing of the message. While the woman is trying to get out or has just gotten out and is in active shame and guilt, no, not the time. When they’re recovering, looking back, and think they’re maybe ready to date again? Yes. That’s the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 07:23 PM |
| 1 | I have gotten banned from two subreddits now for “victim blaming” for saying women have an obligation to themselves to carefully vet men and be on the lookout for signs they’d be abusive. What gives?I agree that’s true but I think they’re the minority of men who become abusive and it’s not about fault. It’s about doing the best you can upfront. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 04:30 PM |
| 3 | I have gotten banned from two subreddits now for “victim blaming” for saying women have an obligation to themselves to carefully vet men and be on the lookout for signs they’d be abusive. What gives?And the Pickmeishas who enable them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 12:44 AM |
| 2 | I have gotten banned from two subreddits now for “victim blaming” for saying women have an obligation to themselves to carefully vet men and be on the lookout for signs they’d be abusive. What gives?I have diagnosed, certified complex PTSD and I feel so strongly about retraining victims of trauma about what is actually normal and healthy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 11:11 PM |
| 6 | I have gotten banned from two subreddits now for “victim blaming” for saying women have an obligation to themselves to carefully vet men and be on the lookout for signs they’d be abusive. What gives?It’s worse than no one looking out for us. They actively encourage us to put up with intolerable behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 06:42 PM |
| 19 | I have gotten banned from two subreddits now for “victim blaming” for saying women have an obligation to themselves to carefully vet men and be on the lookout for signs they’d be abusive. What gives?Agree that this is a huge concern and warrents further study. But how many men are like this and seem otherwise like well balanced, calm, totally normal and healthy individuals? Could it be all of them? If it is, isn't that a warning sign by itself? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 05:01 PM |
| 15 | I have gotten banned from two subreddits now for “victim blaming” for saying women have an obligation to themselves to carefully vet men and be on the lookout for signs they’d be abusive. What gives?But when it does begin, it helps to be able to recognize it and have the strength needed to get out. Other women being allowed to talk about it so you can learn matters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 04:52 PM |
| 7 | I have gotten banned from two subreddits now for “victim blaming” for saying women have an obligation to themselves to carefully vet men and be on the lookout for signs they’d be abusive. What gives?Thanks for that insight. I’ll keep that in mind in these conversations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 03:42 PM |
| 12 | I have gotten banned from two subreddits now for “victim blaming” for saying women have an obligation to themselves to carefully vet men and be on the lookout for signs they’d be abusive. What gives?Thanks for your insight. I'm sorry you went through that and I'm glad you're here with us now. I never want the conversation to be about fault: I want it to be about empowering women so it never happens to them or never happens again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 03:36 PM |
| 16 | I have gotten banned from two subreddits now for “victim blaming” for saying women have an obligation to themselves to carefully vet men and be on the lookout for signs they’d be abusive. What gives?Like, COOL. If it's not all men, then there's no harm in us vetting them, right? If anything, the good men should welcome it because they know some men are bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 03:35 PM |
| 13 | I have gotten banned from two subreddits now for “victim blaming” for saying women have an obligation to themselves to carefully vet men and be on the lookout for signs they’d be abusive. What gives?You're absolutely right. But by not having the conversation, we aren't reaching the women who are ready. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 03:34 PM |
| 21 | I have gotten banned from two subreddits now for “victim blaming” for saying women have an obligation to themselves to carefully vet men and be on the lookout for signs they’d be abusive. What gives?I agree it's delicate and nuanced. The conversation involves some hot button words like "victim mentality" which usually result in an insta-ban but are relevant to the subject. I went through something very similar as you, which is why I think it's so important that we be allowed to have the conversation about early red flags, trusting your gut, and the value of cut-and-run (because men are replaceable) without getting banned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 03:18 PM |
| 24 | I have gotten banned from two subreddits now for “victim blaming” for saying women have an obligation to themselves to carefully vet men and be on the lookout for signs they’d be abusive. What gives?Should women try to recall what those red flags are once they understand and should they educate themselves and others on the early red flags? Yes. EXACTLY. I came from a very abusive home and someone doing the bare minimum and being mostly non-violent seemed like an absolute dreamboat to me in my early 20s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 03:11 PM |
| 34 | I have gotten banned from two subreddits now for “victim blaming” for saying women have an obligation to themselves to carefully vet men and be on the lookout for signs they’d be abusive. What gives?Yup. I've read that book. They will wait to be abusive to you but there are often clear signs early on they have the potential to be abusive that you can see in their interactions with the rest of the world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 03:00 PM |
| 15 | I have gotten banned from two subreddits now for “victim blaming” for saying women have an obligation to themselves to carefully vet men and be on the lookout for signs they’d be abusive. What gives?Yup. One of the women who accused me of victim blaming said that women can't help staying with shitty men because they have Stockholm Syndrome. Like, seriously? We're comparing staying with a loser with being a hostage?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 02:59 PM |
| 36 | I have gotten banned from two subreddits now for “victim blaming” for saying women have an obligation to themselves to carefully vet men and be on the lookout for signs they’d be abusive. What gives?It's also women silencing other women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 02:58 PM |
| 42 | I have gotten banned from two subreddits now for “victim blaming” for saying women have an obligation to themselves to carefully vet men and be on the lookout for signs they’d be abusive. What gives?Victim mentality. Men want us to have one. That way they can promise to change and guilt us into staying when they don't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 02:44 PM |
| 14 | Sex workers accusing us of slut shaming then in the next breath mocking us for "sucking dick for free" ...wow. And they have the audacity to demand we "support sex workers"SWs can't even imagine a world where women don't suck dick and have SW/porn free partners. This is such a low view of men and the world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 06:27 PM |
| 27 | The real reason you shouldn’t date “frugal” (cheap) menAlso, extravagance early on is a narc love bombing sign! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 10:02 PM |
| 57 | The real reason you shouldn’t date “frugal” (cheap) menExactly. No one is necessarily asking for extravagance (but if that’s your demographic or expectation, you do you!). Generosity is about giving because it makes you happy to see the other person happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 09:14 PM |
| 1 | How is this even a question??!!Done | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 07:33 PM |
| 31 | How is this even a question??!!Being this “frugal” is a hyper defensive overreaction from a man who isn’t tending to his past wounds. He expects the worst of everyone so he plans ahead for it. This shows he won’t be able to give the full faith and effort needed to sustain a relationship, where partners have to take turns giving their all to each other. Pass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 01:18 PM |
| 76 | Men: “Soon, women will be obsolete! Stay strong, kings!” Also men:Poor kid. It’s not even a “person” cuddling me. It’s a woman specifically he wants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 01:25 PM |
| 4 | Too far or just far enough?They’re gonna call them whatever they want. Inventing a PC buzzword for sexual slavery isn’t going to change their thinking or behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 05:35 PM |
| 19 | Too far or just far enough?Sex work is inherently animalistic and dehumanizing. The women in it aren’t animals or objects. The men buying the sex work treat them that way. That’s the point. This is supposed to make you uncomfortable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 05:15 PM |
| 16 | Too far or just far enough?Former sugar baby, stripper, dominatrix here. I’m so happy you got out 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 05:11 PM |
| 32 | Too far or just far enough?I’m a former sex worker. It’s absolutely appropriate to compare sex work to being an object or animal. None of the men who purchase the services think of us as humans. It’s dehumanizing and we shouldn’t rebrand it to “uplift” them at the risk of glamorizing and normalizing it. We should “uplift” them into safety and dignified, gainful employment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 05:09 PM |
| 7 | Scrotes chastising women as fake geeks for cosplaying characters they have not even heard aboutSorry sir...what?! Trying too hard for what? For who? Because she’s not trying too hard for her. In fact, she seems to enjoy focusing her skills and effort AND it leads to great outcomes. So maybe the real problem is your inability to focus time, skill, and effort into anything meaningful. Maybe the real problem is your unmanaged executive dysfunction. Maybe you feel inferior because no one wants to see you in cosplay and you don’t have the dedication or creativity to make it happen anyways. Whi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 01:46 PM |
| 6 | I like good abs and I can not lie...When people are mentally healthy it usually shows in their bodies. It’s not about being lean or ripped, either. Mental illness eats you from the inside out. Healthy people truly do glow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 04:36 PM |
| 14 | Men aren’t more “chill” than women. They manipulate the women in their lives into doing the hard work.My husband and his mother absolutely do not appreciate that holiday magic happens for them and my daughter because of me. They always say, “Tell me what I can do to help!” I don’t wanna fucking project manage you, for one. Be proactive and figure out how to pull your weight in advance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 03:17 PM |
| 16 | We all know it. If he wanted to, he WOULD.Bars are the worst places to look for HVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 09:34 PM |
| 3 | Early red flag: Men who hate their jobs and coworkersGlad we cleared it up, too. It’s the difference between “I got dealt a shit hand and I’m gonna do my damnedest to do the best I can” and “I got dealt a shit hand and I’m going to use it as an excuse forever.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Early red flag: Men who hate their jobs and coworkersI get what you’re saying. There’s a difference between complaining to vent (and laying off after you’re soothed and understood through personal validation) and being a help-rejecting complainer or having a victimhood mentality. I’m talking about the men who emotionally dump, reject all solutions, and won’t change their attitude. Look at all you accomplished, despite the hand you were dealt, because you’re tenacious. I too was dealt a bad hand (born to two poor alcoholic/addict/mentally ill/abusi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 02:43 PM |
| -1 | Early red flag: Men who hate their jobs and coworkersYou’re making a point, but you’re also engaging in the fallacy of relative privation. This isn’t very interpersonally effective. We all know there are very disadvantaged men (hence the wording about “the most extreme of circumstances”). Even in that situation, their attitudes and actions matter. Do they have some coworkers who are friendly? Do they take any pride in their work? Do they blame everyone else for everything? This logic applies for the great majority of women towards dating men. Poin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 01:36 PM |
| -1 | Early red flag: Men who hate their jobs and coworkersDid you read the definition of success this post is based on? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 01:07 PM |
| -1 | Early red flag: Men who hate their jobs and coworkersNo one is arguing they’re not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 12:50 PM |
| 7 | Early red flag: Men who hate their jobs and coworkersI would argue women in those exact situations would have it harder than men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Early red flag: Men who hate their jobs and coworkersThat’s fine. That’s not what the post is against. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Early red flag: Men who hate their jobs and coworkersI’m actually a communist. But I live under capitalism and being miserable and ineffective with my career every single day isn’t changing that. I’m talking specifically about how they handle work, not fulfillment in the rest of their life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 11:44 AM |
| 18 | Guy takes girl on a non-date and then is surprised when it doesn’t feel like a dateImmediate sexual attraction is a ✨trauma response✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 07:23 PM |
| 6 | This is my worst fear. Hope she can take her kids and get the hell out ASAPHis entire hold on her depends on her believing that she’s not good enough and needs to work hard to deserve for him to be a good partner. Never fall for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 02:15 PM |
| 5 | Gross! 🤮Imagine announcing to everyone you have a 🍤 🍆 and you don’t understand how vaginas work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 12:16 AM |
| 10 | Gross! 🤮This guy is not the type to even “let you” hire a nanny. You have to do all the childcare, all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 12:14 AM |
| 7 | Brother’s school has a bizarre prom ruleAlert the media | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 02:49 PM |
| 48 | Pick me makes sure to give her credit card to her boyfriend so it can look like he payed. I hate this.Yeah just don’t do the first part | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 02:23 PM |
| 9 | Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow.The times women have been queen have been desperate attempts to preserve and protect dynasties when there was no male heir. It has never been because of equality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 10:40 AM |
| 104 | Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow.He’s wanted to get away for a long time because of what happened to his mother. Plus, there’s rumors he’s “illegitimate” which might also explain the difference in how he and his kid were treated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 05:32 PM |
| 13 | Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow.The dude needed a green card to get away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 05:31 PM |
| 6 | A religious, Q-Anon following white man targeted and killed 8, most of whom were female Asian sex workers. The news is only focusing on the race aspect and not the gender or sex work aspect. Never doubt the danger men pose.EXACTLY! If it was racially motivated, he could have gone to H Mart down the street and gotten more Asian people. If the motive was to get "regular" Asian women, he could have gone to a big nail salon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 05:21 PM |
| 47 | A religious, Q-Anon following white man targeted and killed 8, most of whom were female Asian sex workers. The news is only focusing on the race aspect and not the gender or sex work aspect. Never doubt the danger men pose.Often the spas will pay off the cops so even reporting it just means telling them what they already know | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 04:56 PM |
| 8 | A religious, Q-Anon following white man targeted and killed 8, most of whom were female Asian sex workers. The news is only focusing on the race aspect and not the gender or sex work aspect. Never doubt the danger men pose.My AA clubhouse is almost next door to the spa. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 04:53 PM |
| 32 | A religious, Q-Anon following white man targeted and killed 8, most of whom were female Asian sex workers. The news is only focusing on the race aspect and not the gender or sex work aspect. Never doubt the danger men pose.Shots from his social media have been leaked | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 03:55 PM |
| 71 | A religious, Q-Anon following white man targeted and killed 8, most of whom were female Asian sex workers. The news is only focusing on the race aspect and not the gender or sex work aspect. Never doubt the danger men pose.Sex motivated. It’s official. https://www.npr.org/2021/03/17/978141138/atlanta-shooting-suspect-is-believed-to-have-visited-spas-he-targeted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 03:50 PM |
| 15 | A religious, Q-Anon following white man targeted and killed 8, most of whom were female Asian sex workers. The news is only focusing on the race aspect and not the gender or sex work aspect. Never doubt the danger men pose.I KNEW IT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 03:45 PM |
| 187 | A religious, Q-Anon following white man targeted and killed 8, most of whom were female Asian sex workers. The news is only focusing on the race aspect and not the gender or sex work aspect. Never doubt the danger men pose.He did. NPR is reporting it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 03:42 PM |
| 30 | A religious, Q-Anon following white man targeted and killed 8, most of whom were female Asian sex workers. The news is only focusing on the race aspect and not the gender or sex work aspect. Never doubt the danger men pose.I saw a black guy open carrying at Waffle House and I was like YESSSSS TAKE THE POWER BACK (but also pls don't get shot) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 03:01 PM |
| 253 | A religious, Q-Anon following white man targeted and killed 8, most of whom were female Asian sex workers. The news is only focusing on the race aspect and not the gender or sex work aspect. Never doubt the danger men pose.If you doubt that these "massage parlors" are fronts for prostitution, feel free to look at the Yelp reviews for these places or google "Atlanta Asian spa prostitution raid." Most of these women were coerced or trafficked, as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 02:51 PM |
| 13 | BDSM and IPV (intimate partner violence) are related. Men look for women who tolerate BDSM because they know there’s a better chance they’ll be able to abuse them non-sexually. Hopefully this poor girl makes it out alive.I went through the same thing (I was actually a dominatrix for a short time). I saw firsthand that people with “fetishes” were actually just reenacting trauma. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 10:31 PM |
| 14 | BDSM and IPV (intimate partner violence) are related. Men look for women who tolerate BDSM because they know there’s a better chance they’ll be able to abuse them non-sexually. Hopefully this poor girl makes it out alive.Yup. I spent the first 18 years of my life being an actual victim and it was very hard to break out of that role when I was no longer being victimized. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 09:44 PM |
| 28 | BDSM and IPV (intimate partner violence) are related. Men look for women who tolerate BDSM because they know there’s a better chance they’ll be able to abuse them non-sexually. Hopefully this poor girl makes it out alive.She absolutely is the type to swept up by an abuser and become a tool for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 07:07 PM |
| 32 | BDSM and IPV (intimate partner violence) are related. Men look for women who tolerate BDSM because they know there’s a better chance they’ll be able to abuse them non-sexually. Hopefully this poor girl makes it out alive.I certainly hope that’s the case, but I don’t have any doubt that internalized misogyny could twist a vulnerable woman’s mind this way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 07:05 PM |
| -16 | BDSM and IPV (intimate partner violence) are related. Men look for women who tolerate BDSM because they know there’s a better chance they’ll be able to abuse them non-sexually. Hopefully this poor girl makes it out alive.I don’t like victim blaming, but most of the time when women get trapped in abusive situations like this, they are partially to blame (because they don’t leave at the first signs of abuse, they think this behavior is normal, and don’t vet men thoroughly enough). I know because I used to be that type. Victimhood is comfortable. You get to blame everyone else but yourself for what happens to you. This is why coaching women (and girls!) on early warning signs is so important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 06:47 PM |
| 48 | BDSM and IPV (intimate partner violence) are related. Men look for women who tolerate BDSM because they know there’s a better chance they’ll be able to abuse them non-sexually. Hopefully this poor girl makes it out alive.I dunno, I think wanting to hurt your partner or be hurt yourself is problematic and no amount of lip service about consent or respect changes that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 05:55 PM |
| 47 | BDSM and IPV (intimate partner violence) are related. Men look for women who tolerate BDSM because they know there’s a better chance they’ll be able to abuse them non-sexually. Hopefully this poor girl makes it out alive.It’s the same person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 05:38 PM |
| 8 | I'm tired of pretending men don't ageGlobalism meaning one currency and a worldwide minimum wage. So men from rich countries can’t buy women from poorer ones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 07:30 PM |
| 0 | I'm tired of pretending men don't ageThis is part of why I’m pro globalism | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 01:08 PM |
| 14 | I'm tired of pretending men don't ageI don’t know what person convinced us that women fall apart at 30 and men somehow reach their final form at 50, but I’m 100% sure it was someone in marketing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 01:06 PM |
| 28 | I'm tired of pretending men don't ageThey’ll tell you that’s because their testosterone is so high 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 01:03 PM |
| 7 | What kind of twisted thinking is this? „If Sex Work wouldn‘t exist, men would be even more violent to women“ I‘m so tired of this BS that libfems spread to justify exploitation of women to „prevent“ more violenceSo we should have people who are paid to get murdered to lower the murder rate? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Reminder that most men aren't looking for an equal partner, but rather someone to feed their ego... Always check if his "dream woman" description matches a dog! 😂Hopefully by a good owner and not some confused embarrassed dude | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Reminder that most men aren't looking for an equal partner, but rather someone to feed their ego... Always check if his "dream woman" description matches a dog! 😂Those are CAT TRAITS. Your cat isn’t nice because she resembles a dog. She’s nice because she’s a nice cat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Reminder that most men aren't looking for an equal partner, but rather someone to feed their ego... Always check if his "dream woman" description matches a dog! 😂I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again: the Venn diagram of people who prefer dogs over cats and people who don’t understand consent is a circle ⭕️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 05:28 PM |
| 69 | Pickmes and Newbies listen up. We don't do 50/50. Read the Handbook, but also consider this:Every school of etiquette dictates that whoever initiated the date should pay the tab. And since HVW don't ask men on dates, it's clear who should pay. If you asked a man out, etiquette dictates you should pay, so you're doing this dating thing wrong. You're giving away your time, or worse, compensating him for his when he's not truly interested in you. If a man asked you out for the pleasure of your company and getting to know you, he'd insist on paying the tab. It's the LEAST he can do to comp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 05:20 PM |
| 7 | The majority of older Japanese wives suffer from “retired husband sydrome” which is caused by the stress of caring for an older husbandI hate it that so many of our mothers are Pickmeishas | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 06:49 PM |
| 35 | The majority of older Japanese wives suffer from “retired husband sydrome” which is caused by the stress of caring for an older husbandSounds like dad needs to go back to work | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 07:59 PM |
| 29 | Let’s talk about “Trad” men. And why I used to be attracted to them.Trad men want to purchase mint condition virgins for the purpose and owning and exploiting them. They don’t want to provide out of the goodness of their hearts, or out of a sense of masculine pride, or because they see the caretaker role as equal to the provider role. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 05:58 PM |
| 11 | What do you ladies think?DUDE DETECTED | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 05:25 PM |
| 52 | What do you ladies think?Checks out. This is why abstinence is taught in school: because it fails and produces teen pregnancies which equals cheap laborers or soldiers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 05:22 PM |
| 3 | Another reason why vetting is so crucial. Imagine passing away and the father of your children is so incapable that he uses your daughter as his maid & chef. Disgusting.Pay yourself for your labor | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 01:28 PM |
| 14 | Another reason why vetting is so crucial. Imagine passing away and the father of your children is so incapable that he uses your daughter as his maid & chef. Disgusting.Men are so depraved that I wouldn’t be surprised if many of these girls were also sexually abused by their fathers and brothers once mom is gone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 01:22 PM |
| 34 | A queen’s 👸 response to a request for analWell they need to stop living their pegging fantasies vicariously through us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 01:37 PM |
| 14 | Why “50/50” is so often still unequal...But there’s tons of daily work that would be impractical to rely on a service for, like dishes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 12:15 PM |
| 15 | 👑 You dropped this, Scrote King 🤴 🤮“A good woman would respect my masculinity and enjoy my pheromones” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:01 PM |
| 70 | The audacity is off the charts. This is also why FDS advocates blocking and deleting men as soon as it’s done (NOTE: this screenshot was found on Twitter).No then he might actually get money | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 03:16 PM |
| 15 | If he walks faster than you in public, DUMP HIMYup. Agree. It’s also straight up social idiocy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 11:00 AM |
| 0 | Ah yes, to be already 17 and struggling to empathize with the issues 50% of population face! Of course feminists should teach you how to see us as human <3Sounds like a potential future HVM breaking out of his patriarchal grooming 👍🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Gamers, porn addicts, misogynists, and ugly people are not legally protected classes 😑🤦♀️“Well I hate it” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 08:26 PM |
| 5 | Gamers, porn addicts, misogynists, and ugly people are not legally protected classes 😑🤦♀️They can get it, but it's a super risky and invasive surgery. I wouldn't do it if I were them, but I also wouldn't be the type to demean women to feel better about my body. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 05:00 PM |
| 35 | Gamers, porn addicts, misogynists, and ugly people are not legally protected classes 😑🤦♀️“bUt YoU cAn gEt pLaStIc sUrGeRy” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 01:23 AM |
| 58 | Gamers, porn addicts, misogynists, and ugly people are not legally protected classes 😑🤦♀️Meanwhile breasts don’t serve any function but aesthetics and dick size actually is important to ease of orgasm for many women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 01:22 AM |
| 85 | Gamers, porn addicts, misogynists, and ugly people are not legally protected classes 😑🤦♀️Neither is penis size. I’ve gotten SO MANY hate messages from both men and “women” after I make comments that penis size matters (within reasons bigger does feel better than smaller for most women). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 11:24 PM |
| 11 | Why are men so disrespectful when it comes to women that don’t “meet their standards”?Because they’re abusive and controlling in and out of relationships. Even when they find a woman who meets their standards, they will do the same thing to them. The demoralize and insult in order to control because they know deep down they’re not good enough as-is to deserve what they want. “Don’t you dare be confident!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 06:27 PM |
| 7 | I want to share an eye opening conversation i had with a guy friendYes, all of this is true, but they make it even more brutal in the show. At least the book makes a half ass show of her saying “Yes” instead of wordlessly raping her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 12:44 AM |
| 81 | I want to share an eye opening conversation i had with a guy friendIt’s totally the opposite of her character! She’d murder someone who raped her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 07:36 PM |
| 13 | I want to share an eye opening conversation i had with a guy friendThat or Lovecraft Country? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 07:34 PM |
| 41 | I want to share an eye opening conversation i had with a guy friendI know a guy who has been able to sit through rape scenes of women, no problem. But he was highly upset by the male rape (because just regular rape is for women) scene in Lovecraft Country. He stopped watching the whole series. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 07:33 PM |
| 94 | I want to share an eye opening conversation i had with a guy friendIn the book it was consensual and he was tender with her (as far as forced marriages with horse lords go) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 07:31 PM |
| 41 | “It’s fine if she’s legal.” This is so problematic.I had a man tell me once that anyone over 18 is “age appropriate” 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 03:40 PM |
| 111 | For the man who thinks that wiping their own poopy butt is “gay”I think they might actually get away with charging a premium for these, given their anti gay powers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 10:16 PM |
| 71 | If size doesn't matter, why don't they make 3-inch dildos?I was absolutely head over heels for a guy who turned out to have a 5 inch dick. It wouldn’t have mattered to me AT ALL, but he kept bringing it up and needed me to constantly reassure him it was big enough (I mean, it wasn’t, but we didn’t need to discuss that). He was funny to the point of brilliance, otherwise self assured, and good looking but the penis insecurity absolutely ruined it. If he had just been confident and nonchalant about it, I would have rode that teeny weenie forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 09:18 PM |
| 38 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessA high school friend of mine died of cancer at 31, leaving behind two toddlers. The day she died, her husband blogged about taking off the ring and “being single now.” He got remarried to a high school friend of his six months to the day after her death. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 06:34 PM |
| 51 | Why "jUsT cOmMuNiCaTe" is problematic: we live in a culture where men generally get what they want when they ask for it, and where women generally don't.Like why even have a partner if you can’t rely on them for anything? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 04:42 PM |
| 137 | Why "jUsT cOmMuNiCaTe" is problematic: we live in a culture where men generally get what they want when they ask for it, and where women generally don't.This is part of cultural abuse. Men's preferences are seen as rights and our rights are seen as preferences. Also, you can't cOmMuNiCaTe with someone who doesn't want to hear or comprehend what you're saying and is determined to misunderstand you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 01:24 PM |
| 7 | I hate when men bring up men's issues when you talk about women's issuesYeah, they’re called blind spots for a reason. So long as he’s respective to feedback and willing to improve, he’s golden. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 12:25 AM |
| 13 | I hate when men bring up men's issues when you talk about women's issuesIt gets them EVERY TIME. They’re not actually concerned about that issue, they’re trying to obstruct, deflect, derail any conversations about woman’s issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 12:24 AM |
| 12 | I hate when men bring up men's issues when you talk about women's issuesPoint out to him that when he does this, it seems like a way to detract from and stop conversation about women’s issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 08:22 PM |
| 27 | I hate when men bring up men's issues when you talk about women's issuesMy response is usually, “Wow. That does sound like an important issue. Why haven’t you ever brought it up before?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 08:21 PM |
| 28 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"How dumb do you need to be to think it’s reasonable to pick a life partner based on their ~being young which is temporary for everyone~? Do men not realize they age at the same rate that we do? Like yeah, maybe it’s culturally more acceptable for you to have early wrinkles, Chad, but nobody wants your ear hair or limp noodle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:01 PM |
| 105 | If he sucks up your time rather than enriching it, he's low valueThere’s also a different variety of low value man in this category: the ones who appear constantly busy but are accomplishing nothing. These ones are on trauma and anxiety autopilot and feel like they have to always be doing SOMETHING, no matter what it is. Those men cannot have meaningful relaxation time, either. They live the same year 75 times in a row and call it a life. They will accomplish very little in terms of personal development and will be the same year to year. They won’t be able to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Proud of myselfGood for you! You’ve kept the space open in your life for the right man to come in! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 06:34 PM |
| 3 | Almost burnt outAbsolutely. I would honestly call CPS for a wellness check if you had the family’s info. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 07:36 PM |
| 2 | What are you an expert on? How have totally uninformed men incorrectly mansplained your area of expertise to you?Pretty sure you’re an expert on your own culture IJS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 03:54 PM |
| 5 | What are you an expert on? How have totally uninformed men incorrectly mansplained your area of expertise to you?This post is full of women who are absolute experts in their topics and start with “I’m not an expert but... (says super expert shit)” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 01:54 AM |
| 2 | What are you an expert on? How have totally uninformed men incorrectly mansplained your area of expertise to you?Someone who was supposed to love you was so threatened by your success that he felt the need to replicate it to put you in your place or something? What a NVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 08:45 PM |
| 25 | It do be like thatSeriously! Where is the mangerie?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 07:41 PM |
| 13 | What are you an expert on? How have totally uninformed men incorrectly mansplained your area of expertise to you?Okay I’m not a speaker but ❤️🇬🇷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 07:33 PM |
| 17 | What are you an expert on? How have totally uninformed men incorrectly mansplained your area of expertise to you?The best was when I knew a major brand’s logo’s proper name (The Iron Mark of Volvo). I included it in a presentation deck for our asshole CEO and he told me to take it out because if he, a “car guy,” didn’t know that, no one would...not even the people who work there. His presentation got scheduled in (wait for it) The Iron Mark room at US HQ. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 07:28 PM |
| 12 | What are you an expert on? How have totally uninformed men incorrectly mansplained your area of expertise to you?“Was it good fiction?! Why aren’t you published, then? I could get published if I tried, but I don’t feel like it.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 07:25 PM |
| 14 | What are you an expert on? How have totally uninformed men incorrectly mansplained your area of expertise to you?“Well, you shouldn’t feel that way” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 07:20 PM |
| 31 | What are you an expert on? How have totally uninformed men incorrectly mansplained your area of expertise to you?I’m Greek! Gotta love the “My American liberal arts college background is more relevant than your cultural experience” guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 07:19 PM |
| 32 | What are you an expert on? How have totally uninformed men incorrectly mansplained your area of expertise to you?You would nevvvvvvver hear a man say he isn’t an expert in anything. That level of humility and self awareness is uniquely female. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 07:18 PM |
| 35 | What are you an expert on? How have totally uninformed men incorrectly mansplained your area of expertise to you?“My loud opinions are more important than your quiet facts.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 07:17 PM |
| 13 | What are you an expert on? How have totally uninformed men incorrectly mansplained your area of expertise to you?The full beard/shaved head combo is man Spanx | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 05:00 PM |
| 30 | What are you an expert on? How have totally uninformed men incorrectly mansplained your area of expertise to you?And we’re bitches if we don’t praise them for their basic basic knowledge | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 04:19 PM |
| 17 | What are you an expert on? How have totally uninformed men incorrectly mansplained your area of expertise to you?Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 03:37 PM |
| 18 | What are you an expert on? How have totally uninformed men incorrectly mansplained your area of expertise to you?I worked as a writer in that space for a while and the mansplaining was relentless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 03:25 PM |
| 8 | What are you an expert on? How have totally uninformed men incorrectly mansplained your area of expertise to you?Examples pls I need a laugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 02:30 PM |
| 48 | Leave the FIRST time someone shows you low effortIt shows that even when they’re giving you a gift, it’s all about their boner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 08:28 PM |
| 8 | Leave the FIRST time someone shows you low effortMy husband forgot my estranged parents names. Twice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 08:10 PM |
| 13 | FDS has led me to fully embracing how much I care about height and it feels sooo good! Boy bye 👏My sister was abused (so was I) and was abusive to me. I believed her to appease her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:22 PM |
| 47 | FDS has led me to fully embracing how much I care about height and it feels sooo good! Boy bye 👏My big sister was so insecure and needed to be special so badly that she convinced me I had boring blue eyes and hers were special green eyes. We have the exact same color eyes. Low self esteem and delusion are a helluva combo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 03:11 PM |
| 27 | This one hit me like a ton of bricksYup. Whether you’re sucking dick for crack in an alley or fending off a drunk C suite executive in a $1000/hour private room, it’s all the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 06:05 PM |
| 28 | This one hit me like a ton of bricksI got into the “high end” strip clubs mid-career. The costs associated with the lifestyle and upkeep needed to stay there made it pretty much a break even situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 05:23 PM |
| 53 | This one hit me like a ton of bricksMy mind was never changed. It was never empowering. I had to do it because I was poor and ill-equipped for life after being raised by two abusive addicts. If there had been even a minimal social safety net, I would not have had to resort to it. Anyone who says it’s empowering is lying to themselves or doesn’t actually need the money, so they can pick and choose their clients and gigs. I was forced to leave that abusive home at 19 (I literally got beat up on my way out). I had to put myself throu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 03:43 PM |
| 65 | This one hit me like a ton of bricksExcept for maybe the essentials we should have already as human rights (housing, education, food, healthcare). If we had those, no one would perform sex work (which is part of why we don’t have those). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 02:32 PM |
| 86 | This one hit me like a ton of bricks“bUt SeX wOrK iS rEaL wOrK” It’s fucking not. It’s time consuming, exhausting exploitation that detracts from your future employability and earning potential, even if you do manage to keep it secret. I’m a former sex worker. I would know. (Stripper, dominatrix, sugar baby, cam girl) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 01:31 PM |
| 30 | every timeLV families are notorious for undermining children’s dietary restrictions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 12:31 AM |
| 3 | This comment thread reminded me why reddit is a terrible place for advice. This woman got cheated on and some of the comments are advising her to go to counseling before considering divorce. FDS would never.🙄Yup, because they like the dopamine rush of an affair and aren’t mature enough to be comfy and satisfied in an established relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 04:58 PM |
| 7 | This comment thread reminded me why reddit is a terrible place for advice. This woman got cheated on and some of the comments are advising her to go to counseling before considering divorce. FDS would never.🙄I never narc out a woman cheating, but especially not with women with kids. Usually they’re financially trapped and there’s emotional abuse and major unmet needs and they just want comfort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 11:34 AM |
| 9 | This comment thread reminded me why reddit is a terrible place for advice. This woman got cheated on and some of the comments are advising her to go to counseling before considering divorce. FDS would never.🙄I think it’s constant validation because they’re insecure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 11:32 AM |
| 10 | Don't bother "communicating", actually. Just go.My therapist calls that the If Only Fallacy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 02:44 AM |
| 22 | Don't bother "communicating", actually. Just go.Anytime you come to someone about a need or hurt and it spirals into an argument, it’s emotional abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 02:44 AM |
| 329 | Don't bother "communicating", actually. Just go.You cannot make yourself heard by someone who doesn't want to listen. You cannot make yourself understood by someone who is determined to misunderstand you. You are not responsible for communicating basic instructions of human decency to your partner. The burden is not with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 09:19 PM |
| 7 | This comment thread reminded me why reddit is a terrible place for advice. This woman got cheated on and some of the comments are advising her to go to counseling before considering divorce. FDS would never.🙄I can’t believe she’s talking about not being as slim as she used to be when this man is 4 times older than 12 year aged Glenlivet and is fucking someone not even old enough to drink. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 07:36 PM |
| 122 | This comment thread reminded me why reddit is a terrible place for advice. This woman got cheated on and some of the comments are advising her to go to counseling before considering divorce. FDS would never.🙄Plus, when women cheat they’re often codependents trapped in abusive relationships and just want any comfort they can get. When men cheat, it’s for fun and out of entitlement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 07:34 PM |
| 8 | I'm getting flashbacks to every first date monologue a LVM put me through - Never again!And they make zero effort to develop original topics OR ask you about yourself AND they think complaining is communication that deserves endless sympathy and validation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 02:20 AM |
| 161 | Mic drop.I will no longer participate in the man refurbishment program | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 09:27 PM |
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