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And the alternative is?
/r/seduction17/10/22 02:38 PM
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Same brother. Same
/r/seduction20/09/22 05:00 PM
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lmfao I do think that Owen will say some complete off the wall shit at times. Like his current religious phase of stating there are people with "satanic" energy that will drain you is simply....horseshit. His speeches are unorganized and really sometimes can lead to no where rather than delivering solid, good advice. I do think though the blueprint and MAYBE the hotseat were his last good products. They offered (mainly the blueprint) concise, practical advice. How he is now is def cult leader li…
/r/seduction02/04/22 08:48 PM
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You're def right about drunk game Even though I'm able to be witty with my opener, I fall out later in the set. Sober at least Ik what's going on.
/r/seduction24/02/22 03:45 AM
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I think that's mainly the prob with tactics. Girls can usually see right through it if you're trying to think ahead and find the perfect thing to say.
/r/seduction07/07/21 07:23 PM
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That makes sense. I'll keep that in mind
/r/seduction07/07/21 06:42 PM
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Such is true but I've seen it also go horribly, sometimes with me. You're possibly right though. Maybe it's matter of becoming more calibrated with what you're saying and that coming with practice.
/r/seduction07/07/21 06:29 PM
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I think you're absolutely right. Todd's a legend tbh but his style works for him. It may completely not work for me, but work excellently for you. When you said girls smell when you're not being authentic, you have no idea how much I felt that shit. Which is why I think honestly I'm coming across as way way too gamey. RSD works a little better for me so maybe I can stick with that but I think it works because it's coming from a hell of a lot more natural place.
/r/seduction07/07/21 06:17 PM
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There's problems with that program You're trying to invent the wheel when you literally have a blueprint to make one right in front of you that makes it a hell of a lot simpler There are dudes that don't know when to touch the girl, when to kiss her, when to take her to another venue, etc. So instead of finding a source of info from someone's who's done it before and can teach them, they trial and error their way for possibly years hoping to get it right and still possibly have drawbacks they'll…
/r/seduction07/07/21 06:00 PM
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That’s great you feel good on the inside, but how does that transfer over to the girl? How do you escalate? How do you flirt? How do you take a girl home? These are practical questions that don’t get answered in the hot seat. He’s just like “If you feel good enough bro, it’ll happen” again I call bullshit. There are things you say that can make the girl feel uncomfortable. Places you touch, places you take her, etc. If your primary focus is on how you feel, your missing skills that could make yo…
/r/seduction04/02/21 03:59 PM
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I have the hotseat program. So when it comes to this "vibe" or "state", how would convert that into text game? How would you even teach that? I'm not saying vibe is irrelevant, no. But I think your words may matter a lot more. If you have techniques, you can use those to spike and trigger emotions when the conversation goes stale or headed in the direction you may not want it to. You can continue to hone the skill of techniques because you know what to do. Idk how you would know what to do with …
/r/seduction03/02/21 03:21 AM
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It seems to me a lot of it is based on vibe and energy and words don’t seem to matter. I call bullshit. If I walk up to a girl and say “let me fuck you” it doesn’t matter what the “vibe” is, she’s prob gonna tell me to fuck off 9 times out of 10. This is my speculation though. Also a lot of their material is something that’s almost impossible to improve in. How would I improve in pick up following “high energy” strategy? Becoming more enlightened?? I’d actually like to see Owen present seeing th…
/r/seduction02/02/21 08:29 PM
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Im glad you had that transformation bro. The thing is though, how old would you say was “gold” owen. Hotseat at home to me was personally terrible. A lot abstract high vibration shit. Like “getting good at telling random stories” or “talking in a sexual way so the girl picks up on your sexual vibe and her mirror neurons can pick on that” literally what the fuck
/r/seduction01/02/21 03:41 PM
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Did they help you in a way related to pick up or?
/r/seduction01/02/21 02:58 PM
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Yeah the hotseat at home is the one I seen. It was just a whole lot of ranting and unclear direction
/r/seduction31/01/21 06:12 AM
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See I looked at hotseat and I really tried to get into but a lot of it just doesn’t make any sense.
/r/seduction30/01/21 11:39 PM
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You literally looked through my shit and said your not looking for me. ????
/r/seduction30/01/21 11:37 PM
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So nosy people such as yourself in rl don’t know it’s me
/r/seduction30/01/21 08:53 AM
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Did it
/r/seduction30/01/21 04:15 AM
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Literally 2 days ago
/r/seduction30/01/21 02:59 AM
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Why do you think that?
/r/seduction30/01/21 02:59 AM
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So people don’t mindlessly waste their time. That’s like saying “Why understand math? Just go out there and figure it out yourself” when’s there’s hundreds of books on the topic. Getting information from others more experienced gains you knowledge. Work smarter not harder champ
/r/seduction30/01/21 01:10 AM
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Thanks bro, i’ll check it out!
/r/seduction29/01/21 08:50 PM
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I’m glad we’re on the same page. I really do try to get something out of his speeches and even the hotseat but It’s usually substance-less, unpractical advice. Like “Words don’t matter but don’t say stupid shit, ofc don’t say that, etc” Sad because I really used to look up to Owen. I love Todd v though. I think he’s the best in game I’ve seen so far Thanks bro
/r/seduction29/01/21 08:49 PM
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I'm just curious as to your thoughts on why? Not defending, just interested from your point of view so I can get some understanding from your perspective
/r/seduction29/01/21 08:21 PM
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That’s completely true The key to having wholesome self-esteem, is becoming a you you’re not ashamed to be. And that’s not from what you have, that’s from accepting every single thing ab you.
/r/seduction08/01/21 06:25 PM
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I love this frame and this is true high value frame A true high value guy likes what he likes, does what he wants. Period. The primary goal of satisfying relationships is being unapologetically you in a state of constant growth. You love world of warcraft? That’s fucking sick and don’t be afraid to convey that because you’re worried it’s not “high value” She likes you for all of you or she doesn’t.
/r/seduction08/01/21 06:22 PM
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Go try it
/r/seduction08/01/21 02:25 PM
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No. That’s not what I’m saying I’m not saying be emotionless. I’m saying be so confident and loving to your self-image that it doesn’t matter what the girl thinks of you. You know who you are and no one can take that away from you. You’re in full acceptance. Once you train your brain that “I’m a guy that talks to girls” it will find ways to do that action. This takes practice though.
/r/seduction08/01/21 02:25 PM
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Glad you agree!!!
/r/seduction08/01/21 02:21 PM
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You say “the act of approaching a stranger is creepy and awkward” But Bro...why? This can def be part of the problem of you approaching. If your thoughts before you approach are “Man if I approach this girl I may look like a creep, this may be awkward, what if I make her uncomfortable” These are all issues where if you truly believe you’re a high value guy and she’s lucky to have an interaction with you, minimize and exterminate completely You don’t give a shit if it’s awkward or creepy because …
/r/seduction08/01/21 02:19 PM
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Ofc. This is where true change occurs. Not getting to the root of it will never solve the issue
/r/seduction08/01/21 02:08 PM
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Ok let me ask What would be stopping you from approaching a 10/10? Why are you afraid?
/r/seduction08/01/21 07:22 AM
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It’s a shame they’re not as controversial tbh. A lot of these huge self help books (Awaken the giant within, Atomic habits, etc) stole the whole self image principle from maltz and framed it as “identity” I think this is the one and only book you need on life I think mainly creating our own reality starts with imagination as Maltz would put it. I feel our imagination determines our reality. If I believe and imagine myself to be a bodybuilder that becomes my reality, my perspective on life. I als…
/r/seduction08/01/21 07:16 AM
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Ok so lets take a look at what exposure treatment is It’s basically repeatedly getting exposed by a certain stimuli until you’re no longer afraid right? Ok so if you look into this article https://www.simplypsychology.org/Systematic-Desensitisation.html You’ll see the process of it. In the article it states in the beginning of the process there is the “Imagination phase” where the person imagines they are exposed to a spider through meditation and visualization. Through this process, they are be…
/r/seduction08/01/21 07:04 AM
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I think phobia is an extreme excessive fear of an object or situation. Yes it is possible to feel social anxiety to the point of phobia but I don't believe that's the case for every person. No, you can't tell a person that's afraid of snakes or fear of heights to have "inner confidence" it's not that simple and that's not only what self image is about But for the person to make that inner shift to a person who isn't afraid of snakes, they'll have to eventually accept becoming the person who isn'…
/r/seduction08/01/21 06:22 AM
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That's very interesting and it's dope to see another follower of Maltz's teachings. I never checked out that book but def will. With discovering and accepting our authentic self, I think part of that is something we create. I think the purpose of Maltz's books is to realize the true self and transform into that while maintaining a realistic perspective. This is important to keep this aspect of imagination because if you don't, there will be plenty of guys who tell themselves having approach anxi…
/r/seduction08/01/21 06:05 AM
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Thanks brother! Good luck on your journey!
/r/seduction08/01/21 05:11 AM
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Maybe I'm just in love with the hunt
/r/seduction24/08/20 11:46 PM
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Brother, it's ok. I need you to remember that you two broke up for a reason. It didn't work. Whether you broke up with her, or she broke up with you, there was an agreement that it was over. And that's ok. She is free and has every right to be. There are no commitments, no guidelines, no rules of a break up. There's no "You shouldn't do this" or "If she really cared then she wouldn't" That's bullshit. You have no fucking idea how's she feeling right now. No clue. At all. Whether she's over you, …
/r/seduction22/08/20 01:40 AM
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