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I'd like to elaborate but I think you hit the nail on the head perfectly. I don't think the girls themselves realize it, but that's psychologically what's going on. I did have a female friend with BPD and Daddy issues. I met the father a few times - a Vietnam vet, quite intimidating and very tall, when talking to anyone he would put his hand on you shoulder with a tight grip, and talk in your ear so you can't move - "power-control move". Aside from that, he was generally pretty verbally abusive …
/r/askTRP16/11/16 07:48 AM
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I think that if you do treat women like garbage and they want still want you, then yeah, they probably have Daddy issues. They're attracted to the behaviour you're emulating. Not all women with missing fathers have BPD. And some girls with good fathers have BPD. It's pretty random. BPD is different to "general Daddy issues." Women are more likely than men to have BPD though. You can either continue acting like that and keep getting those type of women, or start acting differently (not like women…
/r/askTRP16/11/16 06:45 AM
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I think in this case what she said was genuine. Remember that some girls are RP aware (I am) or know that men mean it when they don't want something serious (a lot of others). It's also possible she discussed what had happened with a friend and they said, "it sounds like he doesn't want anything serious." You only had a few dates, so it probably took a few dates for her to know you well enough to come to this conclusion (sometimes it's hard to tell after one date). I think when she said she didn…
/r/askTRP16/11/16 06:29 AM
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One small possibility not covered here is your friend might be gauging your reaction to how you currently feel about your ex so he can bang her/date her. If he tells you she's having a great time (erm, why is he keeping tabs on her in the first place?) and you show that you don't care, he'll probably assume you're over any feelings you had for her. Once it's established you're over it, she's fair game. Not enough information to go on but this is possible, seen it happen before.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 02:40 PM
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Yeah, to be honest I don't think anyone should be sitting at home fapping and high 24/7... but I do wonder if sometimes people come down too hard on this stuff. For instance, sometimes people get high and become VERY active. Sometimes getting stoned can inspire you to clean the whole goddamned house before you realize what you're doing. I totally get that scene from American Beauty... so true. Having sex while stoned too can be an amazing experience... I guess when it becomes habit to do this ea…
/r/askTRP07/11/16 11:31 PM
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To be honest, I think a lot of the "I made out with ten girls in one night, fingered three, took another one home" type of stories are deliberately exaggerated from guys who want to look good. There was even a post here on the main sub about a week ago from guys who are sick of the "bragging field reports" because they don't sound 100% true. I'm sure there's the occasional guy who gets out there and has a successful wild night, but this guy is in the minority and is telling you of only ONE incid…
/r/askTRP07/11/16 11:20 PM
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If you're at the point where you think that putting a name badge onto your work uniform is considered a direct sexual flirtation with some dude in the room, I agree we need to give pause here about whether this is true or bullshit. Most people who are putting their work badge on half-way through work conversation have glimpsed out of the corner of their eye their supervisor/manager walking towards them and thought, "fuck, I don't want another rant about badge rules" and quickly pinned them on. P…
/r/askTRP07/11/16 03:00 AM
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I think you mean War and Peace
/r/askTRP27/10/16 04:57 AM
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I'm not against it. It also makes economic sense. If there's demand for a service, there's a way to make money out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/16 10:55 AM
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Single-moms are usually bad judges of character and/or poor at risk assessment. All I see single mums being are women who had had a kid and for some reason the guy isn't in the picture. He could be: dead; nice but not part of the picture; not a good partner but not part of the picture. That's literally all I see. I decided to never have kids because I personally don't want this for me, but I can see people want it for themselves. It doesn't mean I think "single parent" and just immediately blame…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/16 01:21 AM
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I don't think it gets talked about much. But yeah, on the occasion where the boyfriend/SO/partner is either unavailable or can't come to bed, you take care of business yourself. Not in a revenge-angry way, just in a "well I'm horny so I'd better do something about it" upbeat kind of way. For me anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/16 12:58 AM
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I can never watch his films without briefly thinking at the start, "He's a Scientologist."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 08:36 AM
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Maybe nobody has kids and they're all grown by the government in incubators? This isn't sci-fi though... I'm worried we're getting ahead of ourselves. I don't see this as a foreseeable-future problem. People are always going to have sex without protection. Some of them are going to want to keep the kids. Etcetera.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 08:28 AM
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Not sure of the words, but my attitude would be one of advising serious caution on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 08:22 AM
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Unless there is no future humans and we're the last ones doing the rounds on this earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 08:21 AM
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Let's all just agree that marriage and birth rates are probably dropping, but the world's not at risk of human extinction in the near future.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 08:20 AM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 08:15 AM
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Thanks for this. I think porn is so common that I just assume that every dude (and chick) has a right to watch it. But I'm wondering with the whole /nofap business what the effects of excessive porn are. When the dopamine is released during orgasm, does that mean that guys might feel sluggish or even depressed afterwards?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 01:57 AM
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I've been reading it for the same period of time... I have to say the amount of "all women are sluts" rhetoric has become so severe that it is now the main theme for that sub. It's particularly noticeable when you read a post from 2+ years ago and the language is WAY less bombastic. It's like reading from a different sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 05:51 AM
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A needle doesn't really hurt at all. Forced sex does hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 01:44 AM
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Sorry for the delay... someone in my family is getting married, and I'm pitching in. (It's an organizational nightmare.) However, when a redpiller posts, even when they don't embrace an ideology that represents TRP, many people fail to present an argument against his specific claims. I don't doubt this true. But I've also noticed the opposite when blue-pill leaning people present an argument. For example, my argument that MGTOW and TRP have ignored male rape as an issue. Men face sexual assault …
/r/ExRedPill13/10/16 06:13 AM
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There are many issues here. It's impossible for debate to thrive and actually reach out to people when it's assumed that many people are "this". In terms of reddit and this conversation (e.g. PPD), you are using two groups of people: red pill and blue pill. This suggests that you're talking about dividing the world into two, and assuming that each group has the same identity and ideologies. The problem is that's not the case. There are RPers who read the self-improvement stuff and lift and don't…
/r/ExRedPill09/10/16 03:08 AM
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THIS. However, since you're only 16, you might not need to go into much detail with your executive summary (you might not even need one) and won't need to also get into the skill matrix. That's more for professional jobs of an older age. Microsoft Word has templates that guides you through some pretty decent resume templates. Go with a simple style - employers don't like resumes that look too busy.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 12:59 PM
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THIS.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 12:55 PM
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You'll do fine. NO WAY is 30 too old. You'll make friends through your job for sure. They'll introduce you to all the awesome places to go, show you the ropes.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 12:48 PM
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Best of luck... you'll be fine. :)
/r/askTRP29/09/16 12:46 PM
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Nah, people LOVE funny people. They flock to them. Why is South Park awesome? Because it's funny. The type of funny you're describing is someone who is TRYING to be funny and failing. That's validation-seeking. Being naturally funny is a talent. If you have no sense of humour whatsoever you come across as dull. People don't like being around others who drag them down.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 12:44 PM
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Funny IS good. Unless your friends are being sarcastic (it sounds like they're being genuine) then you must come across as more funny and appealing than you think. When your friends introduce you to someone, ask, "Hey, I'm MommyHarambe, how do you know (mutual friend)?" and then the dude will explain from where ("gym"/"school"/"we grew up together"). It's boring chit-chat, but it gets the ball rolling. He'll start talk about the gym/school/upbringing they shared, and you can say stuff like, "ha …
/r/askTRP29/09/16 12:42 PM
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No problem. Sorry for the harshness. Just remember to take it easy and try not to overanalyze things too much. I know that's easier said than done, but if you're questioning her behaviour just ask how you'd react if a male friend did the same thing. "How would I react to this if Mike did it? Meh, I'd just wait until he's done with his dog thing and he'll call me back."
/r/askTRP29/09/16 12:32 PM
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This isn't uncommon - after college everyone scatters away to an extent. You'll make some new friends. Probably through work. You won't remain friendless forever. Just remember this is a lonely phase that will pass soon.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 12:30 PM
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Your text was probably fine. She sounds like someone not worth your time. Plenty more fish in the sea who'll treat you better.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 12:21 PM
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Grounding her for three days is not enough. Your mother needs to talk with her about this shit. Your sister shouldn't be doing it. Tell your mother to talk to her about it. It's your mother's responsibility to stop her doing this. Also speak to your older sister about it a bit more - sounds like your older sister will be willing to talk to your mother about it. Any chance of spending more time at the older sister's place? It's not your fault AT ALL. Your younger sister is being catty and protect…
/r/askTRP29/09/16 12:20 PM
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I think his point is that you should ask about her pets and look at pictures, which is a good idea. People will talk about their pets at length, usually. "How old is (the dog)?" "What's his name?" "What sort of breed is that?" "Does that breed have certain behaviours?" Straight-up asking for pictures on her phone might be a bit weird coming out of the blue. If she has a pet, start the photo journey by asking if she has photos of the dog/pet... she'll probably do that when you ask about the breed…
/r/askTRP29/09/16 12:08 PM
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It sounds like the way you're saying "we can't talk anymore" or scoot away from them comes off as genuine rudeness, not a joke. In fact if you walk away from a conversation in the middle of it, most people would consider that odd. More comfort - yes. Also ask someone who's said you act like a douche WHY they think that and to explain what you're doing wrong (male friend for example). Those around you will have a better insight than we have. My response is merely a hunch.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 12:00 PM
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If she's interested she'll go out. if not she'll reject you. This. you seem afraid of rejection (I am too, it's a pretty rare thing) We all are deep down at some point. OP, it doesn't really matter how long you wait... but I guess lean towards caution if she comes from a conservative background. Give her a week or so before broaching anything... who knows, she might even approach you first within that week.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 11:56 AM
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As I understand it, it seems like you overanalyze every little thing so you become controlling. Being controlling screams out: "I'm insecure!" and insecurity is a turn-off. If she's being rude to you in a general conversation (e.g. insulting you), then that's not cool and it's a next situation. If she's always asking you for money, hard next. If she's someone who just bitches and moans all the time, hard next. If TV is casually playing in the background and you're having a discussion and she sud…
/r/askTRP29/09/16 11:53 AM
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Yeah, ease up on the boundaries. It's mate-guarding to tell her not to go to clubs. It shows you are insecure, too. Yes, some girls REALLY love dancing and do it to unwind. A female friend would drag me from club to club just to dance. She was obsessed with it (to the point of it actually being annoying). Would ignore random dudes hitting on her and go back home to her boyfriend. Your exercise is gym. Hers is dancing.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 11:44 AM
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People telling you and OP that it's the wrong way of dealing with it isn't really going to help you deal with it, is it? The advice here of "don't do it" might be ideal, but how do you put that into action? A lot of people don't admit that have thoughts about their ex for years later, especially if you're in your first major relationship. (And by "major" I mean one that is either your first, or outshines the others.) It's human nature to wonder "what if", so there's no easy fix-it guide here. Bu…
/r/askTRP29/09/16 11:41 AM
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This is normal to feel this way in college. It's pretty confronting approaching the opposite sex, also because you're in a whole new environment too. No one really admits it, but starting school at a new place is intimidating. Will you end up getting involved in group assignments? Lecturers love giving those out. Perfect opportunity to let discussion of the assignment topic drift into social conversation. No need to come on strong, sounds like you're giving out the right vibes already. You'll be…
/r/askTRP29/09/16 11:36 AM
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no sign from her side Awesome. Hopefully this is because she realizes she'd be better off with a guy who has basic social skills.... e.g. pretty much anyone else.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 11:31 AM
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But you already know that most of reddit thinks of TRP as being associated with broscience, false field reports, etc....No one can pretend that TRP uses peer-reviewed studies, if academic accuracy is TRP's goal. I have a degree in psychology (which actually means nothing really, some people are more natural psychologists than others) and I do recall Evolutionary Psychology being withdrawn from the syllabus. Why? Because though I agree it's fascinating, it's no longer relevant. While men generall…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 12:53 PM
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Again, Atlas wins this argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 12:42 PM
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Not at all, Guitars! You were around when I first showed up here on PPD and I remember you were one of the few who didn't show me outright aggression but kindness. I'm a member of BP but that doesn't mean I disagree with all RP ideas and it doesn't mean I think RP is useless for everyone. Most of the people I am friendly with via PM are RPers actually. There's more shades than just "purple". I'm glad you found a peacefully red state of mind and VERY happy you got through the tough stuff. If you …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 09:58 PM
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But but but, feminists and TBP told me that manipulation is both dishonest and futile. Are you now telling me that it is perfectly possible to succeed through manipulation? I'm BP but I can only speak for myself. I imagine you're also of a "pill" but can only speak for yourself. We all interpret shared info differently and discuss it, with differences of opinion even within pill affiliation. Of course manipulation works well. I'm not denying it won't get ever get you laid or rich. But I agree th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 11:46 PM
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So tell me bluepillers. Why is a supreme slimeball like this still given time of day by women? Manipulative charm. He'll have used it on men too. That's how he got his job and reputation. So it should actually say this: So tell me bluepillers. Why is a supreme slimeball like this still given time of day by women people? Because people with narcissistic personality disorder or sociopathy are good at manipulating others, like this guy. You think he only manipulated women on his climb to the top? N…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 12:01 PM
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Ha ha busted!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 08:09 PM
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You're comparing rape to a dude who "accidentally" had a fourth child because of carelessness about contraception?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 08:08 PM
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I'm not sure but the stuff I had might have been cut with something. The next few days, the people who had it were feeling sick, grumpy and even upset. Whereas I was sort of quietly frantic. I couldn't sit still but couldn't pace for too long without freaking out. No screaming, just quiet panic and hair pulling and wishing my skin was off my body. Total state of panic. Xanax and weed didn't help. I think what I had was related to Akathisia - I'd had it once before when the hospital gave me Maxil…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 07:58 PM
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I know!! It was really dingy and dark too, like they were trying to make the place into a crappy nightclub. Pretty sure the darkish carpet hadn't seen a vacuum cleaner in years! (I'm not sure I want to know the things that carpet has seen, actually....)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 04:09 AM
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Yeah, I'll get on to my weed friends who also like partying - they'll know where I can get some. There's a few people I can think of... this is high up on my to-do list now!!! It's great when men have multiple orgasms. For me, I agree the first is the best and then the other ones aren't as satisfying. Don't get me wrong, it's good to have 3 or so in a row, but the first one is the best. That's true for me but I'm not too sure about other women to be honest. Regardless of the strength of the orga…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 04:07 AM
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Oh wow. I can picture the John Wayne Gacy forehead. That's some pretty creepy stuff... I'm Australian, so I'm not sure of the laws outside this country... but nowadays those stores would have harsher laws on borderline-child pornography stuff I'm thinking? i dont have to tell you the young women did NOT enjoy the task of putting porn tags back in the porn room. men believed that was a good place to hit on you lol I can imagine. When I was 18 I didn't know that these stores existed. I was down so…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 03:59 AM
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Any memories stick out in your mind of a weird customer encounter, or someone who continually ordered terrible films (please tell me it's not most people)?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 08:40 PM
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Oh yeah, that bit. I'd actually forgotten that part. What a moron. Yeah that is quite an RP 101 move. So are Alda's moves on Mia if I remember right? I've got to see that movie again. I really enjoyed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 08:39 PM
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No unfortunately I haven't tried mushroom sex yet! After the advice I'm getting here (and in real life when I've asked people recently) I'm more determined to try sex on mushroom tea. Finding the mushrooms is going to be hard... no one I know does it regularly (though they all seemed to have tried it and enjoyed it) so I'll ask around without getting that, "Are you fucking kidding me, you're asking me for drugs?" look. Will move it to the top of my list of things to do and report back here (sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 08:35 PM
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Thanks, it's true :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 08:17 PM
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Yeah. I'm getting down with this idea. Your thoughts on mushroom tea? Ever had it that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 08:17 PM
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Wow, that was a awesome feedback. Amazingly communicated too, such a vivid description. I understand you completely. Yeah, this sounds like something I need to try. Mushroom tea in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 08:15 PM
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I've heard this. But I don't react well to speed or meth - the comedown is too bad. Have you tried mushroom sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 05:57 AM
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You're a bit of an enigma. I like it when you're here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 05:57 AM
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That's fucking awesome. Good on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 05:56 AM
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Really?!?! That sounds interesting... I've never tried mushrooms. I guess I feel a bit worried about not knowing how "strong" the effect of mushrooms are - worried that the strength can't be measured? But I have great horny sexy while stoned. But really mushroom sex takes it to another level? Can you describe it a bit more? Sounds horny. Sorry! (PS I don't get paranoid on weed, is that a good sign of how i'll react to mushrooms??)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 05:56 AM
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I don't think it's RP or BP. I think it's a great film that looks into the mind-set of "how far will we go to protect ourselves". Match Point is similar and makes the same point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 05:53 AM
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It's a hell of a turn on. Not something I do all the time because, like having alcohol, it can delay to orgasm even though your are much hornier. I also just love sex, so I don't want to always have it while stoned. Personally, I'm much hornier on weed than alcohol. So delaying that orgasm isn't necessarily a bad thing... it's actually tauntingly sexual, and when I do orgasm, it's intense. But yeah, I've certainly had a joint, some cuddling and amazing sex. Because I'm stoned I might be a bit mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 05:49 AM
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I'm fine with anyone going with their own beliefs. I don't have a major opinion on the topic for myself, though obviously I don't want to go through an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 01:13 PM
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Update: selling this kangaroo thing is going to be like stealing candy from a baby. Not only is he hugging a teddy bear, he was found orphaned. It's perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 01:10 PM
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Good thinking! We have a lot of redback spiders hanging around, which look cool but can be deadly. We also have a host of creepy big furry ones just "hanging" around.... (sorry) We've also got some kangaroos we could try to sell into the exotic pet market. I'll get the ball rolling by flooding /r/aww with kangaroo-and-baby-peeking-out-of-pouch pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 01:05 PM
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True. And you just hit on a topic of interest for me (the economy). China's still stronger than Australia too. Basically we Australians relied on exporting minerals to China to keep our economy going and it worked well for years, then the global financial crisis hit. Now we need to think of a new way to make money. In the absence of a back-up plan, I see us going full Hitchhiker's Guide To The Galaxy and declaring tree leaves our new currency.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 12:50 PM
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I'm not debating their preferences, just pointing out the result is long-term socioeconomic damage when a gender disparity is too significant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 12:30 PM
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Actually, no: http://www.newsweek.com/china-abandons-one-child-policy-allows-two-children-388290
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 12:13 PM
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Do I think a person should abort a baby just because it's female? Not really. It didn't work out too well for China.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 12:13 PM
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There's the "Daddy's girl" and "Mummy's boy" cliche; I think it exists to an extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 11:54 AM
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So basically OP's message is "from now on, folks, it's a boy or an abortion"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 11:47 AM
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Rape is something that happens to people. Of both genders. Feminism has nothing to do with it. Men get raped too. Children get molested/raped. It's not "hey, rape is a female issue!" it's "rape is a fucked-up, immoral and illegal thing to do to anyone". is one intoxicated semi-date rape really going to be a big deal? This line above is just one of many horrifyingly scary things you believe. Since you're RPW I'm assuming you want marriage and kids. If you ever have a daughter and she comes to you…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/16 03:57 AM
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Do you believe this woman is low-class, entitled or shitty? Or more to the point, would you say she isn't a good person? She is low class, entitled AND shitty. That's true. I don't know if she's a "bad" person, just very stupid. I feel like she needs to grow up a bit before I make the "bad/good person" call... she seems like a hypersexual teenager. She harbours a lot of anger towards white girls and white men. To be honest she reminds me of the most annoying, bitchy girl in high school who would…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/16 11:46 PM
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Men love women, women love what men can do for them. REPEAT AFTER ME. Men love women, women love what men can do for them. Point taken.... but to be honest I get sick of coming in here and listening to every bloody guy going on and on about how much they all love ALL women, they're amazing, they love women more than life itself etc. I get it, you dudes are here because you love women. You want to talk about how much you love them and why you love them. You log on every day and say this same thin…
/r/MGTOW30/08/16 04:19 AM
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That's nihilism, not atheism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 07:15 AM
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Damned good post!
/r/ExRedPill24/08/16 04:02 AM
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Ha ha thanks. I can get a bit carried away with this stuff. Full disclosure is I worked as a finance journalist for over a decade... I still do ad hoc work for my old employer and still like keeping an eye on things. What a "finance journalist" actually means is "someone who writes about the economy and the stockmarket" - so the term is misleading. Each day, multiple times a day, I'd write up for readers how the currencies went overnight, how the major indices went, any important local and inter…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 08:19 AM
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That's a two-part, perhaps three-part, question in a way. A person who meets with international leaders and heads of state can very easily have no international trade experience. Have you ever met a government translator? I mean, the higher-ups that are there to translate between meetings with foreign national representatives, including heads of state. Their expertise lies in getting the message across between two authority figures who do not speak each other's languages. These translators have …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 12:09 AM
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Yep. NO experience and NO knowledge of international trade is fucking scary. As an Aussie, I won't get to vote. But our media coverage of Trump's unbelievable rise seemed to mirror that of US media coverage - he was running for presidency, everyone laughed at the joke, there was a months-long shit-show while the laughter continued... and then a few months ago it was as though the laughing stopped and people started saying, "OK, this isn't a joke anymore. He's still around. Seriously? Seriously?"…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 07:49 AM
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Not at all. And I forgot something very important: take care of you too. This sort of stuff can mess with your head if you're even peripherally involved.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 11:44 AM
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You are not rambling at all - you are bringing up some great points. You're really handling this situation well, and alerting your mutual friends about the issue in a private and sensitive way is a fantastic idea (messenger group). I think the other posts were mostly troll posts. (I'd hope.) What your friend endured was a torturous situation, not to be mocked. It is particularly traumatic for males to suffer from sexual abuse in my opinion because of this lack of support (e.g. the comments here)…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 03:43 AM
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OP, ignore the pathetic trolls. You're an amazing friend and a fucking awesome human being and thank you for getting help for your friend. This site was recently brought to attention here on TRP for guys in your friend's situation: www.malesurvivor.org It's a brilliant resource and was referred to me by /u/CandersonNYC. I checked it out and read through the forums and advice and it's a very supportive community. It's real, it's true, it supports men through relapses and all the associated issues…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 09:54 AM
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This is an amazing resource. Is there a way we can get it linked to the sidebar here? I'm about to link it to a person on /r/asktrp whose friend has been raped. All the advice is sneering and derogatory - worryingly so: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/4wrz8k/male_friend_raped_how_can_i_help/
/r/MensRights09/08/16 08:18 AM
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Yes, I'm nuts to believe a dictionary definition of a term over your adjusted version of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 10:34 PM
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Keep telling yourself that in spite of arguments here otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 10:23 PM
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"To sum up the differences between the most commonly used meanings of these two terms: sympathy is feeling compassion, sorrow, or pity for the hardships that another person encounters, while empathy is putting yourself in the shoes of another." Source "Empathy: Understanding what others are feeling because you have experienced it yourself or can put yourself in their shoes. Sympathy: Acknowledging another person's emotional hardships and providing comfort and assurance." source
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 10:01 PM
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In fact, women are less likely to do anything to help the person that is suffering than men are, and their distress is actually negatively correlated with their ethical response to it. My opinion is that, since women absolutely always act in their own interests, they must be incapable, or simply not have a strong enough response to have any impact whatsoever on their actions. Totally. That's why I've been instrumental in resolving these situations: Mob violence/insanity after a nightclub shootin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 09:54 PM
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No, you just included "responsibility" as part of the definition of "empathy"... and when others point out this is not the dictionary definition of empathy, you changed it to your own version.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 09:40 PM
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^ THIS.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 09:38 PM
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Empathy IS understanding the feelings of others. Sympathy is when you understand the feelings of others and feel bad for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 09:35 PM
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How do all sub members know it's hyperbole?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 09:29 PM
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I 100% dont believe you. That's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 08:57 PM
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I've spoken to them too. They're terrified of the harassment they get when they try to leave. I'm going to protect them from further PMs telling them to kill themselves, thanks. I will NEVER EVER disclose their identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 11:53 AM
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I think I've read "women want to be raped" several hundred times on TRP over the last 2.5 years. It's even gaining traction. Is this hyperbole?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 11:51 AM
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You said you've been talking to friends about TRP... how did they take it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 11:17 AM
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^ THIS.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 11:16 AM
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Yep. At least keeping one's mind part-open.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 10:50 AM
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It's the same thing: "You're saying this to me. No, that's what you think/say. It is."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 10:49 AM
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The 48 Laws of Power are not only contradictory, they're frightening. I've seen an RPer express the same thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 10:47 AM
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Being a Trump supporter does actually change the way a person lives their life. The girl on The_Donald being asked about what it's like to wear a Trump cap: "I get strange looks wherever I go but whatever." Because Trump has a history of demeaning women, of course she's going to get strange looks. It's her own choice, but I'm sure people are looking at her in a different way to how they looked at her a year or two ago. You in fact are doing the same thing, you believe that your way of thinking i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 10:46 AM
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Yeah. I think OP thought this heading would make him seem even-handed, not purporting to support either side. And probably thought this about the whole post, and didn't recognize how much it sounds like hard-core RP philosophy (where RP thinking is immediately favourably placed against "anyone programmed by bluepill thinking".) The first three sentences of the OP are in line with TRP's intro points, step for step. After finishing the first sentence actually I know where this is going. e.g.: "Men…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 10:40 AM
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I know. I think it's being ignored because no sub-group categorically approved of it. We know TBP had issues with it, but I think it's lesser known that TRP had issues with it. That is, I remember thinking that around half the comments on that original Pokemon Go thread on TRP were against the idea. The most commonly cited examples were "it's a stupid kid's game" and "I'm not going running around the place just to meet chicks" and "at least when winter comes it'll keep people inside more and we …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 11:33 PM
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I also disagreed with that article convincing RPers to not play Pokemon Go. It's a social activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 06:53 AM
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Yeah, I don't remember him being mentioned on TBP, or this incident, at all. If anything he's noticeably underrepresented on TBP sub given the amount he writes for MRP and TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 06:51 AM
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Actually, your name is rarely specifically mentioned on TBP. Even though you've been around for a long time, you don't get the attention that other "characters" such as Arwchwinger, GLO etc get. You tend to stay under the radar. Even this alleged incident of having a mod team banned went unnoticed by TBP, as far as I know. I did link you to TBP once: I was addressing the comments section of an MRP post, where you brought up the issue of men being unfairly treated in public when they express phys…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 06:49 AM
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Because you can?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 06:03 AM
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Not at all! Just speaking the truth. The old ghosts go away. And you seem mentally stronger than you know.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 05:51 AM
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What if myself values philosophical conversations, deep talks about society, Austrian economics, and quantum theory inspired metaphysics? Pussy drying topics no doubt. Not pussy-drying topics for me! Intellectual debate is stimulating. Someone's brain can be sexy and spurs on attraction if there's already something there. The three topics you've picked are ideal for this and appeal to my geekish leanings. Hell, as a journo the economy is one of my favourite topics. Behavioural science is up ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 06:25 PM
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Agree with this assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 06:14 PM
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No you lost your frame - you wrote "you" instead of "yall" ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 05:54 PM
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It's called irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 05:50 PM
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Yall awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 05:49 PM
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I seriously have no issue with a dude sitting with his legs spread. As long as it's not a stranger with his penis out and flicking his tongue at me (ahh, public transport) you can sprawl as much as you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 05:47 PM
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This honestly always stuns me. Do people REALLY believe that because a person is part of The Blue Pill that they must LOVE feminists? I'm assuming that's what these people are? OK yep I just clinked on the top link and she's a feminist writer. Because you're against TRP doesn't mean you're a feminazi. I know that's the TRP line to diminish TBP, but I thought that was an anger response and not a genuine belief. Do you really believe TBP is filled with feminists with tattoos and piercings and shor…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 05:43 PM
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Please link to where this happened. Ever. I'm BP and on the incel subs I am specifically AGAINST depressed people there harming themselves, including suicide. I was very disturbed by one post from a user called sadpepejpeg who appeared to announce his suicide, to the words of encouragement from other members of that sub. If I ever saw anyone on TBP write that someone with depression should kill themselves I would call them out on it. And I haven't seen that in the 2.5 years I've been on that sub…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 05:31 PM
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I'm very sorry for your experience. I can't imagine what it must be like. I'm proud you're speaking up against it though. The world needs more people like you. There are high levels of ignorance online about this issue. I was lurking incels ("involuntary celibate") subs recently after discovering a member announcing his suicide online, then never returning. I thought it was shocking that the incident was white-washed, then noticed a trend in misguided views. One very provocative stance from some…
/r/MensRights06/08/16 05:23 AM
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Yeah. To be honest I was shocked when I first came to the manosphere and realized that "feminist" means "radical feminism". When asked if I agreed to equality between the sexes, I did agree, and then was asked sarcastically how I thought this magic was going to happen. I said "I don't know". Because I don't. It was strange to be viewed for the first time in my life as a radical and told I was a feminazi. I've never visited feminist sites, the only feminist name I could think of is Germaine Greer…
/r/MensRights06/08/16 05:05 AM
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"Recent widow"? It's like saying: "My favourite activities include talking about my deceased husband with you". This seems too glib for a serious life event. Reveals too much cleavage to constitute a classy chick. I expect drama. She has a boob out, which seems like a slutty thing to choose... but she could be a totally different person when you meet up. And you probably should expect some talk about the dead husband. Hmmm, I'm not sure about this one mate.
/r/askTRP05/08/16 02:42 PM
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You're getting mostly joke answers here, so I'll respond: no, they cannot coexist. There must be. There has to be musicians who do everything you just typed but also have an emotional side to them that they address without completely shutting it out. Sometimes those emotions involve other people. The general advice is to not get emotionally involved in people or activities but rather to be "stoic" or "outcome independent". Being a musician, painter, writer or being artistic at all requires recal…
/r/askTRP04/08/16 04:33 PM
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This is the only legit response here. ♂
/r/askTRP03/08/16 09:04 AM
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YES. /u/AFPJ is so right he knocked it out of the fucking ballpark and into another ballpark in another city. ♂ Not only do ultimatums suck, they are a VERY BAD IDEA when you issue an ultimatum at an employer. You didn't just issue an ultimatum to her. That is the LEAST important thing in the OP. Dude actually asked the S.O. to choose between OP and her job. And from what OP has written, this is NOT the ideal situation where you want your S.O. losing their job. She makes made a lot of money for …
/r/askTRP03/08/16 09:02 AM
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There is no Team Woman. There is Team "I've told friends of different genders before that their partner was cheating and they shoot the messenger". And most people from this team will tell you that they heard this from a friend they thought would be least likely to do this to them. Of course you can tell your friend. It's the morally right thing to do, but be prepared for the possibility that he won't believe you and your friendship won't be the same again. However if it's really bugging you and…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 05:55 PM
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Thanks for your reply. I mean it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 09:32 PM
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Ahh. Alright. Let's get down to nuts and bolts, I do like a proper exchange of ideas. Seriously. I desperately try to belong to the TRP-club. It should be obvious I think. You were, from my understanding, criticizing TRP for just being a bunch of people wanting to belong. I say everyone, including you, me, TRP and BP has that need. And that's not something to be criticized since it is part of normal human behavior. Do you try desperately to belong? I think if you're a member you should more be t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 12:36 PM
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You just want to shame TRPs and belong that way for example, and you replied to a guy you figured would support that. That's normal and nothing to be ashamed of. I am genuinely stuck on what you mean here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 01:38 PM
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Exactly. It even has the "I fell off my floor laughing at the idea of a woman driving" random stupid insult to complete the post requirements. OP also doesn't think about a lot of other feasible reasons to object to RP, e.g.: Telling members that the philosophy is "just a toolbox" but anyone who steps outside the mods' party line is banned from posting on the sub (yep, that seems fair) The group encourages new young guys to join, then when they do join and post an innocent and easy-to-answer que…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 09:40 AM
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Yeah, tbh the sense of needing to belong and say the right thing is pretty intense in the RP comments section, especially lately. People will do a 180-degree turn on their view if just one established member argues against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 09:29 AM
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Sorry, yeah, I was satirizing the proper sperm storage techniques that would be required with regular IUI conditions. I'd think putting still-living sperm up into one's, erm vagina, shortly after the act would involve a lot of fumbling with pretty weak sperm and a lot of erm, "luck" to get pregnant that way. I know it's not impossible, but it's highly unlikely. I think that's possibly connected to why you more often see awful shit on "failbook" type websites where a girl has taken photos of her …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 02:10 AM
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Thank you. This is the kind of stuff I need to read, because my research has been limited to the books that TRP and related subs advise. I've heard about Models and read an excerpt - I think it sounds like a pretty good book in terms of framing how guys approach game. To anyone reading Models, I'd appreciate your thoughts because from what I can gather some of it goes against some TRP beliefs... yet it's quite respected nonetheless, seemingly. But I haven't read any feminist authors. I haven't h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 10:10 AM
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That sounds a lot more an effective strategy in addressing male issues than TRP, MGTOW and the rest. Sincere thanks for the explanation. That is the vibe I got off the MRA guy who opposed Roosh. Is there any subs that wouldn't HATE a woman giving it a glance-over? (OR I can read and I won't post on it? Just to get an idea.) I had written an article on how TRP neglects its younger members and then rejects them because their questions are too basic, e.g."Fuck off kiddies" (after recruiting them in…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 09:27 AM
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"You're phone's ringing, dude." "Thank you, Donnie!"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 05:16 AM
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"You can guess what happens next." "He fixes the cable?" "Don't be fatuous, Jeffrey."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 05:15 AM
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No problem at all! I remember when I first entered the pillosphere about two years ago, that you were one of the guys who didn't immediately dismiss me. You were kind. You are good. You took all opinions on board. I was one of many who probably liked your advice, and I'm glad to see your name again (but totally get it that people need to take down-time from reddit, even including moving away from it indefinitely. So in other words: I'm happy to see you back, but happier if the right thing for yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 04:48 AM
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"I've got my dance recital, and I'd really love it if you came along and took notes."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 04:27 AM
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Oh my God, my life hasn't even begun... I've finally discovered /r/nocontext. Thank you, Groovey Jeebus.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 03:35 AM
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You've struck an interesting point here that I'd like to expand on (if you don't mind)? When Roosh was doing his world tour, I noticed that many RPers were somewhat indifferent. Well, why should they care? Roosh denounced TRP a while ago, so they shouldn't care. Then I started getting PMs when I spoke out against Roosh's ideas. One was from an MRA who loathed Roosh and wanted him gone. He actually gave me evidence of women who had been raped, and encouraged me to keep Roosh out of my city. I agr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 02:27 AM
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Sorry, I'll try again. What I'm trying to get across is that the concept of spermjacking is so ridiculous, so obscure, that 99.99% of men (or more) will not encounter a case of this in their lifetime. It's almost impossible to pull off. The girl would need to get the sperm quickly to a purpose-built freezer that storms sperm WITHIN SECONDS of the male ejaculating, and most people don't have access to these freezers which exist largely and primarily at sperm clinics. I've yet to meet a civilian t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 02:23 AM
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Yes, literally any time the topic comes up, especially among family. It's patronising as fuck. Can't wait until I can turn around at 30 still with no kids and just ask "so... am I meant to be changing my mind yet?" Then the same at 40, 50... Then when you hit age 100, hold a seance to get into contact with all these deceased relatives and point out you STILL haven't had kids, so what do they make of that? Oh God, I can see spirits floating around the room with faint smiles saying, "You'll change…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 11:59 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 11:48 PM
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No, I think it almost NEVER happens. I think you probably have a greater chance of dying in a plane crash or being killed by a rhinoceros. The whole idea is ridiculous - sperm can't live outside the body indefinitely. Be SAFE when it comes to sex, but don't assume your sperm is going to make it into some female's eggs because you left a used condom in her waste bin. EDIT: In the same way that men shouldn't be paranoid about "spermjacking", I'm not paranoid that I'm going to die in a plane crash …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 11:46 PM
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No, some posters DO do this because they want to be more edgelord than the next guy and get attention. A recent example of these extremist attention-whores... there was a post on TRP recently about how "your mother is hypergamous because AWALT". A few guys spoke against this in the comments, saying that their mothers weren't like OP described, and the same dude posted in response to each one of these guys: "Not true, AWALT, your mother is a hypergamous whore, accept it." He just spammed everyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 11:41 PM
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Let's not act like the whole idea of "there is no such thing as a woman being raped by a Chad, they only call sex rape afterwards if the guy was low value" isn't an idea we've heard over and over again. Is it only the extremists that think this? Yes, and they're small in proportion - but they also tend to be the people who are more active reddit users. And some of them do come to PPD. So, knowing this, it makes sense that I would not willingly engage with these people. I said nothing about men d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 11:25 PM
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"I am the walrus?"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 12:06 PM
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Awesome. Do you get well-intentioned older people telling you your whole life, "You'll change your mind about marriage and kids when you get older!" with a knowing smile? People always low-ball my age and I still get this enthusiastic advice. "Better do it before it's too late!" Or maybe this is advice that older women give younger women? (Though come to think of it, some older men - nice fatherly types - have suggested the same thing.) I just smile and be polite. They don't mean to be annoying.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 10:41 AM
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Totally. I'm not heavily into any ideology and think it's best to be moderate. Extremists in any direction (male/female) turn me off. It's not that black and white. I can't hate an entire gender or race, for example. I'm 39 and never married or had children. I just haven't wanted to do this. Some of the reasons (financial) make sense to me. It's not a political statement though, just not something I really want. LTRs are fine, and not dating for a long period of time is fine with me too. Individ…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 10:04 AM
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Had one sexually assault me while she was drunk and next morning all my flatmates just said I was stupid for not fucking her. Imagine if the genders were reversed on that one. Exactly. Jesus. Your flatmates are/were morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 09:50 AM
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Fellow Aussie?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 09:48 AM
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Words can be a very dangerous weapon though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 09:48 AM
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That's great you still have that good female friend to help out. I've dated a few guys who've treated me like shit and ended it within the first two weeks. One said to me I deserved it because his ex broke up with him on Valentine's Day. If someone doesn't get that I'm NOT their ex, I'm out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 09:48 AM
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Oh yeah, I know it happens. Crazy shit has happened to my brother and male friends from certain exes. My closest male friend unfortunately only dates drama-loving, crazy, self-obsessed chick. The last one tried to run him over with her car... amongst other things. His parents and I organized to get her onto a plane (along with the help of her mother) and move her to another city. She fought it at first but when her own mother got involved she eventually got on that plane and out of our lives (Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 09:45 AM
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Holy crap. What a nightmare. Hope she's out of your life permanently. Crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 09:20 AM
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Great to hear you're doing better - you sound resilient and strong!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 09:14 AM
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Feel awful for you - all of that is just.... mortifying. Kidnapped for "only" four days is outright horrific. I have friends who have no contact with their family for very similar reasons. Sometimes their family members try to contact them through me - NOT HAPPENING. EVER. As for the kidnapping thing, I remember a time when I was very naive about that kind of thing. A dude had been stalking me when I was living in Canada - he was banned from entering the apartment complex and I'd found out he'd …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 07:25 AM
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My God, very sorry to hear that. It's unthinkably horrible. I hope you're mending OK?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 07:06 AM
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Yeah. Thank you for saying this and to /u/shoup88 for doing the same. I'm pretty open generally, even about quite personal stuff when relevant... but you can only be open with this stuff when you're certain the listener(s) are going to take you seriously and behave more or less responsibly. That is, when you want to have a sensible dialogue about it. If I'd posted an honest response I wouldn't want to hear a reply along the lines of: "lol this happened to you because you're a slut you stupid fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 07:05 AM
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Jesus. I hope you're OK. That's seriously fucked up. You sound resilient, though, and this might help with some of the pain (I hope)?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 08:02 PM
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I'd write above what it was, but honestly I'm too afraid of being told that "sexual assault doesn't exist" or something extreme. Too personal and painful to hear the experience belittled, even if there are more level-headed posters here than on TRP. Will put myself out there and debate some serious topics if I think I can handle anything controversially redpillish in response, but not this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 08:00 PM
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I am 100% on board with this approach, which can or cannot work depending on the "friendzoned" individual. Situation 1. A bit different because we were friends who started dating and then ended up going back to friendship. When the romantic relationship ended, I set my ex up with his new girlfriend. Even towards the end of our relationship, I thought, "He seems to really like Hayley".... (a girl he was doing a photography course with). At this point in the relationship the romance had died out. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 07:52 PM
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You can appear and to some extent be extroverted while still being an introvert. I'm an introvert and it takes people a while to get it. People assume I'm an extrovert because in group settings, I'll give everyone at the table my attention and discuss shared interests with them. Crack jokes, etc. But I still know that deep down I enjoy time by myself when I get home at night, and those parts are often the bits I look forward to the most. Introverts tend to need time to reflect, not to always be …
/r/askTRP27/07/16 05:08 PM
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You don't deserve to feel guilty with attractive girls! You're supposed to feel awesome about it. So how do you do this? Firstly - let it infiltrate you that your ex's issues are HERS alone. Unfortunately this is a natural process you can't urge along - but it will be over sooner than you think. It hasn't been that long - but trust me, in the near future you WILL think, "Oh, yeah, HER." Like she's a distant memory. Guarantee it. We can only take on other people's psychoses for so long before we …
/r/askTRP25/07/16 04:47 AM
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First one because you can see jaw, and the angle of your facial profile is pretty flattering too.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 02:43 AM
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Chick opinion.... I'd go these ones: One of you in suit. You look like you've got your shit together. The black and white one (6) - not number 2, this looks more like "I just went to prom". Number 3 - it's a cool pic, you look good, and the hot girl is bonus points (but not good if you have to later explain that this is your ex or something) Number 4 - it looks awesome outdoorsy fun. Great pic. Also look quite masculine here... the setting and stuff. Numbers 11 and 1 - I put these two together h…
/r/askTRP22/07/16 06:37 PM
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The point OP is making that the person is acting like such a fuck-up in that point in time that they got fired. Like the dude at work who keeps losing his shit and everyone knows he's got a drinking problem, and you just know management are itching to fire him. The dude in this scenario has driven the girlfriend away from whatever behaviour he was displaying to his employer in other words (negative behaviour). Pretty much perfect timing for this post here.... was just reading an old thread on TR…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/16 05:44 PM
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No, I still don't think slut-shaming is the go-to favourite weapon for most women. I believe that the sluttiness itself isn't usually an issue for grown women - it's when this behaviour is rampant enough to affect the group members personally. Someone who starts sleeping with everyone's partner is going to be a problem for the group, which is different to if someone who sleeps around a lot but doesn't shit where they piss (sleeps with those unrelated to their friends). But there is a type of wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 03:48 PM
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You bring up some good points, actually. It IS true that some women will avoid women who have proved themselves "sluttish", but not because of this trait in of itself (another factor is key). There are some slutty chicks that non-slutty women remain friends with because these "slutty" women don't piss where they shit (they don't game their female friends' boyfriends or prospective boyfriends). But when someone in a social group starts randomly hitting on their friends' partners or prospective pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 01:44 AM
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Can't say for sure, but I thought no. 3 probably has the least too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 01:02 AM
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Can I just say, have been in OPs shoes and are friends with two exes. One there was a bit of discomfort at first, but that went away. I stayed friends with them because we were friends as well as people who dated once. Time does turn it into a purely platonic thing. Seriously. Also, I think a lot of people who dated started off as just friends for a while. If I sense a new male friend wants to have sex with me (LTR), I'll either correct this idea early on (which unfortunately usually can ruin th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 01:01 AM
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Touche!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 12:56 AM
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I've had sex while drunk and not considered it rape. In fact many people will drink before sex. I think you shouldn't have sex with someone who is black-out drunk or so messed up they're trying to use a screwdriver to open the front door, forgetting they have the keys in their hand, for instance. I think the basic message is: don't have sex with someone who's going to puke any second and has no control over their actions. Also, Louis CK is goddamn awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 12:55 AM
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I'm Blue Pill and don't use the term "beta" usually, but what OP has written here has a lot of merit. You've accurately picked out a lot of flaws in common thinking from the "Burnout-Beta" type. Kudos. I think it's important to pick out these fallacies because young guys on TRP will mimic the cynicism of older guys (ECs and Vanguards), and I genuinely do not want young guys with no relationship experience to walk around in life with these negative expectations that aren't going to happen ("I'm g…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 12:38 AM
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This is tough to answer because I'm female and therefore don't date women. But (genuine questions): by "these women are sluts anyway", do you mean the ones TRP talks about that fuck Chad on first date? (I think MGTOW and truecels dislike all women generally.) I've never dated a "Chad" as it's called. That is, I've never dated someone wealthy or who lifts at the gym. I do know some girls who do, and we have different tastes. Pretending not to be a slut is interesting, but I'm not sure what you me…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 12:12 AM
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Yeah, women overhear locker room talk in real life all the time. Suggest this though and anyone from TRP is tempted to vehemently denounce it as a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 05:43 AM
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Haha no. I don't care who women fuck. (It's funny how TRP men worry about who other men are fucking. No polyamory, never be in a BDSM relationship when you're the "bottom", never do anything but what we say...) I've seen slut-shaming on RedPillWomen, but that's a minority group whose purpose seemed to be "we're better than other women." Unless you're talking about high school girls slut-shaming each other, that I can imagine is still rife. But these are kids. Most of us grow up - and hated that …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 05:42 AM
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Correct - don't know how many times I've read in TRP, MGTOW or truecels that "women are pathetic sluts incapable of proper emotion or any intelligence, might as well fuck 'em quick".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 05:36 AM
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You do realize that $800 to a celebrity (it's not $8,000 btw) is less than spare change on the dressing table to celebrities, right? Do you also take issue with the fact that Eddie Murphy paid a transsexual hooker for sex? Because to me, that decision is up to Eddie Murphy and makes no difference to my life. Look, you have every right to not visit prostitutes in the same way that I have every right to not attend football games (because they don't interest me). The thing is not EVERY guy sees thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 07:47 AM
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I know it's hard for you to believe that men want to have sex with women who have degrees or appear to have degrees, or hard for you to imagine men who have a fantasy that mirrors this. "Convince them that you're well-read, experienced and classy" - yes, this is part of the experience the customer wants, and if there's a reality to it it's more or less irrelevant to the customer. This is what some men want and will pay for, not what you personally want. You need to separate "this is what I want"…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 06:25 AM
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I still disagree that every single female in the workplace is a nightmare, but you should work where you feel comfortable. If that's among men, then you should work in that environment. Blue collar work is probably a good match. Also, I don't know if I'd call blue-collar workers "blue collar nobody" types? I think at least blue collar work is honest. You're using your hands, you're creating things, you're not stuck behind a cubicle - you're doing something worthwhile, building something. White c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 05:43 AM
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I'm a chick. That's my point. I know that other women can be enormous bitches and drain on a workplace to the point that everyone wants them to fuck off permanently. My point is that I, being female, had to deal with the same shit you deal with. And I feel the same way you feel about it. I guarantee you there's a chick at your work who secretly views your female coworkers the same way you do. Probably the one who keeps to herself. That girl just won't assume that EVERY girl alive is like these k…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 07:20 PM
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You're assumptions are so off-base it's actually statistically improbable. Stop saying, "I'm well aware of what you would base your opinions on" and "you would love this" etc. You are somehow wrong every time. And trust me. The shittiest women I've gotten to work with went to no-skill, white collar jobs and were adored by their coworkers. I bet you would love them. Except about two months ago I spent a while on this forum complaining about the exact type of women you describe here. In fact I out…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 07:08 PM
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This is utterly true and very overlooked on TRP.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 06:23 PM
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"Are you better at staying inside or going out?" This is where things went off track. Yes, while some people will give shitty responses to avoid a conversation, that's not what happened here. She genuinely wasn't sure of what you meant. Actually, what you meant was "do you prefer to spend time indoors, or outdoors?" (I'm assuming), not whether she's "better" in a house or outside. People are used to being asked, "what would you prefer: a hiking trip or a night at home with a book?" when filling …
/r/askTRP13/07/16 05:52 PM
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"Start the damn joust before I piss meself." - one of the best lines ever
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 10:53 AM
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My issue with /r/TRP is it's using the idea that cognitive dissonance is okay because the ends justifies the means (people are going to end up having sex anyway). Also, while guys like you might be aware of the fact that the language is a deliberate tool to wake people up, dimmer guys on the forum are taking the language dead seriously. That means there's dudes out there possessing a literal hatred of women using techniques in real life that TRP would call "wrong" - all because they're not smart…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 09:01 AM
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You're telling /u/Drunk_King_Robert his worldview is limited whereas your sweeping generalizations are based on current-only life experience at a specific construction company in a specific city in a specific location in the world...? That what happens at your job tomorrow is what's happening everywhere tomorrow? You even say your opinion is based on your current workplace. This seems more like an advertisement to warn people from working in construction than swearing off half the global populat…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 08:42 AM
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I gather your relationship with your parents isn't great. When you offered to pay them back the money, were they surprised? Why do you think they refused?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 08:11 AM
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If you're not interested in the first place I'd say you're not missing out on much and it would just feel as you've described. I'd got no problem with legal prostitution at all, just that I think how you find the experience is how you interpret it beforehand. Excited about seeing a prostitute - will probably enjoy it. Not really interested - wouldn't enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 06:29 AM
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Prostitution is legal in Australia and there are some Aussie guys on TRP, but haven't noticed any Aussie incels. I would say this isn't linked to prostitution but the fact that most of Australia still doesn't know what reddit is. Australia: "We'll catch up with you guys eventually."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 05:30 AM
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OP's comments make sense. Yours don't. If a woman has NO ambition or personality traits that the guy likes, why would he marry her over the next chick in the first place? Doesn't matter whether the relationship "makes it" or they end up divorced. If women are all exactly the same, why not just jump into an LTR with any of them? OP highlights your issue here: The biggest turnoff to me about TRP is the revenge fantasy stories posted by people who haven't worked out the non-negotiable aspects of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/16 01:16 PM
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I'll certainly put my jokey self aside for this response, because I think your argument has merit. I actually do give a shit about them. I admit that there is some failure of humanity where situations like this (incels generally) exist. I will check out ForeverUnwanted based on what you've said. At the moment I've spent about a week or two concentrating on truecels, because I want to get a real sense of their circumstances. It takes a while to get any grasp of understanding, and I don't want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/16 07:47 PM
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PS No way is Tyrion getting beheaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/16 07:19 PM
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Ahhh.... you're a Forever Alone guy. As I understand it, the real incel sub is truecels. I think they'd take one for the team and agree with a woman on that one. Actually, I've had some decent back-and-forth PMs with the truecels. I've never told them anything deliberately hurtful. In fact, most of the people I have genuine PM conversations with are from the subs you believe I disdain. So since the subs are different, I would state you are being short-sighted and rude in assuming that your perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/16 07:16 PM
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I understand that the term "solipsism" is thrown together along with terms like women, female, or wymmin on TRP like someone throwing around confetti. It's the new hip way of saying women are self-interested. re: solipsism, I generally find other people more interesting than myself, especially people who believe in ideas like spermjacking. That's so hilarious I couldn't make that shit up. I bow to the comedic masters. Like LL Cool J said, "I've been here for years". So yeah, I've read most of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/16 07:09 PM
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I would genuinely love it if you went over to /r/truecels and put your money where you mouth is. (Hint: mouth is on the face. Money is in some woman's hands, which is covered in semen from a recent 'jackin'.)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/16 06:54 PM
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I don't have time to breathe. I'm too busy spermjacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/16 06:45 PM
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Yep. The whole concept you've outlined is right. It's when it gets down to RPers all agreeing on one of the smaller concepts that they fail (just as OP suggested). The funny thing is that every RPer has their own definitive idea of what is "RP" and it contradicts the next RPers idea. That's why there's so much infighting on that sub, and even arguments here between RPers. An RPer will use the language "we" as though he's speaking for everyone. "We don't mean AWALT literally, it's a metaphor." I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/16 05:12 PM
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Yeah. Never heard of this sub before. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/16 04:55 PM
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I'm down. As long as I get to sheildmaiden the hell out of this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/16 04:54 PM
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You speak for yourself here. A lot of incels don't want to procreate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/16 04:51 PM
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Where do you live? I want to find this city where everyone drives Porches. And there's Prince Charmings there? Fictional characters for reals-reals? You might deserve an emotionally intelligent reply once you pull your head out of your own revenge-fantasy of a Disney dream. Which is just as dumb as believing in Disney dreams in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/16 04:50 PM
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Least intelligent comment of the day. You obviously have NEVER spent much time on the incel subs. Do the male incels receive some vitriol? Of course they do. Some of them even state they decide to hate women and speak openly about this hatred because it's the best way of keeping women at bay, therefore they can't get disappointed. Many of them WANT the vitriol and enjoy it because it reinforces what they see as their safest position. I'm not saying I agree with this ideology, but at least I unde…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/16 04:46 PM
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Yep. Also I think a lot of the men there have very different upbringings and issues that make then incel for different reasons. There's no one solution that is the "winning" solution or they wouldn't be in that place. They generally have very complicated issues, and most of them admit that going out and paying for sex isn't going to fix anything. I agree that going out and paying for sex isn't going to fix anything for most of them. Doing this might even make things worse for some. I honestly me…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/16 10:14 AM
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I think some traditionally "good-looking" guys can say outrageous things and get away with it with some women. To me the words strike me more than the appearance. I don't think I'm alone in this. Christian Bale, who is considered attractive enough to play Patrick Bateman, received a globally disgusted response when that audio recording of him going off at the assistant director was released. He just sounded like an entitled prick.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/16 09:55 AM
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I think many humans can get used to almost anything, but I don't know if people who've never had affectionate romantic contact get used to it. They are also exposed to media that goes on and on about sex and relationships as being part of ordinary life. I imagine when a foreveralone person looks at this stuff it feels justifiably insulting, because it's a) a constant reminder of what they don't have and/or b) it insinuates that it's "normal" to always be having sex or be in a relationship. I'm n…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/16 09:51 AM
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I don't know if many blue pillers represent this ideal. It seems to be more moral repulsion over the misogyny that's the dominant sentiment. I also haven't met any blue piller who's "tried it"... or become a regular BP member for the sole reason that none of their friends think it's cool. None of my real-life friends are RPers and none of them are BPers. Only one even uses reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/16 09:27 AM
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Interesting how sci fi aliens are 90% asexual? Because no one wants to watch Predator having sex with another Predator. How would it even look? Remotely interesting or believable? Should the next Predator vs Aliens film be a romantic chick flick? Should GoT devote an entire episode to White Walkers "makin' love"? Romantic storylines between humans even crud up decent sci-fi films. Thank God the proposed sex scene between Capa and Cassie in Sunshine didn't make it in. It would distract from the e…
/r/MGTOW06/06/16 06:12 PM
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Yeah, that sounds beautiful unless you even give a cursory glance at his history. Leo dates whoever his mother approves of. His mother approves of women who won't hang around for long, since she's number 1. He obeys whatever his mother says. Down to the amount of times he flushes the toilet. (Literally.) He doesn't date anyone without his mother's permission. He's certainly not on some woman's leash at all though.
/r/MGTOW06/06/16 12:41 PM
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That makes sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/16 09:05 AM
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Funny you think "this is how it works" when women here (e.g. me) agree with you that men are less safe. I don't know if it depends on where you live, but I think a man walking around by himself at night in my town has a FAR BIGGER chance of being attacked than a woman walking alone - usually by a drunk dude at one of the pubs. I live in a pub-heavy city (and clubs), but I imagine that's the same with most other places. Pub and club-related street fights are more common than rape in my city, too.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/16 08:15 AM
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ROGER THIS big time. Confirmed by me and fellow sister (non-reditter) in the room. I think the reason would be, you presume the person is going to be romantically interested in you and there's a basic presumption that the guy should make the first move. (Not say that's morally "right" or always the case, but as a general first date-vibe it's mostly true.) It causes insecurity. However if there was a vibe immediately (e.g. blind date) that this isn't happening between us, then it's no big deal fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/16 07:53 AM
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Match point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/16 11:10 AM
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Downvotes are nothing, agreed, and even responding to something gives it more value than it's probably worth. Unless there's a point to be made. And even if it's just Steelchicken reading this, or no one, it doesn't matter. Give an older bird her two cents and reflective rambling. I was actually referring to my first ever post on this forum - over 18 months ago now, back when people like GreasyPole etc were common names here. By "downvoted into oblivion" I meant the general furor over the respon…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/16 10:03 PM
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Nah, Bush never occurred to me. I'm not American. Yeah, I know, you were being facetious. Of course someone can be truly no-pill. You can see them acting more as observers, or being generally even-handed. I mean your affiliation is more obvious through your words in this thread, the extent to which you argued your point. No, the world isn't black and white. Most RPers here have different views to each other without even realizing it (until it erupts into debate). Same for those with similar flai…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 08:48 PM
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Yeah, sorry. I realized that came off as harsh directed at YOU. It's not mean to be. I'm demonstrating how language effects people here. Usually i would write in the same tone as you, also without caring about up or downvotes. It's the only way to be listened to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 08:39 PM
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Once you see you make a difference, it really helps. Because you get access to the lives of the elderly and see how many issues they're really facing. Some of the elderly are very depressed but most of them I've found are nice-spirited. If you're deaf and have chosen to communicate anyway, you're probably someone who likes to relate to people. Unless you were deaf from birth, and in those cases you can barely tell a person in their 90s is deaf, because people of this age had to learn "how to spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 08:31 PM
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Nah, I'm triggered by the word "triggered". It's like hearing someone try to bring back "rad" and you think, "nah, doesn't sound organic... yet". I'm pointing out the dynamics of how we write here on this sub - many of us have to write in a certain way to peacefully try to coexist on both sides. It's subtle, but I've just noticed it after not being on consistently for a while. I mean, anyone has to write comments in a certain way to get ups here. It's not you. PPD is usually written away on the …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 08:10 PM
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Always wondered why social justice types don't really seem to give a shit about the issues facing the aged but I digress. Um, really? Because I voluntarily took a pay downgrade to assist deaf people, knowing full well they were mostly elderly. Because if I can help a deaf elderly person communicate with their child who's living in another state and they can "hear" their child saying "I love you" through me, that makes them cry with happiness. That's what makes a tough job worth it. Maybe you sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 08:30 AM
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I'm a 39-year old woman who never wanted marriage or kids, and didn't have them. But I'm not going to start up a club of "solidarity" with guys and girls where we all high five each other over other people deciding to not marry. They can decide on their own, can't they? What I find ironic is that the woman above has got upvotes for saying: she never got married and had kids and that everyone men should avoid it. Whereas I've said before on this sub that I'm unmarried and childless on purpose - l…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 08:21 AM
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Nice redirection away from your initial argument, but it's the usual way a stronger RPer goes when they're confronted by the fact that they're wrong. (Flairs and usernames don't mean much on PPD or any sub, it's what the person says that tells you their real sympathies and ideals btw.) You bring up a link where people degrade a view that encourages rape, and act like degrading a rape enthusiast is the equivalent of saying "I hate all men". That's like reading an article on a pedophile finally be…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/16 08:04 AM
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That's kind of the point bro. To you it doesn't make sense at this point in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 11:02 AM
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If you don't know what what I'm telling you, you have some shocks in store for you in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 09:33 AM
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Nope. It would be easy if the world was so simple as that. But all of us want something, and most of us hide what it is we really want. A lot of it isn't sexual. I imagine you are quite young. When you get older, more things have happened to you in the time that has passed. And some past events take on stronger tones in the present when old secrets come to the surface. Addressing those things - positive or negative, helping someone for a certain reason, or seeking some kind of revenge - takes pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 01:37 AM
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You need new female friends, not a female circle that represents a certain type.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 10:34 AM
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Yep, this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 10:32 AM
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This is where my head immediately went, too. It's pretty simple: regardless of your gender, don't be a dick. Think of share-housing situations. So someone else stacks the dishwasher differently to you... who cares? Someone accidentally throws out something in the rubbish... not a major issue, it's accidental. It's your tone that makes all the difference. If you're bitching/complaining, it's not constructive. You're headed towards a fight. Why would you want that conflict? I want to relax at home…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 10:26 AM
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"Dude, you could have dumped me via text. I'm not big on face-to-face endings."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 10:08 AM
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I respect your skills
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 11:02 AM
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I think this was a bit of a tongue in cheek question, fellas. Though if we're going into semantics, notice you (Heathcliff) write "we"? I notice this a lot in RPer language on this forum, whereas purples and blues tend to use "I". Because while some people are reading those long posts, others are annoyed when anyone leaves off a tl'dr. So some RPers have different preferences. Still don't get the "we" over "I" thing. PS reusername and flair: you mean you're obsessed with all women in the way Hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 07:40 AM
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Dunno, I think that future me is solely based on who I am today. Your personality traits are mostly inherent. But your opinions aren't and those things change without you realizing sometimes. You also have a greater store of knowledge. You learn how to react better in certain situations. You're generally socially stronger. Your occupation and where you live may be different. Environmental influences will be different. The problem here is that TRP has a ready set of 'arguments' for this as well. …
/r/ExRedPill09/05/16 07:41 PM
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Not that like-minded, apparently. https://www.reddit.com/r/european/comments/4fe4xy/i_was_banned_from_the_red_pill_for_being_an_evil/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 07:28 AM
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Yep. I got to admit I'm surprised. It's been about ten years or more now. He's still an aspiring writer and she's the full-time worker. He looks after her son, who also visits its natural-born father (Andrew). The boy apparently calls one Papa the other Dad. Andrew's remarried and has kids with another woman and seems happier than he used to be. It wasn't hard for him... Andrew's quite nice, very rich. Regina's parents couldn't understand why she'd leave a rich husband for a poor guy. She and Ja…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 04:51 PM
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To me, a woman married to a billionaire for the sake of that and with no other talents or anything to contribute is not successful. If she's married into money without affection, that sounds like pure misery to me. Then again my days are filled with enjoyment of people and the little things, something that seems absent in this vision of marriage to a billionaire (where I perhaps incorrectly envision time spent alone in a big, clean house with nothing to do). If a woman has a good career and that…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 03:54 PM
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Leaving gmail chat open for someone else to read isn't exactly hiding personal stuff though. It seemed like he didn't give a fuck if she read it or not.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/16 10:20 PM
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Nah, I'm not bitter. I'm supportive of anyone who is ex-red pill and goes there. If people on TBP have reacted with bitterness, I've smacked them down pretty hard. Shitting on someone who's in pain isn't the right thing for anyone to do. And those who do it often get called out on it on TBP.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/16 10:18 PM
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The husband also seems like someone who read MRP and took the info in like the most poisonous newbies - he took the severest parts of it and ran at it like a bull at a gate. Self-nuke.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/16 10:17 PM
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Don't think of it being a "little problem". Your husband has changed his entire philosophy on life. This includes gender roles which you didn't sign up for. He's a different person to the one you married. That's not your fault. Your sanity is more important than "saving a marriage" if it's an abusive one.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/16 10:14 PM
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I agree with sky_dotnet below. Also, if you look up and see happy couples around you, you don't really know if they're happy. If we went by facebook, everyone's life would be super-awesome. People put their best face forward on social media rather than reality. Because reality is complex. Life is not meant to be easy. It involves both happiness and misery and everything in between. However change is certain. Even if you wanted to fight change, you can't change it - your environment around you is…
/r/ExRedPill07/05/16 10:12 PM
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I can think of a few not mentioned here: Both Blue Pillers and Red Pillers seemed to rate their own physical appearance in the same way. Some people rated themselves highly (all was done on a scale of 1-10) in honesty, but both pills also gave themselves 10 in a joking way. Most people did not seem to think they were super-attractive (10) or very unattractive (under 3). I did notice however that MGTOWers who were involved tended to rate themselves more lowly than BPers/RPers. They also tended to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 01:58 PM
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perfectly answered as usual
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 01:46 PM
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Agree on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 01:46 PM
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I'm over here in Australia and can only gauge things from what we hear in our media and here on reddit. (And most people here in Australia are vague about what reddit is.) My biggest fear is that: Trump is moving to push funds into projects that will assist in pushing the US into further debt... e.g. The wall between the US and Mexico... the cost of it will be enormous, and infrastructure during a time when a country's in debt bothers me... we're doing this here in Australia - upping infrastruct…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 05:14 AM
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True. I remember seeing MGTOW on wikipedia one day. Then I searched for "The Red Pill", and was surprised there was no entry. It's a bigger movement than MGTOW. A split second later, I thought: "Oh, yeah... right."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 03:10 AM
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Yep. And if I'm told to read the article, it usually says something I find morally wrong (e.g. suggests men should never approach a woman in a friendly way in public, ever)... in which case of course I'm going to disagree with it. I'm not going to tell people to stop talking to each other. I'm assuming there's mild feminists and zealot "feminazis", though I'm not comfortable even using these terms because I really know nothing about it. If there's people out there reading and following these art…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 09:07 PM
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I gotta admit I'm loving the GLO theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 11:43 AM
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Yeah, I was surprised by how many members of the MRA LOATHED Roosh. More than TRP loathed him it seemed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 11:43 AM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 11:38 AM
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Actually the fact that reddit is based in the US is a large reason why I think TRP is still around. The Constitution/Freedom of Speech stuff is legally unique to the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 11:37 AM
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Agreed. Also, I'm not sure why SRS is such a concern? Not even a lot of BP people frequent it. Not out of any moral opposition, simply because they have their favourite subs they frequent and that's not one of them. I don't know.... if SRS isn't a threat to doxxing RP members, why is /u/moodyprism even reading that sub to begin with? It's kind of like how I get called a "feminist" and RPers here talk to me as though I know what feminist they're talking about when a certain article is drawn to ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 11:35 AM
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Really? I had no idea. I thought no one had been doxxed. Wait... do you mean the dude who used to be called RedDeadWolverine? (Maybe he still has that name.... i think he altered it slightly.) Because we have his word of mouth only, and as I've been watching that sub for 18 months now I have reason to believe he was NOT doxxed in the way he suggested. The thing about doxxing is... it's easy to say you're "doxxed" and for others to assume someone from an opposing faction has done it. Do you know …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 11:30 AM
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I've never heard of a TRP member being doxxed? If I'm wrong I'd be intrigued to hear about it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 11:25 AM
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TRP has legitimate supporters and has actually sparked debate that reached national coverage. It's actually very, VERY rare for me to meet someone in the real world who's heard about TRP. To date I've met one person, who had vaguely heard of "an MRA pick-up guy who used to brag about banging women".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 11:21 AM
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They actually do a lot of recruiting from other subs. Particularly /r/relationships and /r/deadbedrooms, until Reddit got fed up and their comments were removed. The fact that they don't post comments anymore preaching TRP on other subs and use PMs to recruit instead does suggest however that TRP no longer publicly preach on other subs, even if it's only because they're shadowbanned. See: https://www.google.com.au/#q=reddit+red+pill+don%27t+talk+about+fight+club Or one example of PM recruiting: …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 11:18 AM
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A little ironic in that an individual - Roosh - is being "attacked" on this very forum where you're posting. I don't like him, of course, but there's a difference between talking about Roosh as someone as an object of dislike (on both sides it seems).... and then going into a mod's account and doxxing him utterly, publishing his real name, uploading a picture of his face, releasing his home location, etc. I think that's the point Tom_The_Human was trying to make. And in the 18 months I've been a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 11:11 AM
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I'm having one of those moments where you feel brief rage at closing a window when you've already responded, then brief anger at myself for not having written it in Word first. But essentially - yes. I've met every type of workplace bull. There was a woman (Michelle) in the last workplace that used to flirt in this forward, inappropriate way with any man that walked past (even injecting a sexual comment in conversations not involving her... and God forbid that some male accidentally says the wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 12:15 AM
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If you mean I'm responding to a troll, it doesn't matter, the message remains the same and can be publicly read by others if they feel like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/16 09:54 PM
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Nah, I give a shit. A few of the older regulars around here know a bit about my history. I want to and have to give a shit. My best mate, who I've been friends with for 25 years now, (I'm 39) is a guy - nicest guy you'll ever meet, absolutely without a cruel bone in his body, no agenda, quick-witted. We've relied on and helped each other out a lot over the years. He's been somewhat absorbed into my family sibling order about 20 years ago. His parents were worse than mine ever were. That's saying…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/16 09:17 PM
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Now we're at a real point. Unfortunately, language is hamstering. The English language is layered with it. In fiction it is a brilliant device. Consider the unreliable narrator in fiction: brilliant. In real life, an unreliable narrator is merely confusing. While I do agree with the other guy's idea that most "incels" are only celibate because their mind is their own worst enemy (they don't want to change themselves), I also think it is hard to change your mind and behaviour if you're deeply dep…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/16 12:52 PM
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Oh. That might be true. Unfortunately my life is swamped with so many women of the Sheree type right now I can barely breathe. (New workplace. New clique of unproductive, nasty, almost deliberately-unattractive bitches.)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/16 01:22 AM
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Oh. I don't deny it insofar as note that my experience is different. I've become more sexually adventurous as I've gotten older, generally. I think anxiety issues about my body etc have faded away as I've gotten older. You feel a bit free-er. So that's my own experience... i can't really speak for other women. I think there's assumption that in real life women talk openly with their friends about their sex life. Mine certainly don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/16 01:20 AM
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I'm going to go above my supervisor's head (nice lady, but her hands are tied) and speak to the floor manager on Tuesday (public holiday here on Monday). I hear he wants precedent for firing them. He's already fired half of their original group size. I have evidence that certainly involves precedent for firing. I think he'll be glad to hear of it. Thanks for the response!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/16 01:17 AM
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Hey again wazzup!!! Yeah, I miss the finance days for this very reason. These women have kind of skipped over picking on me and moved onto other targets (younger women). For some reason this annoys me more. It annoys me extremely that they get away with it. On the upside, I have learnt that their cliquey group has been reduced by half in the last year because of our new manager. He's only been in the company for 9 months and has found precedent for firing half of them. Apparently he intends to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/16 01:16 AM
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Do you really think they're rare? Because in the new place I'm working at, there are about six of them that all sit in a huddle and bully the younger female employees. These women are far, far uglier than average-looking guys (which we also have in our workplace and are much more popular with both genders than these women). None of them are married or have been married, and none of them have partners. As far as I can see, the only friends they have are each other. It's early days but it's kind o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/16 01:11 AM
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Do you speak English? My first language, brah. Do you have any understanding of words and language? Quite a fine mastery, thanks. You don't become a finance journalist without getting a basic grasp. "Incel" is an abbreviation of involuntarily celibate. By definition involuntary means without choice, therefore you cannot CHOOSE to be an incel. Do you get it or do you need to go back to primary school English lessons? Thanks for getting down to the nuts and bolts of semantics. While "incel" means …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/16 12:57 AM
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I agree, but this goes against the general Chad rhetoric reiterated by TRP. He is in no way Chad-ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 08:45 PM
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Males do suffer. That is real. That does not mean all male incels are suffering. Life is hard. That's the basic idea. There are no cheat sheets that are going to make your life a breeze. This applies to all humans. When you consider 1% of the population is asexual, you have to consider the fact that there are some people out there who don't want sex. Because you don't feel this way, you assume that it's nonexistent. I can't stand football but for me to say "I hate football, therefore others out …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 08:44 PM
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How is Hallmarch, an actual incel, wrong? You're saying he's not an incel because he chose it. That's like saying vegetarians who have chosen to be so are only really vegetarians because they don't have access to purchasing meat. You are therefore insinuating that all male incels are "like that" because they have no other choice. That is, you're arguing using the most warped form of MGTOW rhetoric. MGTOW does NOT equal incel. Incels exist without being part of MGTOW. MGTOW involves a lot of men …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 08:39 PM
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I think you've described the accurate idea of an incel. Unfortunately the MGTOW ideal seems to be based on a hatred of women resulting from poor romantic relationship experience, not a true desire to be alone (without all the hatred). Hullmarch here has accurately represented a real incel. It's his choice and lifestyle and that's how he's living his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 08:30 PM
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Female virgins, on the other hand, DO NOT actually believe they can't get sex, but are holding onto virginity for personal perspective reasons. I'm going to use another workplace example, a former workplace. There was a woman called Sheree who was a virgin in her 40s. She was obese to the extent that she could barely walk. She had no ankles and because of her weight, her legs were roped with varicose veins and skin discolouration. Her face was not attractive, and she was slightly balding. She of…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 08:26 PM
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Why don't I agree with it? Because if you saw photos of my exes, the one I've been the most sexually adventurous with would not fit the RP idea of this guy being the most objectively attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 08:21 PM
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I can agree with a handful of these assumptions if you take out /r/TRP members, because the theory is revolved around sexism towards women. In general society, I find that most men aren't sexist. I don't know if it has anything to do with sexism so much, but I (female) have slightly more male friends than female friends. This might be in part to do with the fact that most of my career (finance) has involved being around men. Then again, I also have female friends I've known a long time and also …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 08:17 PM
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Women People will say one thing, and then do the exact opposite. You need to meet my male friend who has been saying he's going to break up with his abusive girlfriend every month now for the last two years. They don't have kids or shared finances tying them together, they merely rent together. His friends have all given up hope by now that he means it when he says, "Yeah, I'm seriously going to end it."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 01:07 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 01:00 PM
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Yeah, it is true. I was just thinking about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 12:49 PM
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I find it to be a major turn-off when a guy is so built his inner arms can't touch the side of his body.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 12:48 PM
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Based on this logic, I can assume a female cannot be raised to assume male characteristics by a father who had "always wanted a boy" for example; and that men cannot similarly develop feminine characteristics, ever, because it is in a biological template? And by that extension, since fundamental personality is based entirely on gender, any gender producing opposite-gender traits is deliberately playing a part?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 08:47 AM
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"Janey's got a gun... Janey Briggs got a gun..." "She's got a gun!" (screaming, shrieking) Security officer: "Come with us, Miss."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 01:13 AM
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You do realise some 18 year olds look 23 and some 23 year olds look 18, right? Yep. And I think it's kind of predictable that the age of the person is of utmost importance to Cis. He has an inhumane, strictly academic-only interest in humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 01:08 AM
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Wow, dude. This is the first time since civilization started that communities and social pressures aren't forcing most everyone to couple up 1 for 1. Actually, this moment in time is one of the rare occasions in modern and ancient history where you are NOT subjected to these pressures. Even peasants have always been expected to marry and carry on the line. I'm not the marrying kind and don't feel pressured by anyone to do it. Technology and medicine has also allowed people to survive and breed w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 04:08 PM
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I don't think you realize to what extent your language, drok, is actually symbolic of what most people associate with RPers. Using terms like "full of some severe retardation" is a pretty crass and insulting way of putting things. It's common to RP language. There's no way I would discredit a field like economics, particularly to disagree with RP which has nothing to do with it. I'm not sure how anyone could even use global economics as an argument to support RP or BP thinking. Anyone who assign…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 08:28 PM
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Yep, I gotta admit that was also driving me crazy. Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 08:00 PM
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Excellent post. AWALT and the nature of PPD is paradoxical really and frustrating. Over the last year or so I've noticed a few things... There is an implication when you use AWALT that you literally mean all women are like that. Because guess what? Some of you think AWALT is literal consciously, some of you think it unconsciously, some of you disagree with it consciously, and some of you disagree with it unconsciously. Because while there is a group called The Red Pill, members often forget that…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 06:04 AM
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Oooh look out, /u/BossLaidee, this dude just came out with the most incisive and stinging retort known to mankind. Imagine what he could come out with if he learnt how to spell "coughing". Let me help /u/Koffing out a little bit. Yes, women publish magazines like Cosmo, Dolly, etc on how to dress, how to date and how to do make-up for teenage girls. I remember these magazines from high school. I remember finding them mostly useless. But a group of men writing a magazine like GQ - how to dress, h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 04:23 PM
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True... but people who are very black-and-white about things aren't awkward about it. They're very, very, VERY forthcoming.... /highfive to the zealot at my work
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 08:48 AM
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Well played... will acknowledge your wit and thoughts deserve an open mind heretofore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 08:46 AM
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Westboro has marked you down as someone meant for hell for the very fact that you're not one of them. Posting on reddit alone also means you are going to hell, by their standards. To Westboro, you personally are degenerate and bound for eternal hellfire - and you are going to hell because your parents didn't raise you correctly (your parents are also going to hell too). I've researched them very deeply, contacted several members and ex-members, and if you disbelieve me you can contact them for c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 05:08 AM
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I know. I realized that as I got further down the page. You are likable. In fact, based on your comments overall I think I would like you straight off in real life. I can tell. Your manner is kind. You like a laugh, too. I have a feeling you're pretty, too - not sure why. Just... please be careful with the time you have, if you don't mind an older nose sticking their beak in. If you stick to ascribing people to certain categories (which, I admit, helps us a lot as we grow) it eventually lands yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 04:35 AM
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Me too....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 08:01 AM
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Hang on.... if BOTH people who made this test are "red pill women", how is this based on "objectivity and accuracy"? This is an oxymoron. Even if you wrote, "this is objective and accurate because it was made by a blue pill woman/man and a red pill woman/man", it is in no way accurate. Because people who are part of these subs represent less than 0.0000001% of the overall population, of whom the vast majority have never heard of reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 07:59 AM
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No, you're normal. It's the test that isn't normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 07:54 AM
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It's strange to leave reddit for a few weeks and come back and see it all with fresh eyes. To think that someone actually tabulated a score of degeneracy for humans which includes mixed-race relations with bestiality is... shocking. Normal people would assume this is trolling. I should add that I'm unmarried, never want to get married, don't want kids of my own and I scored low (single digits) on this "test", though it's obvious from the justifications pointed out by OP here that i would be a de…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 07:53 AM
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Finally, someone else brings up the fact that bestiality is thrown in there alongside concepts such as mixed-race marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 07:41 AM
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Right? What is the counterargument: incest to keep the bloodlines pure? I shake my head and remind myself that the minority of people only share OP's views here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 07:39 AM
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You are using extremism to justify conservatism. To assume that SOME people not wanting to have children is going to be the end of the world is just... beyond belief. To assume that biracial relationships is bad is... beyond belief. To assume that everyone should get married and end up discontented just to keep the status quo going is.... beyond belief. To assume that everyone should be judged by their sexuality is.... predictable given the context and flair, but beyond belief. To put bestiality…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 07:36 AM
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Yeah, I'm not sure how not wanting kids makes me better than others. Because it doesn't. It's just an inherent preference. I'm probably in trouble for not wanting to get married though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 07:30 AM
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You mean signing a piece of paper for the government's records and tax benefits makes all the difference in the world between one's actions and the consequences? I believe Westboro Baptist Church said something along those lines...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 07:27 AM
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Cheer up, I'm a white female and I've had two black boyfriends and according to some I am the devil for fostering a mentality that it's OK to "dilute the European blood pool". Strangely, the arguable opposite of this - incest, keeping bloodlines "pure" - doesn't appear in this selection criteria...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 07:26 AM
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Think of this test as being what I call a Dickhead Detector. Anyone of any gender who compiles something like this and ascribes you a score of low moral decency by including mixed ethnicity alongside bestiality lets you know straight away that you're dealing with someone you wouldn't want to know in real life. In a way, it's a gift. If people were more upfront about this way of thinking, you'd know who to avoid straight away - rather than wade through chit-chat to get to the point: AVOID.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 07:21 AM
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And also creating a lot of other issues with men (and women) with MANY MORE attitudes brought up in this very "scientific" assortment of selection criteria of degeneracy, where blowjobs are thrown in along with bestiality. Edit: whether or not BF means body fat or boyfriend is actually irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 07:18 AM
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I love how bestiality is thrown in with having given oral sex within the context of a long-term relationship! Awesome scoring board. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 07:14 AM
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Marriage is the be-all and end-all of morality, people! Today you failed to learn something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/16 07:12 AM
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I'm not sure if it's social circles - I think it's more to do with you realizing who and what you are, and then seeking out others who are like-minded. So you're sort of right. I think it's more to do with how you think and feel and you find the culture that helps you or sees things the way you do. And thank God we have these different cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 09:09 AM
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Ha ha no it's all good! I very much agree with you. I think that people are trained to think of monogamy as being the default but there is no evidence whatsoever that this is true of human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/16 02:00 AM
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That strange that weird feeling you get when someone replies to an old post! Yes, I totally agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/16 01:13 AM
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Like I was watching The Prestige all over again. Real life and identical twins: I was working in an office of 50 people who I all knew pretty well. Walked into the kitchen and Michael, I.T. guy, threw me a bit of an annoyed look when I cheerily said hello. I thought, "What in the fuck is his problem?" and continued to ignore him. For whatever reason, he was suddenly snubbing me whereas we usually would talk for a bit in the mornings. Whatever. Then at lunch I re-entered the kitchen and saw Micha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 08:41 PM
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Wow. At least I wasn't subjected to the gunshots. So the South Park episode on SF and the whole "smug" theme rings true then, by the sounds of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 07:11 PM
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Wow. That sucks to hear about San Francisco. Most people who have traveled to the US (even travelers within the US) state that San Francisco is their favourite city. I'm willing to bet that SF, like Vancouver, is spectacularly lovely in certain areas. In downtown Van, 75% of the region is beautiful - ornate gardens, water fountains, trees, street sculptures - but if you're on the east side, you can stand on one street in Chinatown surrounded by Vancouverites getting specialty foods, glance over …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 06:09 PM
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Wow. Similar history, except for the urinating-on part. I'm 178cm, or around 5 foot 9, white female. Also have had two public masturbaters on public transport. First one was here in Australia. Had a book in my hand, dude in a suit gets onto train and glances around almost-empty carriage. Sits next to me. (This always causes a sinking feeling.) I remember thinking, "just look at your book and read and hopefully he'll go away". After a few minutes I glanced up and he was stroking a VERY prominent …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 04:47 PM
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Precursor: This post is not about TBP men. I have different and unrelated thought about them. Right away, this disclaimer says a lot about you. “If you’re female BP member, then that’s different to BP men. Listen up, women.” Take a glance around. This rhetoric is not new. Moreover, 99% of PPD posts that start with this sort of statement indicate that the OP believes that “if you’re a man it’s cool, I’m talking to you females who must be feminists because all females are feminists” rhetoric. This…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 12:29 PM
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I'm going to also suggest some people are just inherently very, very sexually matched and this forms a pretty dynamic natural sexual flow that would equate to "best sex ever" in someone's eyes. I'm not sure it has to be practiced. Do you mind if I ask about your flair? I've come to that conclusion myself, but I wonder what it means to you in terms of RP goals and beliefs?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 02:58 PM
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I think more men have body dysmorphia than people realize. You're not alone unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 12:48 PM
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I'm not sure to be honest where all this evidence of plain women with hot guys is. Almost every couple I know in real life is about the same level of attractiveness. In fact it's so rare to see a very plain girl with a very unattractive man that it gets commented on behind these people's backs - sometimes to their face in an insinuating way. The same is true when the girl is considered very attractive and the guy is not - phrases like "punching above your weight a bit there, hey mate?" or an ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 12:47 PM
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If we're throwing "psychological force" into the equation, both genders will do it to each other without realizing it I suspect. If you mean bullying, I have also seen married couples do it to each other in public. Many of them aren't that private about it. If this list that you made was replaced "man" and "woman" with person and said this was a relationship of any sort, I'd say all the power would be on the side of the manipulator. --a man's use of manipulative or psychological tactics. --a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 08:19 AM
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Agree with this. Also, I'd ask why the guy wants to get laid so badly that he's coming to TRP. If he's young and clueless, as OP suggests, he may not realize that what he wants is intimacy rather than sex. TRP is about the latter and avoiding the former. We see this sort of thing happening quite a lot, including famous PUAs: they reach a certain age, meet a certain woman, backflip entirely on their views and state they wrote their PUA guides when they were young and angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 06:09 PM
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While this might be true, there's still a clear answer to OP's title here: NO, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 06:01 PM
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"Reproduction is the basis of our species to survive, and this is exactly what we're programmed for. That's why a woman will seek a nest to raise her kids, just as a man will seek a woman as fertile as possible. Feminists won't be able to change this". This is actually quite true. Feminism or any other movement won't be able to change innate desires in humans. And when you look around you, the majority of society will mate and have children because of this innate reproductive drive. Both men and…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/16 01:59 AM
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Then there are the ladies who we talk about a lot over at r/TheRedPill. These ladies are the stupid ones who continually cast their eyes skyward wondering why they keep attracting assholes and douchebags. They get drunk and sleep with that friend of a friend; or the hot guy who works in the same building who they ran into at the bar. Or they get into a relationship with a "nice guy", but she ends it after a few months because he's "boring" and "it wasn't fun". They are attracted to men they want…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 04:00 PM
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NEEDED: SECRETARY/RECEPTIONIST Key responsibilities: Answer the phones... sometimes Make sure you’re away from your desk gossiping most of the time Leave it up to someone else to open and close the security door for delivery men and temp employees Forget to give new and temp employees a swipe tag Get very, very defensive if someone needs something from the stationary cabinet Choose the most attractive man in the office, and if he’s showing interest in another female (even if it’s just friendly) …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 04:00 PM
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Cool story. Yeah, there are sluts like this, who are just well-meaning, but stupid and irresponsible people. I've known lots of different kinds of sluts. I used to work with a woman lawyer. Smart as hell. Talented lawyer. Got good results for her clients. Managed enormous amounts of liability exposure and did it damn well. It's just that she enjoyed sex, liked sleeping around, and was with a new boyfriend every few months or so. She wasn't a stereotypical 20 lbs overweight cougar, doing the tryh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 03:59 PM
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Yeah, that's all true. I'm trying to think of all the sluttish chicks I have known in real life. Some are definitely decent human beings, but some of them are definitely not to bright. I had a female friend who wasn't particularly "hot", but she had a good body and big blue eyes. Very positive, upbeat manner. When she looked at you it was like she was really LOOKING at you. Average intelligence, bad upbringing (alcoholic father who was constantly cheating on his wife). She became a certain kind …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/16 09:32 PM
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It's alpha to not put up with it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/16 04:50 PM
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I just wanted to say that I do see signs here in Australia of addressing men's issues. I know it's not enough yet, but there is a push to get the information out there. We invented Movember! (aka Australia finally does something beside releasing the Hemsworths into the wild.) People really get behind this and I know it's spread, but it's still very important here in Australia (and I hope across The not-so-Narrow Sea). And while there is a focus on prostate cancer here, Movember isn't just about …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/16 03:56 AM
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Well, my betrothed, I can't argue with you on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/16 01:20 AM
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In this regard, probably true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 01:41 PM
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Your opinion is always valid - wish there were more similar-minded people on this sub. Asexual people represent 1% of the population. One person in a hundred isn't "common", but it isn't ridiculously rare either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 01:32 PM
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Female, Blue Pill. Average. Both. About 30%. Currently - zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 01:27 PM
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Women and men are both equally capable of being abusive in a relationship. Men have greater strength, however, and the number of women in Australia who are murdered in domestic-violence related issues has leapt over the last few years from "every other week or so" to two deaths per week currently. From domestic violence only. In terms of other forms of abuse (emotional, verbal etc) I'd suggest it's more evenly distributed among the sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 01:25 PM
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Because TRP constantly reiterates that sluts are worthless. And a woman who sleeps with a lot of men are worthless sluts. They also become "alpha widows" and a host of other terms that involve words like "sluts", "whores", "cock carousel", "hypergamy", "bitches" etc. Any woman that came on here and said that she had slept with a lot of hot guys would be jumped on and torn apart. Can you really not see that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 01:21 PM
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The issue is that many members of TBP are shocked when they first come to the pillosphere and learn that they are seen as moronic, evil, stupid, Machiavellian, fat, useless, ugly etc. It feels like a personal attack. The genuine dismay and even depression felt by those members are offset by using jokes to diminish the negative effect that these posts provoke. When you first come to the pillosphere as a female, you are pretty much told that all men think the way Red Pillers do about women. "Your …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 01:18 PM
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The issue is there are so many "outliers" within RP who do become liberal with their definitions and write about them as truisms. What do you think the author's intention is here? To be "mistaken" by BPers? I doubt that's his intention in writing. Why bother adding this disclaimer if the information he's given is something that wouldn't draw in a legitimate attack from an opponent? Particularly given your assessment of the individual "being liberal" with words and confusing rape with "rape fanta…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 10:25 PM
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I don't think this happens often, if ever. So "Citation Needed", please. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2bowat/women_want_to_be_raped_by_a_high_value_man/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 05:20 PM
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Wow, congratulations on surviving this. I can't imagine what it must be like to live under the amount of religious pressure, with insane control to that extent. I can only say that this does cause a few twangs of memory to resonate with me, but to a much lesser extent and that's bad enough. You're a tough person and should be proud.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 12:28 AM
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That feminism bothers more men than it does women. The insinuation there would be that feminism supports me personally in some way. But I don't feel like it has ever really offered me anything or that it's some kind of institution crossed with a sense of sisterhood or anything. However, when pointed out to me, some examples of "feminism" annoy me. Germaine Greer outright disgusts me. She's a revolting creature. I am also suspicious of those who suddenly become an extremist-level feminist. I tend…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 04:52 PM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 04:37 PM
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It seems to me more of a social mechanism than an established trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 10:22 AM
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How did Jag remain a tv series for so long? Some questions have no answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 10:21 AM
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The thing is the word "feminist" now no longer has a tangible description. Until I came to TRP, I vaguely thought of it as meaning equal rights for both genders. I've never been a big political advocate but lean liberal in terms of thinking (rather than conservative). Then when I came here I learnt it means I seemingly want to burn every man alive in the most torturous way possible. Until a definition comes out, I'll decide what I am. One thing I will note though is that everytime I hear someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 10:19 AM
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No matter what topic you're assigned at uni, you have to lie in some way. Assignment grades are ALL about what you think the professor/person grading it wants you to write, and then you write according to what they want. Everyone does it, don't worry. Even the style of writing you must use for university assignments is rarely your own. One thing most writers say that once you leave college/university, you have to "unlearn" the way you've been taught to write. Then you can actually speak with you…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 10:08 AM
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Solid response.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 06:18 AM
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Nope, not an asshole. Friends with benefits, if made clear, is friends with benefits. If the guy has made that clear - it's clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 06:14 AM
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I have to say there is something to this. I've noticed when people confess to cheating, it seems to be in large part to assuage their own guilt at the expense of how their partner might feel. If a person has cheated and it's over and they are ONLY telling their spouse to make the guilt go away, you could call that selfish. The guilt is your burden to carry for having cheated. Having said that, I've been cheated on twice and was glad I found out. This was not in the context of marriage but two LT…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 06:12 AM
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Sorry dude, that was too vague. I'm 100% with you. I don't get the notion that celebrities like Brad Pitt, Clooney, di Caprio etc are sexually attractive. I've never found them sexually attractive. Good actors, yeah, but that's it. I am a legit member of Women Who Fancy Men No One Else Fancies (hello John Simm!!). The Brad Pitt peak years (pretty much the 15 years following Thelma and Louise) have been hard. Every girl I know: "What's wrong with you?? He's so gorgeous I just can't stop looking a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/16 03:59 AM
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Instead of wearing a "This is what a feminist looks like!" t-shirt Actually, I can imagine a man wearing a t-shirt with just these words on it at a nightclub and scoring pretty easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 11:13 AM
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Present day Me: "In the future there will be a term called Sexual Market Place which a website abbreviates to SMP while discussing dating dynamics." 17 year old Me: "Oh, okay. Um... anything more interesting in the way of life spoilers?" Present day Me: "Jon Snow isn't actually dead."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 11:05 AM
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That's a pretty piss-poor way of looking at "winning" at life. By the way, being alive is not a contest. There is no medals given out before you die. It's just you facing who you really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 10:54 AM
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Right? It's pretty awesome. I'd say the stats are pretty hard to quantify, really, because everytime you hear someone say "ten percent of people are left-handed/are gay/have endometriosis/are allergic to this specific medication/etc..." you automatically know they've just thrown in a basic figure that will change over the years. But the general consensus seems to be that the female orgasm during sleep is in the minority. I do wonder if there's a genetic basis; my sister also experiences the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 05:20 AM
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PS Wayne Rooney...... swoon
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 02:05 AM
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Hey, thanks for answering. Interesting. Do you remember a specific hot dream prompting it, or it just happens and you wake up realizing it happened? Yeah. I notice that most guys who make up with morning wood - if there's a girl in their bed, they'll go for it. I always thought this is an interesting phenomenon: it's like if you're born male you're forced to wake up horny sometimes, then have to redirect it. I don't know if that makes sex less enjoyable for the man though? (i.e. erection is not …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 02:02 AM
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Whoops. I forgot to tell everyone that "Chris Pine" is the word that awakens me (I'm a sleeper agent). It will automatically summon me to the relevant location.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 01:53 AM
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Hey, leave my Stevey Boy alone! And /u/irateMD should know that there are no snowflakes, hence other women must find him attractive. I will find them on my mountain hike across the world this year; I suspect some of them are hiding out in caves. They will join my khalasar. Which means I have to go out now and buy a shit-tonne of horses. I did note that I found Idris Elba attractive, however, and apparently I'm not the only one there. But as for Brad Pitt... meh. And I agree on Zac Effron. Actual…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 01:30 AM
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Oh sorry Fruit! I didn't realize I was responding to YOU... I know you wouldn't mean it that way. Yes, I am willing to join this club of Women Who Fancy Men No One Else Fancies and get stuck into the wine. I'll bring the red, you bring the white?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 01:21 AM
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And interestingly I find none of them attractive aside from Idris Elba...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 06:00 PM
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Lady boners is what all women want in men. Are you saying that women will only find men attractive when they find them inherently attractive? Wow, what a crazy world we live in! Thank God ALL MEN only choose women based on intellect. Physically perfect men. The money and the status those guys have doesn't matter, as I've known guys who didn't have 2 coins to rub together and had plenty of women. I didn't find any of those guys attractive, except for Idris Elba. I enjoyed Luther and was impressed…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 06:00 PM
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That's interesting. I've always wondered: Do men get wet dreams quite late into adulthood? When do they stop? Is waking up with morning "wood" a different feeling than getting a boner from sexual interest? (Physically does it feel different, I mean.) Did most men here experience involuntary erections during high school? When you think about it, whatever created us had a pretty bad sense of humour to throw in involuntary erections during arguably the most vulnerable years. I'm part of the apparen…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 05:49 PM
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Yes!!! I think that's why he had some of the insecurities that he had. I didn't know you'd seen that film. It's good, hey? Strictly speaking i'm against vigilantism, but my general rule is there are multiple exceptions to every rule. That's no excuse to not follow the rules, just to look out for something bizarre that may disprove the rule on that one occasion. I can get my vigilante fill in real life from the upcoming movies Batman vs Superman, Suicide Squad, etc and that's fine with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 08:31 PM
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Yeah, I know, that's fucking dark. Cheer up, I'm not having kids. And this is a hypothetical "if society had no rules and we were living on another planet" type of deal. Or "Game of Thrones" Arya's hit list kind of deal. Back to real life: I still think a man who kills his kid's rapist shouldn't go to jail for it. It makes me think of a movie that was a cult favourite here in Australia (made in New Zealand) called Once Were Warriors. Big favourite for guys in particular. Not a "nice, pretty" fil…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/16 04:12 AM
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Thanks for the ups, man. I'll let Cam know a guy who doesn't believe in male-female friendships thinks our friendship is fucked up and unhealthy. I will also say, "I think the dude on reddit insinuated that I was abusive to you" and we will laugh about it, and then I will unexpectedly beat the crap out of him. You know me too well. You're like a fly on the wall. On the upside, you do not believe that these relationships exist and the irony is that this belief will make it true IRL. You won't eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 05:52 PM
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Actually, you might find this would work. Cops hate pedophiles, and pedophiles don't tend to stick to one target and cops know that. They are a repulsive public menace who serial offend and escape justice a lot, and this is especially bad for cops who had to deal with them. Hence, I think cops really do wish these guys were dead rather than deal with the paperwork and prison-housing (with special privileges if the story catches media attention - own safety room from other prisoners) crap that go…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 05:46 PM
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My thing is hating still bodies of water e.g. a local lake when it hasn't rained in a very long time, and the water is murky and the top is slushy. I've been with a group of friends willing to jump into this after we went on a walk after a party out in the middle of nowhere. NOPE. I'm not jumping in water where I can see a frigging eel, even in moonlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 05:16 PM
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If you mean the whiskey part, don't worry too much. If you mean his clusterfuck of a girlfriend, that's true. It is sad. And worse than you know. I'm going to stop it from getting worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 05:07 PM
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Did I really need to imply this wasn't relevant? I almost did it just to avoid this predictable response. No, I'm talking about bolting out of someone's house and going to the neighbours and tearfully asking them to call the police because they've been raped. When the alleged rapist has already reminded their victim that they're alone, have no way of escape, and then takes away their phone. AND YES IF THE GENDERS WERE REVERSED AND THE PERSON RUNNING TO THE NEIGHBOUR'S HOUSE WAS MALE IT WOULD STI…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 03:38 PM
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And who's to say I'm not a HB1 and he's an HB10? If you said that then I would believe you. Everything else you said had no bearing on the situation whatsoever, so the harder you tried to explain it away the more you seemed to be in denial. This is the most insane logic I've heard in a while, and that's saying something. You are saying that something can only be credible if "important details" such as using RP's statistical guide and lingo is the only way to go. Explaining the situation apparent…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 03:28 PM
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No, that isn't rape, but your gender-flipping scenario and basic assumption ignores a lot of red flags in the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 03:07 PM
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From an editor's perspective (I'm a journo and sub-editor) you get used to identifying the way different people write. Everyone has their own voice, but you can tell when someone's copied off someone else's "voice". You can also tell when something has been edited and isn't clear. It's your job to identify this before it's published. And to me this story has nuances that lead me to conclude that the author is not being entirely honest. And given that we're talking about reddit, I guess that's no…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 02:59 AM
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We have to also keep in mind that he changed part of his original story in an edit: "She said she wanted to leave, but I reminded her she promised sex and couldn't leave easily (she was at my place without transportation to get away)"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 02:41 AM
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She said she wanted to leave, but I reminded her she promised sex and couldn't leave easily (she was at my place without transportation to get away) So this part he wrote seems totally fine to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 02:39 AM
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Guilty of rape? My gut says: yes. To me that looks a lot like the "taking control of the situation, eliminating LMR and escalating" that is found in some RP field reports. Yeah, he's done some of this - badly. But I think sometimes a guy will perform "red pill" associated acts without having ever read The Red Pill. Some guys are generally pushy, more cunning than usual, and have low self-control and low social awareness, and I think this is more what this guy is doing with his actions. (To an im…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/16 02:38 AM
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Again, thank you /u/Actual_Typhaeon. I should add for the record, jose, that when I read this line: Cameron would stick his dick in her in a heartbeat I laughed loud enough to wake someone. Jesus. You really have no idea. And who's to say I'm not a HB1 and he's an HB10? Would he want to fuck me then? This confounds me, this automatic "nup!" thinking. Logic dictates that I'm telling the truth. I have nothing to gain by making this up, and my history shows I'm not a troll. I'm more liable to get i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 03:36 PM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/16 03:08 PM
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Sorry for the delayed response.... oh no (I can't help but laugh in sympathy over this one), not the blue harness of shame! We've actually tried walking BOTH ragdoll cats on leashes (which were blue too by the way) and they're not too keen on it. They seem to be torn between interest in the outside world and fear of the world, the leash, the air, and the entire situation - slinking so low to the ground they barely move. In these situations, cats would make great reverse-limbo dancers. Good that …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 09:50 PM
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I'm not usually into the meme thing but Japanese parliament is hilarious. Look at this meme of some guy breaking down on television: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IumkoOmMpTU This was satirized in the show Silicon Valley. Didn't realize it was a real thing (playing guitar to someone's sounds of distress) until I saw this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 09:29 PM
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Men are brought up to believe that women are these pure, deep and loving human beings who only want to bring good to mankind, and they are told so all the time - either explicitly by getting all their awesome traits pointed out (seriously, if I had a dollar for every stupid gynocentric article about how much more likely women are to be morally superior to men, I'd be rich by now), or implictly by articles that bash men with the simultaneous absence of articles that are similarly critical of wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 09:18 PM
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Interesting analysis. I haven't looked much at RPW.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 08:52 PM
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Yeah. Unfortunately that's not just specific to PPD or the internet itself but the nature of debating. I've noticed in real life people will often take to "winning" rather than actually debating an issue. It's even the point of Presidential debates (gunning for a win), round-table discussions with intellectual heavyweights when televised (shouting over top of each other) and in our Parliamentary Questions Time, which is when all the politicians in Australia meet up, semi-drunk and hungover after…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 08:34 PM
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Shit. Deep down I knew I probably had a kid out there somewhere. Erm, how's things? Sorry I've been absent for x years. But I gotta tell you, kid, parents suck. Mine did and now yours do. Ahhh, how old are you and are you taking all your vitamins? Also be careful on the street. Can't trust people these days. And there is no shame in carrying a handkerchief around in your pocket for sneezing. None.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 08:23 PM
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That's quite astute. It is true that certain Red Pillers are so enthusiastic about the philosophy that they believe it brings them self-actualization. Hmmm, ironically by noting it hasn't brought self-actualization this seems to highlight a certain high level of self-awareness in you. And one could argue self-awareness increases a person's chances of self-actualization over a person with no self-awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 08:15 PM
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Make sure you're somewhere stable in space before attempting it. As we know, the TARDIS can move through time and space - but when you notice it, seemingly never both at the same time. You can only go back in time on Earth, so keep going back in time and attempting a hard reset. Make sure the coordinates are right or you're off to visit the Ood for a full hour. Maybe Daleks, and they're so misanthropic. Yeah, space-time issues suck. I was half-way through eating a sandwich yesterday and it turne…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 01:31 PM
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Nice. I was about to say dude was a bit too chirpy for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 01:21 PM
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Yeah. Like many things, when quantity increases quality seems to decrease.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 01:20 PM
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Well-thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 01:19 PM
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p.s. if anyone is "shitting red and crap" please see a doctor. THIS
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 01:18 PM
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See, your post is an example of something that isn't useful. In a discussion about having more ethical, even-handed debate where many of us express a wish to treat others as humans without insults, you've just gone ahead and derailed it by doing the opposite (bitching about BPers generally across multiple posts).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 01:18 PM
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My interest history here, and that of a few others, would disprove this conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 01:17 PM
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THIS! Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 01:14 PM
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That's what it sounds like to me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 01:13 PM
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I enjoy hearing your voice here I have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 01:12 PM
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Reset your TARDIS. You won't get out of this time loop without a hard reset - leave it off for ten full seconds, then turn it back on. You're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 01:12 PM
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THIS. If you're at PPD, it's probably because of one of three reasons: The people who come here to repeatedly voice the same opinion and constantly iterate this position. Usually aggressively. Trolls (less than one might think though, I'd say). The people who seem to want to understand the other side's perspectives on some level. The third group sometimes becomes more dominant as the sub trends. However, I wish the third group were more widely represented generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 01:09 PM
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I loathe the word "sperg" I hear from GLO and other self-proclaimed prophets on RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 01:07 PM
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Yeah you do this and it's great! Also, having a background knowledge of you really helps. I know (to a small extent) what you're going through. The "autism" attack, as I said, is just wrong. Also strikes me as very wrong when I hear someone write, "sperg" (unfortunately usually an insensitive RPer who uses it as lingo. GLO does all the time). I can see why that is offensive to you. It should be. But I feel like you're developed quite a bit of resilience over the last few months! I meant to menti…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 01:06 PM
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Hello there!! But you make some great points! And also... I don't know, you definitely do challenge people's views. You just can't win 'em all. But you come closer to it than most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 01:02 PM
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Yeah there's a few who are, for sure! I think the fact that you're female might make you a target at the start (it was for me, but I was also very "green" and had no experience using reddit... I was willing bait without realizing it). But generally I think the more even-handed people will rise up and answer a question in seriousness and that's great.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 01:01 PM
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That's rough. It's annoying when someone engages you and you give their thoughts some weight, and you take the time to respond to their issues (often prompted) and you wonder whether they read it or not. Often they do, sometimes they don't. The times they don't are annoying because not bothering to read the whole thing is rude and lazy. I remember thinking when I first came to reddit the "tl;dr" part at the end was counterintuitive - it means people can read the summary without many of the impor…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 12:59 PM
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That means you're not happy. That's frank and... not good. Or are you saying you were unhappy and now you're not?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 12:45 PM
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I know this is odd, but it's the posts about mental illness and general life shittiness which helps me explain why some of these views might exist. General life shittiness is something we can all relate to, to some extent, and it influences people. And I am interested in understanding why. A background of an individual poster is always welcome to me because it helps explain where they're coming from. Once this is established, I think there's less confusion about what the person is saying - you k…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 12:44 PM
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Believe it or not, I see merits in the Blue Pill perspective-given most Reds and Purples were once blues…but it's really difficult to debate with an opponent who doesn't even consider your viewpoint worth listening to once. That's why I'm here, Xemnas! Seriously, I know that less people from TBP come here than other pills. We saw it in the mods statistics from the last two years. I'm BP in my flair but like TRP and other subs, there are different people with different perspectives within the sub…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 12:39 PM
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But if we're to trust what people DO and not what they SAY (the constant advice I hear about women on RP and MRP)... it's only RP guys who read Rand. That's the only time I see that name mentioned on any of the subs - RP and MRP. And now here on PPD with this post. I get the idea is to align a political ideal with the pills. But if you're reading Rand in the first place you're obviously interested. I've never heard of a Rand discussion on TBP, and you'd think we'd see a passing mention of the au…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 12:39 PM
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PS I responded. PPS Remember that you are my betrothed. Also, for /u/PoopInMyBottom, MRP just put up a post about ovulation. As explained I'm not on board with the AF/BB theory but if you're into it and seem to be keenly researching this, MRP put more info up that is relevant: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/433tnr/how_to_tell_if_shes_ovulating_with_science_and/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 12:32 PM
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Then you're missing out on a lot in life. And your perception of the world is dramatically different to mine. We won't find much common ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 04:28 AM
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Many studies have shown that men express more distress than do women in response to the thought of their partner engaging in sexual intercourse with another man What you’ve failed to note here is that women exhibit more distress than men when they realize their husband is having an emotional affair. This is also considered cheating. Men also engage in greater mate retention efforts when the threats of infidelity are highest. Alright. Several other studies have found that men are more jealous and…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 04:11 AM
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Women also experience greater sexual desire for men other than their primary partners during the ovulatory phase of the cycle and particularly if their partners lack cues to good genes. Re-read what I wrote about ovulation. Most women are on the contraceptive pill and do not have “real” ovulation phases. Some (who are not on the pill, or their bodies work well on the pill in terms of imitating a normal reproductive cycle) are more likely to be horny during ovulation, sure. But everything suggest…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 04:10 AM
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Come on. You should know by now that anyone who throws me a study and specifically wants my view will get a response. OP also kept mentioning a link he sent to the_wandering_mind. He didn't send a link to me. If you mean the link in his post and he was being grammatically incorrect, then of course I'll examine his link and all the information in it. The studies we have reviewed confirm that women, too, can gain benefits from short-term mating. Probably true. I don’t know if all people are cut ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 04:10 AM
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Wow. But also, not "wow". People who can't believe this... you don't know what you're missing out on. Male-female friendships are fucking awesome. Yes, so are male-male and female-female friendships, but I don't see that being set in stone as a law. This is what comes from a long-standing friendship between my male friend and I for the last 25 years: You know everything about the other person and make no judgment on them. The no-judgment part is awesome and damn easy. I see the judgments people …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/16 01:53 AM
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Me too. AWALT. We're all liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 12:25 PM
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That's what I got the first time I came on this sub. I was totally unaware of its vibe, how significant the flairs were in the reader making a judgment, and how vicious reddit subs can get. Someone RP guy was rambling about how all women want marriage. I thought: "What? We're not living in the 1600s." I wrote, "Surely this isn't true. I'm not married and don't want kids. I don't hate kids, just don't want them." Response from a random RP guy: "Ha ha you are deluded you really think we'll listen …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 12:24 PM
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The point is that basing an entire philosophical approach to life based on unfounded assumptions cannot be called scientifically sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 11:57 AM
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Yeah, a few people here might want to sit down before hearing this next bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 11:54 AM
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I see this more in TRP than TBP. TRP has more clearly-defined views that are followed. The self identifies with the group to the extent that several RP posters here will always talk about their own thoughts as "We", e.g. "We don't mean AWALT literally", "We don't see the worth in raising someone else's child" etc. The statement is never prefaced with "I believe this" because the self is now part of the sub machine, and self doesn't exist. Even though the point of the exercise, ironically, is nar…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 11:54 AM
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Individualism is inherent in members of BP, which includes: religious people and atheists; married people, those in LTRs, those who have one-night stands, those who aren't currently dating; men and women; people of different sexual orientations; different belief systems. If the individual's rights were not respected, we'd go with one demographic and kick everyone else out, telling them that they're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 11:45 AM
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Again - what is this alleged moral stance BP has?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 11:39 AM
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"Pseudo" victims are NEVER OK. False claims of any abuse are never OK. Legitimate abuse is not OK. It also includes men being beat up by their partners, men being beat up by other men, prison rape, etc. No case of legitimate abuse should be ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 11:38 AM
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What is BP morality, pray tell?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/16 11:36 AM
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Fair enough, but that doesn't address the question. What OP has written down what sums up one of the usual RP recruitment spiels e.g. a short version: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3zy5gt/the_first_rule_of_fight_club_is/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 12:10 PM
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Yeah, I'm sure that a guy can exhibit cuntish behaviour and still get laid. I mean, that's what nightcubbing is about. People get drunk and make out and occasionally dance. When you're drunk, cuntish behaviour can get overlooked. I'd say a lot of the sex field reports fail to note how many times the dude tried to get laid that week but didn't. 50 knows and one yes can still equal a field report. How successful are even the most successful pick up artists though? Roosh's book, 30 bangs, is about …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 08:30 AM
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Ice storms... wow. I'm gonna out myself and reveal I just looked that up in more detail. I've seen things covered in snow (Canada, parts of the US) and hail (Australia, quite often) but not frozen water like that. Not in real life. (Of course some of the stock images of ice on trees paint it as beautiful, not dangerous and annoying.) You're making the big move! Yeah, I'm more of a city-type girl over an outback type, which I guess is an equivalent. Hang on... what you said, though - you're drivi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 12:44 PM
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ha ha ha Man o Man, I forgot that one! Oh, those old names... so familiar, but no one beats the Turpedo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 06:26 AM
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If democracy is the will of the people, then it should be also expressed by a willful abstention in voting. YES!! And yep, penalties for not voting. You're right, it IS odd to force people to vote. It wasn't until I spent so much time on reddit, talking with Americans about voting, that I realized: this is messed up. No one should be forced to vote. Not only is it immoral to force this, it's stupid. The system attacks those who fulfill this mandatory requirement more often than those who never v…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 06:22 AM
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PS I highly recommend youtubing the old Aussie show "Perfect Match." It's hilariously sexist, the outfits are all gaudy 80s, every contestant seems to be airheaded and every sentence is delivered with over-the-top sexual innuendo, and Greg Evan's portrayal of upbeat sleazebag host is hilarious (note the way when he puts his arm around co-host Kerrie Friend, she always moves away). People used to watch this. I remember it from my kiddie days.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 05:54 AM
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NEVER. In Turpie's Mo We Trust
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 04:08 AM
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question for "blue pill" women. do you find yourself feeling empathy for misogynists? Generally, no, because their defining personality trait is a hatred of me specifically. Those with misogynistic tendencies - like my father - I love because I'm related to him, and because he keeps these thoughts to himself around me. like if one of them got terminal cancer, would you feel bad? would you find it funny? I feel bad for anyone who gets terminal cancer, except maybe Ramsay Bolton. (Hmm, we might ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 04:05 AM
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I'm with ianturpie's moustache. ALWAYS.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/16 03:53 AM
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Imagine these words written in an MS Word document and figure out which one has the horizontal squiggle line underneath.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 06:18 PM
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Yeah. I feel that way about voting. It's pointless but I do it anyway. It's mandatory in Australia. And two out of our last four prime ministers only reached that status because their own party did an overnight vote and replaced the current PM with someone they liked better. They somehow forgot to invite the rest of the country when making this small decision. I even checked my SPAM filter and there was no invite to D-Day. Oh well. I'll resign myself to doing it (voting), but I will make myself …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 04:52 PM
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You mean Roosh?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 03:58 PM
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Because house parties are better than clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 03:51 PM
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Because the friend secretly knows which of the two of them is the real Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 03:49 PM
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What is a shit test? "How do you know when a woman is giving you a shit test? Her mouth is open." - Joke that brought applauding laughter in the MRP comments section about six months ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 03:45 PM
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Many RPers really need to stop writing "We" in their radical belief statements. To them, what they personally think is what ALL men think. They won't be challenged on that. Look, he altered the usual "we" language to "I and most people" to fix it! A man being pegged is the most submissive act I and most people can probably imagine. He doesn't know the minds of EVERYONE, only the vast majority of Earth's population. Good to get that clarified.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 05:08 AM
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I don't need any accolades, thanks! I just do what I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 01:56 AM
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So you're saying my response was helpful? Bit hard to read between the lines here. You're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 01:10 AM
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You beat me to it, Smurf! Seriously, /u/bromance946, if you care about what one idiot on the internet thinks then you need to get a thicker skin. I don't give a shit. Unfortunately starting off like this indicates that you do, indeed, give a shit. tl;dr: Actually stop giving a shit about one-off fuckwits you encounter on the web.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/16 11:40 AM
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You keep saying "we" as though every single man thinks the same way you do, lives your life, and represents all of your thoughts. Only a madman would assume that everyone thinks exactly as they do. Sometimes trends are just trends and have no gender issue involved behind the scenes, even if it affects different people. The same with lumping together "females". I told you a simple story, and you somehow twisted my anecdote to provide evidence that men in my city (which I'll bet you've never visit…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/16 08:46 AM
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How wrong you are. Men would love to know, but it serves females' interests to not disclose. The opposite is true, in fact. The ONLY people open to talking about their n count is females. Men avoid it. It's one of the few questions you DO NOT ask in a relationship here, because the response from the man is always a shocked, "I'm not going to talk about that!" And then it's quickly followed up by: "And please DO NOT tell me YOURS." This is true even if you bring it up six months into the relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/16 05:45 AM
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Or mention whether it's your perspective or you're portraying it as the right perspective, if you want to be clear about the responses. As for statistics, I think they are useful but a general guide. For instance, it's probably true that a large percentage of people will die from cancer. On the other hand, I rejected the removal of my wisdom teeth based on the "10-15% chance a nerve may be nicked and cause potentially permanent facial numbness". I opted to keep the teeth. (And I'm reminded now o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 11:19 PM
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Yes, this is something I really agree with and it's not covered often. Good OP! I know this is primarily about 'n' count, and to be honest that's not something that's considered socially OK to ask for or offer up as info with a partner (I live in Australia.) Not in my direct community and people I've met over the last decade or so. I think if you're around high school and university age, people here talk about it. But over the last ten years or so there's been a "don't ask don't tell" vibe about…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 11:13 PM
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Would you mind picking some up for me? I'm running low
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 10:36 PM
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Just read it. My God. One of the stupidest OPs I've seen ever... and unintentionally hilarious at the same time. $100 says she wrote it while stoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 02:11 PM
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Elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 01:20 PM
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but you can't/shouldn't do that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 01:19 PM
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Right on!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 06:42 AM
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Actually I think that's why I notice cockiness immediately... because it is so markedly different from a normal relaxed attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 06:25 AM
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I know you avoid commitment, you're not MGTOW. I meant people (women) should avoid you because of your views. What are are you going to do in a LTR if your partner gets raped or molested? I know, next her. It was rhetorical.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 04:56 AM
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How often do you get laid? Depends on whether I'm in a relationship or not. Can go a few years without dating someone or having sex. When dating/sexually active, anywhere from a few times daily to a few times weekly. Are you in an ltr? Not at the moment. Do you do fwb? Not usually, it's not my thing. It did happen once though. It went OK, didn't last long (maybe 2 months). When we both kind of felt it was becoming dull, we agreed to meet on a street corner between our houses. I thought, "I hope …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 09:45 PM
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Also, sorry, gross: A very good example is the movie Titanic, which is the most popular movie for women ever, so it really says something about the female soul. OK, it's fine if this is your favourite movie. Everyone has different favourite movies. But I wonder if my favourite movie, The Big Lebowski, sums me up. Really ties the room together. But, um, Titanic? I loved the ship parts... didn't buy the dialogue or human-based story. And both of those actors are generally good in other things. Tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 11:43 AM
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I think you're a bit too chirpy for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 11:25 AM
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This. There's two sides to every story, and then there's the truth. To assume that one person's take on their relationship is thoroughly accurate is erroneous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 09:47 AM
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Pretty sure paid nannies would have raised the kid. Seems to be the "celebrity" way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 09:38 AM
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And the satire bites the dust.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 08:26 AM
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I'm going to go out on a limb about what it really 'is a matter of'. It was a textbook response from a poster whose identifying trait is that he loathes women (MGTOW). He at least avoids them out of derision. He then puts it into practice onto female who strays into his vision. It's the MGTOW sub's main shtick, and by your own admission your identifying trait here (flair). I get it. You didn't see the "Females crossing" road sign pop-up on the way into this sub space. Using Mozilla Firefox can b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 08:14 AM
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In that context, it sounds like you need to have a thicker skin if you're planning to stay around. Unless you enjoy pissing people off, which of course some people are here for. They can even be funny, but not usually intentionally. If this is not the case, you'll get called on tone policing repeatedly. The moderators are fairly relaxed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 03:47 AM
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It's apparent you're being deliberately rude or have no notion of what this sub is about. You should expect people of different flairs to join in on conversation - including mid-way and relevant to various related topics being discussed in the comments - on PPD. It is a sub designed to both combine everyone to comment and debate, challenge views, etc. That's why people that overly tone police to this extent are generally frowned upon by all pills here. You're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 03:20 AM
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Not all MGTOWers are the same either. An amusing situation arose recently when one of the MGTOW members and I were debating Tolstoy and his marriage on /r/thebluepill. I kept on insisting his wife was the problem, he kept insisting that Tolstoy was a nasty nightmare. He wrote: "I can't believe I'm having a conversation with a woman who is siding with the man in this one. He basically abused her." I wrote: "I can't believe you're defending the wife here! By the end she was just an insane bitch to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 01:55 PM
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Thank you! I also have a bit of an objective truth-seeker scientific interest going on, but Cora is the bomb at this. (Femme Going Their Own Way, I like that...) Also TRP has a lot of different members and they all have different viewpoints. Some of the viewpoints I agree with for sure. Some of the blue pill points I agree with for sure. Other areas I'm grey on, or go against the grain. In any case, I'm always interested in other people's opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 07:53 AM
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I'm not worked up. I'm interested. All of this is fascinating to me. I am not actively amused either. I'm used to it by now. My expertise is MRP and its hierarchy of power. I think this is why I recognize your name. It may be from PPD but I think I have seen you post occasionally on MRP. However, you do not post enough for me to know your personal situation well. I do not think you post about it much. You post more in the comments. I am asking hard questions here, by the way. (You mentioned that…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 07:45 AM
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First off do not insult people with actual degrees by claiming that what we are doing is academic I have an "actual degree". Psychology. What is stated and resembled here represents academic thinking and scholarly thinking to an extent. It's neither here nor there whether I have a degree. Inept psychologists "with a degree" are everywhere. Degrees do not equate to intelligence of efficiency. I cannot dictate the emotional responses of others. I cannot moralize the actions of others. Dictate? Som…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 07:29 AM
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The Redpill is a toolbox. What the tools are used for and the meta-political conclusions that some people arrive at are not the conclusions of the entire sub. That would be a fallacy of composition alongside your other comment: What it sounds like or feels like is immaterial. I've spent enough time on PPD debate to know that there is indeed a WIDE spectrum of men who visit TRP, most of whom have ideas different to the dude next to them. Some are mildly RP and don't hate women (boy do they get do…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 01:03 AM
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Um, the "women shouldn't be allowed to vote thing" is very strongly Red Pill. Not only do the bigwigs Rollo, Milo, Roosh etc agree with this, the Red Pillers who are in love with these dudes spread the word across the world, particularly here at reddit. Google the terms "the red pill women shouldn't vote" and find one link on the first page that doesn't support this view. The top link is, unsurprisingly, a reddit link to how women shouldn't vote... from, shockingly, TRP sub! But unfortunately, /…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 12:01 AM
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Oh, good, OP. Don't worry. I will make sure someone pays for this: Blue pillers, including most purple and grays, are used to a particular picture of the world with regards to things like privilege. To my fellow BPers and Purplepillers and Grey-Pillers and Non-Red-Pillers, Um, which one of you fellow fuckjobs told them? Our bi-weekly cruises are called NO RED PILLERS events because we do not allow Red Pillers to these events. “No Red Pillers” does NOT mean “Well, it says no red pillers, we’re al…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 11:06 PM
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Actually, speaking of talking some openly crazy shit and knowing you can just deny it all... the awesome Key and Peele sketch https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FAyOSc-joAM "... it's just words, Detective. Nouns, adjective. They just happened to be in a dope order... but you ain't got no proof." "I killed Darnell, yeah I shot him with my nine... I shot him nine times, 9PM on the dime... And by the way it was November ninth!"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 12:03 AM
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Shit. I'm sorry that happened to you. I can see how that's an absolute mindfuck. I've met men who've felt the exact same way. Good on you for being able to talk about it. Even MY mind went to serious thoughts about murdering the dude who did it. So I can only imagine how bad and fucked up that was for you. A lot of guys have also noticed it's a mindfuck (not as bad as your situation though) when a guy won't stop coming onto them, even after they've clarified that they're straight and not gay, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 08:21 PM
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I'm not saying that people should be extreme feminists or extreme misogynists. In fact, someone who defines themselves by constantly talking about one gender (whether it's constant praise or constant complaining about EITHER gender) is going to be BORING. Why? Because their personality should be strong enough that they can talk about a number of topics and just chill and laugh frequently. Someone "on a mission" to talk only about gender politics represents as someone with no true personality. tl…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 08:05 PM
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DONE. I hope you don't mind, but I don't have any restrictive rules or encouragement of groupthink... I'd kind of want you to grow into your own person. I know, it's harsh, but it's how I roll.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 10:32 AM
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I know as truth that what you speak is not true. I'm not going to indulge you with revealing my own personal experiences. Life is long and hard. I think you're in for a bit of a shock.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 10:30 AM
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Yep. It is dangerous and damaging thinking, filtering through to those this guy knows in real life, including him personally. En masse, this kind of groupthink is dangerous to a multiplied extent you can't even quantify. Fortunately this type of guy's current Commander, GLO, is pretty much shooting everyone in the foot rather than driving forward a cause for his imagined war. GLO's damage should be mild, compared to what he intends. He is a psychopath with narcissistic personality disorder, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 10:29 AM
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I don't think rape should be taken with a pinch of salt, in those words. It assumes that every single rape case should be viewed with doubt at the outset. Those who DO lie about rape, however, and show early signs of lying about it - they shouldn't even be taken with a pinch of salt. They should be, at least metaphorically, drawn and quartered. What they do with a selfish grab for attention is make every other single account of rape seem questionable. They are, in short, moral scum: a disgrace t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 09:51 AM
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This sub sometimes leaves you needing several showers a day and wearing full plate armour while sitting behind the keyboard, and even then that's not enough to ward off all the damage. When we get an extremist, like heavenorhell2, it's pretty easy to determine their age and IQ level from how and what they write. I know straight away this person, for example, has never written a book-length thesis on the Rwandan genocide, spoken to male and female rape survivors, or experienced the world in gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 09:48 AM
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So true, but you're missing some key points that people forget about: Make sure the female's water bowl is always full. During the long summer months, the female will need more water for hydration. Make sure the bowl in the kitchen always is filled with water. Females need sleep just like humans do! So if you're going to pull an all-nighter and leave the light on, remember, your pet female has a "bed-time" too. Make sure she has access to space where there is quiet and shielding from light. Fing…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 04:31 AM
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comes into contact with an angry Batman Shit I can't wait for this movie to come out!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 04:20 AM
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By this logic you should not believe any accusation announcements in public AT ALL. This would work well if you were very heavily into conspiracy theories, which actually I'm starting to think you are. Just spare us the 9/11 and moon landing stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 04:19 AM
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Totally true. Just like how men have fantasies about going to war and coming home with PTSD. It happens to them, so they must like it. Or some illogical shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 04:17 AM
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Thales makes a good point here. If you think women can't get over rape, and that men also can't get over rape (paging dr warlock), then you are essentially saying: Some things happen to people that are, in my opinion, too fucked up for them to ever be normal again and they need to be avoided. So think about the things, /u/dr_warlock, that currently make you furious and upset and angry. Your logic implies that you will NEVER get over these things and people should avoid you like the plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 04:15 AM
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But I'm sure no woman would ever want to date a man that was raped You would be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 04:13 AM
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THIS. I've you've met men who've been raped and heard them try to speak out about it, it's the most uncomfortable and upsetting shit to hear. My instinct is to want to murder the person who did it to them. This includes prison rape but it doesn't always happen to men in prison. It happens in the real world, too. It's traumatizing to them, particularly because they're not encouraged to speak out about it. (I do also think prison rape is particularly awful and institutionalized and can't believe t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 04:12 AM
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There's so much messed up with this, I'm gonna avoid the usual argumentative crap that goes nowhere and bring up something that is often not brought up: Often a female who has been raped can put the experience behind her. It helps if the person identifies the act with the individual who committed it, not men generally, and you certainly don't think of the rapist as being "Alpha". It can actually make you stronger when you realize in time that you're not even angry about it anymore. You diminish …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 04:09 AM
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It's weird you said that, because I was thinking just just the other day I'm a bit like a female version of MGTOW. Not that I'm anti-sex or anti-dudes, just that I need a few years usually of downtime between relationships to do my own thing and recoup. Also, not having married and deciding to live more for myself, I am kind of WGTOW. Interesting. Maybe we were thinking about it at the same time. Maybe SYLAR made us think that? He's in our heads! (See: my other response to you.) PS I know you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 03:55 AM
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No, I mean the guy who went on that rant about owning his anger and he's proud of it and "maybe some of the older guys around here just don't get it"... (that's the reason why I remember that post, because I remember thinking "Um that's a bit harsh, "older guys won't get it"... seemed to come out of nowhere in the middle of the rant.) That was about 2 weeks ago. It was on the main TRP sub. I think that a lot of RP guys have very different views on things. Anger is one of them. A lot of people ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 03:39 AM
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Ha ha yep, sorry I meant George Takei (Sulu) and then I realized... fuck, Leonard Nimoy is dead? How in the hell did I miss that? Less than a year ago. I just looked it up after you told me. I know he was elderly, but still... and he did pretty funny voice stuff in The Simpsons. Jesus. I mean, at least he lived a long life... but I'd like Dudes I'd Admire To Keep Living after everything that's happened in the last few days. Even if I do sometimes get people mixed up. No, but speaking of "Sylar",…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 03:34 AM
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Fuck. Busted. Right now, I'm feeling a little annoyed that certain men are garnering wide-spread appreciation. I'm doing whatever I can to stop this unfair adulation and stop them from growing into tall poppies. You need to kill the source at the problem, e.g. hit some high-profile males who seem to be succeeding: The guy who played Spock, whose facebook memes are funny and have become famous. I have a calendar on my wall counting down the days until I can finally meet him face-to-face and punch…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 09:51 PM
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Because no one knows how to define "feminism" anymore. Up until a year ago, I'd have said it meant equal rights broadly for men and women. I don't read feminist literature to the extent that RP guys do. So by saying, "I'm a feminist" it's hard to know how that's taken. Chances are, here especially, from RP P.O.V. it means you're a feminazi bitch who reads all the literature and has short hair and hates men and wants women to rule the world and never argues with other women because women are all …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 09:25 PM
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Yeah a bit O/T. I was only commenting on the cops assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 09:18 PM
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This is actually a decent change for discussion rather than just out-and-out sledging responses. OP was pretty decent about it. TBP don't have perfect lives or awesome feelings and no character flaws. No one is like that. Even Superman, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 09:15 PM
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A bit o/t, but isn't there some debate going on about whether anger is actually good for RP and should be used frequently? Noticed a few posts about owning the anger and retaining it for use in the right situations. Also it's the person's right to be angry etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 09:13 PM
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I'm not saying you're wrong, you know the info better than I do, but not telling the cops is pretty common for people who have been legitimately raped, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 09:10 PM
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Yes. Twice. Both when younger (age 18 and again at age 23).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 09:09 PM
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I'm getting you here. You're basically facing the same thing I am. My flair's blue, right? So I must hate men or think I'm a princess and be opposed to hypergamy and women's rights etc. I must a feminist. The thing is, most RPers know more about feminism than I do. I'm doing me. I'm Australian. There are cultural differences that define me that aren't immediately apparent. It's daunting at first, to have a bunch of people assume you represent the extremists of your sub. But if you write about yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 09:15 AM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 08:53 AM
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I don't need references. Please elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 08:52 AM
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Yep, I need guidance. Please do go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 08:52 AM
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Even if you know it for longer doesn't meant you understand it better. Intelligence is more relevant here, which /u/PoopInMyBottom demonstrates with aplomb.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 08:51 AM
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Ha ha! Great response. Someone knows not only their research but the ever-more-important social climate. UPVOTE
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 08:50 AM
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I've studied it and I already know the answer: you can call it by whatever term you want (words are conveniently slimy like that), but some females will have masculine traits and some men will have feminine traits. And some people won't know that Australia is a developed country, right, Cis? (playful elbowing) (Departs in majestic fashion upon the hindquarters of a kangaroo) Towards an operational aqueduct, away! (The kangaroo tail flaps behind the departing female, into the sunset on a long hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 08:49 AM
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This is a decent response here. I think the ideas of masculinity and femininity are defined correctly here, and yes, they are "stereotypes". There is too much disparity now between the sexes to say that AWALT or AMALT. But by and large, a man is expected to be stronger (and usually is) and a woman is supposed to be physically weaker (and usually is). But not always. Cultural factors are correctly identified here. Where I live might have a more "down-to-earth, fend-for-youself" vibe than other ci…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 08:45 AM
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I'm still stunned. BOTH of them. I mean... I want to swear. EITHER of them gone is awful. BOTH? I'm at a loss. I agree the world has lost something. Even more shitty is the thought at the back of my mind that in the future, there may be a cure for cancer and they'll look back on "these days" as strange... "in the old days people used to die of cancer." Not only are they legends, the fact that cancer took them is just depressing. It's pretty depressing to be alive today and just basically assume …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 06:22 AM
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Yeah, I was looking at it from a political stance. Sorry, thought that was not you meant. I wrote more about whether it is right for RP membership than whether the theory itself is right or wrong. The analogy is interesting but a bit tangled, I'm confused... are you saying RP should be more "licensed"? Or more like, "Don't talk about RP but only use it as a weapon, because unveiling RP antagonists is more the point" for example? Or more, "we own knives but know to use them only when necessary...…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 11:47 PM
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Utterly true. You've put it perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 06:51 AM
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Yeah, I was being flippant. Sorry. Is talking about it ruining it? Short answer: Yes, probably. Long answer: It depends on TRP's goal, how the information is spread, and other environmental factors. I think this particular sub isn't really ruining it. Most RP guys - well, ALL from what I've seen - that come in RP stay RP, no matter what different viewpoint they hear. They also represent the majority voice here if you check out the mod's stats from this year and last year. So in having a slight m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 05:36 AM
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Huh. Interesting. Now I'm intrigued. I guess I'm too "used" to him. Is it his facial expressions? Voice? Way of speaking? The room?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 04:49 AM
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You must have special privileges. I've seen TRP tell guys talking about their LTRs to go to MRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 04:47 PM
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The thing is, you're doing RP stuff but wouldn't be "welcome" on TRP because you're married and they're anti-relationship. So it makes sense you would be on MRP, and BPP invited you there (or introduced you to everyone... can't remember exactly) so they can't all get pissed off if you're spinning plates.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 03:52 PM
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If the actual fight club was talked about Guys would be beating the shit out of each other to release tension and increase confidence The whole "dress nicely wearing expensive clothing to impress chicks" thing would be gone. Tyler Durden is against materialism. Calvin Klein ad on the bus: "Is that what a real man is supposed to look like?" We could all walk into work, fuck with our bosses in the most awesome way possible We'd be trolling support groups I could fulfill my dream of starting a figh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 12:53 PM
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That makes sense. I do wonder if you attract a certain type of woman with these skills though. I've had the RP challenge put to me a few times in real life, and the RP consensus here seems to be (based on my recounting of these real-life incidents on PPD) that it doesn't work on me because I have too much experience under my belt to not identify certain behaviours. (It was important for me to notice subtle social cues early in life in order to survive. Long story.) However, I've seen guys with R…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 12:16 PM
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I agree with you on all counts. I would also suggest that higher self-awareness goes hand in hand with higher intelligence. I think those of high self-awareness probably are aware of what their circumstances are and don't need therapy. The coaches and therapist analogy does make sense though. I agree too that real progress comes from learning things you don't know about. That's why I came to this pillosphere initially, to observe a phenomenon that is foreign to me. I'm a voracious researcher by …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 11:40 AM
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I am not American so to me you are technically "a foreigner" (though I have traveled across and lived in America at certain points in time and the accent sounds normal to me). I make no commentary or argument on the content of what you say, only that it is inflammatory of course to those not educated on your views. Having said that, I have never heard a RP guy commenting on your TV presence as being "off" because you sound like a regular dude in terms of appearance and vocalization. So I don't t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 11:29 AM
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Yeah, the language TRP uses is often deliberately inflammatory. This bothers some members who are not so hard-core TRP (the title of this very post comes from a very similar title on TRP a few days ago: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3zy5gt/the_first_rule_of_fight_club_is/). The only change is that OP's title here suggests that "this sub" (PPD) is dangerous in putting TRP out there. In fact, this sub is the least of TRP's worries in terms of public exposure. Is this often an echo c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 11:15 AM
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By "off vibe" i'm thinking he means that hearing the things you write for the first time out loud is unsettling and perhaps the stark spare office room vibe is... stark. If you've watched a few of these types of interview (person in isolated room) you get used to it. Most people are used to watching someone being interviewed with stuff in the background, e.g. actors promoting a new film might have a poster for their film in the background and a red curtain behind them or something, professional …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 10:45 AM
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I get this. I have to admit these stories have really helped challenge my view on marriage counselling. There are too many cases here for me to dismiss it as "chance" that couples counselling can be dangerous or useless. I only think couples therapy should be tried IF both people want to do it and IF they make sure they have found one of the "good therapists" (good reputation based on success rates; believe it or not, yelp reviews can help here, but word-of-mouth is better). I understand that a …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 03:04 AM
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I'm starting to lean very heavily to your side already (also read grendalor's situation). I think you're right that two individuals need to handle their own issues before trying to work on a marriage. One hundred percent. I've never heard so many people speak out with their experiences with couples therapy as here. People have been really frank and honest. I like that, and it does help challenge my view. I am starting to agree that couples therapy mostly sucks. I am VERY much of your opinion tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 02:45 AM
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That's a good point. Some people are naturally polyamorous. I myself am not and can't picture the idea of a third (or more) person in my bedroom and relationship. But some people take to swinging etc like ducks to water. The ones who seem to make it work seem highly intelligent and will often talk about the dangers involved first before detailing what their lifestyle is like - almost like a warning that "this isn't for everyone." Like you, I am 100% sure an open LTR would not work for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 02:41 AM
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Wow. Thank you for that. It's hard for me to not be on your fiancee's side and think of your ex as being a ... well, raging bitch. I agree - and concede - that therapy doesn't work well for everyone, and some therapists are not only bad but even dangerous. That is, they can make things worse. This is an interesting insight into couple's therapy - thank you - I'll take it on board. And won't forget it. I know that - in the my city at least - there are some couples therapists who have a "good repu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 02:38 AM
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Theultmatecad and another member (can't remember his name - not a frequent poster) spin plates on the side. Actually Cad is an endorsed member over on MRP. And by the way, I don't actually think cheating "is bad" in an overall moral way. I don't do it, but then again I'm not married. I understand why people cheat, particularly in marriage. I'm not going to tell them to NOT do it. I just think you can't punish one gender for it and not the other with the threat of divorce, and that divorce should…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 04:11 PM
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That was my point. I didn't add an "/s" at the end because I thought it was obvious I was being sarcastic. What i'm saying is, a wife who isn't willing to go to therapy (most women would be willing to do this) isn't putting in the effort to save the marriage. If she walked out on therapy, it's because she didn't like the truth the therapist gave her. That is, she doesn't want to hear an objective stranger (who is PAID to give an even-handed truth) tell her what she really is. She thinks YOU, /u/…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 03:48 PM
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Fair enough. It depends on the individual case.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 02:25 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3zy5gt/the_first_rule_of_fight_club_is/ https://www.reddit.com/r/TheBluePill/comments/40gx1a/let_your_hate_flow_through_you_a_conversion/ That's just in the last few days.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 02:21 PM
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Um, sure. Do you think your marriage in any way contributes to a hatred of women? I know that's personal, you don't have to answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 02:16 PM
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I think sex feels good. I don't think about gender politics when it comes to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 12:39 PM
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Just wanted to write this - being 100% straight, take it or leave it (for /u/theultmatecad too). If you really do hate women, no one can change your mind. Keeping in mind that i signed up for reddit years ago, but have never used it until about 7 months ago when I saw these subs, i was surprised at the fact that men wanted to have a personal space but let it all hang out in public here on reddit. If you don't want BP harassment, why not legitimately get a more private space somewhere with userna…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 12:33 PM
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You're another guy who is open in hating women. I'm not being facetious here. I'm trying to understand: how can you not LOATHE your daughter? And your wife? If I seriously hated who I was living with, I'd get the fuck out of there. Fuck the "divorce-rape", who cares? Money isn't going to make you feel better if you're stuck in a house with people you feel active repulsion at the sight of. I don't understand why "divorce" is a dirty word at MRP. It's not "giving up", it's "moving on". Fuck it. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 11:59 AM
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Think about the context. It's not today's society. Go back a few hundred years into Europe, or even before medieval days, and anyone saying "I hate women" openly is shooting themselves in the foot. In the past, even, this was considered stupid because it ruined one's marriage chances (if you want that and were of high enough birth); and (back then and today) you're essentially saying to any man around you that you hate their wife, sister and daughter; you are openly walking around saying you hat…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 11:51 AM
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That does make sense. That's fine if it's not a good match to begin with (I've had experience with that).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 05:08 AM
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Yep, exactly. I love breeding fighting fish, but I don't go door-to-door telling other people that it is the ONLY way they can get enjoyment out of your life. ("I've noticed, Sir, there's no aquarium in your lounge room, from what I can see... have you ever wondered about why that might be?") The thing is, because of my flair (or merely opposing position), it's assumed that I must think all wives are beds of roses and all husbands are abusive, nasty arseholes. I have seen enough of the world to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 04:54 AM
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One thing I'll give you, Cad - you're honest. At least you're out there about hating women. Archwinger is frank in this way too. I don't like those who use words like "disgust" "can't stand her" "fucking stupid" etc to describe their wives... then say "but i don't hate her"... come off it. You hate her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 04:39 AM
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That's a valid idea. The manosphere rejects it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 04:34 AM
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Yeah. Having an opposing opinion does not mean "angst", though I do feel bad for the bullying that ensued when MRP's latest new guy left. I can only imagine the PMs he's receiving right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 04:32 AM
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Another point: you can cheat if you're the man in the marriage. The only reason for divorce is if she cheats, or if you suspect that she cheats. And "suspect" is a word that is interpreted very, very loosely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 04:31 AM
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I'm with /u/ianturpiesmoustache and there's one thing RP and MRP are HARDCORE on: READ THE SIDEBAR!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 04:30 AM
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It's never occurred to you that you and your first wife were just a bad match?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 04:28 AM
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Let's not forget that the core principle is AWALT and that women are incapable of loving a man the way that a man loves a woman. Women are the oldest teenager in the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 04:27 AM
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The worst part is that divorce is apparently not an option. It's an evil word. It means The System doesn't work. As a child of parents who fought, then "tried to make it work", and where the father was an alpha for 80% of the timespan of the marriage, I can tell MRP men this: I wish my parents had divorced a LOT sooner. Like, a decade sooner at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 04:26 AM
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Yep, sis. I'm onto whatever perfume I can see lying around next ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 04:14 AM
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I might assume it hasn't been tried because it is not encouraged. It is DISCOURAGED, in fact, to communicate with your wife. Also, if you recruit someone straight from r/relationships, r/askmen or r/deadbedroom, you're grabbing someone new and dumping them into a whole pile of men bragging about how they pushed through LMR with their wives, how they don't give a fuck about what their wives think/feel anymore and how awesome it is, field report bragging about being alpha and not caring... etc. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 03:57 AM
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THIS. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 03:52 AM
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All hail the Turps! Whoops, that came out wrong...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 03:52 AM
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His mustache always got my feels going... imagining it, you know, "down there"..... tingle tingle tingle bells, tingle all the way
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 03:26 AM
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This guy knows his MRP!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 01:20 AM
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So, wait, it's the therapists' fault your wife left therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 01:20 AM
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He's gonna say psychologists suck... Oh, wait, he already did. I guess I should just give up on my final year, then? Therapy is flawed for MRP, DevilDwarv, because the therapist might tell the wife that she's in an abusive marriage. Even if the therapist is male. And it's not fear of abuse being exposed that's at the heart of the fear - it's the very idea that a divorce may result, because divorce is the worst word in the world and it's better to be angrily married to someone you loathe than div…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 01:18 AM
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Not only that, Arch, but you have proof that these people exist. What did just-departed Alpha_as_Wolf REALLY do aside from follow the exact directions of BluePillProfessor's guide to Rough, Hold-Her-Down-And-No-Means-Yes sex and TheUtlmateCad's guide to "Don't get sex, ignore her for three days" advice? Not to mention the completely conflicting and contradictory advice ALWAYS given in the comments section ("Dude, you're overdoing the dread..." "OK you have to heighten the dread to a 6-7") Becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 01:10 AM
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I agree that staying together "for the kids" is the worst thing for everyone, yet that's what some MRP dudes seem to be doing. And yeah your kids won't thank you for it later. ianturpie, fellow Aussie, you're missing the point. When you take the bitchy and entitled wife away from her you have a fembot that has sex with you and sucks your dick on command... apparently. She's still a stupid bitch though and you have to push through LMR every second night. OR (from what i can see on the boards) you…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 01:02 AM
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I actually think anyone who posts shit like this pic is... pretty dumb. You're walking on the side of the road talking to someone. Who cares whether the dude is away from the curb or the closest person to it? The person posting the image must think that there are constant car accidents happening to pedestrians or something. If the woman was walking alone (as you have to do sometimes to get from A to B) she's still going to get hit by a stray car careening in her direction, right? Actually, even …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 11:44 AM
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Good point. (And good point OP!) I think most people - men and women - would NOT want to get into a relationship with someone who they think is "below" them. Reasonable people would not even want this person as a friend, as clingyness is unattractive for most level-headed people even within the concept of friendship (person always nagging your for advice over personal issues of the same nature etc). But yeah, romantically, you want to be impressed by a prospective partner. That's true for me. I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 11:40 AM
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You bring up some very, very interesting points. A married friend admitted to me "There is no place for romantic love within the context of a marriage." I thought this was very bleak but I could see it was accurate for him. There are enough miserable couples with kids at shopping centres hanging around for me to note that romantic love is not something they're brimming with. Yet, most of them would probably say they "love" each other. This kind of love means to me, "I made a commitment to this p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 11:11 AM
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Ha ha, thanks. Not sure if I'm an outlier, just me. Though I will admit that during conversations with some women I observe we have little in common.... e.g. I don't like shopping (especially shoe-shopping) and all the stuff that are on the front of women's magazines. I doubt I'm alone. I have met women like me and hang out with them, but some of my female family members do represent this archetype. Waiting for a female relative to try on clothes and "give my opinion" makes me want to tear my ey…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 10:40 AM
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Thanks Xem :) For some reason, I've never heard Chris Martin conceived of as attractive by women. I'm kind of colour-blind to a lot of alleged "attractive male celebrities" (don't see the appeal of di Caprio, Brad Pitt, Clooney etc... think they're good actors, even great actors, but I don't see a pic and think, "hot!" at all. Not sure why). However you can judge by the front of womens and girls magazines in decades of lining up at the supermarket who is considered attractive. Chris Martin has n…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 10:28 AM
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Ha ha nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 02:59 PM
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I think the idea of a male birth control is a good idea and sincerely hope they come up with this soon too. Unfortunately the pill we already have for women isn't 100% effective. If it was, I wouldn't be here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 02:51 PM
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I'm not sure... if you go to MRP, a lot of guys are not divorcing because they feel that the kids are better off with both parents. They mention divorce-rape (money) too but seem to value the kids at least as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 02:43 PM
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Actually, I think in a way you're right with this part: Is love just some sort of personal feeling for you that nobody else can relate to? I think it's quite a personal feeling. For some people romantic love means butterflies in the stomach in early dating and sometimes still later on, the sense of having met no one else like this, immense joy when you are around the person, a conscious feeling of admiring the other person's qualities, they usually make you smile and feel good without you knowin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 02:38 PM
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He's not rubbing anything in your face. You're taking a generalized statement he's saying too personally. If you love your girlfriend, fine, you're agreeing with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 02:20 PM
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I'd be down with that. Evolutionary psych, for example. They use this a lot. It was taken out of my university syllabus because it is not considered credible. Links to articles including stuff like that could be useful. Articles that discredit pseudoscience and hypergamy etc... I mean, it might make the difference between a person deciding whether to swallow the red pill or not based on an initial glance. Who knows?
/r/ExRedPill09/01/16 11:13 AM
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I was thinking vinegar, but "cat piss" also has an appeal to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 04:46 AM
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Totally. Quality of girl level was below salty, too. What's below salty? Vinegar?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 04:37 AM
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Oh, I totally get what you're saying about the body's reproductive response. That is totally right. The vagina produces lubrication in order to allow sex to happen with the intention of procreation, biologically. I thought you meant, "secretly all chicks want to get pregnant." Sorry. I get it. No woman should dismiss a male being raped. I definitely don't stand behind or support any woman who would do this. I'm sure it happens though. I also wish there was more public support for men who are rap…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 02:12 AM
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It's true that good people don't come along very often, and when they do if you maintain a friendship they can end up being your rock for a lifetime. I'm glad you have someone like that around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 01:30 AM
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Yep, you got a dud psychologist. I had a psychologist who eventually started talking to me more about his life than the other way around. There are so many bad psychologists out there, it's little wonder people are wary about them. But there are genuinely better psychologists... I know it sucks but it's better to try out a few duds and find a good one than not get any help at all. Try cutting out the middle men by finding one who has a good reputation first.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 01:28 AM
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A lot to reply to.... he was pointing out how Jennifer was doing what typical females do , they don't date down. When is the last time you seen a women that was a billionaire fall in love with a shy , nerdy single father. He was going into more insane detail than that. He went into the specifics of what she perceived of her own looks. He stated as fact that she considers herself and 11 out of 10 and looks down on everyone. This goes against what directors who have worked with her have said (incl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 01:18 AM
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OP, I was wondering... the girl who is pansexual. Does she know you're in love with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 12:22 AM
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You need a different therapist. YES, there are a lot of shitty therapists out there. But some are actually helpful. Have you asked your GP to recommend one who might suit you? I know it sounds trite, but have you researched "psychologists" in your area on yelp? I'd say psychologists are generally better than psychiatrists.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 12:20 AM
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There's some... um, interesting looking guys there. If a guy's main photo is him with his top off, we're probably not going to get along. I'm 38, never dated the model type. Was hit on by a male model once. Nice guy, very nice, but quite slow. I mentioned Wuthering Heights and he asked me what it was. Not quite so slow as Zoolander, but it made me think there might be something to the cliche of models being rather dim. (Both genders. If you're told your hot all the time, no wonder there's no inc…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/16 12:16 AM
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I had an ex-female friend who used dread on me, so it's not a romantic relationship but certainly a sign she's capable of utilizing dread.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 09:34 PM
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Interesting question.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 09:30 PM
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I think your opinions here are insightful. You've offered up a lot I agree with, and a lot I had not thought of. I've never sent hate mail to a MGTOW guy (or anyone on reddit, actually) and I'm sorry you had to face that. I would suggest that you post here more often because your perspective is quite unique. Not "because of MGTOW" but you personally. It's refreshing to hear from someone who doesn't bear hate, who seems to think logically, has an interesting perspective on human behaviour and cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 09:27 PM
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"Big wording"? If you think my response was faux-intellectual, I'm wondering how low you've set the bar for normal human writing skills. As I wrote this quickly and off-the-cuff, it's more informal and slang-driven than most of my posts. Is the word "douchebag" I used "big wording"? I'm wondering why you have such a rage-boner for someone who gave an honest answer to an honest question. The title is, "women, why do RP things upset you?" and I responded. If you have no problem with RP theory, I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 08:05 PM
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I even got TWO fluffy ragdoll cats with furry tails! I walked inside last night and they were both sitting in the exact same position about a metre away from each other, waiting for me to return (I was taking rubbish out) and it was almost... creepy. It was like seeing double. They're so similar looking (ragdoll siblings do) that visitors can't tell them apart. Bella (dominant one) them jumped on my lap when I sat in front of the keyboard and you are right, it was like being with the gods. She w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 06:44 PM
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Yeah, that's also a wild possibility!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 06:21 PM
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It's about time! The last time we spoke I declared my love for you using that awesome scientific formula. You remember: B E K A Z Z L E D L O V E S P E M B A Y L I S S 20032 2035 238 511 =62% compatibility Then I proposed to you and we got engaged. I've got it in writing. 62% compatibility? You can't fight science. Watch me while I STFU and stare until you give me the same shit-eating grin I got from LifterofThings. staring staring staring staring Now you got it, babes. kiss on the head, slap on…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 06:21 PM
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I think the question is more: are all humans capable of lifetime monogamy? I think some are, but many others aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 10:54 AM
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Everyone antagonizes everybody when they take things too seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 10:37 AM
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I think men are encouraged not to show emotion. I think that's messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 10:35 AM
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Based on title alone: anyone's allowed to complain. And I'm allowed to get up and walk away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 10:35 AM
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I don't get it. I read a lot on here about hypergammy. Why is having a hypergammon drive so bad? Isn't it just the same as us boys getting crazy boners? It only bothers me because it's not always true. Same with AWALT. I've never wanted to get married and have kids. I'm 38 and pretty happy to be single. Before anyone gets their red boxers in a twist, remember your own thinking. You don't want to get married either. If anything, someone like me is helping you. I have heard in the past from others…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 10:34 AM
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This is not a beta or alpha thing. This is a "these women are being douchebags" thing. None of the memes are even remotely funny. If anything, take it as a blessing: now you know the actual names of girls in your city you want to ignore. Predicted lifepsan for this meme: 2 more weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 10:08 AM
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Hmmm. I've learnt that my take on relationships is similar to your own. If I'm attracted to someone I want to see them more than once. I'm not a big one-night stand person. But taking your question about promiscuous women, I'll offer my insight into female friends and female acquaintances I've met over the course of my life who seem to want to cheat/have sex with a different guy continually: The girl who is quite hot and lives in the moment and shrugs off other people's opinion. This is quite un…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 10:01 AM
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It's something EVERYONE has been waiting for. Hell yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 09:25 AM
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I dunno. First up, dude, you're making me want to talk like you. Like I cut 20 years offa my age. It's not just about cumming along and doing shit. Not for me anyway. It's, like, the dude has things I don't know about and it's awesome if he teaches me. He knows martial arts? I'm interested. He's good with the solar system? Let's get out the goddamn telescope. He claims he knows a real life hitman - for reals, reals? Fine, let me meet the dude to CMV. He's a trivia genius? I'm not bad myself, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 09:24 AM
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Yeah, they are US dollar amounts... but I have NO DOUBT that it's perfectly fine in some US states to pay someone $2 an hour and expect them to live off tips. This can be done somewhat legally, according to wikipedia: Some types of labor are also exempt: employers may pay tipped labor a minimum of $2.13 per hour, as long as the hour wage plus tip income equals at least the minimum wage. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Minimum_wage_in_the_United_States I'm also sure that people are paid less all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 02:30 AM
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It's strange, but Aussies also use the term "bum" in these same contexts... "Can I bum a cigarette?" and "So-and-so is a bum" (perceived slacker-moocher type). I guess butt" does get used a little more often here the last few years as it's been a constant part of The Simpsons and other shows for decades. Everyone definitely knows what it means and if someone uses it, even elderly folk know what you're talking about. I can see "bum" and "butt" being used interchangeably here in the next few years…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 01:21 AM
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Thanks for meeting me half-way. I'm not trying to trick you, by the way. I don't think you can be tricked. You are, from what I can gather, very honest. I also do not think you personally try to inflict extremist sentiment on others. Your reaction seems normal and what people call "moral". Most people are proud of their written thoughts being given respect and/or assistance, but don't like it when words are misconstrued and taken to extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 12:38 AM
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Yep. I should add that I'm talking about language used here in Australia, so I'm not sure if that has an impact. Obviously some of these terms (especially "hamster") indicates RP knowledge more so than some of the other terms. Australian language includes UK and US slang, however. I've noticed "butt-hurt" has made its way into common usage, even though we say "bum" instead of "butt". I haven't ever heard an Australian say "shit-eating grin" for example. Calling someone an "alpha" is fairly norma…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 12:34 AM
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Yeah, I meant to look that up too... so I just did. Canadians seem to get paid slightly more than Americans, according to a few articles out there... but there's also a difference between federal laws for minimum wage and what each state or province has as its own minimum wage (i.e. above the federal law). The most recent article on business insider averages it to these rates per hour (USD) Canada: $7.18 US: $6.26 Australia (highest in world): $9.54 http://www.businessinsider.com.au/minimum-wage…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 12:28 AM
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Disregarding the story and regarding the OP title: Are you aware that most RedPillers are outwardly normal people? How do you plan to screen for these guys? Being socially intelligent, I naturally swiftly notice these traits as being RP when first meeting a guy: being distant when everything else is pretty good (frame) light negging during flirting (dread) mentioning sex with other women in a teasing way (showing value using dread) touching anywhere on body slightly before it's the normal accept…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 05:13 PM
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Genuine question: Hey, if people read the bullshit I piss out of my keyboard in my spare time and go overthrow feminism-board by taking to heart the advice I give in the comments on MRP as a long-time, presumably respected member as a result, I'm happy to take credit Does this different perspective ring true or not? Change the end part from "I'm happy" to "I'm indifferent" if it suits. "Happy" sounds a little euphoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 04:58 PM
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It's a no-brainer. MRP points out the man must lead and fulfill his wishes, and the wife shouldn't interfere with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 04:44 PM
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I know French is the dominant language there, but I also know that they can speak English. Going through the metal detector and having the instructions rattled off in French was confusing. Customs guys get funny sometimes if you walk through the gate slightly early, or don't separate the stuff properly etc. I said hesitantly, "I can't speak French... sorry," and the guy rattled off another order to me in French. I just took off my shoes, separated the laptop from the rest of the stuff on the car…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 03:08 PM
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It's fine to care about these things, sure. In fact, one should care about these things - particularly in a hospital setting or doctor's office. That's your health and I've been in E.R. a few times - I remember taking my sister in when she had trigeminal neuralgia (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Trigeminal_neuralgia) and was shocked and furious at the doctor's cocky and indifferent attitude towards her condition (she was in an out of consciousness, in extreme pain - they don't call it "the suicid…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 12:19 PM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 08:25 AM
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I realized when i moved from Australia to Canada for a few years that a) waiters rely on tips and b) they get paid about half what waiters and waitresses get paid in Aus. I made sure I always left a 20% tip. Edit: Never lived in Quebec, only had a layover at Montreal airport. I did notice that all the staff there seemed unhappy and refused to speak English.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 07:45 AM
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I'm 38 and also have never asked to "speak to a manager". I've been on a few first dates when the guy was rude to the waitress/waiter... never followed up with a second date after seeing this. I'm the one shaking my head, laughing, insisting "Not a problem! Not a problem at all" when a waiter or waitress starts apologizing for something being brought out "late". There is no "late", there's the time when the coffee or food is ready. Also, customer service is a shitty job, I'm not going to make th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 07:43 AM
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I know, dude, I know... but I have to admit, a particularly friendly neighbourly white cat who comes out to greet you and LIKES belly pats, well, that can really turn a human's head... I know. ACALT. (Except that one white cat.) (I mean, not even her.) (Crap, she was breathtaking though.)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 11:45 PM
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(Bryan Cranston's voice in Archer) MARRRRRSSS!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 11:38 PM
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Ha ha yep. I know the cat rivalry well. :) These two sister cats used to sleep together when very young, now one throws out the hissing and paw swipes when she's going on a bitchkrieg rampage. I'll occasionally come home however to see the dog and both cats all sleeping in triangle formation on my bed and wonder how in the hell that happened. It's like someone got them drunk and they all passed out at the same time. :) Drunk cats FTW
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 02:52 PM
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Wow, that's a whole new ball of awful. I haven't experienced that type yet. I think the stats for business reviews, including word-of-mouth, indicate that people are much more likely to complain about a service than compliment it. PS I gotta know: do you really love cats? Do you have several? I think both cats and dogs are awesome. I love that I had a dog and two cats and they actually get along. (It's more the ragdoll cats - who are sisters - that fight.)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 01:43 PM
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Played it 'til my fingers bled Was the summer of '69.... I can rock out to that. PS: Yeah, most pop music (top 10 stuff) is crap. And that Beyonce song that includes the lyric "should have put a ring on it" made me actually pause the first time I heard it and say, "Are you fucking kidding me?" out loud. Normally I can tune that stuff out, but that one line permeated my consciousness and hurt my brain. Having said that, there's some good new stuff being made that isn't exactly pop, but it depends…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 12:15 PM
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That's weak. I had an orgasm that went on for three weeks. I still can't walk properly, but the doctors say with the proper therapy I will, some day, be able to reach orgasm again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 12:01 PM
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Everyone here is missing the point: MARS. We need to get there asap so we can start a Mars-people subreddit (Martians) to disagree with Earth-dwellers (Earthlings) on every issue under the sun.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/16 08:03 AM
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Oh, hell yeah. I cannot stand chicks who act like that on facebook. It's obvious that they're playing the sympathy game and I loathe them for it. It's almost rage-inducing. I only log into facebook to check my mail, that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 03:33 PM
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Yep. I can't bear to look at facebook more than twice a week (if that) because of this crap. Some of it would be amusing if it wasn't so sickening. There are a few other types that are equally frustrating: The Drama Queen Rager - version 1. This is the girl who CONSTANTLY posts inane stuff like, "Seriously fuck all the haters. If this is how the world is gonna treat me than i'm better off without listening to fuckheads." Then you get the flood of morons commenting "babes what's wrong? thinking o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 03:27 PM
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True. I think the selfish and self-centred nature thing is true in many ways.... but I hope the whole "we no longer use animals as entertainment" thing is a small sign that in some areas we are less careless than before. Then again, the counter-issue is things getting to the point where everything is overpoliced and people are wrapped up in cotton wool like infants... i don't need to be a smoker for example to think that the non-smoking campaign (painting smokers out to be the lepers of society)…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 12:26 PM
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That's how you read what I was saying? I guess I shouldn't be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 11:35 AM
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Really? Because right below this comment is support for this type of bullying from someone who is apparently Redder than Stalin.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/16 03:31 PM
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There was actually a lot of detail in those links and the comments within the extra links etc. I get the message. There are inherent issues with powertalk, even if it is commonly practiced with relative safety by both genders in various situations. It involves statements that may not be true; which is fine, unless it is written down as a "philosophy" that will "save" people (TRP as espoused by the clueless proportion of its membership). Less "clueless" TRPers often state: "When we say AWALT, we'…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/16 10:35 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/16 09:39 AM
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That's interesting and I don't disagree with it. Animalistic nature will take over particularly in situations where we feel tested. Do you think it should be the moral responsibility of people generally to hone their intelligence and use it more responsibly? I mean, your friend has some awful issues to tackle, I know (I've tackled the same but to a lesser extent). But take, for instance, this small trend I noticed the other day - the Moscow Circus has come to town. There are signs for it everywh…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/16 09:39 AM
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Ha ha, I knew you were doing this as an experiment but had to do it anyway. I think the particular situations you described were slightly biased. For example, the one about a guy taking gender studies (do any guys on TRP do this?). Some of the others were obvious. Or maybe not - and this is the time to say that they should be considered obvious? I think there's a misconception that BP thinks that all women are princesses and should be treated as such. BP knows that arseholes and good people exis…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/16 09:28 AM
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I dumped the first guy because I caught him making out with my female best friend at the time. Yeah, he wasn't quite faithful. He was "nice" but easily led. I more angry at her than him, to be honest. But I was also hurt to walk in and see that. A year or so later we started talking and he became a friend I socialized with. I'd known him since I was a teenager so that might have helped (history of friendship before brief dating). The second guy was longer-term. He started to become more vocal ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/16 09:09 AM
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Yep. It's also up there with the advice people give to those having panic attacks: "Just don't think about it." Right. I suppose the question is: do you feel like you're avoiding people? Do you sense social anxiety is relapsing? I don't think that the NYE example is evidence of this, it's just one event. Yes, I saw that post and thought, "Harsh..." Why insult people for no reason? Not everyone thinks NYE is a big deal. I stayed in and had drinks with family and friends. NYE means so little to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/16 09:03 AM
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How so? Is your father of the type who says "You just need to get out the house more often!" as though that will be easy and solve everything? Because I've heard this advice before (not just directed at me but at more introverted people around me) and it's really not useful at all. It explains an end result without explaining how a person is supposed to be motivated to actualize this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 11:29 PM
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Me too. I now APPEAR extroverted, because it was a skill I had to learn to survive in school. It takes a little while for people to realize I'm quite introverted, and they'll often comment on it. I totally get what you're saying. Nothing-conversations about the news/weather makes me feel like part of my soul is dying and I'm literally counting the moments in my head when I can walk away. I've lost a few female friendships along the way in life because I just cannot see the point in meeting up to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 05:27 PM
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That's weird, because I remember fucking these "guys I wouldn't notice" in the form of two relationships during university. First one was in first year and lasted six months. Second one was in third year and lasted a year. They would be what you call betas. Second one was a geology nerd. They were both nice guys. ACTUAL ones. Didn't break up with them because of beta-heritage. I've always done the serial monogamy thing, with stretches of no-sex and no-dating in between relationships (e.g. the tw…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 05:11 PM
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1 What in the fuck? Why are you saying you feel "emotional" let alone with a FWB? Are you a fucking troll? OR a genuine beta blooper? Seriously GTFO or start over by READING THE SIDEBAR -----------> (My advice: she's sleeping with another dude and cancelling on you. Sounds like you're too emotionally involved. FWB means FWB, not relationship. If you're emotional, that stinks of a relationship vibe. End it now. FWBs have a time limit.) 2 Seriously, WTF are you doing taking gender studies to begin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 04:27 PM
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You've just described the douchebags I avoided during university.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 12:29 PM
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This is a massive leap to make. How about the women who DON'T want to get married and have kids at all? If I know that marriage isn't for me (and I'm 38, time has been proof of this) why would I be looking for a "provider" that I want to screw over in a decade? What you're describing sounds to me like a hellish marriage, and I wouldn't want to be in that situation - EVER.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 12:28 PM
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I thought I should include a few points about observations you've made, because the first two seem to make sense: The constant social events. That was true for me. Except I wasn't someone who loved going nightclubbing ALL THE TIME and was usually the first person to leave a party. Other friends (usually, but not always, women) would grow furious at me. There's a lot of pressure within female friendship circles to do whatever the "strongest" female wants. That "Mean Girl" bullshit doesn't always …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 12:24 PM
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Yeah, i gotta admit the Matrix origins are pretty.... questionable. Also when people quote Neo as though it's law. As an Aussie, congrats to those director/writer guys for making one decent film and two crappy sequels, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 09:00 AM
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Having said that, TRP doesn't even have its own entry.... but I get that perhaps the membership doesn't want this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 08:58 AM
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That alleged "femicuck" entry is only a quote from one research study and there's much more info there on domestic violence for males: a very large wikipedia entry in fact from many sources. There's no way that any person with any intelligence would believe that domestic violence against men should be "hidden" on the web. There is a reason BPers get called "Feminazis" using that broad terminology, or just "bloopers" rather than "man-haters". You can't find one specific post on there that talks a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 08:42 AM
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Yeah. Also many red pillers in relationships do not WANT the red pill to be easily found by partners on the web.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 08:08 AM
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Conversely, for the overwhelming majority of men, they would go out of their way to make sure their schedule is clear for a woman they just started dating. Not all men in my experience. Men (and probably women too I'm guessing) who suffer from depression or a sense of apathy can be jaded or indifferent as to whether they meet up with a new potential mate or not. I think this is TRP's goal for some men, to be apathetic. Very few women go 'head over heels' for men they date and go out of their way…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 05:55 AM
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no TRP doesnt "tell women that". at all. its not telling women anything That's part of my issue with the whole thing. The unknown women are oblivious to whatever mind-games are being executed on them. However, you're forgetting that on PPD there is exploration of what men want from women and vice versa. And some people here will publicly state, frequently, what they expect from a woman (and they have red pill flair). It's one of the main sub topics: what each gender thinks of the other, and what…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 05:20 AM
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This is an overall generalization based on the actions of a significant portion of the population, so please don't split hairs and cherry-pick personal situations you know about where this wasn't the case. So if people can't bring up their personal view on this, you basically don't want an answer? Because my answer would relate entirely to my own history. I thought this sub was about people's own views. If you want access to statistics on the matter in order to avoid anecdotes, why post in the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 05:13 AM
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Interestingly, though my platonic male best friend and I aren't related, people often assume we are from our body stance. Growing up as kids together into out late 30s involves a lot of platonic familiarity on a day-by-day basis that totals years. HOWEVER... in cases where family members are not raised together and never meet until adulthood, there is an 80% chance (according to some statistics) that there will sexual attraction. This relates to brother-sister, mother-son and father-daughter. (T…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 04:58 AM
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Donna! Donna! Donna! The best. I'm still sad about her ending. Getting the best memories of your life wiped. There's some romance between the doctors and other companions though, yeah. But it's possible to be platonic friends with a male. I always get "LIES!" and "beta orbiter!" over my best friend Cameron. I'm 38 and we've been friends since we were 13 or so... and people assume that after all these years of being friends (housemates for almost ten of them) there's just GOT to be some simmering…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 04:44 AM
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I used Chrome and it worked OK?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 11:37 PM
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Yes, all true. It's like doing an assignment: first figure out what the real test is. The tester knows that slitted eyes usually means suspicion or irritation, whereas wide-open eyes with a tilted brow might mean curiosity, surprise, interest etc. So I'm answering to the criteria I expect the tester wants me to respond to, rather than images that are quite staged and lack real emotion. Particularly with the elderly people's eyes it's quite biased. Someone with very hooded eyes tilted down at the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 11:37 PM
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You're right I think - one of them WAS Ted Bundy! I'm no master. Even though I know now that All Cats Are Like That, I seem to have redirected my biased affection towards these baby birds who've built a nest out the front of the house. I swear these little guys are special and different to other birds... NABALT?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 11:27 PM
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Nah, it's probably an age-related thing. The '90s reflected my teen years, where I was probably more into buying girl's magazines with Keanu and other celebrities who were big at the time. (And I thought Edward Furlong was such a dreamboat at one point. In fact, my diary at age 14 reveals my secret goal was to move to L.A. and marry Edward Furlong. Interestingly, this is probably more achievable than I could ever have managed. Just need to hit LAX, take a cab to Pasadena, wander down to his base…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 11:25 PM
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Oh snap! 34 out of 36! I just feel I've won at something, but I'm not sure what. I found the fact that some of these eyes belonged to obvious celebrities a bit distracting, and had to gauge from the tone (side long glances tend to indicate caution or suspicion) of the photo what the experimenter was getting at (rather than thinking, "this is Ben Affleck looking a bit uncomfortable about the paparazzi at some public event"). Female, 38, Australian, native English speaker. Yeah, the women's photos…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 10:35 PM
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I'm not of this line of thinking at all. There are basically some humans that are just arseholes. Across both genders. There's no way in hell anyone really thinks all women are wonderful. Have you ever worked in a really bitchy office environment? The covert bullying in some places comes from the women, who directly target other women. Going to work each day in a place like that is hell, not wonderful. That doesn't mean I'm (female) oppressed. It means I don't like working with nasty bitchy type…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 10:05 PM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 11:33 AM
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There was a constant resentment of the 'anger phase', and much tone policing on PPD where a Redpiller could be up voted only if he was especially rational and not at all angry or resentful about his point. The bolding of "was" is my addition. This sub goes through trends in general on a monthly basis (as do all subs); this particular sub goes through different trends throughout the course of of one day, sometimes. Not to mention that you cannot always accurately predict which sub is dominating p…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 10:39 AM
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Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 09:36 AM
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Please clarify. What are my biases?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 09:32 AM
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"I'm a Scorpio." THIS IS WHAT DANNY MASON ACTUALLY BELIEVES If women really believed that all other women were wonderful, high school friendships would last into old age. Women wouldn't complain about female bitchiness in the workplace. Women wouldn't complain about their mothers. Cat fights wouldn't exist. - from, Reality
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 09:31 AM
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Ha ha... yep! Man that agrees with "a woman's perspective": see, it's true! Woman that agrees with "a man's perspective": see, it's true! Nah, humans in general are pretty much neurotic, and arseholes are spread evenly across both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 07:07 AM
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I think I know what the person is getting at. We're starting to debate semantics a bit here. But for OP and this discussion, first off: generalizations. There are generalizations that are shared by people generally ("politicians are usually liars") and those that are shared by people who share a common interest (e.g. me: "The new Batman vs Superman trailer looks awesome.") These are generalizations that don't have the ability to cause a real sting to any particular group. There's not a lot of pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 01:41 PM
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Ha ha... I'd never heard of Stitches. I'd replace fuck the po-lice though with fuck the TSA. Actually... fuck both of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 10:15 PM
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Yeah, the prison aspect of rape certainly seems to be about power. Well, actually, that's what a top-tier rapist in prison said in a doco (can't remember the name - saw it over ten years ago and it always stuck with me). He had his "boyfriend-bitch" and had been through several and wanted to stay in jail. He had a wife and kids on the outside. The docomaker asked him if he wanted to return outside. He said No, because "look at all the power I have in here". Seemed odd and sick to me. I think tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 10:04 PM
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seconded
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 09:59 PM
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Jada Pinkett-Smith might have moments where she seems lucid, but because she "dabbles in Scientology" (coughs that's code for outright Scientologist) she and Will Smith have stated elsewhere that their children are treated as equals to adults, are very highly intelligent and have individual thoughts. The full-length most recent weirdo interview with the two kids: http://tmagazine.blogs.nytimes.com/2014/11/17/jaden-and-willow-smith-exclusive-joint-interview/?_r=0 Summary of that interview: http:/…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 09:56 PM
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Indeed. (Assumes airport customs official stance) Now, son, how many kilos in that bag? You've been selected for a random special search. Step over here please. No, I don't care that you're in a half body cast. Throw those crutches away and place your feet squarely in the footprint stickers on the ground. Just do it. (Glances at bored official) Johnson, go through his stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 09:33 PM
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Hey, no way are you guys as NEARLY as bad as my mother. I meant an argument based on circular logic. I felt that was slightly what was going on, but there's no way you guys could be that crazy. (And yes, I admit some women are toxic. Not all women are great. The ironic thing is I don't think a lot of RP guys know how much women degrade each other.) I might have read too much into your rebuttal. What I should have said is: how do you feel that this trend is affecting your everyday life and work? …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 09:20 PM
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You actually sound level-headed.... it would be better for those subs if you were an EC, not those who have been selected.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 03:01 PM
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Come to UK, attend a JobCentrePlus training course and during the Equality+Diversity test, raise your hand and calmly politely suggest the wage gap is a myth. I dare you. (My bolded edit.) How does this relate to my comment? What I'm saying is: I'm being dared to test something, as though I've proposed an argument that suggests that the UK is not a feminist-centric society. /u/Xemnas81 challenges me to debate a status quo in the UK, as though I was someone who was disagreeing with him in the fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 02:39 PM
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It is important to separate the two, but on a realistic level - is it possible? A new guy waltzes into MRP for example. Tells the guys he got divorced and that there is another answer to trying to save an unsalvageable marriage. That he feels free, gets joint custody of his kids, that's it's been months and things are going great. He gets downvoted into oblivion and the long-time members tell him he's delusional, to enjoy his future life that will inevitably lead to not seeing his kids, because …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 01:33 PM
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There is the occasional guy out there who is over 35 who attracts very hot girls in their early 20s for sure. They don't necessarily seem to be "hot", but have charisma in spades. I'm not saying this is the norm, but it does happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 11:21 AM
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Confirmed troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 11:17 AM
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Exactly. It stuns me how much RP guys ignore man-on-man rape. It occurs a lot more often than is reported and it's like a nonexistent issue!?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 11:17 AM
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It is estimated that anywhere between 10 and even 50% of "rape" (emphasis on quotation marks). Meanwhile, only 25% of women can cum from PIV sex. All of these statistics sound insane. You can cherry pick any article on the web and it will say something different. I'm also reminded of my statistics professor's quote about statistics: "I don't trust statistics, because it could still happen to you." As for the rest of your post about rape and drama... You're actually ignoring something here that s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 11:16 AM
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There's a difference between the information and the users for sure. Not saying I think the information is helpful for men (though confidence and exercise are a good thing for anyone) but the users will either distort the information to an extreme or not, depending on the individual RP member. e.g. RP members vary significantly on their ideas of what is alpha/beta, or how they view women. What is particularly depressing in my opinion is when RP/MRP men pass through the anger stage and post about…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 11:04 AM
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No. The dragon has three heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 11:00 AM
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Sort of. I don't know about men having emotions - some posts are outright in the vein of "No one will love you so get used to it and love doesn't exist" and disregards the usefulness of male emotions; some Dark Triad stuff encourages you to emulate sociopaths and have no emotions; some RPers state that some emotion should be involved (and unfortunately these guys tend to get heavily downvoted).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 10:59 AM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 10:57 AM
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The thing is, both you and /u/MorpheusGodofDreams are talking to me like I'm the one to blame for something that's hurting you. That's the reason why I think a lot of BPers don't write on Purple Pill Debate. When I first came to PPD someone said, when I noted I didn't want to have my own children and wasn't marriage-oriented, that I would end up alone with all these cats and should just die already etc... "Because you listened to the feminist imperative." Now, imagine you're me, who's never had …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/15 02:11 AM
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I'm thinking more of the response I saw on MRP about a week ago when an OP dared to suggest that divorce might be an alternative that could work when married couples can't make it work. He was downvoted into oblivion, because the MRP stance is quite clear: only get divorced if you think your wife is cheating, or you know she is. If you feel apathetic: nup, you can't get divorced. If you hate your wife still after trying and trying: nope, no divorce. If you feel the "new you" wouldn't be interest…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 01:10 PM
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And everyone is exactly the same because..... STUDIES.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 01:04 PM
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Wow, then I fucked up my university years by drinking, occasionally studying, and having had only two sexual partners the whole time (not overlapping). Oh, I forgot, you think Australia is a third-world country. Did you get to look a that wiki link of a country that isn't your own? You don't need to answer that. I already know you didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 01:03 PM
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Well, in response to OP I can say in Australia we don't have sororities or fraternities or that kind of thing anyway. But we do have douchebags and douchettes, for sure. It's more of a "I went to a private school" versus "I went to a public school" elitism debate that dominates our universities - at least the one I went to, which was more elitist ("You went to a state school? Gross."). I didn't ride the CC as far as I know. Does having two boyfriends (not overlapping) during three years at unive…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 01:01 PM
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I hear a lot of stuff about college campus feminism etc. College lasts for 3 - 6 years, depending on what you're studying and your pace. That's a small snapshot of a person's life. Then again I don't really get the whole sorority obsession thing, because we don't have them in Australia. But as Cis pointed out, Australia isn't even a place.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 12:56 PM
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There actually is a lot of infighting in TRP, which makes me wonder how OPs know what advice to go with. They seem to go with the dudes who have been around for the longest, or the more vocal ones. If anyone's new and offer a counter-opinion, they're told to shut up or banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 12:54 PM
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I know you're a troll - I don't even need the PMs from Red Pillers to tell me that. You let it all hang out in public. To say the Red Pill is culturally diverse is laughable. Men who aren't white are flat-out told they're not going to get laid by a hot chick (particularly men from Asia or India).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 12:53 PM
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Yes. Anyone who offers a different perspective than what's written on the side bar, I'm talking RP dudes here, is banned. "Think like us or leave" is pretty much the message. There's no wiggle room.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 12:50 PM
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wub, I've seen your posts for a while and there's something you should know. You're level-headed. You're smart. You'll do well. You give hope to women out there that come to these pills that there's guys out there that don't generalize. And maybe you give hope to many people - other men - you're unaware of. You have that natural intelligence and resilience. I don't know if people on here (of all pills actually) realize that there's people out there who respect them. Despite their flair. We all g…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/15 10:54 AM
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Hey, I've meant to reply to your (awesome) response to my epic rant. I'm about 2 MS Word pages in. I have no doubt that you and those like you are intelligent enough to apply what you think works and is sensible. I also realize that: there is no "which is worst" with TRP and MRP. In fact, MRP has more responsible guidelines. There are also a few guys on TRP that occasionally give sensible advice too, but by and large TRP (which I've looked into more since you wrote) has the larger proportion of …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 04:18 AM
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Damn solid advice there, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/15 05:04 AM
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You actually bring up an important point that isn't discussed on here very often. I know your wife was overwhelmed and I'm not suggesting she has post-natal depression (you're a doc and would have recognized this), but men should be aware that this sometimes happens. It might sound morally horrific to many, because the natural maternal bonding response when the child is born seems to be the norm. But I remember a supervisor at my old job describing PND after the birth of her first child. She cri…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/15 05:03 AM
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1). You automatically assume I'm a feminist. If that means equal rights for men and women, then you are correct. 2). I don't read the feminist articles and sites that all the RPers read. You might notice they never get referenced on TRP because most of us aren't interested in it - we're more interested in who we are, day-to-day stuff. Doesn't mean we don't all have feminine ideals of some sort, but we're not a club filled with feminist rhetoric. In fact, I feel like the main audience for this au…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 09:33 AM
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Again, I first heard of this whole theory through you guys. In real life I'd never heard if mentioned before. I like nice guys. Yeah, yeah, I know the response I'll get..... "LIES!"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 09:06 AM
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Yeah, I actually learnt about the "Nice Guy" thing from TRP, not here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 09:04 AM
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As usual, mockery goes over another's head. The reason why you'll have to cut back on posting here is not because it's an echo chamber, even if it is. The reason is that you compare humans to lions to paint a pretty picture of why nature has assigned human men and women specific roles. Unsurprisingly, this depiction has the female in the subordinate role. I responded to your comment with the content it deserved.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 02:53 AM
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Thanks. There was one awkward time with a boyfriend where we he invited me to after-work drinks. He clearly respected his boss (male) and loved his job. His boss looked at me and said to my boyfriend, "Well, Bruce, you're certainly punching above your weight!" and gave a laugh and Bruce just laughed and said, "Don't I know it!" and I just smiled faintly, feeling awkward. Fast forward to a few hours later where everyone is drunk, and his boss starts talking to me across the table. Bruce is sittin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 05:35 PM
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What about me, someone who constantly self-monitors in the way you describe? Self-awareness is key to being a decent person, I agree. Any situation I get into gets an automatic brain check: "Does this impact anyone else? Have I strayed from my original intentions? If so, why? etc" in a split second. It's automatic and requires no effort if you're used to doing it. This logical thinking is admittedly something most humans do not possess. However, it is crucial. I do it automatically in real life,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 03:33 PM
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True story, bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 03:24 PM
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You do realize, don't you, that male-on-male rape occurs MUCH more often than reported? Would you blame a man for being raped because he was wearing shorts instead of jeans? Of course not. If a woman is dressed deliberately slutty and is treated as slutty, fair enough. But rape is something else altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 03:22 PM
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Humans are not lions. I breed fighting fish. The male acts as mother and expects the female to get out of the tank as soon as they're done mating. He frets over his children, but likes to have his female "partner" nearby (in a separate tank) for reassurance. Does that mean men should mate with women, men should give birth and take on responsibility for the babies themselves while their wives chill in a nearby room?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 02:57 PM
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Do you think this is true? I don't really. I've noticed men will look at me, then when I come out with something disarmingly witty their attention increases tenfold. (In spite of my online persona being serious - because we are discussing serious issues - in real life I am frankly, offhandedly comic, a combination men in my life claim they find is rare. I'm not sure if this is true or not, I know some pretty funny women.) Likewise if I start talking about Warcraft or my breeding of fighting fish…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 02:15 PM
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I'm not an expert on this, but I've noticed the guys here talking a lot about the "plateau". It sounds like you're at that level. Whether you want to push through that or not is up to you. I admit your situation sounds really frustrating. It sounds like you have a tonne of muscle and a wide frame rather than being "obese". Girls do find these guys attractive. Australian footballers resemble this type. It sounds like you could break something with your bare hands. And it sounds like you're being …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 02:04 PM
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I believe different women have different personalities and sexual drives (and I believe men do too of course). If "cock carousel" means having a period where you go out and have sex with a lot of men in the space of a few years, I've never done this. My personal beliefs growing up as a teenager is that I would do monogamous relationships but never marry or have children. I don't have anything against those who do, it's just not for me. So I have a history of monogamous relationships where there …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 01:57 PM
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I have fighting fish so I'm constantly puking up fins. I just tell people it's some kind of special new trendy made-up food. "Haven't you ever tasted poinoir? You don't know what you're missing."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 07:15 AM
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So this is how my father twisted a situation to sound like he was the victim. How certain can you be that men on MRP are only posting what they want you to hear? This is why I believe many members flipped out over BPP’s meltdown. He had long painted himself as a victim, then posted about one of his marital arguments and it shocked those who believed he was constantly cowed by a conniving, bitchy wife. (By the way, when I read this argument I was surprised that many people felt it was a “serious …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 07:08 AM
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A commonly inferred argument is that divorce is bad because a child needs both parents. My parents got divorced when I was 19; I wish they had done it much, much earlier. My parents had five children – I am the oldest. Essentially, I have seen first-hand proof that a child of divorce can grow up much more healthily than one who suffers through a bad marriage via my youngest sister, who doesn’t remember the time when my parents were married. She is probably the most well-adjusted individual of al…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 07:08 AM
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Hey – I’m sorry for the delay, I’ve taken your comment very seriously and started up pages of explaining myself in MS Word before responding. I’ve had to edit out a lot of my stuff, as I tend to ramble. Your questioning of me is legitimate and it deserves a fair answer. I’m taking care to write down what I sincerely believe. I’ve actually being casually studying MRP for a while now. My intention was to include it in a book on modern-day groups that are described by some as “cults”, which may or …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 07:08 AM
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I actually generally applaud an aim towards efficiency. Common sense goes out the window when there's a procedure to follow, especially in the workplace. Your example is understandable. We all have our public faces to put on, though my need for some genuine interaction blurs that line a little. If I have an astute observation about something unacknowledged, I'll remark on it but only when it's not offensive. I do feel like MRP is more of an issue for me than TRP, as its rules are less flexible a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 12:30 PM
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Yes, I admit that my pro-Buscemi sentiment probably isn't an accurate reflection of most women. I've thought Buscemi was awesome since The Big Lebowski ("Shut the fuck up, Donny") and in other Coen brothers stuff specifically - I love his approach to dark comedy and he's highly intelligent, which is a turn-on. Hemsworth, on the other hand... not only too young-looking but a blank slate in terms of what his personality may be. Good guy, probably, but I associate blandness with him. "Girl game." T…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 12:21 PM
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Who cares about Indonesia?? Useless part of the world. That in itself says to me we're going to have to agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 07:58 AM
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No babies birthed by me, sorry... research better next time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 07:57 AM
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Why is it always RP Men who bring up feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 07:12 AM
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It was a hoax. It didn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 07:09 AM
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Yeah that story was fake. I thought that meme was disproved a while ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 07:08 AM
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Agreed. But whatever, each to their own. I can understand a girl wanting a boob job if she has literally no breasts. But plastic surgery addicts... bleh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 07:08 AM
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Huh... I honestly did not know that. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 07:07 AM
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Why do I get a strong feeling that you spent all your time on WoW just trolling the general chat in Orgrimmar? kek.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 07:06 AM
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Man, can a mod make a MGTOW pill a different colour to TRP? It's giving TRP a bad name. Since you will not tolerate the presence of a female it's unlikely you'll get raped by one. Or be able to rape one. The very idea of 51% of the population is repulsive should keep you safe. Just keep mace on hand if you ever leave the building to do shopping, go to the bank, etc. If you see one - (those women things) - you know what to do. I'd wear a tin foil hat just in case, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 07:04 AM
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In Indonesia where there are a large proportion of muslims, each political party has to field at least 30% female parliamentary candidates in to participate in an electoral district, or else it will be disqualified. Yeah, sounds pretty hateful. Saying all Muslims are the same is like saying every shower you've ever had in any building, ever, is the same. We both know deep down that the water flow is different and some showers suck, while others are awesome. DECENT WATER FLOW FOR LONG-HAIRED CITI…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 07:00 AM
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I'd also like to point out that my university banned the annual toga party in 1997 because of rape incidents. And I live in Australia, which is usually about a good ten years behind the U.S.... so, yeah, I'm assuming rape has been a hot-topic issue that needed addressing as far back as the 90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 06:55 AM
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THIS GUY HAS IT FIGURED OUT! SINGLE MOTHERS = FAKE RAPE CLAIMS. Here, I'm pretty good at throwing random words together and pretending they align too: CROCODILES = DISCRIMINATION OF ABORIGINAL PEOPOLE MY LEFT BLACK FLAT SHOE = ISIS FISH TANKS = 9/11 NASAL DECONGESTANT = MASS GLOBAL BRAINWASHING ZOMBIES = MATRIARCHAL OPPRESSION MOISTURIZER = INCEST. True story.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 06:53 AM
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Feminism is the usual counter-point to TRP. This is only because it validates your argument. I'm a regular person, doing regular bullshit, and I'm BP. I've never been to a feminist rally and RPers know more about feminists than I do. Give me ONE example of a time Blue Pill has linked to a feminist article to prove that women are superior? ..... Oh, right. We don't do that. Because that's not the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 06:49 AM
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Why is that reaction necessary? Because TRP is a minority group which follow a philosophical guideline that defines them as people, and outsiders treat them as a cult. It's like everything you guys say is an AMA with someone you can't imagine being. BPers like myself are genuinely interested in how someone can engage such cognitive dissonance and fully believe it, like a religious zealot. It seems cult-like. And, like many people who are incredibly religious, TRP likes to talk on an allegedly ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 06:47 AM
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Is that a joke? I'm not being facetious. I'm Australian. We don't have fraternities or sororities. Or the cheerleader thing, which I mentally associate with sororities (blonde bimbo types)?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 06:40 AM
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That sounds like a lot of dicks and a lot of dick-eating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 06:39 AM
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They don't exist in my country (Australia). If they do, certainly not in my state. All the sorority/fraternity stuff I've seen is from American films. Blonde female bimbos and male bimbo stuff, basically. Oh, and initiation ceremonies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 06:38 AM
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Hmm, I think I was in my late teens when I found myself saying out loud during a re-run of The Fugitive, "Wow, Tommy Lee Jones is hot." Male friend pointed out the character was what drew me in, not TLJ. That's true. However, Al Pacino around Scent of a Woman era was insanely hot... I think I would have been around my late teens at that point too? I don't really get the sexual appeal of Clooney, Brad Pitt, Ryan Gosling, Channing Tatum etc. Most of them seem like great guys but I don't find them …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 06:36 AM
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it should be acceptable for wine too Alright, Mister, who's drinking? You are! You are! Yes you are! Fuck it, I'm drinking too. I just don't want my tits out on display, I guess. That's my instinctive response. I don't know what's caused it - environmental factors, socialization, alien interference - I just can't imagine walking around with no top on. I mean, just imagine walking around with no pants on and your dick hanging out. Yeah, it's the best way to unnerve snobs on the street, but kind o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 06:26 AM
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Nah, doesn't offend me in the slightest. Especially living in Australia. It's bloody hot - of course you're going to strip down to the acceptable minimum. It's just normal and how things are and I'm fine with it. Had to put a moobs reference in though after recently watching Season 2 of Fargo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 05:27 AM
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Hmmm... each to their own, I guess, but pecs don't really grab me. I'll play with a male's nipple if it gives them tingles, but with strangers walking around looking ripped and shirtless - not a turn-on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 08:58 PM
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I know. I don't think that guys should be distracted from women's breasts though. I'm as straight as they come, and even I can see that boobs are awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 08:56 PM
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You're the one who keeps responding and qualifying yourself to me. It seems to be very important to you that I acknowledge your qualifications to comment on marriage. You might ask yourself why that is. Shit, alright... I'll come out and say it. I'm fantasizing about marriage. With you. I've written PemBayliss all over the cover of my diary with hearts around it. Sometimes I just write "PEM" over and over because I know it would be the nickname I'd call you when we're married. I also wrote Pem I…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 08:50 PM
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Yeah, i'd say men are probably slightly higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 08:27 PM
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Nah, mate. Even as a straight chick, if a girl has large boobs or breasts on display (under a top) even I look at them. You can't help it, they're out there. If I catch someone looking at my breasts I don't take it as an insult. Walk around topless? No thanks. But I don't think that has a lot to do with gender equality. Anyone who has boobs, including man-boobs, should probably wear a shirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 08:25 PM
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Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 08:23 PM
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I lived with my ex for seven years. Does that count? Pretty much. Longer than quite a few of the MRP marriages. Also, being the oldest child and dragged into my parent's marital issues at every possible opportunity gave me some insight into how it works or doesn't work. Bekazzled: "You always have to have the last word, don't you?" Pem: "......No."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 08:21 PM
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Oh yeah, the dull but physically attractive can definitely get laid. She even has a few orbiters. She's quite cute looking. I would take Buscemi over Hemsworth. I'm 38 and I find one guy fascinating (Buscemi) and the other... meh. As an Australian, I'm surprised by the Aussies that make it big overseas. (Hugh Jackman? Really? He's personality-less.) I'm sure Hemsworth is a nice guy, but I tend to date older guys. The muscles and model thing doesn't, and never has, done it for me. SMV - Yeah, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 08:18 PM
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That's right, mine is an observer's point of view. I don't have an issue with marriage. I have an issue with one person exerting control over another using subterfuge.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 06:58 PM
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Shit. That sucks. (No sarcasm. Seriously.) If it's none of my business, feel free to not reply of course... but you consider yourself "obese". I just checked out your post history and dude, you're only 20 kilos away from your goal weight! Shit, you're almost there. It also sounds like you're physically strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 06:55 PM
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Something like 70% of people also believe the have an "above-average" sense of humour. I understand what you mean about biases. But when it comes to fundamental attraction (which cannot be negotiated), you're talking about something very different from your perceived driving skills. You cannot assume people are lying simply because they disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 06:45 PM
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I would like /u/Vampiresquidina to read my response here to Pem. If you and your husband were happy, neither of you would be here in the RP subreddits. You've already tried everything else. In fact, OP is here only because she found out about Red Pill accidentally. She didn't come here because she wants to learn about Red Pill specifically, she wants to find out why her husband has done a 180 in his attitude, from what I can gather. This is normal. If someone's partner changes their personality …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 06:38 PM
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It wasn't a personal attack in so much that I was aware that you were aware of OP's personal situation. And you had softened your approach to sway her, which I felt was subterfuge. (You just affirmed this with your response to OP below.) We're probably not going to agree on shit tests, but I'm a little surprised at this: BPP is also not MRP First time I heard someone say something like this. I think this mentality should be more reinforced. If I recall correctly though some of the mandatory read…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 06:17 PM
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My go-to is "unanimous decision required". I'm not married so I don't go through marital issues or have to consider with big issues (finances, where I'm living etc) with a spouse or anyone. When in relationships, If there's a disagreement about something it's always small. If the other person (a man) logically explains to me why their reasoning is stronger than mine, I'll defer to their better logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 05:56 PM
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Take it up with the Merriam-Webster dictionary if you don't like their definition of disrespect. Which, strangely, mirrors mine. I don't expect to get my way all the time, by the way. (I thought women aren't supposed to find this attractive? AWALT.) I'm the person in my family and social circle that does all the cleaning, listens to people's advice, worries about others... if anything I'm told I should focus more on my self, not on others. My degree is in psychology. I find people interesting. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 05:53 PM
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Exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 12:44 PM
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I am actually not interested in marriage or kids - never have been, ever since I was a kid proclaiming marriage wasn't for me and people would say I'd change my mind when I was older - and I don't have some massive moral stance to justify it. Lack of biological clock or something. People ask me why like I chose it. I don't know, I didn't choose it consciously. Just... not an option, kind of. I can only shrug. Having said that, I have noticed since I was a kid that a lot of married couples bicker…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 12:36 PM
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Save that for another sub on divorce rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 12:20 PM
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This is damned insightful and I think an accurate representation of it. It seems like once the ceremony's over and the marriage licenses are signed, everything changes for some couples. Not all couples are like that (NACALT) but I think grendalor is accurate about this particular trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 12:20 PM
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This makes sense to me. From what I've seen anecdotally. Couple 1: Living together for ten years, finally get officially married, have a baby and then split within the first year of marriage Couple 2: His relationship with his girlfriend is going to shit. They were about to break up. They just co-signed a lease and are moving in together. WTF? But it seems to happen a bit, strangely.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 12:19 PM
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So you half the men here don't know their own mind, but you know exactly what they're really thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 11:58 AM
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That sounds as worthless as going surfing when there's no waves...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 11:40 AM
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Um, Pem, you're notorious for dispensing black-and-white, all-women-suck messages. I get that you're trying to give RP good spin here because you're aware of OP's situation, so high marks to you for reigning in the usual message so as to coax someone to your side. Unfortunately the rest of us here have been here for a while. I would strongly advise /u/vampiresquidina to give Pem's comments history a look-in before you buy this tosh. And to spell it out for Pem (yet again) Your thoughts, feelings…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 09:57 AM
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You problem here is that there's a tie to break. Facts are thrown down on the table from both parties. The most reasonable solution is made based on the evidence at hand. That's how I've found it works in functioning relationships, anyhow.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 09:43 AM
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No, you are normal. When I first came to this sub, I asked a RP dude here what he meant when he said, "I don't hate women, I just have no respect for them." I said that was essentially the same thing. He said it wasn't. I looked up the terms hate and disrespect. From Merriam-Webster: Hate: a : intense hostility and aversion usually deriving from fear, anger, or sense of injury b : extreme dislike or antipathy Disrespect: (Noun): speech or behavior which shows that you do not think someone or som…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 07:32 AM
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Here's my similar story which highlights a situational factor as the main reason for this kind of trend. Ever worked along stockbrokers or market analysts? The culture is like this for these guys: You study for years at university, not that great with the ladies because studying hard, may be shy etc You become a stock broker/market analyst and realize every other male coworker (other brokers and analysts) of age 21-23 is out partying and getting laid, but seemingly on the vague lookout for a wif…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 12:09 PM
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That is NOT my experience with 35 year old guys! Not only still have a high sex drive, but better in bed from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 11:43 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clothing Edit overall OP subject rating: F
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 11:41 AM
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Ha ha, how weird! Au naturale for me too. If I'm staying somewhere where there's lots of people in the house, I just wear a dress to bed. People say, "don't you wear pajamas?" and I'm like, "No, just a summer dress." Then: "Isn't it uncomfortable?" Clearly if it was uncomfortable I wouldn't do it, but I say, "No, it feels fine." My mother dragged me to so many shops when I was young that I still loathe clothes/shoes/accessories shopping, especially with a family group. I probably spent a quarter…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/15 09:21 AM
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Do you think it's stupid to consider certain types of clothing "masculine" or "feminine"? Wellp, I had strange personal rules as a (female) kid about dressing. I liked frilly dresses, but got repulsed if they were too frilly. Anything pink made me fight off my mother as she forced the stupid thing onto me. I liked brown corduroy slacks and button-up shirts. And a little red dress with white sailboats all over it FTW. Looking over it, I was probably opting for the more feminine choice of clothing…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/15 02:50 AM
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Are Arseholes (British and Aussie spelling) along with "assholes" and assholes (no quotation marks) a third category?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/15 02:27 AM
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I think it's INCREDIBLY difficult in the best of circumstances. I can see that most of the guys wouldn't be there except for the kids. However if you have two parents who loathe each other, kids can tell and I don't know if divorce isn't sometimes the best option. I would have preferred if my own parents had divorced much earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 09:29 PM
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I didn't love MGTOW to begin with (you might remember I thought the sub environment might be toxic) but haven't checked in there for a while. I did last night. And I was quite surprised that it was more hateful than I'd thought. There were a few posts degrading TRP in the comments that's for sure. I thought you were maybe of the same opinion, or would be going to the 'main page' (I'm not sure if this means they have an official site that is different to the reddit sub). My opinion still stands t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 09:26 PM
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It's varied from what I can see. RPers disagree on: abortion relationships (is there any point?) whether alpha or beta groups even exist when to use dread or whether you even should divorce text-messaging (is this OK or covert communication?) etc etc etc... the list goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 03:45 PM
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MGTOW Sandman has a surrogate? I had no idea. I wonder how this will affect his views if the baby is female (unless he's employed gender selection somehow and is having a boy). Actually, regardless of gender this has to affect one's views. Having a baby in your life changes EVERYTHING. It's true, we all die alone. But is this a bad thing? I'm not a mystic or religious, but having almost died once I do remember feeling utterly happy in a way that can only be paralleled in dreams. Like an impossib…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 03:41 PM
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Talk about timing. I went over to MGTOW earlier - I've only given it a look-in once of twice - and I saw the usual female-hate... but one thing that surprised me was the TRP hate. There is disgust for both females and TRP based on ridiculous arguments. I don't know whether this a current trend or not (because subs do undergo slight changes over time - I'm talking about a snapshot of that culture that I only viewed today) but the RP hate shocked me. MGTOW seem to believe that EVERY member of TRP …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 03:26 PM
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I like to come across to PPD and engage in discussion because I think it's important. Things evolve and I don't want to be close-minded. Also, people are interesting to me. I don't know Aerobus well (I'll look out for him now though) but from what I've seen of TheGreasyPole and GuitarsAreGettingOld (sorry if I've misspelled the username), there are absolutely moderate RPers who are far from being hard-core RPers. But that was just the start of me discovering these differences. The more time I sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 03:16 PM
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it's a fundamental aspect of the Internet, maybe even human nature. I agree with your post and this comment is particularly insightful. The internet furthers groupthink because communication is now easier and infinitely more widespread. I'm Australian and you're probably American, and we can discuss issues on an immediate basis that wouldn't exist pre-Internet. Moreover, the internet allows for people to hide behind usernames, so genuine beliefs that are controversial are spouted more often than…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 03:04 PM
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I agree with this. Anyone who believes in an ideology that proclaims absolute truth disregards other opinions, which is dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 02:53 PM
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It's human nature but yes, I think an attractive face is important to both genders - generally speaking. I was just talking to someone about Jaime Lee Curtis. Considering the beauty of her parents, her face is quite masculine. I do not think her face is conventionally attractive. However I've had male friends argue she's hot, usually adding, "Haven't you seen True Lies?" Yes I've seen it, and what these guys are describing is a hot body with an average face. But I don't think that all men think …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 02:34 PM
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Yeah, there's nothing in here like the threats I've seen on BP - telling members to kill themselves by first inserting a knife into their "loose hole" and then licking the knife and then shoving the knife through their throat. I also don't see a subject heading saying "Die already" and then specifically telling you to kill yourself over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/15 04:05 AM
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That's like saying, "Ever notice how your boss fires you when you tell them they have a limited mental capacity?" and then getting pissy when they give you a poor reference for your next job. Again, it is impossible for a woman to give a shit about a man beyond his direct and immediate usefulness. I didn't imagine up my best friend of 25 years being male. I didn't imagine there never being attraction between us. Considering he's in a LTR with his live-in girlfriend, and the fact that we've been …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 02:14 PM
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He has to make sure his original douchiness isn't revealed...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 10:22 AM
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Yeah. He made the post. And the tide is turning in one direction. Join the dots.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 10:22 AM
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Yeah, it's really what you're dealing with with this guy. "Oh no! Twelvemongooses might have people on his side! I better prove I'm right!... Wait, what was my perspective again? Who cares, I'll steal the limelight it someone's going to take it from me!" As for /u/Gittr, if you had a valid answer to the question you could have answered it at the time. Crying foul later on just makes you sound lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 10:21 AM
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Huh! Interesting! I just looked the dude up and I have to say - too pretty for my tastes when I see a bunch of his photos...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 09:37 AM
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Please do more exercises! It's fun! It's a chance to answer questions honestly without this board turning into an argument about the validity of our statements. That's rare on PPD. No one's saying, "LIES!" when I speak an opinion here, which is great because I truly believe what I write here on PPD. Otherwise I wouldn't come here! I hope RP and MGTOW guys read this post and believe it to be true... just because I'm on TBP and satirize extremists, it's also true that: a) I come to PPD because I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 09:27 AM
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YES. No makeup means I look younger, I've learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 08:35 AM
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Yeah, actually some guys just have natural outlining that suggests they go to the gym. They can retain it as long as they don't run to fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 08:33 AM
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MAKE-UP "SECRETS" THAT I THINK SHOULD BE JUST COMMON KNOWLEDGE Not to turn this into a "Make-up tips!!! Check this out!!!" banner add, but I've noticed when talking to male friends they seem a little surprised about some make-up traits I've pointed out when they're checking out a chick. Make-up tricks etc shouldn't really be a "secret" in my opinion, and I don't blame men for not wanting to read a lot of horseshit about make-up tips on the web and getting stuck in all the crap surrounding it ("n…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 08:32 AM
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If you wear minimalist make-up like I do, and ignore all the hype about "big brands", you can go a year without spending more than $40 on make-up. (Exercise comes naturally with fish breeding - seriously, constantly lifting massive tubs filled with water is great for the arms and stamina.)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 07:09 AM
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Urgh... surely they don't? I mean the guys I know think Kim looks gross and weird. They tend to think that Kendall Jenner is hot, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 06:02 AM
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Unfortunately I recognized Hayden Christen straight away. I didn't recognize Tom Hardy. I'd say Tom Hardy is better looking than Hayden though, objectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 05:56 AM
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Attractive enough, not my usual physical type. Experiment is tainted by the fact that I know Hayden Christensen recognized the crappiness of the new Star Wars movies and then deliberately sought to avoid such roles in the future. Instead he picked up a few Indie films which got a small release but some of them were pretty decent. I believe he is married now (not 100% on this but we’re going by my conception, and a marriage shoves a person off the radar quite a bit). I have a lingering respect fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 05:53 AM
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You're a lost cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 04:33 AM
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No, my vagina is what prevents me from being taken seriously. You should know that better than me. AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 04:32 AM
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(Laughing) Oh.... MY.... GOD. Erm, Australia has all those things. I guess you didn't notice it on your last visit to this country, right? Strangely, when Obama visited, he noted them all and was a lovely guy. We'll have him when you're done with him. You remind me of the dumbest of the dumb people I meet overseas. "Is is true that you guys have kangaroos as pets?" / "Do you use kangaroos at transport?" / "Are there really snakes and spiders everywhere throughout the houses?" / "Do you have hous…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 04:48 AM
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Talk to Pembayliss about it, he believes apparently that this guy should be paying because abortion is murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 04:37 AM
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AGAIN. Abortion is illegal in some state of Australia. How many times do I have to write it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 04:36 AM
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Yes. Learn how to read. In Australia, abortion is illegal in some states. Speak.... English?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 04:35 AM
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So you believe abortion should be illegal. Or that it's murder. You should be offering up some of your pay cheque to the guys who have to support an unwanted baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 04:35 AM
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Wow. So deluded. You started to make half-sense with a few statements a couple of weeks ago. Now you're back to point zero. If I get into trouble, can I call you up and you can get the appointment arranged for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 04:31 AM
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Ha ha! In YOUR city and country, perhaps. Remember, you're not writing for PemBayliss Weekly and throwing what you write into letterboxes in your suburb. Things are different in other cities and countries. Different state laws. Different country laws. And... I hate to be the one who spills this to you... not everyone reddit lives in your suburb.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 04:29 AM
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If you leave your palace for a few seconds, you might realize that a lot of reddit subscribers do not live in your city or, indeed, your country. Abortion is illegal in my state. That means a drive across the border to commit an act that is STILL illegal but the police turn their cheek to it - MOST of the time. Let us know when you open your global abortion clinic chain so it can be as easy as you claim. As you've hinted, you could afford it. And you're supposed to be altruistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 04:28 AM
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What does the homeless man analogy have to do with abortion? Are you insinuating this homeless man is preventing the woman getting an abortion and thus is living on the streets to pay for his child? He should be careful. The protestors can get pretty furious. Long story short: we're all going to hell. All of us. Including those who support abortion as an ideal alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 04:26 AM
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Yeah. If his parents split apparently the child support payments monthly are six-figures or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 04:24 AM
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Does anyone really say "You go, girl" anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 04:23 AM
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I don't know Hume's law. You would be welcome to expand upon it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 04:21 AM
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Yes, but "feeling" (in this case meaning 'I am assuming') is not necessarily mutually exclusive with "logic".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 04:21 AM
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Dear MENSA member, For all intents and purposes, the second non-question was posed as an invitation for responses on this board. Though I appreciate your distinction between a declarative statement and a question, I am assuming it was clear from context that the second listed statement was intended to be "discussed", "challenged" or "debated", as per the disclaimer mentioned under said declarative statement. Please see the original post. As to your assumption about my issues with counting, you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 04:17 AM
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Yeah, exactly. I've noticed on MRP they just posted a couple of links about this topic (raising daughters). The idea seems to be that they think the men should do all the hard-core raising so their sons don't get too beta and their girls know that the man is "THE MAN". Nothing about encouraging a child's individual interests. I do remember being young and wanting to get a toy truck for my sandpit, which my parents wouldn't give me because it was a "boys toy". I was constantly in Dad's workshop (…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 07:35 PM
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Because I like to understand concepts I can't personally understand because I haven't experienced them. e.g. before I finally saw snow (where I live there isn't any), I'd always pester people to tell me what snow feels/looks like because I hadn't experienced it. I want to understand things that don't relate to me personally because I believe understanding things outside of my own experience is an important form of self-education. Natural curiosity in the world around me, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:47 PM
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You just said I wasn't even asking a question, then you answered my two questions. You need to join MENSA. The "ANSWER THE QUESTION" comment was in response to what you always do. Remember the PPD post you submitted a little while ago and this habit of yours was brought up repeatedly? "You really need to calm down" is a hamstering-type deal you're using to get me to feel mad. Dude, I'm pretty relaxed right now and someone called "PemBayliss" isn't going to affect me. Years of Warcraft and trolls…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:41 PM
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So ANSWER THE QUESTION
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:33 PM
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No. Pem, you're famous for doing this. You're not answering the question, yet you always insist when others answer you they're not answering the question. I'm not interested here about the internal inconsistencies. I know they exist. It's good they exist. Do you think all BPers think all the same? Of course they don't. Some BPers are religious, some aren't, some are married, some aren't, etc. Using your language, I am saying "ANSWER THE QUESTION" to only people who are facing difficulties with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:23 PM
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I do agree "to each their own" but my post is more directed at those who believe faithfully in AWALT pertaining to ALL women (such as MRP and MGTOW members). I am genuinely interested in their answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:17 PM
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NO. Please re-read. I know that MOST RP guys believe AWALT should be taken with a grain of salt and only applies to dating. You are reiterating your own personal stance on how it is defined. Is it actually defined differently by individuals based on which sub they post on. As I said, MRP has harder rules about AWALT than TRP. I would also assume that MGTOW would have something to say about the issue that does not fit in with your conception of AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:16 PM
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Thank you! Yes, exactly this. MGTOW guys are probably good examples of the guys who might want to put their two cents in?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:14 PM
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Again, this is the kind of answers I wanted.... thank you. (Wow, posting here makes me realize anew how often people don't read the full OP.)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:14 PM
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THIS was more of the response I was asking for. You actually seem to have read the whole OP. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:12 PM
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As I understand it, the child is of adult age now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:10 PM
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No, I mean literal AWALT as provided in the examples, as relating to female children. If you read the links and go deeper into MRP you'll see that AWALT includes every female family member. I feel that if I felt that there was a matriarchy messing stuff up (which I don't, but let's say I do) I feel that I have enough conviction about beliefs generally that I would AVOID having children and perpetuating the cycle of matriarchy, considering that some of these children may be girls. To me that soun…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:10 PM
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I did read on MRP that a guy was practicing TRP techniques on his dog so he could then apply them to his marriage and child-rearing. He noted the puppy was female and receptive to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:05 PM
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Yeah, guys use shit-tests on each other and even apply some TRP principles at work with some level of success in certain cases, I think. Again, sorry, I meant to indicate that these questions are directed at the extremists who use TRP as a strict guide.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:04 PM
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I actually think internal disagreement is a GOOD thing. Definitely. I'm talking more about MRP and/or those who think they might end up there one day. Or those who don't want to end up on MRP and for AWALT reasons don't want to have a family. I'm talking about the extremists, their viewpoints.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:02 PM
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Sorry, I should have clarified better: I know for a FACT that most people from TRP have a "take what's useful to you and leave the rest" philosophy. I think this is the healthiest philosophy. However, people from MRP do not use half-measures. The guidelines are WAY more strict and involve all female members of the family. My question is directed at these people who are extremists about AWALT and the matriarchy. I'm also directing the question to regular TRP guys who ARE at the end of the extreme…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 05:01 PM
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I don't think that all RPers believe in TRP strategy in the same way. I've seen enough here on PPD to know that there is a very broad spectrum of views on AWALT, most of them not including female children. These questions are more for the hardcore RPers who fully believe AWALT includes all family members.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 04:55 PM
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Then you need to spend more time over on MRP. One of the mods there has explicitly stated AWALT and acknowledged that one of his children (the female one) does not speak to him. It doesn't matter what this little cunt-daughter believes, because AWALT. All women are bitches (actually he believes "fucking cunts") and he has stated repeatedly that yes, this includes his mother, his aunt, his female siblings, and his children. What do you think "RP on HARD-CORE MODE" means? It means you take AWALT m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 07:51 AM
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Under MRP guidelines you cannot change a female, including family members. AWALT is literal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 03:40 AM
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No. I'm assuming you're familiar with MRP. The point is AWALT. There are no outliers or special snowflakes. NONE. It is RP on HARD mode. In fact Archwinger, in indicating his daughter will end up less of a cunt than most women, is still abiding by the MRP maxim. I'll give him that. You might overstate things hyperbolically for effect but MRP does not do this. This is where RP often trips up in arguments on PPD... people seem to have different interpretations of AWALT. I know Archwinger DOES take…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/15 03:38 AM
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You do realize that you consider your daughter to be a stupid cunt, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 01:49 PM
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This, /u/supertemporal, is how you should be approaching debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 01:08 PM
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No, real male power is impressive. I laughed out loud at RP being anti-rape, anti-women, anti-hitting women and anti-loud voice. I know you know your Rollo. Golden hamstering. A-
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 01:04 PM
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Then you need to go and read MRP if you want insight into Arch's "beliefs".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 01:01 PM
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I think that's been clear for some time!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 01:00 PM
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Nah, he's serious. And yeah, he's married. It's scary the number of guys who think this way who have daughters. I have never seen one RP/MRP guy say, "I really love and respect my daughter." Daughters are included as part of AWALT - as are mothers, siblings and all females. (Future sub off-shoot: RP Parenting - Child Protective Services & Legal Advice). With RP, you're basically excommunicating half your family along with half the population. Ahh well, it's a good thing when you know that hating…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 12:56 PM
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TRP guys might want to take note that you have a girlfriend... without resorting to a complex scheme of manipulation, somehow?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 11:51 AM
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It's not unacceptable for guys to want this. AT ALL. My personal opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 08:28 AM
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It's the ultimate fantasy after Cinderella and Prince Charming (science, ego psych, biotruths)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 07:24 AM
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Actually, this yo_radical sounds like someone who would very easily attain a high status woman. He sounds intelligent, open-minded and not unhinged by excessive neurotic thought. These are the traits that female "outliers" often seek out, and some of them are high-status.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 07:08 AM
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Exactly. "Power resides where men believe it resides... it's a trick, a shadow on the wall." Varys, Game of Thrones. Celebrities have the illusion of power. The power they might exact upon people may be sexual attraction for some fans, but not for me. I can't want to have sex with a picture of someone I've never met. I can't really identify them as "human". They're actors or celebrities for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 07:06 AM
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I agree with you, but flipping the genders around. As yo_radical points out, not everyone thinks celebrity = hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 07:04 AM
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Look who's back! Yeah, even though I don't get the physical appeal of George Clooney (each to their own), I'll only date celebrities who donate to funds and who have a history of political involvement in American progressive thinking. Each potential new partner must also know the Coen brothers. I'm sure that strategy's going to work out GREAT!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 07:02 AM
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THIS is probably very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 07:00 AM
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Dude, you are starting to sound WAY more attracted to George Clooney than I have ever been (zero attraction). And I'm a straight chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 07:00 AM
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Ha ha nice catch!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 06:58 AM
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You can't really win a "date" with any celebrity. They already have their established life with spouses or at least a partner. They aren't having a romantic date with you. They've having an organized date, usually intended to raise money for some charity they support. It's a staged meeting where you get to meet a celebrity and have forced conversation. PS URGH why is Clooney considered good-looking and likely to make every woman wet? I just don't get it... ALSO, didn't RP downgrade Clooney to Be…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 06:57 AM
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I actually don't have celebrity crushes. I feel very disconnected from actors even though I might appreciate a movie or show. People like Brad Pitt, Ryan Reynolds, Leo Di Caprio etc may be popular and considered good looking, but I've never found a celebrity sexually attractive in a significant way. I recognize good actors when I see them: Di Caprio's generally good, though he has Martin Scorcese supporting him and throwing him into some damned good roles. I could say, "That celebrity is objecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 12:41 PM
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Agreed. If someone is physically attractive to you, they just are. You can tell if you're sexually attracted to someone within something ridiculous like six seconds of interacting with them. Pheromones and all that jazz. As for Trump being attractive (discussed higher in the thread)... no amount of money could induce me to have sex with that guy. He is morally and physically repulsive to me. I don't care that his wife is an ex-model called Melania. She can deal with the comb-over and uneducated …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 04:34 AM
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No, but if you think TRP is astrophysics you're kidding yourself. What would be helpful is if you explained what STEM indicates. Clearly you know what it means and I do not (as an Australian). It would help me out if instead of being condescending you just gave a one-sentence reply in a nutshell. (e.g. My main question is: are women funded to follow these academic disciplines in America or something? There is an association between STEM and feminism stated here, but never clarified.) If I'm spea…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 04:23 AM
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People from RP, TBP, MRP, RPW, MGTOW, No Pill
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 03:34 AM
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Man, you are seriously over-cute-ing me. The Swallows mailbox coming right up! I should also mention that I read out the first line of your post and everyone in the house laughed. I'm proud my fellow humans know their awesome movies. I don't wanna sound like a dick or nothin' but it says here on your chart: you're fucked up. You talk like a fag, and your shit's all retarded. What I do, is just like... like... you know, like, you know what I mean, like...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 03:29 AM
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Ha ha, alright, I just decided to bite and click on the link and viewed my first Amy Schumer sketch. Not bad. The point is very valid. I agree with her. Case number 1: I was invited to a university party (off-campus) by a friend, a male who went to a private school. All his private school buddies and gals were there. I'm not sure why, but at this point in time, if you went to a private school and you were a girl you would say things like: "I think women who wear make-up are sluts" and "I would n…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 01:56 AM
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Yeah, I've noticed both Amy Schumer and Rhonda Rousey suddenly started grabbing headlines on news.com.au all of a sudden, even though no one in Australia seems to have watched/listened to either of these people before the headlines popped up. Nice sneaky work you did, there, media: get us into these people retrospectively by talking about them as though we're all already discussing them in real life. Nice. The same thing happened with Justin Bieber years ago (I don't mind if I spelled his name w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 01:23 AM
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Yeah, it's a comedian stand-up thing. Comedians are geared to skew the truth and Stand Up Comedy 101 is: jokes, even if they're of an observational quality (i.e. based on something you've noticed or has happened to you) have to be rewritten so there's a punch-line. The outright truth is not usually that funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 01:15 AM
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Yeah. I'm actually overly open and frank in real life. "Cheerful" is the description I get. Wouldn't know it from my online persona, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 01:11 AM
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I have a secret sensitivity I want to confess. These little birds started building a nest near our front door. Weird nest: mud based, cup shaped. Then a few days later my brother reaches up with his arm and takes a pic using his phone. Three spotted eggs. About a week later, we discovered a baby had fallen out and landed on a ledge underneath. "He's done for," we all thought, but put him back in the nest, hoping his deadbeat parents wouldn't let him fall out again or reject him. They didn't. He …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 01:10 AM
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No, I get that. And I don't personally mind whether a married person cheats or not... clearly the ideal is NOT to, but each to their own. I'm not arguing about religion (that too is personal) but I don't agree that dismissing the emotional aspect of human behaviour is necessarily a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 01:01 AM
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Dude, when you guys start talking about DEERs and SMPs and IDKWTFIGOs, you lose some of your audience. I only know what AM (amused mastery) is because someone asked what it is. Others I gather from context. I looked up hypergamy and got the marriage definition that someone else here got. I assumed it meant "women marry up" and THIS is why, when I state that I don't want to get married, RP dudes say "well then you don't apply under TRP." If humans like labels, I don't know where that fits in. Als…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 12:58 AM
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And the Purple Pill debate sub is probably not designed to suit your TRP-region dialect and acronym obsession. Why, by the way, are women graded in the same way as graphite/lead pencils? I saw a hot smooth blue-coated little number in the stationary store the other day. It was black on one end with a white ring around it. The other end was sharpened to reveal a stunning thick graphite tip, revealing the pencil to be a hardcore HB 9. Not as good as Mitsubishi Pencil's 10H to 10B Hi-uni range, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 04:03 PM
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No, I saw what you were aiming for. I just don't think you're hitting the target. Edit: In other words, I don't have to satirize satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 03:33 PM
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Why are you dragging /u/theultimatecad into this and why do you care if he's cheating? Seems like a covert way to get back at him for some reason while avoiding MRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 02:32 PM
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You post constantly on MRP. You can't really point the finger at RP guys by calling them amoral and say that you're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 02:29 PM
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Yes, it's universal that parents will push their kids of both genders to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 02:25 PM
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I remember back in uni days reading about this as a general trend. People tend to more highly value someone who is rude to them at first and then become a friend than someone who has always been a friend and is suddenly rude to them. The explanation for this was because people highly value the validation they receive from the person who was initially more critical of them. It was a trend observed as common to humans rather than any gender though. Can't remember the name of the theory. I get why …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 11:10 AM
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You're probably already awesome in bed. Intimacy and getting into the moment is usually enough. You can read signs from your partner that they're enjoying it - without even realizing it - and when your bodies slide and come together, that subtle push and pull movements bounce back off both people in such a fitting way. That's what great sex is, I think. You + them in natural flow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 09:23 AM
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This is very true. There's an assumption TRP makes that women will compare a current partner to an ex one. This doesn't happen. The exes are the last thing on your mind. You're so into the guy you're currently with that you're focused on him. He kind of eclipses all others, making a comparison impossible to even contemplate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 09:18 AM
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I know. Bitterness is the hardest monkey to get off your back. I'm answering the question "must they get over it"? The answer is difficult, but in a nutshell: Yes. It will take years, probably, to get rid of it. It took me some time. It depends on the situation and that person's age and level of resilience. But I think most people don't want to imagine themselves dying of old age and still being bitter. They want the bitterness to go away. As to how? You're very right, that's VERY hard to answer…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 09:13 AM
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Precisely. And I don't think all men are alike, are that all men are bad, just because the first love of my life "branch-swinged" (a dude). I was bitter about this dude specifically for a while, yeah. Then the years passed and that went away. Walked past him at the shops the other day and didn't realize until later it was him. Didn't feel anything. Not anger, not pride... If I'd had time, I'd have wished him the best. We were just kids then. People make mistakes. And who's to say me staying with…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 08:59 AM
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Exactly. And to OP - let's assume that all those are true, those statements, of women or men or humans or dogs or cats or.... whomever. The answer to your question doesn't even need this argument. I have yet to see any great person prosper whilst retaining bitterness. Bitterness eats away at you, blinds you. Think of the big names you admire, heroes you aspire to be - are any of them bitter?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 08:54 AM
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Alrighty then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 08:49 AM
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No, it's more the extremists who state that spousal rape doesn't exist, all women have the brains of five year olds, women don't know what they want or find attractive, and that if a woman is happily settled down with some dude they must be "beta losers" etc. You seem to give off the vibe of someone who's taken what he can from TRP and disregarded the misogyny. You have to remember that TRP zealots are the one who shout the loudest - GLO etc with his triggerpocalyspe. I actually have more of an …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 06:44 AM
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Maybe you should check out Married Red Pill and see their take on RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 06:41 AM
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I'm not sure what you mean. I believe TRP believes that all women are entitled cunts. Which (based on your gender) includes you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 06:40 AM
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Good point. Older women like me (not your average teenager or girl in her early 20s) will recognize being gamed. It happened to me IRL recently when I was doing a specialized adult education course. I suddenly noticed a guy was clearly "negging" me. It became VERY apparent when the two of us were alone, working on an assignment. When I saw this, I burst out laughing and clapped. I said something like, "that's how you got the younger chicks onside?" and was still laughing because it was so OBVIOU…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 06:31 AM
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So to say that AWALT, or AMALT, or even All Humans Are Like That is erroneous because the person making the statement has not met every human being alive. They have not visited every other microcosm in the world and noticed the cultural differences. This is pure logic. You cannot even gather from news stories or psychological studies whether something is true or not. In the first case, news stories highlight shocking cases and represent them as though it’s the norm; in the latter case, psycholog…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 03:12 AM
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Sorry for the late reply. But yeah, I'm a little worried. I was a LOT less worried after your response - thank you - and your other comments, when you talk about planning to buy a book for Xmas... that suggests to me you are probably not clinically depressed (apathetic depression means you don't bother planning for a future because you don't believe in the idea of a good future), but I don't know you well enough to make that assertion. I really hope you are not - depression is a bitch, and when …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 03:12 AM
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What this guy said is right. It's basically a hard-core "man up" slap that I got from my friends when I was in a VERY bad place. But even the RP guys are saying what I agree with, /u/Xemnas81: you have to do some exercise. (Yeah, I know. But please keep reading.) The endorphin rush also gives you joy, which will alter your life perspective little by little. Meanwhile you're getting into shape, improving yourself etc. Of course it's not all about lifting and when I had a bad outbreak (social anxi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 08:56 PM
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Shit. Well put! It's easy to forget about reality, that world that your body occupies, when you're on reddit. That's clearly the case here because one of the main arguments is that women will only give sex to alphas, and alphas are rare. Therefore, almost no one in the world is having sex right now. I knew this underpopulation apocalypse was coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 07:53 PM
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Yep, straight-up me. Gotta go check out the dog, the cat, the bird... whatever animal cuteness is lurking. Engage: awww.... Speaking of which, I meant to tell you /u/cats_or_get_out thanks for making me see that no cat is a special snowflake, even if its name is Snowflake. ACALT. The only issue is that these cute little birds called Welcome Swallows have started building the nests on the side of the house. They had three babies. Every time I see their three little furry heads popping up the top …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 03:49 AM
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So true. I can see politeness and small talk being served up as the main meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 03:41 AM
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Most of today's society, women included, don't walk down to a police station and report rape. I've never reported it. False rape charges seem to be TRP's toy idea of the moment. How many women do these guys know in real life in their friends and family who've made a false rape charge and the guy's gone to jail? Usually stories of false rape charges come from "this guy I know's brother, man". And now spermjacking is apparently part of rape, it's just getting ridiculous. It sounds like a weird con…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 10:15 PM
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TRP is interested in the way the world is, not the way it should be How are any of these describing "the way the world should be"? What you're talking about is descriptive, not proscriptive. What I mean is though TRP as textual matter (sidebar stuff) deals with current-day gaming of women, these subs are overflowing with ECs and mods talking about the future and using every example possible to justify that "the old days" were better ones than now. People like GLO start ranting about triggerpocal…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 09:58 PM
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I love how the guy who responded seems to think "woman who has had a job" means "career-oriented" rather than "normal".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 07:24 PM
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TRP is interested in the way the world is, not the way it should be. Really? How come there's all this talk about triggerpocalypse, constant studies brought up in PPD to show trends and fears about a future matriarchy boom and then collapse? Speak for yourself, not for everyone from TRP. You are not a good case study -- you are not representative of most women So I'm a special snowflake? But they don't exist. AWALT, remember? And as you point out, I'm not a man, meaning I'm a woman. Which I beli…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 07:18 PM
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Good thinking adding in the temperature! That's a necessary part of any ideal day. If it's 42 degrees Celsius (107.6 Fahrenheit) outside, I'm going to avoid the outside like the plague. I hate the heat. For a Queenslander (Australia), that's ironic. It's summer 3/4 of the time here. Bring on winter! Oh well... Winter Is Coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 05:01 AM
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Damn... if I was watching a movie nude with an SO, I doubt the whole movie would be watched.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 04:58 AM
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women are by no means expected to uphold the same standard of responsibility in the public sphere as men do They should be. This is what I say when I mean men and women should be held to the same standard. It's not me saying AWALT - women have the brains of a child. I'm saying genders are of equal intelligence and therefore both should be treated the same way. Specifically in the context of a sub for how to hookup with attractive women it's a warning about the pussy pass. So how can RP men see w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 03:28 AM
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"Life without pain has no meaning." Someone tell the MRP guys that the butt-hurtness they get if they don't get sex and a blowjob daily isn't a bad feeling; it's making their lives richer.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 03:07 AM
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Nope... OP hasn't done this. I haven't either. I do believe that RPers think ALL WOMEN (you included) have the mental capacity of children though.... fortunately Archwinger has just popped up and clarified this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 03:04 AM
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I still feel sick about one particular memory with her "hand-washed jeans" hanging out to dry. I just can't even - Nup.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 02:47 AM
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A lot of men have little idea about why going to the toilet is different for a female than a male. I've heard men IRL debate why. Hey, anyone reading now reading has an answer (without having to put up with the embarrassment of asking). If it was about male toilet behaviour and female misconceptions about this behaviour, I'd want to read that thread. Because I like adding to knowledge, whether it's something big or small curious things. This is called "having an interest in things which may lead…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 02:45 AM
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The point of the a different thread is 'women are expensive'. FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 09:13 PM
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You could consider the alternative.... I know a girl who DIDN'T bother wiping. This astounded me. Discovered in a flat situation. We were all like, "How does she NOT wipe?" and then as days, weeks and months went on, "No wonder her clothing smells... like urine." Even after hand-washing her jeans and hanging them on the laundry line, when the wind caught you in the face you could smell stale, wet urine. It was repulsive. But she barely ever used much toilet paper, that's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 09:00 PM
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That's probably why this issue is on a NEW thread because it's dealing with misunderstandings about female toilet behaviour, not your obsession with cheating, betas and hypergamy, which you see as "the main point" of "that thread". So then go back to that thread and discuss your main point?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 08:57 PM
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Again, OP's question was: Do you have any RP/BP/gender interaction beliefs that you instinctively feel are accurate but find it difficult to logically defend? You're just giving a summary of your issues with women in modern society. That's not answering the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 08:36 PM
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OP's question was: Do you have any RP/BP/gender interaction beliefs that you instinctively feel are accurate but find it difficult to logically defend? I think you've made it really clear that your beliefs are accurate and your history suggests you don't feel they need to be logically defended, because your beliefs are "true". Unless you're admitting for the first time that your thinking is illogical, you didn't answer the question really.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 08:30 PM
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Exactly. I don't believe AMALT. In fact most of the arguments I end up having here is because I believe there are more differences within the genders than between them. If OP is thinking of the "all men are bastards" mentality perpetuated by daytime TV shows (where all the hosts are women) and bad 80s telemovies, this is the wrong demographic. In fact, that ideology seems to belong to a dying generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 02:08 AM
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Makes sense to me. Even if it wasn't "visceral disgust" but psychological association, you wouldn't want to go near that thing (genitals) because you view it as disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 02:02 AM
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I had to do a lot of evolutionary biology as part of my psychology degree. I also took evolutionary psychology, which (for those who believe in it sincerely) was taken out of the curriculum because it's findings are considered to be misleading, inconclusive and speculative. I don't agree with: all behaviors are largely genetically coded as absolutism. I some behaviours are largely genetically coded, but environment is also instrumental in the creation of one's personality, which will influence t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 02:00 AM
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Yeah. As an Aussie this isn't generally considered polite to bring up. I'm trying to think of a way I could ask a partner, "how many have you had in your life?" and I can't, because it's not an organic part of the conversation. It usually just isn't asked at all. Very weird. I don't think there's a lot of cultural differences between Aus and the US (based on my comparisons on living in both places, atmosphere on here etc). This might be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 01:33 AM
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Sluts aside, the "N" count thing. That's not customary here, to ask a person's "number" of old partners. I'm Australian, by the way. But of the two American men I have dated, neither was interested in my N count. (They were both dual citizens of Aus and the US, spending time in both countries at various life stages.) It's easy enough to gauge from the friends and acquaintances of a person whether they are socially viewed as promiscuous or not. Even if your potential partner's friends are under o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 03:03 PM
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Sounds kind of out there
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 02:37 PM
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One party is arguing on the basis of morality (mind you there's nothing wrong with that) and the other party really does NOT care about morality. So blue pillers, what is your response to the ever so famous "it works" response you often get after heavily criticising trp You just answered the argument for me. It's primarily on the bounds of morality. In terms of "Yeah but it works", my issue is that it might only work for the individual for a short period of time and when they're older, they migh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 10:42 AM
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Statistics are statistics, and I don't wish to convey in any of my posts that because I'm BP it means "all women are lovely and blameless all the time." I have seen women being abusive in various situations, including: My best friend Cameron's ex biting and chewing him, threatening to throw herself out of their moving car, and actually trying to run him over in her car Sister's friend, Emma, in hospital again after broken ribs from her defacto husband, admitting while still drunk: "Secretly, I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 08:52 AM
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I think you're right. I apologize sincerely. I didn't give you the respect of reading through the whole initial post as thoroughly as I should have done. I usually read these OP remarks thoroughly, and it's not fair that when I drop the ball it's misdirected and hits you. Reminder to self: Don't drop the ball, always read through OP thoroughly. PS Re-reading it, I take your point now as being: "you can find any article to support any ridiculous ideal if you cherry-pick it", which I agree with. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 08:18 AM
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99% empty? How about 71% water-covered. Did you think Waterworld was a realistic movie?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 10:16 PM
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Yeah, big-time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 10:13 PM
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Yeah. I wasn't born with that biological clock thing that people talk about. I decided marriage and kids just wasn't for me when I was very young. Can't help how I feel, and I've always felt this way. It doesn't mean I hate kids or married couples. Just do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 10:12 PM
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Excited about the last Hunger Games too, I admit. Haven't seen it yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 10:07 PM
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Being funny is something that always captures my attention as a chick (in a sexual way). I'd agree, work on your openings. This might sound out-there, but have you ever done a stand-up comedy course? The focus is on highlighting how everyone can be funny - it's just that they don't realize it. These courses generally start out by giving you subjects to write down observations about, then you look at the observations you've made, then the story can be fiddled with to find a punchline. The story w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 10:03 PM
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A "hot guy" doesn't match up with an ugly girl according to RP. The "hot guys" get the "hot girls" of the same SMV, apparently, which is why "nice guys" get overlooked and why RP encourages men to up their physical appearance and confidence. It's called upping your SMV and its a major strategy in obtaining hot chicks guys feel they deserve... and I wrong here?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 09:57 PM
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Exactly this. Then again, don't listen to me, OP... I'm a female and that means I'm definitely a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 09:54 PM
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Urgh. First off, Tom Cruise and Brad Pitt aren't "hot" to me. Brad Pitt has never been, neither has Tom Cruise (and the Scientology association makes him seem creepy, actually). I've dated nice guys, and also "Nice Guys" (not actually nice). The sort of guys I'm attracted to would shock you from the sounds of it. While a lot of my partners have heard, "you really punched above your weight with that one!" (Aussie term meaning - she's better looking than you are) it's flattering to these guys at f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 09:51 PM
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In terms of what happened, no boy at the school should be singled out or made to be felt as though he was responsible for what happened. One kid did this to another. From what I can gather, if the shooting was the result of an obsession the boy must have had mental issues to actually shoot a girl who he's obsessed with. Normal kids don't shoot each other, which is why school shootings make the news. I was quietly obsessively in love with a guy for three years in high school (while he dated other…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 09:33 PM
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True, true... Aliens and other-worlders are welcomed and we would be particularly excited to invite: Time Lords The Ood Targaryens Starks Snows, Stones, Sands and other bastard children (sorry, "non-trueborn" children... wait, that's worse... I think) Tyrannosaurus Rex Velociraptors (about time we put this scientific dispute and see what you REALLY look like) Drogon Rhaegal Viseryion Paladins Mages Warlocks Warriors Huntards... sorry, Hunters Rogues Death Knights Blood Elves Murlochs Cybermen an…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 11:05 AM
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True. Regardless of your pill (or no pill), everyone who's been around this forum for more than five minutes knows that Pem is notorious. Yesterday I saw someone say, "I know that bullying is your thing" to Pem - and I can't disagree with that. I also agree with the above statement. I've also noticed a tendency to flood forums with "ANSWER THE QUESTION" over and over simply because you don't like the answer you've been given, Pem. No one bothers reporting you for this behaviour, we just sigh and…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 09:20 AM
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No worries about that. In real life I'm a conflict avoider.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 05:17 PM
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We've never met before. But if we're going on assumptions, it means you're causing very little damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 04:29 PM
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Then I hope you are not causing real-life damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 02:42 PM
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I mean that is easy to be cruel when one has a facade to protect them, aka a username on reddit. The person is not personally held morally accountable for what they say - in the real world. It’s just words on the internet. Most of the content on The Red Pill constitutes pick-up game, simple misogyny and has no major impact on the real world. I don't agree with it, but it is mostly not damaging on a noticeable real-life scale. The Red Pill has many members of various opinions - some Red Pillers u…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 02:11 PM
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Maybe she wasn't raped. I agree. I don't know. I wasn't there. What I'm talking about is just giving the smallest shit for someone who's been treated someone with brutal blankness. This person I'm describing is the dude mentioned by the OP. You agree he's a douchebag. You agree it happens all the time. I live across the other side of the world - Australia. The place where even women are told to "man up". Where guns are banned and we're pretty good at killing each other anyway. Use what you can u…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 06:44 AM
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Exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 04:57 AM
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I know. I think it's a need to... well, reach out. To hope that a personal experience might resonate with others. It resonates with me. I'm doing a similar thing, putting myself in the firing line of PPD. I think why I'm doing it is for all the lurkers out there who might be questioning their own position and not posting, because I know there's a lot of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 04:55 AM
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Ha ha, yes. Exactly that. No one writes about how they went to the vending machine at work today and it ate their dollar but didn't give them their candy. Then how they shook the machine, got their candy, and went back to work. Because real life is normally mundane.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 04:30 AM
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It's OK how you acknowledge it. As long as you're OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 04:28 AM
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Definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 04:27 AM
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See, what you're describing is perfectly fine. I'm thinking your interpretation of how she was thinking is correct: Some small part of her brain whispered "not yet, wait girl" but her uterus took control of the rest and totally was ready That's basically it in a nutshell... you didn't force her. Sounds like you had sex around the right time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 04:26 AM
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Stop loathing yourself! There's only one person to loathe in your story, and it's not you. Tell this story to someone who's not using a username, i.e. someone you know in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 04:23 AM
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Does ENTP mean "endorsed poster"? I gather from context it means the people who have been around for a while (including mods) who give detailed responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 04:21 AM
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I bet you'd find it less amusing if you weren't hiding behind a username, and a throwaway one at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 04:19 AM
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All this is true. But younger women are less experienced and don't really know what they're in for, and if you're uncertain too you can make some bad choices. You and I are a bit older and wiser from having been on this sub... but when you're young and naive, you can fall for a lot of things. That's why TRP "works".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 04:18 AM
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She admits to feeling tingles at the beginning. She did not say that these tingles were still around when "that scene" took place, which was presumably not at the exact moment when they first met.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 04:13 AM
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You can disbelieve someone's story but you can't "disagree".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 04:12 AM
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The idea that my girl secretly dislikes the sex is one of my worries as an LTR-oriented terper. If the girl is silent and doesn't seem into it, that means she isn't enjoying it. I'm not being facetious. If a person seems limp and unresponsive, it means something important. I can add another to the list that TRPshame has listed below: you can be frightened into saying nothing. You know you're physically weaker. My case is slightly different in that I did say No and tried to fight the guy off firs…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 04:11 AM
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And also confirms why, if TRP was doxxed, many guys would find themselves in alarming situations of their own making.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 04:03 AM
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What it means was she initially found him attractive, then his behaviour meant she no longer felt those tingles. And yeah, "No" means "Yes" to a lot of dudes. Perhaps not to you personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 04:02 AM
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You can't negotiate attraction, and you certainly can't become attracted to someone based on reading shit on the internet. I don't see this on TRP, but if you go to MRP they talk about how you can't negotiate attraction and then explicitly explain how to negotiate attraction. The aim is to do normal RP stuff (lift, improve yourself) with the intention of gaming only ONE woman who they clearly do not like in the first place. They even admit they no longer find them attractive anymore. (Response: …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 04:00 AM
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Don't feel like a piece of shit. This guy acted like an arsehole to you. You had a pre-conceived notion of him being an arsehole, but not to that extent. And your pre-conceived notion doesn't make his behaviour OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 03:53 AM
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Yeah. It's "business as usual" I guess. Sometimes I wonder how you could be a hard-core RP dude and still watch Game of Thrones (or read the novels). While I'm feeling horrified watching Sansa get raped by Ramsay (or reading what happens to Jeyne Poole in the books), I can only assume Chad Thundercock is nodding satisfactorily at a job well done. Next up on HARD-HARD-HARD-CORE RP: Killing women for sport? PS the roughest abuse suffered from any character in ASOIAF is Theon Greyjoy - a male - by …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 03:51 AM
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You have my acknowledgement of how awful that was. And I know it can leave lasting damage. I hope you really are fine now... if not, please PM me. Unfortunately PPD is mostly an echo chamber for Red Pill, meaning an automatic high-five whenever a guy makes a female feel like shit. The sex part of it isn't really even the point. It's best to remember that this mentality represents a minority, not all men. There's a reason these people are hiding behind usernames and wanting to keep TRP a "secret"…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 03:44 AM
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Yeah. I have to say anyone out there who read that "sex scene" without feeling uncomfortable is suffering from serious mental health issues, or you're a sociopath. It's the main point of the story. It's like watching The Walking Dead and not noticing the walkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/15 03:33 AM
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Yeah, man, I can talk. I worked for our state nursing council giving out nursing registration licenses etc and all of the other staff (about 40 all up) were ex-nurses. It was one of the most toxic workplace environments you would work in. And, as always, the person responsible for the most bullying was the HR lady you went to to report the bullying. Fantastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 11:44 AM
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It's true that the younger girls did like him. (I should clarify btw that I'm 38. But misleadingly younger looking, and because I'm unmarried and into my own weird shit - breeding fighting fish, playing video games, stand-up comedy - but dance in a rather feminine way, it's sort of hard to place me. And I could tell he certainly thought I was younger than I was, and found it hard to place me. It does throw people of both genders off a bit.) But yeah, I think for sure he got a few plates going ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 02:05 AM
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"Male shit tests" come up in the same fashion that "female shit tests" do - when two people are arguing about an issue. Example from an ex-boyfriend whose best friend Simon owed him money (which he raged about on no less than 20 occasions): Joe: You know what, fuck Simon. I'm going to text him. Me: What? What about? Joe: What do you think? Me: About that twenty dollars he owes you from last week? Still? I thought you said you were over that. You let it go. Joe: I am over it. I'm just going to te…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 11:45 AM
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I didn't say patriarchy is the devil. You did. I think it would be near impossible to know how to categorize patriarchy within the context of various social systems, cultures and countries since the dawn of man and draw any amazing conclusions, as it is intrinsically interwoven with other so many other variables. I'm not an expert in this field. Just because you don't want kids doesn't mean that anybody else should take childlessness in stride as well. Geez... Way to make it personal... /u/Drenz…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 11:12 AM
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The Westermarck effect is an example. Before our friendship, as kids we did see each other each day at school. Westermarck effect aside, men and women can be friends. It generally happens when that person feels more like a sibling to you. It has to be utterly asexual or it's something else. Hard-core friendship did not start up until later, correct. Age 13. So that's 25 years of friendship now... not 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 10:58 AM
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This shit isn't easy. I don't think it's meant to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 10:43 AM
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Everyone has to earn respect = fair enough. Never been any sexual tension. LIES. He is your beta orbiter, I guarantee it. You should probably tell him and his partner about that. Did I mention the friendship's been strong for 24 years now? That means we were kids when we met, by the way. (And if you're REALLY into your evo psych, look up "kin recognition". It's a condition that exists when two unrelated children are raised in very close to proximity to each other and cannot reproduce while matin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 08:08 AM
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It's funny that females have to work to earn your respect, with the underlying assumption that any male around you doesn't have to. What have you done to earn my respect, those downvoting? (i.e. you, Morpheus.) I was born with a vagina. I didn't actually choose this, by the way. My best friend of 24 years is male. Never been any sexual tension. I don't want to have babies (so spermjacking is off the table), and I don't want to get married (forget divorce-rape), and even though I don't cheat I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 06:57 AM
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I know. What's worrying is that so many men describe themselves as "unplugged" for a very long period of time. Check our MRP, where their status as unplugged or unplugging is in the flair. Unplugging seems to hang around for a VERY long time... the reason is "it takes years to work." So in the years where hundreds or thousands of guys are actively running about in this world, trying to get this to "work" or are "unplugging", are they not morally responsible for the shitty behaviour that splashes…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 06:35 AM
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Oh my God... almost gave you an upvote for the LOLs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 06:27 AM
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Most guys on TRP have no idea what MRP strategy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 06:25 AM
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we are actually the solution for men who are already going too far This in itself is just creepy, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 06:24 AM
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Yes.... and strangely, people have been managing to live successfully like this for thousands of years without TRP. Odd, huh? Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 06:23 AM
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"I don't hate women. I just see them all as being the one person whom I don't respect."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 06:21 AM
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Yes. When I think of RP theory in action, I think: Any time you hear yourself saying, "I've found the light" or "I've found the answer that others don't have!" don't you ever think, for just a second, that it's a little odd that you've done a complete 180 on your original position - you, your regular personality and thoughts? Did "old beta you" ever hear the words, "I have found the answer to a great mystery... it will change your life!" and think, "that sounds kind of cult-y. There are no easy …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 06:20 AM
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Men want to know HOW and WHY All humans do. But not just about sexual game. Sometimes people ask questions to which there is no right answer. ("How can the universe go on and on and not end? And if it does end, what's on the other side?") TRP offers AN answer, not THE answer. Men have been able to reproduce pretty well for thousands of years without TRP. The Earth is facing overpopulation, not underpopulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 06:12 AM
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TRP does not however acknowledge or write about men conducting shit tests. If this is in the sidebar or requisite material and I've missed it, please link it. Saying TRP doesn't bring up men because "there isn't much point" is an easy way of getting out of saying, "Both genders shit test." Under the AWALT model, only women shit-test. I have never once heard a male talk about shit-testing someone, or any acknowledgement from TRP that men do this. If you're around that kind of group-think (women s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 06:07 AM
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The thing is TRP leaves it up to the individual as to toe that fine line between being flirting and hurting feelings. If you handed a loaded gun to someone who's never used a gun before, how confident do you feel that they'll use it wisely based on no information but internet instructions? I know the regular answer is: TRP isn't responsible for how people apply the material. TRP also admits that sexual strategy is amoral. So when a person engages in behaviour that is deceptive and amoral by the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 05:54 AM
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Yes. The thing is, you wouldn't believe the way that even decent investors will talk themselves out of keeping these parameters in place if they haven't had a "win" in a while. You need a definite stop-loss point you set at the beginning and to stick to it. Stick to these parameters and you'll be fine (or as fine as an investor can reasonably expect to be). But often people will feel like they've suffered a "loss" when they see a stock fall and immediately sell out of their position even when th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 04:25 AM
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Should have clarified: that was in reference to the mining industry, that "initiation". I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 11:06 AM
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I'll admit that it's a nonsense-rebuttal on its own. I guess what I'm trying to say is: say you're in my situation, where you were raised in the Western World but don't have the time to think about sex because you're supporting an elderly parent who can no longer take care of themselves. They sort of have to be your life for a while, particularly when they refuse to accept their condition for what it is. What I mean is - no matter where you are, some people will have things happening in their li…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 09:10 AM
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Aren't parents grand?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 09:05 AM
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For every beautiful women there is a man who is sick of fucking her Ha ha... my father told me this when I was about 10 when we were riding to school. It was actually helpful advice because I was wondering why several people on my street seemed to be in unhappy marriages, and "why does Mr Opposite have a lady showing up at his house during the day and then she leaves before his wife comes home?" etc. What I took from this is: monogamy is hard, and a lot of couples get sick of each other eventual…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 09:03 AM
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Yeah. This is kind of O/T, but did you notice how at first Wills was pegged as the good-looking son and Harry was pegged as the unattractive, freckled red-headed kid? Ten years later, people generally consider Harry to be the more attractive of the two sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 09:01 AM
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Sounds right to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 09:00 AM
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This is very interesting. I've seen men cheat on their wives with women who seem to resemble less attractive versions of their wives. One guy in particular. (I accidentally busted him cheating twice. Urgh. Did I pass the info onto the wife? No. Shoot the messenger is real, and I believe she knows what and who he is.)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 08:59 AM
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You know what someone you've never met is going to do at age 45? Give me the TARDIS. Now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 08:57 AM
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I mean in a refugee camp in Africa where starvation is the norm. The subjects you see in docos where the occasional family is rescued and moved to the Western world (I saw one focused on the UK) and how traditional values of their culture override the culture of their new country. My research into women involved in the Rwandan genocide did not show that they automatically adopted Western Girl ideals when relocated to "safer" territory. You shouldn't. Procreation in all animals is stimulated by s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 08:54 AM
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Yes, you did say that in your third paragraph - but it was at odds with what came before it. If we're going to throw in divorce as a factor, then that factor should hold true for people in their 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s etc. Divorce is a separate issue from education in wealth management. It might affect the person's overall position, but not their knowledge. For example, women always get alimony and child support in a divorce, and women are more likely to initiate a divorce. Also, while I'd agre…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 08:46 AM
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I would agree with that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 08:38 AM
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Only women are crazy enough to enjoy feelings in sex which would be negative outside of it. Broad generalizations like this only disparage your argument because they include negative word associations. You started the sentence, "Only women are crazy enough...." rather than, "I have found that women tend to...." The second one is still a generalization, but shows that you are slightly less biased coming into the discussion. Moreover, whenever I hear AWALT or "woman are crazy" I think about refuge…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 08:34 AM
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I am saying that most people develop wealth over time, meaning more wealthy people aren't in their 20s. I said that a woman at ONE workplace I was in was the top-earner. I did not say that ALL WOMEN are better at finance than men. You assumed that on your own. I did not bring factors like divorce, alimony etc into the discussion - you did. That's a broader discussion that does not relate to what I wrote. It accounts for about 50% of your response. I'm not sure how you got "divorce rape" from my …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 08:13 AM
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I'm having a panic attack over how awesome your business card is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 07:33 AM
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You had me at "I'm 26 years old." Everyone you know is presumably in their early to mid 20s. These are not the ripe years for top financial earners. Most wealthy individuals amass wealth beyond their 30s. Yes, there are outliers, but the general trend is that it takes decades to amass wealth and understand financial market dynamics and develop a personal system that works (and even then, it won't work all the time).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 07:32 AM
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Touche. And as a female who has worked in the finance industry for 15+ years, a bit of advice.... ONLY ever invest in the stockmarket if you expect to lose. "Breaking-even" isn't winning. Yes, the stockmarket is dissimilar to gambling in that you have fundamental and technical analysis at hand to predict what may likely happen. However, the GFC in 2007 changed everything. Back when it hit, I remember panicked analysts around me trying to reassure everyone: "We'll be back on track by FY12." I lau…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 07:29 AM
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Yes. You are discussing people who cry rape when it hasn't occurred. It also sounds too like you've been in two industries where there's a heavy focus on rape. I'm a writer and finance journalist, hardly industries where we're going to watch power points on that kind of thing frequently. However, Australia IS big on making those old crappy videos that you have to watch when first starting a job: the first short video is on workplace health and safety, and the second is on bullying and sexual har…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/15 05:20 AM
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Who changed the definition of rape in this way? No one I know of. Sexual assault and rape are not the same thing. Rape involves sexual assault, whilst sexual assault (e.g. grabbing someone on the bum or breasts unexpectedly) is not rape. To me, rape occurs when you've said "No" and have made it clear you do not want to have sexual intercourse of any kind with that person, and they overpower you and penetrate you anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 02:51 PM
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Even something like AWALT (which I firmly believe in as a generalization) is often discussed without the requisite sophistication to make it useful. AWALT/AMALT in the RP context requires a whole paradigm to understand usefully - trying to apply it in the existing paradigm (which is highly predicated on ideas of right and wrong, good and bad, and other idealistic notions) is what gets both sides into a lot of trouble. Without a paradigm of pragmatism, it just doesn't work. I respect your point o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 02:00 PM
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7 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 01:03 AM
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In fact, The Red Pill is a collection of people who have their own conceptions and thoughts that aren't necessarily yours. Some RP men loathe sluts and will spend all of their time online, linking to articles about sluts getting their comeuppance (e.g., the glee some guys are expressing at the prospect that Charlie Sheen might have given HIV to "sluts"). Others gloat via field reports about spinning plates without specifically stating they believe the women are bitches or sluts. Others are MRP a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 01:28 PM
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Interestingly, my brother was talking about trading up last night. It's quite unlike him. I've never thought about "trading up". If I'm in a relationship, I unconsciously become very focused on that other person and forget the idea of sexual attraction to anyone else. It's called oneitis. It feels like when I'm in a relationship I'm "claimed", and I can't conceive of any random dude trying to lure me away sexually - even when they attempt to do this, my instinct is disbelief. I know it's a game.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 01:00 PM
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Ha ha, yep, they're also called "bettas" - which is very close to "beta". I did laugh to myself about this while writing it. Here in Australia they're normally called fighting fish or just "fighters", but I've noticed the "betta" terminology working its way in. I use the term "betta" when talking to others who breed these fish, and "fighting fish" when talking generally. Yeah, Ick is an awful condition and it attacks fighters/bettas all the time. It's basically fatal. It's also not your fault, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 12:45 PM
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I completely respect and understand what you have said. It's awful to hear (though it shouldn't be unexpected to me) that you have been met with close-mindedness that doesn't allow for your individual situation. People like to categorize because it's easy, or because of narcissism. People like to think that others are like them; and if they are not, they want to change that person. I want you to know that someone you've never met - me - actively respects you, admires you and will remember you in…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 12:37 PM
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Unfortunately for many, this makes me literally Hitler, and I'm vilified from several directions (mono is The One Truth, your Poor Abandoned Wife, you Selfish Cad... I've heard them all). Yet all I'm doing is being rational and honest about the human condition. Weird. Hey that doesn't make you bad or weird at all, it makes you rational. I'm a serial monogomist (currently on a break) and not wanting to get married or have kids, mainly because I just don't have that drive for wanting my own kids. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 03:25 AM
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Yeah, that makes sense. Sorry, I don't wish to imply that I think "everyone should get divorced!" or anything. But I will add one thing from my own experience... my parents stayed together for the sake of us kids and even had periods lasting a year or two where they'd put on a brave face and "get along" in front of us. I knew it wasn't what they really wanted even as a very young child and found that false facade more painful than when they were fighting. At least when they weren't pretending I …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 02:08 PM
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Yeah, that makes sense to me. I breed fighting fish (as pets which I sometimes sell, not to fight of course) and even within this one small distinct species I see monogamous fish, fish that like different partners, and fish that are attracted to their own gender. I can see it in the way they interact, who they build their bubble nests for (mating signal usually - also a sign of general happiness), who they put on a flaring show for, etc. Among these species of fish monogamy is not supposed to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 01:49 PM
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Shit, mate. That is just awful. I can't express how fucked up this is. You're a strong person, though. Keep staying strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 02:53 AM
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Good point. The MRM are fine. They're doing their own thing. If they wanted RP help, they'd ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 02:50 AM
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re: My male friend in this situation - I told him to GTFO. He didn't. (He will do anything to avoid a break-up.) Then she tried to run him over with her car. He was pretty shaken. Immediately I rang her up, rang her mother, rang his parents and we all agreed it was best if we moved Problem Bitch down to her home city to live under the protection of her mother. (And yes, we're talking about a grown woman here acting like this. Punching, hitting, cursing... attempted vehicular manslaughter? WTF ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 02:48 AM
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Yeah, i don't strictly disagree with you. Logically I 100% agree. The only issue here is that we're assuming Q will feel awful at the prospect of P having sex with someone else - as an automatic response. That annoying human element, along with unknown elements, muddies it a bit in terms of applying it in the real world. I can't really disagree with you though. It makes too much sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 02:40 AM
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Get a room, you two! Just kidding, /u/EmpressofMars and /u/the_wandering_mind. You both make strong arguments. I'm not sure there's a universal answer to this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 02:24 AM
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I'm not even sure that humans are naturally geared towards lifetime monogamy. The swallows building a nest on the side of my house are monogamous creatures, but they only live for six years. If humans are lucky, we get 70+ years. That's a long time. I've seen happy, successful lifelong marriages playing out, and I've seen awful marriages happening around me too. Unfortunately, the latter case seems more common. I've noticed the happily-married couples tend to have personalities where both have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 02:20 AM
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I know what you mean. Whenever i'm stuck in an elevator with an obvious P and Q having a spat followed by an awkward silence, I'm usually struck by how one person seems snappy and nasty and the other one just goes quiet. I always think about the quiet one (regardless of gender): "if you were cheating, I wouldn't blame you." This thought however comes after my initial thought: "God, if only I could bundle the quiet one into my trunk and drive them to a safe house and out of this awful situation..…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 01:55 AM
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I'm with this dude/chick. Adding my own 2 cents into the general discussion: I don't cheat on people and I'm a LTR kind of chick, not a married chick. I've been cheated on before - twice (that I know of) - by different guys, and it stung like a bitch. I ended those relationships. And it hurt for years, especially in the first case. But i didn't go around assuming all men are like that, because I've dated men who are not like that. Because Malcolm was a cheating douchebag, it doesn't mean Jon is.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 01:51 AM
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And are you the dude whose "wife" just found out about MRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 12:55 PM
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Us bloopers are meanwhile sitting around giggling over the fact that you think we're offended by you two. You may have made a splash at first, but you two are like celebrities who have suffered from oversaturation. If you perform the same material over and over, it becomes boring. Patterns are identifiable. e.g. GLO's shtick: "We get it, you're doing the triggerpocalypse thing again" Cis's shtick: "we get it, CIS is doing the "I AM GOD" posts all in caps thing again because no one took the bait …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 12:51 PM
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True. I forgot to add that it should be soldered in place using layers of metal. It's really time to go Full Metal Chastity Belt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 01:42 PM
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Anything backed up by "evo psych" makes me roll my eyes. I took this subject as part of my psych degree. It was only offered for one semester before they pulled it from the curriculum. Its findings are generally considered too illogical and speculative to be considered part of the psychology discipline. tldr: psychologists told us years ago that evo psych is interesting but unreliable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 11:22 AM
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Make sure the condom is covered in four layers of tinfoil. Then saran wrap. Then another layer of tinfoil.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 11:18 AM
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DUDE what are you doing? You don't even know what you're doing. It's all to do with tiny cells in your wife's vaginal fluid. Did you buy milk on the way home today because you wanted to or because you've been inside her vagina? hashtag the vagina made me do it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 11:17 AM
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So it is better to go the other way and dismiss all rape cases altogether?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 01:36 AM
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Regrets aren't rape, but forcing yourself onto a CONSCIOUS, sober person using brute force (dragging them to bathroom, locking the door, then pinning them against a wall and penetrating them against their will) while they scream "NO" and "STOP IT!" is also rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 01:35 AM
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No, the Blue Pill sub has the affiliate Ex-RedPill and offers support to those who have left The Red Pill and are angry, upset, confused, lost etc. Also, even men with issues ("I don't want to be red pill but this girl did this to me") who come to the blue pill and ask for a serious explanation are given so much support, advice, positive support that it makes it all the nastier when it turns out the person is a red pill troll. I suppose this is the way TRP mods enjoy "pissing off the chicks" (th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 02:16 PM
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Nah, this shit is normal in my suburb: every spring, each man is assigned four women from randomly-selected homes to have sex with each night. When I look out my window on a cool spring night, it's a familiar sight to see Mr Opposite trudging tiredly along between houses, getting wearier between romps. Sometimes I see the guy two doors down who always, always clicks his heels on the way home in between sex romp 3 and 4 walks. He also high fives other gentlemen in passing, I've seen him do it aft…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 01:07 PM
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I agree about your definition of feminism, but I don't think the cartoonist was thinking from such a deep angle. I think it was a deliberate satire of the type of guys who post the worst anti-feminism comments on sites like TRP, reddit, 4chan etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/15 12:07 PM
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You will think what you want to think. Get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/15 02:16 AM
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Because he's suddenly decided to break up with you right after sex. He's been distant lately and suddenly, angrily rude. The slut comment was too much. He calms down, explaining he's sorry he's angry but he's getting back with his ex-girlfriend, a married woman with whom he recently had an affair with for a year, shortly before we met me. He says. He tells me he had spoken to her by phone and she had left her husband for him. He was still in love with her etc. They got married about a year later…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 12:19 PM
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Ha ha. This is a guy describing GLO's theory of Triggerpocalypse. He's not even trolling us. There's followers of this prophecy debating it on RP quite often. Doesn't sound culty at all. Wrapped with a science-fiction fantasy bow on top. L Ron Hubbard didn't even lift.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 12:04 PM
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Only in TRP field reports. PS Reminds me, I had a gang-bang with 40 dudes and 39 chicks last night and I gotta tell you, as soon as I got in there I just gave every dude what he wanted. It was awesome! I actually told one guy he was the best sex I've ever had and he told me he was going to post it on reddit. I managed to be girl number 5 out of the 40 girls in the room he had sex with that night, meaning he had me in his top 5, and because he's alpha I was like, "woah I don't deserve that compli…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 02:58 AM
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"Doctor, is he going to make it?" "I'm afraid not. We had to remove every internal organ. But here's the skin. 30% of it is about lifting."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 02:54 AM
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That would be GREAT, but I think it would be very hard to achieve. It seems like most RP guys posting already have preconceived notions about hating women (singles: "women are bitches who won't give me sex and only love Chad"; relationships: "God I hate my wife but I gotta find a way to live with her."). I think it'll slip into the conversation no matter what sub these guys are on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 02:52 AM
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I liked it! Don't listen to the haters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 02:48 AM
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As a chick, I wouldn't want to see it. I wouldn't believe it because I know most men are not arseholes. Arseholes are spread evenly across the human population (both genders) in real world terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 02:47 AM
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Hey, much truth here. PS, Money means only the nature of WHITE women. I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 02:45 AM
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For someone who goes on about not being Red Pill, you seem to have a mysterious defence of their ideology compared to Blue Pill’s ideology. BP STANCE: “OMG, look at what this guy wrote. It’s awful.” RP STANCE: “We’ll provide you the offensive material for you. tldr is we hate you all.” If you think BP is a myopia of hate, you can think that. The hate that exists there (and the satire) is of course directed at RP’s stance. It is a protest group in nature, but not in functionality. It’s links to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 02:38 AM
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Sarcasm only appears in my comments here when I feel I have to rehash the same argument again and again. But let me give this one my full attention then, starting at your first post. I don't know how many times I have to repeat this, but every community has nasty outliers Yes, they do. However, the person I'm referencing who made this comment about bending an unwilling wife over and doing her from behind is not a random person - he's the main mod and the God of MRP. He's not an outlier, he's a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/15 01:54 AM
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None of this is relevant to what I wrote here and you've just responded twice in quick succession, both times responding by bringing up a not-entirely-relevant point. Your username might be correct. Does BP have 75 mods? OK. (shrugs) Sounds high to me, and that's news, but it doesn't change anything. (Also, I don't know what a normal number of mods are, but that's incidental.) The mods, I imagine, have a lot of work to do in terms of ensuring the sub is maintained. Linking to some other subs is …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 11:02 PM
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Of course they overlap in terms of women's rights by default (because learning game admittedly means manipulating unaware women, which is creepy). However, saying that: you already are on FeMRA & SRS, you're just willfully (or perhaps legitimately) ignorant of it is NOT the same thing as being part of Blue Pill. By that logic, I could state that because you're on TRP you also support MRP and /r/seduction because they all involve winning at sexual strategy. However, note how TRP and MRP are often…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 10:43 PM
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Cutting to the chase, are you asking me if you could join the blue pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 11:55 AM
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I know, right? What losers. Bet they don't even lift.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 04:42 AM
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What Atlas wrote below is right, though I'm guessing its satire. When I read about a post about a guy trying to force anal sex on his wife and read in the comments, "roll her onto her back and force it in" it actually makes me feel physically revolted and I feel pity for the poor woman who has no idea why this is happening (because you don't talk about Fight Club, right?). I'm also offended by response comments like: "If she cries afterwards, "pat her on the head and say, You're so cute". Shit l…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/15 04:41 AM
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Oh yeah, there is moral outrage there too. Even the Onion has The AV Club.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 08:21 AM
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Got it. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 03:51 AM
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From your own sidebar, in the disclaimer section: /r/TheRedPill is a subreddit for pick up artists who discuss ways of manipulating women. That right there. It's false. TRP is a sexual strategy sub for men who want to improve themselves and their sex lives. It's not for pick up artists to discuss ways of "manipulating" women. This is simply using different words to explain the same thing. The Red Pill sidebar discusses game, and has links in required readings to manipulation and amorality (e.g. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 03:48 AM
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Exactly. I think TRP misses the point of satire. Satire is: "the use of irony, sarcasm, ridicule, or the like, in exposing, denouncing, or deriding vice, folly, etc". Usually there is a sharp point underneath the humour - in the case of blue pill, we don't believe that amorality justifies any behaviour, and specifically RP behaviour. And Red Pillers admit (sidebar stuff) that many of the techniques are amoral. This is why is always confuses me when RPers are offended by a Blue Piller's sense of …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 03:17 AM
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The point of the sidebar is that it is poorly written. This is part of the satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 02:55 AM
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I don't mind you guys enforcing them at all. I think the RP contributors probably still outrank the BP contributors, but the balance is more even than it was a few months ago. I'll keep an eye out for breaking rules regarding those issues. I suppose the only question I have is, should a BP person answer "Challenge my view" from a RP person if they agree on this particular view? To me this sometimes highlights surprising similarities between both pills and that promotes discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 02:53 AM
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This is my maternal grandfather. I call him The Old Man. He is a diagnosed narcissist. I have never met him in my life but he's always lived about an hour away in the country. Hearing different accounts from people who've known him, there are four different categories of person who've crossed his path: the still-hopeful type who adore him and keep trying to worm their way back into his lives when they've discarded him years ago (e.g. my uncle aka his son) the bemused onlookers who didn't fall fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/15 02:47 AM
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You're all being too lenient. This picture shows you how all these 5 girls are wearing skirts down to the minimal respectable length, though the two on the right are overdoing it with the slutty cleavage. The one on the left is playing it somewhat safe, using a deep v-neck plunge but without showing anything near cleavage. The red and black colouring indicates she is fiery, maybe a real goer in the sack. The other two in the middle are prudes. The one in purple isn’t hot, and the other one dress…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/15 03:53 PM
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You're right again. I think I'm living with an enabler, by the way. He just strolled in and showed me a .gif of a guy watching a home video of a guinea pig on his laptop, then a cat jumps over to the screen and starts batting at the screen with its paw. When the guinea pig scurries off-screen the cat jumps to that side of the laptop to see where it went. It darts its head around in the directions the guinea pig may have gone. You can see how this is problematic. I think I'm going to tell him, "I…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/15 03:04 PM
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Thank you so much. I almost wanted to write, "It's great! I don't even think about Snowflake anymore"... but I wouldn't be telling you the God-honest 100% truth. I have good days and bad days. It's hard, you know, seeing her at the bottom of the street from my bedroom window, slutting it up to people coming off the bus... doing that thing where she kind of slams her body sideways into the ground, diving head first and then flipping over to reveal her belly... THEN LETTING STRANGERS PAT HER BELLY…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/15 05:41 AM
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Agreed. RP has a lot of patronizing talk that stays up (maybe the stuff that the mods write? I genuinely don't know if this is true, or why some of these comments are embraced and others deleted. Maybe it's just upped policing lately or... really, who knows). As a BP person, obviously I don't agree with a lot of what OP has written. However, I think it's obvious OP is writing what he has experienced, and genuinely believes, as an "elder" member of the community and is looking back retroactively …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/15 03:07 AM
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No one on BP would ban a post like that described by /u/impossibleworlds who has explained the psychology of it perfectly. I see some veteran posters saying they are looking into dark triad, but I haven't seen any elite members person state, "I am full Dark Triad and do well and here's why." Presumably because they don't have the need to share, as a Machiavellian nature suggests. If they had shared their information about Dark Triad, you wouldn't have questions to ask of this user about its meth…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/15 02:50 AM
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It's so spot-on and well written that it needs its own space somewhere. Also, you are clearly a very good writer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/15 02:11 AM
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Totally agree! Including the breathlessness. Sometimes I lose the ability to speak. u/cats_or_get_out here has explained it perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 11:27 AM
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Everything you're saying back is just straight-up toeing the party line, dude. This is why I do not enjoy engaging with you. It just sounds like you want to pick a fight now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 10:52 AM
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We have spoken before. Well, argued. I haven't got much interest in arguing again about whether lifting is integral to MRP or not etc (I said it was, you said it wasn't, blah blah etc etc). And when I did come over to MRP to challenge the viewpoint, as you suggested, I was banned, as I noted would happen. (I don't mind being banned.) MRP is one of many modern groups I'm studying that replace religion with philosophy as a guiding tool for its membership. Cheer up, you guys aren't a special snowfl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 09:53 AM
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