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It looks like a mix of a Bichon frise and a golden retriver
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:15 PM

Is the dog a Bichon Frise?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:13 PM

You’re a man. You’re on this subreddit. Your experience does not reflect on the rest of us. If you’re under-socialised go out and touch grass instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:32 PM

No one is mad. Now what? If you claim someone is mad you have the burden of proof. Lmaoo?!? This is done.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:22 PM

I’m certainly not mad. The thing is it’s very hard to have the discussion because it boils down to “it’s icky” as the primary reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:18 PM

No one is mad, and no one is demanding for straight women to date bisexual men. The discussion is about why straight women immediately disqualify bisexual men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:15 PM

There is no functional difference between a straight man and a bisexual man. The only difference is that the bisexual man also has attraction towards men. The root of the problem is the mans attraction to other men, which has nothing to do with the inter-partes relationship of the (bi) man and woman. What the bisexual man is being disqualified on is solely his attraction towards men. That’s the only variable that changes. This singular variable has no barring whatsoever on the relationship, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:11 PM

Who they’ve previously slept with doesn’t matter when it comes to their inter-partes relationship. People in committed monogamous relationship don’t sleep with other people. In the confines of a relationship their past doesn’t have anything to do with the functionality of the relationship with a bisexual man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:59 PM

I completely agree. I feel like whenever this topic is brought up you’re just going in circles with these people. I think the only thing I can compare this discussion to is the n-count discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:55 PM

The problem is you categorising straight men as functionally different to bisexual men. Besides bisexual men’s orientation how are they functionally different? They aren’t. Why do straight women care about orientation? There is no functional difference so in practice it shouldn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:49 PM

You’ve redefined the definition of “straight” to suit your own argument. Being “straight” means you’re attracted to men if you’re a woman. Bisexual men are men. The reason straight women are overwhelmingly attracted to straight men is because of disgust, which is the entire topic of this discussion. We are legit just going in circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:19 PM

Sexual orientation is not the same as physical appearance. You can’t see on someone that they are bisexual or gay unless they behave within the social norms of what’s considered queer. You can’t see on visibly see if a woman is white, tall, fat, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:10 PM

Gay men aren’t attracted to women at all. Straight women are attracted to men (100%). Bisexual men are men. Therefore straight women should be attracted to bisexual men, but they aren’t. The immediate disqualifier is the bisexual men’s attraction to men too. Straight women can’t articulate the cause for why they won’t date them because there isn’t any that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:08 PM

Why aren’t those bots and scammers showing interest when I use my own pictures? Just lol at this explanation. Believe what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:03 PM

It’s cause and effect. The cause is disgust. The effect is unwillingness to date. I dont eat broccoli (effect/result). The reason I don’t eat broccoli is because I think it doesn’t taste good (cause). Straight women don’t want to date bisexual men (effect/result) because they are disgusted (cause) by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:56 PM

I’m not bisexual, but I think it’s an important discussion to have. Straight women are not homophobic because they refuse to date bisexual men. They refuse to date bisexual men because they are homophobic. They innately have a disgust towards male on male sex which is why they can’t see themselves in a relationship with someone bisexual. The funniest part is who men have sex with ie. their sexual orientation is part of their sexual history (past). In this very specific scenario straight women ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:42 PM

You could say that about every single interaction on any dating app. The facts of the matter is that the catfish profile in every single metric outperformed my own. Amount of likes, amount of matches, response time from women, enthusiasm in response etc. the difference was so large that it became irrefutable evidence. I’ll leave it at that since I am very certain you aren’t asking any of these questions in good faith. It sounds like you’re conjuring up an imaginary “well, akchually non of it was…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:39 PM

They sent me their adresse. Obviously I wouldn’t show up, because I’m not the guy in the pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:21 PM

I remember when I first fell down the looks pipeline I would catfish as male models on dating apps. I had seen a lot of the “Chadfishes”, but I didn’t believe it. Truthfully I refused to believe it. I thought my experience — a couple of likes and matches from women here and there — was the experience for all men. I was genuinely so delusional. I’m by no means ugly. I’ve had a lot of success both from one night stands, relationships etc. but nothing like what the catfish profile got. One night I …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:50 PM

Sure Lift_and_lurk understand what 4 billion people do on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:43 PM
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No. You could start a friendship with no romantic feelings whatsoever where those feelings eventually become apparent. Idk what it is about blue pillers and assigning malicious intent when it isn’t evident.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:50 AM

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:19 AM
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Every “question for women” thread always turns into shit. A few women know how to stay on topic and actually discuss the question, but the vast majority just stray into whatever nonsense they want and disregard the topic entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:16 AM

I’ve made a response to this point at least 3 different times..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 12:51 PM

I’m of the belief the why is always important, but before you can argue “why do women view [blank] as a negative trait” you first need to connect immediate qualifiers to something being viewed as negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 12:49 PM

It’s very important for me to know if you’re on the spectrum? My post is not complicated but it seems as though you’re struggling to grasp the point I’m conveying. Perhaps I need to “dumb it down” a lot more so that you’d understand. This comment is written in 100% good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 12:46 PM

This post isn’t about the person who has the trait. The post is about the person who has the negative disqualifiers. If someone is rejected because of an immediate disqualifier the person who is disqualifying definitely sees that trait as a negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 12:44 PM

I think most straight men would give a very precise explanation as to why they wouldn’t date a trans woman if that’s the opinion they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 12:41 PM

Nothing. My post isn’t concerned with the validity of the disqualifers. We haven’t reached that point yet. First we have to come to the consensus that certain traits are negative. After that we can examine why they are viewed as negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 12:03 PM

If it’s an immediate disqualifying factor then it’s not neutral…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 12:01 PM

It’s a negative trait to you… Or else it wouldn’t be an immediate disqualifier. You inferred my views (this post) was the result of mental illness. You thereby called me (borderline) mentally ill. That was uncalled for and served no purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 12:00 PM

It’s important. Dating is a numbers game. If you want to optimise your options and you understand what the other gender views as immediate disqualifiers then you can adapt and change to fit most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:58 AM

Please point to where in my post I used the word “bad”. My point is that for you distance is an immediate disqualifier. I’m not concerned with the validity of immediate disqualifiers I’m only concerned with pointing them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:57 AM

I’m not concerned with the validity of the disqualifiers. That’s not for me to judge. My post is an observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:53 AM

My post has nothing to do about morality. If a conservative doesn’t want to date someone liberal then that means they view liberal negatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:51 AM

This is a nothing response. It’s an ad hominem that serves no purpose to the discussion. If a woman views white as an immediate disqualifier then obviously she views whiteness itself as something negative and there is subsequently nothing that can be done about that. It doesn’t change that they view it as something negative though…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:50 AM

Something that’s “not right for me” is something negative… You view getting kids as something negative and that’s okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:39 AM

It’s important for maximising your dating prospects. If you don’t know what a lot of women view as immediate disqualifying factors then how can you improve your odds? Dating is a numbers game after all. If a lot of women have fatness/low amount of money as an immediate disqualifying factor you could get in shape / earn more to have better dating prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:36 AM

When you quantify the immediate disqualifying factors and you realise a lot of women have them then you can behave accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:29 AM

My post is about the subset. If 100% of men are excluded then obviously this post doesn’t apply to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:24 AM

The difference is as a straight man you don’t find any man attractive. 100% of men are excluded. If your disqualifying factor would be money and you were gay then you would find men attractive, but not men who make under [blank amount] amount. In this scenario you could deduct that low amounts of money is a negative trait to date you. I don’t get how this is hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:23 AM

There is something to debate for the people that disagree with my post. Since you’re not one of them this post doesn’t apply to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:15 AM

My point was that this doesn’t seem to apply symmetrically to immutable traits within the sex you’re attracted to. As a straight man, “being a man” isn’t part of your dating pool to begin with, so it’s a category exclusion rather than an evaluation among potential partners. As a straight man, men aren’t in your dating pool so you’ve already excluded them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:11 AM
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Do what thou wilt
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:21 PM
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<image> I bought these shoes recently, and they look 10/10 irl. The colour (cherry brown) isn’t even around the shoes. It fades, and looks sick
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:10 PM
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An above average income does not make a man more attractive. The difference between earning 60K and 175K is negligible to men’s dating prospects. It’s first when you increase the pay by around 15x that it means something. Even if that is the case; Those same men can just stop improving their western wage and go to a different country.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:29 AM
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If every man improves then no man improves. The baseline for women’s attraction is the minority of men. Women do not deal in absolutes they deal in relatives. Women do not care that a man makes 200K if that’s the average. Women do not care that a man is 6’4 if the average is 6’4. Women want a man better than average which means most men by default won’t be good enough. What men can improve is negligible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:49 PM

I don’t take advice from anyone on this subreddit. I’m just amazed at how conceded old people are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:38 AM

Talk for yourself. One is not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 06:26 AM

With all due respect, whatever you see in the classroom is in no way reflective of dating today for young people, when the vast majority of interactions happen online. Nothing. Your comment was the result of selective reading. If you were claiming that I was too friendly by calling users middle class, idk how to respond to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:31 PM

Aren’t you 50+? What do you know about dating for people younger than 35?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:21 PM
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Painting OP as someone bad in the bedroom is an insane reach. I’m dumbfounded how adults behave like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:13 PM
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I disagree. Dating in big cities vs. small towns is very different. Most of the problems presented on this subreddit come from middle class citizens living in large cities and being financially unstable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:08 PM
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I agree with the title, but I think your argumentation in the body of text was dogshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:03 PM
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No, because those conditions do not sound clean to me….
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:58 PM
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You don’t have to be his emergency contact…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:56 PM
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I can’t fault his logic tbh. That’s who he is. I can fault you though for being with him. That sounds absolutely disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:59 PM
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You can’t force someone to have sex with you? Do you not understand consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:58 PM
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No that’s not my point. Can you not read?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:22 PM
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You don’t choose what’s clean and what’s dirty. Imagine your partner said their standard of cleanliness is 4 hour deep cleaning everyday…. Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:22 PM
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I agree, but what does this have to do with my post? You’re only supposed to respond to a debate post if you disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:20 PM
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This whole post is a nothing post. It really depends on the relationship and the people in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:26 PM
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“Pulling your weight”? There isn’t any actual weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:24 PM
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“Should” is a funny word. It’s trying to enforce something that cannot be enforced. Live like a free spirit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:19 PM
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No they aren’t demanding that lol. If the person wants to change the environment from uncomfortable to comfortable they are free to do so. The dirty person is not saying “YOU HAVE TO LIVE IN THIS FILTH BUDDY”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:18 PM
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I think your approach makes perfect sense😊. I think a lot of people are triggered because my flair says “man”. I have previously lived with 2 roommates. One was a lot dirtier than the two of us and it was a personal hell. I ended up moving out because I couldn’t do it. I am in no doubt that I would leave a relationship over dirtiness and I think women should do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:17 PM
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I’ll one up you; there doesn’t even need to be a mismatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:14 PM
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I co-sign every response. This is exactly the point of my post. If you want it clean, then clean it instead of demanding others to do it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:10 PM
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I agree. But the only ones complaining are the women. They can leave but they’d rather stay and nag…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:06 PM
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I disagree. The dirtier person is not demanding anything since they are content. If the person with the higher standards are unhappy they can just clean themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:51 PM
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A relationship is mutual. Both people have accepted each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:47 PM
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I don’t think you understand what flexing is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:45 PM
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Unless you cite your sources it’s pointless to claim that they exist
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:44 PM
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I think libido is a very good comparison. The thing about both cleanliness in the home and libido is that both people can leave the relationship if either of the two don’t align.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:42 PM
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The thing is who decides what’s dirty and what’s not? I think very few men would live in a dirty house, but what you may consider dirty is different to what a man may consider dirty. That’s why women do more of the house work, because they find it necessary to do “maintenance” more frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:40 PM
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Who is the authority interpreter of what’s considered “dirty”?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:38 PM
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In 99% of relationships someone is gonna have a lower tolerance for cleanliness. You fall down to the lowest denominator. In my opinion it’s unreasonable to demand the person with the “uncleaner” person to raise their level.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:28 PM
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Are you heavier or lighter?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:10 PM
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It’s a shit test. Do you have your height on dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:02 PM
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From this plate I’m estimating that you’re a female who is 118 lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:00 PM
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Jimmy with abs and clear skin is not eating that fucking 12 pack of donuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:00 PM
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IDK why cooperations hire good looking models to promote or showcase their fast food. I need someone morbidly obese salivating over a burger for me to trust that it’s good.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:59 AM
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a man can control how much money he makes unless he’s disabled And a woman can’t? What’s your excuse for being broke? Everyday broke women come up with new excuses for why they are broke😆
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:49 AM
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All right I acknowledge that women invest something in the courting phase. However men generally invest so much more in the courting phase that it becomes negligible whatever little bit women invest compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:02 PM
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Yes… He is expressing his intentions up front and not leading her on…😆
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:56 PM
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The man definitely invests more in the courting phase and you know that. Without acknowledging this we can’t have this discussion in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:55 PM
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I would hate women too if most of them were disgusted by the idea of dating people like me. Food for thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:21 PM
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“Men complain about having to court when they’re only interested in sex” I disagree with this statement. At every turn in the courting phase the man is investing his time and money. The woman is investing — compared to that — nothing. At every turn either party can say “I don’t want to see you again”. That means the man is the only one who has to carry the burden of the financial loss if it doesn’t turn into a relationship. The man is therefore more invested in the relationship to work. Claiming…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:18 PM
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“MuH aUtiSm” If that makes you sleep better at night so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:44 PM
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The reason men complain about the social dance is because the woman gain more than the man in the courting phase — and women know this. In a traditional sense the societal expectation is that men have to initiate the date (ask her out), plan the date, pay for the date etc. The burden in the courting phase solely lies on the man. Even if the man wants to spend time with the woman — all of the expectations and demands surrounding the relationship falls on the man. Even if the man likes the woman a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:39 PM
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I don’t think I wrote it in the original post. The situation has sparked a lot of debate.,
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:21 PM
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Happy we can agree it’s homophobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:20 PM
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Non of what you wrote in your response refuted the title. Women control the grey area when it comes to sex precisely because they are the ones you have to ask. They view sex as something demanding, as if they were the employer or co-worker per your examples. Women view sex as something they can leverage the same way the employer views the raise as something they can leverage. The “dance” is pure jestering.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:16 PM
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You need to look at the situation in its entirety. First she said idk, then she invited him over to her house for a second date. That certainly needs clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:12 PM
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No point telling women to stop having sex. After a certain point they are tainted for life and “stopping” isn’t gonna change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:09 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:07 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:07 PM
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That depends on her viewing “not seeing him” as something bad. Some women would view it as a dodged bullet if a guy sent them that message. Either way that’s for her to decide. There is nothing wrong with ultimatums.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:24 PM
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She invited him over to her house for a second date. He then sent a voice note where he expressed his intention. “I would like to have a sex. If that’s not possible I feel like I’m wasting my time” I am paraphrasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:23 PM
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She didn’t say no other, which is why he asked for clarification. She wanted their relationship to be in the grey area. He didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:21 PM
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He asked for consent and gave her an ultimatum. He isn’t obligated to take her on dates and continue seeing her if his desire isn’t met. If she doesn’t want to have sex that’s fine. He will thereafter stop seeing her. He wanted clarity on whether he was going to have sex and that’s why he sent the voice memo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:32 PM
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“if men are doing the same shit“ Men are not. Therefore women control the grey area. // Ted talk done.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:04 PM
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I don’t understand what your ramblings have to do with my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:58 AM
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For there to be coercion you need leverage. Voice memo guy doesn’t have any leverage…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:33 AM
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As amusing as your allegation is, the only thing you’re proving is that scummy red pillers are right. Hiding your intentions when talking to women > expressing your intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:30 AM

Did he tell you that? Again you’re presuming his intentions… It’s beyond me how people like you function in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:24 AM
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Are you dense? If you listened to the voice memo and the original video he asked her on the first date, she then invited him over on their second date and between the first and second date he sent the voice memo. He asked for clarity before coming over.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:23 AM
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Women have largely expressed 1) that they want men to express their intentions and 2) express their emotions. The voice memo guy is an example of a man who expressed his intentions and expressed his emotions. Women have a problem with that. That’s the topic of discussion. I don’t care that he is socially inept or whether this was a good strategy. I’m concerned with women saying they want x, and when they are presented with x, they don’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:22 AM
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She isn’t obligated to give him consent. He is giving her a choice and asking for clarity. You’re presuming that if she says yes, he is gonna rape her… which there isn’t anything that points towards. She is well-within her right to say no after he asks. Do you understand? You’ve conjured an imaginary scenario where he is actually a rapist who wants to cover his tracks for court. Absolute lunacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:16 AM
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I think a lot of women would disagree with this take, but idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:10 AM
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Cool. That’s exactly what the voice memo guy didn’t do. He asked beforehand and made his intentions clear. He told her “I want sex”. Ie. Making his intentions clear. And that’s apparently a problem. My conclusion from your response is that it’s better to hide your intentions and not communicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:57 AM
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You absolutely did presume Ill-intentions. If she express “yes we can have sex” and he came over and then she said “you know what, I don’t want to have sex” she is within her right to do so. No one is saying that she isn’t. The problem is that you’re presuming in the scenario where this would happen there is a possibility of him saying “I don’t accept that answer, you will be raped now”. Which is absolutely insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:54 AM
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Since the topic of discussion is women I would’ve preferred if you said “some women are stupid”, but that’s minor. Have a good Saturday.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:40 AM
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Whether it was a good or bad strategy is irrelevant. This scenario is important for further discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:38 AM
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“People” include both men and women. We are currently talking about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:35 AM
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What do you mean by “he was testing for compliance”? My first thought after reading that sentence is that doesn’t make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:35 AM
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Why are you presuming his intention is a meticulously premeditated rape…?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:32 AM
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What is a function of emotional intelligence? Liking vague, imprecise language?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:06 AM
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A lot of women like grey areas because it benefits them. If you don’t ever give a direct answer to a question you always have plausible deniability — which is what this scenario shows. There are more women against the voice note than men. Men like and appreciate clarity a lot more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:04 AM
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Sending someone a voice note asking for consent is apparently problematic <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:02 AM
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Even the lawyers get robbed. Shout out the billing model.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:56 AM
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I saw that too. I went into the search bar and I was looking for videoes and the most liked videoes showed disdain to his behaviour. Do you think it was coercion?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:53 AM
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Having to court a 2/10 woman sounds like hell. At that point just be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:26 PM
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Having to court a 2/10 woman sounds like hell. At that point just be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:25 PM

<image> All of this sounds familiar
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:18 PM

If you’re never insecure about anything you’re not pushing yourself hard enough
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:53 PM

My point is that you have to get comfortable with micro-cheating because it’s most likely gonna happen. You agree with my point, the difference is you find it negligible whereas I don’t. You are comfortable with the fact that micro-cheating is gonna happen. I don’t quite understand what it is about my post you disagree with then. The comparison is pointless. It doesn’t challenge my post, because it has nothing to do with my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:19 PM

Nowhere in my post did I talk about Chad railing a gf behind the boyfriends back. That’s something the commenter took out of their ass to try and make their point stronger when that wasn’t the point of my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:16 PM

Who said anything about getting railed by Chad? That’s no micro cheating and you know it. You’re painting a false narrative and purposefully misconstruing my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:25 PM

No point arguing with people who argue in bad faith. Also your comment was reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:24 PM

Whatever you do that you wouldn’t do in front of your partner
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:11 PM
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Whatever you do that you wouldn’t do in front of your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:10 PM

Everything you do interacting with the other gender that you wouldn’t do if your partner was present and watching.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:09 PM

You can’t control whether other people are interested in your girlfriend. You can neither control whether your girlfriend shows interest in other people. What you can control is your own reaction to her showing others interest, and if your reaction is to disregard micro cheating then so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:06 PM

Agreed. That’s not a problem concerning me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:02 PM

> “Yea probably” Happy you agree with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:00 PM

The easiest way to get that is just by dating women you don’t love.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:37 PM
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The vast majority of women micro cheat. They are in relationships and do inappropriate things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 04:28 PM
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I have no clue. I regularly cat call women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:30 PM
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I’ve never really found Kim Kardashian attractive, but the bound 2 music video she looks absolutely ethereal. A legit 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:55 PM

Alcohol got too many female hormones in it. Once you start drinking it you can’t drive and you start talking nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:50 PM
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No, my options are better than that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:29 PM
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<image> I’m not gonna give my two cents, since it would get me banned, but just JFL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:27 PM
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The love island (reality show) cast got announced for the new season. And look at a comment I found <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:26 PM
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<image> It’s the 10 year anniversary since this album came out on Spotify. I vividly remember when I saw the IG post that it was out everywhere. Back then I was in the seventh grade. Today I’m studying in university. Time really flies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:34 PM
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I think it’s a slap to the humans before you to eat healthy. Do you know how many cave men would kill a newborn for Big Macs?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:28 PM
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The biggest black pill about having a female boss is that your work is completely unimportant. What matters is how much she likes you. If you are a competent employee, but your female boss doesn’t like you, it’s a wrap.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:25 PM
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This is the problem. Patriarchy is such a vague nothing word that’s devoid of any real meaning to the point nobody knows what it means or how it manifests itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:20 PM
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In economics the solutions to a natural monopoly is heavy regulation or nationalization. What does that have to do with dating? Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:51 PM

🚨BREAKING NEWS🚨 The world record for marathon has just been broken twice by two different runners in the same race. Two runners ran the London marathon today and finished below 2 hours. Absolutely insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:33 PM
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<image> In one month it’s gonna be 10 years since this album dropped.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 11:23 PM
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There is a big difference between 1) respecting someone and 2) Not being disrespectful Being respected is a privilege. Not being disrespected is the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 06:05 PM
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I’ve eaten takeout 4x in 2 days. I’m disgusted with myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:26 PM
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In regards to your 3 sentences… 1: I don’t agree. I definitely think a woman can like and even love a man, and simultaneously make him wait for sex. With that being said, I don’t think a woman would make a man that she is sexually attracted to, wait. Women can be in relationships with and love men they aren’t sexually attracted to. 2: I don’t agree. “Picking better” is not an argument for anything. It’s lazy. 3: I agree. What I’ll say about body count is that my stance is consistent. The fewer t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 06:22 PM
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Ignorance is bliss
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 06:15 PM
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Effort matters in a meritocracy. Dating is not a meritocracy. Men don’t confuse their effort for desire. Men recognise that their effort is irrelevant when it comes to obtaining their desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:51 PM
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The notion that human rights are a constraint on the system means that the rules within the system can’t go against human rights. This gives human rights a separate status as something that supersedes “regular rights” and somehow makes those more legitimate. All rights are rooted in either moral philosophy or theology. My stance is that there is no reason to separate the existence of human rights as something different to regular rights. They are one and the same thing because they are both root…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:34 PM
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Yes it does matter. There is nothing objective about any “rights”. Society is build on a social contract made up of rights and obligations. To first discuss whether human rights exist it’s important to first clarify the difference between a “human right” and a “regular right”. There is no difference. A right is a right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 11:35 AM
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The issue isn’t that a lot of men are in the closet. The issue in my post is women using “gay” as an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 09:40 AM
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Her claim isn’t rooted in anything. It’s just a thought that I’m not willing to entertain and it’s irrelevant to my post. The topic of my post is calling men gay = insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:20 AM
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Do you have a legal background?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:16 AM
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Insult
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:14 AM
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Can men turn their sexuality around? No. So everything after your first sentence is pointless. You’re just typing for typing sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:38 PM
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Count the amount of times you wrote “could” and “would”. You’re arguing through a false premise. Everything after your first sentence is pointless to this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:32 PM
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The vast majority of humans alive today definitely do, maybe not in the west, but in the rest of the world homosexuality is definitely not viewed as something positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 08:46 PM
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I could turn it around and say the same exact thing about high body-counts. “If you have a problem with me calling women whores then that just gives away your misogyny. Calling someone a whore is a compliment in my book”. Do you see how backwards that is? You can’t both insult someone and try to have the moral high ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 08:45 PM
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If you say something to another person, and you know that they take it as an insult, then your intention is to insult that person. What you subjectively view as an insult is at that point irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 08:33 PM
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1) What a way to derail the conversation. 2) There is nothing “objective” about sociology or psychology. It’s social science.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 08:20 PM
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What you think is rooted in nothing and completely irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 08:18 PM
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…According to you. You don’t have a say in what gets perceived as what.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 08:16 PM
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This comment is completely dismissing what a gay relationship is. Most men are straight. It’s not possible for most men to be in relationships with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 08:12 PM
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An insult doesn’t have to be “you’re a [insert slur]”. Insults are all about intention. The intention is not well-meant in my example.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 08:10 PM
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Vague nonsense. You didn’t address the point I made. You just typed whatever you wanted to type. Whether high n-count plays into patriarchy is irrelevant. If I first recognise that there is nothing wrong with having a high n-count, I can freely call women whores and low value. It’s the same exact logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 08:09 PM
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This is the plausible deniability that I’m talking about. I could turn it around and say the same thing about high n-count women. I don’t think there is anything wrong with women having sex with a lot of men, but I know insinuating to women that they have low value is something they’ll take as an insult. Now I can insult women freely and I can have the moral high ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 08:00 PM
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If you say something to someone that they take as an insult, and you know they would take it as an insult, then your intention was to insult said person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 07:52 PM
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The context I thought of it in was… Man: “Women should split 50/50 on a first date if they genuinely believe in egalitarianism”. Woman: “Maybe you should stop dating women and date other men. Hope this helps! ”. In this context it’s without a doubt an insult. They want to both insult men and be morally superior by pretending they haven’t insulted someone when they clearly have.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 07:46 PM
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There is no such thing as “human rights”. All rights are metaphysics. What should or shouldn’t be rights are personal opinions rooted in either moral philosophy or theology.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 05:05 PM

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/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 07:50 PM

1300 elo talking about intelligence🥸 I swear 1000-1500 are the most pretentious chess players.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 02:42 PM

What’s your elo? Chess has nothing to do with intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:07 AM

Who cares who you’d date. You’re a nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:05 AM

Having a “wife” is pointless. So is having a “husband”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 06:43 PM

Robert Pattison splits the bill on the first date. That’s my Batman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 06:17 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:52 PM
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No. Are you overweight?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:22 PM
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Are you obese?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 07:53 PM
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Its only ever “true love” when one person is significantly uglier than the other
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 07:51 PM
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That’s what I mean by legitimising homosexuality…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:11 PM

Okay? He was in his right to ask you something that was important to him, and you were in your right to stop talking to him. The two aren’t mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:10 PM
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All of those things could be done without marriage. I’m not against gay marriage. All I’m saying is that the fight for gays to be able to marry was a fight to legitimise homosexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:09 PM

Unacceptable to who? A persons sexual past is just information. If that information is fundamental to whether the man wants to enter the relationship it would be wise for him to obtain the information. Whether she wants to disclose it is her prerogative. The next question becomes why does she not want to disclose it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:53 PM
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To have this discussion its first important to clarify what a marriage is. A lot of people have a different opinion of the purpose of a marriage. I view a marriage as legal documentation for civil status. I don’t understand what the purpose of legally getting married is. I think the cons heavily outweighs the pros. That’s why I’m against marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:50 PM
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The reason they fought hard for the right to marry was to legitimise homosexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:47 PM

You can feel entitled to whatever you want. You can even demand whatever you want. That doesn’t mean the other person is obligated to fulfil that demand. Lying to your partner however, is in my opinion unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:36 PM

Chivalry is dead and women killed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:43 PM

Shaming tactics work. We need to shame women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:27 PM
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If a man is “low effort” for not paying, guess what a woman is for not paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:15 PM
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The only reason you want to continue these “social norms” is because they’re beneficial to your kind. I haven’t had one argument in this entire thread for why the social obligation should fall onto men. I hope those “shy and naive” men you talk about never fall under peer pressure. It’s completely nonsensical.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:12 PM
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Thank you for addressing my point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:12 PM
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50/50 is somehow more cheap than expecting 0/100.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:06 PM
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If two people go out to do an activity, they are both liable to pay for the activity. The only reason the man has to pay for the bill is because of his gender. The expectation is not rooted in a promise. It’s rooted in something that the man didn’t have control over — the gender he was born in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:05 PM
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Then my question is why does the duty of “being nice” fall on the man? Obviously I would like an experience for free instead of paying. That goes without a say for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:02 PM
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This is the point of my post. The problem is the assumption. In any other scenario the assumption is that the bill is getting split.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 04:59 PM
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But if a woman says no, don’t argue with her In the classical example of a dinner date where the bill comes after you’ve eaten and nothing about payment has been talked about prior: What is a woman gonna do if the man tells her that she has to pay? She doesn’t have a say. The man paying isn’t an obligation. It’s out of courtesy. In that example the bill is getting split whether the woman wants it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 04:58 PM
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Mostly in Europe. I have an inkling that the people who are telling me that the default is the man paying are from the US or other third world countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 04:37 PM
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It would be very pleasant if the men advocating for paying for the first date would admit this. “If we had to split the bill on the first date, I wouldn’t get any dates at all”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 04:36 PM
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This sounds incredibly tacky. If you match with someone on a dating app and plan a date at what point do you tell them “Hey, just so you know we are splitting the bill when we get there tihi”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 04:34 PM
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What made you come to that decision?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 04:24 PM
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If your friend asks you to go to the cinema do you expect your friend to foot the entire bill?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 04:01 PM
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I’m happy to hear that splitting is become more widespread
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:59 PM
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What if I said: “If you don’t want to split the bill tell the man you expect him to pay”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:58 PM

The status quo is that you split the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:39 PM
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First date I quite frankly do not care about the dynamics of your relationship with your girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:39 PM

I did make a point, but I guess you struggled to catch it. In your example (the quotation) the man deviates from the default by expressing that he will not pay, which means the default is that he has to pay. He is giving a notice. Why does the man have to give the notice that he doesn’t want to pay, instead of the woman giving the man the notice that she expects for him to pay. It’s a shame you didn’t understand my post. I’ve also reported your comment. Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:36 PM
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Well that’s obvious, but you aren’t paying for one ticket or one ice cream. You are paying for two. Why does the man have to foot the bill for another persons enjoyment? If I could get free ice cream or watch a movie for free I would prefer that to having to pay. Why does paying the bill fall onto the man?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:32 PM
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Why did you do it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:29 PM
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Why did the burden of paying have to fall on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:23 PM
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It’s not about the amount. It’s the principle. If you could get the exact same dating experience without footing the bill why wouldn’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:19 PM
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Do you want to pay for the first date? As in you want an ice cream or you want to go to the cinema? Most people don’t want one sided obligations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:14 PM

You literally do not have to pay on a first date. Why are you acting like this is something you are forced to do? Use your words before the date like an adult and say "I don't agree in women paying for dates and would like for you to pay the whole bill. Are you ok with that?" If he says no, great. You just filtered out a person whose values do not align with your own. Y'all spend so much time figuring out how to make yourself a victim that you fail to consider the myriad ways that you can take c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:11 PM
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Why does the burden of paying fall onto you and not her?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:05 PM
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I live in a country where the norm is splitting. You people are making it sound like if you said “We are splitting the bill” at the restaurant the woman would fight you. If the man says “I’m not paying”, then he isn’t paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:02 PM
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My perspective may be skewed. Where I live the default is absolutely going 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 02:58 PM
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It absolutely is a personal choice. What I’m talking about is the societal expectation — the default.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 02:57 PM
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These are all fancy terms pointing toward the same thing: dissociating from a relationship enough so that you don't get hurt by it. This is not profound thinking as much as it is something you simply need to grow up from. Why? You never explained why this is something you need to grow up from. There is nothing wrong with being risk aversive. This post refuses to recognise that you could be with a woman for 20 years and she could wake up and decide to leave the life you two built — without a reas…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:22 AM

Obviously I like looking at barely clothed women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:21 PM

Perverts convinced women to walk around in underwear. They called it a “bikini” and the common woman ate it up lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:29 PM
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Bald guys
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:54 AM
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If you enjoy doing something productive then you’re not disciplined. You just have a healthy hobby. I go to the gym 5x a week. I don’t view myself as disciplined because I enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 10:15 PM
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Should? It already is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:45 PM
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The thing is the man isn’t obligated to pay for the woman’s half. If you two are at the restaurant and the man says the bill is getting split, then the bill is getting split.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:10 PM

Economics is one of those subjects everyone has an opinion about, despite not knowing anything. If you’re in favour of a wealth tax you’re most likely not knowledgeable on economics, and that’s okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 05:34 PM
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An American not respecting other countries sovereignty. What a surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 08:00 PM
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<image> A lot of people who brand themselves as empathetic aren’t actually empathetic. They just can’t regulate their emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 07:58 PM

The person who made the comment knows that. They are trying to obfuscate the content of the topic and pull the rug from beneath your feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:21 PM

For starters they have two different names
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:56 PM

Soviet Union ≠ Russia.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:54 PM

Evil
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:54 PM

Soviet Union. Two different countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:52 PM

The US is what people think Russia is. Just a reminder: Russia has never dropped two nukes on a country back to back.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:33 PM

Ive just made an impulse purchase. I bought a Dyson air wrap.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:11 PM

The biggest war of the 20th century is the war of information. There is so much information and nobody knows what’s true. There is no validity. No one reads the sources. We are all just casually following the stream.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:38 PM

You’re upholding the patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:59 PM

You’re upholding the patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:59 PM

Ask them to teach you a thing or two so you can hold even more leverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:56 PM

Unless you cite the sources it’s pointless to mention that it’s “proven in studies”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 05:39 AM
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I agree. In a mutual relationship the powerful person sets the terms and conditions of the relationship and the lesser powerful person can either agree or leave the negotiation table. This is why these rules of “courting” are a red herring. Men don’t need to “court” women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 08:02 AM
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This might be the most egregious straw-man I’ve ever seen on this subreddit. Where did I say: Dinner = sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:54 AM
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How do you find out if someone is a good fit? by dating. If the obligation to court (initiate the dating, paying etc.) falls on men, then it’s by design a one sided obligation. What do women have to do to “court”?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:10 AM
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If I’m a woman with a high body-count and someone says “women with high body-counts are disgusting”, I’m gonna be offended. They resort to the tactics because the statement attacks them, so they feel a need to lash out. Some people shouldn’t be on debate forums. They are very confident berating random strangers on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:08 AM
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Go date Bonnie Blue then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:57 AM
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“Courting” is apparently a one sided obligation put purely on men because of the gender they were born with. So much for egalitarianism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:48 AM
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They are 1) straw-manning his argument 2) Making ad-hominem arguments 3) Arguing in bad faith The blue pill people on this subreddit never put forward any arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:46 AM

Where did I claim that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 05:19 PM
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No woman wants to be some old man’s caretaker when she’s only in her 40s It’s not “some old man”. It’s her partner. Whom I presume she has grown to deeply care for the 20 years prior to him needing care. Taking care of your loved ones is usually a moral obligation in relationships. Every obligation is burdensome, and who wants burdens? If the woman decides not to be with him because he has become too much of a burden — ie. the cons of the relationship outweighs the pros — she can leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 09:47 AM

Connotation ≠ meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 09:41 AM

There is something very fundamental that you’re not understanding: A relationship can both be interdependent and transactional at the same time. The transaction is the outcome of the relationship. The interdependence is the relationship itself. Did you even read my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 07:40 AM

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 06:25 AM

A relationship is by definition two or more parties interdependent on each other. If you weren’t dependent on the other person you wouldn’t enter the relationship. The expectations is what comes out of the relationship. Most people have an expectation that their partner is gonna be faithful. That means both people are obligated to be faithful. If there aren’t expectations and obligations, there simply isn’t a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 06:23 AM

Being faithful is — in most relationships — an obligation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 06:17 AM
-1

Whether you like fulfilling your obligations or not is irrelevant to my post. The purpose is to recognise that there are obligations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:18 PM
0

We are saying the exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:15 PM
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The problem is that the word transaction has a negative connotation, when used in a relationship context. Most relationships are both transactional and mutually benefitting. The moment someone doesn’t see the relationship as mutually benefitting, that’s when they break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 06:32 PM
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I fully understand what people mean when they say “transactional relationship”. When people describe a relationship as transactional, they mean something along the lines of two people not actually liking each other but getting something from each other (often money but not always). If they actually like each other then people wouldn't describe it as transactional, even if it would fit the dictionary definition, because it's not a specific kind of transaction they find undesirable. The people who…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 06:24 PM
-1

“Mutual enjoyment and contribution” is just as vague as “mutual sharing”. Could you give an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 06:15 PM
0

You’ve never heard of a gift? If I promise to give you a MacBook for free, I’m not expecting anything in return. You have a right to expect a MacBook and I’m obligated to give you a MacBook.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 06:13 PM
1

Could you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:41 PM
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The parent is obligated to take care of the kid. The kid has a right to expect that they are taken care of. It’s a one sided transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:41 PM
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Not just every heterosexual relationship — every relationship ever. Even friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:16 PM
2

Amen. First the word “patriarchy” needs to be defined, since the word is vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:42 AM

Its all moral Grand standing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 04:36 AM
-1

Fish don’t see the water
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:16 PM
-2

Reported for content less rhetoric
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:55 PM
-1

Sure, but a crime has not been committed. We are on the internet. You do know you’re on the internet right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:36 PM

I think you’re too dense to understand my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:28 PM
-6

If Bob gets accused of sexual assault, it’s very important to know if he violently raped Sarah while she was running around her lake Or if he took his pants off and flashed her. Both scenarios are sexual assault (and obviously unacceptable) but one is much worse than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:24 PM
-4

common sense Another vague word.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:20 PM
-4

Imagine you had to write an entire paragraph to define 1 word. If you can’t see how that makes the word vague, I don’t know what to tell you…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:18 PM
-4

Have you never read Karl Marx work?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:17 PM
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Which law? THERE IS NOT A UNIVERSAL JURISDICTION. Laws in the UK are different to the US, which are different to laws in Norway. I never intended for the word to mean in a legal context, but if you want to define the word legally, you also need to describe which jurisdiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:16 PM
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I know. That’s why I’m very confident in my assertion of what I’m writing. Words change definitions over time. The word itself is an umbrella term which is what — by design — makes it vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:11 PM
-4

Critiquing something does not mean I need to provide solutions. A lot of political theory is just a critique of other systems for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:09 PM
-4

When someone makes a statement I can’t infer what they mean by that statement. In the example from my post the word “confident” may appear significantly different in your mind compared to mine. It’s for the person that uses the word to add adjectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:04 PM
-2

Well what is it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:59 PM
-18

Not everyone on this subreddit is from burger land. Jurisdiction is not universal. Believe it or not, legal terms also change definitions. Sexual assault in 2026 is not the same as 1899.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:58 PM
0

Sure, but why would you spend time arguing with someone condescending?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:52 AM
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I don’t have a problem with people disagreeing. That’s why I made the post - to debate. I have a problem with condescending tone. You don’t really have a leg to stand on. Who wants to have a debate with condescending people?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:48 AM
-1

No I didn’t. Look at the first sentence under the title. It’s very evident you didn’t read my post…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:46 AM
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If you have actually read Hooks and disagree with OP, wouldn’t it be better to point out what it is that he wrote that is actually wrong? This comment is a worthless critique.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:42 AM
-1

Making a broad statement about a group of people is not the same as attacking an individual. Women ≠ you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:15 AM
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Her point can be good, but if the delivery is condescending why should I engage?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:30 AM
-3

Your criteria for what makes a man attractive is so vague it’s pointless to comment on. Women love using vague language.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:25 AM
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Sorry I used word you had to google.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:22 AM
-6

Your idea of having fun is being condescending to people online? That surely says a lot about your character. I hope the rest of your day is as lovely as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:49 PM
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Why did you respond so condescending? It completely removes my desire to engage with your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:40 PM
-1

So then why did you list red pill methodology as a strength. All methodology has strengths and weaknesses. There is no problem in recognising both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:36 PM
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The redpill has a lot of methodical short comings. I 100% recognise that. But that’s not the point of my post. I could make a separate post for that some other time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 07:33 PM
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I agree. A lot of people that follow the redpill do not understand why. Education is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 07:31 PM
-2

Is all of premise 3 my opinion? Looks and money is very observable. Status is however a lot more vague and is up for interpretation so I’ll only focus on looks and money. Money: Let’s say I have a negative balance of 500 dollars in my bank account. Would I be more or less attractive to a majority of women if I had +500,000 USD instead of 500 USD? Looks: Let’s say I’m a burn victim. Would I be more or less attractive to most women if I was a model?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 07:28 PM

I might as well make a post
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:31 PM

CMV: A significant amount of women do not understand deductive reasoning. They simply cannot grasp it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 07:25 AM

Just don’t bitch afterwards Everyone is in their right to bitch about whatever they want to bitch about.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:05 PM

CMV: Every person has a right to make up arbitrary rules (terms and conditions) for a relationship. This is something a lot of people on this subreddit struggle with understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:10 AM

“jokingly asked” There was a thread a couple of weeks ago where a woman asked about examples of men being asked to jump through hoops. This example would’ve fitted well in that thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 09:12 PM

There are really women out there who will go their whole life without dating 1 conventionally attractive man. It’s dark.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 09:11 PM

<image> 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:10 PM

No. That’s not what I’m saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:10 PM
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“All fruits have it easier than all vegetables” “Even potatoes?!?!” You people are so funny 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:48 PM
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It’s a refusal to recognise that men — generally — value and prioritise different traits compared to women. I care about a woman’s career and education, but it’s so far down the priority list that it’s borderline insignificant. To most men “career” is a “nice to have” and not a “need to have” trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:45 PM
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“Trans women”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:32 PM
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It must really suck growing up as a loser. Getting no play. Taking the red pill. Getting a girlfriend, and then getting cucked. I wonder what would go through your mind in such a scenario. Despair?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:19 PM
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You need a level of obedience for a long term relationship to work. I don’t have that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:16 PM
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<image> Everything is predetermined.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:14 PM
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Even having to ask this question is beyond fried. Two X chromosomes makes a woman. Being a woman is like being 6 feet tall. You’re either 6 feet tall or you’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 08:53 PM
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Wearing lip stick and a dress does not make you a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 06:26 PM
0

“Progressive” has a positive connotation. I refuse to use that word to describe my point from above.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 06:25 PM
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A lot of left wing people pretend like the “far left” doesn’t exist. If you genuinely believe people can transition their gender/sex you’re part of the far left. That’s my litmus test.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:22 PM
1

Leonardo DiCaprio is not “hot”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 08:21 AM
0

Sure I don’t disagree. This comment doesn’t have anything to do with my post though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:51 PM
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This comment has nothing to do with my post
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:37 PM
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It’s moral emotivism. It would be pleasant if people acknowledged that the disgust is not built on logic but rather emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:36 PM
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That depends on the output of the fully developed brain, compared to the not fully developed brain. Just because a brain is fully developed does not mean the person with the fully developed brain unlocks the ability to manipulate and create a significant power imbalance. Also what does the power imbalance actually look like in practice? What can someone with a fully developed brain do different to someone that doesn’t have a fully developed brain?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:11 PM
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That’s because females that are younger than 18 (in the US) are not deemed capable of consenting. That’s where the issue lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:08 PM
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What’s “good and healthy” is arbitrary and vague. You’re writing sentences, but you’re not conveying a message with your words.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:05 PM
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If we're going to reduce every topic to a battle of anecdotes rather than what generally tends to be true What tends to be true is that the vast majority of 19 year olds can consent to whether they want to be with an 80 year old or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:03 PM
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You’re presuming that a 19 year old doesn’t understand an 80 year old has lived a longer life than themself. If they choose to enter the relationship then so be it. What you think, and who you choose to be friends with is completely irrelevant to the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 07:36 PM
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You’re presuming that either party requires high amounts of “compatibility” when they enter a relationship. Why either party enters the relationship is completely irrelevant for you and I. What’s relevant is whether both parties can consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 07:23 PM

The people who say “the brain is first fully developed at 25”, got no clue what they are talking about. They don’t even know what “fully developed” means in a normal context.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 11:05 PM
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This is genuinely a laughable example of you trying to absolve yourself of breaking the rules. You replied to me after I replied to you, grouping me into “you weirdos”. This is like me replying to a woman who refuted my point and said “you bitches always assume shit”. This is genuinely shameful behaviour from a moderator. Shame on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 09:23 PM
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You’re a mod and you’re calling users “weirdos” on this subreddit. JFL, you should delete your comments since you’re violating the rule of “no name calling”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 09:17 PM
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I enjoy some gender roles Many such cases. You enjoy the gender roles that benefit you and you dislike the gender roles that harm you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 09:06 PM

A lot of the words women use on this subreddit is incredibly vague. It’s devoid from any substantial meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 09:13 PM

<image> This was how he had your girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:45 PM

Cups of the Rosé Bitches in my old phone I should call one and go home I've been in this club too long
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:45 PM
0

lol, if only the US could follow the monroe doctrine themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:06 PM
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You’re blinded by American imperialism. No one asked the US to do anything. On one hand the US puts economic sanctions on emerging economies and then on the other hand sends care packages through the UN. US foreign policy is not about aiding other countries, it’s about global expansion, and it has always been. You’ve just viewed it as something more noble because that’s what you’ve been taught by your elders. The only reason the US invaded Venezuela was for personal gain (ie. Oil). Nothing noble…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:04 PM
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I’ve been to the US and I’ve lived in Europe my whole life. If you think Europe is doomed I seriously wonder what’s happening to the US. The US is a third world country compared to where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 07:25 PM
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Me. No one has given the US that responsibility… I would like for you to explain why that responsibility falls on the hands of the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 07:23 PM
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It’s not the US responsibility to take out foreign dictators…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 07:21 PM
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This is called a justification. There is no reason one sovereign country should invade another. The US is a shithole. I hope Europe turns it back on them. They cannot be trusted anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 07:17 PM
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Trump invaded Venezuela. When Putin invades a country he is a villain. You can’t make this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 07:12 PM

New money > Old money A lot of people show disdain towards new money without really knowing why. It’s social engineering and you fell for it. A first generation millionaire is much more attractive than a beneficiary of old money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 09:53 PM

All of the topics that are had on here occur frequently on twitter/tiktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 09:52 PM

There is a girl on TikTok that posts videoes about her being attractive and she got shat on by other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 08:45 PM
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That is literally the definition of saying someone is undeserving of sacrifice. You are using the words “protection” and “sacrifice” as synonyms, which they are aren’t. To sacrifice something means giving it up. If her husband sacrifices his life he is giving it up for her. By her admission, his life is worth more than her life. Therefore it’s contradictory to expect him to give up his life so she can continue to live since his life is - by her admission - worth more.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 01:52 PM
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Why are you bringing children into the equation. That was not my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:24 AM
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I didn’t say she was undeserving of protection - you did. I said why should he lay down his life to save hers, if he is worth more than her, which is hers admission. A king is worth more than a pawn. It doesn’t make sense for a king to sacrifice itself to save the pawn. If you admit that there is a hierarchy and someone is above you in that hierarchy, then it doesn’t make sense for the lesser person to expect the superior person to sacrifice themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:23 AM
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I didn’t ask you whether “most people think about it”. This interaction is genuinely baffling. Why reply when you don’t want to answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:20 AM
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I don’t need to give you a case. You’re being disingenuous. You fully understand the question, but refuse to answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 10:30 PM
1

You didn’t answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 10:24 PM
1

My question was a yes or no answer. You may as well not have replied.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 10:15 PM
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Thank you for answering my question. With your logic (since you don’t believe you and your husband are equal); why should he lay down his life to protect a lesser being? You’ve already admitted that you two aren’t equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 10:13 PM
1

“And he would die for me” is that an expectation you have of him?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 10:10 PM
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If you can’t entertain a hypothetical question, you may as well not answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 10:07 PM
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Do you say that because you’re under the impression that you’re both mutually obligated to do it? What if you found out that he wouldn’t lay d his life to save yours? Would that change how you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:49 PM
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What makes you confident that he would?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:47 PM
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Is this reply insinuating that since you would lay down your life, you expect for your husband to lay down his life as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:44 PM
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I understand that. Do you however expect for your partner to lay down their life? It’s a yes or no question.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:43 PM
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I asked you whether you expect for your boyfriend to do it. Not whether you think it’s realistic. “Yes, I would expect my boyfriend to lay down his life to protect mine” “No, I would not expect my boyfriend to lay down his life to save mine”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:41 PM
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Thank you for the response😊
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:39 PM

The most important thing when looking for a partner is to date a partner that understands proportionality
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:14 PM

It’s such a big reason that it over shadows all the other reasons to the point it may as well be the only reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:24 PM

It’s the main reason
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:01 PM

It is
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:00 PM

“Not their cup of tea” is a (more) vague term of conveying exactly what I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:49 PM

1) that’s the vast minority 2) that’s their fault
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:48 PM

You can build those relationships if you leave your basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:20 PM

No I don’t fear dying alone. You can just go out alone. It’s genuinely not that hard to be social. You can go to the pub right now if you want to be social with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:44 PM

What more do you want to hear? The brootal thing about romantic rejection is that every person, whether consciously or subconsciously, agree with what I’m saying. The only reason you reject someone is because you think you can do better ie. They are beneath you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:42 PM

Also, every person I’ve ever rejected in my life has been because I thought they were beneath me. I know I could do better than them, and that’s why I rejected them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:02 PM

He is top 3 artists of the 2020s. 4L, Up to më, 2Alive - is the best 3-album-run since College dropout, late registration, graduation by Kanye.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:19 PM

This is like a homosexual man bragging about getting more sex than incels. Sure buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:37 PM

There used to be a time before HR…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 08:29 PM

“Let the workers unite”, “muh socialism” I don’t like my coworkers…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:24 PM
1

“Top 20%” lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 09:00 PM
1

Can you not read? This does not answer my question
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 08:07 PM
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Q4feminists: If you believe that “men” hold power in society, why would you expect for men to relinquish that power? I disagree with the premise entirely, but if we pretend I believed the premise; why would it ever be advantageous for men to relinquish the power they hold?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:19 PM

The return of investment is not worth it. You have to trust third party sources
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:42 AM

I have a confession: The only reason I believe the earth is round is because I’ve been told so. I can’t do the calculations to prove it and I’ve never been to space. It could genuinely be flat I would just never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:27 PM

Saw a tweet
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 04:14 PM

To son a man. Saying you smashed his girl first is like saying he got ugly shoes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 04:14 PM

Rebuttal Stating a fact in an argument doesn’t prove you’re hung up on someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 04:05 PM

“I hit her first” Is a very valid rebuttal. Don’t let them win.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 04:02 PM

<image> Read the post on my profile then this response. Brootal looks pill for women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 11:26 PM
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To your example: You can lie about your political beliefs to get into a girls pants. You cannot lie about how good looking your face is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:03 PM
1

A
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:01 PM
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Agree with every word.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:37 PM
2

Rehab room is a fucking ***** and a voice-cel. No one cares what he thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:14 PM
1

China and India don’t count. We live in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:13 PM
1

6’1 is not tall where I live (Scandinavia)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:03 PM
1

Everyone is shallow, the same way everyone is selfish. Some people they just like masking it to make themselves feel like they are morally superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:02 PM
1

7 inches is not a big dick. 7 inches combined with large girth is a big dick. But 7 inches with average girth is not big.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:00 PM
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I’ve realised some people would not be able to function if they faced the importance of looks head on. They need to justify to themselves that it’s not important, or else they’d realise they are the bottom of the hierarchy. What makes the looks pill so hard to swallow is that it’s inescapable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:00 PM
4

Exactly👍
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:55 PM
1

Agreed. They often time have a feature that is severely recessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:53 PM
2

Being taller is also “provoking a more exaggeratedly” masculine stature.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:53 PM
6

She won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:51 PM
1

I’m not well. I have a very important exam Wednesday and I’m rotting on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:06 PM
0

I’m the one lacking basic knowledge when you don’t understand tax laws are different depending on which country you live in? Oh boy…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:43 PM
0

What is taxed and how much of it is taxed depends on what country you live in…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 11:29 AM
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CMV: Politically it’s not… Left vs right or Rich vs poor It’s young vs old I’m gonna start a political party and push policies that are gonna be detrimental to old people and beneficial to young people. For starters; unless you’re paying tax you shouldn’t vote
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 10:41 AM
1

“Loyalty”, “maturity”, and “not being a baby” are vague terms that doesn’t actually mean anything. It’s just filler words.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:09 AM
0

I feel like people are on purpose missing my point and trying to strawman my position.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:05 AM
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I don’t think my point is shoddy, but I’ll let that point lie. You can’t take people who have the “top 1% commenters” tag serious. They just type to type. I rarely see any of them arguing in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:26 AM
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Thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:22 AM
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You earning more than your husband and having this opinion makes sense. I don’t mean any harm, but your situation is the one that would be viewed as the lower status situation in the hierarchy of women’s social status, since it’s expected for the man to pay. By your husband not being able to fit the gender expectation, it would viewed from the outside that you settled (traditionally speaking of course).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:20 AM
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A lot of markers of social status in relationships are built on gender traditions in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:15 AM
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I think it’s a marker of status between women. I have question though; why would you disapprove of a woman who let the man pay all of the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:14 AM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:10 AM
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It would also be incredibly tacky for a woman to tell another woman in real life that she is “less than” for contributing to bills. It’s my impression that women who do contribute however, gets a bit of shade in terms of the intersexual hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:10 AM
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I disagree. I definitely think the ideal for most women is chad thundercuck billionaire who spoils her. Funny reply though. Hopefully in the future that will be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:06 AM
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That might very well be true, but inversely if a woman admitted that she pays for everything, would that not be viewed as her being taken advantage of? I definitely think most women would view it as such. Especially with the gender expectation of “the man having to pay”. That’s why I think it would be viewed as a status symbol for other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:04 AM
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No. If a woman tells her female friends that she pays for everything in the relationship she will be viewed as “less than” by her female peers. That’s my entire point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:01 AM
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You’ve completely misunderstood my post. If you say that you pay for everything in your relationship to your female friends, that makes you seem “less than”, the girl who gets everything paid for by the man she is dating. It’s in terms of women’s hierarchy that women gets viewed as less than.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:00 AM
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I think most women think less of men that pay, but that’s a separate discussion. This post is about the intersexual hierarchy of women and how sought after they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 11:58 PM
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It’s implied. You never say these things out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 11:52 PM
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<image> Just saw a random TikTok of this girl knocking on a random guys door that she found cute in college to play jenga. I wonder how non red pillers will justify this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 11:14 PM

“Stacylite”😭😭😭 I genuinely wonder what shithole some of you people live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:53 AM

You’re genuinely a weirdo. Sexualising your own son….
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:50 AM

<image> This woman got an ancestry DNA kit on her 30th birthday. She took the kit and found out her “dad” isn’t her real dad. She confronted her mom and the mom confessed that she knew. A man spend 30 years of his life raising a child that wasn’t his. Guess what… She is now connecting with her “real” dad and kindling a bond. Genuinely so brootal. I honestly think the crime for paternity fraud should be way higher than sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:44 AM

They should be voting to make short (as a man) a legit disability. That way they can get welfare checks for their misfortune.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:38 PM

You sound like you’re in the gutter. Why are you getting your first adult wage in your 30s?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:35 PM

Instead of slowly -> try fastly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:32 PM

Don’t ever be the accountant
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:31 PM

You can do all of those things and also get pussy. Maybe in another life though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:29 PM

“Sympathy: Feelings of pity and sorrow for someone else's misfortune.” Short men don’t want sympathy. Sympathy does nothing. They want to change their situation for the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:26 PM

The patriarchy is beneficial to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 06:11 PM

I am pro patriarchy AMA
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 04:44 PM

Everyone is at some point a stranger…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:39 PM

Sure mr. Top 1% commenter. Genuinely; touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:34 PM

Getting your post deleted within a reason attached is surely something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:29 PM

He doesn’t care about any of the points you or I have made. He is trying to score cheap upvotes by mass-commenting on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:20 PM

I don’t. I just reminded the person above me that they don’t either. It’s kinda implied in the term “heterosexual” that those women are attracted to men and therefore desire romantic relationships with men…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:18 PM

I’m happy you’re categorising what behaviour is acceptable for men, depending on their attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:15 PM

Yes they do. You don’t speak for 4 billion women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:58 PM

I will tell you now dude, going up to a girl and confessing your feelings will never work. Whether it “works” is absolutely pointless. It’s about having the confidence to do it, and understanding there is nothing wrong with expressing romantic interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:56 PM

The premise of your question is wrong. The vast majority of heterosexual women want to be approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:49 PM

No what’s the point in that. Waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:48 PM

It’s not “people” that are misinterpreting my post. It’s top 1% commenters lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:47 PM

You’re the prime example of what I’m talking about. An actual male RN who is a rapist would act opposite to what you’re doing. Thanks for confirming my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:46 PM

Being up front and making your feelings be known to the one you’re interested in, instead of doing acts of services in the hopes the girl is gonna magically start you as a potential mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:45 PM

What a great way to misinterpret my point. Average top 1% commenter behaviour. Yapping for yappings sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:40 PM

Making yourself a playable character instead of a non-playable character.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:39 PM
4

But your gf smashing other men in front of you does something to your sexual arousal? You’re good at trolling man. You got me invested.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:05 PM
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and my girlfriend has sex with other men Either I’m being trolled or you’re the gift that keeps on giving
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:21 PM
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1) I’m incredibly happy Reddit added the feature. You’re chronically online. Go out and touch some grass. 2) Straw man. I didn’t say men with sex toys are gay. I said men who ram dildos up their ass are gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:43 PM
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I’m not having a mental crisis. Top 1% commentator.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:33 PM
1

Whatever you say
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:31 PM
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It’s not a moral failure to be gay or bisexual. I just don’t think a “straight” man purchases a dildo. A dildo is shaped like a male penis. Ramming a male penis adjacent object, up your ass is not heterosexual activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:05 PM
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You’re right about so much. For example you being straight…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 03:40 PM
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Before you ask I am straight I have a lot of sex toys: Dildos 😭😭😭🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 02:58 PM
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Cool. OP has slept with LGBTQ men. That’s important information.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 02:56 PM
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Is your circle apart of the LGBT
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 02:41 PM
-3

Is your husband bisexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 02:40 PM
-11

I didn’t ask for your opinion on sex toys. I asked whether you’ve been with men who own sex toys…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 02:40 PM
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I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:51 PM
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What is “it” exactly? My hypothesis is that women are bigger gooners than men -> hence why they buy sex toys more frequently than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:51 PM
1

I see
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:49 PM
-1

You’ve dated men that buy dildos (plural)? Are these men apart of the LGBTQ community?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:41 PM
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There is nothing to be “worried” about. Women are bigger gooners than men. That’s why they purchase sex toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:40 PM
-1

and if so which
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:33 PM
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Are the men you sleep with part of the LGBTQ community?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:29 PM
1

Men are not manipulating women to their liking. It’s bold of you to assume most men even have the capabilities/skillset to manipulate women at all. If we did, most of us wouldn’t be raving about sexlessness/male loneliness. Could you please tell me when do I unlock the skills to manipulate women? Young women are even more difficult to date for older guys compared to women who are in their mid to late 20s. The whole argument is a red herring
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 10:05 PM
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The whole point is that it’s not morally wrong. No one is ever explaining why it’s morally wrong. It’s just a flat statement
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:55 PM
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Yes. And so what? People are allowed to like what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 07:49 PM
-6

This argument is a logical fallacy. It’s called “whataboutism”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 03:52 PM
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Why is the discrepancy in “emotional maturity”, an eliminating factor when you’re considering potential partners? To a lot of men the emotional maturity is so far down the priority list, that if the woman you’re trying to date fits the criteria above, you aren’t worried about the emotional maturity gap if there happens to be a discrepancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 03:51 PM
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Women are not morally superior, because they value different traits differently. The presumption behind the age of consent is that humans at 18 can consent to romantic relationships. 24 year olds can also consent. Therefore there is nothing wrong with the two people dating each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 03:46 PM
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Could you clarify what you mean with “difference in maturity”? It doesn’t sound like you’re putting an argument forward for why it’s creepy. You’re just stating that it’s creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 03:34 PM
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especially the men Why do you judge especially the men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 03:30 PM

You could’ve just said you didn’t want a story time. No need for female ramblings.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 01:17 PM

I got pussy today. Who wants a story time?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 11:24 AM
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Your “clarification” was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:25 PM
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CMV: Men respect the idea of marriage more than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:05 PM
0

I’ve just been bed rotting all day. Woke up at 10. It’s 15:30 now, and I’m still doing fuck all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 02:25 PM

We live in a world ran by bankers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:20 PM

You get the ability to look into the future consistently. The catch is, however long you’re able to look into the future, the further you life span is gonna diminish. Example: If I can look 5 years into the future I will die 5 years earlier. If I can look 10 years into the future I will die 10 years earlier. What trade off would you take?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 04:58 PM
1

I introduce to you: Feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:42 PM
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Man hating women have the most one sided beef with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:16 PM

I was too quick to type. We mean the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:11 PM

My point is not everyone can be wealthy. It’s definitionally impossible. That means your advice is dog shit👍
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:09 PM

Smart and hard working are both relative terms. Ie. If you’re either smart or hard working that means you deviate from the median person. “Just be better than average broooo”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 09:34 PM

“The majority of Americans do have ships”. I’m not talking about Americans, I’m talking about Gen Z.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:53 PM

For most people the older they get, the more wealth they amass. If you own a house and you’re seeing your wealth increasing because the housing market is booming it would be best to want the least amount of houses built. Every person is self interested, and Gen Z self interest lies further with socialism than liberalism and conservatism.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:21 PM

“A rising tide lifts all ships” is only beneficial to the people who own ships or are on the ships. If you’re stuck in the ocean it doesn’t matter to you that the tides, and subsequently ships, are rising. Ie. The market growing is only beneficial if you have capital in the market. If you don’t have any capital in the market you couldn’t be any less bothered if it grows. It would actually be more beneficial for the market to crash so you could have an easier time staying a float instead of drown…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:11 PM

All ships being lifted doesn’t matter if you’re stuck in the ocean.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:02 PM

Gen Z being significantly more socialist than the previous generations makes a lot of sense. Gen Z doesn’t have any capital stake in the capital system, nor do Gen Z in the immediate future see a way to acquire capital stake. Turning against it therefore makes a lot of sense. The greatest quote I’ve heard today: It doesn’t make sense to be conservative, if you don’t have anything to conserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 06:58 PM
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There are people out there who think men hitting women is morally equally as bad as men hitting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 07:27 PM
2

How would you detect what’s AI? How do you prove a post is AI generated? A rule like that would give moderators more leeway, when it comes to banning posts they don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 06:47 PM
1

You don’t have 1 day where you can hit snooze and cuddle up, you have 2. They are called Saturday and Sunday fella.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:11 PM
2

“Stupid is when people have different opinions to me” That’s a viewpoint I call stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:28 PM
3

The hardest job in the world is being a woman. Imagine waking up and just being confused all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:26 PM
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1) This is not what the average 6 footer looks like 2) I don’t think her proportions look right. She looks like slender man. 3) An unattractive trait is something that makes someone more unattractive. If she was 5’7 she would look better, because her proportions would be more feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:10 PM
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No. I’ve actually read the article. It is in my opinion badly written. There isn’t coherence between the presented premises and the conclusions the author draws. Obviously, there’s no shame in falling in love. But there’s also no shame in trying and failing to find it—or not trying at all. This is a quote from the article. Claiming that “having a boyfriend is embarrassing” is a cope for women who are unable to find a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:56 PM
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If you aren’t being a jester as an unattractive man, you’re going to look stand-offish. Just be a jester.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:44 PM
2

Being 6 foot + as a woman is unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:43 PM
3

Left wing and right wing women need to have a civil war.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:41 PM

I disagree. A lot of women don’t view gay men as men. A lot of women view homosexuality as a flaw, the same way a lot of men view homosexuality as a flaw. Women need to stop doing moral grandstanding. It’s okay to have controversial opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 03:41 PM

The problem is the bisexual men being attracted to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 03:36 PM

I disagree. If a woman is attracted to men and she explicitly states she isn’t interested in bisexual men she is de facto discriminating based on sexuality. No one can enforce women to date bisexual men, but let’s call a spade a spade. It’s definitely homophobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 03:18 PM

Top 1% contributor
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 03:08 PM

I don’t think I can share a rebuttal to this comment without getting banned, since Reddit is incredibly left leaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 03:07 PM

CMV: Women are homophobic if they don’t want to date bisexual men. I am open as a straight man to dating bisexual women, therefore I’m morally superior to homophobic women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:45 PM

6’1 and ideal in the same sentence😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:17 PM

No they didn’t explain what I tried to convey. Most people are more idealistic when they’re young. They turn senile and pragmatic the older they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:59 PM

I think the reason a lot of young people get fucked over is because we care a lot more about ideology compared to the older generation. The older generation care a lot more about what’s benefitting directly towards them, whereas young people are a lot more naive. I go in for tax cuts to young people under 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:50 PM
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“(Not you btw)”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 05:49 PM
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She said “if you want them to like you”. I don’t think it’s unreasonable to interpret that as her assuming women don’t like me -> and therefore not giving me pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:46 PM
-1

Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:32 PM

😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:23 PM
1

I claimed the former not the latter. Stop putting words in my mouth that I did not say…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:20 PM
0

Men are more logical ≠ Men are logical
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:14 PM
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The whole “who pays for the first date” discussion is a great example.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:11 PM
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Whenever I leave the basement. It’s very much true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:10 PM
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I had sex yesterday. Stop assuming I don’t get pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:09 PM
1

Why if you’d be happier with the trade? Take the blue pill bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:08 PM
-1

The antonym to logic is not emotion. Every person shows emotions, we are not robots.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:07 PM
1

As I’ve stated, women do risk calculations sometimes. Other times they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:06 PM
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Very good rebuttal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:05 PM
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I think therefore I am. You’re right though. I don’t know what goes on in my own head, let alone other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:03 PM
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1) I didn’t say emotions aren’t involved in decisions. 2) More logical ≠ non emotional. I claimed the former, not the latter. 3) A google search is not research. It’s very silly to post a screenshot where you are refuting something I did not say
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:02 PM
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I’m currently around very bright people, and the ones getting the most pussy are not the brightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 06:56 PM
-1

Good thing the world isn’t so black and white. Women do calculate risk. So do men. There is just a difference in what they choose to calculate the risk of.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 06:54 PM
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One gender expects the other to pay for the first date. The other gender begs for 50/50. This is one of many examples, but it highlights the point of this post well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 06:52 PM
1

“So far” is a lot further than “nowhere”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 06:50 PM
1

Personal experiences. I’m around men and women every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 06:49 PM
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You stop doing risk calculations, and purely express opinions that will give you demands without obligations. Example: “Women should pay for the first date”. Then you find a reason later.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 06:47 PM

I wish I was gay. I can’t stand women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 09:17 PM

Women have collectively gaslit men into thinking pussy is worth more than penis. The penis is objectively better genitalia than the vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:58 PM

Take the tinfoil hat off
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 07:13 PM

What did those media sites say?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 06:47 PM

Do you think it’s a conspiracy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 06:41 PM

On the flip side. Who is risking life in prison for killing a political commentator. That’s the dumbest part about all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 06:31 PM

The way I feel like when I listen to prime yeat is probably the same way 30 year old women feel like listening to Taylor Swift. Perspective matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:33 PM

There is a very strong likelihood that the picture they’ll use for your funeral has already been taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 05:00 AM
1

Yup. A Golden retriever too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:10 AM
1

You didn’t understand what I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:05 PM
1

I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:04 PM
2

In adulthood I will either have a boss or have kids. I can’t have both.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:35 PM

Men need to learn the art of doubling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 08:14 PM

I don’t care to know. These parasocial relationships must come to an end
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:46 PM

That’s what I was saying if you read between the lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:45 PM

😭😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:11 PM

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/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:02 PM

Women get the majority of matches, therefore they do the majority of ghosting on dating apps. Problem is women don’t know they are the root cause of the culture they despise.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 03:50 PM

I remember I used to be so enthusiastic about online dating when I was 18/19. I would write long messages and my matches would hit me with a 1 liner. I was good looking enough to get matches, but I was in hindsight probably the ugliest guy in their match queue. Fast forward to today. I’ve become very jaded, and I give women the same shit 1 liners I used to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 03:21 PM

I would like to sincerely thank all of you for your contributions to the gender war. I have been thoroughly enjoying myself for years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 05:16 PM

You know the kids gon' act a fool When you stop the programs for after school And they DCFS, some of 'em dyslexic They favorite 50 Cent song "12 Questions"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 11:35 AM

I don’t understand your question. How can you use a service you aren’t paying for?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:54 PM

I don’t have a choice in whether I want to contribute, I have to contribute. That’s the entire point. You can choose whether you want to buy health insurance. I can’t choose whether I want to pay for healthcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:42 PM

Everything about the US is backwards. Unintelligent people. Unintelligent society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:40 PM

At least you have a choice whether you want to pay health insurance premiums. If people don’t pay taxes they get penalised.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:25 PM

Some more than others
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:18 PM

It became an important factor when I started taking life more serious
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:17 PM

High tax rates is so dystopian. There is a subreddit where people post their salaries in my country. An attorney posted theirs. Pre tax = 12.8K USD Post tax = 5.9K USD 54% is an absolute robbery. There is no incentive to be a high earner. Government is pocketing more than oneself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:01 PM

Women get up in age. They realise Chad isn’t going to commit. Etc. etc. This is the modern “love” story post the sexual revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:54 PM

I completely agree. Most people are ret*rded. Keyword being people. It’s gender neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:46 PM

Worst part about the gender war is gender solidarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:59 PM

100%. The opinions I have on here I would never say in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:59 PM

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/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:53 PM

0.99999999… till infinity = 1 It’s the exact same thing. 1/3 = 0.33333333333 2/3 = 0.6666666666 3/3 = 1
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:16 PM

Do you have 10 years of work experience, or do you have 1 year of work experience you’ve repeated for 10 years
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 04:41 PM

I went and clicked on a lot of the people who commented profile. It was either anime PFPs or fat people. Very telling
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:18 PM

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/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:13 PM

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/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:13 PM

Anyone that wants to guess what the comment section look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:03 PM

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/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:02 PM

Whether it “sits well” or not is irrelevant. The real “unfair” thing is forcibly taking what they have and giving it to other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 06:13 PM

“Unfair” doesn’t mean anything. It’s a nothing word. you have obligations and you have rights. No one is obligated to give their money, and no one has a right to other peoples money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:52 PM

I never said inheriting money showed personal merit. I said there are people who have a hard time of understanding others work harder than they do themselves. Whether most billionaires inherent their money or work for the money themselves, it’s clownish to think you’re owed any of that money in for example taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:49 PM

Being born into it doesn’t matter. If I became a billionaire in this life and decided to give every penny to my kids guess what… My kids aren’t obligated to pay it forward. Some people are just luckier than others. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:32 PM

Some people struggle a lot with recognising other people just work harder than them. I just saw that jubilee YouTube video of 20 regular people confronting 1 billionaire, and some of them genuinely expected him and other billionaires to catapult them out of their shit financial situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:17 PM

This idea that people’s freedom rights are absolute fortunately isn’t the case in my country. The regulation doesn’t stop news outlets from sharing news. It just delays the time of publishing till after the person has been found guilty, so the charged person doesn’t have their reputation tarnished. The detention itself has to be done according to due process.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:52 PM

Making it harder for people to find out, is better than nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:22 PM

I ask her if she is hungry, and if she likes lobster, then I take it from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 07:39 PM

No. Relationship is a mutual agreement between both people. If the other person doesn’t want a relationship, it will not happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 07:37 PM

As a men’s right activist, the easiest way to discourage false rape accusations is just a media blackout law. It’s already a thing in Scandinavian countries. If someone is charged with rape/murder or another heinous crime, you can’t write articles where you mention the person by name, and you can’t post pictures of the person/talk about the case until there has been a verdict where the charged person has been found guilty. The person charged won’t have their reputation ruined, until after they’v…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 07:36 PM

Funny. You’re even stranger “dude”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:11 PM

I could meet more interesting people, don’t know how many of them would be women though😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:51 PM

You’re just digging a deeper hole buddy. The biggest misogynist are really male feminists😭😭😭😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:50 PM

Every 60 seconds, a minute passes in Africa.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:17 PM

Every woman I meet, act like every woman I’ve met.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:03 PM

No that’s not what I said. Can you not read? It’s funny you consider the lazy genius archetype to be made only for men. My post wasn’t gender specific😂😂 You went so woke you became misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:00 PM

I am 99% sure I have less in the bank than the average person my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:53 PM

Controversial opinion: Romanticising the “lazy genius” is inherently feminine. The idea that some people just know it all without hard work is an inherently feminine idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:02 PM

The best analogy I have for tax is when a lot of people go out to eat dinner. The bill comes, and there are two ways to split it: 1) Each person pays for what they ate or 2) the whole bill gets divided by how many people are present. If you ate a large portion, obviously you want solution 2. If you didn’t eat a large portion, obviously you want solution 1. Make of this what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:49 PM

That’s not the case in Hinduism either. Karma refers to what you’ve done previously in the life or a past life catching up to you. It’s the ultimate just world fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 09:23 PM

Theism very much believes this. The whole premise of heaven is what you do good in this world will reward you in the next and when doomsday comes around.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:08 PM

Q4All: Is the “just world fallacy” a relic from the past related to religion?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 01:50 PM

I’m a man, and no I wouldn’t see her seriously, but I’d still hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 12:23 PM

I hate to be the person, but it depends a lot on where you are in the world. Also: Smelly is in a category of its own. I don’t think it’s comparable to being fat or slovenly. You can’t physically be around a person who smells.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 12:21 PM

Just had a thread removed for “overdone topics”. These mods just pull the rules out of their ass lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 08:48 PM
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I understand why men are bitter. If you genuinely want to see the problem in heterosexual dating we need to look at homosexual couples to see which one is the odd one out. Lesbian marriages have a higher divorce rate than gay (two men) marriages. Lesbians are less likely to be fulfilled in their relationship too. No shit women are the problem in heterosexual dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:56 PM
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Option 4 isn’t really an option. Two women cannot have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:51 PM
2

The buyer could get aids
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:50 PM
4

“I think the Sun is hot” “So you’re saying the moon is cold”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:46 PM
-1

I’m obviously talking about willing participants. Both parties aren’t forced or in vulnerable situations
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:46 PM
1

Thank you for answering my question. This post goes off of the premise we are in a first world country where it’s a choice. Unwilling prostitutes are victims
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:44 PM
-6

“Muh demand and supply brooo”. If no (willing) woman in the world wanted to sell sex, prostitution wouldn’t be a thing. In before female sex slaves/human trafficking - I’m only talking about willing prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:41 PM
-7

How can you buy something that’s not for sale!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:20 PM
2

You’re taking this subreddit too serious
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:19 PM

I realise I’ve gotten cucked by her dad, and now I’m going out to find another woman
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 07:23 AM
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Aaargh so I didn’t break a rule. Good to know mods just delete the posts they don’t like. What a laughable mod team JFL. Also I did post it as a debate and then the post got deleted because you can’t have a question as the title. You people don’t even know the rules of the subreddit you mod, you just make them as you go along.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 09:16 PM
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I don’t care to. I would just like to know which rule I broke?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:22 PM
3

When did mods start to delete posts without giving a reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 07:47 PM
1

Red-pill is the belief that looks, money, game, and status, run supreme. It’s not more or less.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 06:46 PM
5

Blue pillers stance is not really a coherent stance: It’s; “I’m in opposition, to what red pillers say, but I can’t propose an alternative solution”. It’s a critique without an alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 04:46 PM

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/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 11:47 AM

Imagine living in 1988. If she didn’t show on time, you would never be able to text her “when are you here”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:26 AM
1

What thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 09:32 PM
3

There are definitely certain groups of people that cannot function in a civilised society. If you haven’t lived around hard-poverty struck people you will never understand this. I’ve seen videos of people stepping on shoes, and subsequently getting a bullet in the face because of it. Discussions of morality and questions like what is right and wrong is only something civilised people can have. In the natural state, might is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 09:21 PM
1

How can you have a hard time with something if you aren’t even able to compete in it? It’s like saying X has a hard time swimming meanwhile X isn’t allowed into water. I also don’t believe in the premise of your point. You can only say average dudes have a hard time if average dudes apply themselves. The average dude doesn’t care about school, which is why they do badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:56 PM
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Historically the “average dude” wasn’t let into the building. I think firstly you have to explain what “historically” means. Are you talking about the last 200 years or even earlier than that? The vast majority of people couldn’t even read 250+ years ago, let alone study complex calculus. Secondly I want you to clarify what you mean by academia? There is a vast difference between studying physics and sociology. The “average dude” has a way higher likelihood of finishing the latter rather than th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:05 PM
2

Gen Z went from dressing like they’re in the early 2000s to mid 2000s to late 2000s, to now early 2010s. Fashion really is just rinse repeat
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 05:09 PM

Can someone explain to me why women hate Hailey bieber?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:44 PM

Bro I’m not just in law school, I’m legit top of my class. I just downloaded the chess app yesterday. I know the rules but 0 tactics. I just push the pieces around
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:13 PM

Real talk. I played a game and took a bishop then my queen got took right after😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:12 PM

What do I put into the search bar
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:12 PM

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:11 PM

How do I get better at chess. I’m 100 elo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:39 PM

Higher E lower T. I’m very risk searching. No way I’d be that without a dick
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:39 PM

MTN
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:38 PM

You wouldn’t have pretty privilege though…. You gotta be pretty for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:29 PM

I’m assuming I would be less daring than I am now as a man, and I’d be more neurotic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:28 PM

You got no realistic imagination
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:25 PM

If I was a woman: I would be overweight, study-cel, chronically online, man-hating, and I would be deeply insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:47 PM

The scariest investments are those marketed as “safe”. With digital currency you know what you’re gonna get.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:59 PM

Why is Denmark and Norway not marked?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:29 PM

Which investing advice was a meme before the current one? The current one: “brooo just invest into the SMP 500” We are in a passive bubble. I pray all of you morons money are gonna crash. Digital currency is the future
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:27 PM
1

Discussing Dating economics is the funniest part of PPD. It’s without a doubt my favourite part of this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:14 PM
1

1) She wasn’t attractive 2) I think she was on drugs 3) She was willing to have sex without a rubber 4) It took me a while to kick her out
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 04:05 PM
0

I’m dead serious I slept with a questionable woman without a condom and now I am scared of getting AIDS. This is why slaying is one huge cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 04:00 PM

Who is lily
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 06:24 PM

Some of the edits on TikTok are just otherworldly. It’s the best social media without a doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:08 PM
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No. Your point is, “there would be long wait time”. That’s not a problem with my proposal, that’s a problem with the bureaucracy. You’re doing circular reasoning, and you’re not addressing the point I made. You’re trying to find all kinds of straw man’s to dispute my point. I’m convinced you’re arguing in bad faith. My last question is, if you do believe that cheating is morally wrong, why should it not be punishable?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:20 PM
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That’s a bureaucratic issue. It’s circular argumentation. You’re not addressing my actual point, you’re addressing something surrounding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:10 PM
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Legal punishment by the state is enough for starters. Your love walking out of your life does not go on your criminal record buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:41 PM
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lol that’s rich. That isn’t punishment enough. They clearly didn’t love them if they cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:29 PM
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So? Either way you’re fucking someone over.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:03 PM
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Agreed, let’s just decriminalise rape then. We wouldn’t want the morality police coming after people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:47 PM
-5

Great logic. Let’s just decriminalise rape then. There might be men who will get wrongfully accused.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:46 PM
1

What did you notice?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:23 PM
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Divorce is not punishment. People should sit down with their lawyer to draw out the meaning of cheating. Legal step is not too far
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:12 PM
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You’re not presenting any argument. I’ve clearly stated why I think it should be illegal. Idk how I can spell it out so you understand. 1) We both agree cheating in a marriage is morally wrong. 2) I think everything that’s morally wrong should be illegal. What is it you don’t understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:10 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:55 PM
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Before breaching the contract maybe get the contract revised? They can change while the relationship is going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:54 PM
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I never said everything that’s illegal is morally wrong. I said I think cheating is morally wrong and therefore it should be illegal. It’s a personal opinion. If you don’t think cheating is morally wrong obviously you shouldn’t think it should be illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:53 PM
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As I’ve said in this thread, that depends on the vows and commitment between each person in each relationship. One of the reasons to outlaw something is to prevent someone from doing it. It’s the punishment. Just because something is costly, doesn’t mean it should be non-punishable. I don’t think it’s going overboard. No such thing as cheating by mistake. Did you slip on the vagina/dick? lol. The government should be involved to punish the individual breaching the contract. We cannot have a func…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:51 PM
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If they are willing to cheat, what makes you think they are willing to tell the truth about their past as cheaters??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:47 PM
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“A felony” is different from country to country. Where I’m from breaching a contract, if done intentionally can be a felony.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:46 PM
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I think all people who breach contracts should in some way be punished.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:43 PM
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There are a lot of reasons why murder is illegal, but it fundamentally comes down to the fact that majority of people think it’s morally wrong to murder someone else. I think cheating is morally wrong-> therefore I think it should be illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:42 PM
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To answer all of your questions. “Cheating” depends on the relationship. It should be specifically defined in the contract between the two people getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:40 PM
1

lol at the Alabama law. No I don’t think that wearing a fake moustache and making people laugh is morally wrong, and therefore I don’t think it should be illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:39 PM
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That depends on the relationship. Each relationship has a different dynamic. When you get married you should sit down with a lawyer and put it in writing. If one party breaches the contract, the other party can sue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:36 PM
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Exactly, and if the court tells me I’m right I will either get my money returned or they’ll have to send me the meat. Additionally I’m pretty sure this is a felony in the US so the prosecutor would get involved too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:35 PM
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You haven’t refuted any point I’ve made. You’ve just written sentences in English lol. I think cheating is morally wrong. Therefore it should be outlawed. Are you saying cheating isn’t morally wrong? In that case we don’t have anything to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:33 PM
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Neither is person A murdering person B. The state still punishes person A
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:31 PM
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I understand what you’re saying. Cheating depends on the relationship. There could be a standardised contract of what’s considered cheating, and then people could rewrite the definition of cheating in their own contract. Some people are polyamorous and other people are not. Cheating very much so depends on the relationship and that is also why the contract/vows are important.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:30 PM
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I’m not familiar with diet slavery
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:27 PM
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I didn’t write this in my original post but contracts are very free in terms of how you make them. The wedding vows should be the terms of the contract. I think all couples that get married should sit down with a lawyer (or maybe get a lawyer each) and thoroughly put the prompts of their relationship from mouth to in-writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:27 PM
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I don’t think cheating is illegal in the west. Also “How severe” is a separate discussion all entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:24 PM
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Interpersonal punishment is not what I’m talking about. State regulations is what I’m talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:23 PM
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Let me give you a thought experiment. Let’s say I’m a restaurant owner and you’re my supplier. We enter a contract where I bi-weekly send you money and you bi-weekly send me meat. The contract is that I give you 5K and you give me 50kg of minced meat. I sent you the 5K and you don’t sent the meat. Obviously I’m not sending you another 5K the following week, but you’re gonna get legally dealt with for scamming me. It’s the same thing with a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:21 PM
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I don’t know, that’s a separate discussion that could be had. First we decide if it should be outlawed or not, then we decide what the actual punishment should be. All I’m arguing is that it’s morally wrong and should therefore be a punishable offence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:17 PM
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No. Policy is definitely about enacting moral edicts. Even if it wasn’t, cheating on someone brings them harm, so by outlawing it, you minimise harm and you’re punishing morally wrong behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:16 PM
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That’s what I’m trying to find out. I’m arguing in good faith. I used to think cheating should be legal, until I stopped and thought about it. I think it’s very morally wrong, and it has severe consequences on a person. Therefore the person that cheat should get punished. Maybe that would help fix the divorce rate too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:14 PM
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The end of a marriage has financial consequences…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:12 PM
0

This is a flawed argument. Let’s just remove all laws then because the enforces of rules “are just as bad”. When you make claims such as, activity x should be illegal. You do it on the presumption that the legal system works.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:47 PM
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You got no clue what you’re talking about. It can be settled privately. Cops don’t patrol for people that do tax evasion either, but there are plenty of people being convicted for that. Think a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:46 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:27 PM
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Do you not understand how the legal system works? Cops don’t just walk around looking for people committing crimes. You press 911 and give the police station a tip, the cops investigate, they then send the work to the prosecutor, you go to court, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:27 PM
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De lege lata ≠ De lege ferenda. Whether it is illegal today is different from whether it should be illegal tomorrow. Free will doesn’t excuse anyone from fucking people over. When you enter a relationship and put obligations on another person and yourself, you have to uphold those obligations in good faith. By cheating you’re breaking the social contract and I believe you should be punished for that, especially when it has economic repercussions when you’re married.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:09 PM
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Agreed. In a lot of industries there are standard contracts. If the two parties don’t like the writing on the standard contracts, they can change the terms in writing. There could be standard vows (which there actually already are. For example in health and sickness), and if the people getting married don’t like the standard vows they can change them with their lawyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:30 PM
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All criminal laws are something we have collectively decided that society should punish. I think cheating is morally wrong, therefore I think you should get legally punished for cheating. I can’t really find a reason why someone would say “yes cheating is bad, but it shouldn’t be illegal”. If you think it’s bad, surely you would want that behaviour to be punishable and stamped out of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:26 PM
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I think it’s a great solution. It would make marriage a lot more reasonable. I’m thinking when you get married today you usually do vows. We could make those vows contractually binding. In the case someone breaches the contract and cheats they should be punished with prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:59 AM
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If the consensus is that cheating is immoral and evil, why shouldn’t it be illegal and punishable? You’re not putting an argument forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:55 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:54 AM
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Q4All: Should cheating be legally outlawed in the sense that you can get your freedom taken away?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:43 AM
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I remember years ago arguing with a guy that claimed that “Rape is a viable sexual strategy that has been restrained from men”. This comment reminded me of that stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:42 AM

A shame pussy don’t love you back
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 07:29 PM

Women are not gonna be your salvation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 07:16 PM
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There is a couple of different reasons: This is gonna sound harsh but I think a woman with kids is beneath me. I’m convinced I could do better, because I have done so previously. I believe the mother should prioritise her kids. I want the mother to prioritise her kid when the kid is also my own. I couldn’t stomach her prioritising another man’s seed over me. These are the two main reasons I wouldn’t date a single mom. All other reasons I can think of is a byproduct of the two reasons stated abov…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:19 PM

Did they teach you different tie knots? It’s a bit embarrassing but I first learned how to tie a tie in my early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:19 PM

My point is there isn’t a difference in the kids, there is a difference in who parents them IE. The same generation complaining are the same generation raising kids
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 11:17 AM

The only teaching I can vividly remember my mom giving me was how to tie my shoes. Everything else just came as I went along. Shoes though. There was a lot of crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:29 AM

The first set of millennials and gen x’ers have lost the plot. “Kids don’t play outside amymore”… And whose fault is that? Are kids biologically different today compared to 20-30 years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:10 AM

There are specific laws for that. A loitering law is so widely defined it gives the police too much of a say in harassing strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:56 PM

Just standing around being harassed by cops? I don’t know a single country besides the US where that is illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 08:12 PM

Most r*tarded American laws thread: I’ll start: Loitering- stand or wait around without apparent purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:47 PM

Make America great again 🇺🇸🇺🇸
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:52 PM

Because it’s the most heterogeneous market in the world. Who you spend your time with is very preference based. Most people don’t want to spend their time with people that don’t qualify.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:51 PM

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/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:50 PM

No. Fuck them k*ds.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:33 PM

I love honest women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:16 PM

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/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:15 PM

This is also an anonymous forum. Who is expressing their most unpopular opinions irl?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 07:31 AM

Usually markets correct themselves either organically or inorganically. A kid that has had it drilled to him from 16-25 that women are evil, will never get course-corrected after that. It’s a lost cause for this generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:24 PM

Affordable housing is a fugazi term. Housing is worth what the richest buyer is willing to pay. The only way to offset it is to flood the market and supply more than there is demand for. The current home owners don’t want this, because the value of their asset will depreciate drastically if supply is increased.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:46 PM

One may ponder. The biggest issue isn’t on the demand side it’s on the supply side. There isn’t a housing shortage in Arkansas, but there is one in Miami, Chicago, New York etc. There aren’t enough homes for the people who want to live there that’s why the housing market is the way it is… Then again all of the jobs are in the big cities so it’s really a catch 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:40 PM

In the UK housing prices are the same today compared to 2003 (if you adjust for inflation). If we take the UK as an example: The problem is the purchasing power of the average Brit has plummeted relative to the purchasing power of the average Brit in 2003.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:25 PM

Economic PPD > dating PPD Q4all: What’s in your opinion the biggest correlating factor to the average persons decrease in purchasing power compared to the prior generation?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:27 PM
1

I saw the first three post being of guys sub 5’4. I haven’t seen 2 guys below 5’4 the past 6 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 06:52 PM
1

Regular
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 06:50 PM
1

blue pill man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 06:48 PM
1

What race are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 06:47 PM
1

Is this common knowledge in the US? My mind is blown. When you say personal judgement does that mean they are allowed to stop a person who was clearly speeding and not give them a ticket?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 04:53 PM
0

I’ve been getting called a bootlicker all of today. I commented on a TikTok where a police officer confiscated weed from some sorority girls. They didn’t have their names taken down, they just had the weed confiscated. I commented “surely if the weed gets confiscated the cop should put their name in some registry/ give them a fine, and not just let them off with a confiscation”. All of the reply’s to my comment are either saying “you’re a bootlicker” or “brooo it’s just weed”. That wasn’t the po…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 04:38 PM

I’m in the gym peak hours and there is no ass to stare at. Just a bunch of fat faced gym cels💔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:38 PM

Never. I hope to grow old and get myself a golden retriever, a bichon frise and two cats
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:54 PM

23.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:53 PM

<image> I’ve never had an original experience
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:46 PM

Today is my birthday. Someone spending 30 seconds of their day to wish me “happy birthday” has for some reason always meant a lot to me, and I must admit I feel let down by certain friends. It’s almost like as soon as you don’t spend significant time with them - weekly, they forget about you. Oh well… womp womp.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:47 PM

If you have 5 tables who do you prioritise? The people you think are gonna pay you the highest amount?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:22 PM

I’m European. As retarded as I think the tipping culture is in the US, I tip the appropriate amount when I’m in the states. As a visitor it’s common courtesy to respect the culture of the country you’re visiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:19 PM

😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:26 AM

I’m a single issue voter, and my issue is women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:52 AM
0

Womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:29 PM
-3

Men are the predominate gender that do murder-suicide crashouts. I would consider that loving deeper
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:23 PM
-2

Men are the predominate gender that do murder-suicide crashouts. I would consider that loving deeper
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:23 PM
-2

Men are the predominate gender that do murder-suicide crashouts. I would consider that loving deeper
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:23 PM
0

60% between 25-54 is abhorrent numbers😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:22 PM
-2

Real I used to vote left wing. Then women showed their true colours. I can’t possible go any further right on the political spectrum now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:04 PM
0

That the opposition got smarter, or had more introspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:02 PM
5

Funny you type this out, there is a bunch of people up and down on this thread insinuating I get no pussy/am an incel/or a variation of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:57 PM
4

Then we would have nothing to post about
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:51 PM
0

No I’m not whining about women having standards, I couldn’t care less. I’m whining about being shamed for having standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:48 PM
-5

Exactly. The 6,6,6 standards was just an example. The point of this post is men would get dragged everywhere for stating an equivalent of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:42 PM
-45

Women with high body counts have damaged pair bonding ability. Divorce rates sky rocket when the woman have slept with more than 5 people. This has empirically been studied.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:39 PM

I still can’t get a socialists/critic of free markets to explain to me who is gonna do these bullshit jobs. I remember working fast food when I was younger. If I got nothing out of it why would I do it? Why would the truck driver working 3AM-1PM drive through the night to get the meat from the factory to the restaurant. Money is just an intermediate exchange of value. Why would anyone produce anything valuable if they got nothing out of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 05:56 PM

This “male loneliness epidemic” is a myth. If you got no friends, it’s because you aren’t pleasant to be around. It’s really a “I can’t get pussy epidemic”, and if that’s the case you aren’t dating young enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:25 PM

Nothing brings me more happiness than seeing recruiters, people in HR, hiring managers etc. have that “open for work” profile picture on LinkedIn. The irony kills me😆
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:18 PM

Just saw a payslip from a doctor that graduated from Cambridge. £1671 after tax. Living in London
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:57 PM
2

<image> There is a surprising amount of women with tattoos like this. LVW behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:28 AM

Im going out today. I may get locked up, or maybe not. Hopefully the cops won’t catch me🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:06 PM

Up your standards bro. She is chopped
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:04 PM

They got stricter post 2012-2014. From the 80s up until the financial crisis in 08, the government was very left leaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:23 PM

r/relationshipadvice is all I could think of <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:21 PM

Pink pill Your kind got no integrity /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 10:35 PM

Very common, do you feel inferior when you see a man significantly taller than you? For guys above average I’ve gathered this is a common experience. If you’re 6’4-6’5 and you meet a 7-footer, it’s very common for guys to feel inferior when they’re suddenly looking up to someone taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:23 PM

I’m 5’11. I rarely run into men that are 5’5 or shorter, but whenever I do I feel an incredible surge in power to be able to physically look down on another man. It eats me up inside that my friends who are 6’5+ view me the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:47 PM
7

In healthy relationships, people do things for each other without expecting anything in return. This is just not true. Everyone who believes relationships aren’t transactional has a misconstrued idea of what people like OP mean when they say it’s transactional. It’s not a momentary transaction where your partner does X and you are expected to do Y within a short time frame. The transactional relationship is built on credit. Once the credit runs out so does the relationship (and this is common se…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:43 PM

Trump in 2028 when he clutches a 1v3 vs. the EU, Russia, and China <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:57 PM

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/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:56 PM
2

All I’ll say is, I can’t remember when people cry. And I sure as shit can’t remember under which circumstances and how many times they’ve cried. It’s a little sus you remember that much about the crying situations that long after it happened, which means it affected your view of him somewhat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:47 PM
1

Men already compensate women. It’s called taxes. Look at net fiscal impact per capita and sort it by gender and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:57 AM

300
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 05:23 PM

It’s quite funny. 2 replies and 2 men above average. Women are gonna take a look and think the average guy is 6 feet +. Guys who are short are gonna see this question and just scroll by. I’m 180cm (5’11).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 05:21 PM
1

My portfolio is up 9%
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:21 PM
2

The post does make sense. Every rule we have is made up and built on morals that enough people share and agree with. The reason a lot of people agree that you shouldn’t lie to your partner is because it’s morally wrong to lie. There hasn’t been signed a contract that says you can’t lie, but it’s morally still wrong. The only reason you wouldn’t think it’s wrong to lie to a stranger is if you’re morally bankrupt. No contract has been signed, but when you walk in public you don’t believe strangers…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:16 PM
2

The intention behind why you try to do something. In a market we got laws preventing seller from scamming. In dating we don’t have laws preventing party A scamming party B
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:12 PM
1

In most jurisdictions, we’ve collectively agreed illegal, and those scammers get hefty fines and their freedom took from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:10 PM
3

Unless you’re morally bankrupt, you know that answer yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 02:45 PM
-1

Anything is any-encompassing under the sun. Literally means anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 02:16 PM
3

Morals are subjective. If we truly claim “nobody owes anyone anything”, then that phrase should be applied absolutely. Nobody owes anyone anything - not even the truth. If you disagree with that statement… well then you do believe people are owed something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 02:06 PM
1

This reminds me a lot about game theory - in particular the prisoners dilemma. If I go by what you’re saying, the social contract should be nobody owes anyone anything, and we should do as much as possible to teach everyone about the rules of the game. Inversely, I think that’s morally wrong because people do owe each other something. Since there aren’t rules that can be enforced, people are losing without even knowing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 01:59 PM
1

Why do you owe people respect or kindness and not intimacy? What’s the difference between the two?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 01:53 PM
-3

I don’t know and I think it’s irrelevant. We are currently discussing the claim “nobody owes anyone anything”. What I think people should or shouldn’t do, doesn’t matter. I don’t hold any power to enforce my views. What I can say for certain is however, we all believe that we are owed something from strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 01:34 PM
2

You clearly don’t understand my argument. You’re talking about how the world currently is when I’m talking about the idea behind “I don’t owe anyone anything”. You said the reason people owe you safety is because you pay taxes. If nobody doesn’t owe anyone anything, then I don’t owe my government taxes…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 01:29 PM
0

You’ve already drawn up lines and outlined the purpose of dating. What if someone doesn’t look at dating the same way? What if it’s about extracting as much money from the other person as possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 12:28 PM
1

A very smart economist won a noble prize because of it: Asymmetry of information being the biggest reason why it won’t work in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 12:25 PM
-1

I don’t think you’re understanding what I’m writing. I would illustrate it better with a question: What happens in a relationship of people are dishonest? I think people should be honest, but there are no repercussions if they aren’t. What people owe and don’t owe is something that’s been talked about. Honesty and trust is not one of those things, since it’s part of the decision basis. Nobody goes into a relationship with a person they don’t trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 12:23 PM
2

The “idealised” version you talk isn’t possible. It’s just as far fetched as the ideology in the opposite direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 12:12 PM
0

Sure, but what if an American citizen said “I don’t care about Ukrainians. I don’t want my taxpayer money going there”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:52 AM
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I’m not gonna make this into a central planning v. Free market debate, but what I will say is In the free market there are clear winners and losers - but at least the rules are defined. In dating no rules are defined. I want you to explain why not having defined rules is in anyway a good thing? Even in a free market you need rules to regulate the market such as anti trust laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:40 AM
0

Could you expand a bit more on what you think women owe men? This isn’t a men v. women post. As an example I think it’s morally wrong to sleep with x amount of women in rotation and lie to them (even though I’ve don’t it myself in the past). My problem with the phrase “nobody owes anyone anything”, is what the phrase promotes. It’s incredibly short-sighted. Even though it may technically be the truth, because I can’t get punished for it, I don’t think it’s something society should promote. I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:30 AM
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You’re not sounding shitty. I understand the social contract, but the social contract is codified in law. If I murder someone I submit my freedom. If I smash a woman and lead her on for a long period of time - then what? I think it’s morally wrong to do so, but if you believe in the statement “nobody owes anyone anything”, then I don’t owe anyone to act morally right. My problem is with the line of thinking - it promotes selfishness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:26 AM
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My issue is I believe that everyone owes everyone something, I just don’t know to what extent that something is, because the rules have not properly been defined. The line of thinking when someone says “I don’t owe anyone anything”, is complete selfishness. If we remove dating for just a second, the vast majority of people fundamentally believe that everyone has a right to live and we thereby punish people who try to take that right away for example. If nobody owed anyone anything in all aspects…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:19 AM
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Well my post didn’t have marriage in mind. I actually thought about random people meeting each other for a first date type of scenario, what this is a good point. For most people a date (or active dating) is supposed to lead to something long term. If that thing long term is “worthless” in practice, why act morally “righteous” in the short term?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:12 AM
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It’s factual to say, but is it something people should say? Which type of society or culture are we building where nobody owes anyone any form of moral decency? Inversely as well though, it sounds very entitled hearing people say “Person X owes me X”. The culture battle is really entitlement v. Selfishness
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:06 AM
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“Hurr Durr Alpha man is when the man pays 100%” Women trying to define masculinity is like a mechanic trying to describe neuroscience. The highest level of “alpha” a man can be is a PIMP. The pimp protect his girl who is out walking on the blade serving her pussy and paying the pimp. That’s alpha. Most men aren’t capable of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:48 AM

More likely ass than dick. Most men not player like that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:15 PM

Q4men: What’s the male equivalent of a female selling pussy? Something that’s widely morally frowned upon that a large portion of men would resort to in times of need?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:09 PM

All I’m hearing is “I don’t see it so it’s not real”. I’m more culturally exposed and social aware than you are, so it makes sense you don’t notice it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:49 PM

Women are horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:39 PM

Video is about asking boyfriend for money for nails <image> Meanwhile I’m told on ppd monkey branching isn’t real…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:30 PM

What if I marry a woman who wants a husband and kids, not a woman who wants to be a wife and a mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:46 PM

City’s backline is so technically incompetent. They aren’t underperforming, they’ve just become bad. The whole city team is so far away from Pep’s ideal that this season was always bound to happen. They’ve left technique and have traded it for p&p.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:38 PM
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I don’t like to brag, but I have zero problems with finding partners. I’ve explained this before but women have no problem approaching men, and depending on the circumstances women find themselves in they’re equally prone to approach at the same rate as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:44 PM
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I don’t care about what women want. I care about what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:32 PM
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Whether it “works” isn’t the question. If I’m applying to 1K companies I will most likely land a job quicker compared to if I just wait to get headhunted by a recruiter. Most men should ask themselves: “how do I get head hunted, instead of applying?”. You improve your skill set and invest in qualities that make you attractive to recruiters/women instead of playing the numbers game… But then again, life isn’t a meritocracy so take this advice with a grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 07:36 PM

Why are the pictures such high quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:20 PM

🤤🤤🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:00 PM

The highlight of my day as of late is going to the gym. I’m going in 2.5 hours. I can’t wait to make some badly raised women uncomfortable by starring at their asses while they do squats/bend over rows/ Romanian dead lifts - while I’m listening to drizzy’s new album 😍😍😍😍
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:56 PM

18
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:40 PM

Good. Most people who ‘do road’ are involved in person-endangering crimes. They need to be locked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:36 PM

This new drake album is such a vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:32 PM

The elder
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:33 PM

😂😂 if you think someone would off themself. I’m certainly not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:33 PM

“There was no line saying that only one of them could be saved” 🤓👆
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:08 PM

Society has invested more into the 22 year old that’s reaching prime age. The 7 year old gotta go.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:05 PM

I can’t describe in words how much I dislike your line of thinking. I’m genuinely wondering how people that think like you function in society. There is a clear hypothetical problem and then you try to change the rules as to not answer. What a useless, worthless reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:05 PM

Moral dilemma: The titanic is sinking, and there are two people who haven’t gotten on a life boat. One is a 22 year old university student and the other is a 7 year old. Who should get on the life boat. I would argue it’s the 22 year old. I wonder what you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:50 PM

It’s more like you’re optimistic that nothing will go wrong for you time wise. The pessimist would take the bus before the last because they believe something is gonna go wrong (cancellation of the last bus for example), whereas the optimist wouldn’t waste time and take the last because they are optimistic everything will go as planned
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:53 AM

A spelled out the whole definition and even gave an example. Then I deleted it all and posted this instead. What do you think it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:12 AM

I feel as though whether you’re a time optimist or time pessimist says a lot about your outlook on life. I’m a time optimist, make of that what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:56 AM

What grant laws their legitimacy is the monopoly on violence. In the west we have decided that the best way for laws to be made is if everyone votes democratically. By voting the majority wins, meaning the majority controls the monopoly on violence. Also as I understand it legit isn’t slang. I think it’s short for legitimate, but then again I’m not an English speaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:54 AM

In every western society there is a set of individuals that make up a collective. Each individual bow down to the government who have a monopoly on violence. That’s the first principle of any modern society. In a democracy we choose the rules and collectively vote. There cannot be law without a monopoly on violence. With that being said, “humans rights” is a set of laws/ideals/principles that we in the west believe in, but that doesn’t make it a legit thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:39 AM

Might is right. “Human rights” is in its essence ideal/wishful thinking. On a micro and macro scale whoever is mightier decide what is right. If group A want to enslave group B, they can do so if they are mightier. The world is currently constructed in a way so which the people who believe in those ideals (human rights) are mightier than the people who want to enslave.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:07 AM

I’m hung over so I feel like making a controversial post. I firmly believe, if you live in the west and is under the impression “human rights”, is in any way a legit term or a real thing you’ve been propagandised by your government.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:01 AM

It was because I moved to a new apartment and the setup was different. Either way the electricity bill is now paid. Also didn’t you go 2 weeks without electricity?🙂‍↔️🤔😆
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:22 PM

The bill —————————————————— How many people are attending
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:21 PM

They sure do correlate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:59 PM

Posting on PPD …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:50 PM

Cleaning and cooking is adult responsibilities. It’s way easier than working long hours doing coorperate blabber
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:50 PM

So the reward for doing A outweighs the reward for doing B? That sounds easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:49 PM

I do think women are dumb for joining the work force?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:47 PM

Men by and large don’t want casual sex for the orgasm. They could get that by masturbating at home. Men do it for the external validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:47 PM

Sarah wants to be a stay at home mom Sarah also claims being a stay at home mom is more difficult than being part of the workforce Why does Sarah proactively want to take on the more difficult role in the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:36 PM

The way I understand introversion and extroversion is as a question of whether your social battery gets drained in the company of others or not. Mine gets drained by others, and I recharge alone. So if introversion is a 1 and extroversion is a 10 I’m sub 5. I would say somewhere between 3.75-4.25 probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:06 PM

What’s the metric for the rating? Is it Gaussian distribution or percentile based I don’t think I have social anxiety I frequently raise my hand and ask the professor questions in a lecture hall of 400 people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:57 PM

The problem is people can’t build homes where they want. There are a lot of push back from government due to environment protection laws that state, people can’t cut down trees to build housing which is what’s stifling the supply
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:00 PM

Basic needs covered with what money? Do you think money grows on trees? You want to forcefully take from person A’s wealth and give it to person B because they can’t provide for themselves. I say let them starve.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:51 PM

That’s for the people in those specific countries to do. Your solution is idealistic at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:36 PM

Shelter is a basic human need It may be, but no adult naturally deserves a home over their head. If you can’t provide a home for yourself… womp womp Also if your workplace can’t pay you enough for you to live, why are you working there? Just work somewhere else
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:35 PM

Private property rights is written in most countries constitutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:32 PM

There is no point to my post, it’s open discussion. I would argue the problem with the housing market is directly caused by inefficient and incompetent governments who haven’t let the free market function the way it’s supposed to. My question would then be, why would anyone support an inefficient institution by giving them more money?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:31 PM

I disagree. Just because you have work doesn’t mean you should be able to live anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:23 PM

This sounds interesting I have never heard of this solution before. My biggest concern would be the renting market. People in their 20s mostly rent unless their parents fund their housing. If land ownership is taxed (the same way sales taxes on consumer products are) the working class/ people in their 20s, won’t be able to rent in big cities and the situation will be exactly as it is today. And if the home owners decide to sell because the property tax is too high, no one will be able to afford …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:21 PM

??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:15 PM

Increasing supply would be a very good idea, but the biggest problem is old homeowners. There is a whole generation of people whose retirement plan was buying a home -> watching it increase in value -> sell close to retirement age -> live happily ever after It’s political suicide to tell current homeowners their home will drop in value due to an increase in supply
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:15 PM

You can’t genuinely believe in centralised planning to be the way forward. Communism/Marxism does not work in micro settings and would therefore not work in macro settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:12 PM

People want to live in a big city when they can’t afford it. There are plenty of homes up for sale in Gary, Indiana
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:11 PM

Talking about pill economics > pill dating Topic of today is housing in the west. How do we fix the problems of the housing market (both rent and ownership)?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:58 PM

Slight annoyance followed by pity
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:50 PM

The last time I got banned may have been promoting violence against a group or something
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:37 PM

Obese people are beneath me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:36 PM

I find it so insulting tbh. I feel the same way when women who are obese like my profile on hinge. I think to myself there is no way I would want to be seen in public with you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:23 PM

Water is wet. This mod team is just as retarded as the rest of Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:21 PM

You had a 30 day sentence and completed your sentencing before getting unbanned
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:20 PM

They told me they would put it to a vote and then I didn’t get it overturned
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:15 PM

What did you write?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:15 PM

Interesting… you’re also a woman tho and most of the mods are femcels
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:14 PM

The famous “we will put it to a vote” with no transparency of the outcome of the vote if there actually was one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:13 PM

It’s a shame because every girl in my class is chopped💔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:12 PM

Q4all: Has anyone ever appealed a ban and had it overturned? The mods on this subreddit are spineless liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:11 PM

There are 2 boobs for 1 dick Food for thought
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:05 PM

I hope not she has a boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:57 PM

A girl in my class stopped me today as I struck up conversation with her and asked me what my type is unprompted. Then she asked me if she should set me up with someone. I wonder which one of my classmates fancy me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:54 PM

I do this during exam periods. I take my laptop and go coffee shop hopping
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:43 PM

After doing all of that he will be a 5/10 at best. A haircut is not gonna make his hairline go from Norwood 4 to Norwood 1 lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:41 PM

He is incredibly unattractive. I don’t know how men get to his age and don’t realise the importance of looking presentable - let alone attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:18 PM

Although I agree with your second paragraph, collapse is the result of problems occurring. First you have to identify a problem, then you have to find a viable solution. People don’t even agree on what the problems at hand are - and the severity of those problems - let alone the solutions to set unidentified problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:19 AM

1) she isn’t over it, and is salty Drake dropped her 2) her sister was killed in a gang shootout in 2003 by - yup you guessed it - crips in south central LA.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:14 AM

Do you mind linking it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:02 AM

I wonder how many times she fantasised about the fella while wanking. Another day, another woman being ChadStruck
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:00 AM

I reported this comment to the Reddit authorities 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:53 AM

There is nothing better than opening a new school book and it’s easy to read
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:17 AM

At least you’re somewhat self aware
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:12 AM

Collapse how? Economically? Birth rates? Societal collapse is not very specific at all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:11 AM

<image> This Facebook group is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:17 AM

There is a hole in the glass. Putting more water in a glass that’s already broken is not gonna fill it up, ie more taxes is not a solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:23 PM

The reason we have any significant inflation to begin with is because of government inefficiency. Government is too large and too ineffective. Inflation today, in the majority of western countries, is the result of government printing more money than they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:11 PM

<image> Any man who is pro large government (Ie. Tax increase) is a cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 01:58 PM

The idea of women > the reality of women 💔💔
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:41 AM

The woman is the manlets boyfriend for reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:07 PM

<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 06:20 PM

Reported for hate speech
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:54 PM

Thanks, I’m heading to the gym before for mi pump
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:53 PM

The Nazi tweets were crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:23 PM

I’m going clubbing tonight 🕺🍌
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:23 PM

“Akchually”🤓👆
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:10 PM

This is a peak example of womanology.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:52 PM

What did you expect her to look like, and what do you think she actually look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:51 PM

I fundamentally disagree with your argument. I don’t believe sex is a need. I firstly disagree with this point: [a need] is something necessary to satisfy a circumstance; or simply put, the conditions required to meet a goal. This means that every need is dependent on the goal in question, and it’s not inherently tied to a specific circumstance like physical survival or **obligatory human rights. “Human rights” is a morally absolute term, and it doesn’t have validity outside of the west. If you …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:33 AM

I’ll remember to put my seasoning in the fridge next time👍
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:47 PM

Sounds like I’m ripped
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:41 PM

I eat twice a day. - 8 eggs for breakfast Drink a protein shake throughout the day chicken breast boiled, with 200g of patatoes for dinner
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:23 PM

Fridge ≠ freezer. Yogurt, cheese, milk is not good for you. Lock in summer is 4 months away
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:21 PM

It’s the shell of the onion. I swear on your life there is only 2
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:04 PM

“This fridge is empty”🤓👆
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:04 PM

I finished my first semester with the highest grades possible and I got pussy by two different birds.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 08:39 PM

This is why I can’t see women who aren’t in shape more than twice. I just lose interest man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 08:38 PM

Chest, shoulder, triceps, ate clean, and shaved my face cause I’m gonna get some pussy in a couple of hours✨
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 08:35 PM

I liked the trend of people posting their hands. I’m gonna start a new trend. Post what you got in your fridge I got 2 onions. 30 eggs. A 6-pack of beer. A bit of candy. Butter. And 6 bottles of soda. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 08:33 PM

Maaan. I know what my next kitchen purchase is💔 radicalisation complete
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 06:16 PM

I’m being radicalised on TikTok. Last 5 days every cooking video I’ve seen has been with a stainless steel pan
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 04:47 PM

It wasn’t a tentative plan. Whether we are meeting at my place or olive garden doesn’t change that me and her have entered an agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:28 PM

I’m not going to reschedule. You don’t make plans with someone and change them on the day because you’re tired. I think it shows clear disrespect and disregard for my time, and I don’t appreciate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:12 PM

My focus is on school right now. I’m not paying women much attention, and dating apps are semi-easy if I just want to meet someone
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:10 PM

It’s more likely I’ll shit out 1kg of gold. I’ve shifted my focus to personal achievements.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:01 PM

The only time it’s worth the trouble is when there are no feelings. I’m not dating to find “the special one”. I’m dating to get pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:56 PM

What most people want doesn’t have anything to do with me. This is just my outlook on life. If you aren’t attached romantically - you hold leverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:49 PM

I have a funny story about my dating life I’d like to share to the ppd people. On Monday I went on a date with a girl I had matched with on hinge. We had sex. On Thursday I texted her and told her I wanna see her again, she asked when and I said I was free all weekend. She told me she wanted to see me Sunday. Fast forward to Saturday night (yesterday) she went out partying (which I could see from her IG story). I texted her Sunday morning and told her to “pull up 18:30” she told me “I want to re…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:36 PM

No he can’t. He isn’t proven anywhere and is utterly shit. He doesn’t have a first touch, can’t hold the ball. He loses 9/10 duels he goes into. My o my is he cheeks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:40 PM

If you’re having girl problems I feel bad for you son. I got 99 problems but a bitch ain’t one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:29 PM

I disagree. He is on par with weghorst.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:26 PM

Højlund is definitely the worst striker Man Utd have bought last 30 years
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:13 PM

Does me getting pregnant mean a man gotta nut in my ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:10 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:32 PM
2

At high body fat I’m invisible. At low body fat every woman wants me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:05 PM
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<image> This guy is 5’3. I genuinely can’t imagine waking up randomly looking like this someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:41 PM
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I can’t describe in words how intellectually dishonest it is to claim that looks don’t matter. Either you are so indescribably ugly that you just take whatever you can get or you’re trying to convince yourself more than anything. In the real world everyone I talk to understand looks matter a lot. People go to the gym, they try to dress nice, get haircuts, do their make-up etc. Most people do everything shy of surgeries and even then they’ve probably thought in passing about getting a nose job.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:37 PM
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Even if you duplicated the same man and only changed his height from 5’6 -> 6’2 more women would find him attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:24 PM

Cool. I wish I had asked you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 07:04 PM

Where you can bash women You can’t hold me accountable for something I haven’t done. You’re assuming I spent my free time critiquing random women’s appearance. I’m not a bully like you so this doesn’t apply to me. Do better in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 06:51 PM

You can’t hold others accountable for something you decide to do. You’re proactively saying “ew” and dissing some random guy who had his face posted here and for what? You’re just a bully
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 06:42 PM

I don’t know what you get out of critiquing someone’s looks. I hope you stop being a bully one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 06:35 PM

I’m sure he’d be on the brink of offing himself if you told him that attendquoi
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 06:28 PM

<image> This is what incels mean by Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 06:26 PM

I had sex today and got squirted on
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:41 PM
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Dead hangs, plate pinches, plate grabs, farmers walks with plates etc. there are a lot of ways. It’s just work outs focusing on grip strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:54 PM
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I hear so many people say “I can do 1-5 pull ups, and I just can’t get more than that” or a variation of that sentence. 95% of people got muscle imbalances. Most people who go to the gym regularly and have done so for a long period of time got strong enough back muscles to do several pull ups. The problem is their grip strength. The hands give out before the back ever gets tired. If you got a similar issue work on your grip strength. So your forearms and subsequently your hands give out around t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:23 PM
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No one will be alive to prove me wrong innit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 06:11 PM
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I’m referring to the fairy tale idea of unconditional love
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 06:08 PM
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Hasty generalisation fallacy. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 06:08 PM
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I don’t think the statement is false. Enlistment numbers are down in all of Europe, compared to 50-40-30 years ago. Your guess is just as bad as mine. The average man does not feel compelled to protect his country.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:23 PM
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Some guy replying to me above just told me it’s 88% that get drafted at 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:15 PM
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What a beautiful example on why what I wrote was right. It’s impossible to articulate a logical reason for why the individual should sacrifice their life for the collective. It is without a doubt brainwashing. Your shaming tactic doesn’t move me. I’ll proudly die a reasonable coward when it’s all said and done, and I’ll enjoy the riches the “brave” men left behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:13 PM
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I don’t blame the Ukrainian draft dodgers. As I’ve said up and down this thread I would do the same. The only reason people take part in society is self-interest. Without societies we’d be in the “state of nature” that Hobbes described. Taking part in war is the biggest net-negative decision you can make for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:08 PM
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It’s all about risk/reward. If someone robs my home I’m 100% shareholder of every valuable thing in my home. That’s not the case with my country. I’m fighting to protect the assets of mostly other people. My life is more valuable than that. Also, this example is kinda fugazi. We live in a civilised world. If I really got robbed I would press charges and my insurance company would pay for the things that were stolen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:02 PM
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I responded to your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:56 PM
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I can’t really speak on what other people would do all I can speak on is myself. About your last point; I don’t think it’s the “burden of responsibility”, that men feel, I think it’s millennial long brainwashing. I see it as nothing other than a marketing scam. It’s very clear that for a society it’s advantageous that there are people who believe that they need to sacrifice their life to protect that society. If you ask those people why they believe that, there cannot be an answer rooted in reas…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:51 PM
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The men are stepping up*. The women have abandoned their family and are sleeping with Russian and men of other nationalities throughout Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:46 PM
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Idk if a mod is gonna clean up this discussion, but I’d like to ask you why you think you’re supposed to do that? You’ve made a claim: “If your country gets invaded, you’re supposed to protect it”. I’m asking what’s your reasoning behind this claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:42 PM
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Well this is a hypothetical question. I’m from a Nato country so we are protected by the powers from above. Society is a bit complex and there are a lot of ways to push the fighting onto someone else. This isn’t really a PPD topic, but all I’ll say is, I am never dying for the better of the collective. Forget that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:39 PM
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Likewise👍
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:22 PM
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I disagree. I don’t think young adults are risking their life anywhere in the west for their country. The phrase “Id serve crack before I serve my country”, has won a lot of support over the past decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:22 PM
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No I have not misunderstood romanticism. You inferred that I thought it was about romantic relationships. That’s on you misunderstanding my post. The literary time period was characterized by its emphasis on emotion and individualism as well as the glorification of the past and nature. Europeans were looking inwards to see the beauty in their country. It displayed itself in nationalism and patriotism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:19 PM
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People also longed to go to war. Then people got smarter. Even today in a lot of different cultures things like honour killings are still very common, and glorified. I think this feeling will disappear 150 years from now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:15 PM
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A recent trend shows less people are getting into relationships. It’s very clear more young people are becoming disillusioned with the idea of relationships and love, because the reality is different to what they were told it was in popular literature. I think the trend will follow. Less people are enlisting in the army in the west, and less people are gonna try to be in relationships 150 years from now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 01:43 PM
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I don’t think he is that heavy. It’s good lighting and a pump. He looks about 180lbs lean. Maybe even less
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 07:58 PM
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🤔🤔🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 07:31 PM
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His proportions seem about 5’11 - 6’1. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:43 PM
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So he is uglier than the average person walking on the street?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:38 PM
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I remember, there was one time I was sleeping with this girl. Her roommate had a boyfriend and the two of them (roommate and her boyfriend) were looksmatched. The girl I was sleeping with just casually said to me on a date “I want the best for my friend [the roommate], and I think she could do way better. I don’t think her boyfriend is attractive”. You’re not just competing with other guys for her. The woman you’re with - even though she likes you - may get dissuaded because her friends think yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:56 PM
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Upper eyelid exposure in big 2025. Give it a rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:28 PM
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If he can pull like an 8.5-9 don’t you think you underrated him with a 7.5?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:17 PM
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So this face is within 2sd? Ie. Barely above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:00 PM
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What an irrelevant thing to write
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 02:58 PM
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If we assume looks are normally distributed, as in the median and mean are perfectly aligned at a rating of 5.5/10. What do you rate the following face? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:35 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:25 PM
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Please don’t respond man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:16 PM
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Isn’t this dependent on whether you’re a top or bottom?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:11 PM
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Everything regarding what? I don’t think if your sole purpose is slaying women maxing out looks is gonna do you any better than maxing out money. I think it’s more of a case of what you want to be wanted for. I would personally rather a woman tell me she is attracted to my physical attributes compared to my materialistic attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:09 PM
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That’s that persons opinion on twitter. There isn’t an objective number it’s all down to preference and what men can stomach. I personally think the fewer the better. Ideally I would like to be with a virgin, but life isn’t ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:45 PM
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Well there is. If you marry a kissless, hugless, handholdingless virgin it can’t get anymore pure than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:55 PM
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My stance on body count is the less she has been with, the better. I could stomach a couple of partners but that’s also about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:49 PM
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Yes I do believe that. My opinion however shouldn’t discourage your “lifestyle” if that’s what makes you two happy. I consider your husband and men like him for losers, and that’s my prerogative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:22 PM
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Your husband is a cuckold and that’s fine. What I was referring to in my original post was how normal men think, not cuckolds.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 01:43 PM
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Are you still together?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 12:05 PM

I’m a person before I am a man. All 2025 till infinity
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:54 PM
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Irrespective of how many men a woman has been with, I’ve never heard a man say; “damn I wish she had been with more guys than she actually has”. It’s a case of the fewer the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:52 PM
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The 1 thing I would improve if I could look wise is height. I’m average height in my country. I seriously wonder what going out would be like just for 1 weekend at 6’5. I don’t have a problem with dating but I would just like to see the difference for one weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 07:43 PM

But- but- humanitarianism
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:12 PM

Tbh it’s not gonna work long term. Especially because this proposed idea would make the % of women larger and as a result the % of retardation in voting would increase. Long term it’s a horrible idea
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:40 PM

Loneliness is a first world problem. Most third worlders are struggling to put food on their plate. Take a look at Maslows pyramid of need. Ngl I was joking in the beginning but the more I’m typing this out, the more it’s making sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:36 PM

Depending on the support for this bill, I think we should only take 6+/10 women. Also only selective countries, not world wide (I will not elaborate).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:33 PM

I have an incredible idea to satisfy both the left and right on the immigration issue: Only let women cross the borders. Women don’t commit crime to the same extent men do. Women are economically viable, the same way men are, as in they can take part in the workforce. A lot of men are lonely (the whole male loneliness epidemic that Reddit talks about). Society will only improve. It’s a win/win for both the left and the right. It’s like a club. Why would you let both men and women in for free? Ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:27 PM

You got caught doing a logical fallacy🫵😂 I’m telling you it’s not the same. One is speculative the other is factually wrong. “women are hypergamous whores jumping dick from dick and taking money from their sugar babies” is equal to “Most men are predators who want to date as young as the law allows”. Those two would be equal, not saying men of today have oppressed women for centuries. That’s factually impossible.,
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:02 PM

Stopped reading at “what about”. Have you ever heard of the logical fallacy called whataboutism?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:53 PM

Emotional argument. Next!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:37 PM

They are not the same. One is factually wrong the other is speculative.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:12 PM

I’ve lost count. Every time I log onto PPD I get scared shitless💔
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:32 PM

Yup the granddaughter should love her grandpa. Also how are women being treated today exactly? Men are 39483839x more likely to get murdered
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:20 PM

If you aren’t Asian I owe you a kiss on your forehead
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:08 PM

💯💯 I’ve probably had an ancestor that got eaten by a lion. That doesn’t mean I hate lions…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:07 PM

“Generational context” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:00 PM

Women on the internet: “You’ve oppressed women for all of human history. You’ve raped, pillaged, murdered”. Me who’ve been on earth 22 years: 😮
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:46 PM

My Christmas present to you: Nobody owes you anything
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:14 PM

<image> This meme has to be top 20 all time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:58 PM

The guy below
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:55 PM

<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:44 PM

Q4blackpillers: Is he HTN? He posted this on TikTok <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:44 PM

‘The value of a woman’.😂😂😂 It’s always these grand concepts portraying women as wonderful otherworldly beings with some undefinable traits that men can’t grasp nor comprehend. Women shit, and the shit stinks just as bad as men’s. Women want an asymmetrical relationship where the man puts in more effort than she does, so she can have her ego stroked. It’s really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:40 PM

I don’t care what you can or cannot do financially Jake0024. This is a general post about average people who are financially in the same boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:28 PM

You’re arguing against a point I didn’t make. Sometimes I wonder if people on PPD passed the 5th grade. Women are allowed to do what they want. There is no regulation against it. I’m commenting, and inferring, that what women want is an asymmetrical relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:26 PM

I agree; therefore, men should pay fifty percent of the cost of their date’s clothing and accessories, make-up, hair styling, beauty regime, and all other incidentals required for her to appear and perform the feminine routines that matter so damn much to men in dating. I thought women wore makeup to feel pretty for themselves. I guess you learn something new everyday. And quite frankly for 99,9% of all men would never get the opportunity to even be in the company of women without the incentive …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:24 PM

You admit that the relationship is asymmetrical and that the man, in this example you, offers more than to the woman financially. That’s your prerogative and you’re free to live your life that way, if you decide to do so. I’m saying that from a woman to expect a stranger to view the world the way you do, and therefore expect the man to pay on the first date is purely to establish dominance. The average woman makes the same amount as the average man. To expect one average income person to bill an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:06 PM

I’m purely talking about a first date. The rules in a relationship are different from the rules when you don’t know the person. It’s nonsensical to expect a stranger to pay for your meal for a first date, and that’s what a lot of women do: They expect it. I’m not commenting on whether they’re within their right to expect that, I’m commenting that doing so is purely to establish an asymmetrical relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:45 PM

I remember that man on TikTok that got asked this question by the waiter and asked his date “am I getting pussy tonight” before answering the waiter
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:39 AM

What I’m talking about is the beginning phases, which you don’t seem to understand. When strangers or associates meet-up for a first date the man is expected to pay. This expectation and desire is to force an asymmetrical relationship. What two people do in a committed relationship I don’t care about. I’m talking about the dating norms that women uphold, that benefit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:05 AM

Clearly I don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 10:27 PM

Guess I’m the exception to the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 10:24 PM

I don’t consider myself ‘red pilled’
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 10:08 PM

I don’t plan on getting married
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 10:07 PM

allows you to pay for the first date Mate, you’ve been absolutely brainwashed😂 A woman is well within her right to watch you pay for the first date and never even reply when you ask her out again. It doesn’t show anything, especially not that she is ‘submissive’
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 09:20 PM

It’s clearly not seen as a treat when a lot of women expect it. An expectation is a requirement. In what symmetrical relationship does one part have a bigger burden than the other? This part of my post is the most important When women say “you asked her out so you pay” they are inferring that the relationship between the two is asymmetrical. The idea is “you [the male] want me [the female] more than I want you, therefore you pay”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 09:07 PM
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The act of paying for company sounds, in my opinion, no different to paying a prostitute. The only difference is pussy isn’t guaranteed so it’s an even worse investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 08:00 PM
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Courtship is biological for men who hold no leverage* Lmaoo why pay for something you can get for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:23 PM
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Do you know what an asymmetrical relationship is? If it doesn’t matter why is it a requirement for you? Why can’t you take on the burden of paying for the first date and him just “show up to the date, engage in flirty conversation, and have a good time”…?🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:18 PM
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Idk why you’re telling me that. I’m clearly not one of those men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:13 PM
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That’s fair, we are too different as people to see eye to eye. Merry Christmas innit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:12 PM
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I only dated men who paid for the first dates. That’s because you want an asymmetrical relationship benefitting you. It set up a foundation of respect where we both put in effort to treat the other well. What did you do to treat him well in return for him paying for the first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:10 PM
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What I’m saying is why YOU, yes you, think that the women you want treat every single guy the same way. I know women who appear ‘high maintenance’ and most of them have rebranded as people. They make certain rules and requirements for X, and break those same rules when Y comes knocking. Would it bother you, if you found out the woman who you thought had this ‘high maintenance’ standard only had it for you? As in if you didn’t take her out and pay, she wouldn’t hang out with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:06 PM

Benchod… JK Only insult I know in Hindi Bhai.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 04:02 PM

Which country?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:59 PM
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Why do you think the women you’re attracted to expect from all of their partners that they pay?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:53 PM

You’re overthinking it. I think your problem is at the fundamental level. I may be wrong but you don’t really strike me as risk-taking. Do you have any specific goals that you want to achieve?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:28 PM
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I’m not just splitting the bill, I’m taking them to the cheapest bar I can find for the first date. It has nothing to do with the woman, it has everything to do with the man’s character. Tbh I’d find it even more strange if the man treated women differently in terms of their looks level.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:26 PM
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I said other cultures. I didn’t mean other places in north-western Europe. Men expected to pay is more normal in America for example, which is where a lot of people who post are from.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:20 PM

How old are you? Why can’t you date younger women then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:18 PM

I’m going to an exam on Jan. 2nd. Re-read 2 chapters of my text book earlier, I’m watching united v Bournemouth now, and I’m going home to my friend and making music later. If I could give you a piece of advice just do what makes you happy. I used to go out alone to cheap pubs on Mondays and wendsdays and talk to drunk women and sometimes fornicate. Confidence is built on repetitive success. The small W’s snowball into big W’s and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:12 PM
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That last sentence is so unwarranted. Obviously I don’t lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:03 PM
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Could you elaborate on the last paragraph?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:00 PM
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That’s why I said it’s a bad idea if you’re looking for a symmetrical relationship. This doesn’t apply to you. You’re looking for an asymmetrical relationship where the man desire you more than you desire him, which is why you expect for him to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:46 PM
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You misunderstood what I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:39 PM
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I don’t think you can make it any clearer that you want a 50/50 split relationship than doing exactly that on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:38 PM
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I agree again. Life is not a video game.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:59 PM
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I agree. The target audience for this post was women who disagree and expect for men to pay. All relationships are about leverage. That’s why you should only pick women who pick you as a man, and if you don’t like your options… elevate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:51 PM
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