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I'm balding with oily skin but I'm in decent shape thanks to my time in the army; which instilled a sense of physical discipline in me. I try to do 100 pushups and 100 crunches every day but I'm not built by any means. I'm A 6'1 White Hispanic but my receding hairline and terrible game absolutely kills my chances with women every time.
/r/seduction02/07/26 07:00 AM
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I feel you brother. Have you at least been intimate with a woman before? Chances of finding a decent wife in 2026 may be chopped but it cant be so bad if you've at least experienced that before?
/r/seduction02/07/26 06:52 AM
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You're missing vital context to that fact. That was true in pre-civilization not civilized times. The egregious sexual competition of today has never been seen before in all of civilized history
/r/seduction02/07/26 06:47 AM
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Great advice man and thanks for the sympathy. I have to just hangout in places where young women go and ever so slowly get used to them. Despite all the overwhelming negative experiences and lack of charisma on my part. It's all so unfair. I didn't ask to be born during the most sexually competitive time in human history. I just want to know love man.
/r/seduction02/07/26 06:44 AM
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Every virgin guy who wants to get with a woman but can't is an incel by definition btw. Nice to see at least one of the successful guys on this sub has the balls to say how they really feel about the droves of desperate men that come to this sub every day!
/r/seduction02/07/26 06:36 AM
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Same honestly. Does t change the fact that the game is beyond rigged and unfair at this point.
/r/seduction02/07/26 02:00 AM
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I would have no issue pulling if I was around in my father's time just 30 years ago. But fast forward to 2026 with peak hoeflation and zero accountability for women and suddenly I'm the problem,I'm the "variable" They're quite literally legions of men just like me. We can't all be at fault. That's a statistically impossibility.
/r/seduction02/07/26 01:35 AM
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That would require actually attracting a girl first which I so far have been incapable of.
/r/seduction02/07/26 01:29 AM
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And here we are just feeding into it on this sub.
/r/seduction02/07/26 01:13 AM
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I appreciate the honesty and I see your point but fuck it's the most bitter pill to swallow. The juice ain't worth squeeze anymore but that doesn't stop biology from wanting that juice. I've been thinking of hanging out at bars after work just at the off chance there's an opportunity to approach. I have no game,no dates,no kisses,no romantic experience with women whatsoever. Every attempt at an intimate connection with a women on my part has always ended in failure. I'm either rejected outright …
/r/seduction02/07/26 01:05 AM
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Problem is most guys aren't 6'0 and what girl's consider the bare minimum for attractiveness today;Was considered model tier just 20 years ago. So apps are quite literally a complete waste of time for most guys
/r/seduction02/07/26 12:32 AM
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Welcome to dating as a young man in 2020s America.lovelessness amongst Zoomer men is at catastrophic levels. Almost half of all young men have never even approached a women irl. Over 63% of them are single. But God forbid you dare to address the root issues of this reality. You rightfully go after dating apps and watch how swarms of NPCs of swoop in to defend them. Try and call out modern women's shitty dating habits and you basically get crucified. The burden is entirely on young men. This subr…
/r/seduction17/06/26 01:08 AM
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He hasn't answered your comment because the very thought of that scares him. The hordes of sexless Gen z men should really give themselves a pat on the back for the sheer amount of existential suffering they endure on a daily basis.
/r/seduction09/06/26 01:39 AM
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I get what your putting down man but this how I honestly feel. It would be easier for me to charge into battle then to game a girl with confidence.
/r/seduction08/06/26 08:34 PM
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Thank you for your brutal honesty. I've known this to be the case for a while now but I still can't help but try. It's biology after all for a young man to desire a woman. Are you telling me to not pursue this girl at work or to stop pursuing women all together?
/r/seduction03/06/26 02:38 AM
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I say or do the wrong thing all the time with women I am attracted too. I have never even been on a date let alone kissed a girl. I got fumble after fumble,rejection after rejection,missed opportunity after missed opportunity to my name. So yeah I'm a hard case when it comes to matters of romance. I circled around the mall multiple times today trying to work up the courage to simply walk into the store where she works and initiate conversation, but my high inhibition struck again and I made no m…
/r/seduction03/06/26 12:13 AM
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I don't understand how anyone could find embarrassment fun and there is more at stake then just that. I could close my job if I say or do the wrong thing
/r/seduction02/06/26 11:04 PM
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I am morally opposed to it. Any society that accepts prostitution,sees it's STD rates skyrocket.
/r/seduction19/05/26 01:21 AM
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I don't shove my faith down everyone's throat like half the people in this comment section seem to shove their atheism in everybody's face. I mention my religious beliefs and you atheists descend upon me like ravenous dogs.
/r/seduction15/05/26 01:47 AM
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I'm an Army veteran so Im on veterans healthcare. It's the notoriously so of the worst healthcare in the whole United States. But I'm poor so what can I do.
/r/seduction15/05/26 01:41 AM
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These terms being popularized is simply a reaction to the current vile and unsustainable dating market. Half of all women in the U.S are predicted to die alone,And 63% percent of young men are currently single. That is not how a civilization survives.
/r/seduction15/05/26 01:33 AM
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Avanni24 utterly annihilated you!💀
/r/seduction15/05/26 01:29 AM
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Thank for your wonderful comment man! You perfectly described how I feel in the beginning there. I know I'm an attractive guy. I'm no male model but im not ugly or average either. All the therapists I've had to try and address this issue to sucked. but perhaps I just need to find the right one. I am very hesitant to do so though due to how politically captured the whole institution of therapy is today. It would be a dream come true to have someone by my side who was actually willing to support m…
/r/seduction15/05/26 01:27 AM
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Got em man. Notice how she didn't even attempt to engage with your statement. She just resorted right to calling you an incel!😭
/r/seduction15/05/26 01:16 AM
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I will never seek out a prostitute in a million years. I quite literally would rather be shot. My insecurities come from my total inexperience with women at an advanced age and my above average looks which still aren't good enough to attract women regularly. Balding in my 20s doesn't help either.
/r/seduction15/05/26 01:15 AM
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Terrible game plus confidence issues torpedo any man's chances with women. Regardless of how tall they are our what their racial background is. That's my predicament
/r/seduction15/05/26 01:10 AM
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I've got a good amount of friends. I don't click with everyone though it's fine. People who go out of their to befriend and be liked by everyone are spineless and don't truly stand for anything.
/r/seduction15/05/26 01:07 AM
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Thanks for sticking up for me man. It seems this subreddit is full of angry atheists.
/r/seduction15/05/26 01:05 AM
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"Normal girls?"? Do you even hear yourself? Just wow man.
/r/seduction15/05/26 01:04 AM
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Not gonna happen. A true Christian wouldn't do something so heinous.
/r/seduction15/05/26 01:02 AM
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Christ is Risen from the dead my friend. Scientists recently came out and said that the shroud of turin has 3d imagery on it which cannot be replicated by man. The stone in the Sinai desert Moses split in half for miraculous water to flow from is there to this day. Perfectly split in half. The top of mount Sinai is scorched black from the presence of God resting upon it.
/r/seduction15/05/26 12:56 AM
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I like my current job and I have had so many missed opportunities at this point it's not even funny. No man should have to face hundreds of rejections before finally one says yes. That is cruelty and mental torture made possible by the travesty of a dating market we have right now. My dad didn't face half the rejections I have before one finally said yes to him. Hoeflation is a very real thing.
/r/seduction14/05/26 06:10 AM
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That's a huge outlier and you know it. 5''5 Bengali guys are not slaying women left and right in the states bro. Also the dating market is objectively the worst it's ever been in history. 50 years ago I would've e been married already.
/r/seduction14/05/26 06:07 AM
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Meditation is iman open invitation for demonic possession. No thanks. I pray daily which grounds me and brings me closer to God. Career wise,I'm currently a security supervisor but I wish to become an Orthodox priest one day. I can do over 50 pushups without stopping which is more then average out of shape American can do these days. I was in the army so working out is hardwired into my brain. I'd need a gym membership to really get muscular though. I love hiking/camping but I can't do things li…
/r/seduction14/05/26 06:04 AM
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Church does more for me then therapy ever did. I've been to enough therapists to know this. Besides therapy these days is beyond cucked. Good luck finding one that wasn't trained to treat masculinity and men's issue like the spawn of Satan.
/r/seduction14/05/26 05:48 AM
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I fit the definition don't I? I am celibate when I would rather not be. That is literally what incel means.
/r/seduction14/05/26 05:46 AM
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Basic social skill? Hell no and it never was. Up until the end of the 20th century. Comunnities,parents and friends would set people up to date each other. That's how the majority of our parents met. Sure some guys cold approached. But most either were ok at it or flat out sucked. A very small minority of guys actually had solid game. Now with the dawn of the 21st century and the advent of social media. Our communities have been gutted and our day to day social interactions have been fractured. …
/r/seduction13/05/26 06:44 AM
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Fr man. It's honestly quite ridiculous. They're so damn fickle and it's only gotten worse with each passing year. I spent 4 years in the Army. That was easier for me then trying to get a girlfriend. Utter stupidity.
/r/seduction04/05/26 06:02 AM
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The dating market is just broken bro. Male singlehood is the new norm. The average man is despised by the average woman these days,it's not your fault bro.
/r/seduction14/02/26 02:09 PM
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Cap;You're leaving out some key details. Just grabbing a girl you like and kissing her is a sure fire way to catch a case. Not even A Chad can be so brazen in 2025.
/r/seduction06/01/26 12:42 AM
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"Just get a girl and kiss her bro!" And yet people wonder why the advice on this sub doesn't get taken seriously anymore.
/r/seduction05/01/26 11:43 PM
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I've never been on a date before so that's a no.
/r/seduction01/12/25 11:47 PM
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Jokes I can wrap my head around. Innuendos not so much. Isolating a woman seems so far away from me at this point. I'm really that inexperienced.
/r/seduction30/11/25 03:12 AM
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I've never had a wingman so that's good to know man thank you!
/r/seduction28/11/25 12:28 AM
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It's not my first approach as I'm 24 years old. My total number of approaches are somewhere in the 30s at this point. Ill make a habit of going to the bars on my street for the sale of building up my confidence and social skills. I've never even been on a date and currently have no female friends so yeah I'm quite the hard case.
/r/seduction27/11/25 10:28 PM
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That was very general but thanks none the less!
/r/seduction27/11/25 09:34 PM
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Well you're doing better than me man,so keep your chin up! But yeah that's still not a lot at all. The apps are so ridiculously stacked against guys as Average girls get hundreds of likes a day. The only realistic hope for guys like us to have a shot at getting any play is through cold approach. Problem is that the odds with that are still pretty skewed against guys. Dating in 2025 is just fundamentally broken. Hoeflation is very real!
/r/seduction26/11/25 10:01 PM
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Dating apps are completely and utterly cooked if you're not an absolute top tier guy. Even average women absolutely mop the floor with likes and matches from men. I'm a 6'1 Army vet who is in good shape and only negative facial features are acne and balding But that's enough to bring down my chances on the apps down to near zero. Women on dating apps demand damn near physical perfection it's insane! I Haven't gotten a single date on the apps (or in real life ) in my entire life. Shit is beyond f…
/r/seduction26/11/25 03:55 AM
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Modern America tries it's hardest to make it impossible for A man to feel secure enough to approach women. Flirting in the workplace gets you fired, approach the wrong women and ur life is forevermore turned upside down thanks to the me too movement. College is the best place to approach young women but really only if you're forming in. Commuters such as myself get largely shut out of all the Social happenings and events that traditionally Happen at universities. My only reasonable options are t…
/r/seduction17/11/25 11:14 PM
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From what I've read that's a pretty rough place to try to approach in. Loud music which renders conversation almost impossible,a lot of competition. Not to mention the most shallow,vain women imaginable tend to be the ones who fill out nightclubs.
/r/seduction17/11/25 02:53 PM
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I can't flirt or escalate for shit. I've never been past the talking stage and more often than not I don't work up the courage to approach women I find attractive. Third wave feminism has fucked dating as I am surrounded by college aged girls but I my job will fire me if I dare approach/flirt with one and college is a gamble as well. One false accusation and your life is ruined.
/r/seduction17/11/25 12:14 AM
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Not true at all. Everyone's on A different schedule and most people are too busy to dedicate the large quantities of time required to cold approach en masse.
/r/seduction17/11/25 12:10 AM
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How many rejections did it take till you got your first yes?
/r/seduction14/11/25 09:40 PM
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Most men don't have the time to clock in hundreds of approaches on a weekly basis. Between college and working 40 hours a week;This simply isn't a possibility for me.
/r/seduction14/11/25 09:38 PM
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Yeah the neurotypicals on this sub don't realize how good they have it. I'm just glad I'm not autistic or bipolar. Those conditions are far more detrimental than ADHD.
/r/seduction14/11/25 09:18 PM
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Great advice man. Not every man is a natural nor can every man learn to be the stud. Some men just gotta bumble through the game and hope for the best cause the cards are already stacked against him from the start. If it's the Lord's will that I find love then one will eventually bite.
/r/seduction14/11/25 09:16 PM
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I'll never give up on the idea of one day having a dating life. That's simply not an option for me. My personal sense of duty and honor won't allow it. But I must say that 2009 was a totally different world culturally,pre-3rd wave feminism. The average young male in college today is A rizzless incel while the average woman gets passed around by the same 5 chads in her dorm.
/r/seduction14/11/25 07:17 AM
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Ah ok. There are definitely people like what you described though.
/r/seduction14/11/25 07:07 AM
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I got the inattentive type. Lucky me!😐
/r/seduction14/11/25 07:06 AM
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Ok first off,you don't know me or my life experience as I in fact have been approaching since I was 11. I was doing it consistently at first until I got severely bullied and most of the girls in my grade found me completely undesirable as a result;some even joined in on the bullying. The whole ordeal traumatized me and I went years without cold approaching. I started approaching again in 2023 but my desire to get A woman never faded during those lost years. My problems now are approaching consis…
/r/seduction14/11/25 02:55 AM
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College is the best time for this stuff but unfortunately for me I commute. Approaching women during the day while classes are in session is risky business these days thanks to the me too movement. One complaint to the dean's office and I'm expelled or worse,I get the police called on me.also I've already well surpassed your 4 year mark. I've desired A girlfriend since I was 11. I'm 24 now.still,nothing.
/r/seduction14/11/25 02:21 AM
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I do take action but Inconsistently. I have limited opportunities to approach anyways because approaching at work is grounds to be fired and in university it could put you in a sticky situation. Expulsion from college or worse getting arrested.
/r/seduction14/11/25 02:13 AM
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Yup,very true unfortunately. How do I know this? Cause Im currently living it. Being the only man in the friend group who's never gotten any play is just brutal. I genuinely love my friends in this group though so I won't ever cut them off. It just blows that they all know I'm an "incel". Their words, not mine.
/r/seduction14/11/25 01:23 AM
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We keep using it cause it's true! Subversive powers have brainwashed women into hating men and voting against the interests of western civilization. No worries though. While the country inevitably collapsed all you feminists will be couped up in your homes rotting away with all your furry friends whom you've substituted for children and a loving family!😊
/r/seduction14/11/25 01:14 AM
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I can genuinely judge A woman but teasing and challenging a woman are concepts of flirting which itself is a social skill which I suck at tremendously. I don't try hard to impress nor do I ignore flaky behavior or pursue women persistently. The only negative attribute I have is that you mentioned falling for A girl who was nice to me. Although I never let get to the level of obsession or oneitis. Just bringing myself to approach is a war in itself. So Of course I don't have A crap load of approa…
/r/seduction14/11/25 01:05 AM
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I've only ever had female therapist who could never possibly relate to my plight. I doubt a therapist would make a difference though as they're all pretty libtarded in that field.
/r/seduction14/11/25 12:53 AM
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I get what your saying and it's basically what I try to do when I do approach minus the whole safari stuff. I try to talk to women for the purposes of romance despite my total inexperience,but it has always ended in failure of course.
/r/seduction14/11/25 12:48 AM
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Yeah,it's paradoxical which is why most inexperienced men fail with romance past adolescence. Without those oh so crucial developmental milestones in adolescence,A man really is in between a rock and a hard place with women. Women past adolescence are ruthless and leave little room for error when men approach them.
/r/seduction14/11/25 12:44 AM
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I appreciate your honesty. It was A tough pill for me to swallow but it's true. Your adolescence is vital for developing social skills and romantic experience. Missing out on these things really sets you back A great deal.
/r/seduction14/11/25 12:40 AM
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I like the answer but my work/college schedule is pretty strict rn. So I rarely party or go out and socialize at all rn. When I do go out,It's almost always a sausage fest anyways as I haven't had A girl-friend since middle school.
/r/seduction14/11/25 12:15 AM
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Now I can't go out mass cold approaching because of my tight College/work schedule but on occasion I do find myself in A social or party environment. When I'm there I try to force myself to shoot my shot with A woman. I usually get discouraged after being rejected by one but sometimes I can manage a 2nd approach.
/r/seduction14/11/25 12:11 AM
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Very bold of you to assume that I haven't tried at all. As I've said in previous replies I have nearly 30 rejections and even more failed talking stages in my lifetime.
/r/seduction14/11/25 12:06 AM
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"getting a kiss isn't that hard if you read body language and go for it" easy for you to say! Not so for A neurodivergent like me. Reading body language is arguably my biggest weakness when it comes to social skills. I'm sure my fellow neurodivergents can concur.
/r/seduction14/11/25 12:03 AM
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I just don't see the connection sorry. Having self-respect just doesn't connect to having an abundance mentality. I won't just accept any girl as I have standards but it still doesn't change the fact that I know that I have zero options available to me and I have never succeeded romantically with A woman. No amount of gaslighting myself will change that.
/r/seduction13/11/25 11:58 PM
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I've approached dozens of women in my life,all ended in rejection of course. One cute shy girl all but threw herself at me in high school but I fucked it up with my own insecurities and ultimately it fizzled out. I'm not ugly and I'm over 6'0 but my bad skin and balding hair at 24 just nukes my physical appearance. I was honestly more attractive in grade school. The only therapists I've ever had were women but I doubt a man would help. Therapy is so ideologically captured by leftism these days.
/r/seduction13/11/25 11:55 PM
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The last part of your post is A big part of my current predicament.I got plenty of friends,but none are willing or ever have been my wingman before. If anything my friends in the past have just undermined me in romance Instead of helping me. I'll never forget the betrayal of one of my close friends getting with my oneitits in middle school. That really stung. I don't have "oneitis" issues anymore though. I learned my lesson.
/r/seduction13/11/25 11:39 PM
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I'm A fit man as I workout almost daily and I'm an Army vet. What you have described for me is flirting, which I suck mega balls at!😭 I understand the concept of teasing and having "fun" with women but that requires A degree of social competence with Women I just don't have. Being neurodivergent; Suffering from severe ADHD. I struggled to make male friends growing up let alone female ones. My social skills with men have greatly improved but with women they're still garbage. I have nearly 30 reje…
/r/seduction13/11/25 11:34 PM
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This is utterly depressing
/r/seduction13/11/25 02:10 AM
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Brutal but true. Being marked as the "Sexual undesirable" in your friend group forever poisons that well of women in said group.
/r/seduction13/11/25 01:59 AM
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Good luck finding that in 21st century America! The women are more promiscuous than the men these days. It's friggin bizarro world.
/r/seduction13/11/25 01:54 AM
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Don't know why you got down voted cause you're 100% correct.
/r/seduction13/11/25 12:30 AM
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How the hell can you ever find "uncertainty" thrilling as A man. That sounds like modern Women speak.
/r/seduction13/11/25 12:29 AM
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This post,like most others on this sub,fails to address the fact that modern Women caused this behavior in men. With the me too movement and an innate anti-male bias in the Western system,Women have all the power.
/r/seduction13/11/25 12:27 AM
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Much of what you described fits my severe ADHD perfectly. It truly never began for neurodivergents in the 21st century Western world.
/r/seduction12/11/25 11:33 PM
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Angry Cat lady alert lol
/r/seduction12/11/25 11:28 PM
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Correction. Modern 304s hate virgins.
/r/seduction12/11/25 12:01 AM
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Im seeing this at just the right time in my life. Im starting to accept my circumstances and accept that im still a man, regardless of whether women like me or not. The defining characteristic of being a man is not letting external factors determine the worth of your manhood. If it is God's will;I will have that romantic connection one day. If not, that's fine;I'll just fully devout myself to the Lord and join a monastery!
/r/seduction26/09/25 10:37 PM
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Wdym why?
/r/seduction20/09/25 02:47 AM
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Nah it's A unique 21st century issue. If was alive in the previous century id have no problems dating. Late-stage capitalism,Marxist infiltration of our institutions which brought us feminism transgenderism etc; And a rigged zionist economy did this.(The federal reserve)
/r/seduction19/09/25 02:49 AM
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Kinda hard with the sick world we live in and it's only getting worse. America will collapse and it's only a matter of time.
/r/seduction19/09/25 02:44 AM
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Not even anywhere to close to a valid answer. Give me statistics,a source. Hell,a frigging counter-arguement would be nice. Once again,this cucked sub refuses to acknowledge the obvious reality of the male loneliness epidemic. Why am I not surprised! Your little personal anecdotes aren't gonna cut it.
/r/seduction18/09/25 05:27 AM
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You commented on my most recent post! Im glad you didn't immediately demonize me like everybody else and thought to give some advice instead. You're a real one!
/r/seduction18/09/25 05:22 AM
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I appreciate the genuine concern man thank you! I don't know if you seen some of my replies to this post but I have had already well over 20 approaches and numerous talking stages in my life so it's not like I haven't tried at all. The rejections I face are usually pretty rough, so it takes a lot of mental energy to put myself out there again after the fact. I often go months in between approaches.
/r/seduction18/09/25 05:16 AM
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Im no murderer. Projection much Lefty? Especially considering recent events? 🤔
/r/seduction18/09/25 01:29 AM
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The baby is not their body,end of story. A woman doesn't have the right to kill a baby just because she couldn't keep her legs closed.
/r/seduction18/09/25 12:42 AM
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Finally, a reasonable reply! I completely agree with your first point and recognize your implication that I've never been to therapy, though I have. 2. A rigged zionist economy thanks to the federal reserve,a fake pandemic and unceasing boat loads of cash to Israel have destroyed our economy. Besides;the state of the economy has little to do with the social catastrophe that is modern dating. The current state of modern dating was well underway long before the economy tanked. And it was psyopped …
/r/seduction18/09/25 12:38 AM
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How could any sane red blooded man possibly relate to the average western woman these days? The vast majority of them support on demand baby murder and half of them LOATHE the idea of ever having children. Not to mention all the blatant and unapologetic man hating that's been normalized in women's social circles these days. Our civilization is collapsing since we're not reproducing it through childbearing. Everything you take for granted in the West was built with A traditional family unit at th…
/r/seduction17/09/25 11:46 PM
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What created Incels? I've never seen anyone on this sub dare address this. It's not like Male sexlessness became the norm overnight. You and I both know feminism and the #MeToo movement started this.
/r/seduction17/09/25 11:37 PM
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Two words. Pattern Recognition.
/r/seduction17/09/25 11:01 PM
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Im 6'1,physically fit, and an Army vet. They only things I got going against me are my working class station in life and male pattern baldness. I've done my fair share of approaches and talking stages but with no success. Like I said in my post. It's beyond fucking absurd how a guy is expected to perform in today's dating market. Gone are the days of walking up to a girl you find attractive without fear of harassment accusations and simply saying, "Hey,I saw you from across the street,you look v…
/r/seduction17/09/25 10:46 PM
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Why is it incumbent on men to fix the dating market when it's psyopped Women who have caused it's destruction? These women are completely despirited and wish nothing more than to see America either fall or turn into a Marxist dystopia. I'm not saying all of them are beyond saving, but a lot of them are gonna die alone surrounded by cats.
/r/seduction17/09/25 10:36 PM
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Just dismiss my plight like the rest of us men in the exact same position. You aren't actually interested in the well being of virgin men because you and many others outright refuse to address the root causes of the rise in male virginity to begin with.
/r/seduction17/09/25 10:32 PM
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I workout 5 days a week, and im an Army vet. Try again.
/r/seduction17/09/25 10:27 PM
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Oh, you really got me there bud. Can't refute my points though lol! 😂
/r/seduction17/09/25 10:27 PM
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Lol! Western civilization is cooked and delusional women/Weak men killed it! It should not be this hard for the average guy to get A girl. Dating in 2025 is A fucking joke. This sub is helpful but the reality is A WHOLE LOT of men are gonna end up dying alone because modern Women would rather compete and get passed around by the 0.1% of the male population that are 6'0+, model tier looks and make good money. As A result, many modern women are gonna end up dying alone as well. When the crippling …
/r/seduction16/08/25 02:16 PM
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What's A body scan?
/r/seduction07/08/25 08:37 PM
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I don't see what I said as excusing myself from my present situation at all. Why can't I man take Accountability for himself while also acknowledging the hardships he has faced and continues to face? Is that some sort of crime?
/r/seduction07/08/25 01:00 AM
1

I struggle mightily with anxiety. It's like my default state at this point. ADHD and depression just exasperate the issue. I've fumbled plenty of approaches off of just sheer anxiety alone. Stuttering,not knowing what to say the whole mine yards.
/r/seduction06/08/25 09:36 PM
1

I want nothing more than to move on. I hate waking up feeling like death every morning. I try to push aside that trauma Everytime I muster up the courage to approach a woman I find attractive. But once I get rejected,those painful memories come flooding back. It's A vicious cycle that I fear won't break until I find some hell ANY success with women.
/r/seduction06/08/25 09:32 PM
1

How can I look back and laugh,let go when those experiences cast such A shadow over my life. Those experiences are WHY I'm A Kissless,dateless virgin at the age of 24. My 12 year old self had the balls to approach his crush sitting with her girlies and ask her out. To this day that is the most forward and aggressive I've ever been with A girl and I haven't gotten any further since. The origins of my sexual frustrations and bitter despair began with those experiences.
/r/seduction06/08/25 09:11 PM
1

I unfortunately don't have access to A male therapist at the moment. It's why I stopped going to therapy in the first place. Millennial women haven't the slightest clue of A Gen Z man's reality and they make up like half of the therapists in this country. I've never been assigned a male therapist.
/r/seduction06/08/25 09:00 PM
1

Are talking about Pick-up artists specifically,or just any famous dude who cleaned up with women?
/r/seduction06/08/25 02:28 AM
1

It is on my mind every day without fail,And I want nothing more for my life than to rediscover my confidence and experience dating for the first time ever in my life. It is the burning desire of my heart that grows ever restless with each passing day. Damn this insatiable fire,I can suppress you no longer! Latin dance lessons seem like the logical first step. I have to do it. I can't quell the flames any longer.
/r/seduction06/08/25 01:45 AM
1

This is very good advice. Although I doubt I'd be able to fit A commitment to dance lessons in my schedule with me working afternoons and College starting up again. Plus Im committed to my Church's choir as well which brings the responsibility of attending weekly rehearsals.
/r/seduction06/08/25 01:31 AM
1

I've heard several versions of that before and I'm just tired. Men younger and older then me are experiencing the ecstasy of intimate connection every waking moment...yet here I am another year older with nothing as always. Hell even fucking little BOYS are getting some action. As a man that reality cuts deep like A knife. To be honest I've never really truly felt like a man because of my total inexperience with women.
/r/seduction06/08/25 01:23 AM
2

What part of "I was bullied for all of middle school" do you not understand. I had my self-esteem and the confidence to approach women sucked out of me from YEARS of public humiliation regarding my inability to get women. That's A key point here. My romantic frustrations and inexperience were used as An emotional punching bag by pretty much my entire grade. That kind of trauma LINGERS.
/r/seduction06/08/25 01:17 AM
1

Im a 6'1 army vet who works out 6 days a week and currently attends a great university. Like I said in a previous reply it's my atrocious game that has kept women from me. My inner game is the worst but my putter game isn't much better. I haven't even made it past the talking stage and I've already exceeded over 20+ rejections in my life. It's just so fucking hard to interact with women I find attractive.
/r/seduction06/08/25 01:11 AM
1

Im not content and happy in life because I've gotten no women. I've served in the army,challenged politicians and currently attend a great university. I workout 6 days a week,watch what I eat and read. Im A much more well rounded and accomplished person than many people my age yet you're telling me I gotta "build myself from the ground up" I just fucking suck dick at flirting,escalating,reading social cues;all that critical shit needed for getting women. That's my issue. My game in general is a …
/r/seduction06/08/25 01:02 AM
1

No I haven't. What's your experience with them?
/r/seduction06/08/25 12:23 AM
1

I've been dieting and exercising consistently for about a month now;already lost a bunch of pounds and looking better physically everyday. I could definitely go out more but I currently work afternoons Monday-Friday so that really only leaves the weekends for me to do anything.ive been on anti-depressants before and they really didn't do much for me. I know my brain chemistry is weird because of my severe adhd so maybe that has something to do with it.
/r/seduction06/08/25 12:22 AM
1

I don't have the luxury of choice. My college campus only has one female therapist and Veterans insurance is a fucking joke. They'll put you on 50 different anti-depressants before they even think about referring you to A therapist.
/r/seduction06/08/25 12:12 AM
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Been to therapy;It blows. I've only ever been assigned to dimwitted Karens who have not the slightest clue of A modern man's reality. I got some good friends but it's very rarely ever provided me with connections to new women.
/r/seduction05/08/25 11:51 PM
1

Number 8 is completely fucked for me. Staying still and being deliberate with my body language is near impossible with the severe ADHD I have.😐
/r/seduction05/08/25 02:33 AM
0

Great you must be A 9 or A 10 yourself. Must be nice.
/r/seduction25/07/25 11:55 PM
3

The quote "some men drown while others die of thirst" is biblical at this point.
/r/seduction25/07/25 11:31 PM
3

What the hell does "talk with vibe" mean? Also I have pretty severe ADHD so not fidgeting is damn near impossible for me.
/r/seduction18/07/25 02:00 AM
1

Geez if that's the case it's honestly fucking over for the average guy in 2025.
/r/seduction09/07/25 02:45 AM
2

This is A common problem throughout the Western World. It's why I've almost given up on our women;And I'm currently strongly considering the passport bro route.
/r/seduction08/07/25 08:50 PM
1

Right,right. Overthinking is A weakness of mine.
/r/seduction05/07/25 06:18 AM
1

Alright,I'll take A chill pill about this thanks!
/r/seduction05/07/25 06:17 AM
1

Ok cool!
/r/seduction05/07/25 06:17 AM
1

Interesting take. Where should I go from here then?
/r/seduction05/07/25 06:16 AM
1

How do?
/r/seduction04/07/25 01:23 AM
1

Ahhh ok. Im thinking now that my texting game must've not been half-bad then!
/r/seduction04/07/25 12:26 AM
2

Ok will do.
/r/seduction04/07/25 12:24 AM
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So there's A good chance this chick digs me?
/r/seduction04/07/25 12:20 AM
2

Sorry for the several spelling mistakes guys. I was in A rush.
/r/seduction04/07/25 12:19 AM
1

Facts bro. It's all so tiring how we have to basically be fucking James Bond to get Women these days. My mom would Give Any guy A chance who simply approached with confidence and expressed interest in her. Seems like most girl these days expects all guys to be some master seducer it's fucking bullshit.
/r/seduction03/07/25 08:35 PM
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I see the whole "Tell an interesting story about her ring/bracelet to touch her hands" on this sub alot and I'm always baffled by them. What Interesting stories are pulling from another person's ring/bracelet? I just don't get it.
/r/seduction02/07/25 08:47 PM
2

You're assuming the women are throwing themselves at him to begin with. And I can assure you that most women in groups are NOT throwing themselves at men;they're engaged with their groups.
/r/seduction02/07/25 02:32 AM
1

Nice descriptions there bud lol. I can relate to OP however as This is pretty much the story of my life. I've never even passed the talking stage cause I invetiably say or do something that kills any attraction the woman may have had for me
/r/seduction17/06/25 12:49 AM
1

Well as A 24M Kissless, dateless virgin;I've had an intense emotional connection with exactly 0 Women. Unless you count my best friend from 4th grade summer camp.
/r/seduction16/06/25 11:15 PM
1

One has to feel their emotions in order to express them no? This comment doesn't make any sense.
/r/seduction14/06/25 12:00 AM
1

Most men are too prideful or honorable to admit defeat and see an escort/prostitute. Me included.
/r/seduction04/06/25 11:22 PM
3

As an incel myself I can confirm this unfortunately. my self-esteem is A burning pile of trash most days.
/r/seduction04/06/25 12:37 AM
1

Women quite literally can't ever be incels but I get the gist of your post.
/r/seduction25/04/25 12:56 AM
1

Hah! What A joke! I know myself better than anyone and my personality is not the issue at all! My issue is game specifically the lack of it on my part.
/r/seduction01/04/25 11:57 PM
1

While I disagree theologically with you (Im A Christian) I get what you're saying. I just need to dig deep and fucking go for it. I still resent modern dating with a burning passion though.
/r/seduction01/04/25 10:59 PM
1

I know there are very few chads. Which is why modern women are willing to participate in harems if it meant having them; while the average guy just get's passed over by his looksmatch in favor of Chad time and time again.just because you've put in the time and effort to learn game doesn't negate the reality of the countless loveless men in today's society.also you're friggin 6'5 and not ugly. That does wonders for you once you pair that with game which I'm gathering you do. Modern dating is HARD…
/r/seduction01/04/25 10:55 PM
1

Easy for you today bud. Tell that to the 60% aged 18-25 who are single!
/r/seduction01/04/25 10:43 PM
1

Yes it is but what's the alternative? I've never had the slightest intimate moment with a woman yet I'm expected to not crave that very intimacy and connection I've been deprived of this whole time? Sounds like if you don't get "lucky" early on your doomed to a cycle of desperation and rejection in because women expect preselection as a prerequisite to sex.
/r/seduction31/03/25 07:12 PM
1

Yeah. It's an admission of defeat because I couldn't get that intimate connection I desperately wanted. I had to pay for a mere imitation of it
/r/seduction31/03/25 04:16 AM
1

Very practical, straightforward and honest advice good sir thank you! I've already seen the fruits of my expanded social circle I've been working for the past a few years of my life finally begin to blossom. I'm now in position where hangouts,parties and getaways are just few texts away. A position high school me would e thought was unthinkable. I truly feel prepared to give game a real shot for the first time in my life. My confidence is Shakey but slowly building I just need to stop being such…
/r/seduction30/03/25 04:11 AM
1

I feel as if it's an admission of defeat. Also I have religious convictions against supporting prostitution so ...
/r/seduction30/03/25 04:05 AM
1

I don't wanna pay for it tho. I'm willing to go the other route though.
/r/seduction30/03/25 12:31 AM
2

Very well articulated and philosophical advice brother well done! It's funny that I was physically and mentally broken down and built back up again the Army. I put my life on the line and I had no qualms with dying if it came to that. A big part of the reason why I joined the Army in the first place was to transform into A bonafide badass from The aloof nerd I was in high school. Then I'll finally get results with women! Well I was completely dejected to find out that all that work I put in the …
/r/seduction29/03/25 12:10 AM
2

What if you never had any romantic success with women to begin with. I'm 24,my height is 6'1,I'm an Army vet and I currently hold a full time job while going to university. On paper I have all these things going for me to attract a woman except game so naturally I'd be at least a little desperate! Being completely sexless and unloved for years on end really fucks up a guy's mental health.
/r/seduction28/03/25 09:31 PM
1

I know that they aren't responsible for my happiness but living for 24 years completely loveless as A straight man is just utter poison to the soul. My lack of intimacy has had me depressed for years now which kills self-esteem and confidence;tricky thing is you NEED that closely esteem and confidence for any hope of getting a girl to like you so it just becomes a vicious cycle of not being good enough so you feel sad but because you're sad girls want nothing to do with you.
/r/seduction28/03/25 07:41 PM
2

The "gap" you're referring too is absolutely cavernous for me. Like I have a rudimentary idea on how game is supposed to work but I'm just so damn hopeless putting it in practice. I hesitate,doubt myself,get intimidated to approach etc. seeing how effortless game is for other guys and how easily that get women to chase THEM is just such A difficult and abstract concept for me to grasp. I envy my Father A great deal over this. He was always a natural with women and I couldn't be further from that…
/r/seduction28/03/25 07:34 PM
1

Thank you for your suggestion but I've been out of the Army since 2023 so that would be impossible for me as I'm A veteran now.
/r/seduction28/03/25 12:29 AM
1

Any book I should read first;video I should watch first?
/r/seduction27/03/25 10:41 PM
2

I will take note of this going forward,thank you brother you've genuinely helped me out.
/r/seduction27/03/25 10:33 PM
1

Well I can't say I haven't felt that women hate me lol. But I'd like some clarification on how exactly do you treat a woman like A friend? Are there strict boundaries with women that don't exist with men? Do I modify my behaviors a little bit,what are some good things to say and do?
/r/seduction27/03/25 10:25 PM
2

I've done a complete 180 from my time as A total social basket case in high school to the present day me who is much more sociable than before. I have so many things to talk about and share but I always feel like people don't take my ideas and thoughts seriously. Especially women. For example I was rudely disparaged for discussing the exciting future of space colonization by one the bridesmaids at the bachelor party I went too. I know it's just one incident but it contributes to my insecurities …
/r/seduction27/03/25 10:20 PM
1

Yes Im with you there. I'm hanging out with two female acquittances this Saturday so hopefully I'll be able to try again with game then.
/r/seduction27/03/25 10:05 PM
1

Well they are different bro. if they were "no different from guys" there wouldn't be A huge loneliness epidemic going on right now but there is. The standards have gotten insane and anyone who refuses to admit that is in massive denial.
/r/seduction27/03/25 08:27 PM
1

I'm honestly not to far off from that life I'll be proud of. I'm working towards my Armed security guard card which will land me A pretty damn good paying job. The only real gaping hole in my life is well with women!
/r/seduction27/03/25 08:21 PM
2

I agree with your assessment but finding that balance is difficult to be sure. I've broken the personal taboo of me being touchy with women but this was A VERY recent development. The girl in the post was my first attempt at physical escalation and I botched it pretty bad. But at least I was able to break the first physical touch barrier of arms,shoulders and wrists without any issues.
/r/seduction27/03/25 08:15 PM
1

I'm a pretty fun person to hang out withfrom what I'm told. but only to those who take the chance to get to know me. I fear my neurodivergence turns Alot of people off, especially women.
/r/seduction27/03/25 07:59 PM
1

So im no position to seek out women right now? If so I'm not surprised by that.
/r/seduction27/03/25 07:49 PM
1

Sorry about that. You're right I gotta stop feeling sorry for myself as it's done nothing but harm and has kept me complacent with my situation.
/r/seduction27/03/25 07:42 PM
2

You can't possibly gauge someone's personality from a single post. No matter how long winded it is. I feel rivers of compassion of kindness from within my heart for others. I just have A hard time expressing that to other people sometimes. Especially women.
/r/seduction27/03/25 07:40 PM
0

I will reluctantly learn the ins of our dating/seduction because unless I do I'll die a lonely man in the cruel, degraded world.
/r/seduction27/03/25 06:39 AM
1

Flirting is what I'm by far must uncomfortable and inexperienced with when it comes to seduction. I have an easier timer initiating touch then doing that.
/r/seduction27/03/25 06:33 AM
1

I know my Game sucks balls and being a douche is legitimately hard for me. It's not in my nature. Im known for being a really funny guy with my friends.
/r/seduction27/03/25 06:26 AM
3

I've actually been talking to women in a platonic way more and more recently. In fact the bachelor's party I came back from was A treasure trove new experiences with women in a platonic manner. I'm already getting back on my workout routine and I rarely play video games anymore.
/r/seduction27/03/25 06:24 AM
2

Fair enough man,fair enough. I am taking action already. I started doing my pushups again and when I clear out the treadmill in the house I'll be able to run again too. You're right. It's not my fault this happened to me but It will be my fault if I don't take action. Thank you for your words sir.
/r/seduction27/03/25 02:52 AM
1

I never understood this sentiment. Of friggin course I'm desperate! I'm a sexless,kissless,dateless virgin at 24! I got nothing under my belt with women but bitterness and rejection. Tell me,What else is A man to become given the circumstances?
/r/seduction27/03/25 02:05 AM
1

Ah and here we find a stark dividing line. I see prostitution as a great stain upon humanity. It preys on the lonely and desperate men and women of the world and it always has. I'm A Staunch Nationalist and A Christian so I have A rather socially conservative view of the world.
/r/seduction27/03/25 02:01 AM
0

You just don't get it man. Once the accusation has been made your life is never the same. Even if your cleared of any wrongdoing the damage has already been done to your name and it WILL affect your options in life greatly. I could never find a wingman to spend the night trying to help score. You really got commit to the role and all of my friends just haven't.
/r/seduction27/03/25 01:56 AM
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Well if you want me to list off a few adjectives about her she was definitely smart and outgoing which I greatly value because I live for stimulating Intellectual conversation and having someone whose outgoing compensates for me being not so. We also shared a similar taste for movies which we bonded over. Again I just don't see what's wrong with approaching a woman at first just because she shows you attention; especially if you're as loveless as I am.It's not like I didn't take the time to get …
/r/seduction27/03/25 01:49 AM
5

Dude of course I'm insecure and brimming with anxiety! I'm a sexless,kissless, dateless virgin with severe ADHD! How is that my fault that I've never been validated romantically by the opposite sex in my life? It should be no wonder I turned out the way I did! I built myself up once before. I became A lean,mean fighting machine yet I was invisible to women still. It gets to the point where a guy just can't believe his situation and expecting that man just dump all that baggage and pain at the dr…
/r/seduction27/03/25 01:41 AM
0

My Church has no women my age and even if it did There's no guarantee I'd fair any better. Modern dating dynamics have infected the church already and many Churchgoing women would rather give their cherry to A secular Chad then A good Christian boy so long he knows how to game. It's quite sad actually. A great deal of Christian men feel very betrayed by these developments.
/r/seduction27/03/25 01:36 AM
1

You sure about that man? There are countless stories of men simply asking girls our only for them their names to be buried in the mud over some BS harassment charge.
/r/seduction27/03/25 01:23 AM
2

Thanks for that admission man I appreciate it. Most would just type some bs advice but you were honest. It hasn't been easy it's been hell but I refuse to die A loveless virgin. I have so much love to give man and it kills me that I have never had anyone to give it too in my 24 years of existence.
/r/seduction27/03/25 01:20 AM
2

Much easier said then done my friend but I know you're right. My flirting isn't non-existent but it's pretty piss poor if I'm being honest. I just need a decent friggin wingman but no one in my friend group has done that for me. I'm tired of tryna be the cordial gentleman that my Mom wanted me to be with women. It's gotten me nothing but disdain and rejection from women. If modern women want to be manipulated and seduced enough masse then so be it,if that's what it takes then that's what it take…
/r/seduction27/03/25 01:16 AM
3

How am I to be expected to have high confidence when I have had nothing but constant rejection, negativity amd humiliation from my attempts at romance with women? Also I WANT so desperately that connection and intimacy you're talking about. People hear A man say how attractive A girl is and jump to the conclusion that he's A "shallow perv" or something. I'm sick of that nonsense.
/r/seduction27/03/25 01:03 AM
0

This current dating culture sucks so much ass it's unbelievable. My dad didn't have to do half the work to get results and my granddad didnt have to play the dating game at all!(courtship) the boomers and social media really fucked us over. Despite me wishing I was born in the time of courtship so I don't have to deal with the massive headache that is modern dating;I nevertheless have no choice but to commit that process.
/r/seduction27/03/25 12:58 AM
2

No complaints from me there I agree with you 100% but again I just don't see that happening with my current schedule being as demanding as it is. Maybe in the summer when Uni's out I can go find time to socialize more.
/r/seduction27/03/25 12:45 AM
1

I see that you're genuinely tryna help me and I appreciate that truly. However,I will NEVER stoop so low as too give up my virginity to an escort. I'll never pay for intimacy,I'd honestly rather die a virgin.
/r/seduction27/03/25 12:39 AM
1

Cold approach was an intimidating ask back in the day but now it's damn near A suicide mission. All it takes is one bad approach for your life to be over. I live in a very liberal state too so the odds are stacked against me there. In regards to the desperation you got me there.
/r/seduction27/03/25 12:33 AM
2

Bro, I already stated in my post that I go to University and work full time. So no being an army vet isn't all I have going for me. I'm also quite the intellectual and not the bullshit kinds that just get all their talking points from YouTube videos as I've actually done my research and read many works of philosophy,politics,religion etc.
/r/seduction27/03/25 12:30 AM
2

If being A U.S Soldier isn't making A name for yourself then I don't know what is. It all comes down to money and looks ultimately and unless you're seeing that officer pay or pension. Women could care less about A man in uniform. Vietnam killed the idea of the "man in uniform" being immediately desirable.
/r/seduction27/03/25 12:21 AM
0

You're right it doesn't. But you know what does change? The culture. I'm not about to rot in prison over An approach gone wrong. No thank you!
/r/seduction27/03/25 12:18 AM
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I'm sorry that I'm not the charming Chad that just naturally knows his way around women that you and most women are used to these days but I RARELY if ever get such attention from women so excuse me for taking her being talkative with me as A reason for my approach. My standards are fairly reasonable too so I'm not just going for because she's hot,I went for her because she actually paid attention to me. I can't say the same to the vast majority of women in my life who I just blended into the ba…
/r/seduction27/03/25 12:16 AM
5

How can I not take this so seriously though when it's caused me so much pain? It's the biggest issue in my life by far. I want to have kids someday and before you can have one you need a wife,before you can get wife you need a gf,before a gf you need a date. Ive never even held hands with a girl,let alone been on a date and I'm 24 years old already. It feels like an impossible task to catch up to my peers.
/r/seduction27/03/25 12:04 AM
2

Fuck me man that hurt to read. You're absolutely right that I was going about it the wrong way but I just can't see how I would've coerced her to go from eating her leftovers to coming with me to A quiet place for A one on one. I don't know if you caught this on my post but I DID try physically escalating with her throughout the trip only thing is she never reciprocated or rebuked them like I said before. Game is something that is just so incredibly difficult for me to wrap my head around. It re…
/r/seduction26/03/25 11:59 PM
3

I don't have zero confidence per say. Just very shaky confidence. Zero confidence would be giving up on women entirely but I've already tried that and all those years just made me more sad and depressed about not ever having A girl in my life. I don't openly self-loathe in front of women either that would be quite cringe. I truly just think I'm not good enough. I'm balding with shitty oily skin and a bad cuticle eating habit. The severe ADHD really doesn't help either. I just don't really hit th…
/r/seduction26/03/25 11:46 PM
3

That might've worked like 40 years ago but it'st not the 1980s anymore man. the post me too world simply doesn't allow male sexual aggression. You gotta learn to be slick and smooth or get no play.
/r/seduction26/03/25 11:40 PM
4

My strict schedule of full time work and full time university just don't allow for much going out. When the weekends roll by I'm usually either staying in or hanging out with my best bud and his gf. I have decent social connections which I'm satisfied with but they rarely if ever produce A potential girl for me to try my luck with. I rarely cold approach because it has only ever gone horribly wrong for me;instead I try to build up a rapport with women I see everyday at University or thru friends…
/r/seduction26/03/25 11:21 PM
1

I could never wrap my head around the idea that approaching women is "fun"! us men are expected to play this moronic game where we have to analyze her body language,say the right thing and make the right move at the right time. All for the pleasure of being most likely rejected with how sky high and unrealistic the average woman's standards have become. Trading in the guided process of courtship in favor of the aimless process of dating will forever dumbfound me.
/r/seduction05/03/25 07:32 AM
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For the man who has known nothing but rejection from women. He cannot help but view it as A bad thing. This sub has a lot of good pointers for sure. But far to often it ignores the reality of the dating market and just how terrible it has really become.
/r/seduction05/03/25 07:26 AM
2

I genuinely have nothing negative to say about this your absolutely right. But this is more of an indictment of the current dating culture than anything else. Both genders are completely miserable rn.
/r/seduction05/03/25 07:23 AM
3

If they were the male loneliness epidemic wouldn't be A thing. Most lonely men have A laundry list of rejections under their belt man. I get you're just trying to be encouraging but let's be real here.
/r/seduction04/03/25 01:22 AM
1

The problem with this conservative line of thought is that feminism exists and prevails throughout modern society. I'd be willing to bet the vast majority of men would have no problem fulfilling their traditional gender roles by fighting their nations wars only if women held up their end of the deal. Men and women complimented each other with their distinct gender roles respectfully for generations only for feminism to kill this evolved mutual cooperation all the while expecting men to maintain …
/r/MensRights17/01/25 08:37 PM
3

Accountability is the modern women's kryptonite unfortunately. Even are "allies" amongst them would rather stay silent then speak up and police their friend's behavior because they don't want to get potentially ostracized by them or God forbid hurt their feelings. I've experienced this firsthand with so called "conservative" or "traditional" women. In closing they're usually all talk no walk ya know?
/r/MensRights16/01/25 04:37 PM
27

Spot on brother. The shit will really hit the fan when the inevitable next war comes along and the young men who are expected to fight it refuse too. I'm not dying for the military industrial complex all the while my looksmatch gets plowed by chad. Sorry not sorry!😬
/r/MensRights16/01/25 03:41 AM
237

This is nothing new. Young men have always been the cannon fodder of society;viewed as expendable and potentially dangerous. The difference is that back in the day Women were adhering to strict feminine gender roles as A tradeoff and today we can't even get that from our women yet society still expects to be as selfless as always.
/r/MensRights15/01/25 11:27 PM
1

Awesome bro. Lord knows I've prayed for help with women but I'm beyond socially retarded, especially with the opposite sex. ADHD and crippling anxiety are a recipe for disaster let me tell ya.
/r/seduction31/01/24 08:04 PM
1

Damn if that happened to me. I'd be dooming for a month straight, possibly more. Props to your resilience.
/r/seduction31/01/24 06:17 PM
1

Yeah I understand but it's just so hard when you have zero experience but with women
/r/seduction27/10/19 09:32 PM
1

Ok im addicted to porn so it'll be hard
/r/seduction27/10/19 07:39 PM
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Is this "nofap" shut really legit?
/r/seduction23/10/19 12:27 AM
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Yeah that was literally me all high school long. I didn't even go to a single party smh.
/r/seduction12/06/19 04:00 AM
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Wow you're lucky I've been untouched ever since I hit puberty. It physically pains me when I think about it. There's nothing more I'd want then the soft,gentle embrace of a woman
/r/seduction02/06/19 03:52 AM
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Yeah man I just crave female affection
/r/seduction02/06/19 03:45 AM
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Yeah man confidence is key. Ive seen plant of ulstraight ugly guys get swooned over by gorgeous girls. Simply because they had tremendous confidence. I tried getting a hot freshman girl's Snapchat in September and she rejected me .me a senior. That should be easy money for any normal guy. But since I have zero game and zero confidence. I lost before it even began
/r/seduction31/05/19 03:28 AM
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Damn I wish this was me. I graduate High school in 3 weeks and not only am I virgin but I've never kissed a girl either. To say I'm upset about it would be an understatement. I'm depressed about it. It pains me everyday seeing all these beautiful girls in school but not having the balls to talk with any of them or being yo weird for them to like me. My advice is go for it dude. My high school experience has left me full of regret. There really is no time like high school for sexual escapades. Do…
/r/seduction28/05/19 02:30 AM
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Bro I feel u. I'm graduating high school in less than a month and I've never even kissed a girl let alone smashed. I'm not a bad looking guy. I'd even say I'm on the attractive side of things. But I'm my own worst enemy. I had such I overwhelming approach anxiety that it made feel physically sick whenever I tried to approach a girl. Which is something I rarely did anyways let alone talk to one. And it doesn't help I've had a lot of bad experiences with women.
/r/seduction13/05/19 03:08 AM
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