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| 30 | How I feel seeing a “Hey How have things been?” Message from my ExMost recent ex started messaging me again after a 10 month break. He got with another chick two weeks after we were done, and he's still with her, but for some reason seems to want me on the side or as a back-up in case it falls through. There's really no other reason why he would be popping back up like a stubborn weed all of a sudden. Pre-FDS me would have salivated over the fact that he's texting me again and probably blown up his phone reassuring him about the breakup, saying "I'll always be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 04:10 PM |
| 13 | Guys who come on really strong on OLD?Fifty Shades of Grey in Othello clothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 02:41 AM |
| 1 | What are the signs a man is pornsick?Late to the party but yes, it was very much from personal experience and yes it was very sad. I learned from it and won't make the same mistake again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 11:14 PM |
| 14 | INCELephant Destroys 15 Cars in Rampage After Being Rejected By Female ElephantSays a lot that scrotes can't even do that much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 01:32 AM |
| 19 | Imagine this level of gaslighting, diverting and blameshifting.This. And how fucking stupid do you have to be to not realize that this rhetoric only exists because of the centuries and centuries of women being blamed for being raped and it's only been in the past few decades where any men have been held accountable at all? (And weakly at that) But oh yes, mAh fEeLiNgS matter way more than a woman being brutally raped. Gotcha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 12:05 AM |
| 5 | What are the signs a man is pornsick?Long over sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 03:37 AM |
| 12 | What are the signs a man is pornsick?It's an anime thing. The two go hand-in-hand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 06:01 PM |
| 82 | What are the signs a man is pornsick?- Getting mad at you for not cumming after he just made you cry and then had you ride him for an hour without touching your clit once even though your vagina is dry as sandpaper and you're begging to get off but he insists that you'll cum because logic - Not knowing the difference between a real and fake orgasm when you finally start yodeling like a seal in order to get him to shut up - Thinking that foreplay is you giving him a blowjob - Thinking you came from giving him a blowjob - Being offen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 05:58 PM |
| 6 | Dealing with "the wall."Men hit the "wall" when drinking and lack of sleep/moisturizer/self-care finally catch up with them Explains why Leonardo DiCaprio hit it at 38 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 09:18 PM |
| 16 | Dealing with "the wall."Oh so 23 for most of them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 09:16 PM |
| 39 | How SONS are treated VS How DAUGHTERS are treated. "Ready" = well in their 30s probablyMy 27 year old brother who still gets his meals brought to his room while my mom threatened me if I didn't leave at 18 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 09:07 PM |
| 231 | And here we have NVM/LVMs who whine about paying for a first date huhI was always taught that this is one of the fundamentals of girl code. Sis needs a pad, you give her a pad, even if you don't like her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 11:27 PM |
| 67 | Boohoo male LARPers, your 8th alt account got banned. Go complain about it on r/exfds and leave us alone 😂😂😂Men's rights subs don't have a "no women" rule because WOMEN DON'T FUCKING GO THERE or engage them or want anything to do with them. We don't harass them, threaten them, dox them. If we did, we'd be banned in a heartbeat. They literally have nothing to worry about and because they want our attention anyway, they'd never outright ban female commenters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 11:22 PM |
| 24 | Men are truly horrific sociopaths. This post made me officially give up.Who wants to bet the top reply is "wow, you should have found someone better to marry." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 11:18 PM |
| 13 | I have no words for this lunacyb-b-bUt iT'lL mAkE tHeM lOoK gAy!!1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 07:03 PM |
| 50 | We are not responsible for who is attracted to us. But we do need to be discerning when it comes to the kind of people we entertain and keep aroundReminds me of a post a couple weeks back where a female DnD player implored men to stop making rape and sexual assault jokes every time a female character was unconscious or incapacitated. The top comment was "maybe you should find better friends" when it should have been "wow those men are shitty, they should be held accountable for their actions, fuck them." Poor girl is probably continuing to victim blame herself because of such scrotacity. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 04:20 PM |
| 9 | She spends so much time just pandering to men and trying to justify Feminism and why she's a Feminist. Making herself amiable to men and constantly explaining 'true feminism'. And they still hate her for it. It's sad libfem ideology.You can't campaign to have something that you've *always* had...scrotes are so ridiculous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 08:51 PM |
| 40 | She spends so much time just pandering to men and trying to justify Feminism and why she's a Feminist. Making herself amiable to men and constantly explaining 'true feminism'. And they still hate her for it. It's sad libfem ideology.Genuinely shocked by her pickmeisha-ness, considering she had cameramen taking pics up her skirt to sell to tabloids the day she turned 18. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 08:49 PM |
| 12 | What's with the myth that women's feelings are catered to and men's aren't, when in reality the exact opposite is true?Well said | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 04:06 PM |
| 29 | What's with the myth that women's feelings are catered to and men's aren't, when in reality the exact opposite is true?Then you'll be mocked and called "crazy" for having BPD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 04:06 PM |
| 32 | "Not all men!!!!!!"I was confused too because that's clearly a guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 03:15 PM |
| 316 | Why do straight women even bother tbhTIL I'm a virgin. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 05:26 PM |
| 75 | Faking pleasure- pick me behavior?Then he says "yes you can, all my exes did." --- -_- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Warning from a woman in the military.Hold up, so the health insurance that the military provides is only valid while you're active duty? I was considering joining because I thought that once you were covered by their health insurance program you could stay on it even after separating (like a veteran benefit, right?) And holy shit, my heart hurts for you. The Air Force is touted as one of the "better" branches for women and yet this shit still happens and men cry and moan about "bEiNg FaLsELy aCcUsEd" even while there is concrete pr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 02:16 PM |
| 25 | Oh look another double bind for women. Damned if you do, damned if you don't 🤷♀️Woman avoids "nice guy": "mIsAnDrY" Woman engages "nice guy": "sLuT" Woman gets victimized by "nice guy": "hEr FaULt, dUmB bRoAd" Man gets called out by fed-up women: "REEEEEEE" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 02:04 AM |
| 54 | Double standard anyone?That's asking quite a lot /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 03:56 PM |
| 8 | They will ALWAYS find a way to blame women for their misogyny.Oh yes. Lots of mansplaining about "this isn't how it really is" as though they know dating as a woman better than, you know...actual women. If it had been a short man being rejected by taller women the incels would have been out in DROVES. Saving that quote btw <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 03:55 PM |
| 142 | They will ALWAYS find a way to blame women for their misogyny.God forbid indeed. I'm 5'10" in shoes and the amount of times I've been ghosted the minute I STATE my height is too damn high. The amount of times I've heard the words "behemoth" and "sasquatch" and "Big Bertha" and whatever else have you is too damn high. The amount of times I was made fun of in school for being the tallest of everyone in the class, boys included, was too damn high. But oh wait, I forgot. Only the WoMeNz are wrong for having preferences. Men can have all the preferences they wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 02:51 AM |
| 3 | Ladies: the day you stop looking for "closure" is the day that you will be free. **You** are the only closure you need. Acknowledge your pain, forgive yourself, and forget the one that hurt you. Then go and use your experience to help one of your sisters. **That** is your closure.Are you me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 02:01 AM |
| 11 | If he doesn't make you cum he doesn't care about you or respect you!They must think Interstellar and Battlestar Galactica are also real -_- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 02:37 PM |
| 11 | If he doesn't make you cum he doesn't care about you or respect you!CHOMP CHOMP CHOMP. Just...never mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 03:39 AM |
| 116 | If he doesn't make you cum he doesn't care about you or respect you!Seriously. I (regrettably) decided to watch a generic porn video the other day on a whim and the girl was moaning uncontrollably...at nothing. The guy was just on the bed with her and she was moaning. The minute he touched her vagina "UMUUHHNNUUOOOUNU" -_- This isn't fucking okay. And while we're on the subject, why are men so motherfucking stupid anyway? They wouldn't get any pleasure out of us poking their dick once or twice. But somehow they can't connect that the same doesn't feel good for u… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 03:37 AM |
| 106 | If he doesn't make you cum he doesn't care about you or respect you!Dude I was so indoctrinated by the patriarchy that I thought *never* having cum despite having 9 previous partners was *normal*. Completely normal. I literally thought nothing of it when he would finish, get up, and go back to what he was doing. That's terrifying in hindsight, and equally terrifying to think of how many men's minds just never even think that maybe the woman might also want an orgasm too. Thank you FDS for changing my life. It's been a rough road. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 03:32 AM |
| 47 | toxic men are so petty!And knowing her since she was 10 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 03:42 PM |
| 52 | Old but goldb-bUt mAh PeNis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 01:43 AM |
| 23 | So apparently this man is engaged but still has the time to write an essay on why FDSers are evil and entitled b******. If he was so happy, why would he care about what women he’s not dating are doing?Scrotes definitely aren't ready to have that conversation yet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 03:37 PM |
| 11 | Well said, thank you.That sounds like a perfect solution. Too bad scrotes can't think that critically. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 06:16 PM |
| 390 | Well said, thank you.Their heads explode when you suggest they date a man, even while they simultaneously shit on the entire female gender. Which is it? They hate our sensitivity, our emotions, anything that makes us women besides the parts that benefit them like housework and sucking dick. Our intuitiveness makes us "crazy" so they can gaslight us into not trusting ourselves even though we end up having been right all along. They can't handle or adjust to our cycles (bUt mAh DiCk), periods disgust them, childbirth … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 03:21 PM |
| 41 | 'He only bullies you because he fancies you'How funny that this widespread issue is completely ignored and swept under the rug on Reddit and IRL despite it socializing women to accept abuse and torture from men, but "mAle fEeLiNgS" posts are spammed 100 times a day. If the genders were reversed imagine the outcry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 02:52 PM |
| 48 | "Men are shamed for being emotional in public"An old couple was complaining about me and I just think the teenage cashier didn't know how to deal with it. It's why this whole fake narrative of "men can't show emotion but women are catered to" makes my blood boil. I've watched men be coddled when crying for no other reason than *being* a man. He's considered strong and brave for showing emotion while we're considered "crazy." It's BS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 05:03 PM |
| 16 | "Men are shamed for being emotional in public"Yep. Do an experiment with all the men in your life sometime (without telling them what it is) where you ask how many of their fathers shamed them for being emotional vs their mothers. The results will be overwhelming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 04:43 PM |
| 74 | "Men are shamed for being emotional in public"It's just that. A completely imaginary myth perpetuated by men who are butthurt that women want equality. I was 14 when my dad died and broke down in a souvenir shop while on a school band trip. I was asked to leave and once outside I continued crying unashamedly on the sidewalk. I was given some confused and uncomfortable glances and then told to get on the bus. These scrotes' perception of the world is not reality. They're concocting shit to try and bring us down like always. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 04:39 PM |
| 54 | If he’s still blaming women for his behavior, he is NOT a HVM. A HVM is not “the right man for the right one”, he’s the right man 100% of the time and does not exploit Pickmeishas just because he can."A major indicator of his value as a person is how he treats people who can't give him anything." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 02:52 PM |
| 15 | Men lose a HVW and spend their whole life trying to replace her, while remaining the same LVM.Exactly lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 02:46 PM |
| 170 | Men lose a HVW and spend their whole life trying to replace her, while remaining the same LVM.If she even leaves him in the first place. Most women are so conditioned to stay in a relationship attending to the man's needs no matter what that she'll break her back to make things work only to have him ultimately leave her. Then he'll come crawling back once he realizes how much he fucked up, if he realizes it at all. My mom's ex was in her DM's THIRTY FUCKING YEARS after they broke up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 05:36 AM |
| 69 | Ways to tell you’re being kept as an option or a backupYes but men will have sex with a McChicken. Sex =/= attraction for men. It's just about them and their selfish needs. If he sees the woman as a walking fleshlight, then he won't be wanting to bring that fleshlight out around his boys. Sad but true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 05:32 AM |
| 44 | Neurochemical reasons why a woman should not sleep with a man until after he has fallen in love with her, and how to train your brain to fall out of love (hint: block and delete scientifically works!)Most recent LVM wouldn't shut up about his 2012 HS relationship and all the drama and falling out that eventually went along with it. You could tell it affected him so deeply from the way he still talked shit about her as though the wounds were from yesterday and that she still had him on a string. Pickmeisha me consoled and reassured and commiserated with his sorry ass. Someone transport me back five months and knock some damn sense into me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 05:26 AM |
| 40 | And there are STILL men AND WOMEN in the comments saying "not all men 🥺🥺🥺". DisgustingProof that men know how other men are, even while they simultaneously squawk "nOt ALL mEn" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 10:39 PM |
| 167 | And there are STILL men AND WOMEN in the comments saying "not all men 🥺🥺🥺". DisgustingPathetic scrotes will never, ever know the overwhelming, paralyzing FEAR we feel whenever we're alone in close proximity to a group of males. NEVER. It's unlike any other fear. And judging by the hourly news headlines featuring murder, rape, and dismemberment, it's not unfounded. But-but oh yeah, wHaT aBoUt mEnz!!!1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 10:33 PM |
| 19 | Found this gem in my suggested posts. It’s actually crazy how delusional MGTOW are. Do they really think they need this much protection?I'm confused here. I thought he was "going his own way"? When would he ever have a wife and/or children then? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 09:57 PM |
| 8 | Found this gem in my suggested posts. It’s actually crazy how delusional MGTOW are. Do they really think they need this much protection?wHaT aBoUt mEn!!!1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 09:56 PM |
| 75 | Let them miss you (non-dating related)Every. Single. Ex has come back to me when I started doing this, even before FDS. Begging for closure, wanting to talk things out, apologizing...all of it did shit. But the minute I went radio silent they picked up on that energy like a bloodhound. Some took 6 weeks, some took a few months, one took a year...but they have ALL come back. Solid advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 03:07 PM |
| 7 | "If she hits you, you better fucking hit her back"Louder for the LVM in the back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 06:53 PM |
| 31 | The men's rights movement is growing and it's terrifyingFor real. We had to campaign for decades - DECADES - and deal with death threats, rape threats, insulting comics, parodies, and an insane amount of resistance to even be able to VOTE AND WEAR PANTS much less all of the meager rights we've gained since then that scrotes have reveled in since the beginning of time. Deep down they know they have rights, and too many if you ask me. It's never, ever been about "rights". It's about bringing women down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 06:11 PM |
| 20 | We all know those scrotesThis quote brought me to FDS. Thank you Queens <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 06:06 PM |
| 2 | This just happened to me...feeling stupid but now on high alert SMHExactly. "Ooh what are you reading?" "Are you texting X again?" "Who is that?" etc. -_- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 06:02 PM |
| 67 | It just dawned on me that nearly every man who has gone down on me were just giving it "the ol' husband try" meaning, they were purposefully bad at it to make me give up on asking them to do it.> One shitty ex of mine would take a break from PIV and be like “Ok my turn” and that was supposed to be my cue to suck his dick. He acted like PIV was something he was doing for my benefit, so me giving him head was the trade off for that Dude YES. Right before I found FDS I had a FWB who wouldn't go down on me and of course being the pickmeisha I was I didn't want to "pressure" him into it but would timidly request it every now and then. He'd say shit like "but you already get enough foreplay … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 02:52 AM |
| 49 | Why you should never date gamersSays a lot that these men still manage to pull in GF's. If the genders were reversed no way in snowy hell would a man ever date a woman who made him take care of the home and ignored him to play video games 10 hours a day. In fact, she'd be vilified. But because he's a man, it's okay. How much lower than this are the men in the incel threads to not be getting any dates when *this* is the standard?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 03:12 PM |
| 36 | Just saw this on IG and this is so sad. I still can't belive it how horrible some men are.Dude I've started an exercise regimen and can't even walk out my front door in the morning without getting mouth-breather stares from other men exercising, sitting in their cars, trying to follow me, etc. Like leave me alone. I can't even fucking walk...I CAN'T EVEN FUCKING WALK. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 03:06 PM |
| 152 | 99% of communication is lurking under disguised wordsI'll add a few more. "I'm not feeling a spark" = "There's another woman." "I don't want a serious relationship" = "I don't want a serious relationship with you." "I want a serious relationship" = "I still probably don't want a serious relationship with you, but I'm sweet talking until you think I'm committed and let me into your pants." "What's your snap?" = "I'm hiding shit and don't want the texts saved." "WYD" = I want a free fuck with the lowest effort on my terms and I want it now." "Send m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 09:44 PM |
| 110 | We not doing this anymoreWhat is actually his thought process here? I'm not a fucking piece of trash human so I can't get into his mind - is he saying it's her fault he was broke, shot, and jobless? Is he saying that since he now has money and a job that he thinks he deserves better? Does he think she's pathetic for staying with him since no way in hell would he have done the same? My head hurts. Why are men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 03:05 AM |
| 11 | The fact that men are fertile 100% of the time and women are fertile 2+ days out of the month and yet the burden of birth control falls to the woman is one of the greatest schemes of the patriarchyI had a six week period on the last hormonal birth control I tried. Never again. He can wrap up or GTFO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 07:31 AM |
| 63 | The fact that men are fertile 100% of the time and women are fertile 2+ days out of the month and yet the burden of birth control falls to the woman is one of the greatest schemes of the patriarchyTHANK YOU. That's my main point here. Men cry and moan and whine about wearing a condom because it "takes away sensation" and "doesn't feel as good", because their heads are so far up their asses from a lifetime of being coddled that they're oblivious to the fact that women have sex when they're in pain, hurting, not in the mood, having pH issues, bleeding, cramping, scared, etc. every damn day and yet all they have to do is wear a piece of latex! The horror! Then to add insult to injury we're v… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 05:22 AM |
| 62 | The fact that men are fertile 100% of the time and women are fertile 2+ days out of the month and yet the burden of birth control falls to the woman is one of the greatest schemes of the patriarchyUntil he becomes violent and aggressive once you tell him that :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 05:16 AM |
| 46 | The fact that men are fertile 100% of the time and women are fertile 2+ days out of the month and yet the burden of birth control falls to the woman is one of the greatest schemes of the patriarchyFacts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 03:35 AM |
| 55 | The fact that men are fertile 100% of the time and women are fertile 2+ days out of the month and yet the burden of birth control falls to the woman is one of the greatest schemes of the patriarchyLmao true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 02:25 AM |
| 102 | The fact that men are fertile 100% of the time and women are fertile 2+ days out of the month and yet the burden of birth control falls to the woman is one of the greatest schemes of the patriarchyI figured it was just as much because men would cry and whine about having to take anything resembling birth control on a regular basis (which did happen in later studies) as well as getting a free pass to universally blame the woman in the case of an accidental pregnancy (because she did it on her own, of course) I can see the benefits of the option being there but the amount of friends who have suffered severe side effects from any and every BC option and scrotes' audacity to get mad at you wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 02:24 AM |
| 49 | Wise words to keep in mind, queens ❤Or silence or fear or walking on eggshells... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 01:50 AM |
| 3 | After my post earlier....lolLol 9 times out of 10 they're not even willing to pay for our coffee | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:49 PM |
| 9 | What are some phrases LVM say in the beginning that are red flags in the early phases that we may not notice?Also string you along into trying to "fix him" under the false assumption he'll change his mind for you...when in reality he's just basking under the attention while sexting 10 other women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:19 PM |
| 46 | Her asking her ex for flowers VS when they broke up and he saw her receive flowers from one someone else 😂😂😂Why is "you're being ridiculous" such a commonly used LVM phrase?! Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:30 AM |
| 2 | 🙄Exactly, they can start by donating to or volunteering at men's homeless shelters and rehabilitation programs. Work in prisons or with underprivileged youth who desperately need a father figure. And maybe, just maybe, actually fight for custody in family court instead of abandoning their kids to go drink and party and then turning around to claim the judge was BiAsEd. None of the "rights" they campaign for are legitimate issues, and their complaints about the draft and/or phrases like "be a man"… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:17 AM |
| 106 | I think I found a redpiller in the wildMan, I fucking wish redpillers were only theoretical concepts confined to a laptop screen...unfortunately one was hired on as my coworker at this gym I used to work at. He made it his life mission to not directly speak to any female he came into contact with. Actual examples I witnessed: Girl: "Hey could I grab a towel for the steam room?" Scrote: *Hands over towel while avoiding eye contact and pretending to be distracted* LOL OR Female half of a couple: "Hey I was wondering why our account was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 11:54 PM |
| 8 | “You helped him become the man he was supposed to become, so he could get the wife he wanted”Yeah whoops...my pickmeisha self came up from the ground and decided to text my most recent LVM everything that was wrong with him, his personality, and his habits. He was pissed as hell, but guess who was juuust smart enough to not repeat those behaviors with the next girl while I sit around kicking myself? Yep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:47 AM |
| 6 | 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 it’s this seriousWell that was the realest reality check I've had in a while... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:38 AM |
| 12 | Women actually have legitimate reasons to be angry and resentful towards men. Most conflict between men and women nowadays boils down to men's desire to control, exploit, and abuse women; and women's desire to not be controlled, exploited, and abused. These two perspectives are not "equally as bad"God, that would have nixed a good 70% of my former traumatic dating experiences right there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:29 AM |
| 75 | Women actually have legitimate reasons to be angry and resentful towards men. Most conflict between men and women nowadays boils down to men's desire to control, exploit, and abuse women; and women's desire to not be controlled, exploited, and abused. These two perspectives are not "equally as bad"Just...imagine growing up so high on the totem pole, so unopposed, excused, and catered to that you genuinely, unironically believe that women withholding sex from you qualifies as hate. Really sit down and imagine that. That's...terrifying. We need to do better for our sons. "When you're accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:27 AM |
| 44 | Ex-fat girl does a Tinder experiment using her current pretty pics vs. old pics when she was fat. Watch scrotes' attitude change. Best part: her confident and sassy replies to these guys make pickmes and LVMs in the comment section SEETHE and downvote. 😂 Why do they hate confident women so much?Remember that a lot of these supposed "pickme" commenters are actually just LVM with female profile pictures...they think people will take their BS more seriously if they slap on a female alias and a stock image they pulled from google | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 04:15 PM |
| 27 | For a 37 year old scrote who claims to be having the time of his life sexually, he sure devotes a lot of time to writing about us on his blog. 🧐 (6 total screenshots)I mean the sheer lack of self awareness, to claim you don't care about FDS yet post about us time and time and time again...how many FDS'ers are coming to your blog to whine about red pill? None, because when we say we don't want you, we actually don't want you! Smh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 03:40 PM |
| 12 | Why does it bother men so much when a woman refuses to sleep with them that they have to label her as prude?Yep, "inceldom" isn't really even a thing, it's just code for men who want a 10/10 bikini model with no bodily functions or brain even though they themselves subsist off pizza rolls and don't change their shirts for 4 days straight. The AUDACITY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 03:35 PM |
| 15 | I mean since we’re talking genders...Reminds me of a scene in OITNB where the correctional officers discover they aren't all being paid the same despite having the same position. The two white men go "We make $50k, I thought everyone made that?" and the white woman says "I only make $30k what the hell" and the black woman is justifiably the most upset because she only makes $20k or some shit. It was very eye opening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:43 AM |
| 5 | This is why you wait until you are exclusive until you sleep with a man.YES, preach it sister. I mean damn, it's just too mentally draining for me to be juggling multiple prospects up in the air as if they're nothing more than tennis balls, but men do this without even thinking about it. When I really, really like a guy, every other man just sort of becomes invisible to me. I want to give that guy my all and want the same in return. But of course, I suppose that's way too much to ask :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:11 AM |
| 13 | This is why you wait until you are exclusive until you sleep with a man.I wonder if there is a biological reason for this...I still can't wrap my head around how men can have sex so freely and with zero emotional attachment... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 06:26 PM |
| 53 | Thoughts?Really takes "men will have sex with anything" to a whole new level | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:25 AM |
| 69 | Found on instagram. He is looking for a mommy🤣This is the gospel truth but a part of me will always wonder how on earth they do it. How on earth they spend their nights with a girl, fucking her raw and coming inside, having deep intimate conversations and going on dinner dates and seemingly bonding over shared interests and hobbies and even introducing her to his family but at the end of the day having no true feelings for her. I don't get it, I just don't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:04 AM |
| 4 | LVM masquerading as HVM...never trust 'em ladies!Yeah, maybe the pandemic blinded me a bit because I was always giving him the benefit of the doubt regarding staying in and doing everything virtual. Any advice for how one can properly vet a HVM when so many places are closed and/or not open to going to? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 11:03 PM |
| 11 | LVM masquerading as HVM...never trust 'em ladies!Sorry, I was reading back over it and realized the timeline seemed a little muddled! We've met in person several times but only socially distanced, and most of our conversations are via video chat. But this was our first "official date", if you can call it that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 10:56 PM |
| 52 | LVM masquerading as HVM...never trust 'em ladies!Lesson learned. He did confirm multiple times prior to the day of, but I guess in the end it was all an ego stroke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 09:22 PM |
| 114 | She bought her fiancé a house and he wouldn't move with her, nor would he look for a better-paying job... this is why a proposal doesn't necessarily mean a happy endingHe is in for a veeery rude awakening when his overinflated ego tries to go straight for another 10 who is also intelligent, hard working, loyal, and kind and gets curved HARD. This is why FDS doesn't subscribe to the "ugly men treat you better" mentality because in reality all that happens is their brain becomes warped into thinking "oh if I could get *her*, that means I can get someone even BETTER" and they cheat anyway -_- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 09:01 PM |
| 28 | Peak Pickmeism 🤪🤪Boom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 05:21 PM |
| 115 | This comment on r / teenagers..girl is disturbed both brother and dad watch rough anal pornography :((Holy shit. Holy shit. This explains why my most previous LVM kept trying to sneak it in and once I told him I "loved it" and that "it didn't hurt at all" he was never interested again. Holy shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 05:15 PM |
| 238 | Where is the lie though???For real. I follow a YT gaming channel that occasionally hosts livestreams and this pickme came in the chat HARD for one of the men, saying things like "I cook, clean, and suck dick! You'll never hear me complain! I don't get why girls constantly need attention from their man? Don't be a nag! Btw I love video games! Btw I barely ask for anything! Now ladies don't fall into simp territory! Oh btw why has every guy I've been with cheated on me?!" It took everything I had in me to not tell her off … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 05:10 PM |
| 99 | Men be like “we ain’t wantin you, you ugly azz b*”, also men...For the love of all that is holy, PLEASE go your own way. We don't want you. Hell, our dream is to finally be rid of you. Just LEAVE ffs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 06:22 AM |
| 13 | Thank you, mods! ♡Yes thank you mods. You have literally and absolutely saved my life, the lives of my friends, and the lives of my future daughters. There are simply not enough words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 01:23 AM |
| 15 | Don’t wait for closure- especially from an LVM, he isn’t worth it. The best way to move on however... just leave and never, ever look back. Show him he ain’t shit!👋Besides, they all come back eventually anyway -_- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 02:14 PM |
| 27 | Real, fulfilling sex is about connection & mutuality...Oh they want to finger you all right. Shove three meaty fingers (complete with unclipped yellow nails) deep inside with no lube and then yell at your afterward for not squirting furiously in a fit of passion, that is. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 11:05 PM |
| 24 | Real, fulfilling sex is about connection & mutuality...The general consensus seems to be negative unless (very important) the woman is the instigator and thus has all the power in the arrangement. That's the case with mine. The moment it's the guy asking or "enticing" the girl into a FWB, RUN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 10:28 PM |
| 49 | Real, fulfilling sex is about connection & mutuality...Agreed. Makes me (cautiously) grateful for my current FWB who is all over me in missionary and rarely wants other positions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 05:58 PM |
| 182 | Real, fulfilling sex is about connection & mutuality...This the first post here that's actually made me wince. Truth fucking hurts, but that's part of the healing process. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 04:16 PM |
| 200 | Real, fulfilling sex is about connection & mutuality...I'd love to start doing this but we don't need more cases of men beating women to a pulp and getting off scot-free... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 04:15 PM |
| 44 | When you witness the birth of the newest FDS memberThe bar is on the motherfucking floor | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:10 PM |
| 15 | Dear Men: Your Opinion Holds No Value Here. Did We Fucking Stutter?Boom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Why are LVM so obsessed with paternity testing and paternity fraud? If you're THAT convinced your wife is gonna cheat on you, why bother getting married 😂The same reason they're obsessed with hating on, slandering, threatening, antagonizing, belittling, and smearing women yet still whine and moan about not being able to date one. mAh lOgIC. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 01:41 AM |
| 1 | For real though/thread | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:36 PM |
| 15 | For real thoughThey also don't give a flying rip if you're choking and gagging and tearing up all over their dick for half an hour. Go fucking figure -_- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:35 PM |
| 89 | For real thoughGirl same. Was brainwashed for years to think that there was something wrong with *me* just because I never ever came with partners. Women are so socially conditioned to be in tune to a man's needs (but not vice versa), that I would get anxious if he was down there for more than 3 minutes, worried about if his mouth was getting tired and then it just wouldn't happen, period. Then they have the audacity to get mad at *you*. To get mad at *you* for being overly sensitive to *them*. Why are men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 11:14 AM |
| 16 | Shout out to all the invincible mommas out there cause the way society is set up...living life like Rihanna is looking REAL appealing lately ☕️B-b-but cArDi B!!!!1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 01:15 AM |
| 54 | Why on earth to pickmeishas/libfems think porn, casual hookups, and kinks are "empowering"?I can only speak as a former pickmeisha and cult escapist myself: I was brainwashed into believing that "taking control of my sexuality" = randomly hooking up with strangers, camming, convincing myself bondage and degradation were fun, etc. It was a coping mechanism I adapted to distance myself from the "save your virginity/never kiss a man other than your husband/no shorts above the knee or shirts above the elbow/wamen bad" mentality I'd been fed since toddlerhood. In hindsight I doubt I truly … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 04:05 AM |
| 12 | This is why maintaining your support system with people who have your best interest in mind is important. This is also why some men isolate the women they want to control, so the woman won’t have an alternate perspective. Build and maintain your support system strong now and forever.And even after maintaining distance, if you find yourself leaving out key components or omitting certain details whilst ranting to friends, you *know* deep down how bad it was... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 01:26 AM |
| 81 | I Guess the r/TheRedPill Dorks' Plan to Rebrand Themselves as "Men's Self Help" rather than Misogynist, Emotionally Abusive Rapists isn't going well. Notice how you have NEVER seen something this manipulative on r/FemaleDatingStrategy despite all the claims we're "the same".They make the news every damn month when some batshit insane scrote who was subscribed to them threatens to blow up an elementary school or a bar, yet here they remain untouched. It's beyond disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 01:23 AM |
| 17 | Better late than never!b-b-but mEn ArE aLwAyS uNfAirLy pRoSeCuTeD fOr dOmEsTiC vIoLeNcE aLwAyS!!1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 03:45 AM |
| 21 | What is your action plan for getting out of a date early? / Why you definitely need one.Lmao literally like dropping an unruly child back off with his parent. I love this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 08:27 PM |
| 79 | I don’t know how FDS, a 10 month old subreddit, is allegedly responsible for so many men’s inceldom and MRA activism when the manosphere has been waging a full on war on women for a decade now. 🤔If FDS had made the news even once for a member here threatening to shoot up a school or launching terrorist attacks against men, we would have been shut down so fast our heads would be spinning. Meanwhile MGTOW has some incel making headlines every month and is alive and well. Who's privileged again? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 05:24 PM |
| 28 | How do you get rid of any negative feelings for the "girl he told you to not worry about"?Exactly, the underage girl my ex cheated with wanted me to go to her and throw hands so they could paint me as even more of the deranged psycho of their imaginary narrative. Eff that. Now they invent drama online about me (2 years later!) because they never got that fix. BYE. OP as far as you're concerned, she doesn't exist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 06:41 PM |
| 37 | Men battering women for rejecting them must come from more than just a sense of entitlement.I'm 5'8" and always wear these chunky leather combat boots out to anywhere I'm not familiar with. Couple that with what I'm told is a pretty fierce RBF and a canister of mace in my hand and that seems to keep most LV scrotes at bay. But it sucks that we even have to put up walls like that, you know? It sucks that women are so undervalued and victim blamed that we can't even trust males to model decent, non-rapey behavior. Imagine if the genders were reversed and it was men constantly in danger o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 04:02 PM |
| 82 | Men battering women for rejecting them must come from more than just a sense of entitlement.100% never, ever give a man an inch of politeness because he will demand a mile. The only tried and true method for me is making myself as big and intimidating as possible, plastering on my scariest RBF, and saying some version of "you wanna try that again?" You get called every name in the book but they leave immediately. Sucks that we even have to refine such an approach because not every interested man is a scrote. Just 99% or so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 03:57 PM |
| 28 | LVM intentionally make their girlfriends jealous because they like the attentionReminds me of 90 day fiance when Varya and Mary were cat fighting over Geoffrey (a convicted felon and wife beater, FTW) and he was just lapping up the attention and drama. He loved it. *barf* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 01:50 AM |
| 15 | Harsh truthYeowch. I will never make the mistake of believing this BS again... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 05:48 PM |
| 16 | Harsh truthThis exact scenario happened to me word for word, and I'm still baffled because he seemed so avoidant and emotionally closed off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 05:46 PM |
| 7 | Queens, how can I continue to level up after a fairly tough breakup?Thank you. I feel so loved and supported right now. I do need to get a better handle on my mental health. I could never afford therapy before but now I think I can and will look into a therapist who is right for me. I definitely need to remember that relationships can have the same effect on the brain as addiction issues which makes my perceived lack of progress a bit easier to understand. Also, I did two level 2 chemical peels followed by two IPL sessions to clear redness followed by three micr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 11:05 PM |
| 4 | Queens, how can I continue to level up after a fairly tough breakup?Will do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 11:00 PM |
| 7 | Queens, how can I continue to level up after a fairly tough breakup?Thank you thank you, this makes so much sense. I keep trying to push myself into mentally getting over him as fast as possible because I feel like everything I'm doing should be expediting the process. But your comment helped me realize that trauma bonding has a significant effect on the brain and it will take however long it takes to heal from that. I just wish the whole thing never happened. Don't we all... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 11:00 PM |
| 14 | Queens, how can I continue to level up after a fairly tough breakup?Thank you, that really means so much to hear. We definitely do need like a pinned comprehensive post on getting past a breakup and glowing up while doing so. Someone else suggested the handbook so I guess I'll try that! Making my list now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 10:56 PM |
| 5 | Bought and used my first magic wand today. Someone remind me how I was ever duped into believing I needed a man..."Hur dur did you cum" -_- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 05:28 AM |
| 8 | Bought and used my first magic wand today. Someone remind me how I was ever duped into believing I needed a man...Now that's what I call going out with a bang *mic tap* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 10:00 PM |
| 25 | After stringing me along in a situationship for three months, fuckboy is now angry and upset I’m dating someone else (LONG, sorry)FDS is not a tool you use to get every guy to fall all over you. It’s a tool to weed trash like this guy out so you can find someone who will treat you properly This right here = the difference between this lovely sub and the degenerate red pill cult | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 08:12 PM |
| 16 | Bought and used my first magic wand today. Someone remind me how I was ever duped into believing I needed a man...Exactly, there's no point in wasting your breath. You're just going to be met with offense, arguing, and being shamed (again) Porn has ruined any slight hope I once held for men getting it right, not to mention the fake orgasms in porn happen in 1-2 minutes so if it takes any longer than that we have to deal with whining. Not worth it sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 07:19 PM |
| 26 | Bought and used my first magic wand today. Someone remind me how I was ever duped into believing I needed a man...Get it girl. We get vibrators into the hands of enough queens and no one will ever put up with male BS and drama again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Okay queens, I need advice for building up an entirely new wardrobeTHANK YOU!!! I'm sorry I couldn't reply earlier, it's been a grueling day at work and finally coming home and getting comfy and reading your post made my entire night! I'm still figuring out my personal style and what I really like/dislike so it's incredibly helpful to have a list of just good, classic, beautiful staples that I can work on building up in the next few weeks. I so, so appreciate you taking the time to write this out. Will take that quiz ASAP! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 01:55 AM |
| 1 | A L A R M B E L L SThat's the reason I'm here too!! virtual high five | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 03:14 AM |
| 22 | Some women desperately need FDSFacts. Facts I unfortunately had to learn through experience... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 03:12 AM |
| 28 | A L A R M B E L L SDude I probably fall into the "became crazy after a couple dates" category as per my last "relationship", which was *because* he slept with me, dumped me, came back, ghosted me again, then bread crumbed me for another 3 months just enough to where it drove me insane to not know what we were to each other. He kept me hung up just enough to think that he might want to eventually date me, then would turn everything around on me and pull the "why the hell are you acting like that" card. Turns out he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 02:52 AM |
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